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Speaker 1: Papa Team six. Welcome to another episode of For the Dads.

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Speaker 1: I hope the trash is taken out. I hope you

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Speaker 1: are getting ready for holiday season announcement. Happy birthday, Scottzilla.

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Speaker 1: Happy birthday Scottzilla. She is one year old today. Before

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Speaker 1: we dive into some Scottzilla or we dive into Scottzilla,

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Speaker 1: just want to shout everybody out, Welcome to For the Dads.

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Speaker 1: If you're a new listener, if you're a new viewer.

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Speaker 1: This is a podcast where we talk about the wins

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Speaker 1: and losses, highs and loads of fatherhood, embracing the suck,

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Speaker 1: just embracing the trenches. We are not experts. We're just

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Speaker 1: here to storytell, talk about our lives as husbands and fathers,

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Speaker 1: the upside, the very much downside. We have a hotline

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Speaker 1: a loss. You can talk about a dad hack, something

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Speaker 1: that you're seeing out there that some dads. You want

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Speaker 1: to put dads on some game. If you want to

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Speaker 1: talk about products or tools or things to put in

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Speaker 1: Continue to leave comments. The comments have been unbelievable. I'm

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Speaker 1: looking at one right now for another reason, you know,

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Speaker 1: shouting out the pod and everything else. This is from

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Speaker 1: Mason M thirteen, first time Kentucky dad. Kentucky dad, a

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Speaker 1: six month old boy, found this show when my son

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Speaker 1: had just been born, and it has totally changed my

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Speaker 1: mindset when it comes to fatherhood. It's so nice to

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Speaker 1: have a community of dad sharing their struggles and wins.

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Speaker 1: Wednesdays are now my favorite day of the week. Keep

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Speaker 1: up the good work, go big Blue. That's another massive

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Speaker 1: reason community this pop a team six S crew. We

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Speaker 1: got they're the best. There you go, shure, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: The PT sixth grade that we have is undefeated, and

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Speaker 2: some were even calling for heads on social media. Just

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Speaker 2: this last week in defense of William Compton.

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Speaker 1: I saw that which which thing was it under? It

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Speaker 1: was with all the Josh paid stuff. Oh hey, the

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Speaker 1: job buddy.

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Speaker 2: Hey, you want to talk about resilience, hard work, coming

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Speaker 2: in there defending a guy that's a blue collar guy

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Speaker 2: who does that sound like is going to defend that PT.

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Speaker 1: Six PT six. They were ready to go. They were

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Speaker 1: at the forefront. They were letting me know what to do.

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Speaker 1: They're attacking me. Where are you sure? Because that was

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Speaker 1: a that was a race. That ratio was coming at

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Speaker 1: very fast, at a very fast speed. Yeah, very fast speed.

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Speaker 1: I want to say. I responded to that dude like

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Speaker 1: twenty hours later from his post and within hours like

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Speaker 1: popular tweet that was going around about Josh Payton just

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Speaker 1: hating on our boy, Josh paipe. Yeah, and we put

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Speaker 1: this dude six feet under with the ratio, you.

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Speaker 2: Put him twelve feet under and it just put the

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Speaker 2: PT six going you sureman.

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Speaker 1: Shoot him, shoot him? I'm like he's dead. Yeah, I do.

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Speaker 1: Then the boys opened the casket, they say the body's gone.

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Speaker 1: Dude deleted his account, went to private. Okay, he was ratio,

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Speaker 1: this was public. I want to say his username was

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Speaker 1: having fun online. It was it was having fun, I

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Speaker 1: the blue check mark, like this was an operational account. Yea,

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Speaker 1: And the ratio was coming so fast, and PT six

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Speaker 1: and the Payton Staters Tier ones bustled with the goom berets.

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Speaker 1: The goon berets were on full force to where then

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Speaker 1: the dude took his public account, he made a private

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Speaker 1: just know what battle was won today? This coward went

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Speaker 2: No, nay, he never came in defense of a friend

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Speaker 2: who was being bullied.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. This dude was trying to come at Josh

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Speaker 1: Pate saying that he's essentially a nobody. He has zero credibility.

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Speaker 1: He did nothing in his life, He didn't play football,

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Speaker 1: heating coach. He's never been on an administration. He has

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Speaker 2: You just gave him like the biggest compliment of all

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Speaker 2: time in that it was truly a eminem like tell

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Speaker 1: About me moment. Like he's like, yeah, you just you

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Speaker 2: Hey, somebody else that's coming into find of bullys. I

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Speaker 2: don't know that for sure, but I know that. Isaiah

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Speaker 2: mgana dash q Zac two to one on YouTube. He said, Hey, great,

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Speaker 2: so jents absolutely love watching this every week.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for all that you do. Pt.

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Speaker 2: Six out just a nice, happy fun comment, nice happy

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Speaker 2: fun comment. Also Steven kaphone or got a fall on

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Speaker 2: four seven one five on YouTube. Man, I needed this today.

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Speaker 2: I worked three to three to twelve ours. I worked

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Speaker 2: three twelve hour shifts.

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Speaker 1: There.

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Speaker 2: You got a week for the most part. The rest

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Speaker 2: of the time, I'm a stay at home dad. I

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Speaker 2: don't know why, but I was feeling down and I

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Speaker 2: just got the biggest smile on my face, ready to

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Speaker 2: take my daughter out when I get home from the

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Speaker 2: gym this morning, to go to the playground and the

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Speaker 2: Dollar Tree and watch some Clifford the Big Red Dog.

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Speaker 1: Thank you boys. What a dude. That gets me going.

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Speaker 1: So the soad picked him up. This picked him up

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Speaker 2: This soad picked him up, And I felt that exact

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Speaker 2: same way, Stephen, that exact same way this weekend.

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Speaker 1: Or you're just kind of feeling lethargic, dove lethargic, but

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Speaker 2: Run down to the point where you're like you're not

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Speaker 1: You careful of daylight saving time? Yes, dude, I see,

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Speaker 1: I don't. I know, I know that's a real thing.

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Speaker 1: one's yeah, I don't like buying the daylight saving stuff.

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Speaker 1: To me, I like I was, dude, I was, I've

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Speaker 1: been feeling that vibe a little like you came in

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Speaker 1: exhausted At times sometimes you're just like, dude, I'm over

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Speaker 1: it right now. It catches up to you. Yeah, life does. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And you got to do such an intentional job of

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Speaker 1: just like recalibrating, you'd like, hardest, hardest. Fuck did you

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Speaker 1: got to recalibrate insanely? And just I don't. I like,

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Speaker 1: for me, I always know to the core of me,

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Speaker 1: and this dad did it. It's saying it sounds like

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Speaker 1: he got under the squad rack, he got under the

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Speaker 1: bench pressure. He's just thrown around some dumbbells. I know

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Speaker 1: for me, when I look as closely as I can

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Speaker 1: to Will Compton, when I am feeling run down, exhausted,

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Speaker 1: kind of irritated, kind of just annoyed about a few

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Speaker 1: different things. For me, it's always my It's always like

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Speaker 1: my health. It's always like physical exercise and eating. Right now,

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Speaker 1: I will say daylight safe when the sun does go

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Speaker 1: down and the candies out and Spootober's happening, Thanksgivings coming up,

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Speaker 1: it gets pleasurable. It does. It gets pleasurable, Like I

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Speaker 1: start eating for sport because it tastes good for whatever reason.

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Speaker 1: When it gets a little colder outside, I just get

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Speaker 1: more excited about eating food. But then I eat the food,

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Speaker 1: I feel bloated, I feel lethargic. I know I didn't

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I get I get very defeated with myself, and

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Speaker 2: then I retreat in words and don't express that defeat. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: through something like hey, Sherman, it actually you're worrying way

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Speaker 1: But instead I sit and I fester and oh was

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Speaker 1: a dad's name who wrote in Steven Steven shout out, Stephen,

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Speaker 1: thank you for sharing that man. It's got Stephen Catofphon. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I just want you to know where You're not alone, brother.

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Speaker 2: I just love how wholesome that is. Dude, just sitting

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Speaker 1: Clifford, sweetheart, you know, little girl was just fired up.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to dive. I'm glad he's juice back up.

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Speaker 1: I hope you had at least three plates on each

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Speaker 1: Katie facts just a little remit. The fact that you

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Speaker 1: This show is so great. It's such a massive positive

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Speaker 1: thing for dads and moms. Y'all are so fun and

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Speaker 1: we missed it though, Katie, thank you so much. Thank

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Speaker 1: you so much. Peter and Hans repeater fantigame for new

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Speaker 1: viewers and listeners out there. There's multiple ways to reach

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Speaker 1: the boys. I told you about the hotline told you

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Speaker 1: can write an emails. We love reading fun comments. You

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Speaker 1: can follow us on social media for the dad spot.

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Speaker 1: You can leave comments on YouTube. We love reading them all.

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Speaker 1: I have another. I have one more good vibes. One okay,

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Speaker 1: what you learned from the workshop, and we'll use that

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Speaker 1: very formative and love the dad perspective. What Aaron is

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Speaker 1: referring to is we did like a Core Values exercise

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Speaker 1: last week. If you did not catch that episode, strongly

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Speaker 1: encourage you to. Wife was laughing at me after she

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Speaker 1: I was like, I know, I was doing my best.

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Speaker 1: I mean. I wasn't lolotched back kind of like why

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Speaker 1: write stuff down, and as I'm writing it down, I'm

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Speaker 1: like something clicked about like the goals in marrying the

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Speaker 1: do Core Values before the dads, Like this is like

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Speaker 2: I love when people get into those moods. You one

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Speaker 2: time you had discovered in screenwriting the hero's journey.

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Speaker 2: Go Stars.

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Speaker 2: Hey, that's a that's the kype of ticket that's going

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Speaker 2: Get on stuff hub to the transfer the tickets to Kuperinatti,

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Speaker 1: So many times?

431
00:23:04,119 --> 00:23:07,600
Speaker 2: And there's some more on here. Dog ran away in

432
00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:10,000
Speaker 2: the front yard. Good went to go get him. As

433
00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:12,119
Speaker 2: I'm coming back carrying him, holding and going what are

434
00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:14,040
Speaker 2: you doing, what are you doing? Stepped in his poop?

435
00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:14,600
Speaker 1: Good?

436
00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:17,840
Speaker 2: Good? God threw those shoes away. Good because I was

437
00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:21,040
Speaker 2: so pissed. I just threw him. Do you want to

438
00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:24,400
Speaker 2: clean them? And Porch Pirates stole my dinner on what

439
00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:25,240
Speaker 2: was that Sunday?

440
00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:27,240
Speaker 1: When I tex good? Yeah, you did text me. You

441
00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:30,000
Speaker 1: were like, hey, what was that number? Yeah? We yeah,

442
00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:31,800
Speaker 1: we'll keep it tight. Yeah, we'll keep it tight. But

443
00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:33,720
Speaker 1: we'll keep it tight. We don't know the enemy, which

444
00:23:33,800 --> 00:23:34,760
Speaker 1: enemies are out there listening?

445
00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:37,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, but uh and I know this is

446
00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:40,320
Speaker 2: a kid show, but just a huge fuck you to

447
00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:41,440
Speaker 2: Porch Pirates.

448
00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:44,600
Speaker 1: Just wanted to say that. Just apparently he had his

449
00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:47,440
Speaker 1: entire meal dropped off within a minute.

450
00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:51,640
Speaker 2: Three minutes of my meal being dropped off. Porch Pirates

451
00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:58,159
Speaker 2: have to well, God gets simply safe, simply safe.

452
00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:02,359
Speaker 1: Got to get it simply safe. Hey, that's a tough

453
00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:06,000
Speaker 1: beat over the weekend, the forgetting the diaper bag, especially

454
00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:08,359
Speaker 1: when you're rocking solo and you're like, I'm the guy, Like,

455
00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:12,240
Speaker 1: ain't nobody coming to save me? Dylan Reilo goes down.

456
00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:14,600
Speaker 1: It's this is this is TJ latif.

457
00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:17,960
Speaker 2: Time and I could have come back to the office

458
00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:21,480
Speaker 2: with that story just coming at me from all angles,

459
00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:23,680
Speaker 2: Like Coop could have come back and just told everybody

460
00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:25,919
Speaker 2: about what a fucking bomb I was, and instead I

461
00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:28,160
Speaker 2: have everybody coming up to me going, dude.

462
00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:29,800
Speaker 1: Coop said, you were killing it. That's a good star

463
00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:32,119
Speaker 1: right there, because you didn't just throw a pick six

464
00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:34,399
Speaker 1: like you ran around the pocket a little bit and

465
00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:36,240
Speaker 1: threw it across your body to the other side of

466
00:24:36,240 --> 00:24:38,560
Speaker 1: the field like a muffin, and somebody jumped and pick

467
00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:40,520
Speaker 1: it off and took to the house. Everybody's watching. Like

468
00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:43,280
Speaker 1: before before he picked it off, I hit him with the.

469
00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:48,399
Speaker 3: To the sideline. I was letting him know. Yeah, like,

470
00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:51,600
Speaker 3: oh kids, kind of got it. That says a lot

471
00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:53,399
Speaker 3: about the character of Cooper Comstock.

472
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:56,280
Speaker 1: Again, yes it does. There's another instance yesterday.

473
00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:58,200
Speaker 3: I'm not going to name who it was, but this

474
00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:01,840
Speaker 3: person backed out on an event with Coop.

475
00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:04,440
Speaker 1: Coop wasn't gonna say anything. Backed out on an event

476
00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:04,920
Speaker 1: with Coop.

477
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:07,159
Speaker 3: Yeah, it wasn't his fault, but he and then he

478
00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:09,600
Speaker 3: publicly told the office and all year Coop say is

479
00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:12,600
Speaker 3: I wasn't gonna say anything. I was just gonna let it,

480
00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:14,600
Speaker 3: let it all out, because that's the guy Coop is

481
00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:16,240
Speaker 3: Coop's a Foxhold guy.

482
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:19,240
Speaker 1: He is a Foxhold guys. It's big ups to him too,

483
00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:22,439
Speaker 1: because he doesn't he's not a parent. He does have kids. Yeah,

484
00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:25,520
Speaker 1: you could get a magnitude a range of reaction there.

485
00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 2: Yes, and is so good with kids, so good with Scarlet.

486
00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:32,520
Speaker 1: I need I need to see what he's like with

487
00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:33,320
Speaker 1: little scott Zilla.

488
00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:37,560
Speaker 2: Oh dude, he would kill He loves babies and he's

489
00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:38,360
Speaker 2: really good with them.

490
00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:41,520
Speaker 1: He's like holding Scarlet as I would. Dude. Coop was

491
00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:42,199
Speaker 1: so on it.

492
00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:46,240
Speaker 2: Hey, any ST sixers at home, when you go hang

493
00:25:46,280 --> 00:25:49,560
Speaker 2: out with your PT six friend that's got a kid,

494
00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:53,400
Speaker 2: be a Cooper Comstock when I'm going to go change

495
00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:56,080
Speaker 2: my little girl's diaper, which that went awesome?

496
00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:59,040
Speaker 1: Like that was great. At the game.

497
00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:01,920
Speaker 2: What do you want to eat? What do you want

498
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 2: to drink? We'll go get food for you. I come

499
00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:08,480
Speaker 2: back with freshly changed Scarlet. He's got my food. He's like, hey,

500
00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:10,080
Speaker 2: let me hold Scarlet while you eat.

501
00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:14,360
Speaker 1: I'm like, that's a that's bro right there, Bro, that's

502
00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:17,160
Speaker 1: an ST six. That's a that's a that's an ST six.

503
00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:20,920
Speaker 1: Or you can be proud of chef Cooper Coms high

504
00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:23,520
Speaker 1: in the ranks. He's high in the ranks. He's he's

505
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:27,120
Speaker 1: helped carrying out the standard team. He's two star general.

506
00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:30,119
Speaker 2: The two star general right there, dude. And you know

507
00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:32,760
Speaker 2: his girlfriend. I'm telling you this, dude. You know his

508
00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:36,439
Speaker 2: girlfriend's sitting there taking notes. Yeah, she's going. I like

509
00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:38,960
Speaker 2: what I see is boy nurtures.

510
00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:44,080
Speaker 1: Oh well loves Well, that's a good good friend, good

511
00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:44,919
Speaker 1: loyal dog.

512
00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:50,680
Speaker 2: Stayed like you said, and Chaos stayed poised and your boys.

513
00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:54,600
Speaker 2: Shrom was as frantic as hell. Frantic as hell. I

514
00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:57,959
Speaker 2: had shaky hands going when we were driving back home.

515
00:26:58,000 --> 00:27:01,080
Speaker 1: Oh I can imagine, I can you already know? Sherm.

516
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:02,280
Speaker 1: He was beating himself up.

517
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:07,600
Speaker 2: But I digress, I digress. How is your weekend, sir?

518
00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:09,640
Speaker 2: Weekend was phenomenal.

519
00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:12,159
Speaker 1: On Friday, we did Pizza Friday because we had this

520
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:15,000
Speaker 1: November Gillett event we had to do on Friday night

521
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:19,280
Speaker 1: for busting, so we ripped Pizza Friday a little early.

522
00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:23,600
Speaker 1: Then not Cinderella, a Peter Pan movie, brutal, which he

523
00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:26,280
Speaker 1: didn't like. Did not like. Yeah, don't blame the acting,

524
00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:32,399
Speaker 1: terrible story, Like it sucked. Saturday. What did we do

525
00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:35,000
Speaker 1: on Saturday? It's such a blur. Date night with wifey,

526
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:39,240
Speaker 1: Date night with white. Indie movie. Indie movie, Bad, bad Bad,

527
00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:44,480
Speaker 1: don't go see the Mastermind. We had a great family morning.

