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<v Speaker 1>What's up, y'all. It's The Granger Smith Podcast, Episode twenty.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for listening, Thanks for being with me on the

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<v Speaker 1>back of the bus. This is gonna be a good episode,

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<v Speaker 1>and I want to kind of connect you guys with

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<v Speaker 1>some of the older episodes here. Maybe this is your

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<v Speaker 1>first time. Maybe you came to this podcast through YouTube,

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<v Speaker 1>which we're doing now, or some other platform. The previous

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<v Speaker 1>nineteen episodes I can catch you up on. I went

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<v Speaker 1>through one by one and told the stories about my life.

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<v Speaker 1>Where I came from, how I started playing music, how

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<v Speaker 1>I started getting little breaks along the way, Where Earl

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<v Speaker 1>Dibbles Junior came from, where Yee came from, How my

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<v Speaker 1>brothers and I started ye apparel, How I got the

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<v Speaker 1>record deal, how I got my first number one song,

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<v Speaker 1>and that just kind of chronologically went through my life.

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<v Speaker 1>And I feel like now I need to start kind

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<v Speaker 1>of opening up to you guys a little bit more

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<v Speaker 1>on this podcast. And what I want to do is

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<v Speaker 1>I want to answer some questions because of everything I

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<v Speaker 1>do in my career, like including the Smiths, I can

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<v Speaker 1>never answer questions fast enough or enough times because I

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<v Speaker 1>get a lot of questions and Amber gets a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of questions, and I don't have enough platforms to answer

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<v Speaker 1>them in the way that I should in a long

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<v Speaker 1>form answer, not like I'm on a radio interview and

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<v Speaker 1>I get to answer, you know, in fifteen seconds. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>talking about go in depth and actually answer some of

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<v Speaker 1>your questions. And oh my gosh. I asked on social

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<v Speaker 1>media today this afternoon if you had any questions, and

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<v Speaker 1>I got some good ones. Some of them are fun,

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<v Speaker 1>some of them are super deep. And I want to

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<v Speaker 1>try to answer some of these lighthearted ones, and I

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<v Speaker 1>want to try to dive in to some of the

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<v Speaker 1>deeper ones. And I'm really nervous, and I was actually

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<v Speaker 1>going through some of these questions and my heart started

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<v Speaker 1>being faster, my my pull started rising because I just thought,

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<v Speaker 1>oh God, I don't want to I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>mess this up because some of these some of these

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<v Speaker 1>questions are actually from the heart, and I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I have some answers in my own opinion, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I took some notes on my phone, I took some

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<v Speaker 1>notes here on the computer, but I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>mess them up. So that's that's what's making me a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit anxious. I want to do this right and

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<v Speaker 1>I also want to encourage you. If you asked a question,

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<v Speaker 1>please know that I got a lot of them, and

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<v Speaker 1>I scrolled through so many good ones and I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of had to pick, you know, like six, seven, eight

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<v Speaker 1>of them. And so if you asked a question that

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<v Speaker 1>you're really interested in getting an answer from me, please

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<v Speaker 1>ask it again. And here's the goal with this new

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<v Speaker 1>form of the of this podcast episode twenty. Starting with

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<v Speaker 1>episode twenty, my goal is to put one out every week,

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<v Speaker 1>once a week. I'm not sure exactly the pattern. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if it's going to be like maybe Wednesday,

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<v Speaker 1>because I put out the Smiths on my family vlog

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<v Speaker 1>on Tuesdays and Thursdays on YouTube. And by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>if you if you haven't seen that channel, please go

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<v Speaker 1>and check that out and subscribe and you'll get those

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<v Speaker 1>videos Tuesdays and Thursdays. And maybe I'll put up the

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<v Speaker 1>podcast on Wednesdays. So it's either going to be Mondays

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<v Speaker 1>or Wednesdays. I'm assuming not a weekend because I'll be busy.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm currently in Davenport, Iowa on the bus, and every

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<v Speaker 1>time I do a podcast, I talk about where I am,

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<v Speaker 1>but this is the first time I'm filming it so

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<v Speaker 1>you could see this is my setup. It is snowing outside.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really cold, twenty nine degrees, which is typical Iowa

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<v Speaker 1>this time of year. And we were in Saint Louis yesterday.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you want to catch up on me and

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<v Speaker 1>my tour, you go to grangersmith dot com Forward slash

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<v Speaker 1>Tour and you could see where we're going to be

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<v Speaker 1>and most likely we are coming close to you. That's

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<v Speaker 1>probably including Europe and Canada and Australia. We will be

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<v Speaker 1>close to you at some point and all fifty states

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<v Speaker 1>will be there within eighteen to twenty four months. I

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<v Speaker 1>can guarantee that you could also at the same link

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<v Speaker 1>gratersmith dot com Forward slash Tour, you could also see

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<v Speaker 1>that every tour dight has right underneath it you could

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<v Speaker 1>it has tickets, and then right next to that says

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<v Speaker 1>meet Granger. I think that's what it says, Meet Granger

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<v Speaker 1>or VIP experience. At some point it says that, So

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<v Speaker 1>click on that and that'll get you to backstage and

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<v Speaker 1>you come meet me and love that. Love love being

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<v Speaker 1>able to meet all of you guys hang out. You

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<v Speaker 1>kind of get that personal connection which is so important

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<v Speaker 1>to me as an artist, and yeah, speaking of I

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<v Speaker 1>want to do a giveaway right now. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>start this thing with a giveaway, and maybe I should

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<v Speaker 1>do that every time too. And you can't see, but

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<v Speaker 1>up here I have my hats that hang up on

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<v Speaker 1>the bus and these are the ones that I grab

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<v Speaker 1>before showtime. I'll kind of go through and grab a hat.

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<v Speaker 1>This one I'm wearing now is the original from the

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<v Speaker 1>That's Why I Love Dirt Roads music video that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>promising someone on another giveaway that I did on social

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<v Speaker 1>media to go to that music video and comment Dirt

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<v Speaker 1>Roads hat. So I haven't done that yet, but that's

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<v Speaker 1>the one I'm wearing now. I'm gonna sign it. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>pick somebody, and then right now i'll pick somebody for

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<v Speaker 1>this podcast. So what I'm gonna do is I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>get this is an exact replica of what I'm wearing.

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<v Speaker 1>And I've been wearing this one too, and we sell

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<v Speaker 1>these now. But I'm gonna sign this right now under

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<v Speaker 1>the under the brim and then I'll give this away

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<v Speaker 1>for this podcast, and I'll do this once a week.

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<v Speaker 1>Pick something different that's hanging in my little room here

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<v Speaker 1>on the bus. And so let's see, go to go

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<v Speaker 1>to social media whatever your favorite is, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter,

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<v Speaker 1>and just comment and say I want the hat hashtag

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<v Speaker 1>granger Smith podcast, and I'll send you with this one

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<v Speaker 1>that I just signed. Also speaking of this is how

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<v Speaker 1>I found these questions today is I went to social media.

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<v Speaker 1>I went to Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram and all three

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<v Speaker 1>different platforms. I said, hey, I'm putting together information for

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<v Speaker 1>a podcast today. Ask me a question hashtag Grangersmith podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>So the reason that hashtag is important is because when

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<v Speaker 1>I find the questions, I go on those different platforms

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<v Speaker 1>and I just search for hashtag Grangersmith podcast and it

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<v Speaker 1>pops up your question. So you don't have to wait

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<v Speaker 1>for me to ask for questions. You can go ahead

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<v Speaker 1>at any point and go to social media hashtag ask that,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I'll search. And this is probably how we'll

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<v Speaker 1>build a podcast. I will have guests and I will

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<v Speaker 1>talk about different things, but this is going to be

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<v Speaker 1>the way that I can consistently give you guys a podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Is you know, that's I don't have to think about

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<v Speaker 1>what am I going to talk about today, or what's

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<v Speaker 1>the latest story that I need to discuss, or what

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<v Speaker 1>story from the past. I could still do that, but

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<v Speaker 1>it takes no thinking to just get questions and then

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<v Speaker 1>go through them. Well I say that, and then I've

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<v Speaker 1>been sitting here for an hour going over these questions

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<v Speaker 1>and getting nervous about it. And eventually we will have

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<v Speaker 1>some sponsors for this podcast, because I do have to

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<v Speaker 1>send this off and get it, get it put together

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<v Speaker 1>since there's video. Today's sponsor is ee ee Apparel, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's funny because that's that's our company. But that's also

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of questions kind of came around that, and

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you guys understand that this is a very

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<v Speaker 1>much so a passion project, family run business. My brother

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<v Speaker 1>Tyler manages me, and then our youngest brother, Parker, manages

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<v Speaker 1>the brand ee Apparel, so he works there full time.

