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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the clo. This is from

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Speaker 1: Derek and Philly. Derek writes, I'm dating a woman that

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Speaker 1: lives over an hour from me. I see other women

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Speaker 1: because I can, and it doesn't mean that I don't

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Speaker 1: love my girlfriend. I would be devastated if my girlfriend

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Speaker 1: ever found out. How do I remain faithful when I

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Speaker 1: can't be with my girl?

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Speaker 2: That ain't no dimember, that's a stupid question. You're asking me.

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Speaker 2: How do I be faithful without my girl? And all

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Speaker 2: your excuse is she stay an hour away. That's that's all.

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Speaker 2: It takes one hour.

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Speaker 1: Drive travel time.

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Speaker 2: And now you've got to have somebody else. Hey, brother, really, dog,

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Speaker 2: let me let me explain. You just got the man up.

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Speaker 2: You got to make the decision. Stop trying to act

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Speaker 2: like you want this girl so bad, because you don't.

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Speaker 2: You want her and them two. You're a player right now,

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Speaker 2: that's all you are. Now, you're not finn stop. I

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Speaker 2: would be devastated if you lost my girl. Now you

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Speaker 2: wouldn't you just get some more of them that you

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Speaker 2: got local whoa Okay? So bro, let's come on, man,

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Speaker 2: let's let's stop playing this game. You don't even really

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Speaker 2: have a problem. See you trying to you trying to

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Speaker 2: get some help, trying to figure out how you can

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Speaker 2: keep being a player, but you ain't trying to stop

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Speaker 2: being a player.

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Speaker 1: Yeah I can justified, bro. So come on man, yeah all.

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Speaker 2: Right, playing the game. Now you trying to write a

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Speaker 2: letter in like you? Like you some serious dude?

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Speaker 3: Man?

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Speaker 2: Bye dag Really what you are.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to? Avius Clo and Denver Avias right to

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Speaker 1: have two cars? One I paid for it and one

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Speaker 1: my dad gave me. I moved into my boyfriend's house.

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Speaker 1: So he thinks my cars are his cars too. My

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Speaker 1: dad said he better not see him in the car.

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Speaker 2: That he gave me.

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Speaker 1: Should it be what's his mine or vice versa.

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Speaker 2: Well, your dad is right, The dad is one hundred right.

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Speaker 2: Your dad bought the car for you. Now you got

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Speaker 2: this man that you have moved in with because you

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Speaker 2: got two cars. Now he thinks that's you. May maybe

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Speaker 2: you don't have to make better choices. She ain't got

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Speaker 2: no car. You have moved in with a man that

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Speaker 2: ain't got no car? What's or did the man move

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Speaker 2: in with you?

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Speaker 1: No, she moved in with him, but.

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Speaker 2: He ain't got no car. Well, daddy, said he better

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Speaker 2: not see him in the car he bought. Ye, hedne

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Speaker 2: told him, And and that's what you need to tell

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Speaker 2: your boyfriend. My daddy said, you can't drive this car period,

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Speaker 2: because he bought that for me.

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Speaker 1: Not so that's what she should tell him.

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Speaker 2: Don't drive her dad, Yeah, you can't. But see once again,

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Speaker 2: y'all move in. Do y'all understand what that means? So

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Speaker 2: now he acted like what's yours is his, it's what's

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Speaker 2: he is yours. See, y'all playhouse, but don't understand house rules.

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Speaker 2: Y'all getting up here, you're doing all the wifey stuff.

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Speaker 2: You're sleeping with him, laughing and all this here. Nah,

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Speaker 2: but you all he can't drive your car? Why y'all together? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: y'all want to be together and all that. Man getting married,

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Speaker 2: and see, your father knew if you, if you marry

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Speaker 2: my daughter, he let all that be one. But you

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Speaker 2: ain't y'all y'all in here playing house. Yeah, do like

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Speaker 2: y'all want to.

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Speaker 1: I don't care, bottom, No, I just I don't care.

