1 00:00:01,240 --> 00:00:06,040 Speaker 1: Hello, Henry. Hello Mom. Alright, I'm going to get the 2 00:00:06,040 --> 00:00:09,000 Speaker 1: giggling out of the way. I really am so happy 3 00:00:09,200 --> 00:00:12,280 Speaker 1: that you're doing this show because you know how I've 4 00:00:12,320 --> 00:00:15,280 Speaker 1: said in wanting to do this podcast, it's about collecting 5 00:00:15,440 --> 00:00:19,599 Speaker 1: all these different ideas and perspectives from all these different people. 6 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:23,239 Speaker 1: And to have a twelve year old view of all 7 00:00:23,239 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 1: these questions but also of the world is incredibly important 8 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:29,480 Speaker 1: and interesting. Yeah, we have been discovered as much as 9 00:00:29,760 --> 00:00:32,080 Speaker 1: some of you older folks, so I think it's just 10 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:34,600 Speaker 1: an interesting point of view. But I don't think you 11 00:00:34,720 --> 00:00:37,479 Speaker 1: think less deeply though. I mean, I feel like you 12 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 1: are pretty considered person. Thank you, You're welcome. I taught 13 00:00:42,040 --> 00:00:48,680 Speaker 1: you well why you did. Yes, Hello, I'm mini driver 14 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:53,240 Speaker 1: and welcome to many questions. I've always loved fust questionnaire. 15 00:00:53,800 --> 00:00:56,440 Speaker 1: It was originally an eighteenth century parlor game meant to 16 00:00:56,440 --> 00:01:00,360 Speaker 1: reveal an individual's true nature. But with so many questions 17 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 1: and there wasn't really an opportunity to expand on anything. 18 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:06,560 Speaker 1: So I took the format of Proof's questionnaire and adapted 19 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:09,240 Speaker 1: what I think are seven of the most important questions 20 00:01:09,319 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 1: you could ever ask someone they are, when and where 21 00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 1: were you happiest. What is the quality you like least 22 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 1: about yourself. What relationship, real or fictionalized, defines love for you? 23 00:01:23,760 --> 00:01:28,240 Speaker 1: What question would you most like answered, What person, place, 24 00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:32,480 Speaker 1: or experience has shaped you the most? What would be 25 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:36,320 Speaker 1: your last meal? And can you tell me something in 26 00:01:36,360 --> 00:01:39,320 Speaker 1: your life that has grown out of a personal disaster. 27 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:43,039 Speaker 1: The more people we ask, the more we begin to 28 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:46,120 Speaker 1: see what makes us similar and what makes us individual. 29 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 1: I've gathered a group of really remarkable people who I 30 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:52,360 Speaker 1: am honored and humbled to have had a chance to 31 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 1: engage with. My guest today is Henry Driver. Henry is 32 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 1: a thoughtful, curious, quick witted lover of video games, music, 33 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:09,040 Speaker 1: and dungeons and Dragons. Henry is also my son. He's 34 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 1: been part of the creation of this podcast from the beginning, 35 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:15,880 Speaker 1: both as intellectual and technical support. I mean, on numerous 36 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:19,200 Speaker 1: occasions she used to fixed my computer. I mean mostly 37 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:23,240 Speaker 1: you know, it just wasn't turned on. But he also 38 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 1: helped me formulate the questions themselves. I wanted to include 39 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 1: the voice and thoughts of a twelve year old boy 40 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:33,680 Speaker 1: living in this time of social dislocation and remote everything. 41 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:37,280 Speaker 1: I always learn a lot from talking to him and 42 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:47,280 Speaker 1: interviewing him today was no different at all. I'm gonna 43 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:51,920 Speaker 1: ask you the first question, when and where were you happiest? Wow, 44 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 1: that's already deep. Um. I think I'd have to say 45 00:02:57,880 --> 00:03:01,920 Speaker 1: on my dad's hammock out on his porch, it was 46 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:04,400 Speaker 1: it was not that long ago. I think it was 47 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 1: just it was like a week ago or something. I 48 00:03:07,400 --> 00:03:12,120 Speaker 1: just I've never really felt so peaceful at any point 49 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:14,240 Speaker 1: in my life of just laying down and kind of 50 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 1: just being in nature. And no, no, no, like offense 51 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 1: to you, mom, none taken my darning. Do you do 52 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:27,919 Speaker 1: you equate happiness with peace? So is that your your 53 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:31,320 Speaker 1: idea of what of what real of happiness is is 54 00:03:31,360 --> 00:03:34,920 Speaker 1: feeling peaceful? I think that's one of the things that 55 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:38,120 Speaker 1: go into happiness. I think happiness is definitely at various 56 00:03:38,160 --> 00:03:41,080 Speaker 1: from person to person. Like one person will think this 57 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 1: is happiness. That's some other person will think this is happiness. 