WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classics: Beauty and the Meh + Getaway Car 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:02.520 All right, it's the eighty second day of January. 0:00:02.600 --> 0:00:02.920 Guys. 0:00:04.360 --> 0:00:08.000 Great, I'm glad you're here for it at today. On Saturdays, 0:00:08.039 --> 0:00:10.840 we always offer back to back classics. And before you 0:00:10.960 --> 0:00:13.120 jump in the comments and say this is a repeat, 0:00:13.119 --> 0:00:15.240 that's what a classic is. Okay, we're trying to be 0:00:15.360 --> 0:00:18.200 very upfront with you. Yeah, right, maybe I should start 0:00:18.280 --> 0:00:20.880 labeling it back to back classic repeat update. 0:00:21.000 --> 0:00:21.680 May have heard this. 0:00:21.840 --> 0:00:25.040 Yes, yeah, we do brand new episodes Monday through Friday, 0:00:25.120 --> 0:00:27.600 five days a week. That is a lot. So here's 0:00:27.640 --> 0:00:31.480 your double back to back classics. But first a comment. Yes, 0:00:31.560 --> 0:00:33.720 I mean, as we always say, we love to know 0:00:33.760 --> 0:00:36.360 what people do while they listen to Yes, and one 0:00:36.360 --> 0:00:38.640 person commented, I always listen while I eat my dinner. 0:00:38.840 --> 0:00:43.200 Oh you guys, Well, there's no risk of choking laughing, 0:00:43.520 --> 0:00:44.320 that's for sure. 0:00:44.360 --> 0:00:47.360 But you do have Southern right between your teeth. Get 0:00:47.400 --> 0:00:47.919 it right there? 0:00:48.400 --> 0:00:48.600 Yeah? 0:00:49.080 --> 0:00:52.040 Oh you got it. Back to back classics. 0:00:51.560 --> 0:00:52.160 Done right now. 0:00:54.200 --> 0:00:58.160 If you're a guy who's mid to math, who can't 0:00:58.200 --> 0:01:01.880 pull anything higher than a Sacrie meno four, then you 0:01:02.120 --> 0:01:06.440 need to pay attention. One of our female listeners is 0:01:06.440 --> 0:01:09.480 a self to proclaimed member of the Hot Girls Club 0:01:10.880 --> 0:01:14.759 and going into their date. She had absolutely no intention 0:01:15.240 --> 0:01:19.280 of doing another one with him until one move this 0:01:19.319 --> 0:01:24.560 guy made at the very end of the night changed everything, really, 0:01:24.800 --> 0:01:28.160 and now she's on the phone begging for us to 0:01:28.200 --> 0:01:31.679 get a hold of him to figure out why. You're 0:01:31.720 --> 0:01:34.720 gonna hear it in your second date update right after this. 0:01:34.760 --> 0:01:37.759 Broke and Jeffrey in the morning second date updates. 0:01:39.319 --> 0:01:42.119 I'll admit, when I first started dating, I thought people 0:01:42.160 --> 0:01:44.240 went on dates to like find true love. 0:01:47.319 --> 0:01:49.919 I for a long I really did. 0:01:50.040 --> 0:01:54.120 What naive little boy way to think because some people, 0:01:55.120 --> 0:01:56.760 some people just date for the free meal. 0:01:58.000 --> 0:02:03.120 It somebody knew because the exactly some people. 0:02:02.880 --> 0:02:05.240 Just date because they need somebody to administer that EpiPen 0:02:05.360 --> 0:02:08.080 shot at the shellfish buffet. Oh my gosh, I go 0:02:09.320 --> 0:02:12.560 it's half off of crabs legs. I'm not gonna not 0:02:12.639 --> 0:02:15.840 eat that. So yeah, a lot of reasons. And today 0:02:15.919 --> 0:02:19.000 our listener Lucy is asking for a second date even 0:02:19.040 --> 0:02:22.400 though she isn't one hundred percent sure why she wants. 