1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,160 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time. I 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the 3 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:38,600 Speaker 1: million bucks things and the stubs stood stether Please, I 4 00:00:38,720 --> 00:01:25,120 Speaker 1: don't join jo. You gotta turn you go, you gotta 5 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:44,559 Speaker 1: turn to turn them out. Turn you got to turn 6 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 1: them out to turn turn water to the water. Go. Come, 7 00:01:58,360 --> 00:02:04,480 Speaker 1: come on your thing, I show will good morning everybody. 8 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:08,880 Speaker 1: You're listening to the voice, Come on dig me now. 9 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:16,240 Speaker 1: One and only Steve Harvey got radio still, Steve Harvey 10 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:19,800 Speaker 1: got radio show. Sometimes when I chuckle like that reminds 11 00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:21,679 Speaker 1: me of my oldest brother to pass the where he 12 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:23,680 Speaker 1: used to laugh like that. It's kind of funny how 13 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:26,480 Speaker 1: jeans get passed down through the line. I don't know 14 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:28,400 Speaker 1: why I told y'all that, just want to share with 15 00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:32,560 Speaker 1: you that's all. As always, always kind of ask God 16 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 1: to help me, you know, um, and and and and 17 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:38,400 Speaker 1: I had I had gotten off track a little bit 18 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 1: because one of the principles of success I want to 19 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:46,000 Speaker 1: share with you all today is a law of attraction. 20 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:50,959 Speaker 1: That is a very very serious principle. It cannot be 21 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:56,000 Speaker 1: ignored the law of attraction. And I'm not going to 22 00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:59,440 Speaker 1: be able to explain it to you as well as 23 00:02:59,480 --> 00:03:02,240 Speaker 1: the book Secrets can or as well as some people. 24 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 1: I can only articulate it to you the way that 25 00:03:06,919 --> 00:03:10,160 Speaker 1: I see it, And the law of attraction is very, 26 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:14,640 Speaker 1: very real. The law of attraction is a principle of success. 27 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:19,960 Speaker 1: It is something that everyone has to adhere to. Now, 28 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:23,560 Speaker 1: whether you know the law of attraction or not, it 29 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:28,639 Speaker 1: does not make it not exist for you. This is 30 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:33,800 Speaker 1: the case where ignorance is not the excuse. The fact 31 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:37,040 Speaker 1: that no one told it to you. There is no 32 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:40,280 Speaker 1: pass for this one. The fact that you never heard 33 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 1: it before it does not allow you to do it 34 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 1: any other way. So let me see if I can 35 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:51,160 Speaker 1: put it to you best I can. The law of attraction, 36 00:03:52,120 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 1: the law of attraction, to put it real simple, is 37 00:03:55,800 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 1: the thing that you focus on, the thing that you 38 00:03:59,720 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 1: taught talk about, the thing that you think of, is 39 00:04:04,120 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 1: the thing that you draw to you. It's what you 40 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:11,360 Speaker 1: attract to you. That's basically the law of attraction. The 41 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:15,240 Speaker 1: thing that you talk about, the thing that you think about, 42 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:20,960 Speaker 1: the thing that you focus on, whatever it is that 43 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:26,600 Speaker 1: is what you attract. The law of attraction does not 44 00:04:27,040 --> 00:04:33,960 Speaker 1: differentiate from positive and negative. It only does what it does. 45 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:38,680 Speaker 1: What I am saying is this in the law of attraction. 46 00:04:40,160 --> 00:04:44,480 Speaker 1: No matter what you think of, no matter what occupies 47 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:48,120 Speaker 1: your time, no matter what you say, or no matter 48 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:51,800 Speaker 1: what the focus is, positive or negative, the law of 49 00:04:51,839 --> 00:04:57,080 Speaker 1: attraction knows neither one. It just attracts it. So let's 50 00:04:57,279 --> 00:05:01,239 Speaker 1: use some examples here. I can just the best example 51 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:04,119 Speaker 1: always uses me. That way. I ain't got to figure 52 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:06,560 Speaker 1: out nothing. I can just tell you my side of it. 53 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 1: I was in a lot of debt one time in 54 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 1: my life, as before any of you knew me, so 55 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:19,479 Speaker 1: you can understand. In case you're not thinking, I don't. 56 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:21,440 Speaker 1: I don't want you to think that this conversation is 57 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:25,240 Speaker 1: about your income level, cause it's not. It doesn't matter 58 00:05:25,279 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 1: what the income level you are. The law of attraction 59 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:33,599 Speaker 1: works in all aspects money, family, relationships, job, career, love. 60 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:37,000 Speaker 1: It just works that way. Okay, here's the deal. I 61 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:41,560 Speaker 1: kept saying, man, this debt is killing me. I got 62 00:05:41,600 --> 00:05:45,800 Speaker 1: to get out. That's what I thought was a good goal, 63 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 1: to get out of debt. But what I kept saying was, 64 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:53,280 Speaker 1: you know, I kept talking about debt, and you know 65 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:56,800 Speaker 1: what it kept doing. It kept attracting debt to me. 66 00:05:58,320 --> 00:06:02,960 Speaker 1: So guess what so I get out, that's all? Is 67 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:08,080 Speaker 1: that crazy? That is an amazing law to understand. What 68 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 1: turned it around for me was I started claiming a 69 00:06:13,680 --> 00:06:19,919 Speaker 1: life of abundance. God, I am seeking a life of abundance. 70 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:23,840 Speaker 1: I want to have more than enough. I want to 71 00:06:23,960 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 1: be able to help other people. I just want to 72 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:29,800 Speaker 1: have a law of attraction so that I be able 73 00:06:29,800 --> 00:06:32,560 Speaker 1: to provide my family the lifestyle that I want to 74 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:36,160 Speaker 1: provide them. I want heavily, Father, to be able to 75 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:39,960 Speaker 1: be an example of your goodness and your grace in 76 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:44,680 Speaker 1: my life. That is what I started saying. And guess what, 77 00:06:45,240 --> 00:06:48,720 Speaker 1: that's what I started attractive. I'm going to have a 78 00:06:48,839 --> 00:06:52,000 Speaker 1: great relationship with my children. I'm going to be the 79 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:55,920 Speaker 1: father that I always wanted to be. I'm going to 80 00:06:56,040 --> 00:06:59,760 Speaker 1: be a good father. I'm going to be a good husband. 81 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:03,440 Speaker 1: I am going to do the right things. I am 82 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:06,680 Speaker 1: going to be the type of example that my sons 83 00:07:06,720 --> 00:07:09,200 Speaker 1: can look no further and go I can be like 84 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:12,440 Speaker 1: my dad. I want to be able to be a place, 85 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 1: a beacon of light and hope for my daughters to 86 00:07:14,760 --> 00:07:18,400 Speaker 1: come to. That's what I started saying. That's what I 87 00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 1: started attracting to my life. The law of attraction does 88 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 1: not care if you want it to be positive or negative. 89 00:07:28,480 --> 00:07:33,000 Speaker 1: The law of attraction just attracts whatever it is you 90 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 1: focus on, what you think about the words that come 91 00:07:37,080 --> 00:07:41,560 Speaker 1: out your mouth. You cannot overlook this principle of success 92 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:44,600 Speaker 1: and expect to make it because of the fact that 93 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:47,480 Speaker 1: you've never heard of the law of attraction, because of 94 00:07:47,560 --> 00:07:50,640 Speaker 1: the fact that you don't know how it really operates. 95 00:07:51,080 --> 00:07:55,000 Speaker 1: It does not make it not exist in your day. 96 00:07:55,520 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 1: You can start today attracting the right things to your 97 00:07:59,840 --> 00:08:07,320 Speaker 1: life by changing what you say, what you think, what 98 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:14,400 Speaker 1: you focus on, change the focus, change the thought, change 99 00:08:14,560 --> 00:08:18,120 Speaker 1: the words that come out your mouth, and guess what 100 00:08:18,760 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 1: you change what you attract to yourself. You have got 101 00:08:22,840 --> 00:08:26,080 Speaker 1: to ask yourself, why is it? Man? Man, let me 102 00:08:26,120 --> 00:08:28,600 Speaker 1: tell you something. Somebody said the Bishop Jake's one time. 103 00:08:29,000 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 1: They said, man, everything you touch turns to gold. He said, no, 104 00:08:34,840 --> 00:08:41,160 Speaker 1: I just don't touch everything. Man, This is crazy. Come on, man, 105 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:46,439 Speaker 1: he has a focus. He has a focus. See, he 106 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:50,760 Speaker 1: ain't just everywhere. Bring me any idea, Let me try that. No, no, no, man, 107 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:54,720 Speaker 1: he has a focus. He has a law of attraction 108 00:08:54,800 --> 00:08:58,800 Speaker 1: that's working where he's attracting things to his life. That 109 00:08:59,320 --> 00:09:02,840 Speaker 1: that's positive that he can't ask not to say, Bishop 110 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:05,760 Speaker 1: James don't have problems because we talk often and man, 111 00:09:05,880 --> 00:09:09,000 Speaker 1: he have them. Oh, please understand. And he's not trying 112 00:09:09,040 --> 00:09:12,599 Speaker 1: to attract the problems. But what he will attract is 113 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:16,600 Speaker 1: the proper solution for the problem. And ain't that all 114 00:09:16,640 --> 00:09:20,520 Speaker 1: you need? Sometimes? God did not say that it would 115 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:23,920 Speaker 1: be easy. He just said he would be with you. 116 00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:27,280 Speaker 1: And if God is with you, who can be against you? 117 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:31,560 Speaker 1: God will make your enemies your footstool. God is powerful man, 118 00:09:31,679 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 1: His word is true. He do what he say he 119 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:36,839 Speaker 1: gonna do. Now, all we got to do is do 120 00:09:37,120 --> 00:09:39,240 Speaker 1: some of what we say. We ain't gonna do everything, 121 00:09:39,520 --> 00:09:42,439 Speaker 1: just do some of what we say. Okay, here's a deal. 122 00:09:42,800 --> 00:09:45,560 Speaker 1: God is going to do everything he say he gonna 123 00:09:46,600 --> 00:09:48,800 Speaker 1: you and I just got to do some of the 124 00:09:48,920 --> 00:09:50,920 Speaker 1: stuff we say we're gonna do because He already know 125 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:52,839 Speaker 1: we ain't gonna do all of it. He clear on that, 126 00:09:53,640 --> 00:09:57,520 Speaker 1: He clear on that. All right, thank you you're listening, 127 00:10:01,880 --> 00:10:04,880 Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. It is about to begin to Steve 128 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:09,319 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. I have selected a song for you 129 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:16,800 Speaker 1: this morning that I have just decided to just oh oh, 130 00:10:17,160 --> 00:10:24,880 Speaker 1: blurted out, I don't love you anymore. It's just a 131 00:10:25,120 --> 00:10:34,559 Speaker 1: simple explain it to the young people listening. Oh man, 132 00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:37,000 Speaker 1: they don't get it. You know, just old songs, man, 133 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:41,280 Speaker 1: where you just blurt out to begin it and and 134 00:10:41,559 --> 00:10:48,880 Speaker 1: everybody know what it is. M h yeah, oh yeah, yeah, 135 00:10:51,760 --> 00:11:08,040 Speaker 1: I'm gone, gone, yeah, yeah. My daughter loves Fie. Oh 136 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:20,760 Speaker 1: say child bye? Who woo? So search hop Fie. You 137 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:24,839 Speaker 1: don't make him like this? An The way you walk 138 00:11:25,480 --> 00:11:31,280 Speaker 1: and talk, it really search me up to a fire alarm, child? Yes, 139 00:11:31,360 --> 00:11:37,280 Speaker 1: sit down. The way you squeet and tea knocks me 140 00:11:37,480 --> 00:11:44,040 Speaker 1: to my knees, come out smoking, baby. The way you 141 00:11:44,200 --> 00:11:50,280 Speaker 1: swear and curb it redirects my nerves and I'm so excited. Child? 142 00:11:50,920 --> 00:12:08,840 Speaker 1: Who lets me know? Ha ha gone, yeah, let us 143 00:12:08,920 --> 00:12:14,720 Speaker 1: have it. Steve Hark so old ass, hard ass singing. 144 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:18,160 Speaker 1: That's that lounge singer that never made it because he 145 00:12:18,320 --> 00:12:21,840 Speaker 1: wasn't quite on the notes. But you couldn't tell him that. Yeah, 146 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:27,000 Speaker 1: but he had all the Hollywood singer moves. Man, I 147 00:12:27,040 --> 00:12:31,280 Speaker 1: would have had Roscoe Wallace making the pig. Colin Farrell 148 00:12:31,400 --> 00:12:35,440 Speaker 1: your favorite ro Roscoe Waller, Yeah, what's up? Hard singing? 149 00:12:35,559 --> 00:12:39,400 Speaker 1: Hay Steve, what's up crew, Ain't nothing, Junior. I'll just 150 00:12:39,559 --> 00:12:41,960 Speaker 1: be seeing you in concert doing that whole thing though. 