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Speaker 5: The most disappointing thing about a good rom com is
Speaker 5: knowing that relation ships aren't like that. In real life.
Speaker 5: I mean, when I've been walking down the street and
Speaker 5: like a gorgeous woman has only tripped and fallen directly
Speaker 5: into my arms like four or five.
Speaker 1: Times or never, Jeff.
Speaker 5: And then there was that one time I accidentally swapped
Speaker 5: bodies with a thirteen year old in a lightning storm.
Speaker 5: I moved, I became a kid for a week while
Speaker 5: they dated my girlfriend.
Speaker 1: That's kind of weird. Yeah, But other than that, never
Speaker 1: never happened, never never becomes reality now.
Speaker 5: But today one of our listeners decided his goal was
Speaker 5: to bring the magic of rom coms to his dating life,
Speaker 5: and he went all out with it. You're gonna hear
Speaker 5: it in your second Date update right after this Second
Speaker 5: Date updated. Man, we've been hearing from our listeners, especially
Speaker 5: in the last couple of years, that the dating landscape
Speaker 5: is more bleak than ever.
Speaker 1: But like this is the theme song for it, Jeff.
Speaker 5: We know what I do. Appreciate the guys out there
Speaker 5: who aren't backing down and aren't giving up. For sure,
Speaker 5: it's tough for them to land a date, but when
Speaker 5: they do, they get creative with it. I love that,
Speaker 5: like a dumpster diving dinner date.
Speaker 1: We did have that Yeah, that was misguided effort.
Speaker 5: But unique or a blindfolded romantic trust walk across a freeway.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 5: Nothing brings you together like that type of experience.
Speaker 1: You're very far apart depending on who gets hit, well,
Speaker 1: it'll bring you together in the same hospital room.
Speaker 5: And one of our listeners, Ben said he went creative
Speaker 5: with his date idea and before we even hear it,
Speaker 5: Brook's gonna give her sign of approval just for trying.
Speaker 1: Whenever you ask for my approval before I hear something,
Speaker 1: it's usually because something is not a good idea.
Speaker 5: I don't even know what the date it is.
Speaker 1: You don't, okay, then I think it's good for you.
Speaker 6: Ben.
Speaker 1: I love the Yeah, sorry, I thought I was getting
Speaker 1: tricked by free That happens a lot on the show.
Speaker 3: That you don't trust any Mann.
Speaker 1: No, I just don't trust him.
Speaker 6: It's true.
Speaker 5: We want to hear what was this creative date idea
Speaker 5: that you came up with.
Speaker 6: So in order to understand this date, you kind of
Speaker 6: have to understand, like how we bonded. Okay, So Amanda
Speaker 6: and I we met on an app and we bonded
Speaker 6: over movies, like we both really love movies.
Speaker 1: If you were about to say you took her to
Speaker 1: the movie theater and that's the strange part hang up
Speaker 1: on him.
Speaker 6: But yeah, so I had this idea that our first
Speaker 6: date would be like a movie theme a.
Speaker 1: Movie theme date, not going to the movies, but movie theme.
Speaker 5: What does that mean?
Speaker 7: All right?
Speaker 6: Well, I thought about it. I wanted to have something
Speaker 6: to be memorable, and so I thought, well I could,
Speaker 6: maybe we could. I could pick a movie where we
Speaker 6: had that experience in date for him.
Speaker 5: Okay, okay, so you did Air Force one together and
Speaker 5: hijack the plane.
Speaker 1: That's fine.
Speaker 6: Yeah, well yeah, I was thinking like date movies, but
Speaker 6: I like your ideas too, But what did you go with?
Speaker 6: I decided to do like different movie scenes because I
Speaker 6: couldn't think of a whole movie from start to finish
Speaker 6: make a good date.
Speaker 1: Okay, so what'd you pick?
Speaker 5: The recreating famous date movie scenes.
Speaker 6: Like iconic scenes from movies like for example, the first
Speaker 6: thing we did was we had a Shrek themed picnic.
Speaker 1: Okay, I think that's a cute thing.
Speaker 5: Of course, Brook thinks a swamp date is cute as.
Speaker 2: Long as she figures out the movie associated with it.
Speaker 5: She got it.
Speaker 6: She got it right away. Well, it helped. I was
Speaker 6: talking like Shrek too, you know, it's doing my Shrek voice.
Speaker 1: So what was next? What happened after the Shrek Picnic?
Speaker 6: Then I wanted to do like an activity and it
Speaker 6: was this pottery studio right around the corner from the pond.
Speaker 1: Like Patrick Swayze ghosts what.
Speaker 6: You're saying, that's exactly it. So we had the potter wheel.
Speaker 5: And well, hold on, did you die and come back
Speaker 5: as a ghost first? In order to do this problem?
Speaker 6: No, I kept my shirt on.
Speaker 1: You didn't awkwardly go behind her, did you?
