WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: The Outage 0:00:00.680 --> 0:00:03.480 From Hollywood. See you, thank you for listening to us. 0:00:03.560 --> 0:00:11.440 Ryan Air with Ryan Seacrest. Oh it's Tuesday. How are 0:00:11.520 --> 0:00:15.920 you sittening? Good Man? A little? Honestly, yesterday was like 0:00:15.960 --> 0:00:19.720 a marathon. It was ambitious. Your day yesterday it was 0:00:19.960 --> 0:00:22.959 very ambitious. It was a lot of like dressing up 0:00:23.280 --> 0:00:27.480 and hustling and bustling. Well you started here as Harry 0:00:27.480 --> 0:00:30.479 Styles with the five o'clock shadow. Well done, thank you 0:00:30.560 --> 0:00:33.400 very much. Then trick or treating. No, then after that 0:00:33.760 --> 0:00:36.000 it was straight to the kids preschool. They had their 0:00:36.000 --> 0:00:39.159 Halloween parade and then their Halloween. Then I was like 0:00:39.200 --> 0:00:43.600 the room mom, Halloween. You know, festivities, they're a little party. 0:00:43.640 --> 0:00:46.720 They're all dressed up in their costumes. Then we left them. 0:00:46.760 --> 0:00:49.320 Then it was back to work meetings, and then it 0:00:49.360 --> 0:00:51.519 was trick or treating, and then it was Harry Styles, 0:00:51.520 --> 0:00:54.200 Harry Ween and let me go back, what were your 0:00:54.280 --> 0:00:57.280 kids for the school part? For school part of the parade, 0:00:57.360 --> 0:01:03.080 they were Batman and a mini mouse, which a mini 0:01:03.200 --> 0:01:05.880 mouse which I feel like Disney would have a problem. No, 0:01:06.160 --> 0:01:09.280 that was it was a Disney costume. Really, I bought 0:01:09.319 --> 0:01:12.920 it on Disney's website. Yeah, it was. Is this so specific? 0:01:12.959 --> 0:01:14.680 With with with what she wants to be for Halloween. 0:01:14.680 --> 0:01:16.760 It's really funny. And later in the day were they 0:01:16.840 --> 0:01:18.679 the same? They were the same, but you know they 0:01:18.720 --> 0:01:21.440 always there their team players. Over the weekend they did 0:01:21.520 --> 0:01:24.520 stranger things with Michael and I for our family costume, 0:01:25.120 --> 0:01:26.920 which is what you know. I feel like every year 0:01:26.959 --> 0:01:28.400 they're going to have to commit to, like with the 0:01:28.440 --> 0:01:30.640 weird family costume that I want, and then I'll let 0:01:30.640 --> 0:01:33.440 you be whatever you want to be for Halloween. Al right, 0:01:33.480 --> 0:01:36.120 So that happens. Then you go to Harry Ween What 0:01:36.680 --> 0:01:41.000 Harry Ween? Yeah, So Harry Style's concert on Halloween? How 0:01:41.120 --> 0:01:45.080 was that? It was everything and more like I can't 0:01:45.080 --> 0:01:48.240 even describe like how he enters your soul, but it 0:01:48.360 --> 0:01:51.120 is something that changes you, like you come out a 0:01:51.240 --> 0:01:56.920 changed woman channing to the songs. Yeah, I mean in 0:01:57.000 --> 0:02:05.240 New York costume Studio seven, what studios Studio sixty four, 0:02:05.440 --> 0:02:10.160 Like I think Studio I was not either. It was 0:02:10.240 --> 0:02:14.720 a very uh seventies disco that seems like a fun era, right. 0:02:15.440 --> 0:02:20.880 I think there's a documentary about it. Yeah, studio. So 0:02:22.520 --> 0:02:24.480 what was what was the most popular song? You think? 0:02:24.600 --> 0:02:27.639 What is performing? I think music for Sushi restaurants really 0:02:27.720 --> 0:02:31.280 kind of just like got the whole crowd like excited, 0:02:31.320 --> 0:02:35.840 but every song is amazing. And Tanya, how are you? 0:02:35.960 --> 0:02:38.639 How is your Halloween with Robbie? Our Halloween was good. 0:02:38.680 --> 0:02:40.639 We kept a chill. We just watched like scary movie. 