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Speaker 2: Well, what's the best one you think she could have done?

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Speaker 1: What is everyone saying? Everyone's saying red flag divorce?

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Speaker 1: giving me an ultimatum, him or her, No what you

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Speaker 1: Some would say a red flag. Yeah, I agree big time.

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Speaker 2: Well? Also right here, daddy, Daddy's in the check Daddy's

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Daddy Dossey for the one hundred bucks tip.

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: If you're talking to me, I can't read it because

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Speaker 1: a time, and Opie's wife was like, I don't want

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Speaker 1: that's crazy to me. So that's the tld R. Is

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Speaker 1: this the chat? Is a chat? Or is this the okay?

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Speaker 1: I no longer need a magnifying glass, bad Wolf Riley

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Speaker 1: gave me an old person chat John chat. John would

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Speaker 1: love this chat. Don't let him know that it's an often.

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Speaker 1: Can we scroll up? See Olivia says they cut him off,

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Speaker 1: but now are mad that he cut them off? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: they're so he basically blocked them, and now they're like,

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Speaker 1: why did he block us? That was so mean? Why

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Speaker 1: know we cut him off? But wild, let's keep reading

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Speaker 1: so we can we longer break then. Also, Sco, if

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Speaker 1: you're reading this, I'm so so sorry. I know what

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Speaker 4: Man.

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Speaker 1: Please talk to me. I understand if you don't want

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Speaker 1: If you don't want to be my friend anymore, I

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Speaker 1: And then edit. I've read every comment and I've tried

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Speaker 1: where everyone is coming from. I'm going to step a

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Speaker 1: know we would get I knew we would get a

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Speaker 2: They are trying their hardest, They're tu me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they're trying so hard. I just think it's kind

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Speaker 1: of it's really not just kind of. It's very outrageous

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Speaker 1: for him to try and find him at one If

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Speaker 1: you read it, he's like, Hey, Scott, I hope.

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Speaker 2: That's not his real name, because I think it is.

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Speaker 1: That's all so crazy. But also to say we all

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Speaker 1: miss you quote we all miss you man. No, no,

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Speaker 1: Kimberly Frizzle says, I couldn't imagine being cut off by everyone, wait,

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Speaker 1: by everyone for being a foster kid, something you have

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Speaker 1: no control over. Exactly. Oh, I thank you Ray Piers

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Speaker 1: for the eight bucks. Hello, Riley and Sophia. I just

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Speaker 1: had my first lupus infusion today and this is a

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Speaker 1: good way to celebrate it by watching all today. Congratulations

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Speaker 1: continue to go well. Elson, thank you for the donation.

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Speaker 1: What is Oh, it's lupus. I don't know the specifics

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Speaker 1: But it's I think it's like a type of maybe

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Speaker 1: I am not sure what like the symptoms and stuff.

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Speaker 2: And she's cool and she's cool.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Oh, it's an autoimmune disease. Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Oh nice? Not nice?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't want to. I don't know what's saying,

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Speaker 1: Horse says, what about your wife? Is she willing to

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Speaker 1: apologize and welcome him into your lives? Oh, he says,

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Speaker 1: I can't imagine having a friend, or like having a

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Speaker 1: and being like, Wow, actually, can you drop that friend

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Speaker 1: because their life is sad?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 1: What kind of privileged take is that? To be like

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Speaker 2: What come on? Yeah, I mean it is true. Whoever

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Speaker 2: you surround yourself by, Yeah, show me your five friends

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Speaker 2: and I'll show you who you are. They took that

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's like, my five friends have to be affluent

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Speaker 1: and cool and they can't have sad backstories and yeah,

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Speaker 1: and you know what you Yeah, you couldn't be friends

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Speaker 1: thank you, Menoria for the I don't how much is

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Speaker 1: that this? Six eighty five bucks? Hello, Sophia and Riley,

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Speaker 1: first time making it to an okop live. I'm so

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Speaker 1: glad that your first live could be my solo.

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Speaker 2: It could be my presence. It'd be me, not those

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Speaker 2: other stinky boys.

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Speaker 1: No boys in the chat. This is a boy's fazz.

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Speaker 2: Did you hear that? Let mean I'm a man, Let's

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Speaker 2: go No, you're a mama. Oh my god?

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Speaker 1: Okay, oh my goodness. Let's read more relevant comments. Klutzy

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Speaker 1: Plankton eighty nine thirty says his childhood made her uncomfortable.

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Speaker 1: Are you joking? What happens if the kids you supposedly

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Speaker 1: She's just sheltered and didn't deal with a lot of

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Speaker 1: worried he'll tell our future kids that and they'll become

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Speaker 1: sad and scared of life. What. Also, thank you, Lydia

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Speaker 1: Whittaker for the fifty bucks. I'm really able to watch

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Speaker 1: y'all for a bit. Love y'all love.

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Speaker 2: You, We love you too.

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Speaker 1: Ah. Why is he making excuses for her? He really

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Speaker 1: he's still making excuses for her. Yeah. Also, what kind

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Speaker 1: just it's bonkers to me for him to be like,

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Speaker 1: poor and have sad child What what Brown Eye Chick says? Oh, no,

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Speaker 1: This is this is really giving, like like the the

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Speaker 1: and they're like, oh, all the poor people, they're so sad.

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Speaker 1: Let's have our balls.

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Speaker 2: Can look at the peasants.

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Speaker 1: No, we must not look at the feudal cat class.

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Speaker 1: They're so sad. They're really depressing me.

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Speaker 2: Look how Sophia is different than that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I love you guys. I treat my my worms

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Speaker 1: with the utmost dignity.

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Speaker 2: Yep, She'll give you guys, the most fertile soil she

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, this is a this is a uh like

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Speaker 1: Why am I forgetting the word for the whatever?

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Speaker 2: I don't know?

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Speaker 1: No, I can only think of autocracy. Is that the word?

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Speaker 1: I can't think anarchy? I know it doesn't matter. Basically,

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying is I may be the queen, but

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Speaker 1: I really think of this as a sort of democracy.

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Speaker 2: A look at that archy.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry my brain leaves me at times. This is

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Speaker 1: a monarchy, but I really think of you all as

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Speaker 1: having a voice in my monarchy. Yes, let's read oh okay.

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Speaker 1: More relevant comments on the friend group cutting contact, Darkness

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Speaker 1: Beyond says, why did your friends go along with dropping

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Speaker 1: him over this? That makes no sense. Y'all ostracized a

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Speaker 1: don't subject this guy to any of you anymore. He

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, honestly, yeah, arshbudger Opie says, they didn't want to

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Speaker 1: so they just decided to not.

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Speaker 2: See them all.

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Speaker 1: They're like, it'll be really difficult if we have to

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Speaker 1: our part. Darkness Beyond says, is there some reason why

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Speaker 1: they all instantly sided with you. Nobody sided with him

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Speaker 1: at all. This makes zero sense, Opie says. From what

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Speaker 1: they've said, it seems they thought this was the easier option.

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Speaker 1: I'm not at all happy about it. And I asked

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Speaker 1: them to cut us off, oh, to cut us out

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Speaker 1: and not him, But it was too late and he

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Speaker 1: off that little a little I don't let you just

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Speaker 1: saw it.

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Speaker 2: He found it.

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Speaker 1: He found it. Scott finds the post and the comments.

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Speaker 1: So it's about to get hell juicy. But before it does,

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Speaker 1: TLDR really quick. Uh. Opie had a childhood friend who

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Speaker 2: Uh.

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Speaker 1: And then Opie got married and oh my god, Frederick,

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Speaker 1: thank you for bucks you are Wow, we're already almost

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Speaker 1: at the one hour. Thank you, Frederick King, Frederick King.

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Speaker 1: Frederick is a part of the monarchy. Oh wow, Wow,

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Speaker 1: you've done it again, constantly raising the bar for.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 2: Wait.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm gonna tell you the the dr but I'm

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Speaker 1: still in shock, and I love you. Put some kings

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Speaker 1: in the chat, put some Frederick's in the chid King

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Speaker 1: crowns in the chat, all all of that in the chat,

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Speaker 1: g LGR Where was I Ope? He is about to

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Speaker 1: off his childhood friend for being in foster care system

433
00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:22,840
Speaker 1: because she thinks that he'll make his their future kids

434
00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:25,960
Speaker 1: sat which is wild. And then they felt bad and

435
00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:28,000
Speaker 1: so they tried, Oh, they blocked him, and then they

436
00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:30,639
Speaker 1: felt bad about it, and they tried to basically like

437
00:23:30,760 --> 00:23:34,160
Speaker 1: reach out to him again. And where we left off

438
00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:38,399
Speaker 1: is the friend found these comments is about to maybe bite,

439
00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:42,320
Speaker 1: you know, by back. Thank you Daddy Jesse for the

440
00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:43,480
Speaker 1: twenty three books.

441
00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:45,960
Speaker 2: Looks like we're gone for another.

442
00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:50,480
Speaker 1: We're another hour and the evens are winning, Evans are winning,

443
00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:53,560
Speaker 1: and we're going for another hour. Also before we get

444
00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:57,560
Speaker 1: into this juicy, juicy update where Scott the foster care

445
00:23:57,600 --> 00:24:01,520
Speaker 1: friend is about to bite back clap back if we back,

446
00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:04,960
Speaker 1: do we have a spin the wheel?

447
00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:09,800
Speaker 2: I don't, guys, give me some suggestions to what you

448
00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:11,199
Speaker 2: want to spin the wheel to look like?

449
00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:13,439
Speaker 1: Should they put that in the chat or put in

450
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:13,720
Speaker 1: the chat?

451
00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:14,920
Speaker 2: Put in the chat, put in the chat?

452
00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:18,520
Speaker 1: You want wheel ideas for me and Riley, because we're

453
00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:21,720
Speaker 1: the only people here right now. Yes, in the chat,

454
00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:26,040
Speaker 1: and Riley will update the wheel. And then I think,

455
00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:27,960
Speaker 1: maybe at what are we at?

456
00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:28,080
Speaker 5: Like?

457
00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:29,639
Speaker 1: What should we do?

458
00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:30,400
Speaker 2: What do you want?

459
00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:31,119
Speaker 1: Amount of likes?

460
00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:33,240
Speaker 2: I don't know, what do you What should the people do?

461
00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:37,000
Speaker 1: I don't know? Maybe like at three three hundred likes?

462
00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:37,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, because.

463
00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:41,320
Speaker 1: Of you, there's four hundred and fifty nine of you,

464
00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:43,679
Speaker 1: and you could easily get to three hundred likes if

465
00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:47,359
Speaker 1: you really really try, if you really love me, you

466
00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:52,440
Speaker 1: do this for me. Okay, at for three hundred likes,

467
00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:56,159
Speaker 1: we will spin the wheel. Please put your spin the

468
00:24:56,200 --> 00:25:03,200
Speaker 1: wheel suggestions in the chat. Let's get on to this update. Alrighty.

469
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Speaker 1: Also welcome new Little Silly's member EB five x Ooh hello,

470
00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:14,040
Speaker 1: all right, no Art seventy three twenty one. Who I

471
00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:20,480
Speaker 1: think is Scott? Go f yourself, James not the docs?

472
00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:25,159
Speaker 1: WHOA Well, it seems like he was docs. If his

473
00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:28,680
Speaker 1: name was really Scott, maybe I blocked you because you're

474
00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:31,320
Speaker 1: cutting me off. Showed me who you really are. So

475
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:35,400
Speaker 1: true icon icon behavior icon side note, Let's not act

476
00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:37,919
Speaker 1: like Cindy didn't want me around because of my childhood.

477
00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:40,840
Speaker 1: She's never liked me. I tried to be nicer, but

478
00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:42,639
Speaker 1: she had made her mind up as soon as I

479
00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:50,640
Speaker 1: met her. Dogsing James and Cindy, and I mean they

480
00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:54,080
Speaker 1: deserve it, Yeah, no they do. They suck. Also, thank

481
00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:56,399
Speaker 1: you Caitlin for the five bucks. Sophia, I hope your

482
00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:59,200
Speaker 1: solo life goes great. Just running errand so unfortunately can't

483
00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:01,880
Speaker 1: walk watch, but I'm getting all of you. More cheese

484
00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:04,399
Speaker 1: and the boys, more meats. Love y'all.

485
00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:15,520
Speaker 2: Geeze, I love cheese. Not much protein yesterday. Oh my gosh.

486
00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:17,720
Speaker 1: We'll talk about it after this updates. So it's about

487
00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:21,320
Speaker 1: to get real. Jose, I know she didn't want me

488
00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:23,400
Speaker 1: to be your best man, and I know this isn't

489
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:26,280
Speaker 1: the first time she's tried to remove me from your life.

490
00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:32,359
Speaker 1: Enjoy your shitty marriage. I love this drama. When she

491
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:34,920
Speaker 1: finally does cut you off as well, don't come crying

492
00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:37,600
Speaker 1: to me, don't bother me with your BS letter. I

493
00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:40,960
Speaker 1: don't want it. Keep the keys to my place. I'm chaking,

494
00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:45,480
Speaker 1: I'm changing the locks. I'm used to being alone. It's

495
00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:48,680
Speaker 1: better than putting up with either of you. Oh my god,

496
00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:50,040
Speaker 1: I don't know if I can say that, but you

497
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:51,840
Speaker 1: guys can read it. I can say it.

498
00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:59,720
Speaker 2: You can say it, eat shit and die hunt. I

499
00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:02,040
Speaker 2: don't know if you could say I don't like that way,

500
00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 2: I don't like it.

501
00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:06,960
Speaker 1: Makes me feel bad. But he called he called them

502
00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:10,600
Speaker 1: the C word. Also thank you Lydia Whitaker for the

503
00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:14,040
Speaker 1: twenty bucks. Sophia does Riley's makeup for the Wheel. I

504
00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:16,919
Speaker 1: for sure can I will. I will let you know.

505
00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 1: I'm not very good at makeup. I'm not. I do

506
00:27:19,560 --> 00:27:21,160
Speaker 1: a very limited amount of makeup because.

507
00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:23,080
Speaker 2: I can't take what kind of makeup we're talking about?

508
00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:26,239
Speaker 2: What do you want? What do I get? I don't know.

509
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:27,800
Speaker 1: Okay, well we'll think about it. We'll think about it.

510
00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:31,800
Speaker 1: Also thank you Bree Cheese, my favorite type of cheese

511
00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:33,800
Speaker 1: for the ten bucks. Been hanging with you guys stream

512
00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:36,240
Speaker 1: for a while while studying for n C L e X.

513
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:40,360
Speaker 1: I don't know what the I passed. Congratulations, congrats then

514
00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:45,080
Speaker 1: thanks for being my study buddies. Currently applying now amazing,

515
00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:46,200
Speaker 1: That's really incredible.

516
00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:48,240
Speaker 2: Someone's like we study with you guys.

517
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:49,840
Speaker 1: I'm so impressed.

518
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:53,200
Speaker 2: I am confused, truly, I'm like, how I have to

519
00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:54,800
Speaker 2: use music? I cannot yeah.

520
00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:58,480
Speaker 1: Anything with the words it's very tricky. But back to

521
00:27:58,560 --> 00:27:59,560
Speaker 1: this Scot update.

522
00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:00,600
Speaker 2: Oh, already get this one.

523
00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:03,639
Speaker 1: I did that one. Okay, back to the Scott update.

524
00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:05,919
Speaker 1: That's freaking juicy. He really said, have you seen like

525
00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:11,640
Speaker 1: the the rally thing from uh dar, don't call me,

526
00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:15,360
Speaker 1: don't buy my house. That's what this is.

527
00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:17,320
Speaker 2: That's what this is.

528
00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:21,399
Speaker 1: I love that, and I love that for him because

529
00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:22,800
Speaker 1: these people are toxic.

530
00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:23,800
Speaker 2: They are so toxic.

531
00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:26,240
Speaker 1: The first class says, Audio has gone for me. Can

532
00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:28,919
Speaker 1: everyone else hear me? Can you hear me?

533
00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:34,240
Speaker 2: Can you see me? Maybe? Maybe maybe it's just you.

534
00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:39,719
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Manolia says, I'm I'm hoping I'm pronounced. If

535
00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:42,160
Speaker 1: I'm not, I'm studying PhD and preparing student lamps with

536
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:46,520
Speaker 1: you on background. So other people do this too. But yeah,

537
00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:50,800
Speaker 1: so back to this story. I feel so bad for

538
00:28:50,880 --> 00:28:54,200
Speaker 1: poor Scott. Uh, and I'm glad that he clapped back because, oh,

539
00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:58,200
Speaker 1: he continues, there's more, there's more, sat back. Uh, it's

540
00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:01,440
Speaker 1: all good, not your faults. Who's he saying this to?

541
00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:04,120
Speaker 1: Is he saying it's all good?

542
00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:06,760
Speaker 2: I think he's saying it to Jarmes James.

543
00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:09,200
Speaker 1: Oh, I don't know, maybe saying it's to a commentary.

544
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:11,760
Speaker 1: We'll find out it's all good, not your fault. Life

545
00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:14,280
Speaker 1: isn't always rosy and fun. I've been reading all the

546
00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:16,840
Speaker 1: comments and it's been kind of a cathartic to read James

547
00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:19,960
Speaker 1: try and cover for himself and his wife while also

548
00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:22,720
Speaker 1: trying to act like he cares, only to be shut

549
00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:25,800
Speaker 1: down by everyone. I know I shouldn't find joy in it,

550
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:29,120
Speaker 1: but it is fun. I'll be okay. Life moves forwards,

551
00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:33,760
Speaker 1: onwards and upwards. And there is an update I think

552
00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:37,760
Speaker 1: from Scott. I think this is from Scott's Oh, and

553
00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:45,800
Speaker 1: then there's another update from James. This is getting ooh messy.

554
00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:48,560
Speaker 1: No one will get this. But has anyone seen the

555
00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:52,520
Speaker 1: really old Frosty the Snowman movie. It's like an animated

556
00:29:52,560 --> 00:29:55,560
Speaker 1: movie and there's a part where the evil guy in

557
00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:57,560
Speaker 1: it he gets an egg cracked on him and he

558
00:29:57,600 --> 00:30:01,960
Speaker 1: goes miss And whenever we say messy, I think about

559
00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:04,720
Speaker 1: it and I feel like no one will get it.

560
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:07,040
Speaker 1: But if you've seen that movie, do you remember him

561
00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:12,040
Speaker 1: going messy? Seem messy because it's on repeat in my brain.

562
00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:17,680
Speaker 1: Oh my god, but thank you. Jelba says, I'm old.

563
00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:20,080
Speaker 1: I get it. Am I old? Is that why I

564
00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:22,920
Speaker 1: know it. I had it on DVD and I watched

565
00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:26,120
Speaker 1: it almost every Christmas. Mister yeah, keep no, it was

566
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:28,120
Speaker 1: at mister heat miser. Maybe he's in that movie, but

567
00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:31,360
Speaker 1: that wasn't It was like this magician. It was a

568
00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:36,280
Speaker 1: magician anyway, you gotta yeah. AnyWho, let's get into this update.

569
00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:39,120
Speaker 1: I'm sorry we're yapping, but that's what this stream is.

570
00:30:39,160 --> 00:30:40,560
Speaker 1: When it's Riley and I we app.

571
00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:42,120
Speaker 2: We just yeap. Yeah.

572
00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:46,920
Speaker 1: First update, I cut my best friend off. Oh wait, no,

573
00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:50,200
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I skip forward. Update advice on how to

574
00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:55,240
Speaker 1: make friends in your mid twenties. Ah, God's having to

575
00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:57,600
Speaker 1: start over. He's like, I need new friends. My old

576
00:30:57,600 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 1: friends suck. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Background. I

577
00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:06,120
Speaker 1: had what I thought was a solid friend group, but

578
00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:09,760
Speaker 1: they have since decided to move away from me figuratively speaking,

579
00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 1: because my ex best MAT's wife doesn't think I fit

580
00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:15,800
Speaker 1: into the perfect life she's trying to create, and the

581
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:18,760
Speaker 1: rest are following because they don't want to cause drama.

582
00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:21,760
Speaker 1: I have since tried to make new friends but haven't

583
00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:25,240
Speaker 1: had any luck. I met a chill, bloke British people

584
00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:27,600
Speaker 1: at my gym and we have worked out together a

585
00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:29,640
Speaker 1: couple of times. I asked him if he wanted to

586
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:31,600
Speaker 1: grab a beer, but he wasn't really interested.

587
00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:31,880
Speaker 5: No.

588
00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:35,520
Speaker 1: God, I'm not that interested in making real friends at

589
00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:39,920
Speaker 1: work because my job is pretty stressful and I don't

590
00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:42,160
Speaker 1: want to think about it outside of work hours. I

591
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:43,880
Speaker 1: get along with them all, but I'd rather have a

592
00:31:43,920 --> 00:31:46,520
Speaker 1: proper break from that when I'm not working. Yeah, I

593
00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:48,720
Speaker 1: can't imagine being friends with people you work with.

594
00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:51,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, it sounds like a strain.

595
00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:57,880
Speaker 1: Uh, persa, griba. Where is Sam? He and John are

596
00:31:57,880 --> 00:31:59,680
Speaker 1: not here today, and this is my stream. They might

597
00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:04,640
Speaker 1: come in here, but for now it's my streamp continues.

598
00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:07,840
Speaker 1: I'd love any advice for how a guy in his

599
00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:10,160
Speaker 1: mid twenties can make some friends without coming off as

600
00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:14,040
Speaker 1: desperate or just bothering people. Thank you in advance, and

601
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 1: there is an update. Let's talk about that because I'm

602
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:21,240
Speaker 1: in my early twenties and it is hard to make friends. Yeah,

603
00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:23,400
Speaker 1: it is hard to make friends, especially when you lose

604
00:32:23,440 --> 00:32:26,880
Speaker 1: all of your friends or like you move away from

605
00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:27,719
Speaker 1: all of your friends.

606
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:30,400
Speaker 2: I would say what I did, Yeah, I mean I

607
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 2: sucked on the teat of Sam's friendships that he's made

608
00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:34,640
Speaker 2: over the years.

609
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:37,080
Speaker 1: Honestly, so have I. I mean I still have friends

610
00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:39,440
Speaker 1: who are in Santa Monica and then friends in the

611
00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:42,560
Speaker 1: you know, from where I grew up. But I just

612
00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:46,640
Speaker 1: kind of jumped on the backs of Sam's friendships.

613
00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:49,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I played basketball. That's helped, and also

614
00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 2: like gone out basketball, going to church, I think, just

615
00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:56,680
Speaker 2: like doing other group things. But it's hard to find

616
00:32:57,080 --> 00:32:58,280
Speaker 2: third places.

617
00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:01,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, well that's the third places are disappearing. And if

618
00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:04,240
Speaker 1: anyone doesn't know what like the third place concept is,

619
00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:07,000
Speaker 1: it's basically something that's not your work, not your home.

620
00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:10,360
Speaker 1: It's a third space where you can go and create

621
00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:15,680
Speaker 1: community or have community, which you could think of that

622
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:18,720
Speaker 1: as like in college. That's there's a lot of third

623
00:33:18,760 --> 00:33:22,600
Speaker 1: spaces in colleges and stuff. But yeah, it's not as common,

624
00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:25,520
Speaker 1: especially in America. I would say, yeah, but I would

625
00:33:25,520 --> 00:33:27,840
Speaker 1: say if you're looking for friendships in your mid twenties,

626
00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:33,880
Speaker 1: op definitely doing some sort of like extra quote unquote

627
00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:38,760
Speaker 1: extracurricular where you're seeing people like the same people a lot,

628
00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:41,000
Speaker 1: like at least every week, Like you're going, I don't know,

629
00:33:41,440 --> 00:33:46,000
Speaker 1: doing some sort of pottery class or yeah, like I

630
00:33:46,040 --> 00:33:47,640
Speaker 1: was doing an improv class and I was seeing those

631
00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:50,160
Speaker 1: people twice a week for six weeks, and now I

632
00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:51,720
Speaker 1: have friends in that class, and so I feel like,

633
00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:55,320
Speaker 1: if you're forced proximity friendships, that's how you do it,

634
00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:57,360
Speaker 1: because that's how we made friends in school. We had

635
00:33:57,360 --> 00:33:59,720
Speaker 1: to see them every day and then we became friends

636
00:33:59,720 --> 00:34:02,960
Speaker 1: with them. You had no choice, Yeah, we had no choice.

637
00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:07,320
Speaker 1: We can you scroll up a little bit. Robin Child says,

638
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:09,920
Speaker 1: I'm in a different city and need advice too. Well,

639
00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:12,319
Speaker 1: I go to church, but I'm probably one of the

640
00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:17,880
Speaker 1: youngest there. Yeah, maybe finding like I don't know, like

641
00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:20,160
Speaker 1: if you can find a church that hater's kind of

642
00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:23,799
Speaker 1: to younger people, yeah, possibly, or sometimes they have like

643
00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:27,319
Speaker 1: I don't know, Riley, this is more your area. Are

644
00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:28,080
Speaker 1: there any like.

645
00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:31,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I would say churches that have younger people,

646
00:34:31,440 --> 00:34:33,800
Speaker 2: or they have like youth events or like young adults.

647
00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:36,720
Speaker 2: That usually helps. Don't be afraid to like shop around,

648
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:37,800
Speaker 2: see what's the good vibe.

649
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:41,279
Speaker 1: I crave fried chicken things for the five bucks. I

650
00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:45,759
Speaker 1: threw Sam into the pit for our Lord. Yes, you

651
00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:49,560
Speaker 1: must make sacrifices sometimes you must. The way things. I

652
00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:53,719
Speaker 1: also think, well, when I was traveling, and again, you

653
00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:56,120
Speaker 1: know you're traveling with people who are looking for friends.

654
00:34:57,239 --> 00:34:59,640
Speaker 2: Being in a different country rather than America, finding friends.

655
00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:02,239
Speaker 1: I thought it was very easy. But again, I am

656
00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:04,640
Speaker 1: like a person who wanted to go out and make

657
00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:09,400
Speaker 1: friends and talk to people and make those connections. But people,

658
00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:11,880
Speaker 1: every like a lot more people than you think are

659
00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:14,960
Speaker 1: looking for friendships. If you are at a I don't know.

660
00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:17,399
Speaker 1: Sometimes you can just go up to people and start

661
00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:19,800
Speaker 1: talking to them, and you're you can be like, do

662
00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:23,040
Speaker 1: you want you want to be friends? Sometimes it is

663
00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:26,280
Speaker 1: not easy. You could just be like hey, Also, sometimes

664
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:27,719
Speaker 1: you can kind of joke about it and you could

665
00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:30,000
Speaker 1: be like, yeah, we're best friends now, you know. I

666
00:35:30,040 --> 00:35:31,800
Speaker 1: sometimes do that when I just meet someone, I'm like,

667
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:34,000
Speaker 1: you're my best friend, and then you kind of play

668
00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:36,040
Speaker 1: that up and then you have a friend. I met

669
00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:38,440
Speaker 1: a person at a party who doesn't like Literally I

670
00:35:38,480 --> 00:35:41,239
Speaker 1: met them once and they don't live here, they live

671
00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:46,240
Speaker 1: in Chicago, and now we're friends. We still chat at that. Yeah,

672
00:35:46,280 --> 00:35:50,440
Speaker 1: so it can't happen. It definitely is hard.

673
00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:54,600
Speaker 2: Putting yourself out there, Scott, put yourself out there.

674
00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:57,319
Speaker 1: Everyone wants to make friends, and I feel like there

675
00:35:57,360 --> 00:36:00,000
Speaker 1: is this kind of fear, especially as you get older,

676
00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:02,200
Speaker 1: that you can't just go up to people and be like,

677
00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:05,359
Speaker 1: maybe not necessarily the quote like I want to be friends,

678
00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:06,719
Speaker 1: but you can't just go up to people and talk

679
00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:09,160
Speaker 1: to them. But everyone, I mean, as long as you're

680
00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:11,640
Speaker 1: being respectful and they're not like, I don't know, wearing headphones,

681
00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:16,319
Speaker 1: a lot of people can be open to it. That's

682
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:18,600
Speaker 1: my advice for friendships. But it is hard and I

683
00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:22,400
Speaker 1: recognize that, especially if you are more introverted. Yeah, but

684
00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:24,440
Speaker 1: let's get back into the story. Sorry, there was a

685
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:30,600
Speaker 1: tangent about friends update and this is from James, who

686
00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:35,720
Speaker 1: was the original Opie who cut off his friend theop.

687
00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:40,080
Speaker 1: Do we need a TILDR you think? Okay, okay, we're

688
00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:43,279
Speaker 1: gonna put it right here, but quick til dr original

689
00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:47,600
Speaker 1: op cut off his best friend from childhood because his

690
00:36:47,680 --> 00:36:52,440
Speaker 1: wife was like, your best friend's childhood was sad and

691
00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:54,439
Speaker 1: he was a foster cared and I don't care kid,

692
00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:56,680
Speaker 1: and I don't want him around our kids, and so

693
00:36:56,880 --> 00:36:59,360
Speaker 1: they cut him off. All of their group friend groups

694
00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:03,440
Speaker 1: cut them off. Uh, and then this friend that was

695
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:05,800
Speaker 1: cut off basically clap back and now they're kind of

696
00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:06,479
Speaker 1: fighting and Reddit.

697
00:37:07,080 --> 00:37:07,719
Speaker 2: Yeah.

698
00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:10,279
Speaker 1: Also, thank you Miles for the ten bucks. Loving all

699
00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:12,840
Speaker 1: these streams. Love you, guys, don't forget to like the

700
00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:13,680
Speaker 1: stream chat?

701
00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:15,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, do you even want to spin the work?

702
00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:17,960
Speaker 1: Do you even want to spin the wheel? Also about conkling,

703
00:37:18,080 --> 00:37:21,520
Speaker 1: I feel like that was a completed thought. Wow, I

704
00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:24,160
Speaker 1: feel like that was I tried really hard.

705
00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:24,799
Speaker 2: She did it.

706
00:37:24,840 --> 00:37:27,840
Speaker 1: Guys, unless you were saying like it was a completed

707
00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:31,080
Speaker 1: thought and you were like being mad, they okay, then

708
00:37:31,080 --> 00:37:36,240
Speaker 1: thank you. I'm proud about it. Also, we are math

709
00:37:36,280 --> 00:37:37,160
Speaker 1: away from three.

710
00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:39,520
Speaker 2: Hundred likes mathway math away.

711
00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:43,520
Speaker 1: Wow. Yeah, let's get into this update while we wait

712
00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:48,040
Speaker 1: for that math to happen. So throw crappy Friend, which

713
00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:51,799
Speaker 1: is again original Opie James. I'll be honest, I wasn't

714
00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:53,680
Speaker 1: sure if I was ever going to come back to

715
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:57,120
Speaker 1: Reddit after my last post, but I need somewhere to vent,

716
00:37:57,280 --> 00:38:00,080
Speaker 1: so here seems as good as place as any. My

717
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:03,640
Speaker 1: last post received probably a well deserved level of hate.

718
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:06,040
Speaker 1: I understand that I fed up when I cut my

719
00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:09,200
Speaker 1: friend off. I imagine anyone reading this only really cares

720
00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:12,240
Speaker 1: about how he's doing. So I'll start with what little

721
00:38:12,320 --> 00:38:15,600
Speaker 1: I know. We haven't spoken. Really, he found my post

722
00:38:15,680 --> 00:38:17,839
Speaker 1: and sent me a message telling me he doesn't care

723
00:38:17,880 --> 00:38:21,120
Speaker 1: if I was remorseful, he's done with me. He also

724
00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:23,759
Speaker 1: told my parents what happened and the reasoning behind it.

725
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:26,880
Speaker 1: They were pissed, to put it lightly, They've been pretty

726
00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:29,279
Speaker 1: open about how much they're disappointed in me and how

727
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:33,680
Speaker 1: they are disgusted with my wife. He hasn't really spoken

728
00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:35,600
Speaker 1: to them other than to let them know what happened.

729
00:38:35,880 --> 00:38:38,920
Speaker 1: My mom is heartbroken. She really loved him, and now

730
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:42,520
Speaker 1: he isn't replying to her messages. The only other thing

731
00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:44,719
Speaker 1: I've heard is that he's speaking to his ex again.

732
00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:48,160
Speaker 1: She cheated on him. Why is he blasting him? She

733
00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:50,640
Speaker 1: cheated on him, and I know he's probably only speaking

734
00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 1: to her for some support. Yeah, that's what happens when

735
00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:54,520
Speaker 1: friends leave you.

736
00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:55,000
Speaker 2: Phew.

737
00:38:57,480 --> 00:38:59,560
Speaker 1: I guess I'm worried he'll give her another chance and

738
00:38:59,600 --> 00:39:03,560
Speaker 1: she'll hurt him again, hypocrite. Other than that, I don't

739
00:39:03,560 --> 00:39:06,760
Speaker 1: know anything. Lots of messages telling me to divorce my wife.

740
00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:08,480
Speaker 1: Well you might get what you want.

741
00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:15,120
Speaker 2: What WHOA? I wonder what the statistic of people going

742
00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:16,880
Speaker 2: to Reddit and then divorce.

743
00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:21,080
Speaker 1: Maybe it's a lot. Yeah, our relationship has taken a

744
00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:23,480
Speaker 1: massive dive off a cliff, and I don't see a

745
00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:26,480
Speaker 1: way to repair it. To those telling me that something

746
00:39:26,560 --> 00:39:28,640
Speaker 1: must have happened between them, I can only say this,

747
00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:31,960
Speaker 1: he's not that sort of person. He'd never betray someone

748
00:39:32,040 --> 00:39:33,560
Speaker 1: like that. I don't know if I can say the

749
00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:36,000
Speaker 1: same for my wife anymore, given how she's manipulated me

750
00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:38,520
Speaker 1: into ditching my best mates. She didn't have to manitulate that.

751
00:39:38,600 --> 00:39:41,120
Speaker 1: You that hard, you did it. Don't don't try to

752
00:39:41,120 --> 00:39:43,640
Speaker 1: blame this all on her. She sucks, but you do too.

753
00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:46,920
Speaker 1: But I know he's not the sort of person to

754
00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:49,879
Speaker 1: participate in that. It seems that she didn't like him

755
00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:52,720
Speaker 1: and wanted him gone, use the potential of us starting

756
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:56,799
Speaker 1: a family to make a move to remove him. So

757
00:39:57,120 --> 00:39:59,879
Speaker 1: to recap, my parents hate me. My best friend won't

758
00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:02,360
Speaker 1: to me. He's now talking to his ax, who cheated

759
00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:04,840
Speaker 1: on him and broke him last year. My marriage is

760
00:40:04,880 --> 00:40:08,640
Speaker 1: probably broken beyond repair. I don't see any real way

761
00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:10,560
Speaker 1: to fix things, but I guess I'm wondering if there's

762
00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:13,240
Speaker 1: any possible way to fix things with him. If anyone

763
00:40:13,280 --> 00:40:15,759
Speaker 1: has any advice, i'd appreciate it. I miss him more

764
00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:19,399
Speaker 1: than anything, and there is I think. Oh, there's two

765
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:24,080
Speaker 1: more updates. Okay, maybe yeah, two more updates from Scott

766
00:40:24,400 --> 00:40:24,800
Speaker 1: the friend.

767
00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:26,920
Speaker 2: So it kind of seems like his head's getting on

768
00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:27,520
Speaker 2: straight here.

769
00:40:28,120 --> 00:40:31,799
Speaker 1: Well, it seems like he's it seems like he did

770
00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:34,279
Speaker 1: realize that he did a sucky thing, but that's too little,

771
00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:37,080
Speaker 1: too late, Like he doesn't deserve that friendship with Scott

772
00:40:37,120 --> 00:40:39,359
Speaker 1: anymore because he made a stinky man move.

773
00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:41,480
Speaker 2: But okay, he made a sticky man move, but you

774
00:40:41,480 --> 00:40:44,160
Speaker 2: think it was because the wife. Love is blind. Love

775
00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:47,960
Speaker 2: makes people blind, and that's the reason why he was

776
00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:49,640
Speaker 2: saying all this stuff and did everything because he was

777
00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:53,200
Speaker 2: trying to please his wife. And now since he's like

778
00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:56,600
Speaker 2: looking a little clearer, he's like, I really hate what

779
00:40:56,680 --> 00:40:58,919
Speaker 2: I did and said to him, yeah, but like.

780
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:02,960
Speaker 1: You have to take responcibility, which it seems like he was.

781
00:41:03,239 --> 00:41:06,000
Speaker 1: In the previous things. He was still defending him and

782
00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:08,640
Speaker 1: his wife, saying like, oh, we we really you know,

783
00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:11,640
Speaker 1: we didn't. We were just like we hadn't thought about it.

784
00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:13,760
Speaker 1: We didn't really realize that it was a bad idea

785
00:41:13,840 --> 00:41:19,160
Speaker 1: until after. Like you can realize that you made a mistake,

786
00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:22,040
Speaker 1: but that doesn't mean that the person that you hurt

787
00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:26,520
Speaker 1: owes you a second chance. Because he cut all of

788
00:41:26,560 --> 00:41:29,120
Speaker 1: his friends off, like you do not oh he does.

789
00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:33,480
Speaker 1: Scott does not owe James the second chance. Yeah. Also,

790
00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:37,200
Speaker 1: I'm hoping that this guy gets a divorce because they

791
00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:39,840
Speaker 1: seem like a really toxic couple. Anyway, that's a sad,

792
00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:48,439
Speaker 1: big divorce chance. In the chat, Wait, I had a thought,

793
00:41:48,480 --> 00:41:51,120
Speaker 1: but it's gone though. I guess it didn't really matter.

794
00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:52,760
Speaker 2: Fernando, I hope you're okay.

795
00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:58,200
Speaker 1: What happened to Fernando just jumped on three. Oh, I'm

796
00:41:58,200 --> 00:42:01,799
Speaker 1: not gonna read that for Nan. No, I hope you're okay.

797
00:42:02,239 --> 00:42:04,680
Speaker 1: Manolia says, I don't understand the wife. You don't like

798
00:42:04,680 --> 00:42:06,600
Speaker 1: the best friend, but the friend is part of that

799
00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:10,120
Speaker 1: person you married to. He'll he'll become miserable without their

800
00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:14,359
Speaker 1: initial support system. Yeah, it's all. It's definitely a sign

801
00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:16,959
Speaker 1: of like kind of abuse when you try and cut

802
00:42:16,960 --> 00:42:18,520
Speaker 1: people off from their friends.

803
00:42:18,239 --> 00:42:21,040
Speaker 2: Dude, and that sucks for Scott. Scott like his support

804
00:42:21,120 --> 00:42:23,759
Speaker 2: system gone. I don't even know what his family looks like,

805
00:42:23,840 --> 00:42:27,120
Speaker 2: and like he has he's going back to his ex, yeah,

806
00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:29,280
Speaker 2: to like connection.

807
00:42:29,600 --> 00:42:34,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, he doesn't have that support system at all, except

808
00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:40,000
Speaker 1: for the supposed friend James, who's his parents, you know,

809
00:42:40,080 --> 00:42:42,280
Speaker 1: who still have an attachment to James. So that's already

810
00:42:42,280 --> 00:42:45,920
Speaker 1: pretty complicated. Praise also, little worm that thank you for

811
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:48,880
Speaker 1: the six twenty nine bucks listening on two times to

812
00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:54,080
Speaker 1: catch up. Worm queen, you wound like an actual Oh

813
00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:58,000
Speaker 1: I'm wound like an actual yeah, in the in the

814
00:42:58,000 --> 00:43:01,280
Speaker 1: before we get into the other sound, Oh, you sound

815
00:43:01,360 --> 00:43:02,160
Speaker 1: like an actual worm.

816
00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:06,360
Speaker 2: Worm queen, you sound like an actual worm or wound?

817
00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:07,839
Speaker 1: What is it? Okay?

818
00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:10,520
Speaker 2: Well, if it's it's just close to w If.

819
00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:14,080
Speaker 1: It sound, what does a worm sound like? Tell me

820
00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:18,080
Speaker 1: that if it's wound, that makes sense because I'm kind

821
00:43:18,080 --> 00:43:22,560
Speaker 1: of screamed groomed up. What does a worm sound like?

822
00:43:23,280 --> 00:43:26,799
Speaker 1: I guess it sounds like me. Carmel Sita Vittorias. Oh,

823
00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:28,080
Speaker 1: thank you for the two bucks.

824
00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:28,799
Speaker 2: Appreciate it.

825
00:43:30,200 --> 00:43:33,520
Speaker 1: But let's get in to this juicy.

826
00:43:34,880 --> 00:43:36,720
Speaker 2: Update. Yeah, and then at the end of the story

827
00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:40,320
Speaker 2: we will spit the will. I got some good stuff

828
00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:40,560
Speaker 2: on it.

829
00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:42,680
Speaker 1: We got some good stuff from y'all starning. I don't

830
00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:44,239
Speaker 1: know what they are because I haven't been looking at

831
00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:49,520
Speaker 1: the chat. All right, so this is from Scott, who

832
00:43:49,560 --> 00:43:51,400
Speaker 1: is the foster care friend.

833
00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:53,880
Speaker 2: Hey, y'all, the orphan.

834
00:43:56,040 --> 00:43:59,279
Speaker 1: We were actually talking about you really quickly. What is

835
00:43:59,320 --> 00:44:01,600
Speaker 1: the age that like you have to lose your parents

836
00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:03,760
Speaker 1: to be considered an orphan. Is it eighteen?

837
00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:06,120
Speaker 2: Is it eighteen or is it at any age?

838
00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:07,319
Speaker 1: Or is it any age?

839
00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:07,520
Speaker 5: All right?

840
00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:10,759
Speaker 2: Let us know getting me into hey, y'all.

841
00:44:11,040 --> 00:44:14,000
Speaker 1: Firstly, I want to thank everyone for the incredible comments

842
00:44:14,000 --> 00:44:16,560
Speaker 1: and messages I've received over the last couple of days.

843
00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:18,560
Speaker 1: I know a bunch of people are here because of

844
00:44:18,560 --> 00:44:22,240
Speaker 1: a certain someone's post. I appreciate all the incredible support

845
00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:26,240
Speaker 1: I've gotten since then, whether by comment or chat request.

846
00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:28,840
Speaker 1: You're all such kind people who It's truly brought a

847
00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:32,359
Speaker 1: tear to my eye reading them all so sweet. I'm

848
00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:34,160
Speaker 1: going to try and get back to them all. But

849
00:44:34,200 --> 00:44:35,960
Speaker 1: I've had a rough couple of days, as I'm sure

850
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:38,279
Speaker 1: you can imagine, not just from reading that BS that

851
00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:40,640
Speaker 1: he wrote, but work has also been pretty stressful lately

852
00:44:40,680 --> 00:44:43,080
Speaker 1: on top of it, and I've struggled to keep up

853
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:45,960
Speaker 1: with all the notifications. Please just know you're all awesome.

854
00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:48,760
Speaker 1: I'll try and make an effort to reply to everyone

855
00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:51,880
Speaker 1: this weekend. Secondly, to answer some of the more common

856
00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:54,919
Speaker 1: questions I've received lately, I have no intention of letting

857
00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:58,640
Speaker 1: James or his friends back into my life. Good as

858
00:44:58,680 --> 00:45:01,759
Speaker 1: my mantra goes. They made their decision, so I'm going

859
00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:05,319
Speaker 1: to make mine. I'm moving on with my life. I'll

860
00:45:05,400 --> 00:45:08,640
Speaker 1: bait alone, but that's life sometimes. Secondly, Part two, I'm

861
00:45:08,719 --> 00:45:11,440
Speaker 1: not much of a gamer, but I'm seriously considering getting

862
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:14,080
Speaker 1: more into it, and I'm so appreciative of all the

863
00:45:14,120 --> 00:45:19,080
Speaker 1: comments and messages offering to squat up for some games. Yeah,

864
00:45:19,560 --> 00:45:22,480
Speaker 1: you can also get friends through gaming, like Discord or whatever.

865
00:45:23,120 --> 00:45:25,040
Speaker 1: I'm not at that point just yet, but please know

866
00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:26,640
Speaker 1: what I am. I have a lot of people who

867
00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:28,560
Speaker 1: I owe a message about that, and I'm going to

868
00:45:28,640 --> 00:45:30,919
Speaker 1: try and at least get a game in with each

869
00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:34,279
Speaker 1: of you if you'll let me. And finally, I know

870
00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:36,720
Speaker 1: that while I may not have many real life friends,

871
00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:39,759
Speaker 1: I have what seems like an entire army's worth of

872
00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:43,839
Speaker 1: Reddit friends, which those are the only truth friends, which,

873
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:47,760
Speaker 1: given my experience so far, I prefer wholeheartedly. You guys

874
00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:49,719
Speaker 1: are truly the best. I'm not going to go on

875
00:45:49,800 --> 00:45:52,880
Speaker 1: much more because I'm exhausted and have work early tomorrow,

876
00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:56,480
Speaker 1: but once again, thank you all. Please stay safe and

877
00:45:56,600 --> 00:46:00,839
Speaker 1: keep being the incredible, kind, heartwarming, empathetic people that you are.

878
00:46:01,840 --> 00:46:04,239
Speaker 1: So sweet, You're truly legends and I wish I could

879
00:46:04,239 --> 00:46:06,680
Speaker 1: think and hug each of you in person. You guys

880
00:46:06,719 --> 00:46:08,520
Speaker 1: really make a dark time for me feel a little

881
00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:12,680
Speaker 1: bit righter. That's really sweet. And there's one more one

882
00:46:12,719 --> 00:46:13,280
Speaker 1: more update.

883
00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:14,520
Speaker 6: Wow, Scott.

884
00:46:14,560 --> 00:46:17,359
Speaker 2: It's kind of crazy that whenever Reddit needs to do

885
00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:18,640
Speaker 2: something they step up and do it.

886
00:46:18,760 --> 00:46:19,000
Speaker 1: Yeah.

887
00:46:19,040 --> 00:46:22,000
Speaker 2: Where they need to create justice, yeah whom, they're there,

888
00:46:22,040 --> 00:46:24,440
Speaker 2: But whenever they need to support a guy, good job.

889
00:46:24,320 --> 00:46:27,560
Speaker 1: Right there, they're like if Batman was also kind of

890
00:46:27,600 --> 00:46:32,759
Speaker 1: like a counselor you know, like if Batman was also

891
00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:35,480
Speaker 1: dealing justice, but he was also like like a grief

892
00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:40,960
Speaker 1: counselor ah, I see, or like a therapist, like like

893
00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:45,880
Speaker 1: if Batman moonlighted as a therapist. That's Reddit.

894
00:46:46,600 --> 00:46:51,200
Speaker 2: Okay, Reddit is bad counselor bat Batman.

895
00:46:54,160 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 1: Thank you Mila for the three three appreciate it. Try

896
00:46:57,640 --> 00:46:58,480
Speaker 1: Wait is that a quote?

897
00:46:58,520 --> 00:46:58,799
Speaker 6: What is that?

898
00:46:59,640 --> 00:46:59,839
Speaker 1: Oh?

899
00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:00,920
Speaker 6: Thank you?

900
00:47:02,320 --> 00:47:05,040
Speaker 1: Vaalo says it's kind of sad how dependent virtual relationships

901
00:47:05,080 --> 00:47:07,759
Speaker 1: have gotten to the point of replacing real life. This

902
00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:10,800
Speaker 1: is true. However, this guy lost all of his friends,

903
00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:13,960
Speaker 1: and so I feel like, you know, having some like

904
00:47:14,080 --> 00:47:16,680
Speaker 1: fake friends, little bit friends.

905
00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:20,160
Speaker 2: They're not real any other way. On the other line. No,

906
00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:25,120
Speaker 2: those are those are aid. I think hopefully it's temporary

907
00:47:25,160 --> 00:47:26,799
Speaker 2: for Scott, it's not a long term thing.

908
00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:29,759
Speaker 1: Oh, Kimberly find that wasn't an orphan joke, But I

909
00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:34,279
Speaker 1: guess that also kind of related because Batman orphan. I

910
00:47:34,280 --> 00:47:35,960
Speaker 1: didn't even think about that. That would have been so

911
00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:41,560
Speaker 1: much funnier. Oh a A says.

912
00:47:41,440 --> 00:47:43,239
Speaker 2: I am the darkness, I am the night.

913
00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:47,719
Speaker 1: So tell me about your childhood real. I think that

914
00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:50,160
Speaker 1: would be a much better Batman. Maybe I would watch

915
00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:51,839
Speaker 1: all the Batman's if Batman was like that.

916
00:47:52,719 --> 00:47:56,000
Speaker 2: More emotionally intact. But that's what makes him cool.

917
00:47:56,440 --> 00:47:59,719
Speaker 1: He's not in touch with these feelings. He's like, but

918
00:47:59,800 --> 00:48:03,200
Speaker 1: let's get into this update because I'm in touch with

919
00:48:03,239 --> 00:48:09,400
Speaker 1: this update. Uh. This is again from Scott the uh

920
00:48:09,520 --> 00:48:13,080
Speaker 1: foster care friend. We can't say that this stick foster

921
00:48:13,600 --> 00:48:16,319
Speaker 1: foster care friend, which also zonnes a little bit bad,

922
00:48:16,360 --> 00:48:18,319
Speaker 1: but whatever, I guess. I just want to clear the

923
00:48:18,320 --> 00:48:20,480
Speaker 1: air here. I want everyone to know I've read all

924
00:48:20,520 --> 00:48:24,000
Speaker 1: of your messages and comments. I firstly appreciate everyone. Okay,

925
00:48:24,040 --> 00:48:25,640
Speaker 1: this is just kind of like, thank you, thank you,

926
00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:29,799
Speaker 1: blah blah blah, thank you. I've had a bunch of

927
00:48:29,800 --> 00:48:32,759
Speaker 1: messages asking me to talk to James's parents. I for

928
00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:35,400
Speaker 1: a while didn't reply to their messages or calls. I

929
00:48:35,440 --> 00:48:38,680
Speaker 1: felt awkward because the obvious they're obviously his parents, and

930
00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:41,879
Speaker 1: I'm the kid they let live with him. I have now, though,

931
00:48:41,920 --> 00:48:44,200
Speaker 1: and I'm glad I did. It's definitely a more tepid

932
00:48:44,239 --> 00:48:47,680
Speaker 1: relationship than before, but that's okay. James's mom has always

933
00:48:47,719 --> 00:48:50,000
Speaker 1: been a big support person for myself, so it's good

934
00:48:50,040 --> 00:48:52,040
Speaker 1: to talk to her again. She used to sit with

935
00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:54,200
Speaker 1: me when I'd have nightmares and talk about them with

936
00:48:54,239 --> 00:48:56,960
Speaker 1: me until I fall asleep. Oh, so she'll always have

937
00:48:57,000 --> 00:49:00,359
Speaker 1: a big place in my heart. That's so sweet. I've

938
00:49:00,360 --> 00:49:02,400
Speaker 1: been having them again more recently. I haven't had the

939
00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:05,400
Speaker 1: heart to tell her yet. I'm just hoping they'll stop

940
00:49:05,400 --> 00:49:07,080
Speaker 1: so I don't have to. I don't want her to

941
00:49:07,120 --> 00:49:10,480
Speaker 1: worry a As for my ax, I don't want to

942
00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 1: get into that too much. Where we've been talking for

943
00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:14,879
Speaker 1: a bed but that stopped. I was lonely and felt

944
00:49:14,960 --> 00:49:18,320
Speaker 1: vulnerable and no longer talking to her. So don't worry

945
00:49:18,800 --> 00:49:20,759
Speaker 1: to the people telling me to forgive James for what

946
00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:24,399
Speaker 1: he did. Yeah, no, f off, He's a grown ass man.

947
00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:26,920
Speaker 1: He made his decision. I don't care if he was

948
00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:30,600
Speaker 1: quote unquote manipulated by his wife. He chose to cut

949
00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:33,359
Speaker 1: me off, he watched me beg him to change his mind,

950
00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:37,400
Speaker 1: and still decided to act like see you next Tuesday,

951
00:49:39,000 --> 00:49:43,040
Speaker 1: with some hid with some hindsight. I've also noticed our

952
00:49:43,520 --> 00:49:46,520
Speaker 1: relationships since high school has been very one sided. I'm

953
00:49:46,520 --> 00:49:48,960
Speaker 1: not looking to do that again. You can enjoy the

954
00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:51,600
Speaker 1: bed he made. I really don't want to have to

955
00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:54,000
Speaker 1: get into this again, so I'm asking that if James

956
00:49:54,120 --> 00:49:57,439
Speaker 1: makes another BS post claiming his life is a mess

957
00:49:57,960 --> 00:50:00,480
Speaker 1: is a mess, please don't bring me into it. I

958
00:50:00,480 --> 00:50:02,319
Speaker 1: don't care what's going on in his life. I don't

959
00:50:02,360 --> 00:50:04,920
Speaker 1: care if he gets divorced or has kids. He is

960
00:50:05,000 --> 00:50:08,160
Speaker 1: on his own. It's about time he gets an understanding of.

961
00:50:08,080 --> 00:50:08,840
Speaker 2: How that feels.

962
00:50:09,320 --> 00:50:11,480
Speaker 1: I'm going to say this as well, I'm sorry, but

963
00:50:11,520 --> 00:50:14,480
Speaker 1: I probably won't reply to everyone's messages, and then blah

964
00:50:14,520 --> 00:50:19,319
Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah, I'm not gonna reply to messages. Also,

965
00:50:19,480 --> 00:50:22,799
Speaker 1: side note, I appreciate everyone who's asked me if I'd

966
00:50:22,840 --> 00:50:24,880
Speaker 1: like to meet for a beer or whatever. That is

967
00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:26,520
Speaker 1: truly kind of you, but I'm not in the habit

968
00:50:26,560 --> 00:50:28,840
Speaker 1: of actually meeting people who reach out to me online

969
00:50:28,880 --> 00:50:33,719
Speaker 1: safe practices. I can see you're coming from a place

970
00:50:33,760 --> 00:50:36,080
Speaker 1: of love, but I'm also pretty attached to my kidneys

971
00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:39,000
Speaker 1: and other non vital organs. But I'd rather not risk it.

