1 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:05,960 Speaker 1: Comedy Saved Me. What happens when a musician decides that 2 00:00:06,040 --> 00:00:09,000 Speaker 1: making people laugh is just as important as making them move. 3 00:00:09,760 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 1: Today's guest proves that sometimes the best performances are the 4 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:18,320 Speaker 1: ones that don't take themselves too seriously. As I'm watching, 5 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:23,840 Speaker 1: my guest, Jeremy Devardi, is the frontman of Steel Beans, 6 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 1: a band that's as much about entertainment as it is 7 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 1: about music. And while Jeremy may not have a Netflix 8 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:34,839 Speaker 1: comedy special yet, Jeremy brings a comedic energy to the 9 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 1: stage that transforms every show into something unpredictable and joyful. 10 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:43,040 Speaker 1: And he's a performer who understands the connection happens when 11 00:00:43,040 --> 00:00:47,879 Speaker 1: you're willing to be playful and spontaneous, but most importantly, 12 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 1: completely yourself. Today we are talking about how humor shapes 13 00:00:52,120 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 1: his performance, the moments when laughter pulls him through, and 14 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 1: why sometimes the best medicine comes from a killer guitar riff. 15 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:03,640 Speaker 1: Welcome to Comedy Save Me. I'm Lynn Hoffman and this 16 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 1: is Jeremy de VARDI Jeremy from Steel Beans. Welcome to 17 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:08,040 Speaker 1: the show. 18 00:01:09,040 --> 00:01:11,160 Speaker 2: That intro is puts a lot of pressure on me, 19 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:14,320 Speaker 2: but I appreciate it. That's amazing. I don't know if 20 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:17,640 Speaker 2: I've already won articulated like that, but yeah, absolutely, Well 21 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 2: you're very special. 22 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:22,279 Speaker 1: You are a man who's most known for a song 23 00:01:22,720 --> 00:01:27,039 Speaker 1: called Malotov Cocktail Lounge, which I just love rush, and 24 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:30,080 Speaker 1: you once referred to yourself when you are completely solo 25 00:01:30,160 --> 00:01:32,959 Speaker 1: and playing every instrument yourself, which I have such mad 26 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:38,120 Speaker 1: respect for. You are a self indulgent, arrogant, one man 27 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 1: band comedian. You do know I have a music podcast 28 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:43,560 Speaker 1: as well. So this is a little confusing because we're 29 00:01:43,600 --> 00:01:46,000 Speaker 1: going right down the middle on music and comedy. 30 00:01:46,680 --> 00:01:50,640 Speaker 2: Ah. You know, yeah, I would say that's an apropos 31 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 2: description of what the solo show is for sure. But 32 00:01:55,600 --> 00:01:58,000 Speaker 2: I think it just comes down to people that some 33 00:01:58,040 --> 00:02:00,920 Speaker 2: people are on when they're on on stage, and some 34 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 2: people are always on. And I think that's just my 35 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:08,800 Speaker 2: case is It's like it's just my personality. Yeah, a 36 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 2: lot of the things that people will compliment me on 37 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 2: I can hardly take credit for because it's I'm just like, oh, 38 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:17,480 Speaker 2: I'm like that in the van driving to the show. 39 00:02:17,639 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 1: You know, that's really special though, really special. And also 40 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 1: the fact that you're so I mean, you don't even 41 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 1: know what it is, you just do what you do 42 00:02:28,760 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 1: and people love it. 43 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:34,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's just it like half of the stuff, Like, 44 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 2: you know, I like to think I'm a you know, 45 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 2: I'm a funny person, but also with me, there's this 46 00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:43,800 Speaker 2: blurry line of what I'm doing to intend to be 47 00:02:43,919 --> 00:02:47,840 Speaker 2: funny and what is just funny by the sheer absurdity, 48 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 2: Like people will get the laugh and it's not even 49 00:02:51,480 --> 00:02:54,880 Speaker 2: the joke. It's just the fact that I happen to 50 00:02:54,919 --> 00:02:57,799 Speaker 2: be going so far out on a limb. And that's 51 00:02:57,800 --> 00:02:59,920 Speaker 2: what it's like to be in the band is the 52 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 2: band is constantly in some situation where like, you know, 53 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 2: the first take is funny, the tenth take it's not 54 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:11,440 Speaker 2: as funny, and then the twentieth take it's like, all right, 55 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:14,800 Speaker 2: what are we doing? Like people are sweating and going, okay, 56 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:17,320 Speaker 2: we're doing this again, and I'm like yeah, and then 57 00:03:17,360 --> 00:03:20,639 Speaker 2: it becomes funny again because you're wearing like a child 58 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 2: size Telemundo superhero outfit and you're in public in front 59 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:29,400 Speaker 2: of people doing something dangerous or illegal, or there's like 60 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:32,760 Speaker 2: cars honking and I'm actually blocking traffic to get this 61 00:03:32,840 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 2: take where I'm like pretending to hit buy a car 62 00:03:35,120 --> 00:03:39,080 Speaker 2: or something. It's like it's never short of it gets 63 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 2: absurd really quick here. You know, the band doesn't know 64 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 2: that when they sign up, because it's not like I 65 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 2: pitch it to him, like, well, it's a band, but 66 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:49,800 Speaker 2: it's also you're gonna be doing like theater, performance arts. 67 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:53,160 Speaker 2: Sometimes there's also some sketch comedy. They just show up 68 00:03:53,160 --> 00:03:56,080 Speaker 2: and then I put them through hell, and you can't 69 00:03:56,120 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 2: help but laugh in the end because I don't know 70 00:03:58,080 --> 00:03:59,560 Speaker 2: what he's doing, but he's doing it. 71 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:03,560 Speaker 1: I love that, and any chance that you could do 72 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:05,240 Speaker 1: that for a living is going to be like a 73 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 1: dream come true. And I would love to be a 74 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:10,000 Speaker 1: band member, even if it was just shaken a tambourine. 75 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:12,520 Speaker 1: I want to get into this more detailed with you. 76 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:15,440 Speaker 1: Oh thank you. Let's find out what my job will 77 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:17,640 Speaker 1: be when we come back right after this with Jeremy 78 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 1: de Barti from steal Beans, right after this Comedy Saved Me. 79 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:30,159 Speaker 1: Welcome to Comedy Save Me, Jeremy de Barti. For people 80 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:35,040 Speaker 1: who haven't experienced Steal Beans your incredible bands live, how 81 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:37,479 Speaker 1: would you describe what happens at one of your shows 82 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 1: and what is the energy like not just from the 83 00:04:39,680 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 1: stage but also the. 84 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:45,960 Speaker 2: Audience for for almost twenty years. When I get up 85 00:04:46,000 --> 00:04:49,440 Speaker 2: with the band behind me, it's kind of an it's 86 00:04:49,480 --> 00:04:51,720 Speaker 2: more of an orchestrated thing. With the band, it's song 87 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 2: after song, and there may be a theatrical bit I 88 00:04:54,360 --> 00:04:57,039 Speaker 2: have planned or I don't have plan that ends up happening. 89 00:04:57,560 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 2: But in my solo show, where I'm by myself, it's 90 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:06,039 Speaker 2: completely you know, like sometimes thirty percent, sometimes sixty percent 91 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:08,480 Speaker 2: of it is totally free form and anything can happen, 92 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:13,240 Speaker 2: and there's just this like one of my favorite things 93 00:05:13,240 --> 00:05:15,440 Speaker 2: in the last couple of years has been taking the 94 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:17,839 Speaker 2: solo show in front of audiences that only know me 95 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 2: from the internet and then finding out really fast, like, damn, 96 00:05:21,600 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 2: this is such this could go off the rail that 97 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 2: any second, and it does. I take enough risks that 98 00:05:27,880 --> 00:05:32,560 Speaker 2: it does fall on its face, and you know, I'm 99 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 2: not doing just solely stand up, but there are times 100 00:05:35,240 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 2: where I'm improvising long enough that it's riding high and 101 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:41,320 Speaker 2: then it kind of it kind of starts to volom 102 00:05:41,360 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 2: a little or drag, and then I win everybody back 103 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:47,440 Speaker 2: by twisting the energy and bringing up the tempo or 104 00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:52,440 Speaker 2: doing something. And I feel like there's this constant balance 105 00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:56,920 Speaker 2: where anytime something goes to it gets a little too 106 00:05:57,000 --> 00:06:00,839 Speaker 2: deep or emotional. I have to offset that by doing 107 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:04,000 Speaker 2: something silly or something's funny to take the light. It's 108 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:09,000 Speaker 2: almost like getting everybody to go there's Honestly, the solo show, 109 00:06:09,160 --> 00:06:12,360 Speaker 2: I think the presence of it itself is like kind 110 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:16,840 Speaker 2: of a It's confusing and uh, almost intimidating because I 111 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:19,320 Speaker 2: get into it, I'm slamming the drums and then when 112 00:06:19,360 --> 00:06:22,839 Speaker 2: I'm done, I'm like, so anyways, and that's like, that's 113 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:26,920 Speaker 2: the dynamic I'm constantly playing with and I avoid toying 114 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:30,360 Speaker 2: with people. The nervous system for sure. 115 00:06:30,520 --> 00:06:33,800 Speaker 1: Oh absolutely, because you know that the audience feels for 116 00:06:33,839 --> 00:06:37,120 Speaker 1: you while you're up there, so they want to support you. 117 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:40,800 Speaker 1: But if they feel like that you're seemingly bombing or 118 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 1: going some a wry place that they when you give 119 00:06:44,560 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 1: them the okay to laugh at it, they feel like, oh, 120 00:06:48,040 --> 00:06:48,760 Speaker 1: thank goodness. 121 00:06:49,560 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 2: It's like watching somebody on a tightrope. You're so worried 122 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:53,719 Speaker 2: for them. You're like, oh, this is going to go wrong. 