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It is the Fresh Show. 10 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:29,360 Speaker 1: Good Morning win O three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number 11 00:00:29,360 --> 00:00:31,479 Speaker 1: one hit music station. Hey if you have tickets to 12 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:35,440 Speaker 1: our Hey, if you have tickets, I'm very excited about it. Hey, Hey, 13 00:00:35,600 --> 00:00:38,560 Speaker 1: the coffee. The coffee just kicked data. How good morning everyone. 14 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:40,879 Speaker 1: If you have tickets to our tangent line, this is 15 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:43,159 Speaker 1: my reminder to show up because the five bucks you 16 00:00:43,159 --> 00:00:45,040 Speaker 1: spent is great for the venue. I'm sure they'll really 17 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:48,760 Speaker 1: enjoy that. But what we need is bodies in the buildings. Please. 18 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:51,480 Speaker 1: Because we were just talked about identity a minute ago, 19 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:53,840 Speaker 1: My identity will be negatively affected if no one shows 20 00:00:53,920 --> 00:00:58,880 Speaker 1: up to this because because this is our job and 21 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 1: my social media I did but he will also be 22 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:05,040 Speaker 1: negatively affected. If no one shows up to Griffith, Indiana 23 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:08,880 Speaker 1: on Friday, it's gonna be lit. No, I must say, 24 00:01:08,959 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 1: I'm so excited the Tangent Live. Hey, it's an excuse 25 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:15,320 Speaker 1: to come hang out with us and have some drinks 26 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 1: and whatever. We'll do a little Tangent performance before you 27 00:01:19,160 --> 00:01:20,920 Speaker 1: get music at a band playing. It will be a 28 00:01:20,959 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 1: good time. But if you bought it sold out like 29 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:24,759 Speaker 1: in two seconds. So if you bought tickets six eight 30 00:01:24,760 --> 00:01:28,039 Speaker 1: weeks ago, whenever that was, it is Friday. Please don't 31 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:30,360 Speaker 1: text me on Sunday and say I can't wait to 32 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:33,040 Speaker 1: see you on Friday, because it was the it would 33 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:37,039 Speaker 1: have been the previous Friday at that point. So Friday 34 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:40,520 Speaker 1: in Griffith, Indiana, it's the Tangent Live. We're gonna be there. 35 00:01:40,520 --> 00:01:42,520 Speaker 1: We get tickets to our one O three five Kiss 36 00:01:42,600 --> 00:01:45,560 Speaker 1: FM jingle Ball presented by Capital one seven to fifty five. 37 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 1: You can buy them at one O three five kissfm 38 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:50,000 Speaker 1: dot com. They will sell out. They do every single year. 39 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:53,640 Speaker 1: Ten years in a row. Is December eighth at All State. Nelly, 40 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 1: Teddy Swims and seven other artists will be there and 41 00:01:57,480 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 1: good seat is still available and affordable seat is still 42 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 1: available is and then it's a super social week or 43 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:05,040 Speaker 1: ten days or two weeks, because then the following Friday, 44 00:02:05,600 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 1: we're hanging out with our friends at Paul Chicago for 45 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:09,360 Speaker 1: fur ball, where I have to wear a tux. And 46 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 1: there are two times a year that I wear a tux. 47 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:13,560 Speaker 1: That is one. The other is Cow's Angels. That is it. 48 00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 1: And every time it's a bit of a roll of 49 00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:17,600 Speaker 1: the dice if said Tucks is going to fit. Oh, 50 00:02:17,639 --> 00:02:20,120 Speaker 1: I feel that so hard because we don't try it 51 00:02:20,160 --> 00:02:22,400 Speaker 1: ahead of time, and you know, it's my fun little 52 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:25,840 Speaker 1: game that I play. It's Russian Roulette of the Tucks 53 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:28,080 Speaker 1: where we wait until five o'clock at that of the 54 00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:31,480 Speaker 1: event and we slide that thing on and we say, ooh, 55 00:02:31,560 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 1: it's been a good year, or we've really sort of 56 00:02:34,760 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 1: fallen off, haven't we. However, this year debuting a new 57 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:40,080 Speaker 1: Tucks so it will fit. 58 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:42,320 Speaker 2: You don't tell us about the couch, You don't tell 59 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:42,919 Speaker 2: us about the Tucks. 60 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:45,080 Speaker 1: When did you get the new Tugs? Well, I just 61 00:02:45,160 --> 00:02:48,880 Speaker 1: decided that it was time to sort of upgrade the 62 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:51,760 Speaker 1: tux game, because you know, twice a year I wear them, 63 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:54,720 Speaker 1: and so yes, I win and saw my friend DeVante. 64 00:02:54,840 --> 00:02:58,120 Speaker 1: I believe the place is called belanih Oh, you know 65 00:02:58,160 --> 00:03:01,120 Speaker 1: we good to go. This is the fine This is 66 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:05,680 Speaker 1: the finest uh fabric that Marvin could steal. Yes, it's fantastic. 67 00:03:05,800 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 1: You got your little ankles out? Uh No is that 68 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:11,640 Speaker 1: kind of out? Isn't the ankle thing out? We have 69 00:03:11,680 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 1: a little break, a little break on the on the pants. 70 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:17,799 Speaker 1: I just like a fitted suit. You some I got 71 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:21,359 Speaker 1: brand new. Actually, I go know chonies with the tucks. No, 72 00:03:21,440 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 1: I wear Chimneys with the tous. I'm sorry to disavo excitedly. Well, 73 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:26,840 Speaker 1: I know I got to keep it all content. You know. 74 00:03:28,120 --> 00:03:31,720 Speaker 1: It's a lot of masks, you know. All right, all right, 75 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:36,200 Speaker 1: it is not embarrassing to be my boyfriend or girlfriend 76 00:03:36,280 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 1: and win in it's the Fred Show. I can't do it. 77 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:46,240 Speaker 1: That'd'd be a threesome. A three A couple of Fred's 78 00:03:46,280 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 1: show is on. It's Tuesday, November fourth. The Fred Show 79 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 1: is on. The whole crew is here. We get to 80 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 1: blogs in just a second stair. Go after that, we'll 81 00:03:53,360 --> 00:03:56,320 Speaker 1: debate your relationship drama show me. Shelley is back two 82 00:03:56,440 --> 00:03:59,120 Speaker 1: fifty in this showdown. Two game wins treak if you 83 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:01,360 Speaker 1: can beat her inside play you start your day with 84 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 1: two hundred and fifty bucks and the Entertainment Report this 85 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:05,240 Speaker 1: hour as well. What are you working on? 86 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 3: K Well? 87 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:09,240 Speaker 2: Millions of NFL fans were left enraged. It has to 88 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 2: do with cowboy Nations, So Jason, probably I'm going to 89 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 2: be listening to that story. Also, people are convinced that 90 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:18,040 Speaker 2: Taylor Swift is a time traveler. 