WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classics: Recreate the Scene + Lifetimes of Love 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:02.160 What's up. We're giving you a little extra fun always 0:00:02.200 --> 0:00:04.240 on a Saturday. Hey, it's working Jeffrey in the morning, 0:00:04.280 --> 0:00:07.640 and you found the podcast, uh huh. And today we 0:00:07.680 --> 0:00:11.000 give you two double classics, with the idea being that 0:00:11.080 --> 0:00:13.000 maybe on the weekend you need something a little bit 0:00:13.039 --> 0:00:16.239 longer to get your life finished. Whether it's chores. I 0:00:16.280 --> 0:00:18.520 know a lot of people listen to a lot of 0:00:18.600 --> 0:00:21.079 chores or they're falling asleep. Yeah, we get a lot 0:00:21.079 --> 0:00:23.520 of both of those, yes, yep, or drive in whatever 0:00:23.560 --> 0:00:25.800 it is. And we love reading your comments. 0:00:26.000 --> 0:00:28.320 Oh yes, and this listener also listens to us when 0:00:28.320 --> 0:00:30.520 they do something else. They said, you have a listener 0:00:30.600 --> 0:00:33.479 in Columbia. I'm always listening to you guys when walking 0:00:33.520 --> 0:00:36.520 my dogs, and I look a little funny when laughing 0:00:36.520 --> 0:00:40.360 out loud while crossing the streets in Columbia. 0:00:40.479 --> 0:00:42.720 Do your dogs, jah joh John laugh along with you? 0:00:44.040 --> 0:00:44.159 Right? 0:00:44.680 --> 0:00:46.560 Oh my god, that's one of the most beautiful countries. 0:00:46.600 --> 0:00:49.199 That's awesome. Thank you so much. Ysting wherever you are 0:00:49.640 --> 0:00:53.559 and enjoy the next two classic second date updates. 0:00:55.600 --> 0:00:59.120 The most disappointing thing about a good rom com is 0:00:59.160 --> 0:01:02.560 knowing that relation ships aren't like that. In real life. 0:01:03.720 --> 0:01:05.880 I mean, when I've been walking down the street and 0:01:06.000 --> 0:01:08.959 like a gorgeous woman has only tripped and fallen directly 0:01:09.000 --> 0:01:10.960 into my arms like four or five. 0:01:10.840 --> 0:01:14.000 Times or never, Jeff. 0:01:14.480 --> 0:01:16.720 And then there was that one time I accidentally swapped 0:01:16.720 --> 0:01:19.080 bodies with a thirteen year old in a lightning storm. 0:01:19.920 --> 0:01:21.800 I moved, I became a kid for a week while 0:01:21.800 --> 0:01:22.959 they dated my girlfriend. 0:01:23.200 --> 0:01:25.800 That's kind of weird. Yeah, But other than that, never 0:01:26.160 --> 0:01:29.200 never happened, never never becomes reality now. 0:01:29.280 --> 0:01:32.840 But today one of our listeners decided his goal was 0:01:32.880 --> 0:01:36.760 to bring the magic of rom coms to his dating life, 0:01:37.680 --> 0:01:40.280 and he went all out with it. You're gonna hear 0:01:40.360 --> 0:01:44.200 it in your second Date update right after this Second 0:01:44.280 --> 0:01:49.200 Date updated. Man, we've been hearing from our listeners, especially 0:01:49.200 --> 0:01:52.080 in the last couple of years, that the dating landscape 0:01:52.120 --> 0:01:53.640 is more bleak than ever. 0:01:54.680 --> 0:01:57.040 But like this is the theme song for it, Jeff. 0:01:57.080 --> 0:01:59.680 We know what I do. Appreciate the guys out there 0:01:59.760 --> 0:02:04.720 who aren't backing down and aren't giving up. For sure, 0:02:04.760 --> 0:02:06.880 it's tough for them to land a date, but when 0:02:06.960 --> 0:02:10.000 they do, they get creative with it. I love that, 0:02:11.480 --> 0:02:13.560 like a dumpster diving dinner date. 0:02:14.200 --> 0:02:18.320 We did have that Yeah, that was misguided effort. 