1 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:05,439 Speaker 1: What would you talk about on your on your podcast 2 00:00:05,680 --> 00:00:18,200 Speaker 1: Presents fifty show. Anybody else excited for the nice weather? 3 00:00:18,720 --> 00:00:22,640 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, so excited you're talking what's your idea 4 00:00:22,680 --> 00:00:26,560 Speaker 1: of nice weather? Okay, so here it's getting into the fifties. 5 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:35,320 Speaker 1: I think, whoa, oh Saturday degrees, Yeah, something like that. Well, 6 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:37,600 Speaker 1: this is like the false spring, right, this always happens 7 00:00:37,640 --> 00:00:39,280 Speaker 1: right in the middle of February. We get this pop, 8 00:00:39,320 --> 00:00:43,760 Speaker 1: everyone gets happy, and then again on Saturday night. How 9 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:45,960 Speaker 1: is that possible? How could it drop? It's gonna be 10 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:48,199 Speaker 1: like it's gonna be like fifty six degrees on Saturday 11 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 1: and then all the way down to thirty and rain 12 00:00:51,120 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 1: or snow just pop our bubble, you know. I remember 13 00:00:55,720 --> 00:00:57,960 Speaker 1: as a kid growing up in Eerie, Pennsylvania, where we 14 00:00:58,000 --> 00:01:00,200 Speaker 1: had snow one year. That's started in September and we 15 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 1: didn't see grass again until May. I remember that first 16 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:06,120 Speaker 1: day above fifty degrees. My brothers and I were outside 17 00:01:06,200 --> 00:01:12,560 Speaker 1: sucking shorts. Everybody's pale as anything in their tops and 18 00:01:12,920 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 1: shorts on that first around. Muddy has backyard. It's funny 19 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:18,560 Speaker 1: not me. I'm always used because I'd be like, it's 20 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:20,760 Speaker 1: sixty I can wear shorts when I lived in Ohio, 21 00:01:20,840 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 1: and my mom will be like, that's what the white 22 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:30,199 Speaker 1: kids doing to be cold. When I lived in South Florida, 23 00:01:30,240 --> 00:01:32,160 Speaker 1: it was eighty all the time, so if it dropped in, 24 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:35,440 Speaker 1: if it was sixty, I wore long pants. Were yesterday 25 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:38,280 Speaker 1: here it's been really cold and as far as you 26 00:01:38,319 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 1: know Florida standards go, it's been in the thirties every 27 00:01:40,319 --> 00:01:42,960 Speaker 1: single night. So yesterday it was going to be fifty 28 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 1: eight and sunny. I wore shorts yesterday. I couldn't wait 29 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 1: to get outside and like, yeah, I'm like times I changed. 30 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 1: I'm like, do you know what we see? The sunshine? 31 00:01:49,880 --> 00:01:53,600 Speaker 1: I'm happy. Yeah. The year I got married, we I 32 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:56,240 Speaker 1: got married March fifteen. The week before we had a 33 00:01:56,320 --> 00:02:00,200 Speaker 1: massive snowstorm. It was one of those crazy ones. Then 34 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:03,320 Speaker 1: the day I got married with sixty degrees, it was 35 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:06,560 Speaker 1: so wonderful, like this is great, but that's how weird 36 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 1: the weather is around. You're right, though, Frog in Gandhi 37 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:12,720 Speaker 1: about like the South Florida and southern California. Think it 38 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:15,280 Speaker 1: gets below like sixty five and you see all the 39 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 1: women putting on their fur coats and their puffer jackets 40 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:21,640 Speaker 1: and their ug boots on. I wonder if some of 41 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:23,840 Speaker 1: that is because they don't ever get to wear it, 42 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:26,080 Speaker 1: so that this is going to be my opportunity, not 43 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:29,919 Speaker 1: that they That's what we did. It was more like fashion. Oh, 44 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 1: I get to wear my puffer coat now and my 45 00:02:31,720 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 1: ear muffs and my hat, and I gets walk around 46 00:02:33,480 --> 00:02:35,480 Speaker 1: with a hat on all day because we have outside classes. 