123 00:06:53,760 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 2: He's going to drop a stick, he's going to do this. 124 00:06:56,080 --> 00:06:58,800 Speaker 2: But really I'm just I'm making it look harder than 125 00:06:58,839 --> 00:07:02,039 Speaker 2: it is because it's what I do, and it's actually 126 00:07:02,080 --> 00:07:05,320 Speaker 2: pretty effortless for me or pretty you know, I'm locked in, 127 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:08,320 Speaker 2: I'm in a flow state. But if something does go wrong, 128 00:07:08,760 --> 00:07:10,800 Speaker 2: they find out that I'll just make that part of 129 00:07:10,840 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 2: the show no matter what. If I die trying, doesn't 130 00:07:15,440 --> 00:07:18,239 Speaker 2: matter if I ripped my pants or I mess up apart, 131 00:07:18,480 --> 00:07:21,640 Speaker 2: or something goes terribly wrong. I'll just turn that into 132 00:07:21,640 --> 00:07:23,320 Speaker 2: the part of show, flip it on its head, and 133 00:07:23,320 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 2: then make that the joke. And it's like that's just 134 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 2: worked for me, and it's from like, you know, going 135 00:07:29,120 --> 00:07:32,560 Speaker 2: on twenty years of stage time. I did these shows 136 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:35,760 Speaker 2: with Tenacious D and then Tool a couple of years ago. 137 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:39,000 Speaker 2: First I went from playing to twenty people or one 138 00:07:39,080 --> 00:07:43,800 Speaker 2: hundred people to like sixteen thousand, and Dude, that never 139 00:07:43,840 --> 00:07:45,720 Speaker 2: once phased me. I just walked out there and I 140 00:07:45,760 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 2: felt as comfortable as I would have here in my 141 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:49,520 Speaker 2: room at my house. 142 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what you're making me. You made me feel 143 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 1: comfortable like I was at your house immediately when you 144 00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:58,080 Speaker 1: popped on the screen. And I've never met you before, 145 00:07:58,400 --> 00:08:02,560 Speaker 1: and you also have a very playful energy about you 146 00:08:02,760 --> 00:08:06,200 Speaker 1: with comedy and with not just with your performances, but 147 00:08:06,320 --> 00:08:10,040 Speaker 1: just in your personal interactions. So it's very disarming. So 148 00:08:10,080 --> 00:08:12,600 Speaker 1: I can only imagine, because I haven't seen you live, 149 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:15,080 Speaker 1: what it's like in that type of setting, and you 150 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:18,280 Speaker 1: painted quite a picture. Was this always your plan or 151 00:08:18,320 --> 00:08:21,120 Speaker 1: part of your musical identity or did this develop for 152 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:24,280 Speaker 1: you over time? You mean because you started with music 153 00:08:24,400 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 1: very young, right, You started like when you were three playing. 154 00:08:26,720 --> 00:08:29,800 Speaker 2: Well, I was banging on pots and pans, and my 155 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:33,439 Speaker 2: grandparents put you know, buckets in front of me, and 156 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:35,160 Speaker 2: then when I played the buckets, they put a little 157 00:08:35,200 --> 00:08:37,679 Speaker 2: drum set in front of me. And I never had 158 00:08:37,720 --> 00:08:40,360 Speaker 2: any lessons. I wasn't no prodigy. Like now on the 159 00:08:40,360 --> 00:08:42,080 Speaker 2: internet you see kids that are three and they're like, 160 00:08:42,240 --> 00:08:43,960 Speaker 2: but I don't know about it. I wasn't like that. 161 00:08:44,040 --> 00:08:48,320 Speaker 2: I was like boom tat, boom tat. I was having 162 00:08:48,360 --> 00:08:50,439 Speaker 2: dinner with these people a few weeks ago, and my 163 00:08:50,480 --> 00:08:53,440 Speaker 2: grandpa was there and I was just I ah, just 164 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:56,000 Speaker 2: being the sixteen year old, thirty seven year old that 165 00:08:56,040 --> 00:08:58,080 Speaker 2: I am, and they looked at him and they joke, 166 00:08:58,400 --> 00:09:01,200 Speaker 2: as you always been like this, and he goes, yes. 167 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 2: I would go through my grandma's closet and put on 168 00:09:05,240 --> 00:09:07,280 Speaker 2: like these little I called it my tappy shoes. I 169 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:10,120 Speaker 2: don't know what they were, but they're like these elactic 170 00:09:10,200 --> 00:09:13,280 Speaker 2: ankle band shoes, and I would tap around and like, 171 00:09:13,559 --> 00:09:15,720 Speaker 2: I'm always trying to put on a show or something, 172 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:19,240 Speaker 2: but not into Like I was never an attention horror. 173 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:22,440 Speaker 2: I just I'd be off in my own world, doing 174 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:26,400 Speaker 2: my own show by myself. Anyways, So did. 175 00:09:26,240 --> 00:09:29,240 Speaker 1: You like making people happy and feel good? Is that 176 00:09:29,280 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 1: sort of a podect? 177 00:09:30,400 --> 00:09:33,360 Speaker 2: That that is one of the meanings in life if 178 00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:36,920 Speaker 2: there ever was one. But also again, like so much 179 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:41,680 Speaker 2: of so much of my story is like inadvertently doing things, 180 00:09:41,760 --> 00:09:45,200 Speaker 2: you know, Like I feel strange to say this, but 181 00:09:45,240 --> 00:09:46,640 Speaker 2: no one else is here to say it for me. 182 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:50,200 Speaker 2: But I have changed some people's lives in the local 183 00:09:50,520 --> 00:09:53,000 Speaker 2: you know, art community, and the people that have been 184 00:09:53,040 --> 00:09:56,720 Speaker 2: in my band now, which is almost fifty people. I've 185 00:09:56,720 --> 00:09:58,720 Speaker 2: seen some of those people go off with a fire 186 00:09:58,800 --> 00:10:01,280 Speaker 2: under their ass to really get their thing together, and 187 00:10:02,920 --> 00:10:04,640 Speaker 2: people that used to be in the band have gone 188 00:10:04,720 --> 00:10:08,200 Speaker 2: and formed their own bands years later. And yeah, I 189 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:10,800 Speaker 2: feel like it has brought some people up. You know. 190 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:15,080 Speaker 1: Well, that's very very cool that you're not only you're 191 00:10:15,080 --> 00:10:18,600 Speaker 1: doing it, but you're inspiring others to do it as well. 192 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:22,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, I try not to soak in it too much 193 00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:25,240 Speaker 2: because it'll choke me up. It puts a lump in 194 00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 2: my throat to think I'm having a positive impact on anybody, 195 00:10:28,280 --> 00:10:31,600 Speaker 2: because I've just been sitting in a bedroom writing song 196 00:10:32,120 --> 00:10:36,240 Speaker 2: as a totally self serving addiction for so long now 197 00:10:36,280 --> 00:10:38,960 Speaker 2: that when anybody messages me or like I met a 198 00:10:38,960 --> 00:10:41,760 Speaker 2: guy at a show in Boston. I met a guy 199 00:10:41,800 --> 00:10:46,080 Speaker 2: in London. He's lost his leg in a motorcycle accident 200 00:10:46,080 --> 00:10:48,480 Speaker 2: and sold his drums, and then he saw my video. 201 00:10:49,360 --> 00:10:52,520 Speaker 2: He started watching my videos and he said, I finally 202 00:10:52,559 --> 00:10:56,240 Speaker 2: got a prosthetic and bob drums again. And I'll cry 203 00:10:56,400 --> 00:10:59,400 Speaker 2: just talking about it. But that's the craziest thing. You 204 00:10:59,520 --> 00:11:04,320 Speaker 2: never when you're sitting in your bedroom just going that 205 00:11:04,360 --> 00:11:06,520 Speaker 2: you'll go out and somebody will hit you with that bomb. 206 00:11:07,760 --> 00:11:10,040 Speaker 1: You know, that's not an easy thing to take. I mean, 207 00:11:10,080 --> 00:11:11,760 Speaker 1: when someone tells you that, what do you even say? 208 00:11:11,920 --> 00:11:14,319 Speaker 2: I mean, I try not to tear up, and I 209 00:11:15,120 --> 00:11:17,760 Speaker 2: don't know, I don't know. That's such a that's such 210 00:11:17,800 --> 00:11:21,679 Speaker 2: a heavy thing to say that. Man. You know, I 211 00:11:22,480 --> 00:11:25,440 Speaker 2: can only feel this shift in what was the thing 212 00:11:25,480 --> 00:11:27,760 Speaker 2: that I do in my basement or whatever is now 213 00:11:27,920 --> 00:11:32,040 Speaker 2: the people to some extent, and if somebody somewhere is 214 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:35,200 Speaker 2: in traffic and I make them smile, it's like, damn, 215 00:11:35,240 --> 00:11:37,679 Speaker 2: that's just such a higher purpose for all of this, 216 00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:39,559 Speaker 2: rather than just amusing myself. 217 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:44,360 Speaker 1: It's pretty awesome. You know, a lot of musicians take 218 00:11:44,400 --> 00:11:49,000 Speaker 1: themselves very seriously. I've interviewed many of them over the years, 219 00:11:50,440 --> 00:11:56,840 Speaker 1: but on stage mainly even more so, what made you 220 00:11:56,920 --> 00:12:00,000 Speaker 1: decide to lean in on the humor part and entertain 221 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 1: payment side of performing, because I've really never witnessed anything 222 00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:07,280 Speaker 1: other than maybe like a weird awl or you know, 223 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:09,080 Speaker 1: a tenacious d that much. 224 00:12:09,120 --> 00:12:12,720 Speaker 2: I think that's an interesting question because for me, I've 225 00:12:12,800 --> 00:12:16,240 Speaker 2: never like, I've made some silly songs, but really I've 226 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:19,640 Speaker 2: kind of like separated the or at least over time, 227 00:12:20,160 --> 00:12:25,319 Speaker 2: i've separated the songs aren't inherently silly. I'm just silly. 228 00:12:25,720 --> 00:12:27,959 Speaker 2: And I think that in the early stages, like two 229 00:12:28,040 --> 00:12:30,439 Speaker 2: thousand and five and the early two thousands, I was 230 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:33,200 Speaker 2: playing house shows or my first shows playing in bars. 231 00:12:33,640 --> 00:12:35,960 Speaker 2: It kind of takes the pressure off of like, oh 232 00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:38,560 Speaker 2: what if I fuck up? Yeah, everybody, I know, I 233 00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:40,880 Speaker 2: got everyone to come out my folks are here. You know, 234 00:12:41,440 --> 00:12:43,920 Speaker 2: I think that you just kind of start to you 235 00:12:44,120 --> 00:12:47,679 Speaker 2: gotta lighten it up, and it's if you mess up, 236 00:12:47,720 --> 00:12:49,600 Speaker 2: it's not the end of the world. And having a 237 00:12:49,640 --> 00:12:52,920 Speaker 2: sense of humor on stage really bridges that. But it's 238 00:12:53,080 --> 00:12:57,000 Speaker 2: a lot of people never get that comfortable, you know, no, and. 239 00:12:56,920 --> 00:13:00,320 Speaker 1: That's extremely comfortable. To be able to show your weekness 240 00:13:00,400 --> 00:13:03,120 Speaker 1: is like just but it's it's got to be so 241 00:13:03,160 --> 00:13:07,240 Speaker 1: inspirational to see someone almost appear to fail but then 242 00:13:07,320 --> 00:13:09,760 Speaker 1: turn it around and rise like a phoenix. It's it's 243 00:13:09,800 --> 00:13:11,920 Speaker 1: like that old story that but you do it all 244 00:13:11,960 --> 00:13:15,080 Speaker 1: in one show, as opposed to an entire movie where 245 00:13:15,200 --> 00:13:16,480 Speaker 1: the good guy wins. 246 00:13:16,600 --> 00:13:20,760 Speaker 2: The dally, you know. I mean, here's a major shift 247 00:13:20,800 --> 00:13:23,080 Speaker 2: for me is that when I had a trio in 248 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:25,320 Speaker 2: two thousand and six or seven and I was first 249 00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:28,480 Speaker 2: doing these shows, I would tell jokes and joke with 250 00:13:28,559 --> 00:13:31,679 Speaker 2: the audience, and my talking between songs and the rest 251 00:13:31,679 --> 00:13:34,680 Speaker 2: of the band would be kind of like adjusting their 252 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:37,720 Speaker 2: their knives and kind of like al right, we're gonna 253 00:13:37,720 --> 00:13:39,880 Speaker 2: play a song, and they'd get frustrated, and that would 254 00:13:39,880 --> 00:13:43,120 Speaker 2: really piss me off because I'm like, it's like, come on, 255 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:45,439 Speaker 2: just let so the pressure of them like, come on, 256 00:13:45,640 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 2: let's play a song. Well, when I started doing the 257 00:13:48,920 --> 00:13:52,840 Speaker 2: solo act, I was like, oh, I can just do whatever. 258 00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:55,200 Speaker 2: I'll stop in the middle of the song because someone's 259 00:13:55,240 --> 00:13:58,599 Speaker 2: doing something distracting and then just rip on them or 260 00:13:58,640 --> 00:14:02,120 Speaker 2: whatever feels like it's going to be. And I felt 261 00:14:02,120 --> 00:14:04,839 Speaker 2: that freedom, like, Oh, in the solo show, I can 262 00:14:04,880 --> 00:14:07,240 Speaker 2: just do whatever I want. There's no pressure of the 263 00:14:07,280 --> 00:14:10,960 Speaker 2: band going come on, man, let's play a song. Also 264 00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:13,320 Speaker 2: a good A good side note here, and I think 265 00:14:13,360 --> 00:14:18,080 Speaker 2: that every comedian can relate to this is that I 266 00:14:18,160 --> 00:14:21,280 Speaker 2: struggled to get the band in front of audiences and 267 00:14:21,320 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 2: to get us gigs for so long that when I 268 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:26,640 Speaker 2: started doing the solo show, it was kind of immediately 269 00:14:26,680 --> 00:14:28,960 Speaker 2: really loved, like twelve years ago, and I kind of 270 00:14:28,960 --> 00:14:32,280 Speaker 2: hated that even though people I liked that people liked it. 271 00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:34,400 Speaker 2: I was like, well, I've been trying to do the band, 272 00:14:34,440 --> 00:14:36,480 Speaker 2: what the fuck? So then I leaned into that and 273 00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:39,640 Speaker 2: abused that, and I kind of went Steve Martin like 274 00:14:40,320 --> 00:14:43,720 Speaker 2: asshole alter ego, like, oh, you guys didn't pay enough 275 00:14:43,720 --> 00:14:46,040 Speaker 2: to see me. And I kind of leaned into that, 276 00:14:46,120 --> 00:14:48,040 Speaker 2: and it was kind of funny because I could get 277 00:14:48,040 --> 00:14:50,680 Speaker 2: away with anything. I could get away with murder. I 278 00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:54,640 Speaker 2: was late. I was having balloons on stage and some 279 00:14:54,680 --> 00:14:57,040 Speaker 2: of them were heliums, some of them were nitrous, and 280 00:14:57,040 --> 00:15:01,680 Speaker 2: I'd huff those and then play a song. And there 281 00:15:01,760 --> 00:15:04,840 Speaker 2: was this show at Tim's Tavern Seattle, I'll never forget. 