Speaker 6: Maybe I did, but you know it's a weird or
Speaker 6: I think.
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1: What was her response?
Speaker 7: So?
Speaker 6: I think she said, are you really doing this?
Speaker 7: Said?
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean all right.
Speaker 5: Are you really doing this? As in like, wow, this
Speaker 5: is impressive? Are you seriously going through this much effort?
Speaker 1: Tone is going to be really important on that sentence,
Speaker 1: and unfortunately we cannot rect.
Speaker 5: I'm going to assume that she loved it, so I
Speaker 5: thought she was.
Speaker 6: I thought she was into it. She even said that
Speaker 6: Ghost was one of her favorite movies.
Speaker 1: So she told so she said, to.
Speaker 5: Take us to the third and final love scene. What
Speaker 5: was the movie? You went with there.
Speaker 6: So at the end, I had a couple of options.
Speaker 5: Okay, let her choose.
Speaker 6: So I told her, like, we could do the dirty
Speaker 6: dance thing lift.
Speaker 5: Are you even physically capable of that?
Speaker 6: I think I could take her?
Speaker 1: I think, did you really leaning into these? Patrick Swayze? Yeah?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 5: What was the other option?
Speaker 1: You know what?
Speaker 6: What I thought would be really really cool special moment
Speaker 6: is the upside down kiss from Spider Man. Oh wow,
Speaker 6: I thought that would be the perfect way to end
Speaker 6: off the scene.
Speaker 1: How would you do that?
Speaker 5: Hould her upside down?
Speaker 6: There was a tree out there with a branch there.
Speaker 1: It is did you really hang upside down from a tree?
Speaker 5: Which one did she choose?
Speaker 6: Actually, she didn't choose either one of those?
Speaker 1: Probably for the best.
Speaker 6: What she recommended that we do the handshake scene from
Speaker 6: Wolf of Wall Street.
Speaker 5: Oh I don't know, I remember.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 6: In other words, she just gave me a handshake, very
Speaker 6: firm handshake.
Speaker 5: All right, So is that how you guys left it?
Speaker 5: With a firm handshake?
Speaker 6: Yeah? Yeah, that was it. And she thanked me for
Speaker 6: the dates. That was really cool and thoughtful, And and
Speaker 6: I told her I'd like to see her again, and
Speaker 6: she said, yeah, let's see if we can make that happen.
Speaker 5: We just went over a list of things that people
Speaker 5: say that they don't really mean, and that was one
Speaker 5: of the top ones.
Speaker 1: Somebody, we'll totally get together. Yeah, sure, have you contacted her?
Speaker 6: I texted her and I messaged her in the app,
Speaker 6: and I haven't heard from well, I haven't heard back
Speaker 6: from her, And so that's why I was hoping that
Speaker 6: you guys can help me hook up that Spider Man kiss.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 5: I mean you put in a lot of effort. Whether
Speaker 5: or not we agree that they were great ideas or not,
Speaker 5: just the effort alone is worth another shot.
Speaker 3: You're even this. He's on a radio show to get
Speaker 3: her back.
Speaker 5: It should be Oh, is that sleepless sleepless in Seattle?
Speaker 5: She calls into a radio show. She does, We're going
Speaker 5: to go full sleepless on this girl when we do
Speaker 5: your second date up dates.
Speaker 1: I do kind of remember that.
Speaker 5: Now we're gonna hook you up on top of the
Speaker 5: Empire State Building when we do.
Speaker 1: At least the end is definitely Empire State Building a
Speaker 1: new movie. I mean, you haven't seen it.
Speaker 5: No, Alexis, leave the room. We're gonna do a second
Speaker 5: date update right after this second date update. Three romantic
Speaker 5: movie scenes recreated in one very steamy.
Speaker 1: Date because the pond next to them love.
Speaker 5: Them moisture coming up from that.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Our listener Bend bonded with a woman named Amanda over
Speaker 5: their shared love of cinema, so he thought it'd be
Speaker 5: fun to recreate the swamp picnic from the Shrek movie.
Speaker 1: It's actually really cute.
Speaker 5: The pottery scene from Ghost, and after she rejected the
Speaker 5: upside down Spider Man kiss, they settled on a regular handshake.
Speaker 1: Okay, very business like Wolf of Wall Street.
Speaker 5: That's right hot. Now did something been in the middle
Speaker 5: of all that stuff? Because those movie scenes sounded really great?
Speaker 5: But Ben, I need to ask you. When you were
Speaker 5: reaching around her at the pottery place, you were feeling normal? Right?
Speaker 1: Oh god?
Speaker 6: Jeff oh yeah, yeah, what you mean?
Speaker 1: Brook?
Speaker 5: You know how these go? I mean we had asked
Speaker 5: that question, but you understand the physical reaction that pottery
Speaker 5: has on a man. When you stick your hands into
Speaker 5: that clay. You can't control what your body does.
