WEBVTT - Dinner & a Nose Swab 0:00:01.920 --> 0:00:05.320 Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heart Radio Podcast. 0:00:06.440 --> 0:00:09.880 I am so excited because the gangs all here. Guys. 0:00:09.920 --> 0:00:11.080 I haven't forgot about us. 0:00:11.160 --> 0:00:14.239 I know, I mean Easton, I know, I love you. 0:00:14.240 --> 0:00:16.200 You popped on the other like the other week. But 0:00:16.200 --> 0:00:17.160 then we have Mark. 0:00:17.000 --> 0:00:21.759 Two, like, and people have been commenting asking for Where's Mark. 0:00:21.760 --> 0:00:28.200 Where's Yeah they have If you go on the wind 0:00:28.200 --> 0:00:31.600 Down on uh whatever iTunes and you look at the reviews, 0:00:31.680 --> 0:00:34.479 it's like Jana sexex, Where's Mark Easton? 0:00:37.400 --> 0:00:41.760 So it's like it's they're asking where you guys have been? 0:00:41.840 --> 0:00:43.239 So I feel like I kind of need to get 0:00:43.800 --> 0:00:45.920 a catch up Mark, where have you been? What have 0:00:45.960 --> 0:00:47.360 you been doing? Like, how's happy? 0:00:47.360 --> 0:00:50.000 Do you? Guys have been doing the show early and 0:00:50.040 --> 0:00:52.440 so it doesn't work out with the Seacrest schedule. So 0:00:52.479 --> 0:00:54.960 that's the only reason that I haven't been here because 0:00:54.960 --> 0:00:58.800 I love you guys. Everything's been, you know, it's been, 0:00:58.840 --> 0:01:00.880 of course, the weirdest some forever. We did not go 0:01:00.960 --> 0:01:03.960 back to Wisconsin for the first time in our kids' lives. 0:01:04.560 --> 0:01:06.720 Eighteen years since we didn't go back to Wisconsin. 0:01:06.760 --> 0:01:09.000 Did you do Wisconsin for like a fourth of July's 0:01:09.160 --> 0:01:11.160 or just was it always just like a summer vacation. 0:01:11.480 --> 0:01:13.560 It was always summer vacation off and around the fourth 0:01:13.560 --> 0:01:15.920 of July, and always made it back, except for this year. 0:01:15.959 --> 0:01:16.800 We didn't make it back. 0:01:16.840 --> 0:01:21.039 It's just it's two airplanes scare us, and some members 0:01:21.080 --> 0:01:23.839 of the family we've heard of not taking it very seriously, 0:01:23.959 --> 0:01:25.360 and so we can't trust that. 0:01:25.600 --> 0:01:29.119 So we just decided to stay here. But my daughter 0:01:29.240 --> 0:01:29.559 was in. 0:01:29.840 --> 0:01:35.720 A musical, which was I guess commendable that they gave 0:01:35.720 --> 0:01:39.640 it a shot. They were so careful, they had the 0:01:39.680 --> 0:01:44.200 temperature checks, always in masks. They did the whole show 0:01:44.840 --> 0:01:50.480 either in face shields or in their own cubbies, which. 0:01:50.240 --> 0:01:52.720 Made it a little bit hard to follow the storyline. 0:01:52.800 --> 0:01:55.360 But they gave it a shot, and I respect it. 0:01:55.360 --> 0:01:57.200 If there was something to do this summer. 0:01:57.960 --> 0:01:59.800 I mean, how are they like, was it hard for 0:01:59.840 --> 0:02:01.560 them or is it just was it harder for you 0:02:01.640 --> 0:02:03.760 to see that versus how it was for them to 0:02:04.480 --> 0:02:07.960 enact that summer theater with one of those space shields on. 0:02:09.160 --> 0:02:10.960 I think it was a challenge for them, but they 0:02:11.080 --> 0:02:13.040 enjoyed having a place to go, something to do. 0:02:13.560 --> 0:02:13.760 You know. 0:02:13.880 --> 0:02:15.320 She was with a lot of her friends and she 0:02:15.400 --> 0:02:18.320 made new friends, and so it was a great summer activity, 0:02:18.600 --> 0:02:21.000 as strange as it was, but as strange as everything 0:02:21.080 --> 0:02:23.480 is now. And they're resilient. They're amazing how they just 0:02:23.560 --> 0:02:25.480 kind of rolled with everything. I mean, they have hard 0:02:25.560 --> 0:02:27.920 days like we all do, but in general they're doing fine. 0:02:27.919 --> 0:02:29.360 And next week they go back to school. 