972
00:50:39,400 --> 00:50:41,319
Speaker 1: I don't want to wake up in a bathtub full

973
00:50:41,360 --> 00:50:43,480
Speaker 1: of ice. No offense, but I feel like I should

974
00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:47,239
Speaker 1: air on the side of caution in this situation. And

975
00:50:47,360 --> 00:50:51,000
Speaker 1: thank you all for being kind. Please don't hate me

976
00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:53,080
Speaker 1: for this post. Just feel the need to get this

977
00:50:53,160 --> 00:50:55,520
Speaker 1: one out. I've struggled with whether or not to make

978
00:50:55,560 --> 00:50:59,480
Speaker 1: it for a bit. Oh okay, and then oh ah,

979
00:51:00,719 --> 00:51:04,160
Speaker 1: I didn't even see that. Thank you Kristin Ferginson for

980
00:51:04,320 --> 00:51:07,319
Speaker 1: the one hundred bucks. O wait, no, one hundred and

981
00:51:07,320 --> 00:51:12,399
Speaker 1: twenty six bucks. All hail the worm Queen. I love

982
00:51:12,440 --> 00:51:15,879
Speaker 1: you all. I love you so much. Your icons. Put

983
00:51:15,920 --> 00:51:18,799
Speaker 1: some what's it? What's it? What's the thing that could

984
00:51:18,880 --> 00:51:19,640
Speaker 1: relate to Kristen?

985
00:51:20,440 --> 00:51:20,840
Speaker 2: Worms?

986
00:51:21,160 --> 00:51:23,479
Speaker 1: Worm? Put some worms in there. Well, I feel like, yeah,

987
00:51:23,560 --> 00:51:25,640
Speaker 1: you know what, put some worms in the chat for Kristen.

988
00:51:25,760 --> 00:51:27,040
Speaker 1: Those are Christen's worms.

989
00:51:27,280 --> 00:51:27,520
Speaker 2: Yes?

990
00:51:27,600 --> 00:51:30,600
Speaker 1: Oh, thank you also lil just love for the ten bucks.

991
00:51:30,600 --> 00:51:33,480
Speaker 1: I love the streams. I always watch silently in the background,

992
00:51:33,560 --> 00:51:37,279
Speaker 1: usually doing chores. I love I love Riley's loud laugh.

993
00:51:37,360 --> 00:51:39,480
Speaker 1: It's so contagious. Oh so it's my birthday today.

994
00:51:39,520 --> 00:51:41,480
Speaker 2: Oh, happy birthday, prey, happy happy.

995
00:51:41,680 --> 00:51:44,160
Speaker 1: Yes, we'll sing you, sing me some birthday songs.

996
00:51:44,719 --> 00:51:48,200
Speaker 2: I don't know any you don't know that aren't copyrighted.

997
00:51:48,600 --> 00:51:52,160
Speaker 1: Is happy birthday copyrighted? I thought we decided that it wasn't.

998
00:51:52,320 --> 00:51:54,360
Speaker 2: I don't know. I still go by the old.

999
00:51:54,160 --> 00:51:56,680
Speaker 1: Perast I could sing you, actually, I could sing you

1000
00:51:56,719 --> 00:52:00,560
Speaker 1: a non copyrighted happy birthday song, because the Polish happy

1001
00:52:00,640 --> 00:52:04,480
Speaker 1: Birthday song that I sing every birthday with my family

1002
00:52:05,080 --> 00:52:08,680
Speaker 1: has has like through the generations, become so corrupted that

1003
00:52:08,719 --> 00:52:11,680
Speaker 1: it no longer resembles the actual Polish happy birthday song.

1004
00:52:11,800 --> 00:52:15,480
Speaker 1: So I can sing that the generations. It makes no

1005
00:52:15,560 --> 00:52:20,920
Speaker 1: sense anymore. But that is the end of the story. Also,

1006
00:52:21,080 --> 00:52:23,200
Speaker 1: there is an edit where OPI said that they're in

1007
00:52:23,640 --> 00:52:26,359
Speaker 1: like they're from Australia, which makes so much sense because

1008
00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:29,719
Speaker 1: they've been using a lot of guns and that makes

1009
00:52:29,719 --> 00:52:33,239
Speaker 1: sense now that we know that they're all But that's

1010
00:52:33,280 --> 00:52:35,880
Speaker 1: the end of the story. I'm so glad that Scott

1011
00:52:35,960 --> 00:52:38,680
Speaker 1: kind of set his boundaries and did not forgive James

1012
00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:43,560
Speaker 1: because James does not deserve it. James sucks. James is

1013
00:52:43,600 --> 00:52:44,479
Speaker 1: a stinky man.

1014
00:52:44,800 --> 00:52:47,359
Speaker 2: Do you think he what I kind of feel like

1015
00:52:47,600 --> 00:52:51,360
Speaker 2: in a way, if if James were to come to Scott,

1016
00:52:51,800 --> 00:52:54,800
Speaker 2: he could have forgave him. I mean, I understand he

1017
00:52:54,840 --> 00:52:57,480
Speaker 2: did a lot of FFF stuff, but they could have

1018
00:52:57,560 --> 00:53:00,799
Speaker 2: somewhat of a friendship. I don't know, I.

1019
00:53:00,760 --> 00:53:04,440
Speaker 1: Don't think so. I think I think maybe years from now,

1020
00:53:04,600 --> 00:53:06,960
Speaker 1: Scott can be like, hey, forgive you, but I don't

1021
00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:08,200
Speaker 1: want to be your friend, Like I don't want you

1022
00:53:08,239 --> 00:53:12,279
Speaker 1: in my life, but you know, just clear the air. Yeah,

1023
00:53:12,800 --> 00:53:15,920
Speaker 1: but I don't think James deserves to be his friend.

1024
00:53:16,280 --> 00:53:16,640
Speaker 6: Wow.

1025
00:53:16,880 --> 00:53:19,000
Speaker 2: Yeah for the best.

1026
00:53:19,120 --> 00:53:21,920
Speaker 1: Yeah. But you know what, now that we're at the

1027
00:53:22,000 --> 00:53:25,640
Speaker 1: end of the story, we can spin that wheel.

1028
00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:27,920
Speaker 2: Spin the wheel. See you.

1029
00:53:27,960 --> 00:53:32,239
Speaker 1: The Polish version again, it's not technically Stola, which is

1030
00:53:32,239 --> 00:53:36,920
Speaker 1: the actual Polish Polish version. It is a smashed up

1031
00:53:37,000 --> 00:53:41,439
Speaker 1: version of that that my family created over time from

1032
00:53:41,440 --> 00:53:47,239
Speaker 1: moving from Poland and then immigrating from Poland. Thank you,

1033
00:53:47,280 --> 00:53:49,480
Speaker 1: I created French again. For the two bucks. How do

1034
00:53:49,520 --> 00:53:54,640
Speaker 1: I post worms also discord link. We'll get there, we'll

1035
00:53:54,680 --> 00:53:58,080
Speaker 1: get there. We'll give it by share go whoo, spin

1036
00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:02,960
Speaker 1: that wheel spot what treats? Treat?

1037
00:54:04,000 --> 00:54:06,040
Speaker 2: You get a treat? I get a treat, you get

1038
00:54:06,040 --> 00:54:06,600
Speaker 2: a treat?

1039
00:54:07,080 --> 00:54:07,680
Speaker 1: What treat?

1040
00:54:08,320 --> 00:54:10,480
Speaker 2: I will bring you a treat, but you get a treat.

1041
00:54:10,480 --> 00:54:12,640
Speaker 2: We'll be back. I'll be back. But sing them the

1042
00:54:12,680 --> 00:54:13,240
Speaker 2: song and stuff.

1043
00:54:13,280 --> 00:54:17,480
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, sorry, I'm gonna sing this song. Okay

1044
00:54:18,440 --> 00:54:21,319
Speaker 1: again for the Polish people in the chat and I've

1045
00:54:21,360 --> 00:54:24,360
Speaker 1: talked out the Polish people before. This is not the

1046
00:54:24,400 --> 00:54:27,160
Speaker 1: actual song. You're gonna be like, what the f is that?

1047
00:54:27,160 --> 00:54:29,880
Speaker 1: That's not the Polish Hoppby birthday song. It's not. It

1048
00:54:30,000 --> 00:54:36,120
Speaker 1: is my family Polish hoppy birthday like tm we.

1049
00:54:37,560 --> 00:54:38,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't get offended.

1050
00:54:38,680 --> 00:54:40,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, don't get invented, it's not it all right ready

1051
00:54:41,800 --> 00:54:45,360
Speaker 1: yeah yah um yah ji yah num yeah now and

1052
00:54:45,360 --> 00:54:48,800
Speaker 1: then it's usually coughing yeah gie yeah nam v vanya

1053
00:54:49,520 --> 00:54:54,320
Speaker 1: v vanya num yah gee you get so to do

1054
00:54:54,440 --> 00:54:56,960
Speaker 1: the money? So yes, do the honey, yes, so do

1055
00:54:57,080 --> 00:54:57,520
Speaker 1: the money.

1056
00:54:57,560 --> 00:55:02,680
Speaker 7: Yeah, yum y yeah he star yeah yeah, Haji yeah

1057
00:55:02,800 --> 00:55:09,080
Speaker 7: num yeah yeah he sta yeah Yahaji yah num yeah

1058
00:55:09,520 --> 00:55:11,960
Speaker 7: um yah ji yeah. Name it goes very long yeah

1059
00:55:12,280 --> 00:55:17,640
Speaker 7: nam yah ji yeah name the vana the vanyam yajie

1060
00:55:18,080 --> 00:55:26,240
Speaker 7: yuh num sto long stolgi stol name.

1061
00:55:27,200 --> 00:55:29,839
Speaker 1: That's for you, Lily and anyone else in this chat

1062
00:55:29,960 --> 00:55:34,800
Speaker 1: who has a birthday today or this week. That's the

1063
00:55:34,920 --> 00:55:40,040
Speaker 1: yagnum song that's ours. Nobody in my family even remembers

1064
00:55:40,120 --> 00:55:49,520
Speaker 1: our own lyrics. I like this wheel. Yeah, it does

1065
00:55:49,680 --> 00:55:52,880
Speaker 1: just keep going. It goes on really long. There's clapping involved,

1066
00:55:54,120 --> 00:55:58,400
Speaker 1: but yeah, it's yeah, honish. It is an amra Polish version.

1067
00:55:58,680 --> 00:56:02,600
Speaker 1: It's kind of you know, like telephone that that's what

1068
00:56:02,880 --> 00:56:06,960
Speaker 1: came out of it. Yeah, we were singing happy per

1069
00:56:07,120 --> 00:56:14,719
Speaker 1: thanking Polish and I got strawberries, but what else?

1070
00:56:14,760 --> 00:56:17,719
Speaker 2: And I gotta I gotta treat for myself too, a

1071
00:56:17,719 --> 00:56:18,880
Speaker 2: little little caffeine.

1072
00:56:19,120 --> 00:56:25,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, Sylvia Sabdanova, I don't know, you could probably see

1073
00:56:25,080 --> 00:56:27,120
Speaker 1: my face getting very red, So I don't know if

1074
00:56:27,160 --> 00:56:32,880
Speaker 1: I did it with a completely straight face. Yeah, but

1075
00:56:33,000 --> 00:56:37,480
Speaker 1: let's get into this next story. But before we do,

1076
00:56:37,920 --> 00:56:40,600
Speaker 1: what is the new incentive or new uh oh?

1077
00:56:40,880 --> 00:56:43,800
Speaker 2: Do you think we could get to two thousand, like

1078
00:56:44,200 --> 00:56:47,680
Speaker 2: two thousand chats, like two thousand likes or how many

1079
00:56:47,719 --> 00:56:52,480
Speaker 2: people in the stream right now? Six six five there

1080
00:56:52,520 --> 00:56:56,200
Speaker 2: were five hundred and eighty seven of you on YouTube.

1081
00:56:56,719 --> 00:57:00,440
Speaker 2: I need five hundred likes or two thousand chats worms

1082
00:57:00,480 --> 00:57:05,560
Speaker 2: in the chat bar right there, that's the chat goal.

1083
00:57:05,680 --> 00:57:07,560
Speaker 2: So let's get there. Let's make that happen for the

1084
00:57:07,640 --> 00:57:08,439
Speaker 2: next will spin.

1085
00:57:08,719 --> 00:57:16,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, so what we said, five hundred likes or but

1086
00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:20,600
Speaker 1: while we're waiting, let's get into this next story. Which

1087
00:57:20,640 --> 00:57:21,280
Speaker 1: story are we doing?

1088
00:57:21,520 --> 00:57:21,640
Speaker 6: Ley?

1089
00:57:22,160 --> 00:57:22,680
Speaker 2: The same one?

1090
00:57:23,920 --> 00:57:24,360
Speaker 1: Guess two?

1091
00:57:24,680 --> 00:57:25,480
Speaker 2: All right, the short one?

1092
00:57:26,160 --> 00:57:28,920
Speaker 1: Okay, let me eat? Okay.

1093
00:57:30,920 --> 00:57:31,520
Speaker 2: I can hear that.

1094
00:57:34,080 --> 00:57:34,520
Speaker 5: This is not.

1095
00:57:37,080 --> 00:57:37,360
Speaker 2: Okay?

1096
00:57:38,400 --> 00:57:41,560
Speaker 1: All right? Am I the a hole for telling my

1097
00:57:41,640 --> 00:57:45,720
Speaker 1: friend not to come if she's bringing her kid. Yeh,

1098
00:57:45,760 --> 00:57:47,120
Speaker 1: don't bring that kid. He's a downer.

1099
00:57:47,280 --> 00:57:50,920
Speaker 2: I feel like the kids like a leash kid. Nothing

1100
00:57:51,000 --> 00:57:53,480
Speaker 2: wrong with leash kids, just some kids are like if

1101
00:57:53,520 --> 00:57:55,480
Speaker 2: they're on a leash, they're hard to handle.

1102
00:57:55,520 --> 00:57:58,520
Speaker 1: They're hard to handle, they're hard to keep track of. Yeah,

1103
00:57:58,640 --> 00:58:01,560
Speaker 1: maybe maybe that kid's kind of like lame and it'll

1104
00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:04,840
Speaker 1: bring down the party. Who's to say. Also, thank you

1105
00:58:05,160 --> 00:58:08,560
Speaker 1: Tracy for the six six books. Love you from Norway.

1106
00:58:08,840 --> 00:58:12,040
Speaker 1: I love you. Also, Curby Girl La La Flame, thanks

1107
00:58:12,080 --> 00:58:14,240
Speaker 1: for the five bucks very cool birthday song. Thanks for

1108
00:58:14,320 --> 00:58:16,520
Speaker 1: sharing your family tradition. You're welcome.

1109
00:58:16,640 --> 00:58:20,560
Speaker 2: We do that every birthday, every birthday, what about half birthdays? No,

1110
00:58:21,720 --> 00:58:23,760
Speaker 2: it was my half birthday a few days ago.

1111
00:58:24,480 --> 00:58:25,240
Speaker 1: Why didn't you tell me?

1112
00:58:25,680 --> 00:58:27,360
Speaker 2: I don't know. I didn't think you heard.

1113
00:58:27,560 --> 00:58:31,280
Speaker 1: I do care. But let's get into this story. So

1114
00:58:32,040 --> 00:58:34,640
Speaker 1: this value forty one ninety four says one of my

1115
00:58:34,760 --> 00:58:37,240
Speaker 1: nearly thirty friends put together a get together at a

1116
00:58:37,320 --> 00:58:38,720
Speaker 1: restaurant for my birthday. Oh.

1117
00:58:38,880 --> 00:58:41,000
Speaker 2: I thought it meant like one of my nearly out

1118
00:58:41,040 --> 00:58:43,760
Speaker 2: of all my thirty friends, but it's like they're nearly

1119
00:58:43,840 --> 00:58:46,520
Speaker 2: my friend. But it's the age. Sorry, yeah, sorry, sorry, sorry.

1120
00:58:46,880 --> 00:58:50,960
Speaker 1: One of my nearly thirty friends, they're almost my friend

1121
00:58:52,560 --> 00:58:55,520
Speaker 1: put together a get together at a restaurant for my birthday.

1122
00:58:55,920 --> 00:58:57,520
Speaker 1: The place is a bar where we're going to be

1123
00:58:57,720 --> 00:58:59,840
Speaker 1: hanging out. The plan was to get a bit tipsy

1124
00:58:59,880 --> 00:59:02,480
Speaker 1: and order appetizers. My husband and I have a three

1125
00:59:02,560 --> 00:59:05,560
Speaker 1: year old, but we're hiring a babysitter for the night.

1126
00:59:05,880 --> 00:59:09,240
Speaker 1: We rented out a private room with a bar. My

1127
00:59:09,400 --> 00:59:12,120
Speaker 1: other friend, Missy, has a five year old daughter. She

1128
00:59:12,280 --> 00:59:14,520
Speaker 1: mentioned she was going to bring her. I offer to

1129
00:59:14,600 --> 00:59:18,000
Speaker 1: pay my babysitter extra to watch her daughter. Nice Missy

1130
00:59:18,080 --> 00:59:20,880
Speaker 1: said no because her daughter is in daycare all day

1131
00:59:20,960 --> 00:59:22,560
Speaker 1: and she doesn't want her to have to then be

1132
00:59:22,720 --> 00:59:25,120
Speaker 1: with a sitter. I said, I understand, but I don't

1133
00:59:25,120 --> 00:59:28,160
Speaker 1: think it's appropriate for her to come. Yeah, there's gonna

1134
00:59:28,160 --> 00:59:30,400
Speaker 1: be a bar. You shouldn't be bringing a five year

1135
00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:33,560
Speaker 1: old there one. I know our group we're going to

1136
00:59:33,600 --> 00:59:35,880
Speaker 1: get rowdy, and I don't want to censor myself. Two,

1137
00:59:36,200 --> 00:59:38,440
Speaker 1: Missy's daughter is like a lot of five year olds.

1138
00:59:38,760 --> 00:59:41,200
Speaker 1: She doesn't sit still, wants to run over the place.

1139
00:59:42,080 --> 00:59:44,520
Speaker 1: Missy admits she doesn't bring her out to restaurants much

1140
00:59:44,600 --> 00:59:47,760
Speaker 1: because she doesn't know how to act. But I also

1141
00:59:47,920 --> 00:59:49,920
Speaker 1: know Missy will just sort of let her as she's

1142
00:59:50,240 --> 00:59:53,280
Speaker 1: very permissive. What are you doing?

1143
00:59:54,680 --> 00:59:55,880
Speaker 2: Train your five year old?

1144
00:59:56,120 --> 00:59:59,760
Speaker 1: Change? Stop? Or Okay, five year olds are it can

1145
00:59:59,840 --> 01:00:02,000
Speaker 1: be a little crazy, But why are you bringing a

1146
01:00:02,080 --> 01:00:05,440
Speaker 1: five year old to like to a bar? Can that

1147
01:00:05,520 --> 01:00:06,920
Speaker 1: five year old even be there?

1148
01:00:07,200 --> 01:00:09,400
Speaker 2: Apparently your brother was really cool when he was young

1149
01:00:09,480 --> 01:00:13,560
Speaker 2: and the parties he was parties and stuff.

1150
01:00:13,720 --> 01:00:15,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, my parents, My parents say that we were both

1151
01:00:15,920 --> 01:00:22,040
Speaker 1: good with like social things. But I think it's yeah,

1152
01:00:22,240 --> 01:00:24,880
Speaker 1: before we even have to go any further. I think

1153
01:00:24,960 --> 01:00:27,040
Speaker 1: she's totally not the a hole for asking her not

1154
01:00:27,160 --> 01:00:29,640
Speaker 1: to bring the kid, especially when she said, hey, I'll

1155
01:00:29,720 --> 01:00:32,160
Speaker 1: pay my babysitter extra for and then she can watch

1156
01:00:32,200 --> 01:00:35,000
Speaker 1: both her kids. Yeah, so she gets a late This

1157
01:00:35,080 --> 01:00:37,120
Speaker 1: kid's gonna get a plate out of it. When when

1158
01:00:37,280 --> 01:00:43,760
Speaker 1: when when win win free, it's free, free, free for

1159
01:00:43,880 --> 01:00:48,960
Speaker 1: me free. I spoke to my friend who put it together,

1160
01:00:49,040 --> 01:00:51,840
Speaker 1: and said, I don't want any kids there. There's a

1161
01:00:51,920 --> 01:00:53,960
Speaker 1: reason I got a sitter for my own kid. That

1162
01:00:54,080 --> 01:00:57,280
Speaker 1: friend agreed and told Missy not to bring her daughter.

1163
01:00:58,720 --> 01:01:02,440
Speaker 1: Missy has now own a fit and said she's not coming. Well,

1164
01:01:02,560 --> 01:01:06,080
Speaker 1: no one wants you there. I said, I completely understand.

1165
01:01:06,400 --> 01:01:08,040
Speaker 1: There are events I have missed because I don't want

1166
01:01:08,040 --> 01:01:10,240
Speaker 1: to leave my daughter, and the group understands as we

1167
01:01:10,280 --> 01:01:12,680
Speaker 1: all have kids. I told Missy I'd be glad to

1168
01:01:12,720 --> 01:01:15,040
Speaker 1: have a playdate slash lunch another time with our kids

1169
01:01:15,080 --> 01:01:17,880
Speaker 1: so we can still hang out. I told Missy I

1170
01:01:17,960 --> 01:01:20,160
Speaker 1: can't stop her from coming to the restaurant, but we

1171
01:01:20,800 --> 01:01:24,480
Speaker 1: absolutely will not allow her to come into the private room.

1172
01:01:24,960 --> 01:01:28,120
Speaker 1: She's very hurt that we're excluding her. You're not being excluded,

1173
01:01:28,160 --> 01:01:31,200
Speaker 1: your kids being excluded. Am I the ahle for not

1174
01:01:31,320 --> 01:01:33,400
Speaker 1: wanting a kid at my party and telling my friend

1175
01:01:33,760 --> 01:01:36,840
Speaker 1: friend she can't come if she brings her. Also, if

1176
01:01:36,880 --> 01:01:40,080
Speaker 1: it's relevant, Missy didn't pay for the rented room. Two

1177
01:01:40,240 --> 01:01:42,080
Speaker 1: of my other friends did as a gift to me.

1178
01:01:42,440 --> 01:01:45,320
Speaker 1: So it's not as if I'm telling her she can't

1179
01:01:45,360 --> 01:01:48,560
Speaker 1: come to something she paid for. And that's that's the

1180
01:01:48,720 --> 01:01:51,880
Speaker 1: end of that story, this little baby story. Yeah, she

1181
01:01:52,000 --> 01:01:57,400
Speaker 1: excluded herself as browneed Chick says she was invited, her

1182
01:01:57,560 --> 01:02:02,280
Speaker 1: child was offered, like said her, for free. There was

1183
01:02:02,360 --> 01:02:06,360
Speaker 1: like there was plans made to fix that and she

1184
01:02:06,440 --> 01:02:06,920
Speaker 1: didn't take that.

1185
01:02:07,120 --> 01:02:07,680
Speaker 2: So that's on her.

1186
01:02:07,880 --> 01:02:10,520
Speaker 1: Wow, no one, oh, no one should be forced to

1187
01:02:10,560 --> 01:02:13,840
Speaker 1: have your child at their birthday party. Heck no, heck now,

1188
01:02:14,520 --> 01:02:18,360
Speaker 1: especially if she's not bringing her kid. Yeah, I can't

1189
01:02:18,360 --> 01:02:21,920
Speaker 1: read your comments because they're gone. What happened in full hat?

1190
01:02:21,920 --> 01:02:24,880
Speaker 1: Sorry they need to read, but we can. Well, we'll

1191
01:02:24,920 --> 01:02:26,720
Speaker 1: do the we'll do the poll next time. I think

1192
01:02:26,760 --> 01:02:28,400
Speaker 1: I fixed the pole. Guys, We're going to get the

1193
01:02:28,400 --> 01:02:29,439
Speaker 1: poll in for next time.

1194
01:02:30,000 --> 01:02:31,920
Speaker 2: But uh not the whole.

1195
01:02:32,160 --> 01:02:35,120
Speaker 1: Okay, Old, you should probably Riley say.

1196
01:02:35,000 --> 01:02:38,560
Speaker 2: Something, say something. Yeah, I think Sophia is going to

1197
01:02:38,600 --> 01:02:41,480
Speaker 2: read this next story that I'm gonna gonna give to her.

1198
01:02:42,800 --> 01:02:44,720
Speaker 2: Sick sick yeah, tick.

1199
01:02:45,080 --> 01:02:48,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, spicy Kookie says that can be a safety issue

1200
01:02:48,560 --> 01:02:51,040
Speaker 1: as well, especially because there's a bar. I think it's

1201
01:02:51,040 --> 01:02:53,360
Speaker 1: a little bit Yeah, I think it's a little bit

1202
01:02:53,400 --> 01:02:56,400
Speaker 1: irresponsible to bring a five year old child around alcohol

1203
01:02:56,480 --> 01:02:57,320
Speaker 1: and a bunch of adults.

1204
01:02:58,480 --> 01:02:59,800
Speaker 2: Sam's here, then.

1205
01:03:01,280 --> 01:03:03,440
Speaker 1: Sam might be coming in, or he's just saying something.

1206
01:03:04,920 --> 01:03:05,760
Speaker 1: He's on his headphones.

1207
01:03:05,800 --> 01:03:07,360
Speaker 2: He's on he's coming in, he's.

1208
01:03:07,280 --> 01:03:14,560
Speaker 1: Coming, he's coming, all right, he's coming in. First story. Sam, guys,

1209
01:03:15,640 --> 01:03:16,920
Speaker 1: it's Sam, It's me.

1210
01:03:18,440 --> 01:03:19,200
Speaker 6: How's everyone doing?

1211
01:03:21,560 --> 01:03:24,440
Speaker 1: I sang them it's Lily's birthday, so I sang her

1212
01:03:24,480 --> 01:03:25,600
Speaker 1: the Polish happy birthday song.

1213
01:03:25,760 --> 01:03:28,640
Speaker 6: Oh you sang the whole thing? Yeah, Oh my god,

1214
01:03:28,720 --> 01:03:29,200
Speaker 6: that's long.

1215
01:03:29,680 --> 01:03:36,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was thank you Curby girl, La La Flame.

1216
01:03:36,920 --> 01:03:41,800
Speaker 1: You've been consistent, like the live appreciate it, like like

1217
01:03:41,880 --> 01:03:44,600
Speaker 1: the lie. If you get to what did we say

1218
01:03:44,640 --> 01:03:45,560
Speaker 1: four hundred likes.

1219
01:03:45,880 --> 01:03:49,120
Speaker 2: We said five hundred or two thousand chats, We'll spin

1220
01:03:49,160 --> 01:03:49,760
Speaker 2: the wheel.

1221
01:03:49,600 --> 01:03:52,240
Speaker 1: Five hundred likes or two thousand chats, which were math

1222
01:03:52,320 --> 01:03:53,960
Speaker 1: away from both of those things.

1223
01:03:55,920 --> 01:03:58,240
Speaker 2: To get get on it, Get on it.

1224
01:03:58,480 --> 01:04:00,439
Speaker 1: Let's read this next story. What story were reading?

1225
01:04:01,000 --> 01:04:01,200
Speaker 2: Three?

1226
01:04:02,400 --> 01:04:06,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, you came at the perfect time. Green nineties, which one.

1227
01:04:05,960 --> 01:04:10,960
Speaker 6: Is that besties Monolia atall. Thanks for the one hundred

1228
01:04:10,960 --> 01:04:11,680
Speaker 6: and ten.

1229
01:04:13,760 --> 01:04:16,160
Speaker 2: Try What's what? What is try? Where?

1230
01:04:16,320 --> 01:04:20,000
Speaker 6: What country is that from? Anyway?

1231
01:04:20,320 --> 01:04:25,200
Speaker 1: But I do know that this story is happening right now, slumber.

1232
01:04:24,960 --> 01:04:25,880
Speaker 6: Jane, thanks for the five bucks.

1233
01:04:25,960 --> 01:04:30,520
Speaker 1: Jay Sam all right, friend's sister was openly flirting with

1234
01:04:30,680 --> 01:04:34,000
Speaker 1: my husband in front of me. I told her off publicly,

1235
01:04:34,640 --> 01:04:38,280
Speaker 1: and now they want a public apology from me. And

1236
01:04:38,400 --> 01:04:42,120
Speaker 1: everyone's saying that try is turkey? Try what is try

1237
01:04:42,240 --> 01:04:42,800
Speaker 1: is turkey?

1238
01:04:43,240 --> 01:04:47,240
Speaker 6: Oh turkey. I thought you said try this turkey.

1239
01:04:47,320 --> 01:04:50,800
Speaker 2: And everyone's saying, try this turkey, try that turkey.

1240
01:04:51,520 --> 01:04:53,800
Speaker 1: So throw all ra I don't know, I don't know,

1241
01:04:53,840 --> 01:04:57,400
Speaker 1: I don't know, one says I, thirty one female. Am

1242
01:04:57,440 --> 01:05:00,400
Speaker 1: close friends with Lisa, thirty three female. We met at

1243
01:05:00,440 --> 01:05:03,400
Speaker 1: college and became roommates, and I love her to death.

1244
01:05:03,760 --> 01:05:08,120
Speaker 1: Lisa has a sister, Amy, twenties female, whom I've met

1245
01:05:08,200 --> 01:05:10,560
Speaker 1: occasionally in college, but she was so young at the

1246
01:05:10,600 --> 01:05:14,000
Speaker 1: time we never really hung out. Lisa had a bridal

1247
01:05:14,040 --> 01:05:17,400
Speaker 1: shower in February, and I financially contributed to most of

1248
01:05:17,440 --> 01:05:19,160
Speaker 1: it since I wasn't able to be there in person

1249
01:05:19,280 --> 01:05:22,040
Speaker 1: to help with the planning. I gave money to Amy,

1250
01:05:22,360 --> 01:05:26,280
Speaker 1: Lisa's sister, to pay for everything, the decor, food, alcohol.

1251
01:05:27,000 --> 01:05:29,520
Speaker 1: I even paid for an overnight's day at a hotel

1252
01:05:29,600 --> 01:05:32,400
Speaker 1: for all seven girls. I did all of this because

1253
01:05:32,400 --> 01:05:34,720
Speaker 1: I couldn't make it to our bachelorette party this week

1254
01:05:34,800 --> 01:05:38,040
Speaker 1: before or the week before. I had also paid for

1255
01:05:38,120 --> 01:05:41,200
Speaker 1: the limo Amy wanted to host the party in so Opie's,

1256
01:05:41,240 --> 01:05:44,880
Speaker 1: paying for all of Lisa's bridal stuff. At the shower,

1257
01:05:45,040 --> 01:05:47,400
Speaker 1: I saw Amy and she was gushing about how I

1258
01:05:47,480 --> 01:05:50,120
Speaker 1: had spent a lot of money on Lisa. I just said,

1259
01:05:50,160 --> 01:05:52,280
Speaker 1: if it's for Lisa, I would have paid for anything

1260
01:05:52,800 --> 01:05:55,560
Speaker 1: so nice. Amy was hinting that my job was paying

1261
01:05:55,680 --> 01:05:58,720
Speaker 1: so much money for me to spend on Lisa. This

1262
01:05:58,920 --> 01:06:02,720
Speaker 1: much new surgeon just graduated from residency. I got a

1263
01:06:02,760 --> 01:06:05,760
Speaker 1: pay bump, but not a lot. I'm lucky because my

1264
01:06:05,840 --> 01:06:08,920
Speaker 1: husband is supporting me while I go through fellowship. My husband,

1265
01:06:09,040 --> 01:06:11,440
Speaker 1: forty mail, is a doctor too, but so much more

1266
01:06:11,480 --> 01:06:14,160
Speaker 1: advanced in his career than me. For my wedding gift,

1267
01:06:14,200 --> 01:06:16,160
Speaker 1: he paid off the remainder of my student loans.

1268
01:06:16,360 --> 01:06:21,160
Speaker 2: Oh what a great gift. That's a nice Yeah, that

1269
01:06:21,400 --> 01:06:22,880
Speaker 2: is a good gift.

1270
01:06:23,320 --> 01:06:25,840
Speaker 1: Also, thank you, Lily for the time bucks Sam Sophia

1271
01:06:25,920 --> 01:06:28,680
Speaker 1: sanging me the family Polish birthday song. I felt super special.

1272
01:06:28,800 --> 01:06:29,120
Speaker 1: You should.

1273
01:06:29,400 --> 01:06:31,600
Speaker 6: It is a great We sing it every year and

1274
01:06:31,680 --> 01:06:33,520
Speaker 6: every year ten minutes it does.

1275
01:06:34,800 --> 01:06:37,320
Speaker 1: Wedding happened in March. My husband and I came for

1276
01:06:37,360 --> 01:06:40,120
Speaker 1: the wedding. Family and close friends were invited to Lisa's

1277
01:06:40,160 --> 01:06:41,160
Speaker 1: parents place for dinner.

1278
01:06:41,240 --> 01:06:41,479
Speaker 2: After.

1279
01:06:42,080 --> 01:06:45,680
Speaker 1: Amy was very handsy with my husband even during the wedding.

1280
01:06:45,760 --> 01:06:48,520
Speaker 1: She was asking him about his job, how smart he

1281
01:06:48,720 --> 01:06:51,800
Speaker 1: was to be working in the ICU, how hot he was,

1282
01:06:52,080 --> 01:06:54,760
Speaker 1: how he looks like a young Elaine Delon. Who's that?

1283
01:06:55,000 --> 01:06:55,680
Speaker 6: I don't know who that is?

1284
01:06:55,720 --> 01:06:56,400
Speaker 1: Blah blah blah.

1285
01:06:57,560 --> 01:06:59,800
Speaker 6: So wait it was. She was handsy while she was

1286
01:06:59,840 --> 01:07:00,280
Speaker 6: saying this.

1287
01:07:01,480 --> 01:07:04,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, very handsy with my husband even during the wedding. Yeah.

1288
01:07:05,320 --> 01:07:11,120
Speaker 1: So short recap we have Opie is basically giving all

1289
01:07:11,200 --> 01:07:13,920
Speaker 1: this money to her friend Lisa for her wedding, and

1290
01:07:14,040 --> 01:07:18,360
Speaker 1: then Lisa's friend, Lisa's sister, Amy is being really flirty.

1291
01:07:18,480 --> 01:07:24,160
Speaker 2: Gam Elaine Delon is hot. Fuck, we just looked at you.

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01:07:25,840 --> 01:07:29,960
Speaker 6: Like old he can still get it.

1293
01:07:32,160 --> 01:07:34,320
Speaker 1: I don't know about that. I don't know about that.

1294
01:07:34,960 --> 01:07:37,800
Speaker 1: But basically, Lisa's sister Amy is being super handsy and

1295
01:07:37,920 --> 01:07:42,840
Speaker 1: weird with Opie's husband, and that's where we're at. Wedding happened.

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01:07:42,920 --> 01:07:46,120
Speaker 6: What's considered handsy like putting just hands on it or

1297
01:07:46,240 --> 01:07:48,640
Speaker 6: is it a specific kind of it? It's on what

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01:07:49,840 --> 01:07:55,120
Speaker 6: on the husband. It's like it's like like, oh yeah,

1299
01:07:56,000 --> 01:07:57,280
Speaker 6: they're like too much touching.

1300
01:07:57,360 --> 01:08:00,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I would say any amount of that makes

1301
01:08:01,280 --> 01:08:03,280
Speaker 2: you feel uncomfortable as the partner.

1302
01:08:03,400 --> 01:08:06,080
Speaker 1: So like anybody touching beyond a handshake.

1303
01:08:05,760 --> 01:08:08,800
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I feel like I feel like it's too touchy.

1304
01:08:09,000 --> 01:08:15,120
Speaker 6: If it's for a guy. If she's touching chest and arms,

1305
01:08:16,040 --> 01:08:18,200
Speaker 6: I think a shoulder tap is okay, but chested on.

1306
01:08:18,400 --> 01:08:24,080
Speaker 2: Many shoulder taps though, Uh, I think one every every

1307
01:08:24,479 --> 01:08:25,160
Speaker 2: thirty minutes.

1308
01:08:25,640 --> 01:08:28,599
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't go around touching shoulders. Shoulders

1309
01:08:28,680 --> 01:08:31,479
Speaker 1: of men that are in relationships.

1310
01:08:31,200 --> 01:08:35,120
Speaker 6: Had an exit touch man shoulders. They don't like it. Yeah,

1311
01:08:35,240 --> 01:08:35,800
Speaker 6: they don't like it.

1312
01:08:36,000 --> 01:08:39,839
Speaker 1: I don't know about that because you know there's a difference.

1313
01:08:39,920 --> 01:08:40,839
Speaker 1: You know, there's a difference.

1314
01:08:41,000 --> 01:08:42,519
Speaker 6: Yeah, you know when you see it, like you know

1315
01:08:42,560 --> 01:08:45,479
Speaker 6: what when you see it, Oh what, it's like the

1316
01:08:45,600 --> 01:08:49,960
Speaker 6: great the case, the case, what case? The case against pornography?

1317
01:08:50,080 --> 01:08:52,120
Speaker 6: They were like, oh, like, what's pornography and what's.

1318
01:08:52,000 --> 01:08:55,280
Speaker 1: Not you know about that? Yeah, the guy that the

1319
01:08:55,360 --> 01:08:58,200
Speaker 1: guy that tried to get rid of pornography, he like

1320
01:08:59,000 --> 01:09:00,360
Speaker 1: he had it all to.

1321
01:09:00,400 --> 01:09:06,479
Speaker 2: Him, all theraphyraphy to make sure go through me.

1322
01:09:06,760 --> 01:09:08,680
Speaker 1: And so he had all of it. This was like

1323
01:09:08,720 --> 01:09:10,120
Speaker 1: maybe I don't know if we're talking about the same thing,

1324
01:09:10,160 --> 01:09:11,920
Speaker 1: but this was like early nineteen hundreds, and he had

1325
01:09:11,960 --> 01:09:16,000
Speaker 1: it all sent to him to basically like sore through. Bro,

1326
01:09:17,120 --> 01:09:20,519
Speaker 1: there's this this is specific, like you Supreme Court case

1327
01:09:20,640 --> 01:09:23,799
Speaker 1: that was named after him. I'm forgetting that. Wedding happened

1328
01:09:23,840 --> 01:09:26,120
Speaker 1: in March. My husband and I came for the wedding.

1329
01:09:26,520 --> 01:09:29,200
Speaker 1: Family and close friends were invited to Lisa's parents place

1330
01:09:29,240 --> 01:09:32,280
Speaker 1: for dinner. After Amy was very handsy with my husband.

1331
01:09:32,360 --> 01:09:36,160
Speaker 1: I know we've said that this happened at least Oh,

1332
01:09:36,240 --> 01:09:38,479
Speaker 1: my husband was giving me signals to come to him

1333
01:09:38,680 --> 01:09:41,639
Speaker 1: and I did. This happened at least two more times.

1334
01:09:42,360 --> 01:09:45,200
Speaker 1: At Lisa's parents, Amy was wrapping her arm around my

1335
01:09:45,360 --> 01:09:48,519
Speaker 1: husband's back and was serving him drinks and food like

1336
01:09:48,600 --> 01:09:50,320
Speaker 1: to his mouth like medium.

1337
01:09:50,720 --> 01:09:54,320
Speaker 2: Bro. She did this too. It sucked.

1338
01:09:54,600 --> 01:09:55,040
Speaker 1: That's weird.

1339
01:09:55,160 --> 01:09:58,360
Speaker 6: Don't feed another dude in front of me. That's just

1340
01:09:58,360 --> 01:10:00,400
Speaker 6: such a we I mean, in front of the pete.

1341
01:10:02,200 --> 01:10:03,519
Speaker 6: I'm not at touch of the story.

1342
01:10:07,080 --> 01:10:10,240
Speaker 1: I told Lisa's mom about how Amy's making me and

1343
01:10:10,360 --> 01:10:14,719
Speaker 1: my husband very uncomfortable, and her mom pulled her aside

1344
01:10:14,800 --> 01:10:17,200
Speaker 1: and told her off. I think because she came out grumpy.

1345
01:10:17,840 --> 01:10:20,960
Speaker 1: She was still acting Oh, because I think she was

1346
01:10:21,240 --> 01:10:24,400
Speaker 1: told off because she came out grumptyumpy, she was still

1347
01:10:24,439 --> 01:10:27,200
Speaker 1: acting like a crazy teenager because when we wanted to leave,

1348
01:10:27,640 --> 01:10:29,760
Speaker 1: she wouldn't give my husband his jacket back to him

1349
01:10:29,800 --> 01:10:37,080
Speaker 1: and kept sniffing it. Oh, sniffing, Sorry, weird. I had

1350
01:10:37,120 --> 01:10:39,360
Speaker 1: a feeling that she was so wrong, black dude, it

1351
01:10:39,479 --> 01:10:40,120
Speaker 1: was very strange.

1352
01:10:40,160 --> 01:10:44,160
Speaker 6: Oh you smell so good? Yeah, yeah, that's mom's calling.

1353
01:10:44,960 --> 01:10:46,240
Speaker 2: Is a very intimate thing.

1354
01:10:47,600 --> 01:10:49,759
Speaker 1: I had a feeling that she was drunk and completely

1355
01:10:49,840 --> 01:10:52,439
Speaker 1: out of it. My husband raised his voice and told

1356
01:10:52,479 --> 01:10:57,240
Speaker 1: her to stop messing around and give it him. I yelled,

1357
01:10:57,640 --> 01:11:00,880
Speaker 1: can you stop being so difficult, even shamelessly flirting with

1358
01:11:00,960 --> 01:11:02,599
Speaker 1: my husband in front of me the whole day, Give

1359
01:11:02,640 --> 01:11:04,280
Speaker 1: me the damn jacket and leave this alone.

1360
01:11:04,400 --> 01:11:10,000
Speaker 6: Finally, did you catch Finally? Husband?

1361
01:11:10,720 --> 01:11:10,920
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1362
01:11:11,080 --> 01:11:13,599
Speaker 6: You know, I finally some justice for this weird situation.

1363
01:11:13,720 --> 01:11:15,720
Speaker 6: Also Riley exposing my yawn.

1364
01:11:18,479 --> 01:11:21,320
Speaker 2: I try to get yawn sneezes or y or coughs.

1365
01:11:21,560 --> 01:11:23,360
Speaker 2: Yeah no, super gross.

1366
01:11:23,560 --> 01:11:26,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, very weird. I'm glad that op called or

1367
01:11:26,400 --> 01:11:27,080
Speaker 1: called her out on it.

1368
01:11:27,240 --> 01:11:30,080
Speaker 6: CPO it says, I like, be like, oh, baby, you

1369
01:11:30,160 --> 01:11:32,680
Speaker 6: were that jacket the first time we had sex in.

1370
01:11:35,080 --> 01:11:38,120
Speaker 1: You would say that in front of like a crowd.

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01:11:38,640 --> 01:11:39,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, you.

1372
01:11:40,800 --> 01:11:43,599
Speaker 1: Wore that jacket when we had sex life.

1373
01:11:44,120 --> 01:11:47,560
Speaker 6: Yeah, I like that comes off as like insecure.

1374
01:11:47,800 --> 01:11:52,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that Op. I liked Op's response. I

1375
01:11:52,160 --> 01:11:56,560
Speaker 1: got a text from Lisa's mom demanding I publicly apologized

1376
01:11:56,600 --> 01:11:59,799
Speaker 1: to Amy as in post on social media, a heartfelt

1377
01:11:59,840 --> 01:12:01,880
Speaker 1: apology because some of the guests heard me yell at

1378
01:12:01,920 --> 01:12:04,280
Speaker 1: her and thought I was reacting and humiliated her.

1379
01:12:05,760 --> 01:12:07,800
Speaker 2: She was humiliating you in a way.

1380
01:12:08,000 --> 01:12:08,200
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1381
01:12:09,000 --> 01:12:14,080
Speaker 6: Did the husband before the whole jacket incident? Did he

1382
01:12:14,160 --> 01:12:15,040
Speaker 6: He didn't push back at all.

1383
01:12:15,479 --> 01:12:18,880
Speaker 1: Well, he didn't, like verbally push back, but he he

1384
01:12:19,040 --> 01:12:19,800
Speaker 1: was looking at his wife.

1385
01:12:19,840 --> 01:12:25,120
Speaker 6: He was like, yeah, yeah, okay, that's good. That's good. Yeah,

1386
01:12:25,200 --> 01:12:25,920
Speaker 6: that's acceptable.

1387
01:12:26,080 --> 01:12:29,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, Lisa is on my side. So this is Opie's friend,

1388
01:12:29,920 --> 01:12:32,600
Speaker 1: the one who is having the wedding and told me

1389
01:12:32,760 --> 01:12:36,560
Speaker 1: Amy has always had gold digging tendencies. Oh, and that

1390
01:12:36,720 --> 01:12:38,519
Speaker 1: this isn't the first time she's done something like this

1391
01:12:38,600 --> 01:12:40,840
Speaker 1: because we know that Opie's husband is very well off.

1392
01:12:41,960 --> 01:12:45,320
Speaker 1: She flirted with her friend's dad and their next door

1393
01:12:45,400 --> 01:12:47,559
Speaker 1: neighbor who's married when she thought that they were wealthy.

1394
01:12:47,840 --> 01:12:51,200
Speaker 1: Lisa said that she'll handle it. I already felt so bad.

1395
01:12:51,280 --> 01:12:53,120
Speaker 1: I ruined the last moments of her wedding day, and

1396
01:12:53,200 --> 01:12:56,320
Speaker 1: now she has to deal with this. I'm ruminating on

1397
01:12:56,439 --> 01:12:58,840
Speaker 1: this a lot lately and wondering if I should apologize

1398
01:12:58,880 --> 01:13:01,559
Speaker 1: to Amy. I don't. I don't want to, But then again,

1399
01:13:01,640 --> 01:13:04,880
Speaker 1: if I did, I would explain exactly what happened and

1400
01:13:05,080 --> 01:13:06,840
Speaker 1: how it merited my reaction to her.

1401
01:13:07,080 --> 01:13:09,519
Speaker 6: But she was flirting with your husband so much.

1402
01:13:11,240 --> 01:13:11,800
Speaker 1: Uncomfortable.

1403
01:13:11,880 --> 01:13:16,759
Speaker 6: Uncomfortable, I mean, I feel like I wonder, I wonder

1404
01:13:17,040 --> 01:13:20,200
Speaker 6: how this would have turned out if the I mean

1405
01:13:20,240 --> 01:13:22,120
Speaker 6: the husband was like wife helped me, like. I wonder

1406
01:13:22,200 --> 01:13:24,800
Speaker 6: if he just said something, yeah, hey, like I don't

1407
01:13:24,800 --> 01:13:26,000
Speaker 6: feel comfortable with you touching me.

1408
01:13:26,200 --> 01:13:28,160
Speaker 2: As the doctor, he should have been like, oh, my

1409
01:13:28,280 --> 01:13:31,960
Speaker 2: last procedure I had to reconnect someone's spinal and like

1410
01:13:32,080 --> 01:13:36,400
Speaker 2: make it all boring and stuff where she was very disinterested. Also,

1411
01:13:37,160 --> 01:13:40,439
Speaker 2: I don't think she's apologized. This woman keeps doing this

1412
01:13:40,600 --> 01:13:45,080
Speaker 2: to every man she think is wealthy. Someone had to she's.

1413
01:13:44,920 --> 01:13:48,360
Speaker 6: A ha, Yeah, maybe this is like the kick in

1414
01:13:48,400 --> 01:13:51,000
Speaker 6: the butt she needed to stop this kind of behavior,

1415
01:13:51,160 --> 01:13:53,679
Speaker 6: and she's saving every future person from this kind.

1416
01:13:53,520 --> 01:13:55,480
Speaker 1: Of exactly fate.

1417
01:13:55,840 --> 01:13:58,439
Speaker 6: Yeah, Mary Kellay's is not the ahile. That's sexual harassment

1418
01:13:58,439 --> 01:14:02,200
Speaker 6: and a minimum. I mean she's like touching, yeah, touching him? No, no, no,

1419
01:14:04,520 --> 01:14:07,719
Speaker 6: this is my private square. Oh you have no no square?

1420
01:14:08,000 --> 01:14:08,200
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1421
01:14:08,320 --> 01:14:10,320
Speaker 6: I feel like everyone in the country calls a little

1422
01:14:10,479 --> 01:14:11,000
Speaker 6: something different.

1423
01:14:11,600 --> 01:14:12,439
Speaker 2: What do you call it?

1424
01:14:12,800 --> 01:14:15,479
Speaker 6: I really call it private square square.

1425
01:14:15,479 --> 01:14:16,160
Speaker 1: I've never said that.

1426
01:14:19,160 --> 01:14:19,960
Speaker 2: Remating.

1427
01:14:20,760 --> 01:14:23,479
Speaker 1: I don't want Oh, I don't want to apologize, But

1428
01:14:23,600 --> 01:14:25,840
Speaker 1: then again, if I did, I would explain exactly what

1429
01:14:25,960 --> 01:14:28,320
Speaker 1: happened and how it merited my reaction to her. Though

1430
01:14:28,400 --> 01:14:31,160
Speaker 1: this might add fuel to the fire. There is so

1431
01:14:31,360 --> 01:14:33,360
Speaker 1: much drama right now, and I want her to preserve

1432
01:14:33,439 --> 01:14:36,360
Speaker 1: my friendship with Lisa. What action should I take so

1433
01:14:36,680 --> 01:14:40,800
Speaker 1: that I don't ruin my friendship? And TLDR friend's sister

1434
01:14:41,000 --> 01:14:45,240
Speaker 1: was flirting with Opie's husband. I embarrassed her by calling

1435
01:14:45,240 --> 01:14:47,080
Speaker 1: hero ount on it, and now she wants a public apology.

1436
01:14:47,360 --> 01:14:50,160
Speaker 6: So she wants to preserve the relationship that she has with.

1437
01:14:50,200 --> 01:14:52,280
Speaker 1: Her friends at Yes, who is Amy's sister?

1438
01:14:52,600 --> 01:14:55,759
Speaker 6: Yeah? And Amy was the one that was being all touchy.

1439
01:14:56,320 --> 01:14:56,519
Speaker 2: Yes.

1440
01:14:56,720 --> 01:15:00,639
Speaker 1: To be clear, Lisa has done nothing called out amy behavior.

1441
01:15:01,760 --> 01:15:04,040
Speaker 2: But Lisa says that Opee should apologize.

1442
01:15:04,160 --> 01:15:07,040
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, Lisa is on. I think Lisa's

1443
01:15:07,080 --> 01:15:10,000
Speaker 1: on hers hold on. Lisa said that she'll handle it.

1444
01:15:10,640 --> 01:15:13,560
Speaker 1: I think Lisa's parents asked her to apologize.

1445
01:15:13,760 --> 01:15:15,599
Speaker 6: Lisa's parents asked, O pete apologies.

1446
01:15:15,760 --> 01:15:16,960
Speaker 1: I don't believe that Lisa has.

1447
01:15:17,080 --> 01:15:19,720
Speaker 6: But it sounds but what what said at the end

1448
01:15:19,800 --> 01:15:21,880
Speaker 6: is like, I just want to preserve my relationship with Lisa.

1449
01:15:22,080 --> 01:15:22,280
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1450
01:15:22,320 --> 01:15:24,400
Speaker 1: I think she's just worried because this is causing a

1451
01:15:24,439 --> 01:15:27,200
Speaker 1: lot of drama in the family rather than Lisa actually

1452
01:15:27,240 --> 01:15:28,880
Speaker 1: having I mean something does right?

1453
01:15:29,240 --> 01:15:31,320
Speaker 6: Does Lisa's sister deserve an apology?

1454
01:15:31,720 --> 01:15:31,760
Speaker 3: No?

1455
01:15:32,439 --> 01:15:32,599
Speaker 2: Right?

1456
01:15:33,280 --> 01:15:36,240
Speaker 6: I should she stop this behavior? Yes? But I think

1457
01:15:36,280 --> 01:15:40,760
Speaker 6: you asked yourself, just selfishly, what leads to the least

1458
01:15:40,800 --> 01:15:42,720
Speaker 6: amount of pain for you? Right?

1459
01:15:42,840 --> 01:15:43,040
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1460
01:15:43,200 --> 01:15:46,000
Speaker 6: And if apologizing to this person, even if it's like

1461
01:15:46,040 --> 01:15:47,760
Speaker 6: an apology, that you don't think you need to make

1462
01:15:48,479 --> 01:15:52,360
Speaker 6: gives you less pain. Then maybe it's something that is Yeah,

1463
01:15:52,400 --> 01:15:55,160
Speaker 6: maybe it's just like sorry, yeah, hey, I'm sorry, and

1464
01:15:55,360 --> 01:15:59,080
Speaker 6: you're just saying it to appease the parents. Maybe like, oh,

1465
01:15:59,200 --> 01:16:01,639
Speaker 6: but that's a great point. Mary Kelly talk to Lisa

1466
01:16:01,840 --> 01:16:06,000
Speaker 6: before possibly posting the explanation, laying out exactly what we'll

1467
01:16:06,040 --> 01:16:08,599
Speaker 6: be posting. Otherwise, no apology, no posts. Are they saying

1468
01:16:08,760 --> 01:16:09,760
Speaker 6: post it online?