0:02:18.080 --> 0:02:23.480 But unique or a blindfolded romantic trust walk across a freeway. 0:02:23.639 --> 0:02:23.959 Okay. 0:02:25.320 --> 0:02:28.640 Nothing brings you together like that type of experience. 0:02:28.680 --> 0:02:31.400 You're very far apart depending on who gets hit, well, 0:02:31.680 --> 0:02:33.560 it'll bring you together in the same hospital room. 0:02:34.560 --> 0:02:37.720 And one of our listeners, Ben said he went creative 0:02:37.840 --> 0:02:40.400 with his date idea and before we even hear it, 0:02:40.440 --> 0:02:45.560 Brook's gonna give her sign of approval just for trying. 0:02:45.840 --> 0:02:48.720 Whenever you ask for my approval before I hear something, 0:02:48.760 --> 0:02:51.360 it's usually because something is not a good idea. 0:02:51.360 --> 0:02:52.560 I don't even know what the date it is. 0:02:52.880 --> 0:02:54.880 You don't, okay, then I think it's good for you. 0:02:54.960 --> 0:02:55.160 Ben. 0:02:55.200 --> 0:02:59.400 I love the Yeah, sorry, I thought I was getting 0:02:59.400 --> 0:03:02.040 tricked by free That happens a lot on the show. 0:03:01.880 --> 0:03:03.240 That you don't trust any Mann. 0:03:03.400 --> 0:03:04.560 No, I just don't trust him. 0:03:06.280 --> 0:03:06.720 It's true. 0:03:06.760 --> 0:03:08.840 We want to hear what was this creative date idea 0:03:08.880 --> 0:03:10.000 that you came up with. 0:03:10.760 --> 0:03:13.120 So in order to understand this date, you kind of 0:03:13.160 --> 0:03:17.760 have to understand, like how we bonded. Okay, So Amanda 0:03:17.800 --> 0:03:20.560 and I we met on an app and we bonded 0:03:20.800 --> 0:03:23.640 over movies, like we both really love movies. 0:03:23.919 --> 0:03:25.360 If you were about to say you took her to 0:03:25.400 --> 0:03:27.800 the movie theater and that's the strange part hang up 0:03:27.800 --> 0:03:28.080 on him. 0:03:31.880 --> 0:03:35.240 But yeah, so I had this idea that our first 0:03:35.320 --> 0:03:37.760 date would be like a movie theme a. 0:03:37.640 --> 0:03:40.640 Movie theme date, not going to the movies, but movie theme. 0:03:40.800 --> 0:03:41.480 What does that mean? 0:03:42.000 --> 0:03:42.400 All right? 0:03:42.440 --> 0:03:44.600 Well, I thought about it. I wanted to have something 0:03:44.920 --> 0:03:47.040 to be memorable, and so I thought, well I could, 0:03:47.360 --> 0:03:49.720 maybe we could. I could pick a movie where we 0:03:50.320 --> 0:03:52.360 had that experience in date for him. 0:03:52.720 --> 0:03:55.360 Okay, okay, so you did Air Force one together and 0:03:55.440 --> 0:03:56.480 hijack the plane. 0:03:57.480 --> 0:03:58.000 That's fine. 0:03:58.080 --> 0:04:00.400 Yeah, well yeah, I was thinking like date movies, but 0:04:00.560 --> 0:04:03.760 I like your ideas too, But what did you go with? 0:04:04.160 --> 0:04:07.120 I decided to do like different movie scenes because I 0:04:07.120 --> 0:04:09.680 couldn't think of a whole movie from start to finish 0:04:09.960 --> 0:04:10.720 make a good date. 0:04:11.120 --> 0:04:12.360 Okay, so what'd you pick? 0:04:12.480 --> 0:04:15.600 The recreating famous date movie scenes. 