Speaker 1: It does for me, what happened in your art class
Speaker 1: in high school? Jeffrey, I don't want to know.
Speaker 5: Well, I'll ask my art teacher to send you the
Speaker 5: video if you're really that interesting the videos. Yes, Ben,
Speaker 5: it was all kosher in the pottery place.
Speaker 6: It was just pottery.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's the best answer. Pottery is really hard. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like I've taken a pottery class before.
Speaker 5: I think a lot of us are feeling hot right now?
Speaker 1: Do you not say anything?
Speaker 7: That's right?
Speaker 5: Let's get more people in on this action. Were dialing
Speaker 5: Amanda right now here we go. Hello, Hey, we're looking
Speaker 5: to speak with Amanda. Is she Hey Amanda, my name
Speaker 5: is jeff You're on the radio right now with a
Speaker 5: show called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: Hey Amanda, Oh, Amanda, good morning.
Speaker 5: Don't hang up.
Speaker 7: Hi.
Speaker 1: Hi, you're pretty chill. She's cool.
Speaker 7: What's up.
Speaker 5: We're doing a segment called a second Date Update, which
Speaker 5: is where we try and help out our listeners after
Speaker 5: they've gone out with somebody and they'd like to see
Speaker 5: them again, try and figure out if there's a reason
Speaker 5: why the second meetup hasn't happened yet.
Speaker 7: Okay, okay.
Speaker 5: And so the guy that reached out to us about you,
Speaker 5: his name is Ben. Okay, yeah, does that make sense?
Speaker 7: That does make sense?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 5: Okay?
Speaker 1: Cool.
Speaker 5: So basically, we have heard from Ben about your guys,
Speaker 5: is recreate a movie date.
Speaker 1: He put a lot of thought and energy into it
Speaker 1: because he was really excited about you.
Speaker 8: Yeah, so I don't know how many details he gave you.
Speaker 7: A lot.
Speaker 5: We heard Shrek Ghost and then you guys settled on
Speaker 5: a Wolf of Wall Street thing.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and shake at the end.
Speaker 9: Okay, which was your right let me yes ghast pottery,
Speaker 9: which was very like creative and cute, and I did
Speaker 9: like that.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but he.
Speaker 8: Had told me that the last thing was going to
Speaker 8: be a surprise. He wasn't going to like tell me
Speaker 8: until the end. And he kept bringing up during the
Speaker 8: other dates, like you know, we could stop this right
Speaker 8: now and just do pretty woman.
Speaker 1: Pretty woman, Oh where he pays you for your services?
Speaker 9: Yeah, where he's a businessman and she's a hooker.
Speaker 1: You know, he wanted to be the person who took
Speaker 1: you shopping. That's probably what he.
Speaker 5: Meant, a hook Yeah, she's very respectable in that movie.
Speaker 1: But he wanted to kiss. They don't kiss a pretty woman.
Speaker 9: Even if even if he did mean I want to
Speaker 9: take you shopping, that's a strange thing for a first date,
Speaker 9: and like it was already pretty elaborate, you guys. It
Speaker 9: was the first date, Like, I just met this guy.
Speaker 1: So wait, you're upset that he brought up pretty Woman
Speaker 1: because that made you feel used? Is that what it is?
Speaker 8: It just was a little oogie Okay, his intentions didn't
Speaker 8: feel great.
Speaker 5: But ogre swamp picnic felt right to you.
Speaker 9: It was multiple references to that, you guys.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I see what you're feeling. Young people call it
Speaker 5: the from Okay, I think.
Speaker 1: Very similar.
Speaker 7: Before that.
Speaker 5: When I don't want to like bring up any more
Speaker 5: icky ug feelings, but I do need to tell you
Speaker 5: that Ben is on the other line right now listening
Speaker 5: to this conversation, and he does want to talk to you.
Speaker 6: Beny there, I am here, and let me tell you
Speaker 6: I feel exactly like the guys from Dude, where's my car?
Speaker 6: Right now?
Speaker 1: What does that mean? You're hungover?
Speaker 7: On your back, you're high?
Speaker 1: Like, what do you mean that?
Speaker 6: Like, I'm just totally confused, you know.
Speaker 1: Confused or something that you know liked confused in the title.
Speaker 5: Why are you so confused?
Speaker 6: Well, I just had no idea, Like so when I
Speaker 6: suggested pretty Woman, I mean I was thinking about like
Speaker 6: the romance element you know, like the fact that these
Speaker 6: two people like really hit it off and fell in love.
Speaker 6: I forgot she was a prostitute. That's not why I
Speaker 6: was bringing that up.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's the whole plot of the movie.
Speaker 1: You could have chosen something better.
Speaker 6: Well, it definitely was not my intention. I was not
Speaker 6: trying to imply that you were a prostitute in any way.
Speaker 1: You have to say that after it's always a good things,
Speaker 1: not try to imply that.
Speaker 7: Okay, I totally get it.