151 00:12:42,040 --> 00:12:46,760 Speaker 1: That's what I want. I was bad. I saw Teddy laugh, 152 00:12:47,320 --> 00:12:53,439 Speaker 1: I saw how Player live. Y'all missed concerts. That was 153 00:12:53,600 --> 00:12:57,760 Speaker 1: real concerts. And the dudes actually sound just like the 154 00:12:57,880 --> 00:13:08,240 Speaker 1: record like Luther what no day of remixes, remix your 155 00:13:08,320 --> 00:13:16,040 Speaker 1: remix hits scarned time, just random scarned time, like when 156 00:13:16,080 --> 00:13:18,440 Speaker 1: he just blurts him out of nowhere. You're all bad, 157 00:13:18,679 --> 00:13:25,520 Speaker 1: bad missus? Yeah them skinned t hang on Sugarfoot. Coming 158 00:13:25,600 --> 00:13:28,200 Speaker 1: up at thirty two minutes, I just gonna say good morning, 159 00:13:28,240 --> 00:13:38,080 Speaker 1: since say nobody saying time? Coming up at thirty two 160 00:13:38,120 --> 00:13:40,959 Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, asked the CLO, the chief love 161 00:13:41,080 --> 00:13:44,559 Speaker 1: officer in the building. Right after this, you're listening to 162 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:48,319 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, time now for 163 00:13:48,520 --> 00:13:52,040 Speaker 1: ask the CLO. We have some good questions from Steve 164 00:13:52,160 --> 00:13:54,640 Speaker 1: Harvey FM dot com. If you have some questions for 165 00:13:54,720 --> 00:13:58,960 Speaker 1: the cello, please please please feel free to write us. 166 00:13:59,080 --> 00:14:03,000 Speaker 1: This one is from Jess in Hollywood, Florida. Steven says, 167 00:14:03,320 --> 00:14:06,679 Speaker 1: my boyfriend and I are in our mid twenties and 168 00:14:06,880 --> 00:14:10,480 Speaker 1: sometimes he is not able to perform unless he watches 169 00:14:10,600 --> 00:14:14,040 Speaker 1: poor and first last night we were being intimate and 170 00:14:14,160 --> 00:14:17,120 Speaker 1: he was really into it. Then he called me his 171 00:14:17,320 --> 00:14:20,600 Speaker 1: ex girlfriend's name. I didn't say anything because I didn't 172 00:14:20,600 --> 00:14:24,240 Speaker 1: want him to stop. It was his best performance so far. 173 00:14:24,920 --> 00:14:28,040 Speaker 1: Apparently thinking about his ex girlfriend kept him in the mood. 174 00:14:28,360 --> 00:14:31,480 Speaker 1: Do you think he secretly still wants his ex or 175 00:14:31,600 --> 00:14:35,560 Speaker 1: is this just something that happens from time to time. Well, 176 00:14:35,720 --> 00:14:38,280 Speaker 1: I got a couple of ideas here from you. You 177 00:14:38,480 --> 00:14:42,360 Speaker 1: said that he only gets excited unless he's watching pawn 178 00:14:42,960 --> 00:14:47,680 Speaker 1: in your twenties. That's dangerous. That's dangerous because I don't 179 00:14:47,680 --> 00:14:51,000 Speaker 1: even I very rarely hear that from a guy that young. 180 00:14:52,080 --> 00:14:54,200 Speaker 1: Very rarely do I hear that. So that's kind of 181 00:14:54,720 --> 00:14:59,240 Speaker 1: That's kind of odd right there, him calling and he 182 00:14:59,360 --> 00:15:02,160 Speaker 1: only gets ex cited. Now, you having your best performance 183 00:15:02,760 --> 00:15:05,560 Speaker 1: and all of a sudden he calls his ex girlfriend's name. 184 00:15:05,760 --> 00:15:09,520 Speaker 1: Now the question you need to find out is his 185 00:15:09,800 --> 00:15:22,080 Speaker 1: ex girlfriend a porn star has possibility written all over it. 186 00:15:23,720 --> 00:15:29,560 Speaker 1: Maybe she wanted them movies that getting real excited. Other 187 00:15:29,640 --> 00:15:31,840 Speaker 1: than that, I don't know how long you all have 188 00:15:31,920 --> 00:15:34,560 Speaker 1: been dating, And I don't know how long you can 189 00:15:34,640 --> 00:15:39,680 Speaker 1: continue to accept being called the other girl's name that ain't. 190 00:15:39,680 --> 00:15:44,280 Speaker 1: I don't know how long that's allowable, but I think 191 00:15:44,360 --> 00:15:47,360 Speaker 1: you should have bought it to his attention so that 192 00:15:47,520 --> 00:15:50,000 Speaker 1: he is aware of it and he can start working 193 00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:52,520 Speaker 1: on it if it's serious. But I don't think y'all's 194 00:15:52,560 --> 00:15:55,880 Speaker 1: relationship is gonna go nowhere, because if you got to 195 00:15:56,040 --> 00:15:59,240 Speaker 1: have porno to turn you on at in your twenties, 196 00:15:59,680 --> 00:16:05,600 Speaker 1: you're rest of your sex years. A shot man, damn dog, 197 00:16:05,720 --> 00:16:08,800 Speaker 1: because in my twenties I needed nothing. I just knocked 198 00:16:08,800 --> 00:16:15,600 Speaker 1: a cool air if just ready, just walking around, ready, 199 00:16:16,080 --> 00:16:20,160 Speaker 1: and the wind blow either one of these that right there, hot, 200 00:16:20,720 --> 00:16:32,520 Speaker 1: just right here, hot, don't know? I okay. This is 201 00:16:32,560 --> 00:16:36,600 Speaker 1: from its from Tony in New Jersey. I have a 202 00:16:36,720 --> 00:16:39,760 Speaker 1: problem with my lady friend. I'm a bodybuilder, and I 203 00:16:39,880 --> 00:16:42,040 Speaker 1: get a lot of women trying to holler at me 204 00:16:42,120 --> 00:16:45,160 Speaker 1: at my d in my DMS, and they send lots 205 00:16:45,200 --> 00:16:48,080 Speaker 1: of nude pictures. I'll show my lady the pis and 206 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:51,080 Speaker 1: we laugh at them together. I found out the other 207 00:16:51,200 --> 00:16:54,920 Speaker 1: day that my lady also gets nude pictures of men 208 00:16:55,200 --> 00:16:58,280 Speaker 1: and her DMS. She clicked on a message by a mistake, 209 00:16:58,360 --> 00:17:00,600 Speaker 1: and I saw the picture of a naked man. She 210 00:17:00,760 --> 00:17:04,040 Speaker 1: has never mentioned this to me, she said she hates 211 00:17:04,080 --> 00:17:06,840 Speaker 1: the picts and she immediately deletes them. But why does 212 00:17:06,880 --> 00:17:10,080 Speaker 1: she keep it from me? Should I be concerned? Well? 213 00:17:10,359 --> 00:17:12,720 Speaker 1: You know what, dog? See hold up now, when you 214 00:17:12,920 --> 00:17:18,359 Speaker 1: showing naked pictures y'all laughing? You know, so now all 215 00:17:18,359 --> 00:17:20,320 Speaker 1: of a sudden, this ain't funny to you no more? 216 00:17:21,240 --> 00:17:23,800 Speaker 1: See dog, you got to be careful what you introduce. 217 00:17:24,280 --> 00:17:27,280 Speaker 1: I don't know what your ass is showing your girl 218 00:17:27,480 --> 00:17:30,440 Speaker 1: neked pictures of other women fault. I really don't know, man. 219 00:17:30,720 --> 00:17:36,119 Speaker 1: I'm confused about that. Normally that you're you're inviting a 220 00:17:36,280 --> 00:17:38,800 Speaker 1: hailstorm into your house when you do that, So I 221 00:17:38,840 --> 00:17:41,440 Speaker 1: don't know what that was. But then she gets me 222 00:17:41,600 --> 00:17:45,560 Speaker 1: and sending her naked pictures too, But she ain't mentioned 223 00:17:45,600 --> 00:17:50,480 Speaker 1: it to you because guess why, because she knows. Look 224 00:17:50,520 --> 00:17:52,359 Speaker 1: at you then wrote a letter. See you see a 225 00:17:52,440 --> 00:17:56,159 Speaker 1: picture you're asking wrote a letter? Y'all watching together? You 226 00:17:56,240 --> 00:17:59,560 Speaker 1: just keep king yeah, see Pardner, So she already know 227 00:18:00,280 --> 00:18:05,640 Speaker 1: it's a problem. And the bodybuilder come on, man, come 228 00:18:05,680 --> 00:18:09,120 Speaker 1: on all right, see yeah, it's it's it's it's it's 229 00:18:09,160 --> 00:18:11,280 Speaker 1: not a problem that she might be messing around. But 230 00:18:11,400 --> 00:18:14,080 Speaker 1: maybe she just didn't feel like dealing with this because 231 00:18:14,080 --> 00:18:16,400 Speaker 1: you don't wrote a letter into a national radio show. 232 00:18:17,480 --> 00:18:22,040 Speaker 1: You show her pictures. Y'all just laugh. Anonymous in Tennessee writes, 233 00:18:22,400 --> 00:18:25,280 Speaker 1: I've been married for five years and my mother lives 234 00:18:25,359 --> 00:18:28,000 Speaker 1: with us. I'm a diabetic and I've been sick a 235 00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:31,040 Speaker 1: lot lately, so my mother has assumed the role as 236 00:18:31,160 --> 00:18:35,960 Speaker 1: my full time nurse and caregiver. This drives my wife crazy. 237 00:18:36,240 --> 00:18:38,479 Speaker 1: My mother told my wife that she's been taking care 238 00:18:38,520 --> 00:18:41,280 Speaker 1: of me all my life and it's not up for debate. 239 00:18:41,600 --> 00:18:45,160 Speaker 1: My wife isn't having it, and their constant arguing stresses 240 00:18:45,280 --> 00:18:48,280 Speaker 1: me out. My wife works long hours, and my mom 241 00:18:48,440 --> 00:18:51,280 Speaker 1: is here when my wife can't be, so in a way, 242 00:18:51,480 --> 00:18:56,920 Speaker 1: my mom is right, I'm stuck in the middle. Please help, No, no, no, no, 243 00:18:57,119 --> 00:19:01,840 Speaker 1: your mom isn't right. No, she's not. Your wife is 244 00:19:01,920 --> 00:19:04,360 Speaker 1: the queen of the castle that can There's only one 245 00:19:04,520 --> 00:19:07,960 Speaker 1: queen in the castle. It might be some damsels, it 246 00:19:08,080 --> 00:19:11,080 Speaker 1: might be some some some other people at work, but 247 00:19:11,240 --> 00:19:15,520 Speaker 1: it's one queen, and your wife is being rooted out 248 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:20,520 Speaker 1: by your mother, who's obviously taking some liberties with you 249 00:19:21,359 --> 00:19:23,399 Speaker 1: that your wife would like to be able to do 250 00:19:23,800 --> 00:19:26,240 Speaker 1: now the fact that you're sick, Brod can't do nothing 251 00:19:26,240 --> 00:19:29,560 Speaker 1: about that. Feel for you. Uh, you know, I don't 252 00:19:29,600 --> 00:19:32,080 Speaker 1: know what you're supposed to say to somebody would diabetes. 253 00:19:32,640 --> 00:19:38,680 Speaker 1: I don't know. You don't seeing cond Okay, well, you know, 254 00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:41,000 Speaker 1: I don't know what you say to people got diabetes. 255 00:19:41,040 --> 00:19:45,159 Speaker 1: I don't know what to say, not condolences or I 256 00:19:47,080 --> 00:19:50,960 Speaker 1: don't know what to say to him about the sickness. 257 00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:55,040 Speaker 1: But your mother is not. She may have been taken 258 00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:57,480 Speaker 1: care of you your whole life, but this your wife. Dog, 259 00:19:57,760 --> 00:20:01,480 Speaker 1: See you said viles to your wife. Now, if your 260 00:20:01,520 --> 00:20:06,560 Speaker 1: mother's there because you can't provide for yourself, I don't 261 00:20:06,600 --> 00:20:09,400 Speaker 1: I don't know what it is, but she lives with y'all, 262 00:20:09,920 --> 00:20:12,399 Speaker 1: and it's creating a problem. She didn't marry you to 263 00:20:12,520 --> 00:20:15,280 Speaker 1: live with your mama. Now. I don't know how sick 264 00:20:15,400 --> 00:20:18,879 Speaker 1: you are, dog, but if your mother just over there 265 00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:20,800 Speaker 1: because she won't just keep eye on you and check 266 00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:23,520 Speaker 1: on you, then you gotta change your living arrangements. Now, 267 00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:27,600 Speaker 1: if you incapacitated in some way, then your wife gonna 268 00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:29,520 Speaker 1: had to work with your mama a little bit better. 269 00:20:29,600 --> 00:20:31,840 Speaker 1: But your mama gonna had to back up and let 270 00:20:31,920 --> 00:20:35,160 Speaker 1: your wife be the queen at the castle. Your wife's 271 00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:38,639 Speaker 1: wife and dog. Now, you don't sleep with your mama, 272 00:20:38,720 --> 00:20:46,040 Speaker 1: so you're gonna mess around here that in a minute. Yeah, yeah, 273 00:20:46,600 --> 00:20:48,720 Speaker 1: we're going there and sleep with your mammy. You're gonna 274 00:20:48,720 --> 00:20:52,040 Speaker 1: fe here that all right? Coming up next and have 275 00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:54,600 Speaker 1: you in the building. Would run that brank back right 276 00:20:54,680 --> 00:21:02,680 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening, Junior is in with today's prank 277 00:21:02,720 --> 00:21:05,440 Speaker 1: phone call. What you got for us? Junior? This is 278 00:21:05,520 --> 00:21:10,359 Speaker 1: called church Talida Church Caleada. Let's find out what do 279 00:21:10,400 --> 00:21:14,520 Speaker 1: you come? Let's go cat Hello, Hello, I'm trying to 280 00:21:14,560 --> 00:21:18,399 Speaker 1: reach sister Alison. Alison. Uh, Alison, she's not here, man, 281 00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:21,680 Speaker 1: she had worked as you speaking. Hey. This is this 282 00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:24,040 Speaker 1: is brother Luster, brother Lust. How are you doing today? 283 00:21:24,160 --> 00:21:27,960 Speaker 1: All right, Lester, brother Lester right from the church. Okay, 284 00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:31,359 Speaker 1: okay over at uh right right right right? Your husband 285 00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:34,880 Speaker 1: right with Jared. I'm sure. Yeah. This is Gerald, Yeah, okay, okay. 286 00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:36,400 Speaker 1: I met you a couple of times. Gerald. We ain't 287 00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:38,320 Speaker 1: seen you in a minute though. Man, I've been working 288 00:21:38,359 --> 00:21:40,000 Speaker 1: on Sunday and I said it. I was gonna try 289 00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:41,359 Speaker 1: to make it, but I told her, you know, I 290 00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:43,640 Speaker 1: want to get involved. You know this year is gonna 291 00:21:43,640 --> 00:21:45,600 Speaker 1: be a better year. I'm gonna get involved. Man. We'll 292 00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:47,640 Speaker 1: come all down. Man. We love to hell you, that's 293 00:21:47,680 --> 00:21:49,560 Speaker 1: for sure. Man. Can I get you a number where 294 00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:52,320 Speaker 1: she can call me back? Well? Okay, yeah, sure? Is 295 00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:55,639 Speaker 1: this about, you know, lesson or something? What's going on? 296 00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:59,440 Speaker 1: Actually the single ministry? Man, I'm over the single ministry 297 00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:02,639 Speaker 1: and we're raising some money. So we're actually putting together 298 00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:05,879 Speaker 1: a calendar, and we wanted her to give us a 299 00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:08,199 Speaker 1: call abody. Okay, so let me let me get let 300 00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:10,240 Speaker 1: me give you my number real quick. Womenute, Okay, you 301 00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:12,480 Speaker 1: said a calendar. So the church is doing the calendar. 302 00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:14,920 Speaker 1: But is it like the couples like we come in 303 00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:16,840 Speaker 1: like how it always be like the couples come in 304 00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:19,520 Speaker 1: and be like this is mister missus? I mean a 305 00:22:19,640 --> 00:22:21,880 Speaker 1: calendar down? No, no, no, what we're doing to see 306 00:22:21,920 --> 00:22:23,640 Speaker 1: a lot of the guys got together. What we're gonna 307 00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:27,359 Speaker 1: do is a mount swimsuit calendar and we're gonna we 308 00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:29,639 Speaker 1: kind of put that together. Man. So let me give 309 00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:31,359 Speaker 1: you my number, man, because I want to call all 310 00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:33,600 Speaker 1: the guys were saying, if she get on the calendar, 311 00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:36,440 Speaker 1: he'll probably get solid. You know. Wait a minute, Wait 312 00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:39,120 Speaker 1: a minute, wold wold war war. Let's slow down, Slow down, 313 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:43,760 Speaker 1: brother Lester, let's slow down. Okay. A calendar, A swimsuit 314 00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:48,520 Speaker 1: calendar for the single ministry at the church. What it is, Gerald, 315 00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:51,880 Speaker 1: We're gonna be the first church to who have ever 316 00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:55,040 Speaker 1: done a swimsuit calendar. You see what I'm saying. No, 317 00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:58,560 Speaker 1: wait a minute, Wait a minute, Wait a minute. You 318 00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:00,600 Speaker 1: call it for us my wife to be in it. 319 00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:03,680 Speaker 1: You sure you got the right number because we're there, 320 00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:06,240 Speaker 1: I mean because your wife is Alison, right, Yes, my 321 00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:08,560 Speaker 1: wife is Allison. First of all, I didn't what's this 322 00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:12,119 Speaker 1: man about? All the guys y'all got together, y'all voted 323 00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:15,760 Speaker 1: about Okay, I'm trying to take this slow man. Oh God, 324 00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:18,280 Speaker 1: hold my tongue right now, because I'm sorry, I don't 325 00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:21,120 Speaker 1: understand where