WEBVTT - Are We Needed In This? 

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<v Speaker 1>Are we needed in this at all? It's one more thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm one more thing before we get to arguing through

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<v Speaker 1>chat GPT. It's Katie's birthday today. What do you do

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<v Speaker 1>for your birthday? A person like you?

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<v Speaker 2>I go to the gym and continue my day as usual.

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<v Speaker 1>That's probably why you look so young at thirty six.

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<v Speaker 1>You look much younger than thirty. When I was thirty six,

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<v Speaker 1>I looked fifty six, and when I was fifty six,

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<v Speaker 1>I looked a hundred and two.

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<v Speaker 2>So I really appreciate that. Because somebody asked me if

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<v Speaker 2>it was I was going to be.

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<v Speaker 1>Forty, So I was like, oh really, oh you there,

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<v Speaker 1>there's something wrong with them. And I'm not just saying

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<v Speaker 1>this would be nice. No way, you look forty.

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<v Speaker 2>Aren't you?

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<v Speaker 3>I heard on TikTok you're supposed to have a birthday week.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh now, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Get a manny and a petty and a manny petty

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<v Speaker 3>and then you go out for mimosas or something, and

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<v Speaker 3>then you have a trip with your friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Gallentine's Day or something.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh no, no, my husband works all week, So Drew's

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<v Speaker 4>gonna take me out for a nice dinner later this

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<v Speaker 4>week and just keep it simple.

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<v Speaker 1>There you go. Yeah, so if you're not pleased with

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<v Speaker 1>the way he handles your birthday, you could ask chat

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<v Speaker 1>GBT if he did a good enough job, and it

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<v Speaker 1>would suggest what you should say to him. Kiss. So

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<v Speaker 1>I became aware of this the other day through someone

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<v Speaker 1>I know who in a group of people they talk to.

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta be vague, I'm gonna get somebody in trouble here,

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<v Speaker 1>and I really don't want to, but I find this

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<v Speaker 1>to be a fascinating topic. Apparently it's pretty damn common

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<v Speaker 1>for people to go to chat GPT or something similar

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<v Speaker 1>for some like marriage counseling or guidance or like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>my husband did this, how should I react? It reminds

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<v Speaker 1>me that I've been mentioning a lot. Like the new

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<v Speaker 1>iPhone software, when I get a text, it has the

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<v Speaker 1>suggestion at the bottom of how I should respond, and

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<v Speaker 1>it weirds me out a little, and that sometimes it's

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<v Speaker 1>really dang close, like practically word for word what I

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<v Speaker 1>was gonna say, Like, you know, if the response is

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<v Speaker 1>sounds good, I'll see you then looking forward to it.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was gonna say more or less than that

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<v Speaker 1>that that anyway, I think, why don't I just press send.

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<v Speaker 1>But I haven't done it yet because it kind of

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<v Speaker 1>creeps me out, the idea of not forming those thoughts

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<v Speaker 1>myself and just kind of starting to rely on chat

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<v Speaker 1>GPT because then if I.

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<v Speaker 3>Respond sends you a provocative text right now, and we'll

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<v Speaker 3>see what chat GPT suggests, because it doesn't untext, right

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<v Speaker 3>I'm trying to remember, yeah, yeah, yeah, because at some

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<v Speaker 3>point it weirds me out, and that like if I

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<v Speaker 3>respond with it an AI.

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<v Speaker 1>Response and then THEIRS is cool, you know, that's great,

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<v Speaker 1>this will really be fun. But THEIRS is a if

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<v Speaker 1>both of them are chat GPT responses talking to me again,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I started, what are we doing here? We even needed?

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<v Speaker 1>Do we need to be here? Or we should just

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<v Speaker 1>let them have a conversation. Leave them alone. It look

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<v Speaker 1>like they're having a good time.

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<v Speaker 4>I had to laugh the other day. Well no, I

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<v Speaker 4>let me take that back. I was not laughing. My

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<v Speaker 4>my dear friend's dog passed away recently and she text

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<v Speaker 4>messaged me about it, and one of the recommended responses

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<v Speaker 4>was it'll be okay, stay strong. Oh my god, if

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<v Speaker 4>I ever sent that, she would unfriend me yesterday.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, that is straight out of the generics aisle where

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<v Speaker 3>let's see, can I get a response for under two dollars? Oh,

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<v Speaker 3>here's one.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I wonder if eventually that's what it'll be. It'll

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<v Speaker 1>be the free one gives you suggestions like that, which

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<v Speaker 1>will just you know, for premium members, if you're paying

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<v Speaker 1>nine to ninety nine a month and it's a cheap subscription,

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<v Speaker 1>you know it'll put a little thought in here.

