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Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I almost famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with our radio everybody. I'm beIN and I'm currently sitting

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Speaker 1: in Indiana watching it rain. This is one of the

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Speaker 1: most peaceful, peaceful spring days I have been a part of.

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Speaker 1: That's a very last right now, that's so nice, Ben Um,

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Speaker 1: When are you ever home? Are you ever home anymore?

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Speaker 1: Do you have a home? Should you be even paying rent?

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Speaker 1: I don't pay rent, fancy man Um, Yeah a lot.

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Speaker 1: Right now, it's on. We're on a little speaking tour

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Speaker 1: for dinner it um currently and so I hit up

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Speaker 1: this week, was in St. Louis. It just sounded like

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Speaker 1: you're on helium. Something really weird has happened. It was

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Speaker 1: almost good, as if somebody took the phone away from

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Speaker 1: you and started talking for you. It was bananas and

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Speaker 1: we're going to keep it in because it was entertaining.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what happened, if they happen to know,

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Speaker 1: but that could be a lot of fun. So I'm

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Speaker 1: on the back end of a speaking tour. So I

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Speaker 1: started in St. Louis. I visited UH Missouri University, met

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Speaker 1: some huge fans of the podcast, huge fans of Ashley.

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Speaker 1: I think you actually saw a couple of their tweets,

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Speaker 1: said like, hey, makes make sure you tell actually that

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Speaker 1: he is the heart and stole of this podcast and

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Speaker 1: you're just along for the ride. And I said, I

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Speaker 1: thanks for that. And then I went to Nashville and

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Speaker 1: took up Belmont University, drove up to Indianapolis and smoke

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Speaker 1: spoke at the Ronald You smoked, Donald, What are you

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Speaker 1: speaking about? Yeah, So what we're speaking about is generous

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Speaker 1: coffee and how for purpose for profit business can actually

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Speaker 1: be the funding engine to nonprofits and how that looks

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Speaker 1: from a business standpoint, and then also how people can

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Speaker 1: get involved in any cause that is actually doing good

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Speaker 1: in the world. And so we're trying to push people

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Speaker 1: to take that step out and actually get involved in something.

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Speaker 1: And that's what we're speaking about. The night is my

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Speaker 1: last speaking engagement, and then I'm back to Denver UH

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Speaker 1: for a youth conference for two days. So and then

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Speaker 1: I see you all in l A and I'll be

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Speaker 1: in studio in just two weeks and I won't be

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Speaker 1: Why does it have to work like that? Ben, I

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Speaker 1: do want to go back to like you pay a

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Speaker 1: mortgage and rent and blah blah. I got an apartment.

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Speaker 1: Last week I got a new apartment. I needed more

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Speaker 1: space and I got the craziest deal on it is

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Speaker 1: just like mine, blowing and I'm really concerned. Well, first

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Speaker 1: I was concerned that somebody died in it, and I

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Speaker 1: paid eleven dollars for this website called died in House

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Speaker 1: actually familiar with Did you see my tweet? You've heard it,

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Speaker 1: but you've done don't keep going, keep going? Okay, okay, Well,

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Speaker 1: I just want to let you know it's good to

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Speaker 1: be true. Eason is not on the mic right now,

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Speaker 1: but he has also found a house that was too

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Speaker 1: good to be true, and his youths died in house before.

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Speaker 1: This is not an ad for died in house. But um,

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Speaker 1: the more and more I told people about this deal

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Speaker 1: that I got, the more people are like huh. And

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Speaker 1: then they're like, are you sure nobody died in your house?

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Speaker 1: I was like, I think they have to tell you.

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Speaker 1: But then I looked up the law, and the law

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Speaker 1: in California is that you don't have to. You have

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Speaker 1: to tell them if somebody died in the house as

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Speaker 1: recently as three years. Um, but if it's before that,

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Speaker 1: then if you ask, they have to tell you, but

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Speaker 1: they don't have to volunteer voluntarily tell you. Yeah. So

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Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, well I better go use this

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Speaker 1: eleven dollars for died in house. Nobody died in it.

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Speaker 1: Still think it must be haunted though, like there's gotta

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Speaker 1: Were you like anxious when you got the results? I mean,

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Speaker 1: was a recent that? Okay? And then my second question

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Speaker 1: because the house I lived in Colorado, somebody did die

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Speaker 1: I honestly I don't. Well nowadays they did that. The

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Speaker 1: housing market dinner is just incredible for for everybody. Fun

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Speaker 1: freaked me out that it doesn't have freaked me out

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Speaker 1: because people come over to a little factor here. People

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Speaker 1: come over to my house. I tell them the stories.

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Speaker 1: My house is built nineteen four. Yeah, the family that

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Speaker 1: lived there for fifty years, the mom and dad actually

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Speaker 1: that is so Ben Higgins of you do you guys

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Speaker 1: want to know a little sort of weird thing. I did. Sure.

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Speaker 1: I went in Nicole Brown Simpson's house for fun. It

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Speaker 1: talk about this fore ever been We have so many guests,

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Speaker 1: have one more question for you. Do you ever feel

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Speaker 1: this is such a good topic. Actually, if if any

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Speaker 1: of our listeners out there believe in ghosts before, I

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Speaker 1: want to also know if you would move out of

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Speaker 1: gonna get some crazy stories today, some really awesome stories

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Speaker 1: from some of our guests. We want to start out

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Speaker 1: this podcast with interviewing one of vast nations most beloved participants,

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Speaker 1: one that everybody has wanted to find love for for

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Speaker 1: I know that's how I feel about you. You're bursting

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Speaker 1: beautiful bubble of joy. Oh, thank you. I've been loving

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Speaker 1: listening to your podcast. Thank you for putting good stuff

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Speaker 1: out there. I love hearing both of you guys coming

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Speaker 1: But this mutual friend, UM, I could trust him. The

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Speaker 1: to thank you guys so much. So good to hear

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Speaker 1: segment so popular on this podcast, and and and I

456
00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:19,280
Speaker 1: think these two people fit into this segment, but in

457
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:23,160
Speaker 1: reality they don't because now they're known for a lot

458
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Speaker 1: more than just the Bachelor world. And I'm looking at

459
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Speaker 1: picture right now they are one handsome couple. Hey, But

460
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Speaker 1: because this is almost famous podcast and we haven't just

461
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Speaker 1: tradition to keep this is the who the heck are

462
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Speaker 1: you segment with Peyton and Chris landon Peyton Christie out there?

463
00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:45,960
Speaker 1: You know last week I said it was like from

464
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Speaker 1: at least season, I don't know who that is. And

465
00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:48,720
Speaker 1: then I saw your picture and I was like the

466
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Speaker 1: runner up, I know him? Well, thank you. Yeah, well

467
00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:56,800
Speaker 1: you guys didn't meet on the show, but you both

468
00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:59,679
Speaker 1: happened to have been on the show. Tell us about

469
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Speaker 1: how you met well after the season, because because I

470
00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:06,399
Speaker 1: got second place, I don't like to say we're on

471
00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:09,080
Speaker 1: our second place. Uh. They were trying to get me

472
00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:11,040
Speaker 1: to be a bachelor and I was shown down to

473
00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:15,040
Speaker 1: an event in North Carolina with Chris Harrison and I

474
00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:16,840
Speaker 1: got to bring her friends in the show with me.

475
00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:20,800
Speaker 1: And he had been on Bachelor Pad with Peyton, and

476
00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:24,760
Speaker 1: he was not really great at geography because he was like, oh, yeah,

477
00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:27,600
Speaker 1: Peyton is right nearby, and he thought Dallas was near

478
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Speaker 1: North Carolina, which originally so he was like, oh, maybe

479
00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:35,000
Speaker 1: she's like right down the road. Which it was funny

480
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:37,200
Speaker 1: because I happened to be in North Carolina that weekend

481
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Speaker 1: for my mom's birthday. So Jessie Beck texted me said, Hey,

482
00:26:40,560 --> 00:26:43,000
Speaker 1: I'm with my boy Chris. Why don't you come hang out.

483
00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:45,119
Speaker 1: I was like, actually, I'm really close by. So I

484
00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:47,280
Speaker 1: went to hang out for the night, and nine months

485
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:50,280
Speaker 1: later we were engaged. No way, nine months that's fast.

486
00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:54,440
Speaker 1: And Jackie Jesse Beck, by the way, another Bachelor alum.

487
00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:57,040
Speaker 1: Look at that. Look how the world works. It's just

488
00:26:57,080 --> 00:26:59,399
Speaker 1: like a big friend circle. You basically just met through friends.

