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Speaker 1: Good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, But come

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Speaker 1: on dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey got

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Speaker 1: a radio show. Well, I gotta tell you something, everybody,

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Speaker 1: and this is great news for everybody that I'm share

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Speaker 1: something with your principle of becoming successful at whatever level

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Speaker 1: you choose. It can be successful in the relationship, successful

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Speaker 1: in the family. Successes may be considered to you becoming

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Speaker 1: success could be sixty thousand a year, fifty thousand a year,

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Speaker 1: considering it, if you're wanting it, if you have a

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Speaker 1: the very beginning of that. If no one's ever done it,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to say the beginning of it today see

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Speaker 1: scripture makes it very clear for us you don't The

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Speaker 1: only thing you need to become successful is already inside

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Speaker 1: of you. It's not an external need. God wouldn't do

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Speaker 1: that to you. He puts the core basis of everything

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Speaker 1: you need inside of you. So if you discover it,

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Speaker 1: if you tend to it, nurture it, fertilize it, and

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Speaker 1: within you. And if you cultivate your relationship with God,

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Speaker 1: it comes out, it flourishes. Now, let me tell you

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Speaker 1: that thing that I'm talking about is a God given

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Speaker 1: has a gift. Had somebody told me what I know

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Speaker 1: now back then, I would have saved myself tons of mistakes.

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Speaker 1: I just didn't know the principles. I had to learn

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Speaker 1: them all well. One of the principles of becoming successful

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Speaker 1: right now. This mindset is simply a decision that you

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Speaker 1: can make. I can't get it for you. I can

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go on and get at it. I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: you make these decisions. That's correcting your mindset. Now. The

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Speaker 1: got to get your mind set together. Your mindset is

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Speaker 1: got to go your way now. You can't follow the crowd.

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Speaker 1: obligation is to keep comparing yourself to somebody else. Because

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Speaker 1: guess what, Man, that ain't your life. You ain't jay

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Speaker 1: Z and Beyonce, you're not You're not Oper Instead, man,

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Speaker 1: that's not who you are. Quit looking around at everybody else.

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Speaker 1: have an obligation to yourself to be the best you

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Speaker 1: Stop trying to be them. Be the best you. It's cool.

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Speaker 1: You got a nice little house. That's cool. You know

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Speaker 1: Another part of the mindset is taking dead aim at

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Speaker 1: What do you dream about? If you knew you couldn't

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Speaker 1: It's a mindset, y'all. It's a decision it's a will,

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Speaker 1: it's a change of direction. It's an obligation to yourself.

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Speaker 1: Come on, man, you got to get your mind wrapped

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Speaker 1: check in with him. You're listening, ladies and gentlemen, without

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Speaker 1: further ado, it is time. It's moaning time. Come on, no,

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Speaker 1: are healed in the moaning time. In spite of the

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Speaker 1: picked it because I'm on it and you hear me.

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Speaker 1: uh than than Equifax. He he has told more jokes

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Speaker 1: Harbin moaning show. We'll be right back right you're listening

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Speaker 1: right now, it's time for the nephew to run that

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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, let's see if you agree. Be trustworthy.

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Speaker 1: Oh the game is more important than me. Yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: Is that Nick movie? Ye? Turned around everything you're saying

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Speaker 1: be cool about it, ladies, if you want to get

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Speaker 1: from here? Are you with unless it's a game you

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Speaker 1: really want? You? Picked now to be naked? Yeah? Right now?

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Speaker 1: Here's a question, what product or what brand reminds you

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Speaker 1: Tea from New Orleans. It says, hey, morning, crew. Every

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Speaker 1: our refrigerator. When I go to visit my pop's house,

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Speaker 1: he always had a box of frosted Flakes frosted Flakes

425
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Speaker 1: cereal in his pantry. In fact, uh, he probably does

426
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Speaker 1: right now with brand or product? Did your childhood home

427
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Speaker 1: always have in stock? I got a bunch of I

428
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Speaker 1: knew it ready for me. What like what steve you go? First? Comment? Comment?

429
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Speaker 1: Yes a green asshole can a comment with the peel

430
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Speaker 1: off top with the eight holes in the top. Yeah,

431
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Speaker 1: quickly and washed all your sinks in your bathtub out.

432
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Speaker 1: But let us sit though, Let sit for a Yeah,

433
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Speaker 1: change color. Ain't open up refrigerator while seeing an olden

434
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Speaker 1: box of arm and hammer baker So yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

435
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Speaker 1: You want me keep stoves that matchwell or folders coffee

436
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Speaker 1: can with the greaseing, yes, suh, Yes, it's real thick memories. Yeah, yeah,

437
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Speaker 1: in the in the bathroom crash toothpaste. Oh yes, oh

438
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Speaker 1: you were cresspeople. No, we wasn't really cresh Yeah, yeah,

439
00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:38,480
Speaker 1: we had that too. We was whatever was on sale

440
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Speaker 1: people can ultra bright. I thought that was just the

441
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Speaker 1: greatest thing. Go ahead, if we ran out of that toothpaste,

442
00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:56,160
Speaker 1: then we go to that fridge with that baking soda

443
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Speaker 1: wood and going in get yea that yeah, and dip

444
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Speaker 1: that tooth Yeah. I actually brushed my teeth better with

445
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Speaker 1: bacons hello. Yeah, yeah, all right, how about this tide

446
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Speaker 1: laundry detergent tied tied have to have some time? Ivory's

447
00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:20,680
Speaker 1: ain't that liquid? That's washing pot? We have that right

448
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Speaker 1: found in the big blue box. Damn fag. But you didn't.

449
00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:32,360
Speaker 1: Did you have ivory soap though? Did you have ivory

450
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Speaker 1: soap to take your bath? Die dial? We had, we

451
00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 1: had ivory soap. Yeah, it floated in the water ivory. Yeah. Okay,

452
00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:45,960
Speaker 1: let's go in the bathroom and up underneath that counter.

453
00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:48,440
Speaker 1: It's a little red crip can got some grease in

454
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Speaker 1: it called royal crown. Huh what all your scalp with

455
00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:56,200
Speaker 1: that right there? Yeah, that's how I got my hands.

456
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Speaker 1: We're in the bad. We're in the bathroom. Yeah, yeah,

457
00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:12,640
Speaker 1: we're in the bath Scott single plot. You had to

458
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Speaker 1: be careful wiping yourself. We get damn single. Man. I

459
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Speaker 1: can't tell you how many times I misjudged and pushed

460
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Speaker 1: my frangle. Okay, yeah, we got it. We got the

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Speaker 1: single single. My daddy loved that. Boy. You get a

462
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Speaker 1: thousand sheets? Yeah yeah. Wait, do y'all remember aim a

463
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Speaker 1: page the striking. Yeah yeah, we strike gleam uh huh.

464
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Speaker 1: I got one. That bottle that hung on the back

465
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Speaker 1: of the door, looked like a hot water bottle with

466
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Speaker 1: a tube on it and a spring dollar for me

467
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Speaker 1: and my nephew got to ask whoop in our life?

468
00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:10,920
Speaker 1: One time, we feel that my mama had went on

469
00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:13,960
Speaker 1: and we found it on the back of the door.

470
00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:16,120
Speaker 1: We'd always wondered what it was, so we put water

471
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Speaker 1: in it, and we found out that it's that the

472
00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:21,560
Speaker 1: water squeezed through them little holes on that white tail.

473
00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:26,320
Speaker 1: So were chasing each other around the house like water

474
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Speaker 1: hurting each other. Okay, then he fill up the bag

475
00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:32,720
Speaker 1: and it was my time to have it, and then

476
00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:35,400
Speaker 1: he had it under his arm. My mama came in

477
00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:39,320
Speaker 1: that house. My mama said, it's all this vinegar hill.

478
00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:44,480
Speaker 1: Now we didn't even know. We didn't know nothing about

479
00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:47,720
Speaker 1: no vinegar smell. She said, what is all this vinegar?

480
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:50,200
Speaker 1: I smelled in this house? Now were sawing out? Oh

481
00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:53,400
Speaker 1: that ain't not as cool. We were working water. Well,

482
00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:55,160
Speaker 1: we sat there. My mama got to do in the

483
00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:59,080
Speaker 1: mouth and went back in now and touched that hot

484
00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:05,560
Speaker 1: water bottle with the holes on it, and boy, we

485
00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:09,840
Speaker 1: got our asked. And then so we didn't even know

486
00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:12,360
Speaker 1: why we got beat. And then my brother was talking

487
00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:16,600
Speaker 1: to us. Hey, man, yeah, let me ask you something, Steve,

488
00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:21,120
Speaker 1: what is you? And that grandmama was wallaba. The baby said, na,

489
00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:24,200
Speaker 1: we was playing water gun with it. He said, well

490
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Speaker 1: you know what that? Yeah, I don't know what it is.

491
00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:34,920
Speaker 1: He said, that's a lady's bag. And then I said,

492
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Speaker 1: I don't what what what? Because I'm clueless what you mean?

493
00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:47,760
Speaker 1: It's a lady's bag. That's a douche bag. Still I'm clueless, boy,

494
00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:53,960
Speaker 1: because my damn brother told me what that bag was. Man,

495
00:33:56,440 --> 00:34:04,280
Speaker 1: I'm shooting water and oh god, I'm five full blast.

496
00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:07,320
Speaker 1: I got the bag under my mouth wide over down.

497
00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:15,560
Speaker 1: That's what I said. That what I first found out

498
00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:21,720
Speaker 1: water A little tangy in now. Oh my god, because

499
00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:25,200
Speaker 1: you know, because you know they had a special solution.

500
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:27,120
Speaker 1: They put it in you put vineg in it too,

501
00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:31,240
Speaker 1: and that's what we know. And I had no idea.

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Speaker 1: be told. Come on, junior. I don't know who these

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Speaker 1: people are and where they come from. But on Saturday. Yeah,

514
00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:21,239
Speaker 1: why you calling any human being before eight o'clock? Why

515
00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:26,360
Speaker 1: what do we have to talk about at seven to

516
00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:29,239
Speaker 1: fifteen am? There's nothing I want to talk. Like my

517
00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:31,919
Speaker 1: boy called me at seven pm. Come out. What you're doing?

518
00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:34,640
Speaker 1: Dog is sad? I'm trying to sleep, ye all, I

519
00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:36,560
Speaker 1: trying to do well. Here. The thing about it is

520
00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:39,799
Speaker 1: like he said, dog, did you see? I ain't saying

521
00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:44,160
Speaker 1: nothing this seventh fifteen? Loved deep. People need to get

522
00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:46,800
Speaker 1: I'm trying. Just don't jump off in traffic. The phone

523
00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:50,439
Speaker 1: shouldn't even be allowed to work. But foe until after eight?

524
00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:54,840
Speaker 1: After ten't ring shit? But I'm I'm just saying, what

525
00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:58,040
Speaker 1: made you get up? Pick your phone up? Said? Damn it?

526
00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:00,600
Speaker 1: You know who I ain't called? Let me call him

527
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:05,240
Speaker 1: right now? What? At what time? Doing that? At seven fifteen?

528
00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:09,000
Speaker 1: First of all, I ain't formulate a thought. And then

529
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:11,759
Speaker 1: you're another grown man talking to another grown man as

530
00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 1: I lay in bed. Really, this is not comfortable. I'm

531
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Speaker 1: not comfortable when you heard me saying hello, Hello, you

532
00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:24,080
Speaker 1: gonna fall dog? Guess what? What? What? At seven fifteen? What?

