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Speaker 1: All right, guys. This is from Bianca on Facebook.

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Speaker 2: She says, my boyfriend insists on finding his way without

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Speaker 2: maps or GPS, even on long road trips. We've gotten

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Speaker 2: lost more than once, but he won't admit he needs help.

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Speaker 2: It makes me anxious because he insists he's just taking

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Speaker 2: the scenic route and it's an adventure.

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Speaker 1: But to me, it's just dumb. Should I keep pushing for.

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Speaker 2: Him to be reasonable and use navigation or just let

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Speaker 2: him do what he does?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Okay, this is simple. You want to argue up

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Speaker 3: the whole time while y'all trying to go somewhere.

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Speaker 1: I want to waste my time.

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Speaker 3: I know you don't waste your time because if you

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Speaker 3: don't have if you don't have GPS, you really might

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Speaker 3: as well add another hour and a half to whatever

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Speaker 3: y'all doing. You don't get thrown off. I can't do

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Speaker 3: without it. I'm a I'm a I'm a GP, I'm

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Speaker 3: a Google GPS. Though waves be throwing me yet a

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Speaker 3: different leap. Jackie love Wade, that's her.

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Speaker 4: Thing, and it's ways way way waves waves.

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Speaker 3: Because that's what it'd be doing to me.

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Speaker 1: Show waves, apack.

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Speaker 3: I go back to ride in the truck with my

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Speaker 3: daddy with a Thomas Key map.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yes.

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Speaker 3: I had to learn how to reuse that thing. That

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Speaker 3: was That was like real, the first navigation for me.

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Speaker 1: But it real, Rinch, you don't know where you're going.

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Speaker 1: Where are you going to find it? That's crazy? Get

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Speaker 1: some direction. I know where I'm going. I still turn

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Speaker 1: my GPS on. Yeah, that's just crazy.

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Speaker 2: All right, thank you? That was You're right, that was simple.

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Speaker 2: Problem solved. Okay, we have a time for another one.

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Speaker 2: This is from Jared on Facebook. Jared says, my mom's

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Speaker 2: health has been declining and she needs some help with

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Speaker 2: daily tasks. My siblings think she should move in with

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Speaker 2: me since I have an extra room, but I worry

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Speaker 2: that it'll turn into more than I can handle, and

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Speaker 2: I don't want to burden my wife and kids. I

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Speaker 2: don't want to seem selfish, but I don't know what

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Speaker 2: to do here. Should I have her come live with

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Speaker 2: us or would she be better with some professional support?

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Speaker 1: Oh that's hard. Yeah, and you have to check with

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Speaker 1: your wife. That's hard.

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Speaker 3: You've got to have a conversation with your wife. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: you do me personally, I'm I'm doing whatever it takes

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Speaker 3: for my mom for your mom, y'all already know me

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Speaker 3: what helly it take times.

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Speaker 4: I don't think that if you're getting professional help and

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Speaker 4: putting your loved one if you can't handle it, and

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Speaker 4: if you're putting your loved one, I don't think assistant

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Speaker 4: living and getting that kind of help is as bad

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Speaker 4: the label like, you know, like it used to be.

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Speaker 2: Back and I had it for my mom in her

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Speaker 2: you know, in the final stages.

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Speaker 1: I had it for my mom. And yeah, I don't

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Speaker 1: think you don't live in the same state.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, but even if your mother's at your home,

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Speaker 5: even if your mother's at your home, that doesn't mean

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Speaker 5: that you have the time to take care of you

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Speaker 5: still need Yeah, you're still don't need some help because

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Speaker 5: everybody's you know, most household everybody going to work, right,

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Speaker 5: you know, take somebody.

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Speaker 1: Got to take care of and see we're here.

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Speaker 2: Of course, he would say, and who's gonna wash wash,

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Speaker 2: you know, he would say that.

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Speaker 4: But that's why I said, you can still get help,

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Speaker 4: get help if you right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's so.

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Speaker 4: Tough, aging and taking care of your parents and role reversal.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's something.

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Speaker 3: That siblings got to come together and really make a

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Speaker 3: rational decision.

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Speaker 2: They have to, but a lot of times they don't, though, Tommy,

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Speaker 2: A lot oftimes they don't, like, you know, the single

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Speaker 2: ones in the family.

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Speaker 1: You know, they want them to take.

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Speaker 2: It over and and have that complete responsibility.

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Speaker 1: It's a lot to go on. Whoever was doing well,

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Speaker 1: whoever has the money.

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Speaker 3: You got that big old house, you need to be

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Speaker 3: You got thrown you.

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Speaker 4: Hear that, that's what he's hearing in this left yeas

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Speaker 4: extra room.

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Speaker 1: It's the gill, it's the trip and right. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So how about a compromise. I'll take mama in.

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Speaker 3: Y'all pay for the support that we need to help

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Speaker 3: her on a daily basis.

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Speaker 2: That sounds I mean, it sounds good, but it doesn't

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Speaker 2: always work out.

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Speaker 3: They're gonna go there where it's gonna be a lot here.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah with that, I mean all I got a

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Speaker 1: middle somewhere. Yeah, my mom. They can work it out, yeah,