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Speaker 1: Hi, guys, Welcome to another episode of Diamonds in the Rough.

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Speaker 1: Hi Erica, Hey Seddy, how you doing?

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Speaker 2: You know, really good? But I'll be honest, it's is.

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Speaker 3: I have on glasses, not because I'm trying to be cool,

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Speaker 3: but because my eyes are swollen just from allergies.

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Speaker 2: So that's what's going on.

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Speaker 1: Well, my eyes are swollen from crying. So you're one

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Speaker 1: up on me.

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Speaker 2: What are you crying about?

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Speaker 3: Him?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I just I feel like, I mean,

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Speaker 1: I'm sure you know this too, but like when you're

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Speaker 1: going through divorce or there's grief or whatever, like some

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Speaker 1: weeks you really feel like on top of the world,

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Speaker 1: and some weeks you're just so freaking low.

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Speaker 3: Yes, and that's going to be that way for a while.

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Speaker 3: And I think the most important things I learned in

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Speaker 3: therapy was that grief, let's just call it that, is

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Speaker 3: not linear.

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Speaker 2: Because I kept asking when is this over? When is

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Speaker 2: this over? And the answer is it's not.

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Speaker 3: And it also comes in ways, so you will feel

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Speaker 3: confident and then you'll feel very unsure and and so

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Speaker 3: that's kind of the process. And I remember having to

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Speaker 3: accept that and I did not like it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't like it because I mean, I think

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Speaker 1: we're similar in the way that we like to be

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Speaker 1: able to control our surroundings or our feelings or and

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Speaker 1: when you're feeling a little out of control, it feels scary,

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Speaker 1: Like for me, you know, I did I'm sure you've

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Speaker 1: probably done their podcast before, but I did the Skinny

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Speaker 1: Confidential where they kind of like dug into like the

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Speaker 1: highs and lows of my life, and they are amazing,

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Speaker 1: Like they it's not a podcast where you feel like

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Speaker 1: you're about to get trapped into saying something you regret.

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Speaker 1: But like you know, I'm the type where once I

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Speaker 1: do something thing that I kind of block out that

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Speaker 1: I've done it, apparently as a big podcast because like

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Speaker 1: everyone and their mother sending messages their opinions, and it

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Speaker 1: just kind of like, you know, I know that we

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Speaker 1: say we don't give any fucks, but sometimes it's hard.

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Speaker 2: Well, look, you do give fucks. That's the thing.

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Speaker 3: There are times when you care, are times when you don't,

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Speaker 3: times that you feel strong, times that you feel vulnerable.

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Speaker 3: And I think anybody listening or watching this knows that, look,

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Speaker 3: we you and I have made a conscious choice as

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Speaker 3: adults to put our lives out there that having been

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Speaker 3: set as brave and as fearless as we think we are,

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Speaker 3: sometimes we are and that's just part of being human.

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Speaker 3: You're going through a tough time. You and I are

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Speaker 3: here having this conversation, and it's okay to be human,

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Speaker 3: you know, and that goes for anybody that's listening or watching.

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Speaker 2: It's just some days you feel good, some days you don't.

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Speaker 1: You know, Yeah, and so that's kind of but you

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Speaker 1: should be feeling good of the fact that you run

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Speaker 1: on ROXY.

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Speaker 2: And I got extended.

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Speaker 1: So when are you extended to?

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Speaker 2: It's just two extra weeks, so that's.

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Speaker 1: A lot, though. That's amazing.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 2: This show schedule, it's great. It's great to be on stage.

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Speaker 2: I was thinking, you know, we have.

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Speaker 3: A five show weekend, so you have one on Friday

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Speaker 3: my eyes are small enough. And then after this I'm

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Speaker 3: going to go to the theater and do it all again.

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Speaker 3: So but you know, it's really great to be asked back.

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Speaker 3: Feels good. Anytime I can be on stage, I'm always happy.

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Speaker 3: And so look, I think everybody you should cut everybody

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Speaker 3: easy to stand in judgment and say, well I this

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Speaker 3: and I would have done that, But you don't know

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Speaker 3: until you've gone through it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and you know what, you not only are you

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Speaker 1: the voice of reason on this pod, you're the voice

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Speaker 1: of reason this season, which everybody's been like and I

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Speaker 1: no matter what the highs and lows that everybody's kind

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Speaker 1: that's that's that goes for a lot.

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Speaker 2: Well, look, it's just not that deep. These shows are

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Speaker 3: I mean I think that you know, people expect, you know,

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Speaker 2: Like should you show your entire life? The answer is

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Speaker 3: No one shows their entire person to anyone their entire lifetime.