Speaker 5: Are you hearing him, Amanda? Do you see where he's
Speaker 5: coming from.
Speaker 7: I don't know how you forget that part?
Speaker 3: Yeah, escort thing.
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's kind of the key.
Speaker 1: So wait, are you not believing him, Amanda? Is that
Speaker 1: the issue?
Speaker 8: Yeah?
Speaker 7: I guess not.
Speaker 5: Well, you got to look on the bright side, Amand
Speaker 5: at least he didn't bring up Silence of the Lambs. Yeah,
Speaker 5: thank you and turn you into.
Speaker 9: There was no less nor skin like, there were no
Speaker 9: buckets involved in the date.
Speaker 7: I appreciate.
Speaker 5: Okay, see now we're thinking, we're thinking positive here.
Speaker 6: I also kind of meant it as a compliment because
Speaker 6: I think you are a pretty woman.
Speaker 3: That's what Alexis just said. You can hear what she's
Speaker 3: saying too.
Speaker 5: So this is a little bit awkward.
Speaker 6: Right now, A little yeah.
Speaker 5: But the way that we can make this all better
Speaker 5: is if Amanda, you're willing to give Ben one more
Speaker 5: chance at another date. You could pick any other movie
Speaker 5: scene that you want to do, or just a non movie.
Speaker 1: You could do a do over and do fifty first
Speaker 1: dates you know where he forgets every.
Speaker 5: Time, So we're fifty shades of first date, you know.
Speaker 7: So if you guys are going to send us to Hawaii,
Speaker 7: then I'm in.
Speaker 3: But I have the money.
Speaker 5: Yeah, well we'll pay for the taxi to the airport,
Speaker 5: then you handle the rest. So Ben, do you have
Speaker 5: another date idea? If she says yes, well.
Speaker 3: Does it have to be movies?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 5: Yes, Well, I mean that's how they bonded.
Speaker 6: Movies are kind of our thing.
Speaker 7: I don't know.
Speaker 6: I mean, i'd really like to do like a basic instinct.
Speaker 1: That's like a scary stalker, isn't it.
Speaker 5: He meant it as like she's pretty.
Speaker 6: She's beautiful, beautiful.
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure.
Speaker 5: Ben, I'm gonna ask you again, maybe try something different,
Speaker 5: maybe a little bit more romantic this time.
Speaker 1: You started with Shrek Dude, some.
Speaker 5: Cute what movie do you have in mind for that
Speaker 5: second date, Bud.
Speaker 6: I'll be honest, I keep thinking about this and how
Speaker 6: but I don't know how we could turn it into
Speaker 6: a date. But my favorite movie is Pulp Fiction. It's
Speaker 6: a dance scene, the swing.
Speaker 5: Dance scene, all right, you know, Ben, I think just
Speaker 5: a Harry Potter dy like, what are you guys doing?
Speaker 8: Ben?
Speaker 5: I think your heart is in the right place, for sure,
Speaker 5: but your mind is.
Speaker 6: I mean, I just like a lot of movies.
Speaker 5: I just like your mind is scaring her though, Ben?
Speaker 1: So is she even on the phone.
Speaker 5: I don't know, Amanda. Are you still there?
Speaker 7: Yeah? I'm not sure why.
Speaker 5: Well, Amanda, I'm sorry for all of this, but best
Speaker 5: of luck in the dating pool. Ben, you got a
Speaker 5: lot of work to do. Yeah, Man, I go away
Speaker 5: from movies.
Speaker 1: Maybe stick with coms, dude, Yeah.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I can try that. I guess. I am really
Speaker 6: super disappointed, though. I did put a lot of work
Speaker 6: into that, and that's that's I don't know if she remembers,
Speaker 6: but my outfit at the picnic was very reminiscent of Shrek,
Speaker 6: and I just, you know, I feel like I should
Speaker 6: give credit.
Speaker 3: Ben.
Speaker 5: The good news is a lot of single women are
Speaker 5: hearing this right.
Speaker 1: Now, And.
Speaker 8: Yeah, Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 5: You know what, that could have been a really sweet
Speaker 5: second date, so close to rom com perfection, but he
Speaker 5: ended up being weird.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean it wasn't subtle like I see
Speaker 3: a slipping in movies.
Speaker 1: There, But I mean, and she tried, she tried to
Speaker 1: like it, she tried to get on with it, and
Speaker 1: then she's like, no, my gut is telling me that
Speaker 1: something's something's off.
Speaker 5: You know what. I do believe there is a woman
Speaker 5: out there somewhere right now thinking when is a guy
Speaker 5: finally gonna treat me like a high priced I deserve that.
Speaker 5: That's my dream.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm trying to relate a little more.
Speaker 5: I'm telling you somebody out there for everybody, and we
Speaker 5: can help you find them. Email the show. We can
Speaker 5: call that person who's not calling you back and go
Speaker 5: check out all of our second dates wherever you get
Speaker 5: your podcasts at Brook and Jeffrey.