0:04:15.400 --> 0:04:18.599 Like iconic scenes from movies like for example, the first 0:04:18.640 --> 0:04:21.760 thing we did was we had a Shrek themed picnic. 0:04:24.640 --> 0:04:26.599 Okay, I think that's a cute thing. 0:04:27.680 --> 0:04:30.640 Of course, Brook thinks a swamp date is cute as. 0:04:30.560 --> 0:04:33.520 Long as she figures out the movie associated with it. 0:04:34.800 --> 0:04:35.520 She got it. 0:04:35.600 --> 0:04:38.160 She got it right away. Well, it helped. I was 0:04:38.200 --> 0:04:41.200 talking like Shrek too, you know, it's doing my Shrek voice. 0:04:41.360 --> 0:04:44.039 So what was next? What happened after the Shrek Picnic? 0:04:44.560 --> 0:04:46.440 Then I wanted to do like an activity and it 0:04:46.560 --> 0:04:50.840 was this pottery studio right around the corner from the pond. 0:04:51.440 --> 0:04:53.840 Like Patrick Swayze ghosts what. 0:04:53.760 --> 0:04:58.520 You're saying, that's exactly it. So we had the potter wheel. 0:04:58.320 --> 0:05:00.000 And well, hold on, did you die and come back 0:05:00.120 --> 0:05:02.119 as a ghost first? In order to do this problem? 0:05:03.720 --> 0:05:05.080 No, I kept my shirt on. 0:05:06.360 --> 0:05:10.719 You didn't awkwardly go behind her, did you? 0:05:10.800 --> 0:05:12.800 Maybe I did, but you know it's a weird or 0:05:12.839 --> 0:05:13.359 I think. 0:05:15.080 --> 0:05:15.960 Oh my gosh. 0:05:16.040 --> 0:05:17.240 What was her response? 0:05:18.120 --> 0:05:18.200 So? 0:05:18.360 --> 0:05:20.760 I think she said, are you really doing this? 0:05:22.720 --> 0:05:22.960 Said? 0:05:23.040 --> 0:05:25.039 Yeah, I mean all right. 0:05:25.040 --> 0:05:27.200 Are you really doing this? As in like, wow, this 0:05:27.320 --> 0:05:30.559 is impressive? Are you seriously going through this much effort? 0:05:30.720 --> 0:05:33.080 Tone is going to be really important on that sentence, 0:05:33.200 --> 0:05:35.200 and unfortunately we cannot rect. 0:05:35.839 --> 0:05:38.360 I'm going to assume that she loved it, so I 0:05:39.200 --> 0:05:39.800 thought she was. 0:05:39.960 --> 0:05:41.719 I thought she was into it. She even said that 0:05:41.760 --> 0:05:43.279 Ghost was one of her favorite movies. 0:05:44.080 --> 0:05:47.279 So she told so she said, to. 0:05:49.160 --> 0:05:51.360 Take us to the third and final love scene. What 0:05:51.440 --> 0:05:52.520 was the movie? You went with there. 0:05:53.200 --> 0:05:55.440 So at the end, I had a couple of options. 0:05:55.640 --> 0:05:56.839 Okay, let her choose. 0:05:56.880 --> 0:05:59.640 So I told her, like, we could do the dirty 0:05:59.720 --> 0:06:04.360 dance thing lift. 0:06:04.400 --> 0:06:06.280 Are you even physically capable of that? 0:06:07.320 --> 0:06:08.240 I think I could take her? 0:06:08.279 --> 0:06:13.839 I think, did you really leaning into these? Patrick Swayze? Yeah? 0:06:13.920 --> 0:06:14.160 Yeah? 0:06:14.440 --> 0:06:15.320 What was the other option? 0:06:15.960 --> 0:06:16.279 You know what? 0:06:16.600 --> 0:06:19.720 What I thought would be really really cool special moment 0:06:19.880 --> 0:06:24.440 is the upside down kiss from Spider Man. Oh wow, 0:06:25.279 --> 0:06:27.560 I thought that would be the perfect way to end 0:06:27.600 --> 0:06:31.440 off the scene. 0:06:31.760 --> 0:06:32.760 How would you do that? 0:06:32.920 --> 0:06:34.080 Hould her upside down? 0:06:34.480 --> 0:06:37.800 There was a tree out there with a branch there. 