47 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:38,079 Speaker 1: It was great. Frog. I know you don't need one, 48 00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:41,640 Speaker 1: but do you own a winter jacket? I needed one 49 00:02:41,680 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 1: of the other. I mean, listen, it gets into the 50 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 1: twenties here. We had a night, uh two weeks ago 51 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:48,240 Speaker 1: it was twenty six, so I mean it gets it 52 00:02:48,280 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 1: gets cold here. And then earlier this week the highs 53 00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 1: are in the forties and it was rainings. I mean, 54 00:02:53,040 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 1: we we have cold days and you do not. You 55 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:58,160 Speaker 1: did not own a jacket when we went to Alaska 56 00:02:58,280 --> 00:03:00,400 Speaker 1: because you borrowed all your warm clothes when we went 57 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:03,960 Speaker 1: to Alaska. Correct, I own a warmer jacket? Now, Okay, 58 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:07,600 Speaker 1: dad lives in Yes, yeah, does your does your dad 59 00:03:07,639 --> 00:03:11,359 Speaker 1: finally have a winter jacket? Does he have a winter jacket? He? 60 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 1: So he came to Columbus. He went to Columbus to 61 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:16,440 Speaker 1: see my sister and everyone for Thanksgiving, and his mission 62 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:19,360 Speaker 1: was to buy a winter coat for when he returned 63 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:22,480 Speaker 1: to Tampa, and he ended up buying one, which is 64 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:25,120 Speaker 1: this giant car heart. And he was lamenting to me 65 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:27,160 Speaker 1: the other day that he can't wear it. I said, Dad, 66 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:29,240 Speaker 1: you took a car heart to the equator. What did 67 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:32,560 Speaker 1: you expect to do that? It gets cold here becauts 68 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:34,680 Speaker 1: in the forties. But he can't. It's too much for him. So, 69 00:03:35,280 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 1: speaking of being called in Alaska, I still don't have 70 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 1: any heat. So still that guy's coming tomorrow. So I 71 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 1: had to change companies, but I got a good deal, 72 00:03:44,360 --> 00:03:48,040 Speaker 1: so I don't want to be that customer service. And 73 00:03:48,080 --> 00:03:51,160 Speaker 1: now are you are you actually holding out for the 74 00:03:51,200 --> 00:03:54,240 Speaker 1: heat an extra couple of days to save money? Could 75 00:03:54,400 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 1: or could you have gotten earlier in the week for no, no, no, 76 00:03:57,520 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 1: I'm smart with my money, but I'm not that stupid. No, 77 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 1: Friday's the earliest I could possibly get. These guys have 78 00:04:04,120 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 1: their whole book up this time of year. So so 79 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 1: you don't have a supplemental heat source. Well, so my best. 80 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:13,800 Speaker 1: So I have multi levels here, so the top we 81 00:04:13,840 --> 00:04:16,560 Speaker 1: put an addition on the house. The upper level, the 82 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 1: bedroom level has heat, but I I can't do the 83 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:22,840 Speaker 1: podcast from up there, so I'm down here in the 84 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:26,719 Speaker 1: den where it's freezing on my house? So is everyone 85 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:29,320 Speaker 1: sleeping in the same room like huddled on? All they 86 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:31,480 Speaker 1: have They all have their own bedrooms with heat. It's 87 00:04:31,520 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 1: just the kitchen, dining room, um, living room and this 88 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:39,360 Speaker 1: den area and the basement where I podcast with scary 89 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:43,880 Speaker 1: or no heat. So I'm closing down right now. I'm 90 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:45,960 Speaker 1: afraid to check. But it feels it feels like about 91 00:04:46,000 --> 00:04:49,360 Speaker 1: fifteen degrees degrees. It feels like, yeah, yesterday I had 92 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 1: a code on. I'm trying not to hold. If you 93 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:53,719 Speaker 1: put a glass of water there would freeze. Is that cold? 94 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:57,279 Speaker 1: That's how it feels. You know what I have? I'll check. 