Speaker 1: It's time to catch a Cheater. Only on the Tubile Show.
Speaker 1: Kim is on the phone today for to catch a cheater.
Speaker 1: She's been with her husband Rob for four years, but
Speaker 1: now she thinks something might be going on. So in
Speaker 1: a few minutes, we're going to call and see if
Speaker 1: we can catch him if he is cheating, but hopefully
Speaker 1: he's not. Kim, what's going on? Why do you think
Speaker 1: Bob might be cheating on you?
Speaker 2: Basically, when we met, we met at a time.
Speaker 3: When we were just kind of done with the.
Speaker 2: Whole dating scene. Bob had actually been married before before
Speaker 2: we met. They separated amicably. They all still keep in touch.
Speaker 2: You know. They had met at Berkeley and they both
Speaker 2: were kind of like weird hippie types, so they clicked. Rob,
Speaker 2: in his own words, is kind of like grown up
Speaker 2: since then, and he's happy where he's at. We don't
Speaker 2: really fight much at all, and he's never really been
Speaker 2: the laundering eye type of guy. He still is very
Speaker 2: loving and doting and after fourty years, like he still
Speaker 2: treats me to romantic nights out and gives me gifts
Speaker 2: and buys me flowers. That kind of feels a little
Speaker 2: silly that I'm even calling.
Speaker 3: But basically.
Speaker 2: Rob's ex wife, Emily, like I said, they still talk
Speaker 2: a little bit. We've met a few times. She's been
Speaker 2: our wedding. She's wonderful kids. They have a son, but
Speaker 2: he's grown and older, and nothing like trying them.
Speaker 3: Really together much, you know.
Speaker 2: And also with having a son, I understand there's going
Speaker 2: to be co parenting, there's going to be conversations together,
Speaker 2: and so that's not a problem with me. They are
Speaker 2: on good terms and I appreciate that. I've never felt
Speaker 2: threatened by his relationship with her until lately. So basically
Speaker 2: the last three weeks, it seems like they've been talking
Speaker 2: a lot more than usual. Again, not like a big deal,
Speaker 2: but he's been secretive about it, like when she calls,
Speaker 2: he kind of leaves the room or text he'll like
Speaker 2: get up and walk away. I've tried really hard not
Speaker 2: to pry. He's a drama free kind of guy, so
Speaker 2: he's very open and usually shares everything with me. So
Speaker 2: I thought it was weird that he was kind of
Speaker 2: sneaking away sim if there's anything wrong, if there was
Speaker 2: anything I could do to help him, you know, because
Speaker 2: he seemed a little closed off and He just basically
Speaker 2: responded like, don't worry, I'm handling things and left it
Speaker 2: at that. So I don't know. I just want to
Speaker 2: know if there's something I need to worry about, if
Speaker 2: he's rekindling something with his ex, or maybe there's something more.
Speaker 1: I just don't know. That's something that's super vague, he says,
Speaker 1: I'm handling it.
Speaker 4: It makes it sound like there's a problem.
Speaker 2: I don't know. It's not like it was an emergency situation.
Speaker 2: It just seems like I don't know.
Speaker 3: They're having a conversation.
Speaker 2: He doesn't want me to see it or hear it.
Speaker 1: And that's Yeah, it's been four years and everything's been cool,
Speaker 1: and now you're having concerns. That means something's changed. You'd
Speaker 1: be surprising you like your birthday son.
Speaker 2: The other thing is, like, you know, I said, she
Speaker 2: and I are We're not close by any means we
Speaker 2: know each other, but it would be weird that he
Speaker 2: would plan.
Speaker 1: Something that'd be a strange person to plan your birthday.
Speaker 1: Went all right, well, well, yeah, plas I come back.
Speaker 1: You already told us what a grocery store he's a
Speaker 1: rewards card member at, so we'll call and pretend to
Speaker 1: be from the grocery store and say that every single month,
Speaker 1: we choose one random Rewards card member who gets free
Speaker 1: flowers delivered from our florial department, and we'll see if
Speaker 1: he sends them to you or to somebody else. Okay,
Speaker 1: sounds good, Thank you, I appreciate it. Plas on, come back,
Speaker 1: get your to Catch a Cheater next. If you're just
Speaker 1: joining us for today's to Catch a Cheater. Kim is
Speaker 1: on the phone and she's been married to her husband,
Speaker 1: Bob for four years, but now she thinks he might
Speaker 1: be cheating. So in a second, we're going to call
Speaker 1: him and tend to be from the grocery store that
Speaker 1: he's a Rewards card member at, and say that every
Speaker 1: single month, we choose one rewards member who gets free
Speaker 1: flowers delivered from our floral department, totally free, and see
Speaker 1: if he believes us, and if he does, see who
Speaker 1: sends him to if he sends him to his wife
Speaker 1: or to someone else. So, Kim, before we do that,
Speaker 1: why don't you catch everybody up on your situation.
Speaker 2: Yeah, my husband and husband, Bob and I have been
Speaker 2: married for four years. He was previously married to his
Speaker 2: ex wife, Emily. They stayed in communication, but not much,
Speaker 2: and lately he's been sneaking off to speak with her
Speaker 2: and it's making me a question thing.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, you ready? First to Colin? Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: here we go.
Speaker 3: Hello.
Speaker 1: Hi, this is Corbyn calling from So I was looking
Speaker 1: for our Rewards card member named Bob.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's me, Bob.
Speaker 1: Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.
Speaker 1: I'm actually calm to say congrats. Here this month's big winner.
Speaker 3: Oh what surprise or is there? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Every single month we choose one Rewards Card member to
Speaker 1: say thank you very much for shopping with us and
Speaker 1: being a loyal customer. You've just won thirty six long
Speaker 1: stem red roses, a box of chocolates, and a card
Speaker 1: to be delivered to anybody that you want within the
Speaker 1: fifty United States.