0:02:29.520 --> 0:02:32.760 Okay, so California is oh on the computer, Okay, yeah, 0:02:32.800 --> 0:02:33.040 you know. 0:02:33.000 --> 0:02:35.080 I think this is this whole thing is just a 0:02:35.120 --> 0:02:39.720 testament to remind all of us adults how resilient kids are, right, 0:02:39.840 --> 0:02:43.320 they roll with the punches better than any anybody else. 0:02:43.440 --> 0:02:45.600 Like this morning, Jolie, when we dropped her off, she's like, Daddy, 0:02:45.639 --> 0:02:49.280 get your mask and yeah, without even skipping a beat. 0:02:49.400 --> 0:02:50.640 Oh yeah, not that, you know. 0:02:51.000 --> 0:02:52.839 It's just it just goes to show that like we 0:02:53.040 --> 0:02:56.000 I mean, obviously we understand the ways that it affects 0:02:56.080 --> 0:02:58.840 us greater than it does our kids. But it's just 0:02:59.200 --> 0:03:02.360 it's inspiring and fulfilling to see that resiliency out of 0:03:02.400 --> 0:03:04.720 your kids, because it just like reminds you, like, all right, 0:03:04.760 --> 0:03:07.600 it's gonna be okay, Like we're good. It's not the 0:03:07.680 --> 0:03:08.200 end of the world. 0:03:09.160 --> 0:03:10.519 Yeah, when is it ending? 0:03:10.560 --> 0:03:10.720 Though? 0:03:12.560 --> 0:03:13.120 Yes? 0:03:14.320 --> 0:03:18.640 Yeah, no, Actually, Mike, I just got home about five 0:03:18.639 --> 0:03:23.080 minutes ago. Right now, it's what is today, Today's Thursday 0:03:24.240 --> 0:03:27.720 when we're recording this. But he's like, oh, did you 0:03:27.720 --> 0:03:30.000 just go get an IVY because I had a like 0:03:30.000 --> 0:03:32.000 a little blood thing or what are those things called, 0:03:32.040 --> 0:03:34.720 like a compression. He's like, did you give blood? 0:03:34.800 --> 0:03:34.960 Get? 0:03:35.840 --> 0:03:39.800 No, I went and got an antibody test. Yeah, And 0:03:39.840 --> 0:03:44.840 so I hear they're not like super accurate, but I 0:03:44.880 --> 0:03:48.160 still wanted to go because I'm still not super convinced 0:03:48.200 --> 0:03:50.120 that I didn't have COVID. 0:03:51.200 --> 0:03:53.400 I mean, even those doctors and nurses were surprised that 0:03:53.400 --> 0:03:54.720 you kept getting negative tests. 0:03:54.880 --> 0:03:58.480 Yeah, so I had I caught like pneumonia a couple 0:03:58.480 --> 0:04:02.240 of weeks ago. And so but I mean the whole 0:04:02.240 --> 0:04:05.320 thing with what's Alyssa Milano because she got all those 0:04:05.320 --> 0:04:07.440 negative tests she had she was super sick, and then 0:04:07.480 --> 0:04:10.440 she got a positive antibody test. So it's just I 0:04:10.440 --> 0:04:12.240 don't know. I just in the back of my mind, 0:04:12.360 --> 0:04:15.200 I'll I'll say I got a test for that reason. 0:04:15.240 --> 0:04:17.960 But also because you know, we're filming a movie right 0:04:17.960 --> 0:04:20.360 now and we have to I don't know how much 0:04:20.360 --> 0:04:23.680 I can actually like legally say, but we had to 0:04:23.720 --> 0:04:28.720 shut down again because a few of the actors tested positive. 0:04:30.640 --> 0:04:35.039 So we have to shut down, and we did yesterday. 