58 00:03:44,160 --> 00:03:47,520 Speaker 1: And I think it's just where you feel like yourself 59 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 1: the most is where you are happiest. Why do you 60 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:55,760 Speaker 1: feel like yourself the most? I like that dying. I 61 00:03:55,800 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 1: gotta stop calling you downing because you're a guest and sorry, Henry, Yes, 62 00:03:58,920 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 1: I think that that is actually the incredibly good advice 63 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:05,600 Speaker 1: to give yourself in your life, which is where you 64 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 1: feel yourself the most, is where you will be the happiest. 65 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 1: We've talked about this quite a lot, but looking for 66 00:04:13,440 --> 00:04:16,880 Speaker 1: of anything all the time, it's probably folly. So thinking 67 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 1: that you're going to be happy all the time, it's 68 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 1: probably not going to work out. Yeah, it's not possible. 69 00:04:21,960 --> 00:04:24,280 Speaker 1: I mean, there's always going to be those moments when 70 00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 1: you drop and you're going to be sad. But sadness 71 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:29,800 Speaker 1: has to balance out the happiness. So I think it 72 00:04:29,880 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 1: all kind of just comes into a giant circle dying. 73 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:41,279 Speaker 1: I love you so much, we do what question, which 74 00:04:41,320 --> 00:04:49,000 Speaker 1: you most like answered? Okay, So I mean where does 75 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:53,120 Speaker 1: everything go? What's the point of it all? Like, well, 76 00:04:53,120 --> 00:04:57,720 Speaker 1: what happens? We're we're all just sort of living, right, 77 00:04:57,880 --> 00:04:59,720 Speaker 1: We're all just sort of living on this earth. We're 78 00:04:59,720 --> 00:05:03,159 Speaker 1: doing what we do. But why? And I just I 79 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:06,320 Speaker 1: want to know why because it doesn't really in the 80 00:05:06,360 --> 00:05:12,320 Speaker 1: whole scheme of everything. What does us doing anything matter? 81 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:18,600 Speaker 1: That's my question. I know, it's it's weird. It's like, 82 00:05:18,760 --> 00:05:22,920 Speaker 1: believe me, philosophers have been pontificating about this for time immemorial, 83 00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:26,560 Speaker 1: What does it mean? And does they have to be meaning? 84 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:29,280 Speaker 1: I think we search for meaning, we want to attach 85 00:05:29,360 --> 00:05:32,680 Speaker 1: meaning to it. But I think that's a very human trait. Yeah, 86 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 1: I definitely think that as well, because you wouldn't find 87 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:38,680 Speaker 1: a pig questioning its own mortality. I mean, no, a 88 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:40,640 Speaker 1: big is just a big. In fact, Stephen fo I 89 00:05:40,720 --> 00:05:44,120 Speaker 1: talked about tree frogs. Tree frogs don't question how they 90 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 1: tree frog. They just do it. They do it because 91 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:51,680 Speaker 1: it's instinct. But when you're able to like conceptualize it, 92 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:54,000 Speaker 1: it kind of gets messed up in your own head. 93 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:56,360 Speaker 1: Do you think it's because we think we're so much 94 00:05:56,360 --> 00:05:59,720 Speaker 1: better than everything else human beings that they we we 95 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:02,000 Speaker 1: think there should be a meaning, like that, our lives 96 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:04,120 Speaker 1: are so important, there must be a meaning to it. Yeah, 97 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 1: Like over the thousands of years, humans have been sort 98 00:06:07,360 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 1: of thinking there's always superior, and I think that definitely 99 00:06:10,839 --> 00:06:14,120 Speaker 1: puts on a mindset of we're more important, We're the 100 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:17,440 Speaker 1: ones that should live forever and where we can do everything. 101 00:06:17,880 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 1: But in actual fact, what what are you doing? I mean, well, 102 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:24,160 Speaker 1: what exactly what? How? So how can those two things 103 00:06:24,200 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 1: be true? How can we think that we're so important? 104 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:31,360 Speaker 1: And yet be destroying the planet in such and and 105 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:35,120 Speaker 1: now conscious way, Like we know what's happening, and we're 106 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 1: not we're not changing at a fast enough right, So 107 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:40,960 Speaker 1: why there's still people that don't believe it's true? Like 108 00:06:41,160 --> 00:06:46,279 Speaker 1: how it's so obvious that we are messing the planet up, 109 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 1: but in our heads we think it's gonna be fine, 110 00:06:49,800 --> 00:06:52,279 Speaker 1: everything's gonna work out. We're human, Well, we know what 111 00:06:52,320 --> 00:06:55,560 Speaker 1: to do, but in actual fact we don't. So do 112 00:06:55,560 --> 00:06:59,080 Speaker 1: you think there's just a fundamental arrogance and us having 113 00:06:59,120 --> 00:07:01,360 Speaker 1: been so if at the top of the food chain 114 00:07:01,480 --> 