489
00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:01,800
Speaker 1: You both all happened to be on TV. No. It

490
00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:03,960
Speaker 1: was crazy because even when I was on Bachelor Pad

491
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:06,760
Speaker 1: with Jesse, he was like always talking about Chris. He

492
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:09,119
Speaker 1: was his boy, and Jesse and I got to be

493
00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:11,080
Speaker 1: such good friends, and he was like, you've got to

494
00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:13,240
Speaker 1: meet him, but not in a like huck up kind

495
00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:16,399
Speaker 1: of way. We're friends and we're friends, so let's all

496
00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:20,560
Speaker 1: be friends. Peyton, you were on Andy Baldwin season Bachelor

497
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:23,959
Speaker 1: ten and Chris seems like the data store ages at

498
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:27,160
Speaker 1: this point. Yeah, there is a couple of years in between, right,

499
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:29,600
Speaker 1: but you guys, I get I guess you Peyton were

500
00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:33,240
Speaker 1: re emerged because of Bachelor Pad. Yeah. I got this

501
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:36,000
Speaker 1: totally random phone call one day. I thought that that

502
00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:38,000
Speaker 1: was all in my past. I was just living my

503
00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:40,879
Speaker 1: life in Dallas, working as normal, and then they called him.

504
00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:42,640
Speaker 1: So we're doing the spin off show? Do you want

505
00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:45,359
Speaker 1: to do it? And you know I rarely say no

506
00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:48,040
Speaker 1: to opportunities, and I said, what the heck, let's do it.

507
00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:50,320
Speaker 1: So it was fun. And if you hadn't done it,

508
00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:52,040
Speaker 1: then you wouldn't have met Jesse, and then maybe you

509
00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:55,280
Speaker 1: didn't wouldn't have met Chris. Isn't it crazy how the

510
00:27:55,359 --> 00:28:01,199
Speaker 1: universe works? So crazy? So and then the both of

511
00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:03,720
Speaker 1: you now, I mean, the Bachelor Nation has been aweso

512
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:05,840
Speaker 1: to the Bachelor show has obviously brought you two together

513
00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:10,640
Speaker 1: at some level. But you move this into also participating

514
00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:15,399
Speaker 1: on htt V hosting Going Yard. How did that work? Like,

515
00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:18,760
Speaker 1: how did you, guys, transition from engagement to marriage to

516
00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:22,080
Speaker 1: then hosting your own show on HTTV. Yeah, it's pretty

517
00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 1: amazing because I can always tell people and like, you know,

518
00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:26,760
Speaker 1: being on the Bachelor led me to finding my wife

519
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:29,840
Speaker 1: and getting a TV show, which you know is completely

520
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:33,920
Speaker 1: amazing to me. Um, But I was a landscaper beforehand,

521
00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:36,120
Speaker 1: and when I was on the show, you know, they

522
00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:39,280
Speaker 1: tell you your name and your occupation, and people at

523
00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:42,080
Speaker 1: h TV saw that I was a landscaper and they

524
00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:45,880
Speaker 1: had me come in for an interview and it went well,

525
00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:48,160
Speaker 1: they sent a camera crew up here to uh do

526
00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:51,560
Speaker 1: a little test shoot, and Peyton was conveniently here that day,

527
00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:58,520
Speaker 1: and you know her up there talking and next thing

528
00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:00,280
Speaker 1: you know, they gave us a show. So we started

529
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:02,920
Speaker 1: with Going Yard, and then I took over Yard Crashers

530
00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 1: and now my new show start airing next week called

531
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Speaker 1: Lawn and Order. So I've part laid into quite a

532
00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:12,800
Speaker 1: few years of working on HDTV, which is pretty amazing.

533
00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:16,720
Speaker 1: Does everybody an HDTV have a zillion shows like you? Yeah,

534
00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:18,880
Speaker 1: it's funny because like after a couple of years, they'll

535
00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:21,719
Speaker 1: rebrand the show and name is something different, but it's

536
00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:24,239
Speaker 1: kind of like a usually some very similar concept. So,

537
00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:26,680
Speaker 1: you know, Going Yard we did all different parts of

538
00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:29,240
Speaker 1: the yard Yard Brashers, I ran around the lows and

539
00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:31,880
Speaker 1: just randomly found somebody and readd the yard for free.

540
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:34,400
Speaker 1: And now Lawn and Order we kind of worked on

541
00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:37,640
Speaker 1: curb appeal of houses, mostly people trying to sell their house,

542
00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:40,520
Speaker 1: so we go in revamp the whole front yard and

543
00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:42,960
Speaker 1: then they can sell the house for actually a bit

544
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Speaker 1: more than when we first started. You've also done blog Cabin,

545
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:50,080
Speaker 1: dream Home, and smart Home. I gotta know, what is

546
00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:54,480
Speaker 1: the coolest thing in home innovation today. Uh you know,

547
00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:59,040
Speaker 1: it's pretty simple, but I love that quas entry. Uh

548
00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 1: so our house, I'm like even have the house now.

549
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:03,280
Speaker 1: So that way, you know, if I go for a run,

550
00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:04,680
Speaker 1: if we're going down to the beach, I don't have

551
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:06,200
Speaker 1: to bring my keys with me or hide them in

552
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:08,200
Speaker 1: the yard from place. You know, I can just come

553
00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:10,240
Speaker 1: back to my house and you know, either punching a

554
00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:12,080
Speaker 1: code or like if you have a smart watch, you

555
00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:13,360
Speaker 1: can hook it up to the door and you just

556
00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 1: walk right in and unlocked automatically. And to me, that's

557
00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:18,360
Speaker 1: the best thing. So I don't have to worry about

558
00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:20,840
Speaker 1: losing my keys or where's the house key? You don't

559
00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:22,720
Speaker 1: ever need them ever. Again, that is so cool. You know,

560
00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:24,320
Speaker 1: would also be cool if you could talk to your

561
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:25,840
Speaker 1: house be like, hey, house, can you open the door?

562
00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:29,719
Speaker 1: That's nice and it's been saying what technology can do

563
00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:32,840
Speaker 1: these days, that's really cool. I always think about Smart House,

564
00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:35,800
Speaker 1: the Disney Channel original movie. I mean that would that'll

565
00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:38,600
Speaker 1: stay with me forever. Well, I just need what's her

566
00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:42,760
Speaker 1: name Peggy from Married with Children to always just run

567
00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:47,800
Speaker 1: my house. Actually, actually, come on, Ben, do you know

568
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:49,800
Speaker 1: how I just want to let you know that Mark

569
00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:53,160
Speaker 1: and Easton and all three of them in this room

570
00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 1: all nodded when I talked about smart houses trying to

571
00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:59,160
Speaker 1: make you feel good. No. No, they also want the

572
00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:01,840
Speaker 1: same thing and they will remember the movie forever. I

573
00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 1: like the titles of the h G TV shows. Did

574
00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:06,720
Speaker 1: you say it was called lawn and Order an Order

575
00:31:06,760 --> 00:31:12,280
Speaker 1: and blog? Cavina Cavin. That's so cute. Um, it's harder

576
00:31:12,280 --> 00:31:14,959
Speaker 1: for right, I mean law and Order. It's perfect. I'm

577
00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:21,120
Speaker 1: the order obviously. Yeah. So are you both still hosting them? Um?

578
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:23,239
Speaker 1: I had to take a little hiatus because we had

579
00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 1: a baby. Um, but tilt for a show. We teamed

580
00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:30,080
Speaker 1: up with Wayfair and it was more of a design

581
00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:33,480
Speaker 1: stoke because I'm an interior designer and um, so we

582
00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:36,520
Speaker 1: did a pilot for that and we're waiting hopefully fingers

583
00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:39,480
Speaker 1: crossed that. Uh that's Homo Finus who we're hoping that

584
00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:43,640
Speaker 1: will move forward. So we're just talking. Earlier in the podcast, Ashley,

585
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:47,720
Speaker 1: I have two questions for you all. Let's start with this. Uh,

586
00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:50,760
Speaker 1: I I own my own home. Astley was telling me

587
00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:53,000
Speaker 1: that I was almost bragging about it earlier in the podcast,

588
00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:57,520
Speaker 1: and I was, but I need a ton of work

589
00:31:57,680 --> 00:31:59,480
Speaker 1: on my house. I have a small little house. And

590
00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:02,520
Speaker 1: then for Colorado. Would you ever want to come help

591
00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:06,200
Speaker 1: me with my art? Oh man, that'd be so much fun.

592
00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:10,800
Speaker 1: Kidding me, I mean I think we can pull something off.

593
00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:13,400
Speaker 1: I need your help more than you know. Um, I

594
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:15,560
Speaker 1: have a ton of things. My yard is a blankly.

595
00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:18,000
Speaker 1: I've put a ton of work into just clearing out.