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<v Speaker 1>And then his brand development manager is Hayden, who is

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<v Speaker 1>Parker's best bud from back home in Clifton, Texas. So

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<v Speaker 1>we run all this out of Georgetown. Actually, one of

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<v Speaker 1>the questions was, and this was on Twitter, do you

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<v Speaker 1>ever come up with apparel ideas for ee Apparel or

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<v Speaker 1>do you just leave it to your team? Well, that'd

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<v Speaker 1>being said, See, my team is my boys, it's my brothers,

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<v Speaker 1>and yes, we have meetings just about once a week

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<v Speaker 1>and go over new shirt and hat and jacket and

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<v Speaker 1>pants and you know, design new designs, and we're we're

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<v Speaker 1>always working towards the next big release, so like spring, summer, fall,

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<v Speaker 1>Black Friday, stuff like that. Those are those are the

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<v Speaker 1>big ones. So we're usually about six weeks in advance.

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<v Speaker 1>And right now as I'm speaking, as I'm recording, it's February,

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<v Speaker 1>so we have kind of our spring launch ready and

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<v Speaker 1>we're working on summer. So absolutely love it. Love ye,

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<v Speaker 1>love Ye apparel. You know, I never got into music

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<v Speaker 1>thinking that I was gonna be a part of an

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<v Speaker 1>apparel company. It was usually just like artists merch like

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<v Speaker 1>that was my thing. And as it evolved into Ee Apparel,

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<v Speaker 1>I found out I had so much passion for it

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<v Speaker 1>and loved creating the brand that people could show up

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<v Speaker 1>you know, at our at our shows wearing it, or

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<v Speaker 1>or get together with each other and sharing that lifestyle.

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<v Speaker 1>And I always say that we strive for it to

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<v Speaker 1>be a lifestyle brand. And you know, like one of

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<v Speaker 1>our competitors, Grunt Style is It's interesting because well I

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<v Speaker 1>was talking about it with Hayden today, like I think

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<v Speaker 1>the biggest difference between that and those guys are awesome

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<v Speaker 1>and their apparels great, but you see our our people

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<v Speaker 1>have yee tattoos, Like that's the dedication of the lifestyle brand.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you don't see grunt style tattoos, but you see

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<v Speaker 1>yee tattoos. Another thing you need to know, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of getting through some house cleaning here, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>on the bus. The generator's running. So if you hear

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<v Speaker 1>that low rumble, sorry, that just comes with recording a

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<v Speaker 1>podcast on tour. I'm gonna do soundcheck here in a

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<v Speaker 1>couple hours, so I figured this is the perfect time

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<v Speaker 1>to knock this out. And I'm also gonna try my

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<v Speaker 1>best to not cut this tape, so I'm not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>cut this audio or this video. So if I mess up,

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<v Speaker 1>if I fumble, if I sneeze, that's all gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>part of it. And I hope you guys are okay

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<v Speaker 1>with that. So let's start. Let's get into some questions.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna start with Twitter, and I wrote some down

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<v Speaker 1>here and then I screenshot some on my phone. First

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<v Speaker 1>first question from Twitter is about the Throwback Show and

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<v Speaker 1>EEE Fest, and I mentioned this on many podcasts to

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<v Speaker 1>go that I was trying to put together a throwback

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<v Speaker 1>show for twenty nineteen, and we were going to start

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<v Speaker 1>ee Fest, which is a festive music festival that we

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<v Speaker 1>could put together and kind of brand it towards everything EEE,

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<v Speaker 1>including the bands, including the food and everything. And twenty

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<v Speaker 1>nineteen took a huge turn for me in June and

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<v Speaker 1>that all those things ee Fest throwback show really just

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<v Speaker 1>got it just got put on the shelf. And so yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still thinking about it. Yes, I would love to

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<v Speaker 1>do a throwback show where we play a bunch of

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<v Speaker 1>old songs, but it's it's not the top of the

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<v Speaker 1>priority list right now, but we will. We will. Another

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<v Speaker 1>question from Twitter says, what is one vacation that you

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<v Speaker 1>would take with the family that you've never done before?

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<v Speaker 1>And I like that question because I've actually been thinking

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<v Speaker 1>about that lately. And so I have this crazy idea

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<v Speaker 1>that a buddy from high school told me that you

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<v Speaker 1>could actually go to the Bahamas and you could fly in,

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<v Speaker 1>so basically, your your only expense is to flight and

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<v Speaker 1>you can go to this town up on the north

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<v Speaker 1>side of one of these little islands. Don't even remember.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd have to look it back up. But and then

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<v Speaker 1>you could rent camping gear and some kayaks. And so

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<v Speaker 1>I've been telling Amber that we should go do this,

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<v Speaker 1>rent some camping gear, rent rent some kayaks and just

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<v Speaker 1>take off and you just basically go off into the

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<v Speaker 1>next island. And there's these tiny islands everywhere. There's hundreds

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<v Speaker 1>of them, and you could you can go to these

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<v Speaker 1>completely uninhabited islands and some of them are probably no

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<v Speaker 1>bigger than this bus, and you could set up a

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<v Speaker 1>tent and you could fish, you could spearfish, make campfires,

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<v Speaker 1>cook your food right there, stay in the tent, and

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<v Speaker 1>it just sounds like a crazy adventure. It sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>a really fun episode for the Smiths that we could

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<v Speaker 1>film too. So that's been on my mind lately, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's why I think that's a good question. Okay, so Facebook,

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<v Speaker 1>let's go to Facebook. Here's one that says, what do

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<v Speaker 1>you do to not get bogged down in your songwriting process?

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<v Speaker 1>And that is that is a question I think about

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<v Speaker 1>all the time, and it's it's something that I I'm

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<v Speaker 1>constantly tweaking in my life. And I think it doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>only have to be the songwriting process. This this could

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<v Speaker 1>apply to anyone that's just trying to focus, it's trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get some deep work done. And I think we

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<v Speaker 1>all know on the surface, the first answer is this

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<v Speaker 1>the phone, getting that thing to shut up and pulling

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<v Speaker 1>away from that form of addiction that the phone brings.

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<v Speaker 1>Because if you're trying to really focus and dig into

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<v Speaker 1>whatever works, so it's minus songwriting, it's really hard to

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<v Speaker 1>focus and kind of come up with on this creative level.

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<v Speaker 1>And then all of a sudden, you know, you get

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<v Speaker 1>a text, or you get a call, or you get

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<v Speaker 1>or you you kind of have a second downtime and

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, I wonder how this new episode of The

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<v Speaker 1>Smith is doing. You know, let me check out some

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<v Speaker 1>comments on the new episode, or let me let me

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<v Speaker 1>see what the music video is up to. I can't.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't handle it. My willpower not strong enough to

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<v Speaker 1>sit there for an hour and all these distractions are

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<v Speaker 1>around me and I don't touch them. That's that's that's

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<v Speaker 1>too much for my willpower. And and that's the same

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<v Speaker 1>thing with like if you're on a diet, you can't

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<v Speaker 1>You can't go on a diet and say I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>cut out sugar during the day or cut out sweets,

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<v Speaker 1>and then right there in the kitchen on the counter,

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<v Speaker 1>you got a big old bowl of chocolate chip cookies.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't walk past that bowl every day, and you're

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<v Speaker 1>craving sweets and not grab one. So the answer is

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<v Speaker 1>get rid of the bowl of cookies. So same thing

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<v Speaker 1>with the phone. I can't just throw this phone out

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<v Speaker 1>the window. But lately what I've been doing, and for instance,

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<v Speaker 1>I have I have an iPhone I go to and

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<v Speaker 1>I can pull it up right now. I go to settings,

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<v Speaker 1>and I go to screen time, and then you set

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<v Speaker 1>your downtime right here. So I have downtime set for

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<v Speaker 1>nine pm to nine am, and then I have apps

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<v Speaker 1>always allowed, So then I'll allow like our our touring

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<v Speaker 1>app that tells us our schedule for touring. I will

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<v Speaker 1>allow text so that I could still talk to Amber

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<v Speaker 1>and FaceTime so I could talk to the kids. And

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<v Speaker 1>there's a few others like relaxing apps and like weather

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<v Speaker 1>things like that that don't soak up my time. I

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<v Speaker 1>could leave those on. But other than that, everything shuts

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<v Speaker 1>down at nine thirty pm and starts back up at

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<v Speaker 1>nine am. Because it's also important for me to get

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<v Speaker 1>to kind of wind down at night and not just

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<v Speaker 1>mindly sit there on mindlessly sit there on Instagram or whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>or YouTube or whatever it might be. And so that's

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<v Speaker 1>that's important. And I could also so back to this question,

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<v Speaker 1>I can say I'm gonna write songs from noon to one.