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 5: It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. And don't you
Speaker 5: hate it when you're having a normal conversation with someone
Speaker 5: that you're interested in and then out of the blue
Speaker 5: they say, yeah, I had a good weekend too, other
Speaker 5: than getting arrested for selling smuggled gin chillas on the
Speaker 5: black market. Other than that, totally normal. I mean, it's
Speaker 5: hard to know how to react properly to something that's shocking. True.
Speaker 5: That's exactly how our listener Vincent felt when he got
Speaker 5: a text from his date right before they were supposed
Speaker 5: to go out, and immediately it changed everything. You're gonna
Speaker 5: find out what she said in your second date update
Speaker 5: right after this second date update. Does it change your mentality?
Speaker 5: If you're going out on a date with someone and
Speaker 5: you find out they went to Harvard versus like a
Speaker 5: community college or something or school, I gotta tell a whole.
Speaker 3: Different set of jokes on today.
Speaker 1: I imagine immediately trust fund kid.
Speaker 5: Yeah is that bad?
Speaker 1: I was smart, but I was completes.
Speaker 5: I see where you're coming from. Like if I matched
Speaker 5: with a woman who was a Harvard grad, I know
Speaker 5: what I'm thinking. What she can do my Texas? I
Speaker 5: got to bring my Quicken to the restaurant so that
Speaker 5: she can take care of that for me while she
Speaker 5: handles our bill. Here's my one nine form.
Speaker 3: Can you help.
Speaker 1: How many jobs you you know, they still have communications
Speaker 1: majors there, right.
Speaker 5: I don't believe it, but now, seriously, it is possible
Speaker 5: to get a little intimidated before the date even happens.
Speaker 5: And apparently that was the case for one of our listeners, Vincent,
Speaker 5: But it had nothing to do with the school that
Speaker 5: she attended. Vincent, what did you get intimidated by?
Speaker 9: Hi?
Speaker 6: Y'all?
Speaker 4: So, uh, I met this girl on an app Blair,
Speaker 4: and she texted me beforehand that she was going to
Speaker 4: be running late because she had a therapy session that
Speaker 4: was going along.
Speaker 1: Okay, oh that's actually a good thing.
Speaker 4: So well, so I replied, are you in therapy? And
Speaker 4: she said, no, she's the therapist.
Speaker 1: Oh I am so with you. Oh boy.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I have friends that are therapists, and every time I
Speaker 1: leave a conversation, I'm like, they were judging me. I
Speaker 1: just know it.
Speaker 3: And we're talking to a girl on tender Ones and
Speaker 3: she's like, yeah, I'm a therapist, but don't worry, I
Speaker 3: won't analyze you. And I'm like, yeah, right, you will.
Speaker 5: Is that how you felt, Vincent?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 4: I mean, you guys hit the nail on the head.
Speaker 7: I was.
Speaker 4: I was immediately nervous because she was going to be
Speaker 4: you know, smart and analytical. And I actually changed the location.
Speaker 4: I text her a different address to like a nicer,
Speaker 4: more upscale boll.
Speaker 5: She knows she's not just breaking down you as a person,
Speaker 5: She's breaking down all of the choices that you make too.
Speaker 5: So probably a good call.
Speaker 1: So funny. Did it make you more nervous?
Speaker 4: Oh for sure? Yeah. I mean I actually started to
Speaker 4: feel hyper aware. And I think I just like say,
Speaker 4: sat and everything I was saying, and I just think
Speaker 4: I came off weird.
Speaker 1: Okay, you were.
Speaker 5: Uncomfortable, so you still did go out on the date?
Speaker 4: Then? Uh, yeah, we met in person and she was
Speaker 4: really beautiful and nice and like very warm.
Speaker 1: Okay, and did you get an invoice for your session?
Speaker 4: Well, she actually made a joke just like that. She
Speaker 4: said I was listening a lot and she was talking
Speaker 4: and maybe she should pay me.
Speaker 1: That's a big compliment.
Speaker 5: Were you like trying to be really listening and attentive
Speaker 5: to her? Was that an accident an accident or it could.
Speaker 1: Be just how he is as a person. I feel
Speaker 1: like it's out of fear that she'll notice any red.
Speaker 5: Sometimes I go in like wanting to be super confident,
Speaker 5: and then I say nothing, and I'm like, oops, is
Speaker 5: that the case?
Speaker 4: I did try to listen more than I spoke, but
Speaker 4: then as soon as she called it out and I
Speaker 4: opened up a little bit more. And then if I'm
Speaker 4: being honest, and then I started to like talk about
Speaker 4: my own childhood. I had no idea how I got
Speaker 4: into it.
Speaker 1: No, I mean, okay, but childhood can be a common
Speaker 1: topic on a first date, right like where you grew
Speaker 1: up and.