1469
01:16:10,200 --> 01:16:11,080
Speaker 2: Yes, that's the thing.

1470
01:16:11,160 --> 01:16:13,519
Speaker 1: They're not even That's why I was like, oh, that's

1471
01:16:14,360 --> 01:16:17,720
Speaker 1: like a verbal apology. They're asking for an online like

1472
01:16:17,920 --> 01:16:21,000
Speaker 1: public apology. That's kind of weird. It was weird. I

1473
01:16:21,000 --> 01:16:21,560
Speaker 1: would not do it.

1474
01:16:21,600 --> 01:16:22,160
Speaker 2: I wouldn't do that.

1475
01:16:22,280 --> 01:16:22,880
Speaker 1: I would not do that.

1476
01:16:22,920 --> 01:16:24,840
Speaker 2: If I had to, I would do it on Instagram

1477
01:16:24,920 --> 01:16:27,519
Speaker 2: and I make a close friends post and have everyone

1478
01:16:27,600 --> 01:16:29,280
Speaker 2: that was there and do a public.

1479
01:16:30,439 --> 01:16:34,680
Speaker 1: What you do is you publicly post the the thing,

1480
01:16:34,840 --> 01:16:36,960
Speaker 1: and then on your close friends you add everyone who's

1481
01:16:37,000 --> 01:16:39,640
Speaker 1: not in that and you put just the opposite of

1482
01:16:39,720 --> 01:16:40,160
Speaker 1: what you said.

1483
01:16:41,120 --> 01:16:44,760
Speaker 6: Wait, you show everyone who's not so, so you post to.

1484
01:16:44,960 --> 01:16:47,200
Speaker 1: Lisa like publicly, you post to Lisa and her parents

1485
01:16:47,240 --> 01:16:49,559
Speaker 1: you're like, Sozario did this book, And then on your

1486
01:16:49,560 --> 01:16:51,840
Speaker 1: close friends list, you add everyone but them onto your

1487
01:16:51,880 --> 01:16:54,240
Speaker 1: close friends list, and you're like, I actually don't apologize.

1488
01:16:54,280 --> 01:16:59,200
Speaker 1: This is gonna Suckah. Thank you Kim for the five

1489
01:16:59,200 --> 01:17:01,719
Speaker 1: buck chip. Listening while at the gym, hoping for another

1490
01:17:01,760 --> 01:17:05,840
Speaker 1: hour so we can listen on my drive home. Well yeah, yeah,

1491
01:17:05,880 --> 01:17:06,559
Speaker 1: we're almost there.

1492
01:17:07,040 --> 01:17:07,880
Speaker 6: Work it, girl.

1493
01:17:08,000 --> 01:17:10,439
Speaker 1: And then thank you Samantha for dun buck chip. Love

1494
01:17:10,479 --> 01:17:12,000
Speaker 1: you guys. I hope you got the cookies I sent

1495
01:17:12,080 --> 01:17:14,479
Speaker 1: off listening to you guys as a shop for Easter. Also,

1496
01:17:14,640 --> 01:17:15,760
Speaker 1: you guys have a happy Easter.

1497
01:17:16,160 --> 01:17:18,519
Speaker 2: Thank you. We do have some packages. We got one

1498
01:17:18,600 --> 01:17:19,479
Speaker 2: that came in today.

1499
01:17:22,360 --> 01:17:24,080
Speaker 1: Should we wait until at the end of the story.

1500
01:17:24,080 --> 01:17:25,760
Speaker 2: It's on the will how many?

1501
01:17:26,640 --> 01:17:31,519
Speaker 6: How much story do we have? Yeah, let's wait till

1502
01:17:31,520 --> 01:17:32,040
Speaker 6: the end of the story.

1503
01:17:32,479 --> 01:17:34,200
Speaker 1: We're halfway. We're going to read the rest of the

1504
01:17:34,240 --> 01:17:35,200
Speaker 1: story and then we're gonna.

1505
01:17:35,040 --> 01:17:38,800
Speaker 6: Okay, so my prediction, yes, my conspiracy theory.

1506
01:17:39,520 --> 01:17:41,320
Speaker 1: What is your conspiracy theory?

1507
01:17:42,520 --> 01:17:47,120
Speaker 6: Ope? Will apologize? Oh no, OPI will not apologize, and

1508
01:17:48,120 --> 01:17:51,479
Speaker 6: it's going to go it's going to plunge further into darkness.

1509
01:17:51,640 --> 01:17:53,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree.

1510
01:17:53,840 --> 01:17:55,560
Speaker 6: Yeah, let's get back to REAATEI.

1511
01:17:57,400 --> 01:17:57,600
Speaker 5: Do it?

1512
01:17:57,720 --> 01:17:57,920
Speaker 2: Do it?

1513
01:17:58,000 --> 01:17:58,240
Speaker 1: Really?

1514
01:17:58,320 --> 01:17:58,519
Speaker 3: Do it?

1515
01:17:58,800 --> 01:18:00,839
Speaker 2: Yeah? Said, I would.

1516
01:18:00,680 --> 01:18:03,440
Speaker 6: Apologize and say the whole context.

1517
01:18:03,560 --> 01:18:06,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're like, I'm sorry that I called Amy out

1518
01:18:07,280 --> 01:18:13,760
Speaker 1: for aggressive and touching my husband and chest. Yeah, just

1519
01:18:13,840 --> 01:18:16,160
Speaker 1: call her out again. Oh all right, But there are

1520
01:18:16,200 --> 01:18:23,800
Speaker 1: some relevant comments. Fernando, I see what you do.

1521
01:18:24,880 --> 01:18:27,759
Speaker 2: No, no, I see what you're trying to do that O'Riley,

1522
01:18:28,080 --> 01:18:30,000
Speaker 2: I put my I know what you're trying to do. There,

1523
01:18:30,160 --> 01:18:31,040
Speaker 2: there's a link above.

1524
01:18:31,160 --> 01:18:31,680
Speaker 1: You can do that.

1525
01:18:32,120 --> 01:18:36,280
Speaker 2: Everyone in the chat tell them where to put the tip. Yeah. Yeah, uh.

1526
01:18:36,720 --> 01:18:40,080
Speaker 1: Jammy Cam says, are the guests at the wedding also

1527
01:18:40,160 --> 01:18:43,120
Speaker 1: your Facebook friends? I don't understand how a public apology

1528
01:18:43,160 --> 01:18:45,360
Speaker 1: on social media would work in this case. I mean,

1529
01:18:45,439 --> 01:18:48,599
Speaker 1: I imagine the guests include aunts, uncles, neighbors, et cetera

1530
01:18:48,720 --> 01:18:50,920
Speaker 1: of the family. Are they really going to see your

1531
01:18:50,960 --> 01:18:55,200
Speaker 1: Facebook apology? Opie says her mom wants me to Tager

1532
01:18:55,240 --> 01:18:57,080
Speaker 1: and Lisa so that the family can see it. I

1533
01:18:57,160 --> 01:18:59,559
Speaker 1: don't even use Facebook anymore, but her family are still

1534
01:18:59,600 --> 01:19:02,839
Speaker 1: active on it. Jammie Cam responds, if you don't use Facebook,

1535
01:19:02,880 --> 01:19:05,559
Speaker 1: then there's your answer. Lisa central handle it. I'd let

1536
01:19:05,760 --> 01:19:09,080
Speaker 1: this alone, or I'd leave this alone. And there is

1537
01:19:09,479 --> 01:19:10,040
Speaker 1: an update.

1538
01:19:10,400 --> 01:19:13,320
Speaker 2: Juicy thick update, thick guy.

1539
01:19:14,080 --> 01:19:19,200
Speaker 6: Just the hats. Those were Sad and Kim Kim. I've

1540
01:19:19,240 --> 01:19:21,000
Speaker 6: seen you in here. I don't know this is here too,

1541
01:19:21,040 --> 01:19:21,760
Speaker 6: but Kim is in here.

1542
01:19:21,880 --> 01:19:22,679
Speaker 1: We double check.

1543
01:19:22,840 --> 01:19:24,920
Speaker 6: He was worried that I'm an Elon Musk fan. I

1544
01:19:25,000 --> 01:19:27,439
Speaker 6: read his book. I don't think he's like a good guy.

1545
01:19:28,520 --> 01:19:31,360
Speaker 2: I've heard some conversations that Sam has had about Musk

1546
01:19:31,520 --> 01:19:34,240
Speaker 2: and you sound like a fan, buddy.

1547
01:19:34,400 --> 01:19:34,599
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1548
01:19:34,720 --> 01:19:36,479
Speaker 6: I read his book where I think he's done a

1549
01:19:36,600 --> 01:19:37,840
Speaker 6: lot of amazing things.

1550
01:19:38,240 --> 01:19:38,439
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1551
01:19:38,600 --> 01:19:40,120
Speaker 6: Sure, I mean he was one of the first that

1552
01:19:40,280 --> 01:19:41,800
Speaker 6: built reusable rockets I drive.

1553
01:19:41,880 --> 01:19:44,960
Speaker 1: Okay, we're not This is not an Elon Musk stan account,

1554
01:19:45,040 --> 01:19:46,639
Speaker 1: all right, this is a Reddit account.

1555
01:19:47,880 --> 01:19:52,400
Speaker 6: We read Reddit that's made some cool things. There we go,

1556
01:19:52,680 --> 01:19:56,040
Speaker 6: do you whatever. I don't want to be like him.

1557
01:19:56,240 --> 01:19:58,439
Speaker 6: I think he's good at creating companies.

1558
01:19:58,600 --> 01:20:01,160
Speaker 1: There, period done, We're moving on.

1559
01:20:02,920 --> 01:20:03,320
Speaker 2: Update.

1560
01:20:03,880 --> 01:20:06,400
Speaker 6: Yeah. Tella Davis says, appreciate the art, not the artist,

1561
01:20:07,520 --> 01:20:08,960
Speaker 6: because original says sounds like a fan.

1562
01:20:09,120 --> 01:20:14,240
Speaker 2: All right. Jellyby says he stole update oopdate. Please let

1563
01:20:14,320 --> 01:20:15,120
Speaker 2: me do the update.

1564
01:20:15,400 --> 01:20:16,000
Speaker 6: Brown I checked.

1565
01:20:16,040 --> 01:20:19,680
Speaker 1: No free testing promos, Yeah, no fresponsors, Sam, no responsors.

1566
01:20:19,880 --> 01:20:23,439
Speaker 1: Keeping it as short as I can and Typo's glore

1567
01:20:23,720 --> 01:20:27,240
Speaker 1: because I'm on call. Previous posts got so popular that

1568
01:20:27,320 --> 01:20:29,920
Speaker 1: Amy's mom found it and texted me to take it

1569
01:20:30,040 --> 01:20:34,479
Speaker 1: down in all caps. I got around. Oh, I guess, yeah,

1570
01:20:34,560 --> 01:20:38,320
Speaker 1: she did publicly say something. I got around to read

1571
01:20:38,360 --> 01:20:41,640
Speaker 1: most of the comments a day after I posted when

1572
01:20:41,680 --> 01:20:44,519
Speaker 1: I finished my shift. I did not apologize to anyone.

1573
01:20:44,880 --> 01:20:52,439
Speaker 1: Stop laughing. Oh lord, See this is what happens when

1574
01:20:52,439 --> 01:20:55,680
Speaker 1: Sam gets to talk about Elon Musk gets sidetracked and we.

1575
01:20:55,720 --> 01:20:58,680
Speaker 6: Have to talk about or does he talk about me?

1576
01:21:00,600 --> 01:21:05,200
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, for the book.

1577
01:21:05,080 --> 01:21:08,280
Speaker 1: Forty seven, y'all keeping me sane while I finished my PhD.

1578
01:21:08,360 --> 01:21:09,639
Speaker 6: Appreciate it anyway?

1579
01:21:10,360 --> 01:21:10,559
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1580
01:21:10,640 --> 01:21:11,120
Speaker 1: Can we can?

1581
01:21:11,200 --> 01:21:14,559
Speaker 6: I get back into my omm Mary is making me cool.

1582
01:21:14,720 --> 01:21:19,519
Speaker 1: Okay, thank you. I didn't not apologize to anyone or

1583
01:21:19,840 --> 01:21:22,439
Speaker 1: did anything at all. Frankly, I forgot about it since

1584
01:21:22,479 --> 01:21:24,720
Speaker 1: I had people close to dying on me left and

1585
01:21:24,840 --> 01:21:27,719
Speaker 1: right at work. I guess let Amy's mom into thinking

1586
01:21:27,760 --> 01:21:29,519
Speaker 1: that I never did such a thing and that I

1587
01:21:29,640 --> 01:21:32,840
Speaker 1: did not have a Reddit account. She believed it. I

1588
01:21:32,920 --> 01:21:35,080
Speaker 1: think since she didn't text me back. Come on, The

1589
01:21:35,160 --> 01:21:37,920
Speaker 1: details I put in that post were exactly what she experienced.

1590
01:21:37,960 --> 01:21:41,160
Speaker 1: And she didn't find it all. Her mom was like,

1591
01:21:41,520 --> 01:21:43,960
Speaker 1: did you write us about us in a Reddit post?

1592
01:21:44,040 --> 01:21:45,720
Speaker 1: I if? He was like, no, I don't even have

1593
01:21:45,800 --> 01:21:46,040
Speaker 1: read it.

1594
01:21:47,240 --> 01:21:48,240
Speaker 2: What are you talking to Reddit?

1595
01:21:48,600 --> 01:21:49,800
Speaker 6: I have no idea what you're talking about.

1596
01:21:50,320 --> 01:21:53,680
Speaker 1: Never, I never heard or even heard of it. Who

1597
01:21:53,760 --> 01:21:54,360
Speaker 1: are those people?

1598
01:21:54,760 --> 01:21:55,040
Speaker 6: Reddit?

1599
01:21:55,280 --> 01:21:55,559
Speaker 4: You mean?

1600
01:21:55,720 --> 01:21:57,120
Speaker 2: Like? Like, what what do you? What?

1601
01:21:57,280 --> 01:21:57,760
Speaker 6: Did I read?

1602
01:21:57,920 --> 01:22:00,960
Speaker 1: Yeah? Read what? Also? It seems like when you showed

1603
01:22:01,000 --> 01:22:04,920
Speaker 1: me that post, these people aren't called Amy Lisa, those

1604
01:22:04,920 --> 01:22:05,599
Speaker 1: aren't our names.

1605
01:22:06,720 --> 01:22:10,880
Speaker 6: There we go, Brandy says, gaslight gatekeep girl boss.

1606
01:22:11,120 --> 01:22:18,360
Speaker 1: Yes, Okay for clarification number one. One of you said

1607
01:22:18,479 --> 01:22:20,400
Speaker 1: I had a spine of a jellyfish.

1608
01:22:20,479 --> 01:22:21,080
Speaker 2: I love that.

1609
01:22:21,200 --> 01:22:27,960
Speaker 1: Comments she literally, she literally outright clapped back at Amy.

1610
01:22:28,800 --> 01:22:30,439
Speaker 2: I have heard that one. In a minute.

1611
01:22:30,560 --> 01:22:34,160
Speaker 1: I feel like you gotta have one before someone came

1612
01:22:34,240 --> 01:22:39,200
Speaker 1: back interesting and not apologizing was the right thing to do? Wait,

1613
01:22:41,200 --> 01:22:42,600
Speaker 1: one of you said I had a spine of a

1614
01:22:42,680 --> 01:22:45,000
Speaker 1: jellyfish and not apologizing was the right thing to do.

1615
01:22:45,400 --> 01:22:47,120
Speaker 1: Those are that's like mixed messages?

1616
01:22:47,320 --> 01:22:47,360
Speaker 7: No?

1617
01:22:47,800 --> 01:22:49,040
Speaker 6: Is it the same person? That's the thing?

1618
01:22:49,280 --> 01:22:49,719
Speaker 1: Apparently?

1619
01:22:51,720 --> 01:22:52,560
Speaker 2: I don't think No.

1620
01:22:52,840 --> 01:22:55,280
Speaker 6: I think it's like not apologizing is the right thing

1621
01:22:55,360 --> 01:22:57,800
Speaker 6: to do? And if you apologize you have the spine

1622
01:22:57,840 --> 01:22:58,479
Speaker 6: of a jellyfish.

1623
01:22:58,640 --> 01:23:01,800
Speaker 1: Oh okay, I think I was hesitant, and it was

1624
01:23:01,880 --> 01:23:04,600
Speaker 1: actually considering giving that apology because of the fact that

1625
01:23:04,680 --> 01:23:06,400
Speaker 1: she fed me and let me stay in her home

1626
01:23:06,560 --> 01:23:09,479
Speaker 1: during Thanksgiving and Christmas many years ago when I couldn't

1627
01:23:09,479 --> 01:23:11,800
Speaker 1: go home to my family. I'm the kind of person

1628
01:23:11,840 --> 01:23:14,200
Speaker 1: who'll remember every good thing you do for me and

1629
01:23:14,320 --> 01:23:17,160
Speaker 1: do my best to reciprocate or get even so as

1630
01:23:17,280 --> 01:23:21,439
Speaker 1: to not be indebted to you. This seems healthy. I

1631
01:23:21,520 --> 01:23:25,400
Speaker 1: don't know what kind of mental illness that is. At

1632
01:23:25,479 --> 01:23:28,280
Speaker 1: least she's self aware. I never retain much of the

1633
01:23:28,320 --> 01:23:32,000
Speaker 1: psychiatric info from med school number two. A lot of

1634
01:23:32,040 --> 01:23:35,080
Speaker 1: people insinuated that me being docile and restrained in those

1635
01:23:35,200 --> 01:23:38,320
Speaker 1: kinds of situations make me a bad surgeon, which I say,

1636
01:23:38,400 --> 01:23:41,200
Speaker 1: I beg your effing pardon. Would you want someone who's

1637
01:23:41,240 --> 01:23:44,040
Speaker 1: operating on you have to have a criminal record for

1638
01:23:44,120 --> 01:23:48,200
Speaker 1: causing bodily harm slash homicide? Also, I've dealt with that. No,

1639
01:23:49,320 --> 01:23:50,519
Speaker 1: let's put a poll in the chat.

1640
01:23:50,600 --> 01:23:50,760
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1641
01:23:51,840 --> 01:23:54,679
Speaker 1: Also, I dealt with worse than amy. I've survived handling

1642
01:23:54,760 --> 01:23:58,240
Speaker 1: nineteen psychotic patients with TBIs for a whole rotation.

1643
01:23:58,200 --> 01:24:00,519
Speaker 6: Was a TBI to loose.

1644
01:24:01,200 --> 01:24:04,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to say that too, not tuberculosis. What

1645
01:24:04,360 --> 01:24:04,879
Speaker 2: is TBI?

1646
01:24:05,280 --> 01:24:05,559
Speaker 6: All right?

1647
01:24:05,560 --> 01:24:08,599
Speaker 1: Anyway, you me being aggressive would have gotten me kicked

1648
01:24:08,600 --> 01:24:09,400
Speaker 1: out of my fellowship.

1649
01:24:10,320 --> 01:24:13,240
Speaker 2: Things that have transpired, Oh, traumatic brain injury.

1650
01:24:13,439 --> 01:24:16,080
Speaker 6: Oh, that's something you don't want to have.

1651
01:24:17,160 --> 01:24:20,360
Speaker 1: Number one. I tried to avoid contacting Lisa since she

1652
01:24:20,479 --> 01:24:24,280
Speaker 1: went off on her honeymoon, but because of the popularity

1653
01:24:24,360 --> 01:24:27,000
Speaker 1: of my previous post, I decided to give her heads up.

1654
01:24:27,439 --> 01:24:30,720
Speaker 1: Lisa was more than apologetic. In fact, she facetimed me

1655
01:24:30,840 --> 01:24:33,639
Speaker 1: and we had a very teary conversation about her family.

1656
01:24:33,840 --> 01:24:35,639
Speaker 1: That's good. I mean, I'm sad.

1657
01:24:35,920 --> 01:24:36,160
Speaker 2: Sorry.

1658
01:24:37,160 --> 01:24:39,120
Speaker 1: There were a lot more going on. There was a

1659
01:24:39,160 --> 01:24:41,920
Speaker 1: lot more going on that I never knew, but mine

1660
01:24:41,960 --> 01:24:44,120
Speaker 1: and my husband's involvement in her family drama was the

1661
01:24:44,200 --> 01:24:48,080
Speaker 1: last straw. She has decided to go no contact with

1662
01:24:48,280 --> 01:24:51,320
Speaker 1: her mom and sister. She also warned me that Amy

1663
01:24:51,400 --> 01:24:53,160
Speaker 1: might approach my husband in some way.

1664
01:24:53,040 --> 01:24:57,400
Speaker 2: But no idea how wait, like approach for sex?

1665
01:24:57,640 --> 01:25:01,760
Speaker 1: Probably? Oh god, She's also getting her extended extended family

1666
01:25:01,840 --> 01:25:04,960
Speaker 1: involved about Amy. My husband does not have any social

1667
01:25:05,080 --> 01:25:07,800
Speaker 1: media so hot. That's that's that's not me.

1668
01:25:07,920 --> 01:25:13,080
Speaker 6: That's what she says, Honestly, not having any social media

1669
01:25:13,160 --> 01:25:15,720
Speaker 6: is kind of sick. It's like it's like kind of

1670
01:25:15,840 --> 01:25:16,599
Speaker 6: like the cool thing.

1671
01:25:16,800 --> 01:25:19,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, but also I'm like, you know what, it's like

1672
01:25:19,720 --> 01:25:20,160
Speaker 1: too cool.

1673
01:25:20,200 --> 01:25:21,280
Speaker 2: You know it's too cool.

1674
01:25:21,479 --> 01:25:23,840
Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, when I am supposed to what am

1675
01:25:23,880 --> 01:25:26,000
Speaker 1: I to talk to you about? How am I supposed

1676
01:25:26,000 --> 01:25:26,760
Speaker 1: to reach out to you?

1677
01:25:27,040 --> 01:25:27,240
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1678
01:25:27,479 --> 01:25:30,880
Speaker 6: Or like call me, beat me if you want to

1679
01:25:30,920 --> 01:25:31,240
Speaker 6: reach me.

1680
01:25:32,479 --> 01:25:34,920
Speaker 1: But sometimes those people also like just never on their phones.

1681
01:25:34,960 --> 01:25:36,519
Speaker 1: And then I'm like, I can't talk to you because

1682
01:25:36,600 --> 01:25:38,479
Speaker 1: you're never on your phone. I can't reach you.

1683
01:25:38,880 --> 01:25:41,280
Speaker 6: You can call them, maybe you don't have to send

1684
01:25:41,680 --> 01:25:45,080
Speaker 6: memes are not the only way to communicate. Send me

1685
01:25:45,200 --> 01:25:46,360
Speaker 6: memes and I don't.

1686
01:25:46,640 --> 01:25:50,960
Speaker 2: He doesn't reach out, and I stopped sitting him language. Yeah,

1687
01:25:53,080 --> 01:25:55,800
Speaker 2: text them whenever I could, just d M them to you.

1688
01:25:57,160 --> 01:25:57,519
Speaker 2: I don't have.

1689
01:25:59,400 --> 01:25:59,840
Speaker 6: On my phone.

1690
01:26:00,040 --> 01:26:01,040
Speaker 2: Put it on there, wag.

1691
01:26:01,360 --> 01:26:02,840
Speaker 1: Sam's phone looks so ugly.

1692
01:26:04,520 --> 01:26:06,600
Speaker 6: Check us out. It's so boring. Here, here we go.

1693
01:26:06,800 --> 01:26:08,519
Speaker 6: That's what my phone screen looks like.

1694
01:26:08,840 --> 01:26:12,000
Speaker 2: It's literally so boring. I put it up to your face.

1695
01:26:12,000 --> 01:26:13,679
Speaker 2: Put it up to your face, put it to your face.

1696
01:26:14,479 --> 01:26:17,120
Speaker 6: That's that's what the home screen looks like it's boring.

1697
01:26:18,040 --> 01:26:21,960
Speaker 1: Okay, but anyway for clarification Number one, Oh wait, no,

1698
01:26:22,000 --> 01:26:24,560
Speaker 1: I already read that. I'm sorry things that have transpired.

1699
01:26:24,760 --> 01:26:28,720
Speaker 1: Number one? No did I read that? Where am I?

1700
01:26:29,640 --> 01:26:30,160
Speaker 2: You're on? Two?

1701
01:26:30,320 --> 01:26:35,280
Speaker 6: Okay, in the room now, Sophia, where you've just suffered

1702
01:26:35,280 --> 01:26:36,679
Speaker 6: a traumatic pain injury.

1703
01:26:37,800 --> 01:26:38,720
Speaker 2: Stop fighting.

1704
01:26:39,479 --> 01:26:43,040
Speaker 1: Number two. My husband does not have any social media

1705
01:26:43,200 --> 01:26:45,479
Speaker 1: so hot right, that's where we are, and he does

1706
01:26:45,520 --> 01:26:48,040
Speaker 1: not give out his number to anyone at all during

1707
01:26:48,080 --> 01:26:52,439
Speaker 1: the wedding. He's anal about loyalty and transparency in our marriage.

1708
01:26:53,040 --> 01:26:55,840
Speaker 1: We have access to each other's electronics. Well, there's nothing

1709
01:26:55,880 --> 01:26:58,920
Speaker 1: interesting on there on his phone. I know he would

1710
01:26:58,960 --> 01:27:01,360
Speaker 1: never cheat on me. Three days ago, someone called my

1711
01:27:01,439 --> 01:27:04,640
Speaker 1: husband's clinic asking to get his number for an emergency.

1712
01:27:05,520 --> 01:27:08,960
Speaker 1: That's such an obvious plot, and that she needed to

1713
01:27:08,960 --> 01:27:11,240
Speaker 1: get a hold of his wife. The nurse who answered

1714
01:27:11,320 --> 01:27:14,080
Speaker 1: refused to give a physician's personal number, and the conversation

1715
01:27:14,360 --> 01:27:19,920
Speaker 1: got it did my husband's colleague, another intensivist, took over

1716
01:27:20,040 --> 01:27:22,160
Speaker 1: and asked her to tell him what the emergency was

1717
01:27:22,680 --> 01:27:26,479
Speaker 1: so that he could tell my husband himself. The person

1718
01:27:26,560 --> 01:27:28,439
Speaker 1: on the phone argued some more, and when the doctor

1719
01:27:28,439 --> 01:27:31,880
Speaker 1: wouldn't give up. She hung up. That friend told my

1720
01:27:31,960 --> 01:27:33,960
Speaker 1: husband what happened and said the woman didn't give her

1721
01:27:34,040 --> 01:27:37,479
Speaker 1: name but had a very high pitched, childlike voice. My

1722
01:27:37,600 --> 01:27:39,240
Speaker 1: husband immediately knew it was Amy.

1723
01:27:39,560 --> 01:27:41,800
Speaker 2: Oh we have no proof.

1724
01:27:42,080 --> 01:27:45,600
Speaker 6: Wait, so Amy's calling a husband's place of work to

1725
01:27:46,000 --> 01:27:46,679
Speaker 6: get to number.

1726
01:27:46,840 --> 01:27:53,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. She's very prististen for Simmons.

1727
01:27:54,400 --> 01:27:55,080
Speaker 2: I know it was her.

1728
01:27:55,400 --> 01:27:57,479
Speaker 1: She must have searched my husband's name on Google and

1729
01:27:57,560 --> 01:28:00,720
Speaker 1: found where he worked, since his professional profile is online

1730
01:28:00,840 --> 01:28:01,640
Speaker 1: along with the name of.

1731
01:28:01,680 --> 01:28:04,080
Speaker 2: His hospital, that is a social media presence.

1732
01:28:04,400 --> 01:28:08,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, he can't escape. I'm getting more and more irritated.

1733
01:28:11,800 --> 01:28:12,080
Speaker 2: Escape.

1734
01:28:14,080 --> 01:28:16,240
Speaker 1: I'm getting more and more irritated by this whole thing,

1735
01:28:16,360 --> 01:28:19,120
Speaker 1: and I've gone full on mama Bear mode over my husband.

1736
01:28:19,560 --> 01:28:22,000
Speaker 1: He was furiously annoyed after the wedding and was saying

1737
01:28:22,080 --> 01:28:24,880
Speaker 1: if the genders were switched, he would have definitely gotten punched.

1738
01:28:25,040 --> 01:28:29,120
Speaker 1: Not even halfway through the wedding. My husband had terrible Yeah. Yeah, no,

1739
01:28:29,200 --> 01:28:33,679
Speaker 1: it's just it's so anybody, everybody should not be engaging

1740
01:28:33,720 --> 01:28:37,240
Speaker 1: in any sort of non conceptual touch. That's just the facts.

1741
01:28:38,360 --> 01:28:41,800
Speaker 1: My husband had terrible experiences with women before. Two women

1742
01:28:41,880 --> 01:28:45,000
Speaker 1: at different times tried to baby trap him, one did

1743
01:28:45,080 --> 01:28:48,040
Speaker 1: some Sherlock level manipulation, and one harassed us when we

1744
01:28:48,120 --> 01:28:48,599
Speaker 1: were dating.

1745
01:28:49,880 --> 01:28:53,320
Speaker 6: It's because he's so hot, so hot, everyone's.

1746
01:28:52,920 --> 01:28:55,040
Speaker 1: Trying to lock hair down, Delon or something.

1747
01:29:00,120 --> 01:29:01,560
Speaker 2: You thanks for eleven.

1748
01:29:03,640 --> 01:29:04,160
Speaker 1: Just got home.

1749
01:29:04,320 --> 01:29:13,840
Speaker 6: Yeah, first line, let's well, welcome Jabuie for your first life.

1750
01:29:14,160 --> 01:29:14,800
Speaker 6: God you're here.

1751
01:29:15,640 --> 01:29:18,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, So what we know about this guy? He's a doctor,

1752
01:29:18,680 --> 01:29:24,160
Speaker 1: he's rich, he's hockey. Yeah, he's hot, he's present, Delawn,

1753
01:29:24,320 --> 01:29:26,360
Speaker 1: he doesn't doesn't have a social.

1754
01:29:27,840 --> 01:29:31,840
Speaker 6: And he's loyal and he's loyal and everything you wanted, Tom.

1755
01:29:32,240 --> 01:29:34,920
Speaker 1: But all of the women in his life previously have

1756
01:29:35,560 --> 01:29:36,080
Speaker 1: stocked him.

1757
01:29:36,160 --> 01:29:38,479
Speaker 6: Well, they've just been trying to lock him down.

1758
01:29:39,320 --> 01:29:41,920
Speaker 2: Can you blame him? Yeah, but you can.

1759
01:29:42,560 --> 01:29:46,640
Speaker 1: He was the one who balked him. He's usually a

1760
01:29:46,720 --> 01:29:49,080
Speaker 1: cool and calm guy, but now he hasn't been smiling.

1761
01:29:49,160 --> 01:29:50,920
Speaker 1: We're joking around with me like he always does.

1762
01:29:51,000 --> 01:29:53,000
Speaker 2: Ever, he's funny.

1763
01:29:54,520 --> 01:29:57,920
Speaker 1: Any who, My uncle, our lawyer, was consulted. Security at

1764
01:29:57,960 --> 01:30:00,639
Speaker 1: my husband's department and around our home have and notified.

1765
01:30:00,840 --> 01:30:04,479
Speaker 1: Thank you guys. Yes, Kelly, if you're reading this, it's Kelly,

1766
01:30:05,000 --> 01:30:08,800
Speaker 1: do something about your oh younger daughter before something bad happens. Also,

1767
01:30:08,960 --> 01:30:09,880
Speaker 1: you don't deserve.

1768
01:30:09,640 --> 01:30:11,760
Speaker 6: Your older Oh Kelly is the mother at least that

1769
01:30:11,920 --> 01:30:13,559
Speaker 6: was like, oh, you should apologize to her.

1770
01:30:13,680 --> 01:30:16,120
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Edit, this is literally what I thought.

1771
01:30:16,200 --> 01:30:16,519
Speaker 2: They said.

1772
01:30:16,560 --> 01:30:18,840
Speaker 1: A Moriarty level manipulation, That's what I was. I was like,

1773
01:30:18,880 --> 01:30:21,800
Speaker 1: that's not a Sherlock, that's Moriarty. Thank you for editing that,

1774
01:30:21,880 --> 01:30:23,040
Speaker 1: because I was about to.

1775
01:30:23,080 --> 01:30:26,040
Speaker 6: Say, Yeah, Sophia is all in that Sherlock biz. She's

1776
01:30:26,040 --> 01:30:27,920
Speaker 6: listening to her. Do you finish the Sharlock podcast?

1777
01:30:27,960 --> 01:30:29,880
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm actually a little bit behind because they come

1778
01:30:29,920 --> 01:30:33,519
Speaker 1: out every Tuesday. Is anyone listening to Sherlock and co.

1779
01:30:34,000 --> 01:30:35,200
Speaker 1: Sherlock and Co. On podcasts?

1780
01:30:35,280 --> 01:30:38,560
Speaker 2: No, because we'll seen Okay, op, yeah Sophia, Okay.

1781
01:30:38,320 --> 01:30:41,840
Speaker 1: Sorry, I am sponsoring, but I love it. They're great.

1782
01:30:42,280 --> 01:30:45,160
Speaker 1: I wonder if we can do it. Wouldn't make sense

1783
01:30:45,240 --> 01:30:45,560
Speaker 1: to do it.

1784
01:30:46,240 --> 01:30:49,879
Speaker 6: Yeah, Mary Kelly's amy seems a bit dangerous and completely delusional.

1785
01:30:49,920 --> 01:30:53,160
Speaker 6: I think that point. Yes, she's a little bit disconnected

1786
01:30:53,160 --> 01:30:53,799
Speaker 6: from reality.

1787
01:30:54,000 --> 01:30:58,639
Speaker 1: Yeah she said cooky, but there are some reliving comments. Also,

1788
01:30:58,680 --> 01:31:01,439
Speaker 1: thank you Mixed Emotions for the time books. Currently taking

1789
01:31:01,520 --> 01:31:02,960
Speaker 1: my last finalistening to y'all.

1790
01:31:03,560 --> 01:31:07,679
Speaker 6: Wow, wait, wait, wait, mixed emotions. I have mixed emotions

1791
01:31:07,680 --> 01:31:10,840
Speaker 6: about that you're currently taking it.

1792
01:31:11,360 --> 01:31:15,479
Speaker 1: I don't even I didn't even I didn't even register that.

1793
01:31:15,600 --> 01:31:17,160
Speaker 2: I was like, you were doing it?

1794
01:31:17,640 --> 01:31:20,840
Speaker 6: Well, I imagine has a time limit?

1795
01:31:21,720 --> 01:31:26,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just I want you to like watch our live?

1796
01:31:26,760 --> 01:31:31,519
Speaker 2: I mean, hey, is it support? Is it ability?

1797
01:31:31,760 --> 01:31:31,960
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1798
01:31:32,040 --> 01:31:34,360
Speaker 2: How are you doing that? That's crazy?

1799
01:31:34,640 --> 01:31:40,120
Speaker 1: If mixed emotions can be here, then there's no excuse

1800
01:31:40,200 --> 01:31:42,479
Speaker 1: for anyone else to not be here, to not be

1801
01:31:42,600 --> 01:31:44,920
Speaker 1: liking this live because we're we're.

1802
01:31:46,439 --> 01:31:47,000
Speaker 6: Twenty two.

1803
01:31:47,880 --> 01:31:51,360
Speaker 1: Oh do we just go up twenty two away from

1804
01:31:52,720 --> 01:31:53,160
Speaker 1: that wheel?

1805
01:31:53,600 --> 01:31:56,800
Speaker 6: But let's get this relevant story and get into the

1806
01:31:56,880 --> 01:31:57,559
Speaker 6: relevant comments.

1807
01:31:57,720 --> 01:31:57,880
Speaker 2: Yes.

1808
01:31:59,240 --> 01:32:05,040
Speaker 1: Read in comment at L three x G says, damn,

1809
01:32:05,160 --> 01:32:07,840
Speaker 1: can your lawyer uncle draft a letter to scare Amy?

1810
01:32:08,400 --> 01:32:08,920
Speaker 6: Uncle lawyer?

1811
01:32:09,240 --> 01:32:10,400
Speaker 1: Just you know, lawyer uncle?

1812
01:32:12,120 --> 01:32:14,080
Speaker 2: What that's sam said?

1813
01:32:14,840 --> 01:32:16,840
Speaker 6: Uncle brother, uncle lawyer?

1814
01:32:16,960 --> 01:32:21,120
Speaker 1: Ya just downlining what she's doing is harassment and the

1815
01:32:21,160 --> 01:32:24,479
Speaker 1: outcome if she continues. Sounds like Amy might need mental

1816
01:32:24,560 --> 01:32:27,720
Speaker 1: help and threats of repercussions might force her mother's hand

1817
01:32:27,800 --> 01:32:30,439
Speaker 1: to getting her help. Is the dad around? I hope

1818
01:32:30,479 --> 01:32:34,080
Speaker 1: other families members will start pressuring Amy to get help.

1819
01:32:35,120 --> 01:32:37,599
Speaker 1: Op He says, Nope, we couldn't prove it was Amy

1820
01:32:37,680 --> 01:32:39,519
Speaker 1: that called we just have to wait and see if

1821
01:32:39,560 --> 01:32:42,120
Speaker 1: she does anything. Our only hope is that she stays

1822
01:32:42,200 --> 01:32:44,240
Speaker 1: broke and can't afford to travel to where we live

1823
01:32:44,400 --> 01:32:45,439
Speaker 1: since it's far from hers.

1824
01:32:46,200 --> 01:32:47,080
Speaker 2: Dad's crazy.

1825
01:32:47,400 --> 01:32:49,000
Speaker 1: Her dad's dead. I hope so too.

1826
01:32:49,880 --> 01:32:50,840
Speaker 2: You hope her dad's dead.

1827
01:32:50,880 --> 01:32:52,960
Speaker 1: That's no, that's what she says, her dad's dead. I

1828
01:32:53,040 --> 01:32:56,240
Speaker 1: hope so too. I think what I think? I think

1829
01:32:56,320 --> 01:32:59,080
Speaker 1: this is in response, so it goes the previous commenter said,

1830
01:32:59,280 --> 01:33:01,720
Speaker 1: is the dad around? I hope other family members will

1831
01:33:01,720 --> 01:33:03,600
Speaker 1: start crushing Amy to get help. So I think that

1832
01:33:03,880 --> 01:33:06,080
Speaker 1: is the dad around. Her dad's dead. I hope other

1833
01:33:06,160 --> 01:33:08,240
Speaker 1: family members will start crushing Aim to get help.

1834
01:33:08,320 --> 01:33:10,920
Speaker 6: I hope so do wow because that our dad?

1835
01:33:11,800 --> 01:33:12,240
Speaker 2: I hope so.

1836
01:33:12,680 --> 01:33:14,719
Speaker 6: I hope so though. I hope he's still dead.

1837
01:33:15,360 --> 01:33:18,080
Speaker 1: And then procrastinating Bee says, why has everyone got an

1838
01:33:18,120 --> 01:33:19,120
Speaker 1: uncle lawyer? Lol?

1839
01:33:20,120 --> 01:33:21,040
Speaker 6: I love uncle lawyer.

1840
01:33:21,280 --> 01:33:21,439
Speaker 2: Op.

1841
01:33:21,520 --> 01:33:24,400
Speaker 1: He says, I'm have Asian, the uncle Asian? Then that

1842
01:33:24,600 --> 01:33:28,280
Speaker 1: uncle is as That uncle is Asian too. That should

1843
01:33:28,280 --> 01:33:32,320
Speaker 1: answer your question. Forsaken Woodpecker says, I'm rolling. This response

1844
01:33:32,439 --> 01:33:33,520
Speaker 1: is hilarious.

1845
01:33:33,439 --> 01:33:35,599
Speaker 6: And that we have any we don't have any uncle lawyers?

1846
01:33:35,640 --> 01:33:37,519
Speaker 6: Do we No, I don't think so.

1847
01:33:38,920 --> 01:33:39,400
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm.

1848
01:33:39,840 --> 01:33:40,880
Speaker 6: Rather, do you have an uncle lawyer?

1849
01:33:41,040 --> 01:33:44,360
Speaker 2: I don't. I got an uncle stall Mill, saw Mill

1850
01:33:44,479 --> 01:33:48,920
Speaker 2: uncle Sala what our uncle? They got a yur in

1851
01:33:49,000 --> 01:33:49,840
Speaker 2: there that counts.

1852
01:33:50,040 --> 01:33:52,240
Speaker 6: All of Riley's uncles are so uncles.

1853
01:33:52,439 --> 01:33:53,960
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know what my uncles do.

1854
01:33:54,520 --> 01:33:55,760
Speaker 6: You don't know what any of your uncles do.

1855
01:33:56,040 --> 01:34:02,360
Speaker 1: One works as a carpenter, okay, one I think works

1856
01:34:02,439 --> 01:34:06,759
Speaker 1: in pharmaceuticals. Yes, I have so many uncles.

1857
01:34:07,439 --> 01:34:08,800
Speaker 2: We have a lot of uncles. You do know what?

1858
01:34:08,880 --> 01:34:09,920
Speaker 1: The one was a teacher.

1859
01:34:10,360 --> 01:34:13,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh that's great.

1860
01:34:13,320 --> 01:34:13,760
Speaker 6: That's great.

1861
01:34:14,800 --> 01:34:16,000
Speaker 2: Is that the end of the stot the end of

1862
01:34:16,040 --> 01:34:19,519
Speaker 2: the story? Yeah, I guess what. We just hit five under?

1863
01:34:19,680 --> 01:34:26,599
Speaker 1: Like, right, did we talk about that story at all?

1864
01:34:26,720 --> 01:34:26,760
Speaker 5: Or?

1865
01:34:27,080 --> 01:34:27,200
Speaker 1: Oh?

1866
01:34:27,240 --> 01:34:27,880
Speaker 5: Well, I mean.

1867
01:34:30,240 --> 01:34:30,760
Speaker 2: Addressed that.

1868
01:34:31,960 --> 01:34:36,599
Speaker 6: I'm glad crazy, I'm glad. I'm glad that she can't

1869
01:34:36,760 --> 01:34:39,160
Speaker 6: doesn't have enough money to them.

1870
01:34:39,400 --> 01:34:41,479
Speaker 2: I'm glad that it's a lot of money to be

1871
01:34:41,479 --> 01:34:45,760
Speaker 2: a stalker. Yeah. It takes time, Yeah, especially someone famous.

1872
01:34:45,600 --> 01:34:47,720
Speaker 6: Like they're around all place, like all over. You have

1873
01:34:47,800 --> 01:34:50,240
Speaker 6: to you have to really like you have to really

1874
01:34:50,320 --> 01:34:51,320
Speaker 6: move around to find them.

1875
01:34:51,520 --> 01:34:55,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, creepy. You guys have stalkers. I hope not.

1876
01:34:55,640 --> 01:34:56,560
Speaker 6: I hope not.

1877
01:34:56,840 --> 01:35:00,720
Speaker 2: I do who they're from. Oh, actually the stalker once

1878
01:35:01,160 --> 01:35:02,559
Speaker 2: they're from elementary school.

1879
01:35:02,800 --> 01:35:02,920
Speaker 4: Uh.

1880
01:35:03,720 --> 01:35:05,479
Speaker 2: It was like a girl that was like kind of

1881
01:35:05,560 --> 01:35:08,639
Speaker 2: lonely and I like helped her, like I played soccer

1882
01:35:08,720 --> 01:35:10,479
Speaker 2: with her once and like was her friend. And then

1883
01:35:10,960 --> 01:35:13,000
Speaker 2: after elementary school she kept trying to reach out. But

1884
01:35:13,040 --> 01:35:15,639
Speaker 2: I haven't like reached back out because like, you really

1885
01:35:15,720 --> 01:35:17,760
Speaker 2: don't know what people are like today, So I've just

1886
01:35:17,840 --> 01:35:21,840
Speaker 2: kind of like not reached back out whatever I could be, like, hey,

1887
01:35:21,840 --> 01:35:24,680
Speaker 2: I hope you you You just found me on like

1888
01:35:24,800 --> 01:35:27,800
Speaker 2: Instagram and Facebook and like it's like, hey, do you

1889
01:35:27,880 --> 01:35:30,040
Speaker 2: remember me? YadA, YadA, YadA. I don't know.

1890
01:35:30,320 --> 01:35:33,160
Speaker 6: I mean I feel like stalking. Stalking onlines one thing,

1891
01:35:33,240 --> 01:35:34,320
Speaker 6: but stalking in person.

1892
01:35:35,160 --> 01:35:36,519
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, no, not in person.

1893
01:35:37,360 --> 01:35:37,920
Speaker 6: I had once.

1894
01:35:38,280 --> 01:35:42,160
Speaker 1: I've never had a stalker, and I would and don't

1895
01:35:42,200 --> 01:35:42,880
Speaker 1: don't get one.

1896
01:35:43,320 --> 01:35:48,240
Speaker 6: No one stock us stock please don't do it. We

1897
01:35:48,439 --> 01:35:53,360
Speaker 6: said no, but you know what, I want to stock this?

1898
01:35:53,680 --> 01:35:58,600
Speaker 2: Well this we all spend not wheel all right, we go.

1899
01:36:03,439 --> 01:36:03,800
Speaker 6: What is it?

1900
01:36:04,240 --> 01:36:04,400
Speaker 3: Oh?

1901
01:36:04,760 --> 01:36:05,800
Speaker 2: Riley gets to pee?

1902
01:36:07,400 --> 01:36:09,760
Speaker 1: Why are you doing that? We can open the gifts yeah.

1903
01:36:09,920 --> 01:36:14,680
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, well Riley, I love how that has to

1904
01:36:14,760 --> 01:36:15,559
Speaker 6: be on the wheel.

1905
01:36:16,520 --> 01:36:19,439
Speaker 1: Riley gets to be okay, he doesn't have.

1906
01:36:19,479 --> 01:36:28,160
Speaker 6: To beat a bottle. All right, all right, I'm excited.

1907
01:36:28,320 --> 01:36:31,360
Speaker 6: This is this is I We love when you guys

1908
01:36:31,400 --> 01:36:32,599
Speaker 6: send stuff to our po box.

1909
01:36:32,640 --> 01:36:33,200
Speaker 1: It's exciting.

1910
01:36:33,360 --> 01:36:37,559
Speaker 6: It feels like Christmas every day. It does, makes makes

1911
01:36:37,600 --> 01:36:38,160
Speaker 6: the wheel share.

1912
01:36:38,640 --> 01:36:42,200
Speaker 1: So yeah, I thought he was taking your suggestions.

1913
01:36:42,320 --> 01:36:49,080
Speaker 2: Did you sensing unfair work conditions? Okay, hold on, okay,

1914
01:36:49,640 --> 01:36:50,479
Speaker 2: what to say?

1915
01:36:50,760 --> 01:36:56,120
Speaker 1: Uh spoke candy chocolate? Here do we get chocolate? I'm

1916
01:36:56,160 --> 01:36:58,040
Speaker 1: trying to see if there's a note or anything.

1917
01:36:58,320 --> 01:37:01,320
Speaker 6: Nerdy glass is not my dumbastic You could be on camera.

1918
01:37:02,080 --> 01:37:05,920
Speaker 6: Y'all are too thirsty for Riley's pet. All right, I

1919
01:37:06,000 --> 01:37:07,240
Speaker 6: want to see you show me what it is.

1920
01:37:08,360 --> 01:37:11,160
Speaker 1: What is it? I don't know who this is from,

1921
01:37:11,320 --> 01:37:14,800
Speaker 1: but it's chocolates and oh wait, oh here, enjoy the

1922
01:37:14,880 --> 01:37:15,599
Speaker 1: life of Riley.

1923
01:37:17,120 --> 01:37:17,479
Speaker 2: What is it?

1924
01:37:17,520 --> 01:37:18,120
Speaker 6: Who's it from?

1925
01:37:18,320 --> 01:37:21,440
Speaker 1: I don't know they're Riley Chocolates.

1926
01:37:22,840 --> 01:37:24,400
Speaker 6: Enjoy the life of Riley.

1927
01:37:24,720 --> 01:37:29,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, are these four who sent this? If you said this,

1928
01:37:31,280 --> 01:37:36,000
Speaker 3: you see that? Yeah, if you sent this, let us

1929
01:37:36,080 --> 01:37:36,800
Speaker 3: know in the chat.

1930
01:37:39,600 --> 01:37:47,840
Speaker 6: It's that's so cute. Riley chocolates. That's for you.

1931
01:37:48,080 --> 01:37:48,759
Speaker 2: This is yours.

1932
01:37:49,240 --> 01:37:51,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think he said for you.

1933
01:37:57,360 --> 01:37:57,960
Speaker 2: Chocolates.

1934
01:37:59,200 --> 01:37:59,840
Speaker 1: Could we eat one?

1935
01:38:00,479 --> 01:38:00,679
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1936
01:38:03,720 --> 01:38:04,840
Speaker 6: And we don't know who this is from.

1937
01:38:05,479 --> 01:38:05,920
Speaker 4: I don't want to.

1938
01:38:07,439 --> 01:38:10,479
Speaker 2: Riley. Come to the UK where we have better working laws. Okay,

1939
01:38:11,880 --> 01:38:15,560
Speaker 2: that's funny. Riley Stalker sent it all right. Oh we

1940
01:38:15,680 --> 01:38:17,719
Speaker 2: have to wait to okay.

1941
01:38:17,880 --> 01:38:19,559
Speaker 6: Yeah, Wait where does this say their name? I don't

1942
01:38:19,560 --> 01:38:29,800
Speaker 6: see it. I don't see it. Oh where can we

1943
01:38:29,840 --> 01:38:32,280
Speaker 6: say their first name? We could say their first name, Carla,

1944
01:38:32,840 --> 01:38:33,680
Speaker 6: thank you for the.

1945
01:38:33,720 --> 01:38:38,920
Speaker 2: Chocolate and go to the bathroom. What a win win.

1946
01:38:39,160 --> 01:38:42,320
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. Oh boy, Kelly Perry, thank you

1947
01:38:42,439 --> 01:38:46,280
Speaker 1: for the three thirty one books. Longtime listener, first time

1948
01:38:46,320 --> 01:38:49,799
Speaker 1: watching live. It's almost six am. I should probably sleep.

1949
01:38:50,600 --> 01:38:52,600
Speaker 1: It's almost six am. I feel like you should have

1950
01:38:52,720 --> 01:38:53,240
Speaker 1: been asleep.

1951
01:38:53,360 --> 01:38:55,320
Speaker 2: Wake up early, be with us.

1952
01:38:55,960 --> 01:38:58,080
Speaker 1: I'm eating the chocolate. Yummy, yam.

1953
01:38:58,760 --> 01:39:02,840
Speaker 6: Riley is getting spoiled. Yeah, Riley, don't be. It might

1954
01:39:02,880 --> 01:39:05,200
Speaker 6: be a reference to the chocolate, but I I refer.

1955
01:39:05,080 --> 01:39:06,280
Speaker 2: To I like that.

1956
01:39:06,439 --> 01:39:08,920
Speaker 6: It's like we're spoiling by letting him.

1957
01:39:11,280 --> 01:39:15,840
Speaker 1: This is so good. It's like I'm fruity mm hmm.

1958
01:39:16,720 --> 01:39:21,320
Speaker 2: I should try it. Yeah, oh did you eat it all?

1959
01:39:21,439 --> 01:39:21,479
Speaker 5: No?

1960
01:39:22,000 --> 01:39:24,800
Speaker 6: Great one, there's more. Yeah, I'll try.

1961
01:39:25,600 --> 01:39:28,280
Speaker 1: You want just a bite of mine? Raley, Do you

1962
01:39:28,320 --> 01:39:29,040
Speaker 1: want the rest of mine?

1963
01:39:29,160 --> 01:39:35,519
Speaker 2: Sure? Good, shout us more stuff. We'll open it up

1964
01:39:35,560 --> 01:39:45,479
Speaker 2: on stream eating chocolate. Oh oh wow, pretty good?

1965
01:39:45,520 --> 01:39:50,040
Speaker 6: Right, Lanny says, please don't consume stuff you get in

1966
01:39:50,080 --> 01:39:50,400
Speaker 6: the mail.

1967
01:39:50,960 --> 01:39:52,880
Speaker 2: But it was wrapped, it was wrapped, it was safe,

1968
01:39:53,280 --> 01:39:56,400
Speaker 2: and it's from our fan. Yeah.

1969
01:39:56,680 --> 01:39:57,479
Speaker 6: Yeah, maybe that's a.

1970
01:39:58,960 --> 01:40:02,040
Speaker 2: I'll risk it. Hey, you know what, I'll be that

1971
01:40:02,200 --> 01:40:03,760
Speaker 2: dude that tastes the drink.

1972
01:40:03,720 --> 01:40:08,040
Speaker 6: Before like the like the king, the guy that eats

1973
01:40:08,080 --> 01:40:09,840
Speaker 6: the king's food so the cats get poisoned.

1974
01:40:10,160 --> 01:40:12,320
Speaker 2: You'll be that guy. We wouldn't do that to us, right,

1975
01:40:12,600 --> 01:40:14,120
Speaker 2: you guys wouldn't poison us.

1976
01:40:14,680 --> 01:40:15,200
Speaker 1: Oh it was.

1977
01:40:15,400 --> 01:40:20,439
Speaker 2: It was like fully wrapped it. Why why worry in

1978
01:40:20,479 --> 01:40:21,800
Speaker 2: life whenever you can enjoy it.

