1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:04,800 Speaker 1: I would have never let a person have that much 2 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:09,800 Speaker 1: power over my money, my life, over anything ever again. 3 00:00:12,080 --> 00:00:13,480 Speaker 2: So now in. 4 00:00:13,440 --> 00:00:16,560 Speaker 1: Control of my business, I'm in control of my life, 5 00:00:17,160 --> 00:00:21,200 Speaker 1: and it's mandatory that I learn more about finance, business, 6 00:00:21,280 --> 00:00:24,239 Speaker 1: you know, so I don't ever have to be robbed 7 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:27,440 Speaker 1: again by you know, maybe somebody you think you can trust. 8 00:00:29,360 --> 00:00:33,880 Speaker 1: My graduates from my school being forced backdrop. 9 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:49,200 Speaker 3: Drop, backdrop money. 10 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:52,479 Speaker 4: It comes with a lot of questions and Fidelity can 11 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:56,920 Speaker 4: help you get answers. Visit fidelity dot com slash black 12 00:00:56,960 --> 00:00:57,800 Speaker 4: Wealth to learn more. 13 00:00:57,880 --> 00:01:05,480 Speaker 5: Make some noise you well, thank you, Harry, it's amazing. 14 00:01:05,520 --> 00:01:08,039 Speaker 3: Congratulations, thank you so much. 15 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:11,119 Speaker 5: Yes, yes, so you guys can take your seats now 16 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:15,160 Speaker 5: if you can, if possible, we don't want to block 17 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:21,959 Speaker 5: anybody's view. I would just ask everybody one one thing. Obviously, 18 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 5: this is one of the greatest entertainers, one of the 19 00:01:26,280 --> 00:01:29,280 Speaker 5: icons of our generation, of any generation. 20 00:01:32,920 --> 00:01:33,319 Speaker 2: Thank you. 21 00:01:35,959 --> 00:01:39,400 Speaker 5: Let's get into it, Mary, I want to talk about 22 00:01:39,560 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 5: this right Strength of a Woman festival. It's not something 23 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:45,760 Speaker 5: that is easy to put together. When you're talking about 24 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 5: selling out shows and eighteen thousand people, and you got 25 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:53,400 Speaker 5: business vendors and you got multiple different things. So what 26 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:58,040 Speaker 5: was the thought process and putting together this festival, and 27 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:03,240 Speaker 5: what was the commit on the time, financial relationship that 28 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 5: it took to put this together. 29 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:12,520 Speaker 1: What a thought process came from just performing and just 30 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:17,280 Speaker 1: watching the women and the audience, how they just you know, 31 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:22,520 Speaker 1: love and respect me and love and how my music 32 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:27,080 Speaker 1: has done so much for them, and just watching them 33 00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:30,080 Speaker 1: just sometimes it just was mind blowing how they just 34 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:33,959 Speaker 1: people are crying and passing out, and it just touched 35 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:37,600 Speaker 1: my heart. And so to see us all in one 36 00:02:37,720 --> 00:02:43,360 Speaker 1: room loving on each other because of you know, you 37 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 1: know me, because of this performance, or because of all 38 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 1: the trials and tribulations and things that I've come through. 39 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:52,880 Speaker 1: My music is a movement that has touched so many 40 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 1: women and saved so many lives. 41 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:58,320 Speaker 2: And so the summit is about that. 42 00:02:58,880 --> 00:03:01,680 Speaker 1: The summit is about what the music has done, you know, 43 00:03:02,160 --> 00:03:06,000 Speaker 1: uplifting and encouraging and inspiring and bringing us all together 44 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:09,320 Speaker 1: to love on each other and to learn self love 45 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:13,799 Speaker 1: and self awareness and entrepreneurship. And you know, just so 46 00:03:14,639 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 1: that was the idea. It came from the concert, and 47 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:24,640 Speaker 1: so here we are. It started as a meeting on 48 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:29,960 Speaker 1: the roof of the Waldorf. A story in La between 49 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 1: me and my team, and within the next year it 50 00:03:34,920 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 1: was up and running. So PEPSI and Live Nation Urban 51 00:03:40,920 --> 00:03:42,640 Speaker 1: our partners in this, and. 52 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 2: They came through. 53 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:46,120 Speaker 1: And you know, I really don't have too much more 54 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:50,120 Speaker 1: to say except for here we are right now because 55 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:50,760 Speaker 1: of the Mary J. 56 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 2: Blige movement. This is all because of the. 57 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 1: Thirty something years that I've been in the music business. 58 00:03:58,040 --> 00:04:01,320 Speaker 3: And yeah, clean, the clean, the clean. 59 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:04,480 Speaker 4: I mean we've sold it to you before, but being 60 00:04:04,560 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 4: kids from west Chester County nine one four, I forgot 61 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:12,360 Speaker 4: to mention that, Yeah, I mean, watching your thirty year career, 62 00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:15,360 Speaker 4: We've watched you as a singer, as an entertainer, as 63 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 4: an actress. Now I wonder when it's switched to your 64 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:21,039 Speaker 4: click to you to say, you know what, I'm a 65 00:04:21,120 --> 00:04:23,160 Speaker 4: talent in front of the camera, but I want to 66 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:26,240 Speaker 4: be known as a talent behind the camera. Creating your 67 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:29,000 Speaker 4: own record label, having your own production. We sort of 68 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:31,479 Speaker 4: preview for the movies that are coming out in a 69 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:34,720 Speaker 4: few weeks. When did that go off? And you know what, 70 00:04:34,880 --> 00:04:36,440 Speaker 4: I want to do something bigger. I want to be 71 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:38,040 Speaker 4: more than just a talent in front. I want to 72 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 4: be the one behind as well. 73 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 3: Well. 74 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:41,359 Speaker 2: For me, it's never, like always, I want to do 75 00:04:41,400 --> 00:04:42,040 Speaker 2: something bigger. 