282 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:08,920 Speaker 2: I go and everybody be sure to tip me. Be 283 00:15:08,960 --> 00:15:12,160 Speaker 2: sure to tip the bartenders, but tip me first, because 284 00:15:12,160 --> 00:15:14,760 Speaker 2: I'm playing drums, guitars, singing at the same time. They're 285 00:15:14,840 --> 00:15:16,920 Speaker 2: just pouring liquid into a bottle. I could do that. 286 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:19,360 Speaker 2: I could do that all day, So tip them, but 287 00:15:19,400 --> 00:15:21,840 Speaker 2: not before you tip me. And the people at the 288 00:15:21,880 --> 00:15:24,000 Speaker 2: bar were like, I love this guy. I was like, God, 289 00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:25,040 Speaker 2: I could get away with any of it. 290 00:15:26,680 --> 00:15:32,680 Speaker 1: That's so fun. I'm jealous. That is the coolest thing ever. 291 00:15:33,160 --> 00:15:36,200 Speaker 1: Do you see comedy as music as separate skills that 292 00:15:36,640 --> 00:15:39,600 Speaker 1: you're combining because of what you sort of created, or 293 00:15:39,720 --> 00:15:42,520 Speaker 1: they totally intertwined for you at this point, music and comedy, 294 00:15:43,160 --> 00:15:43,560 Speaker 1: I don't know. 295 00:15:43,640 --> 00:15:46,600 Speaker 2: That's a good question for me. They're inseparable. I don't 296 00:15:46,600 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 2: even really think about it. But sometimes there's just huge 297 00:15:49,920 --> 00:15:52,520 Speaker 2: there's so many different kinds of humor, and I really 298 00:15:52,520 --> 00:15:54,560 Speaker 2: love all of them. There may be a couple that 299 00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:58,560 Speaker 2: I lean into or something, but I really I like 300 00:15:58,600 --> 00:16:01,360 Speaker 2: all the different forms of comedy. And sometimes the joke 301 00:16:01,560 --> 00:16:04,120 Speaker 2: is within a song, like if you get into full 302 00:16:04,240 --> 00:16:09,280 Speaker 2: nerd level, like like Steely Dan, for example, or Zappa, 303 00:16:09,760 --> 00:16:13,440 Speaker 2: the jokes aren't always literal or verbal. There'll be a 304 00:16:13,520 --> 00:16:15,960 Speaker 2: joke in the arrangement or the notes and they're like, 305 00:16:16,160 --> 00:16:16,880 Speaker 2: oh man. 306 00:16:17,400 --> 00:16:20,000 Speaker 1: Wait, wait, wait wait, whoa, whoa, whoa. Hold on, I'm interrupting. 307 00:16:20,360 --> 00:16:22,320 Speaker 1: Steely Dan is one of my all time favorite bands, 308 00:16:22,360 --> 00:16:24,520 Speaker 1: and you're telling me there was comedy mixed in with 309 00:16:24,600 --> 00:16:25,200 Speaker 1: Steely Dan. 310 00:16:25,760 --> 00:16:30,240 Speaker 2: It's it's very dry. Yeah no, I think that Donald 311 00:16:30,320 --> 00:16:36,960 Speaker 2: is throwing in little uh dry sardonic kind of you know, 312 00:16:37,600 --> 00:16:40,400 Speaker 2: what's the word. What do the British fuckers say? Cheeky 313 00:16:40,400 --> 00:16:43,280 Speaker 2: little things all over the place. And if it wasn't 314 00:16:43,280 --> 00:16:46,920 Speaker 2: in the yeah, yeah, I'm the lead. 315 00:16:46,960 --> 00:16:48,600 Speaker 1: Now we're gonna listen all over again. 316 00:16:48,640 --> 00:16:53,840 Speaker 2: Man out as songs like Everyone's Gone to the Movie, 317 00:16:54,320 --> 00:16:56,120 Speaker 2: which is like dark humor. 318 00:16:56,680 --> 00:16:59,920 Speaker 1: I never knew, never even picked up on it. Not one, 319 00:17:00,040 --> 00:17:03,160 Speaker 1: it's just love, the melodies, the harmonizing the song. 320 00:17:03,280 --> 00:17:05,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, they've they've got all kind of shit. I mean, 321 00:17:06,160 --> 00:17:09,120 Speaker 2: the more you dig into it, he's kind of he's 322 00:17:09,160 --> 00:17:12,480 Speaker 2: a funny guy. But I think those guys take themselves 323 00:17:12,480 --> 00:17:16,000 Speaker 2: pretty seriously, and that's fine. They should, they're incredible. But 324 00:17:16,119 --> 00:17:21,320 Speaker 2: I've always really gravitated towards I'm a person. I totally 325 00:17:21,359 --> 00:17:24,199 Speaker 2: separate the art from the person. You could be the 326 00:17:24,240 --> 00:17:27,120 Speaker 2: worst person in the world, but if you make art, 327 00:17:27,160 --> 00:17:30,280 Speaker 2: I'll be like, ah, that's great, because they're totally different. 328 00:17:30,320 --> 00:17:30,520 Speaker 3: You know. 329 00:17:30,840 --> 00:17:34,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, I love Zappa because he's a guy that's so qualified, 330 00:17:35,040 --> 00:17:36,959 Speaker 2: but at the end of the day, he doesn't take 331 00:17:37,040 --> 00:17:40,520 Speaker 2: himself seriously at all. And he'll do something jazz and 332 00:17:40,560 --> 00:17:43,280 Speaker 2: then two minutes later he'll do a doo wop song, 333 00:17:43,400 --> 00:17:45,960 Speaker 2: and then he'll do he'll do a heartfelt like love 334 00:17:46,040 --> 00:17:49,720 Speaker 2: song vallad and then something extremely silly right after that. 335 00:17:50,480 --> 00:17:52,760 Speaker 2: And that's like that kind of steered me into direction. 336 00:17:52,760 --> 00:17:55,600 Speaker 2: It's like, Okay, I don't have to. When I was 337 00:17:55,600 --> 00:17:57,800 Speaker 2: in high school just learning how to write songs, I 338 00:17:57,840 --> 00:18:01,760 Speaker 2: looked into like Echoes by Pink Floyd, and I go, damn, 339 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:06,320 Speaker 2: how do I overhead the albatross hangs motionless upon the air. 340 00:18:06,920 --> 00:18:09,359 Speaker 2: How can I ever be that deep or poetic or 341 00:18:09,400 --> 00:18:12,159 Speaker 2: that's so cool, and it just kind of stunted me, 342 00:18:12,240 --> 00:18:14,200 Speaker 2: like I don't know what to do now, because I'm 343 00:18:14,400 --> 00:18:17,480 Speaker 2: you know, this is like that's so good that it 344 00:18:17,560 --> 00:18:20,040 Speaker 2: actually kind of it fucked me up. But then I 345 00:18:20,160 --> 00:18:23,720 Speaker 2: downloaded I downloaded some Zappa songs and I just heard 346 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:27,840 Speaker 2: how like serious the music was but unfurious the lyrics were, 347 00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:29,800 Speaker 2: and I was like, oh, I don't have to be 348 00:18:29,920 --> 00:18:32,720 Speaker 2: that deep or serious all the time. I can just 349 00:18:32,800 --> 00:18:35,160 Speaker 2: have fun with this and not, you know, not every 350 00:18:35,200 --> 00:18:39,280 Speaker 2: song has to be some tear jerker with crazy level lyrics. 351 00:18:39,359 --> 00:18:40,959 Speaker 2: So that was very freeing. 352 00:18:41,520 --> 00:18:43,440 Speaker 1: Two Lost Souls swimming in a fish bowl. 353 00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:47,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's so yeah, that's insane. 354 00:18:47,880 --> 00:18:50,600 Speaker 1: You're not the first person to blend music and comedy, 355 00:18:50,760 --> 00:18:55,040 Speaker 1: but the way you're doing it is very rare and 356 00:18:55,160 --> 00:18:58,520 Speaker 1: unique and fun. And I can't wait till you come 357 00:18:58,560 --> 00:19:00,600 Speaker 1: through town so I can come your show. 358 00:19:01,040 --> 00:19:02,960 Speaker 2: I have a lot of songs out there that are 359 00:19:03,000 --> 00:19:05,679 Speaker 2: released that are silly, but i'd say now as I'm like, 360 00:19:06,080 --> 00:19:11,120 Speaker 2: you know, approaching forty, I've never written more mature, heartfelt 361 00:19:11,400 --> 00:19:14,440 Speaker 2: songs in my life. But if you see me live, 362 00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:18,280 Speaker 2: you're getting those songs. And some of those songs are 363 00:19:18,320 --> 00:19:21,080 Speaker 2: I hold very dear And I'll choke up and try 364 00:19:21,119 --> 00:19:24,200 Speaker 2: not to cry during some of those songs. But you're 365 00:19:24,200 --> 00:19:28,040 Speaker 2: getting the songs, but you're getting me. And that's like, 366 00:19:28,840 --> 00:19:31,280 Speaker 2: I'm gonna dick around and do something silly. I can't 367 00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:34,040 Speaker 2: help myself. I've had critique over the years from so 368 00:19:34,160 --> 00:19:38,000 Speaker 2: many people that'll see the show and go, you know, 369 00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:40,920 Speaker 2: maybe you should just do songs, and I'm like, yeah, 370 00:19:40,960 --> 00:19:44,119 Speaker 2: but I'm not doing a It's not that I'm trying 371 00:19:44,119 --> 00:19:46,119 Speaker 2: to do a bit. I'm just being myself up there 372 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:48,280 Speaker 2: and it comes out silly. Sometimes that's all right. 373 00:19:48,520 --> 00:19:51,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, Jeremy, I ask a lot of comedians this question, 374 00:19:51,800 --> 00:19:53,360 Speaker 1: and you just hit on it. I'm going to ask 375 00:19:53,400 --> 00:19:56,639 Speaker 1: you the same one. Do you think more of us 376 00:19:56,760 --> 00:20:00,840 Speaker 1: need to laugh at ourselves? Is that an important thing 377 00:20:00,920 --> 00:20:02,440 Speaker 1: for us to be able to do as humans, to 378 00:20:03,000 --> 00:20:06,400 Speaker 1: not only look inward, but to laugh at ourselves. 379 00:20:06,720 --> 00:20:12,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. Life is so silly, and no matter how hard 380 00:20:12,320 --> 00:20:15,280 Speaker 2: your times are, it's like, that's kind of my thing. 381 00:20:15,320 --> 00:20:17,159 Speaker 2: And I think that I saw that from my dad 382 00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:19,280 Speaker 2: and some of the people that inspired me, is that 383 00:20:19,800 --> 00:20:21,879 Speaker 2: you could be having the worst day of your life, 384 00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:24,960 Speaker 2: you have to be able to laugh at it. Otherwise 385 00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:29,199 Speaker 2: you're done because sulking about it and all that it's 386 00:20:29,280 --> 00:20:32,760 Speaker 2: not going to do anything for you. And that's my way. 387 00:20:33,359 --> 00:20:35,840 Speaker 2: And if I'm ever around the band or anybody that 388 00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:38,520 Speaker 2: gets to see it firsthand, I'm kind of proud that 389 00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:40,840 Speaker 2: they get to see fucking how to really do it, 390 00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:43,080 Speaker 2: because I'll be with the band or anybody in the 391 00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:46,400 Speaker 2: wheel fucking come off like could be literally and how 392 00:20:46,520 --> 00:20:49,600 Speaker 2: I go, yeah, we're making damn good time though, or whatever. 393 00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:54,960 Speaker 2: You know. It's like, And I'm gonna work with a 394 00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:58,000 Speaker 2: lot of like I'll work with people five ten years 395 00:20:58,040 --> 00:20:59,960 Speaker 2: younger than me, and I'll see them get so work 396 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:03,679 Speaker 2: up and go, oh man. I'll go, hey, it's fine, 397 00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:06,400 Speaker 2: it's fine, and they're like, oh no, but this went 398 00:21:06,440 --> 00:21:10,200 Speaker 2: wrong and that's fucked and we're laying I'm like, we'll 399 00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:12,280 Speaker 2: get there. It's gonna be the best show you've ever played, 400 00:21:12,680 --> 00:21:14,800 Speaker 2: or it won't. It's still gonna be fun. I just 401 00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:17,920 Speaker 2: tell people have fun. I work the band and I go, 402 00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:21,440 Speaker 2: they'll go, hey, all right, So I'm leaving at ten, Well, 403 00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:24,320 Speaker 2: midnight comes and I go, you got one more in you? 404 00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:27,119 Speaker 2: And these guys are like falling over sleepy, and I go, 405 00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:30,399 Speaker 2: let's run in two more times. I build it all up, 406 00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:33,280 Speaker 2: but then when the show actually comes, I'm like, whatever, 407 00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:36,199 Speaker 2: do it doesn't matter, you know, Like I just I 408 00:21:36,240 --> 00:21:38,600 Speaker 2: want them to do their work and feel comfortable so 409 00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:41,199 Speaker 2: that when they're on stage, they're not thinking about everything 410 00:21:41,280 --> 00:21:43,240 Speaker 2: they do and it just they get in that flow 411 00:21:43,280 --> 00:21:46,080 Speaker 2: state and just do well and they're not stressed about it. 412 00:21:46,119 --> 00:21:49,359 Speaker 2: But it's the hardest switch to turn off for people, 413 00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:52,720 Speaker 2: I think is to not worry. If you're self aware 414 00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:55,240 Speaker 2: enough to not take yourself seriously and be able to 415 00:21:55,320 --> 00:21:58,240 Speaker 2: laugh at yourself, I think that's the thing that will 416 00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:01,919 Speaker 2: really carry you, especially in comedy. Is like, although I 417 00:22:01,960 --> 00:22:05,000 Speaker 2: think that there's nothing funnier than like guy that thinks 418 00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:07,679 Speaker 2: he's the shit kind of comedy, I think that like 419 00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:10,600 Speaker 2: Kenny Powers is like a good example of that kind 420 