Speaker 3: Or if you were bothing, like self deprecating, and I go,
Speaker 3: what was the vibe?
Speaker 4: Yeah, although I would say something that I think was
Speaker 4: like self deprecating and she'd inquire more about it.
Speaker 1: Oh, you wanted to laugh there?
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: So anyway, I just sort of feel like, maybe if
Speaker 4: I had been less worried and just more relaxed, and
Speaker 4: if you're.
Speaker 1: So intimidated by or do you want to go out
Speaker 1: with her again, like you think you can get rid
Speaker 1: of those nerves.
Speaker 3: Maybe maybe after one date the nerves are gone and
Speaker 3: now you.
Speaker 5: Feel like you're comfortable.
Speaker 4: I honestly wish I could do a redo, because I
Speaker 4: really think that if I just took myself out of
Speaker 4: the equation.
Speaker 5: We would have a nice time, Okay.
Speaker 1: If I wasn't there, it would have been fantastic.
Speaker 5: So I don't want to think this for you. But
Speaker 5: is it possible that maybe you said too much about
Speaker 5: your childhood and the things you were into and the
Speaker 5: animals used to cut up and sew back together.
Speaker 1: As long as they were already dead. Yeah, well my
Speaker 1: uncle put a zipper on a squirrel once, serial killer.
Speaker 5: Not the right person. A second, I'm saying, do you
Speaker 5: think you you delved too deep into your own childhood
Speaker 5: with her?
Speaker 4: I don't think so. There's no squirrels with zippers in
Speaker 4: my past.
Speaker 5: Okay, Well it could be a totally different reason. How
Speaker 5: long has it been since you talked to her about
Speaker 5: a week ago?
Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, she's a career woman. Maybe she's just
Speaker 1: too busy. She's not even no one's.
Speaker 2: Too busy to text them one they like sorry.
Speaker 4: I'm just saying, yeah, that's sort of what I'm thinking too,
Speaker 4: because I've asked her if she wants to go out
Speaker 4: again and shook it back to me, but she won't
Speaker 4: actually answer the going out part.
Speaker 1: Oh, but she's so good at mine tricks.
Speaker 5: Yeah, Harvard, Well, I'm excited to go mono emano with
Speaker 5: her on the phone and maybe get myself some free therapy.
Speaker 5: If she's up for it, about on her.
Speaker 3: And break her down live on the air. She's gonna cry.
Speaker 1: I wonder she takes our company's insurance.
Speaker 5: Okay, we're gonna ask her. I hope you're cool with that, Vincent.
Speaker 5: We're gonna take care of ourselves first and then try
Speaker 5: and get you a second date update right after this.
Speaker 4: Thanks, guys, whatever works.
Speaker 5: I'm up for man hold on second date update if
Speaker 5: you're just joining us, our listener. Vincent thinks he may
Speaker 5: have psyched himself out right before his first date started.
Speaker 5: Sounds like it because earlier that day he learned that
Speaker 5: Blair is a professional therapist, and that made him feel anxious,
Speaker 5: a little hesitant, worried that she might be super analytical
Speaker 5: of him. He should have felt excited, though.
Speaker 3: Really, I think everybody agreed that it was a little.
Speaker 5: Well, I've never had a therapy session end with my
Speaker 5: pants still on, although.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's not a good sign.
Speaker 5: Well I do pay extra for it, so anyway, there's
Speaker 5: a word therapy somewhere in there. His though his date
Speaker 5: ended fully clothed with a little bit of oversharing into
Speaker 5: his childhood past, so she wishes that he could get
Speaker 5: a redo on the whole thing.
Speaker 1: I think we've all been there where your mouth is
Speaker 1: just spewing out words and your head is.
Speaker 5: Like, no, don't say that, Vincent. If Blair does pick
Speaker 5: up here, we're not gonna mention that her job like
Speaker 5: affected your mindset for the date. We don't want her
Speaker 5: to know that.
Speaker 1: Oh really, I don't think it'd be good to be
Speaker 1: honest with a therapists used to it everybody. It seems
Speaker 1: like she'd understands.
Speaker 5: Well at least. We don't want to offer that up
Speaker 5: right off the bat.
Speaker 6: I'll give you that.
Speaker 5: Let's see how she felt about the date first. Are
Speaker 5: you cool with that?
Speaker 4: Vince?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Whatever the play is.
Speaker 5: Okay, play out.
Speaker 1: I mean the thing is, are you ready to be
Speaker 1: cool because eventually you will be on the phone with
Speaker 1: We don't need any more childhood stories, okay, or save
Speaker 1: an embarrassing one and toss it in there for us.
Speaker 5: We're down for a little bit of juice. So we're
Speaker 5: gonna dial Blair right now. We'll see if she picks up.
Speaker 5: Good luck to us all here. We go. Hello, Hi,
Speaker 5: we're looking to speak with Blair.
Speaker 7: Yes, this is her.