0:04:35.160 --> 0:04:38.160 You know, we're we're you know, we all have to 0:04:38.200 --> 0:04:41.120 be retested again and we're all like re quarantining and 0:04:41.920 --> 0:04:44.200 you know, but I was in the scenes with the 0:04:44.279 --> 0:04:47.359 two girls or the two people that did and so 0:04:47.520 --> 0:04:50.080 I have to really like be like and as I've 0:04:50.120 --> 0:04:51.520 started to get like nervous, and all of a sudden, 0:04:51.520 --> 0:04:53.560 my chest felt really heavy and was like, of course 0:04:53.560 --> 0:04:54.800 I'm going to get like I didn't have my mask 0:04:54.839 --> 0:04:56.040 on because we were in the middle of the scene, 0:04:56.040 --> 0:04:58.200 and like it's just like now I have all this 0:04:58.279 --> 0:05:00.280 anxiety and of like I'm freaking out, like, oh my god, 0:05:00.279 --> 0:05:01.440 I'm gonna get it, and am I going to be 0:05:01.480 --> 0:05:03.200 the case that's like down and out? And oh my gosh, 0:05:03.200 --> 0:05:04.800 I just had pneumonia, so like does that mean my 0:05:04.839 --> 0:05:06.640 lungs are more compromised? And so I just start to 0:05:06.720 --> 0:05:09.000 kind of like go down that rabbit hole and it's 0:05:09.000 --> 0:05:11.160 just kind of it's just scary and I hate it. 0:05:11.160 --> 0:05:13.839 It's like there's so much like the fear is so 0:05:14.160 --> 0:05:18.120 incredible with this disease or the you know, the pandemic it. 0:05:18.080 --> 0:05:20.400 Goes back to everything from the beginning. It's unknown the 0:05:20.440 --> 0:05:22.799 whole thing with like, what is it the Ohio senator 0:05:22.880 --> 0:05:24.520 or whatever that was supposed to go to the White 0:05:24.520 --> 0:05:26.320 House and he got tested four days in a row 0:05:26.360 --> 0:05:30.640 and he tested positive, the negative, positive, the negative, and 0:05:30.720 --> 0:05:32.920 it's like, yeah, the governor, whoever it was. It's just like, 0:05:32.920 --> 0:05:34.320 what are you supposed to do when you get that 0:05:34.400 --> 0:05:34.880 kind of stuff? 0:05:34.920 --> 0:05:36.479 Well, and so did Stafford too? Do you see this 0:05:36.480 --> 0:05:40.440 stuff with Michael Stafford or Matthew Stafford the Lions quarterback? 0:05:40.480 --> 0:05:42.640 I mean, he kind of the same thing. And the 0:05:42.680 --> 0:05:44.760 one of the people that got tested there was another 0:05:44.800 --> 0:05:48.080 person on the crew that as well got tested positive. 0:05:49.920 --> 0:05:52.800 She had corona in June, and I was like, you know, 0:05:52.839 --> 0:05:54.640 there's reports whether you can have it or you can't 0:05:54.680 --> 0:05:57.400 have it again. So it's just there's so many conflicting reports, 0:05:57.440 --> 0:06:00.880 and you know, I feel awful for myroducers because they're 0:06:00.920 --> 0:06:02.560 they're stuck in a rock and a hard place. They're 0:06:02.560 --> 0:06:05.880 trying to, you know, continue on and in such a 0:06:05.920 --> 0:06:07.800 weird time, and you know, they're all abiding by the 0:06:07.920 --> 0:06:10.240 rules and they have the all the face shields and 0:06:10.279 --> 0:06:14.080 the masks, and you know, we like nothing. Everything is 0:06:14.120 --> 0:06:17.200 prepackaged foods and like I've been living on in crustables 0:06:17.760 --> 0:06:20.000 and it's just like they're doing the best they can, 0:06:20.040 --> 0:06:24.000 and they made the right decision by you know, halting production, 0:06:24.279 --> 0:06:27.760 sending everyone home, right, But it's just it's it's just 0:06:27.839 --> 0:06:30.040 crazy because it's like are these tests even accurate? 0:06:30.960 --> 0:06:32.640 You know, It's gonna be interesting because we have Eric 0:06:32.640 --> 0:06:35.479 Winter and Russell and Sanchez on later today and She's 0:06:35.520 --> 0:06:38.440 about to go film something and so it'd be interesting 0:06:38.480 --> 0:06:40.560 to have this conversation with them too on you know, 0:06:41.120 --> 0:06:43.159 their thoughts about going into this kind of stuff and 0:06:43.160 --> 0:06:45.839 they're both working actors, so to see their experience with 0:06:45.880 --> 0:06:49.120 it too, because you're experiencing at firsthand right now, and 0:06:49.200 --> 0:06:50.240 that's got to be stressful. 