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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all. It's your girl alex Per and it's

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Speaker 1: your girl Dray in the call and you are tuned

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Speaker 1: in to another episode of Poor Mine where a drunk

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Speaker 1: mind speaks sober thought. Yes, y'all, so I'm gonna get

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Speaker 1: it started real quick.

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Speaker 2: I announced it on the radio today, so if you

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Speaker 2: don't know, I will be in LA in two weeks.

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Speaker 2: I am officially covering the red carpet for the BET

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Speaker 2: Awards twenty nineteen, and I'm super excited live it cause

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Speaker 2: if you know me, you know this is what I

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Speaker 2: want to do as far as media goes, like covering

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Speaker 2: events and doing red carpet events. I feel like I

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Speaker 2: really spoke that shit into existence for myself. So I

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Speaker 2: feel like I gotta pat myself on the bag on

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Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. Shout out to lit Kodak,

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Speaker 2: and shout out to all Urban Central for believing in

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Speaker 2: me and put this.

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Speaker 1: Task upon myself. So yeah, I just wanted to make

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Speaker 1: the announcement at the beginning of the show. Well God

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Speaker 1: did that amen.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, I just wanted to say that first off,

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Speaker 2: because I know I always make the announcements at the end,

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Speaker 2: but I already said it on the radio, as y'all know,

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Speaker 2: Timeline Tuesdays every motherfucking Tuesday on ninety six to seven

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Speaker 2: the Beat.

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Speaker 1: Make sure y'all tune in and listen to your girls. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: see me on there. And if you don't.

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Speaker 3: Live here, you still ain't got no excuse because all

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Speaker 3: you gotta do is download that iHeart app and.

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Speaker 1: It is free. Amen. So let's just go ahead and

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Speaker 1: get into it. I'm gonna let you started off little drill.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So you know, I was on the internets the

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Speaker 3: other day and I had seen a post basically about

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Speaker 3: someone famous. Their baby mama was basically saying that they

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Speaker 3: don't take care of their kid.

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Speaker 1: And the guys.

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Speaker 3: In a new relationship with someone else now, and their

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Speaker 3: relationship is pretty public, but it seems like every time

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Speaker 3: they get back together, the baby mama just always got

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Speaker 3: something crazy to say on the internet about the dude

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Speaker 3: and how he not taking care of his responsibilities as

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Speaker 3: a father. So I guess you know, he got fed

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Speaker 3: up with her saying that he don't take care of

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Speaker 3: that he'd be sending her a lot of money right

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Speaker 3: all the time, you know what I mean, on cash

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Speaker 3: to let them know how much money.

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Speaker 1: Oh it was, we did the math on it.

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Speaker 2: He basically sends her about forty five hundred dollars a month,

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Speaker 2: right right from the math, he sends.

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Speaker 1: Her about forty five hundred dollars a month.

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Speaker 3: So basically she was saying like, oh, you need to

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Speaker 3: take care of your child, you need to send some

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Speaker 3: child support, and then he.

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Speaker 1: Had posted that. So I just feel like it just

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Speaker 3: Talk about where do we draw the line between women

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Speaker 3: feeling like yo boy, yo yo, baby daddy needs to

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Speaker 3: then you just being a bitter baby mama.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So I'll say this, because I've dated men with kids,

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Speaker 2: I feel like I'm kind of, you know, currently talking

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Speaker 2: this is what I feel like I feel like we are. Okay,

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Speaker 2: So first of all, anybody who's listening, that's a baby mama.

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Speaker 2: We're not trying to offend anybody, But I feel like

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Speaker 1: Oh well you just a fendie. Facts.

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Speaker 2: Facts, But I feel like everybody listens to the baby

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Speaker 2: mama's side. People never get it from our point of view,

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Speaker 2: like the woman that's actually dating a man and the

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Speaker 2: shit that she has to go through. Now, I understand

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Speaker 2: being a mother is hard. Being a single mother is

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Speaker 2: even harder. I get that, and we may and we're

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Speaker 2: not saying that the men are innocent in this situation.

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Speaker 1: That's not what we're saying.

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Speaker 3: But what do you consider a single mother? Because I

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Speaker 3: just not say yeah, you're single because you're not in

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Speaker 1: Right. So I just feel like this, I feel like women,

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Speaker 2: I don't have I don't have a child, but I

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Speaker 2: Fuck these niggas, bro, These niggas are always gonna do

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Speaker 2: what the fuck they want to do and move on

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Speaker 2: just because you have a child with somebody that does

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Speaker 2: not give that's not your property.

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Speaker 1: This man doesn't belong to you, right.

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Speaker 2: So if a nigga is moving on and he don't

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Speaker 2: want to be with you, since do the same thing.

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Speaker 1: Move on because.

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Speaker 3: If you're young and you fine, you could get you

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Speaker 3: and you know, you don't even have to be young

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Speaker 1: It's women. It's always niggas out there.

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Speaker 2: It's always you can be forty, you could be fifty

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Speaker 2: and ugly. It's a man out there for you, baby daddy.

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Speaker 1: And I feel like, and this is why I say

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Speaker 2: A lot of people are like, oh, I thought you

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Speaker 2: didn't date men with kids. I really don't like to

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Speaker 2: date men with kids. It's not my preference, but I

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Speaker 2: they're very slim. And I also feel like I like

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Speaker 2: what I'm saying, to find a older man without kids.

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Speaker 3: We already said, if Nika pays a certain age and

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Speaker 3: he don't have no kids and he never been married.

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Speaker 1: You probably shouldn't tave hiss no way, cause I can't.

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Speaker 3: Necessarily say that I feel that way because I feel like,

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Speaker 3: you made me lose my train of thoughts.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I just feel no.

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Speaker 2: Well, basically, what I'm saying is just like you cannot

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Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, Like you need to let people

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Speaker 2: move on and be happy because at the end of

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Speaker 2: the day, it's not about you anymore.

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Speaker 1: It's not about him anymore. It's about y'all's baby.

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Speaker 2: And right, and back to what I was saying, this

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Speaker 1: I always say, if.

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Speaker 2: You can help it, try not to date men with kids,

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Speaker 2: because I don't feel like it's fair. You know what

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Speaker 2: I'm saying, Like for us as women, we're single, we're young,

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Speaker 1: With it, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: That's why I always say, if I can help it, now,

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Speaker 2: you can't help pull you fall for Sometimes people have kids.

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Speaker 2: Now I'm not saying don't date a nigga just because

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Speaker 2: men with kids. But if you can help it, and

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Speaker 2: there is drama with the baby mama all the time,

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Speaker 2: and she always subbing you, she always arguing with your man,

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Speaker 2: it's like, why deal with that?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, why deal with that if you don't have to.

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Speaker 2: But I do feel like the baby mama's out there

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Speaker 2: if he's doing for his child, he's there for you financially,

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Speaker 2: he's there for his child.

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Speaker 1: Why can't you just move on?

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Speaker 3: Because then when things like that come into play, as

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Speaker 3: of makes me feel like when you just upset because

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Speaker 1: But you know what, with this situation that you were

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Speaker 2: That nigga and then the fact that he's in a

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Speaker 2: because let's let's I don't want to talk about their situation.

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Speaker 2: But a lot of times women, even men, you don't

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Speaker 2: want somebody to move on to somebody that's more popping

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Speaker 2: So I can I honestly, I don't know this girl,

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Speaker 2: So this is just my guess. So if anybody knows

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Speaker 2: just saying my personal opinion. I feel like I don't

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Speaker 2: want to say the word jealousy, but it possibly is

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Speaker 1: She's like, I know, maybe not jealous.

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Speaker 3: Maybe envy, Yeah, I mean jealousy and jealousy and envy

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Speaker 1: Like maybe she's in it.

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Speaker 2: Can you explain the difference because you always say this, yes,

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Speaker 2: because it's a difference between jealous because it's a difference

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Speaker 2: to me jealousy that when you're literally like jealous of

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Speaker 3: You want to be like them, or you wish you

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Speaker 3: were in their position, and you know, you just hating

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Speaker 3: person is doing to me. That's jealousy. Envy is more

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Speaker 3: at some point. I would never say that I'm a

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Speaker 3: my life. Mv's yes, because envy is a normal emotion.

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Speaker 3: We've all had anybody to try to say they haven't

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Speaker 3: been envious. You have because MV is like you just

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Speaker 3: doing wrong? And like why this person deserves it? And

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Speaker 3: I don't you know what I mean? And I didn't

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Speaker 3: deserve it. But it doesn't necessarily mean you jealous. You

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Speaker 3: just a little envious because you like, damn, I'm paying.

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Speaker 1: My dues, what are we doing? What are we doing wrong?

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Speaker 3: To where I'm not getting I didn't get that same

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Speaker 3: maybe she was just she's just a little envious because

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Speaker 3: she probably wanted a lot of those same things from

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Speaker 1: And at the end of the day. Guess I just don't.

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Speaker 1: Let's be real, he'd be icing his mow beach.

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Speaker 3: Out, yeah, doing all that type of sitting from what

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Speaker 3: I could see.

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Speaker 2: But with all the money that he given her, she

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Speaker 2: can ice her and her baby out. Like forty five

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Speaker 2: hundred dollars a month is a lot of money, and

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Speaker 2: you're supposed to be working on.

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Speaker 1: Top of that.

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Speaker 2: But didn't nobody tell you to stop working. I don't

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Speaker 2: know that girl's business. I'm just talking about women in general.

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Speaker 2: If you have a man that's doing for you, you should

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Speaker 2: still be out here making your own money because anything. Now,

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Speaker 1: It's not that man's responsibility to be doing everything for you.

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Speaker 3: And I feel like if maybe a lot of women were,

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Speaker 2: And then it's like dealing with co parenting, like you know,

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Speaker 2: He was like, oh, me and my baby mama are

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Speaker 1: I'm just like, I'm gone mad. That's cool.

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Speaker 2: You know, you still kids don't really understand oh mommy

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Speaker 1: It's not four eight, like three or four, yeah.

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Speaker 1: But you know how niggas get.

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Speaker 2: Niggas can't say no, especially to some pussy that they've

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Speaker 3: Niggas can't say, I mean baby. That's why I feel like,

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Speaker 3: But niggas can't turn down pussy that they've already been getting.

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Speaker 1: In general, right, if you was.

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Speaker 1: And I just feel like as far as the baby mamas.

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Speaker 3: Go, but you shouldn't even want it, Like, if you

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Speaker 3: when you know that I don't know that he don't

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Speaker 3: like I said last week, and you still want to

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Speaker 3: you because y'all just fucking. But it's different when you

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Speaker 1: And you're trying to give him a pussy just gonna

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Speaker 1: be like, Aha, yeah, I my baby daddy.

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Speaker 2: And I tweeted this yesterday, People's like, what about people

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Speaker 2: in love? This is not what I meant. So I

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Speaker 2: You're a fucking loser. You're a fucking loser. Let me

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Speaker 2: tell you why, because Okay, there's plenty of fish to

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Speaker 2: see period. Oh I want that fish, that fish don't

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Speaker 2: want you. Yeah, that fish got a school of fish.

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Speaker 3: My nig when do we decide that, Okay, I want

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Speaker 2: So yeah, you can still get that nigga dick, but

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Speaker 2: you don't have him.

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Speaker 1: He still has another bitch in his pocket that he's claiming.

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Speaker 2: At the end of the day, you should not be

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Speaker 2: okay with fucking on your baby, daddy, if he has.

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Speaker 1: A whole girl, how you okay with being second?

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Speaker 2: You got his child and you still second no matter what.

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Speaker 1: That's worse.

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Speaker 2: It's like because no matter what you say, no matter

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Speaker 2: what he's telling you, he's still not with you.

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Speaker 1: He still left you and got a whole nother girl.

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Speaker 3: Because to me, having the baby with a nigga, usually

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Speaker 3: if a nigga really care about you and love you

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Speaker 1: Usually would make a nigga geat his act together, right,

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Speaker 1: especially after the baby, right.

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Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying, after the child, right, So it's like,

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Speaker 3: if he still don't have his act together, you just

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Speaker 3: not the girl.

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Speaker 1: He won't and he not gonna never have his ax together.

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Speaker 1: For you, right.

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Speaker 3: I just feel like you're done, lay it on the table,

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Speaker 3: he don't want you, right.

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Speaker 2: I just feel like this is coming from our point

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Speaker 2: how the fuck we feel?

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Speaker 1: Man? Like, damn, I can I be happy? Can I

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Speaker 2: Like, damn, you're not even giving people a chance, like

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Speaker 2: obviously y'all broke up. I feel like this. I've always

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Speaker 1: Let's get done it.

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Speaker 2: Somebody is your ex for a reason, and if you

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, So let us know how.

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Speaker 2: Y'all feel about the better baby Mama. Let me tell

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Speaker 2: you something, you better get your baby mama before I do.

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Speaker 1: Period.

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Speaker 2: You better I'm not gonna fight and I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: But it's like, damn.

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Speaker 2: But I also put it on the baby daddy to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and he does that to provoke her. So I'm

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Speaker 3: But to me, that situation specifically is just yeah, I understand.

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Speaker 2: Daddy and he's doing what he's supposed to do, let

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Speaker 2: Because let me tell you something, y'all gonna have a

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Speaker 1: If y'all can't get along. If y'all can't get along

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Speaker 3: I can honestly say, though I've never had in situations

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Speaker 2: But I also feel that's because we're also not those

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Speaker 1: But you need to get in line. Yeah, some women

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Speaker 2: And that's why I say as far as the women goes, like,

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Speaker 2: it because I hear how much you love a nigga.

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Speaker 1: These niggas is messy, and these niggas is grimy. These

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Speaker 3: And plus you just never want to be a You

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Speaker 2: But it's like, you know what, I see so many

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Speaker 2: what he's doing. So it's like, what is that you're

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Speaker 2: You gotta realize you're putting that energy in the air.

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Speaker 2: more he's feeling that. So even if you did, even

438
00:18:15,520 --> 00:18:17,119
Speaker 2: if there was a little bit of hope of y'all

439
00:18:17,119 --> 00:18:20,600
Speaker 2: being together, words mean things and words are powerful. You're

440
00:18:20,640 --> 00:18:22,800
Speaker 2: putting that energy in the air. So you're really never

441
00:18:22,880 --> 00:18:25,159
Speaker 2: gonna get him back. So I wish we had a

442
00:18:25,160 --> 00:18:26,280
Speaker 2: baby mama here to talk.

443
00:18:26,160 --> 00:18:28,280
Speaker 1: To because I'm like, I wish we did too. What

444
00:18:28,400 --> 00:18:29,640
Speaker 1: is y'all thought process?

445
00:18:29,720 --> 00:18:31,399
Speaker 2: And there's a lot of baby mamas that listen to

446
00:18:31,400 --> 00:18:33,879
Speaker 2: the show like and y'all can be honest, y'all can send.

447
00:18:33,760 --> 00:18:34,960
Speaker 1: Us an email anonymously.

448
00:18:35,200 --> 00:18:38,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, what is your goal when you're saying I don't

449
00:18:38,520 --> 00:18:40,480
Speaker 2: want to be with him, when you low key really

450
00:18:40,520 --> 00:18:41,560
Speaker 2: do want to be with Right.

451
00:18:41,480 --> 00:18:43,159
Speaker 1: When you low he still got a little bit of

452
00:18:43,320 --> 00:18:44,119
Speaker 1: grain of hope.

453
00:18:44,440 --> 00:18:46,280
Speaker 2: And you know what, I think it is just like

454
00:18:46,320 --> 00:18:48,960
Speaker 2: when you tell a nigga, I don't care anymore, I'm done,

455
00:18:49,160 --> 00:18:50,840
Speaker 2: but you're just trying to see how he gonna react.

456
00:18:50,920 --> 00:18:53,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, is it the same thing.

457
00:18:53,520 --> 00:18:56,199
Speaker 3: See, ill don't do that though I never been a

458
00:18:56,200 --> 00:18:58,359
Speaker 3: person that did it, so I don't really understand it.

459
00:18:58,400 --> 00:19:00,080
Speaker 3: Because when I tell a nigga, I'm done with you,

460
00:19:00,520 --> 00:19:02,800
Speaker 3: that's really how I feel. Yeah, I don't ever tell

461
00:19:02,800 --> 00:19:05,920
Speaker 3: that nigga I'm done with you to provoke him to see.

462
00:19:05,840 --> 00:19:08,000
Speaker 1: Why he's gonna Now. I've said I've done, I'm done

463
00:19:08,040 --> 00:19:11,879
Speaker 1: with a nigga before, and I really thought I meant you.

464
00:19:12,240 --> 00:19:14,160
Speaker 3: Well, that's different though, if you really think you are

465
00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:17,000
Speaker 3: done versus just saying it to try to see what

466
00:19:17,080 --> 00:19:18,960
Speaker 3: his reaction gonna be or try to see how much

467
00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:20,760
Speaker 3: he really fuck with you, you know what I mean, It's

468
00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:21,600
Speaker 3: two different things.

469
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Speaker 2: Like I said, ladies, my opinion is baby mama's there's

470
00:19:25,160 --> 00:19:27,080
Speaker 2: no need to be bitter, you know what I'm saying,

471
00:19:27,080 --> 00:19:29,120
Speaker 2: as long as you have as long as he's doing

472
00:19:29,119 --> 00:19:31,600
Speaker 2: his job as a father, If that nigga's ready to

473
00:19:31,640 --> 00:19:33,760
Speaker 2: move on, just let him move on and worry about

474
00:19:33,760 --> 00:19:34,200
Speaker 2: the kids.

475
00:19:34,240 --> 00:19:37,600
Speaker 1: All the focus needs to be is the child period. Yeah,

476
00:19:37,760 --> 00:19:39,000
Speaker 1: I agree, I agree.

477
00:19:39,080 --> 00:19:42,119
Speaker 2: So let us know how y'all feel about bitter baby

478
00:19:42,160 --> 00:19:46,480
Speaker 2: mamas and them wanting the dad to go above and

479
00:19:46,520 --> 00:19:48,960
Speaker 2: beyond whenever he's just I mean, he's going above and beyond,

480
00:19:48,960 --> 00:19:49,600
Speaker 2: but they're just.

481
00:19:50,480 --> 00:19:53,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, So we're gonna.

482
00:19:53,440 --> 00:19:58,000
Speaker 2: Talk about the gofund me girl that went viral today

483
00:19:58,040 --> 00:20:00,000
Speaker 2: on Twitter. I just wanted to touch on this real quick,

484
00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:03,359
Speaker 2: because we talked aboudy on the radio in the radio today,

485
00:20:03,400 --> 00:20:05,240
Speaker 2: so a lot of people, some people had called into

486
00:20:05,240 --> 00:20:06,879
Speaker 2: the radio station. So we just want to touch on

487
00:20:06,920 --> 00:20:11,000
Speaker 2: this real quick. So basically, a girl had posted on

488
00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:14,120
Speaker 2: Twitter today that she wants her body done.

489
00:20:14,160 --> 00:20:18,520
Speaker 1: She needs a thousand dollars. She said, you see, I've

490
00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:20,160
Speaker 1: been obese since birth.

491
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Speaker 2: She said, her kids laugh at her. Her kids says, mom,

492
00:20:23,880 --> 00:20:26,320
Speaker 2: why do you look like a gorilla? And her kid

493
00:20:26,440 --> 00:20:28,600
Speaker 2: also said she said, when she sits on the couch,

494
00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:29,920
Speaker 2: her baby says, oh shit.