00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:13,800 Speaker 2: of brain of comedy. Is somebody that doesn't laugh at themselves, 421 00:22:13,840 --> 00:22:16,960 Speaker 2: They take themselves seriously, they don't have that awareness, and 422 00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:18,879 Speaker 2: then you watch them fall in their face. It's like 423 00:22:19,119 --> 00:22:23,120 Speaker 2: that's a timeless device right there. You know. Sometimes we're 424 00:22:23,119 --> 00:22:25,000 Speaker 2: all that guy and you know. 425 00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:28,720 Speaker 1: What you're saying is you're an optimist eternally and also 426 00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:31,359 Speaker 1: looking inward doesn't just help you as a musician or 427 00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:34,000 Speaker 1: a comedian. It can help you in life, Yeah, in 428 00:22:34,080 --> 00:22:34,840 Speaker 1: anything in. 429 00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:40,119 Speaker 2: Life, absolutely really yeah. And I think that where I 430 00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:43,320 Speaker 2: rest in like the craft of songwriting, which is truly 431 00:22:43,400 --> 00:22:45,960 Speaker 2: my life. You know, I consider myself a writer before 432 00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:49,520 Speaker 2: anything else. I write songs every day, and the science 433 00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:52,040 Speaker 2: and the craft of that and the spiritual nature of 434 00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:54,679 Speaker 2: that is like I live for it. I'm like a 435 00:22:54,760 --> 00:22:58,760 Speaker 2: junkie for it's it's literally it can be problematic, But 436 00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:03,200 Speaker 2: I think that a comedian or a writer, the line 437 00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:08,120 Speaker 2: between these two forms of art is that you're figuring 438 00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:11,000 Speaker 2: yourself out all the time, and then you put her 439 00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:12,639 Speaker 2: under a glass case and you move on to the 440 00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:15,400 Speaker 2: next thing. And I'm finding out all the time that 441 00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:18,439 Speaker 2: the better I get at my craft, the more I 442 00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:21,720 Speaker 2: can articulate something that maybe I never vented, that was 443 00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:24,080 Speaker 2: from thirty years ago. And I think the comedy is 444 00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:26,920 Speaker 2: the same way. There's a certain vulnerability to it, all 445 00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:29,879 Speaker 2: that vulnerable vulnerability. 446 00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:30,640 Speaker 1: Nice job. 447 00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:33,200 Speaker 2: I'm not usually I'm not usually awake at this hour. 448 00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:35,520 Speaker 2: That's why this is my seventh shot of espresso. 449 00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:38,920 Speaker 1: Well, that makes sense. Comedians usually are working late into 450 00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:42,280 Speaker 1: the night, especially musician comedians, you got a lot going on. 451 00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:44,680 Speaker 1: You don't just walk on stage. You got to bring 452 00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:47,239 Speaker 1: all the instruments and the tech and the gear and 453 00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:48,119 Speaker 1: the aw the whole thing. 454 00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:51,120 Speaker 2: Oh, let me tell you, that's a lot. It's crazy. 455 00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:55,680 Speaker 2: It's crazy all these years. Like sometimes, the best idea. 456 00:23:56,080 --> 00:23:58,040 Speaker 2: I don't want to discredit all the stuff I do 457 00:23:58,080 --> 00:24:00,520 Speaker 2: that I plan out and put a lot of work into, 458 00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:03,119 Speaker 2: but some of the things that people still bring up 459 00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:06,480 Speaker 2: the memorable moments of past shows was an idea that 460 00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:09,359 Speaker 2: I'm an hour late to the show I forgot I 461 00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:12,960 Speaker 2: even have one, or I'm driving there, I open the trunk, 462 00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:15,480 Speaker 2: I start to unload the gear, and I see a 463 00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:20,640 Speaker 2: mannequin head or rubber iguana, an all deflated birthday balloon, 464 00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:24,679 Speaker 2: and some a bag of novelty canoes. And in the 465 00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:27,400 Speaker 2: time that I've carried my stuff in, I go, I'm 466 00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:31,199 Speaker 2: going to bring the iguana out to the audience and 467 00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:34,080 Speaker 2: it's going to be his birthday. We'll have the birthday balloon, 468 00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:36,680 Speaker 2: and then I'll have everyone play Happy Birthday with those 469 00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:40,360 Speaker 2: cheap kazoos while petting it. And then I always go, 470 00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:43,640 Speaker 2: I'm gonna need those kazoos back by the way, because 471 00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:47,400 Speaker 2: I got a AIDS clinic I do on Thursdays where 472 00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:49,560 Speaker 2: we use those or something that was that was the 473 00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:50,240 Speaker 2: thing I used to do. 474 00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:52,080 Speaker 1: But you just came up with that when you pulled 475 00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:54,560 Speaker 1: that out of the car as you're walking in every day. 476 00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:57,520 Speaker 2: Like I had some jumper cables, jumper cables in my 477 00:24:57,600 --> 00:25:00,720 Speaker 2: trunk and some mannequin head and I did a show 478 00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:04,199 Speaker 2: that like I have no setlist, a love of the 479 00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:06,200 Speaker 2: time in the solo show, and so I was like, 480 00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:08,200 Speaker 2: I'm gonna hook the jumper cables up to the front 481 00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:10,440 Speaker 2: of the bass drum and then to this guy's head 482 00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:13,879 Speaker 2: and then at some point in the show improvise a 483 00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:17,000 Speaker 2: bit where I don't know. It's like, yeah, it's what 484 00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:18,800 Speaker 2: can I make out of what I have with me? 485 00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:23,200 Speaker 2: And I think that if you expand on that, that's 486 00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:25,760 Speaker 2: kind of the perspective of like, that's how I see 487 00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:29,040 Speaker 2: the world, is that you become an executive producer for 488 00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:33,080 Speaker 2: everything around you, every single thing in this room, every 489 00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:35,600 Speaker 2: human This is my world. You're just living in it, 490 00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:37,879 Speaker 2: and you're all in my play. It's like, what do 491 00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:41,119 Speaker 2: I decide is art? It's not just paint and a 492 00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:44,600 Speaker 2: palette and a canvas. It's like that iguana head, this 493 00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:47,199 Speaker 2: melody I've been kicking around, and a catch phrase I 494 00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:49,560 Speaker 2: learned on a construction site ten years ago. It's like, 495 00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:52,840 Speaker 2: all of these are all elements and odds to be combined 496 00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:56,160 Speaker 2: into something, and that's how abstract people should look at art. 497 00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:58,159 Speaker 2: But instead they're like, well, I got to watch a 498 00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:00,800 Speaker 2: how to video and I got a buy a guitar. 499 00:26:01,080 --> 00:26:03,639 Speaker 2: I gotta do open mics. It's like, no, you don't 500 00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:08,560 Speaker 2: just quit being inhibited and just fucking get weird. Do it? 501 00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:08,919 Speaker 2: Do it? 502 00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:11,000 Speaker 1: Get in touch with your weird side. Everyone has to 503 00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:11,880 Speaker 1: be a little bit weird. 504 00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:16,280 Speaker 3: You will be right back with more of the Comedy 505 00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:25,520 Speaker 3: Saved Me podcast. Welcome back to the Comedy Save Me Podcast. 506 00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:29,159 Speaker 1: Now I'm going to change the subject a little too, 507 00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:33,120 Speaker 1: a little more serious. Can you think about maybe because 508 00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:35,440 Speaker 1: you seem so happy and fun loving, but I can't 509 00:26:35,480 --> 00:26:37,640 Speaker 1: imagine that there hasn't been strife in your life. There 510 00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:40,919 Speaker 1: is in everybody's life at one time or another. Is 511 00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:42,919 Speaker 1: can you think about a time in your life that 512 00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:45,520 Speaker 1: was a little bit difficult and how humor helped you 513 00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:48,359 Speaker 1: get through it, Or when you're going through something heavy, 514 00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:50,919 Speaker 1: like you know, how do you process it? Does it 515 00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:53,720 Speaker 1: through music? Is it through writing? Is it comedy? Is 516 00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:54,920 Speaker 1: it going for a bike ride? 517 00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:59,080 Speaker 2: Oh? I think like any American man, I shut it 518 00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:02,120 Speaker 2: down and not face it whatsoever. But that's where art 519 00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:04,399 Speaker 2: comes in, because ten years later I can make a 520 00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:07,520 Speaker 2: song about it. And as I'm getting older, I feel 521 00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:11,040 Speaker 2: more and more comfortable with talking about anything and kind 522 00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:13,520 Speaker 2: of venting, and I'll sit down at the piano and 523 00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:16,560 Speaker 2: make something and then when it's done, I'll go, man, like, 524 00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:19,560 Speaker 2: I can't believe I wrote that. Like I I think 525 00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:23,320 Speaker 2: the reality is is the way that my body works 526 00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:27,440 Speaker 2: is my defense mechanism is Like it's like self numbing 527 00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:31,400 Speaker 2: to a point where I may be still figuring out 528 00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:35,160 Speaker 2: how terrible my life actually was through writing songs about it. 529 00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:38,240 Speaker 2: You know. I think that's the thing is all of 530 00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:42,040 Speaker 2: my strength are built out of weaknesses, whether I realized 531 00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:46,000 Speaker 2: it or not. My parents split up when I was two, 532 00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:51,159 Speaker 2: so my inner voice is still intact from being a child. 533 00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:55,040 Speaker 2: Because I'd be off dancing to jungle Book or something, 534 00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:58,800 Speaker 2: listening to my inner voice and creating and making life fun. 535 00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:01,159 Speaker 2: I didn't realize what I was doing, but I was 536 00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:05,200 Speaker 2: creating this independence that it's still what I live by, 537 00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:08,800 Speaker 2: you know, and I've never lost, at least not in 538 00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:12,120 Speaker 2: the last ten years or so, because music and art 539 00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:13,320 Speaker 2: always guides me back. 540 00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:13,639 Speaker 3: You know. 541 00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:17,320 Speaker 2: It's a really roundabout long way to answer the question. 