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Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heart Radio Podcast.

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Speaker 2: I am so excited because the gangs all here. Guys.

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Speaker 3: I haven't forgot about us.

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Speaker 2: I know, I mean Easton, I know, I love you.

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Speaker 2: You popped on the other like the other week. But

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Speaker 2: then we have Mark.

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Speaker 3: Two, like, and people have been commenting asking for Where's Mark.

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Speaker 4: Where's Yeah they have If you go on the wind

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Speaker 4: Down on uh whatever iTunes and you look at the reviews,

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Speaker 4: it's like Jana sexex, Where's Mark Easton?

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Speaker 2: So it's like it's they're asking where you guys have been?

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Speaker 2: So I feel like I kind of need to get

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Speaker 2: a catch up Mark, where have you been? What have

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Speaker 2: you been doing? Like, how's happy?

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Speaker 1: Do you? Guys have been doing the show early and

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Speaker 1: so it doesn't work out with the Seacrest schedule. So

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Speaker 1: that's the only reason that I haven't been here because

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Speaker 1: I love you guys. Everything's been, you know, it's been,

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Speaker 1: of course, the weirdest some forever. We did not go

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Speaker 1: back to Wisconsin for the first time in our kids' lives.

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Speaker 1: Eighteen years since we didn't go back to Wisconsin.

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Speaker 2: Did you do Wisconsin for like a fourth of July's

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Speaker 2: or just was it always just like a summer vacation.

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Speaker 1: It was always summer vacation off and around the fourth

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Speaker 1: of July, and always made it back, except for this year.

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Speaker 5: We didn't make it back.

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Speaker 1: It's just it's two airplanes scare us, and some members

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Speaker 1: and so we can't trust that.

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Speaker 5: So we just decided to stay here. But my daughter

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Speaker 5: was in.

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Speaker 1: A musical, which was I guess commendable that they gave

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Speaker 1: it a shot. They were so careful, they had the

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Speaker 1: temperature checks, always in masks. They did the whole show

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Speaker 1: either in face shields or in their own cubbies, which.

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Speaker 5: Made it a little bit hard to follow the storyline.

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Speaker 5: But they gave it a shot, and I respect it.

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Speaker 5: If there was something to do this summer.

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Speaker 2: I mean, how are they like, was it hard for

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Speaker 2: them or is it just was it harder for you

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Speaker 2: to see that versus how it was for them to

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Speaker 2: enact that summer theater with one of those space shields on.

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Speaker 1: I think it was a challenge for them, but they

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Speaker 1: enjoyed having a place to go, something to do.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 1: She was with a lot of her friends and she

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Speaker 1: made new friends, and so it was a great summer activity,

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Speaker 1: as strange as it was, but as strange as everything

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Speaker 1: is now. And they're resilient. They're amazing how they just

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Speaker 1: kind of rolled with everything. I mean, they have hard

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Speaker 1: days like we all do, but in general they're doing fine.

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Speaker 5: And next week they go back to school.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so California is oh on the computer, Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 2: you know.

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Speaker 3: I think this is this whole thing is just a

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Speaker 3: testament to remind all of us adults how resilient kids are, right,

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Speaker 3: they roll with the punches better than any anybody else.

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Speaker 2: Like this morning, Jolie, when we dropped her off, she's like, Daddy,

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Speaker 2: get your mask and yeah, without even skipping a beat.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, not that, you know.

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Speaker 3: It's just it just goes to show that like we

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Speaker 3: I mean, obviously we understand the ways that it affects

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Speaker 3: us greater than it does our kids. But it's just

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Speaker 3: it's inspiring and fulfilling to see that resiliency out of

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Speaker 3: your kids, because it just like reminds you, like, all right,

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Speaker 3: it's gonna be okay, Like we're good. It's not the

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Speaker 2: Yeah, when is it ending?

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Speaker 3: Though?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, Actually, Mike, I just got home about five

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Speaker 2: when we're recording this. But he's like, oh, did you

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Speaker 2: just go get an IVY because I had a like

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Speaker 2: like a compression. He's like, did you give blood?

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Speaker 3: Get?

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Speaker 2: No, I went and got an antibody test. Yeah, And

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Speaker 2: so I hear they're not like super accurate, but I

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Speaker 3: I mean, even those doctors and nurses were surprised that

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Speaker 3: you kept getting negative tests.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so I had I caught like pneumonia a couple

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Speaker 2: But also because you know, we're filming a movie right

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Speaker 2: shut down again because a few of the actors tested positive.

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Speaker 2: So we have to shut down, and we did yesterday.

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Speaker 2: You know, we're we're you know, we all have to

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Speaker 2: be retested again and we're all like re quarantining and

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Speaker 2: I have to really like be like and as I've

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Speaker 2: started to get like nervous, and all of a sudden,

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Speaker 2: It's like there's so much like the fear is so

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Speaker 2: incredible with this disease or the you know, the pandemic it.

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Speaker 3: Goes back to everything from the beginning. It's unknown the

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Speaker 3: whole thing with like, what is it the Ohio senator

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Speaker 3: it's like, yeah, the governor, whoever it was. It's just like,

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Speaker 2: Well, and so did Stafford too? Do you see this

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Speaker 2: I mean, he kind of the same thing. And the

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Speaker 2: one of the people that got tested there was another

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Speaker 2: and you know, I feel awful for myroducers because they're

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Speaker 2: and it's just like they're doing the best they can,

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Speaker 2: and they made the right decision by you know, halting production,

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Speaker 3: You know, It's gonna be interesting because we have Eric

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Speaker 3: to have this conversation with them too on you know,

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Speaker 3: they're both working actors, so to see their experience with

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Speaker 3: that's got to be stressful.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's stressful because like I just I want to work,

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Speaker 2: They're you know, they're they're doing the right thing by

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Speaker 2: You know, like in Armageddon, you're saying that of all

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Speaker 3: Like this is the best, great reference, great reference. I

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Speaker 2: But it's very true, like this is the best.