0:02:40.639 --> 0:02:43.600 We just kind of scary movies in with our onesies, 0:02:43.720 --> 0:02:46.920 Pumpkin onesies. But for me, it's like all about now. 0:02:46.960 --> 0:02:49.920 I'm like full speed ahead on Christmas. Right, I'm ready, 0:02:50.120 --> 0:02:53.639 Like there's there's Thanksgiving you know coming? So wait, what 0:02:53.720 --> 0:02:56.600 did you watch? Because those movies do scare me. We 0:02:56.760 --> 0:02:59.320 do more of like the campy ones like Beetle Jewe, 0:02:59.400 --> 0:03:03.200 hocus Pocus to this. Is he a Halloween guy? Like, 0:03:03.280 --> 0:03:06.400 does Robbie get into Halloween? Yes, he's so down. We 0:03:06.520 --> 0:03:09.480 did Barbie and Ken over the weekend and he was 0:03:09.680 --> 0:03:13.160 so into his character. It was real. He's like really fun. 0:03:13.320 --> 0:03:15.400 It makes you very happy. It does make me really happy. 0:03:16.040 --> 0:03:22.480 Twenty three days till Thanksgiving. I cannot wait. Very exciting. Alright, 0:03:22.600 --> 0:03:25.720 So guys it is Tuesday. Sorry about that, but we'll 0:03:25.760 --> 0:03:28.359 try and get throw it together. We've got a second 0:03:28.440 --> 0:03:34.800 date update coming up. Apparently people struggle when they're outdating 0:03:35.400 --> 0:03:39.360 and they yeah. But here's the thing. They want to 0:03:39.440 --> 0:03:42.680 know what they did wrong. Whereas I would not, I 0:03:42.720 --> 0:03:45.240 would just go okay, didn't work out. They want to know, 0:03:46.080 --> 0:03:48.600 so something happened. I guess he met a bumble, aren't 0:03:48.600 --> 0:03:52.640 you bumble back in the day? Back in the day. 0:03:52.680 --> 0:03:56.120 And it wasn't that long, honestly, was it really how long? 0:03:56.680 --> 0:03:59.840 It's like five years? Are you serious? You've been in 0:03:59.880 --> 0:04:04.360 a relationship for five years going on five years? Yeah? Wow, congratulations. 0:04:05.280 --> 0:04:07.640 So I guess he I think his name is Matt. 0:04:07.880 --> 0:04:10.160 He wants to know what he did wrong. So we'll 0:04:10.200 --> 0:04:13.560 find out after seven o'clock this morning, partly sunny and cooler, 0:04:14.000 --> 0:04:17.560 highs in the mid to low seventies. A second date 0:04:17.640 --> 0:04:20.120 update coming up in a little bit today is Dia 0:04:20.279 --> 0:04:25.000 de los Muertos. Um. It is something that I've always 0:04:25.160 --> 0:04:27.800 wanted to go see in Mexico. I've wanted to be 0:04:27.920 --> 0:04:32.000 in Mexico City on this day. You know, lots of 0:04:32.080 --> 0:04:35.640 celebrations around town. Hey Ruby, are you celebrating? Are you 0:04:35.720 --> 0:04:40.760 going somewhere? Yeah? So we actually started, uh um. And 0:04:40.880 --> 0:04:43.560 it's basically, you know, a way to honor your loved 0:04:43.600 --> 0:04:46.360 ones who passed away, you put photos up you put 0:04:46.560 --> 0:04:50.920 traditional merrygolds all around the altar um, and you also 0:04:51.000 --> 0:04:55.280 put like their favorite dishes, food, yes, drinks, tell me 0:04:55.360 --> 0:04:59.600 about that? So does sit there? Yeah? So, I mean 0:04:59.640 --> 0:05:03.080 obvious it depends like fruit. Yeah, you don't do that. 0:05:03.320 --> 0:05:05.279 You don't eat it. But like if if you love 0:05:05.400 --> 0:05:08.080 snickers or you loved you know, your favorite fruit was 0:05:08.120 --> 0:05:10.920 like an orange or an apple, you put those things. 0:05:11.000 --> 0:05:13.320 If you love beer or like a certain wine, then 0:05:13.360 --> 0:05:15.360 you would put the wine. And it's kind of a 0:05:15.400 --> 0:05:19.160 way to just um, pay homage and also like celebrate 0:05:19.360 --> 0:05:23.680 your life. Do you do like hot foods? Liked something 0:05:23.720 --> 0:05:26.240 like a cheeseburg? Just sitting there? You could You could 0:05:26.279 --> 0:05:28.960 honestly do any kind of food. Obviously you wouldn't leave 0:05:29.000 --> 0:05:32.800 it there, you know, for like a week or more 0:05:32.920 --> 0:05:36.400 so for the night. Yeah. I feel like, honestly, you know, 0:05:36.560 --> 0:05:39.719 whatever point that happens for me, I would love food 0:05:39.839 --> 0:05:47.240 around my grave. Olive oil oil, yeah, crusted pizza, I 0:05:47.279 --> 0:05:50.600 mean right, why not I'll come visit your grave and 0:05:51.080 --> 0:05:53.960 share a pizza with you. Well, no, I'm in the grave. 