00:07:04,760 Speaker 1: for so long and we've become complacent and just think 115 00:07:04,760 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 1: we're owed answers and we can do whatever we want 116 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:10,880 Speaker 1: with this planet, Like do you think most of that's 117 00:07:10,960 --> 00:07:14,560 Speaker 1: kind of what's happening? Yeah? I think if you get 118 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:17,520 Speaker 1: used to something for so long, you just sort of 119 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:20,200 Speaker 1: kind of you just put it at the back of 120 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:23,120 Speaker 1: your head. You don't really care about what's happening to it, right, 121 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:26,680 Speaker 1: But then as it gets worse and worse it has 122 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 1: you have to kind of realize something that it's just 123 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:34,800 Speaker 1: kind of going wrong. What do you think is what 124 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:37,560 Speaker 1: do you think it is all for? The messy business 125 00:07:37,560 --> 00:07:41,160 Speaker 1: of living us being terrible custodians of a planet? Like, 126 00:07:41,240 --> 00:07:43,000 Speaker 1: what do you think do you think there is a 127 00:07:43,040 --> 00:07:45,640 Speaker 1: meaning or do you think that there actually isn't. I 128 00:07:45,680 --> 00:07:48,160 Speaker 1: don't think there's a meaning to what we do. I 129 00:07:48,200 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 1: think we live our lives and the people that do 130 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:54,320 Speaker 1: what they want are the people that live. And I 131 00:07:54,320 --> 00:07:57,240 Speaker 1: think that's the meaning of why we live, to do 132 00:07:57,320 --> 00:08:01,120 Speaker 1: what we want. But what about society owning and mortgages 133 00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:04,720 Speaker 1: and constructs and all the stuff. That's what people have created. 134 00:08:04,960 --> 00:08:07,080 Speaker 1: That's what people have created to make it so that 135 00:08:07,640 --> 00:08:12,160 Speaker 1: you can live how you want in the confines of 136 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:17,080 Speaker 1: being like an okay, im moral person, right yeah, air 137 00:08:17,160 --> 00:08:21,800 Speaker 1: quotes and I mean you have to live your life 138 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:24,600 Speaker 1: how you want it. Otherwise how how are you going 139 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:27,040 Speaker 1: to be happy? Ever? So, do you think what Grandpa 140 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:30,160 Speaker 1: said to me when I was a kid, which was 141 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:33,640 Speaker 1: find what you love to do and get someone to 142 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 1: pay you to do it. I think that is a 143 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:39,640 Speaker 1: huge part of it. I want to be out in 144 00:08:39,679 --> 00:08:42,960 Speaker 1: the world, right, that's me. Other people can do them. 145 00:08:43,400 --> 00:08:45,640 Speaker 1: So would you rather not have very much money and 146 00:08:45,679 --> 00:08:47,839 Speaker 1: sort of live out of a van and be doing 147 00:08:47,880 --> 00:08:50,240 Speaker 1: what you want? Whatever? That? If that's how it goes, 148 00:08:50,320 --> 00:08:53,079 Speaker 1: then yes, yeah, I would rather live out of a van. 149 00:08:53,280 --> 00:08:56,240 Speaker 1: Wait if if what goes, how if that's how I 150 00:08:56,320 --> 00:08:59,240 Speaker 1: want to live, then yeah, that's how it goes. See, 151 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:03,520 Speaker 1: you really are a libertarian. You just want to You 152 00:09:03,640 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 1: just want to do what you want. I have no 153 00:09:05,880 --> 00:09:08,760 Speaker 1: idea what that means. Well, there's two meanings to it. 154 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 1: There's a political meaning to it, which is a particular 155 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:15,600 Speaker 1: way of thinking, which is literally sort of you get 156 00:09:15,640 --> 00:09:18,280 Speaker 1: to do what you want. No government, no nothing, nobody 157 00:09:18,320 --> 00:09:20,199 Speaker 1: tells you what to do. It's sort of like First 158 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:24,480 Speaker 1: Amendment on steroids. But a libertarian also, I mean they 159 00:09:24,880 --> 00:09:27,840 Speaker 1: it means, you know, liberty. It's freedom, So the freedom 160 00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 1: to do what you want, be who you want. I'm 161 00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:32,439 Speaker 1: interested to see what you want when you grow up, 162 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:34,680 Speaker 1: and like, what kinds of things do you think you're 163 00:09:34,679 --> 00:09:39,800 Speaker 1: going to want? I honestly don't know really, but you 164 00:09:39,880 --> 00:09:41,320 Speaker 1: kind of want to have the space to be able 165 00:09:41,320 --> 00:09:44,640 Speaker 1: to figure that out. Yeah, I think that's that's how 166 00:09:44,679 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 1: we live, right. Question three, what relationship, real or fictionalized 167 00:10:05,400 --> 00:10:08,800 Speaker 1: defines love fear? Now this is the one that I 168 00:10:08,880 --> 00:10:13,360 Speaker 1: thought about the most. Well, I'm a TV connoisseur, as 169 00:10:13,400 --> 00:10:16,480 Speaker 1: some would say, so I I do like to watch TV. 170 00:10:16,640 --> 00:10:21,240 Speaker 1: I'm an enthusiast. Some may say, so I have had 171 00:10:21,280 --> 00:10:23,280 Speaker 1: my fair share of TV, and I'd like to take 172 00:10:23,320 --> 00:10:27,200 Speaker 1: mine from a certain television show called Adventure Time. And 173 00:10:27,280 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 1: it's between two people called Simon Petrokov and Betty, and 174 00:10:32,040 --> 00:10:37,480 Speaker 1: I find that their relationship is it's it goes through 175 