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Speaker 3: You got, the greatest country on Earth has to offer.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So I mean, I just like, can't something in

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Speaker 3: Nah? Nah, too easy that way.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, Mark, what are your thoughts on all

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Speaker 5: I mean, that's a really good question.

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Speaker 1: We we had a plan to go back at one point,

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Speaker 1: It's just it's all so new. There's still so much

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Speaker 5: Like, there's so much we don't know, and so you

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Speaker 3: Going to take.

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Speaker 2: I know, that's the thing. I'm like, guys, we're going

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Speaker 3: Three months to shoot it shoot one week a month.

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Speaker 2: Well, and kind of like the sad running joke is,

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Speaker 2: I hope you know they're they're doing everything they can again,

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Speaker 2: the upper respiratory thing that I do think that was

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Speaker 2: take their temperatures every day I'm going around. I take

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Speaker 2: Mike's temperature, I take the kids mind temperature.

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Speaker 3: Every Well, you kind of did that even before the pandemic,

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Speaker 3: so now you have a valid reason for I really did,

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: One thing that's kind of cool is we are adapting.

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Speaker 3: I'll answer it for me. For me, this is easy,

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Speaker 2: Oh, they obviously like if he can wake up, that's

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Speaker 3: It's a choice, no, for sure, but they're.

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Speaker 2: Just like they're holding out hope and not pulling the

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Speaker 3: Wake up so they can tell him he's.

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Speaker 2: Gonna die, so they can tell him he's gonna die.

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Speaker 3: Right, I would, Yeah, I would want to. I would

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Speaker 5: That's hot, Mark, I mean, I agree to a point.

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Speaker 5: Almost the easy way out. It's almost a cop.

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Speaker 3: So the emotional aspect of it.

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Speaker 5: Laugh one last time.

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Speaker 1: You know, I'd want to have a memory that they

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Speaker 3: Fade right, because they all go that you you know,

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Speaker 1: They're going to have a last memory of you, So

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Speaker 5: It would be so hard to resist the being like

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Speaker 5: So hard to resist that kind of thing, So I

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Speaker 2: Now now, I mean, I mean, ultimately, I would obviously

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Speaker 3: No, I get it is tough.

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Speaker 2: It is tough because I would never want to know

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Speaker 5: And I'm not moving because you can't get me.

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Speaker 2: Like you would be okay, Like you wouldn't be okay,

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Speaker 2: But like you'll survive if I died, Like my kids

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Speaker 5: It's deep, but you're not fraid for you.

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Speaker 1: You're afraid for your the people you leave behind, that's

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Speaker 2: Yeah, totally. Oh, anyways, how do we lighten this on? Sorry, guys,

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Speaker 2: here's one thing I will say, though, I'm starting to

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Speaker 3: I've been trying to get you to do that for years.

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Speaker 2: Well I'm doing it now. I had a girl, so

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Speaker 2: I'm like, no, you're not Jana. You're going to be fine.

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Speaker 2: It's all going to be good. You're going to live

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Speaker 3: All right. I'll lighten this up and just say something

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Speaker 3: A story out of left field. You've heard this one before,

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Speaker 3: let's sit down, let's talk about it. Like, all right,

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Speaker 3: let's do it. So she grabs a book she kind

437
00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:49,600
Speaker 3: of looks at it and she's like, uh so, what

438
00:19:49,720 --> 00:19:51,520
Speaker 3: was it about? And I started giving her some you know,

439
00:19:52,320 --> 00:19:54,200
Speaker 3: notes on what it's about. And then she's like, oh,

440
00:19:54,240 --> 00:19:58,240
Speaker 3: what was the main character's name? And I'm like, you know,

441
00:19:59,240 --> 00:20:01,480
Speaker 3: he didn't actually have an He didn't he didn't have

442
00:20:01,520 --> 00:20:06,320
Speaker 3: a name. And she's like, really, you didn't have any

443
00:20:06,400 --> 00:20:07,760
Speaker 3: I was like, no, they went through the whole book.

444
00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:10,040
Speaker 3: He didn't have a name, just called him him or he.

445
00:20:11,280 --> 00:20:14,160
Speaker 3: She flips the book over, reads the back, like summary

446
00:20:14,280 --> 00:20:16,920
Speaker 3: of the book. On the back of the book. It's like, oh,

447
00:20:17,040 --> 00:20:20,760
Speaker 3: it shows right here his name is Danny. Like you

448
00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:23,879
Speaker 3: didn't even read the back of the book. You're gonna

449
00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:26,000
Speaker 3: sit here and lie to me and not even read

450
00:20:26,400 --> 00:20:28,159
Speaker 3: the ten words on the back of the book that

451
00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:30,800
Speaker 3: say to main character's name is like Danny. I was like,

452
00:20:31,480 --> 00:20:35,080
Speaker 3: you got me. Yeah, I was like ten years old, Like,

453
00:20:35,760 --> 00:20:39,760
Speaker 3: ah my bad. Classic.

454
00:20:40,280 --> 00:20:42,440
Speaker 2: Well, we should probably get someone on that can help us,

455
00:20:42,520 --> 00:20:46,439
Speaker 2: like a child therapist, because I really would like to know,

456
00:20:46,600 --> 00:20:48,199
Speaker 2: you know, just because of the situation like when you

457
00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:49,160
Speaker 2: were a kid, and then you.

458
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Speaker 3: Know, or we can get some other parents and Eric

459
00:20:51,200 --> 00:20:53,440
Speaker 3: Winter and Ruslyn Sanchez.