76 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:46,240 Speaker 1: It's just observing, how you know, I wanted to have 77 00:04:46,560 --> 00:04:50,000 Speaker 1: I wanted to be in production, to be a producer, 78 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:55,200 Speaker 1: to create more content for our culture, because we never 79 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:58,719 Speaker 1: get a chance to you know, control the narrative of 80 00:04:58,760 --> 00:05:01,599 Speaker 1: how we're looked at, you know, and so that's what 81 00:05:01,720 --> 00:05:06,120 Speaker 1: being a producer, you know, is about. That's why I 82 00:05:06,120 --> 00:05:09,680 Speaker 1: wanted to be a producer. That's why I created Blue Butterfly. 83 00:05:10,080 --> 00:05:12,600 Speaker 1: And so we can tell stories like the clock Sisters, 84 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:15,440 Speaker 1: you know, have them tell their story, have women tell 85 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:19,240 Speaker 1: their stories, have us as black people uplifted in a 86 00:05:19,240 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 1: better light other than just being you know, drug dealers, 87 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:26,560 Speaker 1: and whatever the case may be. You have you know, 88 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:29,599 Speaker 1: these these two lifetime movies that I'm doing right now, 89 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:32,680 Speaker 1: and these This woman is you know, Real Love that 90 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:36,520 Speaker 1: is one of the movies. And she's in college, you know, 91 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 1: and she beats her boyfriend in college. 92 00:05:38,960 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 2: And so I never went to college. 93 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:44,000 Speaker 1: So I wanted people to see that that's that's possible, 94 00:05:44,120 --> 00:05:46,480 Speaker 1: and that's why I'm creating that. That's why I wanted 95 00:05:46,480 --> 00:05:49,720 Speaker 1: to be a producer, to just create more better content 96 00:05:49,960 --> 00:05:51,160 Speaker 1: for our culture. 97 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:54,520 Speaker 3: The time is come, lady and gentlemen. 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Vendor, marketplace, food, truck village, 108 00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:26,880 Speaker 5: you know how we do. 109 00:06:26,880 --> 00:06:32,000 Speaker 4: Don't wait, don't hesitate that over now. 110 00:06:32,880 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 5: So you're obviously extremely talented on the music side, but 111 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 5: when you're acting, right, anybody a fan of the Power Series? 112 00:06:47,600 --> 00:06:48,640 Speaker 3: A few people watch it? 113 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 5: I see, So how is that different for you acting 114 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:58,880 Speaker 5: as opposed to singing? And which one do you like 115 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 5: or what's the difference is that you like about it? 116 00:07:00,920 --> 00:07:03,240 Speaker 1: You can't compare them because singing is something I've been 117 00:07:03,240 --> 00:07:06,320 Speaker 1: doing all my life. It's easy, that's what that's that's 118 00:07:06,640 --> 00:07:08,440 Speaker 1: that's who I am, that's what I do. But acting 119 00:07:08,560 --> 00:07:11,760 Speaker 1: is hard. Because you have to take something that's on 120 00:07:11,920 --> 00:07:14,840 Speaker 1: a piece of paper that are words and turn them 121 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:18,520 Speaker 1: into a character. So and what's really hard about it 122 00:07:18,560 --> 00:07:22,080 Speaker 1: for me is I have to for this character, I 123 00:07:22,120 --> 00:07:24,320 Speaker 1: have to dig in some really dark places to go 124 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:27,360 Speaker 1: murder these people and you know, choke my kids and 125 00:07:27,440 --> 00:07:28,320 Speaker 1: all that stuff. 126 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:35,200 Speaker 4: Yeah we saw, we saw yeah about that. 127 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:39,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, so yeah, I mean it's it's a challenge. It's 128 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:42,720 Speaker 1: a challenge, but I love a challenge. And I want 129 00:07:42,720 --> 00:07:45,920 Speaker 1: to perfect the craft even more because I haven't reached 130 00:07:45,920 --> 00:07:49,520 Speaker 1: the point in my acting career where I'm like, gosh, 131 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:52,320 Speaker 1: I love when I did that. You know, I'm still like, gosh, 132 00:07:52,360 --> 00:07:55,680 Speaker 1: I could have did that better. That feels funny, you know. 133 00:07:55,880 --> 00:07:59,320 Speaker 1: So I want to perfect the craft even more, you know, 134 00:07:59,480 --> 00:08:03,200 Speaker 1: to when I look at it Angela Bassett, you know, 135 00:08:03,320 --> 00:08:05,520 Speaker 1: I feel like that, like, oh, like, look like how. 136 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:06,800 Speaker 2: She did that? You know, I see what I'm saying. 137 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:11,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, when you walk in these rooms, how is it? 138 00:08:11,280 --> 00:08:13,120 Speaker 4: Do you want to be respected as Mary Jay the 139 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:16,440 Speaker 4: actor or the talent that we know, the queen of RB. 140 00:08:16,760 --> 00:08:17,920 Speaker 3: How does that? How do you approach it? 141 00:08:18,080 --> 00:08:18,240 Speaker 2: Well? 142 00:08:18,240 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 1: I approach it like this, you know, immediately they're like, oh, 143 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 1: let's let's let's let's let us sing. No, I'm acting, 144 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:26,760 Speaker 1: I don't want to sing. If I'm singing, I'm singing. 145 00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:28,600 Speaker 1: If I'm acting and acting, I want people to respect 146 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:31,360 Speaker 1: me as an actress. You know, it's it's two different 147 00:08:31,360 --> 00:08:32,360 Speaker 1: things you gonna you know. 148 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:37,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, have you talked about Angela Bassett and have you 149 00:08:37,720 --> 00:08:40,800 Speaker 5: had any mentors in Hollywood that have helped you? 150 00:08:41,160 --> 00:08:43,800 Speaker 3: And if so, what are some people? Yeah? 151 00:08:43,800 --> 00:08:49,560 Speaker 1: I mean I have friends that are super amazing actresses, Taraji, 152 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:54,600 Speaker 1: Queen Latifa, Angela Bassett, Tasha Smith. They they are so 153 00:08:54,800 --> 00:08:57,400 Speaker 1: confident in what they do. They call. When I called them, 154 00:08:57,400 --> 00:08:59,839 Speaker 1: I said, yo, I need help. They give me all 155 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:02,400 Speaker 1: the tools. I learned so much from Taraji. I learned 156 00:09:02,400 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 1: so much from Queen Latifa and Angela Bassett. Tasha Smith 157 00:09:07,160 --> 00:09:11,240 Speaker 1: was my acting coach for It, still is and one 158 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:14,480 Speaker 1: of my really good friends. So yeah, you know, I 159 00:09:14,520 --> 00:09:18,280 Speaker 1: have even even on Viola. You know, when