91 00:04:19,640 --> 00:04:23,800 Speaker 1: Like Janelle Monnet. Okay, and forty minutes commercial free Fred 92 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:26,640 Speaker 1: Show right now? Tell them, yeah, they talk better than 93 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:30,240 Speaker 1: they cite. Tell me about. These are the radio blogs 94 00:04:30,360 --> 00:04:32,359 Speaker 1: on the Fred Show Life we're writing in our diaries, 95 00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:34,680 Speaker 1: except we say them aloud. We call them blogs. Can'ky 96 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:35,480 Speaker 1: big announcement? 97 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:40,280 Speaker 4: Go yes, dear blog, big announcement? That's crazy. So we 98 00:04:40,320 --> 00:04:42,599 Speaker 4: have an update for the wedding. Are you ready for it? 99 00:04:43,160 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 1: I'm so ready? Okay, and I would be honored all 100 00:04:45,720 --> 00:04:48,160 Speaker 1: right to be your maid of honor. Thanks, thank you 101 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 1: so much. I've been waiting for you to say to me. 102 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 4: Well, first I have to make sure you're available. But 103 00:04:53,760 --> 00:04:57,799 Speaker 4: the date has been set and the venue has been booked. Wow, 104 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:03,680 Speaker 4: how broke you? Baby? It's the struggle bus around here. 105 00:05:03,880 --> 00:05:05,680 Speaker 1: Okay. But what I do know is that I see 106 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 1: you underneath looking for pennies. 107 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:13,440 Speaker 4: And yes, but you will have top shelf liquor. Yes, 108 00:05:13,520 --> 00:05:17,760 Speaker 4: and you will have family style food. So that's just like, Okay, 109 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:19,920 Speaker 4: it's gonna be a time I like that, so that 110 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:23,680 Speaker 4: I do know, and shout out to my venue. I 111 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:25,080 Speaker 4: just you know, how you go somewhere and you just 112 00:05:25,120 --> 00:05:27,320 Speaker 4: get a good vibe. Yes, the first time I went, 113 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:29,640 Speaker 4: I went. I've gone there like three times at this point, 114 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 4: and every time I go, I get a great vibe. 115 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:34,280 Speaker 1: So shout out to my girl Joeanne. She's family. Now 116 00:05:34,480 --> 00:05:35,120 Speaker 1: she's locked in. 117 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:41,120 Speaker 4: Okay, Hello, but yes, I am excited now because it's 118 00:05:41,160 --> 00:05:43,440 Speaker 4: like once you get because you it's a phase of 119 00:05:43,480 --> 00:05:45,120 Speaker 4: things that you go through after you get engaged, which 120 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:48,039 Speaker 4: I'm learning is like you go through the excitement of engagement, 121 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:51,159 Speaker 4: then you crash out because you have to realize the 122 00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:54,040 Speaker 4: price of a wedding, and then you go through delusion, 123 00:05:54,200 --> 00:05:56,960 Speaker 4: which I want to look at venues you absolutely can't afford, 124 00:05:57,680 --> 00:06:01,760 Speaker 4: and then you settle with reality of I could maybe possibly, 125 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:05,680 Speaker 4: maybe possibly make this happen, and then you lock in 126 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 4: what's your venue, And it's like Okay, we're locked in 127 00:06:08,120 --> 00:06:08,720 Speaker 4: and we have a date. 128 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:11,600 Speaker 1: We have a place, so good for you. I'm excited. 129 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:14,960 Speaker 1: It's like, congratulations, I'd like to marry you. Now you're 130 00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 1: with me for the rest of your life, and you 131 00:06:17,080 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 1: have to plan, you know, an event that we'll remember 132 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:21,800 Speaker 1: forever that's also going to cause us to go into 133 00:06:21,839 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 1: dead Absolutely congratulation. And by the way, that event isn't 134 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:26,080 Speaker 1: for eighteen months, but the money we need that now. 135 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:30,919 Speaker 1: So congratulations, lucky you. Yes, good for you, though, that 136 00:06:31,000 --> 00:06:33,479 Speaker 1: has to feel good. At least big steps have been taken. Yeah, 137 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:34,479 Speaker 1: it's great. 138 00:06:34,520 --> 00:06:36,599 Speaker 4: Big Tim went went with me and he saw the 139 00:06:36,600 --> 00:06:39,160 Speaker 4: place and loved it, and we had our last meal. 140 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:41,039 Speaker 1: I think that's two that you let him believe that 141 00:06:41,080 --> 00:06:43,600 Speaker 1: he had any saying what's going on. I don't think 142 00:06:43,640 --> 00:06:44,080 Speaker 1: that right. 143 00:06:44,120 --> 00:06:45,320 Speaker 4: I was like, you sure you like this? 144 00:06:45,680 --> 00:06:48,600 Speaker 1: Be sure the good The paperwork is hard. I'm gonna say, 145 00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:51,359 Speaker 1: you already paid for it. It's already already signed up. 146 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:55,719 Speaker 1: The frend Show is on. It's stay or go. Okay, 147 00:06:56,040 --> 00:07:01,480 Speaker 1: more opinions from us Kelsey this time. Hi Kelsey, Hi, 148 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:04,159 Speaker 1: how's it going, Good morning, thanks for being here, Welcome 149 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:08,760 Speaker 1: to the programs. So this is where people hit us 150 00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:12,000 Speaker 1: up and ask us for our opinions. Are the thirteen's 151 00:07:12,040 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 1: opinions about steps going on in their life. You can 152 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:15,920 Speaker 1: hit us at Friendship radio dot com and all the 153 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:18,520 Speaker 1: different socials. This is about your boyfriend. You guys have 154 00:07:18,560 --> 00:07:20,800 Speaker 1: been together for a year and a half and decided 155 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:22,200 Speaker 1: to move in together and then. 156 00:07:22,080 --> 00:07:27,960 Speaker 5: What so we looked at places. We did find one 157 00:07:27,960 --> 00:07:29,720 Speaker 5: that we really liked, and so we put in that 158 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 5: application for it standard process and then for whatever reason, 159 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:39,840 Speaker 5: we got denied for it, as if it ran our 160 00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:41,880 Speaker 5: credit and you. 161 00:07:41,760 --> 00:07:43,760 Speaker 1: Have good credit or was it a little bit of 162 00:07:43,760 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 1: a roll the dice there? 163 00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 5: My credit is pretty good, I mean, you know it 164 00:07:49,080 --> 00:07:49,840 Speaker 5: is what it is. 165 00:07:49,840 --> 00:07:52,560 Speaker 1: Okay, So you expected to get this though, like you 166 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 1: didn't do this and you're like wet to see if 167 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:57,080 Speaker 1: they find that credit card bill or whatever. But then 168 00:07:57,120 --> 00:07:59,160 Speaker 1: you expected it wouldn't be an issue. 