0:02:22.160 --> 0:02:25.400 To date this guy that's been there, Lucy, So. 0:02:25.560 --> 0:02:28.560 Hopefully just talking it out with us might give you 0:02:28.600 --> 0:02:29.320 some clarity. 0:02:29.360 --> 0:02:31.760 But welcome to the show, Hi. 0:02:32.080 --> 0:02:34.320 I love it. Like four minutes into our conversation, she 0:02:34.480 --> 0:02:35.000 just hangs up. 0:02:35.040 --> 0:02:38.760 She's like, no, actually, never mind, this was a bad choice. 0:02:39.120 --> 0:02:41.200 Well, Lucy, tell us about this guy that you met, like, 0:02:41.240 --> 0:02:42.080 start from the beginning. 0:02:42.560 --> 0:02:46.600 Okay, so his name is Nate. Okay, I just want to. 0:02:46.560 --> 0:02:50.600 Get everything out in the open because I'm confused. I 0:02:50.639 --> 0:02:54.200 am way better looking than this han and not oh. 0:02:55.919 --> 0:02:56.919 Coming in hot there. 0:02:57.080 --> 0:03:00.160 Okay, all right, I like it. Okay, I heard that 0:03:00.360 --> 0:03:02.080 he's not as good looking as you. I didn't hear 0:03:02.080 --> 0:03:02.960 what you said after that. 0:03:03.040 --> 0:03:05.040 Oh, I only heard the humility. 0:03:04.680 --> 0:03:07.760 So that sorry, humble, Lucy. 0:03:08.000 --> 0:03:08.919 What was the other reason? 0:03:09.720 --> 0:03:13.360 Well, he's not chasing me the way that I normally 0:03:13.360 --> 0:03:14.560 get chased after a date. 0:03:14.680 --> 0:03:17.480 You normally have men like physically chasing you, or you 0:03:17.600 --> 0:03:19.119 just mean like, yeah. 0:03:18.960 --> 0:03:24.359 Possibly most of the time, yes, okay, can I guess 0:03:24.520 --> 0:03:28.360 I mean not just his looks, but also his personality 0:03:28.440 --> 0:03:30.239 is probably not typically what you normally date. 0:03:30.840 --> 0:03:33.520 No, not really, Like we met on the hinge and 0:03:33.560 --> 0:03:37.000 he seems normal, like a nice guy, he's sort of cute. 0:03:37.720 --> 0:03:40.440 Special stopped gagging during the description. 0:03:41.320 --> 0:03:42.760 My friends they're like, i'll give a guy a chance, 0:03:42.800 --> 0:03:44.720 I'll try something different, and then he stops talking to her. 0:03:44.720 --> 0:03:46.080 And it's like, what's wrong in the world? 0:03:46.200 --> 0:03:48.160 You know, everything is off? 0:03:48.600 --> 0:03:51.000 Like how she said he seemed normal and he's obviously 0:03:51.080 --> 0:03:53.000 abnormal because he's not going out. 0:03:54.720 --> 0:03:57.040 But even though he seemed normal and nice and totally 0:03:57.040 --> 0:03:59.040 out of the ordinary, you still went out with him. 0:03:59.440 --> 0:03:59.840 I did. 0:04:00.120 --> 0:04:02.000 I mean, yes, I was kind of bored, so I 0:04:02.080 --> 0:04:02.640 was like why not? 0:04:03.000 --> 0:04:03.240 Wow? 0:04:04.360 --> 0:04:08.280 Yeah, but personality can add the looks once you meet someone. 0:04:08.560 --> 0:04:10.600 So how was it when you first met him? Like, 0:04:10.680 --> 0:04:11.680 what was that moment? 0:04:11.800 --> 0:04:15.440 Like, well, he invited me to a bar for happy 0:04:15.480 --> 0:04:17.440 hour and it was kind of early for a date. 0:04:17.520 --> 0:04:19.040 That was like five Well. 0:04:18.880 --> 0:04:23.839 That's happy hour, yeah, okay, okay, yeah, the late night crowds. 0:04:23.839 --> 0:04:25.600 So all right, So what happened? 