WEBVTT - Foot Fetish

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio

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<v Speaker 1>and the Black Effects, And just like that, we're back

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<v Speaker 1>with yet another carefully reckless episode with your girl Jess.

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<v Speaker 2>Hilarious. What do I be doing? I'll be fixing mess.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're gonna jump straight and we got Taylor here.

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<v Speaker 1>You're she gonna be in and outcause she got some

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<v Speaker 1>stuff to do today. She had a little fake busy

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<v Speaker 1>and pregnant over there. So say hey, Taylor, Hey, all right, y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm gonna read.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna start off reading and then I'll feel you

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<v Speaker 1>and when you come back. All right, what's popping, Jess.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna start off strong. I'm a twenty seven year

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<v Speaker 1>old lesbian who has damn Okay, all right, she did

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<v Speaker 1>say she's gonna start off strong. I'm a twenty seven

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<v Speaker 1>year old lesbian who has a girlfriend who sells feet picks. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>she hasn't always done it, but she's definitely doing it now.

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<v Speaker 1>About three months ago, she lost her job and I've

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<v Speaker 1>been carrying her. We also live with each other, by

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<v Speaker 1>the way. Recently, things have been getting kind of slow

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<v Speaker 1>because it's only one working person in the household and

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<v Speaker 1>all my income is going toward bills and etc. So

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<v Speaker 1>that means no extra shit been going on. Yes, she

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<v Speaker 1>was looking for jobs, but no luck. One day out

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<v Speaker 1>of nowhere, she just deposited thirty five hundred dollars in

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<v Speaker 1>my account. She told me this was from the last

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<v Speaker 1>two month's rent and she'll have another three thousand next week.

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<v Speaker 1>So now I'm like, Okay, you found a job, and

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<v Speaker 1>she's saying, yes, she's doing paid partnerships and collapse and

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<v Speaker 1>it's turning out well for her. I didn't really question

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<v Speaker 1>it too much. I was just happy that things were

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<v Speaker 1>turning around. So a few days ago I had to

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<v Speaker 1>pick up her phone for something and I seen a

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<v Speaker 1>message that said you ready.

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<v Speaker 2>In my head, I'm like, you ready for what?

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<v Speaker 1>But I just let it play out. She didn't go nowhere,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm like, who could this be? That night, I

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<v Speaker 1>decided to pick up her phone again and see who

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<v Speaker 1>texted her. I look through the thread and she's been

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<v Speaker 1>sending feet, picks and videos of herself to this number

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<v Speaker 1>for the past two months. M When I say this,

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<v Speaker 1>nigga paying hundreds of dollars for this girl's feet, he

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<v Speaker 1>really is and her feet, not even all that. Hey, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>you're better fucking chill. Anyways, the messages weren't crazy. It

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<v Speaker 1>just seemed like she just sends what she sends, and

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<v Speaker 1>he sends the funds.

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<v Speaker 2>And that be it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, So it's kind of platonic a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit like as well. Not platonic because he beating off

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<v Speaker 1>to her feet, but in a way. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>ain't really doing them. I honestly don't really know how

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<v Speaker 1>I feel about it, but I do want to say something,

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like the only reason.

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<v Speaker 1>She hasn't said anything because she may feel embarrassed, And

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't prefer her to do that, but

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<v Speaker 1>until she can get to where she wants to be,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna knock her. But yes, there are other

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<v Speaker 1>ways to make money. How would you approach the situation, Jess? Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>it's so much of a shit. The trip about y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, this is not one of them. I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be completely honest with you. Y'all come to me

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<v Speaker 1>so I can help fix y'all mess, and not only

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<v Speaker 1>fix y'all mess based off of my experience, right, And

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't really.

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<v Speaker 2>Feel like it's that serious for you to.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I mean, you didn't say you were gonna

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<v Speaker 1>break up with her, all right, So Taylor just joined

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<v Speaker 1>us again, all right. So basically his girl, Oh no,

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<v Speaker 1>she's a twenty seven year old lesbian. Yes, she came

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<v Speaker 1>on strong, Yes, all right, my big So her girlfriend,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, she's been them two living a house together, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and so she had lost her job.

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<v Speaker 2>The girlfriend lost her job.

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<v Speaker 1>But the girl that's writing us, she uh, she'd been

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<v Speaker 1>working and she been taking care of the household and everything.

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<v Speaker 1>But shit just getting a little tight because it's only

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<v Speaker 1>one person making money in the household.