495
00:20:30,320 --> 00:20:31,240
Speaker 1: Yeah.

496
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Speaker 2: So I just want to talk about the ladies feeling

497
00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:38,360
Speaker 2: pressure to get their bodies done.

498
00:20:38,720 --> 00:20:40,600
Speaker 1: And I know we've talked about this before, but let

499
00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:41,240
Speaker 1: me say this.

500
00:20:42,080 --> 00:20:45,399
Speaker 2: First of all, since you're line, your kids are not

501
00:20:45,520 --> 00:20:47,800
Speaker 2: calling you ugly and making fun of your body shape.

502
00:20:48,280 --> 00:20:52,320
Speaker 1: Well, I don't agree with that because kids literally have no.

503
00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:56,560
Speaker 2: Feel They don't kids don't know what a bad bitch is.

504
00:20:56,600 --> 00:20:58,560
Speaker 2: They don't know what an hour glass shape is.

505
00:20:58,600 --> 00:20:59,879
Speaker 1: Bro, That's true.

506
00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:02,760
Speaker 2: Growing up, I mean my mom, it's like me. Our

507
00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:05,320
Speaker 2: weight was always up and down. My mom was never

508
00:21:05,600 --> 00:21:08,119
Speaker 2: a coat bottle shape. But I never growing up, I

509
00:21:08,160 --> 00:21:10,080
Speaker 2: never looked at my mom and be like, ooh, mom,

510
00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:12,560
Speaker 2: you're a bad bill bits.

511
00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:14,400
Speaker 1: Some lying yo, you are not looking.

512
00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:16,679
Speaker 2: When my mom sat next to me, I was never like,

513
00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:18,680
Speaker 2: oh shit, here come big Mama.

514
00:21:18,880 --> 00:21:22,439
Speaker 1: Yeah. Like, but I wouldn't say too these days.

515
00:21:22,520 --> 00:21:25,000
Speaker 3: Children these days are exposed to way more than we

516
00:21:25,080 --> 00:21:25,679
Speaker 3: exposed to.

517
00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:29,200
Speaker 1: The baby she said her baby, meaning that the kid

518
00:21:29,280 --> 00:21:30,000
Speaker 1: is like three.

519
00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:32,680
Speaker 3: But I'm saying three year olds and stuff are really

520
00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:37,639
Speaker 3: advanced these days. I wouldn't be surprised three year olds

521
00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:40,640
Speaker 3: doing all type of crazy. Three year old is scrawling

522
00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:43,439
Speaker 3: through Instagram being like look at Bernice. I'm not saying

523
00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:45,840
Speaker 3: that they scrolling through that, but all I'm saying is

524
00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:48,400
Speaker 3: kids these days are way more advanced than we were

525
00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:50,600
Speaker 3: when we were their age, and they were exposed to

526
00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:52,800
Speaker 3: way more because of the Internet and everything, and because

527
00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:55,280
Speaker 3: of social media and stuff. So I do feel like

528
00:21:55,560 --> 00:21:58,200
Speaker 3: kids do be seeing certain shit. I would say kids

529
00:21:58,240 --> 00:21:59,919
Speaker 3: as far as like middle school and high school. But

530
00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:05,160
Speaker 3: three year old bro a three year old bro. Kids

531
00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:07,320
Speaker 3: I'm not saying they have no Instagram, but you. I'm

532
00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:09,560
Speaker 3: saying kids be exposed to all types of shit.

533
00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:12,919
Speaker 1: I'll be seeing kids on Instagram, kids on fucking Twitter.

534
00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:15,880
Speaker 3: I mean like well, you know videos of kids and stuff,

535
00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:18,359
Speaker 3: and these kids be way advancing, like a lot of

536
00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:21,520
Speaker 3: advanced for their age, okay, super advanced. So what they

537
00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:23,159
Speaker 3: be talking about? She and I'd be like, damn, when

538
00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:25,520
Speaker 3: I was three, I wouldn't but I wasn't talking about this.

539
00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:30,320
Speaker 3: But their parents are recording them. These kids, I'm talking about.

540
00:22:29,960 --> 00:22:33,359
Speaker 2: Three to five year olds. These little people are not

541
00:22:33,560 --> 00:22:34,640
Speaker 2: on Instagram, bro.

542
00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:35,280
Speaker 1: These days.

543
00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:38,080
Speaker 3: I'm not surprised at anything that people say that their

544
00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:38,800
Speaker 3: children say.

545
00:22:38,880 --> 00:22:39,800
Speaker 1: I'm just being honest.

546
00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:41,560
Speaker 3: I mean, okay, because I have my one of my

547
00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:44,200
Speaker 3: little cousins, she like he living now, but I never

548
00:22:44,240 --> 00:22:47,600
Speaker 3: forget that she's living now. But I'll never forget when

549
00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:49,679
Speaker 3: she was like three four, she was very advanced for

550
00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:51,040
Speaker 3: her age, and she used to talk to me about

551
00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:52,480
Speaker 3: She and I used to be like, how the fuck

552
00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:55,240
Speaker 3: you even talking to me about these right now?

553
00:22:55,440 --> 00:22:57,840
Speaker 1: Right? But I feel like, I mean, kids start talking

554
00:22:57,840 --> 00:23:00,640
Speaker 1: when they're like what too? They can start Your child

555
00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:03,680
Speaker 1: should start talking there, like one one in the head. Well,

556
00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:04,480
Speaker 1: I mean not.

557
00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:06,800
Speaker 2: Necessarily, different kids are developed differently, but I feel like

558
00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:09,560
Speaker 2: you can definitely have full conversations with kids whenever they

559
00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:12,280
Speaker 2: hit like three, Like y'all are having full conversations when

560
00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:15,480
Speaker 2: they're like three four, So it's like, are they really

561
00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:18,480
Speaker 2: really advanced or its just like they this is what

562
00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:21,679
Speaker 2: kids do. And it's more blasted now because we have

563
00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:24,919
Speaker 2: social media, so we're now seeing people's kids grow up

564
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:26,600
Speaker 2: because they're posting their kids every day.

565
00:23:26,800 --> 00:23:27,360
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

566
00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:29,040
Speaker 2: I don't feel like kids are more advanced now when

567
00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:31,119
Speaker 2: you get to like middle school and high school. I

568
00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:34,120
Speaker 2: wouldn't say they're more advanced. They're just exposed to different shit.

569
00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:36,320
Speaker 2: But I feel like people kids five.

570
00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:38,400
Speaker 1: And under, they're not on fucking Instagram.

571
00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:38,680
Speaker 2: Bitch.

572
00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:40,360
Speaker 1: That bitch was making that shit up so she could

573
00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:45,560
Speaker 1: get her fucking body done. Did she eat? Was people check?

574
00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:48,920
Speaker 1: She had thirty dollars? But thirty dollars out of a

575
00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:52,560
Speaker 1: thousand it's not far? Is it nice? It's not. I

576
00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:55,720
Speaker 1: would say you're not far if you reach half, okay,

577
00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:58,400
Speaker 1: But people were donating. There was more.

578
00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:01,000
Speaker 3: So if three people I have a thousand dollars, goll

579
00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:02,639
Speaker 3: and I made thirty dollars so far.

580
00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:05,119
Speaker 2: But you gotta think about it as soon as it

581
00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:08,400
Speaker 2: goes viral. It was three dummies that donated. It's more

582
00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:10,000
Speaker 2: where that came from my good sister.

583
00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:12,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true. So I just wanted to talk about that.

584
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:16,320
Speaker 1: And in her defense, she did need her body done. Dall,

585
00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:21,080
Speaker 1: what people do not need that? Nobody needs their body done. Okay,

586
00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:24,040
Speaker 1: that's your opinion. So you really think people need their

587
00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:27,000
Speaker 1: body I think it wouldn't hurt some people. It wouldn't hurt,

588
00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:30,400
Speaker 1: but it's not a necessity. No, I lie, I actually

589
00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:30,920
Speaker 1: just lie.

590
00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:34,199
Speaker 3: It's definitely a necessity for some people for what though,

591
00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:36,960
Speaker 3: because they just be needing me. No, And I said this,

592
00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:38,600
Speaker 3: if you have to start a going if you and

593
00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:41,000
Speaker 3: I feel like at the end of the day, it's

594
00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:43,240
Speaker 3: your prerogatives to do what you feel like you need

595
00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:45,359
Speaker 3: to do to make yourself feel better, to be able

596
00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:47,680
Speaker 3: to look in the mirror and stand looking at yourself

597
00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:48,280
Speaker 3: every day.

598
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:49,359
Speaker 1: Do what you need to do.

599
00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:51,160
Speaker 2: You want to start a gofund me to get your

600
00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:53,800
Speaker 2: body done, you can't afford it, Like I said, I don't.

601
00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:57,560
Speaker 2: I done did shit. I saved my bread, myself and

602
00:24:57,600 --> 00:24:58,600
Speaker 2: I got that shit together.

603
00:24:58,920 --> 00:24:59,639
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

604
00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:03,320
Speaker 2: If you can't afford it, stop using stuff like gofund me.

605
00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:07,199
Speaker 1: Bitch, go to the motherfucking gym. I don't agree because

606
00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:09,560
Speaker 1: the gym ain't about to change your shade.

607
00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:11,479
Speaker 2: No, it's not gonna change your shape, but you're just

608
00:25:11,480 --> 00:25:12,560
Speaker 2: gonna be a more tone.

609
00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:15,000
Speaker 1: He's gonna be a more tone, bad bilt be.

610
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:19,159
Speaker 2: No, Yeah, I swear to God, Yes you are bro

611
00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:22,080
Speaker 2: fucking working out if the gym is not about to

612
00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:24,560
Speaker 2: make you go from being box shaped to be nobody.

613
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:26,240
Speaker 1: But no it's not. I'm not saying it. But not

614
00:25:26,320 --> 00:25:27,920
Speaker 1: everybody needs that coke bottle.

615
00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:30,159
Speaker 3: Well clearly though, if you're deciding that you want to

616
00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:31,880
Speaker 3: go get surgery, that is what you want.

617
00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:34,040
Speaker 1: But I'm trying to on the girl.

618
00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:36,600
Speaker 3: She's gonna have to lose weight to get surgery anyway,

619
00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:39,240
Speaker 3: Absolutely she is. So it's like, you don't have to

620
00:25:39,280 --> 00:25:39,680
Speaker 3: lose white.

621
00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:42,399
Speaker 2: You might as well just go and lose all your

622
00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:44,720
Speaker 2: weight and see how your body looks. Then when me

623
00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:47,520
Speaker 2: and when I got my body done, I lost.

624
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Speaker 1: The way or what.

625
00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:49,320
Speaker 2: No, I didn't have to look I actually had to

626
00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:53,320
Speaker 2: gain weight. But I see my body at many different

627
00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:55,720
Speaker 2: shapes and sizes. I see my body when it was big,

628
00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:57,159
Speaker 2: I seen it when it was small. I seen it

629
00:25:57,200 --> 00:25:59,800
Speaker 2: when I was in the gym hard. Shit was still trash.

630
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:02,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, but that's what I'm saying, like I just still

631
00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:04,520
Speaker 3: have a weight out her option. Yeah, but then also

632
00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:08,240
Speaker 3: you were never obese either, so a lot of time okay,

633
00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:10,919
Speaker 3: but you weren't obese a lot of the time. When

634
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,480
Speaker 3: people are obese, they end up having sagging skin and

635
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:15,399
Speaker 3: all types of stuff. So they do be needing to

636
00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:17,919
Speaker 3: go get surgery sometimes because you can lose all of

637
00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:20,920
Speaker 3: that weight. But that's not gonna no matter how much

638
00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:23,200
Speaker 3: you work out, You're still gonna have stagging skin. You

639
00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:24,960
Speaker 3: still gonna have a lot of other issue.

640
00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:27,359
Speaker 2: But that's not what a bbl can fix. These bitches

641
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:29,000
Speaker 2: wanna get bbls.

642
00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:32,920
Speaker 1: You know, she didn't wanna go get gastric bypass surgery.

643
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:34,280
Speaker 1: She said, my body done.

644
00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 2: Gastrict bypass is not getting your body done. Bitch is

645
00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 2: trying to go to the dr. She but listen, honestly,

646
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 2: any lady's out.

647
00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:44,399
Speaker 3: There, don't go to the dr. Like I said, I

648
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:46,960
Speaker 3: feel like the dr got bad juju. All these people be.

649
00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:49,320
Speaker 1: Doctors in the dr. She did an amazing job.

650
00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:51,560
Speaker 2: So if y'all wanna risk your life and go out there,

651
00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:53,440
Speaker 2: you can, and I'll give you my doctors.

652
00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:56,800
Speaker 1: And doctor cabral ain't he there. Hell, doctor gabral is

653
00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:59,440
Speaker 1: a killer, That's what I'm saying. Oh yeah, I don't.

654
00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:01,480
Speaker 1: I don't. If you got a death to we should

655
00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:03,879
Speaker 1: go to doctor Cabra. Oh my gosh, don't say that.

656
00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:05,960
Speaker 2: I hope he sues you, cause you know we on

657
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:07,560
Speaker 2: the border getting sued on our show.

658
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:10,679
Speaker 1: Well, bitch, if he sued me, he's suing YouTube.

659
00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:17,360
Speaker 2: Oh I did say so. Anyways, Honestly, all jokes aside.

660
00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:20,359
Speaker 2: I really feel like this is important, ladies. If y'all

661
00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:22,879
Speaker 2: ever have any questions about surgery or getting in your

662
00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:25,680
Speaker 2: body done, please don't hesitate to hit me up, cause

663
00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:28,280
Speaker 2: I feel let me up too. You ain't got your

664
00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:31,320
Speaker 2: body done, He's done. If y'all ever got teddy question,

665
00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:33,320
Speaker 2: see me up. But I feel like the body shit

666
00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:33,680
Speaker 2: is more.

667
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:34,880
Speaker 1: Of an epidemic right now.

668
00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:37,440
Speaker 2: So if y'all have any questions, and y'all just need

669
00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:39,879
Speaker 2: some guidance and some hell, let big Mama help you out.

670
00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:41,840
Speaker 3: I got cool scooked in too, So if you don't

671
00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:43,320
Speaker 3: want to go under the knife.

672
00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:44,080
Speaker 1: There's other options.

673
00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:47,080
Speaker 3: There are other options. Now, See wasn't she can't do

674
00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:50,240
Speaker 3: cool scooping? Yes, they ain't gonna do nothing. Some way Okay,

675
00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:52,359
Speaker 3: So this is something that I wanna talk about so

676
00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:53,399
Speaker 3: fucking bad.

677
00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:56,639
Speaker 1: Mm yes, cause I'm about to get real fucking nasty

678
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:58,320
Speaker 1: and real fucking ugly. So anybody that.

679
00:27:58,280 --> 00:28:00,720
Speaker 2: I've done fucked or I haven't fucked anybody and I'm

680
00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:02,240
Speaker 2: talking to right now, you might want to turn that

681
00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:02,760
Speaker 2: shit off.

682
00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:04,000
Speaker 1: Because you might get fucking mad.

683
00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 2: Why I like when we like getting too the nitty

684
00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:08,480
Speaker 2: gritty stuff like thirty minutes in because by this time

685
00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 2: people don't stop listening.

686
00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:11,560
Speaker 1: They're like, oh fuck these holl they not talking about shit.

687
00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:13,600
Speaker 2: So now we can talk about the goods, bitch, the

688
00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 2: good shit, right So people that all are real listeners,

689
00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:20,119
Speaker 2: they listen. So I want to talk about whenever you

690
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:22,879
Speaker 2: meet a nigga and you know off top, oh I'm

691
00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:25,360
Speaker 2: about to I'm gonna give this nigga some pussy now

692
00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:27,760
Speaker 2: first with that question that has that happened to you?

693
00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:29,760
Speaker 1: Absolutely? Okay?

694
00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:32,320
Speaker 2: So with that being said, I want to talk about

695
00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:36,880
Speaker 2: and if any niggas are listening right now, why is why.

696
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:39,840
Speaker 1: Do y'all talk y'allself out the pussy? What do y'all

697
00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:41,840
Speaker 1: be thinking? What do y'all be doing?

698
00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:45,080
Speaker 2: Like I feel like niggas be trying to do shit

699
00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:48,640
Speaker 2: to impress us, and it just makes you take about

700
00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:53,040
Speaker 2: five or six steps fucking back. And it's so disappointing

701
00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:55,080
Speaker 2: because you know how rare it is for me to

702
00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:58,080
Speaker 2: meet a nigga like damn you, I don't even care

703
00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:00,240
Speaker 2: if you do shit for me. I'm just fucking with

704
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:02,320
Speaker 2: your vibe and I like you off rip, so I

705
00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:04,520
Speaker 2: know you're gonna get some pussy and then we get.

706
00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 1: With the boys and fucking with the volls. Y'all know,

707
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:09,480
Speaker 1: we talk about the bar. Sometimes niggas just got a

708
00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:12,040
Speaker 1: good vibe. You don't gotta do shit. He just gotta,

709
00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:14,120
Speaker 1: you know, come around and be himself and you're gonna

710
00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:14,880
Speaker 1: give him the pussy.

711
00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:18,840
Speaker 2: Why when y'all have the shit going for yourself, it's

712
00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 2: in the fucking bag and you fumble a pussy.

713
00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:25,080
Speaker 1: Well, I'm not gonna lie at this big age.

714
00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 3: I don't never be feeling like I just want to

715
00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:28,840
Speaker 3: give a nigga some pussy off the rip.

716
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:31,040
Speaker 1: No more like I got like, okay, I gave a

717
00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:31,600
Speaker 1: nigga some.

718
00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:36,160
Speaker 3: Pussy off of like just me knowing that I wanted

719
00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:38,400
Speaker 3: to fuck him, And it was because I was in

720
00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:39,640
Speaker 3: a vulnerable situation.

721
00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:42,320
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, he was fine as fuzg, don't get me wrong.

722
00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:45,760
Speaker 3: But I was also going through some shit with another nigga,

723
00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:48,040
Speaker 3: so it was like, Okay, I kind of just needed

724
00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:50,080
Speaker 3: some dick and I had just wanted to fuck you

725
00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:51,480
Speaker 3: know what I mean, And he was fine and he

726
00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:53,520
Speaker 3: was here, so it was just kind of like, okay,

727
00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:55,320
Speaker 3: fuck it, let me go ahead and give him some pussy.

728
00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 1: Now.

729
00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:59,040
Speaker 3: I do feel like when you first meet a guy,

730
00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:02,560
Speaker 3: like I'll say maybe after the first few dates. Some

731
00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:05,160
Speaker 3: guys first date, I know I'm probably not gonna give

732
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:07,960
Speaker 3: you no pussy never, but by like for sure the

733
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:10,600
Speaker 3: third date, I know whether or not you're gonna get

734
00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:11,080
Speaker 3: some pussy.

735
00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:14,680
Speaker 2: Okay, So see okay, and let me talk about the opposite.

736
00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:17,600
Speaker 2: I'm gonna talk about my personal situation. I met a

737
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:21,160
Speaker 2: guy I thought he was cool right off the bat.

