Speaker 1: Five freaking jewels, second d up date. I do not
Speaker 1: envy the girl on the phone for a second date
Speaker 1: update today, not because of anything that happened with her date.
Speaker 1: Just I think that she has one of the jobs
Speaker 1: that is tops in this country for getting hit on
Speaker 1: the most by thirsty, annoying dudes. She's a bartender at
Speaker 1: a golf course. That has got to be the worst.
Speaker 1: As a guy who golfs a lot, I see it
Speaker 1: go down constantly. If you're the cart girl or working
Speaker 1: in the bar at a golf course, it's just nothing
Speaker 1: but guys coming in. They're being like, I make a
Speaker 1: ton of money because I golf all the time. What's
Speaker 1: your name, sweetie? I'll take another Arnie Palmer, get it
Speaker 1: from the bottom shelf so I can watch it bit down.
Speaker 1: I'm not even over exaggerating. Amanda is on the phone, Amanda,
Speaker 1: how are you? I'm doing pretty good. How are you good?
Speaker 1: Is that a pretty accurate description of how it is
Speaker 1: at the golf course where you sometimes Yeah, she's like,
Speaker 1: I want to apologize on behalf of all men first
Speaker 1: of all, before we get into your phone call. But
Speaker 1: it actually said that you met the guy that you
Speaker 1: want to call today at the golf course. I did. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he was one of the less creepy, less rich dude.
Speaker 1: I had no idea that I would actually work. I've
Speaker 1: never even attempted hit on a girl at a golf
Speaker 1: course because I figured they get it all the time
Speaker 1: from old married dudes. He actually was able to get
Speaker 1: your number, And you guys went out on a date.
Speaker 1: That's impressive. Yeah, which has never happened before. It's that
Speaker 1: particular job. How did he do that? Did he try
Speaker 1: to impress you or did he just go hey, can
Speaker 1: I have your number? No? No, he was very real
Speaker 1: about it. Okay, he like came up to the bar
Speaker 1: and got a drink and then went out and golf
Speaker 1: for a little bit. And then he heard his ankle,
Speaker 1: so he had to come back in and we heard
Speaker 1: his ankle golfing. He's an athlete in other words. So
Speaker 1: what did you guys do on your date? Oh? We
Speaker 1: went up to dinner. We went to cool little Takaia
Speaker 1: and got tacos. It was fun, all right. And how
Speaker 1: did the date go? I mean, he's obviously not calling
Speaker 1: you back now, so maybe it didn't go as great
Speaker 1: as you thought. But did it seem like everything went well.
Speaker 1: It seemed like everything went really well, like we had
Speaker 1: a really fun time and laughed a lot. I do
Speaker 1: have a lot of allergies, so I had to ask,
Speaker 1: like what was in some of the ingredients, which may
Speaker 1: have embarrassed him. Did it seem like you just have
Speaker 1: allergies and you were worried about it, or you're like
Speaker 1: high maintenance and you're like, where exactly did this dish
Speaker 1: come from? With it farm raised? Or was it I'd
Speaker 1: never want to sound like that, but I mean I
Speaker 1: am asking questions and people usually don't, so maybe that
Speaker 1: did sound high maintenance. Well did he seem turned off
Speaker 1: by it? I mean I would upfront about it, so
Speaker 1: I said it right away, and then he was told
Speaker 1: me not to worry about it, so I didn't think
Speaker 1: it was a big deal. Yeah. I have a hard
Speaker 1: time thinking that just because you had allergies to be like,
Speaker 1: I'd never want to see that anything else that could
Speaker 1: have possibly caused him to not want to see you again. Well,
Speaker 1: there is one kind of awkward thing, and I don't
Speaker 1: even really want to tell you guys about it, I hope,
Speaker 1: so you probably should definitely tell us about it. If
Speaker 1: we're trying to dissect this date and figure out why
Speaker 1: the dude's not calling you back. That might be an
Speaker 1: important piece of information. It's gonna seem weird, but it's
Speaker 1: really not that weird, okay at all? So what is it? Well?
Speaker 1: I have like access to the golf courses system, so
Speaker 1: I can like see people's addresses, and I, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I just like typed his name in really quick, and
Speaker 1: the only thing that came up was his address, and
Speaker 1: I just happened to remember what part of town it
Speaker 1: was in, and I was like, oh cool. But I
Speaker 1: asked him if he liked living in that area, and
Speaker 1: he gave me a really weird look, and then I realized,
Speaker 1: oh my god, maybe that I don't know because there's
Speaker 1: really no other way for me to have known. So
Speaker 1: it's almost like you Facebook stocked and without him knowing,
Speaker 1: and them was like, hey, I saw you were out
Speaker 1: at this bar last week. How was it? He had
Speaker 1: no idea? Is that kind of what it was like?