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>So, out of no where, her girlfriend just dropped thirty

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<v Speaker 1>five hundred dollars in an account, right, and she like, fuck, okay, cool.

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<v Speaker 1>She ain't never asked me where it came from, numb,

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<v Speaker 1>and she was like, I'm gonna give you another three

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<v Speaker 1>thousand next week. And so she like, oh shit, all

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<v Speaker 1>right cool. So she just you know, just dropping money,

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<v Speaker 1>paying bills and shit. So she like, she goes in

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<v Speaker 1>her phone and she see that her girl been sending

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<v Speaker 1>videos of her feet and pictures of her feet to

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<v Speaker 1>this guy who's paying hundreds of dollars. She went up

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<v Speaker 1>and down the thread. She and she felt like is

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<v Speaker 1>it cheating or is it not? And then also why

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<v Speaker 1>her girlfriend didn't say anything to her. She feel like

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<v Speaker 1>she may be embarrassed and shit, but you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>she was like, I don't want to knock what she do.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's like there are other ways to make money.

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<v Speaker 2>No, Nah, she hasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>She said she wants to because she want to know

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<v Speaker 1>how should she approach the situation and she's not mad

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<v Speaker 1>about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, how are you getting the money?

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<v Speaker 1>And she said, they ain't talking about nothing else. Literally,

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<v Speaker 1>she sends the feet, the nigga send the funds. So

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<v Speaker 1>there's just feet funds, feet funds, feet funds. You know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying. That's it they ain't talking about. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I love you, I can't wait to see you. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to suck on your feet or whatever. He just yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a fetish and that this is not the first

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<v Speaker 1>time I've heard of some shit, Like it's like niggas

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<v Speaker 1>pay big bread to see bitches play with their feet

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<v Speaker 1>on OnlyFans Like, yes, they do that.

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<v Speaker 2>That's so weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold up, hold up, I noticed shit getting good. But

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<v Speaker 1>listen to just a couple of seconds of a commercial.

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<v Speaker 1>If you love me, you'll listen. So I don't feel

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<v Speaker 1>like it's that. I don't feel like what I said.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like this. I honestly and truly feel that

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<v Speaker 1>it's other ship to trip about in relationships.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, shulty getting the money and she's getting it

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<v Speaker 2>on us. She's not.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not illegal, she ain't got to watch her back,

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<v Speaker 1>she ain't selling drugs, she's not cheating on you, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean. She don't even know the guy,

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<v Speaker 1>never met the guy. I mean, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>If you do research to find out, you probably would

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<v Speaker 1>find out.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, unless she has, unless she's a deep thinker,

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<v Speaker 3>Like what else has she done behind my back?

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<v Speaker 1>She surely just trying to find a way to get

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<v Speaker 1>some bread after trying to look for a job. And yo,

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<v Speaker 1>and then hold up the girlfriend said, And this is

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<v Speaker 1>just crazy because like her feet ain't.

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<v Speaker 2>Even all that Hey, yo, yes, Like why would you

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<v Speaker 2>even do that? Like that's fucked up? You know, honestly,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe they could go in together and be.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, I got another feet for you, and then he

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<v Speaker 3>gets double and he pays more.

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<v Speaker 2>What if her feet sucked up what if she got

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<v Speaker 2>studed feet. I don't know what stuff feet is.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, y'all I got I mean, I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>stuff you would have would have would if shorty that's rightness?

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<v Speaker 2>What if her feet ain't all that what she gotta

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<v Speaker 2>get it? Right? Then?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he'll said, Just tell him I got some more

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<v Speaker 1>feet and he'll he'll pay double. You are dumb, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not how that. God, I got some more feet

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<v Speaker 1>so you can get.

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<v Speaker 2>More money out of it, right right?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, yeah, that's but how she should have approached the

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<v Speaker 1>situation here.

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<v Speaker 2>Just sit down and talk to her about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly, I would tell her that your sneaky as went

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<v Speaker 1>through our phone. That's it, and this is how I

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<v Speaker 1>would do it. So you sit it down and say, look, babe,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been carrying us and everything, and I really really

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate you just dropping at thirty five hundred in the account.

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<v Speaker 1>I did have some questions about where it came from,

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe I should have asked you right then and there,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know, I just you know, let it be.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you know, you gained some independence. It was cool,

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<v Speaker 1>it was cool, but I did go.