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Speaker 3: I mean, we talk about it on this pod frequently

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Speaker 3: that people are consistently revealing themselves no matter how many

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Speaker 3: years we've known, so for people to look at entertainment,

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Speaker 3: which is what these shows are, even what this podcast is,

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Speaker 3: and to think that someone's one hundred percent going to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and a forty five minute edited down version of

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Speaker 1: whatever was filmed.

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Speaker 3: Again, it's entertainment. You know, you're watching a show, you're

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Speaker 1: And because we did recap Orange County together, that is

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Speaker 1: not you know, what Diamonds and the Rough is about.

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Speaker 1: But this has been a big headline because it's a

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Speaker 1: big headline. Okay, so Gretchen Rossi got asked back as

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Speaker 1: a friend. I think it was kind of one of

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Speaker 1: was for a takedown. And also, I'm not going to

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Speaker 1: be the world's best of explaining it because I haven't

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Speaker 1: watched these episodes yet that Gretchen came on, because I

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Speaker 1: do a recap with Tamera of past episodes and we

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Speaker 1: only have gotten through season three, so I don't know exactly,

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Speaker 1: season that Gretchen Rossi came on. But it was first

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Speaker 1: longer was like everybody's lives filmed separately. It came on

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Speaker 1: and it was dramatic, and they had this big fight

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Speaker 1: have been the season that Gretchen came after Tamra and

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Speaker 3: Oh and this poor man consistently being called gay.

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Speaker 1: And also it's I mean, I'm gonna.

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Speaker 3: little tip. Don't be doing that this year. It ain't

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Speaker 2: Twenty twenty five.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not Gonna'm.

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Speaker 2: Tired, and we need to move on as a culture, you.

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Speaker 1: Know, and if we're still talking about it this many

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Speaker 1: one of those douche lords, like with the hummer and

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Speaker 1: the you know, it's all a thing, but also you

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Speaker 1: could zip on your just my child.

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Speaker 3: Before we waste too much time on these people. We

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Speaker 3: need to waste time on ourselves in our hinge profiles.

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Speaker 4: But oh yeah, so any.

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Speaker 1: Who, everyone's saying that Gretchen coming on is so that

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Speaker 1: next question. Renna, who I already tease to her face

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Speaker 2: I say, no, that's just my opinion, I say now.

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Speaker 1: But then in the same breath, I think Renna said

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Speaker 2: I don't listen Lisa.

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Speaker 3: I was just looking at Lisa, who had an amazing

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Speaker 3: love my Lisa. And I don't think I disagree. I

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Speaker 3: don't think LVP comes back. I think if she did,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then I think that, you know, hey, who cares.

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Speaker 3: You know, nobody wants to be sixty on Housewife show.

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Speaker 3: She's not wrong, yeah, but some are.

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Speaker 1: So there you go, there we go, and every everybody

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Speaker 1: or later. Uh. But yeah. And then in the world

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Speaker 1: Are you still into Hinge?

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Speaker 2: I haven't even gotten on.

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Speaker 1: You haven't gotten on yet.

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Speaker 3: Because I can't pick the six pictures that are relatable.

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Speaker 2: And so I just haven't picked six pictures. Tell me

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Speaker 2: about your downturn with the hinge.

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Speaker 1: Well, it's not really the downturn. It's like I'm not

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Speaker 1: really interested on going on a bunch of first dates, right.

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Speaker 1: That is exactly like I barely get to see like

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Speaker 1: like doing things at night. So, I mean, I did

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Speaker 2: That you guys, hold on.

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Speaker 1: Well, I I mean it wasn't that I didn't find

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Speaker 3: I was gonna say, I this is why I think,

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Speaker 3: if I'm going to speculate why I'd not put myself

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Speaker 3: on online dating, it's because Number one, I think it

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Speaker 2: Right for the date. And I think, I mean, it's

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Speaker 1: Leading up to the date, it was pretty good because

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Speaker 1: But then the like getting dressed up and going to

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Speaker 1: Well, and I think that's the thing why I felt

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's definitely not a good thing.

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Speaker 1: And he's totally cute, has a good job, occasionally desirable,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I have what are you're doing? Maybe we

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Speaker 1: I'm going to the super Bowl for the podcast. We

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Speaker 2: You know what, fuck you?

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Speaker 3: I am jealous because I ain't catching them over here

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Speaker 1: Well, one, what team am I going for?

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Speaker 2: Neither? You're going for the one that hires you the most.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay, it's the Chiefs and the Eagles.

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Speaker 1: There's also multiple nights. There's like GLAMs, There's I mean,

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Speaker 1: They have glam already, so I won't be looking like

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Speaker 2: I'll be honest with you, you can't be looking.

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Speaker 3: You have to look like you're you're you have to

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Speaker 3: look like a star, that's what you're doing.

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Speaker 1: Does that mean I have to put nails on? I

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Speaker 2: Chaut nails America?