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Speaker 2: Man.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Cheyenne and Tessa Lusa, Cheyenne writes, my

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Speaker 1: brother's girlfriend is twenty one and ask to borrow a

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Speaker 1: dress for a job interview. I never got the dress back,

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Speaker 1: and it was one of my more expensive dresses. My

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Speaker 1: brother refuses to pay me for the dress. Since they're young.

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Speaker 1: Should I let it slide?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, just let it go.

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Speaker 1: Just let it go.

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Speaker 2: Now you've she ain't even thought about that dress. She

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Speaker 2: the ward again too. Ain't just a job interview? Your

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Speaker 2: brother don't want to pay you for it? You know

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Speaker 2: she ain't paying you for it. I just let it

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Speaker 2: go right off. Not guess what. They can't come over

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Speaker 2: there and get nothing else. Now that's the joy of

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Speaker 2: people not paying you back. They can't come get nothing else,

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Speaker 2: and they gonna need something else.

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Speaker 1: You can need that, yeah, yeah, because they are young.

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Speaker 1: Twenty one? All right? Last one? Last one Colo. This

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Speaker 1: is from Simeon and Greensboro. Simeon says, I talked to

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Speaker 1: a girl all night at a bar. At the bar

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Speaker 1: after game. My wife found out, and she wanted to

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Speaker 1: know who the girl is. I tell my wife who

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Speaker 1: she is, and she looked the woman up on Instagram.

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Speaker 1: Is it normal for my wife to investigate? Or is

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Speaker 1: she insecure and nuts? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: All that?

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Speaker 2: I can't believe though, you told your wife that you

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Speaker 2: set up all night at a bar talking to a woman. Stude,

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Speaker 2: you told her that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he told his wife who the woman was.

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Speaker 2: And but bro, what what what'd you do that for?

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Speaker 2: You was at the bar with your friends, and then

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Speaker 2: that would be none of this all night? But yeah,

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Speaker 2: my friends all night, don't do You don't think that

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Speaker 2: sounds way better than with this woman all night?

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Speaker 1: I absolutely do.

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Speaker 2: See. I tried to tell y'all the significance and the

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Speaker 2: importance of a loud Oh no, here, y'all won't try

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Speaker 2: the truth. Okay, all right, okay, but well you ain't

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Speaker 2: gonna be mad about that. You're gonna be looking nobody else.

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Speaker 2: And you know her name and all that she done

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Speaker 2: looked down up. You gotta be crazy.

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Speaker 1: That's too much information.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you shouldn't even knew her name. I don't even

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Speaker 2: know her name. We was just talking. I never even

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Speaker 2: asked her n I ain't got it. We were gonna

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Speaker 2: stay in touching curler.

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Speaker 3: Well, my thing is you're talking about telling the truth

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Speaker 3: and a lot the dumb part is his action. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: why didn't you just talk to the woman all night?

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Speaker 3: Because he wouldn't want his wife talking to a man

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Speaker 3: all night. So the fact that he lied about that,

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Speaker 3: it's like, why are you talking to this woman all night?

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Speaker 2: No? No, no, no, ladies, ladies, this is that wasn't

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Speaker 2: the dumb part.

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Speaker 1: She was what.

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Speaker 3: What was it?

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Speaker 2: The dumb part was telling.

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Speaker 3: Me can we disagree?

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Speaker 2: Don't worry about you could do something.

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Speaker 1: What he ha said he's at a bar all night

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Speaker 1: talking to a woman.

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Speaker 2: So after the game with his friends all night? What what?

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Speaker 2: Why would you say all night? I was talking to

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Speaker 2: this woman. That's the dumbest thing.

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Speaker 1: No, the dumbest thing was to do it. That was

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Speaker 1: the dumbest thing.

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Speaker 2: But you can't double down on your dumb No. I

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Speaker 2: got it was dumb talking to the woman. But the

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Speaker 2: dumbest thing was to go home and tell your wife

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Speaker 2: you was talking to the woman.

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Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, thank you,

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Speaker 1: oh god, you're listening. Steve Harvey Morning Show