0:05:54.240 --> 0:05:56.360 I can't share it with you, but I'll eat it 0:05:56.440 --> 0:06:03.040 with solid area in spirit. How sweet of you? All right? 0:06:03.279 --> 0:06:06.839 So what else is going down today? Um, well, that's 0:06:07.040 --> 0:06:11.599 that's all I'm doing at home. But there's right, Yes, 0:06:11.680 --> 0:06:14.320 the Playhouse Village in Pasadena, they have all these really 0:06:14.360 --> 0:06:18.200 cool installations, um in all the storefront windows and that's 0:06:18.200 --> 0:06:22.479 actually happening until Friday. And then downtown Santa Monica has 0:06:22.920 --> 0:06:30.760 La Catrina sculptures. There's like fourteen feet tall up until tomorrow. Yeah. 0:06:30.839 --> 0:06:34.240 Lynnwood is also hosting the other Los Martos a celebration 0:06:34.600 --> 0:06:38.240 five to ten this evening, live music, art, food of course, 0:06:38.360 --> 0:06:41.000 a screening cocoa as well, which I feel like is 0:06:41.080 --> 0:06:47.400 only right, and Olvera Street as well has I can't forget, Yeah, 0:06:47.400 --> 0:06:50.240 I can't forget Olvera Street. Um, it's already been going 0:06:50.279 --> 0:06:52.839 on for about a week and it continues until tomorrow. 0:06:53.000 --> 0:06:56.880 With Nightly Procession. They have community altars face paintings. I've 0:06:56.920 --> 0:06:59.560 actually been to that one before and it's really really 0:06:59.600 --> 0:07:02.560 beautiful because they go all out. The altars are just 0:07:02.720 --> 0:07:06.080 like just so incredible, so beautiful, like the detail that 0:07:06.160 --> 0:07:09.440 goes into them. Have you been to Mexico on this day? No? 0:07:09.640 --> 0:07:12.520 But I want to go me too. We podcast live 0:07:14.360 --> 0:07:17.800 field trip that should be should family trip. We should 0:07:17.840 --> 0:07:21.360 be there right now, broadcasting this show on that day 0:07:21.440 --> 0:07:26.800 next year, next year. Right, let's go to wakakaya. The food, 0:07:27.200 --> 0:07:31.240 the food. I'm down, all right, So it's gonna happen, right, 0:07:31.880 --> 0:07:34.040 Are you gonna make sure it happens? It happen? How 0:07:34.080 --> 0:07:37.160 am I going to make sure? I can't wrangle you 0:07:37.240 --> 0:07:42.520 guys for a festive dinner? All right? So enjoy those 0:07:42.680 --> 0:07:51.240 festivities on air with Ryan Seacrets. So, fruit flies, ants, termites, 0:07:52.040 --> 0:07:57.440 worm snakes, rats, well, things that are annoying. It's your morning. 0:07:58.800 --> 0:08:02.960 So fruit flies are difficult, right, Where did they come from? 0:08:02.960 --> 0:08:06.040 All of a sudden they're there. It's just like, why 0:08:06.840 --> 0:08:09.840 right there, just there? I don't see them when I 0:08:09.920 --> 0:08:13.320 bring the fruit home, but there they are. So how 0:08:13.400 --> 0:08:16.520 do you get rid of them? Here's what you do. TikTok, 0:08:16.560 --> 0:08:23.600 of course said this. Wash your bananas. Fruit flies, lay eggs, careful, 0:08:23.760 --> 0:08:27.200 lay eggs on bananas. Then you bring them into your house. 0:08:27.320 --> 0:08:29.760 They hatch and that's I guess where the flies come 0:08:31.760 --> 0:08:34.480 when you get I've never washed a banana in my life. 0:08:35.120 --> 0:08:38.160 I haven't either. I've never seen the eggs on the 0:08:38.200 --> 0:08:41.439 banana peel. They're probably very small. I'm still going to 0:08:41.480 --> 0:08:45.959 look carefully, but wash your bananas and they will not hatch. 0:08:46.520 --> 0:08:54.480 Kind of gross, but important. You look done. It honestly 0:08:54.559 --> 0:08:56.199 kind of checks out because we don't have fruit flies 0:08:56.240 --> 0:08:59.800 and we don't eat bananas. Eat bananas, no, I love, 0:09:00.400 --> 0:09:02.679 but that's why we never see them when we bring 0:09:02.720 --> 0:09:04.559 the fruit home, right, because they are right now? Why 0:09:04.600 --> 0:09:09.880 don't you eat bananas? Everybody? I really want to know why? Well, 0:09:09.920 --> 0:09:12.079 we can guess. Wouldn't you say it like that? The 0:09:12.160 --> 0:09:15.679 problem inside bocks you up, blocks map so he doesn't, 0:09:15.880 --> 0:09:18.960 he said, we Robbie doesn't need him, and his kids don't. 0:09:21.160 --> 0:09:26.000 We're not banana folks. What is your go to? Fruit? Apples? 