460
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Speaker 2: Well actually they're in the waiting room. So let's take

461
00:20:55,119 --> 00:21:09,120
Speaker 2: a break and let's get him on boom.

462
00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:11,560
Speaker 3: So, like we said, we wanted two other super parents

463
00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:13,040
Speaker 3: to join in on some of the topics we were

464
00:21:13,080 --> 00:21:14,919
Speaker 3: talking about, and they have some exciting things going on.

465
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Speaker 3: So let's welcome Eric Winter and Rosalind Sanchez.

466
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Speaker 6: For having us.

467
00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:24,160
Speaker 2: Lah okay, because we just started. We were just talking

468
00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:29,880
Speaker 2: about Corona and everything going on. So I'm gonna I'm

469
00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:32,680
Speaker 2: doing a movie right now. And we had to shut

470
00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:36,959
Speaker 2: down because of some positive tests, and so I've just

471
00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:39,440
Speaker 2: been like semi freaking out and I'm like, oh my god,

472
00:21:39,440 --> 00:21:41,400
Speaker 2: it did I have it? Am I gonna get it?

473
00:21:41,520 --> 00:21:43,919
Speaker 2: You know? And I heard that you guys had it?

474
00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:46,199
Speaker 2: So what were your symptoms? How did you get it? Like,

475
00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:47,240
Speaker 2: I just I need to know.

476
00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:52,840
Speaker 7: We don't know how we got it. The Yeah, we

477
00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:56,040
Speaker 7: were like super crazy, super crazy careful.

478
00:21:56,119 --> 00:21:56,639
Speaker 2: And then.

479
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Speaker 7: A little boy had he's trying to have he had

480
00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:03,480
Speaker 7: a fever one night the day before. The nanny was

481
00:22:03,680 --> 00:22:05,960
Speaker 7: like came to work with like allergies, you know. I

482
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Speaker 7: mean like like she's like I don't feel well. I

483
00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:09,320
Speaker 7: think I have allergies. But we didn't think anything of

484
00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:11,520
Speaker 7: it because she's super responsible and she works here all

485
00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:14,840
Speaker 7: the time, so we're like, okay. The next day, Dylan

486
00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:19,119
Speaker 7: gets a fever. Sunday the daughter gets a fever. So

487
00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:20,600
Speaker 7: not both kids have a fever.

488
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Speaker 6: No, no sniffles, no, nothing like twenty four hours.

489
00:22:23,520 --> 00:22:23,760
Speaker 1: Yes.

490
00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:26,480
Speaker 7: So I was like, I'm not happy about this. So

491
00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:29,560
Speaker 7: I texted the nanny saying, how are you feeling, you know,

492
00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:32,760
Speaker 7: because the kids have a fever, and she's like, you

493
00:22:32,800 --> 00:22:34,399
Speaker 7: know what, I'm not feeling great. I don't think I

494
00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:35,960
Speaker 7: should go to work Monday. I'm going to do the

495
00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:40,360
Speaker 7: COVID test. We're still in denial thinking it's not COVID.

496
00:22:40,560 --> 00:22:42,760
Speaker 7: You know, there's no freaking way. We're so careful, there's

497
00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:47,160
Speaker 7: no way they're not. Fast forward to Tuesday, she's positive.

498
00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:51,280
Speaker 7: Then by then I am wiped out in bed fever.

499
00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:54,960
Speaker 7: I'm dying and everybody's possied.

500
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Speaker 6: But the range went completely all over the place. So

501
00:22:57,359 --> 00:23:01,800
Speaker 6: our nanny was probably never more than like a solid cold.

502
00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:05,800
Speaker 6: I got symptoms the same day she did, but later

503
00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:08,000
Speaker 6: in the day I was never worse than like a

504
00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:09,000
Speaker 6: solid cold.

505
00:23:09,520 --> 00:23:11,480
Speaker 7: No, the nanny will had diarrhea. Danny did it.

506
00:23:11,640 --> 00:23:14,840
Speaker 6: No fever, So she's thrilled that you just said we

507
00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:20,560
Speaker 6: love it, but still like that doesn't make you think COVID.

508
00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:22,520
Speaker 6: You could have a you could ate something bad. You know,

509
00:23:23,200 --> 00:23:25,960
Speaker 6: her symptoms were mild. She wasn't in the hospital, no

510
00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:29,760
Speaker 6: breathing issues, mind, I was pretty mild. The kids were

511
00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:32,479
Speaker 6: over it, whatever symptoms they had. In twenty four hours,

512
00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:37,560
Speaker 6: my mom got it zero symptoms, completely asymptomatic. She's gonna

513
00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:40,520
Speaker 6: be seventy next year, had pneumonia last year, so she

514
00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:44,760
Speaker 6: should be super high risk, totally asymptomatic. And then raz

515
00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:48,920
Speaker 6: has like I would say, like a solid high end flu.

516
00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:52,720
Speaker 6: And that was like the extent of it really bizarre.

517
00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:55,240
Speaker 6: I mean, you did get the bad loss of taste.

518
00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:58,240
Speaker 7: I lost, like when they tell you you can't taste

519
00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:02,680
Speaker 7: or smell anything is no joke. Zero That would zeer

520
00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:06,440
Speaker 7: me out, zero zero, It freaked me out.

521
00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:06,760
Speaker 4: I was.

522
00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:11,240
Speaker 7: It is the most disturbing, like like nothing nothing. Then

523
00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:13,159
Speaker 7: you don't want to eat because I know for the

524
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:15,000
Speaker 7: for the three days I didn't eat. Then when I

525
00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:16,879
Speaker 7: started eating, I kept telling Eric, I don't want I

526
00:24:16,880 --> 00:24:18,800
Speaker 7: don't want to eat. I can't taste anything, like I

527
00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:21,880
Speaker 7: feel like I'm eating nothing. It is the most bizarre

528
00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:24,439
Speaker 7: symptom to me. I mean, besides the fever and the

529
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:27,760
Speaker 7: body aches, I was miserable, but the taste was out

530
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Speaker 7: of control.