0:04:26.120 --> 0:04:30.320 The conversation went, well, he was more confident than I 0:04:30.400 --> 0:04:32.880 thought he would be. He was dressed very well. 0:04:33.279 --> 0:04:35.480 When you can, I just ask, like, it sounds like 0:04:35.520 --> 0:04:37.760 you're saying he's more confident because you still think he's 0:04:37.800 --> 0:04:38.760 not very attractive. 0:04:39.480 --> 0:04:43.839 Correct, Okay, I want to know when you very first 0:04:43.920 --> 0:04:46.240 saw him, what was your reaction. 0:04:47.040 --> 0:04:49.680 I think it was like, I'm doing this guy a favor. 0:04:50.160 --> 0:04:53.800 Okay, You're like, he's not trying yet, but he will 0:04:53.839 --> 0:04:54.560 be when I'm done. 0:04:54.600 --> 0:04:57.839 He didn't say that out loud, right, I'm just being honest. Okay, 0:04:57.920 --> 0:04:59.880 you guys asked me the question, all right. 0:05:00.080 --> 0:05:02.479 Sometimes I do see couples and I'm like, Wow, she's gorgeous. 0:05:02.480 --> 0:05:03.400 How did he pull her? 0:05:03.760 --> 0:05:05.200 No, I'm wondering do girls do. 0:05:05.120 --> 0:05:07.080 This and in their head it's like a charity case. 0:05:07.320 --> 0:05:09.600 Well, you have to understand, she's the one that's calling 0:05:09.680 --> 0:05:10.320 us right. 0:05:10.160 --> 0:05:12.200 Now, she's the one chasing him. 0:05:13.640 --> 0:05:16.159 Yeah, okay, although there's a reason we didn't answer your 0:05:16.200 --> 0:05:23.800 first question, Jose, But that's okay, So tell us more 0:05:23.839 --> 0:05:26.240 what happens during this happy hour drink state. 0:05:26.600 --> 0:05:29.800 Conversation went well, and then he started asking me about 0:05:29.839 --> 0:05:31.839 what type of food I like, and I was like, 0:05:32.320 --> 0:05:34.839 he's going to try to roll this into grabbing dinner 0:05:34.880 --> 0:05:35.120 with me. 0:05:35.520 --> 0:05:37.559 Oh okay. 0:05:37.920 --> 0:05:39.760 She's like, oh God, this guy's going to try and 0:05:39.839 --> 0:05:42.159 feed me too. Is that is that kind of where 0:05:42.160 --> 0:05:44.160 you're you're normally at, Lucy? 0:05:44.600 --> 0:05:46.599 I mean taking it sound like it's out of. 0:05:46.600 --> 0:05:50.160 The ordinary, but that's not where my head was at 0:05:50.160 --> 0:05:50.560 the time. 0:05:51.480 --> 0:05:53.760 You're excited to continue the day with him. 0:05:54.360 --> 0:05:59.839 Excited might be a strong word, like medium excited, all right. 0:06:00.680 --> 0:06:02.480 Willing to go along with it a little longer. 0:06:02.640 --> 0:06:05.560 Yeah, okay, but here's the weird thing. I tell him 0:06:05.560 --> 0:06:09.120 what kind of food I'm interested in, like Italian Jebanese, 0:06:09.240 --> 0:06:13.480 and his response cool, Well, anyway, this has been chill, 0:06:14.080 --> 0:06:15.800 but I gotta go meet up? 0:06:17.040 --> 0:06:18.560 What immediately? 0:06:19.880 --> 0:06:22.800 Do you that's not even a good review of the date, 0:06:23.120 --> 0:06:24.360 Like this has been chill? 0:06:24.480 --> 0:06:26.520 Why would you even ask what I like to eat? 0:06:26.600 --> 0:06:27.880 And I just said meet. 0:06:27.760 --> 0:06:28.360 Up with who? 0:06:29.200 --> 0:06:31.680 And he was like, oh, just a friend, I'll catch 0:06:31.720 --> 0:06:32.159 you later. 0:06:32.240 --> 0:06:33.159 Though, Oh. 0:06:35.839 --> 0:06:37.160 This guy maybe a huge player. 0:06:37.240 --> 0:06:39.240 This feels like the perfect I think. 