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Speaker 1: Now, how am I going to get all these things done?

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Speaker 2: The hinge man, we're going to the super Bowl.

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Speaker 1: But the other crazy thing is I asked the hinge guy. Well,

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Speaker 1: we switch to phones? And I'm like sure, this is

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Speaker 2: That's okay.

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Speaker 3: Would you be the same like doing voices and the

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Speaker 3: I'd like to hear your tone. Yeah, that's not an

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: But then his tone like he didn't say anything quippy

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Speaker 2: But a lot of people aren't used to sending shit

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Speaker 2: like that. Yeah, I mean like, I mean, you know,

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Speaker 1: Well, he's going to be cut at least a week

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Speaker 3: And you need to get your looks down because now

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Speaker 3: you have to go full on Tedday. I'm telling you

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Speaker 1: If I if you see me looking like hell at

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Speaker 3: I am because this is a great opportunity not only

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Speaker 2: You can have some fun down there.

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Speaker 1: Well do you think that I'm going to be met

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Speaker 2: Well, no, I know what.

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Speaker 3: Look, I guess my question is what do you intend?

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Speaker 3: What do you want I mean, do you want Jerry

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Speaker 2: I mean, you know, I don't.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, wait a second, I thought you mentioned for

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Speaker 1: Oh well, I mean it may be for just a

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Speaker 2: Let me take my lands on I'm looking.

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Speaker 1: At Oh you thought I met a super Bowl one

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Speaker 1: because would be Travis Kelsey. It's not gonna be Patrick

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Speaker 3: I meant as an archetype, not as a person. Everybody

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Speaker 1: Well, speaking of Kevin Costner's ex wife, who Kevin Costner

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Speaker 1: the way, this week at the horse show, Kevin Kevin

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Speaker 1: I don't know who Kevin Kevin Costner's daughter must ride.

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Speaker 1: because it's it's only a year after Kevin and Christine

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Speaker 2: I don't know that I want to go from one

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Speaker 1: I don't know that answer for myself at this point.

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Speaker 2: I mean, clearly I haven't.

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Speaker 1: But could you? But aren't you still married. You can't

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm still married, but.

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Speaker 1: It's not that range right now.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'm not even like it's just I just

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Speaker 1: Well. The couple have been going together strong for over

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Speaker 1: where it all began. The news comes eleven months after

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Speaker 1: now considered the Yellowstone Alum, filed to in their eighteen

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Speaker 1: Months later, the split came before contentious as they disagreed

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Speaker 1: but I also need to know is Kevin Costner dating

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Speaker 1: Jennifer Lopez, is he? I mean they've been pictured together

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I would.

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Speaker 3: I've always thought Kevin Costner was handsome. I always thought

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Speaker 3: he was a good actor. You know, he's a lock

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Speaker 1: Always from Loachaanyata flint Ridge.

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Speaker 3: Well, I don't know if he's from there, but I

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Speaker 2: An sc guy.

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Speaker 1: But do you think this is too fast to move on?

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm you know, I'm not asking for personal reasons, clearly.

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Speaker 2: I just ask for who him or her?

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Speaker 1: For her because now she I mean, it took them

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Speaker 2: for them.

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00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:55,359
Speaker 3: It's not something I don't think I would do, because

441
00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:56,720
Speaker 3: I would worry that I was going.

442
00:22:56,520 --> 00:22:57,760
Speaker 2: From frying pants fire.

443
00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:01,440
Speaker 3: Not in a bad way, but just like emotionally, if

444
00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:04,280
Speaker 3: I'm going to disconnect from the marriage that I you know,

445
00:23:04,359 --> 00:23:07,640
Speaker 3: was in for almost twenty years, I might need some space.

446
00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:10,280
Speaker 2: Maybe she felt like she had enough space, but for

447
00:23:10,359 --> 00:23:12,399
Speaker 2: me personally, I probably would have not done.

448
00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:15,560
Speaker 1: That, especially because we've got we've got kids here, which

449
00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:17,840
Speaker 1: leads me to another big question that we've.

450
00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:20,800
Speaker 2: Had in the are older though than like right.

451
00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:25,240
Speaker 1: They're older than mine, but they're still teenagers. Yeah, but

452
00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:28,159
Speaker 1: at what point do you think is okay? Like do

453
00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:31,159
Speaker 1: you remember the first time you met Tom's kids?

454
00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:32,199
Speaker 2: Yes?

455
00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:34,280
Speaker 1: How long had you been with him?

456
00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:40,280
Speaker 2: Oh? Well a while? But I mean Tom's children were

457
00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:40,720
Speaker 2: my age.

458
00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:44,360
Speaker 3: I'm the I'm the age of his youngest child, right,

459
00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:48,640
Speaker 3: so there wasn't really anything to say other than hi.

