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Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if

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Speaker 1: to read this one right here, right now, and you

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Speaker 1: never know, it could be yours.

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Speaker 2: All right, it could be yours. Buckle up and hold

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Speaker 2: on tight. We got it for you. Here it is

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Speaker 2: Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, nephew. Subjects. So what?

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Speaker 1: I burned a few things? Oh, dear Stephen Shirley. I'm

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Speaker 1: twenty eight years old and I've been married for three years.

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Speaker 1: I've caught my husband cheating on me recently, and I

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Speaker 1: burned a few of his personal belongings and he can't

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Speaker 1: get over it. He was cheating in the car whatever

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Speaker 1: at a popular hookup spot where the younger kids go

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Speaker 1: to have sex.

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Speaker 3: He and I used to go.

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Speaker 1: There when we were younger, and we enjoyed sneaking around

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Speaker 1: having sex. I never imagined he would cheat on me

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Speaker 1: and then cheat in a spot that he could get caught.

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Speaker 1: The most embarrassing part is that my younger cousin saw

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Speaker 1: him and called me. He and the woman were on

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Speaker 1: the back seat and their clothes were on the front seat.

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Speaker 1: I stood and watched for a minute, watched him for

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Speaker 1: all of their clothes. I threw my coke on him,

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Speaker 1: and some of it got in her eyes, so she

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Speaker 1: didn't see me. I went home and I burned their

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Speaker 1: clothes they were wearing, and all of his underwear and socks.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why I burned his underwear and socks,

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Speaker 1: but I had seen be quiet. But I had seen

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Speaker 1: my mother burn my stepdad stuff, and it was in

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Speaker 1: a movie when I was younger, so I snapped. I

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Speaker 1: did it in a field by our apartment so I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't go to jail because I remembered my mom got

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Speaker 1: fined for doing it years ago. My husband drove up

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Speaker 1: wearing only a tea shirt, and he put out the fire.

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Speaker 3: Mark the visual.

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Speaker 1: I jumped on him, and all I remember after that

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Speaker 1: is my neighbor pulling me off of him. This mess

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Speaker 1: could have been avoided if he had.

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Speaker 3: Not cheated on me.

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Speaker 1: I was willing to try to get our marriage back

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Speaker 1: on track, but he says, I'm crazy, and he's afraid

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Speaker 1: and I wouldn't.

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Speaker 3: Ever act like that normally.

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Speaker 1: Why can't he see that he's the reason his clothes

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Speaker 1: got burned? Why is he trying to make this my fault?

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Speaker 1: It's not It is not your fault at all. Okay,

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Speaker 1: this is all on him, And don't you dare let

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Speaker 1: him try to flip this on you. He got caught cheating,

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Speaker 1: he got caught in his car neckid. He should be

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Speaker 1: thanking you that you didn't burn him and her right

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Speaker 1: after that.

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Speaker 3: I need you to get focused.

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Speaker 1: I need you to stop blaming yourself immediately for him

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Speaker 1: cheating on you.

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Speaker 3: And he didn't even apologize. He's not even done. He

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Speaker 3: called you crazy.

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Speaker 1: Wasn't he the one cheating in a hookup spot where

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Speaker 1: young people go now and where you guys used to

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Speaker 1: go now Taking a chance like that, that's crazy.

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Speaker 3: Okay, he's trying to.

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Speaker 1: Make this your fault because that's all he has, that's

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Speaker 1: all he's got to work with. He wasn't just caught

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Speaker 3: He had to drive home in just a T shirt.

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Speaker 3: So if he starts making.

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Speaker 1: You feel wrong for what you did, the burning and all,

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Speaker 1: then that's what you'll focus on, not the wrong he did,

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Speaker 1: not the pain he caused you, not the hurt, not

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Speaker 1: the mistrust that he caused. That's what cheeters do when

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Speaker 1: they get caught. They try to flip it. Tell him, yes,

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Speaker 1: you are crazy for even considering taking him back after that,

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Speaker 1: and tell him if he keeps on, you'll show him

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Speaker 1: what crazy is for real, for real, and he better

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Speaker 1: be glad you didn't burn the whole house down and

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Speaker 3: All right, but I know you got to live in

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Speaker 1: But anyway, Yeah, come on, Steve out of here.