1979
01:40:22,920 --> 01:40:24,800
Speaker 6: Maybe we shouldn't eat things.

1980
01:40:25,040 --> 01:40:27,240
Speaker 1: Okay, but we're gonna eat what you guys sent us,

1981
01:40:27,680 --> 01:40:30,800
Speaker 1: but from starting from like after we get those things,

1982
01:40:30,960 --> 01:40:33,800
Speaker 1: then we'll stop eating things. But like, because we got

1983
01:40:33,840 --> 01:40:34,719
Speaker 1: cookies on the way.

1984
01:40:35,720 --> 01:40:36,479
Speaker 2: They wouldn't do that.

1985
01:40:36,640 --> 01:40:37,320
Speaker 1: They wouldn't do that.

1986
01:40:37,400 --> 01:40:39,240
Speaker 2: But hey, just let me eat it and make it.

1987
01:40:39,320 --> 01:40:42,640
Speaker 1: Maybe get like one k more subscribers, we'll stop eat like,

1988
01:40:42,720 --> 01:40:45,360
Speaker 1: we'll get a little bit more people, and then we're like, okay, bro.

1989
01:40:45,560 --> 01:40:49,120
Speaker 6: Y'all, y'all are y'all are freaking me out? I don't

1990
01:40:49,160 --> 01:40:56,160
Speaker 6: who said Yeah. Sylvia says, stop eating things, but get

1991
01:40:56,280 --> 01:40:57,080
Speaker 6: fental test.

1992
01:40:57,320 --> 01:41:00,920
Speaker 2: People were gonna put infected. I'll take that. I'm immune.

1993
01:41:02,960 --> 01:41:10,760
Speaker 1: You're invented all in our chocolate but chocolate. No, but

1994
01:41:10,840 --> 01:41:12,760
Speaker 1: I broke, but I would. I would be able to

1995
01:41:12,960 --> 01:41:17,960
Speaker 1: feel a razor in my chocolate, Dude, I would be

1996
01:41:18,040 --> 01:41:18,519
Speaker 1: able to know.

1997
01:41:18,960 --> 01:41:22,080
Speaker 6: Yeah, if we die on stream, we know who it is. Yeah,

1998
01:41:22,920 --> 01:41:26,960
Speaker 6: your name you can get though, Sam, Yeah.

1999
01:41:28,840 --> 01:41:29,120
Speaker 2: About it?

2000
01:41:29,240 --> 01:41:33,240
Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah it was wrapped and Mary Kelly says, you good,

2001
01:41:33,320 --> 01:41:35,600
Speaker 1: it was wrapped. Wasn't tampered with, don't stress, Yeah we

2002
01:41:35,720 --> 01:41:37,439
Speaker 1: did it didn't look tampered with.

2003
01:41:37,760 --> 01:41:38,080
Speaker 2: Guys.

2004
01:41:38,280 --> 01:41:41,120
Speaker 6: Yeah. Selvia says, you only need one person with bad intentions.

2005
01:41:41,560 --> 01:41:44,480
Speaker 2: Well, but then you have thousands of people with good attentions.

2006
01:41:44,560 --> 01:41:46,800
Speaker 6: Tell me about that, and we can't eat a thousand things.

2007
01:41:47,040 --> 01:41:47,240
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2008
01:41:47,439 --> 01:41:48,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we.

2009
01:41:48,760 --> 01:41:51,240
Speaker 1: Eat halloween candy. Lady Or says they.

2010
01:41:51,840 --> 01:41:53,360
Speaker 6: We eat halloween candy.

2011
01:41:53,439 --> 01:41:55,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, one of those people get up bad intentions like

2012
01:41:56,120 --> 01:41:56,839
Speaker 1: the nineties.

2013
01:41:57,560 --> 01:42:00,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, here's an easy fix, get wrecked Sunsy fix. You

2014
01:42:01,000 --> 01:42:02,679
Speaker 2: can't poison us when you send us food.

2015
01:42:02,720 --> 01:42:05,120
Speaker 6: Yeah, don't make Yeah, yeah, you can't do it. It's illegal.

2016
01:42:05,400 --> 01:42:07,559
Speaker 1: People are saying homemade stuff. That's fair.

2017
01:42:08,360 --> 01:42:09,439
Speaker 2: But I am going to eat the.

2018
01:42:09,479 --> 01:42:14,360
Speaker 6: Cree but homemade stuff. Yeah, Sylvia says, you only die once. Yeah.

2019
01:42:14,880 --> 01:42:18,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, very careful about the homemade food. But I think

2020
01:42:18,080 --> 01:42:19,200
Speaker 1: the stuff that's wrapping.

2021
01:42:20,439 --> 01:42:21,759
Speaker 6: We can do be careful.

2022
01:42:22,040 --> 01:42:23,800
Speaker 2: We can do the thing like whenever everyone in the

2023
01:42:23,840 --> 01:42:25,680
Speaker 2: Senate meets, they leave a couple of people out of

2024
01:42:25,720 --> 01:42:27,920
Speaker 2: it in case the Senate gets bombed. We could do

2025
01:42:28,000 --> 01:42:30,360
Speaker 2: that here, Like everyone can eat it except for one person.

2026
01:42:30,680 --> 01:42:33,479
Speaker 6: Yeah, and then they can like they can like spread

2027
01:42:33,520 --> 01:42:35,800
Speaker 6: the word about all the dead people.

2028
01:42:35,680 --> 01:42:37,840
Speaker 2: Exactly, and then they can like keep going with the show.

2029
01:42:37,840 --> 01:42:39,759
Speaker 1: If we just take a small bite, then it's fine.

2030
01:42:40,040 --> 01:42:43,240
Speaker 6: That's okay. Sarah jumps up. It is wrapped, it's fine,

2031
01:42:43,439 --> 01:42:46,679
Speaker 6: And I trust Sarah Job. I trust I trust Sarah Job.

2032
01:42:46,760 --> 01:42:47,920
Speaker 6: You know, if it's wrapped, it's fine.

2033
01:42:48,000 --> 01:42:48,200
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2034
01:42:48,720 --> 01:42:50,599
Speaker 6: Let their kids go up to strangers houses and get

2035
01:42:50,680 --> 01:42:57,680
Speaker 6: can't Yeah, exactly exactly. Divina Herbst, thanks for the six books. Austrillion.

2036
01:42:59,439 --> 01:43:02,679
Speaker 2: Alright, already another story?

2037
01:43:02,800 --> 01:43:04,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, reading another story?

2038
01:43:04,640 --> 01:43:13,960
Speaker 6: Yeah, go jump on a meeting wa wa be good.

2039
01:43:15,280 --> 01:43:16,760
Speaker 1: Yes, I would worry about it.

2040
01:43:17,280 --> 01:43:24,280
Speaker 2: Know we're not Bye Sam, Bye Sam. I like that

2041
01:43:24,560 --> 01:43:29,120
Speaker 2: it jiggled. Yeah, look look watch your watch it watch

2042
01:43:29,200 --> 01:43:33,080
Speaker 2: by jiggles real big. Oh he moved the table up

2043
01:43:33,160 --> 01:43:35,479
Speaker 2: and there's no space here. Back here. I had so

2044
01:43:35,600 --> 01:43:40,320
Speaker 2: much space. It was nice. No, get out of here.

2045
01:43:40,400 --> 01:43:43,479
Speaker 2: You can't tell that story. Go on and anyways, what

2046
01:43:43,600 --> 01:43:44,839
Speaker 2: you got, what you got feet.

2047
01:43:44,640 --> 01:43:47,280
Speaker 1: I got a story. Sorry, I had strawberries. Thank you

2048
01:43:47,400 --> 01:43:48,439
Speaker 1: Lily for my book.

2049
01:43:48,640 --> 01:43:48,880
Speaker 2: Sam.

2050
01:43:49,000 --> 01:43:51,000
Speaker 1: If you live in fear, are you really living? Oh?

2051
01:43:51,240 --> 01:43:54,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, we don't live in fear. We don't eat snacks

2052
01:43:54,160 --> 01:43:55,839
Speaker 2: from random strangers on the internet.

2053
01:43:56,720 --> 01:43:56,760
Speaker 5: No.

2054
01:43:56,920 --> 01:44:00,479
Speaker 1: I like the one person that said, don't eat home

2055
01:44:00,520 --> 01:44:03,000
Speaker 1: bag goods unless you know the fan. And I think

2056
01:44:03,040 --> 01:44:04,920
Speaker 1: that's a good advice. And it lets me eat the

2057
01:44:04,960 --> 01:44:05,760
Speaker 1: home baked that.

2058
01:44:05,840 --> 01:44:07,680
Speaker 2: They ship it, and I will personally get on a

2059
01:44:07,680 --> 01:44:09,000
Speaker 2: phone call with them and see how good of a

2060
01:44:09,040 --> 01:44:10,080
Speaker 2: person they are. That's all you need.

2061
01:44:11,120 --> 01:44:15,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's probably fine, guys, probably fine. We'll be careful

2062
01:44:15,280 --> 01:44:17,560
Speaker 1: when we're bigger, but right now we know all of

2063
01:44:17,600 --> 01:44:18,120
Speaker 1: our friends.

2064
01:44:18,280 --> 01:44:20,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, we know you one by one. Yeah, you can

2065
01:44:20,160 --> 01:44:21,160
Speaker 2: name all of it, you know.

2066
01:44:21,240 --> 01:44:23,599
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. A. Ok, You're not random, that's

2067
01:44:23,600 --> 01:44:26,640
Speaker 1: what we trust you. Thank you Sugar Yuki for some

2068
01:44:27,000 --> 01:44:32,519
Speaker 1: books even all right, let's get into this next story.

2069
01:44:33,000 --> 01:44:35,280
Speaker 2: All right, two thousand chats and we'll spin the will again.

2070
01:44:36,280 --> 01:44:36,720
Speaker 1: Okay, what.

2071
01:44:38,200 --> 01:44:49,080
Speaker 2: Three? H Wait my best friend didn't mm hmm yeah, yes, two?

2072
01:44:49,120 --> 01:44:54,640
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all right. Also, thank you Lennox for the

2073
01:44:54,720 --> 01:44:57,879
Speaker 1: four nine to one books. Here's a tip for scaring

2074
01:44:58,200 --> 01:44:59,800
Speaker 1: Lael Does that count as too?

2075
01:45:00,160 --> 01:45:01,960
Speaker 2: Was she the one that scared us? Oh?

2076
01:45:02,080 --> 01:45:06,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, did you scare us? I forgive you, Tracy Eysen,

2077
01:45:07,360 --> 01:45:12,320
Speaker 1: I said your name? Enjoy that. All right, let's get

2078
01:45:12,360 --> 01:45:12,640
Speaker 1: into it.

2079
01:45:12,720 --> 01:45:12,880
Speaker 2: Though.

2080
01:45:13,479 --> 01:45:15,240
Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for telling my friend that

2081
01:45:15,360 --> 01:45:19,240
Speaker 1: my husband is not as careless as hers? Put a

2082
01:45:19,439 --> 01:45:24,800
Speaker 1: call out? So fragrant? Fragrant Somewhere one says, So, I'm

2083
01:45:24,880 --> 01:45:28,120
Speaker 1: pregnant with my first child. It wasn't planned, but we're

2084
01:45:28,200 --> 01:45:29,240
Speaker 1: extremely happy.

2085
01:45:31,280 --> 01:45:33,760
Speaker 2: I what what do you mean?

2086
01:45:33,760 --> 01:45:40,559
Speaker 1: Where am I? I'm in the room. Yeah, oh, I'm

2087
01:45:40,600 --> 01:45:44,559
Speaker 1: on S three. I'm sorry, Okay, we're gonna stay at

2088
01:45:44,680 --> 01:45:48,640
Speaker 1: S three. I read the wrong stories, I guess I

2089
01:45:48,760 --> 01:45:51,840
Speaker 1: discovered my pregnancy roughly three months after my friend had

2090
01:45:51,880 --> 01:45:54,560
Speaker 1: her first baby, and she was super excited for me,

2091
01:45:54,840 --> 01:45:57,719
Speaker 1: saying how awesome it would be to bond over motherhood

2092
01:45:58,320 --> 01:46:01,200
Speaker 1: and how our babies could be best friends. We've known

2093
01:46:01,240 --> 01:46:04,120
Speaker 1: each other for five years, and I can honestly say

2094
01:46:04,240 --> 01:46:06,840
Speaker 1: she's one of my closest friends. But that said, we've

2095
01:46:06,880 --> 01:46:11,599
Speaker 1: still had our spats. Recently, I've been getting really annoyed

2096
01:46:11,640 --> 01:46:13,839
Speaker 1: with her because she's been talking more about the negatives

2097
01:46:13,880 --> 01:46:17,519
Speaker 1: of parenting than the positives, and insinuating that my husband,

2098
01:46:17,760 --> 01:46:21,519
Speaker 1: who is a godsend, will be the equivalent of a

2099
01:46:21,600 --> 01:46:24,000
Speaker 1: deadbeat that won't even know when to feed the baby

2100
01:46:24,120 --> 01:46:28,679
Speaker 1: or change a diaper. It sounds like she's projecting. Also,

2101
01:46:28,720 --> 01:46:30,680
Speaker 1: thank you, Caitlin for the five bucks. Does that mean

2102
01:46:30,720 --> 01:46:35,920
Speaker 1: I shouldn't make y'all homemade coconut cookies with cheese? No,

2103
01:46:36,200 --> 01:46:37,760
Speaker 1: it doesn't know, because we know you.

2104
01:46:39,200 --> 01:46:42,760
Speaker 2: You message you're good, You're good.

2105
01:46:44,640 --> 01:46:47,439
Speaker 1: Please please you can said it.

2106
01:46:47,479 --> 01:46:47,800
Speaker 3: We know you.

2107
01:46:48,160 --> 01:46:49,400
Speaker 1: She just like, send us I don't know, like a

2108
01:46:49,479 --> 01:46:51,160
Speaker 1: picture of it. We won't share it with anyone, but

2109
01:46:51,280 --> 01:46:52,320
Speaker 1: just like, send us a picture.

2110
01:46:52,080 --> 01:46:52,280
Speaker 3: Of you.

2111
01:46:54,400 --> 01:46:55,840
Speaker 2: And trust and will trust you.

2112
01:46:57,120 --> 01:47:00,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, please send it Okay, sorry to this.

2113
01:47:01,320 --> 01:47:05,519
Speaker 2: Wait, like you could get arrested. Yeah, but we wouldn't

2114
01:47:05,520 --> 01:47:07,240
Speaker 2: do that because you're not gonna do it. Yea, Yeah,

2115
01:47:07,360 --> 01:47:09,519
Speaker 2: that's the level we need. Okay, Okay, we're good. We're good.

2116
01:47:09,560 --> 01:47:10,120
Speaker 2: We figured it out.

2117
01:47:10,200 --> 01:47:16,439
Speaker 1: We're good. We're going b' good where I Okay? Sophie's

2118
01:47:16,439 --> 01:47:21,000
Speaker 1: friends being really projecting right now. She's saying all of

2119
01:47:21,080 --> 01:47:24,360
Speaker 1: this because these are the things her partner does. Yeah, figures,

2120
01:47:25,000 --> 01:47:28,439
Speaker 1: she figured. She told me he didn't feed her for

2121
01:47:28,600 --> 01:47:34,439
Speaker 1: five hours the baby and that he wakes her all

2122
01:47:34,520 --> 01:47:36,800
Speaker 1: the time because he doesn't know how to soothe the baby.

2123
01:47:37,000 --> 01:47:41,400
Speaker 1: Oh my god, gets some lessons. Yeah, it's time to

2124
01:47:41,439 --> 01:47:45,880
Speaker 1: go to I don't know, freaking parenting classes college, dad college.

2125
01:47:46,000 --> 01:47:49,200
Speaker 1: He's also left the baby unsupervised on the couch at

2126
01:47:49,280 --> 01:47:52,719
Speaker 1: least twice. No no, no, no no, and she's fallen

2127
01:47:52,840 --> 01:47:54,000
Speaker 1: off both times.

2128
01:47:55,560 --> 01:47:57,400
Speaker 2: Oh my, she was horrible.

2129
01:47:57,560 --> 01:48:01,479
Speaker 1: Oh my god, he's like endangering the child. She keeps

2130
01:48:01,520 --> 01:48:03,240
Speaker 1: telling me how hard it will be for me and

2131
01:48:03,320 --> 01:48:06,120
Speaker 1: how my husband will do the same things. I've gotten

2132
01:48:06,280 --> 01:48:11,040
Speaker 1: fed up with it, and it culminated in an argument

2133
01:48:11,840 --> 01:48:14,759
Speaker 1: today of me telling her my husband isn't a deadbeat

2134
01:48:14,800 --> 01:48:17,120
Speaker 1: and actually cares enough to take baby classes and.

2135
01:48:17,200 --> 01:48:21,760
Speaker 2: Do his own research. Yeah. True.

2136
01:48:23,120 --> 01:48:25,759
Speaker 1: My husband has been making me all kinds of nutritious meals,

2137
01:48:25,920 --> 01:48:28,360
Speaker 1: reading up on how to support me and labor and postpartum,

2138
01:48:28,760 --> 01:48:31,040
Speaker 1: reading up about things that are good for baby's development,

2139
01:48:31,360 --> 01:48:33,800
Speaker 1: and has been asked to spend more time with my

2140
01:48:33,880 --> 01:48:36,519
Speaker 1: sister's baby, to have practice with diapers and feeding, etc.

2141
01:48:37,240 --> 01:48:39,600
Speaker 1: I told her about how he's all he's doing to

2142
01:48:39,640 --> 01:48:41,640
Speaker 1: prepare for the baby, and said how my husband is

2143
01:48:41,680 --> 01:48:45,360
Speaker 1: already more involved and caring for me and baby than

2144
01:48:45,439 --> 01:48:48,519
Speaker 1: hers has been in their daughter's life so far. I'm

2145
01:48:48,560 --> 01:48:50,960
Speaker 1: not saying our transition to parenthood will be perfect, but

2146
01:48:51,000 --> 01:48:52,560
Speaker 1: at least I can trust that he won't let the

2147
01:48:52,600 --> 01:48:55,400
Speaker 1: baby fall off the couch, never mind let something like

2148
01:48:55,479 --> 01:48:59,080
Speaker 1: that happen twice. She started crying, saying that I'm cruel

2149
01:48:59,200 --> 01:49:02,360
Speaker 1: and all an understand when we're both sleep deprived. But

2150
01:49:02,439 --> 01:49:04,679
Speaker 1: she's not the only mother I know, and her husband's

2151
01:49:04,680 --> 01:49:08,320
Speaker 1: carelessness with their baby is not the norm from my experience.

2152
01:49:08,400 --> 01:49:11,600
Speaker 1: And there is a little bit of an update or

2153
01:49:11,640 --> 01:49:13,080
Speaker 1: an edit, I suppose.

2154
01:49:14,439 --> 01:49:15,479
Speaker 2: Let's get the poll going.

2155
01:49:15,760 --> 01:49:20,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, her husband sucks big time, not oh Pie's obviously,

2156
01:49:20,880 --> 01:49:25,200
Speaker 1: Opie's friend. However, I will say she could possibly have

2157
01:49:25,479 --> 01:49:28,720
Speaker 1: like said it in a little bit nicer way, yeah,

2158
01:49:29,120 --> 01:49:31,280
Speaker 1: and just been like, hey, that is not okay for

2159
01:49:31,400 --> 01:49:33,519
Speaker 1: your husband to be doing and you should expect more

2160
01:49:33,560 --> 01:49:36,439
Speaker 1: from them. Like you could she could be like, actually,

2161
01:49:36,560 --> 01:49:39,000
Speaker 1: you know what, my husband's been going to these parenting classes.

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01:49:39,400 --> 01:49:42,800
Speaker 1: Recommend those parenting classes, because it seems like Opie's friend

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01:49:42,800 --> 01:49:44,920
Speaker 1: has kind of just accepted it, and that's not something

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01:49:45,000 --> 01:49:47,960
Speaker 1: that she should accept. Yeah, so can you scroll up

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01:49:47,960 --> 01:49:53,280
Speaker 1: because I saw something? Squirrel squirrel scrawl, squirrel squirrel scrawl scrawl.

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01:49:53,439 --> 01:49:56,920
Speaker 1: Keep scrawling. Ah, oh no, keep scrawling a little bit more,

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01:49:58,920 --> 01:50:02,080
Speaker 1: a little bit more. Okay, maybe a witty worm says

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01:50:02,080 --> 01:50:04,640
Speaker 1: when I send food, I'll send a coffee of my driver's.

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01:50:04,360 --> 01:50:06,400
Speaker 2: License so you can send the police over there. We go.

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01:50:07,240 --> 01:50:11,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I like that. The Yorkshire mermaids, thank you for

2171
01:50:11,280 --> 01:50:14,080
Speaker 1: the two buck tip. I promise I will not poison

2172
01:50:14,160 --> 01:50:16,720
Speaker 1: your old mount cider. Sofia turns out I can't send

2173
01:50:16,760 --> 01:50:21,639
Speaker 1: them to the huts. I will be doing my shop tomorrow.

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01:50:23,720 --> 01:50:26,800
Speaker 1: You're so nice. I thought I would never have them again.

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01:50:28,400 --> 01:50:29,760
Speaker 1: The Yorkshire mermaid I love you.

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01:50:29,920 --> 01:50:31,360
Speaker 2: Okay, get back to the store. Okay, wait.

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01:50:31,400 --> 01:50:33,599
Speaker 1: Also, Caitlin, thank you for the one book tip. Okay,

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01:50:33,680 --> 01:50:36,479
Speaker 1: good and I will never do that to my favorite people. Also, Sofia,

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01:50:36,520 --> 01:50:37,639
Speaker 1: do you want me to send the recipe?

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01:50:37,800 --> 01:50:38,960
Speaker 2: Yes? Please?

2181
01:50:39,760 --> 01:50:41,479
Speaker 1: But back to the story. Let's read this little baby

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01:50:41,520 --> 01:50:41,720
Speaker 1: at it?

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01:50:41,920 --> 01:50:44,400
Speaker 2: Where did you get this one? I did? That's I

2184
01:50:44,479 --> 01:50:45,200
Speaker 2: freaked out about that.

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01:50:45,400 --> 01:50:45,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you?

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01:50:46,120 --> 01:50:48,439
Speaker 2: Ooh we got we got the polls working, the polls

2187
01:50:48,479 --> 01:50:52,080
Speaker 2: working people. It's uh, it's vote see what people are doing.

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01:50:52,120 --> 01:50:55,760
Speaker 2: It's like it's like exclamation mark vote space and then

2189
01:50:55,840 --> 01:50:57,160
Speaker 2: a hill or nta.

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01:50:57,320 --> 01:51:00,200
Speaker 1: Also someone I think I could not see who was,

2191
01:51:00,240 --> 01:51:03,400
Speaker 1: but someone said weaponized incompetence, which again I was talking

2192
01:51:03,400 --> 01:51:07,120
Speaker 1: about this yesterday, big time weaponized in competence. This guy

2193
01:51:07,280 --> 01:51:10,439
Speaker 1: is like making sure his wife knows that he will

2194
01:51:10,640 --> 01:51:13,800
Speaker 1: like he's not capable of taking the baby taking care

2195
01:51:13,840 --> 01:51:15,760
Speaker 1: of the baby, so that he won't have to put

2196
01:51:15,840 --> 01:51:20,960
Speaker 1: in any effort. Wait, so, okay, what do we have.

2197
01:51:21,160 --> 01:51:23,120
Speaker 2: I think it's saying, op, he's not the A hole?

2198
01:51:23,280 --> 01:51:24,439
Speaker 2: Or is OP the A hole?

2199
01:51:24,520 --> 01:51:27,120
Speaker 1: Oh okay, so we have some people we have a

2200
01:51:27,640 --> 01:51:30,280
Speaker 1: majority of saying oh, P is not the A hole.

2201
01:51:30,400 --> 01:51:33,479
Speaker 1: But we do have some A holes, which I honestly

2202
01:51:33,560 --> 01:51:37,400
Speaker 1: would say, I I agree, Oh, he's not the a hole. However,

2203
01:51:37,479 --> 01:51:39,960
Speaker 1: I think slight a hole just because of how she

2204
01:51:40,080 --> 01:51:43,680
Speaker 1: worded it, especially because it seems like her friend is

2205
01:51:44,040 --> 01:51:47,920
Speaker 1: very misguided in how her husband how she should be treated. Yeah,

2206
01:51:48,479 --> 01:51:51,920
Speaker 1: and I feel like Opie could just be like, hey,

2207
01:51:52,880 --> 01:51:56,920
Speaker 1: you need to you need to accept better, or like,

2208
01:51:57,000 --> 01:51:59,280
Speaker 1: you know, you know you need to request better from

2209
01:51:59,360 --> 01:52:04,320
Speaker 1: your husband. But let's get into this little edit. This

2210
01:52:04,479 --> 01:52:07,040
Speaker 1: isn't the first time she's made rude assumptions about my husband.

2211
01:52:07,160 --> 01:52:09,519
Speaker 1: I've been supportive of what she's going through and offered

2212
01:52:09,600 --> 01:52:12,599
Speaker 1: help and support whenever I can, even letting her vent

2213
01:52:12,680 --> 01:52:16,040
Speaker 1: to me about her husband almost daily. But there's only

2214
01:52:16,120 --> 01:52:18,720
Speaker 1: so many ways I can softly redirect the convo and

2215
01:52:18,800 --> 01:52:21,559
Speaker 1: say that my husband isn't the same. I've tried telling

2216
01:52:21,640 --> 01:52:24,400
Speaker 1: her how no two parenting situations are the same, and

2217
01:52:24,479 --> 01:52:26,479
Speaker 1: I won't always be a perfect mom, and do not

2218
01:52:26,680 --> 01:52:29,160
Speaker 1: expect my husband to always be a perfect dad, as

2219
01:52:29,280 --> 01:52:33,360
Speaker 1: parenting can be hard, especially navigating life with the first child,

2220
01:52:33,720 --> 01:52:36,240
Speaker 1: and I'm not naive to that. I've also explained how

2221
01:52:36,320 --> 01:52:38,840
Speaker 1: my husband shows interest in the things she says he

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01:52:38,880 --> 01:52:42,160
Speaker 1: will not do, such as my husband. Oh. I also

2223
01:52:42,240 --> 01:52:45,519
Speaker 1: explained how my husband shows interest in the things she

2224
01:52:45,680 --> 01:52:48,320
Speaker 1: says he will not do, such what does that mean

2225
01:52:48,400 --> 01:52:51,800
Speaker 1: as my husband learning about Pepe nutrition, reading up on

2226
01:52:51,920 --> 01:52:55,120
Speaker 1: if we should use cloth diapers versus disposable, learning about

2227
01:52:55,120 --> 01:52:59,240
Speaker 1: activities for baby development, taking baby safety and first aid classes.

2228
01:52:59,320 --> 01:53:01,600
Speaker 1: So I think she said saying, my husband's doing this

2229
01:53:01,800 --> 01:53:05,639
Speaker 1: and her husband's not. She's always super dismissive of him

2230
01:53:05,840 --> 01:53:08,160
Speaker 1: and tells me that it doesn't mean anything, which hurts

2231
01:53:08,600 --> 01:53:10,280
Speaker 1: because it means a lot to me, and I know

2232
01:53:10,439 --> 01:53:12,439
Speaker 1: I can trust him to at least get the basics

2233
01:53:12,479 --> 01:53:15,320
Speaker 1: of parented. Whereas the way she explains her situation, her

2234
01:53:15,439 --> 01:53:18,920
Speaker 1: husband is clueless. I do think that's kind of annoying

2235
01:53:19,000 --> 01:53:21,240
Speaker 1: for her to be like, your husband doing all that

2236
01:53:21,320 --> 01:53:24,400
Speaker 1: doesn't mean anything. But it just seems like she's maybe

2237
01:53:24,439 --> 01:53:27,200
Speaker 1: a little bit jealous and insecure because her husband doesn't

2238
01:53:27,200 --> 01:53:31,120
Speaker 1: do any of that. I think after that, I'm a

2239
01:53:31,160 --> 01:53:33,559
Speaker 1: little bit more on op side. If she's like, if

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01:53:33,600 --> 01:53:35,759
Speaker 1: you try to put it nicely, and she keeps kinda

2241
01:53:35,840 --> 01:53:37,800
Speaker 1: but yeah, I feel bad for this friend.

2242
01:53:37,840 --> 01:53:41,400
Speaker 2: Though it looks like everyone is saying not the alel.

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01:53:41,160 --> 01:53:43,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I think after that, yeah, not the

2244
01:53:43,560 --> 01:53:45,880
Speaker 1: ahole maybe could have said it a little bit more,

2245
01:53:47,240 --> 01:53:52,000
Speaker 1: you know, softer. Also, thank you Kimberly Cox. I uh

2246
01:53:52,160 --> 01:53:54,840
Speaker 1: actually tie died this myself. I got it from Target.

2247
01:53:55,000 --> 01:53:57,680
Speaker 1: It was a purple shirt and then I tied died it. Um,

2248
01:53:58,800 --> 01:53:59,639
Speaker 1: that's the end of story.

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01:54:00,120 --> 01:54:02,600
Speaker 2: Nice. Nice. I think we can finish it off with

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01:54:02,680 --> 01:54:06,240
Speaker 2: a small one unless something crazy happens A small what

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01:54:06,600 --> 01:54:08,439
Speaker 2: small story? We can go to S two?

2252
01:54:09,360 --> 01:54:12,280
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we only have nine minutes left unless something

2253
01:54:12,479 --> 01:54:14,920
Speaker 1: crazy happened. Oh five minutes. Sorry, I can't see it

2254
01:54:15,000 --> 01:54:18,560
Speaker 1: from here. Yeah, well we'll finish up with should I

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01:54:18,640 --> 01:54:19,120
Speaker 1: do S two?

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01:54:19,520 --> 01:54:19,680
Speaker 2: Yeah?

2257
01:54:19,680 --> 01:54:25,599
Speaker 1: I do too, finish up with one more story and yeah,

2258
01:54:26,000 --> 01:54:29,479
Speaker 1: thank you all for being here. Appreciate it. My best

2259
01:54:29,520 --> 01:54:32,960
Speaker 1: friend didn't invite me to his wedding. Got my revenge though,

2260
01:54:34,160 --> 01:54:37,880
Speaker 1: so beautiful Bid thirteen thirty three says gonna be long,

2261
01:54:38,080 --> 01:54:41,600
Speaker 1: but I don't care. My female twenty seven and best friend,

2262
01:54:41,760 --> 01:54:44,960
Speaker 1: male twenty eight have been friends for over a decade.

2263
01:54:45,440 --> 01:54:48,520
Speaker 1: We dated briefly in high school and realized that we

2264
01:54:48,640 --> 01:54:51,520
Speaker 1: were better off as friends. Never took it farther than kissing.

2265
01:54:52,000 --> 01:54:55,360
Speaker 1: We've been there for each other through everything. Divorces introduced

2266
01:54:55,400 --> 01:54:57,960
Speaker 1: me to my now husband helped my husband plan his

2267
01:54:58,080 --> 01:55:02,240
Speaker 1: proposal a remarriage. We were a part of each other's weddings.

2268
01:55:02,320 --> 01:55:04,360
Speaker 1: He was my maid of honor and I was his

2269
01:55:04,440 --> 01:55:08,520
Speaker 1: best man. Oh that's cute. Kids' family events and trips,

2270
01:55:08,600 --> 01:55:11,360
Speaker 1: the funeral of my brother and sister twins, the things

2271
01:55:11,440 --> 01:55:13,560
Speaker 1: a best friend should be there for. He got a

2272
01:55:13,600 --> 01:55:15,760
Speaker 1: hold of me five months before his wedding to tell

2273
01:55:15,840 --> 01:55:18,400
Speaker 1: me that he had gotten engaged and his wedding was

2274
01:55:18,440 --> 01:55:24,920
Speaker 1: coming up, but I was not invited. That's unbelievable. This

2275
01:55:25,040 --> 01:55:26,560
Speaker 1: is like your best friend and you're not inviting them.

2276
01:55:26,680 --> 01:55:27,760
Speaker 2: Come on, come on.

2277
01:55:28,960 --> 01:55:31,680
Speaker 1: I was shocked and a bit heartbroken when I asked

2278
01:55:31,760 --> 01:55:34,320
Speaker 1: why he said it. Why he said it, It was

2279
01:55:34,400 --> 01:55:39,280
Speaker 1: because his fiance asked someone Casey. Oh, his fiance asked

2280
01:55:39,320 --> 01:55:42,520
Speaker 1: someone Casey. I don't know if this is the fiance.

2281
01:55:43,480 --> 01:55:48,360
Speaker 1: We oh, okay, sorry, his fiance Casey ask someone We

2282
01:55:48,840 --> 01:55:51,240
Speaker 1: Jack and I don't like to be in her wedding party,

2283
01:55:51,360 --> 01:55:54,000
Speaker 1: and she won't kick her out. He said she was

2284
01:55:54,040 --> 01:55:56,680
Speaker 1: worried that given her history with Casey, there I would

2285
01:55:56,720 --> 01:55:58,920
Speaker 1: be a problem at the wedding with the issues would

2286
01:55:59,000 --> 01:56:04,480
Speaker 1: cause that's that's so stupid, not even asking being like, hey,

2287
01:56:04,520 --> 01:56:06,320
Speaker 1: are you comfortable with this person? I know you guys

2288
01:56:06,320 --> 01:56:08,280
Speaker 1: have a history, but like, we just don't want any drama,

2289
01:56:08,720 --> 01:56:12,320
Speaker 1: not even asking talking to their best friend, just assuming

2290
01:56:12,440 --> 01:56:15,520
Speaker 1: oh this you know, Oh he's gonna creat drama. That's

2291
01:56:16,040 --> 01:56:18,640
Speaker 1: no mm mmm mmmm. Also, thank you sugar you gave

2292
01:56:18,680 --> 01:56:23,680
Speaker 1: for the seven book chip made it even since I'm

2293
01:56:23,720 --> 01:56:26,040
Speaker 1: a petty lady, I just removed him from our lives

2294
01:56:26,320 --> 01:56:29,480
Speaker 1: since he is my three kids male, male and female godfather.

2295
01:56:30,080 --> 01:56:33,400
Speaker 1: This is this is our godfather and he didn't invite

2296
01:56:33,440 --> 01:56:37,400
Speaker 1: them to the wedding. Ooh uh uh. My husband and

2297
01:56:37,480 --> 01:56:42,320
Speaker 1: I went down and changed our wills to remove him,

2298
01:56:43,160 --> 01:56:45,960
Speaker 1: and changed my phone number, blocked him and his fiance

2299
01:56:46,520 --> 01:56:49,760
Speaker 1: on all social medias, moved houses, took all the pictures

2300
01:56:49,760 --> 01:56:52,200
Speaker 1: of us through the years and our kids together off

2301
01:56:52,280 --> 01:56:54,640
Speaker 1: the walls and out of frames and tucked them away.

2302
01:56:55,000 --> 01:56:59,320
Speaker 1: Oh whoa camp for the wind. Thank you for the

2303
01:56:59,320 --> 01:57:01,800
Speaker 1: one hundred bucks tip. Do you guys like gummy worms?

2304
01:57:01,840 --> 01:57:02,000
Speaker 5: I do.

2305
01:57:03,000 --> 01:57:05,760
Speaker 1: I'm big on sour gummy worms too. Oo yeah I

2306
01:57:05,880 --> 01:57:08,680
Speaker 1: do like sour candy, but I love gummy worms. Thank

2307
01:57:08,720 --> 01:57:12,600
Speaker 1: you so much for the donation. We are to maybe

2308
01:57:12,960 --> 01:57:16,840
Speaker 1: bucks away from another hour and y'all, I'll have two minutes.

2309
01:57:16,760 --> 01:57:19,520
Speaker 2: Yep or spin the wheel at two thousand chats. Yeah.

2310
01:57:19,840 --> 01:57:21,600
Speaker 1: I feel like if you guys make another hour, we'll

2311
01:57:21,600 --> 01:57:24,000
Speaker 1: also give you a spin the wheel either one one.

2312
01:57:25,440 --> 01:57:29,800
Speaker 1: Over the next two months, where was I've lost it? Okay,

2313
01:57:30,080 --> 01:57:32,320
Speaker 1: took all of the pictures of us through the years

2314
01:57:32,480 --> 01:57:34,880
Speaker 1: and our kids together off the walls and out of

2315
01:57:34,960 --> 01:57:39,040
Speaker 1: frames and tucked them away so they are cutting complete contact.

2316
01:57:39,280 --> 01:57:39,520
Speaker 2: Wow.

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01:57:39,840 --> 01:57:42,680
Speaker 1: Also thank you little wormlet for the six books. We

2318
01:57:42,800 --> 01:57:45,760
Speaker 1: need one more hour. Over the next two months, Jack

2319
01:57:46,040 --> 01:57:48,560
Speaker 1: kept in touch with my husband, who kept minimal contact

2320
01:57:48,680 --> 01:57:50,800
Speaker 1: and doesn't give details of our lives to him. And

2321
01:57:50,920 --> 01:57:53,320
Speaker 1: Jack is asking where I've been and why I'm not

2322
01:57:53,400 --> 01:57:55,960
Speaker 1: taking his calls. And again Jack is the friend who

2323
01:57:56,040 --> 01:57:59,040
Speaker 1: did not invite Ope to the wedding. Wow. My husband

2324
01:57:59,120 --> 01:58:01,000
Speaker 1: finally told him that I didn't want to talk to

2325
01:58:01,120 --> 01:58:04,080
Speaker 1: him since him not inviting us because of his fiance

2326
01:58:04,440 --> 01:58:09,520
Speaker 1: or because his fiance thought I would call. Frederick, you

2327
01:58:09,600 --> 01:58:11,320
Speaker 1: have done it again. I want to say it again

2328
01:58:11,400 --> 01:58:14,240
Speaker 1: because I love saying it. You've done it again, constantly

2329
01:58:14,400 --> 01:58:15,680
Speaker 1: raising the bar for us.

2330
01:58:17,280 --> 01:58:17,800
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

2331
01:58:18,040 --> 01:58:22,760
Speaker 1: Also Frederick, thank you, Susan, thank you for the Hey y'all.

2332
01:58:23,360 --> 01:58:26,000
Speaker 1: Thank you the Yorkshire Mermaid more Sophia, thank you for

2333
01:58:26,040 --> 01:58:30,960
Speaker 1: the time bug tip to stop. This is a great

2334
01:58:31,120 --> 01:58:33,520
Speaker 1: solo stream for me. I'm feeling good. I'm feeling good

2335
01:58:33,520 --> 01:58:35,200
Speaker 1: about myself. I was a little bit worried. I was like,

2336
01:58:35,280 --> 01:58:35,880
Speaker 1: do they want me?

2337
01:58:36,240 --> 01:58:38,280
Speaker 2: Do they even like me? Saying that she was like,

2338
01:58:38,400 --> 01:58:40,640
Speaker 2: they've seen me a lot recently, like I don't even know, like,

2339
01:58:42,680 --> 01:58:43,120
Speaker 2: but but.

2340
01:58:43,280 --> 01:58:45,680
Speaker 1: I appreciate it. You guys are really sweet. I like,

2341
01:58:45,720 --> 01:58:48,320
Speaker 1: put some kings, Put some kings in the chat, Put

2342
01:58:48,360 --> 01:58:50,840
Speaker 1: some crowns in the chat. Put some mermaids if that's

2343
01:58:50,880 --> 01:58:55,240
Speaker 1: a thing. Put some Susan's in the chat. You guys

2344
01:58:55,240 --> 01:58:57,520
Speaker 1: are amazing. And we will be going for another hour,

2345
01:58:57,680 --> 01:59:00,280
Speaker 1: so I don't get on with this story, and we're

2346
01:59:00,280 --> 01:59:02,760
Speaker 1: gonna spin the wheel after this story. It's very short,

2347
01:59:02,800 --> 01:59:05,240
Speaker 1: so we're almost done, and then I think we can

2348
01:59:05,280 --> 01:59:06,600
Speaker 1: also maybe open.

2349
01:59:06,520 --> 01:59:08,000
Speaker 2: A new president, a new president.

2350
01:59:08,080 --> 01:59:08,680
Speaker 1: We have my mind.

2351
01:59:09,320 --> 01:59:11,560
Speaker 2: First, we can waite too, we can wait. We'll see,

2352
01:59:11,640 --> 01:59:16,720
Speaker 2: we'll see, we'll see. Where was I? Oh?

2353
01:59:16,800 --> 01:59:21,520
Speaker 1: I My husband finally told him that I didn't want

2354
01:59:21,560 --> 01:59:23,560
Speaker 1: to talk to him since him not inviting us because

2355
01:59:23,600 --> 01:59:27,400
Speaker 1: his fiance thought I would cause drama was hurtful. I

2356
01:59:27,480 --> 01:59:29,920
Speaker 1: would never cause issues at a big event like a wedding.

2357
01:59:30,440 --> 01:59:34,200
Speaker 1: He then blocked him as well. Wow, heard through the

2358
01:59:34,240 --> 01:59:35,960
Speaker 1: grape vine from some of the grooms, and then we

2359
01:59:36,080 --> 01:59:38,240
Speaker 1: are friends with It didn't go very well because at

2360
01:59:38,240 --> 01:59:41,240
Speaker 1: the rehearsal dinner, his family asked where I was, and

2361
01:59:41,360 --> 01:59:43,360
Speaker 1: his fiance piped up saying that I was going to

2362
01:59:43,440 --> 01:59:45,919
Speaker 1: cause drama and a scene because of who she invited.

2363
01:59:46,560 --> 01:59:50,280
Speaker 1: His parents and siblings were not happy and said if

2364
01:59:50,400 --> 01:59:55,360
Speaker 1: I wasn't there, they wouldn't be either. God, his family

2365
01:59:56,440 --> 02:00:02,160
Speaker 1: is family creating chaos, Like they started more drama by

2366
02:00:02,240 --> 02:00:02,920
Speaker 1: not inviting her.

2367
02:00:03,560 --> 02:00:07,440
Speaker 2: Wow, I mean, honestly fair. I feel like you have

2368
02:00:07,680 --> 02:00:11,280
Speaker 2: to set things like that when people are being redoculous.

2369
02:00:11,480 --> 02:00:16,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely ridonculous. His parents and siblings were not always

2370
02:00:16,760 --> 02:00:20,480
Speaker 1: at that. Uh well, since he couldn't get a hold

2371
02:00:20,520 --> 02:00:23,480
Speaker 1: of us, he couldn't invite us last minute. His family

2372
02:00:23,600 --> 02:00:27,600
Speaker 1: ended up leaving before the ceremony began. Most of his

2373
02:00:27,720 --> 02:00:30,560
Speaker 1: side was empty because of this, and his fiance tried

2374
02:00:30,640 --> 02:00:34,840
Speaker 1: blaming me for it. Unbelievable. You can't. She's blaming you

2375
02:00:34,920 --> 02:00:39,640
Speaker 1: for everything. Absolutely ridoculous. This is the best part of everything.

2376
02:00:39,880 --> 02:00:42,200
Speaker 1: His parents and siblings haven't talked to him since the

2377
02:00:42,240 --> 02:00:44,440
Speaker 1: wedding and invited us to come up on a short

2378
02:00:44,480 --> 02:00:46,920
Speaker 1: trip to the cabin they have, and when we had

2379
02:00:46,920 --> 02:00:49,000
Speaker 1: our fourth child three months later, they were the first

2380
02:00:49,080 --> 02:00:52,600
Speaker 1: ones besides our parents to meet him. Wait, his parents,

2381
02:00:52,600 --> 02:00:54,360
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Okay, sorry, I was like, what does

2382
02:00:54,360 --> 02:00:56,840
Speaker 1: that even mean? His parents, the parents of the friend

2383
02:00:56,880 --> 02:01:00,240
Speaker 1: that try to cut him off, basically haven't talked to

2384
02:01:00,320 --> 02:01:03,200
Speaker 1: their son and have just been talking to Ope and

2385
02:01:03,280 --> 02:01:06,240
Speaker 1: have invited op and Opie's family to like their cabin,

2386
02:01:06,800 --> 02:01:11,200
Speaker 1: so they fully chose Ope over their own son. That's

2387
02:01:11,240 --> 02:01:16,160
Speaker 1: how it goes. That's how it goes. Sometimes sometimes sometimes

2388
02:01:16,280 --> 02:01:20,960
Speaker 1: that always. That's that's how it goes. Okay, post pictures

2389
02:01:21,000 --> 02:01:23,760
Speaker 1: our weekend trip, of our weekend trip and how excited

2390
02:01:23,800 --> 02:01:26,280
Speaker 1: they were to have another grand baby slash nephew. He

2391
02:01:26,400 --> 02:01:28,920
Speaker 1: then started blowing his family's phone up before they even

2392
02:01:29,040 --> 02:01:32,480
Speaker 1: left the hospital, asking why he was there and why

2393
02:01:32,600 --> 02:01:34,920
Speaker 1: we went on vacation with him with his family. But

2394
02:01:35,080 --> 02:01:37,520
Speaker 1: he didn't know about it because no one likes you.

2395
02:01:39,080 --> 02:01:41,240
Speaker 1: It's now been almost a year since I've talked to him,

2396
02:01:41,280 --> 02:01:43,600
Speaker 1: and apparently his wife and him got a divorce. When

2397
02:01:43,640 --> 02:01:46,200
Speaker 1: he found the person I wasn't invited over.

2398
02:01:46,160 --> 02:01:47,160
Speaker 2: In bed with her?

2399
02:01:48,400 --> 02:01:51,840
Speaker 1: What wo woha? Whoa wa, whoa so what the person

2400
02:01:51,880 --> 02:01:55,200
Speaker 1: that the fiance invited and then uninvited op for because

2401
02:01:55,240 --> 02:01:57,160
Speaker 1: she was like, oh, you're gonna start drama with this

2402
02:01:57,240 --> 02:01:59,400
Speaker 1: person she was sleeping with them.

2403
02:02:03,080 --> 02:02:05,240
Speaker 2: We need, I need, I need to red his story

2404
02:02:05,360 --> 02:02:10,240
Speaker 2: for that. Oh my gosh, whoa Do you think that's

2405
02:02:10,240 --> 02:02:13,400
Speaker 2: another reason why the family was like so adamant about

2406
02:02:13,520 --> 02:02:15,600
Speaker 2: not showing up because they weren't okay with that person.

2407
02:02:16,880 --> 02:02:22,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think so, because yeah, yeah insane yeah wild. Also,

2408
02:02:23,000 --> 02:02:24,680
Speaker 1: thank you, Carla die We didn't see you in the

2409
02:02:24,760 --> 02:02:26,879
Speaker 1: chat earlier, but thank you so much for the chocolates.

2410
02:02:26,920 --> 02:02:29,400
Speaker 1: Even though really didn't like them, Sam and I loved them.

2411
02:02:29,440 --> 02:02:30,160
Speaker 1: They were delicious.

2412
02:02:30,360 --> 02:02:32,080
Speaker 2: Oh no, no no, if you saw if you saw

2413
02:02:32,160 --> 02:02:35,000
Speaker 2: the like, I actually liked it. I like chocolate, but

2414
02:02:35,080 --> 02:02:37,440
Speaker 2: that was like something else I've never had before. That

2415
02:02:37,600 --> 02:02:40,120
Speaker 2: was wow. So I really appreciate that.

2416
02:02:40,240 --> 02:02:42,240
Speaker 1: I like chocolate. That's pretty impressive.

2417
02:02:42,680 --> 02:02:45,920
Speaker 2: Yeah. I don't normally would not eat chocolate on my own,

2418
02:02:45,960 --> 02:02:49,160
Speaker 2: but this, like, I'm probably gonna keep this, so thank you.

2419
02:02:49,280 --> 02:02:50,240
Speaker 2: I really appreciate it.

2420
02:02:50,320 --> 02:02:53,920
Speaker 1: Let's got your name on it. But yeah, I love

2421
02:02:54,040 --> 02:02:57,640
Speaker 1: that they all chose op over the friend because I

2422
02:02:57,720 --> 02:03:00,600
Speaker 1: can't believe. I can't believe the fiance, Like you know,

2423
02:03:01,200 --> 02:03:03,960
Speaker 1: that's karma, man, the fiance cheating on the person that

2424
02:03:04,040 --> 02:03:06,160
Speaker 1: you chose over your best friend to come to the wedding.

2425
02:03:06,400 --> 02:03:09,839
Speaker 2: That's some revenge, I'll tell you that. Yeah. Yeah, crazy revenge.

2426
02:03:10,720 --> 02:03:12,520
Speaker 1: Mary Kelly, I think I also need a knap after

2427
02:03:12,560 --> 02:03:15,440
Speaker 1: that story. And that's sometimes sugar Key. Thank you for

2428
02:03:15,560 --> 02:03:18,760
Speaker 1: the six books seventy one yep, appreciate it.

2429
02:03:19,800 --> 02:03:19,920
Speaker 2: Oh.

2430
02:03:20,000 --> 02:03:22,120
Speaker 1: Also, Kirby Girl, La La Flame, thank you for the

2431
02:03:22,160 --> 02:03:28,000
Speaker 1: two bucks. Girl is less than Susan. No, no, Susan

2432
02:03:28,320 --> 02:03:31,440
Speaker 1: Suitisan is great, greater than the girl the girl who's girl?

2433
02:03:31,920 --> 02:03:33,560
Speaker 2: I don't know, but she's we're giving props.

2434
02:03:33,760 --> 02:03:38,280
Speaker 1: Yes, Susan is the best. Yeah ooh and no, Stone

2435
02:03:38,400 --> 02:03:41,400
Speaker 1: Turned has been a member for one month. Sophia, you

2436
02:03:41,440 --> 02:03:45,000
Speaker 1: look gorgeous as always, Just so you know that stist

2437
02:03:46,440 --> 02:03:49,040
Speaker 1: so sweet. I thank you for the five books, Sarah Jump.

2438
02:03:50,120 --> 02:03:50,840
Speaker 1: Did I read all this?

2439
02:03:51,000 --> 02:03:55,160
Speaker 2: Yep? You read them all? Wow, that's insane. So he

2440
02:03:55,200 --> 02:03:58,320
Speaker 2: didn't even do revenge? She just like karma, No, slap

2441
02:03:58,440 --> 02:03:59,280
Speaker 2: him in the face. Yeah.

2442
02:03:59,320 --> 02:04:02,440
Speaker 1: Oh he was like, I op. He literally stayed out

2443
02:04:02,480 --> 02:04:06,080
Speaker 1: of it. He was uninvited, just blocked everyone, and then

2444
02:04:06,440 --> 02:04:08,080
Speaker 1: karma beffetl.

2445
02:04:09,200 --> 02:04:11,360
Speaker 2: They should yeah their ex friend and fiance.

2446
02:04:13,560 --> 02:04:13,800
Speaker 6: Wow.

2447
02:04:14,080 --> 02:04:15,640
Speaker 2: Yeah that's nuts.

2448
02:04:15,920 --> 02:04:16,960
Speaker 1: But you know what else it's nuts?

2449
02:04:17,520 --> 02:04:24,240
Speaker 2: This will, yes chat here we go, spend that will.

2450
02:04:25,120 --> 02:04:25,760
Speaker 1: Let's do it.

2451
02:04:30,960 --> 02:04:34,920
Speaker 2: Package, we get to open the package. Let's go.

2452
02:04:38,200 --> 02:04:40,400
Speaker 1: I literally love opening gifts, guys. Even if you just

2453
02:04:40,480 --> 02:04:45,280
Speaker 1: like want to send like leaves, I'll open. You don't

2454
02:04:45,280 --> 02:04:46,800
Speaker 1: even have to pay or anything. You can just get

2455
02:04:46,880 --> 02:04:48,880
Speaker 1: leaves from outside. I'll be like. Or you find like

2456
02:04:48,920 --> 02:04:50,840
Speaker 1: a cool rock, I'll be like, oh cool rock.

2457
02:04:51,000 --> 02:04:52,880
Speaker 2: Oh leaves would be nice. I haven't seen leaves in

2458
02:04:52,920 --> 02:04:53,200
Speaker 2: a while.

2459
02:04:53,280 --> 02:04:54,960
Speaker 1: What do you mean we have leaves here?

2460
02:04:55,280 --> 02:04:56,080
Speaker 2: Not real leaves.

2461
02:04:56,280 --> 02:04:57,800
Speaker 1: Probably just trying to convince us that we don't have

2462
02:04:57,920 --> 02:04:58,560
Speaker 1: leaves in Caliburn.

2463
02:04:58,640 --> 02:04:59,800
Speaker 2: Man, they don't.

2464
02:05:00,040 --> 02:05:00,360
Speaker 1: They don't.

2465
02:05:00,360 --> 02:05:02,360
Speaker 2: All you have is sand and shrub.

2466
02:05:02,560 --> 02:05:04,200
Speaker 1: Oh my god, wait.

2467
02:05:05,520 --> 02:05:06,680
Speaker 2: Uh oh something fell?

2468
02:05:13,120 --> 02:05:17,080
Speaker 1: This says it's from James. It is from you. This

2469
02:05:17,280 --> 02:05:19,680
Speaker 1: is this is what we have here. If you're in

2470
02:05:19,760 --> 02:05:23,800
Speaker 1: the chats, let's show yourself.

2471
02:05:26,040 --> 02:05:31,080
Speaker 2: Like whoa wait wait wait wait wait what.

2472
02:05:32,240 --> 02:05:35,760
Speaker 1: Can you read it? It says worm it says worm.