528
00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:47,120
Speaker 1: We went to Hanks down in Franklin. Awesome coffee shop,

529
00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:51,479
Speaker 1: highly recommend, good vibe. Then we went to the Franklin

530
00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:54,640
Speaker 1: Farmer's Market, another great vibe. We hung out there for

531
00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:58,160
Speaker 1: a pretty long time and got the kids back, did naptime,

532
00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:01,640
Speaker 1: all the fun stuff. Rue Uh. Just she's on arts.

533
00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:04,240
Speaker 1: She's in arts and crafts mode, bro, she really is.

534
00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:07,280
Speaker 1: She's all about coloring, she's all about drawing. She's all

535
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 1: about getting on the what's it called easel. She got

536
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:13,320
Speaker 1: her a little easel and she's just on it all

537
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:17,080
Speaker 1: the time. She's all about it. Man. She wrote Opah,

538
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:21,080
Speaker 1: which is Grandpa Filipino, like the Filipino word for grandpa.

539
00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:23,160
Speaker 1: I believe, or maybe it's German. I could be off.

540
00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:28,000
Speaker 1: I know Opah's German. Lopa is German. She's a Filipino.

541
00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 1: I believe Lola is like grandma from in the in

542
00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:31,600
Speaker 1: the Philippines.

543
00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:36,560
Speaker 2: Did they have German descent as well? Charles Dad, Yes,

544
00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:37,720
Speaker 2: oh okay, I didn't.

545
00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:39,719
Speaker 1: Charles mom Philippine Philippines.

546
00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:43,200
Speaker 3: Is there respectful way to say yes in Filipino used

547
00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:47,920
Speaker 3: when speaking to an elder or someone of a higher status. Okay, yes, ma'am, Yes,

548
00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 3: sir about op that's o po it's a spelling.

549
00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:55,479
Speaker 1: I don't know. Oh gotcha. Yes, we're out of our

550
00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:59,240
Speaker 1: depths right now. Listen Lola and Nopah. But Rue was

551
00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:04,200
Speaker 1: writing Opah a birthday thing. I have no clue. It's

552
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:05,959
Speaker 1: just a bunch of scribbles all over the place. And

553
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:08,440
Speaker 1: she's like basically equating it to a poem. And she's

554
00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 1: talking about this poem and if you're gonna do this,

555
00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:13,720
Speaker 1: she got a rite happy birthday and just gets in

556
00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:15,520
Speaker 1: the storytelling mode. And you got to sit there like

557
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:17,440
Speaker 1: I'm talking the arts and crafts she makes like you

558
00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:23,160
Speaker 1: know very much. The butterfly. Yeah, but the line like

559
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:26,240
Speaker 1: you got those there's lines on the butterfly, Like that's

560
00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 1: just coloring. She's tightened up her coloring. She can kind

561
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:31,080
Speaker 1: of color. Yeah, she gets outside the lines a little bit,

562
00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:34,120
Speaker 1: but she's tightened up the coloring. Good with what color

563
00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:36,480
Speaker 1: she uses. Now, just like that, you know, I don't

564
00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:39,080
Speaker 1: know what make it rain? Yeah? Yeah, it's like hey,

565
00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 1: a bat. But when she growing she drew the family,

566
00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:44,240
Speaker 1: like at school last Friday, she came home, dare you

567
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:46,080
Speaker 1: gotta look at my pictures? And opened it up and

568
00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:48,000
Speaker 1: it's like, Dad, it's just like a big circle and

569
00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:50,080
Speaker 1: a guy with like massive eyes and like a frown

570
00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:53,280
Speaker 1: and she's like, there's you off to show you the photos,

571
00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:56,480
Speaker 1: but buddy, the fake and you have to do in

572
00:29:56,520 --> 00:30:01,280
Speaker 1: front of your kids be like, oh my gosh, you no,

573
00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:04,200
Speaker 1: you didn't. So if I call your teacher right now,

574
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:08,840
Speaker 1: she's gonna say you drew that. Yeah, dude, that is awesome.

575
00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:11,640
Speaker 1: And I'm looking at it and just like my eyes

576
00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:14,959
Speaker 1: are slowly zooming in on this photo like what she

577
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:18,360
Speaker 1: had you frowning? Yeah, I might, I might. I might

578
00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:21,320
Speaker 1: have grabbed a photo of it because I need to

579
00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:23,280
Speaker 1: post it. I meant to post it because she also

580
00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:27,240
Speaker 1: drew waffle waffles like waffle kind of like picture of

581
00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:30,040
Speaker 1: that cheap yeah, but obviously without all the cot but

582
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:32,440
Speaker 1: just kind of like a circle, like a broken circle,

583
00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:34,760
Speaker 1: and then the legs were just four lines under like

584
00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:38,640
Speaker 1: that cheap is Oh hell yeah, yeah, okay, So she's

585
00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:41,720
Speaker 1: getting dialed in. Yeah, she was getting dialed in.

586
00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:45,240
Speaker 2: Also, we need to update our fridge.

587
00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:46,560
Speaker 1: And that's not.

588
00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:48,840
Speaker 2: Like, oh, y'all need to like we need to we

589
00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:50,240
Speaker 2: need to provide stuff.

590
00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:55,880
Speaker 3: We're doing a lot of production. That looks incredible. I mean,

591
00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:58,440
Speaker 3: that's incredible. Did she actually draw that?

592
00:30:58,720 --> 00:30:59,400
Speaker 1: She drew that?

593
00:30:59,440 --> 00:30:59,600
Speaker 4: Man?

594
00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:01,800
Speaker 1: If I call your teacher, like your teacher is going

595
00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:05,640
Speaker 1: to say, rude drew that he texted dang, Yeah, I'll

596
00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:12,000
Speaker 1: text it to you. And that's uh, that's data. Yeah.

597
00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:13,280
Speaker 1: And there's Scotti up top.

598
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:20,880
Speaker 2: There's scott Zilla making a Godzilla turn them one.

599
00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, bro, Scotti is a Scotty's officially. One man. Got

600
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:28,120
Speaker 1: a little birthday party this weekend on the fence, on

601
00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:30,840
Speaker 1: the fence, you know, passing out and invites the yeah

602
00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:34,160
Speaker 1: yeah yeah to the boys of the shop. No, I

603
00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:37,600
Speaker 1: feel you because I believe the family's coming in town

604
00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:41,959
Speaker 1: and I'm like you, I'm so hit or miss and

605
00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:44,240
Speaker 1: everybody view and are listening. Help your boy out here.

606
00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:47,800
Speaker 1: Thoughts on a birthday party for a one year old

607
00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:51,480
Speaker 1: go ahead, Jeff speak for seeing a small story from

608
00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:52,040
Speaker 1: my family.

609
00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 3: My parents threw a big one year old birthday party

610
00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:57,959
Speaker 3: and they bought a really nice cake. This back when

611
00:31:58,000 --> 00:31:59,960
Speaker 3: we lived in Dallas, I forgot the famous cake shop.

612
00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:01,080
Speaker 3: Sure you know it?

613
00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:05,360
Speaker 1: Uh? Who turned one? That's it? Is it Blue Bond Baker?

614
00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:08,200
Speaker 1: That might be me? This is one my parents always

615
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:09,920
Speaker 1: tell the story. They can't shut up about it.

616
00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 3: They bought a three hundred dollars birthday cake and my

617
00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:15,280
Speaker 3: mom said that although it was the greatest cake they've

618
00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:17,960
Speaker 3: ever had, they said why. The joke is like, why

619
00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:20,280
Speaker 3: the hell did we do that for a one year old?

620
00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:23,400
Speaker 3: It's always been a discussion was like why.

621
00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 1: Did were there? Did people come over? I think so

622
00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:27,880
Speaker 1: I don't remember, so here here here, he's like my

623
00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:29,960
Speaker 1: here's like my vibe on it because I think I'm like,

624
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:32,640
Speaker 1: what are we doing for a one year old? Like

625
00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:35,880
Speaker 1: I think we do like a what's the cake call?

626
00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:38,360
Speaker 1: Where you can like mush it smash cake, get them

627
00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 1: a little smash cake that they can kind of mess with.

628
00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:43,880
Speaker 1: Oh yeah. Two. And then Charles got like this board

629
00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:47,680
Speaker 1: to have like all of her monthly photos two month old,

630
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:49,560
Speaker 1: three month old, and it's like Lama theme because she

631
00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:52,600
Speaker 1: loves her little stuff Lama. So we don't do a

632
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:54,240
Speaker 1: whole lot. But my thought is always like why are

633
00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:55,840
Speaker 1: we throwing a birthday party for a one year old?

634
00:32:55,840 --> 00:32:57,520
Speaker 1: Like they're not gonna remember. They don't know any of this.

635
00:32:57,880 --> 00:33:00,000
Speaker 1: But now that we did it for Rue and family came,

636
00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:03,280
Speaker 1: the town of friends came over. Like uh Now, My

637
00:33:03,360 --> 00:33:05,200
Speaker 1: thought is like, dude, it's just an excuse for the

638
00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:08,200
Speaker 1: adults to hang out, yeah, celebrate and get around each other,

639
00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:10,760
Speaker 1: especially in these months where it gets a little darker early,

640
00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:11,800
Speaker 1: it's gonna be a good vibe.

641
00:33:12,160 --> 00:33:16,120
Speaker 2: I've seen a little VHS tape of my first birthday.

642
00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:20,440
Speaker 2: It could have been my brother's first birthday, but it

643
00:33:20,840 --> 00:33:23,160
Speaker 2: was really just an excuse me.

644
00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:24,480
Speaker 1: The exact point.

645
00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:27,320
Speaker 2: It was like all of my family is in Fort Worth,

646
00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:31,520
Speaker 2: Texas absurd amount, and it's they're all just jam packed

647
00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:34,560
Speaker 2: in this house and it's so loud, and everyone's having

648
00:33:34,680 --> 00:33:37,720
Speaker 2: drinks and stuff, and like whoever the baby was that

649
00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:41,040
Speaker 2: was turning one is just lost in the moment, like

650
00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:44,640
Speaker 2: they're just being held. It's not like a celebration for them.

651
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:46,480
Speaker 2: It's more so everybody's just hanging out.

652
00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:46,800
Speaker 1: Yeah.

653
00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:50,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, So which is if that's what you want, like,

654
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:51,520
Speaker 2: go for it.

655
00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:53,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what you is. It's kind of like that's

656
00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:56,080
Speaker 1: that's how my mind's wrapped around it. Because before rou

657
00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:58,320
Speaker 1: turned one, and she was talking to me about a

658
00:33:58,360 --> 00:34:01,800
Speaker 1: birthday party for ru. I'm just like, I mean, birthday

659
00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:04,760
Speaker 1: party for what. Then it happened. It was fun, and

660
00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:06,840
Speaker 1: that was Scotty coming up again. It's like I I

661
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:08,359
Speaker 1: think about it a little bit, but I'm like, oh,

662
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:10,799
Speaker 1: this is just such a reason for Hey, come out

663
00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:13,880
Speaker 1: to Nashville, Hey come over the house. Yeah, you just

664
00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 1: get to hang out with some friends, some family and friends.

665
00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:18,680
Speaker 5: The baby book, I think would be like a glaring

666
00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:20,360
Speaker 5: miss if there wasn't a one year old birthday. And

667
00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:22,319
Speaker 5: there's how my mom always viewed it, like it's for

668
00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:24,239
Speaker 5: the parents. But like when she gave me a book

669
00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:26,320
Speaker 5: of like all my birthdays, Like if she would have

670
00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:28,080
Speaker 5: started at birthday three, I probably would.

671
00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:28,680
Speaker 1: Have had some questions.

672
00:34:29,040 --> 00:34:30,480
Speaker 5: So that's kind of where my head's about it, Like

673
00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:32,960
Speaker 5: do it for yourself, but the whole story.

674
00:34:33,040 --> 00:34:36,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, outside looking in, I think it's great to

675
00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:38,400
Speaker 3: do and it's a big celebration.

676
00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:40,960
Speaker 1: Maybe a little bit on the parent's side too, But

677
00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:43,120
Speaker 1: I think I've just told.

678
00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:45,759
Speaker 3: What I was more reverencing is some people do like

679
00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:48,719
Speaker 3: really extravagant one year old birthdays, and that's where I

680
00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:50,600
Speaker 3: was always like, that's where you go, Yeah, like let's

681
00:34:50,600 --> 00:34:52,600
Speaker 3: just have a gathering and yeah, that's you gotta draw

682
00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:52,919
Speaker 3: a line.

683
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:54,200
Speaker 1: No reason to get a bunch like why have we

684
00:34:54,280 --> 00:34:57,719
Speaker 1: written out of place for those one year old celebration exactly,

685
00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:01,000
Speaker 1: And that's a good call too, on more of a

686
00:35:01,239 --> 00:35:03,600
Speaker 1: it can be more of a celebration for the parents.

687
00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:06,200
Speaker 1: Yeah you've survived a year. Yeah, you survived a year.

688
00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:07,919
Speaker 1: You can ask it alive for a year.

689
00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:12,759
Speaker 2: I like that scope of like, yeah, hey, well done,

690
00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:15,719
Speaker 2: mom and dad, Well done, well done, mom and dad.

691
00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:19,839
Speaker 2: This is to you, guys, because I will look up

692
00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:22,840
Speaker 2: when she is one years old and I will feel

693
00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:27,320
Speaker 2: a bit of that of because those first two weeks,

694
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:28,880
Speaker 2: if we just look over to wife and you just

695
00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:31,400
Speaker 2: give her a dap, like, hey, we did that, We

696
00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:35,600
Speaker 2: did that. I had that thought this morning as Scarlet

697
00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:39,040
Speaker 2: was Jill did her ceremonial. Bring Scarlet and put her

698
00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 2: in between us in bed, and you both just kind

699
00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:42,960
Speaker 2: of lay on our sides and.

700
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:45,080
Speaker 1: Oh, it's the best that you lay on your side

701
00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:48,080
Speaker 1: and you just kiss the shit out of them, bro, And.

702
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:51,759
Speaker 2: They're so happy in the morning, they're so so you.

703
00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:53,839
Speaker 1: Kiss them so much you want them to start pulling

704
00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:56,640
Speaker 1: their head away. Yeah, go all of you.

705
00:35:57,120 --> 00:35:59,319
Speaker 2: And this is probably bad radio, but it's the little

706
00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:01,440
Speaker 2: ones too. I hit it like a machine gun with

707
00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:08,080
Speaker 2: the I get like five hundred in there. Dude, didn't

708
00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:13,600
Speaker 2: stand a chance. Yeah, what what else this weekend for you?

709
00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:15,880
Speaker 2: Did you have a crack a cold one from this weekend?

710
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:24,719
Speaker 1: Man? So I get my crack a cold one. So

711
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 1: we finished off the weekend on Sunday morning. Sunday morning,

712
00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:31,800
Speaker 1: got up, put it around the old house in the morning.

713
00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:34,239
Speaker 1: We had a rough night on Saturday night. Scotty's going

714
00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:37,880
Speaker 1: through this, uh, not like sleep regression, but she's waking

715
00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:39,799
Speaker 1: up a few times in the night and kind of

716
00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:43,520
Speaker 1: crying and uh, she won't like put herself back to sleep.

717
00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:45,800
Speaker 1: She's always been good at putting herself back to sleep.

718
00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:47,920
Speaker 1: But I guess what we're learning is when they're going

719
00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:51,280
Speaker 1: through something big developmental, it can cause some like uh,

720
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:52,640
Speaker 1: you know where they're waking up in the middle of

721
00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:55,240
Speaker 1: the night or call some things like while they're sleeping.

722
00:36:55,960 --> 00:37:00,520
Speaker 1: And Scotty's been you know her her walking. She's every where, bro,

723
00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:04,520
Speaker 1: I'm talking everywhere. She's one of those ones where do what.

724
00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:09,000
Speaker 1: She's a menace. She really is a menace. She just

725
00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:12,000
Speaker 1: walks everywhere, Like I'm I don't feel like I was

726
00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:14,960
Speaker 1: this way with Rue, But with Scotty, I'm like, I'm

727
00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:16,799
Speaker 1: like the parent that's like standing up and kind of

728
00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:18,960
Speaker 1: like walking with her because all she wants to do

729
00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:22,239
Speaker 1: is walk. Like last night, for example, Rue was on

730
00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:24,680
Speaker 1: her easel doing some drawings, like doing some more coloring,

731
00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:27,160
Speaker 1: and Scotty kept going over because she wanted to be

732
00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:29,480
Speaker 1: like big sissy. She wants to pick up the markers

733
00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:31,880
Speaker 1: and pretend like she's drawing. Rue doesn't want her to

734
00:37:32,200 --> 00:37:34,520
Speaker 1: like kind of nudges around having a teacher. Hey sweetheart,

735
00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:38,040
Speaker 1: Like we're not pushing like Scotty. She just wants to

736
00:37:38,080 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 1: be like you. She wants to be She wants to

737
00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:41,440
Speaker 1: hang out with you. She wants to be like you.

738
00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:43,240
Speaker 1: Look at her. She wants to be like big sissy.

739
00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:45,440
Speaker 1: And we're just kind of sitting there. I can tell

740
00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:47,040
Speaker 1: she do I wont her. So I pick up Scotty

741
00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:50,640
Speaker 1: and bring her over. And so this easel, this easel,

742
00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:52,000
Speaker 1: you've been in my house? Have you guys been in

743
00:37:52,040 --> 00:37:55,160
Speaker 1: my house? So this easel's back in like the kitchen

744
00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:58,320
Speaker 1: or back in the dining room area. Okay, I'm picking

745
00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:00,200
Speaker 1: Scotty up from the dining room area and bring it

746
00:38:00,239 --> 00:38:03,160
Speaker 1: all the way over to the living room. She gets up,

747
00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:06,200
Speaker 1: she walks over to Rue, and I'm trying to distract her.