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<v Speaker 3>Would you like a more insightful and compassionate response. It'll

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<v Speaker 3>only cost you a dollar ninety nine a month.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, But so these people were using chat GPT getting

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<v Speaker 1>into arguments with their husband or whatever, and this one

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<v Speaker 1>person said, I've been using it to communicate with my husband.

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<v Speaker 1>It's fantastic. It's a game changer. And the chat GPT

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<v Speaker 1>had said to this person after they explained their argument,

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<v Speaker 1>blah blah bah, no need to feel guilty. You're used

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<v Speaker 1>to managing his emotions and now that he's upset, it's

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<v Speaker 1>triggering that guilt. But you're right, he shouldn't. You shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>feel guilty. If he chooses to be upset, that's on him. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that may or may not be good advice. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what the input was but again, it's a computer

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<v Speaker 1>telling you this, And what if he caught her like

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<v Speaker 1>having a threesome on the kitchen table, then right then

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<v Speaker 1>you know, well, it's up to him to deal with

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<v Speaker 1>his own emotions.

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<v Speaker 3>You shouldn't feel guilty. Let's wait a minute. Some of

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<v Speaker 3>the responses.

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<v Speaker 1>Some of the responses were, oh, yeah, I use it

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<v Speaker 1>every single day in trying to talk to my husband.

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<v Speaker 1>Somebody said it's teaching me communication skills I wish I

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<v Speaker 1>had when I was younger. Okay, so you're seeing a

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<v Speaker 1>benefit out of it.

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<v Speaker 3>Sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Another one, Uh.

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<v Speaker 3>I programmed this ahead.

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<v Speaker 1>I programmed my AI bought to assume Taylor Swift's identity

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<v Speaker 1>so I get advice from her.

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<v Speaker 3>What I almost Yeah, wait a minute, Yeah, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 3>set mind to Mick Jagger. Can see what advice Mick

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<v Speaker 3>has for me in my marriage.

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<v Speaker 1>Harvey Weinstein, No Icky, and a number of people saying, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>chat GPT is my therapist. Now I come home every

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<v Speaker 1>day and tell the chat GPT you know, everything that

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<v Speaker 1>happened at work, like with a coworker, with my husband

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<v Speaker 1>or my kids or whatever, and they listen really good

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<v Speaker 1>and gives me some good suggestions. On one end, I

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<v Speaker 1>think this gets a little bit to what I'm always

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<v Speaker 1>saying that I think therapy is mostly bogus. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred percent against it. I got a guy I

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<v Speaker 1>talk to every week, so but ninety percent of it

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<v Speaker 1>is crap. It's either just like the most obvious thing

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<v Speaker 1>any human being would tell you if you ask them,

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<v Speaker 1>or it's just co signing your bullshit, as they say

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<v Speaker 1>in the therapy world of you come in and complain

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<v Speaker 1>and the therapist says, you're right, your sister is a witch?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, see you next week.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, no kidding for the sake of the argument, though.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, like, Judy and I have been married for

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<v Speaker 3>a very long time. We're gonna have our fortieth anniversary

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<v Speaker 3>next year. We were married when we were both eleven.

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<v Speaker 3>We had to get our grandparents' permission and get married,

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<v Speaker 3>or we were going to get our parents but they

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<v Speaker 3>were only seventeen. So anyway, that's how I've been married

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<v Speaker 3>for forty years, because I'm very young and vital. But anyway,

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<v Speaker 3>I could see saying, hey, what are some tips for

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<v Speaker 3>keeping a long term marriage fresh in middle age? In

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<v Speaker 3>the boudoir, You.

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<v Speaker 1>Got to bring it up.

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<v Speaker 3>Bigger is why I don't ask. This is why I

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<v Speaker 3>don't ask you, and I'm gonna ask. You know, the

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<v Speaker 3>chat GPT, and I'm sure good advice about alternate, Like

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<v Speaker 3>a friend of mine did this with an actual counselor

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<v Speaker 3>and suggested you alternate, you know, every week, every two

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<v Speaker 3>weeks you plan date night. Then then it's her turned

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<v Speaker 3>up stuff like that. I could see it generating some

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<v Speaker 3>good advice like that.