Speaker 1: Kind of I hadn't compared it to that in my mind.
Speaker 1: But worse, it's like dating someone from a bank and
Speaker 1: the person looking up like your banking information that bad?
Speaker 1: I don't know. I did come clean, though, and I
Speaker 1: told him why I knew that because I just wanted
Speaker 1: to be honest with him. I knew where he lived
Speaker 1: because I stalked you in our company database before we
Speaker 1: went out. I'm sorry, what did he say? What did
Speaker 1: he say when you told him that? He didn't really
Speaker 1: say a lot kind of looked at me weird. And
Speaker 1: he hasn't caught you outside of his house and in
Speaker 1: his bushes or anything post date. I was not in
Speaker 1: the bushes. I was a very safe distance away, sitting
Speaker 1: in my car with my binocular. Glad you're being honest
Speaker 1: about being a creeper, all right? So how did the
Speaker 1: date end? Then he walked me into my car, and
Speaker 1: I don't date a whole lot, so I don't really
Speaker 1: know how that works. And I was kind of nervous
Speaker 1: and wondering if a first kiss situation was gonna happen.
Speaker 1: But he just kissed me on the cheek, which was
Speaker 1: very sweet. And then when on his way. How many
Speaker 1: times have you tried to get ahold of him since
Speaker 1: you went on this date? I texted him once. I
Speaker 1: just I don't want to be creepy about it and
Speaker 1: be like, hey, what are you doing? What are you doing?
Speaker 1: You want to you know, I'm waiting for him to
Speaker 1: call me, so will you have his address? You should
Speaker 1: just show up at his door. Do we really need
Speaker 1: to do a second date update here? All right? Well
Speaker 1: we'll play a song, come back, call him and get
Speaker 1: your second date update. Okay, thank you? All right, hang
Speaker 1: on looking jubil in the morning if you're just joining
Speaker 1: us for the second date update. Amanda is on the
Speaker 1: phone today. She wants to call a guy named Eric.
Speaker 1: They met at a golf course. She works there as
Speaker 1: the bartender, and he asked her out. They ended up
Speaker 1: going out to dinner. At the end of the night.
Speaker 1: She got a kiss on the cheek and hasn't heard
Speaker 1: a word from him since. The only thing that she
Speaker 1: can think of that went wrong on their date was
Speaker 1: in the middle of it. At some point she accidentally
Speaker 1: dropped that she knew where he lived because she looked
Speaker 1: up his information in the golf course database, and he
Speaker 1: seemed kind of weirded out by that. So she's definitely
Speaker 1: a stalker. We do know that, and I'm assuming that
Speaker 1: she's ready to do the second date update right now.
Speaker 1: On the phone in a cross base in his house, Somna,
Speaker 1: do you want to do the second date update or
Speaker 1: you want to just like walk downstairs and see if
Speaker 1: he's there and pass the phone over to him. I
Speaker 1: don't know. Let me have a minute to decide, all right.
Speaker 1: I don't think you should feel bad about that. I
Speaker 1: would always look up information before I went on a date.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think this is normally Okay, well, I'm
Speaker 1: in a Dallas phone over right. Now, get him on
Speaker 1: the phone and get your second day update. Okay, there
Speaker 1: we go. We got I speak to Eric, please yepler,
Speaker 1: Hey Eric, how are you? This is Jewil from Brook
Speaker 1: and Jewil in the Morning. I'm good. Who is this
Speaker 1: Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning the radio show? Okay,
Speaker 1: how are you fine? I may ask why you're calling
Speaker 1: you may, and I will gladly tell you that you
Speaker 1: recently went out on a date with one of our
Speaker 1: listeners and she asked me to call you and find
Speaker 1: out what went wrong. It's a segment we do call
Speaker 1: the second Date Update. Oh okay, I think I've heard
Speaker 1: of this. Actually, Oh you have? Have you ever heard
Speaker 1: the segment? No? I haven't. Okay, well, at least you're
Speaker 1: kind of familiar with it. Well, congratulations, Eric. A girl
Speaker 1: named Amanda wanted me to call you today and find
Speaker 1: out what went wrong on your date. Do you remember
Speaker 1: going out with Amanda? Yep? Have you met her at
Speaker 1: the golf course? Yep? Okay. She said that you guys
Speaker 1: enjoyed a fun dinner, at least in her opinion. Was
Speaker 1: it not fun for you? Yeah? I mean it was.