748
00:38:06,200 --> 00:38:07,719
Speaker 1: I'm trying to play flash cards with her. I'm trying

749
00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:09,200
Speaker 1: to play like, hey, let's dick in this box and

750
00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:10,680
Speaker 1: try to pull out the balls. Just put the balls

751
00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:12,160
Speaker 1: in the hole. She might do it for a couple

752
00:38:12,200 --> 00:38:14,440
Speaker 1: of things. But she gets up and she just starts

753
00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:16,839
Speaker 1: like she's like walking, She's like doing her little walk.

754
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:20,719
Speaker 1: She's like ah, and she's like going over to Rue

755
00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:23,680
Speaker 1: and Roue from afart. You're like, Scotty, no, no, Scotty.

756
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:27,719
Speaker 1: I'm behind Scotty laughing. But Scotty walks over again, and

757
00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:29,680
Speaker 1: Scotty walks over. No matter how many times to tell

758
00:38:29,680 --> 00:38:31,200
Speaker 1: her no, no, Tom, I how many times I pull her

759
00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:34,160
Speaker 1: back to looking and try to work with her, it

760
00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:38,600
Speaker 1: probably happened eighteen times. I'm not exaggerating. And to where

761
00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:40,680
Speaker 1: I just look at room. I'm like, Rue, I'm telling you,

762
00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:42,719
Speaker 1: can I please just bring your easel. I'll just move

763
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:44,759
Speaker 1: it into mom and Dad's room. Yeah, and you can.

764
00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:47,520
Speaker 1: You can. You can have some privacy. You can draw

765
00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:50,080
Speaker 1: by yourself. Scotty won't bother you. I can shut the door.

766
00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:53,240
Speaker 1: After about the eighteen time it finally happened. But Scotty

767
00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:56,600
Speaker 1: is just up in mobile everywhere. She just wants to walk. Yeah,

768
00:38:56,640 --> 00:39:02,840
Speaker 1: she just wants to walk. You just gotta she But

769
00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:03,600
Speaker 1: she's vibing.

770
00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:06,760
Speaker 2: So my go ahead say were she looks like Charo

771
00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:08,200
Speaker 2: but is all willye see?

772
00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:10,919
Speaker 1: And really looks like you. But it's all mom, You're

773
00:39:11,080 --> 00:39:16,120
Speaker 1: spot on. You are spot on with that. And so

774
00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:20,360
Speaker 1: I would say, like a Sunday morning comes around, and

775
00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:22,520
Speaker 1: since we had kind of the rough night on Saturday,

776
00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:29,440
Speaker 1: probably slept to like eight thirty. That's badass. Yeah, I

777
00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:32,040
Speaker 1: got to sleep in, but Charro woke up and Charli

778
00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:35,160
Speaker 1: was operating with Rue. We did a sleepover on one

779
00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:36,759
Speaker 1: of the nights. It all kind of jels together. We

780
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:39,160
Speaker 1: did a sleepover on one of the nights. All this stuff. Anyway,

781
00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:42,600
Speaker 1: Saturday Sunday morning, I'm up punning around. I'm about to

782
00:39:42,600 --> 00:39:44,719
Speaker 1: make breakfast because at the farmer's market, I got some steaks.

783
00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:46,480
Speaker 1: I want to do steak eggs. We got some sweet peppers.

784
00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:48,080
Speaker 1: I was gonna cut up some sweeteppers, kind of put

785
00:39:48,120 --> 00:39:49,719
Speaker 1: it with the steak and eggs. And she's like, we

786
00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:51,200
Speaker 1: got to be out of the house by ten, and

787
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:53,239
Speaker 1: I'm like, be out of the house by ten. We're

788
00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:55,319
Speaker 1: talking about we were going on a hike with my dad,

789
00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:59,239
Speaker 1: and I'm thinking of myself. I thought you were going

790
00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:01,359
Speaker 1: on a hike with your dad, Like you were talking

791
00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:03,120
Speaker 1: about what am I gonna do for my next birthday?

792
00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:06,000
Speaker 1: And maybe we're going to hike with them or something

793
00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:08,600
Speaker 1: like that. I'm thinking I'm out of that equation. I'm like, yeah,

794
00:40:08,600 --> 00:40:11,239
Speaker 1: that'd be you, that'd be awesome. Glad you're think about

795
00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:12,799
Speaker 1: your dad. Glad you want to do something with your dad.

796
00:40:12,880 --> 00:40:17,279
Speaker 1: Dad seems fun. And once she's like, we're going to uh,

797
00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:20,399
Speaker 1: we're gonna go on a hike with my dad and

798
00:40:20,440 --> 00:40:22,200
Speaker 1: we got to be there at ten thirty. So I'm thinking,

799
00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:23,759
Speaker 1: all right, it's a thirty minute drive. We gotta be

800
00:40:23,800 --> 00:40:26,160
Speaker 1: out of the house at ten and we're going on

801
00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:32,120
Speaker 1: a hike. Like nothing. Nothing chaps my ass more than

802
00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:35,680
Speaker 1: spontaneous plans that I don't feel like i'm privy to.

803
00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:38,360
Speaker 1: And when I'm thinking, due, we're gonna have a nice

804
00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:43,239
Speaker 1: like lazy Sunday. We're gonna be hanging out and now

805
00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:44,719
Speaker 1: I got to get out of the house and go

806
00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:48,360
Speaker 1: on a hike. So my attitude before we got to

807
00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:49,920
Speaker 1: the hike, it's not like I had a bat or

808
00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:53,320
Speaker 1: I had a projecting attitude. I was more of just quiet,

809
00:40:53,360 --> 00:40:55,160
Speaker 1: like a couple of times, charl like we walked in

810
00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:56,839
Speaker 1: front of each other, like when we're passing a goat,

811
00:40:57,000 --> 00:40:58,560
Speaker 1: like in a room or something like that. She looks

812
00:40:58,600 --> 00:41:00,719
Speaker 1: at me next smiles or try to give me a kiss,

813
00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:03,440
Speaker 1: like I'm not smiling. I just kind of give her

814
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:05,520
Speaker 1: the cheek if anything, because I want her to know, like,

815
00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:08,960
Speaker 1: you know, that's bullshit. Yeah yeah, like you know you

816
00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:11,560
Speaker 1: should have told me, like this should be in my head,

817
00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:13,399
Speaker 1: like this is too This came out of left field,

818
00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:15,439
Speaker 1: old Willie See, and it's a hike.

819
00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:21,040
Speaker 2: There's a lot entailed in a hike. Getting the kids

820
00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:24,160
Speaker 2: ready for a hike. Yeah, it's cold outside.

821
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:27,799
Speaker 1: It was very cold. The Willie one shoff mentality was

822
00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:32,000
Speaker 1: coming in my brain. What what is it? I know

823
00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:34,440
Speaker 1: this might like diverge from the story. I want to

824
00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:36,560
Speaker 1: hear the rest of the story. The story was my

825
00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:41,680
Speaker 1: loss is my attitude that all I feel I feel

826
00:41:41,719 --> 00:41:44,400
Speaker 1: like those those will always be kind of my losses. Yeah,

827
00:41:44,640 --> 00:41:47,880
Speaker 1: my crack a Cold one was the hike because I

828
00:41:47,920 --> 00:41:49,920
Speaker 1: had an incredible time and I had to write a

829
00:41:49,960 --> 00:41:53,239
Speaker 1: caption about you know, we had some fun photos and

830
00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:55,279
Speaker 1: it was great memories. I'm smiling looking at it, and

831
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:58,480
Speaker 1: I'm like, God, I'm mad that I enjoyed that hike

832
00:41:58,600 --> 00:42:01,960
Speaker 1: so much because it was my wife like getting us

833
00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:04,920
Speaker 1: out of the house. So my Cracker Cold one to

834
00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:07,120
Speaker 1: my wife is still my wife and getting us out

835
00:42:07,120 --> 00:42:08,399
Speaker 1: of the house and going on a family hike.

836
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:13,279
Speaker 2: I think my cracker Cold one is the exact same mentality.

837
00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:15,759
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838
00:42:15,840 --> 00:42:18,319
Speaker 2: Oh, because crack a Cold one, I'd tossed it as

839
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:19,320
Speaker 2: soon as you looked away.

840
00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:20,600
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841
00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:24,440
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842
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843
00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:31,879
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844
00:42:31,960 --> 00:42:37,839
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845
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846
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:46,600
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847
00:42:46,600 --> 00:42:49,240
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848
00:42:49,239 --> 00:42:53,280
Speaker 2: IV and be like, hey, can we we really do use.

849
00:42:53,160 --> 00:42:55,600
Speaker 1: Up a lot of Liquid IV and the cotton candy

850
00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:58,400
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851
00:42:58,600 --> 00:43:02,440
Speaker 2: There are sponsors where like you can't use their product

852
00:43:02,560 --> 00:43:05,040
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853
00:43:05,600 --> 00:43:08,319
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854
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:12,239
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855
00:43:12,560 --> 00:43:16,480
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856
00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:19,160
Speaker 2: But that's my Cracker Cold one. My Cracker Cold one

857
00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:20,440
Speaker 2: goes through the exact same thing.

858
00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:20,680
Speaker 1: I know.

859
00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:22,759
Speaker 2: We already talked about the Stars game, and we talked

860
00:43:22,760 --> 00:43:25,319
Speaker 2: about this in the intro as well, but like, I

861
00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:25,960
Speaker 2: don't know.

862
00:43:27,560 --> 00:43:30,640
Speaker 1: What that feeling is that like pissed.

863
00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:35,000
Speaker 2: Off to the spontaneity of like the moment like when

864
00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:41,640
Speaker 2: Taro kind of breaks the news that you're going to

865
00:43:41,680 --> 00:43:43,960
Speaker 2: be going on a hike that morning and you're pissed,

866
00:43:44,480 --> 00:43:47,080
Speaker 2: or like me going into the Stars game, like not

867
00:43:47,320 --> 00:43:49,439
Speaker 2: wanting to go to the Stars game when I woke

868
00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:53,520
Speaker 2: up that morning, like not being excited for it even

869
00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:54,640
Speaker 2: though it was in my plans.

870
00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:57,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, And like you're trying to say, you're trying to

871
00:43:57,280 --> 00:43:59,960
Speaker 1: figure out like to the core of what that is. Wait,

872
00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:02,200
Speaker 1: is that now working through it?

873
00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:04,480
Speaker 2: That is my crack of cold one like going to

874
00:44:04,560 --> 00:44:08,080
Speaker 2: the Stars game and then you're leaving the Stars game.

875
00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:11,240
Speaker 2: You're walking out and you're like, I had so much fun.

876
00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:14,440
Speaker 2: My kid had so much fun. Coop and his girlfriend

877
00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:17,239
Speaker 2: had so much fun. You're talking about how much you

878
00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:19,680
Speaker 2: love the high you hated, how much you loved the hike,

879
00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:21,560
Speaker 2: cause you're like that was awesome.

880
00:44:21,640 --> 00:44:24,160
Speaker 1: I'm walking out there and it was it was a frigid,

881
00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:25,759
Speaker 1: but it's like I'm walking out there and as I'm

882
00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:29,399
Speaker 1: walking and trying to Like, Lola had this challenge for Rue, like, hey,

883
00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:31,160
Speaker 1: she had a bag because she thought it could be

884
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:33,240
Speaker 1: like Rue hike and we had to go up a mountain.

885
00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:34,799
Speaker 1: Roo wants to be carried a lot, but just to

886
00:44:34,880 --> 00:44:37,560
Speaker 1: keep her engage and keep her going, she brought a bag.

887
00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:39,719
Speaker 1: And this is a here we go. This is a

888
00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:42,239
Speaker 1: dad hack. Yeah, yeah, survival kid, dad hack, whatever you

889
00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:43,960
Speaker 1: want to call it. But she brought a bag along

890
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:46,320
Speaker 1: and said, hey, we're gonna find as many colorful leaves

891
00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:48,440
Speaker 1: as we can and then we give home. We'll do

892
00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:50,319
Speaker 1: arts and crafts and kind of put it together like

893
00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:54,680
Speaker 1: on a on a what's the paper called construction for

894
00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:58,160
Speaker 1: construction paper, put some glued to some construction paper, like

895
00:44:58,280 --> 00:45:00,120
Speaker 1: just have like an activity or have a chat as

896
00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:01,920
Speaker 1: you do to keep her engage. So as I'm walking

897
00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:03,840
Speaker 1: and finding leaves with her because I got bought in,

898
00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:06,880
Speaker 1: we're skipping rocks in the water, We're throwing rocks at

899
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:09,800
Speaker 1: the waterfall, We're looking at leaves like as I'm doing it,

900
00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:13,279
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I'm having a quality time. Yeah. Do

901
00:45:13,320 --> 00:45:17,560
Speaker 1: you think it's that feeling of like it was a Sunday, right, Yeah,

902
00:45:17,560 --> 00:45:18,320
Speaker 1: it was a Sunday.

903
00:45:18,600 --> 00:45:23,080
Speaker 3: So you're thinking before as you're going to bed Saturday night. Naturally,

904
00:45:23,560 --> 00:45:25,520
Speaker 3: although we know the hike will be fun and stuff,

905
00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:28,960
Speaker 3: you're thinking, man, it's gonna be football is gonna be

906
00:45:28,960 --> 00:45:32,000
Speaker 3: on Sunday. Maybe you know a little bit of R

907
00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:35,080
Speaker 3: and R, and then it's the hike and you're like, okay,

908
00:45:35,120 --> 00:45:38,239
Speaker 3: you know what the hike in tails with kids. And

909
00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:41,040
Speaker 3: then that initial thought, because I think every man has

910
00:45:41,080 --> 00:45:44,600
Speaker 3: this on a Sunday or Saturday, you're like when you

911
00:45:44,640 --> 00:45:46,640
Speaker 3: get pulled out of the house or maybe even you

912
00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:49,920
Speaker 3: know for all our people out there when worked all week,

913
00:45:50,400 --> 00:45:53,640
Speaker 3: you're like, man, that's that's my time. Maybe you're having

914
00:45:53,640 --> 00:45:55,560
Speaker 3: this idea of it and then it's a sudden change

915
00:45:55,560 --> 00:45:57,480
Speaker 3: to That's.

916
00:45:56,880 --> 00:45:57,960
Speaker 1: That's exactly what it is.

917
00:45:58,000 --> 00:46:02,320
Speaker 3: It's not the activity itself, because that's not like you know, clearly,

918
00:46:02,360 --> 00:46:04,359
Speaker 3: it all sounded like a hell of a time, But

919
00:46:04,360 --> 00:46:07,319
Speaker 3: it's that that change of like you had this expectation

920
00:46:07,440 --> 00:46:09,760
Speaker 3: for the day and then now you're having to pivot.

921
00:46:09,960 --> 00:46:10,960
Speaker 1: I feel like that's the heart.

922
00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:12,880
Speaker 3: That's that in what Sherm you're talking about, that initial

923
00:46:13,000 --> 00:46:16,799
Speaker 3: like you were kind of like that initial thoughts, like, ah,

924
00:46:16,880 --> 00:46:20,080
Speaker 3: because it'd be so easy to sit on the couch

925
00:46:20,120 --> 00:46:20,840
Speaker 3: and watch football.

926
00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:24,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, it'd be so easy too to just watch Scott

927
00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:27,880
Speaker 1: Scarlet at the house. Because Sherm knew they had the

928
00:46:28,480 --> 00:46:31,879
Speaker 1: hockey game plan. We had it planned. I didn't hear,

929
00:46:32,160 --> 00:46:34,640
Speaker 1: like I didn't know, like I heard Cheryl talking about

930
00:46:34,680 --> 00:46:37,359
Speaker 1: potentially going on a hike, but I didn't know it

931
00:46:37,440 --> 00:46:40,400
Speaker 1: was happening on Sunday, like Sunday morning, like when I

932
00:46:40,440 --> 00:46:44,279
Speaker 1: woke up, and so yes, it kind of caught. It's

933
00:46:44,320 --> 00:46:46,759
Speaker 1: like you go through the entire week. We were talking

934
00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:49,000
Speaker 1: about my state of mind when you came in here,

935
00:46:49,200 --> 00:46:51,080
Speaker 1: was that Thursday or Friday when I was sitting on

936
00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:54,120
Speaker 1: the lane online. Oh yeah, that might even been Wednesday

937
00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:57,440
Speaker 1: where I was feeling exhausted. It was before you went

938
00:46:57,480 --> 00:47:00,799
Speaker 1: to ESPN. Yeah, but you go through you know, you

939
00:47:00,880 --> 00:47:02,960
Speaker 1: go through this entire week. I mean you think of

940
00:47:03,080 --> 00:47:05,600
Speaker 1: bust and like, what was yesterday nine thirty in the

941
00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:08,120
Speaker 1: morning to three thirty in the afternoon. Then we have

942
00:47:08,239 --> 00:47:11,239
Speaker 1: four the deads this morning. That's a couple hours. We'll

943
00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:13,480
Speaker 1: be doing k Adams. That'll be about thirty minutes. We're

944
00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:15,359
Speaker 1: gonna do the locker Room. That's a couple hours. We're

945
00:47:15,320 --> 00:47:17,359
Speaker 1: going to do ESPN. That's a couple of hours you're doing.

946
00:47:17,600 --> 00:47:19,560
Speaker 1: Then you're gonna sit on the stream, Like that's twelve

947
00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:22,280
Speaker 1: to fifteen hours of being in front of a camera

948
00:47:22,320 --> 00:47:24,799
Speaker 1: to whe when Then when you get to Friday, it's

949
00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:27,640
Speaker 1: we have this Gellette November thing, which is an incredible

950
00:47:27,719 --> 00:47:30,040
Speaker 1: cause and we wanted to do it, and then the

951
00:47:30,120 --> 00:47:32,240
Speaker 1: day is coming up and it's kind of like, damn,

952
00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:34,400
Speaker 1: why are we Why do we commit to this because

953
00:47:34,400 --> 00:47:36,680
Speaker 1: that's a Friday now where it's usually pizza Friday, and

954
00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:40,200
Speaker 1: you're just relaxing because you got through the entire week. Yeah,

955
00:47:40,280 --> 00:47:41,960
Speaker 1: so now I'm getting out of the house and going

956
00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:44,279
Speaker 1: to do this Gillette thing that I was like I'm

957
00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:46,680
Speaker 1: excited to do because of the cause, but I'm not

958
00:47:46,760 --> 00:47:51,160
Speaker 1: excited to do like personally and selfishly. Then Saturday, it's

959
00:47:51,160 --> 00:47:53,120
Speaker 1: like Joe's like, what do we want to do today?