169 00:08:00,200 --> 00:08:01,800 Speaker 5: I didn't think it would be that big of a deal, 170 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:03,800 Speaker 5: Like obviously I wouldn't to put the application in because 171 00:08:03,840 --> 00:08:06,440 Speaker 5: we had to pay for that, right, So I just 172 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:12,160 Speaker 5: wasn't instricting. So they denied this. I called, I'm like, hey, 173 00:08:12,200 --> 00:08:14,720 Speaker 5: what's going on? You know? They said they couldn't proceed 174 00:08:14,840 --> 00:08:17,800 Speaker 5: because of my boyfriend's credit, not because of mine. 175 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 1: Oh and that was surprising. 176 00:08:21,520 --> 00:08:24,280 Speaker 5: Oh, definitely it was. It was even more surprising because 177 00:08:24,400 --> 00:08:26,240 Speaker 5: not only was the credit like that, it was like 178 00:08:26,320 --> 00:08:28,640 Speaker 5: really bad, Like I didn't even know you could get 179 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:29,360 Speaker 5: a credit score that. 180 00:08:29,400 --> 00:08:29,840 Speaker 1: I love. 181 00:08:31,760 --> 00:08:36,320 Speaker 5: No shade, no shade. I loved him. I love my boyfriend. 182 00:08:36,320 --> 00:08:39,880 Speaker 5: But it's also just like day like when were you 183 00:08:39,920 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 5: going to tell me that? It was a lot of 184 00:08:41,440 --> 00:08:45,160 Speaker 5: like details to it too, like they owe he specifically 185 00:08:45,160 --> 00:08:50,880 Speaker 5: owes that rental company thousands of dollars, like thousands of 186 00:08:51,040 --> 00:08:53,280 Speaker 5: rent like over a past lease, and he didn't tell 187 00:08:53,320 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 5: me that. And it's like if you knew, if you 188 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 5: knew that before we applied, why wouldn't you say that? 189 00:08:59,679 --> 00:09:03,320 Speaker 1: Okay, So and then you confronted him, right because you're like, hey, 190 00:09:03,360 --> 00:09:04,880 Speaker 1: what's going on with this? Like why didn't we talk 191 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:07,000 Speaker 1: about it? And then what is he? What's his response? 192 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:07,160 Speaker 6: Oh? 193 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:09,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, my bad, Like I thought, maybe I don't know, 194 00:09:09,960 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 1: Oh I forgot. 195 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:14,800 Speaker 5: The old roommate basically, no, not even my bet, right, 196 00:09:14,840 --> 00:09:16,800 Speaker 5: I would even be okay with my bet. It wasn't 197 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:19,240 Speaker 5: even that it was oh my old roommate. They didn't 198 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:23,200 Speaker 5: pay in effected my credit, blah blah blah. We were 199 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:26,000 Speaker 5: both on the lease, and so I'm like, Okay, why 200 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:28,320 Speaker 5: wouldn't you just tell me that, like ahead of time? 201 00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:30,880 Speaker 5: You know it's the same company. So I don't know. 202 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:33,319 Speaker 5: I just really am confused about it because I also 203 00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:36,520 Speaker 5: feel like it almost feels like lying, Like it's almost 204 00:09:36,600 --> 00:09:38,080 Speaker 5: like a liable mission, like you knew. 205 00:09:37,960 --> 00:09:40,719 Speaker 1: That, Yeah, he knew he had bad credit. He knew 206 00:09:40,760 --> 00:09:43,079 Speaker 1: they were running the credit, because that's pretty standard when 207 00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:45,600 Speaker 1: you go rent something and he didn't give you any 208 00:09:45,640 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 1: heads up and then and then it's someone else's fault entirely, 209 00:09:49,320 --> 00:09:50,920 Speaker 1: which then I would start to say, well, if my 210 00:09:51,000 --> 00:09:55,040 Speaker 1: credit was completely screwed, then I'm tracking that person down, 211 00:09:55,080 --> 00:09:56,439 Speaker 1: I'm trying to get the money. I'm trying to get 212 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:58,360 Speaker 1: it straightened out, you know, because I don't want to 213 00:09:58,360 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 1: live like that. I don't want to run into this 214 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:02,560 Speaker 1: every time, especially if it's actually someone else's fault. But 215 00:10:02,600 --> 00:10:05,080 Speaker 1: then he seems a little complacent about it, even because 216 00:10:05,080 --> 00:10:07,880 Speaker 1: it's oh yeah that, yeah, it's a shame, isn't it. 217 00:10:07,960 --> 00:10:09,839 Speaker 1: I don't like that it's someone else's fault. 218 00:10:10,640 --> 00:10:12,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, But he's you know, I will give him this 219 00:10:12,720 --> 00:10:15,120 Speaker 5: like he is working, and he's working towards a lot 220 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:17,199 Speaker 5: of different things. And so that's also part of why 221 00:10:17,240 --> 00:10:19,679 Speaker 5: I feel like conflict. They're right because I see him 222 00:10:19,679 --> 00:10:23,040 Speaker 5: putting in the efforts to like really rebuild himself and 223 00:10:23,080 --> 00:10:25,800 Speaker 5: rebuild his life, and so I just I don't even 224 00:10:25,840 --> 00:10:27,480 Speaker 5: know if that's But I also at the same time 225 00:10:27,520 --> 00:10:29,400 Speaker 5: don't know if that's something I want to be involved in. Right, 226 00:10:29,559 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 5: It's like, I can help you a little bit, but 227 00:10:32,280 --> 00:10:34,719 Speaker 5: I don't. I don't want to be responsible for you. 228 00:10:35,080 --> 00:10:35,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, can I don't. 229 00:10:35,920 --> 00:10:36,559 Speaker 5: That makes sense. 230 00:10:36,760 --> 00:10:40,440 Speaker 1: I've never I've never rented an apartment with someone else, 231 00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:42,200 Speaker 1: But I mean, can you You're going to run into 232 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:44,440 Speaker 1: this every time? So then are you able to are 233 00:10:44,480 --> 00:10:46,520 Speaker 1: you able to rent the apartment just you and they 234 00:10:46,520 --> 00:10:48,400 Speaker 1: don't run his credit? Or I mean, is this something 235 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:49,640 Speaker 1: that you're not going to be able to get an 236 00:10:49,679 --> 00:10:53,080 Speaker 1: apartment until or a good apartment or whatever and until 237 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:55,120 Speaker 1: he clears this up? It is my question. 238 00:10:57,200 --> 00:10:59,400 Speaker 5: I don't even know, Like we haven't even gotten there. 239 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:02,800 Speaker 5: I need to make the decision first. I think as 240 00:11:02,800 --> 00:11:06,000 Speaker 5: far as like, am I gonna bring him along with me? 241 00:11:06,320 --> 00:11:09,800 Speaker 5: Or am I just gonna not? You know, so I 242 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:13,040 Speaker 5: SeeAbility you know, it is a liability. It's like, do 243 00:11:13,080 --> 00:11:14,920 Speaker 5: I even want to put his name on the leash 244 00:11:15,120 --> 00:11:15,920 Speaker 5: if that's the case? 245 00:11:16,160 --> 00:11:19,080 Speaker 1: You know, so it's like, yeah, which is something you're 246 00:11:19,120 --> 00:11:20,440 Speaker 1: gonna have to But then you're stuck with the whole 247 00:11:20,480 --> 00:11:23,719 Speaker 1: thing if something happens eight five five five one three five. 248 00:11:23,720 --> 00:11:25,480 Speaker 1: I'd love to tell what people, if they've been through this, 249 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:27,400 Speaker 1: what they what they have to say about it. You know, 250 00:11:27,640 --> 00:11:29,400 Speaker 1: it's I'm glad that he's not just sitting on the 251 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:32,319 Speaker 1: couch playing video games with bad credit and h Yeah, 252 00:11:32,360 --> 00:11:34,000 Speaker 1: I don't know, and it doesn't seem to be any 253 00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:36,840 Speaker 1: motivation for him to sort of have success in his life. 254 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:39,720 Speaker 1: That being said, I do think it's us that he 255 00:11:39,760 --> 00:11:43,199 Speaker 1: didn't ever bring this