531
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Speaker 6: Here's what I will say. The testing system is a mess,

532
00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:32,400
Speaker 6: all well, and.

533
00:24:32,359 --> 00:24:34,640
Speaker 2: That's and that's the thing, because it's like the one

534
00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:37,840
Speaker 2: girl that tested positive had it in June. The other one, like,

535
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:41,200
Speaker 2: you know, she has zero symptoms. The one other one

536
00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:44,199
Speaker 2: has the stuff you knows, so like, okay, maybe, but

537
00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:46,640
Speaker 2: it's just I feel like you're there's so many false negatives,

538
00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:49,080
Speaker 2: false positives, like I'm just like and then you know,

539
00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:51,840
Speaker 2: when working on a movie too, and the marazzlyd you're

540
00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:53,960
Speaker 2: about to leave for you know, five weeks to shoot

541
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Speaker 2: a movie. It's like when someone gets it, it's like

542
00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:58,000
Speaker 2: you have to shut down. It's like and then you're

543
00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:00,399
Speaker 2: just like left worrying like when and are we going

544
00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:01,399
Speaker 2: to finish this?

545
00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:01,840
Speaker 4: You know?

546
00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:02,760
Speaker 3: I know?

547
00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:05,240
Speaker 7: Oh my, So so what's what are they telling you?

548
00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:07,040
Speaker 7: What is production telling you? You shut down? Like when

549
00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:08,440
Speaker 7: can you come back two weeks?

550
00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:11,960
Speaker 2: Well, it depends if they get If the people get

551
00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:15,040
Speaker 2: two more positives, then we shut down for fourteen days.

552
00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:16,880
Speaker 2: But if not, if they are like if they get

553
00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:18,720
Speaker 2: two negatives in a row, then we can go back

554
00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:21,520
Speaker 2: on Monday. So it's just okay, it's a waiting to.

555
00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:25,119
Speaker 6: Get you guys. Did they do nasal swab with you guys? Yeah,

556
00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:27,320
Speaker 6: So that's the most accurate that we found because we

557
00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:29,560
Speaker 6: did a bunch of We did nasal and we did

558
00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:31,320
Speaker 6: the oral saliva.

559
00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:33,240
Speaker 7: Even blood work you did because of well, I did.

560
00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:36,119
Speaker 6: The finger prick. Finger prick says I'd never even been exposed.

561
00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:40,920
Speaker 6: So that's how inaccurate that is. I'm like perfect, I'm

562
00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:44,879
Speaker 6: perfect with the finger prick, the saliva I had it once,

563
00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:49,199
Speaker 6: didn't have it two other times, and then with the

564
00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:50,639
Speaker 6: nasal swab had it.

565
00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:53,040
Speaker 7: Yeah, it's really there's confusing.

566
00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:56,320
Speaker 6: Thousands and thousands of people doing these like the oral

567
00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:59,679
Speaker 6: swab in LA and they're all probably being tested negative

568
00:25:59,680 --> 00:26:02,400
Speaker 6: and guarantee you twenty five percent were positive.

569
00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 3: Well, that's what's so crazy. It's just like the fact

570
00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:09,480
Speaker 3: that whether it's the governor of Ohio or US or

571
00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:13,200
Speaker 3: anyone getting tested, the fact that it's just false negative.

572
00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:15,879
Speaker 3: Oh it's probably a false positive. The fact that false

573
00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:19,080
Speaker 3: negative positives being thrown around that much just gives me

574
00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:23,159
Speaker 3: no reassurance at all. Because Jana, our story actually almost

575
00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:25,400
Speaker 3: mirrored what you guys were saying about the kids, because

576
00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:27,439
Speaker 3: like a week and a half ago, same thing. Our

577
00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:31,040
Speaker 3: daughter comes home running nose, has it for two days,

578
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:33,679
Speaker 3: then our son gets it, same thing, nothing more than

579
00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:36,000
Speaker 3: a running nose. Then Jana and I a week and

580
00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:39,400
Speaker 3: a half ago, get it. Mine was like you eric,

581
00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:42,040
Speaker 3: like a cold. I was good after twenty four to

582
00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:44,600
Speaker 3: forty eight hours. I was good. And Jana hers ends

583
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:47,919
Speaker 3: up turning it into pretty much pneumonia and she was

584
00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:51,159
Speaker 3: like going to the hospital and was They actually had

585
00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:53,600
Speaker 3: to cut three days of production last week because of her.

586
00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:58,600
Speaker 7: Okay, here you are blaming the COVID pace.

587
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:02,040
Speaker 3: And then and then they can't even get a full

588
00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:03,440
Speaker 3: week because three days in the shoot they had to

589
00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:05,440
Speaker 3: cancel because of her. And now this week you get

590
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:07,720
Speaker 3: those people that test positive for COVID. They haven't even

591
00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:09,680
Speaker 3: been able to get through a Wednesday yet.

592
00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 2: Oh my, but like, but I test a negative.

593
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:18,000
Speaker 6: And I don't know, think you just had like a

594
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:19,160
Speaker 6: like a cold or flu.

595
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:21,160
Speaker 2: I don't know.

596
00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:25,240
Speaker 3: Even the doctors and nurses were surprised that she got

597
00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:26,080
Speaker 3: another negative test.