960
00:47:53,120 --> 00:47:55,520
Speaker 1: And it's like, yo, let's we decide we're gonna hit coffee,

961
00:47:55,520 --> 00:47:57,120
Speaker 1: We're gonna hit the farmer's market, like we're gonna have

962
00:47:57,120 --> 00:47:58,640
Speaker 1: a day. Then we do it date night where we

963
00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:01,440
Speaker 1: get dinner, we get a movie. Come back, You're just

964
00:48:01,520 --> 00:48:04,200
Speaker 1: kind of exhausted, and then you're Scotty's having a tough

965
00:48:04,239 --> 00:48:06,399
Speaker 1: time that night. Then when Sunday comes and she hits

966
00:48:06,440 --> 00:48:08,000
Speaker 1: me with you know, we're going on hike comps, just thinking,

967
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:11,960
Speaker 1: come on, bro, can't we just sit around and be lazy?

968
00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:14,160
Speaker 1: But again, happy we did it. That's also my crack.

969
00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:18,799
Speaker 2: A cold one's life is starting to feel like this

970
00:48:19,920 --> 00:48:24,799
Speaker 2: revolving door somewhat to me, you know, and not in

971
00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:28,600
Speaker 2: a bad way at all, but like I need to

972
00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:30,240
Speaker 2: embrace just to grind.

973
00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:33,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, I need to start to embrace it more.

974
00:48:33,440 --> 00:48:37,040
Speaker 2: I know, we like jokingly say good on this podcast,

975
00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:40,040
Speaker 2: which I can say that to like stepping in dog

976
00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:43,279
Speaker 2: poop and stuff like that's funny, you know, but like

977
00:48:43,520 --> 00:48:46,080
Speaker 2: truly those moments of like why the hell am I

978
00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:49,960
Speaker 2: sitting there on a Saturday that morning, being like there's

979
00:48:50,200 --> 00:48:52,600
Speaker 2: literally nothing that I want to do less than go

980
00:48:52,680 --> 00:48:55,799
Speaker 2: to the Stars game, Like why do I feel like that?

981
00:48:55,800 --> 00:48:57,319
Speaker 2: That just kind of bumps me out. I'm trying to

982
00:48:57,360 --> 00:48:59,319
Speaker 2: like challenge myself to be like I.

983
00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:02,480
Speaker 1: Gotta roll with the punches. Yeah, yeah, I gotta roll

984
00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:04,480
Speaker 1: with the punch. I gotta go live life.

985
00:49:04,719 --> 00:49:06,400
Speaker 5: Something that I know I've said to you and I

986
00:49:06,400 --> 00:49:08,040
Speaker 5: probably said on the show, and it's something I have

987
00:49:08,080 --> 00:49:09,880
Speaker 5: to like say in my head so many times, but

988
00:49:10,000 --> 00:49:12,000
Speaker 5: like and it is, it's such like a mental thing

989
00:49:12,040 --> 00:49:13,879
Speaker 5: more but you have you don't have to you get

990
00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:16,880
Speaker 5: to like, yeah, I'm always like, oh dude, I have

991
00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:18,440
Speaker 5: to do all this stuff. When I get home, it's

992
00:49:18,440 --> 00:49:20,200
Speaker 5: like no, no, no, Like I live in a house that

993
00:49:20,280 --> 00:49:22,040
Speaker 5: I really love with a woman that I really love,

994
00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:24,520
Speaker 5: and I get to do all these things and I

995
00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:26,320
Speaker 5: have to say it so many times.

996
00:49:26,080 --> 00:49:27,560
Speaker 1: That I get out of this like oh we got

997
00:49:27,560 --> 00:49:28,120
Speaker 1: to we have to.

998
00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:30,520
Speaker 5: Go on this hike. It sucks, but yeah we get

999
00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:32,040
Speaker 5: to go on this hike. And like how cool is

1000
00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:34,720
Speaker 5: it that she's that close to her grandparents? Ruined Scott.

1001
00:49:35,120 --> 00:49:42,000
Speaker 1: That shift of mentality is huge. So that's yes, and

1002
00:49:42,040 --> 00:49:42,880
Speaker 1: nail on the head.

1003
00:49:44,160 --> 00:49:46,719
Speaker 2: That's where I need to be. That's truly where I

1004
00:49:46,760 --> 00:49:50,000
Speaker 2: need to be. I'm being dead serious, dude, because.

1005
00:49:50,080 --> 00:49:55,080
Speaker 1: This family right here, this community, this family vibes right now.

1006
00:49:55,800 --> 00:49:59,080
Speaker 2: Because I have been thinking that way a lot, dude,

1007
00:49:59,080 --> 00:50:03,080
Speaker 2: and like going into like going into the Monday this week,

1008
00:50:03,200 --> 00:50:06,240
Speaker 2: there is no reason why I should have been worried

1009
00:50:06,400 --> 00:50:09,600
Speaker 2: going into this Monday. But I'm just racking my brain

1010
00:50:09,640 --> 00:50:12,200
Speaker 2: and racking my brain of like, oh, what could go wrong?

1011
00:50:12,239 --> 00:50:14,560
Speaker 2: And what did I not do enough of and what

1012
00:50:14,719 --> 00:50:15,800
Speaker 2: could not be prepared?

1013
00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:18,120
Speaker 1: Constantly feel like you're behind the eight ball and I'm not.

1014
00:50:19,640 --> 00:50:22,360
Speaker 2: It's okay, Like I'm going to show up on Monday

1015
00:50:22,400 --> 00:50:25,360
Speaker 2: and like everything's gonna be fine. And what what happened

1016
00:50:25,360 --> 00:50:29,759
Speaker 2: on Monday? I mean, do we hit any snags? Not

1017
00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:31,040
Speaker 2: to my knowledge, I.

1018
00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:33,080
Speaker 1: Mean I can't remember. Again, it's it, it all goes so

1019
00:50:33,120 --> 00:50:36,040
Speaker 1: he had almost so it's all so fleeting fast.

1020
00:50:35,800 --> 00:50:38,920
Speaker 2: And even if we did hit snags, he literally doesn't remember.

1021
00:50:39,160 --> 00:50:42,960
Speaker 2: Like my boss's I'm sitting there like taking tabs.

1022
00:50:42,600 --> 00:50:48,640
Speaker 1: On Sherman of yeah, yeah, I think what day I'm

1023
00:50:48,680 --> 00:50:50,160
Speaker 1: thinking of my aid. How can we get the spots

1024
00:50:50,160 --> 00:50:51,600
Speaker 1: where we're not we don't have like three or four

1025
00:50:51,600 --> 00:50:57,360
Speaker 1: interviews and the intros do everything. Yeah, because I mean

1026
00:50:57,480 --> 00:50:59,800
Speaker 1: yesterday we were on the bus for six hours.

1027
00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:03,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a long day.

1028
00:51:03,320 --> 00:51:05,799
Speaker 3: More months of football and then it all well, I

1029
00:51:05,840 --> 00:51:09,680
Speaker 3: mean really two more hard months college football ends back

1030
00:51:09,680 --> 00:51:11,880
Speaker 3: in the NFL. But I can tell, like when you

1031
00:51:11,880 --> 00:51:13,880
Speaker 3: guys started her like wait till football season. It's a

1032
00:51:13,920 --> 00:51:16,919
Speaker 3: grind and I'm we're kind of outside looking in because

1033
00:51:16,920 --> 00:51:18,799
Speaker 3: I try yesterday, I try to help. I'm gonna try

1034
00:51:18,800 --> 00:51:20,640
Speaker 3: to help more with busting now with the way our

1035
00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:24,240
Speaker 3: schedule is. But it's like we do for the dad's content.

1036
00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:26,959
Speaker 3: And honestly, this is kind of like because football takes

1037
00:51:26,960 --> 00:51:31,200
Speaker 3: present it here and this is a football facility, I

1038
00:51:31,239 --> 00:51:34,440
Speaker 3: get to see how hard it is for Will and Taylor,

1039
00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:36,840
Speaker 3: like for anyone, Like I think anyone here would be

1040
00:51:36,840 --> 00:51:39,080
Speaker 3: like we're so blessed all around that this is what

1041
00:51:39,080 --> 00:51:40,880
Speaker 3: we get to do for work. Yeah, but Will and

1042
00:51:40,880 --> 00:51:45,680
Speaker 3: Taylor like it's hard for and I'm not trying to glacier,

1043
00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:47,680
Speaker 3: but it's it's a hard job to just be on.

1044
00:51:48,400 --> 00:51:50,239
Speaker 3: And you can tell, like you got to be you know,

1045
00:51:50,800 --> 00:51:52,400
Speaker 3: it's not you just don't show up and go through

1046
00:51:52,440 --> 00:51:55,120
Speaker 3: the motions, whereas I think some people for work, you know,

1047
00:51:55,160 --> 00:51:56,399
Speaker 3: you can have a down day.

1048
00:51:56,400 --> 00:51:58,319
Speaker 1: There's certain days where you gotta be good to go.

1049
00:51:58,719 --> 00:52:01,280
Speaker 1: Like they're like you can get away with whatever attitude

1050
00:52:01,280 --> 00:52:03,120
Speaker 1: you were kind of wanting to selfishly have, but still

1051
00:52:03,120 --> 00:52:05,719
Speaker 1: grind out what your work is. That is true, dude.

1052
00:52:05,719 --> 00:52:08,120
Speaker 2: When I was working at that call center, it wasn't

1053
00:52:08,160 --> 00:52:10,680
Speaker 2: a call center, but when I had that cubicle job

1054
00:52:10,719 --> 00:52:14,359
Speaker 2: where I was just basically answering phone calls, if I

1055
00:52:14,440 --> 00:52:16,840
Speaker 2: was having the week from hell, nobody would know about

1056
00:52:16,880 --> 00:52:19,719
Speaker 2: it because I'm in my cubicle and I can just

1057
00:52:19,800 --> 00:52:21,320
Speaker 2: kind of like chill, relax.

1058
00:52:21,480 --> 00:52:21,719
Speaker 1: You know.

1059
00:52:22,000 --> 00:52:25,520
Speaker 2: Maybe I don't take sixty calls that day like I

1060
00:52:25,640 --> 00:52:26,080
Speaker 2: usually do.

1061
00:52:26,160 --> 00:52:27,200
Speaker 1: Maybe I just take twenty.

1062
00:52:27,840 --> 00:52:30,200
Speaker 2: I'm just kind of kicking it that week, and I'm

1063
00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:32,120
Speaker 2: not going to hear about it from my manager, not

1064
00:52:32,239 --> 00:52:36,120
Speaker 2: that we would ever, like hey, d da du that's

1065
00:52:36,160 --> 00:52:37,239
Speaker 2: not how it feels around here.

1066
00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:39,520
Speaker 1: But with the cameras on, you like, do kind of

1067
00:52:39,520 --> 00:52:40,040
Speaker 1: have to be on?

1068
00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:44,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, even production like today's day where I can't because

1069
00:52:44,400 --> 00:52:46,160
Speaker 3: this is going out tomorrow, Like I can't have a

1070
00:52:46,160 --> 00:52:48,720
Speaker 3: bad day. Yeah there, you know, like we're all around

1071
00:52:48,719 --> 00:52:51,160
Speaker 3: like Mitch runs the pod, can't have a bad Monday

1072
00:52:51,280 --> 00:52:51,560
Speaker 3: or something.

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00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:51,759
Speaker 1: There.

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00:52:51,840 --> 00:52:54,279
Speaker 3: It's like even if you are just who cares you

1075
00:52:54,440 --> 00:52:57,279
Speaker 3: gotta be ready to go. Yeah, so good dad talk

1076
00:52:57,360 --> 00:53:00,520
Speaker 3: right here, good dad talk. We just boways be boys,

1077
00:53:00,600 --> 00:53:03,120
Speaker 3: just leaning on each other. We get Hey, it's a

1078
00:53:03,120 --> 00:53:07,600
Speaker 3: little exhausting right now. We get to we get to

1079
00:53:08,600 --> 00:53:09,400
Speaker 3: we get to do it.

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00:53:09,480 --> 00:53:11,120
Speaker 1: We get too. Shout out there.

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00:53:15,560 --> 00:53:19,520
Speaker 2: That was really nice, very nice. What you just heard

1082
00:53:19,600 --> 00:53:25,840
Speaker 2: there was the opening of the Ollipop SpongeBob collaboration. Guys,

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00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:30,240
Speaker 2: this is the Pineapple Paradise, brought to you by Alli

1084
00:53:30,280 --> 00:53:36,240
Speaker 2: popa Team six, also known as Ollipop. This flavor specifically

1085
00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:43,040
Speaker 2: I'm a huge fan of. However, grape is Will's favorite flavor.

1086
00:53:43,160 --> 00:53:45,759
Speaker 2: That does not take away from how good this flavor is.

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00:53:46,200 --> 00:53:50,360
Speaker 2: The SpongeBob collaboration is really really good. If you like

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00:53:50,440 --> 00:53:56,200
Speaker 2: something fruity that feels clean when you're drinking, it feels light,

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00:53:56,960 --> 00:54:00,320
Speaker 2: but it's also like a sweet treat. I feel like

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00:54:00,400 --> 00:54:02,960
Speaker 2: that describes almost every single Lollipop flavor. But the one

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00:54:03,040 --> 00:54:05,480
Speaker 2: that I like, or the part that I like most

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00:54:05,520 --> 00:54:08,439
Speaker 2: about this one is that it does feel very light

1093
00:54:08,560 --> 00:54:13,000
Speaker 2: and crisp and just like guilt Free, I don't know,

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00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:24,040
Speaker 2: I digress. Ollipop has a collaboration with SpongeBob. The Pineapple

1095
00:54:24,080 --> 00:54:28,680
Speaker 2: Paradise is a juicy pineapple with a splash of Mandarin

1096
00:54:29,000 --> 00:54:33,920
Speaker 2: pure liquid joy, just like SpongeBob himself. They have five

1097
00:54:34,160 --> 00:54:39,200
Speaker 2: limited edition SpongeBob can designs hidden in each four pack.

1098
00:54:39,960 --> 00:54:43,080
Speaker 2: Each pack is a little treasure hunt and you never

1099
00:54:43,120 --> 00:54:45,680
Speaker 2: know which one you're gonna get. Collect them all and

1100
00:54:45,880 --> 00:54:53,359
Speaker 2: unlock sweet rewards at drink lollipop dot com Forward slash SpongeBob.

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00:54:54,640 --> 00:54:59,400
Speaker 2: We talked about before the love for Lollipop Will Compton

1102
00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:03,200
Speaker 2: and he is wanting to play video games with his boys.

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00:55:04,000 --> 00:55:04,839
Speaker 1: There's one thing that.

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00:55:04,800 --> 00:55:07,520
Speaker 2: He always does. He does his gas station run. He

1105
00:55:07,560 --> 00:55:10,520
Speaker 2: does his store run for snacks and drinks, and every

1106
00:55:10,520 --> 00:55:17,479
Speaker 2: single time he's getting Lollipop Grape Classic Grape. I love

1107
00:55:17,520 --> 00:55:22,279
Speaker 2: the Lollipop Vintage Cola. You also have heard that my

1108
00:55:22,520 --> 00:55:25,480
Speaker 2: wife loves the banana cream.

1109
00:55:27,000 --> 00:55:30,160
Speaker 1: With some creamer in there. I'll leave the.

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00:55:30,080 --> 00:55:33,600
Speaker 2: Name of the creamer company out, but she throws a

1111
00:55:33,600 --> 00:55:37,680
Speaker 2: little creamer into the banana cream, flavor mixes it up,

1112
00:55:38,160 --> 00:55:40,600
Speaker 2: gets it real nice and cold. With some ice in there,

1113
00:55:41,120 --> 00:55:44,680
Speaker 2: and that thing truly is like a milkshake. Do not

1114
00:55:44,960 --> 00:55:50,160
Speaker 2: heavy whipping cream in your banana cream lollipops. Guys, get

1115
00:55:50,200 --> 00:55:54,359
Speaker 2: two dollars off a four pack of lollipop at drinkollipop

1116
00:55:54,440 --> 00:55:55,120
Speaker 2: dot com.

1117
00:55:55,160 --> 00:55:56,600
Speaker 1: Forward slash Bustin.

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00:55:58,320 --> 00:56:02,799
Speaker 2: Works on any flavor of four, including the SpongeBob pack,

1119
00:56:03,480 --> 00:56:06,840
Speaker 2: and you can get that any retailer as well. Lollipop

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00:56:06,960 --> 00:56:11,120
Speaker 2: is sold online drinkollipop dot com. Plus it's on Amazon

1121
00:56:11,800 --> 00:56:18,840
Speaker 2: and available in almost fifty thousand retailers nationwide, including Costco, Walmart, Target, Publics,

1122
00:56:18,960 --> 00:56:24,120
Speaker 2: Whole Foods, Kroger, and HGB. Guys, go drink some lollipop.

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00:56:24,239 --> 00:56:28,040
Speaker 2: It really is. It's becoming the ship. Well, it's becoming

1124
00:56:28,160 --> 00:56:31,400
Speaker 2: the shop's favorite. It is the shop's favorite at this point.

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00:56:32,560 --> 00:56:33,120
Speaker 1: Ollipop.