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<v Speaker 1>I can go ahead and hit that downtime instantly and

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<v Speaker 1>it shuts down my phone for an hour so that

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<v Speaker 1>I could really concentrate and kind of dig in to

0:17:08.160 --> 0:17:11.399
<v Speaker 1>that deep work. And so there's a lot more to

0:17:11.480 --> 0:17:14.720
<v Speaker 1>that question, But that's a pretty good start, and I

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<v Speaker 1>could on future episodes, I can dive into even more

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<v Speaker 1>of the unplugging process for me. All right. Another one

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<v Speaker 1>from Facebook says how about some backstories on your bandmates?

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<v Speaker 1>And that question stood out to me today because just

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<v Speaker 1>yesterday there was a girl from our record label. She

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<v Speaker 1>was at our show in Saint Louis, and she said,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I love about this band and crew?

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<v Speaker 1>She said, every time I come to see you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the same people. And that might not sound like

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<v Speaker 1>that big a deal, but what she means is typically

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<v Speaker 1>in the music business there's just a lot of turnover.

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<v Speaker 1>And you guys probably know this when you see bands,

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<v Speaker 1>is that like Oh, there's a new bass player, or

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<v Speaker 1>there's a new drummer, or there's new tour manager. That

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<v Speaker 1>lighting guy's new. There's a lot of turnover, a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of hiring and firing, and you know, people get mad

0:18:08.800 --> 0:18:11.840
<v Speaker 1>and cuss each other out and quit or get fired.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm I'm I'm a firm believer in loyalty within

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<v Speaker 1>the company. As long as you have as long as

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<v Speaker 1>you believe that they're the right people. I believe that

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<v Speaker 1>you got to you gotta keep them through thick and thin.

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<v Speaker 1>We all go through, you know, bad weather. We all

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<v Speaker 1>go through storms in our life. And there's no reason

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<v Speaker 1>to constantly be firing people and hiring people or or

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<v Speaker 1>watching people quit. You know, someone quits, that's that's your

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<v Speaker 1>fault as the leader. And so the backstory of my

0:18:47.560 --> 0:18:50.119
<v Speaker 1>bandmates and my crew is, it's all the same guys.

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<v Speaker 1>We all are from Texas. We've all been together a

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<v Speaker 1>very long time. We're all in the the van and

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<v Speaker 1>trailer days, you know, pulling into venue where nobody was

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<v Speaker 1>there to see us. And as we all grew, we

0:19:05.280 --> 0:19:08.439
<v Speaker 1>grew together, and so much of my success in the

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<v Speaker 1>music business has come from them and their professionalism and

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<v Speaker 1>their hunger and their passion and just watching them grow

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<v Speaker 1>has been so inspiring. And we lift each other up

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<v Speaker 1>on good days and bad days, you know. And at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the day, when I'm out there on

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<v Speaker 1>the stage, or you say it's a big arena and

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<v Speaker 1>it's packed and the pressure's on, or say it's a

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<v Speaker 1>and this has happened a festival, when a technical problem happens,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, something really bad and it's embarrassing. At the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the day, I'm very comfortable with my crew.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. It's like if the ship's going to sink,

0:19:48.720 --> 0:19:52.359
<v Speaker 1>we're all going down with it. And I trust them

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<v Speaker 1>and I love that about my guys, and so we

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<v Speaker 1>all go way back. We go way back. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna go to I'm gonna go to Instagram. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I also, I think I screenshotted to

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<v Speaker 1>see Okay, this is another Twitter I screenshotted. It was

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<v Speaker 1>too long to type, so it says, Hey, Granger. The

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<v Speaker 1>question I would ask is about your success from authenticity

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<v Speaker 1>and what you would tell someone who is inspiring aspiring

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<v Speaker 1>to be more. I think I'm on the right path,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm finding it's hard reaching for success. So first

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<v Speaker 1>of all Lee, I would tell you, buddy that it's

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<v Speaker 1>really gonna depend on how you define success, and that

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<v Speaker 1>is that's such a huge, huge secret because people define

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<v Speaker 1>success in many different ways, and it's really scary because

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<v Speaker 1>if you're defining success on business alone, you're totally setting

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<v Speaker 1>yourself up for failure. Like there's probably when it comes

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<v Speaker 1>to music, there's probably an equal number that look at

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<v Speaker 1>me and say, man, that guy has succeeded big time,

0:21:16.720 --> 0:21:20.680
<v Speaker 1>and there's another equal half to go, oh man, that guy,

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<v Speaker 1>poor Granger, he just hasn't quite succeeded yet. I'm serious.

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<v Speaker 1>There's probably equal that think that either way. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>a perfect example of how if you haven't defined your success,

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<v Speaker 1>then it's impossible to attain that. Let me show you

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<v Speaker 1>something real quick. Let me go to this is. This

0:21:45.760 --> 0:21:49.880
<v Speaker 1>is such a great Of course, of course it's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be slow for me, but this is such a great deal.

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<v Speaker 1>I lost my dad in twenty fourteen, and when we

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<v Speaker 1>were kind of going through as things, we found like

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<v Speaker 1>in his drawers some things that he had written down

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<v Speaker 1>that he didn't tell us about, and one of them

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<v Speaker 1>was this poem. And this is by Ralph Waldo Emerson.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's called success. And I read this and just

0:22:30.800 --> 0:22:33.600
<v Speaker 1>cried be thinking about my dad right after he died,

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<v Speaker 1>because he was a man, and he was a simple

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<v Speaker 1>man of such integrity who really knew how to define

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<v Speaker 1>success and knew exactly who he was and what he

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to achieve. And to me, if I'm defining my success,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to read you this poem and I could

0:22:51.640 --> 0:22:55.000
<v Speaker 1>just tell you this is it. It says to laugh

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<v Speaker 1>often and love much, to win the respect of intelligent people,

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<v Speaker 1>affirmation of children, to earn the approbation of honest critics,

0:23:05.359 --> 0:23:09.440
<v Speaker 1>and to endure the betrayal of false friends. To appreciate beauty,

0:23:09.840 --> 0:23:13.280
<v Speaker 1>To find the best in others. To give of oneself,

0:23:13.440 --> 0:23:16.040
<v Speaker 1>to leave the world a little bit better, whether by

0:23:16.040 --> 0:23:20.280
<v Speaker 1>a healthy child, a garden patch, or a redeemed social condition.

0:23:22.400 --> 0:23:25.600
<v Speaker 1>To know that even one life has breathed easier because

0:23:25.640 --> 0:23:32.360
<v Speaker 1>you have lived. This is to have succeeded. Man, Isn't

0:23:32.400 --> 0:23:40.720
<v Speaker 1>that awesome? I love that. It's There's nothing in here

0:23:40.800 --> 0:23:46.280
<v Speaker 1>that says to have attained ten number one songs. You know,

0:23:46.440 --> 0:23:50.640
<v Speaker 1>you know I mean to have sold your company for millions.

0:23:50.840 --> 0:23:56.680
<v Speaker 1>You know that's not that's not success. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>tell you, buddy that if you're trying to say you're

0:24:02.840 --> 0:24:04.760
<v Speaker 1>just talking about yourself, say you're talking about your your

0:24:04.800 --> 0:24:09.240
<v Speaker 1>own success and not society or your family, or say

0:24:09.240 --> 0:24:13.120
<v Speaker 1>it's just yourself, which I also believe that everything has

0:24:13.160 --> 0:24:17.040
<v Speaker 1>to start with yourself. And it's kind of like I

0:24:17.040 --> 0:24:20.920
<v Speaker 1>always think about on the airplane when they tell you,

0:24:21.160 --> 0:24:24.240
<v Speaker 1>if the oxygen mask comes out, put it on yourself first,

0:24:24.440 --> 0:24:28.120
<v Speaker 1>and then the child next to you, because if you're

0:24:28.200 --> 0:24:31.200
<v Speaker 1>too busy worried about putting the oxygen mask on your child,

0:24:31.960 --> 0:24:34.680
<v Speaker 1>then you're not going to make it in that situation, right,

0:24:35.200 --> 0:24:38.240
<v Speaker 1>And that's life. Take it. Make sure you're okay first.