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<v Speaker 1>How does it not very quickly become I mean after

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<v Speaker 1>I have the right kind of guy. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>that any guys that would ever do this, but living

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<v Speaker 1>in Davis, California, I do know guys that would do it.

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<v Speaker 1>She's using chat GPT for a response, then you're using

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<v Speaker 1>chat GPT for a response, and they're just talking to

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<v Speaker 1>each other. But that gets pretty weird pretty fast.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't no. I think it's in this scenario the

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<v Speaker 3>chat GPT wouldn't be like giving you all your words.

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<v Speaker 3>It would be helping you understand the guidelines for productive communication.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's the one.

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<v Speaker 3>Of course, this is all theoretical for me. I've never

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<v Speaker 3>tried it and probably won't, but I'm curious to know

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<v Speaker 3>how it actually fleshes out.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's the thing I'm certain of. If you can talk

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<v Speaker 1>to your chat GPT and get the feelings some of

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<v Speaker 1>these people seem to express that they're getting, you're obviously

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<v Speaker 1>less likely to talk to an actual human being, your

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<v Speaker 1>friend or your sister, or whoever it is you used

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to about these things. I keep presenting it

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<v Speaker 1>as a woman like, it's only a woman thing. But

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<v Speaker 1>isn't it just absolutely guaranteed to make less human inaction

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<v Speaker 1>interaction happen because now you don't have to take your

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<v Speaker 1>kind of troubling you wish you didn't have to tell

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<v Speaker 1>your friends about it, problems to them.

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<v Speaker 3>You just take it to chat GPT.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and you're not worried about it being repeated or

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<v Speaker 4>anything of that nature.

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<v Speaker 5>Ye.

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<v Speaker 3>Might it eliminate the sort of phony over expensive counseling

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<v Speaker 3>that you were talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>It's that there's an upside that could happen. Maybe it does.

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<v Speaker 1>If I'm a just a medium grade I got a

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<v Speaker 1>one year degree therapist out there making good money on

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<v Speaker 1>giving people pretty obvious advice or code signing in the bullshit,

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<v Speaker 1>you might be out of work because chat GPT could

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<v Speaker 1>do that.

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<v Speaker 3>I could see, you know, sites developed that would you

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<v Speaker 3>know tout that, Hey, we scanned the best you know,

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<v Speaker 3>counseling information available. This is all we do is counseling.

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<v Speaker 3>You're not going to get weird you know, internet results

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<v Speaker 3>or whatever. Here we've compiled the database of blah blah

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<v Speaker 3>blah blah blah. I could see that being you know,

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<v Speaker 3>fairly valuable, I think again, depending how it actually works.

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<v Speaker 4>I also like that this cuts down on I don't

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<v Speaker 4>know if you've ever been in this situation, Jack, when

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<v Speaker 4>you're talking to somebody, but it's like you have that

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<v Speaker 4>thirty minute window or that hour window, and like in

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<v Speaker 4>the first ten you cover what's been bothering you, and

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<v Speaker 4>you're just kind of sitting there like, so, oh, how's

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<v Speaker 4>everything else? This kind of cuts all that crap out too, right.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't know. I feel like there's good. I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't tried it either, so I suppose i'd have to

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<v Speaker 1>to know this, But I feel like chat GPT is

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna have any follow up questions where chat GPT,

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<v Speaker 1>where the therapist knows you, maybe if they've been working

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<v Speaker 1>you with you for a long time, knows you, knows

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<v Speaker 1>your tendencies, knows your strengths and weaknesses, and maybe asks

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<v Speaker 1>the kind of follow up question that chat GPT couldn't.

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<v Speaker 1>So you come in and you tell some story about

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<v Speaker 1>your husband being a you know, a jerk, and maybe

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<v Speaker 1>your therapist who knows you says, uh, well, you remember

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<v Speaker 1>last week when you bought that thing and he was

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<v Speaker 1>upset about it. He might still just be upset about that.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's the sort of like in depth follow up.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think you're going to get from an AI bot,

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<v Speaker 1>like understand your personality strengths and weaknesses.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, it's interesting. I was is this Google? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I think this is Google. I got to change my

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<v Speaker 3>default search engine on my iPhone. I was just googling

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<v Speaker 3>how can I freshen up a long term marriage? There's

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<v Speaker 3>an ad for a counseling place.