596
00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:21,200
Speaker 1: So uh, Christ and Peyton, once this podcast is done,

597
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:23,120
Speaker 1: we got to figure out a way to get you

598
00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 1: all out of Denver, Colorado. Um to help me renovate

599
00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:32,000
Speaker 1: my my, my beautiful lawn. That right now? That that

600
00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:34,719
Speaker 1: looks great. Yeah, Chris, you can go to Denver and

601
00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:37,440
Speaker 1: hang with Ben as you did the lawn. And then Peyton,

602
00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:40,040
Speaker 1: if you want to come and decorate my new apartment.

603
00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:43,800
Speaker 1: Is would be just the perfect girls and guys weekend. Yeah,

604
00:32:43,880 --> 00:32:46,920
Speaker 1: let's do it. Okay, Yes, time out time I read

605
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:50,800
Speaker 1: something that's going to die in your farmer something. We're

606
00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:54,200
Speaker 1: just talking about that earlier. I know, I saw the

607
00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:58,240
Speaker 1: you favorite one. I don't want her going to deal with. No. No,

608
00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:00,720
Speaker 1: I looked it up. It was all clear. No one

609
00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:06,760
Speaker 1: died in the house. We are okay, that's the question.

610
00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:09,880
Speaker 1: My second followup question, if somebody were to pass away

611
00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:13,400
Speaker 1: in your house for whatever reason, Christ and Peyton, what

612
00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:15,240
Speaker 1: are your thoughts and that would it caused you to

613
00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:19,320
Speaker 1: move out? No, So, when when my parents first bought

614
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:24,040
Speaker 1: their house, my mom bought some sage from uh like

615
00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:25,880
Speaker 1: a Native American store, and what you do is you

616
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:28,560
Speaker 1: burn it in all the windows in the corners of

617
00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:32,520
Speaker 1: the house to get rid of evil spirits. So my

618
00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:36,000
Speaker 1: something asked we were to do I've done it. My

619
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:38,920
Speaker 1: my my best friend at one time she was here.

620
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:41,720
Speaker 1: She brought a lot of negativity, like a lot, and

621
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Speaker 1: then it even resulted in her being hospitalized at Cedar SI.

622
00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:49,040
Speaker 1: And I like, she just brought a whole ton of

623
00:33:49,160 --> 00:33:51,560
Speaker 1: dark clouds to my apartment. So yeah, I went to

624
00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:55,680
Speaker 1: the spiritual store and I staged, and I did it

625
00:33:55,720 --> 00:33:58,280
Speaker 1: in the proper manner because I didn't want my my

626
00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:01,440
Speaker 1: then new apartment to be to did stunds like she

627
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:06,960
Speaker 1: needs an exorcism more than hey. Uh yeah, so this

628
00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:10,120
Speaker 1: is I mean, I'm really interested now because you're one

629
00:34:10,160 --> 00:34:14,160
Speaker 1: of the few couples from this world, um to really

630
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:18,560
Speaker 1: meet something from some avenue during the Bachelor part lay

631
00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:22,080
Speaker 1: it into a really great career, uh on television. But

632
00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:24,799
Speaker 1: I'm sure that wasn't your intent when you all got together.

633
00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:27,240
Speaker 1: I know that to be the case. How does The

634
00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:34,040
Speaker 1: Bachelor affect YouTube still today? I mean The Bachelor the

635
00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:36,719
Speaker 1: Bachelors pretty been pretty amazing for both of us, I think.

636
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:38,600
Speaker 1: I mean it lets it not only us getting together

637
00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:41,280
Speaker 1: in the TV show, but I mean even to this day,

638
00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:43,080
Speaker 1: you know, we were on I was on what like

639
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:47,839
Speaker 1: eight years ago now ago, and you know, I'll be

640
00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:51,239
Speaker 1: on a flight and people walk on the Hey, you're

641
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Speaker 1: the kid from The Bachelor Bacheltte, aren't you? And you know,

642
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Speaker 1: even eight years later, if they're still be recognized from

643
00:34:56,880 --> 00:34:59,160
Speaker 1: that show, it kind of just tells you the impact

644
00:34:59,200 --> 00:35:01,880
Speaker 1: and YouTube obviously that firsthand the impact of that show,

645
00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:05,239
Speaker 1: Like how many millions people watch every week and you know,

646
00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:09,600
Speaker 1: watch every single season, and once they know you're on there,

647
00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:11,880
Speaker 1: they just you know, have like so many questions for

648
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Speaker 1: you about it. But you know, just the impact that

649
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:17,920
Speaker 1: on a day to day basis, people just always recognize

650
00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:21,840
Speaker 1: people are just nice and they love to see the

651
00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:24,680
Speaker 1: success that's come from the show. They love to see

652
00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:28,200
Speaker 1: our family and different things that we've done professionally. And

653
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:32,279
Speaker 1: it's nice. Um, it's nice to have that support. Who

654
00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:36,120
Speaker 1: are you still in touch with today? Um, Chris has

655
00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:38,719
Speaker 1: like a text chain, was like all the guys from

656
00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:41,960
Speaker 1: his season. We still have a text chain. That's amazing.

657
00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:45,879
Speaker 1: Oddly enough, when we got married, we got married, uh,

658
00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:48,920
Speaker 1: like a year and a half after we met. And uh, Roberto,

659
00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:51,320
Speaker 1: who I lost to his first place, he was actually

660
00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:54,120
Speaker 1: at our wedding. We had probably about four or five

661
00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:57,759
Speaker 1: guys from from my season at the wedding, and uh,

662
00:35:57,800 --> 00:35:59,800
Speaker 1: you know, we still meet up every couple of years.

663
00:35:59,840 --> 00:36:03,239
Speaker 1: And like I said, like the text chain, like there's

664
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Speaker 1: fifteen guys on and I think twelve fifteen guys from

665
00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:09,200
Speaker 1: from my season. It's great text every week. They're now

666
00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:12,280
Speaker 1: like moving on to everybody's announcing that they're having kids,

667
00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:15,920
Speaker 1: and so it's really neat to see the evolution of

668
00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:20,360
Speaker 1: their friendship and their families and relationships. And um, it's cool.

669
00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:22,759
Speaker 1: But I don't keep in touch really with that many

670
00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:25,080
Speaker 1: girls from my season. Everybody kind of fell off the map.

671
00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:28,800
Speaker 1: But I do still talk to Henley and Natalie Gets

672
00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:31,920
Speaker 1: and some of the girls from Bachelor Pad. We had

673
00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:35,680
Speaker 1: Tonley on just earlier. I just love her so sad

674
00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:39,320
Speaker 1: is he's getting married me too. It's such a fairy

675
00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:43,279
Speaker 1: tale for her. Yes, it is alright, guys, Well, we

676
00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:45,960
Speaker 1: appreciate you coming on. This is so this has been

677
00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:50,560
Speaker 1: so cool and I can't wait to plan our decorating weekends. Hey,

678
00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:56,040
Speaker 1: we're on it, and believe me, I'll make that front

679
00:36:56,120 --> 00:37:00,239
Speaker 1: yard the best in the block. Guarantee. I was gonna say,

680
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Speaker 1: we gotta set that up. We're gonna do it, and

681
00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:03,719
Speaker 1: then we're gonna talk about it again on the podcast.

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00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:06,640
Speaker 1: I need your help. I'm not joking about. This is

683
00:37:06,719 --> 00:37:09,040
Speaker 1: a good opportunity for us to get together, hang out,

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Speaker 1: mess around in the yard for a couple of days. Uh,

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Speaker 1: make make this house look beautiful. But also before you go,

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Speaker 1: I need you both, uh to fill all of our

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Speaker 1: listeners in once again on on the upcoming show. Uh. Well,

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Speaker 1: out there. I want to see you, You want to

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Speaker 1: see me. Let's be together. You know, a few weeks

720
00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:10,839
Speaker 1: ago we kind of went through all the fast relationships

721
00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:13,200
Speaker 1: that existed out there and we forgot a couple. And

722
00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 1: and that's our mistake. We realized that. Um, but it

723
00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:18,960
Speaker 1: doesn't mean that there isn't a lack of love for

724
00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:22,080
Speaker 1: this couple. We have Derek Paith on the line. He

725
00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:25,560
Speaker 1: is dating Taylor. They met and Bachelor in Paradise there

726
00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:30,720
Speaker 1: for you out there. They're not just dating Ben, they're engaged. Okay, sorry,

727
00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:33,640
Speaker 1: what's the difference? Oh apparently a lot. We were just

728
00:39:33,680 --> 00:39:40,640
Speaker 1: talking about the game of being a wedding planning process. Derek, Hello, Derek,

729
00:39:41,520 --> 00:39:45,200
Speaker 1: this just in. Derek is in the bathroom. So and

730
00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:49,120
Speaker 1: other Bachelor news. Did you know that Channing Tatum hung

731
00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:54,239
Speaker 1: out with ri yesterday at some race car fast So

732
00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:58,200
Speaker 1: here's my question. Does that make Channing Tatum less cool

733
00:39:58,280 --> 00:40:00,400
Speaker 1: or does that make Alas more cool? I mean the

734
00:40:00,520 --> 00:40:05,479
Speaker 1: same thing. It definitely makes Channing less cool and Ari

735
00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:08,920
Speaker 1: more cool. I mean, I'm sure that you know how

736
00:40:08,920 --> 00:40:11,400
Speaker 1: like all the headlines like Channing Tatum hangs out with

737
00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:13,640
Speaker 1: Ari Lyond because they're hanging out. They pose for a

738
00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:16,359
Speaker 1: picture together. Oh they did, they hung out. They hung out,

739
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:22,360
Speaker 1: and Channing kind of video saying hi to Lauren whoa.