you're going with this. Man. Listen, we're gonna 326 00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:24,600 Speaker 1: get sister Gieddre. She's gonna be Miss March. June is 327 00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:26,920 Speaker 1: like pretty much in the middle of the year. We 328 00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:29,600 Speaker 1: want your wife to be the big center fold. Please 329 00:23:29,720 --> 00:23:32,680 Speaker 1: please tell me you're not tilling my house this morning 330 00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:35,200 Speaker 1: talking about my wife to be in a Canada. I 331 00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:38,000 Speaker 1: swim through calendar. But dead on top of that, y'all 332 00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:41,600 Speaker 1: all got together and y'all voted that y'all want my 333 00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:46,159 Speaker 1: wife to be in a swim through Canada fad church. Okay, 334 00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:48,440 Speaker 1: well wait a minute, Gerald, I'm looking at us on 335 00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:50,760 Speaker 1: the positive side. Man. What this is is see, like 336 00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:53,159 Speaker 1: I said, we're raising money for the Singles Ministry and 337 00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:55,240 Speaker 1: the single Ministry getting ready to go on a big trip. 338 00:23:55,560 --> 00:24:00,399 Speaker 1: But the Fingers Ministry she's made made. I don't want 339 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:01,960 Speaker 1: the people that's gonna take of the ministry. Why are 340 00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:04,000 Speaker 1: you calling and talk about my wife? Bid is something 341 00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:08,400 Speaker 1: like this? You hold up that, Oh Jesus, yell, hey, man, 342 00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:11,520 Speaker 1: you you should feel honored man that your wife was 343 00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:14,160 Speaker 1: a man. While y'all looking at my wife like that. Man, 344 00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:16,760 Speaker 1: we're coming in there and we try to get hip 345 00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:18,320 Speaker 1: and we're trying to do it. Y'all looking at my 346 00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:20,240 Speaker 1: wife time, y'all want my wife to be in a 347 00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:23,119 Speaker 1: swim through contest? Name do you understand what that is? Man? 348 00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:25,760 Speaker 1: Ain't number some panties made? So y'all good that my 349 00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:27,320 Speaker 1: wife time, My y'all want my wife to be here 350 00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:30,159 Speaker 1: a panties? See what you gotta understand? Gerald? This right here, 351 00:24:30,240 --> 00:24:32,440 Speaker 1: man is for the single ministry. We got a big 352 00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:36,000 Speaker 1: trip coming up, so we're raising money. What are y'all doing? Man? 353 00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:38,560 Speaker 1: It's not something you do at the church. Man. You 354 00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:42,520 Speaker 1: have car watches? Man without man, I'll really we watched cars. Man, 355 00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:45,359 Speaker 1: y'all talking about Canada? Man? What are you doing with it? Man? 356 00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:47,880 Speaker 1: What type of church is this? Fift turn and two? Man? 357 00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:51,040 Speaker 1: See gerald the difference heals on this whole thing. Man, 358 00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:52,800 Speaker 1: don't be upset about it? What it is that? Man? 359 00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:55,760 Speaker 1: We didn't found something that ain't no other church done before? 360 00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:58,400 Speaker 1: You see what I'm saying. The reason ain't no other 361 00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:02,160 Speaker 1: church done is because this is wrong? Man? What committee 362 00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:04,240 Speaker 1: got to get on something like this? Man? What is 363 00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:07,240 Speaker 1: wrong with you? Hey? Do you gotta understand? Listen? We 364 00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:11,000 Speaker 1: got sister Gieddrid, We got sister Vicky. Okay, Uh, what 365 00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:12,879 Speaker 1: I mean? You say the thing that sign out on 366 00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:14,720 Speaker 1: that you got these women in the church, then that 367 00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:17,480 Speaker 1: they're gonna put on swim suits. Well, what I'm saying, 368 00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:18,920 Speaker 1: we got them on our list. We got them on 369 00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:21,520 Speaker 1: our list to come saying. May ain't nobody getting with man? 370 00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:24,080 Speaker 1: What is wrong with you? Man? Hey? Man, listen, do 371 00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:26,439 Speaker 1: to help us get started. Do you have a picture 372 00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:29,640 Speaker 1: or sister Alison and a swimsuit? Look, man, I ain't 373 00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:32,800 Speaker 1: give it, you know, picture to my wife and no swimsuit. Man, No, 374 00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:35,560 Speaker 1: this is just something we're trying to do for the ministry. Dude. 375 00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:37,240 Speaker 1: You know what are you at the church? Did you 376 00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:39,360 Speaker 1: work at the church for a time? Part time? I'm 377 00:25:39,359 --> 00:25:42,400 Speaker 1: at the church. Okay, are you there there? No, I'm 378 00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:43,720 Speaker 1: not there right now, but I'm gonna be there for 379 00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:46,920 Speaker 1: Crowhurs and later on this evening. Okay, what time do choid? 380 00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:51,040 Speaker 1: Rehearsal start left? Seven o'clock? But why you What's what 381 00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:52,760 Speaker 1: I want you to do is for me before you 382 00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:54,399 Speaker 1: go to rehearsal. Can you just be right in the 383 00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:56,359 Speaker 1: front right quick. I just want to we need to 384 00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:59,000 Speaker 1: meet personally right quick, less to me and you. So 385 00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:02,320 Speaker 1: I'm gonna come to the rehearsal and then let's talk 386 00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:04,800 Speaker 1: about this face to face because this over the phone 387 00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:06,479 Speaker 1: and all that, this is not worth it right now 388 00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:08,960 Speaker 1: and I need to meet the person that's called in 389 00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:13,920 Speaker 1: my howl talking about my wife doing all this idiotic type. 390 00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:17,880 Speaker 1: So let's meet baking the front. Brotherfore you go to sing, 391 00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:20,800 Speaker 1: I've got something for you. To sing a doubt. So 392 00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:24,359 Speaker 1: meet me in the front man, please before we can 393 00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:27,720 Speaker 1: go in, Lester, because we ain't gonna talk about this 394 00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:30,800 Speaker 1: no more over the phone. Let's talk about this in person. Okay, further, 395 00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:33,040 Speaker 1: I mean you gotta calm down. Man, I don't even 396 00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:35,359 Speaker 1: understand why you already like you know what. Yeah, I'm 397 00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:39,320 Speaker 1: gonna come down, Lester. Seven. So it started at seven. 398 00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:41,920 Speaker 1: Let's do six fifty five, Lester. I think this is 399 00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:44,560 Speaker 1: gonna work for us. This is gonna help your keller 400 00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:47,240 Speaker 1: to get out the way that you really really needed 401 00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:49,840 Speaker 1: to get out. Man, I got something for you that's 402 00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:55,600 Speaker 1: gonna help. Just calls. Please be outside at six fifty five. 403 00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:58,600 Speaker 1: Please don't go on. I'm gonna be outside. Can you 404 00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:00,680 Speaker 1: bring a picture with you? Oh yeah, I got a 405 00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:03,119 Speaker 1: picture for you. I got a nice picture for you. 406 00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:05,160 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. Me and Tommy will be outside 407 00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:07,800 Speaker 1: waiting on you when you get there. You're who Me 408 00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:11,280 Speaker 1: and nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. We're 409 00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:19,560 Speaker 1: gonna be right outside in front of the church. Oh man, man, 410 00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:23,840 Speaker 1: who did this name? Hey man, your brother Jason told 411 00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:27,920 Speaker 1: me the prank phone call you man, god man, you 412 00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:29,880 Speaker 1: know you know what you said. Tell him, I said, 413 00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,320 Speaker 1: if that food came to church more often, he would 414 00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:36,120 Speaker 1: know that this is a prank phone call. Oh man, 415 00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:38,720 Speaker 1: I'm glad it is. Man. Can't you just imagine if 416 00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:40,680 Speaker 1: how to draw up to that church acting the food 417 00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:44,719 Speaker 1: ain't Man, I got I gotta ask you this, hire man. 418 00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:47,800 Speaker 1: What is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio 419 00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:52,320 Speaker 1: show in the land, man, the Steve Harmy Morning Show Man? 420 00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:59,200 Speaker 1: Come home, mister Alison. You know what when when Tommy 421 00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:02,240 Speaker 1: goes from Timmy comes back, I'm gonna ask him, just 422 00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:05,359 Speaker 1: let the prank go. Don't tell people that it's a prank. 423 00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:08,280 Speaker 1: Just let them just go and yeah, just let it 424 00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:13,320 Speaker 1: just ride out, you know, and have him yeah never forever. Yeah, 425 00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:15,560 Speaker 1: just hang up and then they just have them all 426 00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:18,640 Speaker 1: flustered and everything. What is that gonna do? Jay, Oh, 427 00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:20,520 Speaker 1: and go down in the church and act like a food. 428 00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:23,240 Speaker 1: That's what it's gonna do. Yeah, That's that's what's go 429 00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:30,960 Speaker 1: And then we feel that that's what we feel. Oh yeah, 430 00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:36,000 Speaker 1: all right, Junior, let's go what you got, Okay, Shirley, 431 00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:39,000 Speaker 1: I got it to Steve Harvey Morning Show and Walmart 432 00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:41,600 Speaker 1: Family Mobile want to help you get ready for back 433 00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:43,920 Speaker 1: to school this year. 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That's not always easy, right knowing you Yeah, 448 00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:37,480 Speaker 1: because you're the one that's going to hurt someone else 449 00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:40,880 Speaker 1: you know that you care about. You can make second 450 00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:43,640 Speaker 1: guess yourself and wonder if you're really doing the right thing. 451 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:48,840 Speaker 1: But ghosting isn't cool. Like texting someone to break up Okay, 452 00:29:49,320 --> 00:29:52,360 Speaker 1: So here's some some decent ways to break up. According 453 00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:56,280 Speaker 1: to Cosmopolitan magazine, we want you to be clear if 454 00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:59,800 Speaker 1: you're the breaker upper. People only end relationships when they're 455 00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:03,200 Speaker 1: partner doesn't match their outlook, their values, their needs and 456 00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:07,760 Speaker 1: desires anymore. Otherwise you're still good. Right, Well, that's a 457 00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:12,640 Speaker 1: big list, don't Shirley, outlook values. You're still good. You 458 00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:16,760 Speaker 1: don't outlook all that, the big ones. Yeah, if you don't, 459 00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:18,560 Speaker 1: if they don't match that, then you got to break 460 00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:20,960 Speaker 1: up with them. But if they do, then you're good. 461 00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:25,440 Speaker 1: Stay clear, but just be clear. Yeah, well but you 462 00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:31,080 Speaker 1: know it's you can They're saying you good. But a 463 00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:33,680 Speaker 1: person can have all the qualities and you just not like. 464 00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:37,520 Speaker 1: Oh okay, I see what you're I think that can happen. 465 00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:41,280 Speaker 1: You just don't like you, like what I like, eat 466 00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:43,400 Speaker 1: what I eat, I want to go where I want 467 00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:47,920 Speaker 1: to go. But if I don't like you about him, 468 00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:50,440 Speaker 1: why are you with them in the first place? Shirley, 469 00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:53,240 Speaker 1: You you the one came up with the adult break 470 00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:56,560 Speaker 1: off all right, fall out of love in your mind? 471 00:30:56,680 --> 00:30:59,280 Speaker 1: In your mind first? Okay, Now listen to this. It's 472 00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:02,400 Speaker 1: only going to be harder to end things if you 473 00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:05,360 Speaker 1: keep thinking about the happy times. So you got to 474 00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:08,000 Speaker 1: stop that, all right, When you're trying to build up 475 00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:10,840 Speaker 1: the strength to break up with someone, focus on the 476 00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:14,959 Speaker 1: top five negative moments of your relationship. This is all 477 00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:22,720 Speaker 1: according to Cosmo Talitan, Cosmopolitan Magazine, Cosmopolitan Magazine. This is 478 00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:24,920 Speaker 1: this is according to them. So, yeah, what do you think. 