0:09:26.080 --> 0:09:29.079 Lots about different kinds of apples, Fuji, honey crisp for me, 0:09:30.679 --> 0:09:34.240 Today's quote, do not let this is the best I've 0:09:34.240 --> 0:09:36.880 ever had keep you in a place, a job, or 0:09:36.920 --> 0:09:40.040 a relationship that is no longer serving you, believe in 0:09:40.440 --> 0:09:45.640 more headlines, take Off. A rapper in the Atlanta hip 0:09:45.679 --> 0:09:49.000 hop trio me Goes was shot and killed in Houston 0:09:49.080 --> 0:09:52.080 earlier this morning. He and Quevo had been playing dice 0:09:52.160 --> 0:09:55.160 in a bowling alley when the altercation broke out and 0:09:55.320 --> 0:09:58.319 a man opened fire. Now, according to TMZ and local media. 0:09:58.720 --> 0:10:01.240 Take off was only eight at twenty eight years old. 0:10:01.720 --> 0:10:07.240 Justin Turner has been named the winner of the Roberto Award. 0:10:07.360 --> 0:10:09.960 The award is given annually to the player who best 0:10:10.040 --> 0:10:15.920 represents the game of baseball through extraordinary character, community involvement, philanthropy, 0:10:16.000 --> 0:10:19.760 and positive contributions both on and off the field. Turner 0:10:19.840 --> 0:10:22.160 has been with the Dodgers um and a nominee for 0:10:22.200 --> 0:10:25.000 the Roberto Colenda Award five times actually in the last 0:10:25.080 --> 0:10:28.120 six seasons, and is the third Dodger to win the award, 0:10:28.280 --> 0:10:33.640 joining Steve Garvey and Clayton Kershaw. Back in last night 0:10:33.800 --> 0:10:35.880 was Harry Ween. We'll have all the details on that 0:10:36.080 --> 0:10:38.640 in a few but Harry Styles is making headlines for 0:10:38.720 --> 0:10:43.040 other reasons. Head Count reported that he had helped register 0:10:43.160 --> 0:10:46.280 more than fifty four thousand new voters and It's Good 0:10:46.320 --> 0:10:49.839 to Vote initiative ahead of the mid term elections. With 0:10:49.960 --> 0:10:52.400 that number, Harry Styles has broken the record of the 0:10:52.440 --> 0:10:55.360 most sign ups by a musical artist in the Organizations 0:10:55.679 --> 0:11:04.079 Organizations eighteen year history with Ryan Seacrest for a sushi 0:11:04.160 --> 0:11:10.320 restaurant Harry at his house, Harry's House, which is the Forum. 0:11:11.000 --> 0:11:15.040 Last night, it was attended by stars, celebrities everywhere in 0:11:15.080 --> 0:11:18.679 the audience. City was also there. I never went to 0:11:18.760 --> 0:11:24.800 my seat. What time did you start the trick or treating? Yeah, 0:11:24.840 --> 0:11:28.400 we started at five thirty and we ended her treating 0:11:28.440 --> 0:11:30.840 at six thirty, which was perfect. It got dark around six, 0:11:31.040 --> 0:11:33.960 so we actually it was perfect timing, so you get 0:11:34.040 --> 0:11:36.920 into Harry's house. So we got into Harry's house at 0:11:37.000 --> 0:11:40.800 like seven thirty seven. It was great, and so we 0:11:40.920 --> 0:11:43.680 were able to get some food and get a few drinks. 0:11:44.440 --> 0:11:46.880 And because one of our friends worked at the Forum, 0:11:46.920 --> 0:11:49.120 he was able to get us wristbands for the floor. 0:11:49.760 --> 0:11:51.880 Our seats were in the one section which was like 0:11:51.920 --> 0:11:54.880 above and you need to have special wristbands to be 0:11:54.960 --> 0:11:57.200 on the floor, and so we never went to our seats. 