0:06:50.520 --> 0:06:54.719 Well, it's stressful because like I just I want to work, 0:06:54.800 --> 0:06:56.160 you know, but I also want it to be safe 0:06:56.160 --> 0:06:58.520 for people. But I mean, again, the producers are doing awesome. 0:06:58.560 --> 0:07:01.000 They're you know, they're they're doing the right thing by 0:07:01.000 --> 0:07:03.279 making sure but it's just I just wish there was 0:07:03.320 --> 0:07:09.200 a definitive test, Like I is that too much to 0:07:09.240 --> 0:07:10.960 ask for? I feel like, how is this the best? 0:07:10.960 --> 0:07:14.720 You know, like in Armageddon, you're saying that of all 0:07:14.760 --> 0:07:17.880 the people we got, this is the best idea NASA 0:07:17.880 --> 0:07:20.440 can come up with, you know what I mean. 0:07:20.360 --> 0:07:24.120 Like this is the best, great reference, great reference. I 0:07:24.120 --> 0:07:26.640 appreciate that, but it's like, I mean, it's how I 0:07:26.640 --> 0:07:28.440 feel about our presidential candidates. 0:07:28.440 --> 0:07:32.120 But it's very true, like this is the best. 0:07:32.000 --> 0:07:35.480 You got, the greatest country on Earth has to offer. 0:07:37.160 --> 0:07:39.880 Yeah, So I mean, I just like, can't something in 0:07:39.920 --> 0:07:41.640 life just be one hundred percent accurate? 0:07:42.320 --> 0:07:44.600 Nah? Nah, too easy that way. 0:07:45.240 --> 0:07:47.120 I don't know, Mark, what are your thoughts on all 0:07:47.120 --> 0:07:50.320 of it and going back into work versus not or 0:07:50.560 --> 0:07:51.520 all those things? 0:07:52.000 --> 0:07:53.120 I mean, that's a really good question. 0:07:53.200 --> 0:07:55.360 We we had a plan to go back at one point, 0:07:55.360 --> 0:07:57.240 but then everything started to spack again and they scrapped 0:07:57.240 --> 0:07:59.560 that plan. And there's been no other words of going back. 0:07:59.560 --> 0:08:01.600 And that was at least a month and a half ago. 0:08:01.720 --> 0:08:05.560 So I don't see us going back this year. And 0:08:06.800 --> 0:08:09.840 you know, we go back and forth on traveling. Is 0:08:09.880 --> 0:08:13.680 a hotel safe? We did do a hotel it seemed okay. 0:08:14.600 --> 0:08:17.360 It's it's all it's so much of its fear based 0:08:17.360 --> 0:08:19.560 that I think we will have a test eventually that works. 0:08:19.600 --> 0:08:21.560 It's just it's all so new. There's still so much 0:08:21.600 --> 0:08:24.160 we don't know about this virus. There's still so much. 0:08:24.640 --> 0:08:28.160 They say kids may transmit it to adults, they may 0:08:28.240 --> 0:08:30.840 not transmitted to adults. They say kids may have a 0:08:31.600 --> 0:08:34.160 there may be something in your eye that's causing people 0:08:34.160 --> 0:08:36.160 to get it, but kids don't have that is developed yet, 0:08:36.160 --> 0:08:36.880 so they're not a step. 0:08:37.160 --> 0:08:39.680 Like, there's so much we don't know, and so you 0:08:39.800 --> 0:08:42.200 just kind of got to hole up and wait it out. 0:08:42.240 --> 0:08:43.480 And who knows how long it's. 0:08:43.320 --> 0:08:43.800 Going to take. 0:08:44.679 --> 0:08:46.560 I know, that's the thing. I'm like, guys, we're going 0:08:46.640 --> 0:08:49.320 to be filming this movie, like take. 0:08:49.240 --> 0:08:52.520 Three months to shoot it shoot one week a month. 