740
00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:27,480
Speaker 1: Maybe for only three minutes, but still, I mean, that's

741
00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:30,719
Speaker 1: pretty that's a big deal Channing Tatum. So yesterday when

742
00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:34,640
Speaker 1: this came out, I have an episode of from Whatching

743
00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:36,120
Speaker 1: Battle that will be coming out next to a week.

744
00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:39,120
Speaker 1: So I googled Channing Tatum's name because as soon as

745
00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:41,600
Speaker 1: I hear his name, would it reminds me of is

746
00:40:41,719 --> 00:40:45,279
Speaker 1: his lips Sink battle that he participated with his um

747
00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:47,479
Speaker 1: my wife? Right there? They're getting x wife, they're getting

748
00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:50,319
Speaker 1: a divorce. But that's how I know Channing Tatum. I

749
00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:53,799
Speaker 1: also know him as America's true heart drop. Right, mean,

750
00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:56,640
Speaker 1: he has to be the most eligible backs on the

751
00:40:56,680 --> 00:41:01,200
Speaker 1: market now, right, I would say, so, he's pretty high up.

752
00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:03,440
Speaker 1: I would say he's really high up there. It's like

753
00:41:03,520 --> 00:41:06,640
Speaker 1: him and Chris Pratt. Josh to Mel He's up there, two, Oh, Josh,

754
00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:09,080
Speaker 1: you Mel too. He has a girlfriend now, but I

755
00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:11,600
Speaker 1: think Chris Pratt and Charing Tatum are a little bit higher.

756
00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:15,960
Speaker 1: I'm actually I'm wondering if the reaction will be similar

757
00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:18,120
Speaker 1: to when I hang out with Ari at five hundred

758
00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:21,040
Speaker 1: this year. I'm going to when I meet Ari. I

759
00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:23,360
Speaker 1: wonder if they'll have me do a video for Lauren

760
00:41:23,520 --> 00:41:26,800
Speaker 1: and I wonder if the head boys and head and

761
00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:29,040
Speaker 1: headlines will be like Ben Higgins and Ari lined I

762
00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:32,799
Speaker 1: hang out. Hey Ben, what don't you go to? What

763
00:41:32,960 --> 00:41:36,920
Speaker 1: are you going to? Sporting related? I've never been to

764
00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:38,799
Speaker 1: the super Bowl? Okay, well that's I've been to the

765
00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:42,040
Speaker 1: super Bowl. I've been to too. Is Derek back from

766
00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:44,879
Speaker 1: the bathroom? He's been gone from? No? Oh, is here

767
00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:51,799
Speaker 1: he's been Sure you have. That's what I say too

768
00:41:51,960 --> 00:41:54,680
Speaker 1: when when I have to take great Have you ever

769
00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:57,000
Speaker 1: been in a call before and somebody like forgets to

770
00:41:57,040 --> 00:41:59,440
Speaker 1: put put it on you and they do that, Oh

771
00:41:59,480 --> 00:42:02,799
Speaker 1: you took your phone into the bathroom? Oh yeah, Oh no,

772
00:42:03,320 --> 00:42:05,520
Speaker 1: that's never happened to us before. But is that something

773
00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:07,640
Speaker 1: you would think of when you were on the Bachelor

774
00:42:07,719 --> 00:42:09,239
Speaker 1: and you were miked up when you were when you

775
00:42:09,239 --> 00:42:12,480
Speaker 1: went to bathroom? Yeah, I had I had a mic

776
00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:18,640
Speaker 1: situation once where it fell into that area the toilets, no,

777
00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:22,040
Speaker 1: like into my underwear, and so I had to it

778
00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:29,839
Speaker 1: was a it was a job. Oh geez, how does

779
00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:34,080
Speaker 1: that even Derek? Enough? Enough of the of the bathroom pop.

780
00:42:34,160 --> 00:42:36,359
Speaker 1: We're glad you back your back. You made us wait

781
00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:38,560
Speaker 1: about fifteen minutes for you, so I hope you feel better.

782
00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:47,800
Speaker 1: We're really here to talk about your relationship with Taylor. Um,

783
00:42:47,880 --> 00:42:51,960
Speaker 1: we were just disgusting preparing for this interview, and I know,

784
00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:54,480
Speaker 1: after a thousand questions for you, but what I noticed

785
00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:57,000
Speaker 1: is the two of you are very cute on Instagram.

786
00:42:57,000 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 1: And this is something that's always been interesting to me. Uh,

787
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:02,280
Speaker 1: how often and how many times you get to post

788
00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:06,759
Speaker 1: for these pictures that you're posting? So I have a

789
00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:09,799
Speaker 1: whole I started doing. Uh, I was going to do

790
00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:12,680
Speaker 1: a series of them, but um, I got yelled at

791
00:43:12,760 --> 00:43:15,480
Speaker 1: for it. So there's like a whole, probably a hundred

792
00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:18,080
Speaker 1: pictures that I have on my phone where Taylor is

793
00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:20,359
Speaker 1: like smiling and looking cute and I'm just eye rolling

794
00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:24,640
Speaker 1: because I've had enough for it. So it's it's funny,

795
00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:29,040
Speaker 1: you know. That's like selfie is such a big thing.

796
00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:31,880
Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys noticed I post on

797
00:43:31,960 --> 00:43:35,120
Speaker 1: Instagram like once a week. I am not an Instagram person.

798
00:43:35,200 --> 00:43:39,200
Speaker 1: So how often do you get the John Krasinski thing,

799
00:43:39,280 --> 00:43:41,520
Speaker 1: especially now that he's having quite the high with a

800
00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:44,759
Speaker 1: quiet place, which is quite a well, you guys know,

801
00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:48,600
Speaker 1: I've lean into it. Um, I think everybody I I

802
00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:52,399
Speaker 1: probably have a five thousand d M saying, oh my god,

803
00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:55,640
Speaker 1: did you know that you look like John Krasinski becoming

804
00:43:55,719 --> 00:43:58,839
Speaker 1: more and more compliment Yeah, exactly, I'll think it all

805
00:43:58,920 --> 00:44:01,359
Speaker 1: day that really when it comes to the office. I mean,

806
00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:05,719
Speaker 1: everybody loves his character. So um, God forbid, I'd be,

807
00:44:06,080 --> 00:44:13,480
Speaker 1: you know, connected to Dwight. I'd rather be Jim Good.

808
00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:16,680
Speaker 1: That's good. People say I look like Jim Carrey. I

809
00:44:16,680 --> 00:44:22,520
Speaker 1: think you're what did you you see Jim Carrey in

810
00:44:22,560 --> 00:44:28,239
Speaker 1: yourself of Vinnie from my season when he like he

811
00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:30,680
Speaker 1: looked like Jim Carrey from Dumb and Dumber, people like

812
00:44:30,800 --> 00:44:34,160
Speaker 1: morph their faces together when he was on the back.

813
00:44:34,480 --> 00:44:36,480
Speaker 1: I've never seen that. Oh it's when he used to

814
00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:40,120
Speaker 1: have the Caesar cut. Yep, exactly, Yeah, okay, now I

815
00:44:40,120 --> 00:44:45,160
Speaker 1: can see it with that haircut. Well, jerk, your girlfriend,

816
00:44:45,280 --> 00:44:49,920
Speaker 1: your fiance, she is the queen of emotional intelligence. How

817
00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:52,360
Speaker 1: much do you make fun of her for that? And

818
00:44:52,800 --> 00:44:57,000
Speaker 1: how much? Um does she psychoanalyze you at home? She

819
00:44:57,160 --> 00:44:58,879
Speaker 1: I think she needs to write a book. I think

820
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:01,239
Speaker 1: she needs to write her own book. Don a martial intelligence.

821
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:05,080
Speaker 1: I don't know why she's not leveraging that. Uh No,

822
00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:08,600
Speaker 1: sometimes I have to say, take off your therapist pants.