0:11:57.320 --> 0:11:59.160 The floor is like the party. That's like a dance 0:11:59.200 --> 0:12:03.080 party down there, a little bit more like energy. It's fun. 0:12:03.720 --> 0:12:05.640 So that's where we were the majority of the time. 0:12:05.840 --> 0:12:08.640 My brother came with his girlfriend Michael, and we were 0:12:08.760 --> 0:12:12.160 We just had a good, nice, fun group. So everything 0:12:12.240 --> 0:12:14.600 the anticipation is starting to build when he's gonna come out, right, 0:12:14.600 --> 0:12:16.760 because we all knew he's gonna come around nine, So 0:12:16.920 --> 0:12:19.000 it was probably like nine oh four, maybe nine o seven, 0:12:19.040 --> 0:12:21.719 I can't remember. All of a sudden, you hear this song, 0:12:25.640 --> 0:12:27.839 this is what you hear. And then the band, his 0:12:27.920 --> 0:12:30.960 band starts coming out dressed as the cast from Greece, 0:12:32.040 --> 0:12:34.760 so when his drummer is Sandy and then you know 0:12:34.840 --> 0:12:37.199 when they do the school dropout scene and they all 0:12:37.240 --> 0:12:40.640 have like the rollers in their hair. Yeah, somebody else's that, 0:12:40.720 --> 0:12:44.400 Like his guitarist was that. So Harry is not out yet. 0:12:44.400 --> 0:12:46.640 So it's just the band. So everything, it's just the band. 0:12:46.679 --> 0:12:49.280 They're all setting up with their instruments, and then the 0:12:49.360 --> 0:12:51.520 music stops just like this, and you're like, oh, you're 0:12:51.559 --> 0:12:54.000 kind of looking and then all of a sudden, Harry 0:12:54.040 --> 0:12:55.719 pops up from the middle of the stage and the 0:12:55.800 --> 0:13:00.199 start he comes up from underground and he's Daddy's go, 0:13:02.280 --> 0:13:06.199 that's a good look. And he was wearing the so well, 0:13:06.280 --> 0:13:08.240 not yet he was wearing the leather jacket, and then 0:13:08.400 --> 0:13:11.360 mid concert he took off the jack and then everybody 0:13:11.440 --> 0:13:14.040 scream everybody screamed he was wearing. Then he had like 0:13:14.080 --> 0:13:16.760 a tank for the rest of the concert. So what 0:13:17.160 --> 0:13:19.960 was the highlight performance? Would you say? What song can 0:13:20.000 --> 0:13:22.640 people react to the most? I think all of his 0:13:23.040 --> 0:13:25.199 major hits for sure, you know, and I think like 0:13:25.320 --> 0:13:27.360 music for restaurant, like we just played it. It was 0:13:27.480 --> 0:13:28.920 like for us, it was like the highlight. That was 0:13:28.960 --> 0:13:30.959 the one that we were all like singing together and 0:13:31.080 --> 0:13:34.160 like just you know, Kumbayan like and just partying basically. 0:13:34.640 --> 0:13:37.280 But towards the I would say, like almost the end, 0:13:37.920 --> 0:13:42.719 he's saying hopelessly devoted from Greece, and everybody When I say, 0:13:42.760 --> 0:13:45.839 everybody at the key Forum was singing this, it really was. 0:13:45.920 --> 0:13:49.120 And and then he put images of Olivia and John 0:13:49.240 --> 0:13:51.760 on like the screen, and you know she passed in August. 0:13:51.840 --> 0:14:02.679 It was really emotional. But take a listen. I think 0:14:02.720 --> 0:14:10.320 I hear you. I think I hear you say, wow, 0:14:12.559 --> 0:14:22.480 people in his house beautiful. So when do you leave? 0:14:23.200 --> 0:14:25.520 Like when every time I go to a concert, when 0:14:25.560 --> 0:14:28.240 I leave, I play the music. I play the music 0:14:28.320 --> 0:14:30.720 of the person I just saw in the car. Well 0:14:31.920 --> 0:14:34.360 we went, we got in the car, and actually Kiss 0:14:34.440 --> 0:14:38.240 does that. So if you leave Harry's house, Kiss will 0:14:38.280 --> 0:14:41.920 play like a few Harry songs in a row. F y. 0:14:42.000 --> 0:14:44.720 I well, you have to leave his house. Well eventually 0:14:44.800 --> 0:14:46.720 did leave? You have to leave at some point, right, 0:14:46.800 --> 0:14:49.000 he's got Yeah, So actually we left and I was 0:14:49.040 --> 0:14:51.320 listening to Kayla and she has had e J on 0:14:51.480 --> 0:14:53.920 because he was leaving Harry's house. And so then I 0:14:54.040 --> 0:14:56.120 called Kayla and I was just like, hey, I want 0:14:56.160 --> 0:14:58.200 to be out in the radio. It is not funny. 