738
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:23,480
Speaker 1: I was like, nah, but he seemed like cool people,

739
00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:24,960
Speaker 1: so let me give him a chance. I had asked

740
00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:26,560
Speaker 1: a few friends about me. I was like, yeah, he cool,

741
00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:27,320
Speaker 1: give him a chance.

742
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:30,480
Speaker 2: Went on one date and I was like nah, But

743
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:32,920
Speaker 2: we started hanging out, going on a few days and

744
00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:34,480
Speaker 2: I was like, damn, this nigga actually calling. I'm like

745
00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:37,040
Speaker 2: you know what, I'm gonna give you some pussy. First mistake,

746
00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:39,880
Speaker 2: he started acting press for the pussy. Every time we

747
00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:43,080
Speaker 2: was chilling. He's rubbing on me. Damn, when you're gonna

748
00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:45,920
Speaker 2: let me. Oh, I want you so bad. Okay, I

749
00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:48,480
Speaker 2: know you want me, nigga. It's a lot of the

750
00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:50,000
Speaker 2: people that want me, and I'm not trying to be

751
00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:51,760
Speaker 2: like me, but people want people.

752
00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:55,360
Speaker 1: It's normal. Yeah, okay, I understand that, but just chill, bro.

753
00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:57,680
Speaker 2: And then I guess he got to the point to

754
00:30:57,720 --> 00:30:59,600
Speaker 2: where he was just tied away but a pussy.

755
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:03,120
Speaker 1: He was like, do you know who you fucking with? Oh,

756
00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 1: you don't understand. I want to hate for you to

757
00:31:05,680 --> 00:31:10,040
Speaker 1: lose a nigga like me. Yeah, he crossed the line

758
00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:10,600
Speaker 1: because I was.

759
00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:13,080
Speaker 3: I was agreeing with him in the beginning, because I

760
00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:16,320
Speaker 3: do like sometimes when the nigga be like, you got

761
00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:18,480
Speaker 3: me fucked up, Like like, I kind of like this,

762
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:20,880
Speaker 3: you like, I kind of like it a little bit,

763
00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:23,120
Speaker 3: especially if he if especially if it's a nigga who

764
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:25,520
Speaker 3: has reason to say things like that.

765
00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:29,720
Speaker 2: Okay, but okay, you said that he has to have

766
00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 2: a reason.

767
00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:33,160
Speaker 1: To say that. Yeah, That's what I'm saying for me.

768
00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:35,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, if it's a nigga who is like, clearly, I know,

769
00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:37,240
Speaker 3: I'm kind of playing with you because I know you

770
00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:39,320
Speaker 3: can go get some pussy from who I won't, and

771
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:41,840
Speaker 3: you are starting type of nigga, and I just I

772
00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:43,479
Speaker 3: know that I'm kind of playing with you. So to me,

773
00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:46,520
Speaker 3: sometimes they do kind of be a turn on. It's like,

774
00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:49,560
Speaker 3: you're right, I do, but any throw these pussy bites.

775
00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:53,240
Speaker 2: But any any situation, any nigga can get pussy. I mean,

776
00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:55,720
Speaker 2: it's somebody, it's bitches out here throwing pussy, so.

777
00:31:56,120 --> 00:31:58,000
Speaker 1: And in my cab. They don't mean they can get

778
00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:00,560
Speaker 1: it from anybody they want it from. That's different. Well yeah,

779
00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:01,120
Speaker 1: but like.

780
00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:03,560
Speaker 2: I'm saying, like, it's not hard to get pussy. It's

781
00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:04,680
Speaker 2: not hard to get dick nowadays.

782
00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:07,360
Speaker 1: So he ain't created equal, right, But.

783
00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 2: Like I'm saying, like, it's not like I don't understand

784
00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:12,240
Speaker 2: why you're so fucking pressed and it's turning me off,

785
00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:14,080
Speaker 2: and I'm still trying to give you a chance because

786
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:14,800
Speaker 2: I fuck with you.

787
00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 1: But after he did the oh you don't know who

788
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 1: you fucking.

789
00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:20,080
Speaker 2: With type shit, I was like, Okay, you know what,

790
00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:22,200
Speaker 2: I'm gonna move on, and I'm gonna forgive him and

791
00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:23,800
Speaker 2: we can't move forward from this. But I haven't been

792
00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 2: able to move on. I had to cut him off,

793
00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:27,560
Speaker 2: like like, we can still be cool and we can

794
00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:30,160
Speaker 2: still be friends, but I'm not fucking with Do you know?

795
00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:31,560
Speaker 1: Do you know who I am? Nigga? Do you know

796
00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:33,520
Speaker 1: who I am? I ain't nobody, But I'm just like,

797
00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:35,600
Speaker 1: I can say that too. What does that mean? Yeah,

798
00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:37,080
Speaker 1: anybody can say that. I don't give a fuck.

799
00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:39,360
Speaker 2: If you fucking Barack Obama, if I'm not feeling you,

800
00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:41,320
Speaker 2: you're not getting the pussy, bitch, well, I hope you

801
00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:42,440
Speaker 2: wouldn't do our good sees.

802
00:32:42,520 --> 00:32:45,719
Speaker 1: Michelle then was shit. Barack is fine, you know what.

803
00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:49,040
Speaker 1: I'm definitely giving Brock and I'm It's.

804
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:51,040
Speaker 3: Like sometimes when we say these type of things, I'd

805
00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:53,680
Speaker 3: be like, man, when our show get big, we're gonna

806
00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:55,040
Speaker 3: be as smart deep dude.

807
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:57,000
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck. Barack is fine. He can

808
00:32:57,000 --> 00:32:58,720
Speaker 1: definitely get the pussy. He don't even got to ask.

809
00:32:58,760 --> 00:33:02,080
Speaker 2: He just gotta go, oh wow, you're like, and I'm

810
00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:04,600
Speaker 2: gonna say, I'm gonna take off these jaws period.

811
00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:07,360
Speaker 3: He's gonna get Are you for real? No, I'm dead

812
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:09,320
Speaker 3: ass you don't think Barack is fine. I would never

813
00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:11,160
Speaker 3: give Barck no pussy. He's married.

814
00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:14,440
Speaker 1: Oh what acting like you ain't married niggas?

815
00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:17,240
Speaker 3: I have not never gave no married nigga no pussy.

816
00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:21,720
Speaker 3: Speak for yourself, okay. But I also didn't know he

817
00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:24,719
Speaker 3: was married. If you want to get into technicalities, I

818
00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:26,800
Speaker 3: had no idea that the nigga was married, and when

819
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:29,840
Speaker 3: I found out, I was very emotionally destroyed.

820
00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:34,400
Speaker 1: But I was emotionally distraught by the Hall situation.

821
00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:37,240
Speaker 2: It's like people didn't believe he was an American sision

822
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:38,840
Speaker 2: because they didn't see his birth certificate.

823
00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:40,640
Speaker 1: I ain't seen the married certificates, so I don't know.

824
00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:42,720
Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure you could google it. I'm pretty sure

825
00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:45,400
Speaker 3: it's public records. Maror citific kates are public.

826
00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:47,680
Speaker 1: Ricks, but I'm not googling that ship. But you know

827
00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:49,160
Speaker 1: he's married. I don't know.

828
00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:51,600
Speaker 3: All that you have right now to our listeners is

829
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:54,400
Speaker 3: that you're really a trifling ass, home wrecking ass.

830
00:33:54,520 --> 00:34:02,760
Speaker 1: Beach said, his just jumped out Queen Nas the peasant

831
00:34:02,760 --> 00:34:05,200
Speaker 1: stayed jumping out of me. But anyway, it's back to

832
00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:06,200
Speaker 1: the topic at hand.

833
00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:10,680
Speaker 2: I guess it just makes me really upset because I'm

834
00:34:10,680 --> 00:34:13,120
Speaker 2: not physically attracted to a lot of people. And even

835
00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:16,720
Speaker 2: if I'm not, when I am physically attracted.

836
00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:17,879
Speaker 1: And I want to give you the pussy, And.

837
00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:21,520
Speaker 2: Sometimes I'm not physically attractive. And you got a mouthpiece

838
00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:24,560
Speaker 2: and it worked for you. And sometimes you attractive and

839
00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:27,320
Speaker 2: you got a mouthpiece, but y'all start doing.

840
00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:29,680
Speaker 3: You're not attractive and you got a mouthpiece and you

841
00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:30,360
Speaker 3: got some money.

842
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:32,680
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. It be a lot. Sometimes

843
00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:37,760
Speaker 1: sometimes you attractive, you got a mouthpiece, and you got money.

844
00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:41,160
Speaker 3: Why do you ain't never not gaving no nigga. You

845
00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:43,359
Speaker 3: ain't never not gave a nigga like that no pussy though,

846
00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:47,359
Speaker 3: don't lie, no I have You have not not gave

847
00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:51,440
Speaker 3: a nigga who was fine, had money, a mouthpiece, personality,

848
00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:52,640
Speaker 3: and you didn't give him no pissy.

849
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:55,120
Speaker 1: I feel like that's kind of what just you're an idiot.

850
00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:57,759
Speaker 2: No, but don't just because I see like he got

851
00:34:57,760 --> 00:35:00,000
Speaker 2: other shit going on and it's just like, nah my nigga,

852
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:02,479
Speaker 2: I can't fuck with you like that shit.

853
00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:05,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna still play my card. I'm fucking that when

854
00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:10,040
Speaker 1: you're againstler I am, I'm not. I just I can't

855
00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:10,319
Speaker 1: do it.

856
00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:12,839
Speaker 2: I just feel like, once you turn me off, if

857
00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:15,600
Speaker 2: you do one thing to turn me off, I will

858
00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:17,560
Speaker 2: try to get over it and move on. But I

859
00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:19,680
Speaker 2: just can't. I get turned off. Like I said, just

860
00:35:19,680 --> 00:35:20,520
Speaker 2: like defeat things.

861
00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:23,120
Speaker 3: Well, I understand that, because once I'm turned off by

862
00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:24,560
Speaker 3: a situation, I'm turned off.

863
00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:25,480
Speaker 1: It ain't no going back.

864
00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:28,920
Speaker 3: I actually had somebody who I used to fuck with

865
00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:30,839
Speaker 3: back in the day, like when I won't even say

866
00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:32,160
Speaker 3: back in the day, because I mean, I haven't been

867
00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:35,160
Speaker 3: in Atlanta that long, but somebody that I was talking

868
00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:37,680
Speaker 3: to when I first moved here, maybe a year and

869
00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:38,319
Speaker 3: a half ago.

870
00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:40,120
Speaker 1: I was dating this person and.

871
00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:42,400
Speaker 3: He was in my DM the other day and it

872
00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:44,200
Speaker 3: was just kind of like, well, why are you here,

873
00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 3: cause it's never gonna happen again because I'm turned off

874
00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:50,440
Speaker 3: by you at this point. Like, once I'm done, I'm done.

875
00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:53,279
Speaker 1: I can't. It ain't no going back, even if I

876
00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:55,880
Speaker 1: don't gave you the policey before, Like no, yeah, And

877
00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:58,160
Speaker 1: I feel like, but sometimes honestly, I'm not gonna lie.

878
00:35:58,160 --> 00:36:00,360
Speaker 2: I be happy when niggas talk theyselves off some pussy

879
00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:02,880
Speaker 2: because I'm just like, it'd be a lot of situations

880
00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:04,880
Speaker 2: ain't gotta add to my BodyCount. I don't give a

881
00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:06,880
Speaker 2: fuck about no body account. I never can't give a

882
00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:08,560
Speaker 2: fuck about a body count. But at this point, I'm

883
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:10,640
Speaker 2: just like, I'm so glad I just didn't give you

884
00:36:10,640 --> 00:36:12,319
Speaker 2: no pussy. I'm just glad I didn't give you no

885
00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:14,400
Speaker 2: pussy because you laying I don't care about a body

886
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:14,960
Speaker 2: count neither.

887
00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:16,840
Speaker 3: But what I more so mean when I say that

888
00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:18,880
Speaker 3: is it is definitely something I don't care about a

889
00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:19,799
Speaker 3: body count.

890
00:36:19,560 --> 00:36:20,760
Speaker 1: But it's definitely some niggas.

891
00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:24,800
Speaker 3: If I could erase them from my sexual history, my fact,

892
00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:28,439
Speaker 3: my pussy report, I would dition. Yeah, if I could

893
00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:31,480
Speaker 3: erase them for my pussy facts, I absolutely would, because

894
00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:34,120
Speaker 3: looking back on the situation, it wasn't worth giving you

895
00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:36,240
Speaker 3: no pussy, wasn't worth you being able to go around

896
00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 3: saying that you fucked me, right, and once a niggas

897
00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:41,040
Speaker 3: could go around saying and he fucked you, he won.

898
00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:44,240
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no, all.

899
00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:46,480
Speaker 1: Right, That's how I feel. Okay, Okay, let me tell

900
00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:47,040
Speaker 1: you something though.

901
00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:49,080
Speaker 2: The reason I disagree with that is because, let me

902
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:50,640
Speaker 2: tell you something, it's.

903
00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:52,520
Speaker 1: A lot of niggas right now.

904
00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:55,680
Speaker 2: I'm not even I haven't even scratched the surface of

905
00:36:55,719 --> 00:36:57,720
Speaker 2: the shit I'm about to do. It's probably some niggas

906
00:36:57,760 --> 00:37:00,080
Speaker 2: on the fuck ten years ago. It's like, yeah, I

907
00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:02,279
Speaker 2: used to fuck with lex P. Fuck me now though,

908
00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:03,799
Speaker 2: brag about it now.

909
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:07,359
Speaker 1: You look stupid. You look stupid, but you tail me now.

910
00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:11,280
Speaker 2: Okay, but it's not about any feel and even still

911
00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:12,480
Speaker 2: ten years from now when.

912
00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:14,320
Speaker 4: You go on to do all of these amazing things

913
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:19,279
Speaker 4: that lame that same lame ass nigga like, uh, lex P,

914
00:37:19,600 --> 00:37:21,839
Speaker 4: yeah cool, you fucked me when I was eighteen, that's

915
00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:22,919
Speaker 4: something a bragging about.

916
00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 1: You looked lame.

917
00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:27,319
Speaker 2: Imagine bragging about some pussy you got a year ago.

918
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:29,560
Speaker 1: Even, Yeah, fuck that bitch right now.

919
00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:32,239
Speaker 2: Then if you so lit and you fucked lex P

920
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:35,960
Speaker 2: or you fucked Drayona, call you so lit, call that bitch.

921
00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:40,200
Speaker 1: Right now and get some mother fucking put igreen. Stop bragging.

922
00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:43,040
Speaker 1: Let's it's like probably a time about let's bring it

923
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:44,760
Speaker 1: into another motherfucking topic.

924
00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:49,560
Speaker 3: Bitch, bitch, this hole just threw something at my fucking window.

925
00:37:49,920 --> 00:37:51,839
Speaker 2: I threw a bobby ping because I'm ready to talk

926
00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:54,560
Speaker 2: about this. Okay, this wasn't even on the roster on

927
00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:57,439
Speaker 2: the thing that on my outline, nigga, It wasn't because

928
00:37:57,440 --> 00:37:58,320
Speaker 2: I feel it could.

929
00:37:58,239 --> 00:38:02,120
Speaker 1: In Why are you niggas still talking about pussy that

930
00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:04,279
Speaker 1: you got a long time ago? Niggas want to be like,

931
00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:07,400
Speaker 1: oh yeah, I used to fuck with Sierra back in

932
00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:12,680
Speaker 1: the day, like Sierra, goodie Sierra, she's went, Russell Simmons.

933
00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:14,200
Speaker 1: Now she's went.

934
00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:21,960
Speaker 2: I mean, bitch, I'm drunk. Russell fucking Wilson. Oh yeah,

935
00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:23,680
Speaker 2: I used to fuck with Sierra back and again.

936
00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:30,040
Speaker 1: Russell Simmons is the gay man, right, No, Russell Simmons,

937
00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:33,040
Speaker 1: Camora baby Babby. Okay, what's the man named that I'm

938
00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:36,000
Speaker 1: talking to? So?

939
00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:39,120
Speaker 2: Wait, why do you niggas brag about pussy that you

940
00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:42,000
Speaker 2: got if it's over a year ago. I'm not trying

941
00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:44,319
Speaker 2: to hear unless you can fuck that bitch right now.

942
00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:48,040
Speaker 2: Stop talking about it. Why why are you so angry

943
00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:50,280
Speaker 2: because this nigga do this ship to me all the time?

944
00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:57,960
Speaker 2: Oh oh, bro, I can't stand it. He okay, I'm

945
00:38:58,000 --> 00:38:58,680
Speaker 2: talking about.

946
00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:00,359
Speaker 1: A personal situation. Let's bring this bag.

947
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:03,239
Speaker 2: Let me tell you, anytime I tweet this nigga or

948
00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:04,799
Speaker 2: he tweets me, are we so I feel like we

949
00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:08,359
Speaker 2: can have casual conversation? He'll be like, shit, that's how

950
00:39:08,400 --> 00:39:10,880
Speaker 2: I used to have you back in the day, nigga, I.

951
00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:12,320
Speaker 1: Dated you when I was twenty.

952
00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:15,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, let it go, let it go, let it go.

953
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:18,640
Speaker 3: You're dreaming about some pussy you had nine years ago.

954
00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:21,840
Speaker 3: My shit trash, but it was good to him. My

955
00:39:21,920 --> 00:39:23,879
Speaker 3: ship trash, but it was good to him.

956
00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:27,160
Speaker 1: My shit. Look, i'm gonna tell you again, my ship trap,

957
00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:29,240
Speaker 1: but it was good to him.

958
00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:31,920
Speaker 3: Bro, And now he's see you doing your thing. I

959
00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:34,560
Speaker 3: ain't gonna say that that shit ain't lame. I do

960
00:39:34,680 --> 00:39:37,520
Speaker 3: feel like he's lame, But I also understand why startin

961
00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:40,680
Speaker 3: niggas break that they fucked me. I get it, But okay,

962
00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:43,840
Speaker 3: I get you, cause especially like if we was eighteen,

963
00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:45,640
Speaker 3: cause at eighteen, I.

964
00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:48,560
Speaker 2: Wasn't doing she hell. I had just graduated high school.

965
00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:50,920
Speaker 2: I was going to college. If me and you was

966
00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:52,520
Speaker 2: fucking back in the day and we was both on

967
00:39:52,560 --> 00:39:55,200
Speaker 2: the same level, and now I'm livling up, I live

968
00:39:55,239 --> 00:39:57,440
Speaker 2: in Atlanta, I'm doing my thing, I'm on the radio,

969
00:39:57,840 --> 00:39:59,120
Speaker 2: I'm doing all types of sheep.

970
00:39:59,200 --> 00:40:00,880
Speaker 1: But I okay, if I'm.

971
00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:03,799
Speaker 3: Doing this and you still ain't doing shit, I understand

972
00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:06,440
Speaker 3: why niggas do that. I'm not making for them to

973
00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:10,719
Speaker 3: ship lame, but I understand why niggas do what they do.

974
00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:10,880
Speaker 2: Now.

975
00:40:10,960 --> 00:40:13,439
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to be funny, but it's like, what

976
00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:14,880
Speaker 1: the fuck are we really doing?