2473
02:05:36,920 --> 02:05:41,920
Speaker 1: I'm putting this on right now. Yo, this says worm. Whoa,

2474
02:05:44,120 --> 02:05:46,000
Speaker 1: it says all hail the worm queen.

2475
02:05:46,160 --> 02:05:47,600
Speaker 2: Oh no, this is from Rachel.

2476
02:05:48,080 --> 02:05:51,760
Speaker 1: This is from Rachel the axe Hatchet. Rachel. I love it.

2477
02:05:52,880 --> 02:05:54,320
Speaker 1: Hold on, can I put this on right now?

2478
02:05:54,720 --> 02:05:56,480
Speaker 4: I don't think she's you're not.

2479
02:05:58,320 --> 02:05:59,880
Speaker 2: Somebody clip this and send it to her.

2480
02:06:00,040 --> 02:06:03,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm putting it on. Send it to her. Let

2481
02:06:03,080 --> 02:06:05,240
Speaker 1: her know. I can also message her on discord, but

2482
02:06:05,560 --> 02:06:08,840
Speaker 1: we'll take a picture and send it to run. She's

2483
02:06:08,920 --> 02:06:16,800
Speaker 1: so cute. Ooh okay, one queen. I'm struggling a bit. Guys, sorry,

2484
02:06:17,920 --> 02:06:23,040
Speaker 1: Oh hold the ice pack entertain them when I put

2485
02:06:23,080 --> 02:06:23,680
Speaker 1: this necklace on.

2486
02:06:26,840 --> 02:06:30,560
Speaker 2: But I like, thank you for the work. We also,

2487
02:06:31,080 --> 02:06:32,600
Speaker 2: but if you guys want to give me like some

2488
02:06:32,760 --> 02:06:37,000
Speaker 2: like American American, American American, hold on, hold on, guys,

2489
02:06:37,040 --> 02:06:40,560
Speaker 2: you guys have any like finally help her. Jesus, I'm

2490
02:06:40,560 --> 02:06:43,160
Speaker 2: getting there. She's coming. If you guys have any like

2491
02:06:43,760 --> 02:06:46,440
Speaker 2: suggestions for the YouTube chat or the YouTube community, let me.

2492
02:06:46,480 --> 02:06:51,040
Speaker 1: Know what was.

2493
02:06:52,600 --> 02:06:59,640
Speaker 2: Ah, Everyone's like, uh, okay, put on this one on

2494
02:06:59,760 --> 02:07:05,040
Speaker 2: this loop. Oh boom, I did it. Yay girl Dad

2495
02:07:05,160 --> 02:07:06,960
Speaker 2: certified one day.

2496
02:07:07,360 --> 02:07:07,560
Speaker 6: Yay.

2497
02:07:09,200 --> 02:07:10,560
Speaker 2: Wow, show it off, showed off.

2498
02:07:11,600 --> 02:07:14,200
Speaker 1: Look at my work. I just look at my worm

2499
02:07:14,280 --> 02:07:18,520
Speaker 1: Queen bling. Hold on, put it on that where I'm

2500
02:07:18,600 --> 02:07:30,000
Speaker 1: Queen bling. It's where I'm Queen Bling. Congratulations, Stoke Nation

2501
02:07:30,120 --> 02:07:34,760
Speaker 1: on getting engaged. I love this necklace. It's so cute.

2502
02:07:34,760 --> 02:07:35,400
Speaker 1: Thank you so much.

2503
02:07:35,480 --> 02:07:40,680
Speaker 2: Rachel the acts hatchet from Axes in the chat. Wow,

2504
02:07:42,360 --> 02:07:42,840
Speaker 2: I love it.

2505
02:07:43,040 --> 02:07:45,440
Speaker 1: I love it. You're gonna see me wearing this next dream.

2506
02:07:46,120 --> 02:07:47,560
Speaker 2: He's just gonna put it on it all the time

2507
02:07:47,640 --> 02:07:50,080
Speaker 2: and anytime. Oh my gosh, I'm gonna see it anytimes,

2508
02:07:50,160 --> 02:07:51,240
Speaker 2: like Riley do something.

2509
02:07:51,440 --> 02:07:58,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, you go, I'm a worm queen. I think it's

2510
02:07:58,920 --> 02:08:02,960
Speaker 1: really funny because like when I'm gonna I'm gonna wear

2511
02:08:03,040 --> 02:08:05,360
Speaker 1: this outside and people are gonna be like, why do

2512
02:08:05,440 --> 02:08:09,480
Speaker 1: you a necklace that just says warm? I'm like, you'd

2513
02:08:09,560 --> 02:08:11,480
Speaker 1: have to, you'd have to be a real fan. Yeah,

2514
02:08:11,560 --> 02:08:13,160
Speaker 1: you just don't understand, dude.

2515
02:08:13,200 --> 02:08:15,600
Speaker 2: That is a flex though. Yeah, that's so cool.

2516
02:08:15,720 --> 02:08:18,160
Speaker 1: Yeah you don't get it. It's an inside joke. Yeah,

2517
02:08:20,240 --> 02:08:21,960
Speaker 1: gets inside this next story.

2518
02:08:22,040 --> 02:08:22,840
Speaker 2: Oh let me get that.

2519
02:08:23,560 --> 02:08:27,560
Speaker 1: Is it a sport? That is all the gifts that

2520
02:08:27,640 --> 02:08:31,760
Speaker 1: we have for today. But I'm very excited to find

2521
02:08:32,280 --> 02:08:39,920
Speaker 1: more gifts. I cannot wait. Yeah, all right, you ready? Okay?

2522
02:08:40,080 --> 02:08:42,800
Speaker 1: Riley needs more seconds. Everyone's just typing axes, which is

2523
02:08:42,840 --> 02:08:45,320
Speaker 1: what I wanted. But I'll just have to think of

2524
02:08:45,520 --> 02:08:49,560
Speaker 1: something to say. What did I do today?

2525
02:08:49,920 --> 02:08:50,000
Speaker 5: Oh?

2526
02:08:50,040 --> 02:08:53,400
Speaker 1: You're ready? I don't have to tell you. Okay, you

2527
02:08:53,440 --> 02:08:57,120
Speaker 1: don't get to know. So today I aft up by

2528
02:08:57,200 --> 02:09:01,680
Speaker 1: making my best friend cry on her birthday of joy.

2529
02:09:02,760 --> 02:09:08,480
Speaker 2: You surprised her? Yeah, so, Zoko Elpi.

2530
02:09:08,240 --> 02:09:12,240
Speaker 1: Says, yesterday was my twenty five male best friend's thirty

2531
02:09:12,360 --> 02:09:16,040
Speaker 1: female birthday. I bought her a typewriter because she's a

2532
02:09:16,080 --> 02:09:19,000
Speaker 1: hobbyist writer, and I know it's something she's always wanted.

2533
02:09:19,200 --> 02:09:21,680
Speaker 1: We've known each other for quite some time. We gass

2534
02:09:21,760 --> 02:09:24,040
Speaker 1: each other up when the other is feeling self conscious,

2535
02:09:24,360 --> 02:09:27,880
Speaker 1: jab at each other for fun and laughs, but most importantly,

2536
02:09:28,160 --> 02:09:30,440
Speaker 1: we've always been there for each other when we're going

2537
02:09:30,520 --> 02:09:31,240
Speaker 1: through a tough time.

2538
02:09:31,440 --> 02:09:32,080
Speaker 2: Nice. Nice.

2539
02:09:32,400 --> 02:09:35,000
Speaker 1: We typically hang out by playing video games and watching

2540
02:09:35,080 --> 02:09:37,960
Speaker 1: stuff on YouTube and TVs, so since yesterday was really

2541
02:09:38,000 --> 02:09:40,560
Speaker 1: snowy and most of our friends live outside of town,

2542
02:09:40,920 --> 02:09:45,040
Speaker 1: that is exactly what we did. We've been talking about

2543
02:09:45,040 --> 02:09:48,840
Speaker 1: two things for a while, starting to stream together crazy

2544
02:09:49,000 --> 02:09:56,960
Speaker 1: what Meta and starting to make a game together. We've

2545
02:09:57,000 --> 02:09:59,360
Speaker 1: talked about the game a lot and even started jotting

2546
02:09:59,400 --> 02:10:02,640
Speaker 1: down idea and ways to develop the game. Yesterday I

2547
02:10:02,760 --> 02:10:05,680
Speaker 1: was talking to her about how to start streaming with Twitch,

2548
02:10:06,480 --> 02:10:08,160
Speaker 1: and OBS reach out to me. I know how to

2549
02:10:08,200 --> 02:10:15,760
Speaker 1: do that, and Twitch really knows as like crying. Every

2550
02:10:15,960 --> 02:10:20,520
Speaker 1: day I walk into his room. He's sobbing on the floor.

2551
02:10:21,240 --> 02:10:23,520
Speaker 1: I had her up in the middle and I he

2552
02:10:23,640 --> 02:10:26,600
Speaker 1: just started shouting, Obs, this barb.

2553
02:10:27,640 --> 02:10:31,560
Speaker 2: You have no idea? You guys in tears. I've gone anyway. Sorry,

2554
02:10:31,640 --> 02:10:34,320
Speaker 2: obs is like a trigger word. I get PTSD every

2555
02:10:34,360 --> 02:10:34,880
Speaker 2: time I think of it.

2556
02:10:34,960 --> 02:10:42,240
Speaker 1: Sorry, what happened to our last video? I don't know, that's.

2557
02:10:42,080 --> 02:10:42,880
Speaker 2: Probably what happened to it.

2558
02:10:42,920 --> 02:10:43,640
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, maybe that.

2559
02:10:45,400 --> 02:10:47,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I made someone cry today too.

2560
02:10:48,480 --> 02:10:49,200
Speaker 1: Did you make cry?

2561
02:10:49,360 --> 02:10:50,600
Speaker 2: What did you do? Tell us?

2562
02:10:51,280 --> 02:10:53,880
Speaker 1: Anyway, let's go back to the story. She said something

2563
02:10:53,920 --> 02:10:57,280
Speaker 1: along the line of quote, we should stream X game

2564
02:10:57,360 --> 02:11:00,120
Speaker 1: for fun. I don't know what the voice is. I

2565
02:11:00,240 --> 02:11:02,680
Speaker 1: don't remember verbatim what I said, but I replied with

2566
02:11:03,000 --> 02:11:05,840
Speaker 1: something along the lines of, why would I stream X

2567
02:11:05,920 --> 02:11:09,120
Speaker 1: game with you when you're bad at X game? That's harsh?

2568
02:11:09,280 --> 02:11:14,000
Speaker 2: What we're thinking about Sophia playing games and all of them. Okay,

2569
02:11:14,120 --> 02:11:14,560
Speaker 2: she said it.

2570
02:11:14,600 --> 02:11:14,840
Speaker 3: Not me.

2571
02:11:16,560 --> 02:11:18,520
Speaker 1: I've been playing. I know you guys wanted before we

2572
02:11:18,600 --> 02:11:21,440
Speaker 1: go on because that was mean. First off, that was mean,

2573
02:11:21,920 --> 02:11:23,800
Speaker 1: and I'm going to say it. That was rude, and

2574
02:11:23,880 --> 02:11:25,680
Speaker 1: that was mean, and you don't talk to your friends

2575
02:11:25,800 --> 02:11:25,960
Speaker 1: like that.

2576
02:11:26,320 --> 02:11:26,560
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2577
02:11:28,000 --> 02:11:31,040
Speaker 1: Second off, I've been playing on a breadth of the

2578
02:11:31,120 --> 02:11:33,320
Speaker 1: wild and I know like a lot of you guys

2579
02:11:33,360 --> 02:11:36,080
Speaker 1: have wanted me to stream, but I've been dying so

2580
02:11:36,440 --> 02:11:38,600
Speaker 1: much so I feel like I should get a little

2581
02:11:38,600 --> 02:11:38,920
Speaker 1: bit better.

2582
02:11:39,800 --> 02:11:41,880
Speaker 2: You'll be fine. You'll be fine unless you guys want

2583
02:11:41,880 --> 02:11:42,520
Speaker 2: to watch me die.

2584
02:11:42,880 --> 02:11:44,240
Speaker 1: But you have to know that I will. Like, you

2585
02:11:44,280 --> 02:11:46,040
Speaker 1: can't be like surprised when I start dying.

2586
02:11:47,000 --> 02:11:48,000
Speaker 2: You just have to see it coming.

2587
02:11:48,120 --> 02:11:49,320
Speaker 1: You got it? Yeah, you have to be like she's

2588
02:11:49,320 --> 02:11:53,320
Speaker 1: about to die. Okay, let's get back to mean. O

2589
02:11:53,480 --> 02:11:58,680
Speaker 1: Pe and my smart ass even referenced her stats insaid

2590
02:11:58,760 --> 02:12:01,800
Speaker 1: game when we played it together. Hold up, So not

2591
02:12:01,960 --> 02:12:05,280
Speaker 1: only did op she was like you you suck at

2592
02:12:05,320 --> 02:12:08,200
Speaker 1: this game, she was also like, here are your stats,

2593
02:12:08,240 --> 02:12:09,280
Speaker 1: here's the proof.

2594
02:12:09,520 --> 02:12:12,720
Speaker 2: Here's your kdie ratio. You freaking suck, my dude.

2595
02:12:13,000 --> 02:12:14,160
Speaker 1: Like, why would you say that?

2596
02:12:14,600 --> 02:12:16,120
Speaker 2: I think they're trying to prove a point that they

2597
02:12:16,160 --> 02:12:17,080
Speaker 2: don't want to play.

2598
02:12:17,360 --> 02:12:19,320
Speaker 1: You know what, you know what they say, if you

2599
02:12:19,360 --> 02:12:21,600
Speaker 1: don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all.

2600
02:12:23,080 --> 02:12:23,760
Speaker 1: That's what they say.

2601
02:12:23,800 --> 02:12:25,600
Speaker 2: Okay, I guess they miss that in kindergarten.

2602
02:12:26,440 --> 02:12:28,640
Speaker 1: Say God says honestly sounds like something me and my

2603
02:12:28,680 --> 02:12:30,280
Speaker 1: best friend would say to each other. But we know

2604
02:12:30,400 --> 02:12:30,960
Speaker 1: that we're joking.

2605
02:12:31,480 --> 02:12:34,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, but it seems like they're not joking.

2606
02:12:34,400 --> 02:12:36,480
Speaker 1: It seems like they're not joking. There's one thing to

2607
02:12:36,560 --> 02:12:40,560
Speaker 1: be like, you suck. Like I say that, you know,

2608
02:12:40,680 --> 02:12:42,680
Speaker 1: I say that to my friends when we're playing. We

2609
02:12:43,120 --> 02:12:45,480
Speaker 1: played a lot of Boomerang food. Oh my gosh, I'm like,

2610
02:12:45,520 --> 02:12:47,040
Speaker 1: you guys suck, I'm beating you.

2611
02:12:47,360 --> 02:12:50,320
Speaker 2: Sophia is the worst to play with. She trash talks

2612
02:12:50,440 --> 02:12:50,960
Speaker 2: so much.

2613
02:12:51,080 --> 02:12:51,680
Speaker 1: I do I do.

2614
02:12:52,160 --> 02:12:54,880
Speaker 2: Like yesterday we played a card game and there was

2615
02:12:54,920 --> 02:12:58,560
Speaker 2: a rule that she didn't know, you know, talking about

2616
02:12:58,640 --> 02:13:00,200
Speaker 2: you guys create.

2617
02:13:02,720 --> 02:13:07,680
Speaker 1: A rule. There's some kind of plot going on to

2618
02:13:07,840 --> 02:13:13,280
Speaker 1: depose me. Any I'm just competitive.

2619
02:13:13,440 --> 02:13:14,080
Speaker 2: I called it.

2620
02:13:14,320 --> 02:13:22,680
Speaker 1: I knew it all right. Any who, let's continue. Almost instantly,

2621
02:13:22,880 --> 02:13:25,760
Speaker 1: I noticed her demeanor change and she got really quiet

2622
02:13:25,800 --> 02:13:28,040
Speaker 1: and distant, and I realized that what I said was

2623
02:13:28,120 --> 02:13:32,600
Speaker 1: really mean, and I realized what I said was kind

2624
02:13:32,640 --> 02:13:37,200
Speaker 1: of really mean. Duh, that's crazy. Whoops. I meant it

2625
02:13:37,240 --> 02:13:39,800
Speaker 1: as a small jab, but in hindsight, I'm realizing she

2626
02:13:39,920 --> 02:13:43,040
Speaker 1: probably interpreted this as why would I stream anything with

2627
02:13:43,160 --> 02:13:47,160
Speaker 1: you when you're bad at everything? I was very quickly

2628
02:13:47,200 --> 02:13:50,160
Speaker 1: apologetic and let her know that what I said was

2629
02:13:50,240 --> 02:13:52,840
Speaker 1: uncalled for, but what I said had already been said

2630
02:13:53,080 --> 02:13:58,400
Speaker 1: m for the rest of the night. She completely shut down.

2631
02:13:59,160 --> 02:14:00,600
Speaker 1: When I tried to talk to her about it and

2632
02:14:00,720 --> 02:14:02,760
Speaker 1: let her know that I'm a jackass. She got really

2633
02:14:02,800 --> 02:14:05,600
Speaker 1: down on herself and basically reiterated what I said in

2634
02:14:06,120 --> 02:14:08,760
Speaker 1: what I said in that she's bad at every game

2635
02:14:08,800 --> 02:14:10,080
Speaker 1: and we shouldn't stream together.

2636
02:14:11,560 --> 02:14:17,320
Speaker 2: And I saw her start to cry, No, oh, you

2637
02:14:17,720 --> 02:14:20,760
Speaker 2: can't say things like this. Was someone that's super passionate.

2638
02:14:20,360 --> 02:14:23,240
Speaker 1: About Yeah, sometimes people are sensitive.

2639
02:14:23,680 --> 02:14:26,920
Speaker 2: Yeah that's okay. You just gotta be like it's okay, kitten.

2640
02:14:26,760 --> 02:14:30,960
Speaker 1: He's okay, kitten. I tried to change the subject and

2641
02:14:31,040 --> 02:14:33,960
Speaker 1: talk about something else and crack jokes, try and cheer up,

2642
02:14:34,480 --> 02:14:37,400
Speaker 1: but with no results. Too damn light to damn right,

2643
02:14:37,600 --> 02:14:44,920
Speaker 1: doodamn bad. I'm tired of this, Grandpaamn, I don't actually

2644
02:14:45,000 --> 02:14:46,840
Speaker 1: think she's bad at the game in question, then why

2645
02:14:46,880 --> 02:14:51,480
Speaker 1: did you say it? Oh, she's not even bad. I

2646
02:14:51,640 --> 02:14:54,240
Speaker 1: just meant it as a lighthearted jab but I realized

2647
02:14:54,280 --> 02:14:55,920
Speaker 1: now that it meant much more to her than that,

2648
02:14:56,360 --> 02:14:57,160
Speaker 1: and I feel awful.

2649
02:14:57,320 --> 02:14:59,240
Speaker 2: Low key. This is how guys talk to each other.

2650
02:15:00,160 --> 02:15:03,560
Speaker 2: Oh you should madden and like they get fired up

2651
02:15:03,560 --> 02:15:06,320
Speaker 2: in this opshi. Yeah, they're like mean, her competitive spirit

2652
02:15:06,440 --> 02:15:07,640
Speaker 2: was coming out. That's what she's doing.

2653
02:15:08,120 --> 02:15:11,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh, Aaron says, they normally joked about it like that.

2654
02:15:12,080 --> 02:15:15,800
Speaker 1: Did they hold on? I'm going back? We gass each

2655
02:15:15,800 --> 02:15:17,560
Speaker 1: other up when the others feel this is a back

2656
02:15:17,600 --> 02:15:20,400
Speaker 1: we're going backwards. Is feeling self conscious jab at each

2657
02:15:20,400 --> 02:15:23,960
Speaker 1: other for fun and laughs, So there is precedent. I

2658
02:15:24,080 --> 02:15:26,960
Speaker 1: actually yeah, maybe she was just feeling a little bit

2659
02:15:27,000 --> 02:15:27,480
Speaker 1: sensitive to.

2660
02:15:27,520 --> 02:15:31,880
Speaker 2: That conspiracy theory. Yeah, you get a lot of hate

2661
02:15:31,920 --> 02:15:32,120
Speaker 2: for this.

2662
02:15:32,280 --> 02:15:32,560
Speaker 5: Do it.

2663
02:15:32,680 --> 02:15:35,440
Speaker 1: Say it. I'll tell you whether you're wrong or not.

2664
02:15:36,240 --> 02:15:40,360
Speaker 2: After watching a video about how the menstrual cycle works. Okay,

2665
02:15:40,560 --> 02:15:43,280
Speaker 2: you think no, that, Okay, that has nothing to do

2666
02:15:43,360 --> 02:15:43,520
Speaker 2: with this.

2667
02:15:43,760 --> 02:15:46,840
Speaker 1: Okay, it's not that I couldn't, but like you don't

2668
02:15:46,880 --> 02:15:47,320
Speaker 1: get to say it.

2669
02:15:47,680 --> 02:15:50,920
Speaker 2: Okay, cool, cool, good to know. I'm learning good to

2670
02:15:51,080 --> 02:15:54,080
Speaker 2: know and they're just saying They usually jokingly say it,

2671
02:15:54,200 --> 02:15:54,960
Speaker 2: and then I'm.

2672
02:15:54,920 --> 02:15:57,240
Speaker 1: Trying there might be a reason for it, but you

2673
02:15:57,280 --> 02:15:59,600
Speaker 1: don't get it. You don't get to say, is your

2674
02:15:59,640 --> 02:16:01,680
Speaker 1: telling the month? That's Yeah, I would never I would

2675
02:16:01,760 --> 02:16:03,400
Speaker 1: never say it like that, But could it be I

2676
02:16:03,440 --> 02:16:03,960
Speaker 1: had the hat on?

2677
02:16:04,360 --> 02:16:13,400
Speaker 2: I have the hat on. I'm saying, I'm just trying

2678
02:16:13,440 --> 02:16:13,840
Speaker 2: to learn.

2679
02:16:13,960 --> 02:16:16,200
Speaker 1: You just trying to learn. You asked it, You asked it.

2680
02:16:16,400 --> 02:16:18,600
Speaker 1: Riley's never said that to me when I'm crying to him,

2681
02:16:18,640 --> 02:16:21,280
Speaker 1: and I would write him multiple times. So yeah, I'm

2682
02:16:21,360 --> 02:16:22,560
Speaker 1: just like, yeah, it's okay.

2683
02:16:23,400 --> 02:16:23,600
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2684
02:16:23,640 --> 02:16:25,560
Speaker 1: I'm also just a seven sit of person. So sometimes

2685
02:16:25,600 --> 02:16:37,400
Speaker 1: people are just sensitive learning learning. Guys, you're learning, you learning? Yeah. Yeah.

2686
02:16:37,680 --> 02:16:39,960
Speaker 1: Oh someone said even if you normally can you go

2687
02:16:40,080 --> 02:16:45,520
Speaker 1: up a little bit, there will be cats with guenifar.

2688
02:16:46,080 --> 02:16:48,640
Speaker 1: I like that says, even if you normally joke that way,

2689
02:16:48,760 --> 02:16:51,240
Speaker 1: if you're super insecure about something, it hits differently. Yeah,

2690
02:16:51,280 --> 02:16:53,640
Speaker 1: she might be really insecure about like not being good

2691
02:16:53,640 --> 02:16:55,520
Speaker 1: at the game and being like are we even going

2692
02:16:55,600 --> 02:16:56,760
Speaker 1: to be able to stream together?

2693
02:16:57,680 --> 02:17:01,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, because like whenever you're passion about something like this,

2694
02:17:01,200 --> 02:17:03,280
Speaker 2: like whenever you want to start like a new thing,

2695
02:17:04,000 --> 02:17:07,080
Speaker 2: what your friends say to you is really hard hitting.

2696
02:17:07,280 --> 02:17:07,480
Speaker 4: Yeah.

2697
02:17:07,560 --> 02:17:10,160
Speaker 1: No, sometimes my friends, you know, like we I do

2698
02:17:10,240 --> 02:17:12,240
Speaker 1: the same thing with my friends, where like we kind

2699
02:17:12,280 --> 02:17:15,440
Speaker 1: of go back and forth with jobs, but sometimes they

2700
02:17:15,600 --> 02:17:19,040
Speaker 1: hit and I'm like sad, damn yeah, and I'm like,

2701
02:17:19,480 --> 02:17:22,039
Speaker 1: you know, quiet, quiet in the corner, you know, dude.

2702
02:17:22,080 --> 02:17:26,920
Speaker 2: Somebody at at lunch at a church event, they were like, well, like,

2703
02:17:27,040 --> 02:17:29,040
Speaker 2: your business isn't successful enough, you can't even do this?

2704
02:17:29,160 --> 02:17:30,760
Speaker 2: Yeah yo yoah, And I was like, I got quiet.

2705
02:17:30,800 --> 02:17:34,080
Speaker 1: I was like, why would they say that? They were joking,

2706
02:17:34,240 --> 02:17:38,320
Speaker 1: but like, okay, some people go too far. Yeah, yeah,

2707
02:17:38,520 --> 02:17:40,040
Speaker 1: some people need to learn how I get that.

2708
02:17:40,160 --> 02:17:40,520
Speaker 2: I get that.

2709
02:17:40,600 --> 02:17:43,039
Speaker 1: Then, yeah, some people need to go to improv class

2710
02:17:43,080 --> 02:17:46,720
Speaker 1: and learn a joke. Almost. Oh wait, I don't know

2711
02:17:46,800 --> 02:17:52,280
Speaker 1: where I am anymore. She made dinner. That's where we were, Okay.

2712
02:17:52,600 --> 02:17:54,600
Speaker 1: I cooked her dinner and we watched some TV the

2713
02:17:54,640 --> 02:17:58,119
Speaker 1: rest of the night, mostly in silence. After I left,

2714
02:17:58,200 --> 02:18:00,920
Speaker 1: I messaged her and apologized again, but I know she's

2715
02:18:00,959 --> 02:18:03,560
Speaker 1: not going to talk to me for a while. It's

2716
02:18:03,600 --> 02:18:06,800
Speaker 1: the morning after, and I feel absolutely awful. I didn't

2717
02:18:06,879 --> 02:18:09,400
Speaker 1: mean for this to appen, especially on her birthday. I

2718
02:18:09,440 --> 02:18:11,880
Speaker 1: forgot it was her birthday. Do we know that it

2719
02:18:11,959 --> 02:18:16,000
Speaker 1: was her birthday? Oh my god, you didn't know say

2720
02:18:16,000 --> 02:18:17,720
Speaker 1: that to her on her birthday? That was the first

2721
02:18:17,800 --> 02:18:19,000
Speaker 1: sentence I forgot about that.

2722
02:18:19,400 --> 02:18:19,680
Speaker 2: Wow.

2723
02:18:21,160 --> 02:18:21,400
Speaker 6: Fuck.

2724
02:18:22,080 --> 02:18:24,680
Speaker 1: I aim to make her birthday as relaxing as possible,

2725
02:18:24,760 --> 02:18:26,880
Speaker 1: but I said something that I shouldn't have and completely

2726
02:18:27,000 --> 02:18:31,720
Speaker 1: ruined the day for her. I don't know what to do, yoicks. Yeah,

2727
02:18:32,680 --> 02:18:36,200
Speaker 1: a little bit the a hole. I understand, like being

2728
02:18:36,320 --> 02:18:39,640
Speaker 1: you know, sometimes you have that relationship, that rapport and

2729
02:18:39,720 --> 02:18:41,960
Speaker 1: then you go a little bit too far. Yeah, but

2730
02:18:43,879 --> 02:18:44,720
Speaker 1: you just gotta be careful.

2731
02:18:44,879 --> 02:18:45,039
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2732
02:18:45,120 --> 02:18:47,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think it's like an irreversible a hole.

2733
02:18:48,440 --> 02:18:50,199
Speaker 1: I think it was an a whole moment.

2734
02:18:50,080 --> 02:18:51,560
Speaker 2: Though, of course.

2735
02:18:51,879 --> 02:18:52,119
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2736
02:18:52,560 --> 02:18:54,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, And you probably didn't feel as passionate about the

2737
02:18:54,840 --> 02:18:56,720
Speaker 2: streaming and all that as she did.

2738
02:18:57,040 --> 02:18:59,200
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, maybe she was, Like she just took it

2739
02:18:59,320 --> 02:19:03,560
Speaker 1: really strongly BC original. Did she actually do anything for

2740
02:19:03,640 --> 02:19:06,120
Speaker 1: her friend's birthday? I think she made dinner. We don't

2741
02:19:06,160 --> 02:19:08,200
Speaker 1: know what else that Yeah, made her cry, Yeah, she

2742
02:19:08,320 --> 02:19:09,680
Speaker 1: made her cry, and she made her dinner.

2743
02:19:10,040 --> 02:19:11,160
Speaker 2: Made her doubt her futures.

2744
02:19:11,400 --> 02:19:15,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, Cassanda says people make mistakes, but learned Opie needs

2745
02:19:15,280 --> 02:19:18,600
Speaker 1: to learn to read the room bro very true facts.

2746
02:19:19,240 --> 02:19:21,480
Speaker 1: Oh listener, she says, they got their friend a typewriter.

2747
02:19:22,200 --> 02:19:26,880
Speaker 1: I feel like I didn't actually read the story. Yeah,

2748
02:19:26,959 --> 02:19:30,080
Speaker 1: she was teaching me more than Yeah, that's my bad. Yeah,

2749
02:19:30,680 --> 02:19:33,879
Speaker 1: they got the typewriter, made her cry and destroy their

2750
02:19:33,959 --> 02:19:35,920
Speaker 1: dreams and made her dinner. Oh and destroyed her dreams

2751
02:19:36,200 --> 02:19:36,600
Speaker 1: or in one.

2752
02:19:36,840 --> 02:19:37,280
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2753
02:19:38,000 --> 02:19:40,400
Speaker 1: Sometimes people get less than that for their birthdays, so

2754
02:19:40,560 --> 02:19:43,840
Speaker 1: that's true. Also, thank you for a harmless hag of

2755
02:19:43,920 --> 02:19:44,480
Speaker 1: the woods.

2756
02:19:44,640 --> 02:19:45,040
Speaker 5: I like that.

2757
02:19:45,320 --> 02:19:47,600
Speaker 1: For the two bucks long day at bakery, thanks for

2758
02:19:47,640 --> 02:19:50,320
Speaker 1: the relaxing listen. Oh wow, what are you bacon dude?

2759
02:19:50,320 --> 02:19:52,840
Speaker 2: You get your smell senses relaxes and now you're getting

2760
02:19:52,879 --> 02:19:56,120
Speaker 2: your ear holes relaxed. That's so nice because like the

2761
02:19:56,160 --> 02:19:58,960
Speaker 2: bakery is like the smells nice. Yeah, us talking in

2762
02:19:59,040 --> 02:20:02,640
Speaker 2: their ears. Oh yeah, we're relaxing and the taste one.

2763
02:20:02,720 --> 02:20:05,600
Speaker 2: Two they got three, three senses maybe they're touching it

2764
02:20:05,879 --> 02:20:09,280
Speaker 2: and if they're watching us, that's four and touching five.

2765
02:20:09,360 --> 02:20:12,400
Speaker 1: Oh they got all five going, they got five. Yeah,

2766
02:20:12,640 --> 02:20:13,119
Speaker 1: that's great.

2767
02:20:13,360 --> 02:20:13,600
Speaker 2: Wow.

2768
02:20:13,800 --> 02:20:16,760
Speaker 1: Thank you Adeline Gutierres for the two bucks. Hi Sophia

2769
02:20:16,800 --> 02:20:21,320
Speaker 1: and Riley. Hello, Hello, that's the end of the story.

2770
02:20:21,520 --> 02:20:23,400
Speaker 2: I think they'll be okay. I think they'll be okay.

2771
02:20:23,720 --> 02:20:26,520
Speaker 1: That was I have tips all the time with my

2772
02:20:26,600 --> 02:20:29,320
Speaker 1: friends where we both take turns saying something we didn't

2773
02:20:29,800 --> 02:20:32,360
Speaker 1: mean to be as hurtful as it was, and you know,

2774
02:20:32,600 --> 02:20:33,200
Speaker 1: we get over it.

2775
02:20:33,760 --> 02:20:37,360
Speaker 2: When was when was your last tiff? Can you remember?

2776
02:20:37,560 --> 02:20:38,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, like a couple of weeks ago.

2777
02:20:38,920 --> 02:20:43,480
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, ok so they were good.

2778
02:20:44,080 --> 02:20:48,160
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, going to share my TIFs okay, it was yeah,

2779
02:20:48,200 --> 02:20:48,960
Speaker 1: it was another thing.

2780
02:20:49,160 --> 02:20:50,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, no, but.

2781
02:20:50,560 --> 02:20:53,160
Speaker 1: You know, they come and go. If your friends were

2782
02:20:53,320 --> 02:20:56,039
Speaker 1: with people for a really long time, that's that's what happens.

2783
02:20:57,720 --> 02:21:00,760
Speaker 1: But let's get into this next story.

2784
02:21:01,040 --> 02:21:04,960
Speaker 2: We're gonna read three ninety nine girlfriends I found. I

2785
02:21:05,040 --> 02:21:07,119
Speaker 2: didn't get story. I didn't read it all the way,

2786
02:21:07,240 --> 02:21:11,800
Speaker 2: but I think it's kind of hilarious, not really hilarious,

2787
02:21:11,879 --> 02:21:17,000
Speaker 2: but like it's it's controversial, say the least lovely.

2788
02:21:17,320 --> 02:21:19,240
Speaker 1: Also, do we have a new goal for our wheel?

2789
02:21:19,640 --> 02:21:23,640
Speaker 2: Yes, new goal. Let's get to how many people are

2790
02:21:23,640 --> 02:21:26,000
Speaker 2: on the stream right now. We got eight thirty watching

2791
02:21:26,120 --> 02:21:29,000
Speaker 2: on all platforms. We've got seven hundred and eighty six

2792
02:21:29,120 --> 02:21:32,520
Speaker 2: of you guys got in YouTube, but there's only six

2793
02:21:32,640 --> 02:21:33,119
Speaker 2: ten likes.

2794
02:21:33,480 --> 02:21:35,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's see what's over that?

2795
02:21:35,320 --> 02:21:37,440
Speaker 2: What over that? Let's say seven to fifty likes? We

2796
02:21:37,520 --> 02:21:42,959
Speaker 2: spend the wheel, or like two thousand chats or three thousand.

2797
02:21:42,720 --> 02:21:44,560
Speaker 1: Chats or if you get if you happen to get

2798
02:21:44,560 --> 02:21:45,039
Speaker 1: to the other hour?

2799
02:21:45,080 --> 02:21:46,039
Speaker 2: Which one? Which one? Wait?

2800
02:21:46,120 --> 02:21:46,560
Speaker 1: What'd you say?

2801
02:21:46,760 --> 02:21:50,760
Speaker 2: Two thousand chats? We're at like a thous Let's get

2802
02:21:50,760 --> 02:21:52,560
Speaker 2: to three thousand chats, seven chats?

2803
02:21:53,600 --> 02:21:54,080
Speaker 6: What you say?

2804
02:21:54,120 --> 02:21:56,600
Speaker 2: Seven to fifty likes, seven to fifty likes, yeah, seven

2805
02:21:56,600 --> 02:22:00,039
Speaker 2: fifty likes, three thousand chats. Yeah, spam, spam.

2806
02:22:02,720 --> 02:22:07,960
Speaker 1: All right? Three nine nine s one. I hurt the

2807
02:22:08,000 --> 02:22:12,480
Speaker 1: feelings of my girlfriend's sister while performing. Now my girlfriend

2808
02:22:12,640 --> 02:22:18,480
Speaker 1: won't talk to me performing what stand up comedy? So

2809
02:22:19,000 --> 02:22:20,879
Speaker 1: I think she's upset, says.

2810
02:22:22,760 --> 02:22:23,400
Speaker 6: I upset.

2811
02:22:23,440 --> 02:22:27,400
Speaker 1: Guys. I'm a somewhat successful twenty seven year old comic

2812
02:22:27,640 --> 02:22:29,879
Speaker 1: working my way up in the comedy scene in the city.

2813
02:22:29,920 --> 02:22:33,800
Speaker 1: I'm living in Humble Bribe. I'm dating a twenty eight

2814
02:22:33,879 --> 02:22:36,760
Speaker 1: year old woman from here, and she's very supportive of

2815
02:22:36,920 --> 02:22:40,080
Speaker 1: my career as I am with hers. She has a

2816
02:22:40,160 --> 02:22:44,600
Speaker 1: twenty one year old sister, little sister that I think

2817
02:22:44,840 --> 02:22:48,640
Speaker 1: is a spoiled sorority brat, But I very rarely see her,

2818
02:22:48,840 --> 02:22:51,520
Speaker 1: so I pay her very little mind. Just the other night,

2819
02:22:51,600 --> 02:22:53,920
Speaker 1: I was performing at a comedy club and my girlfriend

2820
02:22:54,000 --> 02:22:57,760
Speaker 1: was coming to watch me perform. Oh, we love supportive girlfriend.

2821
02:22:58,400 --> 02:23:01,600
Speaker 1: Shout out, shout out to your supportive girl.

2822
02:23:01,800 --> 02:23:06,879
Speaker 2: Yeah the stream kaytes things.

2823
02:23:09,720 --> 02:23:11,879
Speaker 1: The night before the show, she informed me that her

2824
02:23:11,920 --> 02:23:14,120
Speaker 1: little sister was coming to the show with some friends.

2825
02:23:14,560 --> 02:23:19,560
Speaker 1: To me, this news was a possible red flag. Ooh

2826
02:23:20,360 --> 02:23:25,840
Speaker 1: with some friends to girls, Yeah, they're gonna be hecklin, hecklin.

2827
02:23:27,200 --> 02:23:30,160
Speaker 1: To give some background, my girlfriend comes from a pretty

2828
02:23:30,240 --> 02:23:34,800
Speaker 1: affluent background, where ritzy vacations and luxuries with a norm,

2829
02:23:35,160 --> 02:23:38,119
Speaker 1: whereas I come from quite the opposite. I come from

2830
02:23:38,160 --> 02:23:40,320
Speaker 1: a large family where we had to wear the busted

2831
02:23:40,360 --> 02:23:42,720
Speaker 1: pair of shoes for a little bit longer until the

2832
02:23:42,760 --> 02:23:46,040
Speaker 1: money was finally scraped together for a little For a

2833
02:23:46,120 --> 02:23:48,400
Speaker 1: lot of people, this difference could be a little intimidating,

2834
02:23:48,560 --> 02:23:51,480
Speaker 1: but it's never been a big issue. She's very level headed,

2835
02:23:51,600 --> 02:23:54,360
Speaker 1: works hard, and never looks down on others not as

2836
02:23:54,440 --> 02:23:58,600
Speaker 1: fortunate as her or her family. Oh, it never looks

2837
02:23:58,600 --> 02:24:01,360
Speaker 1: down in others, not as fortunate as her family. Her sister,

2838
02:24:01,480 --> 02:24:05,480
Speaker 1: on the other hand, is quite the opposite. Oh she

2839
02:24:05,680 --> 02:24:08,720
Speaker 1: goes to a university that is completely paid for as

2840
02:24:08,840 --> 02:24:11,080
Speaker 1: all the nice cities and let you know when you don't.

2841
02:24:11,560 --> 02:24:14,760
Speaker 1: She can get rude with people quite easily, especially when

2842
02:24:14,800 --> 02:24:18,520
Speaker 1: she's dealing with someone working a low pay job or

2843
02:24:18,640 --> 02:24:21,560
Speaker 1: someone that she views as lower in status. Now, I've

2844
02:24:21,640 --> 02:24:24,440
Speaker 1: only acted as a silent observer to her behavior because

2845
02:24:24,440 --> 02:24:27,040
Speaker 1: I've only seen her a handful of times, and I

2846
02:24:27,200 --> 02:24:30,360
Speaker 1: quite frankly didn't want to deal with her. When my

2847
02:24:30,480 --> 02:24:33,039
Speaker 1: girlfriend told me she was coming to watch me perform,

2848
02:24:33,240 --> 02:24:35,840
Speaker 1: I grew pretty alarmed. The people that I work with,

2849
02:24:36,040 --> 02:24:38,160
Speaker 1: and most of the comedy crowd for that matter, is

2850
02:24:38,200 --> 02:24:40,040
Speaker 1: a pretty working class group of people.

2851
02:24:40,160 --> 02:24:45,160
Speaker 2: Ooh, so they're like two different classes and vibes yes, Oh,

2852
02:24:45,680 --> 02:24:47,759
Speaker 2: I don't like them with vibes class.

2853
02:24:47,480 --> 02:24:51,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, world's Clyde. The deal with hard truths. Oh, they

2854
02:24:51,640 --> 02:24:53,840
Speaker 1: deal with heard truths and can laugh when they're made

2855
02:24:53,840 --> 02:24:56,640
Speaker 1: fun of. Whenever my girlfriend's sister gets put in similar

2856
02:24:56,680 --> 02:25:01,199
Speaker 1: situations situations, she definitely does not have the same reaction.

2857
02:25:01,640 --> 02:25:04,000
Speaker 1: In fact, she handles it just as just about as

2858
02:25:04,040 --> 02:25:07,720
Speaker 1: well as Vince Willfork. Finding out the buffet closed. I

2859
02:25:07,800 --> 02:25:12,400
Speaker 1: don't know that reference Vince Willfork finding out the buffets closed.

2860
02:25:12,959 --> 02:25:15,120
Speaker 1: I also went with her and my girlfriend to a

2861
02:25:15,160 --> 02:25:17,720
Speaker 1: small concert at a bar, and she was rude and

2862
02:25:17,959 --> 02:25:20,520
Speaker 1: disrespectful to the performers the whole time.

2863
02:25:21,040 --> 02:25:25,080
Speaker 2: Oh, Vince, Oh, here's Vince, here's Vince. Vince Wilfork is

2864
02:25:25,160 --> 02:25:30,840
Speaker 2: a offensive line for a buffe. No, no, it's that

2865
02:25:31,560 --> 02:25:34,880
Speaker 2: Vince is a large man, and if he hears about

2866
02:25:34,879 --> 02:25:36,760
Speaker 2: the buffets closed, he's going to be It's a fact.

2867
02:25:37,160 --> 02:25:37,920
Speaker 1: That's so rude.

2868
02:25:38,440 --> 02:25:41,199
Speaker 2: He's a comedian. This is how we expressed this rude.

2869
02:25:41,280 --> 02:25:44,280
Speaker 1: I don't like this guy anymore. Oh, p, you're on

2870
02:25:44,360 --> 02:25:44,760
Speaker 1: my bad.

2871
02:25:45,400 --> 02:25:47,680
Speaker 2: Vince would laugh if he's I know.

2872
02:25:47,760 --> 02:25:50,760
Speaker 1: We don't know that. I don't like that unless there

2873
02:25:50,920 --> 02:25:58,960
Speaker 1: is an established joke that Vince approved, I don't like. Okay, well,

2874
02:25:59,000 --> 02:25:59,480
Speaker 1: I don't.

2875
02:26:01,080 --> 02:26:05,040
Speaker 2: Like it. He is making a nice joke. I agree

2876
02:26:05,040 --> 02:26:05,400
Speaker 2: with this man.

2877
02:26:05,520 --> 02:26:08,160
Speaker 1: This is I don't know about that joke. I don't

2878
02:26:08,160 --> 02:26:09,360
Speaker 1: know about that. Seems mean.

2879
02:26:09,760 --> 02:26:11,520
Speaker 2: So you give me the same reaction as a girlfriend.

2880
02:26:13,320 --> 02:26:15,920
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe seems mean?

2881
02:26:16,640 --> 02:26:16,920
Speaker 2: Okay.

2882
02:26:17,800 --> 02:26:21,119
Speaker 1: I told my girlfriend, Wait were yeah? Was that where else?

2883
02:26:21,280 --> 02:26:24,080
Speaker 1: I told my girlfriend my concerns about her sister coming.

2884
02:26:24,480 --> 02:26:27,520
Speaker 1: She wouldn't enjoy herself. She would make a scene, or

2885
02:26:27,600 --> 02:26:31,240
Speaker 1: she would interpret another comic set, the Ultimate Oh interrupt,

2886
02:26:31,360 --> 02:26:33,560
Speaker 1: And I was like, she would interpret it. She would

2887
02:26:33,720 --> 02:26:38,640
Speaker 1: interrupt another comic set, the Ultimate sin Heckling. My girlfriend

2888
02:26:38,640 --> 02:26:41,280
Speaker 1: said it wouldn't be a problem. I buckled and said

2889
02:26:41,320 --> 02:26:45,080
Speaker 1: that she could come, but I would not be held

2890
02:26:45,160 --> 02:26:48,800
Speaker 1: liable for whatever happened in the club.

2891
02:26:50,800 --> 02:26:54,760
Speaker 2: Messy, messy, I mean, okay, not gonna lie. I went

2892
02:26:54,840 --> 02:26:56,680
Speaker 2: to a comedy club on Yeah, and there was just

2893
02:26:56,720 --> 02:26:58,720
Speaker 2: a group of guys just hanging out having a good time,

2894
02:26:59,040 --> 02:27:01,560
Speaker 2: and they were the easiest target in the club. That's

2895
02:27:01,600 --> 02:27:02,600
Speaker 2: what's going to happen with them.

2896
02:27:02,600 --> 02:27:05,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, especially if they're sitting up front, up.

2897
02:27:04,959 --> 02:27:07,160
Speaker 2: Front, and everyone else is in the work classes. It's

2898
02:27:07,200 --> 02:27:09,800
Speaker 2: just a bunch of sorority college girls. Oh yeah, they

2899
02:27:09,879 --> 02:27:12,360
Speaker 2: are a target. We got targets on all their backs.

2900
02:27:12,680 --> 02:27:13,400
Speaker 1: Targets.

2901
02:27:14,600 --> 02:27:15,440
Speaker 2: Uh where was I?

2902
02:27:16,879 --> 02:27:19,560
Speaker 1: I tend to be playful when shutting down Heckler's, but

2903
02:27:19,760 --> 02:27:22,640
Speaker 1: I know the three other comics performing, and they are

2904
02:27:22,760 --> 02:27:26,120
Speaker 1: definitely not I have a three strike roll, but they

2905
02:27:26,200 --> 02:27:29,920
Speaker 1: swing like goddamn Sammy Sosa on the first pitch, he's

2906
02:27:29,959 --> 02:27:31,640
Speaker 1: got a lot of a lot of.

2907
02:27:31,840 --> 02:27:35,320
Speaker 2: You know, explaining to his audience. His audience is probably like, uh,

2908
02:27:35,959 --> 02:27:36,920
Speaker 2: mid forties men.

2909
02:27:37,000 --> 02:27:39,560
Speaker 1: I guess. So she agreed and that was that until

2910
02:27:39,600 --> 02:27:43,040
Speaker 1: the next day. We met the sister and friends beforehand

2911
02:27:43,160 --> 02:27:46,200
Speaker 1: and went to the club. The first comic was a

2912
02:27:46,280 --> 02:27:48,200
Speaker 1: lady I know, and she was spot on that night.

2913
02:27:48,360 --> 02:27:50,360
Speaker 1: She's by no means a pretty woman. So the girls

2914
02:27:50,400 --> 02:27:52,879
Speaker 1: started making sly comments to each other about it until

2915
02:27:52,920 --> 02:27:54,960
Speaker 1: I told them to cut it out. Oh they're just

2916
02:27:55,040 --> 02:27:58,320
Speaker 1: mean girls, which they did. I then went backstage to

2917
02:27:58,400 --> 02:28:00,240
Speaker 1: the green room, but from the little bits I saw

2918
02:28:00,280 --> 02:28:04,560
Speaker 1: and heard, they were on fairly good behavior. Then my

2919
02:28:05,400 --> 02:28:06,360
Speaker 1: set started.

2920
02:28:07,360 --> 02:28:11,640
Speaker 2: You think I think they Heckledspira either.

2921
02:28:11,680 --> 02:28:15,120
Speaker 1: I think they heckled. Yeah, that was the whole sconcer theater.

2922
02:28:15,200 --> 02:28:18,959
Speaker 2: I think he's gonna say something that really mean to oh,

2923
02:28:19,160 --> 02:28:21,960
Speaker 2: yes sister, and she's gonna be upset.

2924
02:28:22,120 --> 02:28:24,400
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think he's gonna like call out the sister

2925
02:28:24,560 --> 02:28:29,240
Speaker 1: and be like hum in your face, you know, and

2926
02:28:29,280 --> 02:28:37,320
Speaker 1: then they're gonna like they're gonna walk out. Yeah my wood,

2927
02:28:38,240 --> 02:28:42,000
Speaker 1: h uh oh. My first six or seven minutes started

2928
02:28:42,040 --> 02:28:44,720
Speaker 1: out really well. The crowd was great and I felt

2929
02:28:44,840 --> 02:28:47,840
Speaker 1: in the zone. I then started working through a bit

2930
02:28:47,879 --> 02:28:51,960
Speaker 1: about north Face being tacky, and this proved to be

2931
02:28:52,080 --> 02:28:54,680
Speaker 1: the catalyst for the sister and her friends.

2932
02:28:54,720 --> 02:28:58,960
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, they all, Oh, dare you? Oh I have

2933
02:28:59,080 --> 02:28:59,680
Speaker 2: north Face on.

2934
02:29:00,680 --> 02:29:02,680
Speaker 1: This is your catalyst. You're you're fighting?

2935
02:29:03,360 --> 02:29:03,520
Speaker 2: Oh.

2936
02:29:04,000 --> 02:29:06,120
Speaker 1: They started talking loudly in the back, to which I

2937
02:29:06,200 --> 02:29:08,600
Speaker 1: told them to stop. I looked to my girlfriend to

2938
02:29:08,680 --> 02:29:13,320
Speaker 1: corral them in and provide some silent reinforcements. Those reinforcements

2939
02:29:13,680 --> 02:29:14,200
Speaker 1: never came.

2940
02:29:14,480 --> 02:29:15,040
Speaker 2: Oh no.

2941
02:29:17,879 --> 02:29:20,360
Speaker 1: About two minutes later, I was working through a piece

2942
02:29:20,400 --> 02:29:23,199
Speaker 1: about being harry, to which the sister made a comment

2943
02:29:23,720 --> 02:29:25,880
Speaker 1: of course she did. At this point I noticed she

2944
02:29:25,959 --> 02:29:28,320
Speaker 1: and her friends have put down quite a few, quite

2945
02:29:28,320 --> 02:29:31,520
Speaker 1: a few drinky poos. That is not my words, so

2946
02:29:31,600 --> 02:29:34,720
Speaker 1: piece words. So basically I started started making fun of

2947
02:29:34,800 --> 02:29:37,720
Speaker 1: them being sloppy drunks. This shut them up for a

2948
02:29:37,800 --> 02:29:39,800
Speaker 1: little bit. I then had a piece about my mom,

2949
02:29:39,920 --> 02:29:42,360
Speaker 1: to which the little sister basically made a loud comment

2950
02:29:42,440 --> 02:29:45,720
Speaker 1: about my mom being a slute that you can't come

2951
02:29:45,760 --> 02:29:46,200
Speaker 1: for his mom.

2952
02:29:46,320 --> 02:29:51,240
Speaker 2: Dude, not a comic, You don't, yo, mama jokes to

2953
02:29:51,320 --> 02:29:53,680
Speaker 2: a comic. No no, no, no, no, you're done for no, no,

2954
02:29:53,840 --> 02:29:56,520
Speaker 2: no no no, he's got those lock and loaded sixth grade.

2955
02:29:56,560 --> 02:30:01,520
Speaker 1: No, no, no, yeah. She threw the third pitch. He

2956
02:30:01,640 --> 02:30:04,480
Speaker 1: really likes baseball, and I choked up on the bat

2957
02:30:04,640 --> 02:30:08,080
Speaker 1: and began to swing away like walking Phoenix in a

2958
02:30:08,200 --> 02:30:09,920
Speaker 1: room full of Marvin the Martians.

2959
02:30:11,400 --> 02:30:12,120
Speaker 2: I can't keep up.

2960
02:30:12,600 --> 02:30:14,920
Speaker 1: I called her out for being a petulant rich girl,

2961
02:30:15,120 --> 02:30:18,320
Speaker 1: made fun of her appearance, and ended up calling her cunt,

2962
02:30:18,560 --> 02:30:25,760
Speaker 1: drack drunkula. Whoa that is kind of a good play

2963
02:30:25,840 --> 02:30:26,360
Speaker 1: on words.

2964
02:30:27,080 --> 02:30:31,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, whoa that like, come, Mike Blake, think about it.

2965
02:30:32,080 --> 02:30:32,600
Speaker 1: No, I get it.

2966
02:30:32,879 --> 02:30:35,720
Speaker 2: The laughter in that room, Oh yeah, evacuate.

2967
02:30:35,840 --> 02:30:37,240
Speaker 1: They would love it. They would love I'm.

2968
02:30:37,080 --> 02:30:38,000
Speaker 2: Gonna get the poll started.

2969
02:30:38,200 --> 02:30:39,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I get the pol get the pole in here.

2970
02:30:40,000 --> 02:30:45,120
Speaker 1: The crowd was really into it. Of course they were,

2971
02:30:45,600 --> 02:30:47,480
Speaker 1: so I was eventually able to cut off the set

2972
02:30:47,560 --> 02:30:51,440
Speaker 1: with some grace, but I was livid. When the crowd

2973
02:30:51,560 --> 02:30:53,560
Speaker 1: left and the lights went up, the sister came up

2974
02:30:53,560 --> 02:30:56,280
Speaker 1: to me and started getting in my face. I walked

2975
02:30:56,320 --> 02:30:59,000
Speaker 1: back into the green room and asked the bouncer to

2976
02:30:59,200 --> 02:31:02,040
Speaker 1: take care of it, and she eventually left with her friends.