00:10:37,960 --> 00:10:41,880 Speaker 1: thousands of years, right, and in the shortest explanation that 176 00:10:41,960 --> 00:10:46,640 Speaker 1: I can make, is one of them, Simon Petrokov he 177 00:10:46,960 --> 00:10:51,520 Speaker 1: can basically live forever, and his wife, who he wants 178 00:10:51,520 --> 00:10:55,200 Speaker 1: to be his wife, Betty, cannot live forever, and her 179 00:10:55,280 --> 00:10:57,520 Speaker 1: seeing that he can live forever, she runs away. She 180 00:10:57,559 --> 00:11:00,400 Speaker 1: does not want to be with him anymore. But thousands 181 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:04,040 Speaker 1: and thousands of years into the future, he finds a 182 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:06,920 Speaker 1: way to get her to love him again and goes back, 183 00:11:07,240 --> 00:11:11,600 Speaker 1: and she takes him back. And I find that love 184 00:11:11,880 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 1: is just a place where you care about somebody so 185 00:11:15,120 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 1: much that you would go through change, you'd go through 186 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:21,440 Speaker 1: everything just to find them again, even if you lost them. 187 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:26,160 Speaker 1: So I feel like it's just a connection that you 188 00:11:26,280 --> 00:11:31,080 Speaker 1: cannot be broken if you actually truly love someone. I 189 00:11:31,120 --> 00:11:35,800 Speaker 1: think that's very true, and I think that idea of forbearance, 190 00:11:36,080 --> 00:11:37,920 Speaker 1: which is a really great word. I don't know. I 191 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:40,600 Speaker 1: do know what forbearance means. I mean, I can kind 192 00:11:40,600 --> 00:11:46,200 Speaker 1: of guess, but not not exactly. It's like waiting something out, 193 00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:50,720 Speaker 1: being strong through time, having the temerity to bear something 194 00:11:51,040 --> 00:11:54,000 Speaker 1: and being strong, and I think that is a corner 195 00:11:54,040 --> 00:11:57,319 Speaker 1: stone of loving for sure. Well, I know how much 196 00:11:57,320 --> 00:11:59,760 Speaker 1: he loves adventure time. I love adventure time as well. 197 00:12:00,320 --> 00:12:02,280 Speaker 1: You taught me everything I know about advantage time, and 198 00:12:02,640 --> 00:12:05,439 Speaker 1: we both love it. I like that it taught you 199 00:12:05,480 --> 00:12:08,920 Speaker 1: about love, just because I'm twelve and I literally have 200 00:12:08,960 --> 00:12:12,120 Speaker 1: no idea about relationships. You know what, baby, You've got 201 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:15,240 Speaker 1: to start somewhere. Your first relationship and love is actually 202 00:12:15,280 --> 00:12:18,120 Speaker 1: with yourself, which nobody really tells you, and the way 203 00:12:18,120 --> 00:12:20,600 Speaker 1: that you treat yourself, on the way that you sort 204 00:12:20,640 --> 00:12:23,559 Speaker 1: of barely up to your own life. You're in the 205 00:12:23,679 --> 00:12:25,600 Speaker 1: right place. You're doing I think you're doing all the 206 00:12:25,679 --> 00:12:28,040 Speaker 1: right stuff. And you know, one day you'll have a 207 00:12:28,040 --> 00:12:31,600 Speaker 1: relationship with a person and you'll listen to this conversation 208 00:12:32,080 --> 00:12:36,839 Speaker 1: and wonder why I didn't give you better advice. I 209 00:12:36,960 --> 00:12:43,360 Speaker 1: think is pretty great. Mom. Thanks Darling. Henry Henry, Mr Driver, 210 00:12:44,160 --> 00:12:52,800 Speaker 1: Mr Driver, Mr Driver so what quality do you like 211 00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:59,000 Speaker 1: least about yourself? I think a quality that i'd like 212 00:12:59,160 --> 00:13:01,520 Speaker 1: least about my self it would have to be the 213 00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:05,200 Speaker 1: I'm not like a perfectionist or anything. Just to sort 214 00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:07,560 Speaker 1: of back up this question, I just never think I 215 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:13,000 Speaker 1: get things perfectly correct. So I'll make something that I'll 216 00:13:13,040 --> 00:13:14,760 Speaker 1: be like, oh, this is cool, and I'll be like, 217 00:13:15,040 --> 00:13:17,840 Speaker 1: wait a second, that's that's not right. Let me let 218 00:13:17,840 --> 00:13:19,559 Speaker 1: me read that, and I'll just keep on doing it 219 00:13:19,600 --> 00:13:22,080 Speaker 1: until I just never finish it. So I feel like 220 00:13:22,160 --> 00:13:24,920 Speaker 1: that's and I know it. I'm trying not to make 221 00:13:24,960 --> 00:13:30,200 Speaker 1: it perfect, just acceptable, and I just can never reach that. Well, 222 00:13:30,240 --> 00:13:33,439 Speaker 1: you don't feel like you can reach acceptability, So it's 223 00:13:33,480 --> 00:13:37,360 Speaker 1: not perfectionism, it's acceptable, is m. Yeah, I guess that 224 00:13:37,520 --> 00:13:41,600 Speaker 1: is the correct term for that. Yeah. Yeah, I just 225 00:13:42,040 --> 00:13:46,760 Speaker 1: I always think there's a detail that's incorrect. It's interesting. 226 00:13:47,120 --> 00:13:51,200 Speaker 1: I wonder if you get that from me. You're very 227 00:13:51,240 --> 00:13:55,400 Speaker 1: hard on yourself, and yeah, your as well, I know, 228 00:13:55,840 --> 00:13:59,760 Speaker 1: And I feel like, actually, it's funny hearing you say that. 229 00:13:59,800 --> 00:14:01,360 Speaker 1: I kind of get a bit of a drop in 230 00:14:01,440 --> 00:14:06,400 Speaker 1: my stomach because I recognize that of being really tough 231 00:14:06,440 --> 00:14:09,920 Speaker 1: on yourself. But I see you give to really most 232 00:14:09,960 --> 00:14:12,840 Speaker 1: of what you do and working very hard. And I 233 00:14:12,920 --> 00:14:15,760 Speaker 1: also know I do that, but I don't think either 234 00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:19,640 Speaker 1: of us give ourselves quite enough credit. Yeah, I definitely 235 00:14:19,640 --> 00:14:23,160 Speaker 1: think that's true. Well, that's just taught me hearing you 236 00:14:23,200 --> 00:14:26,040 Speaker 1: say that is great. I passed on the quality I 237 00:14:26,120 --> 00:14:31,600 Speaker 1: like least about myself to my child. Good work. But 238 00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:34,960 Speaker 1: I mean, it's not like it's not the worst thing 239 00:14:35,080 --> 00:14:37,640 Speaker 1: that could have come out of anybody. I mean, there's 240 00:14:37,680 --> 00:14:41,360 Speaker 1: always like different things that could be so much worse. 