460
00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:51,400
Speaker 1: However, you weren't like dropping her off at her first

461
00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:52,560
Speaker 1: day at kindergarten.

462
00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:55,040
Speaker 3: No, no, No, he had three children, and you know

463
00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:58,080
Speaker 3: they had they we were all grown ups, all of us.

464
00:23:58,280 --> 00:24:01,480
Speaker 3: We were all grown I had been before had a

465
00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:03,800
Speaker 3: six year old at that time, so there was no

466
00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:06,200
Speaker 3: you know, everybody was an adult.

467
00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:07,320
Speaker 2: It was a different situation.

468
00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:12,520
Speaker 3: And let's say that you're a better student to talk

469
00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:14,120
Speaker 3: about this because you have a stepchild.

470
00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:18,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, but they weren't married, so it's a little bit different.

471
00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:24,960
Speaker 1: Like probably in hindsight, I met Bella too soon, Like

472
00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:28,679
Speaker 1: if I were like, I'm very good friends with Edwin's

473
00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:33,879
Speaker 1: ex at this point in time. However, going back to

474
00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:36,119
Speaker 1: where we were when I met Edwin, he had just

475
00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:39,560
Speaker 1: broken up. Him and Christina had just broken up, and

476
00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:43,879
Speaker 1: Bella was six weeks old and I met her shortly thereafter.

477
00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:46,080
Speaker 2: So you've always been in her life.

478
00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:49,320
Speaker 1: I've always been in her life. But I think it

479
00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:54,000
Speaker 1: made things harder for me and Bella's mom to have

480
00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:59,120
Speaker 1: that connection because immediately, like Edwin and I jumped into

481
00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:02,960
Speaker 1: like an Instagram relationship. By instat I mean like immediate

482
00:25:03,080 --> 00:25:08,639
Speaker 1: not Instagram. Yeah, free Instagram, But you know, I can't

483
00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:10,320
Speaker 1: imagine what it would be.

484
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:13,480
Speaker 2: First off, I can see how Christina would not be

485
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:14,400
Speaker 2: happy with that at all.

486
00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:17,800
Speaker 3: But number two, now that you're single, at what point

487
00:25:17,840 --> 00:25:19,479
Speaker 3: would you let a man meet your children?

488
00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:23,840
Speaker 1: Well, I was actually talking about this with Edwin the

489
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:27,119
Speaker 1: other day because he's he's different than me in the

490
00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 1: way that like he likes now that we're not together,

491
00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:36,560
Speaker 1: he's more open to like going to events and public things.

492
00:25:36,600 --> 00:25:38,520
Speaker 1: Were like, I'm more of like a one on one

493
00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:40,120
Speaker 1: Like I would go to dinner with you and Renn

494
00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:42,880
Speaker 1: and Kyle or whatever, but like, I'm probably not going

495
00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:46,199
Speaker 1: to a big birthday dinner unless it's a best friend, Like,

496
00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:50,920
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not into all that. So we were

497
00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:54,600
Speaker 1: talking and I said, so, what's like the general rules,

498
00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:56,400
Speaker 1: because I think he's going to have a super Bowl

499
00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:58,320
Speaker 1: party here with the kids. I said, what do you

500
00:25:58,359 --> 00:26:02,560
Speaker 1: think the general rules are with like if if you're

501
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 1: dating girls, are they going to be here and just

502
00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:09,080
Speaker 1: not be introduced? And he's like, it's really up to you,

503
00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:11,920
Speaker 1: Like I haven't even kind of thought about that, And

504
00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:18,040
Speaker 1: is he dating by the way, yes, oh yes, both

505
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:33,320
Speaker 1: of you are dating both of us are. So I

506
00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:37,040
Speaker 1: don't really know. I mean it's we're in a really

507
00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:41,640
Speaker 1: weird situation because we nest, so like one of us

508
00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:47,359
Speaker 1: is always living in our home, so like if and

509
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:49,600
Speaker 1: when we're not living in our home, the other person

510
00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:52,080
Speaker 1: is not living in another home that we own, Like

511
00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:55,119
Speaker 1: we're at Kyle's and he's at his friend Zach's. Like

512
00:26:55,200 --> 00:27:01,080
Speaker 1: things are very god Kyle and Zach are handling it.

513
00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:06,639
Speaker 1: But I think that's what I said. Our therapist actually asked,

514
00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:10,920
Speaker 1: if it gets serious enough with one of your guys'

515
00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:15,639
Speaker 1: future people, do you want to meet them before they

516
00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:18,760
Speaker 1: meet your kids? And I mean I got emotional when asked,

517
00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:20,639
Speaker 1: and I said, I actually don't I don't know the

518
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:21,920
Speaker 1: answer to that question yet.