2977
02:31:02,720 --> 02:31:06,000
Speaker 1: As I saw my girlfriend afterwards, she seemed a little upset.

2978
02:31:06,520 --> 02:31:08,600
Speaker 1: I told her that I was furious that she didn't

2979
02:31:08,600 --> 02:31:11,200
Speaker 1: help me out with controlling her sister. She asked why

2980
02:31:11,280 --> 02:31:13,320
Speaker 1: I was so upset whenever the scent went so well.

2981
02:31:13,680 --> 02:31:16,560
Speaker 1: I think there was a little passive aggression in that question.

2982
02:31:17,720 --> 02:31:20,080
Speaker 1: I told her that even those scent went well, if

2983
02:31:20,080 --> 02:31:21,960
Speaker 1: a heckler catches me on a night where I'm not

2984
02:31:22,080 --> 02:31:25,360
Speaker 1: on my game, it fs up my entire performance. We

2985
02:31:25,480 --> 02:31:28,920
Speaker 1: eventually cut the conversation and drove home. The next day,

2986
02:31:29,120 --> 02:31:31,560
Speaker 1: my girlfriend's sister left a message for my girlfriend in

2987
02:31:31,680 --> 02:31:34,320
Speaker 1: tears about how the night went. She was a set

2988
02:31:34,640 --> 02:31:37,279
Speaker 1: upset at the things I said and wanted an apology.

2989
02:31:38,000 --> 02:31:40,320
Speaker 1: I told my girlfriend that was not going to happen,

2990
02:31:40,400 --> 02:31:43,320
Speaker 1: and I deserved an apology. Even though the sister doesn't

2991
02:31:43,480 --> 02:31:46,480
Speaker 1: view what I did as a job, that is my livelihood.

2992
02:31:47,000 --> 02:31:50,280
Speaker 1: What if I pulled a similar disruptive stunt in someone

2993
02:31:50,320 --> 02:31:53,080
Speaker 1: else's place of work, I would most likely be arrested.

2994
02:31:53,240 --> 02:31:55,800
Speaker 2: Wait, he doesn't He doesn't think that that's a that's

2995
02:31:55,840 --> 02:31:56,240
Speaker 2: a job.

2996
02:31:56,800 --> 02:31:58,119
Speaker 1: This sister doesn't think it's a job.

2997
02:31:58,280 --> 02:32:01,680
Speaker 2: Oh okay, well whatever, yea, that doesn't matter. Yeah, you

2998
02:32:01,760 --> 02:32:03,360
Speaker 2: were like, he doesn't think that his job is a

2999
02:32:03,400 --> 02:32:06,440
Speaker 2: real child like their girlfriend didn't think that his girlfriend's sister.

3000
02:32:06,520 --> 02:32:08,520
Speaker 2: So I was like, Oh, shoot, just my girlfriend think

3001
02:32:08,520 --> 02:32:09,280
Speaker 2: it's a real job.

3002
02:32:09,720 --> 02:32:14,320
Speaker 1: It's a real job. My girlfriend did not take this

3003
02:32:14,480 --> 02:32:16,640
Speaker 1: well and hasn't talked to me for the last two

3004
02:32:16,760 --> 02:32:20,040
Speaker 1: days besides small talk at dinner.

3005
02:32:20,400 --> 02:32:20,640
Speaker 2: Wow.

3006
02:32:20,879 --> 02:32:22,640
Speaker 1: I think she may be upset about the rich girl

3007
02:32:22,720 --> 02:32:25,560
Speaker 1: comments I made to her sister. To be honest, I

3008
02:32:25,640 --> 02:32:27,600
Speaker 1: do get a little resentful when I hear the stories

3009
02:32:27,600 --> 02:32:30,800
Speaker 1: of my my girlfriend's life affluence growing up. But I

3010
02:32:30,920 --> 02:32:32,960
Speaker 1: never bring this up, and I never try to make

3011
02:32:33,000 --> 02:32:35,360
Speaker 1: her feel pity for the way I grew up. My

3012
02:32:35,600 --> 02:32:39,640
Speaker 1: question is what should be the next course of action.

3013
02:32:40,760 --> 02:32:43,800
Speaker 1: I refuse to even look at her sister. I refuse

3014
02:32:43,879 --> 02:32:45,600
Speaker 1: to even look at her sister until she brings an

3015
02:32:45,640 --> 02:32:48,520
Speaker 1: apology with her. But I love my girlfriend and not

3016
02:32:48,720 --> 02:32:52,240
Speaker 1: talking to her is killing me. How should I handle

3017
02:32:52,480 --> 02:32:53,160
Speaker 1: this situation?

3018
02:32:53,720 --> 02:32:54,840
Speaker 2: Nice? Nice, nice?

3019
02:32:55,080 --> 02:32:59,000
Speaker 1: And there is an update and a special guest.

3020
02:32:59,200 --> 02:33:08,520
Speaker 2: There is a special guests coming. Guess what it is? John?

3021
02:33:08,640 --> 02:33:09,360
Speaker 1: Look what I John?

3022
02:33:11,879 --> 02:33:12,080
Speaker 2: Oh?

3023
02:33:12,840 --> 02:33:13,440
Speaker 4: Moving around?

3024
02:33:13,920 --> 02:33:14,600
Speaker 2: What is it? Flipped?

3025
02:33:15,360 --> 02:33:15,640
Speaker 5: It is?

3026
02:33:16,120 --> 02:33:23,520
Speaker 2: Oh? We sent that in Rachel. Of course, Rachel, that

3027
02:33:23,760 --> 02:33:28,160
Speaker 2: is an amazing gift. What's up everybody? And we found

3028
02:33:28,240 --> 02:33:30,959
Speaker 2: John here. There's a juicy update but can you give

3029
02:33:31,680 --> 02:33:32,840
Speaker 2: me a teal the art?

3030
02:33:32,959 --> 02:33:35,160
Speaker 1: I can, indeed real quick.

3031
02:33:35,320 --> 02:33:44,480
Speaker 2: Yes, see something wrong here, Dan, I'm sorry. I just

3032
02:33:44,920 --> 02:33:48,160
Speaker 2: German one day, one day. I'm sorry. I know you've

3033
02:33:48,200 --> 02:33:50,960
Speaker 2: been handled the stream, but it's just John like, oh

3034
02:33:51,160 --> 02:33:54,280
Speaker 2: my brain feels so much better now, thank you, thank

3035
02:33:54,320 --> 02:33:58,800
Speaker 2: you John. In my own stream, I'm sorry, it's John Share.

3036
02:33:59,000 --> 02:34:04,360
Speaker 1: I can't help it, all right, give give r hold on,

3037
02:34:04,520 --> 02:34:10,440
Speaker 1: let me move everything, let me situated gate h d

3038
02:34:10,560 --> 02:34:14,480
Speaker 1: old r. So basically, op he's girlfriend's sister heckled him

3039
02:34:14,600 --> 02:34:19,920
Speaker 1: during a stand up performance and he clapped back hard

3040
02:34:20,240 --> 02:34:24,320
Speaker 1: yep uh and now the girlfriend will speaks him. Yeah,

3041
02:34:24,560 --> 02:34:26,000
Speaker 1: and that's it. That's the full story.

3042
02:34:26,160 --> 02:34:26,960
Speaker 2: That's the full story.

3043
02:34:27,400 --> 02:34:28,000
Speaker 1: Pretty simple.

3044
02:34:28,280 --> 02:34:31,200
Speaker 2: He was giving off like oh she's rich, YadA, YadA, YadA,

3045
02:34:31,320 --> 02:34:33,200
Speaker 2: and then the sister got pissed because he's like not

3046
02:34:33,360 --> 02:34:35,840
Speaker 2: a rich guy, but his girlfriend and his family is

3047
02:34:36,280 --> 02:34:41,200
Speaker 2: sounds like he's being a comedian. Yeah yeah, he called

3048
02:34:41,240 --> 02:34:50,280
Speaker 2: her uh wow, and everyone is saying that she's that

3049
02:34:50,400 --> 02:34:51,640
Speaker 2: OPI is not the a hole.

3050
02:34:51,920 --> 02:34:54,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would say so. I would say he's not

3051
02:34:54,160 --> 02:34:57,080
Speaker 1: the ahole, especially if you're interrupting. Someone said like that's yeah,

3052
02:34:57,320 --> 02:35:01,680
Speaker 1: not okay, but there is an update the Juicey Yap night.

3053
02:35:01,959 --> 02:35:02,280
Speaker 2: I'm here.

3054
02:35:02,760 --> 02:35:05,640
Speaker 1: Just a little clarification on my last post at the show,

3055
02:35:05,760 --> 02:35:08,960
Speaker 1: I didn't use any personal information while stopping my girlfriend's

3056
02:35:08,959 --> 02:35:13,240
Speaker 1: sister from heckling. I just used what was visible. I

3057
02:35:13,320 --> 02:35:15,760
Speaker 1: didn't even mention that I knew her. I also should

3058
02:35:15,800 --> 02:35:17,240
Speaker 1: have mentioned that this show I was doing was a

3059
02:35:17,280 --> 02:35:19,560
Speaker 1: big deal for me. This venue I was at is

3060
02:35:19,600 --> 02:35:21,680
Speaker 1: the kind of place you perform at and then shortly

3061
02:35:21,800 --> 02:35:26,480
Speaker 1: afterwards start receiving calls to do televised comedy specialists. Oh shoot,

3062
02:35:27,040 --> 02:35:29,760
Speaker 1: oh yes, so she might have messed that up. Oh

3063
02:35:29,879 --> 02:35:32,520
Speaker 1: damn if I went overboard with the comments. It's because

3064
02:35:32,560 --> 02:35:34,760
Speaker 1: if I lost the crowd in the show, that could

3065
02:35:34,760 --> 02:35:37,320
Speaker 1: have been really bad for my career. Yes, not to

3066
02:35:37,400 --> 02:35:40,000
Speaker 1: excuse what I said or how it happened or how

3067
02:35:40,040 --> 02:35:43,040
Speaker 1: I said it, just some background. Yeah. Also, thank you

3068
02:35:43,320 --> 02:35:46,520
Speaker 1: Scott's Inge for the den in Bucks. Hello from Glasgow, UK.

3069
02:35:46,800 --> 02:35:48,800
Speaker 2: Love you guys, what's up? Appreciate that.

3070
02:35:50,520 --> 02:35:54,240
Speaker 1: So a lot has happened since my last post about

3071
02:35:54,280 --> 02:35:57,880
Speaker 1: the aftermath of my girlfriend's sister visiting a comedy show.

3072
02:35:58,560 --> 02:36:00,760
Speaker 1: On Monday, I was returning by back to my apartment

3073
02:36:00,840 --> 02:36:03,520
Speaker 1: after doing a spot for a radio station. As I

3074
02:36:03,600 --> 02:36:06,240
Speaker 1: walked backed in, I saw that my girlfriend's dad was

3075
02:36:06,320 --> 02:36:09,320
Speaker 1: there and waiting to talk with me. He had stopped

3076
02:36:09,400 --> 02:36:11,800
Speaker 1: by to say hello to my girlfriend, but apparently his

3077
02:36:12,080 --> 02:36:16,160
Speaker 1: real reason for stopping by was to talk to me

3078
02:36:21,920 --> 02:36:25,600
Speaker 1: in the kitchen. He's normally a pretty even keeled guy,

3079
02:36:25,920 --> 02:36:30,080
Speaker 1: but he was definitely miffed that day. Basically, he wanted

3080
02:36:30,120 --> 02:36:31,840
Speaker 1: to talk with me about what went down at the

3081
02:36:31,840 --> 02:36:34,960
Speaker 1: comedy club the previous week. We sat down in the

3082
02:36:35,040 --> 02:36:37,720
Speaker 1: dining room and I could tell this discussion was going

3083
02:36:37,840 --> 02:36:41,920
Speaker 1: to be a long one. My girlfriend's sister told him

3084
02:36:41,920 --> 02:36:45,320
Speaker 1: about the show, and he was justifiably upset that I

3085
02:36:45,400 --> 02:36:51,160
Speaker 1: called his daughter a cunt, an hunt, a punt, a punt.

3086
02:36:51,840 --> 02:36:54,160
Speaker 1: I stayed cool and just told him that I wasn't

3087
02:36:54,200 --> 02:36:57,000
Speaker 1: saying it to intentionally hurt his daughter's feelings. I was

3088
02:36:57,040 --> 02:36:59,360
Speaker 1: simply trying to get back control of my show and

3089
02:36:59,440 --> 02:37:02,800
Speaker 1: the audience. He kept on about how awful that was

3090
02:37:03,680 --> 02:37:07,000
Speaker 1: and how awful that was, and it sounded like he

3091
02:37:07,080 --> 02:37:09,640
Speaker 1: didn't get the whole story from his daughter. I asked

3092
02:37:09,720 --> 02:37:11,360
Speaker 1: him if I could give my side of the story,

3093
02:37:11,640 --> 02:37:13,640
Speaker 1: just so he had some frame of reference to which

3094
02:37:13,680 --> 02:37:14,040
Speaker 1: he let me.

3095
02:37:14,240 --> 02:37:15,400
Speaker 2: Okay, nice w Dad?

3096
02:37:15,480 --> 02:37:19,920
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah. I told him about her interrupting and hackling

3097
02:37:20,040 --> 02:37:24,120
Speaker 1: numerous times. After my initial concerns. I said that I

3098
02:37:24,280 --> 02:37:26,360
Speaker 1: had gotten carried away with my choice of words, but

3099
02:37:26,440 --> 02:37:28,600
Speaker 1: I had to do that in order to keep the crowd.

3100
02:37:29,000 --> 02:37:32,040
Speaker 1: I didn't pose this as an excuse just where I

3101
02:37:32,160 --> 02:37:35,480
Speaker 1: was coming from. He wasn't as upset, but he still

3102
02:37:35,879 --> 02:37:38,640
Speaker 1: was angry. He started hounding me about my line of

3103
02:37:38,680 --> 02:37:40,879
Speaker 1: work and what kind of job makes you call people

3104
02:37:40,959 --> 02:37:42,000
Speaker 1: that stand up comedy?

3105
02:37:43,160 --> 02:37:44,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, I was about to say, I have a feeling

3106
02:37:45,040 --> 02:37:49,280
Speaker 5: like the dad just doesn't understand you know.

3107
02:37:49,800 --> 02:37:53,560
Speaker 2: Entertainment, but just that specific like space.

3108
02:37:54,080 --> 02:37:55,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't be doing that.

3109
02:37:56,280 --> 02:37:56,680
Speaker 2: Why would you?

3110
02:37:56,720 --> 02:37:58,720
Speaker 5: Why would you sit around all day and just like

3111
02:37:59,440 --> 02:38:01,400
Speaker 5: read story stories from people like.

3112
02:38:01,560 --> 02:38:02,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't imagine that.

3113
02:38:03,240 --> 02:38:06,000
Speaker 5: It's a little bit strange judging internet stranger. Yeah, what's

3114
02:38:06,360 --> 02:38:07,360
Speaker 5: wrong with people who do that?

3115
02:38:07,440 --> 02:38:10,760
Speaker 1: I don't understand why they do that me either. Let's

3116
02:38:10,760 --> 02:38:11,840
Speaker 1: get back to the story.

3117
02:38:13,920 --> 02:38:14,080
Speaker 2: Now.

3118
02:38:14,120 --> 02:38:16,200
Speaker 1: I think this line of questions stem from some deep,

3119
02:38:16,280 --> 02:38:19,280
Speaker 1: nakeadive feelings about my career as a comic. We ventured

3120
02:38:19,320 --> 02:38:21,920
Speaker 1: onto that topic fairly soon. I told him that I

3121
02:38:22,000 --> 02:38:24,440
Speaker 1: get it. It's not the most traditional or stable job.

3122
02:38:24,879 --> 02:38:28,000
Speaker 1: My girlfriend went to a very prestigious university, and her

3123
02:38:28,080 --> 02:38:32,080
Speaker 1: friends are getting married, married to doctors, lawyers, and executives,

3124
02:38:32,360 --> 02:38:36,200
Speaker 1: and having lovely families. There's nothing wrong with those people,

3125
02:38:36,320 --> 02:38:38,520
Speaker 1: their professions or their way of life. But that's just

3126
02:38:38,600 --> 02:38:41,520
Speaker 1: not me. It seemed that my girlfriend's father thought that

3127
02:38:41,640 --> 02:38:43,920
Speaker 1: I just performed stand up every now and then and

3128
02:38:44,200 --> 02:38:45,440
Speaker 1: just farted around all day.

3129
02:38:45,879 --> 02:38:47,359
Speaker 2: Have you not seen Seinfeld?

3130
02:38:47,680 --> 02:38:51,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, come on, come back. I told them about what

3131
02:38:52,040 --> 02:38:54,600
Speaker 1: I really do and how I prepare. I spend a

3132
02:38:54,640 --> 02:38:57,480
Speaker 1: lot of time writing for some small magazines and newspapers.

3133
02:38:57,600 --> 02:39:00,040
Speaker 1: I do comedy spots at radio stations, and I do

3134
02:39:00,200 --> 02:39:03,080
Speaker 1: comedy and improv lessons. If I'm not doing that, I'm

3135
02:39:03,080 --> 02:39:05,520
Speaker 1: writing my own stuff or a myriad of other performance

3136
02:39:05,560 --> 02:39:09,120
Speaker 1: related tasks. After this, he seemed to back off a

3137
02:39:09,200 --> 02:39:11,600
Speaker 1: whole bunch, but he was still pretty upset about the

3138
02:39:11,680 --> 02:39:17,080
Speaker 1: drunkula comment. I explained that the remark was definitely heavy handed,

3139
02:39:17,320 --> 02:39:19,080
Speaker 1: but it would not have been said if there was

3140
02:39:19,160 --> 02:39:22,640
Speaker 1: no heckling. I also explained that I would be getting

3141
02:39:22,680 --> 02:39:25,120
Speaker 1: into contact with the sister soon to talk about the

3142
02:39:25,160 --> 02:39:26,199
Speaker 1: events of the evening.

3143
02:39:26,720 --> 02:39:27,800
Speaker 2: That's smart, that's nice.

3144
02:39:28,440 --> 02:39:30,440
Speaker 1: He seemed to like that course of action and left

3145
02:39:30,560 --> 02:39:33,879
Speaker 1: shortly afterwards. I still don't think my girlfriend's dad thinks

3146
02:39:33,879 --> 02:39:36,040
Speaker 1: super highly of my career, but I feel like that

3147
02:39:36,160 --> 02:39:39,360
Speaker 1: was the best face to face conversation we've had, and

3148
02:39:39,720 --> 02:39:41,800
Speaker 1: he at least now knows that I work hard and

3149
02:39:41,920 --> 02:39:45,400
Speaker 1: am passionate about my career. He also wasn't completely pacified,

3150
02:39:45,440 --> 02:39:47,440
Speaker 1: but that's all right. I can work on that after

3151
02:39:47,520 --> 02:39:51,560
Speaker 1: all this stuff. After this, my girlfriend and I got

3152
02:39:51,640 --> 02:39:53,960
Speaker 1: the chance to talk about the evening at the comedy club.

3153
02:39:54,360 --> 02:39:56,560
Speaker 1: I said that I'm sorry for going so nuclear on

3154
02:39:56,680 --> 02:39:59,240
Speaker 1: her sister. She said that she wasn't mad about this

3155
02:39:59,520 --> 02:40:01,280
Speaker 1: or even the use of the word punt.

3156
02:40:01,920 --> 02:40:04,520
Speaker 2: Wait wait, wait, wait, wait, look at Alice's comment. I

3157
02:40:04,680 --> 02:40:07,160
Speaker 2: totally forgot about that. Alice Wolfe said, I was gonna

3158
02:40:07,160 --> 02:40:07,680
Speaker 2: say that too.

3159
02:40:08,000 --> 02:40:10,359
Speaker 1: Wait, I forgot to tell you. This is the Opie's

3160
02:40:10,560 --> 02:40:12,840
Speaker 1: girlfriend's sister called his mom a slut.

3161
02:40:13,400 --> 02:40:15,880
Speaker 2: So I'm so okay.

3162
02:40:16,920 --> 02:40:20,400
Speaker 5: When you're like people our age, kind of like peers

3163
02:40:20,480 --> 02:40:24,160
Speaker 5: friends like saying something like like me calling Riley an

3164
02:40:24,160 --> 02:40:28,039
Speaker 5: asshole right now, age, but we're the same age, and we're.

3165
02:40:28,000 --> 02:40:34,279
Speaker 2: Like, we're not people within theoretically we're.

3166
02:40:34,800 --> 02:40:38,000
Speaker 5: Four years age range of yourself or is that are

3167
02:40:38,040 --> 02:40:40,440
Speaker 5: you happier with that now three.

3168
02:40:40,320 --> 02:40:43,439
Speaker 2: To four years age rage? If I'm like Riley you asshole,

3169
02:40:43,800 --> 02:40:47,000
Speaker 2: you know, or like John you fuck ass the context

3170
02:40:47,440 --> 02:40:50,400
Speaker 2: of that is way different than going to someone's mother.

3171
02:40:50,800 --> 02:40:53,640
Speaker 5: Even even calling someone's mother an asshole, like it's just

3172
02:40:53,760 --> 02:40:55,920
Speaker 5: like no, even if it's jokingly, it's still weird.

3173
02:40:56,000 --> 02:40:58,880
Speaker 2: Don't But then we go from asshole.

3174
02:40:58,959 --> 02:41:03,440
Speaker 1: To two Yeah uh what no, no, no, no, no,

3175
02:41:03,640 --> 02:41:05,800
Speaker 1: that is no no, no, I know.

3176
02:41:06,160 --> 02:41:10,840
Speaker 5: And also this is this is an improvisational comedy thing.

3177
02:41:11,160 --> 02:41:15,920
Speaker 2: Yeah right, I okay, that's crossing the line. Okay.

3178
02:41:16,120 --> 02:41:20,879
Speaker 1: Opie's girlfriend said that she's not mad about Opie using

3179
02:41:20,959 --> 02:41:26,680
Speaker 1: the word punt but drunk but no, but okay, the

3180
02:41:26,800 --> 02:41:30,160
Speaker 1: negative comments I made about her sister being a rich girl. Ah.

3181
02:41:31,080 --> 02:41:33,320
Speaker 1: She wanted to know if I felt the same way

3182
02:41:33,440 --> 02:41:33,959
Speaker 1: about her.

3183
02:41:34,360 --> 02:41:37,880
Speaker 4: Oh yeah.

3184
02:41:38,080 --> 02:41:39,600
Speaker 1: I told her that while I do seem to have

3185
02:41:39,720 --> 02:41:43,000
Speaker 1: an inferiority complex when it comes to people from wealthy backgrounds,

3186
02:41:43,440 --> 02:41:45,680
Speaker 1: I view her as the woman that I love, not

3187
02:41:45,879 --> 02:41:49,640
Speaker 1: Cruella de Ville. I also apologized if my comments made

3188
02:41:49,640 --> 02:41:52,440
Speaker 1: her feel undervalue, that was not my intent. She asked

3189
02:41:52,480 --> 02:41:55,120
Speaker 1: me some more specifics about my upgrading, upbringing, and I

3190
02:41:55,200 --> 02:41:57,520
Speaker 1: told her a little more in detail. She asked me

3191
02:41:57,560 --> 02:41:59,360
Speaker 1: if I thought about counseling to work through some of

3192
02:41:59,440 --> 02:42:01,400
Speaker 1: these issues, and I said that I'd be down for that.

3193
02:42:01,840 --> 02:42:03,960
Speaker 1: Let's face it, a comedian is only as good as

3194
02:42:04,000 --> 02:42:04,400
Speaker 1: a shrink.

3195
02:42:04,600 --> 02:42:06,160
Speaker 2: Hmmm, that's true.

3196
02:42:07,320 --> 02:42:10,000
Speaker 1: I'm scheduled for a few appointments in the upcoming weeks.

3197
02:42:10,200 --> 02:42:11,960
Speaker 1: If I can get the counselor to laugh, that's a

3198
02:42:12,040 --> 02:42:15,000
Speaker 1: win for me. She apologized for not getting her sister

3199
02:42:15,120 --> 02:42:17,039
Speaker 1: to be quiet during the set. She said the whole

3200
02:42:17,120 --> 02:42:19,200
Speaker 1: thing seemed like a nightmare and she kind of froze

3201
02:42:19,280 --> 02:42:21,760
Speaker 1: up when her sister started yelling. I told her that

3202
02:42:21,840 --> 02:42:24,600
Speaker 1: I accepted her apology and offered to meet with her

3203
02:42:24,640 --> 02:42:26,560
Speaker 1: sister soon to get over the events of the weekend.

3204
02:42:27,120 --> 02:42:29,720
Speaker 1: She seems happy about that, and this weekend we'll both

3205
02:42:29,760 --> 02:42:33,160
Speaker 1: be meeting or her sister her sister over lunch. So far,

3206
02:42:33,400 --> 02:42:35,640
Speaker 1: it seems like a lot of these issues are slowly

3207
02:42:35,760 --> 02:42:40,240
Speaker 1: but surely getting resolved through some solid communication. Now we'll

3208
02:42:40,400 --> 02:42:42,560
Speaker 1: just see how the meeting with the sister goes. I'll

3209
02:42:42,600 --> 02:42:46,840
Speaker 1: be sure to keep everyone updated, and there is an update.

3210
02:42:47,040 --> 02:42:48,560
Speaker 2: I'm more there is more.

3211
02:42:49,120 --> 02:42:51,800
Speaker 1: Thank you, first to Bubbles for the ten Bucks. Happy

3212
02:42:51,840 --> 02:42:54,520
Speaker 1: Easter weekend to y'all. I hope you enjoy whatever plans

3213
02:42:54,560 --> 02:42:57,240
Speaker 1: you have. My oldest is finally old enough to understand

3214
02:42:57,280 --> 02:42:59,440
Speaker 1: what Easter is, so I'm excited for her first really

3215
02:42:59,480 --> 02:43:05,120
Speaker 1: a hunt. So I love my egg cunts. Also, John

3216
02:43:05,200 --> 02:43:08,800
Speaker 1: and Riley are actually coming to my parents house for Easter, Right, John?

3217
02:43:10,440 --> 02:43:10,879
Speaker 2: Right? John?

3218
02:43:12,600 --> 02:43:16,000
Speaker 1: Riley's coming to my parents house for Easter and.

3219
02:43:16,120 --> 02:43:20,560
Speaker 2: I have planned a little Sunday together because I know,

3220
02:43:21,000 --> 02:43:22,000
Speaker 2: I know, I know.

3221
02:43:22,360 --> 02:43:22,960
Speaker 1: It's whatever.

3222
02:43:23,640 --> 02:43:27,440
Speaker 2: It's fine, but much faster. Egg. So that's why.

3223
02:43:28,120 --> 02:43:29,160
Speaker 1: Who told you that you did?

3224
02:43:29,480 --> 02:43:31,000
Speaker 2: When did I tell you that? Just now?

3225
02:43:33,320 --> 02:43:34,160
Speaker 1: Okay, do you guys hear that?

3226
02:43:34,240 --> 02:43:35,000
Speaker 2: Do you guys hear Easter?

3227
02:43:35,040 --> 02:43:38,080
Speaker 1: Egg? I said, I really enjoyed my previous Easter a hunts,

3228
02:43:38,120 --> 02:43:39,480
Speaker 1: and now we're going to have it in our house.

3229
02:43:39,680 --> 02:43:43,760
Speaker 1: Okay finally, Sam, Yes, let's go, let's go. I'll set

3230
02:43:43,840 --> 02:43:44,480
Speaker 1: it up, I guess.

3231
02:43:46,440 --> 02:43:49,680
Speaker 2: But the woman has to has to set up an

3232
02:43:49,680 --> 02:43:52,360
Speaker 2: egg hunt. Riley, she offered it to be fairy.

3233
02:43:52,640 --> 02:43:54,360
Speaker 1: Usually that was my mid of my dad's job.

3234
02:43:56,360 --> 02:43:57,320
Speaker 2: Is your dag going to set up?

3235
02:43:57,560 --> 02:44:02,040
Speaker 1: Yeah? No, I'll set it up. I'll do it. We

3236
02:44:02,120 --> 02:44:03,760
Speaker 1: know but then I can participate in it, so my

3237
02:44:03,840 --> 02:44:04,480
Speaker 1: dad actually does that.

3238
02:44:04,560 --> 02:44:07,000
Speaker 2: What if I hide half?

3239
02:44:07,200 --> 02:44:09,480
Speaker 1: Oh, so we have to find but then you wouldn't

3240
02:44:09,520 --> 02:44:10,400
Speaker 1: be able to find your half.

3241
02:44:10,959 --> 02:44:11,240
Speaker 2: Thank you.

3242
02:44:11,320 --> 02:44:13,440
Speaker 1: It's not going to go look for your half, so

3243
02:44:13,520 --> 02:44:16,040
Speaker 1: we would have to split it down our backyard. We'll

3244
02:44:16,080 --> 02:44:20,280
Speaker 1: figure out. Don't worry about it. But that's what we're

3245
02:44:20,280 --> 02:44:22,279
Speaker 1: doing for Easter. So I hope that everyone who celebrates

3246
02:44:22,400 --> 02:44:24,960
Speaker 1: is doing something fun too. Also thank you Lena Frickner

3247
02:44:25,080 --> 02:44:28,640
Speaker 1: for the two fifty six Hello from Sweden, Happy Easter level.

3248
02:44:28,680 --> 02:44:34,199
Speaker 1: The Happy Easter is the chat. Let's continue. I've lost

3249
02:44:34,360 --> 02:44:38,880
Speaker 1: my place. Oh we're at the update. Okay, Sorry about

3250
02:44:38,959 --> 02:44:42,800
Speaker 1: taking forever to reply. I got crazy busy over these

3251
02:44:42,879 --> 02:44:45,840
Speaker 1: last couple of months. When I last left off, I

3252
02:44:46,000 --> 02:44:48,000
Speaker 1: was set to meet up with my girlfriend's sister, which

3253
02:44:48,040 --> 02:44:50,720
Speaker 1: we did. So my girlfriend and I met up in

3254
02:44:50,760 --> 02:44:53,600
Speaker 1: the parking lot of this restaurant. I had just finished

3255
02:44:53,640 --> 02:44:56,560
Speaker 1: a riding session at a magazine office and she had

3256
02:44:56,640 --> 02:44:59,520
Speaker 1: just finished with work. We make our way to the

3257
02:44:59,560 --> 02:45:02,760
Speaker 1: restaurant and sit down. The sister is already there and waiting.

3258
02:45:03,000 --> 02:45:05,600
Speaker 1: We sit down and attempt to start some small talk,

3259
02:45:06,040 --> 02:45:09,840
Speaker 1: but she's noticeably upset. As we're looking through the menu,

3260
02:45:10,240 --> 02:45:13,080
Speaker 1: her father comes in the restaurant and sits down at

3261
02:45:13,120 --> 02:45:17,720
Speaker 1: our table. This caught me way off guard. We sit

3262
02:45:17,800 --> 02:45:20,600
Speaker 1: awkwardly for about five minutes until I eventually say, all right,

3263
02:45:21,560 --> 02:45:24,200
Speaker 1: let's get this out on the table. Look, sister, the

3264
02:45:24,320 --> 02:45:26,840
Speaker 1: other night, I called you a name that was pretty harsh.

3265
02:45:26,959 --> 02:45:29,680
Speaker 1: I'm sorry that you got your feelings hurt, but you

3266
02:45:29,879 --> 02:45:33,320
Speaker 1: heckled me during my set. That is extremely rude. It

3267
02:45:33,400 --> 02:45:35,120
Speaker 1: would be like if I came to your job and

3268
02:45:35,160 --> 02:45:38,720
Speaker 1: started throwing around your materials while you were working. I

3269
02:45:38,840 --> 02:45:40,760
Speaker 1: was going to go on and ask for an apology

3270
02:45:41,440 --> 02:45:44,160
Speaker 1: until my girlfriend's dad piped up and said, to me,

3271
02:45:44,680 --> 02:45:47,600
Speaker 1: are you not even going to apologize? I looked at

3272
02:45:47,600 --> 02:45:49,520
Speaker 1: my girlfriend, who was kind of shying away from the

3273
02:45:49,520 --> 02:45:52,240
Speaker 1: whole scene, and looked back at him and said, no,

3274
02:45:53,000 --> 02:45:56,400
Speaker 1: I'm not. Oh, this was a huge opportunity for me,

3275
02:45:56,520 --> 02:45:58,200
Speaker 1: and if she would have thrown me off my game,

3276
02:45:58,320 --> 02:46:02,000
Speaker 1: it could have seriously messed up my career. The sister

3277
02:46:02,120 --> 02:46:04,080
Speaker 1: began to talk about how embarrassed I made her in

3278
02:46:04,160 --> 02:46:06,640
Speaker 1: front of her friends and how the seaward was so offensive.

3279
02:46:07,040 --> 02:46:09,360
Speaker 1: At this point, my girlfriend also said, yeah, you didn't

3280
02:46:09,400 --> 02:46:09,800
Speaker 1: have to be that.

3281
02:46:09,920 --> 02:46:11,080
Speaker 2: Rude to me.

3282
02:46:11,360 --> 02:46:12,760
Speaker 6: Oh no.

3283
02:46:13,000 --> 02:46:17,080
Speaker 1: The time turned I was fla bergstid. I thought she

3284
02:46:17,200 --> 02:46:18,760
Speaker 1: was going to back me up on this. I thought

3285
02:46:18,800 --> 02:46:21,240
Speaker 1: we had agreed on how shitty her sister's behavior was.

3286
02:46:21,680 --> 02:46:24,879
Speaker 1: For the next ten minutes or so, I was somewhat speechless,

3287
02:46:25,120 --> 02:46:28,440
Speaker 1: for which for me, is a rarity. As they told

3288
02:46:28,520 --> 02:46:31,040
Speaker 1: me how out of line I was. My girlfriend wasn't

3289
02:46:31,080 --> 02:46:34,280
Speaker 1: super vocal, but she just but she still jumped in occasionally.

3290
02:46:34,920 --> 02:46:37,040
Speaker 1: It got to a point where I eventually said, this

3291
02:46:37,560 --> 02:46:41,840
Speaker 1: is ridiculous. I didn't come here to be lectured. I'm leaving.

3292
02:46:42,760 --> 02:46:46,480
Speaker 1: I left the restaurant and drove home. My girlfriend called

3293
02:46:46,520 --> 02:46:50,680
Speaker 1: me from called me from the restaurant and tried to

3294
02:46:50,720 --> 02:46:53,640
Speaker 1: get me to come back. I replied, there's no way

3295
02:46:53,680 --> 02:46:55,840
Speaker 1: I'm going back to that lines, and I want to

3296
02:46:55,920 --> 02:46:58,039
Speaker 1: talk about this with you when you get back home.

3297
02:46:58,640 --> 02:47:01,360
Speaker 1: About an hour later, she arrives at the apartment. I

3298
02:47:01,520 --> 02:47:05,760
Speaker 1: asked her what the hell was that. She went on

3299
02:47:05,920 --> 02:47:07,840
Speaker 1: to tell me how when she talked to her sister

3300
02:47:08,000 --> 02:47:10,080
Speaker 1: and parents and realized that what I said was really

3301
02:47:10,160 --> 02:47:13,760
Speaker 1: mean and I should have been more apologetic. Oh so,

3302
02:47:13,879 --> 02:47:15,560
Speaker 1: when she talked to her parents, she realized that what.

3303
02:47:15,920 --> 02:47:19,320
Speaker 1: Oh Pisa was mean. I thought there was understanding all around,

3304
02:47:19,560 --> 02:47:22,440
Speaker 1: but I was way wrong. We'd never had any big,

3305
02:47:22,840 --> 02:47:26,680
Speaker 1: big time disagreements or discussions, but that night we had

3306
02:47:26,760 --> 02:47:29,680
Speaker 1: it out. I guess she was beginning to feel some

3307
02:47:29,760 --> 02:47:33,040
Speaker 1: pretty big resentment about my career. She had just gotten

3308
02:47:33,040 --> 02:47:35,560
Speaker 1: a promotion recently, and she said she lied to her

3309
02:47:35,640 --> 02:47:38,320
Speaker 1: coworkers about my job to not feel embarrassed.

3310
02:47:38,720 --> 02:47:45,480
Speaker 2: Oh oh my god, oh my god. Wow ah ah.

3311
02:47:45,440 --> 02:47:48,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yea ye yeah, yeah, yes, oh my god.

3312
02:47:50,560 --> 02:47:53,720
Speaker 1: This blew me away. I asked her straight up, do

3313
02:47:53,879 --> 02:47:56,840
Speaker 1: I embarrass you? She said yes, Oh.

3314
02:47:59,200 --> 02:48:01,000
Speaker 2: Oh no, oh what.

3315
02:48:02,480 --> 02:48:05,120
Speaker 1: At this point, I grabbed my things and left for

3316
02:48:05,160 --> 02:48:07,720
Speaker 1: a friend's house. I was too upset to stay the evening.

3317
02:48:10,800 --> 02:48:12,760
Speaker 1: I went back two days later, and for the next

3318
02:48:12,800 --> 02:48:15,800
Speaker 1: week or so we barely talked. Then one evening she

3319
02:48:16,040 --> 02:48:19,640
Speaker 1: asked to talk to me. She said, look, I think

3320
02:48:19,640 --> 02:48:21,600
Speaker 1: I've come to the realization that we are two wildly

3321
02:48:21,640 --> 02:48:23,720
Speaker 1: different people, and I don't think we can reconcile. That

3322
02:48:24,080 --> 02:48:27,120
Speaker 1: I think it'd be best if we broke up. My

3323
02:48:27,200 --> 02:48:29,320
Speaker 1: first thought was to say no, but as I began

3324
02:48:29,400 --> 02:48:32,200
Speaker 1: to think about it more, she was right. Oh, I

3325
02:48:32,320 --> 02:48:34,880
Speaker 1: wasn't exactly what she was looking for, and I don't

3326
02:48:34,879 --> 02:48:36,880
Speaker 1: want to be with someone that feels embarrassed around me.

3327
02:48:37,160 --> 02:48:37,400
Speaker 2: Yeah.

3328
02:48:37,680 --> 02:48:39,720
Speaker 1: I spent the next two weeks looking for a place

3329
02:48:40,320 --> 02:48:43,720
Speaker 1: and moved out. The whole thing went out really civilly.

3330
02:48:44,200 --> 02:48:45,960
Speaker 1: She gave me time to get my things in order.

3331
02:48:46,120 --> 02:48:51,000
Speaker 1: I'm not mad at her, but uh oh, I'm not

3332
02:48:51,080 --> 02:48:53,120
Speaker 1: mad at her. She has every right not to date me.

3333
02:48:53,480 --> 02:48:55,200
Speaker 1: I hope she's not mad at me, but if she is,

3334
02:48:55,360 --> 02:48:59,439
Speaker 1: oh well, obviously dating someone is fun. But being signal

3335
02:48:59,600 --> 02:49:01,560
Speaker 1: is also nice because I can focus more on my

3336
02:49:01,600 --> 02:49:04,680
Speaker 1: writing and career, which I think is really starting to

3337
02:49:04,760 --> 02:49:07,240
Speaker 1: take off. So in a way, it's not a happy ending,

3338
02:49:07,480 --> 02:49:11,160
Speaker 1: but it is a happy ending. I can't believe she

3339
02:49:11,240 --> 02:49:14,720
Speaker 1: said that. Yeah, it seems like she had a lot

3340
02:49:14,760 --> 02:49:17,280
Speaker 1: of insecurity, like she was like, oh, he's calling me rich.

3341
02:49:17,360 --> 02:49:20,039
Speaker 1: But she also had insecurity about him as a boyfriend,

3342
02:49:20,840 --> 02:49:24,039
Speaker 1: like his job, which is Yeah, you shouldn't be embarrassed

3343
02:49:24,040 --> 02:49:24,760
Speaker 1: about your partner.

3344
02:49:24,879 --> 02:49:29,200
Speaker 2: That's crazy. You're embarrassed. Oh well, when you have to

3345
02:49:29,360 --> 02:49:32,760
Speaker 2: lie to other people about what your partner does.

3346
02:49:32,840 --> 02:49:33,360
Speaker 1: That's stinky.

3347
02:49:33,600 --> 02:49:34,680
Speaker 2: Something is very wrong.

3348
02:49:34,840 --> 02:49:36,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's stinky behavior.

3349
02:49:36,959 --> 02:49:38,880
Speaker 5: What if someone what if someone was heckling you in

3350
02:49:39,000 --> 02:49:43,160
Speaker 5: one of your critically acclaimed live improv performances, one.

3351
02:49:43,040 --> 02:49:47,200
Speaker 1: Of my live improv performances, I'd probably get pretty thrown off.

3352
02:49:48,480 --> 02:49:51,520
Speaker 1: I haven't done like, I haven't done performances.

3353
02:49:50,959 --> 02:49:54,040
Speaker 2: But hey, you're not even a worm, You're still a larva.

3354
02:49:54,280 --> 02:49:59,720
Speaker 1: Yeah you're doing Yeah. I'd be like, shut up, stop

3355
02:50:00,480 --> 02:50:05,320
Speaker 1: stop being me, escort them out. Yeah yeah, stop it immediately,

3356
02:50:05,600 --> 02:50:08,680
Speaker 1: I say, no, don't do that. Well, if it was

3357
02:50:08,720 --> 02:50:10,760
Speaker 1: doing improv, i'd probably be in some sort of character,

3358
02:50:10,879 --> 02:50:12,119
Speaker 1: so I channel.

3359
02:50:11,879 --> 02:50:15,560
Speaker 2: That character, talk to them like a true improvisation.

3360
02:50:15,840 --> 02:50:19,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, god, don't think about it.

3361
02:50:20,959 --> 02:50:24,680
Speaker 2: Also, in that like family, like the boy, the girlfriend

3362
02:50:24,720 --> 02:50:27,080
Speaker 2: really rich and going all these like fun things, it'd

3363
02:50:27,120 --> 02:50:28,480
Speaker 2: be cool to be the comment because like you're the

3364
02:50:28,520 --> 02:50:30,120
Speaker 2: funny guy. You will always be the funny guy in

3365
02:50:30,160 --> 02:50:31,000
Speaker 2: those social settings.

3366
02:50:31,240 --> 02:50:32,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a riot.

3367
02:50:33,280 --> 02:50:34,800
Speaker 2: Did the sister ever apologize?

3368
02:50:34,920 --> 02:50:34,960
Speaker 5: No?

3369
02:50:36,240 --> 02:50:38,680
Speaker 2: No, I would be like, where is your apology to

3370
02:50:38,879 --> 02:50:39,320
Speaker 2: my mom?

3371
02:50:39,480 --> 02:50:39,720
Speaker 1: Yeah?

3372
02:50:40,000 --> 02:50:42,880
Speaker 2: That is that is just literally infinitely worse.

3373
02:50:43,040 --> 02:50:47,800
Speaker 1: Never apologized, Yeah, oh Frederick, but I know. Also wait, yeah,

3374
02:50:48,160 --> 02:50:49,920
Speaker 1: thank you curvy girl. A lot of flame for the

3375
02:50:49,959 --> 02:50:52,360
Speaker 1: five bucks. I don't do Easter, so happy Passover and

3376
02:50:52,440 --> 02:50:55,200
Speaker 1: Resurrection Day, Yes, Happy Passover and Resurrection Day.

3377
02:50:56,480 --> 02:50:57,000
Speaker 2: Bubbles.

3378
02:50:57,000 --> 02:50:59,640
Speaker 1: Thank you for the two bucks okop live egg hunt.

3379
02:51:00,360 --> 02:51:03,400
Speaker 1: We'll work on that. Oh so, thank you Frederick Laknik

3380
02:51:03,680 --> 02:51:06,080
Speaker 1: for the twenty gifted membership.

3381
02:51:06,440 --> 02:51:09,160
Speaker 2: Frederick has been just crushing the area.

3382
02:51:09,320 --> 02:51:14,680
Speaker 1: Three hundred dollars. He's an icon icon icon. Also thank

3383
02:51:14,720 --> 02:51:16,880
Speaker 1: you Kirby Girl La La Flame for the five bucks,

3384
02:51:16,920 --> 02:51:20,240
Speaker 1: who's also been a consistent donator on the stream. Let's

3385
02:51:20,320 --> 02:51:22,800
Speaker 1: go So your sister can call his mom a salute,

3386
02:51:22,840 --> 02:51:26,360
Speaker 1: which is worse than a punt, but he can't insult

3387
02:51:26,400 --> 02:51:29,640
Speaker 1: her back at the same energy prevores.

3388
02:51:29,800 --> 02:51:32,240
Speaker 2: Come mom, accurate? What are we doing? And then that

3389
02:51:32,520 --> 02:51:35,480
Speaker 2: was what was what was the lea? What was the

3390
02:51:35,800 --> 02:51:38,160
Speaker 2: lead up to the sister saying that about the mom.

3391
02:51:38,240 --> 02:51:42,480
Speaker 1: Nothing, she's just drunk. Yeah, she was just hackling.

3392
02:51:42,640 --> 02:51:44,680
Speaker 2: It was like it was like during a she said

3393
02:51:44,720 --> 02:51:46,800
Speaker 2: that during the performance.

3394
02:51:47,040 --> 02:51:48,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why he called her out.

3395
02:51:48,879 --> 02:51:53,360
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, no, I thought it was maybe like some

3396
02:51:53,480 --> 02:51:57,080
Speaker 2: prior conversation for no full on a heckle.

3397
02:51:57,640 --> 02:51:59,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you can't be doing that.

3398
02:52:00,280 --> 02:52:01,240
Speaker 2: People are crazy.

3399
02:52:01,840 --> 02:52:03,840
Speaker 1: Yes, I will give you a t l d R bubbles.

3400
02:52:04,560 --> 02:52:06,600
Speaker 1: That is the end of the story. But tld R

3401
02:52:07,760 --> 02:52:13,400
Speaker 1: OPI is a comedian and Op's girlfriend's sister basically came

3402
02:52:13,600 --> 02:52:17,360
Speaker 1: to opie show and heckled and called his mom a slute,

3403
02:52:18,120 --> 02:52:21,880
Speaker 1: and then OPI fired back and called them a uh

3404
02:52:22,440 --> 02:52:26,480
Speaker 1: like count Drunkula, but not count count without the o

3405
02:52:26,959 --> 02:52:31,080
Speaker 1: punt drunk punch drugula if you get what I'm saying. Uh,

3406
02:52:31,480 --> 02:52:34,840
Speaker 1: And then the family got super upset and Opie and

3407
02:52:34,959 --> 02:52:39,360
Speaker 1: his girlfriend ended up breaking up over it. Yeah, better off,

3408
02:52:39,640 --> 02:52:42,600
Speaker 1: better off, I would say. Yeah, those were some that

3409
02:52:42,720 --> 02:52:43,560
Speaker 1: was a stinky family.

3410
02:52:43,760 --> 02:52:47,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, very very smelly, stinky, stinky family. We don't like it.

3411
02:52:48,000 --> 02:52:49,960
Speaker 2: We don't like it. Oh we we do.

3412
02:52:50,160 --> 02:52:55,320
Speaker 5: Like six fifty from Daddy, Jesse Dy even gangs in

3413
02:52:55,360 --> 02:52:57,280
Speaker 5: the build that we only have what six six and

3414
02:52:57,280 --> 02:52:59,920
Speaker 5: a half minutes left? Yeah, we all have something crazy.

3415
02:52:59,680 --> 02:53:02,320
Speaker 1: Happy and something crazy happens if you guys, we have

3416
02:53:03,520 --> 02:53:05,680
Speaker 1: eight hundred and eighty five people in the chat, so

3417
02:53:05,840 --> 02:53:08,720
Speaker 1: if we can get seven fifty likes, we'll do another.

3418
02:53:09,200 --> 02:53:12,600
Speaker 1: We'll spend two thousand chats or two thousand chats either one.

3419
02:53:12,640 --> 02:53:16,400
Speaker 1: We're close to you, So take those six minutes to

3420
02:53:16,720 --> 02:53:19,039
Speaker 1: like spam or spam the chat.

3421
02:53:19,480 --> 02:53:22,400
Speaker 5: The ws in the chat and in the chat, and

3422
02:53:22,840 --> 02:53:25,039
Speaker 5: I'll stay a little bit past the past two if

3423
02:53:25,080 --> 02:53:27,960
Speaker 5: we hit the donation goal too, so we'll see.

3424
02:53:29,520 --> 02:53:32,920
Speaker 1: Alrighty, let's do it. Then what should we read another

3425
02:53:33,000 --> 02:53:36,280
Speaker 1: story or do a Colin or can you story? Which

3426
02:53:36,320 --> 02:53:38,880
Speaker 1: one s two do you want to read?

3427
02:53:38,920 --> 02:53:40,920
Speaker 2: John? I will?

3428
02:53:41,879 --> 02:53:42,240
Speaker 5: I will?

3429
02:53:43,160 --> 02:53:56,160
Speaker 2: All right? What episode will be on the United too?

3430
02:53:57,720 --> 02:54:01,600
Speaker 2: All right? Oh? Am I the ahole? If I don't

3431
02:54:01,640 --> 02:54:05,240
Speaker 2: let my girlfriend go on vacation with the guy best friend,

3432
02:54:06,480 --> 02:54:09,480
Speaker 2: what do you think? Riley? Yeah, she ain't going, She

3433
02:54:09,560 --> 02:54:10,040
Speaker 2: ain't going.

3434
02:54:11,120 --> 02:54:15,200
Speaker 5: This comes from detective Okay sixty seven fifty four. My

3435
02:54:15,560 --> 02:54:18,240
Speaker 5: girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year.

3436
02:54:18,640 --> 02:54:20,720
Speaker 5: It has been great so far, but last night she

3437
02:54:20,879 --> 02:54:23,840
Speaker 5: mentioned that she wanted to go on vacation with her

3438
02:54:23,959 --> 02:54:27,560
Speaker 5: guy best friend. When I asked her why, she said

3439
02:54:27,720 --> 02:54:30,320
Speaker 5: that they have been talking about going on vacation to

3440
02:54:30,400 --> 02:54:33,560
Speaker 5: celebrate him graduating med school for the past year, and

3441
02:54:33,840 --> 02:54:38,160
Speaker 5: that his other friends would be there too, location undecided. Okay,

3442
02:54:38,280 --> 02:54:42,400
Speaker 5: so there, it's not just on a solo it's not

3443
02:54:42,560 --> 02:54:45,000
Speaker 5: just the two of them, that his other friends would

3444
02:54:45,040 --> 02:54:50,560
Speaker 5: be there as well. That's that's that completely changed.

3445
02:54:51,000 --> 02:54:53,960
Speaker 1: Yes, that completely changes the changes it Riley?

3446
02:54:55,920 --> 02:54:59,720
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, yeah, if I've met the guy and

3447
02:54:59,800 --> 02:55:01,320
Speaker 2: I go a good vibe grade. But I have him

3448
02:55:01,320 --> 02:55:04,160
Speaker 2: met the guy and she's very like, like, oh, you

3449
02:55:04,200 --> 02:55:05,199
Speaker 2: can't meet him, he's busy.

3450
02:55:06,520 --> 02:55:09,680
Speaker 1: Okay, But I feel like this is the same. For example,

3451
02:55:09,720 --> 02:55:12,840
Speaker 1: if I had a partner and I'm going on a

3452
02:55:12,920 --> 02:55:16,400
Speaker 1: trip with all you guys and they're not letting me,

3453
02:55:16,840 --> 02:55:17,360
Speaker 1: that's weird.

3454
02:55:18,480 --> 02:55:24,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, a big group, I think it. Yeah, completely changes completely.

3455
02:55:25,040 --> 02:55:28,640
Speaker 5: But if like I want to celebrate this thing one

3456
02:55:28,720 --> 02:55:31,039
Speaker 5: on one with this person on a vacation, that's.

3457
02:55:31,120 --> 02:55:33,040
Speaker 1: A little bit different. Like this is a group.

3458
02:55:33,560 --> 02:55:36,160
Speaker 2: I would feel better if I met the guy. Yeah,

3459
02:55:36,800 --> 02:55:40,240
Speaker 2: and like game though, ao, buddy, I like to have

3460
02:55:40,360 --> 02:55:42,360
Speaker 2: more history, but I just got to meet the guy.

3461
02:55:43,360 --> 02:55:46,959
Speaker 2: So I trust my girlfriend completely and she's never given

3462
02:55:47,000 --> 02:55:48,120
Speaker 2: me a reason to doubt her.

3463
02:55:48,560 --> 02:55:51,039
Speaker 5: Even uh, even when a guy tries talking to her

3464
02:55:51,200 --> 02:55:53,320
Speaker 5: or DMS her, she always makes it a point to

3465
02:55:53,440 --> 02:55:56,879
Speaker 5: tell me. Same with her friend. When he came to visit,

3466
02:55:57,080 --> 02:55:59,560
Speaker 5: he stayed in my apartment while she stayed at home

3467
02:55:59,600 --> 02:56:02,720
Speaker 5: with her parents. He's always very respectful and never given

3468
02:56:02,879 --> 02:56:06,400
Speaker 5: me any intention that he's interested in my girlfriend or

3469
02:56:06,840 --> 02:56:11,200
Speaker 5: vice versa. Okay, Yeah, also shout out to I like

3470
02:56:11,480 --> 02:56:14,840
Speaker 5: soup for the two euros. Is that a uh No,

3471
02:56:15,000 --> 02:56:16,760
Speaker 5: that's I like eggs. I was gonna say, is that

3472
02:56:16,840 --> 02:56:17,760
Speaker 5: in all that reference?