823
00:45:09,080 --> 00:45:12,800
Speaker 1: Uh you know, and no, those aren't her normal pants,

824
00:45:12,880 --> 00:45:22,640
Speaker 1: so that we do that too, but it doesn't something

825
00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:25,240
Speaker 1: as often as you think, which fair pants are you removing?

826
00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:28,840
Speaker 1: More the therapist ones. The therapist ones. Now, she actually

827
00:45:28,840 --> 00:45:30,799
Speaker 1: has this thing that she calls when she has to

828
00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:33,320
Speaker 1: help when her friends call her just talk being a

829
00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:37,080
Speaker 1: friend to this, So she tries to turn that off

830
00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:38,919
Speaker 1: most of the time. You know, that's like not how

831
00:45:38,960 --> 00:45:44,200
Speaker 1: she she operates on the daily basis. You lived in Iowa, right, Um,

832
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:46,799
Speaker 1: the home of Chris of Chris Souls. Do you still

833
00:45:46,840 --> 00:45:51,280
Speaker 1: live an island? No? Right, No, I'm in I'm in Connecticut. Actually,

834
00:45:51,680 --> 00:45:58,120
Speaker 1: where's Taylor? She is in Seattle? Is the long distance thing? Yeah?

835
00:45:58,400 --> 00:46:00,919
Speaker 1: Well we usually see each other like three weeks out

836
00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:04,040
Speaker 1: of the move. But um, so right now she's in

837
00:46:04,080 --> 00:46:06,520
Speaker 1: Seattle and then she comes and stays with me for

838
00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:10,480
Speaker 1: a while and then head back over there. So how

839
00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:14,640
Speaker 1: does that work? Like weekends? Is that we're talking about? No, Like, well,

840
00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:18,959
Speaker 1: stay here for like a couple of weeks. Yeah. There.

841
00:46:19,080 --> 00:46:21,160
Speaker 1: I I have to ask you a question that is

842
00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:24,280
Speaker 1: a little bit intrusive, and and I meet this in

843
00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:27,080
Speaker 1: in the best possible way, because I think everybody out

844
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:29,719
Speaker 1: there that's listening will probably be able to relate in that.

845
00:46:30,239 --> 00:46:32,200
Speaker 1: And I want you to be able to talk about

846
00:46:32,239 --> 00:46:35,480
Speaker 1: this openly. Taylor did not come up, and let's not

847
00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:37,200
Speaker 1: blame the show. Let's talk about I want to talk

848
00:46:37,239 --> 00:46:40,080
Speaker 1: about you for a second. Taylor did not cost the

849
00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:43,960
Speaker 1: best during the first season of The Bachelor, and I

850
00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:45,960
Speaker 1: think that was those clear shoes. There's a lot of

851
00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:49,040
Speaker 1: strife and controversy around Taylor and some of her relationships

852
00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:52,520
Speaker 1: on the show, but you look past that and so

853
00:46:52,640 --> 00:46:54,960
Speaker 1: let's just like nothing, take that out of picture. Now,

854
00:46:55,040 --> 00:46:56,440
Speaker 1: you were able to look past that, say no, I

855
00:46:56,520 --> 00:46:58,000
Speaker 1: just want to get to know this woman for who

856
00:46:58,040 --> 00:47:00,960
Speaker 1: she is. How did you do that? Why did you

857
00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:04,520
Speaker 1: do that? And was it difficult for you? Um? Okay,

858
00:47:04,600 --> 00:47:07,800
Speaker 1: So the very first thing, I had the same perception

859
00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:11,160
Speaker 1: as everybody else, did I like walking in there. I

860
00:47:11,560 --> 00:47:13,839
Speaker 1: did not want to get to know Taylor at all,

861
00:47:15,120 --> 00:47:17,680
Speaker 1: and uh, you know she was. She thought the same

862
00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:22,080
Speaker 1: way about me. That whole reality Steve Olivia BS thing

863
00:47:22,200 --> 00:47:24,319
Speaker 1: that that came out. You know, we were like both

864
00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:27,040
Speaker 1: of us were like not interested in each other at all.

865
00:47:27,640 --> 00:47:30,719
Speaker 1: And uh we just sat there on that I don't

866
00:47:30,719 --> 00:47:33,120
Speaker 1: know whatever they call him Cavannah thing for like three

867
00:47:33,160 --> 00:47:35,319
Speaker 1: hours and you could not stop talking to each other.

868
00:47:35,760 --> 00:47:38,000
Speaker 1: So how did I do it? I mean we just

869
00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:41,160
Speaker 1: you know, we just couldn't get away from each other.

870
00:47:41,160 --> 00:47:43,879
Speaker 1: It wasn't about how what or like you know, who

871
00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:46,120
Speaker 1: was looking for a rose. I mean, we just couldn't

872
00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:50,000
Speaker 1: stop talking. So it was just natural. But it wasn't easy.

873
00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:52,160
Speaker 1: I mean, it's interesting that you both went into it

874
00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:54,880
Speaker 1: with this this idea that hey, I'm not interested, but

875
00:47:54,920 --> 00:47:56,880
Speaker 1: you allowed both like your walls to kind of be

876
00:47:56,960 --> 00:47:59,239
Speaker 1: broken down. I think that's incredible. And I wanted to

877
00:47:59,280 --> 00:48:01,960
Speaker 1: hear that because I remember watching it, and I think

878
00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:05,399
Speaker 1: Astley and I were analyzing backs and Paradise and I said,

879
00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:08,800
Speaker 1: I like this couple, Like this couple is a great couple.

880
00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:12,440
Speaker 1: I see them as very similar. I remember this, Actually

881
00:48:12,440 --> 00:48:14,440
Speaker 1: you're talking about It's very similar to that Carly Nevins

882
00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:16,839
Speaker 1: situation in my eyes, where it's like you can see

883
00:48:16,840 --> 00:48:18,680
Speaker 1: that this is a legit couple, like you can watch

884
00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:22,000
Speaker 1: it and go this is bigger than any television show.

885
00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:26,759
Speaker 1: We like you guys too. Yes, I I picked up

886
00:48:26,760 --> 00:48:29,200
Speaker 1: and I picked up on that. No, totally. But if

887
00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:31,160
Speaker 1: you go in with an open heart, that's what it

888
00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:34,040
Speaker 1: comes down to. You know, like if you're if you're

889
00:48:34,040 --> 00:48:37,080
Speaker 1: going in within open Instagram feed and just trying to

890
00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:40,560
Speaker 1: get more followers, then it's inevitably going to be a

891
00:48:40,680 --> 00:48:42,759
Speaker 1: pain in the time because you're just trying to get

892
00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:45,120
Speaker 1: screen time and people are gonna hate you for that.

893
00:48:45,200 --> 00:48:46,960
Speaker 1: You know, we both just went in with open hearts

894
00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:49,480
Speaker 1: and it was, you know, just kind of like we

895
00:48:49,600 --> 00:48:53,120
Speaker 1: just gravitated to each other, which sounds cheesy, but it's

896
00:48:53,160 --> 00:48:56,520
Speaker 1: so true. You guys have been together for a year.

897
00:48:57,239 --> 00:49:01,120
Speaker 1: Are you wedding planning or you know, or you're just

898
00:49:01,200 --> 00:49:04,520
Speaker 1: like we're we're young and enjoying ourselves. Yeah, we're taking

899
00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:07,239
Speaker 1: it slow on that front. This is actually my my

900
00:49:07,280 --> 00:49:09,880
Speaker 1: sister is getting married next month, so this is her

901
00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:13,280
Speaker 1: year given her that one. You are your best friend

902
00:49:13,400 --> 00:49:17,240
Speaker 1: from the franchise as wells am I correct, You are correct.

903
00:49:17,719 --> 00:49:20,439
Speaker 1: So have you guys gone a double date with him

904
00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:23,680
Speaker 1: and Sarah or would you plan on doing that? We

905
00:49:23,719 --> 00:49:27,040
Speaker 1: did so. Um we spent actually like all of the

906
00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:30,480
Speaker 1: New Year's time with Wells and Sarah and uh it

907
00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:34,799
Speaker 1: was creepy because Sarah and Taylor are very weirdly a

908
00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:38,359
Speaker 1: lot like it was kind of fun. So um, yeah

909
00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:40,920
Speaker 1: we went. We went and did did uh all the

910
00:49:40,920 --> 00:49:43,160
Speaker 1: whole New Year's Night and then we watched the show

911
00:49:43,200 --> 00:49:45,880
Speaker 1: and did junk snapchat with them and all that good stuff.