598
00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:28,320
Speaker 2: When she was feeling that bad, I went and got

599
00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:30,199
Speaker 2: an antibody test just to see even though I know

600
00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:32,640
Speaker 2: those are inaccurate too, but like just to like see

601
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:34,439
Speaker 2: Drew blood.

602
00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:36,479
Speaker 6: Yeah, no, that's supposed to be the most accurate. If

603
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:38,560
Speaker 6: you drop blood. Okay, what did you say?

604
00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:40,480
Speaker 2: I get it in two days?

605
00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:42,720
Speaker 6: Okay, so if it then, then you'll know because if

606
00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:44,840
Speaker 6: you've never been exposed, then you were definitely negative.

607
00:27:45,320 --> 00:27:48,400
Speaker 2: That's crazy. But okay, but how okay? Can this gives

608
00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:50,879
Speaker 2: me so much anxiety? Like does it not as anxiety

609
00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:51,639
Speaker 2: or is it just me?

610
00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 6: It's somebody's making a lot of money off these tests.

611
00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:57,840
Speaker 6: Somebody is making a lot of money off these tests,

612
00:27:57,840 --> 00:28:00,879
Speaker 6: because I'm telling you all these city tests half for

613
00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:01,639
Speaker 6: a bogus.

614
00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:03,520
Speaker 7: You know that I have to go to much money.

615
00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:06,119
Speaker 7: I have to go to what is it Toronto, and

616
00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:09,640
Speaker 7: I have to be in quarantine for two weeks inside

617
00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:13,600
Speaker 7: a hotel room. I cannot get out if they catch

618
00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:17,639
Speaker 7: catch you right, it's seven hundred and fifty thousand dollars fine.

619
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:20,320
Speaker 6: They bring all the food to your doorstep and leave

620
00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:20,560
Speaker 6: it there.

621
00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:22,680
Speaker 7: They I have to order like this. There's a pa

622
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:25,200
Speaker 7: in charge, and then he'll bring me or she will

623
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:28,439
Speaker 7: bring me breakfast, lunch, dinner. We'll leave it at the

624
00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:30,560
Speaker 7: door so I can grab it, and I said, but

625
00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:32,199
Speaker 7: what can I go to the gym one day? Can

626
00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:35,600
Speaker 7: I go his? Absolutely no contact. You're inside the room

627
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:38,160
Speaker 7: for two weeks. I'm already freaking out.

628
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:41,320
Speaker 3: That sounds like vacation. That sounds like vacation.

629
00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:45,600
Speaker 2: Oh my god, Like that does sound like here?

630
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:48,640
Speaker 3: That sounds like the vacation right now? Dream?

631
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:52,800
Speaker 7: No, I think I love I love it the first

632
00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:54,959
Speaker 7: two days, but then I'll be I'm lustrophobic.

633
00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:57,320
Speaker 2: I don't know, same girl, I would be like that

634
00:28:57,440 --> 00:28:59,640
Speaker 2: sounds like jail to me, Like, oh my god, so

635
00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:04,040
Speaker 2: closed the phobic, Like I'll oh, I know, I know

636
00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 2: what Eric, would you want to do that? Or you

637
00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:06,960
Speaker 2: on my husband's side?

638
00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:11,480
Speaker 6: Or would I be fine with two weeks? Yeah? He

639
00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:13,320
Speaker 6: stressed out, like would the kids do? I'd be like

640
00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:16,479
Speaker 6: thinking about all that. Right, No, this this guy is.

641
00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:21,480
Speaker 7: Yes, this is the guy that cannot sit still in

642
00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 7: a hotel room for five minutes. He will make himself

643
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:27,560
Speaker 7: busy with rubbish, with nothing, just just to go out

644
00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:29,880
Speaker 7: and do whatever. So there's no more you're gonna be

645
00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:32,280
Speaker 7: able to be two weeks inside a hotel crazy.

646
00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:33,880
Speaker 6: So I can mentally prep myself for it and just

647
00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:36,760
Speaker 6: get a bunch of things to bin, binge, watch and chill.

648
00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:38,760
Speaker 2: Maybe. So, so then you're gonna go when do you

649
00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:42,160
Speaker 2: leave for that movie? Monday? Oh my goodness. And then

650
00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:44,840
Speaker 2: so you're gonna have the kids in huh, Eric.

651
00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:48,200
Speaker 6: I'll have the kids, I mean our nanny abible to

652
00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:50,440
Speaker 6: help my moms down the streets. I'll have a support system.

653
00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:53,560
Speaker 6: But then I start work mid September, so that's gonna be.

654
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:56,560
Speaker 2: Oh so you guys go back to filming too, yeah.

655
00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:57,959
Speaker 6: Which I don't know how they're what they're gonna do.

656
00:29:58,360 --> 00:29:59,360
Speaker 6: And that's what you were in l A and I.

657
00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:02,400
Speaker 6: I mean there's gon me no real quarantine so that

658
00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 6: we get tested I think every couple days.

659
00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:08,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's it's Monday, Wednesday, Friday. So you can't

660
00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:10,680
Speaker 2: go past two days of not getting tested.

661
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:14,440
Speaker 6: Oh my stuff just shoved up your nose every two days.

662
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 7: No, well they'll do the saliva thing.

663
00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:20,360
Speaker 6: I don't think they.

664
00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:22,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh sag Yeah, you just probably get numbed to

665
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:25,960
Speaker 2: it at some point you're just like okay, there you

666
00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:28,239
Speaker 2: go and then like there's no I feel like this

667
00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:30,800
Speaker 2: this is kind of mean, like silly to say, but

668
00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:33,440
Speaker 2: like they just they kind of go up in your nose,

669
00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:35,719
Speaker 2: Like they don't even tell you their name, Like they

670
00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:39,880
Speaker 2: don't say thank you, I don't even know you, Like

671
00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:43,760
Speaker 2: I feel violent, and then it's like I'm left in tears.