0:06:37.800 --> 0:06:41.000 It is did you really hang upside down from a tree? 0:06:41.160 --> 0:06:42.239 Which one did she choose? 0:06:42.600 --> 0:06:44.560 Actually, she didn't choose either one of those? 0:06:45.600 --> 0:06:46.760 Probably for the best. 0:06:46.880 --> 0:06:50.159 What she recommended that we do the handshake scene from 0:06:50.240 --> 0:06:53.120 Wolf of Wall Street. 0:06:51.560 --> 0:06:54.560 Oh I don't know, I remember. 0:06:56.640 --> 0:06:56.839 Yeah. 0:06:57.000 --> 0:07:00.279 In other words, she just gave me a handshake, very 0:07:00.400 --> 0:07:01.280 firm handshake. 0:07:01.400 --> 0:07:03.520 All right, So is that how you guys left it? 0:07:03.560 --> 0:07:05.040 With a firm handshake? 0:07:05.680 --> 0:07:07.719 Yeah? Yeah, that was it. And she thanked me for 0:07:07.800 --> 0:07:10.800 the dates. That was really cool and thoughtful, And and 0:07:10.840 --> 0:07:12.400 I told her I'd like to see her again, and 0:07:12.480 --> 0:07:14.560 she said, yeah, let's see if we can make that happen. 0:07:16.280 --> 0:07:18.200 We just went over a list of things that people 0:07:18.200 --> 0:07:20.080 say that they don't really mean, and that was one 0:07:20.080 --> 0:07:21.600 of the top ones. 0:07:22.560 --> 0:07:27.040 Somebody, we'll totally get together. Yeah, sure, have you contacted her? 0:07:27.800 --> 0:07:30.400 I texted her and I messaged her in the app, 0:07:30.800 --> 0:07:32.880 and I haven't heard from well, I haven't heard back 0:07:32.880 --> 0:07:35.920 from her, And so that's why I was hoping that 0:07:35.920 --> 0:07:38.120 you guys can help me hook up that Spider Man kiss. 0:07:38.320 --> 0:07:38.520 Yeah. 0:07:38.560 --> 0:07:40.520 I mean you put in a lot of effort. Whether 0:07:40.600 --> 0:07:42.640 or not we agree that they were great ideas or not, 0:07:42.880 --> 0:07:45.400 just the effort alone is worth another shot. 0:07:45.560 --> 0:07:48.240 You're even this. He's on a radio show to get 0:07:48.280 --> 0:07:48.760 her back. 0:07:50.520 --> 0:07:54.120 It should be Oh, is that sleepless sleepless in Seattle? 0:07:54.160 --> 0:07:56.400 She calls into a radio show. She does, We're going 0:07:56.440 --> 0:07:58.440 to go full sleepless on this girl when we do 0:07:58.520 --> 0:08:00.000 your second date up dates. 0:08:00.240 --> 0:08:01.120 I do kind of remember that. 0:08:01.240 --> 0:08:02.960 Now we're gonna hook you up on top of the 0:08:03.000 --> 0:08:04.640 Empire State Building when we do. 0:08:05.000 --> 0:08:09.600 At least the end is definitely Empire State Building a 0:08:09.680 --> 0:08:12.400 new movie. I mean, you haven't seen it. 0:08:12.480 --> 0:08:14.800 No, Alexis, leave the room. We're gonna do a second 0:08:14.840 --> 0:08:21.600 date update right after this second date update. Three romantic 0:08:21.720 --> 0:08:26.840 movie scenes recreated in one very steamy. 0:08:26.400 --> 0:08:31.680 Date because the pond next to them love. 0:08:31.680 --> 0:08:33.040 Them moisture coming up from that. 0:08:33.280 --> 0:08:33.520 Yeah. 0:08:34.200 --> 0:08:37.160 Our listener Bend bonded with a woman named Amanda over 0:08:37.200 --> 0:08:40.640 their shared love of cinema, so he thought it'd be 0:08:40.640 --> 0:08:44.280 fun to recreate the swamp picnic from the Shrek movie. 0:08:44.360 --> 0:08:46.000 It's actually really cute. 0:08:45.920 --> 0:08:49.880 The pottery scene from Ghost, and after she rejected the 0:08:50.000 --> 0:08:54.360 upside down Spider Man kiss, they settled on a regular handshake. 