3473
02:56:18,600 --> 02:56:20,360
Speaker 2: But no, it's I like soup. Shout out to you.

3474
02:56:20,400 --> 02:56:20,879
Speaker 2: I like soup.

3475
02:56:21,040 --> 02:56:23,199
Speaker 1: Also, someone said it was it's different for me because

3476
02:56:23,200 --> 02:56:25,240
Speaker 1: I would be with Sam. Okay, Sam's on my head.

3477
02:56:25,480 --> 02:56:29,280
Speaker 1: Now it's just me John Christian and Riley. Mmm. I

3478
02:56:29,360 --> 02:56:30,199
Speaker 1: still think that's fine.

3479
02:56:30,400 --> 02:56:32,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, what do you think of the comments?

3480
02:56:33,640 --> 02:56:36,520
Speaker 5: He's always very respectful. I never give me attention that

3481
02:56:36,560 --> 02:56:39,280
Speaker 5: he's interested in my girlfriend or vice versa, so I

3482
02:56:39,440 --> 02:56:42,120
Speaker 5: trust him both completely. I even asked her if we

3483
02:56:42,200 --> 02:56:44,959
Speaker 5: were engaged or married, would she be going on vacation

3484
02:56:45,120 --> 02:56:48,400
Speaker 5: with him, and she said obviously not, and that I

3485
02:56:48,480 --> 02:56:49,400
Speaker 5: would come along.

3486
02:56:49,720 --> 02:56:51,560
Speaker 2: Well, then what's different that is?

3487
02:56:52,000 --> 02:56:53,760
Speaker 1: That was a little bit of weird answer, I think.

3488
02:56:53,959 --> 02:56:54,160
Speaker 2: Yeah.

3489
02:56:54,240 --> 02:56:57,120
Speaker 5: And also I kind of forgot like yeah, why yeah,

3490
02:56:57,560 --> 02:57:00,200
Speaker 5: So Lauren Kinderman's comment can't he go too?

3491
02:57:00,320 --> 02:57:02,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, actually, if it's a group, why can't he go?

3492
02:57:03,240 --> 02:57:03,440
Speaker 2: Yeah?

3493
02:57:03,600 --> 02:57:05,840
Speaker 1: I didn't that is true, But I feel like that's

3494
02:57:05,920 --> 02:57:08,119
Speaker 1: less about like lack of trust and more like why

3495
02:57:08,160 --> 02:57:10,480
Speaker 1: are you excluding him? Yeah, that's a little mean.

3496
02:57:11,360 --> 02:57:13,200
Speaker 2: Well, that's almost a little bit.

3497
02:57:13,240 --> 02:57:16,039
Speaker 5: I think it's a little bit of both, like why

3498
02:57:16,120 --> 02:57:19,119
Speaker 5: don't you want me there unless it's like a unless

3499
02:57:19,120 --> 02:57:20,560
Speaker 5: you like can't take time off work, or it's too

3500
02:57:20,600 --> 02:57:21,920
Speaker 5: expensive or something.

3501
02:57:23,480 --> 02:57:23,800
Speaker 2: Should be.

3502
02:57:24,520 --> 02:57:27,960
Speaker 5: However, when I told her it made me uncomfortable that

3503
02:57:28,040 --> 02:57:30,959
Speaker 5: she's going without me and that I don't want her

3504
02:57:31,040 --> 02:57:34,000
Speaker 5: to go, she told me there's nothing between them, and

3505
02:57:34,080 --> 02:57:36,440
Speaker 5: that he's been in her life before she met me,

3506
02:57:37,080 --> 02:57:39,560
Speaker 5: and that they've only been talking about it, and that

3507
02:57:39,680 --> 02:57:42,480
Speaker 5: they have been talking about it for a while, doing this,

3508
02:57:42,680 --> 02:57:46,200
Speaker 5: doing this trip together. She even told me that if

3509
02:57:46,240 --> 02:57:48,959
Speaker 5: I wanted to go on vacation with a female friend,

3510
02:57:49,120 --> 02:57:51,840
Speaker 5: she would trust me and let me get fun.

3511
02:57:53,400 --> 02:57:54,160
Speaker 1: Oh I thought you were.

3512
02:57:57,560 --> 02:58:08,720
Speaker 2: King King Fred. It's the king and he's coming in

3513
02:58:08,879 --> 02:58:15,880
Speaker 2: and coming on the way, king Ford, king Ford a wreck?

3514
02:58:16,480 --> 02:58:19,720
Speaker 1: Are we already like that? More hours?

3515
02:58:19,879 --> 02:58:21,040
Speaker 2: King Fred?

3516
02:58:21,360 --> 02:58:26,720
Speaker 5: A wreck? My guys, we need we need a whole

3517
02:58:26,840 --> 02:58:32,320
Speaker 5: new Crowns in the chat, in the chat, crowns in

3518
02:58:33,320 --> 02:58:33,840
Speaker 5: the chat.

3519
02:58:34,680 --> 02:58:38,199
Speaker 2: There we go. That's that's what we love to say. Royalty,

3520
02:58:38,440 --> 02:58:39,200
Speaker 2: pure royalty.

3521
02:58:42,040 --> 02:58:44,960
Speaker 1: And then you gave us too. I will need to

3522
02:58:45,000 --> 02:58:45,720
Speaker 1: go to the bathroom.

3523
02:58:45,920 --> 02:58:50,039
Speaker 2: I mean, my goodness, oh my god.

3524
02:58:51,200 --> 02:58:52,160
Speaker 1: What if that was an accident?

3525
02:58:52,200 --> 02:58:57,959
Speaker 2: I hopefully not, but King Frederick. Oh my god, oh

3526
02:58:58,080 --> 02:59:01,080
Speaker 2: my god, thank you for all the crowns in the chat.

3527
02:59:01,320 --> 02:59:05,360
Speaker 1: Thank you, one true Kon, one true, one true King,

3528
02:59:05,480 --> 02:59:05,920
Speaker 1: the King.

3529
02:59:05,879 --> 02:59:08,920
Speaker 2: Who serves we, who we serve, who leads the legiance.

3530
02:59:09,160 --> 02:59:12,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, y'all, you you're amazing.

3531
02:59:13,240 --> 02:59:17,480
Speaker 2: You're amazing, You're amazing, You're amazing. Disgusting.

3532
02:59:17,959 --> 02:59:20,600
Speaker 1: No, I wasn't doing Scottish accon before, but I guess

3533
02:59:20,600 --> 02:59:22,720
Speaker 1: I can't know what was what was the action? No,

3534
02:59:22,760 --> 02:59:24,600
Speaker 1: I don't think I was doing a specific one true.

3535
02:59:24,760 --> 02:59:26,640
Speaker 2: We also get to spin the will where that happens.

3536
02:59:26,680 --> 02:59:30,360
Speaker 2: But holy fuck, you had a minute left, minute left.

3537
02:59:30,520 --> 02:59:34,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was like wrapping up man, dang, oh.

3538
02:59:34,720 --> 02:59:40,840
Speaker 2: My god, thanks again, King Frederick, goodness, Nace King, Friend, blessing,

3539
02:59:41,480 --> 02:59:43,280
Speaker 2: blessing all eight hundred and eighty two.

3540
02:59:43,480 --> 02:59:46,039
Speaker 1: People here with blessing all eight hundred.

3541
02:59:46,000 --> 02:59:48,640
Speaker 2: More content we can hang out. Wow.

3542
02:59:49,000 --> 02:59:51,320
Speaker 1: Love to hear it. I love to hear it.

3543
02:59:51,520 --> 02:59:54,720
Speaker 5: Well, ladies and gentlemen, let's get back to doing what

3544
02:59:54,720 --> 02:59:57,240
Speaker 5: I do best. I just saw someone comment were made

3545
02:59:57,320 --> 03:00:00,920
Speaker 5: Naoki and will spin this story is like yeah, three

3546
03:00:00,959 --> 03:00:03,520
Speaker 5: sentences away from ending. Yeah, so we're gonna we're gonna

3547
03:00:03,560 --> 03:00:05,800
Speaker 5: close it out for you guys, give you that great content,

3548
03:00:05,920 --> 03:00:07,200
Speaker 5: have a little breakdown.

3549
03:00:07,320 --> 03:00:08,000
Speaker 1: We'll break down.

3550
03:00:08,200 --> 03:00:10,000
Speaker 2: Then we're spinning that literally breakdown.

3551
03:00:10,040 --> 03:00:11,080
Speaker 1: We're gonna have a breakdown.

3552
03:00:11,160 --> 03:00:13,360
Speaker 2: We're spreading that freaking wheel. Okayking down?

3553
03:00:14,600 --> 03:00:17,720
Speaker 5: Do do do do dooh? Okay, so let me reread

3554
03:00:17,760 --> 03:00:21,560
Speaker 5: that sentence again. So she even told me that if

3555
03:00:21,680 --> 03:00:23,959
Speaker 5: I wanted to go on vacation with a female friend,

3556
03:00:24,120 --> 03:00:26,760
Speaker 5: she would trust me and let me go have fun,

3557
03:00:27,040 --> 03:00:30,120
Speaker 5: knowing I wouldn't cheat on her. I told her if

3558
03:00:30,200 --> 03:00:32,520
Speaker 5: I was going on vacation with a female friend, that

3559
03:00:32,600 --> 03:00:36,320
Speaker 5: I would take her with me, or else I wouldn't go. Ultimately,

3560
03:00:36,600 --> 03:00:40,440
Speaker 5: after some arguing, she said it's fine that she won't

3561
03:00:40,480 --> 03:00:43,560
Speaker 5: go for his graduation or on the other trip with

3562
03:00:43,680 --> 03:00:45,440
Speaker 5: his friends to celebrate.

3563
03:00:45,360 --> 03:00:49,080
Speaker 2: But that she would be annoyed afterwards. Reddit, am I

3564
03:00:49,320 --> 03:00:52,400
Speaker 2: being an a hole and overreacting? Please help me? Let

3565
03:00:52,400 --> 03:00:55,800
Speaker 2: me I'm gonna reread that one more time. Ultimately, after

3566
03:00:55,879 --> 03:00:56,680
Speaker 2: some arguing, she.

3567
03:00:56,800 --> 03:01:01,520
Speaker 5: Said it's fine she won't go for his graduation or

3568
03:01:02,480 --> 03:01:06,440
Speaker 5: on the trip with his friends to celebrate the graduation,

3569
03:01:06,720 --> 03:01:08,360
Speaker 5: but that she would be annoyed afterwards.

3570
03:01:09,520 --> 03:01:13,320
Speaker 2: Okay, So I don't know.

3571
03:01:14,160 --> 03:01:14,800
Speaker 1: I don't know.

3572
03:01:15,200 --> 03:01:20,280
Speaker 2: I'm wondering why op was mentioning the the trip and

3573
03:01:20,320 --> 03:01:22,360
Speaker 2: then she's like, okay, I also won't go to the

3574
03:01:22,400 --> 03:01:23,720
Speaker 2: graduation ceremony.

3575
03:01:24,000 --> 03:01:25,440
Speaker 1: I feel like that was just like a little bit

3576
03:01:25,520 --> 03:01:30,400
Speaker 1: like fine, I want you anything. Yeah, yeah, I want

3577
03:01:30,440 --> 03:01:33,240
Speaker 1: to know if he was invited to go on the trip, yeah,

3578
03:01:33,400 --> 03:01:36,200
Speaker 1: because I need to know that if she was. If

3579
03:01:36,200 --> 03:01:37,480
Speaker 1: he was invited and he was like no, I don't

3580
03:01:37,480 --> 03:01:39,879
Speaker 1: want to be in the trip or something, in that case,

3581
03:01:39,959 --> 03:01:41,920
Speaker 1: I would be like, yeah, he's overreacting a little bit.

3582
03:01:42,000 --> 03:01:46,039
Speaker 5: Yeah, because like if I'm ever to Sam always asking

3583
03:01:46,120 --> 03:01:48,240
Speaker 5: me what I would do in these situations, like if

3584
03:01:48,360 --> 03:01:52,080
Speaker 5: I'm inviting him someone, I would invite the partner.

3585
03:01:53,200 --> 03:01:53,920
Speaker 2: Well, I agree.

3586
03:01:54,160 --> 03:01:57,600
Speaker 5: Every every friend I've ever had, I've never really had

3587
03:01:57,640 --> 03:01:59,199
Speaker 5: an issue with their partner.

3588
03:01:59,360 --> 03:01:59,520
Speaker 1: Yeah.

3589
03:01:59,600 --> 03:01:59,640
Speaker 5: No.

3590
03:02:00,040 --> 03:02:03,280
Speaker 2: And because it's like, hey, like if I like you

3591
03:02:03,760 --> 03:02:05,959
Speaker 2: the person you pick as your partner, I.

3592
03:02:06,000 --> 03:02:08,400
Speaker 1: Would yeah, like I want I went on a trip

3593
03:02:08,440 --> 03:02:10,120
Speaker 1: with my friends and my friend brought their partner and

3594
03:02:10,200 --> 03:02:11,760
Speaker 1: it was great, right, we all like to the partner.

3595
03:02:11,800 --> 03:02:13,560
Speaker 1: I mean the partner was also a friend. But yeah,

3596
03:02:14,120 --> 03:02:15,960
Speaker 1: through that partnership they became a friend, you know.

3597
03:02:16,120 --> 03:02:20,840
Speaker 2: And it also seems that that why is why is

3598
03:02:20,879 --> 03:02:24,560
Speaker 2: she just not inviting him to the Yeah thing.

3599
03:02:25,200 --> 03:02:30,680
Speaker 1: I would say, I think one, he should be invited. However,

3600
03:02:30,959 --> 03:02:35,200
Speaker 1: in general, I think personally, I'm of the opinion that like,

3601
03:02:36,160 --> 03:02:39,960
Speaker 1: you shouldn't need like you shouldn't your partner shouldn't always

3602
03:02:39,959 --> 03:02:43,240
Speaker 1: need to be like if they can't come, it shouldn't

3603
03:02:43,240 --> 03:02:44,560
Speaker 1: be like you can't go to that trip.

3604
03:02:44,680 --> 03:02:46,400
Speaker 2: Totally, totally, totally, totally, Like.

3605
03:02:46,440 --> 03:02:48,120
Speaker 1: You should be able to, like you should have a

3606
03:02:48,240 --> 03:02:52,400
Speaker 1: level of trust built in your relationship. Uh, because again,

3607
03:02:52,440 --> 03:02:54,640
Speaker 1: if they're gonna cheat, their little cheat, Yeah, so I

3608
03:02:54,680 --> 03:02:56,480
Speaker 1: feel like you should be able to go on trips.

3609
03:02:57,040 --> 03:02:59,680
Speaker 1: You know, however, I think you should still be invited

3610
03:02:59,680 --> 03:03:01,119
Speaker 1: because courtesy.

3611
03:03:00,959 --> 03:03:04,240
Speaker 5: Exactly, Like like, if it's the invite, then the person

3612
03:03:04,240 --> 03:03:07,080
Speaker 5: who's inviting is assuming, oh, they're they're going to be there,

3613
03:03:07,120 --> 03:03:09,200
Speaker 5: and then again if they don't, but if they that

3614
03:03:09,400 --> 03:03:11,560
Speaker 5: show that proves to you they had the intention from

3615
03:03:11,640 --> 03:03:14,279
Speaker 5: the outset of like, hey I want you here because

3616
03:03:14,600 --> 03:03:16,199
Speaker 5: obviously nothing's going to happen.

3617
03:03:16,400 --> 03:03:18,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I do think that she should be able

3618
03:03:18,720 --> 03:03:20,359
Speaker 1: to go alone.

3619
03:03:20,160 --> 03:03:22,080
Speaker 5: Totally if he's like, oh I can't make it is

3620
03:03:22,080 --> 03:03:24,760
Speaker 5: too expensive, whatever, Yeah, go everyone and go have fun.

3621
03:03:24,800 --> 03:03:26,560
Speaker 1: Someone brought that up that he should be going. Then

3622
03:03:26,600 --> 03:03:28,000
Speaker 1: I feel like, yeah, a little bit of reaction.

3623
03:03:28,560 --> 03:03:31,720
Speaker 2: Why is the guy and the girl as having a girlfriend.

3624
03:03:32,680 --> 03:03:35,080
Speaker 2: If she was in this situation, which I do kind

3625
03:03:35,120 --> 03:03:37,280
Speaker 2: of know the guy best friend, I'd be like, yeah,

3626
03:03:37,320 --> 03:03:38,360
Speaker 2: you can go. I trust her.

3627
03:03:38,720 --> 03:03:41,200
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, no, I feel like you have to have trust.

3628
03:03:41,440 --> 03:03:42,400
Speaker 1: And I feel like that's fine.

3629
03:03:42,680 --> 03:03:42,840
Speaker 2: Yes.

3630
03:03:43,720 --> 03:03:43,920
Speaker 1: Yeah.

3631
03:03:44,040 --> 03:03:45,720
Speaker 2: And if I didn't know the guy or like kind

3632
03:03:45,720 --> 03:03:47,040
Speaker 2: of know of him and it was kind of like

3633
03:03:47,160 --> 03:03:50,240
Speaker 2: a weird vibe, I may be a little unsettled. Yeah,

3634
03:03:50,320 --> 03:03:53,959
Speaker 2: but I'd have to like have a conversation like yea, hey,

3635
03:03:54,120 --> 03:03:59,360
Speaker 2: like a little uncomfortable, like yeah, facts. I don't know

3636
03:03:59,360 --> 03:03:59,520
Speaker 2: if I.

3637
03:03:59,480 --> 03:04:02,680
Speaker 1: Would know, But thank you little wormle it for the

3638
03:04:02,720 --> 03:04:05,760
Speaker 1: six twenty nine books. Can we have a merch sweater

3639
03:04:05,840 --> 03:04:07,960
Speaker 1: with a worm with a green flag under one wrist

3640
03:04:08,400 --> 03:04:10,400
Speaker 1: and a red on the other so I can flag people?

3641
03:04:10,680 --> 03:04:13,599
Speaker 2: Really, that's amazing.

3642
03:04:13,440 --> 03:04:15,959
Speaker 1: Like, okay, I'm trying to picture that, so like a worm.

3643
03:04:16,080 --> 03:04:17,840
Speaker 2: First worm, green flag?

3644
03:04:18,120 --> 03:04:20,320
Speaker 1: Oh, a little worm holding yeah?

3645
03:04:20,720 --> 03:04:20,920
Speaker 2: Yeah?

3646
03:04:21,040 --> 03:04:21,680
Speaker 1: Can I have a pen?

3647
03:04:21,840 --> 03:04:22,000
Speaker 5: Wait?

3648
03:04:22,160 --> 03:04:23,000
Speaker 1: Can I go to the bathroom?

3649
03:04:23,040 --> 03:04:30,080
Speaker 2: Oh? Oh now, dam Will absolutely? Absolutely, John, John, You're good, Okay.

3650
03:04:30,720 --> 03:04:32,480
Speaker 2: We we had on the spin the Will we had

3651
03:04:32,560 --> 03:04:35,199
Speaker 2: one of Riley gets to use the bathroom and everyone

3652
03:04:35,320 --> 03:04:38,360
Speaker 2: loved it. And Sam was in here. That's amazing. Yeah,

3653
03:04:38,840 --> 03:04:41,480
Speaker 2: we're coming up with like some good ideas John, John

3654
03:04:41,480 --> 03:04:43,440
Speaker 2: and I. I'm going to force John to watch a

3655
03:04:43,480 --> 03:04:45,400
Speaker 2: movie this weekend because it was on the will and

3656
03:04:45,440 --> 03:04:47,160
Speaker 2: he's going to report back on it. But I'm still

3657
03:04:47,200 --> 03:04:50,200
Speaker 2: trying to think of some like good ideas for the will.

3658
03:04:50,400 --> 03:04:53,400
Speaker 2: Another one said, uh, makeup, so I have makeup on here.

3659
03:04:53,520 --> 03:04:55,520
Speaker 2: Oh that's a really good one. I guess we can't

3660
03:04:55,640 --> 03:04:58,720
Speaker 2: really good in the will while we're here. We can yeah, yeah, yeah,

3661
03:04:58,840 --> 03:05:01,600
Speaker 2: if I mean yeah, I will super quick to all

3662
03:05:02,160 --> 03:05:06,000
Speaker 2: little a little little wormlets comment. We did have.

3663
03:05:06,160 --> 03:05:10,800
Speaker 5: Rachel Hatchett dropped in a donation comment yesterday about maybe

3664
03:05:10,920 --> 03:05:14,039
Speaker 5: releasing the Volts again. If you go to o kop

3665
03:05:14,240 --> 03:05:16,320
Speaker 5: dot show slash shop, we do have all the items

3666
03:05:16,360 --> 03:05:19,440
Speaker 5: that we've sold out of previously live I think still there,

3667
03:05:20,160 --> 03:05:24,160
Speaker 5: so we might do a Volts drop. We are now

3668
03:05:24,320 --> 03:05:29,160
Speaker 5: recording and streaming five days a week, yep, five kind

3669
03:05:29,200 --> 03:05:30,280
Speaker 5: of five days a week, so.

3670
03:05:30,840 --> 03:05:32,680
Speaker 2: Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday.

3671
03:05:32,840 --> 03:05:37,199
Speaker 5: We are a little bit more uh busy than usual,

3672
03:05:37,600 --> 03:05:39,640
Speaker 5: but maybe maybe we could do that in the near future.

3673
03:05:39,760 --> 03:05:44,400
Speaker 2: The link, Bubbles, what link are you drop the call line?

3674
03:05:44,520 --> 03:05:47,960
Speaker 2: Oh ah, yes, and thank you for the five dollars donation. Bubbles.

3675
03:05:48,000 --> 03:05:51,200
Speaker 2: We appreciate you and that we do that, we do.

3676
03:05:53,120 --> 03:05:58,280
Speaker 2: What just happened? W' is in the chest? Bet you

3677
03:05:58,320 --> 03:05:59,080
Speaker 2: weren't expecting that.

3678
03:05:59,240 --> 03:05:59,360
Speaker 5: Now?

3679
03:06:00,000 --> 03:06:00,960
Speaker 6: What do you want from kVA?

3680
03:06:01,360 --> 03:06:07,000
Speaker 2: Oh ah? Yes, uh sorry, I love Kava. Ah, let

3681
03:06:07,040 --> 03:06:08,600
Speaker 2: me think, Let me think. Sorry, I can't think of it.

3682
03:06:08,680 --> 03:06:12,840
Speaker 2: All right, do anything too excited? I'll get little something.

3683
03:06:12,959 --> 03:06:14,080
Speaker 6: Okay, what do you want?

3684
03:06:14,680 --> 03:06:15,360
Speaker 2: I've never been there.

3685
03:06:15,720 --> 03:06:20,400
Speaker 6: Okay, I'll surprise you nice all right, w' said the

3686
03:06:20,480 --> 03:06:21,360
Speaker 6: chat for Kava.

3687
03:06:21,800 --> 03:06:25,359
Speaker 2: Yeah no, not for Kava, I mean un named sponsor.

3688
03:06:25,879 --> 03:06:28,080
Speaker 5: Dude, what are you doing? I love Bubbles has been

3689
03:06:28,160 --> 03:06:30,640
Speaker 5: so on it. By the way, yes, always always at

3690
03:06:30,680 --> 03:06:34,040
Speaker 5: the note for Jacqueline, turn on, Thank you, thank you.

3691
03:06:34,600 --> 03:06:36,800
Speaker 5: See they know they know best, they.

3692
03:06:36,760 --> 03:06:40,560
Speaker 2: Know is so good worm, Army is strong.

3693
03:06:41,120 --> 03:06:43,280
Speaker 5: You did actually comment at a great time, because we

3694
03:06:43,440 --> 03:06:45,960
Speaker 5: do have a spin the wheel that the audience just earned.

3695
03:06:46,120 --> 03:06:48,240
Speaker 2: By the way, did you see our last donation?

3696
03:06:48,480 --> 03:06:56,880
Speaker 6: I did Frederick locknicking Frederick you imagine? Yeah, Frederick is

3697
03:06:57,000 --> 03:07:02,720
Speaker 6: carrying the stream right now exactly exa actually bella conckling.

3698
03:07:02,720 --> 03:07:06,640
Speaker 2: I won't even read that comment, but is a naughty boy.

3699
03:07:06,840 --> 03:07:11,280
Speaker 2: That is a that's a big free sponsorship. I'm suspicious.

3700
03:07:11,840 --> 03:07:15,640
Speaker 2: I know how highly he talks of them. Very suspicious.

3701
03:07:15,720 --> 03:07:18,520
Speaker 2: But Riley, do we want to do a bit. Oh sorry,

3702
03:07:18,800 --> 03:07:19,879
Speaker 2: drip drop with the twenty.

3703
03:07:19,720 --> 03:07:22,160
Speaker 5: Five dollars donation, I got paid the other day and

3704
03:07:22,200 --> 03:07:25,959
Speaker 5: hopefully we can get another hour ano another coming up.

3705
03:07:26,000 --> 03:07:27,879
Speaker 2: We just dropped drift drop.

3706
03:07:28,680 --> 03:07:31,200
Speaker 5: You want drip chops like, no, all the hours, okay,

3707
03:07:31,240 --> 03:07:34,880
Speaker 5: every single hour that you had, We're gonna dript drop

3708
03:07:34,920 --> 03:07:36,720
Speaker 5: our way all the way to twenty four hours. That's

3709
03:07:36,760 --> 03:07:38,600
Speaker 5: what dript drop is saying. We don't do a twenty

3710
03:07:38,600 --> 03:07:40,199
Speaker 5: four hour stream at some point, that's true.

3711
03:07:40,320 --> 03:07:42,520
Speaker 2: What would that look like? Remember the I Carly stream?

3712
03:07:42,600 --> 03:07:46,680
Speaker 2: Oh I'm sorry, conn said sensitive topic. But remember the

3713
03:07:46,800 --> 03:07:49,119
Speaker 2: I Carly one where they went for twenty four hours straight?

3714
03:07:50,080 --> 03:07:53,160
Speaker 2: I don't I love it? I love that one so much,

3715
03:07:53,200 --> 03:07:55,199
Speaker 2: and then like and they were like beating a record,

3716
03:07:55,280 --> 03:07:57,480
Speaker 2: and then Spencer did something crazy and then they weren't

3717
03:07:57,480 --> 03:08:01,600
Speaker 2: able to beat its color. That's where my I'm Fred,

3718
03:08:01,840 --> 03:08:04,360
Speaker 2: I'm Fred from My Carly. I've always wanted to be him.

3719
03:08:04,440 --> 03:08:05,200
Speaker 2: That's true. Who I am?

3720
03:08:05,520 --> 03:08:05,760
Speaker 3: You are?

3721
03:08:05,840 --> 03:08:10,120
Speaker 2: Fred? I don't know? This is that's Sam Carley and

3722
03:08:10,240 --> 03:08:12,840
Speaker 2: this is Carly. Do you want to be Carly or Gibby?

3723
03:08:13,280 --> 03:08:13,560
Speaker 6: GiB me?

3724
03:08:16,920 --> 03:08:22,520
Speaker 2: Dude, wait Sam, Sam, but you're never shirtless. If anyone's

3725
03:08:22,800 --> 03:08:24,160
Speaker 2: gonna be giveby, it's it's this guy.

3726
03:08:25,040 --> 03:08:26,920
Speaker 1: It's true. Sam's not Sam.

3727
03:08:28,480 --> 03:08:29,640
Speaker 2: His face is still there.

3728
03:08:31,120 --> 03:08:36,080
Speaker 6: And there're gonna get there and be so wonder.

3729
03:08:37,600 --> 03:08:42,199
Speaker 1: Bang boom, All right, let's.

3730
03:08:45,240 --> 03:08:58,880
Speaker 8: Did they doing this? That was such an aggressive Yeah?

3731
03:09:01,480 --> 03:09:09,440
Speaker 2: What fucking guys? Riley? Is life today? That I give

3732
03:09:09,480 --> 03:09:10,280
Speaker 2: the people what they want?

3733
03:09:12,520 --> 03:09:15,240
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, Oh my god, Katie Codier, are you

3734
03:09:15,360 --> 03:09:16,640
Speaker 5: free sponsoring our Harley?

3735
03:09:17,160 --> 03:09:19,959
Speaker 2: That I will allow. That I will allow.

3736
03:09:20,160 --> 03:09:23,120
Speaker 1: However, we don't sponsor Nickelodeon. We hate nick.

3737
03:09:23,240 --> 03:09:25,119
Speaker 2: There we go. That's correct.

3738
03:09:25,120 --> 03:09:26,879
Speaker 1: I watched The Quiet On said documentary.

3739
03:09:27,040 --> 03:09:27,400
Speaker 2: That's right.

3740
03:09:27,520 --> 03:09:29,960
Speaker 5: I need to if I if I watch that can

3741
03:09:30,320 --> 03:09:32,520
Speaker 5: count as a movie. No, No, it has to be

3742
03:09:32,560 --> 03:09:34,360
Speaker 5: an actual featured film.

3743
03:09:35,480 --> 03:09:38,360
Speaker 2: You can't be watching a movie. It's like I want

3744
03:09:38,360 --> 03:09:39,680
Speaker 2: to be able to go on the stream and be like, hey,

3745
03:09:39,720 --> 03:09:41,760
Speaker 2: I watched this movie and you'd be like, yes, I

3746
03:09:42,080 --> 03:09:44,119
Speaker 2: know something to happen there, and I don't watch movies,

3747
03:09:44,200 --> 03:09:45,440
Speaker 2: but that we're fixing that.

3748
03:09:46,480 --> 03:09:47,600
Speaker 1: We're working on it.

3749
03:09:47,800 --> 03:09:48,400
Speaker 2: Working on it.

3750
03:09:48,920 --> 03:09:52,400
Speaker 5: Judge to Nocturnal Slytherin for the five dollars. Also once

3751
03:09:52,440 --> 03:09:57,200
Speaker 5: another hour Nocturnal Slytherin, Drip Drop King Frederick.

3752
03:09:57,600 --> 03:10:01,720
Speaker 1: Man, Wow, we're getting you're already have two already have

3753
03:10:01,800 --> 03:10:02,240
Speaker 1: it to you.

3754
03:10:04,280 --> 03:10:04,760
Speaker 2: Minutes too.

3755
03:10:05,120 --> 03:10:06,600
Speaker 1: I just want to point out that this is my

3756
03:10:06,760 --> 03:10:10,640
Speaker 1: stream and it's going, really it's going.

3757
03:10:10,959 --> 03:10:14,160
Speaker 2: I will say, Sophia has joined. We have been popping off,

3758
03:10:14,280 --> 03:10:16,120
Speaker 2: so I'm pretty sure she's a catalyst.

3759
03:10:16,240 --> 03:10:17,800
Speaker 1: And we don't know if that is just because you

3760
03:10:17,840 --> 03:10:19,440
Speaker 1: guys were on the rise or if it was me.

3761
03:10:21,320 --> 03:10:25,560
Speaker 1: Who's to say, was it the rising tie lift all

3762
03:10:25,640 --> 03:10:27,480
Speaker 1: boats or oh wait hold on?

3763
03:10:27,680 --> 03:10:36,920
Speaker 2: Oh yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, hatchet axel axel, Oh

3764
03:10:37,160 --> 03:10:44,000
Speaker 2: she's gonna go grab it? Yeah, John, you know what

3765
03:10:44,080 --> 03:10:48,080
Speaker 2: I got for you? What I got a beautyhip hole. Okay,

3766
03:10:48,840 --> 03:10:52,360
Speaker 2: story from one of our peeps in the subrend. Wow. Yeah,

3767
03:10:52,720 --> 03:10:56,160
Speaker 2: it's it's funny. That is such a treat. Yeah, it's

3768
03:10:56,200 --> 03:11:00,160
Speaker 2: a S three. Why don't we get into this tree each,

3769
03:11:00,200 --> 03:11:02,480
Speaker 2: ladies and gentlemen, also, before we go, sorry, is there

3770
03:11:02,520 --> 03:11:04,120
Speaker 2: another incentive to spin the wheel?

3771
03:11:04,800 --> 03:11:10,160
Speaker 5: Yes, another incentive to spin the wheel, Sophia, he just

3772
03:11:10,240 --> 03:11:14,000
Speaker 5: saw the worm, queen, not worring.

3773
03:11:14,640 --> 03:11:16,120
Speaker 1: I love it. I just want to.

3774
03:11:17,720 --> 03:11:19,080
Speaker 6: That's so sick.

3775
03:11:20,080 --> 03:11:21,640
Speaker 1: If I do end up having a reaction, I'm going

3776
03:11:21,720 --> 03:11:23,560
Speaker 1: to get a new chain and I'm gonna wear it

3777
03:11:23,600 --> 03:11:25,520
Speaker 1: every day. If I don't know, if you heard that,

3778
03:11:25,640 --> 03:11:27,520
Speaker 1: If I do end up having a reaction, I'm gonna

3779
03:11:27,520 --> 03:11:30,040
Speaker 1: get a cool chain and wear it every day.

3780
03:11:30,240 --> 03:11:41,480
Speaker 2: That's right sick. The queen showing her legions, her crown. There,

3781
03:11:41,520 --> 03:11:43,160
Speaker 2: it is everyone there, It is.

3782
03:11:49,160 --> 03:11:49,400
Speaker 6: Cool.

3783
03:11:49,760 --> 03:11:55,000
Speaker 5: That is good stuff. Yeah, all right, Johnny boy, that's me.

3784
03:11:56,680 --> 03:12:00,720
Speaker 5: Let's get into it. I found a used car. Do

3785
03:12:00,840 --> 03:12:03,600
Speaker 5: I believe the reason he said he used it for?

3786
03:12:05,120 --> 03:12:08,360
Speaker 5: I have a sneaking suspicion. This is a stinky man,

3787
03:12:08,640 --> 03:12:12,440
Speaker 5: dumb dumb explanation. Will this be Will this be confirmed

3788
03:12:12,520 --> 03:12:15,160
Speaker 5: or not? We're gonna find out. But this is o

3789
03:12:15,320 --> 03:12:18,520
Speaker 5: Kop submitted. So if you want to send in your story,

3790
03:12:18,600 --> 03:12:21,760
Speaker 5: go to our slash Okop show. It's absolutely popping off.

3791
03:12:21,879 --> 03:12:23,320
Speaker 5: So many of you guys are saying your stories and

3792
03:12:23,320 --> 03:12:25,400
Speaker 5: we're absolutely loving it and loving and reading them. Or

3793
03:12:25,440 --> 03:12:27,080
Speaker 5: you can also call us at four for zero five

3794
03:12:27,360 --> 03:12:29,920
Speaker 5: eight six five sixty seven. We love reading those two.

3795
03:12:30,280 --> 03:12:33,800
Speaker 5: But without further ado, let's get into this one from

3796
03:12:34,080 --> 03:12:35,560
Speaker 5: what are you two giggling.

3797
03:12:35,240 --> 03:12:40,080
Speaker 2: Over there about? I've done this too many times because like,

3798
03:12:40,120 --> 03:12:41,039
Speaker 2: while you're doing it, I was like.

3799
03:12:42,760 --> 03:12:51,240
Speaker 5: Oh wow, interesting, hmm. So saying it with me when

3800
03:12:51,280 --> 03:12:55,080
Speaker 5: you go wah wah, yeah, yeah, that's saying it with me.

3801
03:12:55,920 --> 03:12:59,240
Speaker 5: Saying it with me is freaking Charlie Brown parent calling

3802
03:12:59,320 --> 03:12:59,920
Speaker 5: me old again.

3803
03:13:01,040 --> 03:13:01,480
Speaker 2: My god.

3804
03:13:01,720 --> 03:13:04,000
Speaker 5: Anyways, let's get in to the story from the wonderful

3805
03:13:04,040 --> 03:13:07,440
Speaker 5: Okay fan member one Live fifty eighty seven, who says,

3806
03:13:08,080 --> 03:13:10,840
Speaker 5: I twenty nine female in my fiance thirty two male,

3807
03:13:11,040 --> 03:13:12,000
Speaker 5: have been together.

3808
03:13:11,840 --> 03:13:13,440
Speaker 2: For four plus years.

3809
03:13:14,040 --> 03:13:16,880
Speaker 5: Last night, I came home from evening classes I'm attending

3810
03:13:16,959 --> 03:13:21,720
Speaker 5: to further my career to only find a used condom

3811
03:13:22,040 --> 03:13:27,400
Speaker 5: in the trash and a rapper in the sink. Wow,

3812
03:13:27,760 --> 03:13:31,720
Speaker 5: didn't even bother to throw that one away. I calmly

3813
03:13:32,040 --> 03:13:34,840
Speaker 5: walked into the bedroom where he was sitting on the

3814
03:13:34,920 --> 03:13:38,600
Speaker 5: bed begging me to come watch a YouTube show that

3815
03:13:38,720 --> 03:13:42,080
Speaker 5: we had started together, and I asked him straight up

3816
03:13:42,520 --> 03:13:45,040
Speaker 5: if he had anything he wanted to tell me.

3817
03:13:45,200 --> 03:13:47,640
Speaker 2: I bet the TV show was okay.

3818
03:13:47,400 --> 03:13:50,720
Speaker 5: Op, that is the best that's the best YouTube show

3819
03:13:51,520 --> 03:14:02,160
Speaker 5: on planet Earth. He said no, looking confused. Asian persuasion.

3820
03:14:02,240 --> 03:14:03,280
Speaker 5: My poor old knees for what.

3821
03:14:04,840 --> 03:14:08,320
Speaker 2: That's funny. Then I asked him when was the last

3822
03:14:08,760 --> 03:14:11,040
Speaker 2: that's a deep cut too, that is a deep cut?

3823
03:14:11,440 --> 03:14:12,000
Speaker 6: Is a deep cut?

3824
03:14:12,080 --> 03:14:12,840
Speaker 2: That is a deep cut.

3825
03:14:15,120 --> 03:14:18,199
Speaker 5: How are the knees are strong? I am peeing standing

3826
03:14:18,280 --> 03:14:21,000
Speaker 5: up when I want to, wow when I wanted to.

3827
03:14:21,520 --> 03:14:23,920
Speaker 9: W was in the chat for John peeing standing out.

3828
03:14:24,000 --> 03:14:27,520
Speaker 9: I'm still very boy. I am still very pro sitting

3829
03:14:27,560 --> 03:14:29,240
Speaker 9: down when I want to in the morning. I am

3830
03:14:29,280 --> 03:14:32,280
Speaker 9: a lazy boy. Okay, and I don't care at all.

3831
03:14:33,120 --> 03:14:34,280
Speaker 9: Judge me all you want.

3832
03:14:35,360 --> 03:14:37,200
Speaker 5: I will be comfortable on my toilet seat, Thank you

3833
03:14:37,320 --> 03:14:41,760
Speaker 5: very much. Then I asked him when was the last

3834
03:14:41,840 --> 03:14:46,400
Speaker 5: time we were intimate, to which he immediately said, oh,

3835
03:14:47,720 --> 03:14:54,360
Speaker 5: that was it. Oh oh oh oh, oh, it's not that.

3836
03:14:54,560 --> 03:14:57,040
Speaker 6: Oh it's about that.

3837
03:14:58,480 --> 03:15:09,080
Speaker 2: Fuck what Riley, That's right, that's all about the I

3838
03:15:09,959 --> 03:15:12,400
Speaker 2: just I realized what shape and I was in the

3839
03:15:12,480 --> 03:15:15,880
Speaker 2: other things. But the Queen's here, So no sex, no sex,

3840
03:15:16,040 --> 03:15:16,520
Speaker 2: no sex.

3841
03:15:17,440 --> 03:15:22,760
Speaker 5: I stayed calm, despite every fiber of my being screaming internally,

3842
03:15:22,879 --> 03:15:26,400
Speaker 5: and asked him to explain. So now, ladies and gentlemen,

3843
03:15:26,520 --> 03:15:30,000
Speaker 5: we have the worm queen coming back. I have a

3844
03:15:30,080 --> 03:15:34,400
Speaker 5: teal dr for you because this story comes from our

3845
03:15:35,080 --> 03:15:41,320
Speaker 5: very own little silly worm from the okop face. Yes,

3846
03:15:42,520 --> 03:15:47,080
Speaker 5: and so op had just come home from work working hard, and.

3847
03:15:47,680 --> 03:15:49,160
Speaker 6: She found.

3848
03:15:50,760 --> 03:15:54,360
Speaker 2: She found not only a used condom in the trash,

3849
03:15:54,840 --> 03:15:58,160
Speaker 2: but the rapper just casually strown into the sink.

3850
03:15:59,000 --> 03:15:59,360
Speaker 1: Gross.

3851
03:15:59,600 --> 03:16:03,640
Speaker 2: Okay, and again Opie was not present.

3852
03:16:03,879 --> 03:16:06,800
Speaker 1: He was in there. He was working or hardly working.

3853
03:16:06,720 --> 03:16:09,760
Speaker 2: Exactly being a girl boss. Yeah, am I right? Am

3854
03:16:09,800 --> 03:16:10,120
Speaker 2: I right?

3855
03:16:10,720 --> 03:16:11,240
Speaker 1: Working hard?

3856
03:16:11,440 --> 03:16:16,840
Speaker 2: That's right. So now she's confronting this stinky man and

3857
03:16:17,120 --> 03:16:18,480
Speaker 2: seeing what he has to say for himself.

3858
03:16:18,800 --> 03:16:22,680
Speaker 1: Okay, why are they giggling because I'm ordering and.

3859
03:16:25,600 --> 03:16:30,360
Speaker 5: There they've just been naughty little nancies over there. Mike,

3860
03:16:31,520 --> 03:16:33,400
Speaker 5: what are you guys smoking? And can I get some?

3861
03:16:33,640 --> 03:16:34,880
Speaker 2: My goodness? Gracious?

3862
03:16:36,280 --> 03:16:39,200
Speaker 1: Hey, Browning says, why not spicy sleep anymore? Why don't

3863
03:16:39,200 --> 03:16:39,640
Speaker 1: we say it?

3864
03:16:39,760 --> 03:16:42,040
Speaker 2: I don't know, John, spicy sleep?

3865
03:16:42,280 --> 03:16:42,320
Speaker 5: Me?

3866
03:16:42,720 --> 03:16:43,240
Speaker 1: What did I do?

3867
03:16:44,720 --> 03:16:48,280
Speaker 5: Spicy sleep? Spicy sleep is great, that's a great term.

3868
03:16:48,560 --> 03:16:50,360
Speaker 5: I fully embrace it.

3869
03:16:50,480 --> 03:16:50,560
Speaker 4: Right.

3870
03:16:52,720 --> 03:16:55,840
Speaker 1: We were playing a game yesterday and one of the

3871
03:16:55,959 --> 03:16:57,640
Speaker 1: things it's like a nomea.

3872
03:16:58,240 --> 03:16:58,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, and so.

3873
03:17:01,400 --> 03:17:03,600
Speaker 1: I don't know. They're not even laughing about this. But

3874
03:17:04,120 --> 03:17:06,160
Speaker 1: one of the things was like, I don't even remember.

3875
03:17:06,200 --> 03:17:08,920
Speaker 1: It was like a good lubricant. And one of our

3876
03:17:08,959 --> 03:17:11,039
Speaker 1: friends was like, spit, Spit's great.

3877
03:17:14,320 --> 03:17:16,119
Speaker 2: Love spit, We love spit.

3878
03:17:17,000 --> 03:17:18,640
Speaker 1: Anyway, Sorry, continue with this story.

3879
03:17:24,240 --> 03:17:27,920
Speaker 2: Spit is great, Spit's fantastic. Shout out is alive? Okay, okay,

3880
03:17:28,480 --> 03:17:30,439
Speaker 2: okay you you giggling.

3881
03:17:30,080 --> 03:17:31,720
Speaker 1: Little girls are there? Geez?

3882
03:17:31,879 --> 03:17:34,080
Speaker 2: You mean to contain yourselves. We have a we have

3883
03:17:34,160 --> 03:17:38,560
Speaker 2: a stream. We have a stream, we have stories extream.

3884
03:17:39,200 --> 03:17:40,359
Speaker 2: This is my stream.

3885
03:17:40,879 --> 03:17:45,600
Speaker 5: Also, also shout out to Manila for the six eighty

3886
03:17:45,680 --> 03:17:46,480
Speaker 5: five to.

3887
03:17:46,680 --> 03:17:47,640
Speaker 2: Twenty t r Y.

3888
03:17:48,520 --> 03:17:51,600
Speaker 5: Let's go for twenty four hours. We appreciate you absolutely.

3889
03:17:52,160 --> 03:17:55,440
Speaker 5: It was sorry, it was two twenty tr t r Y.

3890
03:17:55,680 --> 03:17:56,800
Speaker 5: I don't know what currency that is.

3891
03:17:58,440 --> 03:17:58,760
Speaker 6: We did.

3892
03:18:00,160 --> 03:18:03,640
Speaker 5: Turkey, Turkey, yes, and the sixth did it? Did the

3893
03:18:03,800 --> 03:18:05,800
Speaker 5: did the bar go up to twenty No?

3894
03:18:05,879 --> 03:18:09,119
Speaker 6: No, no, no, no no, it went up six dollars

3895
03:18:09,160 --> 03:18:09,840
Speaker 6: and eighty five cents.

3896
03:18:09,879 --> 03:18:12,520
Speaker 2: Okay, there we got a virgin fact. Yes to shout out.

3897
03:18:12,680 --> 03:18:14,519
Speaker 2: Shout out to person.

3898
03:18:14,800 --> 03:18:17,959
Speaker 1: It's not twenty it's six eighty five six five, yes, yes, yes,

3899
03:18:18,720 --> 03:18:20,760
Speaker 1: all right, let's get back to the stream.

3900
03:18:21,000 --> 03:18:21,560
Speaker 2: Let's do it.

3901
03:18:22,800 --> 03:18:27,240
Speaker 5: Yeah, those little shenanigans over there, he told me, while

3902
03:18:27,320 --> 03:18:30,480
Speaker 5: not even He told me this, while not even bothering

3903
03:18:30,560 --> 03:18:35,039
Speaker 5: to make eye contact, that he had chosen to use

3904
03:18:35,120 --> 03:18:36,840
Speaker 5: the condom when.

3905
03:18:36,920 --> 03:18:43,080
Speaker 2: He stress relief Self Pleasures two left no cleanup though.

3906
03:18:43,280 --> 03:18:44,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, it didn't freaking clean up.

3907
03:18:44,600 --> 03:18:48,880
Speaker 5: He left in the sink the wrapper wrapper ins to

3908
03:18:49,080 --> 03:18:52,560
Speaker 5: quote not make a mess because we were low on

3909
03:18:52,640 --> 03:18:56,040
Speaker 5: paper towels and tissue and those are expensive.

3910
03:18:56,680 --> 03:18:56,840
Speaker 2: Sir.

3911
03:18:57,800 --> 03:19:00,480
Speaker 1: Okay, it seems like there was like some thought process,

3912
03:19:00,600 --> 03:19:02,279
Speaker 1: but it wasn't actually a thought.

3913
03:19:02,520 --> 03:19:06,600
Speaker 5: One paper towel versus. I don't know where you're purchasing

3914
03:19:06,640 --> 03:19:07,160
Speaker 5: your protection.

3915
03:19:07,440 --> 03:19:10,240
Speaker 2: But wait, how many paper towels do you need? John, sir?

3916
03:19:11,640 --> 03:19:13,680
Speaker 1: Stop it, it's my stream.

3917
03:19:14,160 --> 03:19:23,040
Speaker 2: No, yes, the Queen decrees, stop it, Queen decrees. What

3918
03:19:23,680 --> 03:19:24,640
Speaker 2: is with these guys?

3919
03:19:24,920 --> 03:19:27,920
Speaker 1: I don't know? Luna Shadowed nineteen ninety five, Thank you

3920
03:19:27,959 --> 03:19:30,199
Speaker 1: for the two euros. Can you add roasting through the wheel?

3921
03:19:30,360 --> 03:19:33,640
Speaker 1: I feel like we do. Yeah, sure, a roast is great,

3922
03:19:33,800 --> 03:19:36,680
Speaker 1: Brianna bursus. Why wouldn't he use a towel? This seems

3923
03:19:36,720 --> 03:19:38,840
Speaker 1: like a man who has zero thoughts in his head.

3924
03:19:39,080 --> 03:19:41,520
Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't know about using it.

3925
03:19:41,600 --> 03:19:42,320
Speaker 2: Do you believe him?

3926
03:19:42,400 --> 03:19:42,560
Speaker 4: Though?

3927
03:19:42,760 --> 03:19:43,480
Speaker 2: Do we believe him?

3928
03:19:43,480 --> 03:19:45,760
Speaker 1: By the way he does not? Kind of stupid?

3929
03:19:45,879 --> 03:19:48,400
Speaker 2: So I think it's plausible. I think it's plausible. What

3930
03:19:48,440 --> 03:19:52,120
Speaker 2: are your conspiracy theories on how he actually used it? Condor?

3931
03:19:52,160 --> 03:19:53,960
Speaker 2: Do you think he actually cheated or used it in

3932
03:19:54,040 --> 03:19:58,880
Speaker 2: another way or manner? We already said this.

3933
03:19:59,280 --> 03:19:59,959
Speaker 1: I think we already.

3934
03:20:00,000 --> 03:20:02,640
Speaker 2: I think he cheated. You think I think he cheated.

3935
03:20:03,800 --> 03:20:06,480
Speaker 2: That's my conspiracy theory. What else? What other way could

3936
03:20:06,520 --> 03:20:07,200
Speaker 2: you use it? Condom?

3937
03:20:08,120 --> 03:20:11,280
Speaker 6: I mean the way he describes there's this there's this

3938
03:20:11,440 --> 03:20:15,920
Speaker 6: movie with uh, who's the guy in Antman Paul Rudd

3939
03:20:16,120 --> 03:20:19,520
Speaker 6: and another guy and basically the other guy saying like, oh,

3940
03:20:19,560 --> 03:20:22,279
Speaker 6: I always masturbate using a condom because there's no cleanup.

3941
03:20:22,560 --> 03:20:24,720
Speaker 6: What's it called? It's like best the best Friends? What's

3942
03:20:24,760 --> 03:20:27,160
Speaker 6: the movie? You know what I'm talking about?

3943
03:20:27,160 --> 03:20:27,280
Speaker 5: You know?

3944
03:20:28,560 --> 03:20:32,480
Speaker 6: Yeah, like it's something it's a guy it's a guy romance. Anyway.

3945
03:20:33,040 --> 03:20:35,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, so maybe it's that it's possible. I think it's possible.

3946
03:20:36,160 --> 03:20:38,600
Speaker 2: I think it is possible. Well, let's get back to

3947
03:20:38,680 --> 03:20:43,400
Speaker 2: reality and discover the truths. I timed out with the

3948
03:20:43,480 --> 03:20:52,160
Speaker 2: warm exploding. I call hey, Hey boy, we'll stop. We'll stop, Sam,

3949
03:20:53,120 --> 03:20:54,920
Speaker 2: get out of here, go ahead me food.

3950
03:20:55,160 --> 03:20:58,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, I calmly stated that I had bought towels and

3951
03:20:58,840 --> 03:21:01,720
Speaker 5: tissues the evening before four. Uh oh, the smoking gun

3952
03:21:02,320 --> 03:21:04,280
Speaker 5: and they were sitting on the counter.

3953
03:21:05,160 --> 03:21:07,520
Speaker 1: So he's a liar and a dirty dirty feet.

3954
03:21:07,600 --> 03:21:11,640
Speaker 5: Oh boy, and the condoms are far more expensive, which

3955
03:21:11,680 --> 03:21:14,560
Speaker 5: is absolutely true than one tissue.

3956
03:21:15,080 --> 03:21:18,360
Speaker 2: My god. He then said, do I really have to

3957
03:21:18,480 --> 03:21:18,720
Speaker 2: tell you?

3958
03:21:19,440 --> 03:21:24,520
Speaker 5: It will make me sound disgusting, even more disgusting than

3959
03:21:24,800 --> 03:21:26,320
Speaker 5: he's already sounding.

3960
03:21:26,760 --> 03:21:28,879
Speaker 1: Oh no, I don't think you cheated, but he did

3961
03:21:28,959 --> 03:21:29,640
Speaker 1: do something weird.

3962
03:21:29,760 --> 03:21:31,360
Speaker 2: But and I see you in the comments if you

3963
03:21:31,520 --> 03:21:36,320
Speaker 2: see what is maybe I don't know if I see either, but.

3964
03:21:36,720 --> 03:21:37,640
Speaker 1: Maybe someone else does.

3965
03:21:38,040 --> 03:21:40,720
Speaker 2: That's right, probably let us know, probably some sponges in

3966
03:21:40,760 --> 03:21:49,880
Speaker 2: a pringlescan. Riley, Riley. We're just gonna leave that where

3967
03:21:49,920 --> 03:21:51,400
Speaker 2: it is, all right.

3968
03:21:51,720 --> 03:21:55,360
Speaker 1: So I did really want that dune popcorn bucket.

3969
03:21:57,320 --> 03:22:04,879
Speaker 2: Broh, bruh. Got it? He really did? He really really did? Wow?

3970
03:22:04,959 --> 03:22:09,039
Speaker 2: Wow wow anymore? Okay, oh my.