0:24:39.840 --> 0:24:42.359
<v Speaker 1>But I wrote this down for you too when I

0:24:42.400 --> 0:24:46.440
<v Speaker 1>was thinking about that question. Be better than you were yesterday,

0:24:47.600 --> 0:24:51.679
<v Speaker 1>not better than someone else's today. And how often have

0:24:51.760 --> 0:24:57.800
<v Speaker 1>we gone to social media or seen someone else and thought, man,

0:24:57.840 --> 0:25:00.760
<v Speaker 1>it must be nice, or man's he or she's really

0:25:00.960 --> 0:25:06.640
<v Speaker 1>really killing it right now? And man, guys, that's how

0:25:06.680 --> 0:25:10.399
<v Speaker 1>I feel too. I hope y'all know that's how I feel.

0:25:11.080 --> 0:25:13.200
<v Speaker 1>Like I could look at something and go, oh, man,

0:25:13.840 --> 0:25:16.280
<v Speaker 1>they really have it, they really got it going on.

0:25:17.440 --> 0:25:20.400
<v Speaker 1>And there's probably some of y'all listen to this going.

0:25:20.600 --> 0:25:23.840
<v Speaker 1>That's how I feel about you, Granger. Bro. We're humans,

0:25:24.480 --> 0:25:27.680
<v Speaker 1>that's what we do. We're constantly comparing, and you got

0:25:27.680 --> 0:25:31.399
<v Speaker 1>to stop that. You gotta try strive to be better

0:25:31.640 --> 0:25:35.280
<v Speaker 1>than you were yesterday, not better than someone else's today,

0:25:35.320 --> 0:25:37.480
<v Speaker 1>because you don't know their path. You don't know where

0:25:37.520 --> 0:25:39.960
<v Speaker 1>they came from. You don't know the steps it took

0:25:40.000 --> 0:25:42.919
<v Speaker 1>to get there, or the luck that happened, or the

0:25:42.960 --> 0:25:45.600
<v Speaker 1>blessing that was given to them for some reason that

0:25:45.640 --> 0:25:49.840
<v Speaker 1>we don't understand. And you can never compare to anyone

0:25:49.880 --> 0:25:55.640
<v Speaker 1>besides your own reflection in the mirror. Right. The other

0:25:55.680 --> 0:26:03.399
<v Speaker 1>thing I would say is take take your priorities as

0:26:03.440 --> 0:26:06.600
<v Speaker 1>part of your success and make sure you have your

0:26:06.640 --> 0:26:10.440
<v Speaker 1>priorities separated. And once again it goes back to business

0:26:10.600 --> 0:26:15.800
<v Speaker 1>verse yourself or your family. And so look at it is.

0:26:16.600 --> 0:26:19.159
<v Speaker 1>You're all always juggling, right, and that's what we do.

0:26:19.200 --> 0:26:22.480
<v Speaker 1>We juggle. We juggle things in life. We try to multitask,

0:26:22.520 --> 0:26:24.600
<v Speaker 1>we try to keep the balls in the air, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's okay, but imagine you got two kinds of things

0:26:29.320 --> 0:26:35.440
<v Speaker 1>that you're juggling. You got you got your glass balls

0:26:35.560 --> 0:26:40.800
<v Speaker 1>right that you're juggling, and then you got your unbreakable

0:26:40.840 --> 0:26:45.880
<v Speaker 1>foam ones, and your family is your glass like that's fragive.

0:26:45.880 --> 0:26:49.160
<v Speaker 1>You don't want to drop those now, your your business

0:26:49.160 --> 0:26:51.880
<v Speaker 1>and everything else that's foam like. You could. You could

0:26:51.880 --> 0:26:55.080
<v Speaker 1>accidentally fumble one, it falls on the ground. It's not

0:26:55.200 --> 0:26:56.879
<v Speaker 1>going to break. You don't have to pick it up

0:26:56.920 --> 0:26:58.280
<v Speaker 1>right now. You could pick it up in a year

0:26:58.400 --> 0:27:01.200
<v Speaker 1>or two years or six months or whatever. Just don't

0:27:01.240 --> 0:27:04.879
<v Speaker 1>drop the glass ones. That's your family and that's yourself, Like,

0:27:04.920 --> 0:27:07.280
<v Speaker 1>don't forget about yourself. Don't forget about your family. Don't

0:27:07.359 --> 0:27:13.600
<v Speaker 1>don't drop those. That's important. And that Once again, I

0:27:13.600 --> 0:27:18.159
<v Speaker 1>could probably say there's there's a lot more to be

0:27:18.200 --> 0:27:25.040
<v Speaker 1>said about this subject, but I I feel like I

0:27:25.119 --> 0:27:26.359
<v Speaker 1>kind of have to move on to with some of

0:27:26.400 --> 0:27:28.320
<v Speaker 1>these other questions. But let me say one more thing.

0:27:28.520 --> 0:27:33.840
<v Speaker 1>I wrote this down to Marcus Aurelius, just a great

0:27:34.040 --> 0:27:41.520
<v Speaker 1>ancient philosopher. He said, ambition means trying tying your well

0:27:41.520 --> 0:27:45.600
<v Speaker 1>being to what other people say and do. Ambition means

0:27:46.119 --> 0:27:49.560
<v Speaker 1>tying your well being to what other people say and do.

0:27:50.480 --> 0:27:57.560
<v Speaker 1>Sanity means tying it to your own actions, and that awesome.

0:27:58.160 --> 0:28:03.239
<v Speaker 1>So basically, don't don't compare yourself don't compare yourself. It

0:28:03.240 --> 0:28:11.320
<v Speaker 1>ain't gonna work right Facebook, here's another question. I'm trying

0:28:11.320 --> 0:28:14.560
<v Speaker 1>to give all the social media equal love. Then I'll

0:28:14.560 --> 0:28:21.800
<v Speaker 1>go to Instagram. I screenshoted this one because it's interesting

0:28:21.800 --> 0:28:27.040
<v Speaker 1>to me. I don't totally understand this question, but I'm

0:28:27.080 --> 0:28:30.600
<v Speaker 1>willing to try to interpret it. And by the way,

0:28:30.880 --> 0:28:33.520
<v Speaker 1>I noticed the camera went off, So I'm sorry. If

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<v Speaker 1>you're watching this, please bear with me because I still

0:28:38.520 --> 0:28:39.800
<v Speaker 1>have some things to say and I don't want to

0:28:39.840 --> 0:28:42.920
<v Speaker 1>break this rhythm. And I know now that my camera's

0:28:42.960 --> 0:28:46.160
<v Speaker 1>gonna shoot for thirty minutes only, so in the future

0:28:46.200 --> 0:28:49.480
<v Speaker 1>I'll try to keep these under thirty minutes. But I'm

0:28:49.520 --> 0:28:53.040
<v Speaker 1>getting to some really, really deep stuff, so hang with

0:28:53.080 --> 0:28:56.840
<v Speaker 1>me and keep listening. Here's the next question. It says

0:28:58.280 --> 0:29:01.960
<v Speaker 1>I've noticed a significant change in your stage performance. Not

0:29:02.080 --> 0:29:04.680
<v Speaker 1>in a bad way, but I definitely see you being

0:29:04.720 --> 0:29:07.480
<v Speaker 1>more conscious of what you allow yourself to do on

0:29:07.600 --> 0:29:12.480
<v Speaker 1>stage and in the smiths. As a music fan, I

0:29:12.520 --> 0:29:15.200
<v Speaker 1>was hoping to see more interaction on the crash my

0:29:15.360 --> 0:29:19.600
<v Speaker 1>ply of vlogs, but have been following you long enough

0:29:19.640 --> 0:29:23.320
<v Speaker 1>to know why you chose to stay low key. Did

0:29:23.360 --> 0:29:26.440
<v Speaker 1>you get to hang with the other artist, did you

0:29:26.560 --> 0:29:29.720
<v Speaker 1>kind of keep to yourself? Do you feel those social

0:29:29.800 --> 0:29:34.640
<v Speaker 1>things could make or break you in the business? And

0:29:34.680 --> 0:29:37.520
<v Speaker 1>then it ends with saying, do you think that you

0:29:37.600 --> 0:29:41.040
<v Speaker 1>and Amber will ever do a national interview promoting the

0:29:41.120 --> 0:29:45.080
<v Speaker 1>River Kelly Fund and share your story and will Earle

0:29:45.240 --> 0:29:54.120
<v Speaker 1>change because your life has changed? Interesting question that once again,

0:29:54.160 --> 0:29:56.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I would have to sit down with you.