533
00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:27,200
Speaker 1: Why am I guessing? I ain't got no shirt on

534
00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:31,280
Speaker 1: right now? I ain't got no shirt on? You sleep?

535
00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 1: What shirt? I'm just asking, however I sleep? It ain't

536
00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:38,480
Speaker 1: none of your seven fifteen. I'm just something comfortable with

537
00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:43,439
Speaker 1: the conversation. That's all I'm saying. Okay, y'all should just

538
00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:45,799
Speaker 1: just just find something else to Don't call people no more.

539
00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:48,120
Speaker 1: That's all I just want to say. What's the earliest

540
00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:52,359
Speaker 1: you can take ten thirty, seven fifteen on the set? Yeah,

541
00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:54,680
Speaker 1: ten thirty. I want to get up, how my coffee?

542
00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:57,240
Speaker 1: Enjoy my morning? What do you call me at seven fifteen?

543
00:36:57,239 --> 00:36:58,839
Speaker 1: I ain't got no shirt all you talk about? Guess

544
00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:03,720
Speaker 1: what I'm what? This is uncomfortable. It's uncomfortable you laying

545
00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:10,640
Speaker 1: horizon talking to another man, except don't I got I

546
00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:12,759
Speaker 1: got one leg in the bed, one leg out to

547
00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:15,920
Speaker 1: be Yes, what that's all I want to say? Just

548
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:25,680
Speaker 1: stop calling me ten thirty, ten thirty early, don't call him.

549
00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:28,839
Speaker 1: He'll be upset. Yeah. And the person I'm talking about

550
00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:34,640
Speaker 1: it is Jake wanta know wow, Just won't try. You

551
00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:38,400
Speaker 1: know though we agreed not to bring that up, to

552
00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:41,040
Speaker 1: agree that same that we would agree that you would

553
00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:46,840
Speaker 1: not both y'all. Come on, I think you agree with

554
00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:51,320
Speaker 1: both of y'all. Both y'all sick ass. Nie said women

555
00:37:57,560 --> 00:38:02,000
Speaker 1: something to do nothing picking up by y'all a shirt

556
00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:11,200
Speaker 1: on you? Wh y'all issues ain't even real. I mean,

557
00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:17,880
Speaker 1: I thought we agreed I can talk about all right,

558
00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:21,360
Speaker 1: thank you, Junior. Yeah, we get it now. You're listening

559
00:38:22,080 --> 00:38:27,720
Speaker 1: show all right, Steve our very own Jay Anthony Brown

560
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:31,600
Speaker 1: it's always here with the foolishness. Can count on him.

561
00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:33,600
Speaker 1: He's got details on his brand new book, tell us

562
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:35,960
Speaker 1: about it. Just finished my new book, Steve, and it's

563
00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:38,560
Speaker 1: called one hundred and one. Ways to Start an argument

564
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:43,520
Speaker 1: Um several chapters in the book. Um Chapter one, you know,

565
00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:50,680
Speaker 1: laugh on the phone for no reason, just just laugh. Yeah,

566
00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:56,440
Speaker 1: it was stout an argument laughing. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

567
00:38:56,560 --> 00:38:59,440
Speaker 1: Chapter Chapter seven is a real good chapter. Take a

568
00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:02,839
Speaker 1: shower in the middle of the day, just just showering. Yeah,

569
00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:08,480
Speaker 1: where you going? Just showing on Sunday. This is a

570
00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:11,759
Speaker 1: good one for Sunday. Say say I'm going to a

571
00:39:11,800 --> 00:39:14,839
Speaker 1: different church by myself. That's what you say. Don't say

572
00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:27,520
Speaker 1: it's gonna be on. Ways to start an argument, Yeah,

573
00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:30,320
Speaker 1: put an empty bag in the closet and just walk away.

574
00:39:30,400 --> 00:39:34,080
Speaker 1: Just put it up there and just walk away. Yeah, once,

575
00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:35,880
Speaker 1: don't worry about that. Don't go up there. Don't go

576
00:39:35,960 --> 00:39:38,879
Speaker 1: up there. It's what you mean. Don't go up there,

577
00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:41,640
Speaker 1: and don't go up there. Don't go up there. All right,

578
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:44,440
Speaker 1: Ways to start arguments say this phrase right here. This

579
00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:48,600
Speaker 1: really works. Say I'll be right back and leave, just leave,

580
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:53,440
Speaker 1: just leave. Where are you going? I'll be right back.

581
00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:55,360
Speaker 1: Don't worry about where I'm going. I'll be right back.

582
00:39:55,719 --> 00:40:01,719
Speaker 1: You mean, don't weary about it? Yeah, just walked out

583
00:40:01,760 --> 00:40:05,280
Speaker 1: of here. You you just raised right here on the phone.

584
00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:08,560
Speaker 1: This really gets an argument. Say, good job, Beckett, I'll

585
00:40:08,600 --> 00:40:13,800
Speaker 1: see you tomorrow. Up the phone, Becky. Backy with the

586
00:40:13,840 --> 00:40:18,680
Speaker 1: good hair. Back? Why the hair? You got to encourage Becky?

587
00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:26,319
Speaker 1: Good job Becket? Where she do so bad for your

588
00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:30,359
Speaker 1: black dass gots to be commenting on it? This book

589
00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:33,600
Speaker 1: How to start an argument as your mate, your lady?

590
00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:37,360
Speaker 1: When's U? When's your friend coming over here? You know?

591
00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:47,520
Speaker 1: When Mike she been? When she coming here? She single?

592
00:40:49,760 --> 00:40:53,880
Speaker 1: Oh oh no, Yeah, that's starts argument right off the fat.

593
00:40:55,600 --> 00:41:00,279
Speaker 1: Yeah he's a pretty good jay argument. Yeah, he's the

594
00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:02,960
Speaker 1: start of argument. No matter what movie she says she

595
00:41:03,120 --> 00:41:06,640
Speaker 1: want to go to, you say, oh, I seen it already.

596
00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:19,040
Speaker 1: Oh you're you're going the movies now? Okay to see it. Yeah,

597
00:41:19,080 --> 00:41:22,279
Speaker 1: I've seen that. I've seen that. I've seen it, I've

598
00:41:22,320 --> 00:41:26,320
Speaker 1: seen it. Here's another one. Here's another one. Ways to

599
00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:30,560
Speaker 1: starting argument. You own the phone and you laugh real

600
00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:43,680
Speaker 1: damn loud, and then you stop whispering. And this is

601
00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:48,400
Speaker 1: why he's divorced. Jay, you know how to run? Somebody

602
00:41:48,440 --> 00:41:52,200
Speaker 1: all give me one, Give me one. I put it

603
00:41:52,239 --> 00:42:03,640
Speaker 1: in the book. Buy your wife some running shoes now

604
00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:16,800
Speaker 1: far color? Yeah, man, yeah, buy some running shoes that

605
00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:21,840
Speaker 1: do it. Yeah. All of a sudden, All of a sudden,

606
00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:23,560
Speaker 1: in the middle of the day, you put on a

607
00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:28,080
Speaker 1: clean shirt. You woke up in one shirt and put

608
00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:34,080
Speaker 1: on another. What you change your shirts for? Cannot just

609
00:42:34,120 --> 00:42:37,839
Speaker 1: put on a new shirt? No, no, you cannot. What's

610
00:42:37,880 --> 00:42:41,120
Speaker 1: wrong with all? Can just go in the book? Jack?

611
00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:49,360
Speaker 1: And I just said one more? Last, one more? Really? Yeah,

612
00:42:49,880 --> 00:42:52,880
Speaker 1: to start an argument in your house, guaranteed, Come on

613
00:42:53,120 --> 00:42:56,399
Speaker 1: what come in from work and pull your pants off

614
00:42:56,440 --> 00:43:05,720
Speaker 1: and they ain't got no draws? All right? Thank Jay

615
00:43:05,840 --> 00:43:14,200
Speaker 1: and Steve. You just com up next with today's today's

616
00:43:14,239 --> 00:43:21,960
Speaker 1: frank phone call. Right after that you're listening, coming up

617
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Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, right about four minutes after,

618
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Speaker 1: it's my Strawberry letter for today's subject. Her family is

619
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Speaker 1: ghetto and she doesn't even know it. M right now though,

620
00:43:32,880 --> 00:43:35,640
Speaker 1: we'll get to it. Right now. The nephew is here

621
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Speaker 1: with today's prank phone call. What you got now? Don't

622
00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:44,200
Speaker 1: tell them what I got here? All right? Well, this

623
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Speaker 1: was my mom's favorite. Okay, my late mom, this was

624
00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:51,239
Speaker 1: her favorite when she loved to hear this one. It's

625
00:43:51,239 --> 00:43:57,200
Speaker 1: called um aqua boogie, Right Uncle boogie, Right aqua bogie

626
00:43:57,280 --> 00:44:05,920
Speaker 1: A current R. Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach a Quincy. Please.

627
00:44:06,080 --> 00:44:08,160
Speaker 1: This is Hey. How are you? My name is Maurice.

628
00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:10,800
Speaker 1: Maurice calling you from the power company. How are you

629
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Speaker 1: doing today? I'm all right, what's up? Well, listen, we're

630
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Speaker 1: doing some testing in your neighborhood. We're trying to make

631
00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:18,479
Speaker 1: sure we don't have to actually shut the power down

632
00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:22,479
Speaker 1: out there, and we're calling around quite a few people

633
00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:25,640
Speaker 1: in your neighborhood running some tests on individual homes and

634
00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:29,319
Speaker 1: making sure the electricity is running correctly. Can I get

635
00:44:29,360 --> 00:44:31,360
Speaker 1: you to do a few things swarm and see and

636
00:44:32,040 --> 00:44:34,080
Speaker 1: the quicker we get through with this, sir, and it's

637
00:44:34,120 --> 00:44:36,359
Speaker 1: possibility we won't have to turn your power off at all.

638
00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:37,759
Speaker 1: I know you don't want us to have to come

639
00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:40,360
Speaker 1: out and turn power off. And you got stuff in

640
00:44:40,360 --> 00:44:42,759
Speaker 1: your refrigerator that can spoil and things like that, So

641
00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:45,240
Speaker 1: we want to try to get this done and hopefully

642
00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:47,120
Speaker 1: the power with the with the test that we run,

643
00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:50,040
Speaker 1: it'll it'll run correctly and we won't have to do anything. Okay,

644
00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:52,359
Speaker 1: I don't know an electricity though, you know what I'm saying,

645
00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:54,440
Speaker 1: So no, no, no, I understand that. Don't worry about that.

646
00:44:55,160 --> 00:44:57,279
Speaker 1: Here's what I need you to do. Now. How big

647
00:44:57,360 --> 00:44:59,879
Speaker 1: is your house? Well? Do you how many bedrooms? You got? Rose?

648
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:05,080
Speaker 1: Four bedrooms? Now you have upstairs? Downstairs? It's too short, okay,

649
00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:07,200
Speaker 1: all right, so here's what we need to do. Um

650
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:10,080
Speaker 1: if you can't, ain't gonna take long though, her I

651
00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:11,759
Speaker 1: got it, because I'm in a hurry. Then ain't gonna

652
00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:13,800
Speaker 1: have a lot of time. No, no, no, this this, this, this,

653
00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:16,040
Speaker 1: this won't take long at all. So can I get

654
00:45:16,080 --> 00:45:20,080
Speaker 1: you to take your breaker and shut down everything upstairs?