912
00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:48,319
Speaker 1: That was for the beginning of artist. Actually, how are

913
00:49:48,360 --> 00:49:53,000
Speaker 1: they so alike? Uh? Just all the like little quirks

914
00:49:53,040 --> 00:49:55,040
Speaker 1: and stuff and the things they say. They was like

915
00:49:55,280 --> 00:49:57,440
Speaker 1: they think to each other like five different times. It

916
00:49:57,560 --> 00:50:04,319
Speaker 1: was crazy. All right, Well, Derek, we need to have

917
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:06,560
Speaker 1: you and Taylor at the same time one time, maybe

918
00:50:06,640 --> 00:50:09,160
Speaker 1: during Paradise, and you guys can give your thoughts about

919
00:50:09,160 --> 00:50:12,080
Speaker 1: the new couples. There you go. I can't wait to

920
00:50:12,200 --> 00:50:15,880
Speaker 1: just tell my opinion on everybody. You're pretty active on

921
00:50:15,880 --> 00:50:17,560
Speaker 1: Twitter though you may not be an Instagram guy, but

922
00:50:17,600 --> 00:50:21,120
Speaker 1: you're a tweeter. Yeah, I am uh, I kind of

923
00:50:21,120 --> 00:50:23,759
Speaker 1: have like a d D brain, so that's how I

924
00:50:23,800 --> 00:50:27,760
Speaker 1: just get it out of my head. And just alright,

925
00:50:27,800 --> 00:50:30,600
Speaker 1: what we're looking forward to all your feedback come the

926
00:50:30,680 --> 00:50:34,359
Speaker 1: next Bachelorette and Bachelor in Paradise season, and we wish

927
00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:36,120
Speaker 1: you and Taylor the best of luck. So sorry that

928
00:50:36,160 --> 00:50:39,160
Speaker 1: we forgot to add you to the list of successful couples.

929
00:50:39,200 --> 00:50:41,920
Speaker 1: We will never forget that again. I will hold it

930
00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:49,720
Speaker 1: against you. All right, Thanks Derek, We appreciate you. Bye. Alright,

931
00:50:49,800 --> 00:50:54,080
Speaker 1: you guys, your favorite segments coming up. Ben bitches, Ben,

932
00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:57,040
Speaker 1: I don't want to politically correct, ben bitches, do not

933
00:50:57,120 --> 00:50:59,880
Speaker 1: make this one into a sermon. Just straight up bitch, Okay,

934
00:51:01,560 --> 00:51:03,120
Speaker 1: I think I can get you. I mean, I'm not

935
00:51:03,200 --> 00:51:06,720
Speaker 1: trying to terminate the world. There's a lesson and every

936
00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:10,839
Speaker 1: bed bitches, I don't want a lesson. Well, it's a solution.

937
00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:14,200
Speaker 1: It's high solution to what I'm angry about. That's how

938
00:51:14,200 --> 00:51:16,960
Speaker 1: I see it. I also got a solution. Uh, if

939
00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:19,480
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940
00:51:19,480 --> 00:51:21,400
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941
00:51:21,480 --> 00:51:23,480
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942
00:51:23,480 --> 00:51:27,040
Speaker 1: a big deal. They're fashionable, they're easy, uh to keep

943
00:51:27,040 --> 00:51:28,400
Speaker 1: track of where you're at when you're at it, and

944
00:51:28,440 --> 00:51:30,080
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945
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946
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947
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949
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961
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962
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964
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965
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971
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Speaker 1: All right, Ben, are you ready to bitch? Fine? I'm

990
00:53:53,400 --> 00:53:55,879
Speaker 1: so ready. This is one that I actually a very

991
00:53:55,880 --> 00:53:58,680
Speaker 1: passed about today. I thought about last night. I was

992
00:53:58,760 --> 00:54:03,759
Speaker 1: I was almost ready to punch a wall getting fired up.

993
00:54:04,000 --> 00:54:06,560
Speaker 1: I'm ready. Actually, I'm not even gonna let you enter

994
00:54:06,640 --> 00:54:07,959
Speaker 1: me into this because I just want to talk about

995
00:54:07,960 --> 00:54:11,800
Speaker 1: it right now. I've been waiting all podcasts for this. Okay.

996
00:54:11,840 --> 00:54:15,800
Speaker 1: I like I like people a ton, and I believe

997
00:54:15,880 --> 00:54:20,120
Speaker 1: that people are they like engine and vessel that will

998
00:54:20,120 --> 00:54:22,880
Speaker 1: completely change the world for good. And I like dealing

999
00:54:22,880 --> 00:54:25,919
Speaker 1: with people, like talking to people. And this is where

1000
00:54:25,960 --> 00:54:29,640
Speaker 1: I get angry. How many times doday do we call

1001
00:54:29,960 --> 00:54:33,200
Speaker 1: a customer service line. It's if it's your cable network,

1002
00:54:33,280 --> 00:54:36,520
Speaker 1: or it's your cell phone service, or your insurance or

1003
00:54:36,520 --> 00:54:38,839
Speaker 1: whatever it is, and you have to talk to a

1004
00:54:38,840 --> 00:54:41,360
Speaker 1: freaking robot. Wait a second, I can't believe this is

1005
00:54:41,400 --> 00:54:45,239
Speaker 1: what you're about. I can't believe it why? And it

1006
00:54:45,320 --> 00:54:46,840
Speaker 1: got to rub me when I'm Matt because when you

1007
00:54:47,440 --> 00:54:49,400
Speaker 1: had I get really angry. But I actually go ahead.

1008
00:54:49,600 --> 00:54:52,680
Speaker 1: I was going to in the story this exact same

1009
00:54:52,719 --> 00:54:56,480
Speaker 1: thing this weekend, like just make fun of myself when

1010
00:54:56,520 --> 00:54:59,000
Speaker 1: I'm on the phone with a robot, because it'll be like,

1011
00:54:59,320 --> 00:55:01,960
Speaker 1: what do you call alling about. I'd be like, transfers,

1012
00:55:01,960 --> 00:55:04,279
Speaker 1: and then they'll be like, we need you to get

1013
00:55:04,280 --> 00:55:08,040
Speaker 1: more specific transfers about this, Like, yeah, transfers from one

1014
00:55:08,040 --> 00:55:11,120
Speaker 1: bank account to another. And then it's like, um, I

1015
00:55:11,160 --> 00:55:15,480
Speaker 1: didn't quite hear you, uh, transferring from one bank account

1016
00:55:15,520 --> 00:55:20,840
Speaker 1: to another? Pardon me? And it's just like and the

1017
00:55:20,960 --> 00:55:25,319
Speaker 1: my facial expression and this the fury that pulses through me.

1018
00:55:26,040 --> 00:55:31,560
Speaker 1: Now take over your segment again. Well that was it.

1019
00:55:29,920 --> 00:55:33,600
Speaker 1: I done it. You've got it. That was We're good

1020
00:55:33,600 --> 00:55:36,960
Speaker 1: so act I both think it's ridiculous. We need to

1021
00:55:36,960 --> 00:55:41,879
Speaker 1: deal with people more often. That's it. That's it. Yeah,

1022
00:55:41,960 --> 00:55:43,960
Speaker 1: I was. I'm just mad about going in circles with this.

1023
00:55:46,000 --> 00:55:48,600
Speaker 1: It's just so annoying that it's always like I didn't

1024
00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:52,120
Speaker 1: quite hear you did you say this and then you

1025
00:55:52,239 --> 00:55:55,000
Speaker 1: just want to throw your phone against the wall. Is

1026
00:55:55,040 --> 00:55:56,600
Speaker 1: that what you just said, that you wanted to throw

1027
00:55:56,640 --> 00:56:00,279
Speaker 1: your phone against the wall? I want to punch well,

1028
00:56:00,400 --> 00:56:03,120
Speaker 1: but yeah, very similar. Yeah it's not it's not fun.