0:06:39.360 --> 0:06:39.440 So. 0:06:39.560 --> 0:06:43.560 I think that he just maybe saw through that you 0:06:43.560 --> 0:06:48.000 weren't attracted to him and you were interested in surface things. 0:06:48.640 --> 0:06:52.120 Did you miss that I am way better looking at him? 0:06:52.200 --> 0:06:53.880 Like he never should have had a. 0:06:53.920 --> 0:06:57.080 Chance because some people aren't looking for just look you 0:06:57.120 --> 0:06:58.040 gave off like I'm. 0:06:57.920 --> 0:06:58.800 Better than you vibes. 0:07:00.160 --> 0:07:03.480 But he did say i'll catch you later, so there's 0:07:03.520 --> 0:07:06.320 some hope for a second meet up there, did he ever? 0:07:06.520 --> 0:07:08.680 What was that the end of all conversation? 0:07:09.240 --> 0:07:12.120 Well, I texted him a little later and I said, hey, 0:07:12.160 --> 0:07:14.800 I had a really great time it was meeting you, 0:07:14.920 --> 0:07:16.320 and he just hearted it. 0:07:18.000 --> 0:07:18.160 Is that. 0:07:20.320 --> 0:07:22.160 He could have just thumbs up there, and that would 0:07:22.200 --> 0:07:22.920 have been like, can. 0:07:23.000 --> 0:07:24.280 To talk to this guy? 0:07:24.440 --> 0:07:26.280 I don't feel like, like, why do you want to 0:07:26.320 --> 0:07:27.360 go out with him again? 0:07:27.560 --> 0:07:31.720 It's just like a game. I don't don't Well, why 0:07:31.760 --> 0:07:32.760 are we calling him? 0:07:32.920 --> 0:07:33.080 Yeah? 0:07:33.120 --> 0:07:34.960 What made you reach out to us for help? 0:07:35.400 --> 0:07:37.000 Well, we have to hear his side. 0:07:37.040 --> 0:07:39.400 I'm too curious, Like, who did he have to meet 0:07:39.440 --> 0:07:41.239 that was more important than me at that moment. 0:07:41.560 --> 0:07:46.440 So I don't think you're going to like anything he says. 0:07:47.560 --> 0:07:50.280 Maybe his like family member was in the hospital and 0:07:50.320 --> 0:07:52.720 he had to go visit her or him at that point? 0:07:52.720 --> 0:07:53.800 Would that change your mind? 0:07:54.120 --> 0:07:56.480 You don't say meet up with someone if you're going 0:07:56.520 --> 0:07:57.160 to the hospital. 0:07:57.200 --> 0:07:59.280 Oh, pretty much dead right now? 0:07:59.680 --> 0:08:01.080 Later, don't meet up. 0:08:01.560 --> 0:08:03.920 She decided the moment she saw him that she was 0:08:03.960 --> 0:08:05.720 not going to go out with him again. It's just 0:08:05.800 --> 0:08:08.880 that he there. 0:08:08.800 --> 0:08:11.040 Was a little bit of a power dynamic going on, 0:08:11.360 --> 0:08:14.760 and I am excited to hopefully get him on the phone. 0:08:15.440 --> 0:08:17.440 We'll see what he has to say if he answers. 0:08:17.480 --> 0:08:19.720 In your second date update, right after this hold on 0:08:19.920 --> 0:08:20.320 Brooke and. 0:08:20.360 --> 0:08:23.200 Jeffrey in the morning second Date update. 0:08:23.920 --> 0:08:28.040 Let's recap what we know about our listener Lucy and 0:08:28.080 --> 0:08:29.440 her date with Nate. 0:08:29.280 --> 0:08:29.920 The other day. 0:08:30.200 --> 0:08:31.680 It's a rough one, Jeff, Well. 0:08:31.600 --> 0:08:31.920 I don't know. 0:08:32.280 --> 0:08:36.200 Number one, according to her, she is way hotter than him. Yeah, 0:08:36.679 --> 0:08:39.280 Number two, he was lucky to be going out with 0:08:39.320 --> 0:08:42.560 someone as hot as she was. And number three, his 0:08:42.720 --> 0:08:46.719 personality was fine, but not as fine as her hotness. 