655
00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:22,600
Speaker 1: And we're gonna run a test on the stuff downstairs

656
00:45:22,640 --> 00:45:25,239
Speaker 1: right now. It'll be real quick, all right, just shut

657
00:45:25,400 --> 00:45:27,040
Speaker 1: just shut everything off. I want you to keep the

658
00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:29,400
Speaker 1: downstairs open and keep that to the weekness so we

659
00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:32,480
Speaker 1: can run our test on this thing. All right, everything's

660
00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:35,719
Speaker 1: shut everything's down, okay, you you turned off everything. I

661
00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:38,200
Speaker 1: just turned off all the switches. Okay, here's what I

662
00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:40,799
Speaker 1: need you to do. I need you to turn on

663
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:45,359
Speaker 1: your television and then turn it off downstairs, downstairs. How

664
00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:48,279
Speaker 1: many TVs you got? I got two TVs downstairs. Let's

665
00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:51,879
Speaker 1: turn them both on you all right, they both on? Okay. Now,

666
00:45:51,960 --> 00:45:55,400
Speaker 1: you got a microwave in your kitchen? Yeah, a microwave. Okay,

667
00:45:55,440 --> 00:45:57,759
Speaker 1: turn out on. It's already on, man, I can see

668
00:45:57,760 --> 00:45:59,640
Speaker 1: the lights. One, it's got the clock on it. That's

669
00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:02,160
Speaker 1: got that double hron thing that's going through there. It's

670
00:46:02,160 --> 00:46:03,840
Speaker 1: a whole different type of current. I just want to

671
00:46:03,840 --> 00:46:05,440
Speaker 1: mount on them about what you're talking about. But I

672
00:46:05,480 --> 00:46:08,640
Speaker 1: gotta get to work, man, So the microwaves on, it's running. No, No,

673
00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:10,560
Speaker 1: I want you to actually turn it on. I want

674
00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:13,080
Speaker 1: you to actually push like a minute or two on

675
00:46:13,080 --> 00:46:16,120
Speaker 1: that thing. Anything, Man, come on now, I mean what

676
00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:18,080
Speaker 1: you gotta do. No, this is a test, sir. What

677
00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:19,279
Speaker 1: I don't want to have to do is come out

678
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:21,200
Speaker 1: there and turn your power off. And I don't want

679
00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:22,400
Speaker 1: to do that. You got a lot of food in

680
00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:26,399
Speaker 1: your fridge. I'm sure, right, all right, all right, he's look,

681
00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:32,840
Speaker 1: it's on microwaves zone TV zones. Okay, now open your refrige. Man,

682
00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:36,239
Speaker 1: electricity works downstairs. Okay, but listen now, I know. But

683
00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:37,800
Speaker 1: what we gotta do is we gotta make sure that

684
00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:42,960
Speaker 1: this stuff isn't overpower. Now, can you open your refrigerator? Yeah? Yeah, Man,

685
00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:48,239
Speaker 1: do you see the button that actually has you can

686
00:46:48,239 --> 00:46:49,960
Speaker 1: turn you can push it in the lighter go out.

687
00:46:50,000 --> 00:46:51,960
Speaker 1: You know what I'm talking about. Come on, man, you

688
00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:55,200
Speaker 1: ain't got nobody to just be able to check something outside. Man,

689
00:46:55,400 --> 00:46:57,959
Speaker 1: I mean I'm in the fridge. I understand. But push

690
00:46:58,000 --> 00:46:59,960
Speaker 1: that button five times for him and see what it does.

691
00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:04,640
Speaker 1: What the light button? Yeah, push that light button five times.

692
00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:07,319
Speaker 1: Come on, man, it does it go off and on

693
00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:10,560
Speaker 1: everything it's going on? Man, they end it wrong. The

694
00:47:10,600 --> 00:47:13,719
Speaker 1: refriciate reficiates plug in man. Okay, Now here's what I

695
00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:15,720
Speaker 1: want you to do. Right there, and you're in the kitchen.

696
00:47:16,040 --> 00:47:19,399
Speaker 1: Turn your sink on for me. Turn sink on. Take

697
00:47:19,400 --> 00:47:21,839
Speaker 1: got do electricity. Many say that's a nitral current. That's

698
00:47:21,840 --> 00:47:23,839
Speaker 1: a nitral current. You wouldn't understand that. But I need

699
00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:25,520
Speaker 1: you to turn that on for me too. Just turn

700
00:47:25,560 --> 00:47:31,760
Speaker 1: it on full blasts. Got it on. I got it on. Okay,

701
00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:34,520
Speaker 1: Now go in your master bedroom. I get set it off. No,

702
00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:37,719
Speaker 1: let that water run. Go on your master bedroom and

703
00:47:37,840 --> 00:47:40,319
Speaker 1: go on the bath for me. I appreciate you helping

704
00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:42,400
Speaker 1: me out on this man, Come on, man, Quincy, I

705
00:47:42,440 --> 00:47:45,880
Speaker 1: appreciate it, Ry, I mean everything. It's everything I'm in.

706
00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:49,000
Speaker 1: I'm in the bath. What's plush that toilet for me? Quincy?

707
00:47:49,160 --> 00:47:52,399
Speaker 1: See where plus that toilet for me? Plush the toilet? Yeah,

708
00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:54,920
Speaker 1: plush that toilet. It isn't even electrical. What it is?

709
00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:56,879
Speaker 1: It's a it's a it's an awkward book and heard.

710
00:47:56,960 --> 00:47:59,759
Speaker 1: You need to get somebody up. Okay, I'm gonna plush

711
00:47:59,800 --> 00:48:03,239
Speaker 1: the It ain't no electrical plugs in that in this area, man, right,

712
00:48:03,239 --> 00:48:04,759
Speaker 1: I understand that, you know what. See what it is?

713
00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:07,239
Speaker 1: This is an awkward bookie current that flows through that

714
00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:14,000
Speaker 1: water plus that thing for me one time? Yeah, yeah,

715
00:48:14,040 --> 00:48:18,719
Speaker 1: that's it. Okay, all right, Tory works. Man. You ain't

716
00:48:18,719 --> 00:48:20,520
Speaker 1: got nobody in the area that could come out here

717
00:48:20,520 --> 00:48:22,960
Speaker 1: and just check it out. Man, Quincy, I'm trying my

718
00:48:23,000 --> 00:48:24,879
Speaker 1: best not to come out and and and and and

719
00:48:25,080 --> 00:48:27,239
Speaker 1: turn your power off. And I know you got someone

720
00:48:27,320 --> 00:48:29,640
Speaker 1: to go turn my power off. Man, you're supposed to

721
00:48:29,640 --> 00:48:31,520
Speaker 1: be making sure the power of stay on. Right, I

722
00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:33,839
Speaker 1: understand that. Now do you have, Quincy, do you have

723
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:36,520
Speaker 1: a blender? Yeah? I gotta blender, man, I gotta blender

724
00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:39,399
Speaker 1: I got a TV, I got a refrigerator, and they

725
00:48:39,480 --> 00:48:43,200
Speaker 1: all work. The toiter it works, everything worked all right.

726
00:48:43,200 --> 00:48:44,800
Speaker 1: What I want you to do is get this blender

727
00:48:44,960 --> 00:48:46,799
Speaker 1: and we'll just throw you a few cues the eyes

728
00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:48,480
Speaker 1: of something there and turn that thing on for him.

729
00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:50,839
Speaker 1: Come on, man, we're almost done. I got to get

730
00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:56,000
Speaker 1: to work, man, just work. Women was appreciated. Man, this

731
00:48:56,120 --> 00:49:01,239
Speaker 1: is just the blunders. Come on, man, I said, I

732
00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:03,719
Speaker 1: have to match the curag be walking in house. Man,

733
00:49:03,800 --> 00:49:05,400
Speaker 1: you need to check the niche house. You don't have

734
00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:07,359
Speaker 1: no problems with no smoothes or nothing in that thing.

735
00:49:07,440 --> 00:49:10,400
Speaker 1: Do you see, man? With the world, I got to

736
00:49:10,440 --> 00:49:13,520
Speaker 1: do with anything. Man, I gotta get to work. Understand

737
00:49:13,600 --> 00:49:16,560
Speaker 1: listening to a minute, minute's going too far? He come

738
00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:18,759
Speaker 1: out here or do this? Because I need to get

739
00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:21,360
Speaker 1: to my job. And I got understand that job. I

740
00:49:21,400 --> 00:49:23,160
Speaker 1: can just call and had people go through the damn

741
00:49:23,200 --> 00:49:25,680
Speaker 1: house playing scavenger hunt. I gotta get to work. Okay,

742
00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:28,279
Speaker 1: Now listen to Quincy. One last thing. Are you able

743
00:49:28,320 --> 00:49:31,000
Speaker 1: to shut that breaker? Put that breaker back on and

744
00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:33,399
Speaker 1: then shut off downstairs, and then go upstairs and check

745
00:49:33,480 --> 00:49:36,880
Speaker 1: some stuff for me. Shut off what shut off the breaker? Downstairs?

746
00:49:36,960 --> 00:49:38,440
Speaker 1: Go ahead and turn it. I'm not shutting off no

747
00:49:38,560 --> 00:49:41,560
Speaker 1: breaker downstairs. I shut off the water upstairs. We didn't

748
00:49:41,600 --> 00:49:44,320
Speaker 1: turn on every damn thing down here. You didn't have me.

749
00:49:44,360 --> 00:49:46,640
Speaker 1: I got the blender. I didn't turn on the microwave.

750
00:49:46,719 --> 00:49:49,839
Speaker 1: To Fridgate cool man pushing and tole us. I gotta

751
00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:52,000
Speaker 1: get to work, Quinty. I need you to lose this

752
00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:54,680
Speaker 1: attitude you got. I need you get somebody down here

753
00:49:54,680 --> 00:49:57,480
Speaker 1: to do my electricity in my house work. It worked

754
00:49:57,520 --> 00:49:59,399
Speaker 1: for you. Call on the longe. Thing ain't work. It's

755
00:49:59,480 --> 00:50:02,200
Speaker 1: not ain't at work because I'm here doing this book,

756
00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:05,360
Speaker 1: playing off and on. Get somebody in here, worth, I

757
00:50:05,440 --> 00:50:07,400
Speaker 1: don't piss me off and make me turn it all

758
00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:11,200
Speaker 1: the way off. Shoo work, and when I get back

759
00:50:11,239 --> 00:50:14,080
Speaker 1: from work, this should be on. I got one more

760
00:50:14,120 --> 00:50:15,919
Speaker 1: thing I need to say to you, Quinny. It's better

761
00:50:16,000 --> 00:50:19,040
Speaker 1: be the last thing. That's his nephew Tommy from the

762
00:50:19,120 --> 00:50:22,880
Speaker 1: Steve Hobby Morning Show. You just got prinked by your

763
00:50:22,920 --> 00:50:35,480
Speaker 1: sister gown skilled better being a witness protection program. Manh

764
00:50:38,560 --> 00:50:44,040
Speaker 1: Let me turn it on on. Man, hey man, let

765
00:50:44,040 --> 00:50:46,640
Speaker 1: me ask you something, man, what is the baddest I'm

766
00:50:46,680 --> 00:50:50,239
Speaker 1: talking about the baddest radio show in the land as

767
00:50:50,320 --> 00:50:55,240
Speaker 1: got to be the Steve Harvey Morning Show and Tommy,

768
00:50:55,640 --> 00:50:58,200
Speaker 1: uh you call me again. They're gonna be the show

769
00:50:58,440 --> 00:51:06,400
Speaker 1: used to have Tommy on that right there, fairly goes

770
00:51:06,440 --> 00:51:08,800
Speaker 1: to Miss Helen right there. Okay, ok, you have to

771
00:51:08,880 --> 00:51:11,640
Speaker 1: those people go all over the house doing all this stuff.