1126
00:56:33,160 --> 00:56:36,160
Speaker 2: Also, if you're listening, to please send us some more lollipop,

1127
00:56:36,280 --> 00:56:40,360
Speaker 2: because we are desperately trying to keep these cans around

1128
00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:43,640
Speaker 2: for these ad reads to have on camera because everybody

1129
00:56:43,680 --> 00:56:48,319
Speaker 2: at the shop is control all deleting these lollipops. And hey,

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00:56:48,360 --> 00:56:53,080
Speaker 2: something I'm curious, well, please I want to hear from Okay, good.

1131
00:56:53,880 --> 00:56:57,600
Speaker 1: Something I'm curious about. Yes, because Scarlett is I keep

1132
00:56:57,640 --> 00:57:01,080
Speaker 1: almost calling her Scottie Scarlett is four months. Four months,

1133
00:57:01,600 --> 00:57:04,759
Speaker 1: So Jilly Bean's back at work. She's back at work, dude,

1134
00:57:04,800 --> 00:57:07,240
Speaker 1: how is how is Jillie being doing? How's mom getting

1135
00:57:07,280 --> 00:57:09,120
Speaker 1: back to work? I know, like Charos, she was like

1136
00:57:09,640 --> 00:57:12,799
Speaker 1: itching to get back to work because again during postpartum,

1137
00:57:12,880 --> 00:57:16,600
Speaker 1: and you know, for men, I don't know how everybody's

1138
00:57:16,600 --> 00:57:18,920
Speaker 1: paternity to leave is. Obviously yours is different than the

1139
00:57:18,920 --> 00:57:21,560
Speaker 1: majority of America is when you have small business. And

1140
00:57:21,880 --> 00:57:25,120
Speaker 1: I know when we had Scotty was in the middle

1141
00:57:25,120 --> 00:57:27,800
Speaker 1: of football season. When we had Rube, that was in April,

1142
00:57:27,840 --> 00:57:29,600
Speaker 1: so it was a little bit more of a lax time.

1143
00:57:29,680 --> 00:57:32,480
Speaker 1: But I was pretty much right back in the saddle

1144
00:57:32,520 --> 00:57:35,360
Speaker 1: with work, and it's very much you kind of feel

1145
00:57:35,400 --> 00:57:39,480
Speaker 1: like a guilt doing that. Yeah, the dad, because mom's

1146
00:57:39,520 --> 00:57:43,520
Speaker 1: got to be lockstep with the baby, with the newborn

1147
00:57:44,000 --> 00:57:46,600
Speaker 1: for you know, at least what is it eight weeks,

1148
00:57:46,600 --> 00:57:49,080
Speaker 1: twelve weeks, yeah, or maternity to leave. I don't know

1149
00:57:49,080 --> 00:57:51,720
Speaker 1: who everybody has something different, yeah, yeah, but I know

1150
00:57:51,800 --> 00:57:54,720
Speaker 1: it's always like draining because women like feel like they

1151
00:57:54,840 --> 00:57:57,680
Speaker 1: lose who they are. Like one of Charles's biggest fears

1152
00:57:57,760 --> 00:58:00,880
Speaker 1: was like losing her identity or not like losing her identity,

1153
00:58:00,920 --> 00:58:05,560
Speaker 1: but her identity being fully wrapped into motherhood. Anytime anybody

1154
00:58:05,600 --> 00:58:08,560
Speaker 1: would talk to her, she's almost like she didn't resent

1155
00:58:08,600 --> 00:58:11,000
Speaker 1: it or she didn't like push away from it, but

1156
00:58:11,280 --> 00:58:14,800
Speaker 1: like something internal like hated that. Now it's just everything motherhood.

1157
00:58:14,840 --> 00:58:16,880
Speaker 1: It's not like check on how's everything going, how's work,

1158
00:58:16,960 --> 00:58:19,320
Speaker 1: or how's this. They feel like they lose part of themselves.

1159
00:58:19,320 --> 00:58:21,480
Speaker 1: So I know when they get their body moving again,

1160
00:58:21,520 --> 00:58:23,520
Speaker 1: they can work out again, they can go back to work.

1161
00:58:23,560 --> 00:58:27,200
Speaker 1: It's almost like life gets to be like breathed back

1162
00:58:27,240 --> 00:58:29,800
Speaker 1: into them a little bit. Yes, that's exactly.

1163
00:58:30,640 --> 00:58:34,360
Speaker 2: Charro's journey sounds very much like Jill's. To the tea

1164
00:58:34,400 --> 00:58:37,000
Speaker 2: al mess of just Jill was itching to get back.

1165
00:58:37,800 --> 00:58:39,840
Speaker 2: Here's a little bit of anxiety that comes with it,

1166
00:58:39,920 --> 00:58:40,360
Speaker 2: I'm for.

1167
00:58:40,320 --> 00:58:42,800
Speaker 1: Sure because now it's like your first time away from

1168
00:58:42,800 --> 00:58:46,080
Speaker 1: the kid too. That was hard for Jill.

1169
00:58:46,560 --> 00:58:49,320
Speaker 2: That was really hard for Jill that first day of

1170
00:58:50,240 --> 00:58:53,840
Speaker 2: uh not being with Scarlet. A lot of face timing

1171
00:58:54,360 --> 00:58:56,720
Speaker 2: during her lunch breaks. Yeah, a lot of face time,

1172
00:58:56,840 --> 00:58:58,560
Speaker 2: which I've loved, the.

1173
00:58:58,480 --> 00:59:00,560
Speaker 1: Amount of photos that would have to come of the phone.

1174
00:59:01,240 --> 00:59:04,400
Speaker 1: The expectation for like dude, I want photos. My wife

1175
00:59:04,440 --> 00:59:06,520
Speaker 1: would be like, I want photos all day because the

1176
00:59:06,600 --> 00:59:08,200
Speaker 1: for like when you're away from the kid, it's like

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00:59:08,240 --> 00:59:10,840
Speaker 1: you're excited to go back, and then you're like, I

1178
00:59:10,880 --> 00:59:12,880
Speaker 1: kind of feel bad that I'm going back because I

1179
00:59:12,880 --> 00:59:14,120
Speaker 1: don't want to leave the kiddo.

1180
00:59:14,440 --> 00:59:17,800
Speaker 2: Yes, I did so many photos going back and forth.

1181
00:59:18,600 --> 00:59:23,040
Speaker 2: Uh to Jill, and I would say the only negative

1182
00:59:23,480 --> 00:59:27,240
Speaker 2: is she's in pediatric nursing and so the kid said,

1183
00:59:27,280 --> 00:59:30,640
Speaker 2: she's singing on her floor. It's hitting a bit harder

1184
00:59:30,680 --> 00:59:35,640
Speaker 2: emotionally for her because now she has scarlet and just

1185
00:59:35,960 --> 00:59:40,000
Speaker 2: like imagine it, because she sees some car rag you know,

1186
00:59:40,200 --> 00:59:45,680
Speaker 2: bad situation, bad situations, and she's now like attributing that

1187
00:59:45,720 --> 00:59:48,000
Speaker 2: to oh my gosh, what if that was scarlet? And

1188
00:59:48,040 --> 00:59:51,120
Speaker 2: so that kind of stuff's been hitting her really hard lately.

1189
00:59:51,160 --> 00:59:53,720
Speaker 2: I would say that's her main struggle is just like

1190
00:59:54,600 --> 00:59:57,560
Speaker 2: if anything happened to my sweet girl scarlet, like, oh

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00:59:57,600 --> 01:00:02,720
Speaker 2: my gosh. But she's loving being back. She has a

1192
01:00:02,880 --> 01:00:05,720
Speaker 2: very supportive team. Shout out to all the nurses on

1193
01:00:05,720 --> 01:00:08,480
Speaker 2: her floor. I've gotten to meet a lot of them,

1194
01:00:08,720 --> 01:00:11,160
Speaker 2: and they just have a really tight unit.

1195
01:00:11,480 --> 01:00:16,360
Speaker 1: They have a fun unit. Jill's been on some other floors.

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01:00:15,960 --> 01:00:20,080
Speaker 2: Where like everything doesn't click and said, this is other hospitals,

1197
01:00:20,160 --> 01:00:24,440
Speaker 2: but she's met on other floors where they don't mesh.

1198
01:00:24,720 --> 01:00:27,520
Speaker 2: I'm talking about all the girls don't mash on this floor,

1199
01:00:27,720 --> 01:00:30,840
Speaker 2: like they are all buddy buddy and they just are

1200
01:00:32,200 --> 01:00:34,280
Speaker 2: how can they help Jill? They want to hear about

1201
01:00:34,320 --> 01:00:39,120
Speaker 2: the kid. You know, it's cool, like she's really enjoying

1202
01:00:39,160 --> 01:00:44,720
Speaker 2: being back, but she's missing Scarlet. But I think her

1203
01:00:44,840 --> 01:00:48,640
Speaker 2: going back to has presented an opportunity for me to

1204
01:00:48,720 --> 01:00:51,880
Speaker 2: excel as a dad with the daycare drop offs and pickups.

1205
01:00:53,000 --> 01:00:59,240
Speaker 2: She is very like she did say, not that she

1206
01:00:59,320 --> 01:01:00,800
Speaker 2: was proud of me, but she was like, you've been

1207
01:01:00,960 --> 01:01:04,040
Speaker 2: you know, super dad lately with the drop offs and

1208
01:01:04,080 --> 01:01:08,800
Speaker 2: the pickups, which it's not all that hard, but it

1209
01:01:08,880 --> 01:01:11,760
Speaker 2: has been fun to like be able to show her like, hey,

1210
01:01:11,880 --> 01:01:14,400
Speaker 2: you can go work and I can make sure that

1211
01:01:14,680 --> 01:01:17,720
Speaker 2: Scarlett is getting to the daycare, that she's getting picked.

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01:01:17,560 --> 01:01:18,200
Speaker 1: Up on time.

1213
01:01:18,360 --> 01:01:22,480
Speaker 2: And so it's been a really good it's been a

1214
01:01:22,520 --> 01:01:23,720
Speaker 2: really good experience.

1215
01:01:23,800 --> 01:01:27,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's always there's always like blind spots that as

1216
01:01:28,080 --> 01:01:31,680
Speaker 1: as dads, we don't quite pick up on until it's like, hey,

1217
01:01:31,680 --> 01:01:33,840
Speaker 1: you've been super dead or hey, I could really use

1218
01:01:33,880 --> 01:01:35,560
Speaker 1: some help X, Y and Z, And you're not like

1219
01:01:35,640 --> 01:01:38,360
Speaker 1: realizing that there is help to be given. Yes, I do.

1220
01:01:38,440 --> 01:01:44,720
Speaker 1: I like with a with a Charro, you realize that

1221
01:01:45,080 --> 01:01:49,600
Speaker 1: the mom just takes on pretty much everything. Now, I'm

1222
01:01:49,640 --> 01:01:53,960
Speaker 1: not saying that dads don't do their best, aren't intentional,

1223
01:01:54,880 --> 01:01:57,040
Speaker 1: Like I feel like I'm intentional. I feel like I'm

1224
01:01:57,080 --> 01:02:00,160
Speaker 1: I'm I'm doing my best to figure out work I

1225
01:02:00,160 --> 01:02:02,720
Speaker 1: can help, how we can be a good team. We

1226
01:02:02,760 --> 01:02:05,160
Speaker 1: have a very good like partnership. But you just realize,

1227
01:02:05,200 --> 01:02:08,400
Speaker 1: like when they're working and they're on like a tough

1228
01:02:08,400 --> 01:02:10,840
Speaker 1: work schedule, like I can assume with Jill and being

1229
01:02:10,880 --> 01:02:14,040
Speaker 1: a nurse Charlie with being a business owner, it's just

1230
01:02:14,080 --> 01:02:19,120
Speaker 1: like their mind is constantly thinking about everything at all times,

1231
01:02:19,520 --> 01:02:21,800
Speaker 1: Like I'm that way with busting. It's like I feel

1232
01:02:21,800 --> 01:02:25,240
Speaker 1: like I'm just I feel like I'm just busting with

1233
01:02:25,320 --> 01:02:28,440
Speaker 1: the boys and dad. Whereas we got to carve out

1234
01:02:28,440 --> 01:02:29,920
Speaker 1: those times where I could be husband, where I could

1235
01:02:29,960 --> 01:02:32,480
Speaker 1: be boyfriend, where we do date nights or staycations, and

1236
01:02:32,680 --> 01:02:34,560
Speaker 1: we both got to be intentional. And Charo feels like

1237
01:02:34,600 --> 01:02:38,680
Speaker 1: she's business owner. Bar three in mom but with us

1238
01:02:38,720 --> 01:02:41,360
Speaker 1: the whole dad and mom thing, like if there were

1239
01:02:41,440 --> 01:02:44,760
Speaker 1: to be a scoreboard, there is no scoreboard. But when

1240
01:02:44,800 --> 01:02:46,520
Speaker 1: you do score gentlemen, you do have to let them

1241
01:02:46,560 --> 01:02:51,560
Speaker 1: know the details that they have to think about surrounding

1242
01:02:51,560 --> 01:02:53,560
Speaker 1: the kids at all times, compared to what I feel

1243
01:02:53,600 --> 01:02:56,040
Speaker 1: like we think about as Dad's like, we think about

1244
01:02:56,080 --> 01:02:57,800
Speaker 1: a lot of stuff, but as far as like the

1245
01:02:57,880 --> 01:03:01,600
Speaker 1: details in having the list of everything if if a

1246
01:03:01,680 --> 01:03:05,240
Speaker 1: new person comes over our babysitter, or they're gonna need

1247
01:03:05,280 --> 01:03:07,800
Speaker 1: this food or that bottle, or has the grocery store

1248
01:03:07,920 --> 01:03:09,959
Speaker 1: or what are we gonna have? What are we doing

1249
01:03:10,000 --> 01:03:12,600
Speaker 1: for dinner at all times? Like at all times every meal,

1250
01:03:12,680 --> 01:03:16,000
Speaker 1: everything down to a tee? Are we getting childcare for this? Okay,

1251
01:03:16,080 --> 01:03:17,560
Speaker 1: that's awesome if we want to go on a date,

1252
01:03:17,600 --> 01:03:19,640
Speaker 1: but you know, when we go on a date, will

1253
01:03:20,000 --> 01:03:21,720
Speaker 1: I'm the one who has to do the childcare? And

1254
01:03:21,760 --> 01:03:23,760
Speaker 1: then I'm thinking like an aha thing like okay, I

1255
01:03:23,800 --> 01:03:25,760
Speaker 1: got to figure out how I get the numbers of

1256
01:03:25,840 --> 01:03:28,680
Speaker 1: these people. So that way, it's like even though I'm saying, hey,

1257
01:03:28,720 --> 01:03:30,920
Speaker 1: I want to spend time with you, and you know,

1258
01:03:31,000 --> 01:03:33,000
Speaker 1: let's go date night Saturday, set up a date night

1259
01:03:33,040 --> 01:03:35,560
Speaker 1: it's like, all right, I'm having to do to put

1260
01:03:35,560 --> 01:03:39,560
Speaker 1: together the entire date night with coordinating childcare, coordinating these people,

1261
01:03:39,720 --> 01:03:44,560
Speaker 1: schedules of nanny, schedule of everybody. Yeah, and so it's

1262
01:03:44,560 --> 01:03:47,560
Speaker 1: like you just you learn over time as I have

1263
01:03:47,680 --> 01:03:50,960
Speaker 1: learned over time as husband as dad. When I am like, okay,

1264
01:03:50,960 --> 01:03:52,880
Speaker 1: well let's go do this. Yeah, you realize I have

1265
01:03:52,920 --> 01:03:54,360
Speaker 1: to be the one that puts this together. She's like,

1266
01:03:54,360 --> 01:03:56,760
Speaker 1: it doesn't just happen. I'm like, all right, all right,

1267
01:03:56,800 --> 01:03:58,920
Speaker 1: how can I you know? And then it's like, well,

1268
01:03:58,920 --> 01:04:01,480
Speaker 1: it'd be great if you just we're knowing it. I'm like, okay, yeah,

1269
01:04:01,520 --> 01:04:03,520
Speaker 1: you are right, Like, let me at least give me

1270
01:04:03,560 --> 01:04:05,320
Speaker 1: step one here, shoot me the numbers too, where I

1271
01:04:05,360 --> 01:04:10,880
Speaker 1: can talk to the people. But all to say, it's like, yeah,

1272
01:04:11,320 --> 01:04:14,320
Speaker 1: what women have to deal with, what women go through

1273
01:04:14,360 --> 01:04:17,720
Speaker 1: stress level wise? Yeah, I had all times with work,

1274
01:04:17,920 --> 01:04:22,400
Speaker 1: with career and being a mom. Hats all have hats off.

1275
01:04:22,680 --> 01:04:25,760
Speaker 1: We love Milk Team six. We love Milk Team six.

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Speaker 2: And I had a moment of weakness over the weekend

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Speaker 2: where I was just like I was feeling all the

1278
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Speaker 2: stress of everything and I.

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Speaker 1: Was letting Jill.

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01:04:35,920 --> 01:04:40,360
Speaker 2: Now, I was like, you know, I feel like I

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01:04:40,440 --> 01:04:42,600
Speaker 2: do all these things right, and then I get like

1282
01:04:42,840 --> 01:04:46,400
Speaker 2: nitpicked for the little things and body and it's like

1283
01:04:46,840 --> 01:04:49,320
Speaker 2: you're telling her that yes, And I was like, get

1284
01:04:49,360 --> 01:04:51,240
Speaker 2: the bottle cap and make sure you have the extra

1285
01:04:51,520 --> 01:04:53,320
Speaker 2: towel thing, and you got to put the water in

1286
01:04:53,400 --> 01:04:55,800
Speaker 2: first before the bottle, before you put the formula, and

1287
01:04:55,880 --> 01:04:57,640
Speaker 2: you have to make sure that the cap and all

1288
01:04:57,640 --> 01:04:59,600
Speaker 2: this stuff is in there. I'm like listening all those

1289
01:04:59,640 --> 01:05:03,040
Speaker 2: things that like I get nippicked on to Jill. And

1290
01:05:03,120 --> 01:05:07,200
Speaker 2: she was like, and but what about now you know

1291
01:05:07,280 --> 01:05:09,920
Speaker 2: how to do it. She was like, that's why I'm

1292
01:05:10,000 --> 01:05:12,280
Speaker 2: hard on you, because you can do it now. I'm

1293
01:05:12,320 --> 01:05:16,080
Speaker 2: teaching you, like I'm not just trying to like I'm

1294
01:05:16,080 --> 01:05:18,280
Speaker 2: not just trying to nippick you to nitpick you, like

1295
01:05:18,560 --> 01:05:20,960
Speaker 2: I'm telling you the things that you need to know

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01:05:21,240 --> 01:05:23,080
Speaker 2: in order to be a good dad. And I kind

1297
01:05:23,080 --> 01:05:26,720
Speaker 2: of like she did a full like reversal on men.