479 00:31:25,120 --> 00:31:27,480 Speaker 1: Let's let's hear your point. I'm here to help you. 480 00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:30,000 Speaker 1: You know, I break up with you, but keep doing 481 00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:31,920 Speaker 1: it with you. You know what I mean, because you're 482 00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:34,040 Speaker 1: gonna need That's why you're going through this. You know 483 00:31:34,080 --> 00:31:37,920 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. That's not healthy. That's time. No, that 484 00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:42,600 Speaker 1: ain't time. I'm helping you get through what we're going through. 485 00:31:43,920 --> 00:31:50,280 Speaker 1: That's unhealthy to No, it's not. It's unhealthy without Steve 486 00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:54,560 Speaker 1: jumping here anytime, CLO, chief Love officer. Now, so you 487 00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:57,400 Speaker 1: need you need It's two million, three men on this show. 488 00:31:57,760 --> 00:32:00,920 Speaker 1: You need to see his side. But in your what's 489 00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:08,240 Speaker 1: your thought? I'm Williams. You're with whom break you? Yeah? Yeah, 490 00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:10,560 Speaker 1: that makes sense to me? Break up, But let's keep going. 491 00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:15,560 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, come on, think about the shirt. 492 00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:18,040 Speaker 1: Let me say we break up on a Thursday. This 493 00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:21,280 Speaker 1: is our first Friday apart, right, we'll be supposed to do. 494 00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:25,920 Speaker 1: We've been doing it on Friday. Let's get back and 495 00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:31,760 Speaker 1: you're going this makes absolute great sense. I don't know 496 00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:33,880 Speaker 1: what the people that caughtropolitan talking about, but me and 497 00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:37,240 Speaker 1: Tommy and Steve agreed. We've been doing it on Fridays. 498 00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:44,720 Speaker 1: Why stop now, Steve, you guys think really, I don't 499 00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:50,000 Speaker 1: want you to think. If yeah, but you still coming 500 00:32:50,120 --> 00:32:55,920 Speaker 1: through I want to talk, then okay, let's just talk 501 00:32:55,960 --> 00:33:02,720 Speaker 1: about it and bed naked. Yeah, if that's where we act, 502 00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:09,720 Speaker 1: let me see if I've made a mistake. That's what 503 00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:14,840 Speaker 1: would you talking about? You? That's the question. Let's see 504 00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:17,000 Speaker 1: if I've made a mistake. No, he's saying while we're 505 00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:20,800 Speaker 1: laying down. Yeah, let's see if I've made a mistake. Right, Yeah, 506 00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:26,320 Speaker 1: So Steve, it's time for today's headlines, Ladies and gentlemen. 507 00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:29,800 Speaker 1: Miss Ann Tripp, thank you very much, and good morning everyone. 508 00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:32,400 Speaker 1: As the Biden administrations order to pull out of American 509 00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:36,320 Speaker 1: troops in Afghanistan continues, reports are that the Taliban, aided 510 00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:39,480 Speaker 1: by members of al Qaeda and other terrorist groups, has 511 00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:42,760 Speaker 1: been rapidly taking over city after city, with people now 512 00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:45,520 Speaker 1: packing into the capital city of Kabble, living in parks 513 00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:47,840 Speaker 1: and whatever they can to get away from the violence 514 00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:51,160 Speaker 1: and in some cases forced marriages. However, Pentagon spokes when 515 00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:54,000 Speaker 1: John Kirby says that the US is not forgetting its friends. 516 00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:57,240 Speaker 1: So the President sending in three infantry bullet battalions. Those 517 00:33:57,280 --> 00:34:01,600 Speaker 1: three infantry battalions will comprise approximate at least three thousand personnel, 518 00:34:02,000 --> 00:34:05,360 Speaker 1: and they will be in addition to those troops that 519 00:34:05,520 --> 00:34:10,080 Speaker 1: are already in Cobble. The other evacuees are diplomats and 520 00:34:10,160 --> 00:34:13,040 Speaker 1: others working at the American embassy, as well as interpreters 521 00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:15,720 Speaker 1: who work with the US military trying to get everybody 522 00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:19,240 Speaker 1: out whom they know the Taliban will target for assassination. 523 00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:21,640 Speaker 1: American troops, by the way, are expected to leave the 524 00:34:21,680 --> 00:34:24,439 Speaker 1: country by the end of the month. However, the State 525 00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:27,239 Speaker 1: Department says the US will continue to maintain what they're 526 00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:30,759 Speaker 1: calling a core diplomatic presence in Cobble, that's again the 527 00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:33,759 Speaker 1: capital city. One of President Biden's campaign promises has to 528 00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:36,320 Speaker 1: do with lowering prescription prices, so he says that's what 529 00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:38,480 Speaker 1: he's focused on now. I think it's safe to say 530 00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:42,160 Speaker 1: that all of us, whatever our background, our age where 531 00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:47,120 Speaker 1: we live can agree that prescription drug prices are outrageously 532 00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:50,040 Speaker 1: expensive in America. So mister Biden says he wants to 533 00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:53,720 Speaker 1: make changes to Medicare, including allowing Medicare to directly negotiate 534 00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:57,000 Speaker 1: drug prices. Now that thing has to be fit by 535 00:34:57,040 --> 00:34:59,120 Speaker 1: the Congress. That situation can only be remedied that way. 536 00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:01,399 Speaker 1: But the President as already ordered the Food and Drug 537 00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:05,799 Speaker 1: Administration to approve less expensive generic drugs faster, and he's 538 00:35:05,800 --> 00:35:08,160 Speaker 1: also asked the agency to work with states and tribes 539 00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:11,320 Speaker 1: to improve to import to a cheaper drugs from Canada. 540 00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:13,759 Speaker 1: According to the US censuspire of the results of last 541 00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:16,200 Speaker 1: year's tally show that the country has become more racially 542 00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:19,399 Speaker 1: and ethnically diverse since Its officials say that the ever 543 00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:22,040 Speaker 1: growing numbers of people living in America identify axe with 544 00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:25,720 Speaker 1: more than one racial group, with the multiracial population accounting 545 00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:29,200 Speaker 1: for most of the overall changes seen in each racial category. 546 00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:32,279 Speaker 1: So agency officials say the numbers are over four months late, though, 547 00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:34,719 Speaker 1: because of COVID nineteen and because of interference by the 548 00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:38,359 Speaker 1: Trump administration that put pressure on states by imposing early 549 00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:40,840 Speaker 1: deadlines to get them to finish up and use the 550 00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:44,160 Speaker 1: data to redraw voting districts and finally looks like your 551 00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:47,560 Speaker 1: basic eyehop has really hopping. That's because customers at eye 552 00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:50,480 Speaker 1: Hoops can now order beer, wine, champagne, and mimosas with 553 00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:53,720 Speaker 1: their pancakes at three locations in San Diego, New Mexico. 554 00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:57,000 Speaker 1: They're also unveiling a beverage member called Bubbles, Wines and 555 00:35:57,080 --> 00:35:59,560 Speaker 1: Bruise in the chains. Eateries in New York, Rhode Island, 556 00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:01,719 Speaker 1: Maryland know how to start out. So I guess it's 557 00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:04,920 Speaker 1: really happened at I hopen it's a party, y'all. Now 558 00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:09,480 Speaker 1: back to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to show. 559 00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:13,720 Speaker 1: So Carlin and Steve have dogs. So the Tommy Junior 560 00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:17,959 Speaker 1: doesn't have a dog? Dog? Yeah? Um but Jay, where 561 00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:20,200 Speaker 1: where are you with this? Do you have any dogs with? 562 00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:23,360 Speaker 1: These dogs need to be at home or in the 563 00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:27,160 Speaker 1: yard and not that's just me. I know people, I 564 00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:30,360 Speaker 1: know they're emotional dogs. I can let these dogs srvous dogs. 565 00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:33,520 Speaker 1: But first of all, you work in a place, it 566 00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:36,120 Speaker 1: ends up being too many damn dogs. That's what happened 567 00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:42,080 Speaker 1: one dog. But then it's like dogs every damn well, 568 00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:45,680 Speaker 1: you know that's what happened. You know you're okay the 569 00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:48,600 Speaker 1: National Dog Day night. Now everybody got it. You got 570 00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:56,400 Speaker 1: dogs bringing dogs, so dogs every damn well. So we 571 00:36:56,480 --> 00:36:59,279 Speaker 1: need to nip this in the butt. Keep your damn 572 00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:03,879 Speaker 1: dog home. Keep your dog home. Don't bring your dog 573 00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:05,920 Speaker 1: to work. I mean I go on to you, like 574 00:37:05,960 --> 00:37:07,719 Speaker 1: you leave, I'm gonna go to the office and you're 575 00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:09,640 Speaker 1: not in there at the dog sitting in there, and 576 00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:13,160 Speaker 1: I'm like, I got I'm like, I'm coming to talk 577 00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:16,919 Speaker 1: to you. The damn dogs and then where is the dog? 578 00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:21,839 Speaker 1: Don't know where the hell. I'm just just me. I'm 579 00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:26,560 Speaker 1: gonna just you don't hate dogs. I would never tell it, doll, 580 00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:30,480 Speaker 1: I would never do that. I would never tease a dog. 581 00:37:30,960 --> 00:37:36,800 Speaker 1: It just just it's too many and damn dogs. That 582 00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:39,839 Speaker 1: is a funny visual though. You go in and talk 583 00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:43,640 Speaker 1: to your boss. I love to do. I love this 584 00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:46,759 Speaker 1: is my favorite thing to do. What I love to 585 00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:49,800 Speaker 1: go down to the where they sell dogs at a 586 00:37:49,920 --> 00:37:56,520 Speaker 1: dog scho Are you doing you want to be adopted? 587 00:37:57,960 --> 00:38:01,840 Speaker 1: They go home with me? Will guess what you ain't going? 588 00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:13,680 Speaker 1: That's your favorite thing? Hey, that scudentle's I know, I know, 589 00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:20,200 Speaker 1: I know, I guess what you ain't going Jay? How 590 00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:25,000 Speaker 1: is that right on any level? Though? I can't drag 591 00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:36,600 Speaker 1: it up over there? You're I'm gonna bring fancy Yeah, 592 00:38:37,120 --> 00:38:39,319 Speaker 1: if you could you have a dog, Jay, and walk 593 00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:42,120 Speaker 1: the dog, you know, and and all of that. You 594 00:38:42,160 --> 00:38:44,719 Speaker 1: wouldn't do that. You didn't have to take it to work, 595 00:38:44,840 --> 00:38:47,480 Speaker 1: but just take care of it. Dogs are part of 596 00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:53,960 Speaker 1: the family, Jay, not this family. All right. I guess 597 00:38:54,040 --> 00:38:56,439 Speaker 1: we know where Jay stands on dogs. All right, more 598 00:38:56,640 --> 00:39:00,319 Speaker 1: of this crazy ignorant show. Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right 599 00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:06,160 Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, 600 00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:10,080 Speaker 1: it is time for comedy roulette. Let's go, Jay Anthony 601 00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:13,440 Speaker 1: Brown give us three subjects. Put I'm on a wheel, 602 00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:16,960 Speaker 1: spind the wheel where the wheel stopped? Because I'm a comedian, 603 00:39:17,040 --> 00:39:20,040 Speaker 1: junior comedian, times a comedian. Steve's a comedian. We can 604 00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:23,920 Speaker 1: make it funny. Watch this, do it? Do it. Here's 605 00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:28,160 Speaker 1: today's category, guys. Number one things Christians say when they 606 00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:33,480 Speaker 1: can't cuss. Okay. Number two songs you like that no 607 00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:40,479 Speaker 1: one else likes? Oh wow. Number three excuses people give 608 00:39:40,640 --> 00:39:43,640 Speaker 1: for why they don't want to go to sleep. Got it? 609 00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:59,400 Speaker 1: Like all three spun the wheel? Oh which one? No? No, no, 610 00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:03,240 Speaker 1: I thought it was the song. It is things Christians 611 00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:07,320 Speaker 1: say when they can't cuss. I started, I started, I 612 00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:11,120 Speaker 1: started right here. Uh, lay hands on him, Jesus, just 613 00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:17,920 Speaker 1: lay hands on him. Okay, that's it, that's it, all right, 614 00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:23,040 Speaker 1: I got it. I got what got started. I mean it. 615 00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:33,120 Speaker 1: I'm not playing, okay, okay, okay, all right. Uh who 616 00:40:33,239 --> 00:40:35,920 Speaker 1: the fuck do you think you talking to? Boy? You 617 00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:47,680 Speaker 1: scared me? Who's up? Who the fuck do you think 618 00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:52,960 Speaker 1: you talking to? WHOA? I got right up on it, Yeah, 619 00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:54,840 Speaker 1: I got right up on. I thought this was another 620 00:40:55,000 --> 00:41:03,800 Speaker 1: radio show, the satellite. Come on still, sit down somewhere, 621 00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:11,400 Speaker 1: you little black pastor. I like. I like this category. 