772
00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:15,719
Speaker 1: He's so crazy. All right, here we go, coming up

773
00:51:16,000 --> 00:51:19,600
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. We'll get into its subject. Her family is ghetto.

774
00:51:19,719 --> 00:51:22,520
Speaker 1: She doesn't know it. We'll be back right after this.

775
00:51:23,360 --> 00:51:30,839
Speaker 1: You're listening to show time now for it Today's Strawberry Letter,

776
00:51:30,880 --> 00:51:35,480
Speaker 1: and listen. If you need advice and relationships on dating, work, sex, parenting,

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Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM

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Speaker 1: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be

779
00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:46,200
Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're

780
00:51:46,239 --> 00:51:50,120
Speaker 1: gonna read that right there right now for you. Buckle

781
00:51:50,200 --> 00:51:51,880
Speaker 1: up and hold on tight. We got it for you.

782
00:51:51,920 --> 00:51:55,280
Speaker 1: Here it is Strawberry Letter. Ain't done that in a minute. Wow,

783
00:51:55,400 --> 00:51:57,880
Speaker 1: thank you for you're welcome. What do you mean you

784
00:51:57,920 --> 00:52:00,960
Speaker 1: haven't done any well? You know Steven is here. He

785
00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:03,880
Speaker 1: don't let me introduce the letter though. More Shut up,

786
00:52:03,880 --> 00:52:06,600
Speaker 1: I don't need all that. That's for surely shut your

787
00:52:06,640 --> 00:52:09,719
Speaker 1: ignorant ass. Well, she back, and you did it, so

788
00:52:09,840 --> 00:52:14,839
Speaker 1: can we do the letter now? You're happy to he

789
00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:19,560
Speaker 1: hate I did. It's a lot going on, all right,

790
00:52:19,640 --> 00:52:23,719
Speaker 1: something like me, My uncle do not like me. He

791
00:52:23,840 --> 00:52:27,520
Speaker 1: loves you though, he loves you, Yeah, all right, subject

792
00:52:27,560 --> 00:52:31,400
Speaker 1: Her family is gathering for y'all. Both of y'all are correct?

793
00:52:33,160 --> 00:52:36,200
Speaker 1: What your uncle and he do not like you? See that?

794
00:52:36,480 --> 00:52:40,480
Speaker 1: But he loves you, all right? Yeah, I love you.

795
00:52:40,560 --> 00:52:42,800
Speaker 1: The deaf boy ain't gonna let nothing happen to you.

796
00:52:43,440 --> 00:52:48,960
Speaker 1: Do not particularly care for you. All right, here we go,

797
00:52:49,520 --> 00:52:54,640
Speaker 1: just Steven Shirley, It's yes, it is. I grew up

798
00:52:54,640 --> 00:52:56,920
Speaker 1: in a two parent home, and both of my parents

799
00:52:56,960 --> 00:53:00,239
Speaker 1: earned college degrees and worked hard to provide a good

800
00:53:00,239 --> 00:53:02,680
Speaker 1: life from me and my siblings. And I have a

801
00:53:02,719 --> 00:53:05,680
Speaker 1: college degree as well. And I've been married for over

802
00:53:05,840 --> 00:53:10,120
Speaker 1: twenty years to a great woman, and we have two teenagers.

803
00:53:10,440 --> 00:53:14,359
Speaker 1: My teenagers are well mannered and really smart kids. So

804
00:53:14,400 --> 00:53:17,640
Speaker 1: here's my problem. I met my wife in college and

805
00:53:17,760 --> 00:53:21,880
Speaker 1: fell in love with her, but I cannot stand her family.

806
00:53:22,480 --> 00:53:25,880
Speaker 1: They are, for lack of a better term, ghetto. I

807
00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:29,160
Speaker 1: must admit that as my kids grew up. I limited

808
00:53:29,200 --> 00:53:32,120
Speaker 1: their access to my wife's side of the family, but

809
00:53:32,200 --> 00:53:34,920
Speaker 1: I had to be careful so I wouldn't offend my wife.

810
00:53:35,239 --> 00:53:38,200
Speaker 1: These people are hood and they have a cookout for

811
00:53:38,320 --> 00:53:42,480
Speaker 1: every occasion. They all live on the same street in

812
00:53:42,560 --> 00:53:46,479
Speaker 1: five or six mobile homes, so they always are down

813
00:53:46,520 --> 00:53:50,560
Speaker 1: to party, play cards, drink, get all loud, and act

814
00:53:50,600 --> 00:53:55,040
Speaker 1: a fool. These kids are always part of their kids

815
00:53:55,040 --> 00:53:57,720
Speaker 1: are always part of the festivities, and when my children

816
00:53:57,760 --> 00:54:00,480
Speaker 1: were younger, my wife wanted our children and to get

817
00:54:00,480 --> 00:54:03,640
Speaker 1: to know their cousins. That didn't last long because the

818
00:54:03,719 --> 00:54:07,239
Speaker 1: hood cousins started teasing my children about the way they

819
00:54:07,280 --> 00:54:10,600
Speaker 1: speak and how they carried themselves. One of my sons

820
00:54:10,640 --> 00:54:13,640
Speaker 1: will be graduating from high school soon and my wife

821
00:54:13,880 --> 00:54:17,320
Speaker 1: has a party plan for him. She wants to invite

822
00:54:17,360 --> 00:54:21,480
Speaker 1: her entire family to the party that's in our community

823
00:54:21,520 --> 00:54:26,319
Speaker 1: center in our neighborhood. I have politely reminded her how

824
00:54:26,400 --> 00:54:29,120
Speaker 1: much of a fiasco it might be, but she is

825
00:54:29,239 --> 00:54:33,200
Speaker 1: dead set on having her family included. I can already

826
00:54:33,239 --> 00:54:36,560
Speaker 1: imagine a dice game jumping off by the pool if

827
00:54:36,560 --> 00:54:40,000
Speaker 1: her uncle comes. I don't want to be disrespectful, but

828
00:54:40,120 --> 00:54:42,239
Speaker 1: I need to put my foot down and set some

829
00:54:42,360 --> 00:54:49,880
Speaker 1: ground rules. Stephen Shirley, how can I make this party work? Wow? Well? First, first, first,

830
00:54:50,760 --> 00:54:54,200
Speaker 1: no alcohol. I have to say that, no alcohol, because

831
00:54:54,200 --> 00:54:58,520
Speaker 1: that's when the stuff jumps off. No alcohol, okay, none,

832
00:54:58,800 --> 00:55:01,919
Speaker 1: don't have any. They're gonna be mad. But you can't

833
00:55:01,960 --> 00:55:04,640
Speaker 1: have any alcohol because they get that in them and

834
00:55:04,760 --> 00:55:07,640
Speaker 1: it's just no telling. You might want to have some

835
00:55:08,040 --> 00:55:12,080
Speaker 1: security around, some playing close security, you know, let them

836
00:55:12,160 --> 00:55:15,719
Speaker 1: mingle through the crowd and everything, because you know that's

837
00:55:15,719 --> 00:55:20,080
Speaker 1: in case something does go down. You know. In the meantime, though,

838
00:55:20,120 --> 00:55:22,040
Speaker 1: I gotta tell you this. I gotta tell you this.

839
00:55:22,120 --> 00:55:24,200
Speaker 1: She gave us a lot of information in your letter.

840
00:55:24,280 --> 00:55:26,880
Speaker 1: You know about you graduating from college. You and your

841
00:55:26,920 --> 00:55:29,360
Speaker 1: wife have been together for twenty years. She's a great woman.

842
00:55:29,400 --> 00:55:32,120
Speaker 1: You fell in love with her. Your kids are great.

843
00:55:32,640 --> 00:55:35,400
Speaker 1: Their hood cousins make fun of them and everything. I

844
00:55:35,480 --> 00:55:38,520
Speaker 1: just say, in the meantime, this is a teenage party,

845
00:55:38,600 --> 00:55:41,560
Speaker 1: you know. Remind people of that, so it should be

846
00:55:41,600 --> 00:55:43,920
Speaker 1: okay because it's for the teenagers. As long as a

847
00:55:43,960 --> 00:55:47,560
Speaker 1: grown folks don't act to fool the adults. Just have

848
00:55:47,640 --> 00:55:51,000
Speaker 1: to behave You love your wife. You said that you

849
00:55:51,160 --> 00:55:52,920
Speaker 1: love your wife. You fell in love with her, and

850
00:55:53,000 --> 00:55:56,480
Speaker 1: you don't want to offend her, So please please be

851
00:55:56,560 --> 00:55:58,880
Speaker 1: mindful of that. You know that these are her folks.

852
00:55:58,880 --> 00:56:02,680
Speaker 1: She wants them to be included, She loves them, and

853
00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:06,719
Speaker 1: really she wants them there. So I mean hood or not,

854
00:56:06,920 --> 00:56:09,080
Speaker 1: ghetto or not as you call it, they're gonna. They're

855
00:56:09,120 --> 00:56:11,160
Speaker 1: gonna be there because this is what the wife that

856
00:56:11,239 --> 00:56:14,000
Speaker 1: you love wants. So no alcohol and a little bit

857
00:56:14,000 --> 00:56:17,880
Speaker 1: of security might help you, Steve. Well, how many minutes

858
00:56:17,920 --> 00:56:21,279
Speaker 1: I got here before I get started on this. I

859
00:56:21,360 --> 00:56:27,239
Speaker 1: just wanted to say that I completely and totally disagree

860
00:56:27,280 --> 00:56:36,120
Speaker 1: with everything Shirleys said. Your damn children need these people, Yes,

861
00:56:36,280 --> 00:56:39,560
Speaker 1: they do. Try to give a damn both my parents

862
00:56:39,600 --> 00:56:42,680
Speaker 1: and college degree. My mom and daddy ain't ever ain't

863
00:56:42,760 --> 00:56:47,040
Speaker 1: My dad ain't even finished elementary school. My mama got

864
00:56:47,040 --> 00:56:50,560
Speaker 1: a high school diploma, that's it. Ain't. None of my

865
00:56:50,600 --> 00:56:53,839
Speaker 1: brothers and sisters been in no college, that's it. I

866
00:56:53,880 --> 00:56:57,799
Speaker 1: went funk right out. I got a college degree as well.

867
00:56:57,880 --> 00:57:00,359
Speaker 1: I've been married over twenty years with everybody gonna make

868
00:57:00,400 --> 00:57:06,920
Speaker 1: it twenty years hip hip, hooray for you, partner. I'm

869
00:57:06,960 --> 00:57:09,279
Speaker 1: just gonna tell him what because you know you think

870
00:57:09,360 --> 00:57:13,040
Speaker 1: he's somebody. Yeah, you got these two teenagers. They well

871
00:57:13,160 --> 00:57:17,080
Speaker 1: mannered and really smart kids. They book smart, they ass

872
00:57:17,200 --> 00:57:20,840
Speaker 1: ain't street smart. Stupid ass need to get with these

873
00:57:20,880 --> 00:57:22,920
Speaker 1: cuss and show them how to handle themselves out there

874
00:57:22,920 --> 00:57:27,040
Speaker 1: in life. You got a family that's got five mobile

875
00:57:27,040 --> 00:57:29,200
Speaker 1: parks down the street from each other, all of them

876
00:57:29,200 --> 00:57:32,680
Speaker 1: in trailer home. He needs to know these people because

877
00:57:32,680 --> 00:57:37,360
Speaker 1: something could pop off. You need them people, are you

878
00:57:37,560 --> 00:57:39,680
Speaker 1: mad and stuff? You don't want them around there for

879
00:57:39,760 --> 00:57:42,840
Speaker 1: lack of better turn. They get on everybody on the

880
00:57:42,880 --> 00:57:46,040
Speaker 1: morning show from damn get on. It's a lot of

881
00:57:46,240 --> 00:57:50,040
Speaker 1: good in the hood. But you think because you got

882
00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:53,840
Speaker 1: this little degree, oh you think your ass is somebody?

