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Speaker 1: Well that's just that doesn't count. James is on the

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Speaker 1: qualifies for a second date update. I read your email.

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Speaker 1: It qualifies, it qualifies. You still met the girl and

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Speaker 1: she blew you off. Why don't you tell everybody and

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Speaker 1: hear what happened? Well, this girl, Regina, and I were

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Speaker 1: took a very casual approach. I said, listen, Line, come

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Speaker 1: met her before, right, No, I really know. Okay, So

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Speaker 1: that sounded creepy the way you said that you got

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Speaker 1: I've never been like, oh wait, got an adjustment to make.

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Speaker 1: You're spend about maybe fifteen minutes talking and you know,

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Speaker 1: jubil in the morning. Update James, how does it make

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Speaker 1: This is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning

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Speaker 1: on the radio station Moving ninety two point five radio station. Okay,

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Speaker 1: have you ever heard of us before? Um? I think

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Speaker 1: We do a little thing on our show called the

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Speaker 1: second Date Update, where you go out on a date

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Speaker 1: with someone and then blow them off. That person emails

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Speaker 1: us to call you and ask why. Okay, you recently

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Speaker 1: met a guy named James. Do you remember James? Oh? God? Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: So James liked you, He liked meeting you. He was

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Speaker 1: wondering did he do something wrong? You know, I just

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Speaker 1: You know, Regina, if if you've just met a guy

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Speaker 1: because James is actually on the phone with us and

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Speaker 1: heard what you just said. James. I can't believe I

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Speaker 1: somebody who go snooping around. I didn't go slipping. Don't

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Speaker 1: You're a pig. Can we get to the real issue?

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Speaker 1: Why do you have women's lingerie in your underwear in

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Speaker 1: your in your room? James? Okay, that's that's a very

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Speaker 1: you lied about somebody's dying to end the date, James,

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Speaker 1: there's nothing gay about this? All right? But they're mine?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I don't know. I couldn't know you

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Speaker 1: exacline how it started, But I got We got a

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Speaker 1: group of friends. We we played poker together, and somebody

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Speaker 1: What we did a drag poker night. Yea, we have

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Speaker 1: a drag polker knight once a month. That's a pile

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Speaker 1: of craps. All right, yeah, handle this. You don't believe

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Speaker 1: a fifty dollars buy its God, yeah right, I'm down

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Speaker 1: but like, I don't know if I'm ready to have that, Regina, Regina,

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Speaker 1: coming from a guy, I would much rather fess up

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Speaker 1: to having a girlfriend. No, I put on chicks on

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Speaker 1: to go out with Regina? Yes? You do, that's awesome. Yeah, Regina,

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Speaker 1: do you want to go out on a date with James?

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Speaker 1: We will pay for it. Oh no, honest, he laid

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Speaker 1: but thank you. Anyway, you're really missing out. You're missing

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