0:08:54.640 --> 0:08:57.240 Okay, very business like Wolf of Wall Street. 0:08:57.400 --> 0:09:01.200 That's right hot. Now did something been in the middle 0:09:01.240 --> 0:09:05.199 of all that stuff? Because those movie scenes sounded really great? 0:09:05.520 --> 0:09:07.160 But Ben, I need to ask you. When you were 0:09:07.200 --> 0:09:12.640 reaching around her at the pottery place, you were feeling normal? Right? 0:09:12.960 --> 0:09:13.600 Oh god? 0:09:13.760 --> 0:09:16.640 Jeff oh yeah, yeah, what you mean? 0:09:16.920 --> 0:09:17.120 Brook? 0:09:17.160 --> 0:09:21.200 You know how these go? I mean we had asked 0:09:21.200 --> 0:09:25.440 that question, but you understand the physical reaction that pottery 0:09:25.559 --> 0:09:30.040 has on a man. When you stick your hands into 0:09:30.080 --> 0:09:32.360 that clay. You can't control what your body does. 0:09:33.640 --> 0:09:36.400 It does for me, what happened in your art class 0:09:36.400 --> 0:09:38.120 in high school? Jeffrey, I don't want to know. 0:09:38.320 --> 0:09:40.079 Well, I'll ask my art teacher to send you the 0:09:40.160 --> 0:09:45.040 video if you're really that interesting the videos. Yes, Ben, 0:09:45.200 --> 0:09:47.359 it was all kosher in the pottery place. 0:09:47.600 --> 0:09:48.679 It was just pottery. 0:09:48.840 --> 0:10:00.199 Okay, that's the best answer. Pottery is really hard. Yeah, 0:10:00.640 --> 0:10:02.800 like I've taken a pottery class before. 0:10:03.000 --> 0:10:04.680 I think a lot of us are feeling hot right now? 0:10:06.600 --> 0:10:07.800 Do you not say anything? 0:10:07.880 --> 0:10:08.240 That's right? 0:10:08.280 --> 0:10:10.920 Let's get more people in on this action. Were dialing 0:10:11.000 --> 0:10:23.360 Amanda right now here we go. Hello, Hey, we're looking 0:10:23.360 --> 0:10:27.400 to speak with Amanda. Is she Hey Amanda, my name 0:10:27.440 --> 0:10:29.400 is jeff You're on the radio right now with a 0:10:29.440 --> 0:10:31.040 show called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:10:31.160 --> 0:10:33.640 Hey Amanda, Oh, Amanda, good morning. 0:10:33.760 --> 0:10:34.320 Don't hang up. 0:10:35.160 --> 0:10:35.360 Hi. 0:10:36.440 --> 0:10:38.520 Hi, you're pretty chill. She's cool. 0:10:41.320 --> 0:10:41.880 What's up. 0:10:42.679 --> 0:10:46.200 We're doing a segment called a second Date Update, which 0:10:46.320 --> 0:10:48.280 is where we try and help out our listeners after 0:10:48.360 --> 0:10:50.720 they've gone out with somebody and they'd like to see 0:10:50.720 --> 0:10:53.120 them again, try and figure out if there's a reason 0:10:53.240 --> 0:10:55.320 why the second meetup hasn't happened yet. 0:10:56.240 --> 0:10:58.280 Okay, okay. 0:10:58.320 --> 0:11:01.080 And so the guy that reached out to us about you, 0:11:01.520 --> 0:11:06.960 his name is Ben. Okay, yeah, does that make sense? 0:11:07.720 --> 0:11:08.640 That does make sense? 0:11:08.880 --> 0:11:09.200 Okay? 0:11:09.240 --> 0:11:09.560 Okay? 0:11:09.640 --> 0:11:09.920 Cool. 0:11:10.600 --> 0:11:14.760 So basically, we have heard from Ben about your guys, 0:11:14.840 --> 0:11:16.880 is recreate a movie date. 0:11:18.200 --> 0:11:20.120 He put a lot of thought and energy into it 0:11:20.120 --> 0:11:21.679 because he was really excited about you. 0:11:22.480 --> 0:11:26.240 Yeah, so I don't know how many details he gave you. 0:11:27.480 --> 0:11:27.960 A lot. 0:11:28.120 --> 0:11:31.640 We heard Shrek Ghost and then you guys settled on 0:11:31.720 --> 0:11:33.120 a Wolf of Wall Street thing. 