519
00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:25,280
Speaker 3: I think that's pretty reasonable, though. I'll tell you why.

520
00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:29,000
Speaker 3: I'd like to know you have small children, right, yeah,

521
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:31,120
Speaker 3: you know, like little Dove and you know, stuff like that.

522
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:34,480
Speaker 2: I would like to know who's around my kids, right.

523
00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:36,480
Speaker 1: But then at where do you draw the line? Like

524
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:38,639
Speaker 1: I could have been like, you know, he had people

525
00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:41,280
Speaker 1: over for a playoffs event, and I know none of

526
00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:43,800
Speaker 1: the girls who was dating were there, but there were girls,

527
00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:45,639
Speaker 1: and there were people I didn't know, and the kids

528
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:48,320
Speaker 1: are there. And do I think anything unsafe was happening.

529
00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:53,280
Speaker 1: Absolutely not. But like, I can't be micro managing who.

530
00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:55,119
Speaker 2: We're talking about somebody that was dating.

531
00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:57,440
Speaker 3: You forgot the whole condition you just put on that

532
00:27:58,040 --> 00:28:01,840
Speaker 3: I know about people coming over and being friendly. We're

533
00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:06,359
Speaker 3: talking about someone that he would be dating consistently, right.

534
00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 1: But if that person that he was dating was just

535
00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:12,640
Speaker 1: here with a group of thirty other people and they

536
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:15,359
Speaker 1: weren't showing that they were dating, would I care or

537
00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:18,880
Speaker 1: would I not? I do not. It can't I can't write.

538
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:22,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's not sure. Hey, listen, the rules have changed,

539
00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:23,320
Speaker 3: So there you go.

540
00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:26,320
Speaker 1: Yeah. So I think that's where it gets tricky. I

541
00:28:26,320 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 1: think you know. Yes, it's easy to say I would

542
00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:32,560
Speaker 1: want to meet the person first, but if there's any

543
00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:36,719
Speaker 1: kind of social interaction, I don't need to be managing that.

544
00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:40,480
Speaker 1: But I guess if it gets to the point where, like, hey,

545
00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:43,800
Speaker 1: I'm taking the kids to dinner with I'm just making

546
00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:48,920
Speaker 1: up a name Janet, right, I would probably want to know.

547
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:50,880
Speaker 1: I wouldn't want Cruz to be like, hey, mom, we

548
00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:54,640
Speaker 1: met Janet tonight at dinner. Her and dad were holding hands.

549
00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, you would like to know them before, and you'd

550
00:28:57,520 --> 00:28:59,120
Speaker 3: like to get to know Janet, or at least be

551
00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:01,160
Speaker 3: introduced to Janet, so it doesn't come out of the.

552
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:03,520
Speaker 1: You know, I don't know that I need to meet Janet.

553
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:05,920
Speaker 2: Oh okay, well then you don't well.

554
00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:08,520
Speaker 1: That, But I'm asking you would if it was reversed,

555
00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:11,680
Speaker 1: would you want to meet Janet? Poor, poor random person

556
00:29:11,760 --> 00:29:13,959
Speaker 1: named Janet that thinks I may be talking about her.

557
00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:15,000
Speaker 1: I'm not. I just made it.

558
00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:19,520
Speaker 3: Let me let me let me roll back thirty years

559
00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:27,360
Speaker 3: in my brain here. Yes, the answer is yes. If

560
00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 3: it was someone that was important, that was going to

561
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:32,400
Speaker 3: be spending time with my children, possibly spending the night

562
00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:37,000
Speaker 3: with you know, my former spouse and the kids getting

563
00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:38,960
Speaker 3: to know them. Yes, I'd like to at least put

564
00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:42,720
Speaker 3: my eyes in energy, you know, I'd like to feel

565
00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:45,240
Speaker 3: that person's energy for a second. I don't think I

566
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:47,720
Speaker 3: get wrapped up in it because I made a choice

567
00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 3: not to. I made a choice to disconnect, So I can't.

568
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:52,240
Speaker 3: You know, you have to be a big girl here

569
00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:56,280
Speaker 3: and say okay, well, and I think it would be

570
00:29:56,400 --> 00:30:00,000
Speaker 3: fair for the opposite if you had someone spending time

571
00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:03,320
Speaker 3: with your children and one has the right to, you know,

572
00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:06,720
Speaker 3: lay eyes on this person and at least meet them

573
00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:09,800
Speaker 3: and you know, look at them, not saying that anybody's

574
00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:11,000
Speaker 3: making bad decisions.

575
00:30:11,120 --> 00:30:13,160
Speaker 2: Let's not do that idiots. Fair.