up, like like, why why didn't 256 00:11:43,240 --> 00:11:46,280 Speaker 1: he going into this process go hey, look, heads up, 257 00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:48,960 Speaker 1: you know I do have this situation. It's going to 258 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:50,760 Speaker 1: come up when they run the credit. We may not 259 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:52,680 Speaker 1: be able to get the places that we want. And 260 00:11:52,800 --> 00:11:54,600 Speaker 1: here are the steps that I'm taking to resolve it 261 00:11:54,640 --> 00:11:56,280 Speaker 1: so that it's not something that, you know, hangs over 262 00:11:56,320 --> 00:11:58,720 Speaker 1: our heads for the rest of our lives. He didn't 263 00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:01,240 Speaker 1: do that, which may make me then wonder why not 264 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:05,439 Speaker 1: you know, because again, this isn't a surprise to him. 265 00:12:06,280 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 5: No, and if he did, if he didn't know, that's 266 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:11,440 Speaker 5: a problem too, because how didn't you know that? Like 267 00:12:11,559 --> 00:12:14,000 Speaker 5: what why aren't you diligent enough? You know what I mean? 268 00:12:14,080 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 5: So either way, this is a problem, and I'm trying 269 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:18,640 Speaker 5: to figure out if I want to keep being involved. 270 00:12:18,280 --> 00:12:20,640 Speaker 1: In it well, because if it's not resolved, I don't 271 00:12:20,640 --> 00:12:22,640 Speaker 1: know how long that stuff lasts or how quickly you 272 00:12:22,679 --> 00:12:25,400 Speaker 1: can turn it around. But you know this, you might 273 00:12:25,440 --> 00:12:27,280 Speaker 1: have to buy all the cars, you might have to 274 00:12:27,280 --> 00:12:29,000 Speaker 1: buy the house, you might have to do all the 275 00:12:29,040 --> 00:12:31,560 Speaker 1: renting of everything. You might have to have the credit 276 00:12:31,640 --> 00:12:34,360 Speaker 1: cards in your name. And that's now we're talking about something. 277 00:12:34,720 --> 00:12:37,160 Speaker 1: If I'm right about that, because again I've never I've 278 00:12:37,160 --> 00:12:40,120 Speaker 1: never call mingled funds. Now we're talking about where everything 279 00:12:40,200 --> 00:12:42,600 Speaker 1: is on you and he can just walk because it's 280 00:12:42,640 --> 00:12:45,360 Speaker 1: all on your name. And I wouldn't like that feeling 281 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:47,760 Speaker 1: either of somebody out there, you know, sort of spending 282 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:51,160 Speaker 1: and living and existing under my credit because you hear 283 00:12:51,200 --> 00:12:53,360 Speaker 1: about this happening, and I don't know this guy, but 284 00:12:53,440 --> 00:12:56,679 Speaker 1: you sometimes hear about people screwing up other people's credit 285 00:12:56,800 --> 00:12:59,280 Speaker 1: this way, And now and then you got to fix 286 00:12:59,320 --> 00:12:59,720 Speaker 1: it again. 287 00:13:01,200 --> 00:13:03,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, and I don't I don't know. I don't think. 288 00:13:04,559 --> 00:13:06,880 Speaker 5: I don't know if it's worth it, honestly. 289 00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:09,520 Speaker 2: No matter what you do, make sorry, make sure you 290 00:13:09,559 --> 00:13:11,360 Speaker 2: move into a place that you can afford if you 291 00:13:11,400 --> 00:13:12,960 Speaker 2: do end up moving in with him, that you can 292 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:15,280 Speaker 2: afford on your own in case something happens, just so 293 00:13:15,320 --> 00:13:17,679 Speaker 2: you're protected. But if his credit is met, they will 294 00:13:17,679 --> 00:13:20,199 Speaker 2: not allow him on the lease, so it would be 295 00:13:20,920 --> 00:13:23,040 Speaker 2: just you getting approved if they'll still let you after 296 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:25,160 Speaker 2: running his But you need to make sure that you 297 00:13:25,200 --> 00:13:27,360 Speaker 2: can handle it on your own, just to protect yourself. 298 00:13:27,440 --> 00:13:29,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't want you wind it up on keiky scored, 299 00:13:29,240 --> 00:13:31,160 Speaker 1: because that's a whole different thing. If you wind up 300 00:13:31,160 --> 00:13:33,560 Speaker 1: bumbo stair going kik, we got a real problem on 301 00:13:33,600 --> 00:13:36,240 Speaker 1: our answer. It's not good. Let me take some phone 302 00:13:36,280 --> 00:13:38,440 Speaker 1: calls and see maybe people have lived I'm sure people 303 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:41,680 Speaker 1: have lived this before and figured it out. But yeah, 304 00:13:41,720 --> 00:13:44,360 Speaker 1: my husband Kelsey, have a good day, and thanks for listening, 305 00:13:44,480 --> 00:13:46,360 Speaker 1: and have the radio one see up should we call it? 306 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:46,720 Speaker 7: Thank you? 307 00:13:47,040 --> 00:13:49,000 Speaker 1: Turn that radio off Bobby right now. 308 00:13:49,520 --> 00:13:52,640 Speaker 8: Like the thing is I was different, Like I was 309 00:13:52,760 --> 00:13:55,360 Speaker 8: very transparent of like this is like the debt that 310 00:13:55,640 --> 00:13:58,240 Speaker 8: I have occurred, A cured whatever the word is. 311 00:13:58,240 --> 00:14:01,440 Speaker 1: I've done this. This is my debt. It occurred, all right. 312 00:14:01,720 --> 00:14:04,320 Speaker 1: I told him to the marriage and I cured it. 313 00:14:04,480 --> 00:14:05,640 Speaker 1: I told him after marriage. 314 00:14:05,679 --> 00:14:07,440 Speaker 8: I told him after marriage and he's like, oh, I 315 00:14:07,440 --> 00:14:08,360 Speaker 8: didn't know it was this. 316 00:14:08,600 --> 00:14:11,880 Speaker 1: Uh you incurred it, by the way, but away go ahead, sorry, 317 00:14:11,960 --> 00:14:13,040 Speaker 1: that was that was stuck on my lid. 318 00:14:13,080 --> 00:14:15,640 Speaker 4: Well like, uh yeah, so you know, living uh off 319 00:14:15,880 --> 00:14:18,360 Speaker 4: my husband is it's very valid. 320 00:14:18,080 --> 00:14:20,200 Speaker 1: At this moment of life. But I do contribute. 321 00:14:20,200 --> 00:14:22,160 Speaker 8: Obviously, I work, and I and I pay bills and 322 00:14:22,200 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 8: I actually have my own home that I purchased on 323 00:14:24,320 --> 00:14:24,600 Speaker 8: my own. 324 00:14:24,680 --> 00:14:26,120 Speaker 1: Hell yeah, thank you so much. 325 00:14:26,280 --> 00:14:28,760 Speaker 8: But I do feel like a I know every dollar, 326 00:14:28,800 --> 00:14:30,720 Speaker 8: I all where it needs to go and where it's 327 00:14:30,720 --> 00:14:32,480 Speaker 8: gonna come from. I know that part. I'm doing something 328 00:14:32,520 --> 00:14:35,360 Speaker 8: about it. And I was very transparent. And this man, 329 00:14:35,560 --> 00:14:38,120 Speaker 8: this embarrassing man, British Fogue, if you know, you know, 330 00:14:38,640 --> 00:14:40,960 Speaker 8: is not being honest and he's gonna take her down 331 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:43,280 Speaker 8: if he doesn't change his act and clean it up. 332 00:14:43,280 --> 00:14:43,480 Speaker 6: You know. 333 00:14:43,640 --> 00:14:48,000 Speaker 1: So Kaylee says, go because you've lived through this. Hi, Kayley, Hi, 334 00:14:48,040 --> 00:14:49,920 Speaker 1: good morning. So how did that? Good morning? How did 335 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:51,600 Speaker 1: that go? Like, like, why are you? 336 00:14:53,720 --> 00:14:55,880 Speaker 7: Everything was fine for like five years, but then there 337 00:14:55,960 --> 00:14:57,720 Speaker 7: was like a back injury and then he lost that 338 00:14:57,800 --> 00:14:59,560 Speaker 7: job and then he couldn't go back and the mental 339 00:14:59,640 --> 00:15:02,200 Speaker 7: where of it at all. But I'm so I finally 340 00:15:02,240 --> 00:15:04,680 Speaker 7: left such or seven and a half years, and I 341 00:15:04,720 --> 00:15:06,600 Speaker 7: am grateful enough to be able to have moved back 342 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:09,240 Speaker 7: in with our dog to my mom's house. But I'm 343 00:15:09,280 --> 00:15:12,120 Speaker 7: still carrying the debt because nothing was under his name. 344 00:15:12,120 --> 00:15:14,600 Speaker 7: It was all my credit card. So I'm I left 345 00:15:14,640 --> 00:15:16,440 Speaker 7: with like thirty five thousand dollars in credit card. 346 00:15:16,600 --> 00:15:18,960 Speaker 1: I am so sorry. So you're in love with this 347 00:15:19,000 --> 00:15:21,240 Speaker 1: guy and you're feeling a certain kind of way and 348 00:15:21,280 --> 00:15:23,120 Speaker 1: you're like, we're gonna be together, we're gonna work this out, 349 00:15:23,160 --> 00:15:24,760 Speaker 1: so you just put everything in your name and then 350 00:15:24,800 --> 00:15:27,760 Speaker 1: this is where this is where you wind up. Yep. 351 00:15:28,920 --> 00:15:30,640 Speaker 1: I'm sorry to hear that. So your advice to her 352 00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:33,280 Speaker 1: is don't if he can't be an equal partner in 353 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:35,760 Speaker 1: all of this, then then don't do it. 354 00:15:35,920 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 9: Correct don't. 355 00:15:36,840 --> 00:15:38,000 Speaker 7: And she's early in too. 356 00:15:38,640 --> 00:15:41,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, all right, KAYLEI, thank you, have a good day, 357 00:15:41,800 --> 00:15:42,160 Speaker 1: you too. 358 00:15:42,360 --> 00:15:42,520 Speaker 5: Yeah. 359 00:15:42,560 --> 00:15:44,040 Speaker 1: And someone was saying it could take as much as 360 00:15:44,240 --> 00:15:46,200 Speaker 1: as many as seven years to straighten the whole thing 361 00:15:46,240 --> 00:15:51,200 Speaker 1: out someone and that someone's pulling calm, how you doing? 