977
00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:18,239
Speaker 2: We just we're doing more than them. It doesn't matter

978
00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:20,200
Speaker 2: if you feel like it's a parts. We're not at

979
00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:22,400
Speaker 2: the point and at the peace that we want to

980
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:22,719
Speaker 2: be at.

981
00:40:22,719 --> 00:40:25,480
Speaker 3: But that's just because those are personal goals and stuff

982
00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:28,239
Speaker 3: that we've set ourselves. Are not doing nothing that the

983
00:40:28,280 --> 00:40:32,960
Speaker 3: average person shouldn't be doing out here. Crazy though, because

984
00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:35,400
Speaker 3: I have people from high school, not even people that

985
00:40:35,440 --> 00:40:36,600
Speaker 3: I'm fuck that I fucked.

986
00:40:36,600 --> 00:40:39,400
Speaker 1: I'm talking about girls I was cool with in high school.

987
00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:41,880
Speaker 3: Niggas I was cool with in high school who DM

988
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:44,040
Speaker 3: me all the time telling me how proud they are me,

989
00:40:44,080 --> 00:40:44,960
Speaker 3: and I feel the same way.

990
00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:46,840
Speaker 1: I'd be like, bro, what am I? What have I

991
00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:47,839
Speaker 1: really really done?

992
00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:48,319
Speaker 2: Yet?

993
00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:53,960
Speaker 1: Like I have done amazing different to me, that's not different.

994
00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:55,879
Speaker 2: If I'm telling you, Dre, I'm proud of you because

995
00:40:55,880 --> 00:40:59,040
Speaker 2: you out here hustling, grinding, versus nigga being like, yeah,

996
00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:00,360
Speaker 2: I used to fuck with but you.

997
00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:03,360
Speaker 3: But the reason that I said that, it's because you

998
00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:05,919
Speaker 3: basically just said, like, at the end of the day,

999
00:41:06,160 --> 00:41:07,239
Speaker 3: what have we really done.

1000
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 1: So I look at it in the same context.

1001
00:41:09,160 --> 00:41:11,360
Speaker 3: That's them bragging on the fact that they used to

1002
00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:13,680
Speaker 3: fuck with you because they feel like you're doing something.

1003
00:41:13,840 --> 00:41:16,279
Speaker 3: I mean, and you probably are the best that they

1004
00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:18,440
Speaker 3: gonna get. Who the fuck are half these niggas that

1005
00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:20,040
Speaker 3: you used to fuck with when you were twenty? Who

1006
00:41:20,040 --> 00:41:20,799
Speaker 3: the fuck they dating?

1007
00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:21,040
Speaker 2: Now?

1008
00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:22,080
Speaker 1: Well, let me say this.

1009
00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:24,480
Speaker 2: I'm not trying to take away from what we have done, because, bitch,

1010
00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:26,520
Speaker 2: don't get it twisted. We are doing our things. We

1011
00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:29,160
Speaker 2: are not what I'm saying. But what I'm saying is

1012
00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:34,480
Speaker 2: you look lame. And okay, do that ever stop niggas.

1013
00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:36,719
Speaker 2: Niggas don't care about looking lame. Bitch just don't care

1014
00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:39,520
Speaker 2: about looking lame. I just feel like that's crazy as fuck,

1015
00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:41,520
Speaker 2: Like you want to really talk about talk about the

1016
00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:44,600
Speaker 2: pussy you got last week because that pussy what nothing?

1017
00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:47,759
Speaker 2: And don't nobody even know that hole? But it's like

1018
00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:50,640
Speaker 2: people know you people, I mean, yes to me.

1019
00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:52,960
Speaker 3: People like to have bragging rights, people like to talk

1020
00:41:52,960 --> 00:41:55,160
Speaker 3: about people that they don't talk about. Crag on me

1021
00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:57,799
Speaker 3: because I'm gonna embarrass you once you once people find

1022
00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:00,759
Speaker 3: if I found out that you've been like around. If

1023
00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:03,640
Speaker 3: I what You're gonna say something because you fucked him, Yeah,

1024
00:42:03,680 --> 00:42:05,360
Speaker 3: I fucked him, and I'll be like, damn, but you

1025
00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:07,600
Speaker 3: fucked me when I was lame and I ain't half shit.

1026
00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:11,919
Speaker 1: What if it be like you still lame. I'm lame,

1027
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:14,520
Speaker 1: but look at me and look at you. I'm a

1028
00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:15,680
Speaker 1: little less lame than you.

1029
00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:17,880
Speaker 3: Stuff like that don't bother me because at the end

1030
00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:19,760
Speaker 3: of the day, if I fucked you, it's.

1031
00:42:19,680 --> 00:42:22,000
Speaker 1: Not like you lying. I do think it's lame. No

1032
00:42:22,120 --> 00:42:22,840
Speaker 1: for you to be going on.

1033
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:26,160
Speaker 3: I never talk about dick that. I never talk about

1034
00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:28,360
Speaker 3: dick I used to fuck neither. But what I'm saying

1035
00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:31,680
Speaker 3: is I don't take no offense to shit like that, because,

1036
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:33,560
Speaker 3: if anything, you just make me feel like I'm that

1037
00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:35,719
Speaker 3: bitch that I think I am, because you're still going

1038
00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:39,200
Speaker 3: around bragging about fucking me five six years ago.

1039
00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:41,600
Speaker 1: I take offense to it because I don't want people

1040
00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:44,319
Speaker 1: to know. Nigga, I don't care what people know. I

1041
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:46,400
Speaker 1: don't like cool. When you should have thought about that,

1042
00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:48,319
Speaker 1: for you gave him some pussy, which I was.

1043
00:42:48,400 --> 00:42:50,879
Speaker 3: Twenty, well, when you should have been thinking about when

1044
00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:52,680
Speaker 3: you were thirty and once you would have thought about it.

1045
00:42:53,239 --> 00:42:55,480
Speaker 2: It's like, okay, so you can't trimp over that you

1046
00:42:55,520 --> 00:42:58,400
Speaker 2: fucked that nigga, So you can't be mad if somebody

1047
00:42:58,480 --> 00:42:59,200
Speaker 2: said about me.

1048
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:03,920
Speaker 1: Stop talking about me, bitch, stop talking about me. Stop

1049
00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:06,320
Speaker 1: talking about me. Just because your breath, your breath probably

1050
00:43:06,320 --> 00:43:08,040
Speaker 1: stuck when you was twenty one time. You don't want

1051
00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:10,879
Speaker 1: nobody still talking about that cool any mean?

1052
00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:13,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, like you could have met somebody you took some

1053
00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:14,960
Speaker 2: shots and hennessy and your breath was funky.

1054
00:43:15,280 --> 00:43:16,640
Speaker 1: You want that person that's still.

1055
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:18,239
Speaker 2: Going around like, yeah, man, I met Dread ten years

1056
00:43:18,280 --> 00:43:19,960
Speaker 2: going her breath was funky.

1057
00:43:20,440 --> 00:43:21,680
Speaker 1: Now let's keep it one honey.

1058
00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:23,759
Speaker 2: We all have moments where our breath as my ship

1059
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:27,880
Speaker 2: stank right now from that one, my breath really stink

1060
00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:28,480
Speaker 2: right now.

1061
00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:32,000
Speaker 1: Let me up. Yeah, back up, bitch, back up. Man,

1062
00:43:32,160 --> 00:43:35,279
Speaker 1: I burn my face off. I'm looking like Dracula right now.

1063
00:43:35,360 --> 00:43:37,280
Speaker 1: My ship is fire. Okay.

1064
00:43:37,360 --> 00:43:40,239
Speaker 2: So what I'm saying is somebody can remember something you

1065
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:42,920
Speaker 2: from ten years ago, good or bad. You don't want

1066
00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:45,320
Speaker 2: them talking about that ship if it's not relevant to your.

1067
00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:47,520
Speaker 1: Life right now. I don't care, y, don't care somebody

1068
00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:49,879
Speaker 1: going around being like man, I'm at Dreill one time. Oh,

1069
00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:50,719
Speaker 1: her brother was.

1070
00:43:51,520 --> 00:43:53,040
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie to you when I'm really not

1071
00:43:53,080 --> 00:43:55,759
Speaker 3: trying to be funny. It probably is not too many

1072
00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:57,960
Speaker 3: people that can say that about me, honestly. When you

1073
00:43:58,080 --> 00:44:00,960
Speaker 3: talking about your breath stank before, yeah, probably when I

1074
00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:02,319
Speaker 3: woke up and you rolled off.

1075
00:44:02,680 --> 00:44:04,120
Speaker 1: Nigga, we haven't been drinking before.

1076
00:44:04,280 --> 00:44:06,520
Speaker 3: Okay, well, drinking it is different. But on a regular

1077
00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:07,600
Speaker 3: my breath don't stink.

1078
00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:10,919
Speaker 2: Bro. So what I'm saying is I don't go places,

1079
00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:13,280
Speaker 2: I don't go nowhere, and my breath ever stink.

1080
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:16,960
Speaker 1: We were somewhere and I said, drag your breath strength

1081
00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:19,960
Speaker 1: and you had to reach in your person get some gum. Now,

1082
00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:22,960
Speaker 1: say we fell out at that at that night. Say

1083
00:44:23,000 --> 00:44:25,480
Speaker 1: we fell out we had been drinking. It don't matter.

1084
00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:27,120
Speaker 2: I can still ten years time, be like man, I

1085
00:44:27,200 --> 00:44:28,800
Speaker 2: used to hang out with Dre and her breath spunk.

1086
00:44:29,360 --> 00:44:30,360
Speaker 1: I can say that to it.

1087
00:44:30,520 --> 00:44:36,839
Speaker 2: I should. But what I I'm mad that were talking

1088
00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:37,920
Speaker 2: about breath taking right now.

1089
00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:38,759
Speaker 1: But y'all just gotta go.

1090
00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:41,440
Speaker 2: But what I say, But what I'm saying is bro

1091
00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:43,799
Speaker 2: At the other day, it was true though, So if

1092
00:44:43,840 --> 00:44:45,960
Speaker 2: I did go on and say that, if I was

1093
00:44:46,040 --> 00:44:47,560
Speaker 2: like me and you stop being friends.

1094
00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:49,399
Speaker 1: It's ten years from now. I'm like, man, I used to.

1095
00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:51,839
Speaker 2: Hang with that beach lecks. Herpurp was funky one time.

1096
00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:54,040
Speaker 2: It's fucked up for me to say, but it was

1097
00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:56,319
Speaker 2: the truth. If you said the same thing, I mean,

1098
00:44:56,360 --> 00:45:01,319
Speaker 2: it did happen. I need get some gum. I did

1099
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:05,360
Speaker 2: pop a mental so I mean, you wouldn't be lying.

1100
00:45:05,640 --> 00:45:07,800
Speaker 1: I just feel like, what's the point, what are you gaining?

1101
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:11,080
Speaker 3: What would I be I'm not saying that you gained anything.

1102
00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:13,160
Speaker 3: But you can never be mad at people for telling

1103
00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:13,800
Speaker 3: the truth.

1104
00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:14,960
Speaker 1: Bro, No, you can't.

1105
00:45:15,440 --> 00:45:18,160
Speaker 3: You can't never be mad at people for speaking they truth.

1106
00:45:18,280 --> 00:45:20,799
Speaker 3: I really do feel that way. If a nigga fucked me,

1107
00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:22,360
Speaker 3: I do feel like it's certain niggas.

1108
00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:23,560
Speaker 2: No, I don't want to aboudy even know that I

1109
00:45:23,560 --> 00:45:26,640
Speaker 2: fucked them, absolutely to fuck not especially not now, because

1110
00:45:26,680 --> 00:45:28,640
Speaker 2: I would never fuck with them niggas ever again.

1111
00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:31,080
Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, if you was

1112
00:45:31,120 --> 00:45:33,239
Speaker 1: to go and tell somebody that you fucked me, what

1113
00:45:33,320 --> 00:45:35,200
Speaker 1: can I say? You're not lying?

1114
00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:37,800
Speaker 2: It does make but if it makes you look lame,

1115
00:45:37,880 --> 00:45:40,520
Speaker 2: you do, because it's like, why you going around bragging

1116
00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:42,279
Speaker 2: on some pussy that you got a long time ago.

1117
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:43,440
Speaker 1: You don't need to be doing it.

1118
00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:45,239
Speaker 3: But I can't be mad at you about it because

1119
00:45:45,280 --> 00:45:47,560
Speaker 3: you're not lying it did happen. And if that was

1120
00:45:47,600 --> 00:45:50,719
Speaker 3: the peak of the beaches that you done fuck with, which,

1121
00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:53,480
Speaker 3: whether you want to accept it or not, we are

1122
00:45:53,520 --> 00:45:56,759
Speaker 3: the peak of what some niggas have fucks. Oh my god,

1123
00:45:57,960 --> 00:46:01,640
Speaker 3: if my pussy is yours for you, if my pussy

1124
00:46:01,719 --> 00:46:04,080
Speaker 3: is your peak pussy, y'all understand this is for me.

1125
00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:09,880
Speaker 3: This is dead, this dead. Yes, I'm just but now

1126
00:46:09,920 --> 00:46:12,719
Speaker 3: I'm just saying, like that's just facts. You are the

1127
00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:15,040
Speaker 3: peak for some niggas, Like they will never get a

1128
00:46:15,040 --> 00:46:16,880
Speaker 3: bitch better than you. They will never get a beecho's

1129
00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:19,239
Speaker 3: doing more than you. So it's like, especially now that

1130
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:21,880
Speaker 3: you're doing stuff. You just announced that you doing the

1131
00:46:21,960 --> 00:46:25,400
Speaker 3: BET Awards red carpet in two weeks. It's a nigga

1132
00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:27,120
Speaker 3: right now that's listening to the show, like man, I

1133
00:46:27,200 --> 00:46:31,000
Speaker 3: used to fuck the hell back in the day. But

1134
00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:33,439
Speaker 3: you can't be mad about it because many other how

1135
00:46:33,480 --> 00:46:36,480
Speaker 3: many other bitches have he fucked that's doing bes red carpet?

1136
00:46:37,120 --> 00:46:40,960
Speaker 1: Nobody that's still like all right that you don't get it.

1137
00:46:41,360 --> 00:46:43,520
Speaker 2: I'm showled on I'm never gonna understand it because don't

1138
00:46:43,520 --> 00:46:45,680
Speaker 2: talk about me, bro, don't talk about me on my po.

1139
00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:47,479
Speaker 1: What I can tell you the same thing you talk about.

1140
00:46:47,520 --> 00:46:49,959
Speaker 2: You get on this show and no you don't say name,

1141
00:46:50,160 --> 00:46:52,279
Speaker 2: you don't be name dropping, but you get on this

1142
00:46:52,360 --> 00:46:54,440
Speaker 2: show and you talk about your experience.

1143
00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:59,520
Speaker 1: Right, sofore you're laughing about a nigga? That why because

1144
00:46:59,520 --> 00:47:01,440
Speaker 1: we have people asking it doesn't matter.

1145
00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:04,880
Speaker 3: Did nobody ask for a certain bro? Did nobody ask us?

1146
00:47:05,400 --> 00:47:06,000
Speaker 3: You're lying?

1147
00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:07,480
Speaker 1: I swear to God.

1148
00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:10,960
Speaker 2: When people told us that episode, people asked us, how

1149
00:47:11,080 --> 00:47:14,160
Speaker 2: is it dating industry niggas. I'm not talking about that.

1150
00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:17,080
Speaker 2: I'm not talking about that. That's not the only person

1151
00:47:17,160 --> 00:47:18,320
Speaker 2: that you've ever talked about.

1152
00:47:18,600 --> 00:47:22,000
Speaker 3: We take bits and pieces from different experiences all the

1153
00:47:22,040 --> 00:47:24,440
Speaker 3: time and talk about the Mother show. So not only

1154
00:47:24,440 --> 00:47:26,560
Speaker 3: have you talked about that person, get.

1155
00:47:26,440 --> 00:47:27,759
Speaker 1: You here, point who I was talking about.

1156
00:47:27,920 --> 00:47:30,920
Speaker 3: We don't say names, but I know who you're talking about,

1157
00:47:31,040 --> 00:47:34,240
Speaker 3: and if that person was to listen to the show,

1158
00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:37,160
Speaker 3: I can one hundred percent guarantee you a certain shit

1159
00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:39,239
Speaker 3: that we say a nigga know that you're talking about.

1160
00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:42,879
Speaker 3: Guess what that's different from being like, oh, I used

1161
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:46,480
Speaker 3: to fuck Drea, that's not the same you name dropping.

1162
00:47:46,560 --> 00:47:46,759
Speaker 1: Bro.

1163
00:47:47,200 --> 00:47:49,719
Speaker 2: Let me tell you something. If I said, hey, man,

1164
00:47:49,760 --> 00:47:51,640
Speaker 2: I went I went out last night with this chick.

1165
00:47:52,080 --> 00:47:54,239
Speaker 2: Man she really popping. She cool, and she put me

1166
00:47:54,239 --> 00:47:56,120
Speaker 2: in a lot of you know what I'm saying. That's

1167
00:47:56,160 --> 00:47:58,440
Speaker 2: different from being like, oh, my nigga, I went out

1168
00:47:58,480 --> 00:48:00,279
Speaker 2: with Cardi B last night and she got I mean,

1169
00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:04,239
Speaker 2: that's two different things, my nigga you talking about.

1170
00:48:04,320 --> 00:48:06,719
Speaker 3: If I'm talking about my experience saying when I was

1171
00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:07,640
Speaker 3: Cardi B is not that.

1172
00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:09,439
Speaker 2: Big of an no time out. But I'm just talking

1173
00:48:09,480 --> 00:48:12,680
Speaker 2: about I'm giving just an example. If I say, last night,

1174
00:48:13,040 --> 00:48:15,000
Speaker 2: I went out with his chick and she's super popping

1175
00:48:15,080 --> 00:48:16,919
Speaker 2: and she got me in these sections and she really

1176
00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:19,120
Speaker 2: showed me love, and people be thinking that.

1177
00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:20,920
Speaker 1: She dis way and she not. I'm telling you about

1178
00:48:20,920 --> 00:48:21,640
Speaker 1: my experience.

1179
00:48:22,120 --> 00:48:23,919
Speaker 2: Once I say, oh yeah, I went out with Cardi

1180
00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:26,760
Speaker 2: B last night and she showed me this, I'm name dropping.

1181
00:48:27,000 --> 00:48:30,879
Speaker 2: I'm being lame. I'm trying to get clout. It's a difference, bro.

1182
00:48:31,280 --> 00:48:35,160
Speaker 2: I ain't never the ain't drop nobody on this motherfucker.

1183
00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:37,959
Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck who it was. I could,

1184
00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:40,200
Speaker 2: y'all don't know I could have fucked Brock last night.

1185
00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:43,040
Speaker 2: I still ain't name drupping girl.

1186
00:48:43,160 --> 00:48:45,160
Speaker 3: I understand what you was saying, but still at the

1187
00:48:45,200 --> 00:48:47,879
Speaker 3: same time, I just feel like certain she don't make

1188
00:48:47,920 --> 00:48:50,719
Speaker 3: you lame if it's your experience, Like, if it's no.