542 00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:19,600 Speaker 2: But you know, I look at a lot of people 543 00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:21,879 Speaker 2: I know and people that I see out there, and 544 00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:25,240 Speaker 2: I go, my life has been way harder than that guy, 545 00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:28,520 Speaker 2: and he sure complains a lot more. I just I 546 00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:31,440 Speaker 2: feel like I try not to talk about it because 547 00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:33,520 Speaker 2: I don't want to be a downer, but it's you know, 548 00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:36,879 Speaker 2: people got to see the other side of the token, 549 00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:40,000 Speaker 2: like I'm such an optimist and I'm such a I 550 00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:43,920 Speaker 2: want to be happy because my shit has been so rough, honestly, 551 00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:46,760 Speaker 2: you know. And there's a lot of people that grew 552 00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:50,640 Speaker 2: up in a suburb in the middle of nowhere that 553 00:28:50,880 --> 00:28:53,720 Speaker 2: their life has been perfect. They all write the status 554 00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:58,600 Speaker 2: music because insand they want the pain. But me, man, 555 00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:01,120 Speaker 2: I want to write happy music. I've already I've already 556 00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:03,840 Speaker 2: seen sad shit, Like there's already enough sad music in 557 00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:07,920 Speaker 2: the world. So whenever I write something deep or emotional 558 00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:10,800 Speaker 2: or kind of sad ish, I wanted to have an 559 00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:14,120 Speaker 2: impact in a meaning that's that's not shallow like it 560 00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:16,880 Speaker 2: has to be. It has to be timeless in a 561 00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:19,080 Speaker 2: way that I can feel like. It's not a woozy 562 00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:22,120 Speaker 2: saying it. You know a lot of emotional music out there, 563 00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:24,800 Speaker 2: they're just woosies. And I want to write stuff like 564 00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:26,960 Speaker 2: I was sitting here in this room and I just 565 00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:29,120 Speaker 2: thought a few years ago, I thought, man, there's gonna 566 00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:31,480 Speaker 2: be a day where I die and my son is 567 00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:35,680 Speaker 2: left without me. And that just is like a paralyzing thought. 568 00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:38,680 Speaker 2: So you know, I wrote some songs in that mindset. 569 00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:41,640 Speaker 2: You would never know because they don't sound as sad 570 00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:44,560 Speaker 2: as that would imply. But that's the whole thing is 571 00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:46,800 Speaker 2: is finding you a way to put sugar on the 572 00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:50,080 Speaker 2: medicine of life. And that's where comedy brings all this 573 00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:53,160 Speaker 2: stuff together. It's like if you can't laugh or you 574 00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:56,760 Speaker 2: take stuff so seriously. I live like I could die 575 00:29:56,800 --> 00:29:59,520 Speaker 2: next week. So what am I gonna do? Save my money? No, 576 00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:01,760 Speaker 2: I'm gonna buy that guitar, I'm gonna buy that keyboard. 577 00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:04,320 Speaker 2: I'm gonna drive around with no real aim of where 578 00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:07,360 Speaker 2: I'm going, just to listen to music. And I think 579 00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:09,800 Speaker 2: that the only way to really live is to live 580 00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:11,080 Speaker 2: by that you know. 581 00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:14,440 Speaker 1: It's a great It's first of all, it's very selfless 582 00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:17,960 Speaker 1: the way that you attack writing songs. But I would 583 00:30:18,080 --> 00:30:19,680 Speaker 1: like to coin a new phrase with you. Maybe you 584 00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:23,200 Speaker 1: can use it the Steely Dan effect. You hear something 585 00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:25,200 Speaker 1: you think is so serious but you don't realize it, 586 00:30:25,720 --> 00:30:28,840 Speaker 1: or the opposite comedy and it's actually really telling the job. 587 00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:31,160 Speaker 2: Well, I think that it speaks volumes to the fact 588 00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:35,000 Speaker 2: that Steely Dan were masters of music and their craft 589 00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:38,640 Speaker 2: and of jazz, but as people they were silly. So 590 00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:41,720 Speaker 2: it's like, where does the personality peak through in the music? 591 00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:44,800 Speaker 2: What we go as far back as Cheech and Chong 592 00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:47,280 Speaker 2: and then Fire signed Theater and then for me in 593 00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:50,440 Speaker 2: the nineties in grade school, I was listening to the 594 00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:54,040 Speaker 2: Adam Sandler records were amazing. I just went and re 595 00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:57,959 Speaker 2: listened to They're All Gonna Laugh at You. Honestly, some 596 00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:01,280 Speaker 2: of those bit hit way harder. Now. The thing is, 597 00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:04,680 Speaker 2: there are people that write really heartfelt songs, but I'm 598 00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:10,440 Speaker 2: never I'm not always convinced that it's sincere and if 599 00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:14,320 Speaker 2: they take themselves really seriously, that's kind of a giveaway. Like, well, 600 00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:17,640 Speaker 2: I'll listen to Mark Lanagan and when it's a really deep, 601 00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:21,880 Speaker 2: profound emotional song. I really feel it, and I'm like, 602 00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:25,680 Speaker 2: I believe it. And when somebody's singing on stage, like 603 00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:28,160 Speaker 2: I like to know that guy's been through hell. You know, 604 00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:31,840 Speaker 2: I think there, you know what I mean? Like, I 605 00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:35,760 Speaker 2: think the emotional music, emotional music that's written by like 606 00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:39,400 Speaker 2: a diverse person, Like I think that the future. I 607 00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:44,280 Speaker 2: think the future of of man on Earth is going 608 00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:46,400 Speaker 2: to be a guy that can run a chainsaw and 609 00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:50,120 Speaker 2: kick your ass and is masculine, but it's also completely 610 00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:54,800 Speaker 2: emotionally like I feel you. Yes, the soft muscleheads. I 611 00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:56,760 Speaker 2: don't know what it is, but I've never felt more 612 00:31:56,800 --> 00:31:58,719 Speaker 2: in touch with that in my life. And it's like, 613 00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:02,880 Speaker 2: I'm an artsy fend me weirdo, but dude, I also 614 00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:06,760 Speaker 2: mill lawns and pick up a mower. The older I get, 615 00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:09,880 Speaker 2: the more comfortable I am with being masculine, it's like 616 00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:13,680 Speaker 2: that's okay, but never, but never, just don't be a dick, 617 00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:14,240 Speaker 2: you know. 618 00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:17,320 Speaker 1: No, it's you know what, You're so right? I think 619 00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:19,480 Speaker 1: it's like you're going at it from the opposite way, 620 00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:25,040 Speaker 1: but it makes perfect sense either way, because women do 621 00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:27,720 Speaker 1: need some type of depth in there, so that you 622 00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:30,600 Speaker 1: can have a conversation because we like to talk about 623 00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:33,520 Speaker 1: deep stuff, but we also want the guy who can 624 00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:35,959 Speaker 1: pull the chainsaw and go take care of business. So 625 00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:40,520 Speaker 1: you know, it's a wonderful combination and funny enough. Now 626 00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:43,400 Speaker 1: in twenty twenty five, it's actually okay to talk about 627 00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:46,840 Speaker 1: your feelings if you're a guy, and it's not a turnoff. 628 00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:48,200 Speaker 1: I don't think from women. 629 00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:50,640 Speaker 2: Not of the construction site. I think there's still maybe 630 00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:54,360 Speaker 2: a little behind out in the general world of man. 631 00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:57,160 Speaker 2: But I always live this dual life because that'd be 632 00:32:57,200 --> 00:33:00,200 Speaker 2: at home writing songs and like I'm practically shakes here 633 00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:04,240 Speaker 2: in my basement and I'm a I'm like a I've 634 00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:06,480 Speaker 2: been with like ten people in my life, and I've 635 00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:10,080 Speaker 2: always just been in relationships, and I'm like this romantic 636 00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:13,440 Speaker 2: I want to shove all this stuff on the counters 637 00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:16,480 Speaker 2: of the kitchen, shove that under into the cupboards, make 638 00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:19,040 Speaker 2: it look nice, and then go use my food stamps 639 00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:21,840 Speaker 2: to get like some kind of a pasta thing. And 640 00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:25,400 Speaker 2: then I'm like playing acoustic guitar, you know what I mean. 641 00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:28,200 Speaker 2: That's the life I'm I'm leading. But then I also 642 00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:31,320 Speaker 2: go to work on a construction job site. In a 643 00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:33,280 Speaker 2: flannel and I'm lifting this shit and you're like kind 644 00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:35,760 Speaker 2: of with the boys and everyone's really vulgar, and I 645 00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:37,760 Speaker 2: can connect with that. But there's also part of me 646 00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:42,000 Speaker 2: living this dual life where I'm like, yeah, I know 647 00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:45,440 Speaker 2: what you mean, but I don't at all, Like you know. 648 00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:48,800 Speaker 1: You have no idea, but you just but it looks 649 00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:50,920 Speaker 1: good and it relates. I mean, if people think that 650 00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:51,200 Speaker 1: you hear. 651 00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:53,360 Speaker 2: There's a point of man show where I'll connect and 652 00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:57,040 Speaker 2: then it falls off where it's just like kind of 653 00:33:57,640 --> 00:34:00,440 Speaker 2: you know, SARTs and woman and I thing something and 654 00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:03,160 Speaker 2: then I'm like, all right, that's but I grew up 655 00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:05,920 Speaker 2: with a single mom and and a little sister and 656 00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:09,200 Speaker 2: a you know, so it's like there's there's also that 657 00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:10,560 Speaker 2: side too, you know. 658 00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:14,160 Speaker 1: Well, what can I ask, what was the most ridiculous 659 00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:17,360 Speaker 1: thing that's ever happened during a Steel Beans show? 660 00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:18,000 Speaker 2: Oh? 661 00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:21,359 Speaker 1: Oh, you're rubbing your hands together. You've got a good one. 662 00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:25,840 Speaker 2: It's so it's so vast and nebulous. I honestly, god, 663 00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:29,040 Speaker 2: the most absurd thing to happen in my show is like, 664 00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:32,920 Speaker 2: what's the windiest wind at a hurricane or something? I Mean, 665 00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:34,839 Speaker 2: there's been some crazy stuff. 