362 00:15:51,680 --> 00:15:53,440 Speaker 9: Hey? Hey, great, how are you? 363 00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:58,040 Speaker 1: Hey? Good morning? Welcome, thanks for listening. Stair go goyah. 364 00:15:58,040 --> 00:16:02,840 Speaker 6: Because he is not ready and she apparently is getting 365 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:05,240 Speaker 6: herself together and it's okay. I mean, he's just not 366 00:16:05,360 --> 00:16:07,680 Speaker 6: where she is, so just keep moving and if it's 367 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:10,360 Speaker 6: meant to be, you can circle back to each other. 368 00:16:10,480 --> 00:16:12,800 Speaker 6: But you're going to be paying for everything. The house 369 00:16:12,800 --> 00:16:15,000 Speaker 6: will be in your name, the cars will be in 370 00:16:15,040 --> 00:16:17,840 Speaker 6: your name. Creditors will be looking for you and not him. 371 00:16:18,440 --> 00:16:19,160 Speaker 5: He has no. 372 00:16:19,200 --> 00:16:22,160 Speaker 6: Built credit, He'll have nothing built up. So by the 373 00:16:22,200 --> 00:16:25,880 Speaker 6: time you all are older, everything will be on you. 374 00:16:26,200 --> 00:16:28,240 Speaker 5: So what's the point. You can do everything by yourself? 375 00:16:28,880 --> 00:16:29,120 Speaker 4: Yeah? 376 00:16:29,800 --> 00:16:33,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it's tough because she could, I mean, 377 00:16:34,080 --> 00:16:37,200 Speaker 1: like the last color, she could take it on, and 378 00:16:37,360 --> 00:16:39,520 Speaker 1: because she says that he is being diligent. I mean, 379 00:16:39,520 --> 00:16:41,920 Speaker 1: this would be a very different story to me if 380 00:16:42,000 --> 00:16:46,400 Speaker 1: he weren't doing anything about it. And I'm very financially conservative, 381 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:47,920 Speaker 1: so I don't think this would work for me. But 382 00:16:47,960 --> 00:16:50,280 Speaker 1: I mean again, if you're really in love with someone, 383 00:16:51,240 --> 00:16:53,400 Speaker 1: then I can see why it would be hard to say, 384 00:16:53,440 --> 00:16:55,320 Speaker 1: I'm walking away from this thing that I think is 385 00:16:55,360 --> 00:16:58,840 Speaker 1: forever over someone who's trying to get their life together 386 00:16:58,880 --> 00:17:01,680 Speaker 1: for past mistakes, especially if he's telling the truth and 387 00:17:01,760 --> 00:17:04,640 Speaker 1: it was somebody else's fault and this isn't a reflection 388 00:17:04,760 --> 00:17:08,520 Speaker 1: on his spending or financial future or financial goals or 389 00:17:08,560 --> 00:17:11,520 Speaker 1: ambitions or outlook. But I yeah, I mean, do you 390 00:17:11,600 --> 00:17:16,280 Speaker 1: actually end a romantic relationship over and not move forward 391 00:17:16,400 --> 00:17:18,480 Speaker 1: with this? And you're saying yes, okay, yeah, there you go, 392 00:17:18,520 --> 00:17:22,240 Speaker 1: Thank you, Carl, OK, have a good day. Yeah it 393 00:17:23,040 --> 00:17:27,600 Speaker 1: sounds harsh. Oh wow. Well, I mean I don't you're 394 00:17:27,720 --> 00:17:30,959 Speaker 1: in love with someone and you're not going to pursue 395 00:17:31,000 --> 00:17:33,000 Speaker 1: And again I'm not the romantic in the room. But like, 396 00:17:34,000 --> 00:17:37,600 Speaker 1: I don't know, I guess, at what point do you 397 00:17:37,640 --> 00:17:40,600 Speaker 1: say I love you so much? I'm to Caylan's point, 398 00:17:40,640 --> 00:17:43,080 Speaker 1: We're going to live within my means. You're going to 399 00:17:43,119 --> 00:17:45,240 Speaker 1: support me because you have the money to do it 400 00:17:45,280 --> 00:17:47,320 Speaker 1: and you're working towards it. We're not going to extend 401 00:17:47,320 --> 00:17:49,800 Speaker 1: beyond that. And I'm going to give you some time 402 00:17:49,840 --> 00:17:52,360 Speaker 1: to fix this, and if you don't, then I'm okay, 403 00:17:52,800 --> 00:17:54,880 Speaker 1: because I'm not going to be put in a bad 404 00:17:54,920 --> 00:17:58,359 Speaker 1: financial situation because we're spending for both of us and 405 00:17:58,400 --> 00:18:00,679 Speaker 1: it's all going to fall on me. What about that alternative? 406 00:18:01,280 --> 00:18:02,520 Speaker 1: I think that's the way to do it. 407 00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:06,040 Speaker 4: I mean, honestly, I mean, you don't take any risks, 408 00:18:06,040 --> 00:18:08,480 Speaker 4: you stack your money, why you pay or list you 409 00:18:08,480 --> 00:18:09,040 Speaker 4: build your credit? 410 00:18:09,080 --> 00:18:11,240 Speaker 1: Why you pay? Well, that's another thing he is you 411 00:18:11,320 --> 00:18:13,640 Speaker 1: might actually want to have been a hell. The penalty 412 00:18:13,680 --> 00:18:16,080 Speaker 1: for him having bad credit might be that it's all 413 00:18:16,080 --> 00:18:18,920 Speaker 1: in your name. You're living within your means, and he's 414 00:18:18,960 --> 00:18:20,920 Speaker 1: paying for you to live within your means, And if 415 00:18:20,920 --> 00:18:24,280 Speaker 1: he decides to be a jerky and bail, then you're 416 00:18:24,320 --> 00:18:26,040 Speaker 1: not in a bad spot now. I think if you're 417 00:18:26,080 --> 00:18:28,840 Speaker 1: living for two people and you're living to the life 418 00:18:28,880 --> 00:18:31,439 Speaker 1: that you want to live someday, not the life that 419 00:18:31,520 --> 00:18:35,000 Speaker 1: you necessarily have on paper, that's I feel like, maybe 420 00:18:35,040 --> 00:18:38,120 Speaker 1: you get in trouble Jackie. You say go too. 421 00:18:37,960 --> 00:18:45,440 Speaker 3: Though, yes, okay, he definitely should go because I relived 422 00:18:45,440 --> 00:18:50,160 Speaker 3: something very very similar where it was, oh, my boyfriend 423 00:18:50,160 --> 00:18:51,159 Speaker 3: doesn't have good credit. 424 00:18:51,280 --> 00:18:52,440 Speaker 10: So I was trying to be nice. 425 00:18:52,440 --> 00:18:55,879 Speaker 3: He's like, all right, I'll help you boil credit. Things 426 00:18:55,920 --> 00:18:59,960 Speaker 3: like that. Eventually, things weren't getting paid long story shore 427 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:00,680 Speaker 3: where we've been. 428 00:19:00,760 --> 00:19:02,280 Speaker 10: You know, we were together for six years and. 429 00:19:02,320 --> 00:19:04,280 Speaker 3: I had to group bankruptcy. 430 00:19:04,840 --> 00:19:07,840 Speaker 1: Okay, oh god, Now I have to ask you, Jackie, 431 00:19:08,520 --> 00:19:10,600 Speaker 1: in all honesty, when you when I'm sorry that happened 432 00:19:10,600 --> 00:19:12,879 Speaker 1: to you, but when you look back, was he showing 433 00:19:12,880 --> 00:19:16,040 Speaker 1: you signs that he wanted to make it better? Or 434 00:19:16,160 --> 00:19:18,720 Speaker 1: was he showing you signs that he was complacent about it? 435 00:19:18,760 --> 00:19:21,040 Speaker 1: Because look, I mean, one thing I've learned in in 436 00:19:21,040 --> 00:19:23,280 Speaker 1: in you know, dating and in meeting lots of different people, 437 00:19:23,480 --> 00:19:26,240 Speaker 1: is people grow up in different financial situations, that grow 438 00:19:26,320 --> 00:19:28,639 Speaker 1: up in different situations and they're sort of and I 439 00:19:28,640 --> 00:19:31,200 Speaker 1: think some of that's instilled in you, like this, Hey, 440 00:19:31,240 --> 00:19:33,439 Speaker 1: spend now, worry about it later, put it on credit, 441 00:19:33,440 --> 00:19:35,800 Speaker 1: worry about it later, or or hey, I don't know, 442 00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:38,719 Speaker 1: I don't really care about it. Okay. So I'm not 443 00:19:38,800 --> 00:19:41,359 Speaker 1: saying that, I'm not saying the signs were there, But 444 00:19:41,760 --> 00:19:43,920 Speaker 1: would you have felt differently if you were someone who 445 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:46,320 Speaker 1: was saying it was confronting this and saying, hey, I 446 00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:48,040 Speaker 1: know this is a problem and here are the steps 447 00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:50,080 Speaker 1: I'm taking to resolve it. Would would that have been 448 00:19:50,080 --> 00:19:50,679 Speaker 1: different for you? 449 00:19:53,359 --> 00:19:56,119 Speaker 3: I don't think so, because I think the underlying thing 450 00:19:56,160 --> 00:19:59,160 Speaker 3: here that I learned to looking back as nice as 451 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:03,320 Speaker 3: I layer, you know, the onion back over the years 452 00:20:03,520 --> 00:20:04,679 Speaker 3: is that there was a line. 453 00:20:05,119 --> 00:20:06,920 Speaker 5: So when she mentioned. 