0:08:53.320 --> 0:08:55.760 Well, and kind of like the sad running joke is, 0:08:56.280 --> 0:08:58.560 you know, we started shooting on a Monday. I caught 0:08:58.640 --> 0:09:01.439 the pneumonia on Wednesday, and then you know, we went 0:09:01.480 --> 0:09:03.760 back to work the following Monday. Within wednesdays when we 0:09:03.760 --> 0:09:05.360 shut down again. So it's like we can't even make 0:09:05.400 --> 0:09:09.080 it to a Wednesday. Like but I know, I mean, 0:09:09.120 --> 0:09:12.760 I hope you know they're they're doing everything they can again, 0:09:12.840 --> 0:09:15.760 Like the producers are awesome, Like they're doing everything they 0:09:15.800 --> 0:09:17.640 can to make sure that you know, we're getting all 0:09:17.679 --> 0:09:20.680 tests and being safe and stuff. So you know, the 0:09:20.679 --> 0:09:24.040 the upper respiratory thing that I do think that was 0:09:24.080 --> 0:09:25.920 what I had too, but like you know, who knows, 0:09:26.000 --> 0:09:28.640 but like the doctors are like, that's going around now too, 0:09:28.720 --> 0:09:30.679 and you know, even with like more allergies in August, 0:09:30.720 --> 0:09:32.880 so you just don't know. But you're like any time 0:09:32.920 --> 0:09:34.600 you have a symptom, you're like, oh God, Like I 0:09:34.640 --> 0:09:37.640 take their temperatures every day I'm going around. I take 0:09:37.640 --> 0:09:39.800 Mike's temperature, I take the kids mind temperature. 0:09:39.400 --> 0:09:41.640 Every Well, you kind of did that even before the pandemic, 0:09:41.720 --> 0:09:43.760 so now you have a valid reason for I really did, 0:09:43.800 --> 0:09:44.160 didn't I. 0:09:44.760 --> 0:09:45.200 Yeah. 0:09:45.920 --> 0:09:48.079 One thing that's kind of cool is we are adapting. 0:09:48.440 --> 0:09:50.719 Like like my daughter, my other daughter is in a 0:09:50.800 --> 0:09:53.600 dance class. They have started them up again in. 0:09:53.600 --> 0:09:58.200 A parking lot, spread out wearing masks, and it's like 0:09:58.720 --> 0:10:01.240 these businesses have to figure out something or they're all 0:10:01.280 --> 0:10:03.840 going to go under. So it's been kind of interesting 0:10:03.880 --> 0:10:05.960 to see that and it kind of works. You know, 0:10:06.000 --> 0:10:07.960 they say that you can get your haircut if the 0:10:08.000 --> 0:10:10.320 barber is wearing a mask and you're wearing a mask, 0:10:10.400 --> 0:10:14.280 you're gonna be okay almost for sure. And so if 0:10:14.280 --> 0:10:18.280 that's the case. We can start to adapt as a society. 0:10:18.440 --> 0:10:21.239 We can have dance classes, we can go to restaurants 0:10:21.320 --> 0:10:24.080 kind of. And so that's been interesting to watch the 0:10:24.120 --> 0:10:27.880 resiliency of kind of the people like, Okay, got it. 0:10:27.960 --> 0:10:29.880 We can do this. If we all work together, we 0:10:29.920 --> 0:10:31.080 can make this happen. 0:10:31.200 --> 0:10:34.200 Especially all those small businesses. I don't remember who else 0:10:34.240 --> 0:10:37.960 talking to recently, but in La, you know, there's so 0:10:38.080 --> 0:10:40.400 many little strip malls with all these mom and pop 0:10:40.480 --> 0:10:43.040 businesses and stuff. And even when we're living there, Jana 0:10:43.040 --> 0:10:45.760 and I would always kind of comment it's like, how 0:10:45.760 --> 0:10:49.079 does this random place that specializes in this one little 0:10:49.160 --> 0:10:53.400 niche product or service stay open in this random part 0:10:53.480 --> 0:10:56.080 of North Hollywood or in the valley when there's another 0:10:56.120 --> 0:10:58.160 one just like it a few blocks away that's a 0:10:58.200 --> 0:11:01.439 completely different company. So with all this stuff, like, how 0:11:01.440 --> 0:11:04.079 are these businesses in a place like LA or New 0:11:04.160 --> 0:11:06.319 York that's just so on top of each other when 0:11:06.320 --> 0:11:08.959 there's so much to choose from? Are they even I 0:11:09.000 --> 