95 00:04:57,320 --> 00:04:59,040 Speaker 1: I have a thing that that I'll try to check 96 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:01,800 Speaker 1: down the kilometer. No, I have a thing yet like 97 00:05:01,839 --> 00:05:05,320 Speaker 1: little things float. It floats depending on the temperature, and 98 00:05:05,320 --> 00:05:07,120 Speaker 1: it tells you. It's not a thermometer. That's why it 99 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:11,240 Speaker 1: used the word thermometer smart as it's some kind of 100 00:05:11,279 --> 00:05:14,000 Speaker 1: weather tube that has floaty things in it and where 101 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:21,600 Speaker 1: they float tells you the temperature. Though you're never going 102 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 1: to rip on him that he's not gonna dependent think 103 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 1: the word. You're looking for his barometer there, Brody, It's 104 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 1: not it's not a barometer. I'm not checking barrio barometric pressure, 105 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:37,560 Speaker 1: checking the temperature, right, but there's a ball in there 106 00:05:37,600 --> 00:05:41,680 Speaker 1: that moves like mercury would move in It's it's like 107 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:51,880 Speaker 1: colored finds out. House phone does just tell you the 108 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:55,400 Speaker 1: thermostat is off because the furnace is off sky, But 109 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:58,480 Speaker 1: I mean thermostats have a thermometer on it to tell 110 00:05:58,520 --> 00:06:07,239 Speaker 1: you what the temperature is. Right. There is funny, I'm sorry. 111 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:10,560 Speaker 1: Never Here's why the rest of us are assholes all 112 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:15,240 Speaker 1: the time. Scary is generally very nice and carrying and 113 00:06:15,279 --> 00:06:18,160 Speaker 1: doesn't want to people. But then when he turns it on, 114 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:22,640 Speaker 1: it's so rare that it just froggy. Nobody laughs hotter 115 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 1: at himself that he does. Yeah, I mean I was 116 00:06:27,279 --> 00:06:29,240 Speaker 1: a dick to Scary earlier today, and he wasn't even 117 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:31,640 Speaker 1: mean to me about He was just point that you 118 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:35,120 Speaker 1: were the biggest dick. She that was a dick move, 119 00:06:35,640 --> 00:06:39,400 Speaker 1: I will say that. But but you want to guess 120 00:06:39,440 --> 00:06:41,880 Speaker 1: what she did. But you did it first. I do 121 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:44,080 Speaker 1: remember I did it first a week and a half ago. 122 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:47,400 Speaker 1: Does anybody She was saving it up and As I 123 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:51,120 Speaker 1: always say, revenge is a dish best served. So what 124 00:06:51,200 --> 00:06:54,599 Speaker 1: she did was she gave away the fucking word after 125 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:57,479 Speaker 1: I said, hey, I didn't do my I didn't do 126 00:06:57,600 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 1: my word today and I'm pulling up the web show 127 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:06,200 Speaker 1: I still have but but but the best thing was 128 00:07:06,320 --> 00:07:09,600 Speaker 1: scariest face because Gandhi just blurted out the word and 129 00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 1: then there was three seconds She's sucking with me, and 130 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:20,400 Speaker 1: he kept working on it and her yeah, yeah, he 131 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:22,480 Speaker 1: did that to me a week and a half ago, 132 00:07:22,640 --> 00:07:25,680 Speaker 1: back when word was brand new, but it was it 133 00:07:25,760 --> 00:07:29,680 Speaker 1: was just becoming. I take it away on the air, 134 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:32,200 Speaker 1: and unfortunately, and I didn't know it would pick so 135 