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<v Speaker 2>Through your phone.

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<v Speaker 1>I got a little uh got a little curious went

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<v Speaker 1>through your phone. I've seen that you be sending feet,

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<v Speaker 1>picks and shit, and don't tell her feet ain't all that.

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<v Speaker 1>Just just leave that part out, but tell her that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, be honest with it. Like, Yo, it bothered me.

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<v Speaker 1>It kind of bothered me a little bit to see

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<v Speaker 1>you send the pictures, like sending pictures and videos to

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<v Speaker 1>this guy who's paying you all his bread.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I don't know how.

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<v Speaker 1>You can even be honest and tell her. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know how I would feel about it. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if I but like you're cheating. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>I should be mad, angry, insecure, betrayed, whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know how I feel.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to talk to you about it and

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<v Speaker 1>you you know, and then y'all can just hash that

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<v Speaker 1>shit out. You know. That's just what Ninety percent of

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<v Speaker 1>a fucking you know, eighty percent of a fucking relationship

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<v Speaker 1>is communication. You have to have communication and then you know,

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<v Speaker 1>have sex and chill out.

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<v Speaker 2>For the rest of the night. Here, yo, for real.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm moving one to another story. Tell her you

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<v Speaker 1>can read this one.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Hey, Jess, what's up? So I'm gonna get straight

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<v Speaker 3>to it. I think I finally found the love of

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<v Speaker 3>my life. I'm so happy with him. He's a gentleman,

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<v Speaker 3>a family man, and romantic. We have only been together

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<v Speaker 3>for almost a year, but I really think he's the one,

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<v Speaker 3>Like I said, but the issue is I have a

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<v Speaker 3>best friend who seems to be jealous of him. Now.

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<v Speaker 3>Me and my best friend been friends for about eight years.

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<v Speaker 3>That's my sister for real, but ever since I've been

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<v Speaker 3>dating this guy, she seems to be a lot more protective.

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<v Speaker 3>Anne even said when she met him she didn't feel

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<v Speaker 3>she would get along with him, which is crazy because

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<v Speaker 3>he's been nothing but nice to her and I'm happy

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<v Speaker 3>with him, so I would think she'll be happy for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Plus, she got a guy of her.

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<v Speaker 3>Own that she claims she's happy with, but trust me,

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<v Speaker 3>they got issues. But that's the story for another day. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 3>she ended up ruining a surprise gift for my boyfriend

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<v Speaker 3>and claims she told me to make sure I would

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<v Speaker 3>like it, Like, what the fuck, it's a surprise, why

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<v Speaker 3>would you ruin that? And she's not even being a

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<v Speaker 3>poljectic towards it. I'm upset with her, and my boyfriend

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<v Speaker 3>definitely is too. I just don't know what to do

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<v Speaker 3>because I want everyone to get along.

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<v Speaker 2>Hmm, yeah, that's crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like there's a bit of jealousy there actually,

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<v Speaker 1>which is worse. I think envy is worse than jealousy

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<v Speaker 1>because envy is when you will start being like, like

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<v Speaker 1>the same thing. Well I kind of sad, yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>because being jealous is just yeah, like envious, I want

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<v Speaker 1>with that person, got and I'm gonna get it type shit.

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<v Speaker 1>Envy is more revengeful, I think, yeah, more Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to sabotage. I want to sabotage it. Okay, I think.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it sounds like your friend is jealous. I

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<v Speaker 1>won't say envy jealous. And also it is a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of envy there because maybe she wants what you have,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, And that two things can

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<v Speaker 1>be true at one time. All right, So like she

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<v Speaker 1>loves you, she is your friend, yes, because I've had

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<v Speaker 1>a situation similar like this before. But when you were single,

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<v Speaker 1>I bet you there were no problems like when you

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<v Speaker 1>were single, and shit, I mean that's kind of what

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<v Speaker 1>you hint it to. Like, you know, since you've been

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<v Speaker 1>with this new guy, she's been acting out in a

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<v Speaker 1>way that it's just like like she's never acted out

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<v Speaker 1>this way before, So that tells me she's used to

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<v Speaker 1>you being one way, like sometimes your friends can't take

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<v Speaker 1>to see you happier than they are, or if I'm

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<v Speaker 1>saying it right, you get what I'm saying. Because when

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<v Speaker 1>I got into my relationship and my boyfriend slash On

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<v Speaker 1>stay like he's not my fiancee, you know, when he

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<v Speaker 1>proposed and everything, it was a lot of people that

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<v Speaker 1>I thought would be happy for me that was not.