576
00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:17,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, And I mean I think in hindsight,

577
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:20,800
Speaker 1: you know, when I think about it, you know, my

578
00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:25,360
Speaker 1: relationship with Christina has really evolved through the years. Sure,

579
00:30:25,720 --> 00:30:30,120
Speaker 1: and it took time because of the way it started.

580
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:35,440
Speaker 1: So if we could eliminate that initial but I don't

581
00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:38,000
Speaker 1: know if you can eliminate it. I don't know if

582
00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:42,840
Speaker 1: that feeling like once you're getting divorced, or once you're divorced,

583
00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:47,479
Speaker 1: whether it's mutual decision, one person decided. I don't know

584
00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:49,800
Speaker 1: if those feelings are going to come back like, are

585
00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:52,000
Speaker 1: there feelings of jealousy? Is there going to be feelings?

586
00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:53,880
Speaker 3: I think you have to look at it the same

587
00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:56,600
Speaker 3: way we were talking earlier about grief, in that it's

588
00:30:56,640 --> 00:30:59,560
Speaker 3: not linear, in that it's just sort of one of

589
00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:02,160
Speaker 3: these things that rises and falls. It comes in and out,

590
00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:04,560
Speaker 3: and you're going to have to address it when it

591
00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 3: comes up and not let it take hold of you

592
00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 3: and try to keep it all in perspective.

593
00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:16,240
Speaker 1: I guess that makes sense. This is a fan question, Erica,

594
00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:22,200
Speaker 1: did you ever experience resentment with Tom's exes? Did they

595
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:24,280
Speaker 1: have a say in your relationship with Tom?

596
00:31:24,840 --> 00:31:27,400
Speaker 2: No? No, they did not.

597
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:30,600
Speaker 3: I think that, And I think one of the great

598
00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:33,880
Speaker 3: things is that when I was with Tom, I had

599
00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:36,520
Speaker 3: also been married and divorced, and I was already a mom,

600
00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:39,840
Speaker 3: So I didn't have the unrealistic expectations like I'd already

601
00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:42,920
Speaker 3: been through some life stuff. Myself and Tom had already

602
00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:46,239
Speaker 3: been married twice before, and like I said earlier, I

603
00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:49,920
Speaker 3: was an adult, he had adult children. I kind of

604
00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:53,040
Speaker 3: feel like, whatever happened before is whatever happened before. I

605
00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:55,920
Speaker 3: kind of like, don't want to know, don't care. When

606
00:31:55,960 --> 00:31:58,760
Speaker 3: you're with me, you're with me, and I just And

607
00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:01,720
Speaker 3: it's so funny because, like I was thinking about it now,

608
00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:03,360
Speaker 3: if I was in a relationship, I don't want to

609
00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 3: be in a relationship with somebody that has a crazy

610
00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:10,000
Speaker 3: ex life or crazy children. That's a real turn off

611
00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:13,440
Speaker 3: for me. Yet how you feel about that? But that's

612
00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:15,880
Speaker 3: not something that I'm interested. I'm not interested in raising

613
00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:18,360
Speaker 3: somebody else's kids. Kind of don't want to know your

614
00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:19,480
Speaker 3: and it's not where.

615
00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:20,160
Speaker 2: I'm out in my life.

616
00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:22,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean for me, because I have such young kids,

617
00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:24,959
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be to me. It would be a bigger

618
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:27,680
Speaker 1: red flag. If I met a fifty year old man

619
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:30,600
Speaker 1: who had no kids and was never.

620
00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:32,360
Speaker 2: Married, well, then I agree with.

621
00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:37,280
Speaker 1: Then somebody that's fifty has three kids, divorced ten years ago,

622
00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:38,080
Speaker 1: you know.

623
00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:41,120
Speaker 3: Well, to anybody that's listening, let me just say this.

624
00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:43,959
Speaker 3: If I end up dating your dad, don't worry. I

625
00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:45,680
Speaker 3: don't want to know you, and I'm not trying to

626
00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:48,120
Speaker 3: take you away from you, and i don't want your

627
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:52,160
Speaker 3: fucking money and I'm really not into it, So don't worry.

628
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:55,040
Speaker 3: I don't want to know you, don't give a fuck

629
00:32:55,080 --> 00:32:58,640
Speaker 3: about you, don't give a fuck about your inheritance. I'm

630
00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 3: here to have a good time with your dad. I

631
00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:04,400
Speaker 3: have my own shit going on, and if you know

632
00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:08,080
Speaker 3: anything about me, you know I'm not really interested in

633
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:10,240
Speaker 3: you or your life.

634
00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:11,640
Speaker 2: Now.

635
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:14,960
Speaker 1: If that doesn't that should be your hinge profile.

636
00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:17,720
Speaker 2: Not here feel your dad's money.