0:08:47.800 --> 0:08:51.080 And despite all of that, Nate was the one who 0:08:51.160 --> 0:08:53.880 cut their date short after just one drink. 0:08:54.080 --> 0:08:57.480 So weird. It seems like she's so deep, so many. 0:08:57.760 --> 0:09:01.560 It is shocked confident talking to her. 0:09:01.800 --> 0:09:03.480 Yeah, why would he be confident? 0:09:04.440 --> 0:09:07.160 I'm not sure, but it's all very unusual for Lucy. 0:09:07.280 --> 0:09:10.280 Clearly, it's got her a little bit flustered, very confused, 0:09:10.520 --> 0:09:13.160 which is the reason why she wants us to give 0:09:13.200 --> 0:09:14.600 him a call and get some answers. 0:09:14.640 --> 0:09:16.440 Right, Lucy, you guys make. 0:09:16.320 --> 0:09:17.560 Me sound like I'm so shallow. 0:09:17.640 --> 0:09:20.000 I'm not, Okay, you know what. 0:09:20.280 --> 0:09:23.440 I think that just the conversation we had made that happen. 0:09:23.480 --> 0:09:25.760 But yeah, but I am. 0:09:25.600 --> 0:09:27.599 Just trying to paint a picture for you here. I 0:09:27.679 --> 0:09:30.640 think it's very important to note that I am, in 0:09:30.720 --> 0:09:33.880 fact potter than him, Okay. 0:09:32.960 --> 0:09:36.360 Saying factually, not like a brat. We're not disputing that 0:09:36.720 --> 0:09:42.320 we're all agree I want photos. Well, don't you get 0:09:42.440 --> 0:09:44.840 under we're all taking your word for it. But I 0:09:44.840 --> 0:09:47.240 think what what what would really help us is if 0:09:47.280 --> 0:09:49.640 you could think of one nice thing to say about 0:09:49.720 --> 0:09:52.280 him that we could bring up once we get him 0:09:52.320 --> 0:09:54.319 on the phone, something that you liked about him. 0:09:54.360 --> 0:09:55.040 That's idea. 0:09:55.800 --> 0:09:57.680 He really did hold down a conversation. 0:09:57.800 --> 0:10:02.640 Well okay, and you actually sounds sincere about that, which 0:10:02.640 --> 0:10:03.360 I appreciate. 0:10:03.880 --> 0:10:07.000 Okay, when I say he did that, he barely did it, 0:10:07.040 --> 0:10:07.719 but he did it. 0:10:07.960 --> 0:10:08.600 Okay. 0:10:08.640 --> 0:10:11.480 But I'm just gonna make a note he knows how 0:10:11.480 --> 0:10:13.920 to have a conversation so that I can compliment him 0:10:13.920 --> 0:10:14.240 sort of. 0:10:14.440 --> 0:10:16.440 No, don't add that. It's just ended there. 0:10:16.480 --> 0:10:17.559 I'm just going to bring it up to him just 0:10:17.559 --> 0:10:19.480 so we could say something nice and that usually helps 0:10:19.480 --> 0:10:20.360 people open up a little. 0:10:20.400 --> 0:10:22.320 Sounds like a confident, great guy. 0:10:22.440 --> 0:10:23.880 Okay, So let's hope he holds a conversation. 0:10:23.920 --> 0:10:25.640 We're going to talk to him on the radio if 0:10:25.640 --> 0:10:28.160 he answers. First, we got to get him on the phone. 0:10:28.200 --> 0:10:28.800 Let me dial in. 0:10:28.880 --> 0:10:30.160 We'll see if he picks up, and then we can 0:10:30.160 --> 0:10:41.640 move from there. Here we go, Hello, Hey, is this Nate? 0:10:43.040 --> 0:10:46.880 Uh Yeah, cute voice. 0:10:47.000 --> 0:10:48.560 Book coming. 0:10:50.480 --> 0:10:55.280 Can give him some compliments. Okay, all right, this is. 0:10:55.360 --> 0:10:57.280 We're a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey in 0:10:57.280 --> 0:11:01.200 the Morning. Welcome to this Okay, good morning. 