622 00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:20,080 Speaker 1: Christians can't cus Shut up, a little son of a 623 00:41:20,239 --> 00:41:31,279 Speaker 1: rich sit down something down pen He's Christians say when 624 00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:35,080 Speaker 1: you when they can't cuss. Look at me, look at me. 625 00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:39,720 Speaker 1: You're freaking right. I said it. I meant what I said, 626 00:41:40,560 --> 00:41:48,080 Speaker 1: the freaking right I said, playing with me. Nervous things 627 00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:52,759 Speaker 1: Christians say when they know they can't cuss. H Mother Ferguson, 628 00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:56,560 Speaker 1: let me tell you something. Let me tell you something, 629 00:41:56,600 --> 00:42:03,760 Speaker 1: mother Ferguson. You keep on here, keep going, mama, fergus, 630 00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:12,520 Speaker 1: you keep talking to me, you're gonna get the white 631 00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:24,200 Speaker 1: sheets slapped out, white chet. That's keep on talking, fellow. 632 00:42:24,239 --> 00:42:28,160 Speaker 1: What you need to do it shut your piehole right shut? Okay, 633 00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:34,279 Speaker 1: shut your piehole. Yeah. Hey, hey, these people say, these 634 00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:36,919 Speaker 1: Chris say when they can't cut. Let me tell you something. 635 00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:50,160 Speaker 1: Jesus turned over table too, Let's relieve that. Okay. Let 636 00:42:50,200 --> 00:42:55,239 Speaker 1: me tell all you ninjas something ever last one of 637 00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:58,160 Speaker 1: you ninja's out here. Hear me when I say it. 638 00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:08,520 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but why he's so loud his delivery ahead? Yeah, okay, 639 00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:10,560 Speaker 1: come on, see if you got to close this one out. 640 00:43:10,680 --> 00:43:17,279 Speaker 1: Things Christians say when they can't cuss? How close can 641 00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:20,399 Speaker 1: I get? Don't you get that right up on the wall? 642 00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:24,600 Speaker 1: Right up? Man? Get the knock up and see who's 643 00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:32,120 Speaker 1: at that door. I really thought we are right right 644 00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:36,000 Speaker 1: up right to it. Baby baby, that's number three. A 645 00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:44,759 Speaker 1: you nail right there, just number three. Yeah, that's well, 646 00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:54,560 Speaker 1: that was a cluster fluff. One coming three more Shenanigan's 647 00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:57,719 Speaker 1: nephew in the building with today's pranking. Right after this, 648 00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:03,600 Speaker 1: you're listening Morning show coming up at the top of 649 00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:06,839 Speaker 1: the hour, right about four minutes after today's strawberry letter. 650 00:44:06,920 --> 00:44:10,200 Speaker 1: But up next, nephew, Tommy right here with today's frank 651 00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:13,360 Speaker 1: phone call. What you got, nef and I got that 652 00:44:13,680 --> 00:44:30,080 Speaker 1: hp P p P Husband Protection program? Whoa husband protection program? 653 00:44:30,200 --> 00:44:35,759 Speaker 1: Let's go, let's go. Kno, Hi, Morgan, my name is Josh. 654 00:44:36,239 --> 00:44:39,560 Speaker 1: I'm with HPP giving you a call. You are married 655 00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:45,040 Speaker 1: to uh mister Sean to micrrect Ye, you're I'm with HPP. 656 00:44:45,280 --> 00:44:48,480 Speaker 1: We actually pick your husband up from his job today. 657 00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:50,520 Speaker 1: I wanted to give you a call. Are you picking 658 00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:54,480 Speaker 1: up for one? Okay? You're you're his wife, Morgan? Right, Okay. 659 00:44:55,400 --> 00:44:57,440 Speaker 1: I actually just wanted to make sure that he's okay 660 00:44:57,600 --> 00:45:00,520 Speaker 1: and we're worried about his work. Hey, what happened? Well, 661 00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:03,360 Speaker 1: nothing's happened as of right now. We've had a conversation 662 00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:05,680 Speaker 1: with him and we've checked him out. He's definitely okay. 663 00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:07,759 Speaker 1: But why why are you picking him up? Though? I 664 00:45:07,800 --> 00:45:10,520 Speaker 1: don't I don't understand what? All right, let's just just 665 00:45:10,640 --> 00:45:12,560 Speaker 1: come down hang on a second. I got a couple 666 00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:15,160 Speaker 1: of questions for you. Your husband he is about what 667 00:45:15,440 --> 00:45:18,720 Speaker 1: five nine correct? Right? And you would agree that Sean 668 00:45:18,840 --> 00:45:21,480 Speaker 1: ways about one hundred and seventy five pounds. Is that 669 00:45:21,520 --> 00:45:26,239 Speaker 1: sound about right? But yes, okay, here's another question. Now 670 00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:30,280 Speaker 1: exactly Morgan hot tall? Are you? I'm five nine as well? Okay, 671 00:45:30,680 --> 00:45:33,399 Speaker 1: And if you don't mind, I know it's a little 672 00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:35,600 Speaker 1: different type of question, but if you don't mind, how 673 00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:38,479 Speaker 1: much do you weigh? I'm like two hundred? Wait a minute? 674 00:45:38,520 --> 00:45:39,960 Speaker 1: What is it? What is it? What is how much 675 00:45:40,000 --> 00:45:42,080 Speaker 1: our way have to do with it? I don't what 676 00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:44,680 Speaker 1: is wrong with him? And where is why? Where is 677 00:45:44,760 --> 00:45:47,319 Speaker 1: he right now? We actually have him, We have him 678 00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:50,160 Speaker 1: in our custody. Him where we have him in our 679 00:45:50,160 --> 00:45:53,040 Speaker 1: custody right now here in our headquarters at HPP. So 680 00:45:54,160 --> 00:45:57,600 Speaker 1: what heck? What is what is then? HPP? Man? HPP 681 00:45:58,120 --> 00:46:03,799 Speaker 1: is Husband Protection Program? Has been protection? I've never I've 682 00:46:03,880 --> 00:46:05,800 Speaker 1: never heard of such a thing. Why why is he 683 00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:08,279 Speaker 1: in here? Well? The problem we have and we've been 684 00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:11,640 Speaker 1: getting some actual complaints and whatnot, and not necessarily from him, 685 00:46:12,200 --> 00:46:15,520 Speaker 1: but that you've been bullying your husband. Okay, you know what. 686 00:46:15,600 --> 00:46:17,759 Speaker 1: I'm at my job and I'm gonna need to hold 687 00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:25,480 Speaker 1: on one second so I can go in here. What 688 00:46:25,719 --> 00:46:28,440 Speaker 1: what what did you say? Have you and uh Sean 689 00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:32,200 Speaker 1: had any arguments at all lately? How we had we're married. 690 00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:34,400 Speaker 1: Have we had arguments? Of course, he had arguments. What 691 00:46:34,840 --> 00:46:36,840 Speaker 1: what does that have to do with anything? Have you 692 00:46:36,920 --> 00:46:41,520 Speaker 1: guys had any altercation? Any altercation? Yes? What kind of altercations? 693 00:46:41,719 --> 00:46:44,960 Speaker 1: Have you been bullying your husband in a physical way? 694 00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:48,800 Speaker 1: How I've been bullying him? Bullying him? You've been have 695 00:46:49,000 --> 00:46:52,439 Speaker 1: you been happened to bullying him? For somebody to turn 696 00:46:52,520 --> 00:46:57,799 Speaker 1: in and give us? Who? Who you need to? Let 697 00:46:57,840 --> 00:47:00,040 Speaker 1: me talk to him. I can't put him on this 698 00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:01,560 Speaker 1: is what I'm talking about. When that is what you're 699 00:47:01,600 --> 00:47:04,200 Speaker 1: talking about. You pulled me at my job, put off 700 00:47:04,239 --> 00:47:08,240 Speaker 1: an HPP crap and somebody turning somebody in for some arguments. 701 00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:10,719 Speaker 1: We're married. Who are you freaking know who's married and 702 00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:13,440 Speaker 1: does not argue? I understand you, man, but it is 703 00:47:13,520 --> 00:47:16,759 Speaker 1: my job to protect husbands that are getting bullied by 704 00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:22,960 Speaker 1: and wise this is o're talking with your name? Let 705 00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:24,520 Speaker 1: me speak to him. I'm not at liberty and let 706 00:47:24,560 --> 00:47:25,920 Speaker 1: you speak to him right now. To you, what you're 707 00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:28,080 Speaker 1: not gonna do is bullying me as well? And why 708 00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:29,880 Speaker 1: am I trying to bully you? I want to know 709 00:47:29,920 --> 00:47:31,799 Speaker 1: what coming? Oh? And why do you call me at 710 00:47:31,840 --> 00:47:33,239 Speaker 1: my job with some crap about him being at some 711 00:47:33,320 --> 00:47:36,560 Speaker 1: headquarters for HPP. I app isn't a hum of AHPP. 712 00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:38,759 Speaker 1: And my husband is not need protecting from anybody sucking 713 00:47:38,800 --> 00:47:42,520 Speaker 1: that make it is husband protection program. You've been bullying 714 00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:46,480 Speaker 1: your husband, You've been using bad language with y'all. I'm 715 00:47:49,360 --> 00:47:51,880 Speaker 1: I want to talk to him, my husband. When he 716 00:47:52,000 --> 00:47:53,840 Speaker 1: said I do, he said, I do. Set whatever she 717 00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:55,440 Speaker 1: said to me whenever she's talking about hi Irish, he 718 00:47:55,440 --> 00:47:57,680 Speaker 1: said this, and next he gets and if he has 719 00:47:57,680 --> 00:47:59,680 Speaker 1: the problems with arguing with me, sitty to start his 720 00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:01,480 Speaker 1: cry and he won't be in an argument and you 721 00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:03,799 Speaker 1: tell him that you see, this is what we're talking about. 722 00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:06,080 Speaker 1: This is why he's been picked up today and brought 723 00:48:06,160 --> 00:48:08,719 Speaker 1: into our custody so that he would be definitely protected 724 00:48:08,960 --> 00:48:11,240 Speaker 1: from you. You know what if he gets a profession 725 00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:13,120 Speaker 1: and easing your company, ask you can keep him me 726 00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:16,080 Speaker 1: high back. Well, here's what we're gonna do. Somebody's gonna 727 00:48:16,080 --> 00:48:17,759 Speaker 1: be picking you up, bringing you in so we can 728 00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:21,360 Speaker 1: have a conversation, bringing me now there, what what do 729 00:48:21,440 --> 00:48:23,640 Speaker 1: you think this is? We're bringing you in so we 730 00:48:23,719 --> 00:48:26,560 Speaker 1: can have a conversation with you. Let me explain something 731 00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:28,920 Speaker 1: to you, ma'am. We will be bringing you in having 732 00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:33,200 Speaker 1: a conversation what you bring sh You're gonna be coming 733 00:48:33,280 --> 00:48:35,040 Speaker 1: in and you're gonna do a company where we can 734 00:48:36,480 --> 00:48:40,040 Speaker 1: any anybody wants or you physically or mentally abusing your husband. 735 00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:41,239 Speaker 1: You know what, You don't have to kick me up, 736 00:48:41,280 --> 00:48:42,719 Speaker 1: tell me where you I will come to you want 737 00:48:42,760 --> 00:48:44,520 Speaker 1: to pick me up, I will, I will come down there. 738 00:48:44,719 --> 00:48:47,000 Speaker 1: I will hear you in him at the same time 739 00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:50,560 Speaker 1: you as we're coming about, weren't I'm going to ask 740 00:48:50,600 --> 00:48:53,320 Speaker 1: you a serious question. It sounds like a consequence of 741 00:48:53,400 --> 00:48:55,680 Speaker 1: he doesn't listen to you. Conseq I mean, I mean, 742 00:48:55,960 --> 00:48:58,040 Speaker 1: what are you doing? Are you treating your husband like 743 00:48:58,160 --> 00:49:00,600 Speaker 1: a child? What are you doing to him? Actually like 744 00:49:00,680 --> 00:49:02,440 Speaker 1: the parts, don't get treated like the cat. If he 745 00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:04,000 Speaker 1: has the problem with how I see him, you talk 746 00:49:04,040 --> 00:49:06,399 Speaker 1: to him behind He asked, Let me ask you something, 747 00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:08,320 Speaker 1: miss Morgan. What do you do for a lever in 748 00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:10,719 Speaker 1: head of security at this building and about to cross 749 00:49:10,719 --> 00:49:13,760 Speaker 1: security on me because I'm loud in this room. Because 750 00:49:13,760 --> 00:49:15,719 Speaker 1: you're a head of security, so you don't know all 751 00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:18,520 Speaker 1: about putting people in choke calls and how to apprehend 752 00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:21,080 Speaker 1: the person. Don't is my job? Yes? I did? So 753 00:49:21,239 --> 00:49:24,839 Speaker 1: are you doing that at home? What I'm not gonna 754 00:49:24,920 --> 00:49:27,719 Speaker 1: tell you again. I don't harm that man in any way, 755 00:49:28,000 --> 00:49:30,520 Speaker 1: no ways, have I ever what I ever? Nor has 756 00:49:30,640 --> 00:49:32,719 Speaker 1: he need? He needs to get him behind in his 757 00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:35,040 Speaker 1: car and got to work. We have builds to things. 758 00:49:35,080 --> 00:49:37,239 Speaker 1: Don't ask high for this crap. I got one more 759 00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:38,880 Speaker 1: thing I need to say to you or you're listening, 760 00:49:39,080 --> 00:49:40,560 Speaker 1: you have nothing to say to me, But then you 761 00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:41,920 Speaker 1: want to put my husband on It's t to Let 762 00:49:41,960 --> 00:49:44,719 Speaker 1: me talk to him about this short shut, sit down, 763 00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:48,279 Speaker 1: sit down show. Get him hitting him the phone, Let 764 00:49:48,360 --> 00:49:51,040 Speaker 1: me talk. I need to understand what had shot I 765 00:49:51,200 --> 00:49:53,920 Speaker 1: got it. Let me finish the talk conversation with Okay, No, 766 00:49:54,000 --> 00:49:55,560 Speaker 1: you don't need to sinish. Let me finish on his 767 00:49:55,880 --> 00:49:59,160 Speaker 1: putting him on the phone. Hello, I have one more 768 00:49:59,239 --> 00:50:02,360 Speaker 1: thing to ask you. Are you listening? Are you listening? 769 00:50:02,760 --> 00:50:06,720 Speaker 1: Go ahead? This is nephew taught me from the Steve 770 00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:23,080 Speaker 1: Harby Morning Show. You just got breaked by your husband, Sean, Hello, 771 00:50:25,560 --> 00:50:33,839 Speaker 1: you've what are you? Where are you at right now? Man? 772 00:50:33,920 --> 00:50:35,799 Speaker 1: I was worried about the people at your job. Where 773 00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:39,520 Speaker 1: you at? I'm back here in this closet, swearing like 774 00:50:39,640 --> 00:50:46,760 Speaker 1: a freaking pig in heat dripping makeup everywhere. I cannot 775 00:50:46,800 --> 00:50:51,520 Speaker 1: believe this. Oh god man, Okay, baby, I gotta ask you, 776 00:50:51,680 --> 00:50:54,760 Speaker 1: what is the baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio 777 00:50:54,880 --> 00:51:06,319 Speaker 1: show in the land, the Steve Morning Show. You too much, 778 00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:14,839 Speaker 1: you know, y'all gotta give it to me now, Okay, 779 00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:17,240 Speaker 1: let me ask you something. Don't even ask me because 780 00:51:17,280 --> 00:51:20,960 Speaker 1: I love it. You just ask and I appreciate that, Jake, 781 00:51:21,280 --> 00:51:23,000 Speaker 1: you know I need that kind of love and support. 