1189
00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:54,080
Speaker 2: Experience, you trying to tell people fucking you as an experience,

1190
00:48:54,600 --> 00:48:57,200
Speaker 2: explaining something that you've been through with somebody, and you

1191
00:48:57,320 --> 00:48:59,960
Speaker 2: not name dropping, that's that's talking about an experience.

1192
00:49:00,520 --> 00:49:03,360
Speaker 1: Bragging and trying to be like, yeah, I used to

1193
00:49:03,400 --> 00:49:05,239
Speaker 1: fuck x P or I used to fuck Draga Cole.

1194
00:49:05,480 --> 00:49:08,560
Speaker 1: You're not talking about experience, you're just bragging. That's different.

1195
00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:10,600
Speaker 1: I don't agree.

1196
00:49:10,520 --> 00:49:14,520
Speaker 2: That's different, bro that's different. I feel like bragging is bragging.

1197
00:49:14,760 --> 00:49:17,560
Speaker 2: I feel like bragging is bragging and speaking on something

1198
00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:18,439
Speaker 2: and speaking on something.

1199
00:49:18,480 --> 00:49:21,600
Speaker 3: You could speak on something without bragging, right, That's what

1200
00:49:21,680 --> 00:49:25,040
Speaker 3: I said. So you could say, like, for example, if

1201
00:49:25,080 --> 00:49:27,200
Speaker 3: you met Cardi B, you can say, oh, I met

1202
00:49:27,239 --> 00:49:30,000
Speaker 3: Cardi B. That doesn't mean that you're bragging. You're just

1203
00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:31,200
Speaker 3: saying I met Cardi B.

1204
00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:31,840
Speaker 1: Right.

1205
00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:34,120
Speaker 2: But that's it's all about common now when you start

1206
00:49:34,200 --> 00:49:38,000
Speaker 2: going exactly when you start going into but that but

1207
00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:40,359
Speaker 2: that wasn't the premise of this this that's not how

1208
00:49:40,400 --> 00:49:41,719
Speaker 2: we started this conversation.

1209
00:49:41,920 --> 00:49:45,200
Speaker 3: You didn't never say specifically. Oh again, a nigga gotta

1210
00:49:45,239 --> 00:49:46,480
Speaker 3: be going into detail.

1211
00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:49,480
Speaker 1: I know that's what I'm saying. You didn't ever say

1212
00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:51,040
Speaker 1: that you had period.

1213
00:49:51,320 --> 00:49:54,799
Speaker 2: I don't feel like saying somebody name period makes you lame.

1214
00:49:55,000 --> 00:49:56,640
Speaker 1: Bro, I didn't say that. But guess what.

1215
00:49:56,719 --> 00:49:58,799
Speaker 2: It's the difference between like, yeah, me and drag used

1216
00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:01,040
Speaker 2: to be cool versus yeah, I used to have dread

1217
00:50:01,120 --> 00:50:01,959
Speaker 2: legs up in the area.

1218
00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:06,000
Speaker 1: She used to be eating my asshole. That's different. That's

1219
00:50:06,040 --> 00:50:09,000
Speaker 1: their best because that's going in up. But I'm just

1220
00:50:09,040 --> 00:50:11,920
Speaker 1: saying this, like you talk about people talking about their experience,

1221
00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:12,520
Speaker 1: that's different.

1222
00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:15,840
Speaker 2: When you say somebody's name, you could be talking about experience.

1223
00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:18,319
Speaker 2: But once you start getting into other ship, that's when

1224
00:50:18,360 --> 00:50:19,720
Speaker 2: she gets fucking lame.

1225
00:50:20,400 --> 00:50:21,000
Speaker 1: I agree.

1226
00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:23,400
Speaker 3: I definitely think it's a way that you could be

1227
00:50:23,520 --> 00:50:26,759
Speaker 3: lame by saying certain people name and speaking on certain shit.

1228
00:50:26,800 --> 00:50:28,520
Speaker 3: But I just feel like, if a nigga fucked you,

1229
00:50:28,800 --> 00:50:30,879
Speaker 3: at the end of the day, he fucked you, sees.

1230
00:50:30,680 --> 00:50:32,680
Speaker 2: He didn't fuck me, but stop talking about it. Especially

1231
00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:34,879
Speaker 2: if you fuck me. Niggas will still talk about that ship.

1232
00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:36,759
Speaker 2: I had a nigga, I'm not lie. I put this

1233
00:50:36,840 --> 00:50:39,200
Speaker 2: on everything. Nigga hit me up. I used to fuck

1234
00:50:39,280 --> 00:50:44,000
Speaker 2: with in high school. Yeah, remember that tongue snuck at

1235
00:50:44,000 --> 00:50:44,680
Speaker 2: my mama house.

1236
00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:50,120
Speaker 1: Well that's different to fucking reminice with you about hospital. Yeah,

1237
00:50:50,160 --> 00:50:53,120
Speaker 1: ain't nobody trying to remedy. So basically, long story short, niggas,

1238
00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:54,880
Speaker 1: let that shit go. If you ever fucked me and

1239
00:50:54,880 --> 00:50:56,960
Speaker 1: you listen to this podcast, don't tell them.

1240
00:50:57,040 --> 00:50:58,839
Speaker 3: And bitch is, if y'all be doing this, she lift

1241
00:50:58,840 --> 00:51:02,000
Speaker 3: this shit that goes. Stop talking about this fucked drake.

1242
00:51:02,840 --> 00:51:03,200
Speaker 1: Let it go.

1243
00:51:03,560 --> 00:51:07,560
Speaker 2: If you fuck Drake and you're not doing ship, let

1244
00:51:07,600 --> 00:51:08,759
Speaker 2: it go, let it go.

1245
00:51:09,239 --> 00:51:11,439
Speaker 1: Please let it go. So let us know how y'all

1246
00:51:11,440 --> 00:51:14,399
Speaker 1: feel about people talking about fucking you from a long

1247
00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:18,200
Speaker 1: time ago and this and that. So we're gonna move

1248
00:51:18,239 --> 00:51:19,680
Speaker 1: on to the B.

1249
00:51:21,480 --> 00:51:25,720
Speaker 3: A love b and this is my favorite topic.

1250
00:51:27,600 --> 00:51:35,400
Speaker 1: Let me ship this. So give me your here you go.

1251
00:51:36,000 --> 00:51:44,640
Speaker 1: I'm gonna sit it. Oh, I'm gonna sit this, y'all.

1252
00:51:44,760 --> 00:51:47,480
Speaker 1: Licks breath is like all in my face. I told

1253
00:51:47,520 --> 00:51:50,319
Speaker 1: you it was hot. Yeah it was definitely hot.

1254
00:51:50,400 --> 00:51:53,920
Speaker 2: Sick, but anyway, so y'all, I want to talk about

1255
00:51:54,040 --> 00:51:56,160
Speaker 2: you know, when do.

1256
00:51:56,160 --> 00:51:57,719
Speaker 1: You like lettingnix is letting you?

1257
00:51:58,520 --> 00:52:03,239
Speaker 2: Well, now, I'll say I think it's more so of

1258
00:52:03,280 --> 00:52:06,160
Speaker 2: like the emotion like ooh baby, I'm about to nut.

1259
00:52:06,160 --> 00:52:08,000
Speaker 2: Then I'm about to nut, and then we both just

1260
00:52:08,120 --> 00:52:11,080
Speaker 2: nut together. It's more of the emotion, but the actual

1261
00:52:11,239 --> 00:52:12,400
Speaker 2: like after.

1262
00:52:12,320 --> 00:52:15,560
Speaker 1: I remember trapped in a closet. Oh my goodness, some

1263
00:52:15,680 --> 00:52:20,040
Speaker 1: I'm about to clob man. Yes, that's how it is,

1264
00:52:20,280 --> 00:52:23,319
Speaker 1: Like I like that shit. But I don't let every

1265
00:52:23,360 --> 00:52:26,720
Speaker 1: nigga none of me, yo, No, you can, you can't.

1266
00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:28,399
Speaker 1: There's probably been one man in my life.

1267
00:52:28,440 --> 00:52:30,200
Speaker 2: I will always let him none of me just because

1268
00:52:30,239 --> 00:52:32,240
Speaker 2: we was like that was my nigga, Like that's.

1269
00:52:32,080 --> 00:52:33,960
Speaker 1: What you would all so you would let him known

1270
00:52:34,040 --> 00:52:36,839
Speaker 1: to you right now? Oh no, probably not right now.

1271
00:52:36,880 --> 00:52:42,480
Speaker 3: You just said always oh way nothing my heir, he

1272
00:52:42,600 --> 00:52:44,600
Speaker 3: getting nuh okay. But we said it in your PC

1273
00:52:44,840 --> 00:52:47,279
Speaker 3: not in your hair, that nigga could nut on me

1274
00:52:47,400 --> 00:52:50,600
Speaker 3: anywhere like here, there, anywhere.

1275
00:52:50,520 --> 00:52:52,799
Speaker 1: Facts like. But I don't. I'm not like that with

1276
00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:54,319
Speaker 1: every nigga, like definitely not.

1277
00:52:54,480 --> 00:52:56,759
Speaker 2: Just because I feel like I don't want I was

1278
00:52:56,800 --> 00:52:58,799
Speaker 2: taking a risk of getting pregnant by this man.

1279
00:52:59,120 --> 00:53:01,040
Speaker 1: Do I want kids. Know, if something happened and I

1280
00:53:01,080 --> 00:53:02,960
Speaker 1: got pregnant, b shit, I would deal with.

1281
00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:06,000
Speaker 3: It because you would have it. No, but like say

1282
00:53:06,000 --> 00:53:08,279
Speaker 3: I couldn't get in, you would deal with it. What

1283
00:53:08,320 --> 00:53:09,560
Speaker 3: do you mean deal with it?

1284
00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:11,120
Speaker 1: I mean I would happen to like give it up

1285
00:53:11,120 --> 00:53:13,120
Speaker 1: for a dog. You know, in January, you got a

1286
00:53:13,160 --> 00:53:15,759
Speaker 1: little time. But see, that's what I'm saying. Like, but

1287
00:53:15,960 --> 00:53:18,239
Speaker 1: it's more than just the pregnancy. It's like STDs, like

1288
00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:21,040
Speaker 1: niggas is out here nasty. No niggas is nasty as fuck.

1289
00:53:21,080 --> 00:53:24,040
Speaker 3: And that's why I personally am not an advocate for

1290
00:53:24,080 --> 00:53:27,640
Speaker 3: getting nuddy men. I can count on my hand, I

1291
00:53:27,640 --> 00:53:30,360
Speaker 3: probably don't fuck three niggas in lift, Like, out of

1292
00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:32,560
Speaker 3: the niggas that I fuck, it's only been three niggas

1293
00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:33,120
Speaker 3: I've ever lived.

1294
00:53:33,440 --> 00:53:35,280
Speaker 1: Nut at me, give me that baby gravy.

1295
00:53:35,480 --> 00:53:37,759
Speaker 3: No, I don't want that shit of bet me, you

1296
00:53:37,760 --> 00:53:39,880
Speaker 3: don't know. Like, the only time I want baby gravy

1297
00:53:39,920 --> 00:53:41,160
Speaker 3: is if I'm trying to make a baby.

1298
00:53:41,440 --> 00:53:42,920
Speaker 1: I don't ever want to make no baby. But I

1299
00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:45,080
Speaker 1: like that at this age. Let me say that at

1300
00:53:45,080 --> 00:53:45,880
Speaker 1: this age.

1301
00:53:46,080 --> 00:53:47,560
Speaker 3: That's the only way I want you to know at

1302
00:53:47,560 --> 00:53:49,839
Speaker 3: me is if I'm trying to have a baby when

1303
00:53:49,840 --> 00:53:52,680
Speaker 3: I was younger, Yeah, it did happen more often because

1304
00:53:52,680 --> 00:53:54,680
Speaker 3: I wasn't thinking the same way that I think now.

1305
00:53:55,040 --> 00:53:57,440
Speaker 3: But I just feel like that shit fuck up your pH.

1306
00:53:57,760 --> 00:53:59,400
Speaker 3: I really don't like the way it feels.

1307
00:53:59,600 --> 00:54:01,719
Speaker 1: It's just afterwards, because it'd be like coming out of you.

1308
00:54:01,920 --> 00:54:04,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't like having to push that ship out,

1309
00:54:04,360 --> 00:54:05,960
Speaker 3: even though you know you're supposed to get up and

1310
00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:09,399
Speaker 3: pee anyways after you have ce Like why, I don't

1311
00:54:09,400 --> 00:54:10,840
Speaker 3: know why you're supposed to get up in pe but

1312
00:54:10,880 --> 00:54:12,920
Speaker 3: I mean it's from a different hole, like it is

1313
00:54:12,920 --> 00:54:16,799
Speaker 3: from a different holl. It's it's not in the fucking clu.

1314
00:54:18,840 --> 00:54:22,480
Speaker 1: Guy, do you want a hole in your clu? You

1315
00:54:22,600 --> 00:54:24,200
Speaker 1: need to get that checked out.

1316
00:54:24,960 --> 00:54:25,160
Speaker 2: You know.

1317
00:54:25,320 --> 00:54:28,279
Speaker 3: It's a little hooded part right, that's where the clip is.

1318
00:54:28,400 --> 00:54:30,879
Speaker 3: They got, so you got the clctoral hood and then

1319
00:54:31,000 --> 00:54:31,560
Speaker 3: you have the clit.

1320
00:54:32,040 --> 00:54:36,000
Speaker 1: Then you peet the the Uretha.

1321
00:54:40,640 --> 00:54:44,080
Speaker 3: Dog us not to disrespect Aretha like this, be out

1322
00:54:44,120 --> 00:54:46,799
Speaker 3: your Aretha, Youuretha, Aretha, you.

1323
00:54:48,280 --> 00:54:50,279
Speaker 1: Juretha. Okay, So what's the pussy hole called.

1324
00:54:50,560 --> 00:54:52,480
Speaker 2: I don't know what the pussy hall called. The black hole,

1325
00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:57,000
Speaker 2: the soul, the soul snatch, so I just don't.

1326
00:54:56,840 --> 00:54:58,560
Speaker 1: Understand, though, why do you have to pee after sex?

1327
00:54:58,760 --> 00:55:00,600
Speaker 1: It's not the same hole. I'm never I don't know.

1328
00:55:00,840 --> 00:55:02,600
Speaker 3: I don't know, but I've just always heard that that's

1329
00:55:02,640 --> 00:55:04,719
Speaker 3: what you're supposed to do. So your girl do it,

1330
00:55:04,800 --> 00:55:06,200
Speaker 3: cause I'm not trying to be walking around with the

1331
00:55:06,200 --> 00:55:06,520
Speaker 3: same No.

1332
00:55:06,600 --> 00:55:08,640
Speaker 2: I agree, I always cheat after sex, but I'm like,

1333
00:55:08,719 --> 00:55:10,759
Speaker 2: it's not even the same hole it's coming out of my.

1334
00:55:10,840 --> 00:55:13,280
Speaker 1: Areathing it is. It's definitely two different holes.

1335
00:55:13,400 --> 00:55:15,960
Speaker 2: But you know, I just feel like, you know, if

1336
00:55:16,000 --> 00:55:18,319
Speaker 2: they said that you should do eat bitch, I'm gonna

1337
00:55:18,360 --> 00:55:20,000
Speaker 2: do it cause I ain't trying to.

1338
00:55:20,160 --> 00:55:22,319
Speaker 1: They also said we should stop eating dairy, and look

1339
00:55:22,360 --> 00:55:22,680
Speaker 1: at us.

1340
00:55:23,280 --> 00:55:25,279
Speaker 3: We don't eat it that often, but we still I

1341
00:55:25,280 --> 00:55:27,279
Speaker 3: don't let niggas nutting me that often neither.

1342
00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:33,000
Speaker 2: So you say everything is cool in moderation, So I'm

1343
00:55:33,040 --> 00:55:35,239
Speaker 2: definitely like I said, for me, it's not so much

1344
00:55:35,360 --> 00:55:37,759
Speaker 2: like the actual feeling. I think it's more so the

1345
00:55:37,880 --> 00:55:40,360
Speaker 2: emotions connected with a nigga nutting in you. I just

1346
00:55:40,520 --> 00:55:43,160
Speaker 2: like to like you're climaxing. I'm climax and do you

1347
00:55:43,200 --> 00:55:45,240
Speaker 2: can feel like pulseating and barbera.

1348
00:55:45,000 --> 00:55:47,080
Speaker 3: I do, I do feel like when you have that

1349
00:55:47,200 --> 00:55:49,880
Speaker 3: type of connection and you in a monogamy situation, No,

1350
00:55:49,960 --> 00:55:51,799
Speaker 3: it's a nigga that you really fuck with and y'all

1351
00:55:51,840 --> 00:55:52,600
Speaker 3: having raw sex.

1352
00:55:52,719 --> 00:55:55,320
Speaker 1: It's not nothing wrong with letting your nigga nutting you

1353
00:55:55,440 --> 00:55:56,360
Speaker 1: in that type of situation.

1354
00:55:56,480 --> 00:55:58,799
Speaker 3: But I'm talking about any girls who just be letting

1355
00:55:58,880 --> 00:56:02,920
Speaker 3: niggas nut Yeah, and that's just nasty. And that's why

1356
00:56:02,960 --> 00:56:05,320
Speaker 3: they pussy be thinking they be having a little trill

1357
00:56:05,440 --> 00:56:08,880
Speaker 3: following them the trill the twerk wind be phoned.

1358
00:56:09,040 --> 00:56:11,920
Speaker 1: Oh I hate when the twerk win funky b But

1359
00:56:12,080 --> 00:56:14,279
Speaker 1: like I said, for me, like they be leaving and

1360
00:56:14,320 --> 00:56:16,919
Speaker 1: they pussy be saying, fact, maybe it is the feeling

1361
00:56:17,000 --> 00:56:19,279
Speaker 1: cause you know what he nuts is like pulsage. Yeah,

1362
00:56:19,560 --> 00:56:21,799
Speaker 1: so it does feel good with I mean if yeah,

1363
00:56:21,920 --> 00:56:22,319
Speaker 1: it does.

1364
00:56:22,480 --> 00:56:24,200
Speaker 3: But I just feel like I don't know that just

1365
00:56:24,280 --> 00:56:27,960
Speaker 3: ain't never been something that I've just craved for a

1366
00:56:28,080 --> 00:56:30,759
Speaker 3: nigga to do to me, like anything, I like to.

1367
00:56:30,840 --> 00:56:34,160
Speaker 1: Swallow nug I like to get nutted on, like but

1368
00:56:34,280 --> 00:56:36,680
Speaker 1: for you tont in me, like we gotta be on

1369
00:56:36,760 --> 00:56:37,600
Speaker 1: a certain type. Yeah.

1370
00:56:37,640 --> 00:56:40,359
Speaker 2: I like like like when I go to like out

1371
00:56:40,440 --> 00:56:42,400
Speaker 2: to eat, if you could put your nut in a

1372
00:56:42,440 --> 00:56:43,400
Speaker 2: cup so I can put it on.

1373
00:56:43,440 --> 00:56:47,680
Speaker 1: Top of my spaghetti. That would be fantastic. That's fucking disgusting.