I see her, 160 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:20,720 Speaker 1: she's like, keep going, You're doing great, you know. 161 00:09:21,160 --> 00:09:21,719 Speaker 2: Yeah. 162 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:24,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, you talk about mentorship in acting, but I mean 163 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:26,600 Speaker 4: the last time we spoke, you were telling us about 164 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:29,080 Speaker 4: mentorship in business, and so a lot of times you 165 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:31,920 Speaker 4: get invited to rooms, and if you don't know the person, 166 00:09:32,640 --> 00:09:34,200 Speaker 4: I got to figure out who these people are, because 167 00:09:34,200 --> 00:09:35,720 Speaker 4: there's a reason they're in the room and the reason 168 00:09:35,880 --> 00:09:37,760 Speaker 4: there's a reason I'm in the room. So let's talk 169 00:09:37,800 --> 00:09:41,840 Speaker 4: about the spirits industry, right, because you have some goddess 170 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:45,079 Speaker 4: and you have sister love jewelry. Where did that spark 171 00:09:45,240 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 4: and the interest in the spirits world come from? 172 00:09:47,640 --> 00:09:50,319 Speaker 2: What a spark came from? I was on tour with Maxwell. 173 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:53,360 Speaker 1: Maxwell was a really good friend of mine and Maxwell 174 00:09:53,720 --> 00:09:57,080 Speaker 1: was about to put his own line out and he 175 00:09:57,160 --> 00:10:01,360 Speaker 1: took me to dinner with him and some Italian people. 176 00:10:03,559 --> 00:10:08,160 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, they they we call him they And. 177 00:10:10,440 --> 00:10:15,080 Speaker 1: I was guzzling Santa Marguerita Pina Gricio like you know, 178 00:10:15,160 --> 00:10:17,360 Speaker 1: and they were like, Maddy wants you to know, do 179 00:10:17,440 --> 00:10:19,640 Speaker 1: your own wine. And I didn't blink it in study, 180 00:10:19,720 --> 00:10:24,240 Speaker 1: I said absolutely, one hundred percent. And right after that, 181 00:10:24,320 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 1: maybe like three weeks later, while I was on tour 182 00:10:26,520 --> 00:10:29,480 Speaker 1: with Maxwell, I found myself on a plane too freely 183 00:10:29,800 --> 00:10:33,200 Speaker 1: Italy to meet Marco Fantineo and we touched down to 184 00:10:33,280 --> 00:10:36,360 Speaker 1: his place and his whole place was the winery and 185 00:10:36,440 --> 00:10:37,480 Speaker 1: the rest is history. 186 00:10:37,600 --> 00:10:37,840 Speaker 3: You know. 187 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:43,760 Speaker 1: We put the wine out during the first quarantine of 188 00:10:43,920 --> 00:10:47,960 Speaker 1: COVID when everybody was drinking, and we. 189 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:51,559 Speaker 3: They remember then, remember it very well. 190 00:10:52,640 --> 00:10:53,640 Speaker 2: We sold it. 191 00:10:54,120 --> 00:10:56,040 Speaker 1: We sold it on wine dot com and it was 192 00:10:56,080 --> 00:10:59,560 Speaker 1: sold out. Every single it was just sold out, you know, 193 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:03,480 Speaker 1: and so we knew. You know what, my people, what 194 00:11:03,559 --> 00:11:05,920 Speaker 1: I love about them. They're honest and if it's whack 195 00:11:06,040 --> 00:11:08,240 Speaker 1: is whack. If it's nasty, it's nasty. They took they 196 00:11:08,280 --> 00:11:11,280 Speaker 1: were going crazy over it. So they gave me, you know, 197 00:11:11,400 --> 00:11:13,400 Speaker 1: people that bought the wine gave me the correct the 198 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:15,640 Speaker 1: confidence to keep going. And it just keeps growing and 199 00:11:15,640 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 1: growing and growing and growing. So yeah, that's that's where 200 00:11:18,880 --> 00:11:19,480 Speaker 1: that came from. 201 00:11:19,559 --> 00:11:20,800 Speaker 3: We actually tasted the wine. 202 00:11:21,040 --> 00:11:24,080 Speaker 5: Our friend and your good friend, Angie Martinez, Yeah, invite 203 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:27,880 Speaker 5: us to forty forty and we had to sample it, 204 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:31,400 Speaker 5: of course, and it's actually extremely good. I'm not even 205 00:11:31,400 --> 00:11:34,440 Speaker 5: a wine connoisseur. I don't like wine, but thank you, 206 00:11:34,679 --> 00:11:36,160 Speaker 5: I stamp your wine. 207 00:11:36,240 --> 00:11:39,200 Speaker 1: Well, now we have a we have a prosecco, we 208 00:11:39,240 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 1: have a Prosecco Rose, we have them are Low and 209 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:45,440 Speaker 1: we have a Solvet Young Blanc and of course you 210 00:11:45,480 --> 00:11:47,920 Speaker 1: know the Pinagregient over model. 211 00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:50,320 Speaker 2: Rose the wine actual wine. So it's just growing and 212 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:51,760 Speaker 2: growing and growing. It in the middle. We're gonna have 213 00:11:51,760 --> 00:11:53,880 Speaker 2: it in little bottles with little straws. 214 00:11:56,520 --> 00:11:58,800 Speaker 3: In the free sunset. So so let me ask you this. 215 00:11:58,840 --> 00:12:04,520 Speaker 5: For people in the audience that are in entertainment or entrepreneurs, 216 00:12:04,559 --> 00:12:06,360 Speaker 5: the hardest thing to do is to know when it's 217 00:12:06,400 --> 00:12:08,719 Speaker 5: time to do something else, right, because you don't want 218 00:12:08,760 --> 00:12:11,719 Speaker 5: to just run into things. So how do you know 219 00:12:12,040 --> 00:12:15,160 Speaker 5: when it's time to start a new business in a 220 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:16,840 Speaker 5: new industry. 221 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:19,720 Speaker 1: I don't think you never really know when it's time 222 00:12:20,520 --> 00:12:23,760 Speaker 1: because ideas something could come right now, you know, and 223 00:12:24,200 --> 00:12:27,320 Speaker 1: I do one thing at a time, and then as 224 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:31,120 Speaker 1: I keep going, every you know, it grows. So I 225 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:33,520 Speaker 1: don't think, well, for me, it's not like, oh, it's 226 00:12:33,559 --> 00:12:37,840 Speaker 1: time to do something. When it comes, it comes, you know, 227 00:12:38,120 --> 00:12:38,959 Speaker 1: it's never. 228 00:12:38,840 --> 00:12:42,560 Speaker 2: Really a plan. It's just organic. 229 00:12:42,679 --> 00:12:45,360 Speaker 1: And then when it comes, then you start planning and 230 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:46,600 Speaker 1: you start strategizing. 231 00:12:46,960 --> 00:12:48,960 Speaker 2: So it's always creative for me. 232 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:51,640 Speaker 1: When it flows, it flows, when it comes, it comes, 233 00:12:51,679 --> 00:12:53,839 Speaker 1: and then I bring it, you know, to the team, 234 00:12:53,960 --> 00:12:57,600 Speaker 1: and then you know, like that, I mean for me, 235 00:12:58,440 --> 00:12:59,640 Speaker 1: that's that's how it goes. For me. 236 00:13:00,280 --> 00:13:02,480 Speaker 4: It's interesting because as you get more creative and more 237 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:04,559 Speaker 4: business opportunities come to you. And it's something that we've 238 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:07,440 Speaker 4: kind of experienced, is a lot of business opportunities would come, 239 00:13:07,640 --> 00:13:09,880 Speaker 4: but we just don't have the bandwidth ourselves to do it. 240 00:13:10,160 --> 00:13:13,120 Speaker 4: And so do you look at each opportunity as a 241 00:13:13,160 --> 00:13:17,440 Speaker 4: way to now build another team and employ more people? 