883
00:57:54,000 --> 00:57:59,360
Speaker 1: You special where you ain't. You're mad at him? Yeah? Him, Yeah,

884
00:57:59,360 --> 00:58:02,640
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna tell you whip when you come back. Yea, yeah,

885
00:58:02,800 --> 00:58:06,000
Speaker 1: sitting up here because he got a little punkad degree.

886
00:58:06,800 --> 00:58:10,720
Speaker 1: All right, listen, Steve, hang onto that two of your self.

887
00:58:10,800 --> 00:58:13,440
Speaker 1: Your response coming up in twenty three minutes after the

888
00:58:13,480 --> 00:58:16,880
Speaker 1: our Today's Strawberry Letters subject her family is ghetto. She

889
00:58:16,920 --> 00:58:19,800
Speaker 1: doesn't know it. We'll get back into it right after this.

890
00:58:20,520 --> 00:58:25,640
Speaker 1: You're listening show, all right, Steve, come on, let's recap

891
00:58:25,680 --> 00:58:29,600
Speaker 1: today's strawberry letter, which you are so mad about the subject.

892
00:58:29,640 --> 00:58:33,120
Speaker 1: Her family is ghetto and she doesn't know. Ye tell

893
00:58:33,160 --> 00:58:36,800
Speaker 1: me so damn. Most ghetto people don't know. They get

894
00:58:36,880 --> 00:58:40,240
Speaker 1: off cause they from the ghetto. That's just where they from,

895
00:58:40,920 --> 00:58:43,000
Speaker 1: That's just where they live. Now, you sitting have been

896
00:58:43,000 --> 00:58:46,720
Speaker 1: here because both your parents got college degree, work hard,

897
00:58:46,920 --> 00:58:51,280
Speaker 1: you and your siblings. You mad twenty great woman to teenage.

898
00:58:51,440 --> 00:58:54,920
Speaker 1: Both y'all got degrees. You met in college. But you

899
00:58:54,960 --> 00:58:57,680
Speaker 1: can't stay in her family. Well, her family probably can't

900
00:58:57,720 --> 00:59:02,560
Speaker 1: stay in you either. Your bushy ass coming over. See there,

901
00:59:02,720 --> 00:59:06,080
Speaker 1: there are a lot of they lack for a better turn. Yeah,

902
00:59:06,280 --> 00:59:09,960
Speaker 1: hit them. His snobby ass sitting up in here. You

903
00:59:10,000 --> 00:59:12,520
Speaker 1: don't like nothing they do down there, so I'm gonna

904
00:59:12,560 --> 00:59:14,720
Speaker 1: tell you about him. I must admit that as the

905
00:59:14,840 --> 00:59:17,640
Speaker 1: kids grew up, I limited their access to my wife's

906
00:59:17,640 --> 00:59:19,440
Speaker 1: side of family, but I had to be careful not

907
00:59:19,520 --> 00:59:22,560
Speaker 1: to feedom these peoplehood They see you think your kids

908
00:59:22,640 --> 00:59:25,720
Speaker 1: is well mannered and smart kids, but they don't got

909
00:59:25,840 --> 00:59:28,880
Speaker 1: no streets smart you know what I mean in stupid

910
00:59:28,920 --> 00:59:34,000
Speaker 1: ass book, smart people. I know Bill Gates ain't got

911
00:59:34,000 --> 00:59:36,080
Speaker 1: a college degree. Hold on let me show you. So

912
00:59:36,160 --> 00:59:38,560
Speaker 1: let's get it rid of them. We're talking about college greed.

913
00:59:39,080 --> 00:59:44,160
Speaker 1: Timmy got a college degree. Oh my don't have a

914
00:59:44,240 --> 00:59:47,320
Speaker 1: college degree. Now, which one us you want your kids

915
00:59:47,320 --> 00:59:52,240
Speaker 1: to be? Timmy got a college degree. I ain't who

916
00:59:52,320 --> 00:59:55,640
Speaker 1: you want your kids to be, probably neither one of us.

917
00:59:55,800 --> 00:59:59,960
Speaker 1: But if you had to pick one, what you pick history?

918
01:00:00,120 --> 01:00:02,800
Speaker 1: For the ass, that's all I'm asking. You got a

919
01:00:03,000 --> 01:00:05,840
Speaker 1: college degree. Ain't got a damn brain in his skull.

920
01:00:06,280 --> 01:00:09,160
Speaker 1: So much for your little damn college degree. They have

921
01:00:09,200 --> 01:00:11,920
Speaker 1: a cookout for every occasion. They live on the Stame

922
01:00:12,040 --> 01:00:14,919
Speaker 1: Street in five or six mobile homes. They always down

923
01:00:14,960 --> 01:00:18,160
Speaker 1: the party, play cars and drake. Damn it, what's wrong

924
01:00:18,200 --> 01:00:22,040
Speaker 1: with that? You got to do something. We've been working

925
01:00:22,040 --> 01:00:24,520
Speaker 1: all week. We got to have some fun. We ain't

926
01:00:24,520 --> 01:00:27,000
Speaker 1: got a whole lot of money, so we're gonna play cars.

927
01:00:27,120 --> 01:00:29,120
Speaker 1: That's what doesn't matter what your punk ass kids. They

928
01:00:29,120 --> 01:00:31,720
Speaker 1: don't know how to play Page. They can't play Dead

929
01:00:31,880 --> 01:00:34,280
Speaker 1: with they don't know how to or they don't play

930
01:00:34,360 --> 01:00:37,520
Speaker 1: tom they don't shoot dice. Little punk ass kids gonna

931
01:00:37,520 --> 01:00:39,320
Speaker 1: go off to college. Ain't gonna do a damn thing.

932
01:00:39,480 --> 01:00:41,560
Speaker 1: He gonna get the ass hustle. They're gonna go in

933
01:00:41,640 --> 01:00:44,160
Speaker 1: Time Square. Somebody gonna have a three car model the

934
01:00:44,200 --> 01:00:47,240
Speaker 1: game set up. Take all your little ignorant ass kids money.

935
01:00:47,360 --> 01:00:50,000
Speaker 1: Somebody gonna have a share game set up. Take all

936
01:00:50,040 --> 01:00:52,800
Speaker 1: your kids money. Oh yeah, they're gonna but they're gonna

937
01:00:52,840 --> 01:00:56,120
Speaker 1: go visit everybody go to Times Square. Your little kids

938
01:00:56,120 --> 01:00:59,160
Speaker 1: gonna come back broke. The kids are always a part

939
01:00:59,200 --> 01:01:02,280
Speaker 1: of the festive. Your kids probably need to learn how

940
01:01:02,320 --> 01:01:04,320
Speaker 1: to play tongue. How to hell, you grow up and

941
01:01:04,400 --> 01:01:07,040
Speaker 1: don't know how to play tongue. You can't shoot no

942
01:01:07,200 --> 01:01:10,040
Speaker 1: damn pool. My wife want our children to get they

943
01:01:10,120 --> 01:01:12,680
Speaker 1: know their cousins because your wife is right, because she

944
01:01:12,840 --> 01:01:15,080
Speaker 1: know you ain't taught them a damn thing and set

945
01:01:15,120 --> 01:01:16,760
Speaker 1: up here and taught them all that book knowledge and

946
01:01:16,800 --> 01:01:18,840
Speaker 1: all that, and they talk. They're getting their ass whipped

947
01:01:18,840 --> 01:01:22,680
Speaker 1: every time they go to the playground. What I'm telling

948
01:01:22,680 --> 01:01:24,640
Speaker 1: you what it sounds, this is what I'm reading in

949
01:01:24,680 --> 01:01:27,280
Speaker 1: the letter. I'm reading all this in the letter. Your

950
01:01:27,320 --> 01:01:29,480
Speaker 1: wife want them to know their cousins because they damn

951
01:01:29,600 --> 01:01:33,440
Speaker 1: dad is soft. They didn't last long casting hood cousins.

952
01:01:33,560 --> 01:01:36,600
Speaker 1: They want them to come over and could start teasing

953
01:01:36,640 --> 01:01:38,800
Speaker 1: your children about the way they speak and how they

954
01:01:38,800 --> 01:01:41,080
Speaker 1: care themselves. They ain't the last time they're gonna hit this.

955
01:01:42,480 --> 01:01:46,080
Speaker 1: The hood cousins was getting them ready for life. Why

956
01:01:46,120 --> 01:01:50,040
Speaker 1: are you mad because they're sitting up in here and

957
01:01:50,320 --> 01:01:54,400
Speaker 1: not not not honoring the value of these hood cousins.

958
01:01:54,920 --> 01:01:57,400
Speaker 1: It's good in the hood. You need to let these

959
01:01:57,400 --> 01:01:59,800
Speaker 1: hood tease your kids about the way they speak. They

960
01:02:00,040 --> 01:02:02,760
Speaker 1: probably speak real properly, just like your hands. One of

961
01:02:02,760 --> 01:02:05,360
Speaker 1: my sons we graduated from high school. My wife got

962
01:02:05,360 --> 01:02:07,800
Speaker 1: a party playing. She want to invite her and tie

963
01:02:07,840 --> 01:02:11,080
Speaker 1: party to the five family to the party that's in

964
01:02:11,080 --> 01:02:15,120
Speaker 1: our community center in our neighborhood. Oh oh, I see

965
01:02:15,200 --> 01:02:17,880
Speaker 1: you live in a complex that's got a community center.

966
01:02:18,480 --> 01:02:20,840
Speaker 1: Oh now you're gonna oh you scared. The hood people

967
01:02:20,920 --> 01:02:23,440
Speaker 1: gonna come over that starts squimming with all his clothes

968
01:02:23,480 --> 01:02:26,520
Speaker 1: on and stuff like that, Gonna bring up grill out there,

969
01:02:26,720 --> 01:02:29,560
Speaker 1: because you know, we travel with grills in our car.

970
01:02:29,840 --> 01:02:31,760
Speaker 1: I had a grill in my car till I was

971
01:02:31,800 --> 01:02:35,280
Speaker 1: thirty four years old. Sorry to mention, Yeah, kept a

972
01:02:35,320 --> 01:02:38,080
Speaker 1: grill in my car. Charcoal light of fluid too, and

973
01:02:38,200 --> 01:02:41,960
Speaker 1: a fishing rod. Hell yeah, hey, never know when I

974
01:02:42,040 --> 01:02:44,280
Speaker 1: run across the lake. I need some need. I was homeless,

975
01:02:44,400 --> 01:02:46,439
Speaker 1: I ain't on time to do them this punk ass letter,

976
01:02:46,640 --> 01:02:49,440
Speaker 1: and you were sitting up in here. I politely remind

977
01:02:49,480 --> 01:02:51,720
Speaker 1: her how much your fiasco it'll be if I invite

978
01:02:51,760 --> 01:02:54,000
Speaker 1: them people over that. But she dared sit on having

979
01:02:54,000 --> 01:02:57,040
Speaker 1: her family included. I can imagine the dice game jumping

980
01:02:57,080 --> 01:02:59,880
Speaker 1: off by the pool. If they uncle come hold on,

981
01:03:00,200 --> 01:03:05,240
Speaker 1: like to shoot dice? Oh hell, I'm no. I know

982
01:03:05,360 --> 01:03:09,960
Speaker 1: you ain't say we can't shoot dice. We can't shoot dice.