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<v Speaker 1>A swing like you put it bolted into the ceiling.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, sex dungeon. Clearly, I want to get your wife back.

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<v Speaker 3>How to win your wife back? She hasn't left yet.

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<v Speaker 3>I just want to freshen it. Oh, there's focus on

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<v Speaker 3>the family, but that's sponsored too. It's Christian family counseling.

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<v Speaker 3>Give your partner grace, practice self care, connect in the bedroom.

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<v Speaker 3>Now we're talking, no, stop it with thatve wait a minute,

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<v Speaker 3>and this one she's already dating someone new. No, let's

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<v Speaker 3>beyond repair. Date night should be exciting and different rather

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<v Speaker 3>than the standard dinner in a movie. Oh thank you,

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<v Speaker 3>We never go to movie. Oh that's Cora. That's dumb.

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<v Speaker 3>So but it didn't even ask AI. Sometimes when you

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<v Speaker 3>search something on it, although I was just I just

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<v Speaker 3>like searched yesterday, when does Illinois play Kentucky in the

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<v Speaker 3>NCAA Men's basketball Tournament. It needed AI for that, but

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<v Speaker 3>for how do you freshen up a long term marriage?

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<v Speaker 3>It just sent me to kind of wrote results.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, So was that chat GPT specific that they were

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<v Speaker 4>talking to Is that what the most early?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>So I just went on and searched AI therapist, and

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<v Speaker 4>I am on a website called abby and it looks

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<v Speaker 4>like it's about to put me through. It said, we're

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<v Speaker 4>going to ask you some questions to know your algorithm.

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<v Speaker 4>And please know I've been trained on over seventy eight

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<v Speaker 4>hundred therapy books and research papers. I can I can

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<v Speaker 4>reference almost everything that's been written about therapy to help

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<v Speaker 4>you with whatever's bothering you.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, from that standpoint, as cynical as I am

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<v Speaker 1>about this that's got to be a more knowledgeable entity

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<v Speaker 1>than your average therapist you go to.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and it's now it's saying, let's customize your algorithm

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<v Speaker 4>to fit your goals in preferred style.

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<v Speaker 3>Hmmm.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I'll try this like I'll try this with

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<v Speaker 1>my around my son, like a bunch of examples of

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<v Speaker 1>various things, and then say what should I do in

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<v Speaker 1>this situation and see what sort of advice I get? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>see if I think it's worth a damn or.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean in theory as always, instead of the

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<v Speaker 3>distilled knowledge of mankind coming to you through a dipshit

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<v Speaker 3>who couldn't make a living any other way, the therapist

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<v Speaker 3>you've just tired, which is not all therapists. There are

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<v Speaker 3>few that are fantastic plenty. And if if that's you,

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<v Speaker 3>that's what we're talking about, You're great. Don't bother with

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<v Speaker 3>your angry email. But instead of you know, having that

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<v Speaker 3>knowledge distilled and passed through that the aforementioned dipshit, you

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<v Speaker 3>have it through what is allegedly perhaps a neutral source

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<v Speaker 3>that won't filter it through their own life experience because

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<v Speaker 3>they secretly hate their father.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to play right this thing.

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<v Speaker 3>This is.

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<v Speaker 5>What she said, happy birthday, Happy birthday. That left my mouth.

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<v Speaker 5>That's my gift to you, Thank you, that's what she said. Also,

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<v Speaker 5>oh boy, so back to this, yeah what they said?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, uh, it's asking me, who do you want me

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<v Speaker 4>to be a professional therapist, an empathetic friend, a tough coach,

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<v Speaker 4>a mindfulness guru, problem solver, are a philosophical guide. So

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<v Speaker 4>it's kind of giving you, like asking kind of how

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<v Speaker 4>do you want me to flow with how you're talking

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<v Speaker 4>to me?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, yeah, I'm warming to this.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah I am too, unfortunately.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't know why that would be any different

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<v Speaker 1>than therapist shopping. Like I know some people do you

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<v Speaker 1>go to somebody that's like a little too much of

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<v Speaker 1>a heart ass, and you fire them and go on

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<v Speaker 1>to a next person until you find someone that's the

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a style you do want.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, maybe you what's the name of this again?