1029
00:56:03,520 --> 00:56:06,520
Speaker 1: We can get people back on the line. The computers

1030
00:56:06,520 --> 00:56:08,680
Speaker 1: are no longer fun to deal with. Can I bitch

1031
00:56:08,719 --> 00:56:11,520
Speaker 1: about your ben bitches last week? Oh? Yeah, you can

1032
00:56:11,520 --> 00:56:14,040
Speaker 1: do whatever you'd like. You know how, I was talking

1033
00:56:14,080 --> 00:56:17,359
Speaker 1: about how people are riding on bikes in the middle

1034
00:56:17,360 --> 00:56:20,319
Speaker 1: of the road and they're like, you sounded so ignorant

1035
00:56:20,400 --> 00:56:24,040
Speaker 1: talking about riding bikes on the road, And I'm like, okay,

1036
00:56:24,080 --> 00:56:27,759
Speaker 1: so now you're bitching at me for bitching. Yes, I

1037
00:56:27,840 --> 00:56:30,480
Speaker 1: know it's illegal in many places to ride your bike

1038
00:56:30,520 --> 00:56:33,880
Speaker 1: on the sidewalk. I'm not saying that there's anything you

1039
00:56:33,920 --> 00:56:36,839
Speaker 1: can really do about it. I'm simply expressing that it's

1040
00:56:36,960 --> 00:56:41,440
Speaker 1: annoying when we all have to merge into another lane

1041
00:56:41,600 --> 00:56:45,560
Speaker 1: because you insist I'm biking on it. Sorry, guys, I'm

1042
00:56:45,560 --> 00:56:47,880
Speaker 1: gonna stick with this one. I think you need your

1043
00:56:47,880 --> 00:56:49,840
Speaker 1: own thing. I think you just got it. This is

1044
00:56:49,880 --> 00:56:54,359
Speaker 1: now no longer me, this is you. You get your

1045
00:56:54,440 --> 00:56:57,880
Speaker 1: moment to express everything. Because here's the thing. Actually, what

1046
00:56:58,000 --> 00:57:01,719
Speaker 1: I've noted is one tweet will really kind of like

1047
00:57:01,800 --> 00:57:05,000
Speaker 1: get under your skin, like one person can really like

1048
00:57:05,120 --> 00:57:07,200
Speaker 1: fire you up. And so I think every week, if

1049
00:57:07,239 --> 00:57:09,120
Speaker 1: you really thought about it, at some point during the week,

1050
00:57:09,200 --> 00:57:12,400
Speaker 1: you've gotten really fired up about something. So let's just

1051
00:57:12,440 --> 00:57:15,520
Speaker 1: trancel it over. No, Ben, It's the whole thing is

1052
00:57:15,560 --> 00:57:18,200
Speaker 1: I'm very natural when it comes to bitching. It's part

1053
00:57:18,200 --> 00:57:20,720
Speaker 1: of me. You don't do it. That's why we have

1054
00:57:20,760 --> 00:57:25,160
Speaker 1: the segment. Okay, yeah, I was just gonna say I

1055
00:57:25,160 --> 00:57:27,800
Speaker 1: was gonna give you your moment to to release yourself.

1056
00:57:27,960 --> 00:57:31,120
Speaker 1: I really really need to step back. I'm sorry, guys,

1057
00:57:31,160 --> 00:57:35,240
Speaker 1: this is ben segment next week. I won't even agree.

1058
00:57:35,320 --> 00:57:40,240
Speaker 1: If I do agree with him, I cannot disagree with you. Actually,

1059
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Speaker 1: I think everything that you say typically is spot on

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00:57:44,640 --> 00:57:48,920
Speaker 1: um and I think you're just kind of tweaking the world,

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Speaker 1: uh to get more in line with what is logical,

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00:57:54,000 --> 00:57:58,200
Speaker 1: what is rational, what is just correct, and and so

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00:57:58,400 --> 00:58:00,800
Speaker 1: everything that you say I think is is spot on.

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Speaker 1: I wonder if if, actually, like if you could just

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00:58:05,040 --> 00:58:08,240
Speaker 1: step up on a pedestal during every podcast and we

1066
00:58:08,320 --> 00:58:11,440
Speaker 1: just let you lose, how good it could be no, no,

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00:58:11,640 --> 00:58:13,720
Speaker 1: that's not good to see. I'm good if I if

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00:58:13,720 --> 00:58:15,760
Speaker 1: you give me like thirty seconds and be like, Ashley,

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00:58:15,760 --> 00:58:18,280
Speaker 1: what's annoying? Thirty seconds boom, I can tell you and

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Speaker 1: a couple of sentences. You, on the other hand, can

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Speaker 1: go on a total monologue about it, and it's flowy

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00:58:24,760 --> 00:58:29,200
Speaker 1: and articulate and I'm jealous and you spin it around

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00:58:29,200 --> 00:58:32,080
Speaker 1: in the right direction. Well, actually, I know one of

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Speaker 1: our closest friends in bast Donation is in studio right now.

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Speaker 1: We have a pressing topic. I see on Instagram and

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Speaker 1: social media that Jared participated in Bachelor in Paradise to Australia.

1077
00:58:44,160 --> 00:58:47,120
Speaker 1: I'll let you too kind of take it in studio here, Jared.

1078
00:58:47,600 --> 00:58:49,080
Speaker 1: I know there's an email out there from one of

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Speaker 1: our wonderful listeners, Ashley. What does this say? Well, we're

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Speaker 1: gonna leave them a suspense for a moment because we

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Speaker 1: have to talk about bioclarity, which I think Jared's a

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Speaker 1: didn't you? Of course, why wouldn't I? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: You know that when you're in paradise. It's hard to

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Speaker 1: has been mentioned, We are sitting here with Jared Haben,

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01:01:02,480 --> 01:01:04,360
Speaker 1: which is the which is He is one of the

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Speaker 1: new co hosts of the Help I Suck At Dating

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01:01:07,920 --> 01:01:12,360
Speaker 1: podcast along with with our bestie Dean. That's right, yes

1122
01:01:12,400 --> 01:01:14,480
Speaker 1: I am, and he has come. He is about to

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Speaker 1: record his other podcasts here in the I Heart Studio.

1124
01:01:17,400 --> 01:01:20,120
Speaker 1: But then I was sifting through these emails and I

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01:01:20,200 --> 01:01:25,560
Speaker 1: found one that pertained to him specifically. It is from Ilsa.

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01:01:25,760 --> 01:01:28,200
Speaker 1: It says, Hi Been and Ashley. I'm a huge fan

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01:01:28,240 --> 01:01:30,840
Speaker 1: of the podcast. It's the one I listened to every

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01:01:30,840 --> 01:01:33,960
Speaker 1: week without fail. Thank you so much. I would love

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01:01:34,080 --> 01:01:37,360
Speaker 1: you both to chat about Bachelor in Paradise Australia. Since

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01:01:37,440 --> 01:01:41,520
Speaker 1: Americans like Grant, Daniel McGuire and Jared are on it,

1131
01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:44,400
Speaker 1: have you two been watching? What do you think about

1132
01:01:44,400 --> 01:01:46,480
Speaker 1: all that's going on? And do you think that Bachelor

1133
01:01:46,520 --> 01:01:49,360
Speaker 1: in Paradise this year we'll have lots of internationals and

1134
01:01:49,440 --> 01:01:51,520
Speaker 1: do you think that these international couples that come out

1135
01:01:51,520 --> 01:01:53,440
Speaker 1: of the show will have a shot in the real world.

1136
01:01:53,800 --> 01:01:55,840
Speaker 1: Would so appreciate to hear what you think of this?

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01:01:56,240 --> 01:02:00,320
Speaker 1: Love you lots. Well, I guess this question kind of

1138
01:02:00,320 --> 01:02:01,959
Speaker 1: pertains to me. Sing how I was on the show,

1139
01:02:02,240 --> 01:02:04,640
Speaker 1: I will say I didn't. I haven't watched it. Uh

1140
01:02:04,720 --> 01:02:08,200
Speaker 1: you left for it in mid November. Yeah, so I

1141
01:02:08,200 --> 01:02:11,320
Speaker 1: filmed in November early November, early to mid November, I

1142
01:02:11,320 --> 01:02:13,520
Speaker 1: went to go film. I was down in Fiji, for

1143
01:02:13,600 --> 01:02:15,240
Speaker 1: about two two and a half weeks where I was

1144
01:02:15,280 --> 01:02:17,360
Speaker 1: filming Bachelor in Paradise Australia. Was actually kind of weird

1145
01:02:17,400 --> 01:02:19,600
Speaker 1: because I got an email. I was actually I got

1146
01:02:19,680 --> 01:02:21,240
Speaker 1: a call to do Winter Games at first, and then

1147
01:02:21,280 --> 01:02:23,360
Speaker 1: Warner Brothers Australia reached out to me and said, hey,

1148
01:02:23,400 --> 01:02:25,400
Speaker 1: we're interested in having you on our Bachelor in Paradise.

1149
01:02:25,400 --> 01:02:27,080
Speaker 1: We're doing our first season. I thought it was a

1150
01:02:27,120 --> 01:02:29,600
Speaker 1: joke until I got a call from Australia saying no,

1151
01:02:29,800 --> 01:02:32,200
Speaker 1: this is an actual show that we want you to

1152
01:02:32,200 --> 01:02:35,480
Speaker 1: perform down in Australia with us. Perform, you know, put

1153
01:02:35,480 --> 01:02:39,200
Speaker 1: on a performance. That's what you do best. And so,

1154
01:02:39,280 --> 01:02:41,800
Speaker 1: a long story short, I went down there, and uh,

1155
01:02:41,840 --> 01:02:46,160
Speaker 1: I'm really glad I did. Um So you and I

1156
01:02:46,200 --> 01:02:48,439
Speaker 1: were convinced that they both didn't want us in Winter

1157
01:02:48,520 --> 01:02:52,200
Speaker 1: Games though, because that it would have made no sense

1158
01:02:52,240 --> 01:02:53,720
Speaker 1: if both of us went, because it would have been

1159
01:02:54,280 --> 01:02:59,120
Speaker 1: you would have seen that you've seen it before. But

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01:03:00,160 --> 01:03:04,240
Speaker 1: what was I saying? Okay, yeah, so tell us about like,

1161
01:03:04,280 --> 01:03:06,960
Speaker 1: did you find anyone there? Did you kiss anyone there?