1374
00:56:48,040 --> 00:56:49,960
Speaker 1: That's how much I like nuts. Why so why you

1375
00:56:50,000 --> 00:56:53,439
Speaker 1: don't carry a bottle of it in your purse? Like ooh,

1376
00:56:53,680 --> 00:56:55,480
Speaker 1: I could put it on my crab lists. Can you

1377
00:56:55,520 --> 00:56:58,600
Speaker 1: imagine dipping your crab legs and some nothing? I can't. Actually,

1378
00:56:58,800 --> 00:57:01,200
Speaker 1: I would love that. Are you gonna seizing me, bitch?

1379
00:57:01,239 --> 00:57:03,160
Speaker 2: I'll put a little tony little lemon pepper and a

1380
00:57:03,160 --> 00:57:05,920
Speaker 2: little lemon peppers, lemon pepper, nut, wow.

1381
00:57:08,120 --> 00:57:10,480
Speaker 1: S limon pepper, because you know I love livon pepper.

1382
00:57:10,760 --> 00:57:12,760
Speaker 1: If a nigga skin it it tastes like lemon pepper,

1383
00:57:12,880 --> 00:57:16,760
Speaker 1: I might marry that nigga. I'm me. I don't think

1384
00:57:16,840 --> 00:57:17,920
Speaker 1: that's not that I've.

1385
00:57:17,760 --> 00:57:21,560
Speaker 2: Ever experienced that should be tasting like something, But the

1386
00:57:21,640 --> 00:57:22,920
Speaker 2: damn sure I ain't lemon pepper.

1387
00:57:24,080 --> 00:57:28,560
Speaker 1: First of all, I do too. I love fucking I'm

1388
00:57:28,600 --> 00:57:30,800
Speaker 1: over here licking my littles right now. Y'all should see me.

1389
00:57:31,120 --> 00:57:36,280
Speaker 1: Can you imagine nut flavored her? She's kisses no, because

1390
00:57:36,280 --> 00:57:37,040
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie.

1391
00:57:37,040 --> 00:57:39,320
Speaker 3: I like the way I like nut, but I don't

1392
00:57:39,320 --> 00:57:41,320
Speaker 3: think I would want anything nut flavor.

1393
00:57:41,440 --> 00:57:43,800
Speaker 2: Okay, but you no, but nuts shouldn't be flavored. Let's

1394
00:57:43,840 --> 00:57:46,520
Speaker 2: talk about it, guys. I do not like nut that

1395
00:57:46,640 --> 00:57:49,000
Speaker 2: tastes like your nuts should taste Like what time.

1396
00:57:49,920 --> 00:57:52,760
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie. I'm gonna fallow his nigga nug

1397
00:57:52,920 --> 00:57:58,800
Speaker 1: and he tastes like gas o that I got, bro, Like,

1398
00:57:58,960 --> 00:58:01,720
Speaker 1: what the do you meat eating? You say, that's what

1399
00:58:01,880 --> 00:58:07,080
Speaker 1: y'all like? Your diet determines what your nut tastes like. Now,

1400
00:58:07,120 --> 00:58:08,960
Speaker 1: I used to say to God, he was very help.

1401
00:58:09,840 --> 00:58:11,320
Speaker 1: He was an athlete sar coffee.

1402
00:58:11,520 --> 00:58:14,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I literally tasted as nut and as I

1403
00:58:14,520 --> 00:58:17,280
Speaker 2: swear God, I thought I was drinking some fucking aqua

1404
00:58:17,360 --> 00:58:19,320
Speaker 2: fino be ship tasted like straight water.

1405
00:58:19,440 --> 00:58:21,080
Speaker 1: Now I have no I ain't gonna lie.

1406
00:58:21,160 --> 00:58:23,840
Speaker 3: Yes, that has happened to me. I've definitely had some

1407
00:58:24,040 --> 00:58:25,360
Speaker 3: lit that tasted And when that.

1408
00:58:25,440 --> 00:58:26,720
Speaker 1: Nut tastes good, you swallowing.

1409
00:58:26,800 --> 00:58:29,320
Speaker 2: Then you get to showing off, so you swallow the

1410
00:58:29,400 --> 00:58:31,600
Speaker 2: nut and you just keep sucking that dick and just

1411
00:58:31,640 --> 00:58:32,520
Speaker 2: make him go crazy.

1412
00:58:32,600 --> 00:58:35,560
Speaker 1: Now, when the nut tastes nasty, you'll be about to

1413
00:58:35,640 --> 00:58:40,680
Speaker 1: throw off, trying to hold it down, but you trying

1414
00:58:40,760 --> 00:58:41,520
Speaker 1: to keep it cute.

1415
00:58:42,520 --> 00:58:44,520
Speaker 2: If y'all nut taste bad. As soon as it's hitting

1416
00:58:44,600 --> 00:58:46,680
Speaker 2: my mouth, I'm getting up. I'm gonna spit that shit.

1417
00:58:47,480 --> 00:58:49,640
Speaker 2: Like you can't swallow every nigga nuts.

1418
00:58:49,800 --> 00:58:52,840
Speaker 1: You can't ship be nasty. You can't swallow every nigga

1419
00:58:52,880 --> 00:58:57,200
Speaker 1: nug y'all nut be atrocious. No, yeah you can't. Yeah,

1420
00:58:57,200 --> 00:59:00,000
Speaker 1: I don't know, but I do like to swallow stuff,

1421
00:59:00,120 --> 00:59:02,640
Speaker 1: like to swallow nuggas. They'd be like, God damn, you

1422
00:59:02,880 --> 00:59:05,960
Speaker 1: gotta keep sucking. You have to keep sucking, God damn.

1423
00:59:06,040 --> 00:59:08,919
Speaker 1: But y'all be making it hard. Make it easy for us, guys.

1424
00:59:09,000 --> 00:59:12,320
Speaker 2: Please drink your water, eat some vesta, eat fruits, Eat

1425
00:59:12,360 --> 00:59:17,320
Speaker 2: some fruits. Stop fucking eating hot sheeto and drinking rebels

1426
00:59:17,360 --> 00:59:18,920
Speaker 2: every day like that shit is disgusting.

1427
00:59:19,040 --> 00:59:21,080
Speaker 1: Like, let make it easier for your lady. If y'all

1428
00:59:21,080 --> 00:59:22,480
Speaker 1: feel like that's what you want her to do. If

1429
00:59:22,560 --> 00:59:24,360
Speaker 1: y'all feel like y'all not getting no good head or

1430
00:59:24,440 --> 00:59:26,280
Speaker 1: she not doing this and doing that, eat better.

1431
00:59:26,400 --> 00:59:29,520
Speaker 3: Okay, please fucking eat. No, Yeah, y'all gotta take better care.

1432
00:59:29,600 --> 00:59:31,880
Speaker 3: Y'all be fucking drinking Henisy and Petron and I'll be

1433
00:59:31,960 --> 00:59:32,720
Speaker 3: drinking no one.

1434
00:59:33,240 --> 00:59:35,320
Speaker 1: Remember you said you had a friend that told you drink.

1435
00:59:35,560 --> 00:59:37,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I ain't never fucked him, and I damn

1436
00:59:37,200 --> 00:59:38,760
Speaker 2: sure it wouldn't taste them to league.

1437
00:59:39,080 --> 00:59:42,040
Speaker 1: Tasting like batters and yeah nothing. Okay, so we gonna

1438
00:59:42,080 --> 00:59:46,439
Speaker 1: move on to the bop A the vibe A that vie.

1439
00:59:47,040 --> 00:59:48,800
Speaker 2: So for my bop of the week, I never do

1440
00:59:48,920 --> 00:59:53,040
Speaker 2: a throwback, but I listened to a throwback today, you did. Yes,

1441
00:59:53,280 --> 00:59:57,280
Speaker 2: it was an old song by Beyonce called Summertime like that.

1442
00:59:57,440 --> 00:59:59,560
Speaker 1: So it was the sun like.

1443
01:00:00,920 --> 01:00:04,840
Speaker 2: Yes, it was off the track and I just remember

1444
01:00:04,920 --> 01:00:07,360
Speaker 2: being in high school and just fucking love. It was

1445
01:00:07,440 --> 01:00:09,480
Speaker 2: either high school or middle school, I don't remember, but

1446
01:00:09,560 --> 01:00:11,320
Speaker 2: I just remember listening to that song. It just was

1447
01:00:11,400 --> 01:00:13,560
Speaker 2: like a really feel good song. Yeah, so I feel

1448
01:00:13,560 --> 01:00:16,040
Speaker 2: like it's about to be summertime. That's gonna be my

1449
01:00:16,160 --> 01:00:17,919
Speaker 2: bop of the week, Summertime by Beyond.

1450
01:00:19,680 --> 01:00:23,240
Speaker 1: Yes. Okay, So my my poop of the week is

1451
01:00:24,080 --> 01:00:27,640
Speaker 1: the new Chris Brown and Drakes songs. Okay, no guidance.

1452
01:00:28,360 --> 01:00:30,640
Speaker 3: I love that song and I feel like I have

1453
01:00:30,960 --> 01:00:32,880
Speaker 3: I've been hearing some people say, oh, I feel like

1454
01:00:32,960 --> 01:00:35,840
Speaker 3: it's overrated and sneeze. I don't feel like it's overrady

1455
01:00:35,880 --> 01:00:37,480
Speaker 3: because this was the last time that we got a

1456
01:00:37,560 --> 01:00:40,960
Speaker 3: Drake and Chris Brown song. Oh wait, that's all I'm saying.

1457
01:00:40,960 --> 01:00:43,840
Speaker 3: Oh wait, we haven't ever got one. So with that

1458
01:00:44,000 --> 01:00:46,160
Speaker 3: being said, I feel like it's everything that I thought

1459
01:00:46,200 --> 01:00:50,640
Speaker 3: it would be. It's a great song. It's definitely like

1460
01:00:50,800 --> 01:00:53,959
Speaker 3: to me, it's like classic Drake. Yeah, but I also

1461
01:00:54,080 --> 01:00:56,880
Speaker 3: feel like Drake from like so Far Gone Drake right,

1462
01:00:56,920 --> 01:00:57,760
Speaker 3: And it's a good song.

1463
01:00:57,840 --> 01:00:59,840
Speaker 1: But I will say it's definitely not the song of

1464
01:00:59,840 --> 01:01:01,400
Speaker 1: the I don't think it's.

1465
01:01:01,320 --> 01:01:03,040
Speaker 3: A song of the summer, but it's what I expected

1466
01:01:03,120 --> 01:01:05,360
Speaker 3: with the collab from them, you know, But I think

1467
01:01:05,480 --> 01:01:07,880
Speaker 3: I think it's not a song of the summer, but

1468
01:01:07,920 --> 01:01:10,000
Speaker 3: I think people are gonna make it into one, because.

1469
01:01:09,840 --> 01:01:12,280
Speaker 1: You know how they do the club. They gonna play

1470
01:01:12,560 --> 01:01:14,600
Speaker 1: all the time feeling for a summer song. But I

1471
01:01:14,640 --> 01:01:15,800
Speaker 1: definitely it's a.

1472
01:01:15,840 --> 01:01:17,440
Speaker 2: Few like it's like a I feel like it's a

1473
01:01:17,520 --> 01:01:19,160
Speaker 2: song when you be just trying to catch the ball

1474
01:01:19,480 --> 01:01:20,880
Speaker 2: in your house, little boy.

1475
01:01:21,000 --> 01:01:23,800
Speaker 1: Chilling in your core. So those are the box of

1476
01:01:23,880 --> 01:01:26,240
Speaker 1: the week. So we're gonna get into our ask poor

1477
01:01:26,400 --> 01:01:30,479
Speaker 1: Mind's segments. So I'm gonna go ahead and go first.

1478
01:01:31,080 --> 01:01:34,120
Speaker 2: I act I actually know this person, so I wanted

1479
01:01:34,160 --> 01:01:37,160
Speaker 2: to read hers, but she says she wants to remain anonymous,

1480
01:01:38,240 --> 01:01:42,320
Speaker 2: and she says, I first all, I want to first off, y'all,

1481
01:01:42,320 --> 01:01:45,240
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I'm drunk. I want to first start off

1482
01:01:45,280 --> 01:01:48,520
Speaker 2: by saying, I'm dead ass, y'all, biggest fan. I've listened

1483
01:01:48,520 --> 01:01:51,920
Speaker 2: to every episode religiously. I work with Lex at Dreams

1484
01:01:52,000 --> 01:01:54,800
Speaker 2: in Houston, and I'm always down with supporting people that

1485
01:01:55,040 --> 01:01:58,200
Speaker 2: always were super cool and always have bomb ass energy.

1486
01:01:58,600 --> 01:02:01,880
Speaker 2: And Drana Cole is literally my distance Besty twin and

1487
01:02:01,960 --> 01:02:04,880
Speaker 2: don't even know it, she'd be saying everything I think of,

1488
01:02:05,240 --> 01:02:08,240
Speaker 2: I love it, keep it up, congrats on the radio

1489
01:02:08,320 --> 01:02:10,480
Speaker 2: segment two, and I think it's a freaking amazing.

1490
01:02:10,880 --> 01:02:14,720
Speaker 1: Okay, So now I need advice. I danced slash stripped

1491
01:02:14,760 --> 01:02:16,920
Speaker 1: for eight years before I met the nigga i'm with now.

1492
01:02:17,400 --> 01:02:18,760
Speaker 1: I literally got what I thought.

1493
01:02:18,720 --> 01:02:21,680
Speaker 2: Was the fairy tale ending to a stripper's dream meeting

1494
01:02:21,720 --> 01:02:23,880
Speaker 2: a rich ass nigga in the club and him retiring

1495
01:02:23,960 --> 01:02:27,080
Speaker 2: yo ass the first night he spent three thousand dollars

1496
01:02:27,160 --> 01:02:29,160
Speaker 2: on me in the club. But I was working in

1497
01:02:29,400 --> 01:02:31,960
Speaker 2: La so that oh, but I was working in La

1498
01:02:32,080 --> 01:02:34,440
Speaker 2: so that was normal. I did give him my number.

1499
01:02:34,600 --> 01:02:37,080
Speaker 2: Played it cool for a bit. I finally let my

1500
01:02:37,200 --> 01:02:39,280
Speaker 2: guard down and we went on one day in La

1501
01:02:39,480 --> 01:02:42,160
Speaker 2: and everything was a flyout because he didn't live in

1502
01:02:42,320 --> 01:02:45,440
Speaker 2: La at the time. We ended up vibing hard. He

1503
01:02:45,560 --> 01:02:47,120
Speaker 2: made enough to where he didn't want me in the

1504
01:02:47,160 --> 01:02:49,959
Speaker 2: club at all, so I was super straight. Fast forward

1505
01:02:50,000 --> 01:02:52,280
Speaker 2: two years later and shit kind of switched up. He

1506
01:02:52,400 --> 01:02:56,760
Speaker 2: still takes care of everything, my bills, Rent, Carno, insurance,

1507
01:02:56,920 --> 01:02:59,440
Speaker 2: life and health, blah blah blah. But we don't be

1508
01:02:59,520 --> 01:03:02,000
Speaker 2: doing shit. It's not like he ain't got no funds,

1509
01:03:02,080 --> 01:03:05,080
Speaker 2: because he does. He's been super secretive now and I

1510
01:03:05,200 --> 01:03:08,160
Speaker 2: haven't been happy lately. He sleeps with his phone underneath

1511
01:03:08,240 --> 01:03:10,240
Speaker 2: him and it drives the fuck out of me. I

1512
01:03:10,360 --> 01:03:13,200
Speaker 2: went through his phone once about eight months ago when

1513
01:03:13,200 --> 01:03:16,160
Speaker 2: he was on Snapchat sending bitches money on the Only

1514
01:03:16,280 --> 01:03:19,520
Speaker 2: Fans site, which I'm not knocking, but my nigga shouldn't

1515
01:03:19,520 --> 01:03:22,920
Speaker 2: be participating in that period. He claims that's the reason

1516
01:03:23,000 --> 01:03:25,520
Speaker 2: why he sleeps with it under him, because he felt violated.

1517
01:03:25,840 --> 01:03:28,840
Speaker 2: It's been hard for me to be myself. My best

1518
01:03:28,880 --> 01:03:31,040
Speaker 2: friend and I have been joking about doing a show,

1519
01:03:31,480 --> 01:03:33,760
Speaker 2: and I want to move forward with our ideas, even

1520
01:03:33,800 --> 01:03:36,360
Speaker 2: if we even if we record something and never put

1521
01:03:36,400 --> 01:03:40,000
Speaker 2: it out, I know he's not having it. Though I'm

1522
01:03:40,080 --> 01:03:43,960
Speaker 2: twenty eight, I have my degree from a bomb ass HBCU,

1523
01:03:44,440 --> 01:03:47,040
Speaker 2: and recently went back to school for nursing. I'll be

1524
01:03:47,080 --> 01:03:49,840
Speaker 2: done with my program in eighteen months. Do I stay

1525
01:03:49,960 --> 01:03:51,920
Speaker 2: and be content with it? Or do I move around

1526
01:03:52,000 --> 01:03:54,840
Speaker 2: and focus on being happy. I've tried talking to him

1527
01:03:54,840 --> 01:03:57,600
Speaker 2: about my issues and he don't change shit. It's now

1528
01:03:57,680 --> 01:04:00,919
Speaker 2: to the point to where I'm focused on every fucking thing.

1529
01:04:01,120 --> 01:04:03,560
Speaker 2: Like he uses this lotion now and I hate the smell.

1530
01:04:04,000 --> 01:04:06,600
Speaker 2: It doesn't stink, but it's strong as fuck. My allergy

1531
01:04:06,680 --> 01:04:09,200
Speaker 2: is being on fucking ten, so I'm always complaining. I

1532
01:04:09,320 --> 01:04:11,560
Speaker 2: even bought him a different lotion, but he won't use it.

1533
01:04:11,640 --> 01:04:13,800
Speaker 2: I'm like, dude, what the fuck? At this point, I

1534
01:04:13,920 --> 01:04:16,439
Speaker 2: listen to y'all weekly, so I know all niggas gonna cheat,

1535
01:04:16,480 --> 01:04:17,920
Speaker 2: but I feel like, if you're gonna cheat, you need

1536
01:04:17,960 --> 01:04:22,480
Speaker 2: to make sure I'm one hundred percent satisfied. First, Please

1537
01:04:22,600 --> 01:04:28,160
Speaker 2: pour your girls some advice. WHOA, that's a good fucking question.

1538
01:04:28,800 --> 01:04:31,880
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna go first. This is how I because

1539
01:04:31,920 --> 01:04:33,760
Speaker 2: dress have a little more insights, so I'm gonna give

1540
01:04:33,840 --> 01:04:35,880
Speaker 2: my you know, surface advice.

1541
01:04:36,360 --> 01:04:40,440
Speaker 1: So in this situation, now, once you.

1542
01:04:40,520 --> 01:04:42,720
Speaker 2: Get to a point to where every little thing a

1543
01:04:42,800 --> 01:04:46,200
Speaker 2: person does bother you, that's when shit is getting bad.

1544
01:04:46,880 --> 01:04:49,000
Speaker 1: I know, when I'm kind of over somebody, like they

1545
01:04:49,040 --> 01:04:50,960
Speaker 1: can fucking be chewing wrong and I'm like, oh my god,

1546
01:04:51,000 --> 01:04:53,400
Speaker 1: why is this nigga chewing so loud? So you're bothering

1547
01:04:53,400 --> 01:04:55,560
Speaker 1: about his lotion. It's really not that big of a deal.