0:29:57.520 --> 0:29:59.400
<v Speaker 1>This is Carissa. I'd have to sit down with you,

0:29:59.480 --> 0:30:02.880
<v Speaker 1>Chrissa and kind of kind of pick your brain on

0:30:02.960 --> 0:30:07.120
<v Speaker 1>what you think has significantly changed in my stage performance.

0:30:08.800 --> 0:30:17.200
<v Speaker 1>But yes, since River, I instantly became a little bit

0:30:17.480 --> 0:30:26.160
<v Speaker 1>more self conscious about how I represented myself. Earl is, naturally,

0:30:26.920 --> 0:30:32.440
<v Speaker 1>you know, just kind of a polarizing redneck character that is,

0:30:32.480 --> 0:30:36.719
<v Speaker 1>you know, like crashing beers together, stone cold, Steve Austin

0:30:36.760 --> 0:30:43.240
<v Speaker 1>style in the stage, and I had to I had

0:30:43.280 --> 0:30:49.080
<v Speaker 1>to start thinking about is this well, if there's people

0:30:49.080 --> 0:30:57.240
<v Speaker 1>coming to the shows and they're wanting to see from me,

0:30:57.800 --> 0:31:03.320
<v Speaker 1>how I'm handling the situation. That thought occurred to me

0:31:04.400 --> 0:31:09.920
<v Speaker 1>that do I continue to portray this party animal Earl

0:31:09.960 --> 0:31:13.640
<v Speaker 1>Devils Junior? And I still don't know the answer to that.

0:31:13.680 --> 0:31:16.600
<v Speaker 1>I do know part of it is I shouldn't worry

0:31:16.640 --> 0:31:20.600
<v Speaker 1>about what anybody thinks, because I've definitely learned through this

0:31:20.680 --> 0:31:27.040
<v Speaker 1>process that everyone handles it differently, that everyone grieves differently,

0:31:28.440 --> 0:31:31.600
<v Speaker 1>that you could smile and be joyful at the same

0:31:31.680 --> 0:31:36.200
<v Speaker 1>time they could coexist the same emotion. You could laugh,

0:31:36.480 --> 0:31:41.240
<v Speaker 1>you could really laugh, like feel joy and be sad

0:31:41.240 --> 0:31:44.600
<v Speaker 1>at the exact same time. And so I have learned

0:31:45.760 --> 0:31:49.600
<v Speaker 1>through me knowing I can't judge people on how they

0:31:49.640 --> 0:31:54.720
<v Speaker 1>really feel. That's reflected in me saying, well, people, if

0:31:54.760 --> 0:31:57.320
<v Speaker 1>I can't judge people, then people can't judge me. You

0:31:57.440 --> 0:31:59.520
<v Speaker 1>never know what's going on with someone in their life,

0:32:00.160 --> 0:32:05.200
<v Speaker 1>don't And isn't that a testament to why we should

0:32:05.200 --> 0:32:08.440
<v Speaker 1>have just be kind all the time, because you don't know.

0:32:08.640 --> 0:32:11.240
<v Speaker 1>You don't know if the gas station attendant just lost

0:32:11.240 --> 0:32:12.760
<v Speaker 1>his dad that morning and he had to go to

0:32:12.800 --> 0:32:16.600
<v Speaker 1>work to pay for the casket. Seriously, and then they

0:32:16.680 --> 0:32:19.440
<v Speaker 1>might have been a jerk to you, But would you

0:32:19.440 --> 0:32:22.240
<v Speaker 1>blame him if you knew that was their story. It's

0:32:22.240 --> 0:32:28.680
<v Speaker 1>interesting right diving into this crash my play. If you

0:32:28.680 --> 0:32:30.320
<v Speaker 1>catch you guys didn't know I was on a Luke

0:32:30.360 --> 0:32:39.800
<v Speaker 1>Bryan thing in Mexico, and I think you know as

0:32:39.800 --> 0:32:44.360
<v Speaker 1>far as the music business is concerned. And me, you said,

0:32:44.520 --> 0:32:46.800
<v Speaker 1>do you feel like these social things could make or

0:32:46.840 --> 0:32:53.600
<v Speaker 1>break you. I'm just kind of a shy person by nature,

0:32:54.480 --> 0:32:57.720
<v Speaker 1>and I've never been I have never all the way

0:32:57.720 --> 0:33:03.040
<v Speaker 1>back to high I've never been the one that's like,

0:33:03.120 --> 0:33:05.160
<v Speaker 1>come on, man, let's stay a little bit later, let's

0:33:05.200 --> 0:33:07.880
<v Speaker 1>do this. I'm always like the one that's like, man,

0:33:07.920 --> 0:33:11.360
<v Speaker 1>where's the door. I would love to go to bed.

0:33:13.160 --> 0:33:16.520
<v Speaker 1>That's just I can't help it. That's my personality. And

0:33:16.600 --> 0:33:19.920
<v Speaker 1>so I've kind of taken that into the music business.

0:33:20.000 --> 0:33:23.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm never gonna be the guy that's like staying late

0:33:23.600 --> 0:33:25.720
<v Speaker 1>just so that hopefully somebody sees me or so that

0:33:25.840 --> 0:33:29.080
<v Speaker 1>I could have a conversation with somebody that's important and

0:33:29.720 --> 0:33:33.320
<v Speaker 1>they'll like me even more. And I've struggled with that.

0:33:34.120 --> 0:33:36.560
<v Speaker 1>I've struggled with that, like in the in the country

0:33:36.640 --> 0:33:39.320
<v Speaker 1>radio game, because a lot of times you got to

0:33:39.360 --> 0:33:41.520
<v Speaker 1>go and you got to be so nice to these

0:33:41.560 --> 0:33:46.280
<v Speaker 1>people in radio so that they like you enough. I say,

0:33:46.280 --> 0:33:49.800
<v Speaker 1>they're deciding to play your song and someone else's song,

0:33:50.400 --> 0:33:51.880
<v Speaker 1>and they're kind of on the fence on which one

0:33:51.920 --> 0:33:54.000
<v Speaker 1>to play. So you hope that if you're nice enough

0:33:54.000 --> 0:33:57.160
<v Speaker 1>to them, they'll play yours, which is fine, that's great,

0:33:57.160 --> 0:34:01.240
<v Speaker 1>that's that's American business. I get it. But there's a

0:34:01.240 --> 0:34:03.560
<v Speaker 1>fine line between being nice as someone so they play

0:34:03.560 --> 0:34:08.960
<v Speaker 1>your song and kissing. But you know, I don't know

0:34:09.000 --> 0:34:12.839
<v Speaker 1>if I could say cuss words on here, but just

0:34:13.000 --> 0:34:16.439
<v Speaker 1>totally kissing their butt because you don't really care about them,

0:34:16.520 --> 0:34:18.279
<v Speaker 1>You just care that they play your song. There's a

0:34:18.280 --> 0:34:22.640
<v Speaker 1>big difference in actually just being nice because you're respecting

0:34:22.640 --> 0:34:27.080
<v Speaker 1>another human being, right. So that's me. And so when

0:34:27.120 --> 0:34:28.840
<v Speaker 1>I went to crash my play, I didn't go to

0:34:28.840 --> 0:34:30.759
<v Speaker 1>all the after parties. I didn't hang out with all

0:34:30.760 --> 0:34:34.360
<v Speaker 1>the other artists all the time. And I legitimately like

0:34:34.440 --> 0:34:36.800
<v Speaker 1>those artists. I really do like their buddies of mine.