Speaker 1: It was good, It was fine and stuff. But I
Speaker 1: don't I don't know if I can really talk too
Speaker 1: much about details or anything like that. Is there anything
Speaker 1: that you could share with us? Because she says she's
Speaker 1: tried to text you a few times after going out
Speaker 1: and you haven't responded at all. She thought things went
Speaker 1: well enough that you guys would see each other again. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean, she's a nice girl. I don't know if
Speaker 1: it's really the best thing for me to give her
Speaker 1: a call back and pursue it. I guess you know
Speaker 1: how it is when somebody doesn't call you back. You
Speaker 1: sit there and wonder and you're like, why don't they
Speaker 1: like me? She really liked you and she would love
Speaker 1: to see you again, So I mean there's something wrong
Speaker 1: with her. It's just like, you know, after our date.
Speaker 1: I was kind of telling a couple of my friends
Speaker 1: about it, and I got kind of a lot of
Speaker 1: crap from them because they said I probably should not
Speaker 1: be going out with Amanda. So I don't really know
Speaker 1: what to do, but I think it's probably best if
Speaker 1: I just let it go. Do they know Amanda? Yeah,
Speaker 1: a couple of them do. Okay, And why do they
Speaker 1: think not going out with hers? Well, I mean it's
Speaker 1: something something to do with Amanda. It's just that it
Speaker 1: was explained to me, and I thought about it. It
Speaker 1: makes sense that it's probably not a good idea to
Speaker 1: go out with somebody that works me. So, wait, that
Speaker 1: works for you? Is that what you just said? Yeah,
Speaker 1: how does she mean she works? How does she work
Speaker 1: for you? Well? She works at the country club? Okay,
Speaker 1: do you own the country club? Well? Why? I didn't
Speaker 1: really want to get the details or anything, especially like
Speaker 1: on a radio segment, but yeah, I'm I'm a partial
Speaker 1: owner of the club. Wow, Scout, that's awesome, man. She
Speaker 1: sounds like she had no idea that you were a
Speaker 1: partial owner. Well that's good, I guess. I mean people,
Speaker 1: I mean, it's nice when people just kind of treat
Speaker 1: you us for the way you are okay, but you
Speaker 1: didn't and you didn't tell her anything about like what
Speaker 1: you do, and that you own the golf course when
Speaker 1: you were out with her on your date didn't seem relevant.
Speaker 1: But are you Are you really a participant in the
Speaker 1: golf club, but I don't know how it's managed, but
Speaker 1: you're not really her boss or anything. Yeah, well that's
Speaker 1: kind of why we went on the first place. I
Speaker 1: don't really think about it because I mean, it's not
Speaker 1: like she did direct report. But she's still on payroll though,
Speaker 1: and it's it's a blurry line, I guess, so it's
Speaker 1: probably just not appropriate. So you feel like dating her
Speaker 1: is dating one of your employees and it's bad to
Speaker 1: mix business and pleasure. Yeah, I mean I kind of
Speaker 1: still struggle with this a little bit, you know, because
Speaker 1: it seems like it's a blurry line, green line, and
Speaker 1: it might be okay and stuff. But my friends are
Speaker 1: pretty adamant about it. That's not being okay. Are your
Speaker 1: friends also owners? I mean, are they your business partners?
Speaker 1: Are they just friends giving advice? They're just friends. They
Speaker 1: don't even do with it, But you know, I tend
Speaker 1: to take their opinions pretty heavily. So did you like
Speaker 1: going out with her? Though? I did? I really like
Speaker 1: your Actually okay, so why not break a rule then?
Speaker 1: I mean, I have to think about more than myself
Speaker 1: and more than Amanda. There's you know, there could be
Speaker 1: bigger ramifications. But come on, people meet through the company
Speaker 1: all the time, like it's super common. It happens and
Speaker 1: everybody makes it just work. But that's when they're regular employees.
Speaker 1: He's talking about banging the help say that. I'm right, Eric, Eric,
Speaker 1: I thank you for being honest. I really do. Yeah. Sure,
Speaker 1: I mean it's kind of a sticky one, I guess. So. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I should also let you know that she's actually on
Speaker 1: the other line listening. Are you serious? Yeah? I am.