1548
01:04:55,640 --> 01:04:58,760
Speaker 2: I can understand if it's aggravating your allergies, but it's like, now, sis,

1549
01:04:59,120 --> 01:05:02,600
Speaker 2: you're super I'm happy, right, So you gotta think about, Okay,

1550
01:05:02,760 --> 01:05:05,080
Speaker 2: do I want these bills paid or do I just

1551
01:05:05,120 --> 01:05:06,800
Speaker 2: want to work and grind it out on my own?

1552
01:05:07,120 --> 01:05:09,760
Speaker 1: Because now I feel like the trust is gone.

1553
01:05:09,920 --> 01:05:11,520
Speaker 2: I could have told you that when you went through

1554
01:05:11,520 --> 01:05:13,120
Speaker 2: its phone, because you should never feel like you need

1555
01:05:13,160 --> 01:05:15,240
Speaker 2: to go through the phone. Once you feel like you

1556
01:05:15,320 --> 01:05:17,680
Speaker 2: gotta go through a nigga phone, that relationship is done

1557
01:05:17,760 --> 01:05:18,800
Speaker 2: and the trust is dead.

1558
01:05:19,440 --> 01:05:21,640
Speaker 1: So now you just have to weigh out your options

1559
01:05:21,680 --> 01:05:24,000
Speaker 1: as far as Okay, do I still want to get

1560
01:05:24,040 --> 01:05:27,080
Speaker 1: this bread or do I just want to deal with it?

1561
01:05:27,520 --> 01:05:30,480
Speaker 2: And because I feel like personally, just keep it cool,

1562
01:05:30,600 --> 01:05:32,680
Speaker 2: get the money that you can until you finish your shit,

1563
01:05:32,760 --> 01:05:34,960
Speaker 2: but do your shit on the side too, have fun

1564
01:05:35,080 --> 01:05:37,760
Speaker 2: because it's obviously not the nigga you're gonna be with cause.

1565
01:05:37,880 --> 01:05:38,840
Speaker 1: The love is gone.

1566
01:05:39,440 --> 01:05:41,400
Speaker 3: Well, if that's crazy that you say that, because that's

1567
01:05:41,520 --> 01:05:43,520
Speaker 3: literally the exact same way that I feel about it,

1568
01:05:43,520 --> 01:05:45,320
Speaker 3: And that's exactly what I was gonna say. I feel like,

1569
01:05:45,360 --> 01:05:47,240
Speaker 3: if a nigga's taking care of you and paying all

1570
01:05:47,280 --> 01:05:49,480
Speaker 3: your bills and making sure that you're straight, and you

1571
01:05:49,640 --> 01:05:52,040
Speaker 3: just said that you're in school and you got eighteen

1572
01:05:52,120 --> 01:05:54,520
Speaker 3: more months left on your you got eighteen more months

1573
01:05:54,640 --> 01:05:57,600
Speaker 3: left on your program for nursing, I just feel like,

1574
01:05:57,760 --> 01:05:59,320
Speaker 3: you know, I would just stick it out with that

1575
01:05:59,400 --> 01:06:02,120
Speaker 3: nigga at least until I finished my program with school,

1576
01:06:02,200 --> 01:06:05,360
Speaker 3: because again, you know, y'all been together already for what

1577
01:06:05,560 --> 01:06:06,120
Speaker 3: eight years?

1578
01:06:06,200 --> 01:06:08,400
Speaker 1: You said, no, she said, I don't know.

1579
01:06:08,560 --> 01:06:11,000
Speaker 3: I think she said eight years together for a minute

1580
01:06:11,040 --> 01:06:15,440
Speaker 3: years or she was dancing for eight years. Ye, she

1581
01:06:15,600 --> 01:06:18,040
Speaker 3: dances strip for eight years before she met him, oh

1582
01:06:18,120 --> 01:06:19,960
Speaker 3: before she met him, But y'all still been together for

1583
01:06:20,040 --> 01:06:22,040
Speaker 3: a minute at this point. So I just feel like

1584
01:06:22,080 --> 01:06:24,200
Speaker 3: when you have history with a person, and you love

1585
01:06:24,240 --> 01:06:26,080
Speaker 3: a person and care about them, you know what I mean.

1586
01:06:27,400 --> 01:06:29,680
Speaker 1: I wouldn't just be so quick to any.

1587
01:06:29,600 --> 01:06:33,520
Speaker 3: Things because in another eighteen months things might be good

1588
01:06:33,560 --> 01:06:35,360
Speaker 3: between y'all again, you know what I mean. But so

1589
01:06:35,440 --> 01:06:37,720
Speaker 3: I just wouldn't up and leave the situation, especially if

1590
01:06:37,720 --> 01:06:40,600
Speaker 3: he's making sure that you straight. But I probably would

1591
01:06:40,640 --> 01:06:44,520
Speaker 3: definitely be getting me some outside the.

1592
01:06:46,480 --> 01:06:50,040
Speaker 2: You I And this might be because it's talking about

1593
01:06:50,080 --> 01:06:51,680
Speaker 2: what I would do, because you need somebody to be

1594
01:06:51,760 --> 01:06:53,880
Speaker 2: in to You need somebody. I mean, yeah, it's okay,

1595
01:06:54,000 --> 01:06:56,919
Speaker 2: obviously he's doing it. Just be don't let him find

1596
01:06:56,960 --> 01:06:57,600
Speaker 2: out because ye.

1597
01:06:59,120 --> 01:06:59,160
Speaker 1: Do.

1598
01:07:00,320 --> 01:07:03,240
Speaker 2: But and don't be like, you know, being disrespectful with

1599
01:07:03,360 --> 01:07:05,120
Speaker 2: it or nothing like that. But I will say this,

1600
01:07:05,800 --> 01:07:07,760
Speaker 2: you don't want to if you leave this nigga and

1601
01:07:07,800 --> 01:07:10,800
Speaker 2: you're gonna be struggling, don't do that, right. Obviously, he

1602
01:07:10,880 --> 01:07:12,640
Speaker 2: still wants to be there for you and he still

1603
01:07:12,640 --> 01:07:13,560
Speaker 2: wants to take care of you.

1604
01:07:13,760 --> 01:07:14,960
Speaker 1: Let him do that, right.

1605
01:07:15,200 --> 01:07:17,240
Speaker 2: Just make sure you're getting out of this situation what

1606
01:07:17,360 --> 01:07:19,240
Speaker 2: you want to get out of it. Yeah, So whenever

1607
01:07:19,320 --> 01:07:22,400
Speaker 2: you do graduating, for whenever you do graduate from your

1608
01:07:22,480 --> 01:07:24,320
Speaker 2: nursing program, you're gonna be straight, so you can do

1609
01:07:24,360 --> 01:07:25,840
Speaker 2: whatever the fuck you want to do, but for now,

1610
01:07:26,480 --> 01:07:28,320
Speaker 2: you don't want to be struggling sis, because I went

1611
01:07:28,360 --> 01:07:30,000
Speaker 2: through that before. I had a nigga that had some money,

1612
01:07:30,000 --> 01:07:31,680
Speaker 2: and I was trying to be all headstrong and be like, oh,

1613
01:07:31,720 --> 01:07:33,000
Speaker 2: I can do it on my own, a bitch.

1614
01:07:33,040 --> 01:07:36,200
Speaker 1: I was like, at L yeah, I agree.

1615
01:07:36,440 --> 01:07:38,840
Speaker 3: You don't never want to get rid of like yo

1616
01:07:38,960 --> 01:07:42,080
Speaker 3: for show situation just because you feel in some type

1617
01:07:42,080 --> 01:07:42,800
Speaker 3: of way, you know what I mean.

1618
01:07:42,880 --> 01:07:44,320
Speaker 1: Niggas do that shit all the time.

1619
01:07:44,440 --> 01:07:47,400
Speaker 3: They'll stick around and play house with you and do

1620
01:07:47,480 --> 01:07:49,080
Speaker 3: what they need to do till they know they ready

1621
01:07:49,120 --> 01:07:52,480
Speaker 3: to move on. And I feel like she'd us as women,

1622
01:07:52,600 --> 01:07:54,920
Speaker 3: if we had the same mindset, we wouldn't always be

1623
01:07:55,040 --> 01:07:57,160
Speaker 3: out here down bed when she go wrong.

1624
01:07:57,040 --> 01:07:59,400
Speaker 1: Between it with you know, between us and a niggas.

1625
01:08:00,880 --> 01:08:04,160
Speaker 2: Get into like real stsitors honestly now, Like the average

1626
01:08:04,200 --> 01:08:07,240
Speaker 2: person in America is barely pulling in thirty thousand dollars

1627
01:08:07,280 --> 01:08:09,640
Speaker 2: a year. Let's get it, let's get real, Like it's

1628
01:08:09,680 --> 01:08:13,440
Speaker 2: hard to get help. We are all like struggling someone

1629
01:08:13,480 --> 01:08:16,080
Speaker 2: out here. It's money, it's not easy to come by,

1630
01:08:16,120 --> 01:08:18,479
Speaker 2: as like people try to make it seem so it's

1631
01:08:18,520 --> 01:08:21,720
Speaker 2: like if you have help right now, sis take advantage

1632
01:08:21,760 --> 01:08:23,840
Speaker 2: of that and stay focused on your goals and don't

1633
01:08:23,880 --> 01:08:27,000
Speaker 2: let that shit distract you. Right, there's a million niggas

1634
01:08:27,000 --> 01:08:28,720
Speaker 2: out here that will treat you right. So it's like

1635
01:08:28,800 --> 01:08:31,120
Speaker 2: sometimes you just gonna have to swallow your pride and

1636
01:08:31,240 --> 01:08:31,600
Speaker 2: deal with it.

1637
01:08:31,800 --> 01:08:34,200
Speaker 3: And it's also a million niggas out here who won't

1638
01:08:34,240 --> 01:08:36,800
Speaker 3: even do half of wid the nigga that you're fucking

1639
01:08:36,840 --> 01:08:37,960
Speaker 3: with right now doing for you.

1640
01:08:38,120 --> 01:08:40,160
Speaker 1: So, like I said, I mean, yes, fucked up, but

1641
01:08:40,439 --> 01:08:42,680
Speaker 1: also you know it's fucked up what he's doing. It's

1642
01:08:42,680 --> 01:08:45,280
Speaker 1: fucked up what he doing, and it's also fucked up.

1643
01:08:45,240 --> 01:08:47,880
Speaker 3: That you look through his phone, sees, because I look

1644
01:08:47,920 --> 01:08:49,760
Speaker 3: through a nigga phone and I always talk about these

1645
01:08:49,800 --> 01:08:52,280
Speaker 3: I did that shit once in my life and I

1646
01:08:52,360 --> 01:08:54,360
Speaker 3: will never do it. I always was the type of

1647
01:08:54,400 --> 01:08:56,720
Speaker 3: person who didn't believe in doing this sheep, but I

1648
01:08:56,840 --> 01:08:58,680
Speaker 3: really had liked that nigga and I just had to know.

1649
01:08:59,200 --> 01:09:01,880
Speaker 1: So I looked through that nigga phone, and I regret it.

1650
01:09:02,200 --> 01:09:04,719
Speaker 1: When you go looking for dirt, you're gonna you gonna find.

1651
01:09:04,520 --> 01:09:06,680
Speaker 3: Sheet, and then it just makes you paranoid and it

1652
01:09:06,760 --> 01:09:08,800
Speaker 3: makes you not be able to trace them. I would

1653
01:09:08,840 --> 01:09:11,400
Speaker 3: rather you because you gonna do you regard at least,

1654
01:09:11,520 --> 01:09:13,519
Speaker 3: so I'd rather you be doing you and I'm over

1655
01:09:13,560 --> 01:09:15,760
Speaker 3: here thinking that you being faith.

1656
01:09:16,760 --> 01:09:19,880
Speaker 1: I always tell this to him, and sometimes ignorance is blissed.

1657
01:09:20,600 --> 01:09:23,360
Speaker 2: Not sometimes it's always it's like, just enjoy it for

1658
01:09:23,479 --> 01:09:25,920
Speaker 2: what it is. Enjoy him, don't be looking at stuff.

1659
01:09:25,920 --> 01:09:27,760
Speaker 2: And it's like, maybe if you kind of relax and

1660
01:09:27,840 --> 01:09:29,439
Speaker 2: chill a little bit, maybe it'll make him.

1661
01:09:30,080 --> 01:09:32,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like it's something that y'all could definitely

1662
01:09:32,280 --> 01:09:34,800
Speaker 3: probably work out and you know, work on. I would

1663
01:09:34,800 --> 01:09:36,160
Speaker 3: definitely say, don't.

1664
01:09:36,160 --> 01:09:38,519
Speaker 2: Just up and leave him right because, like I said,

1665
01:09:38,600 --> 01:09:42,280
Speaker 2: if he's doing all that shit, sorry, if he's doing

1666
01:09:42,320 --> 01:09:44,400
Speaker 2: all that shit for you, sis, even if you kind

1667
01:09:44,439 --> 01:09:47,920
Speaker 2: of feel like aggravated, you have a good situation and yes,

1668
01:09:47,960 --> 01:09:50,320
Speaker 2: school right now, So just focus on your goals.

1669
01:09:50,400 --> 01:09:51,360
Speaker 1: Don't focus on him.

1670
01:09:51,720 --> 01:09:54,080
Speaker 2: Let him continuously do for you, but just focus on

1671
01:09:54,160 --> 01:09:57,200
Speaker 2: your goal and just know, just see the light at

1672
01:09:57,240 --> 01:09:58,720
Speaker 2: the end of the tunnel and make sure that you

1673
01:09:58,840 --> 01:09:59,280
Speaker 2: get there.

1674
01:09:59,280 --> 01:10:00,479
Speaker 1: And still have your little fun.

1675
01:10:00,760 --> 01:10:04,200
Speaker 2: Say, yeah, go out with your friends. I'm not saying

1676
01:10:04,240 --> 01:10:06,920
Speaker 2: you gotta evidence, yeah, but go out with your friends.

1677
01:10:07,000 --> 01:10:08,160
Speaker 1: Go on vacation, do this?

1678
01:10:08,360 --> 01:10:08,600
Speaker 2: Do that?

1679
01:10:08,840 --> 01:10:09,400
Speaker 1: Still you live?

1680
01:10:09,479 --> 01:10:12,800
Speaker 2: You're still young, you bad as fuck because I know you, girl,

1681
01:10:13,000 --> 01:10:14,280
Speaker 2: we used to be in dreams together.

1682
01:10:14,360 --> 01:10:15,200
Speaker 1: You a fun spirit.

1683
01:10:15,240 --> 01:10:17,600
Speaker 2: You're a beautiful person, so you still need to be

1684
01:10:17,760 --> 01:10:20,320
Speaker 2: enjoying your life. You're still young as fucking You're beautiful

1685
01:10:20,520 --> 01:10:22,479
Speaker 2: like any nigga would be blessed to have you. And

1686
01:10:22,479 --> 01:10:25,280
Speaker 2: I'm saying this because I know you personally, right, So girl,

1687
01:10:25,400 --> 01:10:26,200
Speaker 2: live your life and.

1688
01:10:26,240 --> 01:10:28,600
Speaker 1: Have a great time. Yes, and girl, you know me?

1689
01:10:28,720 --> 01:10:30,240
Speaker 1: I ain't you know you? You know your girl?

1690
01:10:30,360 --> 01:10:32,400
Speaker 3: Since you said I'm your twin spirit, you know I

1691
01:10:32,560 --> 01:10:35,040
Speaker 3: wasn't never gonna advise you to leave a nigga that's

1692
01:10:35,040 --> 01:10:37,240
Speaker 3: paying your bills as long as he ain't beating you

1693
01:10:37,720 --> 01:10:39,760
Speaker 3: and putting his hands on you or done brought you

1694
01:10:39,840 --> 01:10:42,560
Speaker 3: with STV or nothing like that. I say stick it

1695
01:10:42,600 --> 01:10:46,240
Speaker 3: out till you finished school, right, That's my advice.

1696
01:10:46,360 --> 01:10:48,120
Speaker 1: So we both say stick it out till you finished

1697
01:10:48,120 --> 01:10:51,880
Speaker 1: school and then make a decision. Amen. So we have

1698
01:10:52,240 --> 01:10:56,040
Speaker 1: another question from another listener.

1699
01:10:56,160 --> 01:10:59,000
Speaker 2: She said, Hey, y'all, lately, it's been really hard for

1700
01:10:59,120 --> 01:11:01,040
Speaker 2: me to go out on day and enjoying my youth

1701
01:11:01,120 --> 01:11:03,400
Speaker 2: while I have it. I'm a black, twenty four year

1702
01:11:03,439 --> 01:11:06,720
Speaker 2: old educated queen, and I know my words, but sometimes

1703
01:11:06,800 --> 01:11:09,200
Speaker 2: I get into this deep depressed mood where I just

1704
01:11:09,240 --> 01:11:11,360
Speaker 2: don't want to be around anybody and do the things

1705
01:11:11,479 --> 01:11:14,479
Speaker 2: I once used to do, like thought around and shit

1706
01:11:14,600 --> 01:11:17,840
Speaker 2: like the lol. I'm still deeply affected by the last

1707
01:11:17,920 --> 01:11:19,960
Speaker 2: dude I used to day. We have been dating on

1708
01:11:20,080 --> 01:11:22,439
Speaker 2: and off for nearly two and a half years, and finally,

1709
01:11:22,520 --> 01:11:26,599
Speaker 2: towards the end of our relationship more like situationship, he told.

1710
01:11:26,400 --> 01:11:27,200
Speaker 1: Me that he was gay.

1711
01:11:27,720 --> 01:11:30,480
Speaker 3: I asked him if he identified as gay or bisexual

1712
01:11:30,560 --> 01:11:32,439
Speaker 3: because I was a bit confused, and he said he

1713
01:11:32,520 --> 01:11:33,240
Speaker 3: thinks he's gay.

1714
01:11:33,720 --> 01:11:36,120
Speaker 1: He said that the only other person he told was

1715
01:11:36,160 --> 01:11:38,200
Speaker 1: his ex girlfriend. We used to have the.

1716
01:11:38,400 --> 01:11:41,720
Speaker 3: Best six like this motherfucker could go for rounds and

1717
01:11:41,840 --> 01:11:45,160
Speaker 3: rounds and I loved it. We literally did everything together,

1718
01:11:45,720 --> 01:11:48,240
Speaker 3: go on dates, hang out all weekend at his place,

1719
01:11:48,560 --> 01:11:52,320
Speaker 3: he met my close friends, etc. I'm obviously not mad

1720
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Speaker 3: at the fact that he's gay. I'm mad at the

1721
01:11:54,640 --> 01:11:56,960
Speaker 3: fact that he lied to me and basically wasted two

1722
01:11:57,080 --> 01:11:59,439
Speaker 3: years of my life knowing that he didn't want me

1723
01:11:59,560 --> 01:12:01,600
Speaker 3: to be knowing that he didn't want to be with

1724
01:12:01,720 --> 01:12:04,599
Speaker 3: me long term. Honestly, if he called me right now

1725
01:12:04,720 --> 01:12:06,559
Speaker 3: and told me he missed me and wanted me back

1726
01:12:06,600 --> 01:12:08,880
Speaker 3: in his life, I will go crawling back. Do I

1727
01:12:09,000 --> 01:12:10,800
Speaker 3: have the right to feel some type of way about

1728
01:12:10,840 --> 01:12:14,920
Speaker 3: this whole situation? And she wanted to keep it anonymous,

1729
01:12:15,000 --> 01:12:17,320
Speaker 3: but the name the title was in love with a

1730
01:12:17,439 --> 01:12:17,880
Speaker 3: gay guy?