637
00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:21,600
Speaker 3: Don't really give a fuck about you or your family traditions.

638
00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:23,160
Speaker 2: I'm just here for a good time.

639
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:26,440
Speaker 1: Well, what if you had to go to Christmas like

640
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:31,040
Speaker 1: you went on a Christmas trip together? Would you?

641
00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:32,720
Speaker 2: No? No? No?

642
00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:34,880
Speaker 3: Now, if I liked this family and I thought they

643
00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:37,880
Speaker 3: were lovely and they liked me, of course, But if

644
00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:41,960
Speaker 3: you're talking about trying to make something work, no, the

645
00:33:42,040 --> 00:33:43,760
Speaker 3: answer is absolutely fucking not.

646
00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:46,040
Speaker 2: If everybody meets.

647
00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:48,600
Speaker 3: And they get along and it's cool, great, I'm like

648
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:51,360
Speaker 3: down to have the best time. But if you think,

649
00:33:51,440 --> 00:33:55,760
Speaker 3: for one ioda I'm going to spend one fucking second

650
00:33:55,760 --> 00:33:59,840
Speaker 3: of what's left of my life trying to assimilate into

651
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:01,200
Speaker 3: some man's family.

652
00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:03,720
Speaker 2: Fuck No, is.

653
00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:05,440
Speaker 1: This why you didn't ever go on a date with

654
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:07,560
Speaker 1: my dad? Because you didn't want to be my stepmom?

655
00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:08,479
Speaker 2: That's right.

656
00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:10,719
Speaker 3: And your dad never wanted to date me, and I

657
00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:14,759
Speaker 3: never wanted to date your dad. That's trueful way your

658
00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:15,640
Speaker 3: dad is a nice name.

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Speaker 1: What am I? Mom? Can we do the pot earlier?

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Speaker 3: I know what, you need to stop right here because

661
00:34:21,920 --> 00:34:23,160
Speaker 3: I'm starting to feel some kind.

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Speaker 2: Of weird way about that. That would just be horrible.

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Speaker 2: But you know what, it's true, and I don't think

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Speaker 2: that you would either.

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00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:34,160
Speaker 3: I am at a face in my life where I

666
00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:36,719
Speaker 3: want to be with people that want to be with me.

667
00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:39,960
Speaker 3: If somebody's lovely and they have great kids, that's wonderful.

668
00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:43,000
Speaker 3: I can guarantee you if I get with someone, I

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00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:45,799
Speaker 3: am not going to mother your children. I am not

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00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:48,080
Speaker 3: going to It's not where I'm at in my life.

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00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:50,359
Speaker 3: It's just not you know. I want people who are

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00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:56,040
Speaker 3: squared away, who feel good, who've got great situations, because

673
00:34:56,080 --> 00:34:57,200
Speaker 3: my shit is nailed.

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Speaker 2: Down, you know well.

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00:34:58,760 --> 00:35:02,680
Speaker 1: Also, going through your Hinge profile that you haven't completed,

676
00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:06,760
Speaker 1: I don't think that you need to have relatability photos.

677
00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:09,799
Speaker 1: I think you just post the photos of you and

678
00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:10,439
Speaker 1: people can.

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00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:12,799
Speaker 3: Do anything very relatable about me. I think that those

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00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:15,200
Speaker 3: who relate will relate. I don't think I should try

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00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:18,239
Speaker 3: to make myself something other than what I really am. Yeah,

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00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:20,960
Speaker 3: that's my pally weird and kind of out there. And

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00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:22,680
Speaker 3: if you get to know me like you've gotten to

684
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:26,400
Speaker 3: know me. You know, I am a regular person. I

685
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:28,440
Speaker 3: just happen to present a little differently.

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Speaker 1: But you also you're a good advice giver and you

687
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Speaker 1: can I mean, granted, like us all you can, you know,

688
00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:39,279
Speaker 1: have a hot head like we all can, but you

689
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:45,000
Speaker 1: actually like have the ability to read people and kind

690
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:50,240
Speaker 1: of you're able to sus out situations that I wouldn't

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00:35:50,239 --> 00:35:51,840
Speaker 1: say everybody has the ability to do.

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00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:53,920
Speaker 3: I think that I'm able to just like take a

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00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:55,920
Speaker 3: step back and look at things and be like, you

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Speaker 3: know what, I don't know if that's the right answer

695
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:03,239
Speaker 3: for this, but I don't have the answer, so you.

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00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:07,480
Speaker 2: Know, I just I try to just take it as

697
00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:08,000
Speaker 2: I see it.

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00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:10,759
Speaker 3: But I'm excited for you when you're dating, and I'm really,

699
00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:12,799
Speaker 3: I'm really I will see this.