0:14:58.240 --> 0:15:00.560 I get like that too. I like that. I used 0:15:00.600 --> 0:15:04.040 to call Jojo all the time. Can I go on Eric? Yea, there, 0:15:04.680 --> 0:15:06.160 I want to. I want to report on the on 0:15:06.240 --> 0:15:09.720 the show. I just saw love it right, because they're 0:15:09.760 --> 0:15:12.240 like stuck in the studio. You know what's funny about that? 0:15:13.160 --> 0:15:15.520 So you know when people call into the show here, 0:15:16.160 --> 0:15:20.360 listeners are listeners. They're very calm, They're very very poised. 0:15:20.760 --> 0:15:23.360 When I call. When I call in, as me to 0:15:23.480 --> 0:15:27.800 one of the other shows here, my heart's pounding. While yeah, 0:15:28.080 --> 0:15:30.160 I get so nervous when I'm on the phone on 0:15:30.240 --> 0:15:32.480 the radio with somebody else. And I was talking to 0:15:32.560 --> 0:15:34.600 her and then Michael in the background is telling me 0:15:34.680 --> 0:15:35.920 to wrap it up, and I was like, what do 0:15:35.960 --> 0:15:38.760 you what do you wrap it up? Like like he 0:15:38.840 --> 0:15:41.160 knows the break time, I don't know, but almost like 0:15:41.760 --> 0:15:44.840 kind of drinking and like it's I think when when 0:15:44.960 --> 0:15:48.320 you were out when you were on leave. He really 0:15:48.480 --> 0:15:51.520 got into the role a boss. I mean he was 0:15:51.600 --> 0:15:54.840 a little bossy, right. He knew the segment times, he 0:15:55.120 --> 0:15:57.520 he knew exactly what was going on. So I think 0:15:57.600 --> 0:16:00.400 he felt that last night, I think keep his pan 0:16:00.480 --> 0:16:02.040 against and to stay something that I was maybe going 0:16:02.080 --> 0:16:05.680 to regret or something. Because you had a few cocktails. Yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly, 0:16:06.520 --> 0:16:08.360 that's the best. That's the best report. When you had 0:16:08.360 --> 0:16:11.080 a few cocktails after a concert, that's the best live report. 0:16:11.440 --> 0:16:16.400 Two people. We'll see Harry at his house at the 0:16:16.760 --> 0:16:19.840 Forum during this one. You guys, you have to try 0:16:19.920 --> 0:16:22.240 to get a ticket and go to one of these 0:16:22.280 --> 0:16:26.160 shows because it's so magical. So what time? So he 0:16:26.240 --> 0:16:29.120 goes on at nine oh four. This is the stuff 0:16:29.120 --> 0:16:31.560 I'm concerned about, right, how long did it take you 0:16:31.640 --> 0:16:34.000 to get out and back home? I wait, we were home, 0:16:34.080 --> 0:16:36.360 so like we stayed till the very end. I know 0:16:36.440 --> 0:16:39.040 people were like worried about traffic or whatnot, Like don't 0:16:39.240 --> 0:16:42.800 don't leave early times you go to bed, I don't know, 0:16:42.920 --> 0:16:46.680 midnight maybe how do you not know? Yeah, you look 0:16:46.680 --> 0:16:49.200 at a clock. Don't you look at a clock? Remember 0:16:49.280 --> 0:16:51.960 that's the last thing I do before toep because the 0:16:52.040 --> 0:16:54.120 morning is going to come fast. We ordered talk about 0:16:54.200 --> 0:16:56.920 on the way home, talk about, and then I went 0:16:57.000 --> 0:16:58.920 to bed. I just you know, how to look at 0:16:59.040 --> 0:17:02.520 my alarm clock, Laaren Cluck was that I knew that? Well? 0:17:02.600 --> 0:17:05.040 Thank you for that live report, and please call in 0:17:05.119 --> 0:17:08.600 after cocktails anytime I always do. It is time for 0:17:08.840 --> 0:17:13.320 second date update. Let us get Matt on the line. Matt, 0:17:13.480 --> 0:17:17.080 how are you hey doing okay? How are you doing? Well? 0:17:17.200 --> 0:17:19.359 We're doing all right. So you've been single for how 0:17:19.400 --> 0:17:22.680 long now about two and a half years, and you're 0:17:22.760 --> 0:17:27.560 looking for a great relationship. Yes, yes I am, and 0:17:27.680 --> 0:17:32.440 it's been hard to find somebody. It has been. Um. Yeah, 0:17:32.560 --> 0:17:34.479 I've been on a lot of first dates, but nothing's 0:17:34.480 --> 0:17:40.320 really gone beyond that. While So you're using what bumble? Yes, yeah, 0:17:40.359 --> 0:17:42.840 it bumbles the app the choice app at the moment, 0:17:43.640 --> 0:17:49.120 