241 00:14:41,440 --> 00:14:44,760 Speaker 1: But I think that is just what I find to 242 00:14:44,880 --> 00:14:49,480 Speaker 1: be the most disliked by me. M. It's also like 243 00:14:49,640 --> 00:14:52,880 Speaker 1: having an awareness of it means you're infinitely more likely 244 00:14:52,920 --> 00:14:56,280 Speaker 1: to change it, right if you wanted to, I'd say so. 245 00:14:56,880 --> 00:15:00,320 Speaker 1: It's it's easier to like, it's easier to get rid 246 00:15:00,320 --> 00:15:02,920 Speaker 1: of something if you can recognize it first. I think 247 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:07,120 Speaker 1: you have to recognize it first, don't you, Otherwise you 248 00:15:07,200 --> 00:15:09,520 Speaker 1: might just be getting rid of bits of yourself. They 249 00:15:09,520 --> 00:15:14,240 Speaker 1: are actually quite good. Yeah, I mean it's a metaphor 250 00:15:14,280 --> 00:15:25,640 Speaker 1: for life. Yea, what in your life has grown out 251 00:15:25,720 --> 00:15:29,080 Speaker 1: of a personal disaster, And you know, by a personal disaster, 252 00:15:29,120 --> 00:15:32,920 Speaker 1: I mean something that at the time seemed very hard, 253 00:15:33,200 --> 00:15:37,600 Speaker 1: or like it was something not working out. So I'm twelve, 254 00:15:37,760 --> 00:15:40,800 Speaker 1: so I haven't had many personal disasters in my time. 255 00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:45,400 Speaker 1: I think I don't want to go sat, don't sensor yourself, 256 00:15:45,440 --> 00:15:49,160 Speaker 1: love and say whatever you feel. I think when really past, 257 00:15:49,880 --> 00:15:55,000 Speaker 1: I realized that nothing is really permanent in a way 258 00:15:55,680 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 1: like death will come, but just like you have to 259 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:04,680 Speaker 1: make the most of the time you have until the 260 00:16:05,000 --> 00:16:08,840 Speaker 1: end point comes. I think that's just a thing that 261 00:16:08,920 --> 00:16:12,280 Speaker 1: will happen at some point, but you always have to think, 262 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:15,720 Speaker 1: but what can we do now instead of what that 263 00:16:15,840 --> 00:16:18,720 Speaker 1: does happen? And I think that's what definitely came out 264 00:16:18,800 --> 00:16:22,680 Speaker 1: from Grannies passing. Did you really think that that after 265 00:16:22,760 --> 00:16:26,000 Speaker 1: she died, it was like, Wow, we better live every 266 00:16:26,040 --> 00:16:28,840 Speaker 1: moment because it really is, it's gone in an instant. 267 00:16:29,000 --> 00:16:33,720 Speaker 1: It's temporary. Yeah, I think that was some big thing 268 00:16:33,800 --> 00:16:38,280 Speaker 1: that came out of Grannies passing. Definitely. Do you think 269 00:16:38,320 --> 00:16:41,600 Speaker 1: that's also where you really want to do what you do, 270 00:16:41,640 --> 00:16:44,320 Speaker 1: what you want and not follow any kind of mainstream 271 00:16:44,360 --> 00:16:48,880 Speaker 1: idea in your life. It's just like go live live 272 00:16:49,600 --> 00:16:52,200 Speaker 1: it's your life. Yeah, baby, I want you to do 273 00:16:52,280 --> 00:17:01,000 Speaker 1: that too. Liberal liberal libratarian liberty liberty, libertarian, same thing 274 00:17:02,360 --> 00:17:05,800 Speaker 1: a libratarian. I wouldn't mind if you're a libratarian, because 275 00:17:05,840 --> 00:17:08,000 Speaker 1: that means that it will probably be about free libraries. 276 00:17:08,440 --> 00:17:10,800 Speaker 1: I mean I would run for that if I was 277 00:17:10,840 --> 00:17:14,080 Speaker 1: a president, you'd run on a platform of free libraries. Yes, 278 00:17:14,960 --> 00:17:18,680 Speaker 1: I'm a libratarian. Libraries are free. I mean, I guess 279 00:17:18,680 --> 00:17:21,600 Speaker 1: you have to get a card. Maybe it'll be on 280 00:17:21,640 --> 00:17:24,040 Speaker 1: a platform of like it was against the law to 281 00:17:24,119 --> 00:17:31,920 Speaker 1: close libraries now, definitely free libraries. That's quite ast of 282 00:17:31,960 --> 00:17:35,679 Speaker 1: Homer Simpson platform free libraries. They're already free. But I 283 00:17:35,720 --> 00:17:39,880 Speaker 1: don't care. I mean, yeah, well, everyone gets a library, 284 00:17:40,200 --> 00:17:42,719 Speaker 1: no matter who you are, you get a library. All right, 285 00:17:42,800 --> 00:18:00,639 Speaker 1: my little libratarian, What person, place, or experience has most 286 00:18:00,840 --> 00:18:04,960 Speaker 1: altered your life? I think it was definitely moving to 287 00:18:05,080 --> 00:18:09,920 Speaker 1: England because that changed, That changed everything, and it kind 288 00:18:09,920 --> 00:18:12,399 Speaker 1: of opened up my perspective to the world. I just 289 00:18:12,520 --> 00:18:17,199 Speaker 1: my view completely widened. Everything just kind of it was 290 00:18:17,240 --> 00:18:20,639 Speaker 1: just different and I liked it being in a different place. 291 00:18:20,800 --> 00:18:23,399 Speaker 1: I thought it changed how I looked at the world 292 00:18:23,560 --> 00:18:26,760 Speaker 1: a lot. Can you say some of the things that like, 293 00:18:27,000 --> 00:18:29,560 Speaker 1: either you suddenly saw how you thought about them before 294 00:18:30,240 --> 00:18:33,080 Speaker 1: and then how you thought about them differently once you 295 00:18:33,440 --> 00:18:36,400 Speaker 1: were going to school in a different country. Yeah, I 296 00:18:36,440 --> 00:18:39,119 Speaker 1: thought in l A, that's how I thought you were 297 00:18:39,119 --> 00:18:42,399 Speaker 1: supposed to live by a certain routine and you were 298 00:18:42,400 --> 00:18:46,440 Speaker 1: supposed to have this blank blank blank set out for you, right, 299 00:18:46,920 --> 00:18:48,919 Speaker 1: But then when I moved to England, it's sort of 300 00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:51,879 Speaker 1: it all changed. There was no there wasn't a routine. 