Speaker 5: Hey Blair, how you doing today?
Speaker 7: I'm doing well? How are you?
Speaker 5: Thanks? Morning?
Speaker 1: Hey Blair. Welcome to the show show.
Speaker 7: Who is this?
Speaker 5: Yeah? This is a radio show. We're called Brooke and
Speaker 5: Jeffrey in the Morning. Yeah.
Speaker 7: Ah, oh okay. What can I help you with?
Speaker 5: Well, we have a lot of problems and we're hoping
Speaker 5: that you could work through them with us. You've got
Speaker 5: to pick one of us because it's gonna be.
Speaker 1: A long time.
Speaker 5: But there is actually a really big issue that we're
Speaker 5: looking to fix today right now on the phone with
Speaker 5: one of our listeners, that you went on a date
Speaker 5: with named Vincent.
Speaker 7: Ah oh okay, this is very fascinating. Why would he
Speaker 7: contact you?
Speaker 5: Well, because he really had a good time with you
Speaker 5: and he was hoping to see you again for another date,
Speaker 5: but that hasn't materialized yet, so he isn't sure if
Speaker 5: there's a reason why.
Speaker 7: Yeah, how can I help?
Speaker 5: Well, maybe we could just start with what was your
Speaker 5: take on the date with Vincent? How did you feel
Speaker 5: about it?
Speaker 7: It was fine? It fine seems like a good word
Speaker 7: for it. He's beemed like a pleasant guy.
Speaker 5: It was fine. Isn't usually a good word?
Speaker 3: He well, that's why was there anything bad that happened?
Speaker 3: That's a good question.
Speaker 7: I mean he was a little nervous, but aren't we
Speaker 7: all when we're first meeting somebody, And.
Speaker 1: That could actually be kind of endearing because it means
Speaker 1: that he cares.
Speaker 5: Right, it's you get nervous when you meet people too.
Speaker 5: Sometimes she never gets nervous.
Speaker 1: Bro have any issues?
Speaker 3: Us issues?
Speaker 7: I see, So he told you what I do for
Speaker 7: a living.
Speaker 1: Yeah is that okay?
Speaker 7: Yeah, of course he knows I'm a therapist, but he
Speaker 7: probably doesn't know I'm a past life regression therapist.
Speaker 1: What's that?
Speaker 6: What is that?
Speaker 5: What?
Speaker 7: I help individuals access memories or experienced from previous lifetime
Speaker 7: to address current emotional and psychological, spiritual She's like unlocked.
Speaker 5: No, because I've heard of people when they breakthroughs, they'll
Speaker 5: be like, I unlocked his memory for She's talking about
Speaker 5: like you were a king in the sixteen hundred.
Speaker 3: Waits therapy for other lives.
Speaker 5: Yes, how that affects who you are in this new life?
Speaker 3: She almost got my money. I would have signed up immediately.
Speaker 5: Okay, well, let's be polite. This is her career.
Speaker 3: Sorry I didn't understand fully.
Speaker 5: Okay, so that's my apology. We we did not know that.
Speaker 7: Some people don't understand it. But it is something I've
Speaker 7: been practicing for over a decade.
Speaker 5: Okay, we did not know that specific We just heard therapist. Yes, okay.
Speaker 1: So what does that have to do though, with why
Speaker 1: you aren't calling him back? Well or you just explaining
Speaker 1: that to us.
Speaker 7: I usually don't have a personal connection to people that
Speaker 7: I date, but in this case I did. I was
Speaker 7: home and really thought about it. And I know this
Speaker 7: is going to sound silly. I believe in a past
Speaker 7: life he was my dog.
Speaker 5: Was your dog in a previous lifetime.
Speaker 7: I know what I know.
Speaker 1: How did you come to that realization? Walk us through
Speaker 1: the steps?
Speaker 7: I had many memories of rubbing his belly, him licking
Speaker 7: me like a dog. And I know it sounds silly,
Speaker 7: but what a coincidence. I mean this is I've been
Speaker 7: doing this a long time and I knew I felt
Speaker 7: some sort of connection and I couldn't figure it out.
Speaker 3: He's such a good boy. He found you all timelines.
Speaker 5: He found you again.
Speaker 1: So is dating your past dog off off the table?
Speaker 5: Because Brooks hometown that's encouraged.
Speaker 7: I know you're having fun with this and it seems weird. Well,
Speaker 7: but what do I say, Like, how do I tell
Speaker 7: him I can't date him? He was once my dog?
Speaker 1: I say, to your credit, you have been a really
Speaker 1: good sport with us.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and we can tell you're not messing with us.
Speaker 5: The good news is you don't have to figure out
Speaker 5: how to tell him, because you already have. He's actually
Speaker 5: on the other line listening to this conversation.
Speaker 3: Good, very well behaved.
Speaker 5: During this entire thing. Vincent, are you there?
Speaker 4: This is truly not where I thought.