and you met someone on bumble I did, and honestly, yeah, 0:17:49.200 --> 0:17:52.760 she was like everything I was looking for, like beautiful, sweet, funny, 0:17:53.080 --> 0:17:56.640 but she didn't seem to be interested in me after 0:17:56.880 --> 0:17:59.399 after the date and I don't honestly know what's going on. 0:17:59.760 --> 0:18:03.639 So what did you do for the date? Um? We 0:18:03.760 --> 0:18:06.320 went to the Thirsty Merchant down in the valley village 0:18:06.600 --> 0:18:09.000 and you know, we had drinks. I thought it was 0:18:09.040 --> 0:18:12.639 a great night, like conversation flowed, and at the end 0:18:12.640 --> 0:18:15.119 of the night she had to go, Like, you know, 0:18:15.359 --> 0:18:17.080 I knew she was going. She said she had a 0:18:17.119 --> 0:18:20.680 thing beforehand, but you know, I really genuinely thought I 0:18:20.680 --> 0:18:25.359 would see her again. Did you text her afterwards? She 0:18:25.600 --> 0:18:30.640 texted me actually pretty quickly and said that she wasn't 0:18:30.720 --> 0:18:36.679 interested and wished it, wished me the best. Yeah, right 0:18:36.720 --> 0:18:39.560 after the date, right after the day. It seems harsh 0:18:39.600 --> 0:18:42.200 to them, you know, Sissy, that seems a little like harsh. 0:18:43.560 --> 0:18:50.080 Yeah now but now you know, yeah, but he wants 0:18:50.080 --> 0:18:53.920 to know what he did wrong? Right, Yes, yeah, I 0:18:54.240 --> 0:18:56.359 I honestly don't get it. Like I thought it was 0:18:56.440 --> 0:19:00.280 going so well, Like we were both laughing, were both 0:19:00.359 --> 0:19:03.160 talking like I don't care. Maybe an X came back 0:19:03.240 --> 0:19:05.000 in her life, and then she's just like I can't 0:19:05.040 --> 0:19:07.080 do this. And then you were like you were like 0:19:07.160 --> 0:19:09.239 the guy right after the X. And then she was like, oh, 0:19:09.560 --> 0:19:11.840 I can't. I know friends that have been in that 0:19:11.920 --> 0:19:15.640 situation before. I was like the false bounce back kind 0:19:15.720 --> 0:19:22.560 of yeah, So let's let's try and call her next here. 0:19:22.640 --> 0:19:25.239 Can you hang tight for a second, what's her name. 0:19:25.320 --> 0:19:29.240 What's her name? Her name is Diana. Diana. Okay, so 0:19:29.400 --> 0:19:31.959 we're in the middle of a second date. Update. Uh, 0:19:32.240 --> 0:19:35.360 Matt is on bumble met a great girl went out 0:19:35.520 --> 0:19:38.200 and then afterwards, she said she sent a text saying, hey, 0:19:38.560 --> 0:19:41.439 this is not going to work out, which it seems 0:19:42.160 --> 0:19:46.760 like harsh in a way. Well, but wouldn't you wait 0:19:46.840 --> 0:19:50.640 a day? No, you would do that after a date. 0:19:50.720 --> 0:19:52.679 I've done it before. I feel like it's being direct 0:19:54.720 --> 0:19:56.320 and so Matt, you know that it's not going to 0:19:56.440 --> 0:20:00.359 work out. You just want to know what you did wrong? Yeah, because, 0:20:00.760 --> 0:20:02.040 like I said, I've been on a lot of these 0:20:02.119 --> 0:20:06.000 days recently and they've all ended similarly where it's like 0:20:06.040 --> 0:20:08.320 I thought it went well and yeah, I just want 0:20:08.400 --> 0:20:11.680 some feedback. So there's a theme to them not wanting 0:20:11.720 --> 0:20:18.720 to go out again. Yes, yes, I mean I'm a 0:20:18.760 --> 0:20:21.680 little nervous to make the call. Can you do you? 0:20:22.200 --> 0:20:24.080 But Matt, think about it. Do you have any idea 0:20:24.359 --> 0:20:31.960 what might be not happening? Genuinely, I don't have a clue. Like, 0:20:32.520 --> 0:20:36.280 like I said, conversation is only really well, these are 0:20:36.520 --> 0:20:39.000 pre attractive people. I it's like to say I'm attractive 0:20:39.040 --> 0:20:43.679 to like I got I got no idea. Okay, all right, 0:20:43.680 --> 0:20:45.520 well listen, Matt, we have her on the other line. 0:20:45.960 --> 0:20:48.680 Be very quiet, and let's see what we can find out. Okay, 0:20:49.560 --> 0:20:51.480 it sounds good to me. Thank