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:34,240 Speaker 1: many people off. So I'm like, all right, from here 136 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:36,800 Speaker 1: on out, I'm gonna treat word like a spoiler, a 137 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:39,160 Speaker 1: spoiler alert. I'm not gonna give it out. I'm not. 138 00:07:39,200 --> 00:07:41,280 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna be quiet because so many people are 139 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:45,440 Speaker 1: into this thing, so we should know better. Now. I 140 00:07:45,480 --> 00:07:47,680 Speaker 1: did know better. I just really wanted to get you back. 141 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:50,040 Speaker 1: I told the listeners I would seek vengeance for all 142 00:07:50,080 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 1: of them, for myself, for Nate, all of us. So 143 00:07:52,560 --> 00:07:54,160 Speaker 1: now we're even. Now, I will not funk up word 144 00:07:54,280 --> 00:07:57,480 Speaker 1: for you anymore. I did a lot of people that day. Okay, well, 145 00:07:57,560 --> 00:08:01,040 Speaker 1: let's pause this argument really quick, and anybody else piste 146 00:08:01,080 --> 00:08:03,880 Speaker 1: off at anybody he's got his hand up. I think 147 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:09,800 Speaker 1: he went and got his temperature measuring device. No, no, 148 00:08:10,040 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 1: I turned on, I turned back on the thermostat, and 149 00:08:12,200 --> 00:08:14,640 Speaker 1: I got a temperature. So let's go around. Let's go 150 00:08:14,680 --> 00:08:16,840 Speaker 1: around the zoom room and guess what my temperature is 151 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:22,960 Speaker 1: in this part of the house. Okay, Scott's okay, I'm 152 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:26,280 Speaker 1: gonna go fifty six, all right. I don't think it's 153 00:08:26,280 --> 00:08:28,720 Speaker 1: as cold as you think. I think it's six. I 154 00:08:28,760 --> 00:08:35,240 Speaker 1: think it's two sixty two. Whoa, Okay, I can't get that. 155 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:39,800 Speaker 1: One of you. One of you got it exactly right, 156 00:08:41,360 --> 00:08:46,560 Speaker 1: Nate with fifty six. By the way, that's what I 157 00:08:46,640 --> 00:08:49,280 Speaker 1: keep it at in my house constantly, regardless of its working. 158 00:08:50,400 --> 00:08:53,520 Speaker 1: You're the worst. Well, maybe you'll all appreciate this. So 159 00:08:53,600 --> 00:08:57,400 Speaker 1: this is my father in Tampa, inside their home where 160 00:08:57,400 --> 00:09:00,840 Speaker 1: they keep it at like seventy seventy degrees. Are ready, yes, 161 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:15,280 Speaker 1: taking a nap seventy degrees inside the house that my dad. 162 00:09:15,840 --> 00:09:18,040 Speaker 1: My dad does the same thing I showed up in 163 00:09:18,120 --> 00:09:20,440 Speaker 1: my parents is sitting and coach and stuff, and I'm like, 164 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:23,080 Speaker 1: why do you it's freezing in the house because they 165 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:26,120 Speaker 1: don't want to turn on the heat and the thumber's 166 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:29,280 Speaker 1: dat's down to eight by their choice. I'm like, guys, 167 00:09:29,679 --> 00:09:32,040 Speaker 1: just turn the fucking thing up to seventy five and 168 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:36,240 Speaker 1: you can take off the mittens. My dad and he's 169 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:40,120 Speaker 1: got on and he'll get um, you have a blanket 170 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:43,320 Speaker 1: I can wrap myself up in. Yeah. He always says this. 171 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 1: It's a little rish in here, like it's And then 172 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:51,160 Speaker 1: I asked my mom why she's in in a in 173 00:09:51,240 --> 00:09:54,480 Speaker 1: a slanket and she goes, I don't know. Ask your father, 174 00:09:54,760 --> 00:10:00,320 Speaker 1: as your father eat on. Your father won't put the 175 00:10:00,360 --> 00:10:03,280 Speaker 1: heat on. That's what Nate does. Nate said he controls 176 00:10:03,280 --> 00:10:05,840 Speaker 1: the heat from his phone. I just turned and tries 177 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:08,560 Speaker 1: to go about sixty two. I just turned that ship 178 00:10:08,720 --> 00:10:12,680 Speaker 1: on eco mode. I'm like, do you remember Daddy's home 179 00:10:12,720 --> 00:10:15,160 Speaker 1: to where in the middle of the night they're all 180 00:10:15,320 --> 00:10:18,080 Speaker 1: sweating like crazy because if one of the people's daughters 181 00:10:18,080 --> 00:10:20,680 Speaker 1: came out and turned the thermost that and and all 182 00:10:20,760 --> 00:10:22,800 Speaker 