0:11:01.480 --> 0:11:03.520 Uh yeah, I'm a little busy right now. 0:11:03.559 --> 0:11:04.160 And what's going on? 0:11:04.920 --> 0:11:06.800 Yeah, so we won't take up too much of your time. 0:11:07.160 --> 0:11:08.920 What we're doing is a segment it's called a second 0:11:09.000 --> 0:11:11.120 Date Update, where we're trying to help one of our 0:11:11.200 --> 0:11:14.080 listeners get back in touch with you after you two 0:11:14.080 --> 0:11:16.760 went out on a hot date the other night. 0:11:16.800 --> 0:11:19.520 A short date. I think he ended it pretty short. 0:11:19.960 --> 0:11:20.880 Who are you talking about? 0:11:21.240 --> 0:11:23.160 Uh, it's a woman named Lucy. 0:11:24.240 --> 0:11:29.360 Lucy Yeah, okay, super serious to laughing. 0:11:29.720 --> 0:11:32.280 It totally checks out. It totally checks out that she 0:11:32.320 --> 0:11:33.360 would be the one calling you. 0:11:33.559 --> 0:11:35.560 Yeah, that checks out. What does that mean? 0:11:36.160 --> 0:11:38.560 Yeah, she's texted me like four times in the last 0:11:38.559 --> 0:11:40.760 couple of days, Like I barely sponsor her. 0:11:40.840 --> 0:11:43.920 So that's okay, So clearly you you know what you're 0:11:43.960 --> 0:11:44.480 doing here. 0:11:44.640 --> 0:11:45.800 This is all on purpose. 0:11:45.920 --> 0:11:46.720 It's a power play. 0:11:46.720 --> 0:11:50.000 It sounds like, well, it's just she's that type of girl, Like. 0:11:49.960 --> 0:11:50.640 There's a type. 0:11:50.720 --> 0:11:52.560 What does that mean? Explain the type though? 0:11:53.240 --> 0:11:56.120 Like she's very attractive, but she's been told off her 0:11:56.200 --> 0:11:58.320 life since she's attractive, so she knows it. 0:11:58.400 --> 0:11:59.839 And then she's like, no, I'm better and I'm like 0:12:00.520 --> 0:12:01.000 to relax. 0:12:01.240 --> 0:12:03.360 So do you do you not like her? 0:12:03.400 --> 0:12:03.520 Then? 0:12:03.679 --> 0:12:05.760 Like is that negative or positive? I can't tell. 0:12:06.200 --> 0:12:08.920 No, she's fine, Like it's just a matter of Like 0:12:09.640 --> 0:12:11.920 there's two things you got to deal with with women, 0:12:11.960 --> 0:12:15.240 like Lucy, keep the date really short, right, that's the thing. 0:12:15.240 --> 0:12:16.520 You got to keep the date really short. 0:12:16.640 --> 0:12:19.120 Like I knew that if I kept the date. 0:12:19.000 --> 0:12:22.440 Going longer longer, I had the suspicion that she was like, 0:12:22.559 --> 0:12:24.080 oh good, a free meal out of me. 0:12:24.120 --> 0:12:25.560 And I'm not. That's not what I'm about. 0:12:25.880 --> 0:12:28.359 Okay, So this, this is like a rule of strategy 0:12:28.400 --> 0:12:30.760 that you've come up with for dating beautiful women. 0:12:31.240 --> 0:12:32.400 It's not just beautiful women. 0:12:32.440 --> 0:12:34.880 It's beautiful women who know that they're beautiful and think 0:12:34.920 --> 0:12:36.880 that they're better than you because they're beautiful. 0:12:37.640 --> 0:12:38.400 Okay, wait. 0:12:40.360 --> 0:12:42.040 A specific type of girl. 0:12:42.120 --> 0:12:44.360 Well then most women in my case in mind, I 0:12:44.360 --> 0:12:44.880 don't get. 0:12:44.760 --> 0:12:46.600 It though, Like you want to keep the date short 0:12:46.640 --> 0:12:48.640 because you want to keep her attracted to you, or 0:12:48.679 --> 0:12:50.280 you want to keep the date short because you don't 0:12:50.280 --> 0:12:51.240 ever want to see her again. 