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<v Speaker 2>This is called the abby abeef.

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<v Speaker 1>Humankind dot com right, that one.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry AaB What Abby Abby? Oh? It's the abby thing? Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>but I.

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<v Speaker 4>Mean it's really it's going in depth to find out

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<v Speaker 4>how I want them to act and like what kind

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<v Speaker 4>of you know, am I looking for clinical help?

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<v Speaker 2>Do I want cognitive behavioral help?

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<v Speaker 3>Wow? Yeah, Wow, I need to look into that for

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<v Speaker 3>one of my kids.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm intrigued. I am too, so I've been turned around.

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<v Speaker 1>I I don't mind this as much because it's I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're willing to google and go to a legit

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<v Speaker 1>website and read about it and feel like you've done research,

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<v Speaker 1>this is just like boiling it down for you. It's

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<v Speaker 1>it's doing all the research and bring you the best stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>What I don't like is the idea of it giving

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<v Speaker 1>me advice on what I should be saying. That just

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<v Speaker 1>seems weird.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah yeah, feeding you lines is definitely crossing Allline a kitty.

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<v Speaker 3>Has it asked him for money yet?

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<v Speaker 2>No? Not yet. That's what I'm waiting for. But it

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<v Speaker 2>looks like I'm at the end of it. See.

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<v Speaker 4>What I want to know is if there's like a

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<v Speaker 4>free version of this where it's like, yeah, I will

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<v Speaker 4>kind of help you out, but like you said earlier,

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<v Speaker 4>for nine to ninety nine a month or does.

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<v Speaker 1>It hit on you at any point? Remember that thing

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<v Speaker 1>from the New York Times a year or so ago

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<v Speaker 1>were that was it a woman or a man? But anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>that chatbot suggested that they leave their house.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, okay, start chatting. No, I was not asked for

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<v Speaker 4>a credit card. It's finalizing my personalized AI therapist. And

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<v Speaker 4>that looks like that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>How is it making any money? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>There's a lot of ads across the whole page, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>so maybe that's how they're doing right.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm not finding it.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll also in the early days of this sort of stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>they just want to get you hooked on their product.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's worth it'd be worth it to any

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<v Speaker 1>of these AI bots just to have you get in

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<v Speaker 1>the habit of using it. It'd be like I'm trying

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<v Speaker 1>to think of an example, but like you know, sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>when new products, they don't they don't charge very much

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<v Speaker 1>to get you started.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, what's the actual site?

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<v Speaker 2>It talk dot abby abby dot gg.

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<v Speaker 1>Got thisg what is that the.

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<v Speaker 3>Like the Georgie and Mafia or something North North Korea?

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<v Speaker 2>For sure, this is basically kem Jong owned man.

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<v Speaker 1>This is gonna put a lot of therapists out of work, guaranteed.

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<v Speaker 1>People that log in, people that can't afford therapy, and

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<v Speaker 1>that is many many people. Because it's crazy expensive, are

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<v Speaker 1>going to lean on this and just.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, text me the link. I'm old, Katie, it'll

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<v Speaker 3>take you all day trying to explain it to me. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>I'll so, here's a call back. Joe mentioned earlier he

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<v Speaker 3>would text me. He texted me, Hey, Jack, we should

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<v Speaker 3>talk privately after work today. I'm really worried about something.

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<v Speaker 3>And I was given the suggestion of sure let's talk

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<v Speaker 3>or sure I'm here, both of them perfectly fine responses.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm about keep it to yourself, you whiner.

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<v Speaker 1>Who dis.

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<v Speaker 3>I lose my number?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and see, I'm uncomfortable with that. I don't so far.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna craft my own words, but I'm sure at

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<v Speaker 1>some point when i'm busy, I'm going to see a

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<v Speaker 1>response in that that's basically what I was gonna say,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm gonna fire it off, and then I've crossed

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<v Speaker 1>my line. Happy birthday, Katie.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, as the youngest person on the staff, watching

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<v Speaker 2>you grow further into womanhood these past two years, that's

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<v Speaker 2>been real.

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<v Speaker 1>Joy. Did tell you to say that we lead it

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<v Speaker 1>woven hood? I guess that's it.