242 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:20,439 Speaker 4: How do you look at the opportunities from this landscape 243 00:13:20,440 --> 00:13:21,640 Speaker 4: hop that's going to help. 244 00:13:22,080 --> 00:13:26,360 Speaker 1: Should build more team, definitely, to employ employ more people, 245 00:13:27,320 --> 00:13:31,559 Speaker 1: to keep people employed, and to just keep make it 246 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:35,680 Speaker 1: where you know, I have revenue stream while I'm sleeping, 247 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:38,160 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, And the money is not 248 00:13:38,440 --> 00:13:42,120 Speaker 1: just not working work and working so hard, and you know, 249 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:46,720 Speaker 1: one day I'll just be you know, sleeping, a billion 250 00:13:46,760 --> 00:13:49,319 Speaker 1: dollar check would come, you know, because I have businesses 251 00:13:49,320 --> 00:13:51,720 Speaker 1: out there they're going. So everything is a plan for 252 00:13:51,760 --> 00:13:54,760 Speaker 1: the future, the plans to just not have to work 253 00:13:54,840 --> 00:13:55,319 Speaker 1: so hard. 254 00:13:55,440 --> 00:13:56,679 Speaker 2: I hope I answered the question. 255 00:13:57,400 --> 00:14:01,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, So let me ask you this you've talked 256 00:14:01,240 --> 00:14:03,680 Speaker 5: about in the past where you had to go on 257 00:14:03,840 --> 00:14:07,599 Speaker 5: tour to pay alimony, yeah, to your ex husband. I 258 00:14:07,600 --> 00:14:09,199 Speaker 5: don't know if the numbers correct at Google. I saw 259 00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:11,240 Speaker 5: it was like thirty thousand a month or something like that. 260 00:14:11,520 --> 00:14:14,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, correct us if we're wrong. 261 00:14:15,240 --> 00:14:19,800 Speaker 5: So, looking back on it in hindsight, what would you 262 00:14:19,880 --> 00:14:23,960 Speaker 5: have done differently when you first got married in terms 263 00:14:24,040 --> 00:14:27,800 Speaker 5: of shielding your assets. 264 00:14:27,960 --> 00:14:32,480 Speaker 1: I would have never let a person have that much 265 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:37,560 Speaker 1: power over my money, my life, over anything ever again, 266 00:14:39,800 --> 00:14:42,160 Speaker 1: So I would. 267 00:14:42,160 --> 00:14:42,520 Speaker 2: I would. 268 00:14:43,120 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 1: Now I'm learning, I'm in control of my business, I'm 269 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:51,760 Speaker 1: in control of my life, and it's mandatory that I 270 00:14:51,880 --> 00:14:55,240 Speaker 1: learned more about finance business, you know, so I don't 271 00:14:55,280 --> 00:14:59,160 Speaker 1: ever have to be robbed again by you know, maybe 272 00:14:59,200 --> 00:15:00,800 Speaker 1: somebody you think you and trust, you know. 273 00:15:00,800 --> 00:15:01,240 Speaker 2: What I mean. 274 00:15:01,360 --> 00:15:03,760 Speaker 5: So do you think that it was more so just 275 00:15:03,840 --> 00:15:07,800 Speaker 5: a lack of education somebody playing on you not knowing 276 00:15:07,880 --> 00:15:09,720 Speaker 5: things and then purposely. 277 00:15:09,840 --> 00:15:13,400 Speaker 1: Yes, it was a lack of education, And it also 278 00:15:13,600 --> 00:15:16,880 Speaker 1: was just trusting people to help you when you don't know, 279 00:15:17,520 --> 00:15:19,200 Speaker 1: and you hope that they're going to help you and 280 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:21,640 Speaker 1: not steal from you and lie to you, and and 281 00:15:21,880 --> 00:15:24,000 Speaker 1: and and and. 282 00:15:24,440 --> 00:15:26,640 Speaker 2: Just trying to take control over your life. 283 00:15:27,360 --> 00:15:32,200 Speaker 1: So yeah, exactly, you hope that people would help you 284 00:15:33,160 --> 00:15:36,640 Speaker 1: when you don't know, and a lot of times what 285 00:15:36,760 --> 00:15:38,960 Speaker 1: happened to me, they. 286 00:15:38,880 --> 00:15:40,120 Speaker 2: Rob you, you know. 287 00:15:40,320 --> 00:15:44,400 Speaker 1: So it's best to get education so you don't have 288 00:15:44,440 --> 00:15:48,600 Speaker 1: to depend on anybody to control your money or to 289 00:15:48,720 --> 00:15:51,000 Speaker 1: help you, you know, you know, to to help you 290 00:15:51,280 --> 00:15:52,840 Speaker 1: keep your money in a safe place. 291 00:15:53,800 --> 00:15:55,840 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Yeah. 292 00:15:55,720 --> 00:15:56,000 Speaker 3: Keeping you. 293 00:15:56,200 --> 00:15:57,840 Speaker 4: I mean, we spoke about this a little bit earlier 294 00:15:57,840 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 4: before you came on. It's important to money, but it's 295 00:16:00,720 --> 00:16:02,320 Speaker 4: more important to keep the money. 296 00:16:02,760 --> 00:16:03,040 Speaker 3: Yeah. 297 00:16:03,120 --> 00:16:05,600 Speaker 4: And so we've had plenty of conversations and people in 298 00:16:05,720 --> 00:16:08,480 Speaker 4: entertainment and the one thing that they always talk about. 299 00:16:08,480 --> 00:16:10,840 Speaker 4: In fact, Joe spoke about it, Steve Harvey spoken candly 300 00:16:10,880 --> 00:16:11,680 Speaker 4: about it. 301 00:16:11,680 --> 00:16:12,680 Speaker 3: It's paying taxes. 302 00:16:13,280 --> 00:16:18,800 Speaker 1: Yes, So so shut it down. Speaking of taxes. I 303 00:16:18,880 --> 00:16:23,480 Speaker 1: owe so much money. I never thought I was ever 304 00:16:23,520 --> 00:16:25,360 Speaker 1: going to get out of debt. I'm out of debt now, 305 00:16:25,800 --> 00:16:32,560 Speaker 1: but I mean I owed millions, millions, like hundreds of 306 00:16:32,720 --> 00:16:39,840 Speaker 1: millions of dollars in taxes, and I think, right, you know, 307 00:16:40,560 --> 00:16:42,760 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I lost my train of thought. 308 00:16:43,040 --> 00:16:44,880 Speaker 3: Go back to so I was trying, we were gonna 309 00:16:44,880 --> 00:16:45,240 Speaker 3: get to that. 310 00:16:45,280 --> 00:16:47,800 Speaker 4: So the lack of education around that, right as you're 311 00:16:48,080 --> 00:16:50,560 Speaker 4: getting this large sum of money and you accumulating, give, 312 00:16:51,440 --> 00:16:53,680 Speaker 4: how are we even getting educated? Who are we surrounding 313 00:16:53,720 --> 00:16:56,080 Speaker 4: ourselves to protect ourselves, to make sure that we are 314 00:16:56,120 --> 00:16:58,640 Speaker 4: paying tax is it a financially somebody in our. 315 00:16:58,560 --> 00:17:03,040 Speaker 1: Team, a great business management team, and you have to 316 00:17:03,120 --> 00:17:05,239 Speaker 1: have Now I have the wisdom. Now I look at 317 00:17:05,240 --> 00:17:07,760 Speaker 1: my payroll. That's not my money. My taxes are not 318 00:17:07,840 --> 00:17:10,520 Speaker 1: my money, My times are not my money. So I'm like, 319 00:17:10,920 --> 00:17:14,840 Speaker 1: pay my pay pay my business, pay my payroll, pay 320 00:17:14,840 --> 00:17:19,760 Speaker 1: my taxes, pay my times, anything. All of that money, 321 00:17:20,240 --> 00:17:22,800 Speaker 1: I don't even want to see it because it doesn't 322 00:17:22,800 --> 00:17:23,480 Speaker 1: belong to me. 323 00:17:23,800 --> 00:17:26,320 Speaker 2: And that's how I was moving period. 324 00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:30,359 Speaker 1: I was moving like that period, but nobody listened to me. 325 00:17:30,400 --> 00:17:32,399 Speaker 1: When I was married. I was like, pay my taxes, 326 00:17:32,440 --> 00:17:33,520 Speaker 1: pay my times. 327 00:17:33,200 --> 00:17:33,920 Speaker 2: Do everything. 