0:12:52.200 --> 0:12:54.920 No, it's definitely because I want to keep her interested, 0:12:55.080 --> 0:12:58.720 and a woman like Glucy, the longer the date goes, 0:12:58.720 --> 0:13:00.560 the less interested she becomes because. 0:13:00.360 --> 0:13:01.559 She knows all about you. 0:13:01.640 --> 0:13:04.440 So you mentioned earlier there's two things that you always do. 0:13:04.559 --> 0:13:05.640 You keep the date short. 0:13:06.240 --> 0:13:10.880 Was one short? You don't give them any information. You 0:13:11.040 --> 0:13:12.440 just hey, I gotta go talk. 0:13:12.320 --> 0:13:12.760 To you later. 0:13:14.120 --> 0:13:15.680 So when you said you were going to meet up 0:13:15.720 --> 0:13:16.839 with a friend, that was a lie. 0:13:17.240 --> 0:13:18.040 That wasn't gonna lie. 0:13:18.080 --> 0:13:20.360 That was we were at the gym. I want to 0:13:20.360 --> 0:13:21.520 I want to go to the gym to meet a. 0:13:21.559 --> 0:13:23.160 Friend at the gym. But I'm not going to give 0:13:23.160 --> 0:13:23.880 her specifics. 0:13:23.880 --> 0:13:26.520 I'm not gonna whin and when and with who because 0:13:26.679 --> 0:13:29.200 I know that the moment I say that, all the 0:13:29.240 --> 0:13:29.960 mystery is gone. 0:13:30.120 --> 0:13:31.400 Wow wow, oh my god. 0:13:31.520 --> 0:13:34.840 Yeah, who's used to dating girls? 0:13:35.080 --> 0:13:39.560 Okay, so she found she found someone who? I mean, 0:13:39.600 --> 0:13:40.319 that's what it is. 0:13:40.400 --> 0:13:42.760 So clearly you seem to have some sort of strategy 0:13:42.800 --> 0:13:48.320 with her, well, a very a very clear plan. When 0:13:48.360 --> 0:13:50.959 do you plan to actually meet up with her again? 0:13:51.080 --> 0:13:52.320 Like how do you make that happen? 0:13:52.880 --> 0:13:54.640 Well, when I reached out to her, I'll say like, hey, 0:13:54.679 --> 0:13:55.920 do you want to get a COVID drinks or do 0:13:55.960 --> 0:13:57.760 you want to get some dinner tonight? And it's always 0:13:57.760 --> 0:13:58.920 got to be like last. 0:13:58.679 --> 0:14:01.640 Minute, Okay, you throw her a bone. 0:14:02.280 --> 0:14:04.720 I've been dodging her and I've been keeping it vague 0:14:04.720 --> 0:14:06.400 for so long that now she's gonna be like, oh, 0:14:06.440 --> 0:14:08.160 I got it track with the irons hot that that's 0:14:08.840 --> 0:14:09.360 all right. 0:14:10.160 --> 0:14:10.640 Just playing. 0:14:10.720 --> 0:14:13.680 Yeah, you're breaking Brooks spirit. The more that you talk about. 0:14:13.480 --> 0:14:14.319 It becau's just like. 0:14:16.600 --> 0:14:17.240 I'm proud of it. 0:14:17.480 --> 0:14:21.240 Yeah, I think she's proud of himself with this energy. 0:14:21.320 --> 0:14:23.360 Or go out with someone who thinks they're better. 0:14:23.160 --> 0:14:27.479 Than you, Like, yeah, I definitely wouldn't do this with everybody. 0:14:27.680 --> 0:14:29.600 I don't do this whole like every woman is the 0:14:29.640 --> 0:14:30.040 same thing. 0:14:30.320 --> 0:14:33.160 I just know the type of woman And when I. 0:14:33.160 --> 0:14:34.600 Ask her, Hey, what do you like to eat? And 0:14:34.640 --> 0:14:38.320 she's like hinting at the most expensive restaurants. 