983
01:03:10,440 --> 01:03:16,400
Speaker 1: We at the swimming pool. People don't swim, so what

984
01:03:16,400 --> 01:03:20,400
Speaker 1: else they gonna do? Your uncle can't swim. He got

985
01:03:20,440 --> 01:03:23,240
Speaker 1: some dice were standing around. Ween't do it? And then

986
01:03:23,240 --> 01:03:27,200
Speaker 1: you hold on shut we're shooting dice. I don't want

987
01:03:27,200 --> 01:03:29,400
Speaker 1: to be disrespectful. I need to put my foot down.

988
01:03:29,560 --> 01:03:31,920
Speaker 1: You can kick the dice. Put your foot down. If

989
01:03:31,920 --> 01:03:34,320
Speaker 1: they roll you kick it forward, hit point. You can

990
01:03:34,400 --> 01:03:37,320
Speaker 1: kick the dice. Get a rethroat fabe. I need to

991
01:03:37,360 --> 01:03:39,919
Speaker 1: make some ground. Why can I make this party work?

992
01:03:40,440 --> 01:03:45,120
Speaker 1: Your ass don't go now what you wanna ask? So

993
01:03:45,280 --> 01:03:48,480
Speaker 1: you're rolling around with a fishing pole because you get hungry,

994
01:03:48,520 --> 01:03:50,880
Speaker 1: so you'll go get some fish and then catch it

995
01:03:50,920 --> 01:03:53,160
Speaker 1: and bring it back and cooking on the grill that's

996
01:03:53,160 --> 01:03:55,400
Speaker 1: in your car. No, I take it up to the

997
01:03:55,480 --> 01:03:59,280
Speaker 1: rest area because they got some cassine grills already dug

998
01:03:59,320 --> 01:04:03,160
Speaker 1: into the ground. We threw parties my brother. My brother

999
01:04:03,520 --> 01:04:06,440
Speaker 1: still got card parties at his house where my oldest

1000
01:04:06,440 --> 01:04:09,520
Speaker 1: brother died. We stopped for six months because we was morning.

1001
01:04:09,520 --> 01:04:16,160
Speaker 1: But we're back now, thank you, Simon Son. Today's strawberry

1002
01:04:16,240 --> 01:04:21,840
Speaker 1: letters on Instagram and Facebook coming up in forty six

1003
01:04:21,920 --> 01:04:24,400
Speaker 1: minutes after the hour. That's why the majority of my

1004
01:04:24,440 --> 01:04:28,080
Speaker 1: friends ain't got no damn colleague. Okay, we'll be back.

1005
01:04:28,640 --> 01:04:33,600
Speaker 1: You're listening show what's the biggest light you ever told?

1006
01:04:33,720 --> 01:04:36,200
Speaker 1: Tell me? He started off my oldest son when he

1007
01:04:36,280 --> 01:04:40,560
Speaker 1: was younger, he wanted to go to PG thirteen movies.

1008
01:04:40,960 --> 01:04:42,600
Speaker 1: I always knew it was gonna be something that he

1009
01:04:42,680 --> 01:04:45,680
Speaker 1: didn't need to see, so he didn't know. But I

1010
01:04:45,720 --> 01:04:49,840
Speaker 1: would tell him, hey, do you know what PG thirteen means?

1011
01:04:49,880 --> 01:04:53,080
Speaker 1: He's like no, I say that means only thirteen people

1012
01:04:53,600 --> 01:04:56,520
Speaker 1: can go in the movie. So when I when we

1013
01:04:56,520 --> 01:04:59,880
Speaker 1: would get there, I say, it's already twelve people in there.

1014
01:05:00,320 --> 01:05:02,800
Speaker 1: We can't go in there. It's too late, and he

1015
01:05:02,840 --> 01:05:06,200
Speaker 1: would be like, Wow, we don't never get him Timinge Pg.

1016
01:05:06,400 --> 01:05:09,720
Speaker 1: Thirteen Movies, We're gonna have to go see a g movie.

1017
01:05:09,720 --> 01:05:11,800
Speaker 1: We're gonna go see a gae. We'd be all up

1018
01:05:11,800 --> 01:05:14,920
Speaker 1: in line, king, we're not going to see your mama

1019
01:05:14,920 --> 01:05:18,320
Speaker 1: ain't gonna be mad at p. Thirteen. All right, come on,

1020
01:05:19,400 --> 01:05:24,680
Speaker 1: what I need to make sure that my mama hated listening? Uh? Man,

1021
01:05:27,320 --> 01:05:31,040
Speaker 1: I was at football sixteen years old. Huh, and my

1022
01:05:31,120 --> 01:05:33,720
Speaker 1: mama let me take a truck to practice, and you know,

1023
01:05:33,800 --> 01:05:36,080
Speaker 1: have to practice my boy getting the truck we're driving back.

1024
01:05:36,400 --> 01:05:39,600
Speaker 1: I took my mama brand new blazer and backed it

1025
01:05:39,680 --> 01:05:42,200
Speaker 1: and got it stuck on the side and then it

1026
01:05:42,320 --> 01:05:46,360
Speaker 1: the whole left side on a school bus. Ah. My

1027
01:05:46,440 --> 01:05:47,840
Speaker 1: boys said, Man, I can't let you go back home

1028
01:05:47,880 --> 01:05:50,520
Speaker 1: with the truth. You got to say that bus backed

1029
01:05:50,560 --> 01:05:53,680
Speaker 1: in the youth. Boy, he said, you can't walk in

1030
01:05:54,040 --> 01:05:55,960
Speaker 1: mama brand. He got this tag still on it. It

1031
01:05:55,960 --> 01:05:58,840
Speaker 1: ain't no license plate. Man. I walked in there, Mom

1032
01:05:58,920 --> 01:06:01,320
Speaker 1: and said, what happened to that trunk? And my boys

1033
01:06:01,360 --> 01:06:03,439
Speaker 1: went talking. We was just buttling up our seat belts

1034
01:06:03,440 --> 01:06:06,560
Speaker 1: and they know a school bus hit up. My mama

1035
01:06:06,640 --> 01:06:11,080
Speaker 1: bought that for about two months. Uh, she said, she said,

1036
01:06:11,080 --> 01:06:14,760
Speaker 1: why you ain't getting no case? Right? I got as

1037
01:06:15,560 --> 01:06:20,720
Speaker 1: I see that sixty. I was fast after that. I

1038
01:06:22,160 --> 01:06:26,680
Speaker 1: come on, see the big you've ever told last one?

1039
01:06:27,080 --> 01:06:30,480
Speaker 1: You got so many, he said, I have an end

1040
01:06:30,480 --> 01:06:35,280
Speaker 1: of this pool to choose. I was at ball my

1041
01:06:35,440 --> 01:06:37,959
Speaker 1: daddy station wagon one time. I was taking this girl

1042
01:06:38,400 --> 01:06:40,960
Speaker 1: out on the date in my church choir. But I

1043
01:06:41,040 --> 01:06:43,480
Speaker 1: wanted to be with it in the car. And so

1044
01:06:43,800 --> 01:06:46,400
Speaker 1: what I did was I stopped at the drug still

1045
01:06:46,400 --> 01:06:49,000
Speaker 1: on bought some Ponds cold cream. That was trick me

1046
01:06:49,080 --> 01:06:50,760
Speaker 1: and the fellas used to use back in the day.

1047
01:06:50,760 --> 01:06:53,360
Speaker 1: You put Ponds cold cream on the windows. It make

1048
01:06:53,440 --> 01:06:56,760
Speaker 1: it you know, you can't see in the window. And uh,

1049
01:06:57,280 --> 01:07:00,840
Speaker 1: I put the Ponds cold cream on the window. Oh,

1050
01:07:00,920 --> 01:07:03,760
Speaker 1: I got down to pick up. And when I went

1051
01:07:03,800 --> 01:07:05,280
Speaker 1: and picked up, and she came and got in the

1052
01:07:05,320 --> 01:07:07,120
Speaker 1: calm in the station wag, and I bagged out. I

1053
01:07:07,120 --> 01:07:09,160
Speaker 1: couldn't see a damn thing, and I hit my daddy's

1054
01:07:09,520 --> 01:07:12,880
Speaker 1: offender on the fence and toe the head light out.

1055
01:07:13,840 --> 01:07:19,080
Speaker 1: Can't get cream off no window. Yea, you can get

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01:07:19,960 --> 01:07:22,200
Speaker 1: off the window. You can't get it out to crack

1057
01:07:22,600 --> 01:07:29,040
Speaker 1: where the window meets the post. All right, thank you guys,

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01:07:29,600 --> 01:07:36,160
Speaker 1: you're listening. All right. So guys, here's a question for you.

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01:07:36,360 --> 01:07:39,680
Speaker 1: Do you have a hiding place in your home to

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01:07:39,880 --> 01:07:42,400
Speaker 1: just have a few minutes alone? You know? I mean

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01:07:42,560 --> 01:07:46,400
Speaker 1: everybody should have someplace, some little getaway place that they

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01:07:46,400 --> 01:07:49,520
Speaker 1: can have some knee time. For instance, some women like

1063
01:07:49,720 --> 01:07:51,640
Speaker 1: to have what they call a she shed or a

1064
01:07:51,680 --> 01:07:54,240
Speaker 1: small room that they can read in or just chill in.

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01:07:54,720 --> 01:07:57,880
Speaker 1: I you know what, I love the bathroom. Men usually

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01:07:57,920 --> 01:08:00,520
Speaker 1: go into the garage or their man cave or the

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01:08:00,600 --> 01:08:04,240
Speaker 1: basement or someplace. Uh. Do you take an extended break

1068
01:08:04,280 --> 01:08:07,280
Speaker 1: in your home hiding place? Do you do it every day?

1069
01:08:07,720 --> 01:08:10,640
Speaker 1: Is the question? Or does your family know not to

1070
01:08:10,760 --> 01:08:12,880
Speaker 1: disturb you when you're in your favorite room or you're

1071
01:08:12,960 --> 01:08:16,439
Speaker 1: hiding place. Come on, Steve, I know you take time

1072
01:08:16,520 --> 01:08:19,040
Speaker 1: for yourself. Yeah, I've always done that. I go, I

1073
01:08:19,200 --> 01:08:22,479
Speaker 1: go to San Diego. You lead a house, Yeah, get

1074
01:08:22,520 --> 01:08:26,440
Speaker 1: the hell out. Can't follow me down there, Damn grandkids

1075
01:08:26,560 --> 01:08:29,080
Speaker 1: know how to use the elevating everything. I'll be damned.

1076
01:08:29,120 --> 01:08:36,280
Speaker 1: I'm going to San Diego. It's beautiful there. I don't

1077
01:08:36,360 --> 01:08:40,559
Speaker 1: care if it is. They're not there. Clearly you got

1078
01:08:40,640 --> 01:08:43,479
Speaker 1: one yeah, I love. I will be in my bathroom

1079
01:08:43,600 --> 01:08:48,320
Speaker 1: for our words, in the bathroom and the bat because

1080
01:08:48,360 --> 01:08:50,000
Speaker 1: I have a TV in there, and you know I

1081
01:08:50,120 --> 01:08:53,320
Speaker 1: do my makeup, you know. Yeah, I don't mean the water.