672
00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:50,719
Speaker 2: They just walk away. I feel, so, can you at

673
00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:56,680
Speaker 2: least tell me your name? Oh my goodness, I hate it.

674
00:30:57,480 --> 00:30:59,720
Speaker 6: Did they separate your trailers and stuff? Because I've heard

675
00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:01,920
Speaker 6: that we're gonna have one separate trailer for makeup, one

676
00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:05,160
Speaker 6: trailer for hair. They're gonna have plexiglass shields between each station.

677
00:31:05,680 --> 00:31:08,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I mean everybody has to wear the face

678
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:13,920
Speaker 2: shield and a mask. It's all like prepackaged foods. You

679
00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:17,240
Speaker 2: can't so like there is no catering, Like it's just

680
00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:22,200
Speaker 2: like uncrustables. So I feel like I'm five again. I've

681
00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:24,720
Speaker 2: had more incrustables than like I've ever had.

682
00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:26,720
Speaker 3: Well the one day I told Jane because she was

683
00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:29,000
Speaker 3: coming home poor thing, because she's a pick your eater,

684
00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:30,280
Speaker 3: and so I was like, all right, I'll make you.

685
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:31,840
Speaker 2: No, No, it's not that I'm a pick your eater.

686
00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:33,960
Speaker 2: I just I don't really on set, Like I don't

687
00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:36,400
Speaker 2: like the head like healthier food, Like I don't like

688
00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:38,680
Speaker 2: the heavy mashed potatoes. And I'm like I just would

689
00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:40,400
Speaker 2: like a nice salad with the grilled chicken, you know,

690
00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 2: like and.

691
00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:43,040
Speaker 3: So so the first day, I'm like, all right, I'm

692
00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:47,520
Speaker 3: gonna pack you like a construction worker, like cooler lunch spots. Right,

693
00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:49,200
Speaker 3: So I had everything. I was like proud of it,

694
00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:51,320
Speaker 3: like grilled shake in, all this stuff ready for her.

695
00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:52,880
Speaker 3: And that's the day. She didn't even eat it because

696
00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:54,959
Speaker 3: she comes home that day sick and I haven't made

697
00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:55,960
Speaker 3: it for a since. No.

698
00:31:57,440 --> 00:32:01,200
Speaker 2: All right, So in quarantine though, how were you guys,

699
00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:03,400
Speaker 2: Like did you did you kind of get into a

700
00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:05,760
Speaker 2: groove or were you guys feisty? And I mean obviously

701
00:32:05,840 --> 00:32:08,200
Speaker 2: I know the feistiness there with you, babe, but like

702
00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:11,680
Speaker 2: were you was there any bad fights or how were

703
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:14,360
Speaker 2: you able to control the quarantine inside the house.

704
00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:20,400
Speaker 6: We started so yeah, like the first few a couple

705
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:22,960
Speaker 6: of months were great. We're like, wow, this is fun

706
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:24,640
Speaker 6: with the kids like it was. It was actually good

707
00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:26,640
Speaker 6: the first couple of months. Then we had a couple

708
00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:29,000
Speaker 6: of months where did the fan and it was kind

709
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:30,480
Speaker 6: of like a rough couple of months.

710
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, was it just like the communication or what was it?

711
00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 7: And Eric had two surgeries, one low back surgery on

712
00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:44,960
Speaker 7: a neck surgery while we're doing the quarantine and he

713
00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:48,800
Speaker 7: it's just very massive surgeries, and he gets a little

714
00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:49,720
Speaker 7: bit impossible.

715
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:58,560
Speaker 6: She lacks compassion. What did you say you lacked compassion?

716
00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:01,880
Speaker 7: I do like compassion because you arenoying. So that's that's

717
00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:05,920
Speaker 7: the problem. That's the problem. If you were nice. I

718
00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:09,160
Speaker 7: tell him, you know, Eric, do you have to learn something?

719
00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:11,160
Speaker 7: And it's been fifteen years and you're still not getting it.

720
00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:14,960
Speaker 7: When you go into a hole mode, what you're gonna

721
00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:16,360
Speaker 7: get is a lack of compassion.

722
00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:18,200
Speaker 2: What is a hole mode?

723
00:33:18,760 --> 00:33:23,280
Speaker 7: I'm curious, moody, like moody and snappy and.

724
00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:26,360
Speaker 3: Morning honey, kind of like that.

725
00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:30,680
Speaker 6: You know, wouldn't be babe, you just went through a

726
00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:33,640
Speaker 6: couple of big surgeries. I understand why you're moody. Let

727
00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:36,240
Speaker 6: me figure out how I can make you feel better.

728
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 2: Your mind exactly.

729
00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:45,640
Speaker 7: I guess all right, I guess no, no, no, listen.

730
00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:48,520
Speaker 7: It's the first two months were great. Then he had

731
00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:53,120
Speaker 7: his old the health issues, and then I and I

732
00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:55,960
Speaker 7: have you know what, Yeah, I have I have an issue.

733
00:33:56,400 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 7: You know, it's been it's been like a really self searching,

734
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:03,840
Speaker 7: soul searching thing for me to comprehend why I'm not

735
00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:06,560
Speaker 7: more compassionate or when he's in pain, well.

736
00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:08,839
Speaker 6: When she's in pain, the world shuts down.

737
00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:11,480
Speaker 2: No, no, I will say this though, you know, I

738
00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:13,680
Speaker 2: know Michael is like putting his finger up like that.