0:34:38.160 --> 0:34:40.759
<v Speaker 1>We've been we've been at it for years together, a

0:34:40.800 --> 0:34:44.480
<v Speaker 1>lot of these guys and girls, and and so I

0:34:44.600 --> 0:34:48.600
<v Speaker 1>feel like they know me well enough and I know

0:34:48.680 --> 0:34:52.360
<v Speaker 1>them well enough, or we're I'm I'm confident in myself

0:34:52.480 --> 0:34:54.400
<v Speaker 1>enough to know that I don't have to hang out

0:34:54.960 --> 0:34:58.279
<v Speaker 1>with my camera and take a picture with someone, you know,

0:34:58.440 --> 0:35:01.440
<v Speaker 1>selfie backstage and then put it on Instagram so that

0:35:01.480 --> 0:35:03.319
<v Speaker 1>I could hopefully get some likes. And be like, Oh,

0:35:03.400 --> 0:35:08.399
<v Speaker 1>I love that you're hanging out with famous people. It's

0:35:08.440 --> 0:35:13.319
<v Speaker 1>just not me. I'm sorry. The second part of this question,

0:35:13.360 --> 0:35:15.320
<v Speaker 1>do you think you and Amber will ever do a

0:35:15.400 --> 0:35:18.480
<v Speaker 1>national interview promoting the River Kelly Fund and share your story?

0:35:18.640 --> 0:35:24.479
<v Speaker 1>The answers, Yes, I have yet to talk about River

0:35:26.040 --> 0:35:28.640
<v Speaker 1>outside of my own sources. So Amber and I have

0:35:28.680 --> 0:35:32.160
<v Speaker 1>talked about it on our YouTube page, and I've talked

0:35:32.160 --> 0:35:35.120
<v Speaker 1>about it on probably like Instagram posts the way I feel,

0:35:36.200 --> 0:35:42.200
<v Speaker 1>but we have not let an outside source take control

0:35:42.239 --> 0:35:46.040
<v Speaker 1>of the interview yet. So if you've seen our story

0:35:46.080 --> 0:35:51.200
<v Speaker 1>on National News, that wasn't because it was pitched that way.

0:35:51.320 --> 0:35:56.279
<v Speaker 1>It's because they literally needed clickbait and went to our

0:35:56.320 --> 0:35:59.960
<v Speaker 1>YouTube and cut out sections of things that we say,

0:36:00.320 --> 0:36:03.479
<v Speaker 1>or went to my social media. And that's just that's

0:36:03.560 --> 0:36:05.799
<v Speaker 1>the nature of news. That's just that's the way it's

0:36:05.800 --> 0:36:09.120
<v Speaker 1>always been. And they're just running a business. Remember that

0:36:09.280 --> 0:36:15.080
<v Speaker 1>news is entertainment, right, so they're just trying to fill

0:36:15.239 --> 0:36:18.239
<v Speaker 1>space so they can get advertising, not in a negative way,

0:36:18.320 --> 0:36:20.960
<v Speaker 1>that's just their job. So we have not done that yet,

0:36:22.160 --> 0:36:25.560
<v Speaker 1>but we will and the reason we will, and we're

0:36:25.560 --> 0:36:27.279
<v Speaker 1>working it out right now. We're trying to find the

0:36:27.320 --> 0:36:33.200
<v Speaker 1>best host. We think Amber and I think that the

0:36:33.200 --> 0:36:41.640
<v Speaker 1>Today Show is are like, maybe Fox and Friends is

0:36:41.719 --> 0:36:45.879
<v Speaker 1>probably a pretty good way to go first because they

0:36:46.880 --> 0:36:50.480
<v Speaker 1>will be respectful to our story. I'm talking about it

0:36:50.560 --> 0:36:52.960
<v Speaker 1>as opposed to like TMZ, who we've had all you know,

0:36:53.000 --> 0:36:57.600
<v Speaker 1>that's that's crazy. No, I'm not going to TMZ. But

0:36:57.600 --> 0:37:00.160
<v Speaker 1>but the reason we do want to do it and

0:37:00.200 --> 0:37:03.239
<v Speaker 1>want to let someone else drive the story for the

0:37:03.280 --> 0:37:08.360
<v Speaker 1>first time is because we're really interested and I should

0:37:08.360 --> 0:37:13.640
<v Speaker 1>say I should say we're really motivated and spreading awareness

0:37:13.680 --> 0:37:17.440
<v Speaker 1>about water safety with children. It's the number one killer

0:37:17.680 --> 0:37:23.040
<v Speaker 1>of children under the age of four, and it's there's

0:37:23.080 --> 0:37:26.440
<v Speaker 1>not a lot known about it. And this is, you know,

0:37:26.640 --> 0:37:28.480
<v Speaker 1>the first time I've really even start talking about it,

0:37:28.480 --> 0:37:30.600
<v Speaker 1>because when it first happened, I know some people were like,

0:37:30.680 --> 0:37:33.080
<v Speaker 1>we need to hear about water safety, and me and

0:37:33.120 --> 0:37:35.120
<v Speaker 1>Amber are like, we need to tell you. We need

0:37:35.120 --> 0:37:39.440
<v Speaker 1>to preach about loving your child and being in the

0:37:39.480 --> 0:37:43.080
<v Speaker 1>present moment and tomorrow is not guaranteed. That was the

0:37:43.120 --> 0:37:46.879
<v Speaker 1>first message we wanted to get out there. But yes,

0:37:46.960 --> 0:37:49.120
<v Speaker 1>we do need to talk about water safety because of

0:37:49.160 --> 0:37:52.640
<v Speaker 1>all the things we did not know, and this is

0:37:53.120 --> 0:37:55.640
<v Speaker 1>there could be many episodes of the podcast about this.

0:37:55.840 --> 0:38:00.640
<v Speaker 1>But you know, you think about water safety and think, oh,

0:38:01.400 --> 0:38:04.960
<v Speaker 1>every human knows, I got it. If I go underwater

0:38:05.280 --> 0:38:09.440
<v Speaker 1>for long enough, I'm going to stop breathing. Got it right? Done?

0:38:09.680 --> 0:38:14.280
<v Speaker 1>Story over wrong. There's a lot of things that children

0:38:14.320 --> 0:38:20.319
<v Speaker 1>do very differently from adults. One, it's silent. So many

0:38:20.320 --> 0:38:23.440
<v Speaker 1>stories we've heard it's absolutely silent. We've heard of this happening.

0:38:24.000 --> 0:38:28.839
<v Speaker 1>Children dying in the water with adults standing right next

0:38:28.840 --> 0:38:32.040
<v Speaker 1>to them. I'm talking. I'm not talking about someone's drinking

0:38:32.120 --> 0:38:37.840
<v Speaker 1>or smoking weed. I'm talking about good attentive parents standing

0:38:37.880 --> 0:38:41.040
<v Speaker 1>right next to them. But you don't realize what's happening.

0:38:41.920 --> 0:38:44.960
<v Speaker 1>And there's been so many birthday parties where like the child,

0:38:45.160 --> 0:38:48.799
<v Speaker 1>it was his or her birthday party, usually three. That's

0:38:48.840 --> 0:38:52.440
<v Speaker 1>like the age and I die at their own birthday

0:38:52.480 --> 0:38:57.040
<v Speaker 1>party with adults and grandparents and aunts and uncles and

0:38:57.080 --> 0:39:00.719
<v Speaker 1>other friends and other parents all there is. And it

0:39:00.800 --> 0:39:04.839
<v Speaker 1>takes less than thirty seconds. It could take it could

0:39:04.840 --> 0:39:11.360
<v Speaker 1>take ten to fifteen seconds for cardiac arrest. That means

0:39:11.840 --> 0:39:16.120
<v Speaker 1>ten seconds, ten seconds. You notice your child's underwater, you

0:39:16.120 --> 0:39:22.279
<v Speaker 1>pull them out, and their heart stopped. Now, if you

0:39:22.280 --> 0:39:25.640
<v Speaker 1>don't know proper CPR, and you can't get their heart

0:39:26.040 --> 0:39:32.960
<v Speaker 1>back within four minutes. They're brain dead, so silent fifteen

0:39:33.000 --> 0:39:39.000
<v Speaker 1>seconds underwater. Because another key thing is a child inhales water.