0:11:33.760 --> 0:11:36.240 Oh yeah, and shake at the end. 0:11:35.760 --> 0:11:40.719 Okay, which was your right let me yes ghast pottery, 0:11:40.880 --> 0:11:43.920 which was very like creative and cute, and I did 0:11:44.000 --> 0:11:44.240 like that. 0:11:45.280 --> 0:11:47.080 Yeah, but he. 0:11:46.920 --> 0:11:48.559 Had told me that the last thing was going to 0:11:48.600 --> 0:11:50.600 be a surprise. He wasn't going to like tell me 0:11:50.679 --> 0:11:54.880 until the end. And he kept bringing up during the 0:11:54.960 --> 0:11:58.400 other dates, like you know, we could stop this right 0:11:58.440 --> 0:11:59.720 now and just do pretty woman. 0:12:00.320 --> 0:12:05.439 Pretty woman, Oh where he pays you for your services? 0:12:06.640 --> 0:12:11.319 Yeah, where he's a businessman and she's a hooker. 0:12:13.480 --> 0:12:16.319 You know, he wanted to be the person who took 0:12:16.360 --> 0:12:17.920 you shopping. That's probably what he. 0:12:17.920 --> 0:12:21.840 Meant, a hook Yeah, she's very respectable in that movie. 0:12:22.760 --> 0:12:25.320 But he wanted to kiss. They don't kiss a pretty woman. 0:12:25.520 --> 0:12:28.440 Even if even if he did mean I want to 0:12:28.480 --> 0:12:31.480 take you shopping, that's a strange thing for a first date, 0:12:31.559 --> 0:12:33.560 and like it was already pretty elaborate, you guys. It 0:12:33.600 --> 0:12:36.599 was the first date, Like, I just met this guy. 0:12:36.679 --> 0:12:38.920 So wait, you're upset that he brought up pretty Woman 0:12:39.040 --> 0:12:41.600 because that made you feel used? Is that what it is? 0:12:42.480 --> 0:12:47.080 It just was a little oogie Okay, his intentions didn't 0:12:47.080 --> 0:12:48.400 feel great. 0:12:48.640 --> 0:12:51.640 But ogre swamp picnic felt right to you. 0:12:52.400 --> 0:12:56.080 It was multiple references to that, you guys. 0:12:56.600 --> 0:12:59.480 Yeah, I see what you're feeling. Young people call it 0:12:59.600 --> 0:13:05.280 the from Okay, I think. 0:13:06.840 --> 0:13:07.839 Very similar. 0:13:09.559 --> 0:13:09.920 Before that. 0:13:12.120 --> 0:13:13.920 When I don't want to like bring up any more 0:13:14.000 --> 0:13:16.240 icky ug feelings, but I do need to tell you 0:13:16.320 --> 0:13:18.520 that Ben is on the other line right now listening 0:13:18.520 --> 0:13:25.240 to this conversation, and he does want to talk to you. 0:13:25.440 --> 0:13:28.640 Beny there, I am here, and let me tell you 0:13:28.760 --> 0:13:33.320 I feel exactly like the guys from Dude, where's my car? 0:13:33.440 --> 0:13:33.880 Right now? 0:13:34.040 --> 0:13:35.680 What does that mean? You're hungover? 0:13:36.880 --> 0:13:38.640 On your back, you're high? 0:13:39.040 --> 0:13:42.360 Like, what do you mean that? 0:13:43.040 --> 0:13:47.560 Like, I'm just totally confused, you know. 0:13:47.360 --> 0:13:52.320 Confused or something that you know liked confused in the title. 0:13:53.040 --> 0:13:54.239 Why are you so confused? 0:13:54.960 --> 0:13:57.360 Well, I just had no idea, Like so when I 0:13:57.480 --> 0:14:00.840 suggested pretty Woman, I mean I was thinking about like 0:14:00.920 --> 0:14:03.559 the romance element you know, like the fact that these 0:14:03.600 --> 0:14:06.040 two people like really hit it off and fell in love. 0:14:06.160 --> 0:14:08.360 I forgot she was a prostitute. That's not why I 0:14:08.400 --> 0:14:09.160 was bringing that up. 0:14:09.520 --> 0:14:11.920 Yeah, that's the whole plot of the movie. 