782 00:51:23,120 --> 00:51:24,920 Speaker 1: Let me ask y'all something, though. Who is it with 783 00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:26,919 Speaker 1: it that you would Who is it that you think 784 00:51:27,040 --> 00:51:31,640 Speaker 1: I can't prank? Give me that put me to a challenge? 785 00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:38,200 Speaker 1: Who do you think I can't prank Trumpama? Obama and Trump? 786 00:51:38,560 --> 00:51:46,600 Speaker 1: Neither one? Michael Jory's wolf what I'm just challenging, Oprah, 787 00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:50,120 Speaker 1: I got challenges for you. I'm not gonna I'm not okay, okay, 788 00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:51,920 Speaker 1: I'm not. First of all, I'm not gonna prank. Mis 789 00:51:52,080 --> 00:51:56,520 Speaker 1: Open's saying you can. What is you asking us the 790 00:51:56,640 --> 00:51:59,040 Speaker 1: question for? If you don't like none of I answers. 791 00:52:00,280 --> 00:52:03,400 Speaker 1: I like Jordan, I could do Jordan, I could do Flavor, 792 00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:12,160 Speaker 1: can't Kyler Pierre? No, that's okay? Why why are you. 793 00:52:12,320 --> 00:52:14,200 Speaker 1: Why are you doing people that you know might help me? 794 00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:16,239 Speaker 1: Why are you doing that? I mean you say you 795 00:52:16,360 --> 00:52:18,600 Speaker 1: tell me who who you can't pranking? If I wanted 796 00:52:18,640 --> 00:52:21,760 Speaker 1: to name who you could prank, it'd be easy. Can't practical, 797 00:52:21,920 --> 00:52:32,319 Speaker 1: can't bet you can't prank? Will packer? Will pretty well? Yeah, 798 00:52:33,920 --> 00:52:40,440 Speaker 1: speak to quill you need all right? Thank you of you. 799 00:52:40,920 --> 00:52:44,439 Speaker 1: Coming up next, it's the Strawberry Letter for today. We'll 800 00:52:44,480 --> 00:52:48,080 Speaker 1: get into it right after this. You're listening to Steve 801 00:52:48,239 --> 00:52:52,839 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. It is time for today's Strawberry Letter. 802 00:52:52,920 --> 00:52:55,719 Speaker 1: And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, 803 00:52:55,840 --> 00:52:59,919 Speaker 1: parenting and more, please please please submit your Strawberry letters 804 00:52:59,920 --> 00:53:06,480 Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey FM and click submit Strawberry Letter. Buckle up, 805 00:53:06,760 --> 00:53:10,240 Speaker 1: hold on tight. Here it is Strawberry Letter. Thank you nephew. 806 00:53:10,360 --> 00:53:15,560 Speaker 1: Subjects Torn between my daddy and my man. Here's Stephen Shirley. 807 00:53:15,680 --> 00:53:18,160 Speaker 1: I am a thirty two year old single mom of 808 00:53:18,239 --> 00:53:20,560 Speaker 1: a sixteen year old and I still live at home 809 00:53:20,840 --> 00:53:24,040 Speaker 1: with my eighty four year old father. I have never 810 00:53:24,160 --> 00:53:26,680 Speaker 1: moved out because I never wanted my daughter to suffer 811 00:53:26,719 --> 00:53:30,080 Speaker 1: through any hardships or go without having the things she 812 00:53:30,200 --> 00:53:33,120 Speaker 1: wants and needs. My dad takes good care of us, 813 00:53:33,239 --> 00:53:36,960 Speaker 1: so that helps me save money. Here's a problem. I've 814 00:53:37,000 --> 00:53:39,080 Speaker 1: been dating a man for four years and we have 815 00:53:39,160 --> 00:53:42,560 Speaker 1: a great relationship, but he is pressuring me to move 816 00:53:42,640 --> 00:53:46,080 Speaker 1: in with him with my daughter. Financially, I am not 817 00:53:46,239 --> 00:53:49,200 Speaker 1: ready to start splitting the expenses with him because I 818 00:53:49,320 --> 00:53:51,960 Speaker 1: have a few small bills to pay off first. My 819 00:53:52,120 --> 00:53:55,080 Speaker 1: boyfriend keeps telling me that it's not a problem because 820 00:53:55,200 --> 00:53:57,920 Speaker 1: he will take care of all the bills. I'm not 821 00:53:58,080 --> 00:54:00,120 Speaker 1: married to him, and I need to be sure or 822 00:54:00,160 --> 00:54:02,399 Speaker 1: if I can take care of myself and my daughter 823 00:54:02,520 --> 00:54:05,200 Speaker 1: if things don't work out with this man. There's also 824 00:54:05,280 --> 00:54:08,080 Speaker 1: a bigger issue that we need to work out through 825 00:54:08,239 --> 00:54:11,719 Speaker 1: before I move in with him. He has told me 826 00:54:12,040 --> 00:54:15,279 Speaker 1: that if we move in together, my dad will not 827 00:54:15,480 --> 00:54:18,040 Speaker 1: be able to come over to our place to visit. 828 00:54:18,320 --> 00:54:20,840 Speaker 1: He stated that my dad has always been rude to 829 00:54:20,960 --> 00:54:23,800 Speaker 1: him and makes him feel uncomfortable, and he will not 830 00:54:24,040 --> 00:54:27,040 Speaker 1: tolerate it in his own home. He also said my 831 00:54:27,239 --> 00:54:30,880 Speaker 1: dad will not be welcome at our family gatherings and outings. 832 00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:34,080 Speaker 1: Now my dad, now, my dad has not been the 833 00:54:34,200 --> 00:54:37,560 Speaker 1: kindest person to my boyfriend and my family, but he 834 00:54:37,840 --> 00:54:40,120 Speaker 1: is still my dad. I don't think I should be 835 00:54:40,239 --> 00:54:43,200 Speaker 1: considering moving in with my boyfriend if this is something 836 00:54:43,280 --> 00:54:45,960 Speaker 1: that we won't compromise on. It seems that he may 837 00:54:46,040 --> 00:54:48,960 Speaker 1: be a little too controlling, especially if he will be 838 00:54:49,080 --> 00:54:51,000 Speaker 1: paying all of the bills. What do you think I 839 00:54:51,080 --> 00:54:55,359 Speaker 1: should do? Stay or go? Stay? I think you should 840 00:54:55,400 --> 00:54:57,920 Speaker 1: stay with your dad or get your own place if 841 00:54:57,960 --> 00:55:00,040 Speaker 1: you can't afford it. I mean, why would you you 842 00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:02,640 Speaker 1: want to go somewhere with someone who feels this way 843 00:55:02,760 --> 00:55:07,200 Speaker 1: about your eighty four year old dad. You're not married 844 00:55:07,239 --> 00:55:09,640 Speaker 1: to this man. You didn't mention that he proposed to 845 00:55:09,719 --> 00:55:12,360 Speaker 1: you or anything. You're not engaged to him, and he 846 00:55:12,520 --> 00:55:16,520 Speaker 1: could be very much controlling. You've been with him for 847 00:55:16,680 --> 00:55:19,919 Speaker 1: four years now, you say, and he's promising that he'll 848 00:55:20,000 --> 00:55:22,800 Speaker 1: take care of your small bills, your few small bills 849 00:55:23,080 --> 00:55:26,320 Speaker 1: if you move in with him. I'm just thinking, in 850 00:55:26,440 --> 00:55:29,319 Speaker 1: four years, why why hasn't he helped you already? I mean, 851 00:55:30,480 --> 00:55:32,680 Speaker 1: that could be one of the reasons your dad doesn't 852 00:55:32,719 --> 00:55:35,800 Speaker 1: like him. I just say, you're a mother. You have 853 00:55:35,880 --> 00:55:37,680 Speaker 1: a sixteen year old daughter. You have to be an 854 00:55:37,719 --> 00:55:40,000 Speaker 1: example for her. I don't think you would once you're 855 00:55:40,160 --> 00:55:43,000 Speaker 1: your sixteen year old. I mean, your daughter you know 856 00:55:43,320 --> 00:55:45,800 Speaker 1: when she becomes of age. Of course, in a situation 857 00:55:45,960 --> 00:55:48,440 Speaker 1: like this, I don't think there's any benefit for you 858 00:55:48,600 --> 00:55:50,480 Speaker 1: right now to move in with this guy. I mean, 859 00:55:50,600 --> 00:55:53,239 Speaker 1: you're thirty two years old, so you have to move 860 00:55:53,280 --> 00:55:56,839 Speaker 1: out one day soon, hopefully and be on your own. 861 00:55:56,920 --> 00:55:58,880 Speaker 1: But you should certainly want it to be with the 862 00:55:59,040 --> 00:56:02,960 Speaker 1: right guy, with the right situation, and that would be 863 00:56:03,160 --> 00:56:05,040 Speaker 1: someone who would at least try to work it out 864 00:56:05,080 --> 00:56:07,040 Speaker 1: with your dad. I mean, not shut him out in 865 00:56:07,120 --> 00:56:09,920 Speaker 1: a vengeful way like this guy's doing. I don't think 866 00:56:09,960 --> 00:56:13,080 Speaker 1: he should turn he should be turning his back on 867 00:56:13,200 --> 00:56:15,520 Speaker 1: your dad. That is your dad, after all. I think 868 00:56:15,600 --> 00:56:17,880 Speaker 1: you should stay where you are for now. You've been 869 00:56:17,920 --> 00:56:21,000 Speaker 1: saving money, save money to move out on your own. Steve, 870 00:56:23,000 --> 00:56:26,040 Speaker 1: this is a no goal for me. You're thirty two 871 00:56:26,120 --> 00:56:29,600 Speaker 1: years old, you got sixteen year old daughter you live with, 872 00:56:29,680 --> 00:56:32,959 Speaker 1: you're eighty four year old father. This man and came along. 873 00:56:33,040 --> 00:56:35,640 Speaker 1: You've been dating for four years now. If y'all gonna 874 00:56:35,640 --> 00:56:38,000 Speaker 1: move in, why don't y'all get married? He just wants 875 00:56:38,000 --> 00:56:41,560 Speaker 1: you to move in, right, I didn't see marriage on here. 876 00:56:41,920 --> 00:56:44,000 Speaker 1: And then you stay with your father because you didn't 877 00:56:44,040 --> 00:56:46,120 Speaker 1: want your daughter to suffer your father takes mer care 878 00:56:46,200 --> 00:56:50,040 Speaker 1: you in four years. I agree with Shirley. This dude 879 00:56:50,080 --> 00:56:52,480 Speaker 1: ain't helped you in four years with the little bills. 880 00:56:53,080 --> 00:56:56,120 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, man, but if you're listening as a man, 881 00:56:56,280 --> 00:56:57,759 Speaker 1: you're talking a man. I ain't gotta help her with 882 00:56:57,880 --> 00:57:00,960 Speaker 1: help bills. Well you don't have to, But can I 883 00:57:01,040 --> 00:57:05,320 Speaker 1: tell you something technically we're supposed to. I don't know 884 00:57:05,440 --> 00:57:08,840 Speaker 1: where this got lost in the good old days, but 885 00:57:09,040 --> 00:57:13,440 Speaker 1: it's obviously lost because you all get together now and 886 00:57:13,640 --> 00:57:16,880 Speaker 1: want to keep everything separate. You join together with a 887 00:57:16,960 --> 00:57:19,360 Speaker 1: person to become one. If you don't want to become one, 888 00:57:19,480 --> 00:57:22,360 Speaker 1: quit joining with these damn people. Now, this dude don't 889 00:57:22,360 --> 00:57:24,680 Speaker 1: here wants you to pull up ranks. Then in here 890 00:57:24,720 --> 00:57:27,880 Speaker 1: he comes when it funker ass. Now, your daddy didn't 891 00:57:27,880 --> 00:57:30,920 Speaker 1: put it in all the hard work, you and your daughter. Now, 892 00:57:31,000 --> 00:57:34,280 Speaker 1: when y'all get together, your damn daddy can't come over here. 893 00:57:34,920 --> 00:57:37,800 Speaker 1: Shelly hit it on the head because let me explain 894 00:57:37,920 --> 00:57:43,720 Speaker 1: something to you. Eighty four, No, eighty four year old man. 895 00:57:44,240 --> 00:57:47,960 Speaker 1: He knows some stuff. He got a feeling about your 896 00:57:48,040 --> 00:57:50,680 Speaker 1: boyfriend first of all four years of coming through that 897 00:57:51,040 --> 00:57:53,480 Speaker 1: he don't like to do because he eighty four, and 898 00:57:53,520 --> 00:57:55,880 Speaker 1: he know how he should be active and he ain't 899 00:57:55,960 --> 00:57:58,800 Speaker 1: seeing that. So now he don't like him, and he 900 00:57:58,880 --> 00:58:02,000 Speaker 1: ain't gonna turn his daughter and his little princess over 901 00:58:02,120 --> 00:58:04,600 Speaker 1: to these dude. That's what he don't like it now, 902 00:58:04,720 --> 00:58:07,920 Speaker 1: Your boyfriend, No, he don't like him, and he feel 903 00:58:08,040 --> 00:58:10,880 Speaker 1: uncomfortable with him not liking him. Now he don't want 904 00:58:10,960 --> 00:58:13,360 Speaker 1: him over at the house because he said he made 905 00:58:13,400 --> 00:58:16,000 Speaker 1: him feel uncomfortable when he comes. You know, why make 906 00:58:16,080 --> 00:58:20,640 Speaker 1: hi feel uncomfortable because he's shady and old dudes know it, 907 00:58:21,640 --> 00:58:23,200 Speaker 1: and they ain't going to play that game with you 908 00:58:23,320 --> 00:58:25,520 Speaker 1: in the house. He said your dad would not be 909 00:58:25,720 --> 00:58:29,640 Speaker 1: welcome at our family gatherings and out it. Hey, man, 910 00:58:29,720 --> 00:58:33,280 Speaker 1: your daddy eighty four. This dude can't pull his man 911 00:58:33,360 --> 00:58:36,840 Speaker 1: who had pants up a little bit tighter for however 912 00:58:37,000 --> 00:58:39,680 Speaker 1: long your daddy got left and at least just be 913 00:58:39,880 --> 00:58:42,880 Speaker 1: cordier to the man. He might not be the greatest 914 00:58:42,920 --> 00:58:47,000 Speaker 1: to him, but to you and that girl, he'd been 915 00:58:47,160 --> 00:58:51,560 Speaker 1: y'alls everything. And if he can't honor and respect the 916 00:58:51,720 --> 00:58:55,480 Speaker 1: fact that this man then lived eighty four years and 917 00:58:55,560 --> 00:58:58,320 Speaker 1: then took care of you when obviously you had the 918 00:58:58,400 --> 00:59:02,960 Speaker 1: baby at sixteen he ain't put you out. He embraced you. Now, man, 919 00:59:03,400 --> 00:59:05,720 Speaker 1: this is not to do, and he just want to 920 00:59:05,760 --> 00:59:08,360 Speaker 1: move you in. You're scared to go. And the reason 921 00:59:08,400 --> 00:59:10,560 Speaker 1: you're scared to go because you don't feel secure with him. 922 00:59:10,920 --> 00:59:14,880 Speaker 1: Oh that's right, man, it's this strawberry letter going this move. 923 00:59:14,960 --> 00:59:21,640 Speaker 1: You know why I goes j here insecure? You know, 924 00:59:21,960 --> 00:59:24,240 Speaker 1: I've been doing this Strawberry letter for years, Michelle, and 925 00:59:24,280 --> 00:59:26,760 Speaker 1: we just been doing it. Her response, my response, and 926 00:59:26,880 --> 00:59:29,280 Speaker 1: all of a sudden I noticed all my damn response. 927 00:59:30,000 --> 00:59:35,600 Speaker 1: I gotta stop and address something. Hold on and bit 928 00:59:35,680 --> 00:59:39,920 Speaker 1: of black Bound. That part two of Steve's a response 929 00:59:40,000 --> 00:59:43,160 Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three after the hours Freshman, you're 930 00:59:43,240 --> 00:59:48,400 Speaker 1: listening show? All right, Steve, come on, Let's recap today's 931 00:59:48,400 --> 00:59:51,240 Speaker 1: strawberry letter. Thirty two year old woman got a sixteen 932 00:59:51,320 --> 00:59:53,400 Speaker 1: year old baby, been living at home with an eighty 933 00:59:53,440 --> 00:59:55,200 Speaker 1: four year old father because she didn't want to move out, 934 00:59:55,200 --> 00:59:57,680 Speaker 1: because she want her daughter to suffer her dad take 935 00:59:57,760 --> 01:00:00,200 Speaker 1: good care of him problems she got. She'd been ain't 936 01:00:00,240 --> 01:00:03,520 Speaker 1: this man for four years. She say, they got a 937 01:00:03,560 --> 01:00:06,560 Speaker 1: great relationship, but he's pressuring me to move in with 938 01:00:06,800 --> 01:00:09,680 Speaker 1: him with my daughter. Now the ladies say she ain't 939 01:00:09,680 --> 01:00:12,040 Speaker 1: ready to do that financially because she ain't ready to 940 01:00:12,120 --> 01:00:15,160 Speaker 1: start splitting expenses with him, because she got a few 941 01:00:15,240 --> 01:00:18,880 Speaker 1: small bills to pay off. And my boyfriend keep telling her, 942 01:00:18,960 --> 01:00:22,240 Speaker 1: Dad ain't no problem. See what's gonna make it the 943 01:00:22,320 --> 01:00:24,520 Speaker 1: difference for you? Now, you could have been helping this 944 01:00:24,640 --> 01:00:28,440 Speaker 1: girl with her financial problem, but you didn't. Now you're 945 01:00:28,480 --> 01:00:31,240 Speaker 1: gonna come move in and I'm gonna help you. He 946 01:00:31,320 --> 01:00:33,439 Speaker 1: hadn't told you that he don't want that you're eighty 947 01:00:33,480 --> 01:00:36,080 Speaker 1: four year old daddy to come nowhere near his house. 948 01:00:36,480 --> 01:00:39,720 Speaker 1: He ain't welcome because he made him feel uncomfortable. You 949 01:00:39,800 --> 01:00:41,760 Speaker 1: know why, they're eighty four year old man making feel 950 01:00:41,840 --> 01:00:46,439 Speaker 1: uncomfortable because eighty four, no, And he hadn't read this dude, 951 01:00:47,080 --> 01:00:49,400 Speaker 1: and he don't like the way head. He ain't got 952 01:00:49,560 --> 01:00:51,960 Speaker 1: enough sense to honor the fact that this is your 953 01:00:52,000 --> 01:00:54,560 Speaker 1: eighty four year old daddy. And how much ever longer 954 01:00:54,600 --> 01:00:57,240 Speaker 1: he got, at least let y'all have y'all time together. 