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01:03:07,040 --> 01:03:11,160
Speaker 1: I haven't watched, I don't know. Uh so did I

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01:03:11,240 --> 01:03:14,040
Speaker 1: kiss anybody? Uh? Man, you were just gonna have to

1164
01:03:14,080 --> 01:03:16,840
Speaker 1: watch watch the show. I mean, I guess so it

1165
01:03:16,960 --> 01:03:19,720
Speaker 1: just aired. It was kind of it just so long

1166
01:03:19,720 --> 01:03:21,560
Speaker 1: story short, it just aired. It was weird because it

1167
01:03:21,560 --> 01:03:24,600
Speaker 1: filmed back in November. It just aired this past month.

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01:03:24,880 --> 01:03:29,560
Speaker 1: My exit actually was last night, and so um, I

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01:03:29,600 --> 01:03:31,640
Speaker 1: didn't kiss anybody there. I was there for about five

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01:03:31,720 --> 01:03:34,880
Speaker 1: rows ceremonies. I did the most prototypical Jared thing, which

1171
01:03:35,000 --> 01:03:37,400
Speaker 1: was just kind of coast through not kiss anybody, and

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01:03:37,400 --> 01:03:39,439
Speaker 1: then as soon as somebody showed interest, I was like, well,

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01:03:39,520 --> 01:03:41,960
Speaker 1: see you later. And the funny thing is that even

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01:03:42,000 --> 01:03:44,640
Speaker 1: though you weren't kissing anyone, these girls still want to

1175
01:03:44,640 --> 01:03:47,320
Speaker 1: do They're like, no, no, in the beginning, but I

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01:03:47,360 --> 01:03:49,960
Speaker 1: still want his road. Well, in the beginning it was

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01:03:50,040 --> 01:03:52,440
Speaker 1: I was definitely forming a lot of friendships. I became

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01:03:52,560 --> 01:03:54,560
Speaker 1: really close with a lot of people, and then towards

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Speaker 1: the end, there was a couple of girls who were like,

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Speaker 1: I really want to get to know you on a

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01:03:57,760 --> 01:04:00,920
Speaker 1: deeper level, and that's what girls always feel from you.

1182
01:04:01,040 --> 01:04:04,760
Speaker 1: But then they don't they take yes, and then you

1183
01:04:04,840 --> 01:04:07,000
Speaker 1: like just drag it out of them where they're like,

1184
01:04:07,040 --> 01:04:09,520
Speaker 1: excuse me, I'm not sure this is headed, but I

1185
01:04:09,560 --> 01:04:11,960
Speaker 1: think I need to clarify I would like a romantic

1186
01:04:11,960 --> 01:04:15,000
Speaker 1: relationship here. You seem friends zoning me and then I

1187
01:04:15,040 --> 01:04:17,200
Speaker 1: deflect for a good two hours and then walk away

1188
01:04:17,240 --> 01:04:20,400
Speaker 1: and then it's just a game over after that. Um,

1189
01:04:20,440 --> 01:04:23,280
Speaker 1: but do I think the relationships could last? So I

1190
01:04:23,360 --> 01:04:25,240
Speaker 1: want to see first of all, is La you should

1191
01:04:25,240 --> 01:04:27,560
Speaker 1: also listen to the Help I Second Dating podcast because

1192
01:04:27,640 --> 01:04:30,600
Speaker 1: Dean and myself try very hot on that podcast and

1193
01:04:30,640 --> 01:04:32,919
Speaker 1: we think we do a good job. So um. Well,

1194
01:04:33,000 --> 01:04:35,200
Speaker 1: I will have to say that I think that the

1195
01:04:35,320 --> 01:04:38,360
Speaker 1: success ray is going to be even slimmer when you

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Speaker 1: factor in the internationals, just as we saw it with

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01:04:41,000 --> 01:04:44,320
Speaker 1: Bachelor Winter Games. It's just even harder to keep an

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Speaker 1: international relationship, especially with you guys, because that's one continent

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Speaker 1: and then you're like a whole twelve hour flight away. Yeah,

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01:04:53,680 --> 01:04:55,400
Speaker 1: so I think that was the most difficult part. I

1201
01:04:55,440 --> 01:04:58,400
Speaker 1: will say though, I feel like there were probably a

1202
01:04:58,520 --> 01:05:01,040
Speaker 1: number of contestants within the fecial Aralian Bachelor Paradise that

1203
01:05:01,080 --> 01:05:03,960
Speaker 1: would have been willing to move to America. Um, So

1204
01:05:04,040 --> 01:05:05,560
Speaker 1: it would be interesting to see if they bring a

1205
01:05:05,560 --> 01:05:09,720
Speaker 1: contestants for the Bachelor Paradise America internationally. Well, I think

1206
01:05:09,720 --> 01:05:11,720
Speaker 1: they will as well, but it would be interesting to

1207
01:05:11,720 --> 01:05:13,440
Speaker 1: see if any Americans would be willing to move to

1208
01:05:13,440 --> 01:05:16,040
Speaker 1: different countries for them. I don't know, it is kind

1209
01:05:16,080 --> 01:05:17,760
Speaker 1: of a stretch, I feel. I heard there was a

1210
01:05:17,800 --> 01:05:20,640
Speaker 1: rumor that there was a potential international contestants coming on

1211
01:05:20,840 --> 01:05:24,640
Speaker 1: last year to Bachelor in Paradise, had things been different

1212
01:05:24,720 --> 01:05:28,400
Speaker 1: more normal exactly. So um, I don't think it's gonna

1213
01:05:28,400 --> 01:05:31,000
Speaker 1: be really that abnormal if they bring international contestants on

1214
01:05:31,040 --> 01:05:33,000
Speaker 1: this paradise. We had Winter Games, we had the Bachelor

1215
01:05:33,000 --> 01:05:35,600
Speaker 1: Paradis Australia, where they brought Americans, and they also brought Canadians.

1216
01:05:35,600 --> 01:05:37,720
Speaker 1: There's a guy from Bachelor of Canada named Thomas that

1217
01:05:37,760 --> 01:05:40,479
Speaker 1: came there. So I think it might become a little

1218
01:05:40,480 --> 01:05:42,080
Speaker 1: bit of the norm for a little while to see

1219
01:05:42,120 --> 01:05:45,120
Speaker 1: if this works out, let's bring international contestants on. Well.

1220
01:05:45,200 --> 01:05:47,320
Speaker 1: I just have to say that Yuki did make an

1221
01:05:47,360 --> 01:05:52,800
Speaker 1: appearance this week in America in l A and uh.

1222
01:05:53,080 --> 01:05:56,760
Speaker 1: I think this weekend may have been a Bachelor Paradise cassing, Like,

1223
01:05:57,760 --> 01:06:00,840
Speaker 1: who really knows for sure for sure? You know, Yuki

1224
01:06:00,880 --> 01:06:03,520
Speaker 1: has entered the country, and that's always good news. That's

1225
01:06:03,520 --> 01:06:08,000
Speaker 1: always great for America. Yeah, Okay, well you guys, that's

1226
01:06:08,040 --> 01:06:11,720
Speaker 1: it for this week's podcast. Make sure to tune in

1227
01:06:11,800 --> 01:06:16,520
Speaker 1: to Jared and Dean and Vanessa on this week's help

1228
01:06:16,600 --> 01:06:19,640
Speaker 1: I Suck At Dating podcast. Um, just listen to the

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Speaker 1: all the I heart podcasts. You know, all your bachelor

1230
01:06:22,200 --> 01:06:25,680
Speaker 1: favorites here the I Heart Radio Ryan Secret Studio. Pretty cool.

1231
01:06:25,720 --> 01:06:28,840
Speaker 1: All right, until next time. If you feel the need

1232
01:06:28,920 --> 01:06:32,400
Speaker 1: to contact Ben and I you can email Ashley and Ben.

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01:06:32,520 --> 01:06:35,080
Speaker 1: Oh no, it is Ben and Ashley at i heeart

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Speaker 1: media dot Com tweeted us rate us, send all your love,

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Speaker 1: send all your hate. We love it all and um

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Speaker 1: i'van Ashley bye. Follow the Benn and Ashley I Almost

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