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01:05:27,280 --> 01:05:28,160
Speaker 1: She sabing you.

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01:05:28,520 --> 01:05:30,080
Speaker 2: She did, and I was sitting there, I was like,

1300
01:05:30,840 --> 01:05:34,480
Speaker 2: I was like, damn, yeah, she really has been like

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01:05:34,680 --> 01:05:38,760
Speaker 2: I am good at this because of Jill in her

1302
01:05:38,840 --> 01:05:42,160
Speaker 2: coaching and all those little things. I'm thinking, I'm so

1303
01:05:42,240 --> 01:05:44,040
Speaker 2: stressed trying to remember all these things.

1304
01:05:44,840 --> 01:05:48,800
Speaker 1: You know, does she to your point? And it's fast

1305
01:05:48,840 --> 01:05:51,400
Speaker 1: her all day, every day, And it's fascinating just how

1306
01:05:51,520 --> 01:05:54,040
Speaker 1: on top of it they are where there was no

1307
01:05:54,080 --> 01:05:58,680
Speaker 1: playbook for them before it happened. Yeah, but right, they like,

1308
01:05:59,000 --> 01:06:01,600
Speaker 1: you know, they weirdly like teach you and challenge you

1309
01:06:01,640 --> 01:06:04,520
Speaker 1: at the same time. Yeah, shout out the moms.

1310
01:06:04,720 --> 01:06:07,200
Speaker 2: Shut up the moms, dude, char I love you, Jill,

1311
01:06:07,480 --> 01:06:11,320
Speaker 2: Love you, Jill. I love you, charl I love you, dude.

1312
01:06:11,320 --> 01:06:13,680
Speaker 1: Shout out teamwork and parenting too. We will get to

1313
01:06:13,720 --> 01:06:15,720
Speaker 1: the phone call shout out to teamwork and parenting. I

1314
01:06:15,760 --> 01:06:18,080
Speaker 1: wanted to. That's another crack of cole when it's just

1315
01:06:18,520 --> 01:06:22,040
Speaker 1: good teamwork in parenting, whether you're setting each other up

1316
01:06:22,080 --> 01:06:24,920
Speaker 1: for success, like say you're all nighttime duty and then

1317
01:06:24,920 --> 01:06:26,880
Speaker 1: you're kind of setting up the feed or the next

1318
01:06:26,880 --> 01:06:29,320
Speaker 1: feed for your partner or just in the mornings. I

1319
01:06:29,360 --> 01:06:32,240
Speaker 1: know in our household, it's like charl will get like

1320
01:06:32,400 --> 01:06:34,960
Speaker 1: rude dressing ready, Like that's that to me. It's like

1321
01:06:35,000 --> 01:06:38,440
Speaker 1: I get two out of my depths of what exactly

1322
01:06:38,560 --> 01:06:41,240
Speaker 1: Ruth's gonna want to wear, because rue can be particular

1323
01:06:42,080 --> 01:06:44,000
Speaker 1: and I can give her options and everything else. But

1324
01:06:44,040 --> 01:06:46,840
Speaker 1: then when I get her dressed, she always wants like

1325
01:06:46,840 --> 01:06:49,800
Speaker 1: a certain hairstyle. And that's like I can do a ponytail.

1326
01:06:49,800 --> 01:06:51,440
Speaker 1: And if I can't do a ponytail, we're gonna get

1327
01:06:51,480 --> 01:06:54,000
Speaker 1: you a headband. Yeah, because my bag's not that deep.

1328
01:06:54,080 --> 01:06:56,320
Speaker 1: I can't do the braids. Like this morning, she comes

1329
01:06:56,400 --> 01:06:59,840
Speaker 1: down and she's got a ponytail, but in like not

1330
01:07:00,040 --> 01:07:03,120
Speaker 1: in the ponytail. The ponytail was just normal, normal look

1331
01:07:03,120 --> 01:07:05,640
Speaker 1: at ponytail. But before the ponytail, she had two braids

1332
01:07:05,680 --> 01:07:08,560
Speaker 1: going to the ponytail. I'm like, I can't do that, bro.

1333
01:07:09,920 --> 01:07:12,400
Speaker 1: So the way we operate for our teamwork success is

1334
01:07:12,800 --> 01:07:15,720
Speaker 1: I'll be getting the lunch ready, I'll be making breakfast.

1335
01:07:15,800 --> 01:07:19,080
Speaker 1: I'll be getting wifey's breakfast, going setting up you know,

1336
01:07:19,080 --> 01:07:21,800
Speaker 1: if we're gonna Scotty's gonna eventually eat, like getting her rolling.

1337
01:07:22,080 --> 01:07:24,600
Speaker 1: So just shout out to teamwork and just picking up

1338
01:07:24,640 --> 01:07:26,880
Speaker 1: slack for each other, picking up slack for your partner.

1339
01:07:27,160 --> 01:07:29,560
Speaker 1: There are times where I feel like Charo does something

1340
01:07:29,560 --> 01:07:31,120
Speaker 1: big time for me where I just feel like a

1341
01:07:31,160 --> 01:07:33,560
Speaker 1: stress is off, Like she'll know when we go out

1342
01:07:33,560 --> 01:07:35,280
Speaker 1: and fly to ESPN on Wednesday she like, hey, do

1343
01:07:35,320 --> 01:07:37,000
Speaker 1: you want to go? We want to go out to eat,

1344
01:07:37,040 --> 01:07:39,040
Speaker 1: and part of me is like, bro, I don't want

1345
01:07:39,080 --> 01:07:41,560
Speaker 1: to because then I miss We'll get home and I

1346
01:07:41,560 --> 01:07:43,440
Speaker 1: don't actually get to do bedtime, and I know that's

1347
01:07:43,520 --> 01:07:46,480
Speaker 1: going to eventually, Hey, I've done all these bedtimes and

1348
01:07:46,480 --> 01:07:48,160
Speaker 1: then that kind of falls back on me. So if

1349
01:07:48,160 --> 01:07:50,560
Speaker 1: I'm trying to strategize and play chess here, I would

1350
01:07:50,640 --> 01:07:53,120
Speaker 1: rather do bedtime so that way I don't have that

1351
01:07:53,200 --> 01:07:54,960
Speaker 1: guilt weighing on me at some point when you got

1352
01:07:54,960 --> 01:07:58,000
Speaker 1: to do two or three bedtimes in a row. But

1353
01:07:58,040 --> 01:08:01,680
Speaker 1: then when she has like the Cooper Coock mentality of

1354
01:08:01,800 --> 01:08:04,000
Speaker 1: ahead of time, how I've kind of expressed that and

1355
01:08:04,080 --> 01:08:07,080
Speaker 1: it's like, dude, I'll rip the I'll rip the bedtimes.

1356
01:08:07,120 --> 01:08:09,360
Speaker 1: Like here's the conversation I've had with myself about it

1357
01:08:09,360 --> 01:08:12,560
Speaker 1: to where it's made me feel alleviated stress. So shout

1358
01:08:12,560 --> 01:08:15,160
Speaker 1: out partners like picking up slack for each other. Shout

1359
01:08:15,160 --> 01:08:16,360
Speaker 1: out teamwork and parenting.

1360
01:08:16,880 --> 01:08:20,240
Speaker 2: Shout out teamwork and parenting. There there is no better

1361
01:08:20,360 --> 01:08:25,280
Speaker 2: feeling than falling short or feeling like you're going to

1362
01:08:25,320 --> 01:08:28,559
Speaker 2: fall short and somebody swooping in and being like, hey,

1363
01:08:28,600 --> 01:08:30,519
Speaker 2: even if you do fall short, I'll pick up the

1364
01:08:30,560 --> 01:08:31,160
Speaker 2: slack for you.

1365
01:08:31,160 --> 01:08:32,240
Speaker 1: We're a team like that.

1366
01:08:32,560 --> 01:08:36,479
Speaker 2: There's no better message, there's no better message. Or hey,

1367
01:08:36,560 --> 01:08:37,960
Speaker 2: it looks like you have a lot of stuff on

1368
01:08:38,000 --> 01:08:40,479
Speaker 2: your plate. What's one thing I can take off? What's

1369
01:08:40,479 --> 01:08:43,960
Speaker 2: one thing I can do the feeling of waking up

1370
01:08:44,439 --> 01:08:46,960
Speaker 2: and taking Scarlet to daycare? And there's all these little

1371
01:08:47,600 --> 01:08:51,200
Speaker 2: minute things that I have to do to get Scarlet

1372
01:08:51,240 --> 01:08:53,960
Speaker 2: ready for daycare. And every single morning when I come in,

1373
01:08:54,040 --> 01:08:56,519
Speaker 2: I see her little outfits already laid out, and I

1374
01:08:56,560 --> 01:08:58,479
Speaker 2: see that the bottles are already made and they're in

1375
01:08:58,520 --> 01:08:59,679
Speaker 2: the refrigerator in her.

1376
01:08:59,600 --> 01:09:01,600
Speaker 1: Little set up her success.

1377
01:09:01,240 --> 01:09:03,800
Speaker 2: And her backpack is hanging right there by the door

1378
01:09:03,960 --> 01:09:06,120
Speaker 2: with the extra blanky, the extra outfit.

1379
01:09:06,520 --> 01:09:10,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, Jill, I love you. Thank you for

1380
01:09:10,640 --> 01:09:11,040
Speaker 1: doing that.

1381
01:09:11,080 --> 01:09:14,519
Speaker 2: Because she does that on nights where she's about to

1382
01:09:14,560 --> 01:09:16,960
Speaker 2: go into work the next day. You know, she could

1383
01:09:16,960 --> 01:09:18,800
Speaker 2: be like, Hey, I want to go to bed and

1384
01:09:19,000 --> 01:09:21,719
Speaker 2: I'm sleepy, I'm tired, and yeah, she's doing that extra

1385
01:09:21,800 --> 01:09:24,559
Speaker 2: step on those nights of how can I said sherman

1386
01:09:24,680 --> 01:09:25,479
Speaker 2: up for success?

1387
01:09:25,800 --> 01:09:28,959
Speaker 1: And overall we don't realize it, but we're also modeling

1388
01:09:29,000 --> 01:09:31,400
Speaker 1: this teamwork in front of the kids. Yeah, you're also

1389
01:09:31,479 --> 01:09:33,919
Speaker 1: modeling this teamwork in front of Scarlet, front of Scottie

1390
01:09:33,920 --> 01:09:36,400
Speaker 1: and Rue. They see mom and dad working together. Well,

1391
01:09:37,000 --> 01:09:39,240
Speaker 1: give our being affectionate in front of them. Where we

1392
01:09:39,280 --> 01:09:41,040
Speaker 1: got the family, you know, Charling, I'll sit there and

1393
01:09:41,040 --> 01:09:42,680
Speaker 1: do our like eight second hug and I'll give her

1394
01:09:42,680 --> 01:09:44,439
Speaker 1: a kiss and a Roo runs over and she's like, Oh,

1395
01:09:44,479 --> 01:09:47,160
Speaker 1: it's it's group hug time. It's group hug. But just

1396
01:09:47,160 --> 01:09:49,320
Speaker 1: like modeling, all this teamwork is like a very good

1397
01:09:49,360 --> 01:09:52,800
Speaker 1: thing for the little ones. Yeah, let's get into some

1398
01:09:53,160 --> 01:09:55,080
Speaker 1: six and one. The Dad's the hotline hot line do

1399
01:09:55,080 --> 01:09:56,640
Speaker 1: you want to be featured on the show? Calling to

1400
01:09:56,880 --> 01:09:59,120
Speaker 1: the voicemail six and one The Dad's leave a voicemail

1401
01:09:59,120 --> 01:10:01,120
Speaker 1: can be about anything, will feature you on the show.

1402
01:10:01,560 --> 01:10:03,120
Speaker 1: We also have a couple of emails we will go

1403
01:10:03,160 --> 01:10:05,280
Speaker 1: through and if you are international or you just feel

1404
01:10:05,360 --> 01:10:08,640
Speaker 1: like you'd be more comfortable writing to us and using

1405
01:10:08,680 --> 01:10:11,040
Speaker 1: your voice, that would be six to one. The Dad's

1406
01:10:11,080 --> 01:10:14,360
Speaker 1: at gmail dot com.

1407
01:10:14,400 --> 01:10:19,320
Speaker 2: First call in this one is titled Ali Papa Team Sick,

1408
01:10:19,400 --> 01:10:20,960
Speaker 2: Oh Ali popa.

1409
01:10:22,520 --> 01:10:27,160
Speaker 1: Shout out, Ollipop boys, What up? It's Adam from Florida here.

1410
01:10:28,080 --> 01:10:31,880
Speaker 1: Holy shit? I not. I'm just I should you not.

1411
01:10:32,040 --> 01:10:35,640
Speaker 4: I tried the ollipop grape, uh, just to try it

1412
01:10:35,680 --> 01:10:37,120
Speaker 4: because you guys talked about it.

1413
01:10:37,120 --> 01:10:39,880
Speaker 1: It's fucking good. Yeah, I'm not even kidding you. I

1414
01:10:39,920 --> 01:10:41,360
Speaker 1: got the little boy here right now.

1415
01:10:43,000 --> 01:10:45,160
Speaker 4: He doesn't know words yet, so guys, I gotta watch

1416
01:10:45,160 --> 01:10:45,559
Speaker 4: the swearing.

1417
01:10:46,040 --> 01:10:49,639
Speaker 1: But holy fuck, this is good. Mom's on a little

1418
01:10:49,680 --> 01:10:51,120
Speaker 1: late duty nursing out there.

1419
01:10:51,520 --> 01:10:55,920
Speaker 4: We're hanging out little olli pop classic grape. Holy shit,

1420
01:10:56,240 --> 01:10:57,160
Speaker 4: rely one shelf.

1421
01:10:57,560 --> 01:10:58,519
Speaker 1: You're not fucking around.

1422
01:10:58,560 --> 01:11:01,439
Speaker 4: You know what's talking about? But I just wanted to

1423
01:11:01,439 --> 01:11:04,320
Speaker 4: get that. I guess it's not a free shoutout. This

1424
01:11:04,400 --> 01:11:08,400
Speaker 4: is a sponsor baby, Jeff. That's bad for Derek. Miss

1425
01:11:08,439 --> 01:11:10,240
Speaker 4: you boys, even though I never met you.

1426
01:11:10,360 --> 01:11:11,200
Speaker 1: I don't know what to say.

1427
01:11:11,240 --> 01:11:15,000
Speaker 4: This ollipop great life changing. Hell yeah, boys, PT six out,

1428
01:11:15,080 --> 01:11:15,920
Speaker 4: keep it rolling.

1429
01:11:16,760 --> 01:11:23,360
Speaker 1: That was an awful sign out. That's all time. Hang

1430
01:11:23,439 --> 01:11:25,440
Speaker 1: the banner a banner.

1431
01:11:25,800 --> 01:11:31,280
Speaker 2: I want Adam in the shop immediately, immediately.

1432
01:11:30,960 --> 01:11:33,680
Speaker 1: Papa Team six oh in ollipop.

1433
01:11:33,760 --> 01:11:39,400
Speaker 2: That's hey, we get the dad ollipop going. That's that's

1434
01:11:39,439 --> 01:11:43,080
Speaker 2: it right there. That is the well what do we

1435
01:11:43,160 --> 01:11:44,040
Speaker 2: what do we want to call it?

1436
01:11:44,080 --> 01:11:45,599
Speaker 1: Do we want to call it Papa Drink six.

1437
01:11:49,640 --> 01:11:51,600
Speaker 5: I think the only teams she said is Papa and

1438
01:11:51,640 --> 01:11:53,680
Speaker 5: then Ollipopa team six, So we've done both of them.

1439
01:11:53,680 --> 01:11:57,439
Speaker 1: I'm cool with Alli Papa team six. That's a great one. God,

1440
01:11:57,600 --> 01:12:01,120
Speaker 1: we gotta make it happen. That right there. His name Adam, Adam,

1441
01:12:01,160 --> 01:12:03,200
Speaker 1: thank you for bringing the vibes. Well, we just did

1442
01:12:03,240 --> 01:12:06,120
Speaker 1: an entire pot number one. Happy birthday again to scott Zilla.

1443
01:12:06,200 --> 01:12:07,960
Speaker 1: But we just did a nice vent session with the

1444
01:12:08,000 --> 01:12:10,240
Speaker 1: boys kind of bitching and complaining a little bit with

1445
01:12:10,280 --> 01:12:12,280
Speaker 1: each other, which just you kind of need that in

1446
01:12:12,360 --> 01:12:15,599
Speaker 1: camaraderie community because no matter what, we're gonna embrace the suck,

1447
01:12:15,800 --> 01:12:18,479
Speaker 1: but sometimes it's good to just talk about the suck. Yeah,

1448
01:12:18,479 --> 01:12:20,960
Speaker 1: with each other. Then we're sitting here, we just we

1449
01:12:21,120 --> 01:12:24,760
Speaker 1: spinning around. Sweetheart, drop them, let us tell you how

1450
01:12:24,080 --> 01:12:27,360
Speaker 1: how much we love you. We're just hyping up all

1451
01:12:27,360 --> 01:12:30,440
Speaker 1: the moms. We go into this weird phase of complaining,

1452
01:12:30,760 --> 01:12:33,799
Speaker 1: shout out the moms and then just to get a vibe,

1453
01:12:33,960 --> 01:12:39,559
Speaker 1: a vibe check like Adam, that was deal. Hey, by

1454
01:12:39,600 --> 01:12:41,920
Speaker 1: the way, it didn't click in my head to where

1455
01:12:41,960 --> 01:12:43,800
Speaker 1: the mom's saying drop them. I was thinking of the

1456
01:12:43,840 --> 01:12:45,919
Speaker 1: shirm part where I'm like, let me give you a compliment.