301 00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:54,040 Speaker 1: I would go to school and then I would maybe 302 00:18:54,040 --> 00:18:56,399 Speaker 1: I'd walk over to my cousin's house, maybe I'd go 303 00:18:56,440 --> 00:18:59,840 Speaker 1: to the park, maybe i'd walk somewhere, just anywhere to 304 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:02,840 Speaker 1: the train as well, by yourself with your cousin. Yeah, 305 00:19:02,960 --> 00:19:06,240 Speaker 1: it would be completely different to just go to school, 306 00:19:06,320 --> 00:19:10,400 Speaker 1: come back home, do homework, watch TV, dinner, go to sleep. Right, 307 00:19:11,080 --> 00:19:14,879 Speaker 1: it just changed, which I just thought it was amazing 308 00:19:15,240 --> 00:19:18,879 Speaker 1: living completely differently. Do you think that you You know, 309 00:19:18,960 --> 00:19:22,879 Speaker 1: the other thing about me, your mother, is that I 310 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:25,360 Speaker 1: have such a difficult time with change, and I love 311 00:19:25,440 --> 00:19:27,600 Speaker 1: things to stay the same and for a routine, And 312 00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:31,000 Speaker 1: which is probably why why fourth that on you? Did 313 00:19:31,040 --> 00:19:35,520 Speaker 1: you always know that you liked to change before or 314 00:19:35,600 --> 00:19:38,240 Speaker 1: did going to England really show you that this was 315 00:19:38,280 --> 00:19:41,280 Speaker 1: something that you could embrace and take on into the 316 00:19:41,280 --> 00:19:43,680 Speaker 1: rest of your life. I definitely think it was going 317 00:19:43,720 --> 00:19:46,680 Speaker 1: to England because before I just thought routine was how 318 00:19:46,840 --> 00:19:49,280 Speaker 1: how it kind of went. I think that was my plan, 319 00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:54,560 Speaker 1: but it changed definitely as I went to England. It's 320 00:19:54,600 --> 00:19:59,359 Speaker 1: sort of my perspective expanded. As I say, you left 321 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:04,479 Speaker 1: behind an enormous amount, like you left behind your whole life, 322 00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:08,600 Speaker 1: your friendships, your everything. I didn't leave them behind. I 323 00:20:08,720 --> 00:20:12,840 Speaker 1: still have them as friends. You're completely correct, but you 324 00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:18,000 Speaker 1: you stepped out of that. Did that feel exciting or 325 00:20:18,160 --> 00:20:22,720 Speaker 1: scary to you both? Honestly? I mean there was certain 326 00:20:22,760 --> 00:20:25,200 Speaker 1: aspects like I was horrified that I was going to 327 00:20:25,320 --> 00:20:27,639 Speaker 1: lose my friends, but at the same time, I was 328 00:20:27,680 --> 00:20:29,840 Speaker 1: excited that I was going to make new friends, and 329 00:20:29,960 --> 00:20:32,280 Speaker 1: just everything was kind of different now and it was 330 00:20:32,280 --> 00:20:34,080 Speaker 1: going to be cool. At least I hoped it was 331 00:20:34,080 --> 00:20:38,720 Speaker 1: school it was, so do you appreciate that about yourself? Like, 332 00:20:38,800 --> 00:20:41,119 Speaker 1: can you sometimes get the perspective go, wow, you know 333 00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:43,879 Speaker 1: I did that. I actually did something that was really 334 00:20:43,880 --> 00:20:48,280 Speaker 1: hard and overcame it, yeah, and moved, you know, opened 335 00:20:48,359 --> 00:20:53,480 Speaker 1: up the aperture to experience something that was very different. Yeah, 336 00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:57,560 Speaker 1: I definitely think that. I think opening up to new 337 00:20:57,600 --> 00:21:01,040 Speaker 1: experiences is just it's how how it's how it goes. 338 00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:04,600 Speaker 1: But do you process that yourself? So in terms of going, 339 00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:10,919 Speaker 1: I'm a person who can accommodate change and flexibility, and like, 340 00:21:11,040 --> 00:21:12,520 Speaker 1: I just want to make sure this is going into 341 00:21:12,520 --> 00:21:15,359 Speaker 1: the basic architecture of who you are because it's Having 342 00:21:15,359 --> 00:21:19,640 Speaker 1: watched you navigate all of this, it was pretty mind blenning. Yeah, 343 00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:22,159 Speaker 1: for me to kind of watch you because you just 344 00:21:22,520 --> 00:21:25,240 Speaker 1: you asked if we could go. It wasn't This wasn't 345 00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:29,840 Speaker 1: driven by me or my boyfriend Addison. This was this 346 00:21:29,960 --> 00:21:33,800 Speaker 1: was you saying, can we do this as a family? Yeah, 347 00:21:33,840 --> 00:21:38,200 Speaker 1: I definitely think so, and I think I I sort 348 00:21:38,240 --> 00:21:41,520 Speaker 1: of it was an independent is decision because there are 349 00:21:41,520 --> 00:21:44,200 Speaker 1: still some things that I had to consult with you guys, 350 00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:47,359 Speaker 1: but it was still relatively independent and that felt good. 351 00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:59,760 Speaker 1: I liked it good. Remember that turning one very important lessons. Now, 352 00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:08,600 Speaker 1: last question, Yes, okay, so what would be your last meal? 353 00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:15,040 Speaker 1: So like within the government confines of like or what 354 00:22:16,080 --> 00:22:23,920 Speaker 1: you're immediately putting yourself on death row? What's happening? Oh, 355 00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:26,040 Speaker 1: oh my god, darling, what did you do to get 356 00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:28,800 Speaker 1: on to death rock? I don't know if you asked 357 00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:32,640 Speaker 1: the question. It doesn't. It doesn't. Oh my god, it's 358 00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:34,920 Speaker 1: so awful that that's where you think that that's where 359 00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:37,960 Speaker 1: it would be. I mean, I suppose, I suppose last meal. 360 00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:41,600 Speaker 1: That's what the last meal means. Is there really only 361 00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:44,520 