Speaker 6: This was.
Speaker 1: None of us.
Speaker 5: Okay, talk to your previous owner. Say, hi, I'm Blair.
Speaker 4: So you're saying that you had like visions that I
Speaker 4: was your dog in another life.
Speaker 7: Yes, there's been multiple visions of me walking you around
Speaker 7: in a farm. Yeah, you didn't feel the connection either.
Speaker 4: I mean, I didn't put two and two together with
Speaker 4: a dog.
Speaker 5: Blair. Do you have like a century or a decade
Speaker 5: when this previous life happened.
Speaker 7: Yes, this is way back. This is the eighteen hundreds.
Speaker 5: Oh oh look at that.
Speaker 1: So yeah, a working dog at that point.
Speaker 4: You know, how come I'm a dog and you're a
Speaker 4: human in these visions. It was I not a human before.
Speaker 7: There's nothing wrong with being a dog. I mean, animals
Speaker 7: are such a sacred part of our living, and it's
Speaker 7: just it's not something that you were once my dog.
Speaker 7: It's not something I now I will feel like I'm
Speaker 7: walking the fields to you every time I see you.
Speaker 7: It's not something I want to have in my romantic relationships.
Speaker 5: It's not that he was a dog in a past life.
Speaker 5: It's that he was your dog, Okay, because.
Speaker 3: You already had that connection.
Speaker 5: Trying to figure out where we go from, Vincent, this
Speaker 5: all makes sense to you, right, Really, that's the question, Brook.
Speaker 1: I need to see where his head is at, which
Speaker 1: tail is wagging? Yeah?
Speaker 5: Are you understanding what she's saying?
Speaker 4: I'm hearing it. I don't know if I'm understanding that.
Speaker 1: Your first question not what type of dog? But you
Speaker 1: can I mean, I've been thinking about that too, but
Speaker 1: I don't know what was popular back in the eighteen hundreds.
Speaker 1: Maybe espaniel, cattle dog, cat dog, cat Okay, yeah, energy
Speaker 1: those dogs.
Speaker 5: Vincent, you can understand where she's coming from. If you
Speaker 5: were in her position, you wouldn't want to date a
Speaker 5: woman who had previously been your fish or your cat
Speaker 5: or something, right, that'd be.
Speaker 4: This whole thing is weird. It's hard to believe.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, what do you want to say.
Speaker 7: I don't know.
Speaker 5: I want to date in my old cat.
Speaker 1: Come on, I mean, if you look at it from
Speaker 1: the other perspective, right, Like dog is man's best friend,
Speaker 1: he's loyal, Like these are all good qualities in a relationship.
Speaker 5: This is Brook advocating for a human dog.
Speaker 1: Yeah, trying, oh yeah, for her to give him a chance.
Speaker 4: Thank you Brook.
Speaker 5: Okay, so, Vincent, you're still interested in dating Blair even
Speaker 5: though previously you used to be her pet.
Speaker 4: I mean allegedly if I was her pet, I have
Speaker 4: no memory of it.
Speaker 1: Well until you go through a session with her.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I can absolutely help you with that. We can
Speaker 7: book a session right now.
Speaker 5: Well yeah, that's great, But what we're interested in booking
Speaker 5: is a date. If you're willing to give Vincent another shot.
Speaker 4: Listen, you said we had a pleasant time. You really
Speaker 4: don't think we can get past this.
Speaker 7: I would love to have a connection, but I don't
Speaker 7: think it's best that we date.
Speaker 5: But maybe she'd be willing to play fetch in the
Speaker 5: park with you. One time, I.
Speaker 1: Would know what we all wear in a past life.
Speaker 4: I bet no.
Speaker 5: I think you were probably a parrot jose.
Speaker 1: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 5: Man as a dude. I thought being friend zoned is bad,
Speaker 5: but being pet zoned that's way worse.
Speaker 1: Do you call it past life zoned?
Speaker 3: A paste zone?
Speaker 5: Oh? It is brutal and there and there's nothing that
Speaker 5: you can even say as a guy in that position.
Speaker 5: Whether you believe it or not, it doesn't matter. In
Speaker 5: her mind. You're always just going to be that pet
Speaker 5: that she owned two hundred years ago on that farm.
Speaker 3: Dude has been trying to hump her leg for hundreds
Speaker 3: of years.
Speaker 1: It's like, it's enough to know about somebody's current life.
Speaker 5: Let alone all bringing on the baggage from all their
Speaker 5: not to make a successful doctor.
Speaker 3: And she's like, yeah, but you were like a goat
Speaker 3: in the fourteen hundred. Yeah, don't get ahead of yourself.
Speaker 1: I saw you eat garbage.
Speaker 5: It's gonna be a tough road for her and for him,
Speaker 5: but we're always here to help either of them if
Speaker 5: they need help going forward, or you you can always
Speaker 5: email the show. We'll call that person who isn't calling you.
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