Speaker 3: Oh cool, awesome.
Speaker 1: I can take the information down over the phone.
Speaker 2: I know.
Speaker 3: Go, I'm going to send it. This I can tell
Speaker 3: you over the phone.
Speaker 1: So first I'll need the first and last name of
Speaker 1: the person who likes to send them to.
Speaker 3: Kim. Okay, same as mine. We're married.
Speaker 1: Oh, your this is your wife.
Speaker 3: In my wife? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Anything you want to put on a card.
Speaker 3: Sure, I'll say I love you too, and we should talk.
Speaker 1: Well, I guess you can talk to her right now,
Speaker 1: because Bob, this is actually the Jubile Show. It's the
Speaker 1: radio show. My name is Jubil Hi. I'm Nina Hi,
Speaker 1: and I'm Victoria and we do a segment on the
Speaker 1: show called to Catch a Cheater where if you think
Speaker 1: your significant other mind me messing around, you can try
Speaker 1: to see what they send flowers to. And your wife,
Speaker 1: Kim is actually on the.
Speaker 3: Phone, Taiba, see what's up? Why I'm a little bit
Speaker 3: colls guard. Why did you set this up?
Speaker 2: Well, I am.
Speaker 3: I wasn't really sure what else to do.
Speaker 2: I kind of feel like there's something going on with
Speaker 2: Emily that you're not telling me.
Speaker 3: You're right, yeah, are you?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: I mean there's yeah. So I don't really want to
Speaker 3: be doing this over the fun. But Emily, as I
Speaker 3: told you, is still working in economic development to developing
Speaker 3: programs around the US. She's obviously had a more lucrative
Speaker 3: career than me, so the hippie stuff that we used
Speaker 3: to do did not help me in the same way
Speaker 3: as you have joked. She's an economic specialist, as I've
Speaker 3: told you, But she recently started a new job at
Speaker 3: the Peace Corps and she's being sent abroad to a
Speaker 3: particularly dangerous place. But there is a good chance that
Speaker 3: she won't come back.
Speaker 5: Yeah, So we've been communicating more than her we normally
Speaker 5: do since the news of her relocation.
Speaker 2: Wow, I mean I believe that because I know you
Speaker 2: did mention.
Speaker 3: That she was working for the Peace Corps.
Speaker 2: But I still don't understand why the sinking around.
Speaker 3: So it's pretty sensitive information, Like she didn't ever want
Speaker 3: to say what she's doing over there, and so she
Speaker 3: wanted to meet me in person, and I suspected that
Speaker 3: she wanted to tell me something other than just details
Speaker 3: about the job. I suspected maybe she felt something for me,
Speaker 3: and I was right. She said that she still loves
Speaker 3: me very much, and I was clear about the fact
Speaker 3: that I love my wife, you Kim. Last week we
Speaker 3: talked for some time and she told me this. She
Speaker 3: wanted to tell me in person before she left because
Speaker 3: there's a solid chance that she never would see me again.
Speaker 3: She told you that she still loves.
Speaker 4: You, like she's just going to be working over there
Speaker 4: and not coming back.
Speaker 1: Like, what are you saying?
Speaker 4: Yeah, because this is kind of intense, like it's I
Speaker 4: don't know, this is the conversation has changed.
Speaker 3: It is really intense. I mean the nature of her
Speaker 3: work over there and just the location. It's like incredibly dangerous.
Speaker 3: So there is a so so of.
Speaker 4: Course you say that you love somebody if you think
Speaker 4: that this is going to be the end, right, I
Speaker 4: don't understand.
Speaker 2: But okay, I understand that I do.
Speaker 3: But she expressed feelings for me and we did have sex.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, whoa Okay.
Speaker 3: I am really ashamed of it, and the it was
Speaker 3: a mutual choice to do it. I regret it. I
Speaker 3: think in the moment it felt like I might never
Speaker 3: see this person again.
Speaker 1: Is that what you said you need to talk about
Speaker 1: in the card?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, I've been planning to tell you today or
Speaker 3: the next time we got a chance. I know we've
Speaker 3: been in and out the last few days. I haven't
Speaker 3: really called each other at a good time.
Speaker 4: But I know I don't know a lot about the
Speaker 4: Peace Corps. But is it normal for them to be
Speaker 4: in places that are so dangerous that they're risking their
Speaker 4: lives to this extreme? I thought sometimes or is this
Speaker 4: her using this as a way to get to you
Speaker 4: by saying that I'm not going to see you, because
Speaker 4: that's also really disturbing.
Speaker 2: I I kind of don't know what to say right now.
Speaker 2: Obviously we need to talk in person. Yeah, I just
Speaker 2: think I'm sorry that we went about it this way.
Speaker 2: But yeah, I'm going to probably come home right now
Speaker 2: and we'll talk about them.
Speaker 4: You're apologizing to him told you that he slept with
Speaker 4: his ex wife, mostly.
Speaker 2: To you guys in the listener right now that oh.
Speaker 1: Don't apologize us to go handle your business. I mean,
Speaker 1: it's totally, totally, totally. I'm glad you found out, even
Speaker 1: though it sounds like Bob was going to tell you anyway,
Speaker 1: but you never know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sorry for a lot of reasons and a
Speaker 3: lot of things, but I'm also sorry for you finding
Speaker 3: out this way. But I'll be it. I'll be at home, okay, all.
Speaker 1: Right, Well, kim uh, let us know if we can
Speaker 1: help in any way.
Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you guys, thanks for having me on the show.
Speaker 3: Hi, I appreciate it.
Speaker 4: I'm sorry for all of the things.
Speaker 3: Good luck, Thank you.
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