666 00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:37,440 Speaker 1: The wiest wind of a hurricane. 667 00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:39,920 Speaker 2: There's one time when this is not even that crazy, 668 00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:42,520 Speaker 2: but for the people that were there, it was. I 669 00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:45,399 Speaker 2: got a text in the middle of a show that 670 00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:47,959 Speaker 2: and by the way, this is like a small venue 671 00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:50,520 Speaker 2: where I get two three hours to do whatever I want, 672 00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:54,360 Speaker 2: so it's not like a thirty minute set whatever. But 673 00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:57,239 Speaker 2: I get a text that like, I thought that my 674 00:34:57,320 --> 00:35:01,279 Speaker 2: girlfriend was going into labor, and I go, I think 675 00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:04,160 Speaker 2: we're having the baby now. So the whole venue rushed 676 00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:06,160 Speaker 2: up and all grabbed my stuff and we all crammed 677 00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:09,280 Speaker 2: it into my little saturn ion. It's like drum set, keyboard, 678 00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:11,920 Speaker 2: all this stuff, and now ruy thol over and I 679 00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:14,200 Speaker 2: went to the hospital and it was like a fault alarm. 680 00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:17,160 Speaker 2: Oh no, but I've also done here's the thing. He's 681 00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:20,480 Speaker 2: like people told me for years back in the day, 682 00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:23,560 Speaker 2: like kind of remind me of Andy Kaufman a little bit. 683 00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:25,040 Speaker 1: Oh yeah. 684 00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:27,040 Speaker 2: I didn't really see that at the time, so I 685 00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:31,160 Speaker 2: was like, huh, I guess thanks. I love Andy, but 686 00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:34,319 Speaker 2: I didn't see the connection. And now years later I 687 00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:37,040 Speaker 2: kind of get it. It's pretty in your face that 688 00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:42,160 Speaker 2: steeled beans or salmonella records, which are kind of like synonymous. 689 00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:45,919 Speaker 2: It really is such an inside joke that sometimes it's 690 00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:48,960 Speaker 2: only inside to me. And now I realize, like what 691 00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:51,200 Speaker 2: they meant by that. Like I've done shows where I 692 00:35:52,080 --> 00:35:56,040 Speaker 2: responded in the email. One time, h No, I'm not available. 693 00:35:56,400 --> 00:35:58,800 Speaker 2: This guy offered me a gig. I looked at the bill. 694 00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:01,640 Speaker 2: It was like Country America con artists, and I said, 695 00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:04,759 Speaker 2: I'm not available. But these guys staying in my house 696 00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:07,879 Speaker 2: from Nashville are a legit country duo. I'm sure they'd 697 00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:10,239 Speaker 2: love to do it. This is perfect. So then my 698 00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:13,759 Speaker 2: friend Zach and I was a great comedian a great songwriter. 699 00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:17,320 Speaker 2: We both went as these characters from Nashville and talked 700 00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:20,080 Speaker 2: in an accident. We came up with our whole backstore. 701 00:36:20,200 --> 00:36:23,279 Speaker 2: We wore our western best and we went in there 702 00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:26,719 Speaker 2: and like maintained it the entire night, telling everybody there 703 00:36:26,719 --> 00:36:30,319 Speaker 2: we're from Nashville, the owners of the play, whoever it was, 704 00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:33,799 Speaker 2: or like, well, thank you kindly, and it's called the 705 00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:36,280 Speaker 2: We called it the Runny Nose. Bros. 706 00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:38,759 Speaker 1: You are killing me. Did you come up with that 707 00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:41,240 Speaker 1: on the spot when the call came in and literally 708 00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:42,759 Speaker 1: went with it from that minute on. 709 00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:47,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, that is insane. We carried this song the whole time, 710 00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:51,400 Speaker 2: and there's even a moment that we're talking to somebody, 711 00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:56,879 Speaker 2: she's like, oh, yeah, I'm from down by wherever, and 712 00:36:56,920 --> 00:37:00,200 Speaker 2: we we looked up in a neighborhood, so we're like, yeah, yeah, 713 00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:03,440 Speaker 2: he's actually born in Bowling Green. But like we were 714 00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:06,360 Speaker 2: practicing our access three in the morning, we get into 715 00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:08,920 Speaker 2: his little tiny car and we close the doors and 716 00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:12,480 Speaker 2: we go and we're just dying because it's like we 717 00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:15,080 Speaker 2: just have this, you know. But it's always been something 718 00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:17,960 Speaker 2: like that. I'll call the baseball stadium and just make 719 00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:20,640 Speaker 2: some shit up and pretend I'm some other dude and go, yeah, 720 00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:22,600 Speaker 2: we really want to get this Steel Beans group in 721 00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:25,880 Speaker 2: here to just perform something in the center of the field. 722 00:37:26,040 --> 00:37:29,920 Speaker 2: It's like the inside joke is it's it's such an 723 00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:32,480 Speaker 2: onion layer. I do jokes all the time that are 724 00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:35,640 Speaker 2: relative to something we've been joking about in the van. Yeah, 725 00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:37,640 Speaker 2: I do this all the time, and I'll throw it 726 00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:40,520 Speaker 2: out there and I know that a couple people laugh 727 00:37:40,600 --> 00:37:43,319 Speaker 2: just because it's silly, but the band, they're getting it. 728 00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:45,840 Speaker 2: I'm like playing to them, and that happens all the time. Anyways, 729 00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:46,960 Speaker 2: I'm gonna stop talking about that. 730 00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:49,719 Speaker 1: No, it's awesome. I mean it's like, you know, that's 731 00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:51,680 Speaker 1: like a letterman. Uh. I was trying to figure out 732 00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:53,440 Speaker 1: was that a Letterman or Seinfeld thing? Where you can 733 00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:56,080 Speaker 1: bring it back like the initial joke, and then you 734 00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:58,000 Speaker 1: can bring it back around in the end too, and 735 00:37:58,040 --> 00:37:59,000 Speaker 1: everyone gets it. 736 00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:03,640 Speaker 2: Right, right. I think those call those those callbacks are great, 737 00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:05,920 Speaker 2: and throughout my solo show, I kind of do that 738 00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:09,520 Speaker 2: a lot. If somebody, if somebody does something that stands out, 739 00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:13,400 Speaker 2: or I'll do these I'll build a song from scratch 740 00:38:13,840 --> 00:38:16,000 Speaker 2: and I'll ask for people to call out the weirdest 741 00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:19,359 Speaker 2: thing they can think of, and they'll be like centaur, platypus, 742 00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:23,000 Speaker 2: tits tractor, and I go, what kind of song is it? 743 00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:25,680 Speaker 2: They'll go it's a reggae, it's a metal and I'll go, okay, 744 00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:27,480 Speaker 2: it's a reggae song. It turns into a metal soone 745 00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:29,200 Speaker 2: and it's about a centaur and a break and I'll 746 00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:32,359 Speaker 2: kind of like fire on these cylinders and hammer back 747 00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:36,120 Speaker 2: all these things they just said, and I'll even impress 748 00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:39,640 Speaker 2: myself if I can pull it off. But then forty 749 00:38:39,640 --> 00:38:41,880 Speaker 2: minutes later, I'll like bring it back around to the 750 00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:44,560 Speaker 2: centaur and tell a story about them or something. You know, 751 00:38:44,640 --> 00:38:47,320 Speaker 2: it's and the plan. It always feels like bonus points. 752 00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:51,839 Speaker 1: It's awesome. I mean, I've never heard did First of all, 753 00:38:51,920 --> 00:38:54,840 Speaker 1: can we just rewind real quick from that last question 754 00:38:54,960 --> 00:38:58,000 Speaker 1: I asked you. You said they called you to book you, 755 00:38:58,120 --> 00:39:00,880 Speaker 1: and you said, no, but I have a country band here. 756 00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:04,000 Speaker 1: And then did they know that was you coming to 757 00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:06,200 Speaker 1: the venue? Who booked you? Or did they think you 758 00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:08,520 Speaker 1: were the match fie band? 759 00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:12,239 Speaker 2: No, dude, it's always something like that with us. Let 760 00:39:12,239 --> 00:39:14,880 Speaker 2: me tell you. We just recently went on a tour 761 00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:18,040 Speaker 2: down the West Coast and I go, guys, I took 762 00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:21,960 Speaker 2: my bassis Sean and a new drummer we've worked with 763 00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:25,919 Speaker 2: West and I go, here's the thing. We're gonna wear 764 00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:29,719 Speaker 2: the reds of our dogs beetle suits every day, not 765 00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:32,799 Speaker 2: on stage, but on all of our off days. So 766 00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:36,120 Speaker 2: we drove fourteen hours to San Francisco from here. We're 767 00:39:36,120 --> 00:39:40,799 Speaker 2: wearing black to black tie and aviators walking into a 768 00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:43,440 Speaker 2: gas station in the middle of nowhere, and we kind 769 00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:45,040 Speaker 2: of look at each other and people are like, what 770 00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:48,400 Speaker 2: the who the fuck are these guys? So every single 771 00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:51,719 Speaker 2: day off days, travel days and even when we'd load 772 00:39:51,760 --> 00:39:54,759 Speaker 2: into the venue, we'd be dripping sweat, loading the shit. 773 00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:57,640 Speaker 2: But we're in our black ties and our matching black 774 00:39:57,760 --> 00:40:01,919 Speaker 2: dark aviators, just looking like secret service everywhere we went. 775 00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:04,840 Speaker 2: But then before we go on stage, I would change 776 00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:07,360 Speaker 2: into the other clothes so people like they couldn't figure 777 00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:10,680 Speaker 2: us out. Dude, I brought all my fake plants. So 778 00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:12,799 Speaker 2: I bring all these fake plants with us a lot 779 00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:15,000 Speaker 2: of the time, so they can see us coming in 780 00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:19,160 Speaker 2: with fake plants, a leaf blower suitcase. We're in the suits. 781 00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:22,440 Speaker 2: They're like, what the fuck band is playing tonight? You 782 00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:24,520 Speaker 2: know that is so awesome. 