328 00:17:34,160 --> 00:17:37,280 Speaker 1: And then you know, they didn't listen to me, so, 329 00:17:37,760 --> 00:17:41,119 Speaker 1: you know, but he was in control of everything, so 330 00:17:42,320 --> 00:17:44,119 Speaker 1: he wasn't gonna you know, we don't want to do 331 00:17:44,160 --> 00:17:46,840 Speaker 1: all of that, but you know, that's that's how I do. 332 00:17:46,880 --> 00:17:52,480 Speaker 1: Those things are important to me. Payroll, taxes, times, anything that. 333 00:17:52,800 --> 00:17:56,280 Speaker 1: You know, if anyone's doing a service, you have to 334 00:17:56,320 --> 00:17:58,879 Speaker 1: pay them for it, you know, and you have to 335 00:17:58,960 --> 00:18:02,240 Speaker 1: call people back. You know, sometimes people just want to 336 00:18:03,160 --> 00:18:07,400 Speaker 1: you know what, Okay, I'm gonna, I'm gonna, I'm gonna 337 00:18:07,440 --> 00:18:10,040 Speaker 1: get back to you. It's not always so much about 338 00:18:10,160 --> 00:18:13,199 Speaker 1: you know people vendors beating your door down because they 339 00:18:13,320 --> 00:18:15,520 Speaker 1: you know, they're just being aggravated. They just want to 340 00:18:15,840 --> 00:18:19,520 Speaker 1: know that you are. You are acknowledging them if you 341 00:18:19,560 --> 00:18:22,600 Speaker 1: owe them money. You understand what I'm saying. So if 342 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:26,040 Speaker 1: you don't call people back, you know, it creates a 343 00:18:26,080 --> 00:18:29,560 Speaker 1: bad image for you, It creates, you know, chatter that 344 00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:34,359 Speaker 1: you don't handle do business properly. You understand what I'm saying. So, yeah, 345 00:18:34,760 --> 00:18:38,600 Speaker 1: those things are important to me now. So this is 346 00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:40,920 Speaker 1: strength of a woman's festival. 347 00:18:41,520 --> 00:18:45,719 Speaker 5: And a lot of times when we think about pre numps, 348 00:18:45,800 --> 00:18:48,960 Speaker 5: it's always from a man's perspective, Like a man wants 349 00:18:48,960 --> 00:18:50,879 Speaker 5: his wife to sign a pre nump before they get 350 00:18:50,920 --> 00:18:53,800 Speaker 5: married because he has more money. But there's not always 351 00:18:53,880 --> 00:18:57,000 Speaker 5: the case. Sometimes in your situation, the woman could be 352 00:18:57,040 --> 00:18:59,760 Speaker 5: the breadwinner or the woman can have more money. So 353 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:03,680 Speaker 5: what are your thoughts on pre numps and how would 354 00:19:03,680 --> 00:19:05,520 Speaker 5: you approach you or what advice would you give as 355 00:19:05,520 --> 00:19:08,800 Speaker 5: far as for a woman that may be wealthy, well 356 00:19:08,800 --> 00:19:14,720 Speaker 5: off and they're looking to get married, get a pre nump. 357 00:19:14,840 --> 00:19:18,960 Speaker 2: Because I didn't have one, and that's why I was. 358 00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:23,400 Speaker 1: I ended up having to just give everything away because 359 00:19:24,400 --> 00:19:26,520 Speaker 1: it's so let me just speak. 360 00:19:26,600 --> 00:19:27,960 Speaker 2: It's so whack right. 361 00:19:27,880 --> 00:19:33,600 Speaker 1: Now that men you know, can come ask you and 362 00:19:33,640 --> 00:19:37,480 Speaker 1: get and you know, and get alimony. So when I 363 00:19:37,520 --> 00:19:40,399 Speaker 1: was getting a divorce, I was like, you mean to 364 00:19:40,440 --> 00:19:43,280 Speaker 1: tell me I got to pay him? And he cheated 365 00:19:43,320 --> 00:19:45,919 Speaker 1: and he lied and he stolen, you know, not to 366 00:19:45,920 --> 00:19:48,200 Speaker 1: get all petty, but you know what I'm saying. 367 00:19:49,240 --> 00:19:50,120 Speaker 2: You mean, I gotta. 368 00:19:49,960 --> 00:19:53,359 Speaker 1: Pay him for cheating a line or to me and 369 00:19:53,440 --> 00:19:56,840 Speaker 1: ruining my life. So yeah, and and the law is 370 00:19:57,000 --> 00:19:59,960 Speaker 1: you have to you know, So I say, get a 371 00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:01,600 Speaker 1: freeing up, cover yourself up. 372 00:20:03,040 --> 00:20:08,639 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm telling you, man, it's crazy. 373 00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:10,200 Speaker 3: Mary. 374 00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:13,679 Speaker 4: My wife is here, so baby, I love you. But 375 00:20:14,240 --> 00:20:16,480 Speaker 4: so you said, you're debt free. And we see the 376 00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:19,520 Speaker 4: success of strength of a woman. We talk about the 377 00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:23,160 Speaker 4: spirits industry, but something monumental is happening in your music career. 378 00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:31,199 Speaker 4: You're now an independent artist. So let's talk congratulations. I mean, 379 00:20:31,480 --> 00:20:34,119 Speaker 4: let's talk about that. Let's talk about the feeling, the prompt, 380 00:20:34,160 --> 00:20:35,959 Speaker 4: the you know, how you feeling about this. 381 00:20:36,359 --> 00:20:41,560 Speaker 1: I feel like like I'm flying sometimes because I was 382 00:20:41,680 --> 00:20:44,359 Speaker 1: so low. I felt like I had anchors and you know, 383 00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:47,120 Speaker 1: I just was low and I felt like I owed 384 00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:50,200 Speaker 1: everybody everything. And now I don't owe a label nothing. 385 00:20:50,240 --> 00:20:53,439 Speaker 1: I can just put music out. I could just do 386 00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:56,080 Speaker 1: whatever I want. It's liberating. 387 00:20:56,480 --> 00:20:58,600 Speaker 3: Hey, DJ, you're supposed to drop just fine. When I 388 00:20:58,640 --> 00:20:59,520 Speaker 3: asked how some feeling. 389 00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:06,520 Speaker 5: So as far as a lot of artists these days 390 00:21:06,520 --> 00:21:11,120 Speaker 5: are selling their catalogs, that's like very popular, right, how 391 00:21:11,119 --> 00:21:12,280 Speaker 5: do you feel about that? 392 00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:15,280 Speaker 3: And would you sell your catalog? 393 00:21:18,600 --> 00:21:25,640 Speaker 2: Absolutely not, No, it's too valuable. 394 00:21:26,520 --> 00:21:29,720 Speaker 5: So when you say it's too valuable, too valuable from 395 00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:33,000 Speaker 5: just you personally, or too valuable as far as there's 396 00:21:33,000 --> 00:21:35,639 Speaker 5: not money this, you got to come with billions of 397 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:36,760 Speaker 5: dollars for your catalog. 398 00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:42,200 Speaker 1: I don't think the catalog. Once you sell it, you're 399 00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:45,000 Speaker 1: going to spend that billion dollars. You'll never be able 400 00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:47,920 Speaker 1: to get those babies back. Like those are my babies. 401 00:21:47,960 --> 00:21:50,880 Speaker 1: They literally came out of my womb. I'm not gonna 402 00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:55,080 Speaker 1: you know, you know, maybe later when I get older, 403 00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:58,600 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, But you know right now 404 00:21:59,320 --> 00:22:00,080 Speaker 1: I wouldn't do that. 405 00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:00,520 Speaker 3: No. 406 00:22:02,880 --> 00:22:05,760 Speaker 4: So I see there's a lot of brands that are here, 407 00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:08,480 Speaker 4: PEPSI being one of them. We talked about a lot 408 00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:11,679 Speaker 4: of nation urban When you're looking for a strategic business partner. 