Speaker 1: a certain amount of money abortion for for prisoners on 362 00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:46,720 Speaker 1: death you can only get certain things and it has 363 00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:48,520 Speaker 1: to be within a certain amount of money, and it 364 00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:51,680 Speaker 1: can't be like it can't be. It's like you can't 365 00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:54,320 Speaker 1: get more than a certain amount of items. I think 366 00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:58,760 Speaker 1: it's a whole thing, good gracious, all right, Well, you 367 00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:01,880 Speaker 1: know you can frame this within a prison because it's 368 00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:04,880 Speaker 1: your choice, but it really could be your last meal 369 00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:10,080 Speaker 1: like a hospital. I guess. I actually think it's very 370 00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:14,080 Speaker 1: interesting that you're making this location specific. Let's say it 371 00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:17,720 Speaker 1: was like you knew you were gonna you knew you 372 00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:20,760 Speaker 1: were going to die. Yeah, but you had enough time 373 00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:24,919 Speaker 1: that you could have whatever you want to eat, cooked 374 00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:31,439 Speaker 1: by whomever from wherever before you went. Mm hmm. But 375 00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:33,760 Speaker 1: I sort of want to hear the penitentiary version as well. 376 00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:36,640 Speaker 1: But like, tell me the dream version first. Okay, dream 377 00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:42,760 Speaker 1: version is I would have like a Thanksgiving feast like 378 00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:45,480 Speaker 1: we do on Sundays in England with the whole family 379 00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:48,640 Speaker 1: and didn't have the whole family there because I think 380 00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:52,520 Speaker 1: that's that's like the best. Sometimes the turkeys dry, but 381 00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:59,200 Speaker 1: I don't care. It's still tastes too lazy. What yeah, well, 382 00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:02,440 Speaker 1: just there's the base the turkey a tanney a bit more. 383 00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:07,080 Speaker 1: Next time turkey is notoriously dry. It's a notoriously difficult meat. 384 00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:09,640 Speaker 1: We try to inject it with the juices. You've seen 385 00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:12,600 Speaker 1: me with the syringe. It's a nightmare. I wouldn't cook 386 00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:17,840 Speaker 1: it if it wasn't Thanksgiving. Yeah, still pointers, mom, and 387 00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:21,000 Speaker 1: you should be writing us down. I love Okay, so Thanksgiving, 388 00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:23,760 Speaker 1: So Thanksgiving feast all like what we have on a Sunday, 389 00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:27,920 Speaker 1: which is usually roast chicken. Yeah, so like turkey, roast potatoes. 390 00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:31,080 Speaker 1: Auntie kids once they're amazing. I know yours aren't bad. 391 00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:33,800 Speaker 1: Anti kids are the best. Yes, she does make the 392 00:24:33,800 --> 00:24:40,200 Speaker 1: best one green means sweet potato, marshmallow mash pie. It's 393 00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:42,760 Speaker 1: all delicious. That's just that would be my last meal. 394 00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:48,840 Speaker 1: But what about pudding. Granny is apple crumble? Oh god, 395 00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:53,720 Speaker 1: she did make the best apple crumbell that is chef's kiss. 396 00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:56,920 Speaker 1: You know she used to when we were kids, Henry. 397 00:24:57,000 --> 00:25:00,879 Speaker 1: We'd be driving along and she's suddenly like screeched the 398 00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:02,720 Speaker 1: car over to the side of the road, and she'd 399 00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:05,119 Speaker 1: be like, those apples are just going to fall on 400 00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:07,320 Speaker 1: the ground and as somebody eat them, and we'd be like, 401 00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:10,399 Speaker 1: but are they and somebody else's garden. Yes, yes, but 402 00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:14,600 Speaker 1: they're going to waste and waste not want not. And 403 00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:17,199 Speaker 1: so the next thing we knew, we'd literally she'd be 404 00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:21,760 Speaker 1: hiking me and Kate over somebody's fence into their garden 405 00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:25,800 Speaker 1: where surely they did have thousands of apples that were 406 00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:28,960 Speaker 1: you know, but nonetheless we were scrumping, which is also 407 00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:33,320 Speaker 1: a polite way of saying stealing. And so she'd get 408 00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:37,199 Speaker 1: us to stuff these apples up our jumpers so in 409 00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:40,520 Speaker 1: case anybody came. And I always used to go, if 410 00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:44,119 Speaker 1: somebody comes, they'll know we've got apples stuffed up our jumper. 