0:11:11.080 would feel like there'd be empty strip malls like every 0:11:11.080 --> 0:11:13.440 other block now with all this stuff going on. 0:11:13.920 --> 0:11:16.040 Yeah, I mean even in here too, you know, I mean, 0:11:16.120 --> 0:11:19.200 this is the small, little, small city towns. You know, 0:11:19.360 --> 0:11:23.960 mm hmm. It's kind of sad think about that, you 0:11:24.000 --> 0:11:26.320 know what not to like get like super negative. But 0:11:26.360 --> 0:11:28.600 I have been thinking about this that I brought up. 0:11:28.679 --> 0:11:30.439 Is it too? I'm not going to like say who 0:11:30.440 --> 0:11:33.280 it is bring it, but I'm curious to kind of 0:11:33.280 --> 0:11:34.959 get marks thing because this has kind of been wayne 0:11:34.960 --> 0:11:36.480 heavy on me. So I'm not going to say who 0:11:36.480 --> 0:11:39.920 it is, just to be mindful of their their business 0:11:39.920 --> 0:11:43.400 and stuff. But I know someone that is on basically 0:11:43.480 --> 0:11:48.040 life support. They thought he went under for COVID, but 0:11:48.200 --> 0:11:51.079 turns out like while he was under, they found out 0:11:51.080 --> 0:11:54.200 that he had a really aggressive lung disease, like he 0:11:54.280 --> 0:11:58.560 had lung cancer. So now he's on this ventilator keeping 0:11:58.640 --> 0:12:01.679 him alive, but they want to get him healthy enough 0:12:01.760 --> 0:12:05.840 to basically wake him up so he can say goodbye. 0:12:05.920 --> 0:12:07.720 And I guess I was trying to think in my head, 0:12:07.720 --> 0:12:10.560 I'm like, what would you do you want to be 0:12:10.640 --> 0:12:14.040 woken up to say goodbye to your family only to 0:12:14.080 --> 0:12:16.200 know that you're gonna die, or would you want to 0:12:17.120 --> 0:12:20.880 not be woken up and not say goodbye? 0:12:21.840 --> 0:12:23.920 Wow, that is a heavy question. 0:12:23.960 --> 0:12:26.120 I know. I'm sorry, it's just really been weighing on 0:12:26.160 --> 0:12:27.679 me because I'm like, well, of course i'd want to 0:12:27.679 --> 0:12:29.600 say goodbye, but then I'm like, I don't know when 0:12:29.679 --> 0:12:31.839 I don't want to know I'm dying and then I'm 0:12:31.840 --> 0:12:34.120 going to be gone, Like I don't know if I 0:12:34.160 --> 0:12:36.680 could like hold on to that too. So I'm just like, 0:12:36.720 --> 0:12:39.160 it's just been a I never like heard what you thought. 0:12:39.160 --> 0:12:40.680 So I thought it'd be interesting to bring market on 0:12:40.720 --> 0:12:42.319 this too, because I'm like, I don't know what I 0:12:42.360 --> 0:12:43.320 would I don't know. 0:12:43.440 --> 0:12:46.560 I'll answer it for me. For me, this is easy, 0:12:46.920 --> 0:12:52.560 wake me up. I want to know, really, because you know, 0:12:53.640 --> 0:12:57.040 I feel like even in that state, like when he's 0:12:57.080 --> 0:13:00.160 on a machine to be breathing, right, his mind's still 0:13:00.760 --> 0:13:04.160 his soul's still alive, so his mind's thinking, it's like, 0:13:04.160 --> 0:13:07.360 all right, I'm gonna pop out of this you know, 0:13:07.520 --> 0:13:11.280 COVID stuff. I'll get over it. I'll be fine. And 0:13:11.320 --> 0:13:13.560 then if all of a sudden he's gone and his 0:13:13.600 --> 0:13:15.560 soul is just like, man, what what the hell happened? 0:13:15.559 --> 0:13:17.800 Like I just you know, died. He didn't know that 0:13:17.800 --> 0:13:21.080 That would just feel unsettling for my soul to know, 0:13:21.240 --> 0:13:23.600 like I didn't get the explanation, and they just like, no, 0:13:23.720 --> 0:13:25.200 let's not wake him up. I would want that. 0:13:25.280 --> 0:13:27.920 Oh, they obviously like if he can wake up, that's 0:13:27.920 --> 0:13:30.240 what they want. Like, but like he's you know, so 0:13:31.559 --> 0:13:34.080 like it's not like they're not waking him up because. 