you. Here we go. 0:20:52.400 --> 0:20:59.560 I'm worried about this one, I mean pattern Hello Diana, Hi, Hi, 0:21:00.000 --> 0:21:02.040 thank you for coming on with us. It's kiss FM 0:21:02.200 --> 0:21:05.639 sis any Tanya myself, Ryan. Nice to meet you. Hi, 0:21:05.880 --> 0:21:09.000 Nice to meet you. So a bit random. What we're 0:21:09.000 --> 0:21:15.919 calling about a guy named Matt that you met on bumble? Um? Yeah, okay, 0:21:16.080 --> 0:21:19.679 I think I remember Matt. So you did go out 0:21:19.760 --> 0:21:25.399 with him? Um? Yeah, I went out with him. Um? 0:21:27.640 --> 0:21:33.479 And how is the date? Um? Like, nothing special? There 0:21:33.600 --> 0:21:38.359 was no spark mm hmm. So when you say when 0:21:38.400 --> 0:21:40.800 you say no spark, that's it. There was nothing that 0:21:40.960 --> 0:21:43.000 like went wrong, Like you didn't have a good time 0:21:43.080 --> 0:21:47.280 at all during the date. Yeah, it was just another 0:21:47.760 --> 0:21:51.320 like long line of disappointing dates. It wasn't anything special. 0:21:52.840 --> 0:21:58.160 What what did you talk about on the date? Oh? Um? 0:22:00.000 --> 0:22:04.200 Where do I even begin? Um? Well, like he asked 0:22:04.200 --> 0:22:07.720 me out for drinks and um it was it was 0:22:07.800 --> 0:22:11.600 the weirdest thing ever. He doesn't drink, so I don't 0:22:11.640 --> 0:22:14.840 know why he asked me out for drinks, and then 0:22:15.280 --> 0:22:18.080 you know, we started talking and he just he started 0:22:18.160 --> 0:22:23.200 asking me questions that he wanted to answer himself. Like 0:22:23.359 --> 0:22:26.320 he asked me, do you like to work out? And 0:22:26.880 --> 0:22:30.080 I'm like sometimes, And he goes into this whole speech 0:22:30.119 --> 0:22:35.200 about the importance of fitness and his daily routine. So 0:22:35.400 --> 0:22:40.000 he talked about himself a lot, exactly exactly anything he 0:22:40.119 --> 0:22:43.040 asked me. It was something that he wanted to talk about, 0:22:43.080 --> 0:22:45.800 whether it was fitness, whether it was his job, which 0:22:45.880 --> 0:22:51.119 is ridiculous. So, um, Diana, he's on the line with 0:22:51.320 --> 0:22:54.440 us right now, Matt is here with us, and he 0:22:54.720 --> 0:22:57.199 really wanted to know what he did wrong. Matt, does 0:22:57.280 --> 0:23:04.320 that make sense to you? Uh that? Hey, Diana? Uh yeah, 0:23:04.400 --> 0:23:08.520 that that kind of checks out. Do you talk about 0:23:08.560 --> 0:23:13.320 yourself a lot? That? I don't think I do, but 0:23:14.640 --> 0:23:19.400 I don't tell you. Well, look, this is a literal experience. Now, yeah, 0:23:19.920 --> 0:23:22.040 I don't know. This is this is good, this is good, 0:23:22.200 --> 0:23:25.160 like but it's not it's not great. It's it's actually 0:23:25.240 --> 0:23:28.479 not great. So walk me through it. You bring up 0:23:28.560 --> 0:23:34.639 fitness and then you say, what, uh that you know, 0:23:34.920 --> 0:23:40.880 I have this study routine going on at the CrossFit 0:23:40.960 --> 0:23:45.000 near me and um, like it's kind of like, you know, 0:23:45.160 --> 0:23:48.480 my way of saying, Hey, I'm passionate about this. What 0:23:48.560 --> 0:23:52.119 else are you passionate about? Um? Did he ask you that, Diana? 0:23:52.200 --> 0:23:55.720 Did he did he ask you that question? Oh? Yes, 0:23:56.000 --> 0:23:58.520 he asked me that question. And then he went all 0:23:58.720 --> 0:24:02.040 in about how he did since crossbin, how he eats healthy, 0:24:02.119 --> 0:24:04.199 and how this is the most important thing because if 0:24:04.240 --> 0:24:07.400 you don't do that, then there's all these repercussions. It's 0:24:07.640 --> 0:24:11.640 like it's like shake from Love is blind? Who kept 0:24:11.680 --> 0:24:14.520 asking girls that the guys shake from Love is blind? 0:24:14.640 --> 0:24:18.160 Remember he like went viral last season. Didn't watch because 0:24:18.200 --> 0:24:21.880 he was asking anybody about their fitness that you're like shake. Yeah. 0:24:22.320 --> 0:24:26.159