454 00:20:06,480 --> 00:20:10,440 Speaker 3: That he lied about it, he couldn't see accountabilities and say, yeah, 455 00:20:10,520 --> 00:20:12,240 Speaker 3: I messed up and that this is how I was 456 00:20:12,280 --> 00:20:14,879 Speaker 3: trying to fix it. He claimed it on the roommate. 457 00:20:15,520 --> 00:20:18,280 Speaker 10: That's a big red flag. Okay, So there was a 458 00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:21,320 Speaker 10: lot of lyne going on also with my with my partner, 459 00:20:22,520 --> 00:20:25,360 Speaker 10: you know, wasn't any accountability for things, was like, oh 460 00:20:25,359 --> 00:20:27,720 Speaker 10: he got an accident, or that wasn't my fault, the. 461 00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:30,560 Speaker 3: Bus hit me, things like that. So to me, it 462 00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:33,160 Speaker 3: tells me there's no growth there and he's not going 463 00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:35,920 Speaker 3: to grow. So she should just live on her own. 464 00:20:36,680 --> 00:20:38,679 Speaker 3: He could be around her life if he wants to, 465 00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:41,440 Speaker 3: but he needs to deal with this himself, because when 466 00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:43,080 Speaker 3: he learned how to deal with it, he's going to 467 00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:44,560 Speaker 3: be a man and then he'll be able to be 468 00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:45,040 Speaker 3: there for her. 469 00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:46,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you, Jackie, you have a good day. 470 00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:47,720 Speaker 11: Sorry. 471 00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:50,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess. I guess they could live separately, still 472 00:20:50,040 --> 00:20:51,680 Speaker 1: be together. She could give it a year or two 473 00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:54,800 Speaker 1: and see, you know what direction it's headed. Even if 474 00:20:54,800 --> 00:20:56,439 Speaker 1: it's going to take seven years to straighten it out. 475 00:20:56,440 --> 00:20:58,200 Speaker 1: I mean, I think she could definitely say I need 476 00:20:58,240 --> 00:21:01,480 Speaker 1: full transparency about your financial situation. I need to see 477 00:21:01,600 --> 00:21:03,800 Speaker 1: how you're working away at this. Yeah, you're going to 478 00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:06,040 Speaker 1: have to show me. I'm sorry, but like I'm not. 479 00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:07,879 Speaker 1: And if he really loves her, then he's going to 480 00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:10,200 Speaker 1: understand that that's not a burden that he should put 481 00:21:10,240 --> 00:21:12,879 Speaker 1: onto her or someone else. And it's going to delay 482 00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:15,800 Speaker 1: their plans, but it won't put her in a bad 483 00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:19,720 Speaker 1: situation if it doesn't work out. WHOA Niel? How you doing? 484 00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:20,640 Speaker 7: How you doing? 485 00:21:20,920 --> 00:21:24,680 Speaker 1: What's going on? Man? Hey man, you're the loan stay here? 486 00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:28,360 Speaker 11: Come on man, Oh I'm coming on now? 487 00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:30,119 Speaker 1: Why am I coming on? Now? Though? I need you 488 00:21:30,200 --> 00:21:31,879 Speaker 1: to tell me why I should say? Why should I 489 00:21:31,920 --> 00:21:32,840 Speaker 1: stay in this thing? 490 00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:36,359 Speaker 9: I think I think in that situation when I first 491 00:21:36,359 --> 00:21:39,360 Speaker 9: got with my wife, like my credit was bad, I. 492 00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:40,400 Speaker 1: Didn't even have a license. 493 00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:41,320 Speaker 5: We couldn't even get. 494 00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:43,600 Speaker 9: A car unless I put it in her name. And 495 00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:47,439 Speaker 9: now ten years lady later, the whole thing is three sixty. 496 00:21:47,840 --> 00:21:50,560 Speaker 9: Now everything is in my name. I take care of everything. 497 00:21:50,680 --> 00:21:53,120 Speaker 9: I got the good credit school, and now I'm trying 498 00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:53,680 Speaker 9: to help. 499 00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:56,639 Speaker 1: Her get back up. Interesting, but you were clear with 500 00:21:56,680 --> 00:21:59,159 Speaker 1: her about that, Like Nigel, you told her all of 501 00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:01,560 Speaker 1: this upfront. I got ham in a bad. 502 00:22:01,480 --> 00:22:06,399 Speaker 11: Situation, shut together vaguely, and over the years, I built 503 00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:10,280 Speaker 11: my credit school and I turned everything around, and now 504 00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:11,600 Speaker 11: it's nothing that. 505 00:22:11,600 --> 00:22:14,360 Speaker 1: We can't get you know, that's right, that's right. See, 506 00:22:14,359 --> 00:22:16,800 Speaker 1: but you seem to have shown the signs I'm talking about, 507 00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:20,000 Speaker 1: like you took accountability, you were transparent, you were clear 508 00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:22,920 Speaker 1: about it. You you were able to from what you're saying, 509 00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:24,880 Speaker 1: to demonstrate to her how you were going to turn 510 00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:27,960 Speaker 1: it around. You did, and now you're doing what you 511 00:22:27,960 --> 00:22:30,399 Speaker 1: should be doing. And so, but it doesn't seem like 512 00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:33,320 Speaker 1: that's what one hundred percent true in her case. 513 00:22:33,480 --> 00:22:36,000 Speaker 11: Like keep in mind, free I went from making twenty 514 00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:38,359 Speaker 11: seven thousand and eighty thousand years So that's a big 515 00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:39,320 Speaker 11: difference too. 516 00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:44,160 Speaker 1: My man. So you when you're rolling like that, I mean, okay, yeah, 517 00:22:44,359 --> 00:22:46,840 Speaker 1: look here, yeah, I mean it's been money. 518 00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:49,000 Speaker 11: Miney changes everything. 519 00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:51,280 Speaker 9: I don't know how, I don't know why, but it. 520 00:22:51,240 --> 00:22:55,120 Speaker 1: Is, I mean, more money, more problems, but it certainly 521 00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:58,399 Speaker 1: makes the problems. I don't know. At least you're not 522 00:22:58,480 --> 00:22:59,359 Speaker 1: hungry with the problems. 523 00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:03,200 Speaker 11: I'm saying I actually have less problems because I actually matured. 