739
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:16,400
Speaker 2: The thing is is, I feel like when and I

740
00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:18,759
Speaker 2: might be generalizing, but when when men get sick, like

741
00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:22,400
Speaker 2: when Michael gets sick, you know, he doesn't he just

742
00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:24,960
Speaker 2: he's dead, like he's in bed. He can't function. And

743
00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:26,840
Speaker 2: I feel like when I when I get sick, I

744
00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:28,640
Speaker 2: still have to do things. So I feel like my

745
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 2: compassion level isn't as high for him because I'm like, well,

746
00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 2: I don't get the luxury to stay in bed and

747
00:34:35,360 --> 00:34:37,759
Speaker 2: you know, and do whatever I did this.

748
00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:40,960
Speaker 3: Last time you do. The thing is is I'll get

749
00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:45,160
Speaker 3: sick once a year, and I'm down and out when

750
00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:49,840
Speaker 3: you're saying I don't feel good every fourteen days, my

751
00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:52,520
Speaker 3: it's really hard to be compassionate too when I hear

752
00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:56,320
Speaker 3: that once a month, but once a year when I'm sick, Yeah,

753
00:34:56,400 --> 00:34:58,359
Speaker 3: Daddy wants to lay in bed for a day and

754
00:34:58,520 --> 00:34:59,480
Speaker 3: be left alone.

755
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:02,319
Speaker 2: I can't cant with you.

756
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:06,000
Speaker 7: You know, women, we are more, we feel more, you know,

757
00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:08,720
Speaker 7: like I'm very in tune with my body. So if

758
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:11,919
Speaker 7: my ovulation is strong, I want to be in bed.

759
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:17,400
Speaker 7: When I get my period, I want to be in bed. No,

760
00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:18,040
Speaker 7: I don't know.

761
00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:20,520
Speaker 2: I don't how do you guys rebound from like because

762
00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:21,799
Speaker 2: I know for us too, like we kind of went

763
00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:23,520
Speaker 2: through the same things of like the ups and downs

764
00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:25,719
Speaker 2: of quarantine, and it's like, what is your way of

765
00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:27,080
Speaker 2: how do you guys shake it off?

766
00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:31,600
Speaker 7: After like three or four rough days, then we get

767
00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:35,120
Speaker 7: up one morning and we kind of like apologize, you know,

768
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:37,920
Speaker 7: I mean we started to kind of like apologize and

769
00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:40,440
Speaker 7: then maybe he tries to be a apologizer.

770
00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:44,080
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, and.

771
00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:46,600
Speaker 6: I am I have no problem saying sorry. I'm like, yeah,

772
00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:49,400
Speaker 6: I'm sorry. And we I'm the more of the talker,

773
00:35:50,080 --> 00:35:51,879
Speaker 6: you're less of the communicator.

774
00:35:51,320 --> 00:35:52,200
Speaker 7: Too much of a talker.

775
00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:52,880
Speaker 2: Yeah.

776
00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:56,080
Speaker 6: And then which is it's a great eventually talking after

777
00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:58,719
Speaker 6: a few you know, a few I mean, we talk

778
00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:00,400
Speaker 6: it out right away, then we kind of like, I

779
00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:02,319
Speaker 6: have to feel each other out energy wise for a

780
00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:04,400
Speaker 6: couple of days, and then we start talking about it

781
00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:07,239
Speaker 6: more a few days later because we realized we're all

782
00:36:07,239 --> 00:36:09,560
Speaker 6: trapped and we had two kids, so you got to

783
00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:10,080
Speaker 6: work through it.

784
00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:12,920
Speaker 7: And then the talks go. Some of them are very

785
00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:16,000
Speaker 7: beneficial and some of them are very enlightening, and we

786
00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:19,440
Speaker 7: are able to understand each other's point of view. But

787
00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:24,680
Speaker 7: that's out of five talks. Maybe two are that lovely,

788
00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:32,399
Speaker 7: the other the other three, the other three, the other three,

789
00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:34,719
Speaker 7: you know, because the thing with and we make it

790
00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:37,000
Speaker 7: work through humor. I think at the end of the day,

791
00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:38,520
Speaker 7: you know, and I just don't pay a lot of

792
00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:40,000
Speaker 7: attention to him.

793
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:40,640
Speaker 6: So then what.

794
00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:44,560
Speaker 7: Happens is I'm very black and white, you know, and

795
00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:46,759
Speaker 7: when I'm done with the conversation, because I think we

796
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:50,560
Speaker 7: we already established the points and I'm clear we can stop.

797
00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:53,920
Speaker 7: Eric is what a psychology? What do you have, like

798
00:36:53,960 --> 00:37:00,560
Speaker 7: a degree in psychology or something? So he's all about.

799
00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:00,160
Speaker 2: It's all about.

800
00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:03,440
Speaker 6: He's all about I don't know.

801
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:07,359
Speaker 7: He's always about the mind. To him is very fascinating

802
00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:10,360
Speaker 7: to talk about a fight with my feelings, and he

803
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:13,759
Speaker 7: talks and talks about the same thing over and over.

804
00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:15,000
Speaker 7: And I said, I got it already.

805
00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:17,479
Speaker 6: You're tired of having the same fight over and over

806
00:37:17,560 --> 00:37:18,200
Speaker 6: and over again.

807
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:20,160
Speaker 7: But I don't know if it happens to you, Dana,

808
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:22,759
Speaker 7: that when he repeats himself over and over again, I

809
00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:25,840
Speaker 7: go from understanding so now I'm annoyed.