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Speaker 4: Fat Shirley's response is one spot on. Everything Shirley said

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Speaker 4: to you is true. This is just a simple case

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Speaker 4: of the best defense is a good offense.

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Speaker 2: That's all this is.

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Speaker 4: This is him taking this and making you the villain

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Speaker 4: for the act that you did.

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Speaker 2: It's so many things in this letter that's crazy.

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Speaker 4: And now, first of all, you're twenty eight years old,

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Speaker 4: so I'm assuming that you all around to saying age.

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Speaker 4: You've been married for three years and you caught your

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Speaker 4: husband cheating on you recently, and I burned a few

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Speaker 4: of his personal items and he can't get over it.

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Speaker 4: He can't get over that. Well, you can't get over

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Speaker 4: yours either. See what you can't do is let him

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Speaker 4: out get not get over it. You know you're saying

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Speaker 4: he can't get over it. You can't let him out,

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Speaker 4: not get over it. You got to get further, not

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Speaker 4: get o over it than him, if you know what

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Speaker 4: I'm trying to tell you. You can't let him beat

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Speaker 4: you at this game. Women are the best at this.

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Speaker 4: There's nobody greater at not getting over something than women.

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Speaker 2: They are the best at it. They know how to

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Speaker 2: make you.

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Speaker 4: Gravel, crawl back, pay over and over and over, bring

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Speaker 4: it up years later on the same date at the

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Speaker 4: same time. You need to get in that mold right there.

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Speaker 4: He was cheating in this car, the popular hookup spot

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Speaker 4: where younger kids go to have six y'all used to

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Speaker 4: go there when y'all was younger.

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Speaker 2: What and you like doing it?

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Speaker 4: But you didn't never imagine that he would cheat on

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Speaker 4: caught Old Habits, that's where he been going. He been

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Speaker 4: going down there to that spot.

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Speaker 1: Nah.

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Speaker 4: The embarrassing part you say for you is your younger

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Speaker 2: And called me. That's what this was? A girl?

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Speaker 4: Hopefully he and the woman were on the back seat.

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Speaker 4: Clothes was on the front seat. Lord, have mess it.

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Speaker 4: Don't be away from your clothes.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, one more time, come.

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Speaker 4: On, whatever, go away from your clothes. I take your

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Speaker 4: clothes with you. That old that's where you're supposed to

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Speaker 4: put them. That's stupid. You put them clothes up in

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Speaker 4: the back window. You got to have put them clothes

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Speaker 4: on the floe. You got to have them closed by you.

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Speaker 4: You'll ever separate from your clothes.

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Speaker 2: Lad, you're stupid. Yes, you're so damn stupid.

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Speaker 3: Hold on, Steve, hold and keep it right there. All right.

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Speaker 1: We'll have part two of your response coming up at

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Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. The subject of today's

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Speaker 1: strawberry letter is so what, I burned a few things.

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Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after.

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Speaker 5: Help a neighbor in need through the holidays and beyond.

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Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter

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Speaker 1: and get your response.

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Speaker 3: What's going on?

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Speaker 4: This is a letter that's ridiculous that should never get ridden.

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Speaker 4: Shirley gave the proper response to all of it. I

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Speaker 4: strongly suggest you follow all the Shirley's advice. But what

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Speaker 4: I was just telling you it doesn't make any sense.

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Speaker 4: This is a typical example of the best offense. The

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Speaker 4: best defense is a good offense, So get off defense

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Speaker 4: and get on offense. And that's what he's doing to you.

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Speaker 4: He's making it about what you did with his stupid ass.

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Speaker 4: Went down there to a place y'all used to cheat

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Speaker 4: at when y'all was younger eight he could still do that.

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Speaker 4: You never imagine he cheat on you had a spot

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Speaker 4: he could get caught. But then your younger cousin saw

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Speaker 4: him and called you. You and this woman on the

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Speaker 4: back seat, and they closed was on the front seat.

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Speaker 4: Why are you separate from your clothes?

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Speaker 2: Listen to this.

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Speaker 4: If you are not in your house or in your

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Speaker 4: If you are visiting someone else's house, you must be

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Speaker 4: able to reach and touch your clothes at all. Number

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Speaker 4: the clothes out of reach. You don't know who she

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Speaker 4: know when he come in?

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Speaker 2: All him?

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Speaker 4: So now you go down there, he and the woman

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Speaker 4: who was on the back seat, and they close on

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Speaker 4: the front seat. I stood and watched for a minute.