524 00:23:03,520 --> 00:23:06,560 Speaker 11: I don't even flirt anymore anything like that, any stuff that. 525 00:23:06,720 --> 00:23:09,440 Speaker 1: Looking at have to worry about. Nigel's got money down, 526 00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:15,560 Speaker 1: so he ain't even stepping out, right, Nigel wrong, I 527 00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:20,000 Speaker 1: do have a dim though. You know, it usually goes 528 00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:22,399 Speaker 1: the other way. Usually people clean up their life and 529 00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:24,760 Speaker 1: all of a sudden they think I not get you anything. 530 00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:27,080 Speaker 1: So look at this man. This man cleans up his 531 00:23:27,160 --> 00:23:30,439 Speaker 1: life any and he stopped with the shenanigans to Nigel. 532 00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:34,080 Speaker 1: This right here, Nigel's a success story. Right here is 533 00:23:34,480 --> 00:23:37,120 Speaker 1: Nigel good for you? He's got credit straight and he's 534 00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:37,919 Speaker 1: not shaying anymore. 535 00:23:40,280 --> 00:23:42,520 Speaker 11: I can't and I've made it out. 536 00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:45,199 Speaker 1: Nigel. Good for you, I know, honestly, all jokes aside, 537 00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:48,080 Speaker 1: good for you. Stop you stop stepping out, all right, man, 538 00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:50,760 Speaker 1: have a good day. Yeah he's a good man, Nigel. 539 00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:55,280 Speaker 1: Nigel is the other way around, right, Like people attach themselves. 540 00:23:55,400 --> 00:23:57,040 Speaker 1: I hate to say this, but people, and I'm not 541 00:23:57,080 --> 00:23:59,359 Speaker 1: talking about Nigel will take him out of this, but 542 00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:02,199 Speaker 1: people in a situations attached themselves to people who can 543 00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:05,000 Speaker 1: fix it for them, and then once their problems are fixed, 544 00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:08,480 Speaker 1: and they they then forget about that love the building, 545 00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:11,560 Speaker 1: They forgot about who helped them do it, and they're like, boy, 546 00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:12,800 Speaker 1: I am in a good spot. 547 00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:13,120 Speaker 5: Now. 548 00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:15,280 Speaker 1: You made me punch my mic. That's true. You're making 549 00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:17,760 Speaker 1: good points today. You are on fire today, right the bar, 550 00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:20,440 Speaker 1: the book. You know. It's the funny thing is I'm 551 00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:23,160 Speaker 1: on fire most days. It's just you're just now realizing it. Today. 552 00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:26,080 Speaker 1: It is per tailor. Yeah, yeah, I mean I have 553 00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:28,600 Speaker 1: a pretty good batting average, but today I'm one hundred. 554 00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:31,399 Speaker 1: My compliment, I'm a hundred. Like I'm gonna go home 555 00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:33,840 Speaker 1: and we listen to those like I am too. Actually, 556 00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:36,199 Speaker 1: I'm going to go home and I'm going to go 557 00:24:36,240 --> 00:24:38,960 Speaker 1: home and play my own brilliance and just be proud 558 00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:41,280 Speaker 1: of myself for once. I'm going to go home, and yeah, 559 00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:44,040 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna step out anymore either. I've been stepping 560 00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:49,080 Speaker 1: out of myself on my non relationship. Forever's Entertainer report 561 00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:50,320 Speaker 1: is on the pressure. 562 00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:54,720 Speaker 2: Halsey shared that after her performance in Boston, she actually 563 00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:56,920 Speaker 2: had to go to the er stayed there till about 564 00:24:56,920 --> 00:25:00,760 Speaker 2: six am, citing a minor medical em agency. She posted 565 00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:03,760 Speaker 2: on Instagram stories that she's a Okay, now ready to 566 00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:06,080 Speaker 2: get back at it. She's currently on her bad Lands 567 00:25:06,119 --> 00:25:10,160 Speaker 2: Anniversary tour back to bad Lands, but she's also managing 568 00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:13,040 Speaker 2: all these health issues, and I'm just like always thinking 569 00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:17,879 Speaker 2: and rooting for her. She is managing lupus and also 570 00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:22,320 Speaker 2: a rare T cell lympho proliferative disorder, which she first 571 00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:24,679 Speaker 2: shared in twenty twenty two. So thinking of her, and 572 00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:28,640 Speaker 2: she's certainly a fighter and a mother and she deserves 573 00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:32,639 Speaker 2: all the support and health millions of NFL fans, Jason, 574 00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:36,000 Speaker 2: this is this one is for you. We're left enrage 575 00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:40,639 Speaker 2: last night after a beef between Disney and Google and 576 00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:44,440 Speaker 2: YouTube TV forced them to miss the game between Cowboy 577 00:25:44,520 --> 00:25:47,640 Speaker 2: Nation and the Cardinals. Oh okay, and I know your 578 00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:51,280 Speaker 2: Cowboy Nation all day. Yes, so here's the deal. Yes, 579 00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:51,920 Speaker 2: you can we. 580 00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:53,080 Speaker 1: Change that about you? 581 00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:54,000 Speaker 10: No? 582 00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:56,960 Speaker 1: I don't think so. Okay, damn, that's right. Mind we 583 00:25:57,000 --> 00:25:58,640 Speaker 1: said you made it up. I was hoping we could 584 00:25:58,680 --> 00:25:59,720 Speaker 1: make up something else. 585 00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:01,000 Speaker 5: No. 586 00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:04,920 Speaker 2: I stand in my convictions the Chiefs, Kingdom and Cowboy Nation. 587 00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:10,120 Speaker 2: So here's the deal. Your Nation, just all the teams 588 00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:14,359 Speaker 2: YouTube TV owned by Google. They pulled every channel owned 589 00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:17,560 Speaker 2: by Disney, including ESPN and ABC. Late at night on 590 00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:21,440 Speaker 2: October thirtieth, four days later, ten million YouTube TV subscribers 591 00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:26,000 Speaker 2: had zero access to ESPN and ABC four last night's 592 00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:28,920 Speaker 2: Monday Night Football. As the game kicked off, fans hopped 593 00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:31,439 Speaker 2: on social and they were real mad. Of course, that's 594 00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:35,200 Speaker 2: where you share all your grievances paying for YouTube TV 595 00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:38,800 Speaker 2: and ESPN Plus and still not getting to watch Monday 596 00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:41,679 Speaker 2: Night Football. I absolutely hate the streaming era. That was 597 00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:45,840 Speaker 2: from Jason Brown Jr. Brown on Twitter. Another was very 598 00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:49,240 Speaker 2: particularly upset that they missed George W. Bush at the 599 00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:51,560 Speaker 2: game because I guess he was there and someone was 600 00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:55,119 Speaker 2: really really upset that they could not see that. And 601 00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:57,480 Speaker 2: then they made it political, which is also something that 602 00:26:57,520 --> 00:27:02,360 Speaker 2: people love to do online. Speaking of online, and this 603 00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:05,600 Speaker 2: is not a new theory, but people are convinced that 604 00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:07,480 Speaker 2: Taylor Swift is a time traveler. 