1082
01:08:53,400 --> 01:09:00,439
Speaker 1: You don't meant no, no, no, my time in the bathroom. No, no, no,

1083
01:09:00,680 --> 01:09:04,400
Speaker 1: not there. I just out of part. Yeah, that's a separate,

1084
01:09:04,560 --> 01:09:07,040
Speaker 1: rich man. I got my TV right in front of

1085
01:09:07,160 --> 01:09:10,200
Speaker 1: the toilet and a computer. Now that's how you go

1086
01:09:11,120 --> 01:09:13,639
Speaker 1: from Now, that's how you don't miss. Nothing goes when

1087
01:09:13,640 --> 01:09:15,560
Speaker 1: I'm watching the game, I just get um going in

1088
01:09:15,600 --> 01:09:23,120
Speaker 1: the bathroom. It's on the wall right in front of you. Yeah,

1089
01:09:24,120 --> 01:09:25,800
Speaker 1: I ain't done that up a little high where you

1090
01:09:25,800 --> 01:09:27,360
Speaker 1: can keep your head of you don't want to look

1091
01:09:27,439 --> 01:09:31,120
Speaker 1: even keep your head of. Be digestive, tracking more open,

1092
01:09:35,000 --> 01:09:41,840
Speaker 1: the slight little What about you tell me I'm in

1093
01:09:41,960 --> 01:09:44,840
Speaker 1: my theater. I can get away from the theater. Do

1094
01:09:45,000 --> 01:09:49,400
Speaker 1: you hear that, rich ass? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, you said

1095
01:09:49,439 --> 01:09:51,719
Speaker 1: a rich ass statement. And I ain't saying that. You said,

1096
01:09:52,040 --> 01:09:54,360
Speaker 1: my kids on my grand baby's on the elevator. I

1097
01:09:54,360 --> 01:09:56,680
Speaker 1: ain't saying nothing about your elevating in your house. And

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01:09:56,760 --> 01:10:01,040
Speaker 1: I ain't even know you're saying I was going because

1099
01:10:01,040 --> 01:10:05,360
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna go ahead. Teeth rooms in this shot.

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01:10:05,600 --> 01:10:08,320
Speaker 1: I thought I had it limited. Okay, all right, well

1101
01:10:08,880 --> 01:10:12,559
Speaker 1: y'all pass his elevator on my theater. Hey, junior, which

1102
01:10:12,600 --> 01:10:15,040
Speaker 1: one of your rooms in your house is your theater? Yeah,

1103
01:10:15,120 --> 01:10:19,800
Speaker 1: let's hear from the poet. But then what I had

1104
01:10:19,880 --> 01:10:22,439
Speaker 1: to do is take some some drapes and put them

1105
01:10:22,439 --> 01:10:25,160
Speaker 1: on the side of the TV. Make my ass to

1106
01:10:25,280 --> 01:10:30,240
Speaker 1: thee with promoting. I'm gonna make a fiater. Hold on,

1107
01:10:30,360 --> 01:10:35,080
Speaker 1: y'all come out to kitchen. Drapes gonna catch you. I'm

1108
01:10:35,120 --> 01:10:39,960
Speaker 1: gonna make a fill that boy. That Paula must be nice.

1109
01:10:39,960 --> 01:10:50,920
Speaker 1: I ain't be. I'll go to my theater. That nothing.

1110
01:10:52,120 --> 01:10:55,200
Speaker 1: I can't say nothing. How many seats in the theater?

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01:10:55,400 --> 01:10:58,120
Speaker 1: I'm not telling so many. They can't find him in there.

1112
01:10:58,280 --> 01:11:07,760
Speaker 1: Y'all shut up, Steve, go down front, see if he down. Now,

1113
01:11:10,560 --> 01:11:12,960
Speaker 1: I've gonna take my head down and looking the brock

1114
01:11:13,040 --> 01:11:20,880
Speaker 1: and and see where down. You ask me where I

1115
01:11:20,960 --> 01:11:25,719
Speaker 1: go to get away? That's all I said. Man, Well,

1116
01:11:26,000 --> 01:11:28,800
Speaker 1: the Lord is still blessing blessing you. Man. I didn't

1117
01:11:28,800 --> 01:11:31,640
Speaker 1: even know I'm saying. If you're talking to you like

1118
01:11:31,720 --> 01:11:33,479
Speaker 1: you have one I got changed. How I talked to you?

1119
01:11:33,880 --> 01:11:35,599
Speaker 1: How are you talking to him at front? Like? He hand?

1120
01:11:35,640 --> 01:11:37,880
Speaker 1: No theater? Now he got a thing I gotta changed.

1121
01:11:37,960 --> 01:11:41,880
Speaker 1: I talked to him. Man, miss the nephew. Now, hey,

1122
01:11:41,960 --> 01:11:46,439
Speaker 1: miss nephew? What time you go down to the then? Head?

1123
01:11:48,600 --> 01:11:50,920
Speaker 1: So Stephen, case you don't make it to San Diego?

1124
01:11:51,200 --> 01:11:53,120
Speaker 1: What what room in your home do you go to?

1125
01:11:53,600 --> 01:11:55,479
Speaker 1: Where do you go? I go all the way down

1126
01:11:55,560 --> 01:11:59,559
Speaker 1: to the basement. What's done? Done? Then? Just a little man?

1127
01:11:59,760 --> 01:12:05,280
Speaker 1: Case you about god? Oh okay, all right, Steve, who

1128
01:12:06,320 --> 01:12:09,120
Speaker 1: all right? Coming up more of today's trending stories on

1129
01:12:09,200 --> 01:12:11,519
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show, and we'll be back in

1130
01:12:11,600 --> 01:12:15,559
Speaker 1: twenty minutes after the hour, right after this. What yeah,

1131
01:12:17,479 --> 01:12:23,920
Speaker 1: you're listening to show? How many friends do you guys have?

1132
01:12:24,640 --> 01:12:27,840
Speaker 1: I'm not talking about social media friends. I'm talking about

1133
01:12:28,000 --> 01:12:32,280
Speaker 1: real friends. Now. According to a new survey, the average

1134
01:12:32,320 --> 01:12:38,360
Speaker 1: American has about sixteen friends. Of these sixteen friends, yeah yeah,

1135
01:12:38,439 --> 01:12:42,120
Speaker 1: they got no damn sixteen, Steve. This is according to

1136
01:12:42,240 --> 01:12:49,960
Speaker 1: a new survey. Yeah yeah, and they say of these,

1137
01:12:51,439 --> 01:12:54,400
Speaker 1: they say, of these sixteen friends, three were described as

1138
01:12:54,479 --> 01:12:57,720
Speaker 1: friends for life, five were people they really liked and

1139
01:12:57,760 --> 01:13:00,479
Speaker 1: would hang out with one on one, and the other

1140
01:13:00,560 --> 01:13:03,800
Speaker 1: eight were people the respondent said they liked but would

1141
01:13:03,880 --> 01:13:07,160
Speaker 1: not spend time with them one on one. The survey

1142
01:13:07,280 --> 01:13:10,519
Speaker 1: also found that the average American adult has made a

1143
01:13:10,600 --> 01:13:13,519
Speaker 1: new friend hasn't made a new friend in five years.

1144
01:13:14,080 --> 01:13:16,280
Speaker 1: Because Steve, I got to ask you. It begs the question,

1145
01:13:16,360 --> 01:13:19,880
Speaker 1: how many friends, real friends do you have? Sixteen or less?

1146
01:13:20,600 --> 01:13:23,559
Speaker 1: Probably got five? Five? You can kind them on one hand.

1147
01:13:23,840 --> 01:13:27,200
Speaker 1: Two friends, Yeah, I'm talking about ride or did don't

1148
01:13:27,240 --> 01:13:32,040
Speaker 1: give a damn less go top? Five? Yeah, I'm talking

1149
01:13:32,040 --> 01:13:37,479
Speaker 1: about well with it? Five Maybe hard to make new

1150
01:13:37,560 --> 01:13:40,240
Speaker 1: friends at the and I ain't made a friend in

1151
01:13:40,320 --> 01:13:45,559
Speaker 1: five years? How well at work? At work, Steve, that's

1152
01:13:45,600 --> 01:13:49,679
Speaker 1: where you are all the time? Friends you got? Tommy,

1153
01:13:50,160 --> 01:13:59,559
Speaker 1: I always say three sage, all right, we'll be back.

1154
01:13:59,560 --> 01:14:02,599
Speaker 1: We'll pick this conversation up when when we come back

1155
01:14:02,640 --> 01:14:07,599
Speaker 1: at thirty three after the hour you're listening to show.

1156
01:14:08,400 --> 01:14:11,280
Speaker 1: All right, Steve, we were talking about how many friends

1157
01:14:11,360 --> 01:14:13,280
Speaker 1: do we have. There's a new survey and it says

1158
01:14:13,360 --> 01:14:19,320
Speaker 1: that the average American has about sixteen friends. Of those sixteen, well, well,

1159
01:14:19,520 --> 01:14:21,599
Speaker 1: this is how they break it down. Three were described

1160
01:14:21,640 --> 01:14:24,559
Speaker 1: as friends for life. Three you have for life. Five

1161
01:14:24,640 --> 01:14:26,639
Speaker 1: were people you really liked and you would hang out

1162
01:14:26,680 --> 01:14:28,880
Speaker 1: with one on one, and then the other eight were

1163
01:14:28,960 --> 01:14:31,679
Speaker 1: people the respondents said they liked, but they wouldn't spend

1164
01:14:31,760 --> 01:14:34,960
Speaker 1: time with them one on one. Then does not your friend? Yeah,

1165
01:14:35,200 --> 01:14:38,680
Speaker 1: and then they say the average American adult hasn't made

1166
01:14:38,720 --> 01:14:42,599
Speaker 1: a new friend in five years. And you know why,

1167
01:14:43,040 --> 01:14:45,519
Speaker 1: you don't have time to learn nobody else. Oh I

1168
01:14:45,520 --> 01:14:49,439
Speaker 1: didn't learn you. Yeah. Yeah, and there's a there's a

1169
01:14:49,560 --> 01:14:55,160
Speaker 1: trust factor. Yeah right, I can't believe. Yeah, you get quiet.

1170
01:14:55,240 --> 01:14:58,720
Speaker 1: I noticed you get quiet. But it was right, he

1171
01:14:58,920 --> 01:15:03,280
Speaker 1: was on point. Yeah, you ain't got damn to learn nobody. Man.