1457
01:12:46,000 --> 01:12:50,559
Speaker 1: But then it's like, okay, that's a different, different visual.

1458
01:12:51,640 --> 01:12:55,519
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, what a different visual of what? Nothing? Okay,

1459
01:12:56,160 --> 01:12:57,800
Speaker 1: this is this is me and my own mook. You

1460
01:12:57,920 --> 01:13:01,400
Speaker 1: were thinking out loud. Yeah, yeah, I'm thinking I'm doing

1461
01:13:01,400 --> 01:13:04,000
Speaker 1: the joke mom, like, Mom, drop them, like you know,

1462
01:13:04,080 --> 01:13:06,160
Speaker 1: sure them earlier on the compliment, drop them, let me

1463
01:13:06,160 --> 01:13:10,040
Speaker 1: give you a compliment. Oh god. Then I say that, yeah, mom,

1464
01:13:10,120 --> 01:13:11,640
Speaker 1: dropping them. When I said that, I kind of was

1465
01:13:11,680 --> 01:13:13,240
Speaker 1: like studying a little bit more like, oh, that's a

1466
01:13:13,280 --> 01:13:19,639
Speaker 1: different yeah, don't drop your packs. Good, Oh my gosh.

1467
01:13:20,280 --> 01:13:22,559
Speaker 1: Then you guys were really responding. I'm like, okay, maybe

1468
01:13:22,560 --> 01:13:24,920
Speaker 1: this is just me fighting my own fight mentally right now.

1469
01:13:26,000 --> 01:13:29,200
Speaker 1: Thank you, Adam, Thank you, Polly, Poppa Team six, thank

1470
01:13:29,240 --> 01:13:33,280
Speaker 1: you Adam. Uh one more or we can move to emails.

1471
01:13:33,560 --> 01:13:35,880
Speaker 1: One more. Let's we can't. Yeah, we got it. We

1472
01:13:35,920 --> 01:13:38,480
Speaker 1: need another one. Here's a guys trip question.

1473
01:13:39,640 --> 01:13:44,840
Speaker 6: Fellas a long time listener, first time caller. I I

1474
01:13:44,880 --> 01:13:46,880
Speaker 6: love your guys to show you guys do an awesome job.

1475
01:13:46,920 --> 01:13:51,679
Speaker 6: I really appreciate it. I'm assumed to be expecting father

1476
01:13:51,800 --> 01:13:54,080
Speaker 6: my wife's twenty four weeks pregnant, so I got a

1477
01:13:54,120 --> 01:13:57,880
Speaker 6: little bit more time, but recently calling todays, I really

1478
01:13:57,880 --> 01:14:01,920
Speaker 6: wanted to ask your opinion on this specific issue, which

1479
01:14:01,960 --> 01:14:06,360
Speaker 6: is me and my wife have a great relationship. Married

1480
01:14:06,400 --> 01:14:08,759
Speaker 6: life without kids been great, but I am super excited

1481
01:14:08,760 --> 01:14:13,040
Speaker 6: about being a father. However, I'm thinking about some of

1482
01:14:13,080 --> 01:14:16,599
Speaker 6: those annual trips i'd gone with my boys, you know,

1483
01:14:17,520 --> 01:14:20,080
Speaker 6: the hunting trips, the golf trips, that type of thing,

1484
01:14:20,600 --> 01:14:25,080
Speaker 6: and when is it appropriate to talk about, you know,

1485
01:14:25,160 --> 01:14:30,080
Speaker 6: continuing those traditions with my friends, and how to approach

1486
01:14:30,120 --> 01:14:33,639
Speaker 6: that conversation with my wife. You know. The one specific

1487
01:14:33,720 --> 01:14:38,120
Speaker 6: instance is like every year in May, I do a

1488
01:14:38,160 --> 01:14:40,960
Speaker 6: fishing trip with three of my best buddies from growing up.

1489
01:14:41,439 --> 01:14:43,879
Speaker 6: It's like a four day trip. It's never anything crazy,

1490
01:14:44,240 --> 01:14:46,599
Speaker 6: but we're going to have a two month old baby

1491
01:14:47,000 --> 01:14:50,560
Speaker 6: when that trip comes around. How do I approach that conversation.

1492
01:14:51,120 --> 01:14:56,480
Speaker 6: I can't wait to hear from you guys. Thanks.

1493
01:14:54,720 --> 01:15:01,599
Speaker 2: That specific situation that he brought up is way harder

1494
01:15:01,640 --> 01:15:06,759
Speaker 2: than just the conversation of having a boy's trip, because

1495
01:15:06,800 --> 01:15:11,080
Speaker 2: I feel like that is a very fair thing to want.

1496
01:15:11,200 --> 01:15:15,840
Speaker 2: I feel like girls want their girls trips, like completely

1497
01:15:15,920 --> 01:15:18,880
Speaker 2: normal thing to want. To do an annual trip with

1498
01:15:18,960 --> 01:15:22,559
Speaker 2: your boys or empty six ers with their girls. I

1499
01:15:22,600 --> 01:15:25,360
Speaker 2: think don't have any fear going into that conversation. But

1500
01:15:25,439 --> 01:15:28,880
Speaker 2: the one that he just brought up, Yeah, the two months,

1501
01:15:29,439 --> 01:15:30,280
Speaker 2: that's hard.

1502
01:15:31,040 --> 01:15:36,080
Speaker 1: That Yeah, that's a slippery, slippery slope, my friend. Yeah.

1503
01:15:36,520 --> 01:15:41,439
Speaker 1: My advice number one would just be, what's the worst

1504
01:15:41,439 --> 01:15:42,720
Speaker 1: that could happen if you bring it up to talk

1505
01:15:42,760 --> 01:15:45,599
Speaker 1: about it? You just you have to be prepared. Your

1506
01:15:45,600 --> 01:15:50,760
Speaker 1: mentality has to be prepared and open to You might

1507
01:15:50,800 --> 01:15:53,880
Speaker 1: miss your first one, but that might that'll be the

1508
01:15:53,880 --> 01:15:56,639
Speaker 1: only one that you miss. Yeah, but you're gonna miss.

1509
01:15:57,560 --> 01:16:00,799
Speaker 1: I could see you missing this first one. It truly

1510
01:16:00,840 --> 01:16:03,400
Speaker 1: depends where wife he's going to be. Let's say, if

1511
01:16:03,439 --> 01:16:07,000
Speaker 1: she's open to it right now, I think though this

1512
01:16:07,080 --> 01:16:09,840
Speaker 1: is gonna be this is gonna be a process. I

1513
01:16:09,840 --> 01:16:14,360
Speaker 1: think step one is if she's open to it this early,

1514
01:16:15,240 --> 01:16:17,400
Speaker 1: I think that's a win to set up the next

1515
01:16:17,439 --> 01:16:20,479
Speaker 1: conversation because if you get her open to it or

1516
01:16:20,600 --> 01:16:23,559
Speaker 1: saying even if she says yes, I want you to

1517
01:16:23,640 --> 01:16:26,599
Speaker 1: slow her down and say, I honestly, this isn't even

1518
01:16:26,640 --> 01:16:29,559
Speaker 1: something I'm wanting to commit to right now. It was

1519
01:16:29,600 --> 01:16:32,439
Speaker 1: more of like wanting to just start the conversation because

1520
01:16:32,439 --> 01:16:35,240
Speaker 1: we don't know where you're going to be eight weeks postpartum,

1521
01:16:35,280 --> 01:16:38,280
Speaker 1: two months into to being mom. So I love you

1522
01:16:38,400 --> 01:16:40,280
Speaker 1: for saying yes now, but I just want to pull

1523
01:16:40,320 --> 01:16:42,240
Speaker 1: you back because we can circle back to this conversation

1524
01:16:42,439 --> 01:16:45,760
Speaker 1: conversation in the future. I think that is where that's

1525
01:16:45,800 --> 01:16:48,840
Speaker 1: a double win if you If you let her say yeah,

1526
01:16:48,880 --> 01:16:50,080
Speaker 1: I'm down for you to do it, and then you

1527
01:16:50,120 --> 01:16:52,360
Speaker 1: hold her to it, there could be you. Truly, I'm

1528
01:16:52,400 --> 01:16:57,000
Speaker 1: telling you it. Postpartum is just a different beast man hormonally, mentally,

1529
01:16:57,080 --> 01:17:00,599
Speaker 1: it's just a different animal. I'm not saying good, bad,

1530
01:17:00,600 --> 01:17:02,639
Speaker 1: and different. I'm just saying it's just a different person

1531
01:17:02,680 --> 01:17:05,720
Speaker 1: that's going on because having this new child.

1532
01:17:06,000 --> 01:17:09,840
Speaker 2: I would list everything that made you want to call

1533
01:17:09,880 --> 01:17:13,400
Speaker 2: in and ask us, like how do I go about

1534
01:17:13,439 --> 01:17:16,040
Speaker 2: doing this? You obviously have some worries in your head

1535
01:17:17,120 --> 01:17:21,559
Speaker 2: of and list those things down of like I'm worried,

1536
01:17:21,640 --> 01:17:23,200
Speaker 2: how is she going to be able to do this?

1537
01:17:23,479 --> 01:17:25,839
Speaker 1: How how can I set her up for success?

1538
01:17:26,000 --> 01:17:29,040
Speaker 2: Maybe he lives twenty minutes from his in laws, the

1539
01:17:29,040 --> 01:17:32,280
Speaker 2: in laws can come over and help, et cetera, et cetera.

1540
01:17:33,400 --> 01:17:36,800
Speaker 2: Start off that conversation with a write it down and

1541
01:17:36,880 --> 01:17:39,240
Speaker 2: sure that you wrote it down of these are things

1542
01:17:39,320 --> 01:17:43,000
Speaker 2: I'm worried about if I did do this trip. It's

1543
01:17:43,120 --> 01:17:45,479
Speaker 2: we're two months into our new child. Or do you

1544
01:17:45,479 --> 01:17:48,720
Speaker 2: feel comfortable with that, like let her know that you

1545
01:17:48,800 --> 01:17:51,040
Speaker 2: are worried about this stuff and that you're not just

1546
01:17:51,080 --> 01:17:53,680
Speaker 2: coming to her going hey, I go fishing with the

1547
01:17:53,720 --> 01:17:56,040
Speaker 2: boys or like what you know what I mean, you

1548
01:17:56,120 --> 01:17:58,280
Speaker 2: got to anchor her emotion first, So you need to

1549
01:17:58,320 --> 01:18:00,000
Speaker 2: start off by just saying, hey, can we have.

1550
01:18:01,439 --> 01:18:04,439
Speaker 1: Would you mind if we have a serious conversation. Yeah.

1551
01:18:04,720 --> 01:18:06,840
Speaker 1: She might chuckle, she might laugh, but you keep a

1552
01:18:06,880 --> 01:18:11,320
Speaker 1: straight face. And then you say, I'll be honest, like,

1553
01:18:11,560 --> 01:18:16,520
Speaker 1: I'm terrified to bring this up just because it's it's important,

1554
01:18:16,520 --> 01:18:18,439
Speaker 1: but it's also not important at the same time, and

1555
01:18:18,479 --> 01:18:21,000
Speaker 1: I'm just scared of what your reaction might be. You're

1556
01:18:21,000 --> 01:18:24,400
Speaker 1: now anchoring her in to where what is he about

1557
01:18:24,439 --> 01:18:28,200
Speaker 1: to say right now? And then you just simply let

1558
01:18:28,200 --> 01:18:31,919
Speaker 1: her know you know that I have this. It's honestly,

1559
01:18:32,000 --> 01:18:34,519
Speaker 1: it's you know, I have this annual fishing trip with

1560
01:18:34,560 --> 01:18:37,719
Speaker 1: the boys that lands in May, and I'm not looking

1561
01:18:37,760 --> 01:18:39,760
Speaker 1: for you to say yes, I can do it. I'm

1562
01:18:39,840 --> 01:18:43,680
Speaker 1: just truly my fears in bringing up could it be

1563
01:18:43,720 --> 01:18:47,840
Speaker 1: a conversation when that time starts to come, like once

1564
01:18:47,880 --> 01:18:49,960
Speaker 1: this baby comes and we get into a rhythm and

1565
01:18:50,000 --> 01:18:51,920
Speaker 1: we figure out all the things that might be needed

1566
01:18:51,960 --> 01:18:54,559
Speaker 1: in this situation. But would you be willing to have

1567
01:18:54,600 --> 01:18:57,000
Speaker 1: that conversation or is it just completely shit? I just

1568
01:18:57,040 --> 01:18:58,960
Speaker 1: put her off the table right now. I'm willing to

1569
01:18:59,000 --> 01:19:00,920
Speaker 1: do that. I'm just I'm wanting to know. That's why

1570
01:19:00,920 --> 01:19:03,240
Speaker 1: I'm bringing it up to you. Maybe, sweetheart, you go

1571
01:19:03,320 --> 01:19:04,960
Speaker 1: on that trip every year. Of course, I want you

1572
01:19:05,000 --> 01:19:06,960
Speaker 1: to still go on that trip. And even once she's

1573
01:19:07,000 --> 01:19:09,320
Speaker 1: doing that, you might think you're winning, But the ultimate

1574
01:19:09,479 --> 01:19:12,200
Speaker 1: finish is you got to rain. You gotta rein it

1575
01:19:12,240 --> 01:19:15,200
Speaker 1: back in to where you get her to say, Sweetheart,

1576
01:19:15,240 --> 01:19:17,280
Speaker 1: I'm not wanting you to say yes right now. I'm

1577
01:19:17,320 --> 01:19:19,519
Speaker 1: just all I was truly wanting to do is if

1578
01:19:19,560 --> 01:19:21,720
Speaker 1: it could be a conversation when that time comes. I

1579
01:19:21,760 --> 01:19:23,439
Speaker 1: want us to wait till the baby comes and we

1580
01:19:23,479 --> 01:19:24,840
Speaker 1: get in to think of it for a little bit

1581
01:19:24,840 --> 01:19:26,680
Speaker 1: and we start to get a feel for what this

1582
01:19:26,760 --> 01:19:28,360
Speaker 1: rhythm is going to be like, because there would be

1583
01:19:28,400 --> 01:19:29,760
Speaker 1: a lot of work to be done for me to

1584
01:19:29,800 --> 01:19:32,879
Speaker 1: even consider going on a trip like this and.

1585
01:19:32,720 --> 01:19:36,320
Speaker 2: Set you up for success in these ways, and may

1586
01:19:36,520 --> 01:19:40,400
Speaker 2: is okay if your mom's coming in, that's where the

1587
01:19:40,439 --> 01:19:42,519
Speaker 2: list comes in. That's where the list comes in. Yeah,

1588
01:19:42,640 --> 01:19:44,680
Speaker 2: Like I've gained planned a little bit.

1589
01:19:44,880 --> 01:19:45,240
Speaker 1: What are you?

1590
01:19:45,400 --> 01:19:47,479
Speaker 2: How do you feel about these are some steps that

1591
01:19:48,000 --> 01:19:50,080
Speaker 2: I think we should take in order to make this

1592
01:19:50,240 --> 01:19:55,240
Speaker 2: comfortable and doable. And you may even come across just

1593
01:19:55,280 --> 01:19:58,920
Speaker 2: by having the conversation. I know, with certain types of fishing,

1594
01:19:58,920 --> 01:20:02,960
Speaker 2: there's season the rivers thaw out in Colorado if you're

1595
01:20:03,000 --> 01:20:05,879
Speaker 2: like fly fish or whatever. So maybe it's not something

1596
01:20:06,280 --> 01:20:09,080
Speaker 2: that you can push. But let's say you do have

1597
01:20:09,160 --> 01:20:12,880
Speaker 2: this conversation and Wifey says, hey, at the two month mark,

1598
01:20:13,200 --> 01:20:16,200
Speaker 2: I don't know, but what about it three months because

1599
01:20:16,240 --> 01:20:18,120
Speaker 2: then my mom's going to be in town and can

1600
01:20:18,160 --> 01:20:18,479
Speaker 2: help me.

1601
01:20:18,600 --> 01:20:19,040
Speaker 1: Da da da.

1602
01:20:19,680 --> 01:20:23,679
Speaker 2: Then pitch that to the boys of like, hey, y'all

1603
01:20:23,680 --> 01:20:26,040
Speaker 2: don't have to say yes this, but Wifey's saying it's

1604
01:20:26,040 --> 01:20:28,960
Speaker 2: a for sure yes if I can do these dates, Like,

1605
01:20:29,040 --> 01:20:31,679
Speaker 2: everybody can kind of come together and find a solve

1606
01:20:32,040 --> 01:20:34,920
Speaker 2: if you communicate. But if you wait till the last

1607
01:20:34,960 --> 01:20:37,640
Speaker 2: second and then go eh.

1608
01:20:36,880 --> 01:20:40,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, don't wait, bring it in now, yeah, anchor in

1609
01:20:40,200 --> 01:20:42,479
Speaker 1: the emotion. Yeah. And again, we're not trying to get

1610
01:20:42,520 --> 01:20:45,360
Speaker 1: her to yes right now. If she says yes, that's beautiful,

1611
01:20:45,439 --> 01:20:47,559
Speaker 1: now rain her back in and just say no, this

1612
01:20:47,640 --> 01:20:49,960
Speaker 1: is a no. I don't even think we consider it

1613
01:20:50,040 --> 01:20:52,519
Speaker 1: unless we have these things lined that we don't know.