1: the men are gathered around the thermostat and they're like, 183 00:10:23,080 --> 00:10:26,840 Speaker 1: this is this cannot happen. You need to take control 184 00:10:27,080 --> 00:10:29,880 Speaker 1: right now. It was like that happened in my house 185 00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:32,560 Speaker 1: the other night. Heather turned it up one degree and 186 00:10:32,600 --> 00:10:35,440 Speaker 1: I wake up and I had the sweating thing, like 187 00:10:35,480 --> 00:10:39,480 Speaker 1: the sweat v net sweat one degree, one degree, and 188 00:10:39,520 --> 00:10:41,840 Speaker 1: I'm like, what did you do? She goes it was 189 00:10:41,880 --> 00:10:44,640 Speaker 1: one degree. I go, I'm me, I'm sweating here, but 190 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:48,040 Speaker 1: sweat sweat. Question. You might want to have that checked 191 00:10:48,040 --> 00:10:51,040 Speaker 1: out by a doctor. Do anyone Else's parents argued constantly, 192 00:10:51,960 --> 00:10:54,880 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, my parents are the reason I will never 193 00:10:54,880 --> 00:10:59,559 Speaker 1: get married. Like this is what that is? No, I 194 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:01,720 Speaker 1: go with there every day. You guys got along because 195 00:11:01,840 --> 00:11:05,160 Speaker 1: I'm forty some years old, forty six and I don't 196 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:08,120 Speaker 1: ever recall a time where they've like consistently like liked 197 00:11:08,120 --> 00:11:10,560 Speaker 1: each other and gotten along something. How did you guys 198 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:13,920 Speaker 1: get married? Because you don't ever get along? How were 199 00:11:13,920 --> 00:11:15,760 Speaker 1: you conceived? Not that you really want to know that, 200 00:11:15,840 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 1: but still they had to, like I don't think Danielle's 201 00:11:18,760 --> 00:11:21,000 Speaker 1: you and Sheldon argue that much. Oh wait, I mean 202 00:11:21,040 --> 00:11:26,960 Speaker 1: we definitely argue, but we'll Yeah, here's their argument. Our 203 00:11:27,000 --> 00:11:30,360 Speaker 1: marriage is great. No, our marriage is fantastic. No great, No, 204 00:11:30,360 --> 00:11:35,120 Speaker 1: now you're kind of on your way. Yeah, ye what 205 00:11:35,120 --> 00:11:37,040 Speaker 1: they want to say. But we get on the phone 206 00:11:37,040 --> 00:11:39,920 Speaker 1: here at least get along, like we we do have 207 00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:42,040 Speaker 1: days where we get along pretty good, just you know, 208 00:11:42,240 --> 00:11:45,599 Speaker 1: she does dump things like trainer, and I'm like, we 209 00:11:47,360 --> 00:11:49,160 Speaker 1: have days where, like, you know, we're a couple of 210 00:11:49,240 --> 00:11:52,040 Speaker 1: days where he's worse than I am withholding a grudge. 211 00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:54,000 Speaker 1: He won't talk to you for a couple of days. 212 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:59,800 Speaker 1: Like I'm like a goldfish. Well everything's great, but he's like, well, 213 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:02,760 Speaker 1: my dad was like this. My parents didn't argue at 214 00:12:02,800 --> 00:12:06,360 Speaker 1: all practically, because my mom once she said, I just 215 00:12:06,440 --> 00:12:08,600 Speaker 1: know how to deal with your father, and then she 216 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:11,600 Speaker 1: would say, he forgets about it five minutes later, and 217 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:13,800 Speaker 1: then that's what what happened. They'd have an argument, he'd 218 00:12:13,840 --> 00:12:16,920 Speaker 1: go in another room, he'd come in the next the room, 219 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:19,240 Speaker 1: and he would just forget what they argued about. Everything 220 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:21,520 Speaker 1: would be fine. I was like, that's that's awesome. So 221 00:12:21,600 --> 00:12:23,360 Speaker 1: I try to do that as much as I can, 222 00:12:23,640 --> 00:12:26,880 Speaker 1: although I get in trouble for it sometimes. So because 223 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:37,360 Speaker 1: they're like, Danielle, we need to talk about this, okay already, 224 00:12:37,440 --> 00:12:39,160 Speaker 1: You're right go ahead. What you were saying. I think 225 00:12:39,200 --> 00:12:40,760 Speaker 1: this is a guy thing when you just kind of 226 00:12:40,760 --> 00:12:43,960 Speaker 1: like you. I wouldn't say hold of grudge. I just 227 00:12:44,000 --> 00:12:47,600 Speaker 1: haven't gotten over it yet. Sometimes it's like, dude, it's 228 00:12:47,640 --> 00:12:50,319 Speaker 1: three days later, Like, but maybe I haven't told you 229 00:12:50,400 --> 00:12:54,480 Speaker 1: all the things you did wrong yet. I feel like that, 230 00:12:55,760 --> 00:12:59,000 Speaker 1: Like women will