409 00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:14,800 Speaker 4: What are you looking for in a brand that is 410 00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:17,600 Speaker 4: it qualifies them to work with somebody of your caliber. 411 00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:23,800 Speaker 1: The first thing is do you know me? Because you 412 00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:25,960 Speaker 1: can't help me sell me if you don't know me. 413 00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:28,480 Speaker 1: You can't sell anything from my brand if you don't 414 00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:31,160 Speaker 1: know me. So the first thing is do you know 415 00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:31,600 Speaker 1: Mary J. 416 00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:32,080 Speaker 3: Blige? 417 00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:32,879 Speaker 2: What is she about? 418 00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:37,160 Speaker 1: Because then you're gonna you're gonna be full, You're gonna 419 00:22:37,200 --> 00:22:38,840 Speaker 1: be all the way in with me, and you're gonna 420 00:22:38,880 --> 00:22:42,520 Speaker 1: go hard with me to get get things sold, you know, 421 00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:45,440 Speaker 1: or to market me the right way, or to market 422 00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:46,600 Speaker 1: whatever we're marketing for. 423 00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:47,000 Speaker 3: Mary J. 424 00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:48,760 Speaker 2: Blisgerberg. So the first thing is. 425 00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:51,520 Speaker 1: Do you You gotta know you gotta you gotta have history. 426 00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:53,960 Speaker 2: You gotta know the history of me so we can 427 00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:54,920 Speaker 2: do the business. 428 00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:58,920 Speaker 5: So we was with the good Brother Swiss couple of 429 00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:01,879 Speaker 5: weeks ago and we had a conversation about you. 430 00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:12,840 Speaker 3: Versus would you do it? Versus? No? Why not? Why 431 00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:13,679 Speaker 3: would you not want to do that? 432 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:17,560 Speaker 1: I just let me just say this that I love Swiss. 433 00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:20,880 Speaker 1: That I mean, I love Swiss. That's my friend, that's 434 00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:24,200 Speaker 1: my brother, that's up my people. I just don't care 435 00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:25,920 Speaker 1: about my verses. I don't want to be up there 436 00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:34,200 Speaker 1: who got And it's no disrespect. I just don't care, 437 00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:36,560 Speaker 1: Like I don't need to say I had to know. 438 00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:38,719 Speaker 1: I have some of the hottest records. I know, I 439 00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:42,480 Speaker 1: got a crazy catalog. I don't need to be like 440 00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:44,560 Speaker 1: your record my record sension. 441 00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:45,840 Speaker 3: Well, let me ask you. 442 00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:49,720 Speaker 5: Let me ask you this just from an admiration standpoint, 443 00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:53,240 Speaker 5: if you ever had to dance with somebody, who do 444 00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:55,440 Speaker 5: you have? Anybody that you would say this is a 445 00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:58,680 Speaker 5: counterpart that I really appreciate their music, and I would 446 00:23:58,680 --> 00:23:59,720 Speaker 5: love to have some level of. 447 00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:02,560 Speaker 1: So many people that have great music out there. I 448 00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:06,520 Speaker 1: mean there's so many women that have just catalogs, you know. 449 00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:10,080 Speaker 1: So I mean I don't have to I don't like 450 00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:13,800 Speaker 1: the putting everybody up against each other the right like, 451 00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:16,320 Speaker 1: I don't like it. I mean I could just put 452 00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:20,639 Speaker 1: my shirt on and just walk away. I could put 453 00:24:20,920 --> 00:24:21,280 Speaker 1: take that. 454 00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:25,960 Speaker 2: I could put the ons four on one album on 455 00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:26,920 Speaker 2: and just walk away. 456 00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:31,159 Speaker 4: Oh, I'm gonna be honest with you, and thank you 457 00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:33,679 Speaker 4: for protecting me because I mentioned somebody he protected me. 458 00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:36,320 Speaker 3: Thank you for shall But we had. 459 00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:39,320 Speaker 4: Old with us and he was like, I haven't really 460 00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:42,399 Speaker 4: seen Mary perform I said, listen, you gotta go to 461 00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:46,119 Speaker 4: a show and let I'm going down. Come on and 462 00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:48,520 Speaker 4: just look around and watch what happens to the audience. 463 00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:52,159 Speaker 4: Y'all know it's crazy. We saw a little bit of 464 00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:55,159 Speaker 4: it last night. So shout out to the four on one, 465 00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:56,600 Speaker 4: shout to share, my shout to all the. 466 00:24:56,520 --> 00:25:00,120 Speaker 3: Albums number one, thank you, but you brought the four. 467 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:03,120 Speaker 4: One and it made me think about this guy who 468 00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:08,639 Speaker 4: was integral in that process. Puff and outside of the music, 469 00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:12,080 Speaker 4: he's been a major figure in life, especially in the 470 00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:14,200 Speaker 4: world of business. Can you talk about some of the 471 00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:16,560 Speaker 4: mentorship he's given you outside of music. 472 00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:19,160 Speaker 2: I mean, let me just start from the beginning. 473 00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:23,200 Speaker 1: When I met Puff, he was ambitious, a go get 474 00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:26,400 Speaker 1: it and I was just a little girl from Slovan 475 00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:28,640 Speaker 1: that was scared of success. 476 00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:31,120 Speaker 2: But this man wasn't scared of no success. 