1614
01:20:52,640 --> 01:20:54,760
Speaker 1: We don't know when this newborn comes. Now. I want

1615
01:20:54,760 --> 01:20:56,760
Speaker 1: to be fully equipped to make you. I want to

1616
01:20:56,760 --> 01:20:59,439
Speaker 1: feel like I'm setting you up for six for setting

1617
01:20:59,520 --> 01:21:02,760
Speaker 1: you up for success, even if we do such a thing.

1618
01:21:03,240 --> 01:21:06,200
Speaker 1: And then what a move by you see if we

1619
01:21:06,240 --> 01:21:09,200
Speaker 1: can create more options within the boys, like does the

1620
01:21:09,280 --> 01:21:12,439
Speaker 1: trip have to be on this weekend in May every year?

1621
01:21:12,560 --> 01:21:15,000
Speaker 1: Can you move it one week back? Can you figure

1622
01:21:15,080 --> 01:21:17,880
Speaker 1: something else out? And my man, this will be the

1623
01:21:17,920 --> 01:21:19,920
Speaker 1: only year you have to do this, that's the only

1624
01:21:20,000 --> 01:21:22,200
Speaker 1: year your guide trips are super important. I will say

1625
01:21:22,200 --> 01:21:23,759
Speaker 1: in the future, you're gonna have to think about family

1626
01:21:23,760 --> 01:21:25,519
Speaker 1: trips that go along. You have a hunting trip, you

1627
01:21:25,520 --> 01:21:27,200
Speaker 1: have a fishing trip. You're gonna have to figure out

1628
01:21:27,200 --> 01:21:28,439
Speaker 1: a family trip in the middle of the year. So

1629
01:21:28,479 --> 01:21:31,599
Speaker 1: that way the family, the wife knows like that's always

1630
01:21:31,600 --> 01:21:33,679
Speaker 1: gonna be priority. She needs to have a girl's trip

1631
01:21:33,720 --> 01:21:38,280
Speaker 1: every year. You're in a good spot, appreciate the question,

1632
01:21:38,560 --> 01:21:41,639
Speaker 1: and you're not asking anything crazy. Yeah, you ain't out

1633
01:21:41,680 --> 01:21:44,080
Speaker 1: of it. It's never over till it's over. Hey, don't

1634
01:21:44,200 --> 01:21:46,760
Speaker 1: and don't skip over that for any and slip that

1635
01:21:46,800 --> 01:21:47,160
Speaker 1: we had.

1636
01:21:47,520 --> 01:21:49,920
Speaker 5: Shout out the wording of his question. Two, not hey, guys,

1637
01:21:49,960 --> 01:21:51,599
Speaker 5: should I go on the trip? It's hey, how should

1638
01:21:51,600 --> 01:21:53,680
Speaker 5: I have this discussion? So I just want to say,

1639
01:21:53,680 --> 01:21:55,880
Speaker 5: shout out the wording. His mentality is already correct.

1640
01:21:56,000 --> 01:21:57,760
Speaker 2: He's already correct, and I feel like we're in the

1641
01:21:57,800 --> 01:22:01,320
Speaker 2: think tank with him. We are, and keep us updated.

1642
01:22:01,400 --> 01:22:04,120
Speaker 2: Let us know how the conversation set us. An invite

1643
01:22:04,320 --> 01:22:05,840
Speaker 2: says around. I like fishing.

1644
01:22:05,920 --> 01:22:07,559
Speaker 1: Oh, twist my arm. All right, we got we got

1645
01:22:07,560 --> 01:22:09,559
Speaker 1: about ten minutes left. Let's dive in. I might have

1646
01:22:09,600 --> 01:22:11,680
Speaker 1: time for an email or two. I got one that

1647
01:22:11,720 --> 01:22:13,560
Speaker 1: has a photo. There's a photo with this one I

1648
01:22:13,640 --> 01:22:17,639
Speaker 1: have written in blue. I do as well. Fellas longtime

1649
01:22:17,680 --> 01:22:20,120
Speaker 1: listener to the bus since the og Vrabel and Quentin

1650
01:22:20,160 --> 01:22:22,680
Speaker 1: Nelson pod in twenty nineteen, and recently got into for

1651
01:22:22,800 --> 01:22:25,360
Speaker 1: the Dads for a nice little change of pace. My

1652
01:22:25,439 --> 01:22:28,080
Speaker 1: wife and I got married in February and have recently

1653
01:22:28,120 --> 01:22:31,320
Speaker 1: fallen on some dog shit hard times story for another day.

1654
01:22:31,400 --> 01:22:35,280
Speaker 1: Parentheses good, but your pot in this community of bros

1655
01:22:35,320 --> 01:22:37,559
Speaker 1: and dads has truly giving me some grounding since I

1656
01:22:37,600 --> 01:22:40,120
Speaker 1: started listening. My wife and I do not have any kids,

1657
01:22:40,960 --> 01:22:42,920
Speaker 1: but I'm writing this as our two year old, sixty

1658
01:22:42,960 --> 01:22:45,800
Speaker 1: pound pup naps on my chest, so I believe this

1659
01:22:45,880 --> 01:22:48,320
Speaker 1: is what happiness feels like as a father. I work

1660
01:22:48,360 --> 01:22:51,080
Speaker 1: in law enforcement across the border in the great state

1661
01:22:51,439 --> 01:22:54,799
Speaker 1: of North Carolina, and last week was involved in a shooting.

1662
01:22:55,200 --> 01:22:57,120
Speaker 1: To make a long story short, we were chasing a

1663
01:22:57,160 --> 01:23:00,479
Speaker 1: double homicide suspect who had just kidnapped a woman from home.

1664
01:23:00,800 --> 01:23:04,840
Speaker 1: During the chase, he shoots at us. Turns out turns

1665
01:23:04,840 --> 01:23:07,000
Speaker 1: out that shit pisses you off more than anything. The

1666
01:23:07,040 --> 01:23:09,640
Speaker 1: boys and I wind up taking care of business. In

1667
01:23:09,680 --> 01:23:11,720
Speaker 1: the middle of all this, I cannot stop thinking of

1668
01:23:11,760 --> 01:23:13,800
Speaker 1: my wife and how we have so much life left

1669
01:23:13,800 --> 01:23:15,719
Speaker 1: to live and how much I need her in my life.

1670
01:23:16,200 --> 01:23:19,200
Speaker 1: As I'm sitting in the hospital uninjured, just a precaution,

1671
01:23:20,000 --> 01:23:21,960
Speaker 1: I throw some headphones in and listen to the most

1672
01:23:21,960 --> 01:23:25,320
Speaker 1: recent episode of Dads. That episode just so happens to

1673
01:23:25,360 --> 01:23:27,799
Speaker 1: be the one where you both are gushing over your wives,

1674
01:23:28,200 --> 01:23:31,080
Speaker 1: truly driving the point home that I love mine with

1675
01:23:31,160 --> 01:23:33,240
Speaker 1: all my being and cannot wait to get past this

1676
01:23:33,400 --> 01:23:36,280
Speaker 1: funk so that we can live the happiest, healthiest life together.

1677
01:23:36,640 --> 01:23:38,880
Speaker 1: I don't know how religious you all are, and sometimes

1678
01:23:38,880 --> 01:23:40,800
Speaker 1: I struggle with it myself, but at the end of

1679
01:23:40,840 --> 01:23:44,000
Speaker 1: the day, there's a reason for how and why everything happens,

1680
01:23:44,000 --> 01:23:46,280
Speaker 1: and this blip on the radar will make us stronger

1681
01:23:46,320 --> 01:23:48,320
Speaker 1: than ever. Thank you both for everything that all you

1682
01:23:48,360 --> 01:23:50,200
Speaker 1: do and for keeping those of us on the straight

1683
01:23:50,240 --> 01:23:53,080
Speaker 1: and narrow when it really feels like life is out

1684
01:23:53,120 --> 01:23:56,960
Speaker 1: to get us. PS. Since that above story is still

1685
01:23:57,000 --> 01:23:59,840
Speaker 1: like an ongoing thing, could you keep this all anonymous?

1686
01:24:00,000 --> 01:24:03,800
Speaker 1: I appreciate it. You all the homies love you. Did

1687
01:24:03,800 --> 01:24:07,240
Speaker 1: he say his name it all? And that Nope? He

1688
01:24:07,320 --> 01:24:11,519
Speaker 1: did not? So show the photos? Yeah, okay, him and

1689
01:24:11,600 --> 01:24:14,760
Speaker 1: a dog dog laying on his chest. Law enforcement got

1690
01:24:14,760 --> 01:24:16,400
Speaker 1: a car right there in the garage. Thank you for

1691
01:24:16,479 --> 01:24:21,160
Speaker 1: your service, dang. And then bullet holes on the windshield.

1692
01:24:22,000 --> 01:24:24,240
Speaker 1: Tight pattern on those bullet holes. Hey, thank you for

1693
01:24:24,280 --> 01:24:27,639
Speaker 1: the email, sincerely. That was that was cool to read. Yeah,

1694
01:24:27,680 --> 01:24:29,840
Speaker 1: that was a very I'm glad you're ok. Yeah, glad

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Speaker 1: you're okay, and thank you for your service to the community. Truly.

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01:24:34,040 --> 01:24:35,720
Speaker 1: Yeah you want to rip?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, buddy, Budy girl Dad times three, six, two and

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01:24:41,479 --> 01:24:44,240
Speaker 2: a one month old. I thought you guys would enjoy

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01:24:44,320 --> 01:24:47,680
Speaker 2: this photo of my oldest and I on the Shockwave.

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01:24:48,680 --> 01:24:52,519
Speaker 2: Totally different, totally different meaning from the one on the pod,

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01:24:52,600 --> 01:24:55,600
Speaker 2: but nonetheless a heck of a ride. I caught the

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01:24:56,000 --> 01:24:58,639
Speaker 2: Good Reel about a month ago and went to check

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01:24:58,640 --> 01:25:01,840
Speaker 2: out an episode on YouTube, and I'm hooked binge the

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01:25:01,880 --> 01:25:06,360
Speaker 2: podcast with Windshield time, family vacation and early morning runs,

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01:25:07,760 --> 01:25:11,000
Speaker 2: I'm current and can't wait for those hump day drops,

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01:25:12,000 --> 01:25:14,479
Speaker 2: the laughs, the cries, the raw emotion. Just tell me

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01:25:14,560 --> 01:25:17,240
Speaker 2: you guys are doing it right. I've definitely cried with

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01:25:17,320 --> 01:25:20,240
Speaker 2: y'all too many times to count, but I think that

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01:25:20,880 --> 01:25:25,760
Speaker 2: what raising girl slash kids does is allows us to

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01:25:25,800 --> 01:25:29,439
Speaker 2: get in touch with our emotions for the better. Hell,

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01:25:29,720 --> 01:25:33,080
Speaker 2: I cry watching old and New Disney movies. Nowadays, I

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01:25:33,160 --> 01:25:35,679
Speaker 2: even get the old lady listening when we're in the car.

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01:25:35,960 --> 01:25:38,719
Speaker 2: She's already said, I better get a Milk team shirt

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01:25:38,880 --> 01:25:43,040
Speaker 2: whenever those drop. With the newborn, it's needed more than ever.

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01:25:43,520 --> 01:25:46,080
Speaker 2: My dad hack for you guys, especially a girl. Dads

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01:25:46,080 --> 01:25:49,000
Speaker 2: to yourselves is to take each daughter on their own

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01:25:49,160 --> 01:25:53,479
Speaker 2: days slash dates. They grow into their own personalities and

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01:25:53,520 --> 01:25:56,720
Speaker 2: have their own unique likes and dislikes, have fun and

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01:25:56,760 --> 01:25:59,479
Speaker 2: make them feel as special as you can because they

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01:25:59,479 --> 01:26:02,519
Speaker 2: will grow up before your eyes. As Will said, you

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01:26:02,560 --> 01:26:04,680
Speaker 2: want to set the standard of what it looks like

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01:26:04,760 --> 01:26:08,320
Speaker 2: to love. No chasing it. It's something that's there no

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01:26:08,400 --> 01:26:11,960
Speaker 2: matter what. They'll keep surprising you each and every day.

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01:26:12,320 --> 01:26:14,839
Speaker 2: Remember the days are long and the years are short.

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Speaker 2: Pt Siko out. That comes from Thomas Anderson, who's a

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01:26:20,439 --> 01:26:23,840
Speaker 2: dfdub guy because he's on the Shockwave. Baby, look at that.

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01:26:23,920 --> 01:26:27,799
Speaker 2: Look at those two loops. Oh I love that good photo.

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01:26:27,840 --> 01:26:31,440
Speaker 2: Look good those two loops on this Shockwave and shot.

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01:26:31,200 --> 01:26:32,640
Speaker 1: Out his daughter too. Hey you want to get your

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01:26:32,680 --> 01:26:34,559
Speaker 1: hands up, bro.

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01:26:34,880 --> 01:26:39,320
Speaker 2: Shockwave is the best. Just a very side note, Shockwave

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01:26:39,439 --> 01:26:43,599
Speaker 2: is the best intro coaster of all time because it's

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01:26:43,760 --> 01:26:46,960
Speaker 2: just two loops. It's a fast coaster and those loops

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01:26:47,000 --> 01:26:47,960
Speaker 2: are nice and easy.

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Speaker 3: It is.

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01:26:49,320 --> 01:26:52,759
Speaker 2: It's a bright and sunny like fun themed roller coaster,

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01:26:52,880 --> 01:26:54,160
Speaker 2: so it doesn't scare him.

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01:26:54,479 --> 01:26:56,600
Speaker 1: But those two loops, they're kind of imposing.

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01:26:56,680 --> 01:26:58,400
Speaker 2: You're staring at it and you're like, oh, I don't

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01:26:58,439 --> 01:27:00,640
Speaker 2: know if I could do it, and saying do it,

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01:27:00,680 --> 01:27:03,759
Speaker 2: They're like, oh man, I want to go again.

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01:27:04,479 --> 01:27:10,040
Speaker 1: Those loopsos, those do loops are imposing. Dude, shout out

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01:27:10,080 --> 01:27:13,680
Speaker 1: two good lessons in there. Yeah with those emails.

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01:27:13,479 --> 01:27:16,240
Speaker 2: I do have a lesson of the week to close

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Speaker 2: this out. We got five minutes, Yeah, close it out.

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01:27:18,240 --> 01:27:20,519
Speaker 1: And also just want to let people know we are operating.

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01:27:20,680 --> 01:27:23,400
Speaker 1: We will get a Milk Team six shirt going very soon.

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01:27:24,040 --> 01:27:25,599
Speaker 1: If you're looking at Sherman and I right now, we're

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01:27:25,640 --> 01:27:28,880
Speaker 1: ripping our our for the dad's merch for Christmas, for

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01:27:28,920 --> 01:27:32,360
Speaker 1: holiday season coming up. Bwtv dot com is where you

1751
01:27:32,360 --> 01:27:34,360
Speaker 1: can get all of our merch. That is how you

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01:27:34,400 --> 01:27:39,240
Speaker 1: solidify yourself as a PT sicko. But yeah, go ahead, knockout,

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01:27:39,320 --> 01:27:42,559
Speaker 1: knock out the lesson for us, this one comes with

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01:27:43,040 --> 01:27:44,599
Speaker 1: enjoying the moment. Being in the moment.

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01:27:45,479 --> 01:27:48,400
Speaker 2: A dad who learns to let go of stress also

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01:27:48,520 --> 01:27:52,280
Speaker 2: gives himself the gift of clarity. When he stops trying

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01:27:52,280 --> 01:27:55,160
Speaker 2: to control every outcome, he begins to see the small,

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01:27:55,280 --> 01:27:58,960
Speaker 2: beautiful moments that make fatherhood meaningful, the way his child's

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01:27:59,080 --> 01:28:02,559
Speaker 2: eyes light up with curiosity, or how a quiet evening

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01:28:02,640 --> 01:28:06,080
Speaker 2: turns into a memory. In those moments, he realizes that

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01:28:06,120 --> 01:28:09,840
Speaker 2: the presence, not the perfection, is what his family needs

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01:28:09,880 --> 01:28:10,360
Speaker 2: the most.

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Speaker 1: And I have an anonymous quote.

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01:28:12,360 --> 01:28:14,360
Speaker 2: Here that the greatest thing a father can do for

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01:28:14,479 --> 01:28:17,800
Speaker 2: his children is to be fully there, because time given

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01:28:17,880 --> 01:28:21,920
Speaker 2: with peace is worth more than anything bought with worry.

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01:28:24,160 --> 01:28:29,360
Speaker 1: That's damn good. That's damn good. I couldn't help but

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01:28:29,360 --> 01:28:31,960
Speaker 1: think like controlling every moment and enjoying the little parts.

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01:28:32,000 --> 01:28:34,680
Speaker 1: That was the hike on Sunday. We get to, we

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01:28:34,840 --> 01:28:39,360
Speaker 1: get to, we get to, we get to, well said Sharan. Hey,

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01:28:39,360 --> 01:28:42,000
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you all right, make sure you take

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01:28:42,040 --> 01:28:44,360
Speaker 1: out of your trasks. We love you so much. Continue to engage,

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01:28:44,400 --> 01:28:46,600
Speaker 1: continue to leave comments. We're on social media at for

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01:28:46,800 --> 01:28:49,639
Speaker 1: the Dead's Pod, Spread the good word, get more pt

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01:28:49,840 --> 01:28:53,439
Speaker 1: sicicos on board, Milk Team sixers, Seeman Team sixers, be proud,

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01:28:53,520 --> 01:28:56,439
Speaker 1: which are the goon Berets Berets and we will see

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Speaker 1: you next week. Thank you. I thought about it.