0:39:39.280 --> 0:39:41.600
<v Speaker 1>They you know, an adult knows if you go underwater,

0:39:41.680 --> 0:39:43.520
<v Speaker 1>you're just you don't You just kind of hold your

0:39:43.520 --> 0:39:46.960
<v Speaker 1>breath and you got sixty to one hundred and twenty seconds. Right. Well, no,

0:39:47.040 --> 0:39:50.400
<v Speaker 1>a child, they gasp it in, they fill their lungs

0:39:50.400 --> 0:39:54.200
<v Speaker 1>with it. That's why it takes fifteen seconds. This is

0:39:54.239 --> 0:39:58.640
<v Speaker 1>a tiny, tiny, tiny, tiny sliver of a massive story

0:39:59.000 --> 0:40:01.080
<v Speaker 1>that I need to tell that I from a lot

0:40:01.120 --> 0:40:04.239
<v Speaker 1>of research. We're on the Board of Pediatrics right now

0:40:05.800 --> 0:40:09.800
<v Speaker 1>for the Pediatrics of America. We've been on conference calls

0:40:09.840 --> 0:40:16.080
<v Speaker 1>with them. There's so much misunderstanding about it. The first

0:40:16.080 --> 0:40:18.759
<v Speaker 1>thought is you just think to yourself, well, I got it,

0:40:18.840 --> 0:40:23.800
<v Speaker 1>watch your kid. No. No, I've heard too many stories

0:40:24.080 --> 0:40:27.680
<v Speaker 1>for that to be the answer. It's a multi layered problem,

0:40:28.360 --> 0:40:31.440
<v Speaker 1>and so that in a long way is answering the

0:40:31.520 --> 0:40:34.480
<v Speaker 1>question on Yes, we're going to get on some kind

0:40:34.480 --> 0:40:37.839
<v Speaker 1>of national syndicate, but that's what we're going to talk about.

0:40:38.000 --> 0:40:39.600
<v Speaker 1>We're going to talk about water safety, and we're going

0:40:39.680 --> 0:40:43.279
<v Speaker 1>to have some pediatric doctors with us and probably some

0:40:43.360 --> 0:40:48.160
<v Speaker 1>other families that have been through similar events. And that

0:40:48.320 --> 0:40:52.440
<v Speaker 1>is the goal behind all that is to raise awareness

0:40:52.440 --> 0:40:55.640
<v Speaker 1>for someone that has a pool, or maybe their neighbors

0:40:55.640 --> 0:40:57.439
<v Speaker 1>have a pool, or maybe they just don't they don't

0:40:57.440 --> 0:41:01.919
<v Speaker 1>know enough about how dangerous it really really is. And

0:41:02.040 --> 0:41:05.200
<v Speaker 1>if it saves I told Ambery yesterday, if it saves

0:41:05.239 --> 0:41:09.760
<v Speaker 1>one child, then twenty twenty, If one child is saved

0:41:10.440 --> 0:41:16.520
<v Speaker 1>because they learned something from this news, then that's a start.

0:41:16.640 --> 0:41:21.560
<v Speaker 1>That is meaning. That is purpose, and meaning and purpose

0:41:21.920 --> 0:41:26.720
<v Speaker 1>are what offset suffering. Because life is suffering. We all suffer.

0:41:26.800 --> 0:41:30.040
<v Speaker 1>We're all going to suffer. That's human nature. The only

0:41:30.080 --> 0:41:34.719
<v Speaker 1>way you could offset that suffering and alleviate the dreaded

0:41:34.760 --> 0:41:40.160
<v Speaker 1>life right has by finding meaning and purpose. And once

0:41:40.200 --> 0:41:47.600
<v Speaker 1>we do that, it makes it worth living. I told

0:41:47.640 --> 0:41:52.239
<v Speaker 1>you all this is going to get deep. Let me

0:41:52.280 --> 0:41:59.520
<v Speaker 1>hit in a couple more here. Let's check my time, Okay.

0:42:00.160 --> 0:42:02.239
<v Speaker 1>I told you at the beginning that I kind of

0:42:02.280 --> 0:42:04.040
<v Speaker 1>got anxiety when I was just reading some of these.

0:42:04.040 --> 0:42:07.680
<v Speaker 1>My heart started beating. So this is why. Because I

0:42:07.719 --> 0:42:11.440
<v Speaker 1>read one like this, what would be your advice for

0:42:11.560 --> 0:42:15.880
<v Speaker 1>someone battling cancer at the age of thirty one by herself.

0:42:18.960 --> 0:42:22.319
<v Speaker 1>And that's just heartbreaking reading that. And I don't know

0:42:23.600 --> 0:42:27.080
<v Speaker 1>if the person that typed that, if that's them, or

0:42:27.120 --> 0:42:37.840
<v Speaker 1>if it's a friend. And the reason I get a

0:42:37.880 --> 0:42:42.000
<v Speaker 1>little nervous is because I think, you know that old mister,

0:42:42.080 --> 0:42:46.239
<v Speaker 1>vulnerability comes out of me, and I think, who am

0:42:46.280 --> 0:42:50.800
<v Speaker 1>I to speak to someone battling cancer at age of

0:42:50.880 --> 0:42:54.120
<v Speaker 1>thirty one by herself? The heck am I country singer?

0:42:54.520 --> 0:42:59.640
<v Speaker 1>What would I know about this? But I feel obligated

0:42:59.680 --> 0:43:05.719
<v Speaker 1>to try, and I'll try to give you something my

0:43:05.800 --> 0:43:09.000
<v Speaker 1>advice if you're battling cancer at the age of thirty

0:43:09.000 --> 0:43:12.680
<v Speaker 1>one by yourself, Off the top of my head with

0:43:12.719 --> 0:43:18.040
<v Speaker 1>no notes. There's a book I read one time by

0:43:18.120 --> 0:43:23.239
<v Speaker 1>Ryan Holiday called The Obstacle is the Way. And I

0:43:23.320 --> 0:43:33.279
<v Speaker 1>believe that everything has everything happens for a reason. And

0:43:33.360 --> 0:43:37.120
<v Speaker 1>it's really hard to stand by that thought when terrible

0:43:37.120 --> 0:43:42.840
<v Speaker 1>things happen. But I believe that all of our lives

0:43:42.840 --> 0:43:45.480
<v Speaker 1>and all of this world and everything that happens in

0:43:45.520 --> 0:43:51.799
<v Speaker 1>it is written by the same hand. And that's from

0:43:51.840 --> 0:43:55.520
<v Speaker 1>another book called The Alchemist. But Ryan Holiday writes a

0:43:55.560 --> 0:44:00.360
<v Speaker 1>book called The Obstacles the Way, And sometimes we we're

0:44:00.400 --> 0:44:03.799
<v Speaker 1>forced into an obstacle, and we have to make the

0:44:03.880 --> 0:44:06.600
<v Speaker 1>decision that this obstacle is going to be our demise,

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<v Speaker 1>or this obstacle is the reason we're going to get better.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the reason that we are going to become the

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<v Speaker 1>best version of ourselves. And so many times, you guys

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<v Speaker 1>know this. So many times, it's the fight. It's the battle,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the failure. It's falling down and getting back up.

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<v Speaker 1>It's those moments when we rise and we push forward

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<v Speaker 1>and we fight back. It's those moments that we grow.

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<v Speaker 1>It's those moments we look back in our lives and

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<v Speaker 1>we go It was this obstacle. It was this obstacle.

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<v Speaker 1>It was losing my granddad. It was getting diagnosed with cancer,

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<v Speaker 1>it was getting laid off from my job. It was

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<v Speaker 1>those moments that either broke me or It was those

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<v Speaker 1>moments when I fought back and I stopped fighting the

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<v Speaker 1>current and it said I went with the current, and

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<v Speaker 1>I realized this was happening for a reason, to teach

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<v Speaker 1>me something so that I could be better. We all

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<v Speaker 1>love each other because of our vulnerabilities. That's why humans

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<v Speaker 1>love each other. It's not we don't love each other

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<v Speaker 1>because we're perfect, and we don't grow. If life is perfect,

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<v Speaker 1>if life is easy, if life is smooth, we don't.

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<v Speaker 1>We just exist. There's nothing to that. And I love,

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<v Speaker 1>I love thinking about the analogy of Superman. Right, the

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<v Speaker 1>Superman comic comes out, and here's this guy who could

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<v Speaker 1>go faster than a speeding bullet, He's stronger than a locomotive.

