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Speaker 1: Yeah, they talk better than they tell me. These are

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Speaker 1: the radio blogs on the Fresh Show. I guess I'll

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Speaker 1: stick around for that. Like writing in our diaries, except

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Speaker 1: we say them aloud. We call them blogs. Paulina, Yes, go,

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Speaker 1: thank you so much, dear blog.

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Speaker 2: It's that time of the year, you know, in the

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Speaker 2: in the big city, big city, big dreams, where you

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Speaker 2: don't know the temperature, and like what's gonna happen right

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Speaker 2: the rest of the day, Like if you wake up

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Speaker 2: it's cold and it gets hot, then it gets cooler, right,

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Speaker 2: and then on top of that, some days have been

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Speaker 2: really hot and then some days got cold again, Like

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Speaker 2: I think today's chillier than the previous couple of days.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, So for.

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Speaker 2: Me, I don't sleep well unless I've got like a

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Speaker 2: fan running. I sleep like with just underwear or like

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Speaker 2: pants or whatever, like like shorts and just oversized shirt.

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Speaker 2: So I try to get into bed comfy, but sometimes

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Speaker 2: like it's just still hot. I don't know. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: To me, I need to be very comfortable to sleep

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Speaker 2: otherwise it is a fight in a battle. And so

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Speaker 2: it's been a fight in a battle because my husband

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Speaker 2: doesn't believe it's time to put the air conditioning on.

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Speaker 2: And I overheard in this room my lovely girlies Kaylin

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Speaker 2: and Kiki, said, your ace's already been on. Oh yeah, you.

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Speaker 1: Never my heater never went on?

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Speaker 2: Your heater?

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Speaker 1: I never. I never used heat during the winter. No,

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Speaker 1: I never used heat.

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Speaker 2: What do you do?

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Speaker 1: I keep the house at sixty and it depends in

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Speaker 1: the season. Sixteen anybody in sixty six and sixty eight

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Speaker 1: year round, year round? Yeah, maybe one or two days.

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Speaker 1: Ever did the heater come on? Maybe in this season.

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Speaker 1: Everything has to be it has to be bone chillingly

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Speaker 1: cold you otherwise the houses got to be meat locker cold.

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Speaker 2: You wear like hoodies and stuff and that. Sure, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I don't like that, so like that's not gonna happen.

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Speaker 2: That's why I put the heat on. But I have

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Speaker 2: to be so comfortable in my temperature, and I haven't

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Speaker 2: been lately because it's been so hot. So I put

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Speaker 2: on the ace, and I didn't tell my husband because

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Speaker 2: he's like, no, it's not time yet, Like we're not

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Speaker 2: going to go back and forth right and turn the

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Speaker 2: heat back on in a couple of days, because you

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Speaker 2: know it's me. I will, And I was like okay,

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Speaker 2: whatever it's is.

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Speaker 1: Not a problem.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, And people say that you're not supposed

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Speaker 2: to do that, like we're not.

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Speaker 1: I mean the first time of the year that you

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Speaker 1: turn it on, it like smells weird. But I mean

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Speaker 1: other than that, I don't know why you can't just

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Speaker 1: put set your thermostet where you want to set it

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Speaker 1: and then you get what you know what I mean,

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Maybe it's like a like a mindset of like first

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Speaker 2: gen and kids too, because growing up we couldn't do

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Speaker 2: a lot of things. But my mom never let me

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Speaker 2: switch it, like there was no back and forth. Once

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Speaker 2: the AC was on, that's it, Like you don't go

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Speaker 2: back and forth, you know.

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Speaker 1: People Paulina, people talk about like having you know, you're

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Speaker 1: being aligned on religion and politics in marriage and like

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Speaker 1: money management. Yes, I think household temperature is something that

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Speaker 1: it's a deal breaker for me. Like if you're somebody

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Speaker 1: seventy or whatever. No, no, no, I go to the hotel

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Speaker 1: and I go it goes it's low. There's nothing more

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Speaker 1: setting it as low as it will possibly go, and

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Speaker 1: then being so cold that I wonder, like, you know,

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Speaker 1: why am I? Why do I choose to be this way?