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<v Speaker 2>And this is.

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<v Speaker 1>Close friends, like close friends, close family like oh I

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't there and all that type of shit that but

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<v Speaker 1>this is also the friend and family that's like going

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<v Speaker 1>through shitting their own life, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>When I was single, everything was cool. We was kicking

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<v Speaker 2>it and shit.

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<v Speaker 1>Or when Chris was just my boyfriend and before I

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<v Speaker 1>had my daughter, before I got pregnant, Like when he

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<v Speaker 1>was just my boyfriend, it was like he was no threat,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, But he out of nowhere.

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<v Speaker 1>It became a threat once I got pregnant. Then I'm

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<v Speaker 1>spending more time with him. Then we got the baby,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't I'm not around as much and I

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<v Speaker 1>live in Jersey.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, and it's from the outside.

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<v Speaker 1>Looking and it's like, Oh, you're up there with your

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<v Speaker 1>perfect fucking family, while I'm down here, you know, still

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<v Speaker 1>with this nigga who cheating on me? Who not you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even have you to talk to you no

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<v Speaker 1>more because you're so fucking happy.

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<v Speaker 2>That is projection, like shit, and friends will do.

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<v Speaker 1>That, and that's how that's why I had to kind

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<v Speaker 1>of explain it, because I think that's what I think,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what she's she's going through, you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>especially because like I've been in situations like that and

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<v Speaker 1>versus like where I didn't like my friend's boyfriend because

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<v Speaker 1>like he wasn't good for it, wasn't a great Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that was you being a good friend though, Like, but

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<v Speaker 1>I would never try to like necessarily sabotage, yeah, especially

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<v Speaker 1>if this person really makes her happy, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, Like, if this person really out here making

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<v Speaker 1>you happy, and shit, why would your friend hate on

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<v Speaker 1>that and then telling you about the fucking surprise? That

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<v Speaker 1>is just so wrong and insanely annoying, Like why would

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<v Speaker 1>you do.

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<v Speaker 2>That sure that you liked it? That's so fucking weird.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I wonder if she's the type friend that

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<v Speaker 1>is used to like she has to be a part

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<v Speaker 1>of everything, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Because that that that's how I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Man, he told he told your friend in confidence. He

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<v Speaker 1>even included this bitch, and like, that's so weird. I

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<v Speaker 1>wonder if if she's had a conversation, if you love me,

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<v Speaker 1>you'll listen to this commercial and then we'll be right back.

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<v Speaker 2>So wait, what was the question? Like what should she say?

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<v Speaker 2>She did?

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<v Speaker 3>She wants everyone to get along. She's not apologetic about it,

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<v Speaker 3>like she's.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, the friend okay, so the friend don't even care.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and the boyfriend's like it's causing a rest up.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like it's like, come on, yo, this is too much.

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<v Speaker 2>Shorty is weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes you got to fall back from people, BIB like

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<v Speaker 1>fall back if it doesn't align with your happiness and

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<v Speaker 1>the path that you're on. Sometimes you got to be

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<v Speaker 1>a little selfish. And I know that seems wrong to say,

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<v Speaker 1>but nah, like you surety got to grow up. Your

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<v Speaker 1>friend has to grow up and she has to do

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<v Speaker 1>some inner work because that is all projection, Like she's

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to be happy for you.

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<v Speaker 2>You feel me. But sometimes people can't see past their

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<v Speaker 2>own misery.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what I mean? Has I mean, like she said,

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<v Speaker 3>they got issues, but you have a whole relation to

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<v Speaker 3>worry about.

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<v Speaker 1>So why the fuck are you over here? Because ain't

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<v Speaker 1>shit going on over there? She probably being cheated on

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<v Speaker 1>or you know whatever, or emotionally betrayed or just whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>They're not communicating. She's probably sexually frustrated. Anything could be happening.

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<v Speaker 1>So projection, she's fucking projected. And then the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>she's not apologetic about it, that's really a slap in

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<v Speaker 1>the face to somebody who's been your friend. You feel me,

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<v Speaker 1>So that's the reason, because you know, it's principle, it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's principles to this shit. And the principle is you're

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<v Speaker 1>not a friend if you don't even feel any remorseful

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<v Speaker 1>what the fuck you did?