955 01:00:58,160 --> 01:01:03,400 Speaker 1: But that don't suit what he wants. So his standing, trifling, 956 01:01:04,000 --> 01:01:09,959 Speaker 1: non compromising self cinner, he won't all and go his way. Well, 957 01:01:10,280 --> 01:01:13,600 Speaker 1: that's not how it works. You even said your dad 958 01:01:13,640 --> 01:01:17,360 Speaker 1: ain't been the kindest person to your boyfriend because your daddy. No, Now, 959 01:01:17,400 --> 01:01:19,520 Speaker 1: I don't think I should be considering moving in with 960 01:01:19,680 --> 01:01:22,360 Speaker 1: my boyfriend and this is something he won't compromise all 961 01:01:22,520 --> 01:01:25,080 Speaker 1: you shouldn't. So now you can't have relationship with your 962 01:01:25,160 --> 01:01:27,800 Speaker 1: daddy who has always had his arms open to you 963 01:01:27,920 --> 01:01:30,439 Speaker 1: and your daughter to have relationship. And this dude wants 964 01:01:30,440 --> 01:01:34,120 Speaker 1: you to sever that relationship. Who wants that to happen? Man? 965 01:01:34,840 --> 01:01:37,880 Speaker 1: What decent man? So you gotta ask yourself a couple 966 01:01:38,000 --> 01:01:42,520 Speaker 1: questions about your boyfriend. Why won't he do anything to 967 01:01:42,640 --> 01:01:45,600 Speaker 1: make me happy? You've been dating for for you? Why 968 01:01:45,640 --> 01:01:47,880 Speaker 1: don't he marry you? Why don't he help you with 969 01:01:48,000 --> 01:01:51,200 Speaker 1: your bills? Now? What is it about him that your 970 01:01:51,320 --> 01:01:54,640 Speaker 1: daddy know that he don't like about it? Now? Why 971 01:01:54,720 --> 01:01:56,560 Speaker 1: is it he don't want your daddy over to the 972 01:01:56,640 --> 01:01:58,680 Speaker 1: house no more? And don't want your daddy coming to 973 01:01:58,760 --> 01:02:01,480 Speaker 1: no family gatherings? This is eighty four year old man 974 01:02:02,640 --> 01:02:06,479 Speaker 1: that's been holding the family down his entire adult male life. 975 01:02:07,200 --> 01:02:09,640 Speaker 1: Now here, this dude, come, this is not a good 976 01:02:09,680 --> 01:02:13,680 Speaker 1: relationship to get into. If I were you, I would 977 01:02:13,720 --> 01:02:16,280 Speaker 1: say no. And if he can't at least treat your 978 01:02:16,360 --> 01:02:18,680 Speaker 1: father DC. Even if your father is a little rude, 979 01:02:18,760 --> 01:02:24,520 Speaker 1: he old, So it's okay. Yeah, yeah, i'mna tell you 980 01:02:24,680 --> 01:02:27,520 Speaker 1: right now, you're lucky. Wasn't my daddy slick Harving. Let 981 01:02:27,600 --> 01:02:33,400 Speaker 1: me explain something to you. My father man, he didn't 982 01:02:34,440 --> 01:02:37,919 Speaker 1: something about see old dupers at their house. They don't play, 983 01:02:39,440 --> 01:02:43,040 Speaker 1: They don't change nothing at their house. Tommy, your daddy 984 01:02:43,120 --> 01:02:46,560 Speaker 1: was the same way. This is his house. My daddy 985 01:02:46,640 --> 01:02:49,560 Speaker 1: was the same way. This his house. Come in here 986 01:02:49,640 --> 01:02:54,520 Speaker 1: fixing nothing for you. If he don't like you, you're 987 01:02:54,560 --> 01:02:56,800 Speaker 1: gonna find out about it if you come in his house. 988 01:02:57,680 --> 01:03:00,200 Speaker 1: I had a friend of mine that my daddy didn't like. 989 01:03:00,600 --> 01:03:03,720 Speaker 1: He couldn't come past the kitchen. What do you mean, 990 01:03:05,200 --> 01:03:12,840 Speaker 1: Jeffrey Overhill, jeff stay that by that dough. Jeffrey couldn't 991 01:03:12,840 --> 01:03:16,560 Speaker 1: make it in. No, Jeffrey could not come in my 992 01:03:16,680 --> 01:03:18,400 Speaker 1: house because you know we're a little small house. You 993 01:03:18,480 --> 01:03:20,440 Speaker 1: come through the back door. When you open the door 994 01:03:20,480 --> 01:03:23,160 Speaker 1: to refrigerator, you could touch refrigerator when you open the 995 01:03:23,240 --> 01:03:25,280 Speaker 1: door to the left and behind it. I mean you 996 01:03:25,320 --> 01:03:27,800 Speaker 1: could touch the stove to the left, and refrigerator was 997 01:03:27,840 --> 01:03:30,840 Speaker 1: behind the dough. When Jeffrey come in he come in 998 01:03:30,880 --> 01:03:33,080 Speaker 1: the kitchen, he could shut the door, couldn't bring his 999 01:03:33,160 --> 01:03:37,960 Speaker 1: ass out that kitchen because he ain't like Jeffrey. He's 1000 01:03:38,000 --> 01:03:42,240 Speaker 1: still oh yes, my dad had or somebody like that. 1001 01:03:42,320 --> 01:03:44,520 Speaker 1: He ain't like one of my pockets. He always get 1002 01:03:44,560 --> 01:03:46,800 Speaker 1: my pocket to two spoon and say, click these spoons together, 1003 01:03:47,720 --> 01:03:50,200 Speaker 1: my pet. And you know, my friend be like, what, mister, 1004 01:03:50,480 --> 01:03:51,720 Speaker 1: what I'm doing this on? I didn't know where you 1005 01:03:51,800 --> 01:03:54,640 Speaker 1: had my damn hole. Keeps the spoon click, keep them 1006 01:03:55,080 --> 01:04:00,640 Speaker 1: keep clicking them damn spoon right there, bet night, I 1007 01:04:00,720 --> 01:04:03,240 Speaker 1: better hear them spoon, they're time. I'm walking here. Old 1008 01:04:03,320 --> 01:04:07,520 Speaker 1: school is just funny, isn't it. Jeffrey Gil stayed by 1009 01:04:07,600 --> 01:04:11,920 Speaker 1: the damn dog. I'm talking about maybe if four friends 1010 01:04:12,000 --> 01:04:15,080 Speaker 1: come over, Jeffrey come in and he knew, you know, 1011 01:04:15,160 --> 01:04:18,640 Speaker 1: my friend laughed at eight. Gil stayed there, stay there, 1012 01:04:18,760 --> 01:04:24,280 Speaker 1: mister Harvey. I'm right here. Hey, mister Harvey, how miss Harvey, 1013 01:04:25,280 --> 01:04:28,520 Speaker 1: you stay your ad by that dude. Now we're being 1014 01:04:28,560 --> 01:04:30,600 Speaker 1: there for ten minutes. They'd be waiting on me anything. 1015 01:04:31,200 --> 01:04:33,640 Speaker 1: He could not come past that dope, man, don't walk 1016 01:04:33,680 --> 01:04:39,080 Speaker 1: past it. Fitderd. That was this mark like Jeffrey's parents 1017 01:04:39,880 --> 01:04:43,120 Speaker 1: did they know his parents. Nah, Jeffrey Jeffrey lived one 1018 01:04:43,240 --> 01:04:46,600 Speaker 1: hundred and fourteen. My dad ain't talking nobody over over there. 1019 01:04:50,600 --> 01:04:53,920 Speaker 1: You know, we don't go far. Hey man, my daddy 1020 01:04:54,000 --> 01:05:00,000 Speaker 1: was clear. We won twelve street people, we want twelve streets. 1021 01:05:00,920 --> 01:05:02,560 Speaker 1: We don't go over there one fourteen. I don't know 1022 01:05:02,600 --> 01:05:07,480 Speaker 1: what they're doing around. Ride your bike over there. You 1023 01:05:07,520 --> 01:05:10,000 Speaker 1: can go over there. But there ain't me, nobody, Mama, 1024 01:05:10,080 --> 01:05:12,520 Speaker 1: dad over there. I don't know them. People don't know 1025 01:05:12,560 --> 01:05:19,640 Speaker 1: what they're doing over there. That's funny. It's the truth. 1026 01:05:21,040 --> 01:05:25,480 Speaker 1: They had us. We don't go around now. We're one 1027 01:05:25,560 --> 01:05:28,040 Speaker 1: hundred twelfth street. People were on the twelve street people. 1028 01:05:28,960 --> 01:05:30,800 Speaker 1: I know there. I know how they keep their yard. 1029 01:05:32,200 --> 01:05:34,200 Speaker 1: I know how the garbage can look. I know when 1030 01:05:34,200 --> 01:05:36,680 Speaker 1: they put the trash out on the curve. I know 1031 01:05:36,840 --> 01:05:40,120 Speaker 1: these people. Yeah, I don't like where the garbage can't 1032 01:05:40,160 --> 01:05:41,960 Speaker 1: look over there, all being at all up and there. 1033 01:05:45,400 --> 01:05:47,400 Speaker 1: The hell of a reason not to like the families 1034 01:05:47,560 --> 01:05:52,920 Speaker 1: the way your damn garbage can't they got dance on. 1035 01:05:53,080 --> 01:05:56,680 Speaker 1: They can't. They ain't got no ain't got no lead 1036 01:05:56,840 --> 01:05:59,960 Speaker 1: where they live. All right, listen, guys, we you can email, 1037 01:06:00,000 --> 01:06:03,000 Speaker 1: tell us or instagram us your thoughts on today's Strawberry letter. 1038 01:06:03,040 --> 01:06:08,240 Speaker 1: We gotta get out of you. Go to Steve Harvey FM. 1039 01:06:08,680 --> 01:06:12,760 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Morning Show. All right, Sometimes 1040 01:06:12,840 --> 01:06:19,640 Speaker 1: we all find ourselves in a conversation, okay, be a political, scientific, educational, financial, 1041 01:06:19,760 --> 01:06:23,720 Speaker 1: even hip hop pop culture based conversations where we just 1042 01:06:23,880 --> 01:06:26,960 Speaker 1: have no clue, I mean clue less to what the 1043 01:06:27,040 --> 01:06:31,080 Speaker 1: person is talking about. Okay, So so guy sure to 1044 01:06:31,160 --> 01:06:36,600 Speaker 1: do with sports? Busted? So do you guys chime in 1045 01:06:36,720 --> 01:06:39,959 Speaker 1: and ask people to to get you up to speed 1046 01:06:40,080 --> 01:06:42,760 Speaker 1: or do you just not in agreement like you know, 1047 01:06:43,160 --> 01:06:46,320 Speaker 1: you know, like I actually get into conversation. I wanted 1048 01:06:46,320 --> 01:06:50,120 Speaker 1: to start with you st Yes, I get into coation 1049 01:06:50,720 --> 01:06:52,840 Speaker 1: like bringing up a subject or you know, I ain't 1050 01:06:52,840 --> 01:06:57,800 Speaker 1: got nothing now, I don't know nothing about it. Engineering 1051 01:06:58,000 --> 01:07:01,960 Speaker 1: making a bridge, oh man. You know, me and my 1052 01:07:02,120 --> 01:07:04,440 Speaker 1: father man used to work construction. You know, I used 1053 01:07:04,440 --> 01:07:07,760 Speaker 1: to work on bridge. We had the cracks in the bridge, 1054 01:07:08,600 --> 01:07:11,680 Speaker 1: so I knew all about the structural design over bridge, 1055 01:07:11,800 --> 01:07:15,400 Speaker 1: what called the fractor spaces in it. I just didn't 1056 01:07:15,480 --> 01:07:17,840 Speaker 1: left that. Yeah, did you or your father go to 1057 01:07:18,120 --> 01:07:25,040 Speaker 1: engineering school, I mean engineering and bridge a construction company 1058 01:07:25,240 --> 01:07:27,400 Speaker 1: or oh no, no, no, no, Now we work for 1059 01:07:27,480 --> 01:07:31,680 Speaker 1: this Frank Buddy, Frank Buddy contract. Have you ever driven 1060 01:07:31,800 --> 01:07:34,120 Speaker 1: over in bridge? Yeah, I've been a lot of free 1061 01:07:34,280 --> 01:07:36,840 Speaker 1: That's how we knew how they cracked. You know, structural 1062 01:07:36,920 --> 01:07:39,360 Speaker 1: engineering position is what we would take hold was the 1063 01:07:39,480 --> 01:07:43,680 Speaker 1: uprooted problem that diverted the situation into a cracking. First, 1064 01:07:44,480 --> 01:07:47,880 Speaker 1: he sounds good. I can't know what he's talking about. 1065 01:07:48,160 --> 01:07:51,360 Speaker 1: There was like a board game, like the go ahead, 1066 01:07:51,440 --> 01:07:54,360 Speaker 1: go an call. I was gonna ask him though, surely, so, 1067 01:07:54,520 --> 01:07:58,160 Speaker 1: how would you what would you recommend to update a bridge? Well, 1068 01:07:58,200 --> 01:08:02,880 Speaker 1: I think update is very bridge. Golden Bride Bridge has 1069 01:08:02,960 --> 01:08:06,840 Speaker 1: been needing updates and repairing. You have been several earthquakes 1070 01:08:06,920 --> 01:08:09,760 Speaker 1: as we reaking the foundation. But I think what we're 1071 01:08:09,800 --> 01:08:11,000 Speaker 1: gonna have to do is we're gonna have to do 1072 01:08:11,080 --> 01:08:12,560 Speaker 1: a section at a time. I think we're gonna to 1073 01:08:12,600 --> 01:08:14,400 Speaker 1: break that bridge in half. So we had just one 1074 01:08:14,440 --> 01:08:17,080 Speaker 1: way traffic on one way, and then once you get 1075 01:08:17,120 --> 01:08:19,479 Speaker 1: the one one lane blocked off and then you can 1076 01:08:19,520 --> 01:08:22,240 Speaker 1: do the restructure work on the other side, and then 1077 01:08:22,280 --> 01:08:25,280 Speaker 1: you reinforce it up under with welding beings and that 1078 01:08:25,400 --> 01:08:27,680 Speaker 1: are joining back together. That way, they'll fix that whole thing. 1079 01:08:29,400 --> 01:08:33,519 Speaker 1: You mentioned earthquakes. Um, I was wondering. You know, we're 1080 01:08:33,560 --> 01:08:36,280 Speaker 1: out here in La. What you know that a lot 1081 01:08:36,320 --> 01:08:39,200 Speaker 1: of seismatologists have been on the news lately saying there's 1082 01:08:39,240 --> 01:08:42,639 Speaker 1: a possibility that there could be an earthquake coming up soon? 1083 01:08:43,160 --> 01:08:46,639 Speaker 1: You agree with that? Four point seven? A four point seven? 1084 01:08:47,320 --> 01:08:50,439 Speaker 1: What are you basing that on? Yeah, because lads was 1085 01:08:50,479 --> 01:08:56,360 Speaker 1: four point six you predict? Are you a seismatologist? Find 1086 01:08:56,400 --> 01:08:58,920 Speaker 1: any chance? So you have? You know anybody that is? No, 1087 01:08:59,320 --> 01:09:13,000 Speaker 1: I'm a quaker, Holly, Yeah, so far, so good. Yeah, 1088 01:09:13,520 --> 01:09:17,639 Speaker 1: all right, we'll be back with more of the Steve 1089 01:09:17,680 --> 01:09:25,040 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening to the 1090 01:09:25,160 --> 01:09:28,240 Speaker 1: guys are here. They're gonna break down. You know you've 1091 01:09:28,280 --> 01:09:32,920 Speaker 1: had good sex when dot dot dot, I'm gonna do 1092 01:09:33,000 --> 01:09:35,200 Speaker 1: a couple and then I know the guy's gonna jump in. 1093 01:09:35,439 --> 01:09:39,200 Speaker 1: I know the time a lot of people have been 1094 01:09:39,280 --> 01:09:41,640 Speaker 1: getting used to one another, and I just don't like 1095 01:09:41,840 --> 01:09:45,320 Speaker 1: time it rested. Damn them so that they've been thrown 1096 01:09:45,400 --> 01:09:48,800 Speaker 1: down some good love it. You know you have had 1097 01:09:49,000 --> 01:09:54,080 Speaker 1: some good sex when you wake up with one soft 1098 01:09:54,080 --> 01:10:03,439 Speaker 1: phone like, damn, what the hell happened? Where's my son? 1099 01:10:04,200 --> 01:10:07,719 Speaker 1: There's another one. You know you've had some good ass 1100 01:10:07,960 --> 01:10:17,439 Speaker 1: loving when both of y'all wake up between the two mattresses, like, yeah, 1101 01:10:17,560 --> 01:10:21,640 Speaker 1: the mattresses on top. I got two more, I got 1102 01:10:21,680 --> 01:10:24,400 Speaker 1: two mores, the one you know, just for the men, 1103 01:10:24,600 --> 01:10:28,240 Speaker 1: just for the men. You have had some good a 1104 01:10:28,880 --> 01:10:32,839 Speaker 1: loving when you wake up you look in the mirror 1105 01:10:32,960 --> 01:10:37,960 Speaker 1: and you got on her eyelash like, damn, this was 1106 01:10:38,000 --> 01:10:41,719 Speaker 1: good boy good. Yeah, I got woman. I got woman. 1107 01:10:41,800 --> 01:10:46,960 Speaker 1: You're right. You know you have had some good loving, 1108 01:10:47,920 --> 01:10:51,080 Speaker 1: good ass love when you wake up and both of 1109 01:10:51,200 --> 01:10:54,040 Speaker 1: y'all is at the bottom of the bed, like, how 1110 01:10:54,120 --> 01:11:02,360 Speaker 1: the hell what is it? I know you got one. 1111 01:11:02,520 --> 01:11:05,559 Speaker 1: Anybody got one, job and bring it, bring it, bringing 1112 01:11:05,960 --> 01:11:12,040 Speaker 1: you good. You know you had some good loving when 1113 01:11:12,080 --> 01:11:15,760 Speaker 1: you knocked all her medical medication off the Nightstan, it's 1114 01:11:15,800 --> 01:11:19,599 Speaker 1: all the pills is everywhere. We don't know which one 1115 01:11:19,680 --> 01:11:23,640 Speaker 1: to take. I love it. I love it when you 1116 01:11:23,720 --> 01:11:28,479 Speaker 1: got you know, you know when you have some good 1117 01:11:28,560 --> 01:11:35,240 Speaker 1: loving and you just look at her and sake your mama, 1118 01:11:37,800 --> 01:11:48,720 Speaker 1: what what generational love? It bing? You know you know 1119 01:11:48,880 --> 01:11:51,360 Speaker 1: you didn't have some good loving when you wake up 1120 01:11:51,439 --> 01:11:54,960 Speaker 1: the next morning and call into work and you your 1121 01:11:55,120 --> 01:12:02,920 Speaker 1: job ain't been open, sister thirteen. I ain't gonna make 1122 01:12:02,960 --> 01:12:10,640 Speaker 1: it a day, all right. You know, no, you have 1123 01:12:10,920 --> 01:12:15,880 Speaker 1: had some good loving when you wake up and there's 1124 01:12:15,880 --> 01:12:19,000 Speaker 1: a hot blue gun in your hand and it's still on, 1125 01:12:19,320 --> 01:12:27,760 Speaker 1: like what day hell. You know you had some good 1126 01:12:27,840 --> 01:12:31,200 Speaker 1: sex when you kick over a candle in the middle 1127 01:12:31,240 --> 01:12:41,639 Speaker 1: of sex and y'all turn into firefighter. Alright, alright, alright. 1128 01:12:42,120 --> 01:12:46,120 Speaker 1: You know you had some good love it when you 1129 01:12:46,280 --> 01:12:47,920 Speaker 1: in the middle love it and look Hoo in the 1130 01:12:48,040 --> 01:12:51,000 Speaker 1: eyes and say, you know what, I'm gonna buy you 1131 01:12:51,160 --> 01:12:56,920 Speaker 1: some money. I God, I'm gonna buy you some money. 1132 01:12:56,960 --> 01:13:02,320 Speaker 1: I ain't me. You know you didn't have some good 1133 01:13:02,439 --> 01:13:05,639 Speaker 1: loving when both of y'all jump up and start washing 1134 01:13:05,760 --> 01:13:08,600 Speaker 1: your hands and it ain't got nothing to do with corona. 