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Speaker 4: What rule number two? When you in the car doing stuff,

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Speaker 4: I'd have been in the car before you got to look.

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Speaker 4: It's hard place to go, but you got to look.

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Speaker 4: I stood and watched for a minute. Then I opened

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Speaker 4: if your clothes was in reach, If no way, you're

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Speaker 4: gonna let your wife take your damn clothes. I threw

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Speaker 3: What who did she think it was?

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Speaker 2: Girl? It was coke. It wasn't acid. Yeah, she saw you.

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Speaker 4: I went home and burned their clothes they were wearing

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Speaker 4: burned his underwearing socks. But I seen my mother burn

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Speaker 4: my stepdad's cause. And it was in a movie when

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Speaker 4: I was younger. That's that's thin line. Yeah, and waiting

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Speaker 4: for his hell or then O don't whatever movie you know,

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Speaker 4: I ain't see it anyway. I tried to do a

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Speaker 4: movie reference, but I didn't see it anyway. The movie

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Speaker 4: right there and they burned. I thought Marl Lawns had

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Speaker 2: He was pretty rough.

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Speaker 5: Now living with you, Yeah, but the movie she talking

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Speaker 4: Yeah, anyway, that is a movie and it got very popular.

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Speaker 4: A lot of me and lost their clothes because of

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Speaker 4: this movie. I want to see that too, And they

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Speaker 2: So, I didn't go to that.

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Speaker 4: My husband drove up wearing only a T shirt and

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Speaker 4: put out the fire going right here and got his

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Speaker 2: This boy must have been proud of herself.

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Speaker 4: Barefoot putting this fire out with just this damn T

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't give a damn if that whole lot caught

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Speaker 4: It's too late to save your clothes. My husband drove

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Speaker 4: is that the neighbor pulling me off, or his half

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Speaker 4: naked ass. He got a T shirt on.

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Speaker 2: I don't know you. It's hard to fight with no

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Speaker 2: draws on.

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Speaker 4: I'm just it's very it's very, very difficult.

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Speaker 2: Most don't.

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Speaker 3: Is it hard to drive with no underwear on?

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Speaker 2: What you don't want to do is stop pull up

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Speaker 2: next to a truck.

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Speaker 4: You don't take to look down, because they down, they

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Speaker 4: see you. So if you pull up next to a truck,

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Speaker 4: you gotta stay behind the door. I've done all this

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Speaker 4: right here, like a long story, but I've done all

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Speaker 4: this right here. That seat is hot, quicker, so now

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Speaker 4: you got out you. I'm him, he half naked, got

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Speaker 4: a T shirt on, his stomping barefoot.

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Speaker 2: He from Africa or.

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Speaker 4: Some or either he Caribbean where he'd do fire walking.

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Speaker 4: I don't know who can jump out they car and

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Speaker 4: stumple fire out And why.

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Speaker 2: Would he care?

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Speaker 4: It's down the street anyway, all you remembers your neighbor

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Speaker 4: put off. This mess could have been avoided had he

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Speaker 4: not cheated on me.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's true. I was willing to try to

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Speaker 2: get our marriage back on track.

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Speaker 4: But he says I'm crazy, and he's afraid of me

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Speaker 4: as he should. As he should be, there's an element

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Speaker 4: of fear that should reside in his life from here

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Speaker 4: on after. Yes, you crazy and he should be afraid

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Speaker 4: of you. He knows that you reacted out of anger

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Speaker 4: and rage. That would I would never act like that normally.

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Speaker 4: Wait a minute, normally when do you normally find your

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Speaker 4: husband in the back seat naked, which somebody else would

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Speaker 2: There's nothing normal about this. Why are you?

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Speaker 4: How did you allow him to do this to you?

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Speaker 4: Why can't he see that he's the reason his clothes

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Speaker 4: got burned? No, no, no, I don't give a damn

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Speaker 4: if you can't get over it. As a matter of fact,

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Speaker 4: so you don't get over I'm finna burn two of your.

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Speaker 2: Suits, flum letting me catch you cheap?

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Speaker 4: You just stop letting him do you this way. It's

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Speaker 4: his fault. I burned your clothes because you cheated on me.

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Speaker 4: That's why I did it.

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Speaker 3: Get over right, all right now, cull back.

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Speaker 2: To me because I don't want you.

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