1731
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Speaker 2: Okay, So this is what I have to say about this.

1732
01:12:21,240 --> 01:12:23,719
Speaker 2: I think a lot of people we need to understand.

1733
01:12:23,880 --> 01:12:26,240
Speaker 2: Whatever you feel about anything that happened.

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01:12:25,960 --> 01:12:29,000
Speaker 1: To you, you have the right. So no, you're not

1735
01:12:29,200 --> 01:12:31,760
Speaker 1: wrong for being angry or upset or however.

1736
01:12:31,600 --> 01:12:35,320
Speaker 2: That you feel. But you can't be mad at him

1737
01:12:36,120 --> 01:12:38,960
Speaker 2: because you have to realize that this man was probably

1738
01:12:39,040 --> 01:12:41,960
Speaker 2: struggling with that within himself. He probably spent that two

1739
01:12:42,080 --> 01:12:44,120
Speaker 2: years of trying to convince itself that he was straight.

1740
01:12:44,680 --> 01:12:46,759
Speaker 2: So I think you could be upset at the situation,

1741
01:12:46,960 --> 01:12:48,799
Speaker 2: but you don't need to be mad at him because

1742
01:12:49,200 --> 01:12:53,000
Speaker 2: coming out, even though like we're not gay, but we

1743
01:12:53,200 --> 01:12:53,639
Speaker 2: know how.

1744
01:12:53,640 --> 01:12:56,839
Speaker 1: Hard coming out is for people. We've seen it, especially

1745
01:12:56,960 --> 01:13:00,560
Speaker 1: for men people have committed suicide. Right, I feel like

1746
01:13:00,680 --> 01:13:02,880
Speaker 1: that you have a right to be upset, but.

1747
01:13:02,920 --> 01:13:05,960
Speaker 2: I feel like you shouldn't be upset with him. I

1748
01:13:06,000 --> 01:13:08,840
Speaker 2: feel like y'all can have a friendship. But one thing

1749
01:13:08,880 --> 01:13:10,960
Speaker 2: you need to do is let those feelings for him

1750
01:13:11,040 --> 01:13:13,680
Speaker 2: that you have go. Even if he does call you back,

1751
01:13:13,720 --> 01:13:16,200
Speaker 2: you have to understand that he's expressed that he thinks

1752
01:13:16,240 --> 01:13:19,880
Speaker 2: he's gay. That's gonna go nowhere really fast. The worst

1753
01:13:19,920 --> 01:13:21,560
Speaker 2: thing that you can do is be in love with

1754
01:13:21,680 --> 01:13:24,920
Speaker 2: somebody who's not in love with you. You're so it's

1755
01:13:25,040 --> 01:13:27,400
Speaker 2: like you have a right to feel some type of way,

1756
01:13:27,400 --> 01:13:30,519
Speaker 2: but you're gonna have to confront those feelings and let

1757
01:13:30,600 --> 01:13:32,439
Speaker 2: it go and forgive him for that because you have

1758
01:13:32,520 --> 01:13:35,040
Speaker 2: to realize he's been struggling with something way deeper than

1759
01:13:35,080 --> 01:13:37,120
Speaker 2: what you're going through. Like you just had to deal

1760
01:13:37,200 --> 01:13:40,040
Speaker 2: with basically getting curved. He has to deal with his

1761
01:13:40,160 --> 01:13:43,320
Speaker 2: whole sexuality being something different than what he's been told

1762
01:13:43,400 --> 01:13:46,519
Speaker 2: his entire life. So this comes into you being a

1763
01:13:46,600 --> 01:13:50,080
Speaker 2: good friend and being there for him and getting those

1764
01:13:50,200 --> 01:13:52,000
Speaker 2: I mean, you're only twenty four, bitch, you ain't even

1765
01:13:52,080 --> 01:13:54,840
Speaker 2: had good dig yet, to be honest, To be honest,

1766
01:13:54,840 --> 01:13:57,280
Speaker 2: you young, The good dick ain't even got to you yet,

1767
01:13:57,320 --> 01:13:58,280
Speaker 2: my goodness.

1768
01:13:58,040 --> 01:14:00,320
Speaker 3: But yeah, I don't know, I just feel like you know,

1769
01:14:00,479 --> 01:14:02,040
Speaker 3: I feel the same way like I just feel like

1770
01:14:02,080 --> 01:14:05,200
Speaker 3: you definitely need to let that situation go. It's not

1771
01:14:05,360 --> 01:14:08,720
Speaker 3: gonna go anywhere because he's gay, So what you I

1772
01:14:08,760 --> 01:14:10,560
Speaker 3: mean like, and I understand you still in love with

1773
01:14:10,640 --> 01:14:12,280
Speaker 3: him or you have feelings with him, but what's gonna

1774
01:14:12,320 --> 01:14:15,160
Speaker 3: come with that? Okay, y'all end up dating again and

1775
01:14:15,280 --> 01:14:17,840
Speaker 3: then years later he ends up leaving you for a nigga,

1776
01:14:18,200 --> 01:14:18,760
Speaker 3: you know what I mean?

1777
01:14:18,840 --> 01:14:20,760
Speaker 2: And you can't be mad at nobody but yourself. But

1778
01:14:20,880 --> 01:14:22,560
Speaker 2: you don't have nobody to blame but you because he

1779
01:14:22,680 --> 01:14:25,519
Speaker 2: was honest with you about the situation. So basically now

1780
01:14:25,560 --> 01:14:27,800
Speaker 2: you just being like a beard, you know what I mean.

1781
01:14:28,840 --> 01:14:30,679
Speaker 2: So I just feel like you definitely.

1782
01:14:30,720 --> 01:14:32,719
Speaker 3: I know how hard it is when you love people

1783
01:14:32,800 --> 01:14:34,360
Speaker 3: to let them go out of your life and to

1784
01:14:34,479 --> 01:14:36,920
Speaker 3: accept that things ain't gonna never be that no more.

1785
01:14:37,479 --> 01:14:40,360
Speaker 3: But I feel like, you know, it's one thing to

1786
01:14:40,479 --> 01:14:43,080
Speaker 3: be still being in love with a nigga after he

1787
01:14:43,200 --> 01:14:43,800
Speaker 3: cheated on you.

1788
01:14:44,360 --> 01:14:46,360
Speaker 2: It's another thing to still be in love with a

1789
01:14:46,439 --> 01:14:48,360
Speaker 2: nigga after he comes to you and tell you that

1790
01:14:48,439 --> 01:14:51,280
Speaker 2: he gay, right, like I think he know his sexualities

1791
01:14:51,320 --> 01:14:54,920
Speaker 2: sees right, and you ain't need like you know what

1792
01:14:54,960 --> 01:14:57,799
Speaker 2: I mean wrong, and that doesn't mean that that anything

1793
01:14:57,920 --> 01:15:00,760
Speaker 2: is wrong with you. But when you're a young girl,

1794
01:15:00,840 --> 01:15:03,280
Speaker 2: like live your life, go out, Like, let me tell

1795
01:15:03,280 --> 01:15:06,400
Speaker 2: you something. Just like I said earlier, there's so many

1796
01:15:06,479 --> 01:15:08,680
Speaker 2: fishing to see, y'all cannot be tripping.

1797
01:15:08,439 --> 01:15:11,320
Speaker 1: Over one goddamn fish. I mean, I don't like, I

1798
01:15:11,360 --> 01:15:13,120
Speaker 1: don't like to say that though, because I mean, people

1799
01:15:13,200 --> 01:15:14,639
Speaker 1: get over breakups differently.

1800
01:15:14,800 --> 01:15:17,519
Speaker 2: No, they do, but you're feel get over it. Yeah,

1801
01:15:17,560 --> 01:15:20,200
Speaker 2: you are different. You are always gonna get over it.

1802
01:15:20,240 --> 01:15:23,320
Speaker 2: But I mean it takes some girls way longer. So

1803
01:15:23,439 --> 01:15:26,360
Speaker 2: I understand how she feel about like, oh damn, Like

1804
01:15:27,520 --> 01:15:30,120
Speaker 2: you know, I really love this nigga. But like I

1805
01:15:30,200 --> 01:15:32,360
Speaker 2: said to me, it's a lot of things that could

1806
01:15:32,400 --> 01:15:34,400
Speaker 2: be worked out with the person. Like it's a lot

1807
01:15:34,439 --> 01:15:37,240
Speaker 2: of places where you could go wrong in a relationship

1808
01:15:37,280 --> 01:15:39,599
Speaker 2: with a guy and then y'all break up and y'all

1809
01:15:39,640 --> 01:15:41,679
Speaker 2: could figure it out and work it out or whatever.

1810
01:15:42,200 --> 01:15:45,760
Speaker 3: That's normal. But when it comes to somebody's sexuality, I

1811
01:15:45,840 --> 01:15:47,600
Speaker 3: think he pretty. I think he knows if he.

1812
01:15:47,640 --> 01:15:48,040
Speaker 1: Gay or not.

1813
01:15:48,600 --> 01:15:50,639
Speaker 3: Like I always like to talk about how I don't

1814
01:15:50,640 --> 01:15:53,400
Speaker 3: foock with girls, like I know that I find girls attractive.

1815
01:15:53,439 --> 01:15:56,120
Speaker 1: It's not something I'm like confused on you know what

1816
01:15:56,160 --> 01:15:56,400
Speaker 1: I mean.

1817
01:15:56,439 --> 01:15:58,040
Speaker 3: I feel like, you know, when you find the other

1818
01:15:58,280 --> 01:16:01,960
Speaker 3: the same sex attracted, So I just feel like it's

1819
01:16:02,040 --> 01:16:04,439
Speaker 3: best for you to move on for that from that situation,

1820
01:16:04,680 --> 01:16:07,120
Speaker 3: for yourself, because all you gonna do is bring more

1821
01:16:07,200 --> 01:16:09,720
Speaker 3: heart and pain to yourself if you keep trying to

1822
01:16:09,840 --> 01:16:12,439
Speaker 3: make that relationship be something that he's not, and.

1823
01:16:12,479 --> 01:16:14,640
Speaker 1: Then it's like, like you said, it seems like he

1824
01:16:14,760 --> 01:16:16,640
Speaker 1: may be kind of confused right now. So even if

1825
01:16:16,680 --> 01:16:19,320
Speaker 1: he does call you, I think for your sanity and

1826
01:16:19,439 --> 01:16:22,560
Speaker 1: your health, you need to, like your mental health, you

1827
01:16:22,680 --> 01:16:25,519
Speaker 1: need to be like, no, this is not we can't

1828
01:16:25,560 --> 01:16:27,200
Speaker 1: go back and forth because it's gonna be the same

1829
01:16:27,280 --> 01:16:29,280
Speaker 1: thing six months leaves and be like no, you know what,

1830
01:16:29,400 --> 01:16:30,840
Speaker 1: I think, I want to be with a guy like

1831
01:16:31,280 --> 01:16:33,000
Speaker 1: so you don't want to put yourself through that.

1832
01:16:33,400 --> 01:16:35,920
Speaker 3: And just speaking for myself personally, but see if a

1833
01:16:36,000 --> 01:16:37,920
Speaker 3: nigga came to me that I was in love with

1834
01:16:38,080 --> 01:16:39,320
Speaker 3: or that I was fucking when he told me that

1835
01:16:39,400 --> 01:16:40,120
Speaker 3: he was gay.

1836
01:16:40,439 --> 01:16:42,800
Speaker 1: I don't want no deep. I don't want no deep.

1837
01:16:42,880 --> 01:16:45,320
Speaker 1: That was possibly just up in some ass not they long.

1838
01:16:45,160 --> 01:16:47,320
Speaker 2: Aer, I mean, I don't to me, that's not that's

1839
01:16:47,360 --> 01:16:49,200
Speaker 2: not the more concern, Like I just feel like I

1840
01:16:49,240 --> 01:16:51,200
Speaker 2: don't want I don't want to be with somebody that's

1841
01:16:51,200 --> 01:16:52,360
Speaker 2: emotionally unstable.

1842
01:16:52,560 --> 01:16:54,240
Speaker 1: And I feel like now that's that's this is the

1843
01:16:54,280 --> 01:16:54,960
Speaker 1: time for you to be a.

1844
01:16:55,240 --> 01:16:58,080
Speaker 3: Most of these niggas is emotionally unstable. For me, that's

1845
01:16:58,160 --> 01:16:59,880
Speaker 3: definitely part of it. I don't want to be with

1846
01:17:00,040 --> 01:17:02,280
Speaker 3: no nigga who is fucking another nigga and I know

1847
01:17:02,400 --> 01:17:05,519
Speaker 3: about it period. Like for me, that's definitely a part

1848
01:17:05,560 --> 01:17:08,040
Speaker 3: of it. Everybody emo a lot of these niggas. Majority

1849
01:17:08,080 --> 01:17:08,720
Speaker 3: of them is the most.

1850
01:17:10,600 --> 01:17:12,760
Speaker 1: But like I said, he didn't say he was bisexual,

1851
01:17:12,800 --> 01:17:15,800
Speaker 1: and I say you're bisexual is different. That's different. But

1852
01:17:16,040 --> 01:17:18,599
Speaker 1: you know, some women date bisexual men. That's not a problem.

1853
01:17:18,960 --> 01:17:22,599
Speaker 2: But like, he doesn't even know if he likes women

1854
01:17:22,760 --> 01:17:25,160
Speaker 2: at this point, So I feel like there is nothing

1855
01:17:25,240 --> 01:17:25,880
Speaker 2: to be done there.

1856
01:17:26,000 --> 01:17:28,240
Speaker 1: You can't be mad at him. You can be upset

1857
01:17:28,280 --> 01:17:28,920
Speaker 1: with the situation.

1858
01:17:29,040 --> 01:17:32,080
Speaker 2: It's okay to cry, it's okay to be frustrated, but

1859
01:17:32,320 --> 01:17:34,799
Speaker 2: you need to get that out your system and understand

1860
01:17:34,840 --> 01:17:36,760
Speaker 2: that this is a chapter of your life that you

1861
01:17:36,880 --> 01:17:37,479
Speaker 2: need to let go.

1862
01:17:37,920 --> 01:17:40,720
Speaker 1: And I think it's important for you to realize what

1863
01:17:40,840 --> 01:17:42,639
Speaker 1: he's going through as well, and just be a good

1864
01:17:42,680 --> 01:17:43,720
Speaker 1: friend and be there for him.

1865
01:17:43,880 --> 01:17:46,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then once you let that situation go, you

1866
01:17:46,200 --> 01:17:48,120
Speaker 3: have a no, girl, you're probably gonna find you somebody

1867
01:17:48,160 --> 01:17:49,800
Speaker 3: else that's way better.

1868
01:17:50,240 --> 01:17:52,160
Speaker 2: It's gonna treat you right better. Because I was talking

1869
01:17:52,160 --> 01:17:53,760
Speaker 2: to me and likes to talking about this earlier because

1870
01:17:53,760 --> 01:17:54,040
Speaker 2: I have a.

1871
01:17:54,080 --> 01:17:56,559
Speaker 3: Friend that's twenty four and she'd be going through stuff

1872
01:17:56,600 --> 01:17:59,920
Speaker 3: with her boyfriend and stuff, and I always be telling her, like, girl,

1873
01:18:00,000 --> 01:18:01,720
Speaker 3: are you twenty four? When I was twenty four, you

1874
01:18:01,800 --> 01:18:05,400
Speaker 3: can pay me to be stressed about none of these niggas.

1875
01:18:05,800 --> 01:18:07,600
Speaker 3: Like I said, as you get older, things are a

1876
01:18:07,680 --> 01:18:10,800
Speaker 3: little different because you don't have as many options and

1877
01:18:11,080 --> 01:18:14,840
Speaker 3: you done been through more in life. But at twenty four, girl,

1878
01:18:14,920 --> 01:18:18,400
Speaker 3: you young, you live your best life. Let that situation go,

1879
01:18:19,080 --> 01:18:20,760
Speaker 3: and you know when he comes to terms with what

1880
01:18:20,880 --> 01:18:22,679
Speaker 3: he has going on. I don't even think y'all should

1881
01:18:22,680 --> 01:18:24,840
Speaker 3: be friends right now, like leg says, she feels like, no,

1882
01:18:25,000 --> 01:18:29,120
Speaker 3: you should, like yeah, but I don't think y'all should

1883
01:18:29,120 --> 01:18:31,200
Speaker 3: be communicating because you need to heal from the city.

1884
01:18:31,320 --> 01:18:33,040
Speaker 2: No, y'as why I said, you need to heal. But

1885
01:18:33,120 --> 01:18:35,680
Speaker 2: then also, you know, whenever you're healed, you know you

1886
01:18:35,760 --> 01:18:36,479
Speaker 2: can be a good friend.

1887
01:18:36,600 --> 01:18:37,040
Speaker 1: Yeah whenever.

1888
01:18:37,240 --> 01:18:39,559
Speaker 3: Whenever you healed, then maybe in the future y'all could

1889
01:18:39,560 --> 01:18:42,000
Speaker 3: be cool again. But yeah, you just need to let

1890
01:18:42,080 --> 01:18:44,920
Speaker 3: that go because I don't see anything come good coming

1891
01:18:45,000 --> 01:18:45,320
Speaker 3: from it.

1892
01:18:45,840 --> 01:18:46,519
Speaker 1: So that's always.

1893
01:18:46,520 --> 01:18:49,040
Speaker 2: If y'all have any advice that y'all need, just email

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01:18:49,200 --> 01:18:52,439
Speaker 2: us at ask poor Minds at gmail dot com.

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Speaker 1: And that's it. That's been another episode, y'all. Thanks for

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Speaker 1: listening you guys. Thanks.

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01:19:19,800 --> 01:19:21,679
Speaker 2: We're trying to get a really special guest for y'all

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Speaker 2: next week. Hopefully he'll link up with us.

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Speaker 1: Yes, hopefully he'll do.

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Speaker 2: That, but if not, we gonna have another special guest.

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Speaker 2: We don't have a special regardless, so just stay tuned

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Speaker 2: and we fuck with y'all. Thank y'all for fucking with us.

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Speaker 1: And as always, if y'all fuck with the podcast, make

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Speaker 1: I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: When y'all see me, y'all see me tweeting it, make

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Speaker 2: sure y'all press retweet like that's that ship spreads.

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Speaker 1: The word about podcast. So we're just trying to, you know,

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Speaker 1: make sure we spread the word.

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Speaker 3: About Keep reposting y'all screenshots, you know, every Wednesday when

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Speaker 3: the episodes come up. You know, we always appreciate that,

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Speaker 3: and we always try to make sure that we repost

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Speaker 3: everybody the text.

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Speaker 1: So you just keep doing it and spread the wires, y'all.

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Speaker 2: Yes, So this has been another episode of Poor Monds.

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Speaker 2: We'll see y'all next week.

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Speaker 1: Bye, y'all,