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Speaker 1: To me? Worth every it has to be now other

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Speaker 1: people that need it warm. If you have to sleep

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Speaker 2: That is a fact. That is a fact. But if

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Speaker 2: it's winter and it's you know, negative five, then I'm

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Speaker 2: cozy and comfy. But when I know it's seventy five

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Speaker 1: So how do you show that your husband's either on

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's on or off, but he doesn't want to

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Speaker 2: turn it on. His whole thing was, don't turn it

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Speaker 2: on because we're not ready, like it's not time. But

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Speaker 2: he was at work and he's a fireman, so he

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Speaker 2: did not come home that night. Right, he sleeps at

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Speaker 2: the firehouse. And you want to know what I did

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Speaker 2: for me and my child because I enjoy comfort and

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Speaker 2: I want us all to sleep well. Is I put

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Speaker 2: it on and guess what, it ran just fine, and

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Speaker 2: then I shut it off really quick.

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Speaker 1: I've never heard of this.

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Speaker 2: I was so scared I turned it off.

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Speaker 1: It's a thing. It is a thing.

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Speaker 3: I grew up like that. My sister would not play around.

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Speaker 3: No touch in my thermostat. That was tign the AC on,

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Speaker 3: hoping a window, get a fan.

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Speaker 1: Well, that's probably because of the cost. But I don't

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Speaker 1: know if it's a problem to go hot to cold

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Speaker 1: in your house, Like, I don't know if it's a

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Speaker 1: I don't think it's a mechanical issue that I'm aware

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Speaker 1: of to turn the heat on one day and turn

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Speaker 1: the cool on the next day. But I know people

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Speaker 1: that were like, don't turn the AC on because you

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Speaker 1: could save money to open a window, because it's too expensive.

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Speaker 2: Not the same.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I gate keep my thermostat from my house now,

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Speaker 3: Like I have the app on my phone. Big Tim

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Speaker 3: does not have the app, and so, like you know,

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Speaker 3: he'll get jazzy and try to touch it at home

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Speaker 3: and I'll look at my phone like, oh no, you don't,

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Speaker 3: and I'll put it back up.

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Speaker 1: So even when you're not there, he can't control the temperature. No,

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Speaker 1: And I don't know why.

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Speaker 3: It's really just a jerk, like I'm really just an

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Speaker 3: idiot for that.

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Speaker 2: But it's just a thing like why is this on

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Speaker 2: sixty five?

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Speaker 1: Bro? It's not that because he's there and you're not.

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Speaker 1: Right now, you're here in this room. Yes, and he's

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Speaker 1: at home, but he still doesn't get to control with

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Speaker 1: the temperature as he's in bed.

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Speaker 3: No, because when I'm bored, I open the app like, oh,

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Speaker 3: what the hell?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: This is a fundamental issue you've got to be aligned on.

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Speaker 1: It's actually sleeping temperature. You've got to be aligned.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. We fight a lot about house things like that.

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Speaker 1: You want to know.

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Speaker 2: The other latest one is we have one of those mattresses.

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Speaker 2: I don't ask. He's a people that goes back and forth.

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Speaker 2: It reclines. Oh the adjustable yes, okay, So he decided

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Speaker 2: he wants to buy an adjustable bed whatever the frame thing,

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Speaker 2: but doesn't want to adjust and I actually like sleeping

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Speaker 2: with a little bit of an incline. I come back

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Speaker 2: and that man puts that right back down. So now

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Speaker 2: we're fighting over that.

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Speaker 1: So the whole bed it doesn't have like halves like

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Speaker 2: Halves waiting splurge for the half I wish we did.

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Speaker 1: So you either have to have you have to have

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Speaker 1: it up and everybody's up or down.

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Speaker 2: Yes, he won't do it, So now we fight over

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Speaker 2: the head like we have to be aligned, you.

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Speaker 1: Guys, that's a little different though. I don't think I

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Speaker 1: want to. I don't want to sleep in a hospital bed.

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Speaker 1: Everybody like, I don't know about that. And by the way,

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Speaker 1: I guess it is according to the interwebs and the text,

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Speaker 1: it is bad. You can cluse unnecessary stress in your

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Speaker 1: h BAC by switching between your heater and cooler. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: when not done correctly, attending to make drastic changes. But

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Speaker 1: you're not trying to go sixty five to ninety or something.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you're like, you know, it's you want it.

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Speaker 1: Some days you wanted maybe seventy and some days you

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Speaker 1: wanted sixty eight or I mean, we're not talking about like,

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Speaker 1: I don't know how big is the swing. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: You just want what you want. I just want what

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Speaker 1: I want is important.

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Speaker 2: Don't want to be sticky in my own house.

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Speaker 1: No nobody wants you. Nobody wants you sticky. You should

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Speaker 1: tell him you want me sticky? Well, no, no. If

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Speaker 1: you say it like that, it might he might say yes.

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Speaker 1: The minutes said, never mind, waiting by the phone is new,

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Speaker 1: and next, why did somebody get ghosted after a whose year?

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