477 00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:34,040 Speaker 1: He wasn't scared to be fly, he wasn't scared to 478 00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:36,919 Speaker 1: be seen, and he was the opposite of everything that 479 00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:41,680 Speaker 1: I was. So just watching him was encouraging to me 480 00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:45,840 Speaker 1: and taught me a lot. And he was always about 481 00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:50,320 Speaker 1: He wanted the success more than we wanted it. He 482 00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:53,720 Speaker 1: wanted our success for us more than we wanted it. So, 483 00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:56,080 Speaker 1: I mean, he just gave me a lot of confidence. 484 00:25:56,760 --> 00:26:00,080 Speaker 1: And you know, and and and at that time, you know, 485 00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:01,919 Speaker 1: he gave me a lot of confidence in my music. 486 00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:04,000 Speaker 1: And you know, he was like a, Yo, you're gonna 487 00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:05,359 Speaker 1: get out there and bust a ass. 488 00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:07,359 Speaker 2: You're gonna get out there. Yo, you wanna do that. 489 00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:10,560 Speaker 2: And it was just like okay, okay, okay, okay okay. 490 00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:14,600 Speaker 1: So he made me my personality was very like like this. 491 00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:18,439 Speaker 1: But he really helped me a lot. He really, you know, 492 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:21,800 Speaker 1: picked a lot of the right, you know, samples together. 493 00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:23,919 Speaker 2: We did a lot. I mean, it wasn't no you know, 494 00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:24,840 Speaker 2: just organic. 495 00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:28,399 Speaker 1: And he was just puff daddy, like the same puff 496 00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:29,680 Speaker 1: daddy you see today. 497 00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:32,480 Speaker 2: He's the same puff daddy he was then. 498 00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:36,240 Speaker 1: And he was so he wanted it for Mary, for 499 00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:38,480 Speaker 1: Joe to see, for all of us, more than we 500 00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:43,280 Speaker 1: even wanted it. So man, you know, that's that's you know. 501 00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:45,480 Speaker 1: He Yeah, he helped me sustain. 502 00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:50,560 Speaker 5: So your music has become the soundtrack to millions of 503 00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:54,600 Speaker 5: people's lives, millions of women's lives from the downs that 504 00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:57,560 Speaker 5: from ninety two to twenty twenty three, when you go 505 00:26:57,680 --> 00:27:00,720 Speaker 5: to all around the world, how does that feel when 506 00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:03,119 Speaker 5: they connect with you on a different level. It's like 507 00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:06,600 Speaker 5: a spiritual level, like you've helped guide them through, you know, 508 00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:09,320 Speaker 5: heartbreak and breakups and divorce. 509 00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:12,840 Speaker 3: How does that feel for you to play that role? 510 00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:16,959 Speaker 1: It feels good, and it's a responsibility because I'm not 511 00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:18,200 Speaker 1: doing anything special. 512 00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:21,719 Speaker 2: I'm just falling and getting back up. That's it. 513 00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:25,439 Speaker 1: I'm just falling. I'm getting back up, and am I 514 00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:28,119 Speaker 1: getting backed up? Sometimes I'm laying down longer than what 515 00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:31,440 Speaker 1: I'm supposed to, But I get up and I come 516 00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:34,960 Speaker 1: out on the other side. And so that's really all 517 00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:38,560 Speaker 1: I've done, you know. So I say, when people like 518 00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:40,440 Speaker 1: you saved my life, I'd be like, well, you really 519 00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:42,480 Speaker 1: need to give that credit to God for giving me 520 00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:44,240 Speaker 1: the strength to get back up. 521 00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:50,720 Speaker 4: So we talked about the spirits, We talked about the production, 522 00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:54,359 Speaker 4: we talked about the acting. Obviously, the talent in the 523 00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:55,560 Speaker 4: field of singing. 524 00:27:56,560 --> 00:27:57,680 Speaker 3: I'm looking that down. 525 00:27:57,440 --> 00:27:59,720 Speaker 4: Food to your right, and I'm thinking to myself, if 526 00:27:59,760 --> 00:28:01,640 Speaker 4: don in the room, there's more business to come. 527 00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:03,080 Speaker 3: And so I'm wondering one. 528 00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:07,720 Speaker 4: Hundred all right, we know, So what else is on 529 00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:11,919 Speaker 4: the vision board for the Mary J. Blige Empire? What 530 00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:13,679 Speaker 4: else is on the vision board, Like, what else do 531 00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:15,840 Speaker 4: you see, Like that's something I want to tackle that 532 00:28:15,920 --> 00:28:18,080 Speaker 4: I want to get involved in that business, or that's 533 00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:20,040 Speaker 4: something that I can see I can add to the portfolio. 534 00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:22,359 Speaker 2: Well, the Boots are coming. 535 00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:28,840 Speaker 1: Everybody's like, what's up with the Hey, Hey, that's the 536 00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:30,600 Speaker 1: next thing, said the boots. 537 00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:32,359 Speaker 2: Yes about the book line. 538 00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:35,399 Speaker 4: The dancing is so separately though, I said that dancing 539 00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:36,080 Speaker 4: is so separately. 540 00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:37,840 Speaker 3: Everybody can't dance like you in the boots. 541 00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:41,560 Speaker 2: We got talking about the dancing. We talking about the 542 00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:44,840 Speaker 2: bootline right now, Arders, what's going on? Listen? 543 00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:49,320 Speaker 4: Eylu is relaunching, revamping, retooling. That's why we're creating a 544 00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:52,000 Speaker 4: new educational experience that's more expansive. 545 00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:55,600 Speaker 5: Tell what we got, Yes, twenty twenty three, we got 546 00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:57,640 Speaker 5: a lot in store, a lot playing for you guys. 547 00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:00,959 Speaker 3: So you know that eyou already includes. 