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00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:15,239
Speaker 2: And as I was scrolling, I saw you on the

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00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:15,799
Speaker 2: pod and I.

702
00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:19,440
Speaker 3: Have to take this time to say, I'm very proud

703
00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:23,319
Speaker 3: of the way that you're recovering because you.

704
00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:24,760
Speaker 2: Know, you got smacked in the face.

705
00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:30,160
Speaker 1: I smacked myself in the face. I got smacked in

706
00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:30,920
Speaker 1: the face, and.

707
00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:32,400
Speaker 2: I tell you that, but that's part of life.

708
00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:36,680
Speaker 3: It's part of why your people enjoy listening to you

709
00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:41,600
Speaker 3: and enjoy watching you. You've been open and as honest

710
00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:43,520
Speaker 3: as you can be, as one can be, and know

711
00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:48,760
Speaker 3: they don't deserve your you know, entire blood Gud's history.

712
00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:52,320
Speaker 3: But you've done well, and you've picked yourself up and

713
00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 3: dusted yourself off, and that's really all you can ask for,

714
00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:55,640
Speaker 3: So keep going.

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Speaker 1: Really proud of you, Thank you. I really appreciate being

716
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:02,560
Speaker 1: able to talk to you, and I miss doing you

717
00:37:02,560 --> 00:37:07,120
Speaker 1: know what. I'm happy for my situation, but I selfishly

718
00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:12,319
Speaker 1: miss seeing you in person, sane. So I mean, I'm

719
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:15,680
Speaker 1: gonna I'm going to deal with this extension enough. Get

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00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:16,560
Speaker 1: your ass back here.

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00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:18,880
Speaker 2: I tell my two weeks and I'm coming home and

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00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:19,839
Speaker 2: we're going to sit down.

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00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:22,319
Speaker 3: We're going to do a proper catch up. We'll do

724
00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:24,960
Speaker 3: some really good pods and we'll have some good FaceTime.

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00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:28,560
Speaker 1: I'll go back to applying makeup, to making an effort.

726
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:32,960
Speaker 3: I won't be in this corporate apartment, which no shame

727
00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:34,160
Speaker 3: to this corporate apartment.

728
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:36,319
Speaker 2: But you know, I like being with you.

729
00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:38,799
Speaker 1: I like being with you too. But you guys, thanks

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00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:41,120
Speaker 1: for tuning in for another episode of Diamonds in the

731
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Speaker 1: reugh Next week, we are going to do a little

732
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Speaker 1: special Gallantines episode.

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Speaker 2: I think it's a Galantine's Day for us.

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Speaker 1: I think it's a Gallantine's Day. I don't think even

735
00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:56,319
Speaker 1: if you get set up on Hinge prior to them,

736
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Speaker 1: or if I end up going out with the guys,

737
00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:01,080
Speaker 1: I'm going to stay val I don't think I'm getting

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Speaker 1: any Valentine grams.

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Speaker 2: Let me tell you, amen, I'm not either.

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00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:09,920
Speaker 1: Maybe we should spend the night not together, but spend

741
00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:13,240
Speaker 1: the night focusing on guys. Do you need a cameo

742
00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:16,360
Speaker 1: and we make money on Valentine's that.

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00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:18,799
Speaker 2: I've never done a cameo? Is it good?

744
00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:21,920
Speaker 1: It's good? But I this is my issue. If they

745
00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:23,759
Speaker 1: come in and waves, I don't want to do them.

746
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:27,319
Speaker 1: But if I got like forty cameos at once and

747
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:29,839
Speaker 1: could bang them all out on Valentine's Day when I'm

748
00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:33,080
Speaker 1: feeling lonely and sad, I think I could probably do it.

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Speaker 1: That's pretty good money. And then you're like doing something

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Speaker 1: positive on the No, it might.

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Speaker 3: Be interesting to do like a like a Valentine's Day

752
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:42,960
Speaker 3: cameo sing or Christmas time, you know, like those kinds

753
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:44,239
Speaker 3: of things, But I don't think I could do it

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00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:44,960
Speaker 3: on a database.

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00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:48,040
Speaker 2: No, okay, this is Erica. You know you're you're pay

756
00:38:48,120 --> 00:38:48,680
Speaker 2: I heard.

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00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:52,520
Speaker 1: You're turning thirty seven. Hay birthday. Maybe your best year yet?

758
00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:57,680
Speaker 1: Probably not. Probably we're on year five as shit, so

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00:38:57,760 --> 00:38:58,960
Speaker 1: don't take advice from us.

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00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:01,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, they'll take any bye from me.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Well I miss you and we'll be

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00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:05,759
Speaker 1: back next week. You guys, thanks for tuning in to

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00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:06,200
Speaker 1: another one.

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Speaker 3: You later, Bye bye