411 00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:48,280 Speaker 1: I have done that as well, just to say I've 412 00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:52,000 Speaker 1: taken apples from somebody's true, and they tasted amazing, And 413 00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:54,520 Speaker 1: I think I think we've all done that. I'm not. 414 00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:59,360 Speaker 1: I know that it's it is stealing. However, the stolen 415 00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:02,280 Speaker 1: apples that Mom would make apple crumble with always tasted 416 00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:06,960 Speaker 1: the best. I I wish I could have tried them. 417 00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:10,080 Speaker 1: I know, Darling, Well, well, I know I do know 418 00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:12,119 Speaker 1: how to make the apple crumble, and I shall teach you, 419 00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:16,760 Speaker 1: Yes you will, Yes, I will. I just want to 420 00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:20,199 Speaker 1: circle back because I did say dream version of your 421 00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:24,159 Speaker 1: last meal? But what would be your penitentiary mail? So 422 00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:28,439 Speaker 1: you're so penitentiary being like actually sticking to what would 423 00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:31,080 Speaker 1: really be able to happen if it was your last 424 00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:34,520 Speaker 1: male and you were in prison. M hmm. Well, I 425 00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:36,800 Speaker 1: I've heard of a few people that had some weird 426 00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:40,320 Speaker 1: last meals, like a grain of rice and a birthday cake. 427 00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:43,800 Speaker 1: But I'd go I'd go more subtle. I'd go more rustic, 428 00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:48,040 Speaker 1: with a platter of rice and beans and a sand Pellegrino. 429 00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:57,679 Speaker 1: It's not it's not expensive, and it's delicious, and maybe 430 00:26:57,680 --> 00:27:01,280 Speaker 1: some hot sauce because hot sauce makes everything taste better. 431 00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:05,119 Speaker 1: Some rice and beans and some hot sauce and a 432 00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:08,560 Speaker 1: sam pellagreen. Now, but they're like the spiciest hot sauce 433 00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:11,240 Speaker 1: they have, because I'm going out with a burning mouth, 434 00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:16,000 Speaker 1: and that's probably within twenty Yeah, definitely, as long as 435 00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:17,840 Speaker 1: you don't buy one of the bigger packs of Saint 436 00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:22,000 Speaker 1: Pelagreeno is just like one can on the shelf, you know, 437 00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:25,720 Speaker 1: and you're not buying a case of sam Can. Yeah, 438 00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:28,440 Speaker 1: because that's that's like ninth that's like, that's like ten dollars. 439 00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:31,520 Speaker 1: I'm not spending ten dollars on a single pellagrain. No, no, 440 00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:35,080 Speaker 1: why not? It's your last meal, because that's ten dollars 441 00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:39,080 Speaker 1: wasted when I only can spend like fifty. I forgot 442 00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:44,320 Speaker 1: the exact amount. I am not wasting my last meal 443 00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:51,439 Speaker 1: on a flavored sparkling water and on that bumbshell that 444 00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:55,560 Speaker 1: insight into what it is to Tina America. I'm glad 445 00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:58,560 Speaker 1: you're thrifty, darling. Save your pennies for that Campa van 446 00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:00,960 Speaker 1: that you're going to travel around the world. Then, yes, 447 00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:03,920 Speaker 1: it will be a Voxwagen. What are the Barbie ones? 448 00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:13,760 Speaker 1: Thank you, Henry, I don't even worry about it. Henry 449 00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:17,600 Speaker 1: is charting his own path in his life, and as 450 00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:20,439 Speaker 1: such has decided that he wants to go to boarding 451 00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:25,560 Speaker 1: school in the fall. I am having to love him 452 00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:30,399 Speaker 1: with extremely loose hands and let him go and figure 453 00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:35,040 Speaker 1: out this next adventure. I cannot wait to see what 454 00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:39,840 Speaker 1: he does next. Many questions is hosted and written by 455 00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:46,720 Speaker 1: Me Mini Driver, Supervising producer Aaron Kaufman, Producer Morgan Levoy, 456 00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:53,480 Speaker 1: Research assistant Marissa Brown. Original music Sorry Baby by Mini Driver, 457 00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:59,680 Speaker 1: Additional music by Aaron Kaufman. Executive produced by Me Mini Driver. 458 00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:05,440 Speaker 1: Special thanks to Jim Nikolay, Will Pearson, Addison O Day, 459 00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:11,560 Speaker 1: Lisa Castella and Annicke Oppenheim at w kPr, de La Pescadore, 460 00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:17,080 Speaker 1: Kate Driver and Jason Weinberg, and for constantly solicited tech support, 461 00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:18,320 Speaker 1: Henry Driver,