548 00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:03,880 Speaker 5: Monthly financial planning calls with Me, book club calls with Troy, 549 00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:07,080 Speaker 5: real estate calls with MG the mortgage got access to 550 00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:10,840 Speaker 5: the Home Buying Blueprint Volume one and Volume two. Part 551 00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:14,600 Speaker 5: of the revamp will include twenty seven local chapters from 552 00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:18,800 Speaker 5: across the United States, live interactive teaching, hands on not 553 00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:24,080 Speaker 5: just pre recorded videos, plus fifteen brand new curriculums. 554 00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:25,720 Speaker 3: The biggest just got bigger. 555 00:29:35,360 --> 00:29:39,160 Speaker 1: I just want to get that going because everybody you 556 00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:40,040 Speaker 1: don't really want it. 557 00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:45,800 Speaker 5: So what are some of the biggest lessons in business 558 00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:48,760 Speaker 5: and just in general that you've learned over your thirty 559 00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:49,320 Speaker 5: year career. 560 00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:52,080 Speaker 2: Take care of yourself? 561 00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:58,600 Speaker 1: Do I mean, go behind everybody, check in on your business, 562 00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:02,000 Speaker 1: check in on yourself. Just make sure you are in 563 00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:05,400 Speaker 1: on every single thing. And if they don't know you, 564 00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:08,120 Speaker 1: then they can't identify you. If they can't if they 565 00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:10,280 Speaker 1: don't have no history on you and what you're doing, 566 00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:11,160 Speaker 1: they can't help you. 567 00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:15,400 Speaker 2: So that's really it. Just take care of you. 568 00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:18,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, and I'm sure there's plenty of women in here, 569 00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:20,520 Speaker 4: and we saw a lot of artists at the show 570 00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:22,680 Speaker 4: last night. Now that you have a label, are you 571 00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:24,800 Speaker 4: currently looking for talent to put on the label? 572 00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:27,240 Speaker 3: How does would somebody go about that? Well? 573 00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:30,840 Speaker 1: Right, So let me give you the backstory on why 574 00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:33,600 Speaker 1: I'm just getting the label. I tried to do it 575 00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:36,000 Speaker 1: a long time ago, and what I don't like doing 576 00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:39,280 Speaker 1: is promising people things, and I don't have the money 577 00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:43,160 Speaker 1: to back it up. So this is my first one 578 00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:47,960 Speaker 1: more is my first artists that I've signed because now 579 00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:52,120 Speaker 1: I have the money to make their dreams come true. 580 00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:55,800 Speaker 1: So I don't want to have people come and be 581 00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:59,000 Speaker 1: on my label and I'm selling you a dream because 582 00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:01,320 Speaker 1: I don't want nobody to sell me a dream. So 583 00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:06,120 Speaker 1: right now, I'm just on one more. I'm on one 584 00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:12,600 Speaker 1: more right now, and that's it. If you have talent, 585 00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:18,040 Speaker 1: you know, if you got some patience, you know, I'll 586 00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:20,400 Speaker 1: you know, I'll sign you. But you got to have 587 00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:23,320 Speaker 1: patience because you know, the stuff don't happen over It 588 00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:26,880 Speaker 1: took me so long to get my advance when I 589 00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:29,080 Speaker 1: was on you know, signed to Uptown Records. 590 00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:30,600 Speaker 2: But you got to have patience. 591 00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:33,959 Speaker 1: And I don't like making people wait and selling people dreams, 592 00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:36,480 Speaker 1: and people have bills and lives and stuff like that. 593 00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:38,840 Speaker 1: I want to be able to help you pay your bills, 594 00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:42,880 Speaker 1: you know. So that's why I only have one one 595 00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:44,040 Speaker 1: artist right now. 596 00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:46,960 Speaker 5: Before we leave, this is just the second year of 597 00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:50,000 Speaker 5: your festival. What is your vision for this festival in 598 00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:52,800 Speaker 5: ten years? Like, what do you like to see this 599 00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:53,520 Speaker 5: grow into? 600 00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:59,760 Speaker 1: Man that we we go to We have seventy thousand 601 00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:02,600 Speaker 1: people and the arena, it's like it just gets. 602 00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:04,240 Speaker 2: Bigger and bigger. But I just wanted to get bigger 603 00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:04,760 Speaker 2: and bigger. 604 00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:07,760 Speaker 1: And I want women to walk away and having their 605 00:32:07,840 --> 00:32:10,920 Speaker 1: own businesses when they walk away from this, having more ideas, 606 00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:16,600 Speaker 1: just and learning how to love ourselves and self awareness 607 00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:17,480 Speaker 1: and just all. 608 00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:18,960 Speaker 2: Kind of beautiful. I just want everybody. 609 00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:19,720 Speaker 3: I just want to be. 610 00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:21,080 Speaker 2: Bigger and bigger in all those things. 611 00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:24,640 Speaker 4: Ladies and gentlemen, we need everybody standing on your feet. 612 00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:26,280 Speaker 3: Please, yeah, please. 613 00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:32,560 Speaker 2: My graduates from my school being forced 614 00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:37,760 Speaker 3: Back drop bag drop my drop, back drop drop