605 00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:11,160 Speaker 1: This has happened. This has happened a couple of times. 606 00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:13,679 Speaker 2: The most recent example that is going viral and I 607 00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:15,760 Speaker 2: will text you guys this photo or we can post 608 00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:18,199 Speaker 2: it because it's kind of crazy. Fans are claiming that 609 00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:22,439 Speaker 2: they spotted her in a nineteen eighty seven George Michael 610 00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:26,320 Speaker 2: music video in what would be her wildest Easter egg yet, 611 00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:29,080 Speaker 2: which I don't put it past her. A woman identical 612 00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:31,040 Speaker 2: to her, I'm talking bangs and. 613 00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:33,520 Speaker 1: All oh was a song father Figure. 614 00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:37,200 Speaker 2: So this woman appears she's blurry and this is two 615 00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:38,280 Speaker 2: years before Taylor. 616 00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:40,640 Speaker 1: That would be a great choice. I mean I would 617 00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:42,440 Speaker 1: like her even more for that. How late of her 618 00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:44,600 Speaker 1: to be a part of that generation. She was there 619 00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:47,520 Speaker 1: before she was she was George Michael stan So, is 620 00:27:47,560 --> 00:27:49,919 Speaker 1: I right? This is one more thing we have in common. 621 00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:52,440 Speaker 2: So she was there two years before she was born. 622 00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:55,199 Speaker 2: And then she released a song called Fog Father Figure, 623 00:27:55,359 --> 00:27:57,720 Speaker 2: which gave him writing credits this year. 624 00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:00,440 Speaker 1: Yep, And that was her pain and for it because 625 00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:01,919 Speaker 1: he put her in the music video. 626 00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:06,040 Speaker 2: Time Traveler Fred Show on demand if you want to 627 00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:08,320 Speaker 2: catch up on anything you missed on the free iHeart 628 00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:08,800 Speaker 2: Radio app. 629 00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:10,119 Speaker 1: All right, Shelly is gonna have to work over to 630 00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:12,480 Speaker 1: shell you there. That's You're gonna have to work over 631 00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:14,159 Speaker 1: time today because we're I'm late again because we were 632 00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:16,000 Speaker 1: just yapp. We just made me yap and then we 633 00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:19,040 Speaker 1: got play of stupid songs we didn't yap. And yeah, 634 00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:20,679 Speaker 1: I mean I'd be fine not playing this song. So 635 00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:24,440 Speaker 1: I don't know don't do it. I don't know, well, 636 00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:28,359 Speaker 1: I don't really versus us talking about what song it 637 00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:31,919 Speaker 1: is you would rather, you would rather play songs and 638 00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:34,359 Speaker 1: this is us just yapp amy. I mean, I know 639 00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:37,200 Speaker 1: what management wants, but and they got Hey, they got 640 00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:39,920 Speaker 1: me locked in now, so I can Hey, maybe I'll 641 00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:42,120 Speaker 1: just maybe I'll just change it all up. Yeah. Well, 642 00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:43,760 Speaker 1: I guess the whole show was locked in. I had 643 00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:46,240 Speaker 1: which is exciting. The whole show got locked in. This 644 00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:49,360 Speaker 1: is right, five more years of the Friend Show, you 645 00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:51,960 Speaker 1: know what, So fire fire me. I guess, like, let's 646 00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:54,680 Speaker 1: just talk. These commercials they get in the way, right, 647 00:28:55,960 --> 00:29:01,400 Speaker 1: I love man I but for me, for my money, 648 00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:03,920 Speaker 1: the best part of the show the commercials. Our advertising 649 00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:06,000 Speaker 1: partners are some of the best looking people I've ever seen, 650 00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:09,680 Speaker 1: and really sainthood is under consideration for most for most 651 00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:12,520 Speaker 1: of them. Yeah, it's it's hard. They're gonna have to 652 00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:14,640 Speaker 1: wait and line. There's so many of them. So Shelley, 653 00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:16,160 Speaker 1: we're a little bit late. I'm gonna play this song 654 00:29:16,200 --> 00:29:17,960 Speaker 1: and then we're gonna come back, and then we're gonna well, 655 00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:19,720 Speaker 1: then we're gonna play commercials, and then we're gonna come 656 00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:21,680 Speaker 1: back and play your little game. Okay, okay, that sounds 657 00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:23,800 Speaker 1: for two hundred and fifty bucks. The Happy Birthday to 658 00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:25,840 Speaker 1: show Me is Shelley, By the way day it was 659 00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:29,880 Speaker 1: on the weekend, I was, I was. I was knee 660 00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:33,880 Speaker 1: deep in foxes literally and not those kind of foxes, 661 00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:36,240 Speaker 1: but like actual, real foxes. I wish it were a 662 00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:40,440 Speaker 1: different story altogether, and and for I just it slipped 663 00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:43,120 Speaker 1: my mind. But happy birthday to the legend. The legend. 664 00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:45,640 Speaker 1: Adam kirtse emailed me. He says, Wald Wall Fred show. 665 00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:47,920 Speaker 1: That's it. That's what we're doing. That's what we're doing. 666 00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:50,720 Speaker 1: He's the boss. He gets to decide. So we'll we'll 667 00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:54,320 Speaker 1: get to that after the break. We'll get to it 668 00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:57,360 Speaker 1: in just a second. Wait, the player is Kiky in 669 00:29:57,400 --> 00:30:00,760 Speaker 1: the showdown. Yes, Kiki. No, I'm just kidding. The person's 670 00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:02,800 Speaker 1: name is Kiki. We got a Kiki. I'm confused. I 671 00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:04,479 Speaker 1: don't know, but we're playing with show Minchelley for two 672 00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:08,320 Speaker 1: hundred and fifty bucks. Next more Fred Show next right here.