talk about, Okay, this is what upset me, 231 00:12:59,080 --> 00:13:01,240 Speaker 1: this is why you at me. Let's have a discussion, 232 00:13:01,280 --> 00:13:02,560 Speaker 1: and guy's like, I don't want to talk about it, 233 00:13:02,559 --> 00:13:04,040 Speaker 1: just stressing me out, and then you just hold all 234 00:13:04,040 --> 00:13:06,240 Speaker 1: that anger instead of actually trying to work it out 235 00:13:06,240 --> 00:13:10,440 Speaker 1: and talk through maybe some uncomfortable emotions or two strokes, 236 00:13:09,840 --> 00:13:17,200 Speaker 1: two unresolved arguments you're not going to do before I'm 237 00:13:17,200 --> 00:13:18,719 Speaker 1: going to get over Like if you did something that 238 00:13:18,760 --> 00:13:20,640 Speaker 1: fiss me off, I want to make sure that it's 239 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:22,839 Speaker 1: not going to happen again before it's gonna get over it. 240 00:13:22,840 --> 00:13:24,240 Speaker 1: If you're just gonna do the same ship again, then 241 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:26,640 Speaker 1: I'm not getting over it. See. I believe if you 242 00:13:26,720 --> 00:13:29,320 Speaker 1: say I'm sorry, it should be over and nobody mentions 243 00:13:29,320 --> 00:13:31,720 Speaker 1: it again. So that's it. If I say, yeah, you 244 00:13:31,720 --> 00:13:34,040 Speaker 1: know what I was wrong, I'm sorry, it would be 245 00:13:34,080 --> 00:13:36,960 Speaker 1: great if everyone involved would just go okay, it doesn't 246 00:13:38,080 --> 00:13:40,800 Speaker 1: it doesn't work that I would like clean slate. Sorry, 247 00:13:40,800 --> 00:13:43,600 Speaker 1: oh we're done. They're gonad horse body. Sometimes that horse 248 00:13:43,720 --> 00:13:48,760 Speaker 1: is not dead yet. My trouble just said you beat 249 00:13:48,760 --> 00:13:52,880 Speaker 1: the dead horse. My problem is is that Sheldon is 250 00:13:52,920 --> 00:13:55,080 Speaker 1: good at He really is good as if something's bothering him, 251 00:13:55,080 --> 00:13:57,000 Speaker 1: at least we talk about it. I'm the one who 252 00:13:57,040 --> 00:13:58,280 Speaker 1: will keep it in the back of my mind and 253 00:13:58,320 --> 00:14:01,199 Speaker 1: then bring it up three months later and he's just, what, what, 254 00:14:01,200 --> 00:14:05,160 Speaker 1: what's coming up now? Like I'm like, yeah, for your right, 255 00:14:05,720 --> 00:14:07,120 Speaker 1: And I bring it up at the worst time, like 256 00:14:07,160 --> 00:14:09,640 Speaker 1: we'll arguing about something else and I'll throw it in 257 00:14:09,920 --> 00:14:13,240 Speaker 1: and he's like, no, no, no, no, no no expired 258 00:14:13,760 --> 00:14:17,920 Speaker 1: ye exactly, no, no, no, you don't plunge your argument. 259 00:14:18,440 --> 00:14:24,720 Speaker 1: You bring up that old ship, that mental diary. Oh yeah, 260 00:14:24,720 --> 00:14:28,000 Speaker 1: I remember February second, two one when you were late 261 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:31,960 Speaker 1: at six am. Right, I haven't been late for a 262 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:34,240 Speaker 1: dinner for a while. You were late six dinners ago. 263 00:14:36,360 --> 00:14:41,360 Speaker 1: According to Froggy, you did it again six years later. 264 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:45,359 Speaker 1: I really made a huge screw up in our relationship 265 00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:48,680 Speaker 1: back in two thousand one. I can tell you that 266 00:14:48,680 --> 00:14:53,280 Speaker 1: ship brought up every now and then. That was years ago, right, Like, 267 00:14:53,360 --> 00:14:56,720 Speaker 1: I haven't done it again. Since then, still never used 268 00:14:56,720 --> 00:14:59,960 Speaker 1: the words never used the words I've never done blind 269 00:15:00,360 --> 00:15:03,720 Speaker 1: because they will remember you did just go. I don't 270 00:15:03,840 --> 00:15:06,720 Speaker 1: often because that's that's at least safe. So did you go? 271 00:15:06,800 --> 00:15:09,800 Speaker 1: I've never done that? Really, here's the three times you did. 272 00:15:10,440 --> 00:15:14,080 Speaker 1: Let me Let me write out yeah down next time. Okay, 273 00:15:14,480 --> 00:15:16,920 Speaker 1: raise your hand is the last question. Raise your hand 274 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:20,000 Speaker 1: if you think your spouse or significant significant other listening 275 00:15:20,040 --> 00:15:26,280 Speaker 1: to this podcast will start an argument right here? All right, person. Actually, 276 00:15:26,280 --> 00:15:28,480 Speaker 1: I was thinking I might go say, hey, honey, don't 277 00:15:28,480 --> 00:15:30,880 Speaker 1: listen to the podcast, which is only going to make 278 00:15:30,920 --> 00:15:33,760 Speaker 1: them listen and then come at you like, well, but 279 00:15:33,760 --> 00:15:36,120 Speaker 1: but my son Spencer watches it every day, so he'll 280 00:15:36,120 --> 00:15:50,440 Speaker 1: go Dad, all right, you're welcome, Bye everybody. 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