0:13:33.840 --> 0:13:36.080 It's a choice, no, for sure, but they're. 0:13:35.920 --> 0:13:38.160 Just like they're holding out hope and not pulling the 0:13:38.160 --> 0:13:39.720 plug to hope that he can. 0:13:39.600 --> 0:13:41.320 Wake up so they can tell him he's. 0:13:41.160 --> 0:13:42.760 Gonna die, so they can tell him he's gonna die. 0:13:43.000 --> 0:13:45.640 Right, I would, Yeah, I would want to. I would 0:13:45.679 --> 0:13:48.599 want to for hope to be held out so I 0:13:48.640 --> 0:13:51.080 could wake up and I could find out myself and 0:13:51.080 --> 0:13:52.120 then I could say goodbye. 0:13:53.679 --> 0:13:57.720 That's hot, Mark, I mean, I agree to a point. 0:13:57.800 --> 0:14:00.200 I think that I'm not sure about the whole soul thing, 0:14:00.280 --> 0:14:02.760 but I think that if I'm in a coma and 0:14:03.600 --> 0:14:05.880 I'm just going to fade away, it's. 0:14:05.679 --> 0:14:08.559 Almost the easy way out. It's almost a cop. 0:14:08.320 --> 0:14:11.640 Out on my part to just just head into the 0:14:11.720 --> 0:14:13.120 darkness and catch you later. 0:14:13.240 --> 0:14:15.640 So the emotional aspect of it. 0:14:15.679 --> 0:14:18.079 Right, exactly right, because it would be very emotional and 0:14:18.160 --> 0:14:20.920 heart but I would also want to create a memorable, 0:14:21.240 --> 0:14:26.640 wonderful last moment with my family, with my daughters where 0:14:26.680 --> 0:14:29.720 I give them some wars of wisdom, I make them. 0:14:29.600 --> 0:14:30.800 Laugh one last time. 0:14:30.920 --> 0:14:33.040 You know, I'd want to have a memory that they 0:14:33.080 --> 0:14:36.040 can hold on to forever, rather than just watching me. 0:14:36.040 --> 0:14:39.080 Fade right, because they all go that you you know, 0:14:39.280 --> 0:14:43.240 that person goes under is in a coma, and everyone 0:14:44.560 --> 0:14:47.040 close to him is like not thinking they're gonna have 0:14:47.080 --> 0:14:49.960 to say goodbye, right right, So it's like, exactly, it's 0:14:50.000 --> 0:14:52.520 almost more for your family or your kids. 0:14:53.200 --> 0:14:55.040 They're going to have a last memory of you, So 0:14:55.120 --> 0:14:56.960 let's craft a good one rather than have it be 0:14:57.000 --> 0:14:59.200 whatever random last thing was before you. 0:14:59.160 --> 0:14:59.640 Fell into it. 0:14:59.680 --> 0:15:01.200 I want to give you know, I want my kids 0:15:01.200 --> 0:15:03.520 to be able to hug me yeah, and get a 0:15:03.600 --> 0:15:07.320 hug in return one more time. Let me squeeze them 0:15:07.360 --> 0:15:09.800 with all I have and tell them Daddy will always 0:15:09.800 --> 0:15:10.120 be there. 0:15:11.400 --> 0:15:13.960 It would be so hard to resist the being like 0:15:14.600 --> 0:15:18.160 there's buried treasure and it's. 0:15:20.080 --> 0:15:22.520 Something like or like I never told you the family 0:15:22.640 --> 0:15:29.440 secret your Aunt's. 0:15:26.760 --> 0:15:30.760 So hard to resist that kind of thing, So I 0:15:30.800 --> 0:15:31.600 don't think I could do. 0:15:31.760 --> 0:15:34.160 He wants to be able to wake up so he 0:15:34.200 --> 0:15:37.040 can mess with his family. I can troll my children 0:15:37.080 --> 0:15:39.640 one last time before checking out. I have a million 0:15:39.720 --> 0:15:47.840 dollars buried in and fade out. Your kids, It's been 0:15:47.880 --> 0:15:50.200 the rest of their lives, digging up everywhere. 0:15:50.640 --> 0:15:52.160 I pulled the doctor, and I'm like, okay, you got 0:15:52.200 --> 0:15:53.920 to pull the plug. Like when I close my eyes, 0:15:54.240 --> 0:15:57.040 if I keep going and checkt. 