783 00:40:24,640 --> 00:40:27,080 Speaker 1: I can't even imagine anyone listening to this who's not 784 00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:29,400 Speaker 1: waiting to find out when steel Beans is going to 785 00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:33,200 Speaker 1: be playing at a venue near them, because you just 786 00:40:33,239 --> 00:40:36,719 Speaker 1: don't know what's going to happen next. I need to know. 787 00:40:37,120 --> 00:40:40,680 Speaker 1: Now two questions, and then I think I might let 788 00:40:40,680 --> 00:40:44,160 Speaker 1: you go. Now I have three more. But what do 789 00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:47,959 Speaker 1: you think music and comedy have in common at their core? 790 00:40:48,800 --> 00:40:54,399 Speaker 2: Well, of course, there are forms of expressing yourself, and 791 00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:56,920 Speaker 2: I think that there's something that it takes a law, 792 00:40:57,320 --> 00:40:59,560 Speaker 2: It takes a long time to really get good at it. 793 00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:02,640 Speaker 2: I see a lot of musicians or comedians kind of 794 00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:05,880 Speaker 2: learned the beats or the form and they can imitate 795 00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:08,560 Speaker 2: a song, but it takes a long time to get 796 00:41:08,640 --> 00:41:10,840 Speaker 2: good at it where it's like, oh, this is real, 797 00:41:11,120 --> 00:41:13,839 Speaker 2: this stands up there with the greats. You know. It's 798 00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:16,960 Speaker 2: like I see anything comedy a lot now too. Because 799 00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:20,880 Speaker 2: of the Internet. We have so many people getting videos 800 00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:23,359 Speaker 2: that are on stage and they kind of know the 801 00:41:23,400 --> 00:41:27,000 Speaker 2: timing and the phrasing, but they're writing just isn't there. 802 00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:30,040 Speaker 2: And I'd say the same for a lot of young 803 00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:33,000 Speaker 2: bands that bless their heart, Like I don't want to 804 00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:35,759 Speaker 2: discourage anybody, but there are a lot of bands that 805 00:41:35,800 --> 00:41:39,640 Speaker 2: I'll see and I'll go, all right, I really wish 806 00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:41,839 Speaker 2: these guys well. But you know what, go in your 807 00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:44,480 Speaker 2: basement for another five ten years and come back when 808 00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:49,320 Speaker 2: you're Hendrix. You know, that's the self awareness that a 809 00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:52,840 Speaker 2: lot of people are lacking, because it's that Dunning Fruger effect. 810 00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:55,600 Speaker 2: You don't realize how good you are because you're not 811 00:41:55,760 --> 00:41:59,960 Speaker 2: qualified to understand what the quality is, you know. 812 00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:01,440 Speaker 1: And how to even achieve it. 813 00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:05,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's the real correlation between comedy and 814 00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:08,359 Speaker 2: music is that you have to work on this a lot, 815 00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:10,399 Speaker 2: and you have to write all the time, you know, 816 00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:13,080 Speaker 2: like the old saying, and this is one of my 817 00:42:13,160 --> 00:42:16,360 Speaker 2: favorites is help me with this if you remember. But 818 00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:19,880 Speaker 2: it's like if I don't write for two days, I notice, 819 00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:23,360 Speaker 2: if I don't write for a week, the audience notice, 820 00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:26,160 Speaker 2: I'm messing that up. I believe it's Steve Martin. But 821 00:42:26,400 --> 00:42:28,919 Speaker 2: like I really think like that. It's like, you gotta 822 00:42:28,960 --> 00:42:32,680 Speaker 2: stay sharp and stay up on this. And I think 823 00:42:32,719 --> 00:42:37,240 Speaker 2: comedy is really hard because that's like my solo show. 824 00:42:37,640 --> 00:42:40,759 Speaker 2: I cannot practice it at home. I don't sit and 825 00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:43,400 Speaker 2: play drums and guitar at the same time. Ever, the 826 00:42:43,480 --> 00:42:46,759 Speaker 2: last time before this tour was almost two years ago. 827 00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:49,319 Speaker 2: I may do it here and there, yeah, but it's 828 00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:53,120 Speaker 2: never my goal because it's a show that relies on 829 00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:55,440 Speaker 2: having the people there. It's like trying to do a 830 00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:57,759 Speaker 2: stand up set in your bedroom. You can stand there 831 00:42:57,760 --> 00:43:00,680 Speaker 2: and practice the things, but you got to the room 832 00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:03,560 Speaker 2: and like in real time, kind of carry it a 833 00:43:03,560 --> 00:43:06,960 Speaker 2: little bit, make it, do it for yourself and stick 834 00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:08,919 Speaker 2: to what you like, but you also have to kind 835 00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:11,880 Speaker 2: of keep everybody in it. And it's this perfect, this 836 00:43:12,000 --> 00:43:17,280 Speaker 2: perfect balance between like selflessness and narcissism or something where 837 00:43:17,800 --> 00:43:19,880 Speaker 2: you got to believe in yourself so much. I know 838 00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:22,759 Speaker 2: I'm good, but then you also have to connect just 839 00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:26,680 Speaker 2: enough to keep people keep people in. But it's a 840 00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:30,000 Speaker 2: slippery slope to be in the arts because everybody is 841 00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:33,080 Speaker 2: really right on the edge of being called that. But yeah, 842 00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:36,040 Speaker 2: one thing that happened to me over the years, for sure, 843 00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:38,840 Speaker 2: and I mentioned it earlier, is that switching to the 844 00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:42,239 Speaker 2: solo show and getting a good reaction. I played to 845 00:43:42,280 --> 00:43:45,160 Speaker 2: empty rooms for so many years, I started getting a 846 00:43:45,160 --> 00:43:47,719 Speaker 2: little bit of that loathing for the audience, and so 847 00:43:47,880 --> 00:43:50,920 Speaker 2: by default I do these shows in the middle of 848 00:43:50,960 --> 00:43:53,600 Speaker 2: nowhere to pay my rent, like one hundred and fifty 849 00:43:53,640 --> 00:43:55,479 Speaker 2: dollars for three hours at a bar in the middle 850 00:43:55,480 --> 00:43:58,080 Speaker 2: of the country, and so many people are just like 851 00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:01,000 Speaker 2: eating a burger, drinking, they're not even paying attention to 852 00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:03,520 Speaker 2: the music. That I kind of learned to like load 853 00:44:03,600 --> 00:44:05,919 Speaker 2: the audience and the audience of the enemy, and they're 854 00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:08,640 Speaker 2: the target. And so that became kind of like the 855 00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:13,480 Speaker 2: default of the show is kind of not trashing the audience, 856 00:44:13,560 --> 00:44:17,440 Speaker 2: but like I'm against them. They're they're the they're the enemy. 857 00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:20,800 Speaker 2: Until people are paying attention, there will be three people 858 00:44:20,840 --> 00:44:23,200 Speaker 2: over here that are paying attention. I start playing to 859 00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:26,399 Speaker 2: them and like talking them up, and I'm like celebrating them, 860 00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:28,680 Speaker 2: and then I'm just ripping like, Hey, I was fucking 861 00:44:28,680 --> 00:44:29,319 Speaker 2: guy over here. 862 00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:31,200 Speaker 1: And then the rest of the audience kind of pulls 863 00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:33,240 Speaker 1: in with, you know, when they go, oh, wait, something's 864 00:44:33,280 --> 00:44:35,480 Speaker 1: going on over here. You said narcissism. I think it's 865 00:44:35,520 --> 00:44:38,040 Speaker 1: just a hell you have to have a healthy ego. Yeah, 866 00:44:38,080 --> 00:44:40,480 Speaker 1: but I don't think you have. You don't have to 867 00:44:40,520 --> 00:44:44,520 Speaker 1: be a narcissist, but a healthy ego. And also what 868 00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:47,160 Speaker 1: else did you say? Oh? The enemy? Uh, what a 869 00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:51,080 Speaker 1: great idea. You know, if they're the enemy, then how 870 00:44:51,120 --> 00:44:53,120 Speaker 1: can you fail? Because that and you also have to 871 00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:54,680 Speaker 1: deal with all the things that are happening that are 872 00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:56,080 Speaker 1: unknowns at the same time. 873 00:44:57,160 --> 00:45:00,000 Speaker 2: Well, I think that, you know, Bill Hicks and George 874 00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:03,920 Speaker 2: Carlin two of my all time favorites. They kind of 875 00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:06,719 Speaker 2: displayed this for us in such a classy way that 876 00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:10,560 Speaker 2: like they clearly are exhausted with the human race and 877 00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:13,680 Speaker 2: they're just over it, yep. And they have such a 878 00:45:13,719 --> 00:45:16,600 Speaker 2: good way of painting that, and I like really connect 879 00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:20,399 Speaker 2: with that because I love people and I'm fascinated by them, 880 00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:23,799 Speaker 2: but like, god, you know, these days it's like a 881 00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:27,239 Speaker 2: comment section is what we'll like. I'll look at my 882 00:45:27,360 --> 00:45:32,719 Speaker 2: comments on Facebook and it'll be like fifty subtract subtract 883 00:45:32,800 --> 00:45:36,200 Speaker 2: fifty from the IQ of what the comments would be elsewhere. 884 00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:40,480 Speaker 2: Oh and it's like, oh my god. It's like, you 885 00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:42,480 Speaker 2: guys are the reason I go on stage, and my 886 00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:45,799 Speaker 2: default is ripping the audience. You know, and you deserve it. 887 00:45:46,000 --> 00:45:51,120 Speaker 1: The keyboard cowboys who are fearless because they're nameless and faceless. Ye, 888 00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:53,800 Speaker 1: in a world that can feel really really heavy, speaking 889 00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:56,480 Speaker 1: of which, because that really does add to it, which 890 00:45:56,520 --> 00:45:58,880 Speaker 1: is why I try to stay off social media as 891 00:45:58,960 --> 00:46:00,959 Speaker 1: much as possible, because I do believe it is really 892 00:46:01,000 --> 00:46:03,440 Speaker 1: the worst version of yourself. It's great for business, but 893 00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:06,880 Speaker 1: not for humans, for people I don't know, But in 894 00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:10,239 Speaker 1: a world that can feel really heavy, what role do 895 00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:13,680 Speaker 1: you think entertainers like you play? You know, people who 896 00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:16,759 Speaker 1: are deliberately You're deliberately going out to try to make 897 00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:18,879 Speaker 1: other people smile and heal. 898 00:46:19,400 --> 00:46:21,560 Speaker 2: You're you're sure on time, but you're hitting me with 899 00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:25,000 Speaker 2: these really profound questions that are I can't answer that 900 00:46:25,040 --> 00:46:29,879 Speaker 2: without giving deep But on a personal level, our role 901 00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:33,880 Speaker 2: is to fulfill our own journey to be the best 902 00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:36,840 Speaker 2: artist we can be, and that's the end of the story. 903 00:46:37,200 --> 00:46:40,560 Speaker 2: But when it comes to being public and our role 904 00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:44,040 Speaker 2: is to uplift people, and it's it's you know, I'd 905 00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:47,080 Speaker 2: love to make some money someday, but that's really not it. 906 00:46:47,600 --> 00:46:49,840 Speaker 2: I can make money a lot of ways. At the 907 00:46:49,960 --> 00:46:51,600 Speaker 2: end of the day. It's like, I want to be 908 00:46:51,920 --> 00:46:54,160 Speaker 2: so I want to be proud of myself and impress 909 00:46:54,239 --> 00:46:56,680 Speaker 2: myself by coming a long way and being good at 910 00:46:56,680 --> 00:46:59,800 Speaker 2: what I do. But I want I want to create something. 