0:14:38.720 --> 0:14:43.440 Come on, dude, Yeah, you know how these women are. 0:14:43.560 --> 0:14:46.280 They try and like manipulate you, They try and like 0:14:46.360 --> 0:14:49.000 tell you how to live the relationship. And then and 0:14:49.080 --> 0:14:51.400 then they wait on the other line of this phone call, 0:14:51.760 --> 0:14:54.360 listening in on this radio show this entire time to 0:14:54.440 --> 0:14:55.760 everything that you said. 0:14:55.560 --> 0:14:57.120 Right, Well, what are you talking about? 0:14:57.160 --> 0:14:58.040 What did that mean? Well? 0:14:58.080 --> 0:14:59.640 I thought I thought you would have known by now. 0:14:59.720 --> 0:15:04.200 Lucy on the other line listening to this, what, Yeah, 0:15:04.240 --> 0:15:05.320 that's that's how this works. 0:15:05.680 --> 0:15:05.960 Lucy. 0:15:05.960 --> 0:15:07.680 Are you there? Hi? 0:15:08.240 --> 0:15:08.680 Nathan? 0:15:10.200 --> 0:15:13.240 He was Nate before his full name. 0:15:14.960 --> 0:15:19.640 You seriously thought like you were gonna hit my confidence. Baby, 0:15:19.680 --> 0:15:22.800 you can't bread crumb me, Okay, I own the bakery. 0:15:23.440 --> 0:15:29.840 Oh god, Lucy, Lucy, you can't say all of this 0:15:30.080 --> 0:15:32.320 after you've called the radio station to get afforded. 0:15:34.480 --> 0:15:34.840 You're not. 0:15:35.720 --> 0:15:36.080 I'm not. 0:15:37.680 --> 0:15:41.600 I'm curious about why you were being an asshole. And 0:15:41.720 --> 0:15:46.400 now I know because you like games. 0:15:46.600 --> 0:15:51.200 What I just I'm better at the game than you are. 0:15:52.160 --> 0:15:55.760 To pick up artist? Okay, you think necking women is 0:15:55.800 --> 0:15:57.240 the way to go, you are. 0:15:57.160 --> 0:16:06.160 An at all. I think nagging you is the right way, Honey. 0:16:06.360 --> 0:16:09.560 It doesn't work that way, It doesn't it. 0:16:09.680 --> 0:16:10.320 Just did. 0:16:11.760 --> 0:16:14.760 You literally called the radio station to get hold of me? 0:16:14.960 --> 0:16:15.600 How you say? 0:16:16.120 --> 0:16:17.240 No one like? 0:16:17.920 --> 0:16:22.600 No one like? Nobody does? 0:16:23.360 --> 0:16:25.000 Everybody's talking in the same time. 0:16:25.200 --> 0:16:28.480 Her defense a lot, She did say, remember, even if 0:16:28.480 --> 0:16:29.600 he likes me, I don't want to go out with 0:16:29.680 --> 0:16:30.000 him again. 0:16:30.320 --> 0:16:30.440 Why. 0:16:31.360 --> 0:16:33.360 I mean, here's the thing. Lucy like, it's not that 0:16:33.400 --> 0:16:40.040 you're beautiful, it's that you're I am, she's gorgeous. 0:16:40.080 --> 0:16:42.040 The reason he's playing the game is because you go 0:16:42.120 --> 0:16:44.560 around acting like you're better than everybody else. 0:16:44.640 --> 0:16:48.680 And that is fact, our facts. I am better looking thanan. 0:16:48.320 --> 0:16:49.200 Okay, well. 0:16:54.600 --> 0:16:57.600 Yeah, she absolutely is better looking than me. But I 0:16:57.640 --> 0:16:59.040 have a wrapp around my little finger. 0:17:01.080 --> 0:17:03.960 I got your finger right here. Okay, and you get 0:17:04.080 --> 0:17:04.560 the one. 0:17:04.760 --> 0:17:07.320 Wow, let's save that for the bedroom, guys, because this 0:17:07.440 --> 0:17:10.520 is getting a little bit spicy. What I think I'm 0:17:10.560 --> 0:17:13.120 trying to just read between the lines of that conversation 0:17:13.440 --> 0:17:16.280 and what Lucy was trying to say is she's willing 0:17:16.320 --> 0:17:20.480 to give you one more chance to do the date 0:17:20.560 --> 0:17:21.280