810
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:29,759
Speaker 2: I so I hear you, but it's you're now Mike

811
00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:33,239
Speaker 2: in the situation, and I'm now Eric because I even

812
00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:35,080
Speaker 2: today we had a we had it. We were we

813
00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:37,400
Speaker 2: were fighting and you know, we were in bed. We

814
00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:40,080
Speaker 2: started to talk at I don't know what time was

815
00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:46,000
Speaker 2: it early morning, like seven, and we finished it around

816
00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:48,560
Speaker 2: like noon, so like you know, it was, but it

817
00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:50,560
Speaker 2: was one of those where like I I repeat myself

818
00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:52,360
Speaker 2: because I feel like he doesn't hear me or he

819
00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:55,239
Speaker 2: doesn't empathize with me, and so I keep repeating until

820
00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:59,200
Speaker 2: I feel empathy, and you know, he's like, you're annoying.

821
00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:03,120
Speaker 2: I get it, but I'm like, but but like, why

822
00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:04,960
Speaker 2: do are you saying the same thing over because I'm like,

823
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:08,000
Speaker 2: because I don't think you understand, because you aren't empathizing

824
00:38:08,040 --> 00:38:08,840
Speaker 2: with my feelings.

825
00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:12,880
Speaker 3: She just I'm just a beaten batter dog. And then

826
00:38:12,920 --> 00:38:17,319
Speaker 3: I finally realize, like, Okay, I actually hear you now

827
00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:21,759
Speaker 3: after hour five of going in circles, you got my

828
00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:24,880
Speaker 3: white flag. Is here's my empathy.

829
00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:29,000
Speaker 7: That they would be you know what with Eric at

830
00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:31,960
Speaker 7: the beginning, he was so big and like you have

831
00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:34,040
Speaker 7: to say sorry, you have to apologize. And when I

832
00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:36,120
Speaker 7: when you don't think you're wrong or like I don't

833
00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:39,000
Speaker 7: think I did anything to apologize for, it will give

834
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:41,799
Speaker 7: me a really hard time to comprehend why I have

835
00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:44,080
Speaker 7: to back down and apologize. I haven't done anything. But

836
00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:45,680
Speaker 7: just because I don't agree with you doesn't mean that

837
00:38:45,920 --> 00:38:49,360
Speaker 7: I'm wrong. Now, like after fifteen years, sometimes I just

838
00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:52,000
Speaker 7: go Let me just say I'm freaking sorry, and he'll

839
00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:53,040
Speaker 7: get over it very fast.

840
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:56,880
Speaker 6: Everybody has their truth of the situation. Yeah right. So

841
00:38:56,920 --> 00:39:05,759
Speaker 6: like if if you did something that I relaves to

842
00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:08,759
Speaker 6: a fight whatever that bothered me, it's easy just to

843
00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:11,040
Speaker 6: be like, I understand you, I understand what I did.

844
00:39:11,080 --> 00:39:13,360
Speaker 6: I'm sorry for that. I don't think I'm wrong. I

845
00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:15,440
Speaker 6: didn't do anything wrong. In your mind, you didn't do

846
00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:17,919
Speaker 6: anything wrong, but in my mind you did. I think

847
00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 6: you can go both ways, where you could just apologize

848
00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:21,880
Speaker 6: and find the common ground.

849
00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:24,520
Speaker 3: Apologizing doesn't have to admit fault.

850
00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:28,840
Speaker 7: Yeah right, I'm sorry.

851
00:39:32,120 --> 00:39:34,040
Speaker 2: Well, but here's the deal, though, If I just say

852
00:39:34,040 --> 00:39:39,680
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, he doesn't go ahead, go ahead, no, but

853
00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:42,239
Speaker 2: you want more of like.

854
00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:46,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, because when Jana says, well, when I have to

855
00:39:46,560 --> 00:39:49,720
Speaker 3: apologize to Janna. It's gotta be I'm talking you turned

856
00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:53,840
Speaker 3: on the Lifetime movie like I gotta be down and like, honey,

857
00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:56,680
Speaker 3: I'm sorry. Like I could be hired as an actor

858
00:39:56,760 --> 00:39:59,799
Speaker 3: maybe because of my apologies, Like they're fantastic, that's not

859
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:03,160
Speaker 3: Her stories are like hey, what's that player? I'm sorry?

860
00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:04,960
Speaker 3: All right, like pat on the butt and then like

861
00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:07,040
Speaker 3: walks out the room and I'm.

862
00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:12,439
Speaker 2: Like, no, no, no, no, not at all. That's awesome. Hey,

863
00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:13,800
Speaker 2: you know, I love you guys. Hey, you guys have

864
00:40:13,840 --> 00:40:17,759
Speaker 2: podcasts too that you're doing right, Yes, yes, cool? He said,

865
00:40:17,920 --> 00:40:20,560
Speaker 2: Is that so fun? It's a lot of fun.

866
00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:22,399
Speaker 7: And you know, it's so funny. I just did this

867
00:40:23,360 --> 00:40:25,520
Speaker 7: thing for the Latino market this this show this morning,

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Speaker 7: and they were asking me, like how do you get

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Speaker 7: out of out of the podcast? And I said, you

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Speaker 7: know what, it has become like a like a like

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Speaker 7: a therapy session, you know, because we we talk about

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Speaker 7: a lot of things that are kind of like intimate,

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Speaker 7: you know, and and we are very real and we

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Speaker 7: have worked out arguments while we do the podcast with

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Speaker 7: a lot of humor, you know, and at the end

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Speaker 7: it's it's very refreshing. We actually go like you know

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Speaker 7: that that was fine, that was good. That was good.

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Speaker 3: It helps a lot, that's awesome. Good for you guys, Well,

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Speaker 3: good luck with that. And we appreciate you guys coming

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Speaker 3: on ours and kind of doing the same thing with us.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, Eric and Ratlin, thank you guys so much.

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Speaker 2: And that's awesome and we can we can do this, okay, marriages.

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Speaker 2: Marriages is a good fight. Okay, we can do it.

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Speaker 1: It is

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Speaker 7: Good luck on your thank you Mama, Thanks you guys.