0:15:56.800 --> 0:15:59.480 Me with something I don't know, he doesn't pull it 0:15:59.520 --> 0:16:00.560 yet You're like, doc. 0:16:00.520 --> 0:16:05.440 Now now, I mean, I mean, ultimately, I would obviously 0:16:05.480 --> 0:16:08.000 want to say goodbye, like that's ultimately. But I was 0:16:08.080 --> 0:16:09.080 struggling with that. 0:16:09.400 --> 0:16:11.040 No, I get it is tough. 0:16:11.680 --> 0:16:13.480 It is tough because I would never want to know 0:16:13.560 --> 0:16:15.200 when I'm dying well. 0:16:15.200 --> 0:16:17.680 It's like the question that we've talked about before. It's like, 0:16:17.720 --> 0:16:20.200 would you rather know how or when you die? 0:16:21.000 --> 0:16:23.320 Well? And this is the case in that scenario when, 0:16:23.920 --> 0:16:26.840 because then I would know how many days I have 0:16:26.920 --> 0:16:30.360 left to cherish them. But in this one, it's like 0:16:30.400 --> 0:16:33.240 you're up, you're down, you know what I mean, Like. 0:16:33.240 --> 0:16:35.640 Not like I mean, yeah, I mean you don't know 0:16:35.640 --> 0:16:38.240 how long you this question would have but yeah, it's 0:16:38.560 --> 0:16:39.040 but if you. 0:16:39.080 --> 0:16:42.120 Know when, Like if I knew on a specific day, 0:16:42.240 --> 0:16:44.720 I would just like wrap myself in bubble wrap and 0:16:44.840 --> 0:16:45.480 get in bad. 0:16:45.560 --> 0:16:47.840 And I'm not moving because you can't get me. 0:16:48.680 --> 0:16:52.120 It's like final destination, your ceiling, your ceiling field will 0:16:52.160 --> 0:16:55.200 fall down and like cut your head off. Maybe it's 0:16:55.240 --> 0:16:59.520 going to find a way step it. 0:17:00.120 --> 0:17:00.880 I read a great. 0:17:00.680 --> 0:17:02.560 Book called They Both Die at the End, and it's 0:17:02.600 --> 0:17:05.680 about uh in a world where you get a call 0:17:05.960 --> 0:17:08.280 that morning saying you are dying today so you can 0:17:08.320 --> 0:17:10.520 get your affairs in order and enjoy your last day 0:17:10.520 --> 0:17:12.720 on earth, and at some point during that day you're 0:17:12.720 --> 0:17:15.000 gonna you're gonna, you're gonna die. It's a great book, 0:17:15.000 --> 0:17:16.320 and I don't want to spoilt the ending for you're 0:17:16.320 --> 0:17:19.440 gonna ask that question. I mean, that's the tides of 0:17:19.480 --> 0:17:23.760 the book. But but that's that questions if. 0:17:23.680 --> 0:17:25.600 You know when, but you don't know, how how do 0:17:25.640 --> 0:17:26.840 you live that final day? 0:17:28.000 --> 0:17:30.119 I think I'm just so honestly, I think, like with 0:17:30.160 --> 0:17:32.080 the core of it, I think I'm so afraid of 0:17:32.160 --> 0:17:36.040 dying because of my kids. Like you would be fine 0:17:36.359 --> 0:17:38.040 my kids, Like no. 0:17:38.080 --> 0:17:39.679 I mean, like I don't know, like you mean, like 0:17:40.160 --> 0:17:41.840 i'd be fine if you died, or I'd be fine 0:17:41.840 --> 0:17:42.600 if I died, know. 0:17:42.600 --> 0:17:44.639 Like you would be okay, Like you wouldn't be okay, 0:17:44.680 --> 0:17:47.600 But like you'll survive if I died, Like my kids 0:17:47.640 --> 0:17:50.600 like to not have like their mom, you know, Like 0:17:50.760 --> 0:17:53.560 I think I've just like ever since i've had Jase, 0:17:53.640 --> 0:17:55.880 I've just been like and I think with the Corona stuff, 0:17:55.880 --> 0:17:57.399 I'm like, I don't want to die. Like when I 0:17:57.400 --> 0:17:59.439 was in the hospital, you know, for the morning thing, 0:17:59.440 --> 0:18:01.000 I'm like, do you think I have COVID? Am I 0:18:01.000 --> 0:18:02.439 going to die? And then nurses like, you're not going 0:18:02.520 --> 0:18:03.480