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<v Speaker 2>Like I just want to say, if you liked.

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<v Speaker 1>It, nah, bitch you this makes you feel good, like

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<v Speaker 1>causing havoc makes you feel good. I feel like that

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<v Speaker 1>was that was that was just bullshit for you to

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<v Speaker 1>tell for you know, you to tell your homegirl about the.

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<v Speaker 3>Fucking you know how she said, she said, like she's

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<v Speaker 3>been protective over me. She's still trying to make her

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<v Speaker 3>friends sound like she's being a good friend.

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<v Speaker 1>I know you can't do that on her mm hm

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<v Speaker 1>and your boyfriend, Trust me, your boyfriend definitely sees that

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<v Speaker 1>there's some type of manipulation she you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Like that shit is no, no, don't let her play

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<v Speaker 1>on your heartstrings. And right now, yo, you happy with somebody,

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<v Speaker 1>So I wouldn't let nothing fuck that up, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>not even a jealous ass friend, because it's room for both.

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<v Speaker 1>Their roles should never cross, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>That's your friend, that your man. It should be nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>She should never even feel a certain way about him

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<v Speaker 1>unless he is not good for you.

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<v Speaker 2>But the way you are putting it to me is

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<v Speaker 2>he's great.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the best best thing that I ever happened to

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<v Speaker 1>your ass, you know, So stick with that because it's

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<v Speaker 1>very seldom that you find somebody out here like for

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<v Speaker 1>you that makes you happy. You want to have a family.

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<v Speaker 1>You trying to you know, man, you got shit to do,

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<v Speaker 1>that shit to work on.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you think they just stop being friend?

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<v Speaker 1>I think she should fall back. I wouldn't say throw

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<v Speaker 1>away the relationship. The friendship you know, obviously the girl

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<v Speaker 1>do love her. I'm not gonna, you know, even even

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<v Speaker 1>the jealous people, you know, even jealous friends, because sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta knock some sense into them. Motherfuckers. They don't

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<v Speaker 1>know all the time. And I'm not saying gonna beat

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<v Speaker 1>your friend up. I'm saying sometimes you have to show

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<v Speaker 1>a person a mirror because she don't know what she doing. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>she know what she doing, but she don't really realize

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<v Speaker 1>how fucked up she is. And this is a reaction

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<v Speaker 1>to how she she's reacting to what the fuck is

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<v Speaker 1>going on in her life, but she's projecting at the

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<v Speaker 1>same time, but she don't see it like that. You

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<v Speaker 1>feel me. She she know what she's doing, but at

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<v Speaker 1>the same time, she don't. She don't realize why she

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<v Speaker 1>doing this shit. And sometimes you got to turn the

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<v Speaker 1>mirror on a person. But I think that's not your job.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a therapist's job to do that for her, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>So I will fall back. I will fall back. The

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<v Speaker 1>no remorse thing is just it's that's fucked up. So

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes you got to fall back from a person and

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<v Speaker 1>let her come around, you know, let her come around,

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<v Speaker 1>and let her come around. When she got some sense,

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<v Speaker 1>and when she ready to have a real conversation and

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<v Speaker 1>you're actually ready to sit down and.

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<v Speaker 2>Tell her what I just told you. Like yo, you've

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<v Speaker 2>been projecting on me.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you know, like you know, you really

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<v Speaker 1>got to have uncomfortable conversations with your friends sometimes, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's how you really stand to see if they your

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<v Speaker 1>real friends are not you know, friends for us. Friends fight,

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<v Speaker 1>friends make up, you know, and friends keep it real.

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<v Speaker 2>With each other.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think I just think you should fall back,

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<v Speaker 1>fix what you got at home, you know, because it's

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<v Speaker 1>starting to be a strained. I mean, a drain on

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<v Speaker 1>your relationship is starting to fuck up.

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<v Speaker 2>Shit.

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<v Speaker 1>You make sure your house is good, You make sure

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<v Speaker 1>you and your significant other are good. Fall back from her,

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<v Speaker 1>let her come around, you know, y'all work to repair

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<v Speaker 1>that relationship, you know, and if she don't change, y'all

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<v Speaker 1>just grew apart. That's you go your way, she goers,

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<v Speaker 1>That's how that ship go.

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<v Speaker 2>You know. Never let nobody disturb your peace. Your piece

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<v Speaker 2>is all you got, you know. So I liked it.

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<v Speaker 2>I love y'all.

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