911 00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:04,920 Speaker 2: It's a tricky question because I make everything for myself, 912 00:47:05,400 --> 00:47:07,799 Speaker 2: but I know that there is an audience of like 913 00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:11,080 Speaker 2: minded people where that overlaps and they'll enjoy it. I 914 00:47:11,120 --> 00:47:13,200 Speaker 2: think that the role of the artists is the same 915 00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:16,480 Speaker 2: as it was in the medieval days of jestures and 916 00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:21,359 Speaker 2: muses or whatever. Is that I have my problems, you 917 00:47:21,400 --> 00:47:23,680 Speaker 2: have your problems, and I have these songs I worked 918 00:47:23,719 --> 00:47:27,120 Speaker 2: really hard on. And there's these business and all this 919 00:47:27,360 --> 00:47:30,640 Speaker 2: bullshit of the booking and the loading. But then once 920 00:47:30,680 --> 00:47:34,080 Speaker 2: I get on stage, or any band gets on stage, 921 00:47:34,160 --> 00:47:35,960 Speaker 2: you know, the people in the audience for a good 922 00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:39,160 Speaker 2: thirty minutes or an hour, they forget all their problems 923 00:47:40,280 --> 00:47:44,440 Speaker 2: and they shut them off, and you're the distraction. To you, 924 00:47:44,600 --> 00:47:46,759 Speaker 2: you're reminding them what life is really about. It's like 925 00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:49,480 Speaker 2: smiling like there's no tomorrow and having a good time. 926 00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:53,560 Speaker 2: And that's like, that's the deepest end of public performance 927 00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:56,760 Speaker 2: is that people got a babysitter, they went and sound parking, 928 00:47:56,920 --> 00:47:59,480 Speaker 2: they slept all the way into your place and did 929 00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:03,399 Speaker 2: all this stuff, and then while you're on they can 930 00:48:03,480 --> 00:48:06,680 Speaker 2: forget about their problems if you're doing it right. And 931 00:48:06,719 --> 00:48:09,680 Speaker 2: I think that's the role of any performer. 932 00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:12,840 Speaker 1: If someone's going through a rough patch right now, what 933 00:48:12,880 --> 00:48:15,520 Speaker 1: would you tell them about the power of laughter? Go ahead? 934 00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:18,200 Speaker 1: I feel like it's a game show all of a 935 00:48:18,239 --> 00:48:20,040 Speaker 1: sudden there on the East Coast. 936 00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:22,680 Speaker 2: Yes, you said go ahead, go ahead. 937 00:48:23,680 --> 00:48:26,520 Speaker 1: Good And I'm from Boston originally, so I'm surprised it didn't. 938 00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:29,960 Speaker 2: You know. I love Buffalo sixty six where goes one 939 00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:35,080 Speaker 2: two tree Tree, and now I love counting to Tree. 940 00:48:36,040 --> 00:48:38,680 Speaker 2: Remember to be able to laugh at yourself, you know, 941 00:48:38,840 --> 00:48:42,520 Speaker 2: it's like yep again. There are some moments where I'll 942 00:48:42,520 --> 00:48:46,000 Speaker 2: be like, I'll be committing to some premise that is 943 00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:52,600 Speaker 2: so ridiculous. And not worthwhile, or wearing something hideous and ridiculous, 944 00:48:52,600 --> 00:48:55,040 Speaker 2: and I'm dragging the band or the audience along with 945 00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:58,319 Speaker 2: me to make this big leap, and it's like I 946 00:48:58,360 --> 00:49:02,240 Speaker 2: could take it so seriously, but then at some point 947 00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:05,560 Speaker 2: I laugh with the audience laughs, and it's not even 948 00:49:05,640 --> 00:49:08,040 Speaker 2: because of the joke. It's because of how far I'm 949 00:49:08,080 --> 00:49:10,520 Speaker 2: trying to go to make this thing work. That is 950 00:49:10,640 --> 00:49:14,160 Speaker 2: just such such a long shot that's not really worth it. 951 00:49:14,320 --> 00:49:16,200 Speaker 2: And it's like being able to find the humor in 952 00:49:16,280 --> 00:49:19,600 Speaker 2: anything is That's always been one of the things for me, 953 00:49:19,920 --> 00:49:22,359 Speaker 2: is you don't you don't always know where the joke 954 00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:27,000 Speaker 2: is because sometime like I put on you know, like 955 00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:30,720 Speaker 2: for example, the silver spandex onesie the silver face paint 956 00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:34,799 Speaker 2: in that wig, like that's not that crazy where I 957 00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:37,920 Speaker 2: come from, Like infant, that's my go to when I 958 00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:40,799 Speaker 2: can't think of what to wear. I have those, and 959 00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:43,479 Speaker 2: the silver is like a metallic powder and it takes 960 00:49:43,520 --> 00:49:45,160 Speaker 2: two minutes. I go, I don't know what to wear, 961 00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:49,440 Speaker 2: so all default to that, and I kind of forget 962 00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:53,040 Speaker 2: what I'm wearing, right, I'll forget that I'm even wearing that, 963 00:49:53,280 --> 00:49:55,040 Speaker 2: And I'm up there and I'm doing a drum solo 964 00:49:55,120 --> 00:49:58,279 Speaker 2: and a guitar solo at the same time, and then 965 00:49:58,360 --> 00:50:01,200 Speaker 2: when it sits over, then I'll make a joke and 966 00:50:01,200 --> 00:50:04,440 Speaker 2: then I'll remember what I'm wearing. And it's just layers 967 00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:07,520 Speaker 2: of not taking yourself seriously upon layers. It's like the 968 00:50:07,600 --> 00:50:10,799 Speaker 2: I take the craft of music really seriously, and I 969 00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:15,200 Speaker 2: take the uh in the face of music and and 970 00:50:15,880 --> 00:50:18,480 Speaker 2: all who stand before me. I want to create something 971 00:50:18,520 --> 00:50:22,080 Speaker 2: that stands up to that and honor the seriousness of 972 00:50:22,120 --> 00:50:25,920 Speaker 2: the craft. But I never take myself seriously. No. I mean, 973 00:50:26,719 --> 00:50:30,799 Speaker 2: I think I look pretty cool, but I'm not really trying. Well. 974 00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:32,480 Speaker 1: If you want to know what he looks like, go 975 00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:36,719 Speaker 1: to silvertone guitars dot com, because there's a picture of you. 976 00:50:37,080 --> 00:50:38,280 Speaker 2: Oh really in. 977 00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:41,080 Speaker 1: That outfit you're describing online there. Yeah, so you did 978 00:50:41,200 --> 00:50:41,640 Speaker 1: you didn't know? 979 00:50:42,320 --> 00:50:44,839 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Oh thanks guys, it's silvertone. 980 00:50:44,400 --> 00:50:48,880 Speaker 1: No problem. Did Did comedy save you? 981 00:50:49,840 --> 00:50:52,160 Speaker 2: Oh yeah? Comedy has saved me, and it saves me 982 00:50:52,320 --> 00:50:55,439 Speaker 2: over and over again. If you can't laugh, then you're 983 00:50:55,480 --> 00:50:59,360 Speaker 2: down bad. You know. At this point it is really 984 00:50:59,400 --> 00:51:03,400 Speaker 2: hard to get me to physically laugh. I feel like 985 00:51:03,400 --> 00:51:06,800 Speaker 2: a stone, you know. I mean, I've just like seen 986 00:51:06,880 --> 00:51:09,280 Speaker 2: a lot or something, but it's got to really tickle 987 00:51:09,360 --> 00:51:12,440 Speaker 2: me in the right ways. I'll make little I'll make 988 00:51:12,440 --> 00:51:14,799 Speaker 2: a comedy sketch or a promo video for a show 989 00:51:14,880 --> 00:51:18,640 Speaker 2: that's funny. It doesn't physically make me laugh because I'm 990 00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:21,040 Speaker 2: experiencing my own thing, but as soon as I show 991 00:51:21,080 --> 00:51:24,279 Speaker 2: it to somebody else, I'll kind of laugh when they 992 00:51:24,360 --> 00:51:27,680 Speaker 2: laugh for some reason. It's like contagious like that. Yes, 993 00:51:29,000 --> 00:51:32,319 Speaker 2: it's strange about your own thing that you're creating, and 994 00:51:32,360 --> 00:51:35,919 Speaker 2: then like studying where people laugh and what they find 995 00:51:35,960 --> 00:51:39,080 Speaker 2: funny about. You know. I think that every comedian probably 996 00:51:39,080 --> 00:51:43,319 Speaker 2: suffers from that because you can't You can like be 997 00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:46,000 Speaker 2: aware like oh that's funny, but it doesn't like make 998 00:51:46,080 --> 00:51:47,920 Speaker 2: you laugh gut laugh, you. 999 00:51:47,880 --> 00:51:51,160 Speaker 1: Know, totally. I mean, And can I give you a 1000 00:51:51,239 --> 00:51:53,600 Speaker 1: quick example. My best friend Scott would tell me a 1001 00:51:53,640 --> 00:51:56,000 Speaker 1: story about something that happened to him in his childhood 1002 00:51:56,440 --> 00:51:59,480 Speaker 1: that was horrific with like his dad or his mom, 1003 00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:02,600 Speaker 1: and the way he would tell the story, I would 1004 00:52:02,600 --> 00:52:05,040 Speaker 1: burst out laughing in the end, and then he would laugh, 1005 00:52:05,080 --> 00:52:07,759 Speaker 1: but then he would go, no, but that was serious. 1006 00:52:07,480 --> 00:52:10,000 Speaker 2: You know, yeah, if I love that, Like. 1007 00:52:10,040 --> 00:52:11,759 Speaker 1: You know, I was climbing up a tree to get 1008 00:52:11,760 --> 00:52:13,840 Speaker 1: away from my father, and you think this is funny. 1009 00:52:13,840 --> 00:52:15,040 Speaker 1: This scarred me for life. 1010 00:52:15,120 --> 00:52:18,600 Speaker 2: You know, that's the thing. That's the that's the key 1011 00:52:18,719 --> 00:52:20,680 Speaker 2: right there, is being able to laugh at all of 1012 00:52:20,719 --> 00:52:24,400 Speaker 2: that stuff. It's like, you know, everybody when they grow up, 1013 00:52:24,440 --> 00:52:26,719 Speaker 2: they reach a certain age where they take mushrooms and 1014 00:52:26,760 --> 00:52:29,560 Speaker 2: they think about everything their parents ever taught them, and 1015 00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:33,680 Speaker 2: they go my parents were literally like, I'm in my 1016 00:52:33,800 --> 00:52:37,400 Speaker 2: twenties and my parents had me what I was like 1017 00:52:37,480 --> 00:52:40,239 Speaker 2: me right now, like they hardly know what the fuck 1018 00:52:40,239 --> 00:52:42,400 Speaker 2: they were talking about. That's just shit that other people 1019 00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:45,520 Speaker 2: told them. And you kind of reevaluate everything you've been 1020 00:52:45,560 --> 00:52:47,880 Speaker 2: told and you're like, all right, half of the stuff 1021 00:52:48,200 --> 00:52:51,600 Speaker 2: is maybe not correct. So I'm gonna rebuild and be 1022 00:52:51,719 --> 00:52:53,920 Speaker 2: my own person and just kind of take the good 1023 00:52:54,560 --> 00:52:58,360 Speaker 2: and then you know, filter out the shit that maybe 1024 00:52:58,480 --> 00:53:00,480 Speaker 2: people were just making it up and going along. 1025 00:53:00,600 --> 00:53:03,640 Speaker 1: You know, yeah, that that is, in a nutshell, what 1026 00:53:03,680 --> 00:53:06,080 Speaker 1: we're supposed to do, right, take all the best qualities 1027 00:53:06,120 --> 00:53:08,920 Speaker 1: and then leave all the worst. And there's no book written, 1028 00:53:09,000 --> 00:53:10,239 Speaker 1: so everyone's practicing. 1029 00:53:11,320 --> 00:53:13,480 Speaker 2: Most people do the opposite. They're like, okay, so I'm 1030 00:53:13,480 --> 00:53:16,399 Speaker 2: gonna drink heavy, and that is. 1031 00:53:18,239 --> 00:53:22,920 Speaker 1: Smoke copious amounts of marijuana. Oh my goodness, Jeremy DEBARTI 1032 00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:24,480 Speaker 1: I don't want to let you go. Give me one more, 1033 00:53:24,760 --> 00:53:27,279 Speaker 1: one more question. What's next for steel beans? Where can 1034 00:53:27,280 --> 00:53:31,840 Speaker 1: people find you? See you experience you immerse themselves in 1035 00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:33,120 Speaker 1: all things. 1036 00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:38,439 Speaker 2: You well, you do yourself a favor. Follow me on 1037 00:53:38,520 --> 00:53:42,960 Speaker 2: all platforms. I'm mainly on an Instagram, but I'm trying 1038 00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:47,040 Speaker 2: to get people on the YouTube channel, YouTube dot com, 1039 00:53:47,080 --> 00:53:53,520 Speaker 2: slash Salmonella records, I'm on Twitch or whatever. I'm not 1040 00:53:53,600 --> 00:53:56,080 Speaker 2: really good at it. Get them on socials and see 1041 00:53:56,120 --> 00:53:58,480 Speaker 2: me do something over the next month before I smash 1042 00:53:58,520 --> 00:54:00,360 Speaker 2: my phone and get back on the road. You know, 1043 00:54:00,440 --> 00:54:03,000 Speaker 2: I just I just head on an album. I'm working 1044 00:54:03,040 --> 00:54:05,080 Speaker 2: on the next one. We're going to be getting back 1045 00:54:05,080 --> 00:54:07,600 Speaker 2: on the road soon, trying to get out to the 1046 00:54:07,719 --> 00:54:10,600 Speaker 2: UK and Europe and the East Coast as soon as possible. 1047 00:54:11,000 --> 00:54:13,239 Speaker 2: So really, right now, we're just waiting for the time 1048 00:54:13,280 --> 00:54:16,240 Speaker 2: where it's safe in my rear wheel drive van because 1049 00:54:16,239 --> 00:54:18,360 Speaker 2: in the you know, it's it's kind of random. The 1050 00:54:18,400 --> 00:54:23,520 Speaker 2: mountain passes will get snow, so I want to be safe. 1051 00:54:24,560 --> 00:54:25,880 Speaker 2: Thank you so much for having me. 1052 00:54:26,280 --> 00:54:28,680 Speaker 1: It's been such a pleasure. To have you here. Really, 1053 00:54:28,760 --> 00:54:32,839 Speaker 1: I mean, what a refreshing conversation with like just such 1054 00:54:32,880 --> 00:54:35,920 Speaker 1: a real human being, but who's also going out there 1055 00:54:35,920 --> 00:54:40,040 Speaker 1: and actually you're saving people with your comedy, not just yourself. 1056 00:54:40,360 --> 00:54:45,480 Speaker 2: Oh, thank you, I hope so yeah, and if that's okay, 1057 00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:48,760 Speaker 2: but I think anybody paying attention it'll find the right people. 1058 00:54:48,840 --> 00:54:51,799 Speaker 2: And yeah, man, thank you so much for having me. 1059 00:54:52,120 --> 00:54:53,600 Speaker 2: I will keep talking forever. 1060 00:54:53,719 --> 00:54:58,239 Speaker 1: So Jeremy Debarty, Steele Beans Comedy, save Me, Thank you 1061 00:54:58,480 --> 00:54:59,960 Speaker 1: and all the best to you and yours. 1062 00:55:00,239 --> 00:55:01,040 Speaker 2: Thank you so much,