0:45:40.200 --> 0:45:42.799
<v Speaker 1>He flies like whatever they say canaries. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>but no one cared when that came out. No one

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<v Speaker 1>cared about Superman. Who cares about a man that's perfect

0:45:50.960 --> 0:45:53.680
<v Speaker 1>and it just doesn't You could do anything he wants.

0:45:53.680 --> 0:45:56.359
<v Speaker 1>He could shoot lasers out of his eyes and fly

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<v Speaker 1>with his cape. What fun is that? Like? What's worse

0:46:00.160 --> 0:46:03.480
<v Speaker 1>following that story? So, what the genius thing that those

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<v Speaker 1>comic writers did was they gave him kryptonite. And it

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<v Speaker 1>was kryptonite to change the story. It was kryptonite Superman's weakness.

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<v Speaker 1>When he found his weakness, Superman found his cancer, when

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<v Speaker 1>something could take him down, something could really hurt him,

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<v Speaker 1>something could kill him. And when he decided to fight

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<v Speaker 1>back and win against something, this mortal fear, then he

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<v Speaker 1>became the person everyone wanted to read about, everyone wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to look up to Superman. Everyone wanted to read the

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<v Speaker 1>comics and watch the movies because although he's strong and powerful,

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<v Speaker 1>there is obstacles they can take him down, and we

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<v Speaker 1>all want as humans, we want to see how do

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<v Speaker 1>you get past the obstacle, how do you fight through it?

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<v Speaker 1>That's what defines you. The other side of that too.

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<v Speaker 1>If I was thirty one and I had cancer. But man,

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<v Speaker 1>this is it's hard. It's hard to deal with the

0:47:07.640 --> 0:47:14.400
<v Speaker 1>subject and not and not sound like I'm mister know

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<v Speaker 1>it all over here. But please don't take this the

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<v Speaker 1>wrong way. But I do believe with all my heart

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<v Speaker 1>that you could if I was thirty one and I

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<v Speaker 1>was battling cancer, I could very well look at that

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<v Speaker 1>as a gift, a gift. And you're like, what a gift?

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<v Speaker 1>You could look at that as a gift, like this

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<v Speaker 1>is your chance to give you the ultimate perspective of life,

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<v Speaker 1>to make you cherish every meal, to make you cherish

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<v Speaker 1>every actual good night's sleep. You have to make you

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<v Speaker 1>cherish the next sunrise, because for the first time ever,

0:47:53.840 --> 0:47:57.759
<v Speaker 1>maybe you don't know how many more sunrises you might

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<v Speaker 1>have if you don't win, if you don't beat this,

0:48:01.880 --> 0:48:04.200
<v Speaker 1>so you could be given a gift. If you look

0:48:04.239 --> 0:48:06.200
<v Speaker 1>at it that way, you could you could look at

0:48:06.200 --> 0:48:10.880
<v Speaker 1>cancer as a gift that provides you a divine insight

0:48:11.120 --> 0:48:17.000
<v Speaker 1>above all other humans, that allows you to appreciate the

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<v Speaker 1>present moment, to live in that moment, because life is

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<v Speaker 1>about moments, not minutes. You know, there's plenty of people

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<v Speaker 1>that stay healthy and live ninety years, But out of

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<v Speaker 1>those ninety years, did they ever really have the gift

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<v Speaker 1>of appreciating the very moment, the little things, the smiles,

0:48:37.040 --> 0:48:43.239
<v Speaker 1>the hugs, the sunrises, the sunsets, a good slice of

0:48:43.280 --> 0:48:49.600
<v Speaker 1>Filet mignon. You know, I would think that this could

0:48:49.600 --> 0:48:53.399
<v Speaker 1>be a gift for you, that you could you could

0:48:53.520 --> 0:48:55.680
<v Speaker 1>enjoy every moment more than any other human on the

0:48:55.719 --> 0:49:02.600
<v Speaker 1>planet with that kind of diagnosis. I hope that I

0:49:02.640 --> 0:49:06.040
<v Speaker 1>hope that is appropriate. I hope that's not overstepping any bounds.

0:49:07.400 --> 0:49:10.840
<v Speaker 1>And I should probably uh, I should probably end with

0:49:10.880 --> 0:49:14.359
<v Speaker 1>that one. There's so many, so many more questions that

0:49:14.400 --> 0:49:17.080
<v Speaker 1>you guys had, and I was seriously scrolling through, and

0:49:17.520 --> 0:49:19.839
<v Speaker 1>I want to answer them all, but I also want

0:49:19.880 --> 0:49:25.359
<v Speaker 1>to make this podcast a normal length, and I want

0:49:25.400 --> 0:49:27.799
<v Speaker 1>you guys to keep asking them. And if I didn't

0:49:27.840 --> 0:49:31.399
<v Speaker 1>answer your question on this one, please ask it again,

0:49:32.160 --> 0:49:33.839
<v Speaker 1>And like I said, you don't have to I will ask,

0:49:33.880 --> 0:49:35.840
<v Speaker 1>but you don't have to wait. On social media, you

0:49:35.840 --> 0:49:39.640
<v Speaker 1>could just go and hashtag Grangersmith podcast and ask her question.

0:49:40.680 --> 0:49:43.960
<v Speaker 1>And I do want to take this time to tell you,

0:49:44.000 --> 0:49:48.120
<v Speaker 1>guys that I feel like this podcast is legitimately brought

0:49:48.160 --> 0:49:52.520
<v Speaker 1>to you by all the men and women in our

0:49:52.640 --> 0:49:59.240
<v Speaker 1>armed forces that volunteer, that sacrifice everything for the freedom

0:49:59.280 --> 0:50:01.480
<v Speaker 1>of speech. That I could sit here behind this microphone

0:50:01.480 --> 0:50:03.719
<v Speaker 1>on a tour bus in Iowa and talk about whatever

0:50:03.800 --> 0:50:07.080
<v Speaker 1>I want and that's that's a right granted to me

0:50:07.480 --> 0:50:10.040
<v Speaker 1>by the men and women that allow me to do that.

0:50:10.520 --> 0:50:13.320
<v Speaker 1>I also feel like the men and women in law enforcement,

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<v Speaker 1>fire departments, e mts, all all the first responders for

0:50:18.400 --> 0:50:23.359
<v Speaker 1>keeping us safe in this beautiful place and this earth

0:50:23.400 --> 0:50:27.200
<v Speaker 1>that we only get so many times around. So thank you,

0:50:27.239 --> 0:50:32.040
<v Speaker 1>guys for blessing me with this dream that I truly

0:50:32.560 --> 0:50:36.040
<v Speaker 1>love to live. And I hope you know that by

0:50:36.080 --> 0:50:40.239
<v Speaker 1>me through the the experiences that Amber and I have had,

0:50:41.920 --> 0:50:45.319
<v Speaker 1>we feel more blessed than ever to be able to

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<v Speaker 1>talk and maybe help a little bit for anyone that

0:50:50.239 --> 0:50:53.719
<v Speaker 1>might be looking for some help, because that like I

0:50:53.760 --> 0:50:56.360
<v Speaker 1>said earlier, gives us meaning, that gives us purpose that

0:50:56.520 --> 0:51:00.600
<v Speaker 1>offset suffering. So I have an option to sit in

0:51:00.640 --> 0:51:03.279
<v Speaker 1>a dark corner and close my eyes and live out

0:51:03.280 --> 0:51:06.279
<v Speaker 1>my days like that. But I don't think that's what

0:51:06.360 --> 0:51:09.520
<v Speaker 1>life's about. I don't think that's utilizing the hand that

0:51:09.520 --> 0:51:13.719
<v Speaker 1>we're dealt things that we can't control, and it'll be

0:51:13.760 --> 0:51:16.400
<v Speaker 1>an endless search for meaning, But this is part of it.

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<v Speaker 1>For those of you that hung with this, that we're

0:51:19.719 --> 0:51:21.800
<v Speaker 1>watching the video and you just hung with the audio,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, thank you so much, but I figured you

0:51:25.880 --> 0:51:28.439
<v Speaker 1>probably didn't want to keep seeing my face anyway that long.

0:51:28.520 --> 0:51:30.640
<v Speaker 1>But I know now to time myself and keep these

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<v Speaker 1>under thirty minutes so this doesn't happen. But you guys rock.

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<v Speaker 1>Love you guys, Thanks for listening. The new version of

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<v Speaker 1>the Granger Smith podcast. Ye Ye