0:14:12.040 --> 0:14:13.640 You could have chosen something better. 0:14:14.360 --> 0:14:16.840 Well, it definitely was not my intention. I was not 0:14:17.080 --> 0:14:21.400 trying to imply that you were a prostitute in any way. 0:14:23.000 --> 0:14:30.960 You have to say that after it's always a good things, 0:14:31.040 --> 0:14:32.320 not try to imply that. 0:14:32.640 --> 0:14:34.720 Okay, I totally get it. 0:14:35.240 --> 0:14:37.560 Are you hearing him, Amanda? Do you see where he's 0:14:37.600 --> 0:14:38.400 coming from. 0:14:39.160 --> 0:14:41.680 I don't know how you forget that part? 0:14:43.000 --> 0:14:44.360 Yeah, escort thing. 0:14:44.840 --> 0:14:48.480 Yeah, that's kind of the key. 0:14:49.720 --> 0:14:52.080 So wait, are you not believing him, Amanda? Is that 0:14:52.160 --> 0:14:52.800 the issue? 0:14:53.520 --> 0:14:53.840 Yeah? 0:14:54.080 --> 0:14:54.720 I guess not. 0:14:56.360 --> 0:14:57.960 Well, you got to look on the bright side, Amand 0:14:57.960 --> 0:15:00.800 at least he didn't bring up Silence of the Lambs. Yeah, 0:15:01.160 --> 0:15:03.000 thank you and turn you into. 0:15:02.800 --> 0:15:06.560 There was no less nor skin like, there were no 0:15:06.600 --> 0:15:07.800 buckets involved in the date. 0:15:07.880 --> 0:15:08.440 I appreciate. 0:15:08.560 --> 0:15:12.000 Okay, see now we're thinking, we're thinking positive here. 0:15:12.640 --> 0:15:15.040 I also kind of meant it as a compliment because 0:15:15.120 --> 0:15:16.960 I think you are a pretty woman. 0:15:17.120 --> 0:15:20.200 That's what Alexis just said. You can hear what she's 0:15:20.240 --> 0:15:20.840 saying too. 0:15:21.040 --> 0:15:23.200 So this is a little bit awkward. 0:15:22.840 --> 0:15:25.479 Right now, A little yeah. 0:15:25.520 --> 0:15:27.880 But the way that we can make this all better 0:15:28.240 --> 0:15:31.480 is if Amanda, you're willing to give Ben one more 0:15:31.640 --> 0:15:34.640 chance at another date. You could pick any other movie 0:15:34.680 --> 0:15:37.000 scene that you want to do, or just a non movie. 0:15:37.200 --> 0:15:39.080 You could do a do over and do fifty first 0:15:39.160 --> 0:15:41.000 dates you know where he forgets every. 0:15:40.840 --> 0:15:48.120 Time, So we're fifty shades of first date, you know. 0:15:49.200 --> 0:15:51.520 So if you guys are going to send us to Hawaii, 0:15:51.640 --> 0:15:52.160 then I'm in. 0:15:52.200 --> 0:15:54.160 But I have the money. 0:15:54.440 --> 0:15:57.400 Yeah, well we'll pay for the taxi to the airport, 0:15:57.440 --> 0:16:01.000 then you handle the rest. So Ben, do you have 0:16:01.360 --> 0:16:04.680 another date idea? If she says yes, well. 0:16:04.600 --> 0:16:05.840 Does it have to be movies? 0:16:06.240 --> 0:16:06.440 Yes? 0:16:06.560 --> 0:16:08.120 Yes, Well, I mean that's how they bonded. 0:16:08.440 --> 0:16:09.560 Movies are kind of our thing. 0:16:09.600 --> 0:16:09.960 I don't know. 0:16:10.000 --> 0:16:16.440 I mean, i'd really like to do like a basic instinct. 0:16:18.160 --> 0:16:20.800 That's like a scary stalker, isn't it. 0:16:20.960 --> 0:16:23.440 He meant it as like she's pretty. 0:16:23.360 --> 0:16:25.280 She's beautiful, beautiful. 