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Speaker 1: Can we get into this morning hack. It is Wednesday,

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Speaker 1: Valentine's Day, February fourteenth, twenty nine days is month. It's

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Speaker 1: gonna seem like a long February show that one extra day.

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you, it's gonna make it seem long. So

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Speaker 1: here's the thing. These are gonna seem like normal, fun

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Speaker 1: things to do for your Valentine. But a prominent psychotherapist

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Speaker 1: who will not be named, has said to us these

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Speaker 1: may do more harm than good. Number one, there are three.

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Speaker 1: Number one dinnerate your favorite spot more harm than good?

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Speaker 2: Why?

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Speaker 1: Lots of boredom, lots of repetition, lots of routine kill.

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Speaker 2: Spark It's not spontaneous.

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Speaker 1: It's the same. It's not sparky. You need sparky.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm here for that.

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Speaker 1: Two. Post about your partner on social media. Posting about

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Speaker 1: your relationship can damage the intimacy between you. The more

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Speaker 1: time you spend on social media, the less satisfied they

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Speaker 1: are in their relationships.

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Speaker 2: That's why they always say the people that post a

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Speaker 2: lot about their significant others are projecting. Yeah, it's like

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Speaker 2: what they actually want their relationship to be.

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Speaker 1: Let's take a look at everyone's feed. Well, what are you.

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Speaker 3: Supposed to do? Just keep them out of it. You

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Speaker 3: don't have to say it. I can read between the lines.

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Speaker 1: That's number two, number three in these really no. I

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Speaker 1: do things that are sound, sound fun, but could do

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Speaker 1: more harm than good to your Valentine. Buying expensive gifts,

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Speaker 1: don't do it. Financial stress is a major reason couples

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Speaker 1: break up.

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Speaker 2: That's true.

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Speaker 1: The people want affection, love, thouughtfulness and a homemade card. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and get out your walk and shoes. Valentine by Valentine