1135 01:13:12,160 --> 01:13:15,439 Speaker 1: I got one more. I got one more, and then 1136 01:13:15,479 --> 01:13:18,200 Speaker 1: you close that one more. You know you have had 1137 01:13:18,360 --> 01:13:22,040 Speaker 1: some good loving when you wake up and there's a 1138 01:13:22,200 --> 01:13:34,679 Speaker 1: happy face on your ass. You load it up, Steve, 1139 01:13:34,840 --> 01:13:37,479 Speaker 1: loaded out, man. We know you didn't have some good 1140 01:13:37,600 --> 01:13:41,599 Speaker 1: loving when the family is down there having breakfast doing 1141 01:13:41,760 --> 01:13:44,439 Speaker 1: quarantine and you and your wife looking at the kids 1142 01:13:44,479 --> 01:13:48,920 Speaker 1: and go, what y'all looking at us for? We're looking 1143 01:13:48,920 --> 01:14:03,400 Speaker 1: at off grown folks. All right, coming up next over 1144 01:14:03,520 --> 01:14:10,040 Speaker 1: here that the dope right after this you're listening to show. 1145 01:14:12,160 --> 01:14:15,360 Speaker 1: You know what, Carla, I'm so happy that Jennifer Hudson 1146 01:14:15,479 --> 01:14:17,720 Speaker 1: was our special guest. I just love her and she's 1147 01:14:17,800 --> 01:14:21,160 Speaker 1: getting her just due now because she was our special 1148 01:14:21,200 --> 01:14:23,240 Speaker 1: guest yesterday, as I mentioned, But she's getting her just 1149 01:14:23,479 --> 01:14:27,040 Speaker 1: due starring in the Respect movie, you know, singing her 1150 01:14:27,160 --> 01:14:32,240 Speaker 1: heart out, bringing to life. Yeah, I put some respect 1151 01:14:32,360 --> 01:14:35,040 Speaker 1: on the movie. Her name, the queen of soul everything. 1152 01:14:35,200 --> 01:14:39,360 Speaker 1: I'm so excited to see this movie. I know you are. Girl. 1153 01:14:39,560 --> 01:14:41,840 Speaker 1: Can't wait. I can't wait till we get off work. 1154 01:14:44,720 --> 01:14:47,720 Speaker 1: I Am got it going to see Respect. I'm just 1155 01:14:47,920 --> 01:14:51,120 Speaker 1: so excited. You know we, like you said yesterday, Jennifer 1156 01:14:51,240 --> 01:14:54,519 Speaker 1: Hudson was our special guest. We had girl talk. Yes, 1157 01:14:55,000 --> 01:14:58,760 Speaker 1: it's fun. Yeah, we had girl talk respect, but with 1158 01:14:58,960 --> 01:15:03,400 Speaker 1: Jennifer Hudson, yes, today and um, it was just awesome 1159 01:15:03,520 --> 01:15:06,120 Speaker 1: for her to tell us what we can expect from 1160 01:15:06,160 --> 01:15:09,040 Speaker 1: the movie. We've talked to her about, you know, the 1161 01:15:09,160 --> 01:15:12,639 Speaker 1: young generation, schooling them on what they can get out 1162 01:15:12,680 --> 01:15:15,720 Speaker 1: of the movie, the history and the knowledge, because you 1163 01:15:15,800 --> 01:15:18,960 Speaker 1: know what, with these young kids, they're on TikTok all 1164 01:15:19,000 --> 01:15:21,840 Speaker 1: the time, and they hear these older songs. Like my daughter, 1165 01:15:21,920 --> 01:15:24,240 Speaker 1: she'll tell me about a song and my husband and 1166 01:15:24,280 --> 01:15:26,320 Speaker 1: I'll be like, you're in a song is old? Now 1167 01:15:27,240 --> 01:15:30,960 Speaker 1: we try to school though. So that's just one angle 1168 01:15:31,120 --> 01:15:34,280 Speaker 1: that she talked about. So again, ye, who's in the 1169 01:15:34,360 --> 01:15:39,719 Speaker 1: movie Marlon Wayans, Mary J. Blige. Forrest Whittaker plays her father, 1170 01:15:39,960 --> 01:15:44,120 Speaker 1: Reverend Field Marylin Marlon Wayans taking a dramatic turn in 1171 01:15:44,240 --> 01:15:47,960 Speaker 1: this movie. So Respect is out today. Make sure you 1172 01:15:48,120 --> 01:15:50,680 Speaker 1: go check it out and give show Jennifer Hudson and 1173 01:15:50,800 --> 01:15:52,800 Speaker 1: the Queen of Souls some love. We'll be back with 1174 01:15:52,920 --> 01:15:55,120 Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. 1175 01:15:55,760 --> 01:16:01,560 Speaker 1: You're listening to show. Sod and Steve have dogs. So 1176 01:16:01,720 --> 01:16:06,639 Speaker 1: the stamm doesn't have a dog dog? Na um, but Jay, 1177 01:16:06,840 --> 01:16:10,519 Speaker 1: where where are you with this? With these dogs need 1178 01:16:10,600 --> 01:16:14,200 Speaker 1: to be at home or any yard and not that's 1179 01:16:14,240 --> 01:16:17,479 Speaker 1: just me. I know people, I know they're emotional dogs. 1180 01:16:17,560 --> 01:16:20,760 Speaker 1: I can let these dogs nervous dogs. But first of all, 1181 01:16:21,000 --> 01:16:23,280 Speaker 1: you work in a place it ends up being too 1182 01:16:23,360 --> 01:16:28,400 Speaker 1: many damn dogs. That's what happened one dog. But then 1183 01:16:28,560 --> 01:16:33,240 Speaker 1: it's like dogs every damn well, you know that's what happened. 1184 01:16:33,360 --> 01:16:36,120 Speaker 1: You know, you're okay. The National Dog Day night. Now 1185 01:16:36,280 --> 01:16:42,559 Speaker 1: everybody got it. You got dogs bringing dogs, so dogs 1186 01:16:42,840 --> 01:16:46,040 Speaker 1: every damn wet. So we need to nip this in 1187 01:16:46,160 --> 01:16:50,599 Speaker 1: the butt. Keep your damn dog home. Keep your dog home. 1188 01:16:51,439 --> 01:16:53,720 Speaker 1: Don't bring your dog to work. I mean I go 1189 01:16:53,760 --> 01:16:55,080 Speaker 1: on to you, like you leave, I'm gonna go to 1190 01:16:55,120 --> 01:16:57,400 Speaker 1: the office and you're not in there. The dogs sitting 1191 01:16:57,400 --> 01:17:01,560 Speaker 1: in there, and I like, I'm coming to talk to 1192 01:17:01,600 --> 01:17:05,160 Speaker 1: you the damn dog and then where is the dog? 1193 01:17:05,240 --> 01:17:09,519 Speaker 1: Don't know where the head. I'm just it's just me. 1194 01:17:09,800 --> 01:17:13,760 Speaker 1: I'm just I don't hate dogs. I would never I 1195 01:17:13,800 --> 01:17:16,760 Speaker 1: can't tell doll I would. I would never do that. 1196 01:17:16,960 --> 01:17:20,400 Speaker 1: I wouldn't never tease a dog. It just just talk. 1197 01:17:21,040 --> 01:17:26,280 Speaker 1: It's too many and damn dogs. That is a funny 1198 01:17:26,400 --> 01:17:28,400 Speaker 1: visual though. You go in and talk to your boss. 1199 01:17:29,640 --> 01:17:32,639 Speaker 1: I love to do. I love this is my favorite 1200 01:17:32,720 --> 01:17:35,240 Speaker 1: thing to do. What I love to go down to 1201 01:17:35,400 --> 01:17:42,880 Speaker 1: the where to sell dogs? At are you doing? You 1202 01:17:43,160 --> 01:17:47,360 Speaker 1: want to be adopted to? They can go who with me? What? 1203 01:17:47,640 --> 01:17:56,000 Speaker 1: Guess what? You ain't going? That's your favorite thing? Hate that? 1204 01:17:56,280 --> 01:18:00,680 Speaker 1: Scoot it? What's do you like say? I know, I 1205 01:18:01,040 --> 01:18:07,519 Speaker 1: no no, no, guess what you ain't going day? How 1206 01:18:07,640 --> 01:18:12,200 Speaker 1: is that right? On any level? Though? Can you crack 1207 01:18:12,280 --> 01:18:23,639 Speaker 1: it up over there? You're I'm gonna brain fancy. Yeah, 1208 01:18:24,160 --> 01:18:26,360 Speaker 1: if you could you have a dog, Jay and walk 1209 01:18:26,439 --> 01:18:28,519 Speaker 1: the dog, you know, and feed it and all of that, 1210 01:18:29,040 --> 01:18:31,240 Speaker 1: you wouldn't do that. You didn't have to take it 1211 01:18:31,320 --> 01:18:34,040 Speaker 1: to work, but just take care of it. Dogs are 1212 01:18:34,120 --> 01:18:40,000 Speaker 1: part of the family, Jay, Yeah, not just family, all right. 1213 01:18:40,240 --> 01:18:43,000 Speaker 1: I guess we know where Jay stands on dogs. All right. 1214 01:18:43,360 --> 01:18:45,519 Speaker 1: Hang on, we're coming up the last break of the 1215 01:18:45,600 --> 01:18:48,920 Speaker 1: day and some closing remarks from Steve Harvey that's coming 1216 01:18:49,000 --> 01:18:54,160 Speaker 1: up at forty nine. After you're listening to show Steve, 1217 01:18:54,280 --> 01:18:56,960 Speaker 1: it's time now for your closing remarks. They've been so 1218 01:18:57,280 --> 01:19:00,360 Speaker 1: on point. Hey, for my closing remarks, A dato to 1219 01:19:00,479 --> 01:19:04,600 Speaker 1: keep encouraging people, uplifting people, and enlightening you all to 1220 01:19:04,720 --> 01:19:07,040 Speaker 1: some of the things I've had to learn on my journey. 1221 01:19:08,080 --> 01:19:10,479 Speaker 1: And I'm not claiming to know more than anybody else. 1222 01:19:10,560 --> 01:19:13,760 Speaker 1: I'm just talking to people from a standpoint of just 1223 01:19:13,960 --> 01:19:17,680 Speaker 1: trying to be an encouraging person from my own standpoint, 1224 01:19:17,800 --> 01:19:21,000 Speaker 1: my own viewpoint. You don't have to agree with anything 1225 01:19:21,120 --> 01:19:23,080 Speaker 1: I say. You have to write to your own opinion, 1226 01:19:23,200 --> 01:19:25,760 Speaker 1: your own line of thinking. So this is not a 1227 01:19:25,880 --> 01:19:29,880 Speaker 1: forced thing. This is just, you know, words of encouragement 1228 01:19:29,960 --> 01:19:31,599 Speaker 1: at the end of the show. So when you start 1229 01:19:31,640 --> 01:19:33,760 Speaker 1: in your day and you're thinking about your road to 1230 01:19:34,040 --> 01:19:38,759 Speaker 1: success and happiness. I've had a lot of challenges along 1231 01:19:38,840 --> 01:19:40,760 Speaker 1: the way that I've had to learn how to overcome, 1232 01:19:41,640 --> 01:19:44,479 Speaker 1: and I've had to find different methods and learn from 1233 01:19:44,560 --> 01:19:47,200 Speaker 1: more successful people than myself how to get it done. 1234 01:19:48,240 --> 01:19:50,280 Speaker 1: One of the major things that I learned, and this 1235 01:19:50,439 --> 01:19:53,920 Speaker 1: is very difficult for me to do because of the 1236 01:19:54,640 --> 01:19:58,719 Speaker 1: most useless emotion in the human spirit, which is guilt. 1237 01:20:00,000 --> 01:20:03,920 Speaker 1: Guilt serves no one, but because of guilt, I found 1238 01:20:03,960 --> 01:20:06,719 Speaker 1: it hard to implement this that I'm about to share 1239 01:20:06,760 --> 01:20:10,439 Speaker 1: with you. You've heard the old saying birds of a 1240 01:20:10,560 --> 01:20:18,080 Speaker 1: feather flock together. You've heard association brings on participation. What 1241 01:20:18,280 --> 01:20:23,080 Speaker 1: that simply means is, if you have a goal in mind, 1242 01:20:24,920 --> 01:20:30,360 Speaker 1: an aspiration somewhere you're trying to get to, to get 1243 01:20:30,439 --> 01:20:37,479 Speaker 1: there better, quicker, faster, more peacefully, you have to surround 1244 01:20:37,600 --> 01:20:43,200 Speaker 1: yourself with like minded people. Now, this is hard to do, 1245 01:20:43,760 --> 01:20:45,800 Speaker 1: and I'm going to tell you why it's hard to do. 1246 01:20:46,240 --> 01:20:51,559 Speaker 1: For me because I was held to a certain amount 1247 01:20:51,600 --> 01:20:55,880 Speaker 1: of accountability by people who just didn't want to see 1248 01:20:55,960 --> 01:21:01,160 Speaker 1: me leave them. So as I began to change my life, 1249 01:21:01,400 --> 01:21:06,280 Speaker 1: change my direction, leave Cleveland, move up, try to come up, 1250 01:21:06,800 --> 01:21:09,760 Speaker 1: do more, try to become more. Try not to be 1251 01:21:09,920 --> 01:21:14,759 Speaker 1: the person that I used to be. They have words 1252 01:21:15,000 --> 01:21:18,280 Speaker 1: to hold you to them, like, man, you gotta keep 1253 01:21:18,320 --> 01:21:23,680 Speaker 1: it real. Man, hey, man, don't forget where you come from. Now. 1254 01:21:23,840 --> 01:21:26,439 Speaker 1: Not forgetting where you come from is important, but they're 1255 01:21:26,560 --> 01:21:29,840 Speaker 1: saying it from the fact of what they really mean 1256 01:21:30,280 --> 01:21:33,880 Speaker 1: is keep it real. Don't forget where you come from. 1257 01:21:34,280 --> 01:21:37,400 Speaker 1: A lot of those people simply mean, don't leave us. 1258 01:21:39,160 --> 01:21:42,040 Speaker 1: And it's not your obligation to take everybody with you. 1259 01:21:43,120 --> 01:21:46,600 Speaker 1: You've got to understand that. Don't get hell to the 1260 01:21:47,200 --> 01:21:52,559 Speaker 1: emotion of guilt and keep associating with people who don't 1261 01:21:52,680 --> 01:21:56,160 Speaker 1: mean you well. Now, look that goes to something my 1262 01:21:56,320 --> 01:21:58,519 Speaker 1: father told me a long time ago. He says, son, 1263 01:21:58,640 --> 01:22:02,160 Speaker 1: everybody come what you can't go with you. Some people 1264 01:22:02,200 --> 01:22:06,160 Speaker 1: are in your life for certain periods of time, and 1265 01:22:06,360 --> 01:22:09,120 Speaker 1: that's just it. You have to move on from them. 1266 01:22:09,880 --> 01:22:13,320 Speaker 1: Some of your friends you just grew apart from some 1267 01:22:13,520 --> 01:22:17,240 Speaker 1: of your associates you just can't keep associating with them 1268 01:22:17,560 --> 01:22:20,240 Speaker 1: all the time. Some of your people, you can meet 1269 01:22:20,320 --> 01:22:22,559 Speaker 1: him at the gym and play ball, but you can't 1270 01:22:22,560 --> 01:22:28,479 Speaker 1: do nothing else with them. That's okay. Stop thinking that 1271 01:22:28,680 --> 01:22:32,479 Speaker 1: because a person labels you their friend, that you now 1272 01:22:32,640 --> 01:22:39,560 Speaker 1: owe them a ride. You don't stop thinking like, I 1273 01:22:39,840 --> 01:22:45,000 Speaker 1: hurt myself so many years hanging on to people suffering 1274 01:22:45,120 --> 01:22:49,320 Speaker 1: from guilty. What's gonna happen today? Family? What's gonna happen today? 1275 01:22:49,720 --> 01:22:53,400 Speaker 1: Ability to get another job? And I've had people used 1276 01:22:53,520 --> 01:22:58,519 Speaker 1: me for years and for years and for years. I've 1277 01:22:58,560 --> 01:23:00,519 Speaker 1: finally gotten to the point where I'm done with it. 1278 01:23:01,360 --> 01:23:04,840 Speaker 1: I finally gotten to the point I started learning it 1279 01:23:04,960 --> 01:23:07,800 Speaker 1: a while back. But at sixty one, I'm telling you, 1280 01:23:07,960 --> 01:23:11,719 Speaker 1: I'm so through with that. I'm so through with feeling 1281 01:23:11,840 --> 01:23:15,600 Speaker 1: obligated to people who ain't really obligated to me. And 1282 01:23:15,800 --> 01:23:20,639 Speaker 1: don't y'all all have them people in your circle right now? Oh, 1283 01:23:20,840 --> 01:23:24,240 Speaker 1: you so obligated to them, but are they really obligated 1284 01:23:24,320 --> 01:23:27,240 Speaker 1: to you? You always looking out for their best interests, 1285 01:23:27,280 --> 01:23:30,120 Speaker 1: but do they ever look out for your best interests? 1286 01:23:30,479 --> 01:23:34,800 Speaker 1: Association brings on participation. If you hang with a bunch 1287 01:23:34,840 --> 01:23:37,080 Speaker 1: of people that cuss all the time. Eventually you're gonna 1288 01:23:37,080 --> 01:23:40,280 Speaker 1: be cussing. If you hang with a lot of people 1289 01:23:40,439 --> 01:23:43,240 Speaker 1: who do drugs all the time, every time they get 1290 01:23:43,280 --> 01:23:46,160 Speaker 1: together and you just gotta be with them, eventually you're 1291 01:23:46,200 --> 01:23:49,960 Speaker 1: gonna be into drugs. It's just a part of it. 1292 01:23:50,040 --> 01:23:54,840 Speaker 1: Association brings on participation. If you're somewhere and people playing 1293 01:23:54,920 --> 01:23:57,280 Speaker 1: ping pong every day, you don't think you're gonna pick 1294 01:23:57,360 --> 01:23:59,400 Speaker 1: up the powder one day, at least give it a shot. 1295 01:24:00,439 --> 01:24:03,800 Speaker 1: It's how this works, man. So you owe it to 1296 01:24:04,040 --> 01:24:08,960 Speaker 1: yourself to prune the treat. You owe it to yourself 1297 01:24:09,200 --> 01:24:13,919 Speaker 1: to take inventory. You owe it to yourself to surround 1298 01:24:14,080 --> 01:24:19,280 Speaker 1: yourself with like minded people, to find people who are 1299 01:24:19,400 --> 01:24:22,759 Speaker 1: going the same direction you're going, who want the same 1300 01:24:23,240 --> 01:24:27,320 Speaker 1: same things you want. It's nothing wrong with that. And 1301 01:24:27,439 --> 01:24:30,120 Speaker 1: I'll tell you something else too. It'll shown make your 1302 01:24:30,160 --> 01:24:33,040 Speaker 1: life a little bit smoother. Now, that's not gonna make 1303 01:24:33,080 --> 01:24:36,880 Speaker 1: it easier, but it will make it smoother. Wouldn't it 1304 01:24:36,960 --> 01:24:39,360 Speaker 1: be good to have somebody to talk to that wasn't 1305 01:24:39,400 --> 01:24:42,320 Speaker 1: always telling you why it won't work? Y'all can't stand 1306 01:24:42,360 --> 01:24:44,360 Speaker 1: to have an idea and take it to somebody in 1307 01:24:44,439 --> 01:24:46,880 Speaker 1: the first word, out their mouth is why it won't work. 1308 01:24:48,080 --> 01:24:51,360 Speaker 1: So then when they come up with how it will work, 1309 01:24:51,439 --> 01:24:56,320 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, now it's they idea. Man, how 1310 01:24:56,400 --> 01:25:00,360 Speaker 1: many times I've been around people like that. Birds of 1311 01:25:00,400 --> 01:25:03,800 Speaker 1: a feather flock together. If you hang with people who 1312 01:25:03,920 --> 01:25:07,240 Speaker 1: don't do nothing, eventually you're gonna think it's okay not 1313 01:25:07,400 --> 01:25:14,559 Speaker 1: to do nothing too. Take inventory, prune the tree, separate yourself, 1314 01:25:14,880 --> 01:25:18,800 Speaker 1: and remember it ain't your job to give nobody a 1315 01:25:19,000 --> 01:25:23,639 Speaker 1: free ride. It is not your job. They will slow 1316 01:25:23,760 --> 01:25:28,599 Speaker 1: your progress down. All right, Those are my clothes remarks. 1317 01:25:28,680 --> 01:25:30,720 Speaker 1: Y'all keep that one today, all right, all right, now, 1318 01:25:30,720 --> 01:25:41,960 Speaker 1: I have a great weekend, everybody, all right? For all 1319 01:25:42,000 --> 01:25:45,679 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey contests No purchase necessary void where prohibited. 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