0:16:26.400 --> 0:16:27.040 I'm pretty sure. 0:16:32.320 --> 0:16:34.760 Ben, I'm gonna ask you again, maybe try something different, 0:16:34.800 --> 0:16:36.400 maybe a little bit more romantic this time. 0:16:37.840 --> 0:16:40.880 You started with Shrek Dude, some. 0:16:41.040 --> 0:16:43.400 Cute what movie do you have in mind for that 0:16:43.480 --> 0:16:44.280 second date, Bud. 0:16:44.960 --> 0:16:48.040 I'll be honest, I keep thinking about this and how 0:16:48.080 --> 0:16:49.600 but I don't know how we could turn it into 0:16:49.640 --> 0:16:56.760 a date. But my favorite movie is Pulp Fiction. It's 0:16:56.800 --> 0:16:58.320 a dance scene, the swing. 0:16:58.240 --> 0:17:00.400 Dance scene, all right, you know, Ben, I think just 0:17:00.560 --> 0:17:02.800 a Harry Potter dy like, what are you guys doing? 0:17:02.920 --> 0:17:03.080 Ben? 0:17:03.120 --> 0:17:05.440 I think your heart is in the right place, for sure, 0:17:05.640 --> 0:17:06.520 but your mind is. 0:17:07.480 --> 0:17:09.639 I mean, I just like a lot of movies. 0:17:09.720 --> 0:17:12.360 I just like your mind is scaring her though, Ben? 0:17:12.840 --> 0:17:14.400 So is she even on the phone. 0:17:14.440 --> 0:17:15.960 I don't know, Amanda. Are you still there? 0:17:16.840 --> 0:17:20.080 Yeah? I'm not sure why. 0:17:20.160 --> 0:17:23.399 Well, Amanda, I'm sorry for all of this, but best 0:17:23.400 --> 0:17:26.480 of luck in the dating pool. Ben, you got a 0:17:26.480 --> 0:17:29.400 lot of work to do. Yeah, Man, I go away 0:17:29.440 --> 0:17:29.920 from movies. 0:17:30.000 --> 0:17:33.720 Maybe stick with coms, dude, Yeah. 0:17:35.040 --> 0:17:38.680 Yeah, I can try that. I guess. I am really 0:17:38.800 --> 0:17:41.320 super disappointed, though. I did put a lot of work 0:17:41.359 --> 0:17:44.040 into that, and that's that's I don't know if she remembers, 0:17:44.119 --> 0:17:47.560 but my outfit at the picnic was very reminiscent of Shrek, 0:17:47.640 --> 0:17:50.160 and I just, you know, I feel like I should 0:17:50.160 --> 0:17:50.639 give credit. 0:17:50.680 --> 0:17:50.840 Ben. 0:17:50.880 --> 0:17:52.959 The good news is a lot of single women are 0:17:53.040 --> 0:17:54.120 hearing this right. 0:17:53.960 --> 0:17:55.879 Now, And. 0:17:58.160 --> 0:18:03.080 Yeah, Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:18:03.960 --> 0:18:06.480 You know what, that could have been a really sweet 0:18:06.520 --> 0:18:12.080 second date, so close to rom com perfection, but he 0:18:12.200 --> 0:18:13.080 ended up being weird. 0:18:13.440 --> 0:18:17.120 Yeah, yeah, I mean it wasn't subtle like I see 0:18:17.160 --> 0:18:18.720 a slipping in movies. 0:18:18.359 --> 0:18:21.560 There, But I mean, and she tried, she tried to 0:18:21.720 --> 0:18:23.560 like it, she tried to get on with it, and 0:18:23.600 --> 0:18:25.520 then she's like, no, my gut is telling me that 0:18:25.600 --> 0:18:27.200 something's something's off. 0:18:28.880 --> 0:18:30.840 You know what. I do believe there is a woman 0:18:31.200 --> 0:18:34.280 out there somewhere right now thinking when is a guy 0:18:34.359 --> 0:18:39.359 finally gonna treat me like a high priced I deserve that. 0:18:39.359 --> 0:18:40.200 That's my dream. 0:18:40.440 --> 0:18:44.480 Yeah, I'm trying to relate a little more. 0:18:47.240 --> 0:18:49.399 I'm telling you somebody out there for everybody, and we 0:18:49.440 --> 0:18:51.960