1172
01:15:03,479 --> 01:15:06,080
Speaker 1: But it sounds like with this group right here, we

1173
01:15:06,200 --> 01:15:10,240
Speaker 1: don't use that term loosely, like when I call you

1174
01:15:10,400 --> 01:15:14,519
Speaker 1: a friend. Yeah, come on, yeah, yeah, I can count

1175
01:15:14,600 --> 01:15:17,640
Speaker 1: on you no matter what. Yeah, that's five of them

1176
01:15:17,720 --> 01:15:21,000
Speaker 1: dudes in my world. I'm sixty two years old. And

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01:15:21,120 --> 01:15:24,479
Speaker 1: it's about loyalty too. It's about and and and my

1178
01:15:24,640 --> 01:15:29,800
Speaker 1: good ones didn't die. Yeah that's what's cold. Look, I know,

1179
01:15:30,160 --> 01:15:34,120
Speaker 1: like my friends for life, Butcher Ricardo, So you know

1180
01:15:34,240 --> 01:15:37,360
Speaker 1: you look at Butcher Ricardo. I've been friends with Manny

1181
01:15:37,880 --> 01:15:42,120
Speaker 1: since I was four. My best friend from from college

1182
01:15:42,200 --> 01:15:48,320
Speaker 1: is Marvel is Marvin Horton. We steal boys do ride. Yeah,

1183
01:15:49,560 --> 01:15:56,920
Speaker 1: I'm talking about Biggie Wig Okay and Blue I'm talking

1184
01:15:56,920 --> 01:15:59,479
Speaker 1: about man, dudes that to walk off the edge for you. Yeah,

1185
01:16:00,520 --> 01:16:04,120
Speaker 1: Biggie Wig and Blue Brue. Yeah, they walk off the

1186
01:16:04,240 --> 01:16:07,439
Speaker 1: edge for you. Man. Yeah, that ain't no lie. Ricky

1187
01:16:07,560 --> 01:16:11,040
Speaker 1: Lewis good ask brother to man. But I got duds

1188
01:16:11,320 --> 01:16:15,840
Speaker 1: that I call like like Steve Perry, doctor doctor Perry.

1189
01:16:16,000 --> 01:16:17,760
Speaker 1: Oh this is my dude, man, he could he climb

1190
01:16:17,880 --> 01:16:21,720
Speaker 1: down and hold it? Yeah? What do you call that

1191
01:16:21,920 --> 01:16:25,640
Speaker 1: group that's after friends? But they still cool with you?

1192
01:16:27,080 --> 01:16:28,800
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. But you're not in that

1193
01:16:28,960 --> 01:16:32,840
Speaker 1: top You're not in that five. Well maybe it's levels

1194
01:16:32,880 --> 01:16:37,080
Speaker 1: of friends. Yeah, I think I still friends, right, I

1195
01:16:37,280 --> 01:16:41,280
Speaker 1: think that. I think that, And that's what they were saying. Uh.

1196
01:16:41,600 --> 01:16:43,760
Speaker 1: Some people are with you ride or die, and then

1197
01:16:43,880 --> 01:16:47,479
Speaker 1: others are I know, spend time with them one on one,

1198
01:16:47,680 --> 01:16:51,040
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, I think they're different levels of friendship

1199
01:16:51,160 --> 01:16:54,040
Speaker 1: because I mean, you know, I call them like New

1200
01:16:54,120 --> 01:16:56,560
Speaker 1: York like short for New York a n y K.

1201
01:16:57,120 --> 01:16:58,800
Speaker 1: That's what I call. Just put them in the n

1202
01:16:58,920 --> 01:17:02,760
Speaker 1: y K group, like New York, York. Um, all right,

1203
01:17:02,800 --> 01:17:04,800
Speaker 1: well we'll be back with more of the Sea Harvey

1204
01:17:04,840 --> 01:17:08,920
Speaker 1: Morning Show, I know, coming up at forty nine after

1205
01:17:09,240 --> 01:17:12,120
Speaker 1: some closing remarks coming up as well. Right after this.

1206
01:17:12,880 --> 01:17:18,400
Speaker 1: You're listening to show Dave. We're here at the last

1207
01:17:18,439 --> 01:17:21,559
Speaker 1: break of the day. Just one more thing. You're closing remarks,

1208
01:17:21,600 --> 01:17:24,160
Speaker 1: What do you have for us today? Well, I think

1209
01:17:24,240 --> 01:17:29,240
Speaker 1: I should talk about dreams because it's such a major

1210
01:17:29,360 --> 01:17:37,280
Speaker 1: component to your success. Dreams are such an important component

1211
01:17:37,400 --> 01:17:42,200
Speaker 1: to success. You can't underplay dreams. See, let me tell

1212
01:17:42,200 --> 01:17:50,760
Speaker 1: you something. Education is necessary for certain fields and professions.

1213
01:17:51,680 --> 01:17:55,919
Speaker 1: You want to be a doctor, a lawyer, a dentist,

1214
01:17:56,520 --> 01:18:03,400
Speaker 1: a pilot, a scientist, a teacher. Education is so necessary

1215
01:18:04,680 --> 01:18:08,799
Speaker 1: for many professions in this world. But there is nothing,

1216
01:18:09,640 --> 01:18:14,439
Speaker 1: and I repeat, there is nothing more important than your dreams.

1217
01:18:15,760 --> 01:18:20,000
Speaker 1: Your dreams have value. Your dreams wake you up in

1218
01:18:20,080 --> 01:18:25,360
Speaker 1: the morning. The dreams give you hope. You know, I'm

1219
01:18:25,439 --> 01:18:28,679
Speaker 1: not saying education doesn't do that. But education don't wake

1220
01:18:28,760 --> 01:18:31,840
Speaker 1: you up in the morning. It's what you dream and

1221
01:18:32,040 --> 01:18:35,920
Speaker 1: hope or becoming with the education that wakes you up.

1222
01:18:37,040 --> 01:18:40,719
Speaker 1: It is your dream that causes you to even get

1223
01:18:40,840 --> 01:18:44,920
Speaker 1: an education. If you want to fly a plane, and

1224
01:18:45,120 --> 01:18:49,120
Speaker 1: that's your dream. Your dream will cause you to do

1225
01:18:49,280 --> 01:18:54,560
Speaker 1: the things necessary to accomplish the dream. That's why I

1226
01:18:54,680 --> 01:18:58,000
Speaker 1: tell people educators in all, if we spent more time

1227
01:18:58,600 --> 01:19:01,719
Speaker 1: talking to our children and school system about their dreams

1228
01:19:01,760 --> 01:19:05,960
Speaker 1: and visions, we can reduce the dropout rate. But what

1229
01:19:06,120 --> 01:19:09,080
Speaker 1: we're doing is we keep talking to kids about the education,

1230
01:19:09,520 --> 01:19:11,880
Speaker 1: and we're not talking about the kids for the reason

1231
01:19:12,040 --> 01:19:15,360
Speaker 1: for the education. You gotta get your education because you

1232
01:19:15,439 --> 01:19:19,720
Speaker 1: gotta finish school. Finish school for what we have got

1233
01:19:19,880 --> 01:19:22,880
Speaker 1: to take time out to talk about their dreams and visions.

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01:19:23,200 --> 01:19:25,719
Speaker 1: I tell parents all the time, if you're not talking

1235
01:19:25,760 --> 01:19:31,200
Speaker 1: to your kids about dreams every ninety days, that's a mistake. Man,

1236
01:19:32,160 --> 01:19:35,960
Speaker 1: that's a mistake because young people change more often than

1237
01:19:36,040 --> 01:19:40,200
Speaker 1: you think. But if you're not revamping your dreams every

1238
01:19:40,320 --> 01:19:43,719
Speaker 1: ninety days as an adult, you're making a mistake because

1239
01:19:43,840 --> 01:19:47,240
Speaker 1: guess what you change Also now you know may not

1240
01:19:47,400 --> 01:19:49,880
Speaker 1: change as often as your children because you become a

1241
01:19:49,880 --> 01:19:52,559
Speaker 1: little bit more subtle when you're older. But you've got

1242
01:19:52,680 --> 01:19:55,160
Speaker 1: to refurbish these dreams. You gotta dust them off. You

1243
01:19:55,240 --> 01:19:58,559
Speaker 1: gotta keep reminding yourself or what the purpose is, because

1244
01:19:58,600 --> 01:20:02,519
Speaker 1: the dream provides you wake up in the morning because

1245
01:20:02,560 --> 01:20:06,120
Speaker 1: of what you dream to be. You get excited when

1246
01:20:06,160 --> 01:20:08,519
Speaker 1: the lawn clock get all goes off because of what

1247
01:20:08,800 --> 01:20:13,640
Speaker 1: you dream to be. Man, don't let nobody fool you. Now,

1248
01:20:13,720 --> 01:20:16,400
Speaker 1: listen to me. I'm gonna say this again. Education is

1249
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Speaker 1: important and it's critical to certain things in life, but

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Speaker 1: you can actually make it in this world without one. Now,

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Speaker 1: do you need to have some basics under your belt?

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Speaker 1: I strongly suggest you do. And I'm not saying at

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Speaker 1: all that you don't need school because you do. School

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Speaker 1: offers you a way to become well rounded. That's the

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Speaker 1: thing that school does for you a great deal. It

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Speaker 1: not only educates you, it gives you social skills. It

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Speaker 1: teaches you how to be well rounded. It teaches you

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Speaker 1: tow to adapt, It teaches you the tool of memorization.

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Speaker 1: So I'm not knocking it at all. But what I

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Speaker 1: am saying to you, if you are like me in

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Speaker 1: any way and you just not a school person, what

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Speaker 1: you're gonna do, You can still be something. If you've

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Speaker 1: blown your education opportunity in life, you can still be something.

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Speaker 1: If you just don't feel like you can do school again,

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Speaker 1: you can still be something. Because the scripture says, a

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Speaker 1: man without a dream or vision shr parish. I'm old

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Speaker 1: the Bible inside out. I don't know if I didn't

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Speaker 1: go to theology school anything, so I can't quote it

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Speaker 1: like people can oftentimes. But I don't really don't recall

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Speaker 1: ever going to Sunday School or any service I've ever

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Speaker 1: been to and read a scripture about how necessary your

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Speaker 1: education was. But I have seen repeatedly that a man

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Speaker 1: without a dream or vision shall parish. See the reason,

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Speaker 1: You'll die without the dream of the vision, because without

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Speaker 1: the dream of the vision, you'll give up hope. You've

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Speaker 1: heard so many people saying, keep hope alive, because it's necessary.

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Speaker 1: The dream, the vision. What you see for your self,

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Speaker 1: your hope for tomorrow, that impossible thing that nobody else

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Speaker 1: can see except you, that thing that floats around in

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Speaker 1: your imagination, that keeps pushing you to make you think

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Speaker 1: that's something out there other than this. For me, if

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Speaker 1: you wake up in the morning and you keep saying

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Speaker 1: yourself mad, that's got to be more to my life

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Speaker 1: than this. That's cause it is. That's because it is.

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Speaker 1: Your visions and dreams are out there. And let me

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Speaker 1: tell you something else. You got to make your dreams

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Speaker 1: and visions so big, so big that it causes you

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Speaker 1: to overcome all of your fears. See, the fear of

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Speaker 1: failure is the number one cause of failure in this

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Speaker 1: country because people are afraid to fail. But you have

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Speaker 1: to have dreams and visions so big that it just

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Speaker 1: overcomes all of your fears. You've got to want something

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Speaker 1: so big, so dynamic to happen in your life. Man,

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Speaker 1: that you've got to make this happen, and the fear

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Speaker 1: is secondary to all of it, and it will cause

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Speaker 1: you to push through. You've got to dream of something

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Speaker 1: so outstanding that an order for it to have to

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Speaker 1: in order for it to happen, you absolutely have to

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Speaker 1: have God's help. If you're dreaming of only stuff that

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Speaker 1: you can accomplish yourself, I got news for you. If

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Speaker 1: you ain't dreaming big enough, start dreaming big, increase your dreams.

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Speaker 1: They would change your life. It would change your perspective,

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Speaker 1: It would cause your hope to grow. All right, those

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Speaker 1: are my closing remarks. All right, Steve, all right, yes

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Speaker 1: y'all have a good Hey, can I say, have a

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