Speaker 1: That's cool. Hey, a man to say hi to your boss? Hi? Eric?
Speaker 1: H I don't even know what to say. Well, i'd
Speaker 1: be very careful in what you say, because Eric apparently
Speaker 1: has the power to get you fired. Yeah, well, I hear.
Speaker 1: I'm really sorry. Yeah, but it's not bad. I don't know,
Speaker 1: really unexpected, I can legitimately say it's not this is
Speaker 1: not you, this is just this is a tricky situation,
Speaker 1: and I think I maybe I screwed up even asking you.
Speaker 1: I'm really sorry. It's I mean, now that I know
Speaker 1: the whole story, you don't have to apologize. I just
Speaker 1: what happens now. I mean, like I just said, legitimately
Speaker 1: this it's not you. I mean, I really think you're great,
Speaker 1: and I had a really good time, and I think
Speaker 1: you're intelligent and vivacious, and I like a lot of
Speaker 1: things about you. Would like to get to know you better.
Speaker 1: But it's, uh, yeah, I don't. I mean, you do
Speaker 1: own a golf course thrown around words like vivacious, power
Speaker 1: word eric. How often does it do women and chances
Speaker 1: like this come around, though, I mean, I don't know,
Speaker 1: I don't. It's it's tough, h I mean, I'm not
Speaker 1: going to say, like I enjoyed the fact that you
Speaker 1: didn't know like what I do for a living, But
Speaker 1: I like the fact that you were just engaged with me.
Speaker 1: You weren't really it wasn't about what I do and
Speaker 1: and stuff. So I appreciated that. I liked that. Well,
Speaker 1: thank you for that compliment. I mean, I really had
Speaker 1: no idea, and I don't know, it's just rare to
Speaker 1: have someone that's down to earth of you. Then to
Speaker 1: the club, which sounds so weird. I think you should
Speaker 1: correct yourself, Amanda. Someone is down to earth as him
Speaker 1: come into his own golf course so weird. Yeah, but seriously,
Speaker 1: I mean you came in and I really liked you,
Speaker 1: and I like had so much fun, just like laughing
Speaker 1: with you the whole time that we went out, and
Speaker 1: it's just really rare for me to meet someone like you,
Speaker 1: and I just wish that it could work out somehow,
Speaker 1: But I don't know. I guess that's up to you. WHOA.
Speaker 1: I mean, I take my friend's opinions pretty seriously, and
Speaker 1: it's not astily mine. I'm kind of on the fence.
Speaker 1: I mean, we talked to hr director at least and
Speaker 1: see what potential problem is. How about this, Eric, do
Speaker 1: what you want? Eric. What if she quits Live on
Speaker 1: the air right now and resigns her position at your
Speaker 1: golf course? Would you date her? Yeah? I would, But
Speaker 1: I don't know if that's such a good president. Am
Speaker 1: I involved in this decision? No, man, not right now.
Speaker 1: I'm making decisions for you. Eric. I would love to
Speaker 1: ask if you'll go on a second date with Amanda.
Speaker 1: Not that you need me too, but we will pay
Speaker 1: for the second date. What's the worst that could happen.
Speaker 1: There could be a lot of bad things that could happen. Well,
Speaker 1: let me I have to check it out first. I
Speaker 1: have to make sure that's it's okay. Okay, so you'll
Speaker 1: go have a meeting with your HR person and see
Speaker 1: if it's cool. If you date the bartender at your
Speaker 1: golf course, we might have a by law against it.
Speaker 1: I don't even know. Okay, Well, so if you do
Speaker 1: all of your due diligence and find out if you
Speaker 1: can date her, will you go on a second date
Speaker 1: with her? Yes, as long as she leaves her Allergan
Speaker 1: Princess had a home. So congratulations, Amanda, you sort of
Speaker 1: have a second dates. Yeah, if the company signed off
Speaker 1: on it. Eric, I'm excited and would love to go
Speaker 1: on a second date with you. If it's professionally approved.
Speaker 1: Sounds so weird, excellent stand by, I'll all right. I'm
Speaker 1: sorry you're telling you I didn't really know how to today.
Speaker 1: I get Eric, make sure if you do ask her
Speaker 1: out again, you get that request notarized and copied and
Speaker 1: triplicate so that you can have it in your permanent file.
Speaker 1: Even though like it's a green light you'll probably don't
Speaker 1: assign something here. Broken Jupil in the morning