3971
03:22:09,200 --> 03:22:13,640
Speaker 1: God, Okay, this is enough of that. Okay, thank you

3972
03:22:13,720 --> 03:22:16,120
Speaker 1: for the two six dip. I can see the logic

3973
03:22:16,160 --> 03:22:18,520
Speaker 1: because my husband would have the same logic. Example, I

3974
03:22:18,600 --> 03:22:21,520
Speaker 1: asked him to get rid of to get dried cranberries,

3975
03:22:21,560 --> 03:22:24,920
Speaker 1: but he got fresh cranberries because they weren't wet. He

3976
03:22:25,080 --> 03:22:27,560
Speaker 1: knows what dried cranberries are. Now he's just dumb.

3977
03:22:28,640 --> 03:22:31,800
Speaker 2: What that's such a funny way to describe it. Oh,

3978
03:22:31,959 --> 03:22:35,320
Speaker 2: it's not the wet cranberries, it's the dry one. Wow,

3979
03:22:35,640 --> 03:22:36,320
Speaker 2: oh my god.

3980
03:22:36,840 --> 03:22:40,800
Speaker 5: Well he then said, I really have to tell you

3981
03:22:41,040 --> 03:22:43,680
Speaker 5: it will it will make me sound disgusting. And I

3982
03:22:43,800 --> 03:22:47,760
Speaker 5: simply said, you best explain. Do you put the hand

3983
03:22:47,800 --> 03:22:49,520
Speaker 5: on the hip. That's that's an explain.

3984
03:22:49,640 --> 03:22:50,560
Speaker 1: Put his hand on his hip.

3985
03:22:51,040 --> 03:22:57,199
Speaker 2: I mean bisness, okay, bitnesss.

3986
03:22:58,920 --> 03:23:01,199
Speaker 1: You were there at the stream, Yes, yeah, you guys

3987
03:23:01,240 --> 03:23:01,480
Speaker 1: get it.

3988
03:23:01,680 --> 03:23:08,920
Speaker 2: Sam doesn't. So it's an inside joke. It's okay, it's okay.

3989
03:23:10,840 --> 03:23:13,800
Speaker 2: That is Sam's worst fears being outside of the inside joke.

3990
03:23:13,920 --> 03:23:15,920
Speaker 2: We have to explain every single inside cry.

3991
03:23:18,640 --> 03:23:22,440
Speaker 5: Then he explained that he had taken my toy, place

3992
03:23:22,520 --> 03:23:25,480
Speaker 5: a condom on it and used it on himself because

3993
03:23:25,480 --> 03:23:28,760
Speaker 5: he wishes we could do them again.

3994
03:23:29,160 --> 03:23:32,360
Speaker 2: He wishes we could do them do what again? Do

3995
03:23:32,520 --> 03:23:34,400
Speaker 2: that again? Okay again?

3996
03:23:34,680 --> 03:23:37,240
Speaker 5: Maybe let me keep let me let me see, Toby says,

3997
03:23:38,040 --> 03:23:41,520
Speaker 5: This is not surprising. He's into those things and I

3998
03:23:41,640 --> 03:23:46,320
Speaker 5: had tried them, but set a hard no boundary after

3999
03:23:46,440 --> 03:23:51,600
Speaker 5: a few incidents, one being uh physically hurt and made

4000
03:23:51,640 --> 03:23:55,480
Speaker 5: into bleeding because he decided to surprise the wrong place,

4001
03:23:56,720 --> 03:24:02,039
Speaker 5: and two being at for a threesome with another guy,

4002
03:24:02,400 --> 03:24:06,680
Speaker 5: except the other man is only allowed to touch my

4003
03:24:06,840 --> 03:24:08,560
Speaker 5: fiance and not me.

4004
03:24:10,320 --> 03:24:13,199
Speaker 1: Okay, so this man might be a little bit bisexual. Yeah,

4005
03:24:13,959 --> 03:24:15,480
Speaker 1: it's a little bit bisexually.

4006
03:24:15,560 --> 03:24:17,840
Speaker 2: This is a different This is a very different scenario

4007
03:24:17,920 --> 03:24:18,400
Speaker 2: than we thought.

4008
03:24:18,720 --> 03:24:20,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, what'd you say?

4009
03:24:20,160 --> 03:24:23,640
Speaker 2: That's how bisexually is? He's try sexual is a lot

4010
03:24:23,760 --> 03:24:29,199
Speaker 2: because you add to it, it's like three bisexual, quad sexual,

4011
03:24:29,560 --> 03:24:32,760
Speaker 2: quint triple sexual. I can't go past five.

4012
03:24:34,360 --> 03:24:37,320
Speaker 1: I don't should appeared during this story stars fullip I

4013
03:24:37,360 --> 03:24:38,360
Speaker 1: wouldn't have to be in here.

4014
03:24:41,240 --> 03:24:43,440
Speaker 2: This is this sounds like a Riley special right here?

4015
03:24:43,680 --> 03:24:48,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, who disordered continue with this story?

4016
03:24:48,840 --> 03:24:51,240
Speaker 5: I don't know if I should even believe his story

4017
03:24:51,360 --> 03:24:55,000
Speaker 5: to begin with, because of the questions and events I

4018
03:24:55,080 --> 03:24:57,920
Speaker 5: will list below. We have not been intimate in a

4019
03:24:58,040 --> 03:25:02,560
Speaker 5: long time, months because, as he said, he is too

4020
03:25:02,760 --> 03:25:07,359
Speaker 5: stressed and sex doesn't help. If so, why is he stressed,

4021
03:25:07,360 --> 03:25:08,520
Speaker 5: relieving himself.

4022
03:25:09,360 --> 03:25:11,680
Speaker 1: We have heard scenarios where they haven't people having in

4023
03:25:11,760 --> 03:25:15,080
Speaker 1: sex and they've been, you know, having sex elsewhere. Yeah,

4024
03:25:15,200 --> 03:25:15,760
Speaker 1: so he might be.

4025
03:25:15,959 --> 03:25:18,640
Speaker 5: Cheating, but shout out to Mix Emotions, who is not

4026
03:25:18,840 --> 03:25:21,240
Speaker 5: cheating on us and is amazing and loyal for the

4027
03:25:21,280 --> 03:25:22,000
Speaker 5: ten buck donation.

4028
03:25:22,280 --> 03:25:24,879
Speaker 2: Finished my final working on the research paper.

4029
03:25:24,760 --> 03:25:26,680
Speaker 1: Now, one that you were doing while we were talking.

4030
03:25:27,000 --> 03:25:31,360
Speaker 2: Oh, well yeah, yeah, did you win? I mean, did

4031
03:25:31,400 --> 03:25:35,039
Speaker 2: you did you win them? Guys? I'm a college dropout,

4032
03:25:35,080 --> 03:25:38,280
Speaker 2: so I don't know how this whole school thing works. Yeah,

4033
03:25:39,360 --> 03:25:39,760
Speaker 2: I don't know.

4034
03:25:40,040 --> 03:25:41,360
Speaker 1: Maybe it was like an essay or something.

4035
03:25:42,000 --> 03:25:46,800
Speaker 2: Do you put Wi's in the chat? Last final two?

4036
03:25:47,280 --> 03:25:47,760
Speaker 1: Last final?

4037
03:25:47,959 --> 03:25:49,640
Speaker 2: Wow? Oh yeah, that is in the chat for that.

4038
03:25:51,680 --> 03:25:53,240
Speaker 2: Shout out to you, big shout out to you.

4039
03:25:53,560 --> 03:25:57,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, also in the chat, y'all bisexual people exist. Let's

4040
03:25:57,320 --> 03:25:59,360
Speaker 1: not forget that he might be cheating, but he also

4041
03:25:59,400 --> 03:26:02,640
Speaker 1: might be by so true, which is not stereotype.

4042
03:26:03,040 --> 03:26:03,360
Speaker 2: We don't.

4043
03:26:03,360 --> 03:26:04,360
Speaker 1: Also, we don't do that either.

4044
03:26:04,480 --> 03:26:04,800
Speaker 6: Boom.

4045
03:26:05,320 --> 03:26:06,360
Speaker 1: He's just a bad person.

4046
03:26:06,920 --> 03:26:11,080
Speaker 5: Separate, separate. I already know about his kinks and don't

4047
03:26:11,120 --> 03:26:15,360
Speaker 5: care about them. So why all the sound discussing if

4048
03:26:15,400 --> 03:26:16,120
Speaker 5: I tell you so?

4049
03:26:16,320 --> 03:26:16,520
Speaker 2: Yeah?

4050
03:26:16,520 --> 03:26:19,680
Speaker 5: Because she already knows about his kinks. Yeah, and so

4051
03:26:19,840 --> 03:26:21,560
Speaker 5: she's like, hey, I already know about him, and we've

4052
03:26:21,920 --> 03:26:23,160
Speaker 5: like we've we've done them before.

4053
03:26:23,000 --> 03:26:27,320
Speaker 2: And that like that was fine. Yeah, what's what's going on? Also?

4054
03:26:27,600 --> 03:26:29,640
Speaker 2: Why use my toy? Uh?

4055
03:26:29,959 --> 03:26:32,920
Speaker 5: Because condom or not, it's in the trash now. I

4056
03:26:33,000 --> 03:26:35,000
Speaker 5: guess he threw it away too, Okay, that we didn't

4057
03:26:35,000 --> 03:26:35,200
Speaker 5: even know.

4058
03:26:35,440 --> 03:26:38,680
Speaker 2: Interesting? Should I believe him? I think?

4059
03:26:38,760 --> 03:26:38,800
Speaker 3: So?

4060
03:26:39,280 --> 03:26:39,440
Speaker 1: Oh?

4061
03:26:40,720 --> 03:26:43,080
Speaker 5: Also, why use my toy because condom or not, it's

4062
03:26:43,240 --> 03:26:45,920
Speaker 5: in the trash now, I'm assuming he threw it away.

4063
03:26:45,959 --> 03:26:48,320
Speaker 2: Maybe I'm not sure. But should I believe him?

4064
03:26:48,440 --> 03:26:48,480
Speaker 3: Or?

4065
03:26:48,640 --> 03:26:51,880
Speaker 2: Do you think he cheat?

4066
03:26:51,920 --> 03:26:52,080
Speaker 3: Did?

4067
03:26:52,280 --> 03:26:54,920
Speaker 2: I think if the if the toy thing came up earlier,

4068
03:26:54,959 --> 03:26:56,640
Speaker 2: we're like I threw that little way last week or

4069
03:26:56,680 --> 03:27:00,480
Speaker 2: something like that, you could probably suspect that he cheated.

4070
03:27:00,560 --> 03:27:02,120
Speaker 2: But I think he was just embarrassed at what he

4071
03:27:02,200 --> 03:27:04,960
Speaker 2: did in a way, like with the toy. Yeah, yeah,

4072
03:27:05,080 --> 03:27:05,920
Speaker 2: and he didn't want to tell her.

4073
03:27:06,120 --> 03:27:06,520
Speaker 1: I think.

4074
03:27:07,040 --> 03:27:12,800
Speaker 5: Okay, So there's the I think I don't know, thank you.

4075
03:27:13,000 --> 03:27:16,840
Speaker 5: I am trying to step up my game.

4076
03:27:17,080 --> 03:27:19,600
Speaker 2: Chat What what celebrity does he look like? I'll tell

4077
03:27:19,640 --> 03:27:21,200
Speaker 2: you what he looks like in my book. But let

4078
03:27:21,280 --> 03:27:23,560
Speaker 2: me let me know what celebrity John looks like. It's Riley.

4079
03:27:23,600 --> 03:27:25,200
Speaker 5: Gave me that compliment, and I was very happy the

4080
03:27:25,280 --> 03:27:28,920
Speaker 5: other day and it made me smile with happiness. But

4081
03:27:30,000 --> 03:27:34,920
Speaker 5: I think they're the So he asked for the threesome

4082
03:27:35,160 --> 03:27:38,800
Speaker 5: with another guy. To me, that's like not anywhere as

4083
03:27:38,840 --> 03:27:42,520
Speaker 5: concerning as the fact that they haven't they haven't been

4084
03:27:42,640 --> 03:27:46,560
Speaker 5: intimate together, yes, but he's self pleasuring and it's like

4085
03:27:46,680 --> 03:27:48,600
Speaker 5: that was stressed for like Opie catching like, oh, this

4086
03:27:48,680 --> 03:27:49,360
Speaker 5: is stress relief.

4087
03:27:49,400 --> 03:27:50,600
Speaker 2: But he says he's too stressed out.

4088
03:27:51,320 --> 03:27:54,400
Speaker 5: That to me was like kind of a big smoking gun,

4089
03:27:55,920 --> 03:27:58,160
Speaker 5: because again, he could be bisexual. He's like, okay, I

4090
03:27:58,240 --> 03:28:01,520
Speaker 5: want to add this to our sex life. But then

4091
03:28:01,600 --> 03:28:05,000
Speaker 5: if he's like, I don't know not Yeah, No, I think.

4092
03:28:04,920 --> 03:28:06,920
Speaker 1: I think that's a little bit suspicious.

4093
03:28:07,200 --> 03:28:10,360
Speaker 2: I think it is also suspicious. Is up? That is

4094
03:28:10,480 --> 03:28:12,960
Speaker 2: all we have a double check. I think this came

4095
03:28:13,080 --> 03:28:14,480
Speaker 2: up like two days ago, so I don't care.

4096
03:28:14,840 --> 03:28:21,360
Speaker 5: Maybe not, but shot everyone here. Cheater yeah, yeah, do

4097
03:28:21,440 --> 03:28:21,959
Speaker 5: we think cheater?

4098
03:28:22,800 --> 03:28:24,080
Speaker 1: Cheater? Yeah?

4099
03:28:24,240 --> 03:28:26,160
Speaker 2: Let me get that poll. Let me let's get the poll.

4100
03:28:26,320 --> 03:28:29,920
Speaker 1: Also, thank you Adeline Gutiers. Hi Sam I mister face,

4101
03:28:30,000 --> 03:28:32,240
Speaker 1: he's gone now, John, I'm so happy you're on the

4102
03:28:32,320 --> 03:28:35,200
Speaker 1: live too. I'm at work listening with one AirPod in

4103
03:28:35,520 --> 03:28:36,800
Speaker 1: and my hair flipped.

4104
03:28:36,480 --> 03:28:41,640
Speaker 2: To the side, like oh, like kind of all covering

4105
03:28:42,160 --> 03:28:42,520
Speaker 2: the ear.

4106
03:28:43,200 --> 03:28:43,800
Speaker 1: So no one knows.

4107
03:28:45,760 --> 03:28:48,039
Speaker 2: These fools don't even know. I'm listening to the greatest

4108
03:28:48,200 --> 03:28:50,240
Speaker 2: live stream on the internet.

4109
03:28:53,920 --> 03:28:55,680
Speaker 1: Do you want to give a till you are yes?

4110
03:28:55,959 --> 03:28:56,480
Speaker 2: Teldr.

4111
03:28:56,600 --> 03:29:00,960
Speaker 5: So this comes from our very young uh worm, little

4112
03:29:00,959 --> 03:29:05,280
Speaker 5: silly Okay fan member. And she came home there was

4113
03:29:05,320 --> 03:29:07,120
Speaker 5: a use condom in the trash. It was it was

4114
03:29:07,200 --> 03:29:09,640
Speaker 5: really like we kind of went all over the place

4115
03:29:09,640 --> 03:29:11,480
Speaker 5: because there was a use condom. So she's like, oh,

4116
03:29:11,720 --> 03:29:15,080
Speaker 5: is he cheating? Then he's like, well, I used your

4117
03:29:15,160 --> 03:29:21,720
Speaker 5: toy to pleasure myself and she was like, well that's fine,

4118
03:29:21,840 --> 03:29:26,880
Speaker 5: but like we haven't been intimate in months, and you

4119
03:29:26,959 --> 03:29:30,440
Speaker 5: say you're too stressed out to do that, so why

4120
03:29:31,240 --> 03:29:34,640
Speaker 5: are you not, Like, wouldn't it be stressed believing for

4121
03:29:35,320 --> 03:29:38,600
Speaker 5: us to be intimate together. It was a whole big

4122
03:29:38,720 --> 03:29:43,400
Speaker 5: ball of confusion, so we are wondering cheater or not? Wow, Riley,

4123
03:29:44,680 --> 03:29:47,720
Speaker 5: great job on the poll. The poll is looking amazing

4124
03:29:48,080 --> 03:29:51,200
Speaker 5: and it's looking like looking like yes so far with

4125
03:29:51,280 --> 03:29:52,600
Speaker 5: the cheating.

4126
03:29:52,720 --> 03:29:54,440
Speaker 2: It has a number of votes as well, so everyone

4127
03:29:54,480 --> 03:29:55,920
Speaker 2: thinks he's cheating. Interesting.

4128
03:29:56,080 --> 03:29:57,880
Speaker 1: Oh, Lea G. Says it sounds like he needs to

4129
03:29:57,920 --> 03:30:01,520
Speaker 1: figure some things out, but isn't cheating. I think someone

4130
03:30:01,560 --> 03:30:04,000
Speaker 1: else said that could be true, having a bisexual awakening

4131
03:30:04,120 --> 03:30:07,879
Speaker 1: and so he's figuring stuff out. Yes, yeah, so there

4132
03:30:07,920 --> 03:30:09,440
Speaker 1: could be some other stuff going on.

4133
03:30:13,680 --> 03:30:18,360
Speaker 5: We're influencing the election, guys, I don't know. Yeah, a

4134
03:30:18,440 --> 03:30:20,960
Speaker 5: lot of things could be happening here. Yeah, this poll

4135
03:30:21,040 --> 03:30:21,520
Speaker 5: is so great.

4136
03:30:21,760 --> 03:30:22,720
Speaker 1: Lots going on.

4137
03:30:23,000 --> 03:30:24,920
Speaker 2: And yeah, also, thank you guys for figuring out how

4138
03:30:24,920 --> 03:30:27,080
Speaker 2: to vote. Sorry, it's you guys are doing you guys

4139
03:30:27,080 --> 03:30:29,400
Speaker 2: are killing it. Look at all the votes that are

4140
03:30:29,400 --> 03:30:29,879
Speaker 2: coming out.

4141
03:30:31,320 --> 03:30:34,160
Speaker 1: Is turned Oh lily, thank you for the five bucks.

4142
03:30:34,280 --> 03:30:36,760
Speaker 1: The guy is trying to sexual try anything. At least

4143
03:30:37,959 --> 03:30:41,040
Speaker 1: YO made it better.

4144
03:30:41,320 --> 03:30:45,080
Speaker 2: That's so good that to your to your stand up special, Well,

4145
03:30:45,720 --> 03:30:49,040
Speaker 2: Riley does have a little stand up. I do think

4146
03:30:49,120 --> 03:30:52,920
Speaker 2: that he has the back pocket. Yeah about being bisexual.

4147
03:30:53,400 --> 03:30:55,720
Speaker 1: Oh, it's a joke, that's not a standard.

4148
03:30:56,000 --> 03:30:58,640
Speaker 2: It is a stand up. He has put together a

4149
03:30:58,680 --> 03:31:02,000
Speaker 2: little like you put together more a little. I can't

4150
03:31:02,040 --> 03:31:04,040
Speaker 2: show them because Sam was like, do not ever show

4151
03:31:04,080 --> 03:31:07,240
Speaker 2: these two people. Some of them are pretty. They're not

4152
03:31:07,360 --> 03:31:11,160
Speaker 2: for this audience. It's pretty bad. Sofia would hate me.

4153
03:31:11,440 --> 03:31:12,920
Speaker 1: Oh that doesn't sound good.

4154
03:31:13,920 --> 03:31:15,439
Speaker 2: You just be like pretty disappointed.

4155
03:31:15,520 --> 03:31:21,160
Speaker 1: I would be disciposed. Oh right, let's let's rock and roll.

4156
03:31:21,360 --> 03:31:24,120
Speaker 2: So everyone says he did not know. He's not a cheater.

4157
03:31:24,280 --> 03:31:27,400
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, oh okay, so we have yeah, not the cheater.

4158
03:31:28,200 --> 03:31:30,359
Speaker 1: I think we do need a little bit more information

4159
03:31:30,480 --> 03:31:32,959
Speaker 1: before we accused, before they accused.

4160
03:31:33,959 --> 03:31:37,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, this was posted like five hours ago. Wow.

4161
03:31:37,440 --> 03:31:42,279
Speaker 1: Op, Because you are a worm, a little worm, please

4162
03:31:42,480 --> 03:31:44,080
Speaker 1: let us know if you have an update.

4163
03:31:44,200 --> 03:31:46,160
Speaker 2: Please give us an update. You can text us for

4164
03:31:46,400 --> 03:31:47,959
Speaker 2: zero six five six.

4165
03:31:48,000 --> 03:31:50,160
Speaker 1: Seven those yes, or you can send it to our

4166
03:31:50,200 --> 03:31:53,959
Speaker 1: subreddit are slash okay o p show that's right.

4167
03:31:54,040 --> 03:31:56,199
Speaker 2: Yes, we want to hear from you again. We want

4168
03:31:56,360 --> 03:32:00,960
Speaker 2: to hear from you, but I also want to from you.

4169
03:32:02,280 --> 03:32:05,959
Speaker 1: Finally, I'm taking back my stream. There you go, it's mine.

4170
03:32:06,000 --> 03:32:06,160
Speaker 4: Now.

4171
03:32:06,720 --> 03:32:08,879
Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for hitting on my girlfriend's

4172
03:32:08,920 --> 03:32:13,879
Speaker 1: friend after she insisted on not telling them I'm her boyfriend?

4173
03:32:14,440 --> 03:32:19,160
Speaker 2: Mmmm? That's tricky. Ooh why do you not want everyone

4174
03:32:19,200 --> 03:32:22,800
Speaker 2: to know? Sounds maybe a little two way petty, but.

4175
03:32:23,000 --> 03:32:25,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, a little two way petty two way. Yeah, maybe

4176
03:32:25,520 --> 03:32:26,760
Speaker 1: I should just break up.

4177
03:32:27,080 --> 03:32:29,000
Speaker 2: We'll see, all right, So.

4178
03:32:29,160 --> 03:32:32,039
Speaker 1: Accomplished bet thirteen says, my girlfriend and I have been

4179
03:32:32,080 --> 03:32:34,760
Speaker 1: official for a few weeks now. She hasn't introduced me

4180
03:32:34,879 --> 03:32:37,400
Speaker 1: to her friend group yet, which I didn't think much

4181
03:32:37,440 --> 03:32:39,920
Speaker 1: of at first. We were all set to hang out,

4182
03:32:40,000 --> 03:32:42,960
Speaker 1: but before that, my girlfriend said to me not to

4183
03:32:43,120 --> 03:32:47,080
Speaker 1: mention we were together. I asked why, and she said

4184
03:32:47,120 --> 03:32:49,200
Speaker 1: because she wasn't ready for it. For that night, I

4185
03:32:49,320 --> 03:32:51,560
Speaker 1: was okay with it. Afterwards, I told my girlfriend that

4186
03:32:51,600 --> 03:32:53,720
Speaker 1: I felt like crap and that I wanted to be

4187
03:32:53,800 --> 03:32:56,200
Speaker 1: seen as her boyfriend. She said not to worry and

4188
03:32:56,280 --> 03:32:59,640
Speaker 1: that she'll be ready soon. But the second time she

4189
03:32:59,720 --> 03:33:03,120
Speaker 1: asked me not to mention it again. It was annoyed,

4190
03:33:03,200 --> 03:33:06,560
Speaker 1: but I agreed not to say anything. During that second time,

4191
03:33:06,640 --> 03:33:08,840
Speaker 1: I overheard one of her friends ask her if there

4192
03:33:08,959 --> 03:33:12,960
Speaker 1: was anything going on between us. She said, I was

4193
03:33:13,120 --> 03:33:16,920
Speaker 1: just a friend. I was hurt DH. I knew what

4194
03:33:17,000 --> 03:33:19,160
Speaker 1: I agreed to, but hurt to hear her say it.

4195
03:33:19,240 --> 03:33:22,160
Speaker 1: Why isn't Why doesn't she not? Does she not want

4196
03:33:22,280 --> 03:33:23,200
Speaker 1: to tell people?

4197
03:33:23,480 --> 03:33:26,280
Speaker 5: Like I feel like they've already they call each other

4198
03:33:26,400 --> 03:33:28,760
Speaker 5: boyfriend and girlfriend? Yeah, but she said that to me

4199
03:33:28,920 --> 03:33:32,760
Speaker 5: is like, you're not ready to call each other boy

4200
03:33:32,800 --> 03:33:33,640
Speaker 5: for girlfriend period?

4201
03:33:33,720 --> 03:33:37,119
Speaker 2: Why do it privately? Yeah, but not publicly.

4202
03:33:36,680 --> 03:33:39,320
Speaker 1: Because I feel like that's kind of the main point

4203
03:33:39,360 --> 03:33:40,279
Speaker 1: of this exactly.

4204
03:33:41,120 --> 03:33:42,320
Speaker 2: It just makes those sense.

4205
03:33:42,560 --> 03:33:46,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a bit suspicious. Later that night, one of

4206
03:33:46,680 --> 03:33:49,360
Speaker 1: her friends approached me and started hitting on me and

4207
03:33:49,520 --> 03:33:52,120
Speaker 1: asked me if I was into my girlfriend. I lied

4208
03:33:52,200 --> 03:33:54,080
Speaker 1: and said we were just friends.

4209
03:33:55,840 --> 03:33:57,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, what do you do in this scenario if

4210
03:33:57,400 --> 03:33:59,480
Speaker 2: you're just friends and he's out there with a bunch

4211
03:33:59,480 --> 03:34:02,560
Speaker 2: of years friends, Like, and you can't say your boyfriend girlfriend,

4212
03:34:02,600 --> 03:34:05,200
Speaker 2: you gotta like play the part. No, no, you a

4213
03:34:05,240 --> 03:34:05,760
Speaker 2: single guy.

4214
03:34:06,000 --> 03:34:08,760
Speaker 1: I disagree. I disagree. I think you say, hey, sorry,

4215
03:34:08,760 --> 03:34:10,360
Speaker 1: I'm not interested, and then you go and talk to

4216
03:34:10,400 --> 03:34:12,120
Speaker 1: your girlfriend and you say, hey, I'm not cool with

4217
03:34:12,200 --> 03:34:14,680
Speaker 1: this situation. Yeah, you can either you know, break up

4218
03:34:14,720 --> 03:34:16,400
Speaker 1: with me or you tell people that we're dating.

4219
03:34:16,600 --> 03:34:20,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a mature thing to do, but like that's

4220
03:34:20,400 --> 03:34:21,080
Speaker 2: on the table.

4221
03:34:21,720 --> 03:34:23,760
Speaker 1: No, that's a I don't like this. I don't like

4222
03:34:23,840 --> 03:34:26,400
Speaker 1: this on both theirs ends. But I don't like you know,

4223
03:34:26,640 --> 03:34:28,920
Speaker 1: he just needs to break off with her.

4224
03:34:28,959 --> 03:34:29,080
Speaker 6: Andy.

4225
03:34:29,200 --> 03:34:30,720
Speaker 2: I wouldn't know the reason why she's not ready. Is

4226
03:34:30,720 --> 03:34:32,560
Speaker 2: she not ready because she's not ready for relationship or

4227
03:34:32,720 --> 03:34:35,039
Speaker 2: is there someone in the midst that she's like Ooh,

4228
03:34:35,160 --> 03:34:37,480
Speaker 2: I think yeah, man like me and that's why you

4229
03:34:37,959 --> 03:34:38,120
Speaker 2: like this.

4230
03:34:38,480 --> 03:34:42,160
Speaker 1: Yeah. We spent the next two hours talking and lightly flirting.

4231
03:34:42,600 --> 03:34:44,600
Speaker 1: I didn't kiss her or anything like that, but did

4232
03:34:44,680 --> 03:34:47,640
Speaker 1: playfully shove her. I wasn't planning some revenge on my

4233
03:34:47,720 --> 03:34:49,840
Speaker 1: girlfriend or anything, but it felt nice to have someone

4234
03:34:49,920 --> 03:34:53,920
Speaker 1: flirt with me. My girlfriend was pissed. She said that

4235
03:34:54,040 --> 03:34:56,240
Speaker 1: I crossed the line with her friend. I told her

4236
03:34:56,320 --> 03:34:58,560
Speaker 1: we were just having fun and nothing happened. We got

4237
03:34:58,600 --> 03:35:01,080
Speaker 1: into a fight and I feel fuse now if I

4238
03:35:01,160 --> 03:35:05,480
Speaker 1: should apologize or not. And there is a comment before

4239
03:35:05,680 --> 03:35:09,080
Speaker 1: the update. Nice Bluebird seventy six twenty six says, bro,

4240
03:35:09,400 --> 03:35:11,440
Speaker 1: go for the girl who will flirt with you in public.

4241
03:35:11,680 --> 03:35:13,680
Speaker 1: That means she'll hold your hand in public, kiss you

4242
03:35:13,760 --> 03:35:16,000
Speaker 1: in public, be with you in public, treat you like

4243
03:35:16,120 --> 03:35:19,000
Speaker 1: you deserve to be treated. Leave the girl who thinks

4244
03:35:19,000 --> 03:35:23,000
Speaker 1: that you are somebody to stay in the closet. Respect yourself. Also,

4245
03:35:23,200 --> 03:35:27,480
Speaker 1: this will probably be enjoyed on Oh no consequences because

4246
03:35:27,520 --> 03:35:31,560
Speaker 1: she is the a hole and uh. Most of the

4247
03:35:31,600 --> 03:35:34,240
Speaker 1: comments agree that Op is not the a hole. I

4248
03:35:34,320 --> 03:35:37,560
Speaker 1: don't know if I fully agree with that, but there's

4249
03:35:37,560 --> 03:35:38,039
Speaker 1: an update.

4250
03:35:38,600 --> 03:35:41,280
Speaker 2: What are your thoughts, John, Yeah, it's the flirting back.

4251
03:35:41,480 --> 03:35:44,360
Speaker 5: Yeah, you got to take the high road because then

4252
03:35:44,400 --> 03:35:46,480
Speaker 5: you can go back and be like listen, yeah, yeah,

4253
03:35:46,600 --> 03:35:48,200
Speaker 5: she tried to flirt with me and I didn't do anything.

4254
03:35:48,320 --> 03:35:51,640
Speaker 1: Yeah. No, that's the thing. Like if OP had been like, sorry,

4255
03:35:51,680 --> 03:35:54,000
Speaker 1: I'm not interested and then gone back, he would have

4256
03:35:54,080 --> 03:35:57,280
Speaker 1: been not the ale one hundred percent and girlfriend would

4257
03:35:57,280 --> 03:35:59,720
Speaker 1: have been full time a hole. Yeah. But like this,

4258
03:36:01,520 --> 03:36:02,120
Speaker 1: I don't know about that.

4259
03:36:02,400 --> 03:36:03,760
Speaker 2: He's hurt. I think he's a hurt boy.

4260
03:36:03,920 --> 03:36:07,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you. Which one is to thank you Parenting

4261
03:36:07,640 --> 03:36:10,160
Speaker 1: Neurospicy for the five buck tip. I listen to you

4262
03:36:10,400 --> 03:36:13,120
Speaker 1: every morning when I'm in the shower. So happy to

4263
03:36:13,160 --> 03:36:16,680
Speaker 1: finally be here for a live stream. Thank you for coming,

4264
03:36:17,560 --> 03:36:20,080
Speaker 1: pixel punk It, thank you for four oh one tip.

4265
03:36:21,040 --> 03:36:25,640
Speaker 1: Conspiracy theory. Op's girlfriend is interested in someone in the group,

4266
03:36:25,879 --> 03:36:27,959
Speaker 1: so she doesn't want her friend group to know she's dating.

4267
03:36:28,000 --> 03:36:28,880
Speaker 2: That's what I was thinking.

4268
03:36:29,160 --> 03:36:31,160
Speaker 1: I think I was thinking she's like interested in something

4269
03:36:31,320 --> 03:36:33,880
Speaker 1: someone else, or she's seeing someone else, maybe like maybe

4270
03:36:33,920 --> 03:36:35,560
Speaker 1: there's a cheating on and so she doesn't want to

4271
03:36:35,640 --> 03:36:36,600
Speaker 1: let them, which is.

4272
03:36:36,720 --> 03:36:40,040
Speaker 2: Crazy because like you have the guy that you've committed to,

4273
03:36:40,160 --> 03:36:45,200
Speaker 2: committed boyfriend and girlfriend, which's like why would she would

4274
03:36:45,200 --> 03:36:47,200
Speaker 2: you do that if you're still seeing if you want

4275
03:36:47,200 --> 03:36:47,879
Speaker 2: to be with someone else?

4276
03:36:48,000 --> 03:36:53,039
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, because he's whack's whack. Yeah.

4277
03:36:53,200 --> 03:36:57,800
Speaker 5: Also one more from Pennsylvania duchess the Warrior Worm five

4278
03:36:57,879 --> 03:37:02,160
Speaker 5: hours and two cents conspiracy theory. All her friends know

4279
03:37:02,320 --> 03:37:06,320
Speaker 5: her actual main partner and Pase just the side piece.

4280
03:37:06,760 --> 03:37:09,160
Speaker 5: That's why she doesn't want them to know. That is

4281
03:37:09,200 --> 03:37:09,920
Speaker 5: another good thing.

4282
03:37:10,040 --> 03:37:13,480
Speaker 1: Ever, however, to kind of push back against that theory. Yes,

4283
03:37:14,280 --> 03:37:16,480
Speaker 1: another fun ask op at that party or are you

4284
03:37:16,520 --> 03:37:19,560
Speaker 1: guys together? Like multiple people ask them if they were together?

4285
03:37:19,680 --> 03:37:20,680
Speaker 1: So why would they? Yeah?

4286
03:37:20,879 --> 03:37:24,800
Speaker 2: Why would did you? Why would she say boyfriend privately?

4287
03:37:25,080 --> 03:37:25,280
Speaker 1: Yeah?

4288
03:37:26,160 --> 03:37:28,120
Speaker 2: Maybe just an attempt to stay together.

4289
03:37:28,200 --> 03:37:31,960
Speaker 1: Yeah. Also, thank you Pennsylvania duchess. Wait you already said that.

4290
03:37:32,000 --> 03:37:34,560
Speaker 2: Sorry, I just read that. Thank you again, Thank you again,

4291
03:37:34,840 --> 03:37:38,360
Speaker 2: Joanna said, I am echoing. Yeah, let me know if

4292
03:37:38,400 --> 03:37:40,959
Speaker 2: you all hear that too, and we'll go we'll look

4293
03:37:41,040 --> 03:37:44,560
Speaker 2: into it. Maybe I'm talking that as well.

4294
03:37:45,240 --> 03:37:47,480
Speaker 5: We're tweaking it, Riley, let me know when I can

4295
03:37:48,600 --> 03:37:50,520
Speaker 5: now let me know if you hear an echo. Now

4296
03:37:51,160 --> 03:37:53,039
Speaker 5: that's let me know what comes.

4297
03:37:53,959 --> 03:37:57,000
Speaker 1: Okay, But Sophia, I'm gone to me with this update.

4298
03:37:58,879 --> 03:38:03,640
Speaker 2: So my friend broke up with me. Oh oh whoa,

4299
03:38:04,800 --> 03:38:06,400
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, she.

4300
03:38:06,600 --> 03:38:09,240
Speaker 1: Said, and this is five days after by the way.

4301
03:38:09,520 --> 03:38:09,840
Speaker 2: Okay.

4302
03:38:10,240 --> 03:38:13,360
Speaker 1: She said that I was extremely disrespectful and immature, so

4303
03:38:13,520 --> 03:38:16,200
Speaker 1: I'm sure that's gonna make some of y'all happy. The

4304
03:38:16,280 --> 03:38:18,360
Speaker 1: friend did reach out to me. We added each other

4305
03:38:18,440 --> 03:38:21,120
Speaker 1: when we met that night. The friend is definitely into me,

4306
03:38:21,280 --> 03:38:23,720
Speaker 1: but I figured I should tell her the truth. She

4307
03:38:23,840 --> 03:38:26,680
Speaker 1: said she understands, and that my now ax has always

4308
03:38:26,760 --> 03:38:29,480
Speaker 1: been weird with guys. She did say she wishes we

4309
03:38:29,560 --> 03:38:31,959
Speaker 1: met differently and that we probably should just a friends,

4310
03:38:32,040 --> 03:38:34,680
Speaker 1: as she's uncomfortable dating her friend's X, especially in this

4311
03:38:34,760 --> 03:38:38,640
Speaker 1: weird situation. So, yeah, I have no girlfriend and the

4312
03:38:38,720 --> 03:38:41,000
Speaker 1: other girl just wants to be friends, assuming she wasn't

4313
03:38:41,040 --> 03:38:43,320
Speaker 1: just saying that to be nice. I at least learned

4314
03:38:43,360 --> 03:38:46,680
Speaker 1: something about myself and will never accept being someone's secret

4315
03:38:46,879 --> 03:38:50,280
Speaker 1: in the future. M are relevant comments.

4316
03:38:50,360 --> 03:38:52,000
Speaker 2: You have value, Yeah don't.

4317
03:38:52,080 --> 03:38:56,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're not. You're not someone's secret for everyone who's

4318
03:38:56,360 --> 03:38:58,720
Speaker 1: partner you know, quote unquote partner is like, you have

4319
03:38:58,800 --> 03:39:00,000
Speaker 1: to be a secret to be in a really ship

4320
03:39:00,240 --> 03:39:02,880
Speaker 1: with me. They don't value you. If anyone is like,

4321
03:39:03,560 --> 03:39:05,720
Speaker 1: I don't have time for a romantic relationship, but they

4322
03:39:05,760 --> 03:39:07,160
Speaker 1: just want to see you on the side, they don't

4323
03:39:07,240 --> 03:39:07,600
Speaker 1: value you.

4324
03:39:07,879 --> 03:39:10,240
Speaker 2: Sinky stinky thinky.

4325
03:39:10,320 --> 03:39:15,840
Speaker 1: Relevant comments, Get into it Bill twenty five fifty. So

4326
03:39:16,040 --> 03:39:19,520
Speaker 1: she ex girlfriend thinks it's mature and respectful to hide

4327
03:39:19,560 --> 03:39:23,600
Speaker 1: a boyfriend bullet dodged. I think after the dust settles,

4328
03:39:23,640 --> 03:39:25,920
Speaker 1: the other girl might come around, especially after your ex

4329
03:39:26,040 --> 03:39:30,840
Speaker 1: is admittedly weird. Opie says, not expecting anything from the friend,

4330
03:39:30,920 --> 03:39:33,320
Speaker 1: but I wouldn't mind if she changes her mind. Nick

4331
03:39:33,440 --> 03:39:39,320
Speaker 1: Danger three D says Matrix bullet time achieved. We're proud

4332
03:39:39,360 --> 03:39:42,040
Speaker 1: of you, op and Opie said, hardly anything to be

4333
03:39:42,080 --> 03:39:43,800
Speaker 1: proud of. She's the one who broke up with me.

4334
03:39:44,360 --> 03:39:48,880
Speaker 1: And then haunty do you says you were never dating? Remember, Oh, wow,

4335
03:39:49,000 --> 03:39:54,680
Speaker 1: you really rub salt on out Jesus and that's the

4336
03:39:54,840 --> 03:39:59,680
Speaker 1: end of that story. Yeah really, Ooh, I have water.

4337
03:40:00,600 --> 03:40:04,320
Speaker 2: I will get you another one. But I wonder what

4338
03:40:04,400 --> 03:40:09,039
Speaker 2: do you wonder? Is every one the a whole?

4339
03:40:09,480 --> 03:40:12,520
Speaker 1: Yeah? I agree, I think everyone's a whole.

4340
03:40:12,959 --> 03:40:14,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's a little petty.

4341
03:40:14,400 --> 03:40:17,720
Speaker 1: He was being petty, Yeah, he's less like she's the

4342
03:40:17,800 --> 03:40:20,400
Speaker 1: a hole trying Yeah, she's a bigger a hole for sure,

4343
03:40:20,920 --> 03:40:23,560
Speaker 1: trying to creep but like keep a relationship secret that

4344
03:40:23,600 --> 03:40:26,520
Speaker 1: they've already like committed to. Yes, but he is in

4345
03:40:26,600 --> 03:40:29,320
Speaker 1: a hole for flirting with someone when he has a girlfriend.

4346
03:40:29,720 --> 03:40:32,480
Speaker 1: You have to you have to be you know, the

4347
03:40:32,600 --> 03:40:33,480
Speaker 1: mature person about it.

4348
03:40:33,600 --> 03:40:36,240
Speaker 5: It's so tragic how they were just like, oh, yeah,

4349
03:40:36,320 --> 03:40:38,720
Speaker 5: let's be boyfriend and girlfriend and then immediately like no.

4350
03:40:39,120 --> 03:40:41,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, immediately back back and out of that.

4351
03:40:41,840 --> 03:40:44,280
Speaker 2: Bruh. Yeah, that's tough.

4352
03:40:44,520 --> 03:40:44,720
Speaker 4: Yeah.

4353
03:40:45,160 --> 03:40:47,640
Speaker 1: And also he wasn't only being petty, but he was

4354
03:40:47,720 --> 03:40:51,280
Speaker 1: like actively like vibing with someone else too, So it

4355
03:40:51,440 --> 03:40:54,280
Speaker 1: wasn't just like a hah for show, I'm gonna flirt

4356
03:40:54,320 --> 03:40:56,080
Speaker 1: with someone. It was like, oh, I'm interested in this place.

4357
03:40:56,320 --> 03:40:59,240
Speaker 5: Actually, it wasn't even just a revenge for it was

4358
03:40:59,280 --> 03:41:01,240
Speaker 5: like a full on because afterwards he was.

4359
03:41:01,280 --> 03:41:09,039
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, honestly messy frame group, super messy friend group.

4360
03:41:09,160 --> 03:41:11,960
Speaker 2: If I myself and if like you have a partner

4361
03:41:12,000 --> 03:41:14,080
Speaker 2: that's not proud of who you are because we read

4362
03:41:14,120 --> 03:41:17,240
Speaker 2: one about the comic, like remember that one she wasn't

4363
03:41:17,240 --> 03:41:20,320
Speaker 2: really proud of you. You're just finding an uphill battle

4364
03:41:20,400 --> 03:41:23,240
Speaker 2: at that point and it's not going to end well

4365
03:41:23,520 --> 03:41:27,760
Speaker 2: in the long term whatsoever. That's right, well, Sophia.

4366
03:41:28,000 --> 03:41:30,520
Speaker 5: Yes, I would love to hear another story whilst I

4367
03:41:30,680 --> 03:41:35,680
Speaker 5: get you some drink and Riley, can I get you anything?

4368
03:41:36,280 --> 03:41:39,440
Speaker 2: Big Boy is another red Bull? Okay? Can I can

4369
03:41:39,480 --> 03:41:42,080
Speaker 2: I do too? You can do whatever you I mean,

4370
03:41:42,120 --> 03:41:45,880
Speaker 2: I'm good, I'm vibing. I'm vibing you really need it? Yeah,

4371
03:41:45,879 --> 03:41:50,680
Speaker 2: I'm not like or can give me an orange can

4372
03:41:51,200 --> 03:41:55,240
Speaker 2: orange can have like a regular water and that I

4373
03:41:55,360 --> 03:41:59,560
Speaker 2: probably need some actual water resins. Carbonated yeah makes it

4374
03:41:59,720 --> 03:42:00,640
Speaker 2: funcause it's all bubble.

4375
03:42:00,760 --> 03:42:02,760
Speaker 1: I love carbonated water. But I'm always worried because I

4376
03:42:03,000 --> 03:42:04,640
Speaker 1: hear stuff about.

4377
03:42:05,520 --> 03:42:07,680
Speaker 2: Everything's bad for you, just like how do you want

4378
03:42:07,720 --> 03:42:08,280
Speaker 2: to live your life?

4379
03:42:08,320 --> 03:42:14,680
Speaker 1: I don't care that much. What episode are we gonna? Oh? Hondo?

4380
03:42:15,800 --> 03:42:16,240
Speaker 1: All right?

4381
03:42:17,840 --> 03:42:18,680
Speaker 2: All right, Riley?

4382
03:42:18,720 --> 03:42:21,000
Speaker 1: I feel like you might have to get some stories righty.

4383
03:42:21,080 --> 03:42:22,960
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, I'll pull some open.

4384
03:42:23,080 --> 03:42:25,480
Speaker 1: There's only one story in here, okay. Oh no, sorry,

4385
03:42:25,480 --> 03:42:27,119
Speaker 1: I was looking the wrong one. I was looking baked.

4386
03:42:27,160 --> 03:42:31,440
Speaker 1: That's my bud uh a Honda? Is that mothers yep, noise.

4387
03:42:32,520 --> 03:42:39,720
Speaker 1: All right, y'all, let's freaking go. When is our next wheel? Spin?

4388
03:42:40,840 --> 03:42:42,360
Speaker 1: Nine likes, nine hondo.

4389
03:42:42,920 --> 03:42:44,680
Speaker 2: If you guys get to four thousand chats, then we'll

4390
03:42:44,720 --> 03:42:45,199
Speaker 2: go again.

4391
03:42:45,320 --> 03:42:51,080
Speaker 1: Nine hondo four thousand or yeah, those two, or if

4392
03:42:51,080 --> 03:42:53,199
Speaker 1: you happen to get to the next hour. But again,

4393
03:42:53,280 --> 03:42:54,800
Speaker 1: we have an hour and thirty minutes. So you don't

4394
03:42:54,840 --> 03:42:55,520
Speaker 1: don't feel a rush.

4395
03:42:55,600 --> 03:42:57,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't cool rush. You're good, You're good.

4396
03:42:57,280 --> 03:43:00,360
Speaker 1: Don't feel rush to do that? Am I the whole

4397
03:43:00,440 --> 03:43:03,440
Speaker 1: for going no contact with my mother after she disregarded

4398
03:43:03,520 --> 03:43:09,959
Speaker 1: my boundaries during my pregnancy? We no, no, We read

4399
03:43:10,040 --> 03:43:13,800
Speaker 1: a similar one where Ope's mother gave water.

4400
03:43:13,879 --> 03:43:15,200
Speaker 2: But this is okay, that's what I thought this was.

4401
03:43:15,440 --> 03:43:18,080
Speaker 1: Don't worry, guys, this is a different story. I do

4402
03:43:18,200 --> 03:43:23,480
Speaker 1: find different stories. So Bubbles twelve twenty four, Oh oh,

4403
03:43:23,560 --> 03:43:26,360
Speaker 1: this is from okay? Op, this is such okay, Ope,

4404
03:43:26,560 --> 03:43:30,640
Speaker 1: Bubbles is because you've been You've been here, I've seen

4405
03:43:30,680 --> 03:43:32,960
Speaker 1: you in the chat and I've seen you donating. Is

4406
03:43:33,040 --> 03:43:33,720
Speaker 1: this your story?

4407
03:43:34,160 --> 03:43:37,200
Speaker 2: Let us know, Bubbles, Bubbles, is this you okay?

4408
03:43:37,520 --> 03:43:40,000
Speaker 1: Because maybe we can call you. I've never done a

4409
03:43:40,080 --> 03:43:41,440
Speaker 1: call on my own, though.

4410
03:43:41,640 --> 03:43:44,200
Speaker 2: We've kind of avoided it, but I think I think

4411
03:43:44,320 --> 03:43:45,080
Speaker 2: it's time.

4412
03:43:44,920 --> 03:43:47,200
Speaker 1: So Fie, but should we read the story or should we?

4413
03:43:47,240 --> 03:43:47,440
Speaker 2: Good?

4414
03:43:47,480 --> 03:43:49,560
Speaker 1: Go ahead, go ahead, We'll read it and then we'll

4415
03:43:49,600 --> 03:43:54,279
Speaker 1: call you if you wants uh. So Bubbles twelve twenty four.

4416
03:43:54,240 --> 03:43:55,440
Speaker 2: Said, yes, this is my story.

4417
03:43:55,600 --> 03:43:57,040
Speaker 1: Yay, amazing.

4418
03:43:57,240 --> 03:44:01,360
Speaker 2: Wow, you're so young, you're such a you're a child.

4419
03:44:02,000 --> 03:44:04,480
Speaker 1: I don't know. Wait, do you think we should? Yeah? Well,

4420
03:44:04,520 --> 03:44:09,760
Speaker 1: I'll be alright, Okay, okay, sorry guys. So I twenty six, female,

4421
03:44:09,800 --> 03:44:12,520
Speaker 1: and my mother fifty one used to be really close.

4422
03:44:13,440 --> 03:44:15,920
Speaker 1: We would talk every day and sometimes multiple times a

4423
03:44:16,000 --> 03:44:18,000
Speaker 1: day so she could out of a relationship with my daughter.

4424
03:44:18,600 --> 03:44:20,879
Speaker 1: We live long distance, so that was the only way

4425
03:44:20,959 --> 03:44:24,840
Speaker 1: they could interact. I have one non negotiable rule that

4426
03:44:24,920 --> 03:44:28,440
Speaker 1: I apply with everyone, including my own spouse. I do

4427
03:44:28,640 --> 03:44:31,840
Speaker 1: not talk politics. Ever, It's not that I don't care

4428
03:44:31,920 --> 03:44:34,040
Speaker 1: for what current events are happening. I just don't care

4429
03:44:34,120 --> 03:44:36,680
Speaker 1: for the argument that always follows because someone has a

4430
03:44:36,720 --> 03:44:40,040
Speaker 1: difference in opinion or the top on the topic. My mother,

4431
03:44:40,160 --> 03:44:42,280
Speaker 1: on the other hand, has done nothing but talk about

4432
03:44:42,320 --> 03:44:47,200
Speaker 1: politics during every conversation since she moved to Texas from California.

4433
03:44:47,520 --> 03:44:50,400
Speaker 1: It started small, with just talking about the laws in Texas,

4434
03:44:50,760 --> 03:44:52,119
Speaker 1: and if I told her I don't want to talk

4435
03:44:52,120 --> 03:44:55,840
Speaker 1: about politics, she stopped. But it got worse and worse

4436
03:44:55,920 --> 03:44:59,760
Speaker 1: the further along I got into my pregnancy. Around September

4437
03:45:00,000 --> 03:45:04,440
Speaker 1: of twenty three, I'm just assuming twenty twenty three, there

4438
03:45:04,720 --> 03:45:07,960
Speaker 1: was supposedly a threat against the highly populated area in

4439
03:45:08,040 --> 03:45:12,560
Speaker 1: my state by the Taliban, according to her in California,

4440
03:45:13,840 --> 03:45:16,640
Speaker 1: and she would not stop talking about it. I tried

4441
03:45:16,680 --> 03:45:19,600
Speaker 1: telling her over and over again, as respectfully as I could,

4442
03:45:20,080 --> 03:45:22,560
Speaker 1: that it was not a conversation I wanted to be having,

4443
03:45:23,120 --> 03:45:27,320
Speaker 1: especially at five months pregnant and already tired from chasing

4444
03:45:27,360 --> 03:45:29,600
Speaker 1: around a toddler. She kept insisting that I had to

4445
03:45:29,640 --> 03:45:31,600
Speaker 1: stay in my house and not leave so that we

4446
03:45:31,640 --> 03:45:34,480
Speaker 1: won't get hurt during the attack that was supposed to happen.

4447
03:45:35,720 --> 03:45:38,480
Speaker 1: I told her one last time, Mom, this is not

4448
03:45:38,640 --> 03:45:41,280
Speaker 1: a conversation I want to be having. I'm trying to

4449
03:45:41,360 --> 03:45:46,520
Speaker 1: set a boundary with you. Please respect my boundaries.

4450
03:45:46,720 --> 03:45:47,840
Speaker 2: That's such a giant water.

4451
03:45:47,959 --> 03:45:52,040
Speaker 1: I love it. Thank you, thank you, appreciate it. I'm

4452
03:45:52,120 --> 03:45:55,440
Speaker 1: trying to set a boundary with you. Please respect my boundaries.

4453
03:45:56,520 --> 03:45:59,080
Speaker 1: She responded by calling me a narcissist and that it's

4454
03:45:59,160 --> 03:46:02,040
Speaker 1: always my way or the highway, and I always have

4455
03:46:02,160 --> 03:46:04,400
Speaker 1: to be right. When I didn't even rebuke what she

4456
03:46:04,480 --> 03:46:07,080
Speaker 1: said or correct her, I simply said that I don't

4457
03:46:07,120 --> 03:46:09,640
Speaker 1: want to talk about it. She said one final if

4458
03:46:09,680 --> 03:46:13,760
Speaker 1: you at me, then hung up. I immediately sent her

4459
03:46:13,800 --> 03:46:16,640
Speaker 1: a text message saying, I think it's time we take

4460
03:46:16,640 --> 03:46:18,480
Speaker 1: a break from one another. I'm trying to have a

4461
03:46:18,560 --> 03:46:21,960
Speaker 1: positive and healthy relationship with you, but you continue to

4462
03:46:22,280 --> 03:46:26,120
Speaker 1: disrespect my boundaries when I have done everything I can

4463
03:46:26,240 --> 03:46:27,400
Speaker 1: to remain respectful to you.

4464
03:46:27,640 --> 03:46:30,600
Speaker 2: Wait, you can take breaks from your mom, I guess.

4465
03:46:30,640 --> 03:46:33,560
Speaker 2: So wow. I thought it was only in like boyfriend

4466
03:46:33,600 --> 03:46:36,959
Speaker 2: girlfriend relationships you can technically do anything you want.

4467
03:46:37,000 --> 03:46:38,400
Speaker 1: And yeah, you can do whatever you want.

4468
03:46:38,600 --> 03:46:38,800
Speaker 2: Yeah.

4469
03:46:39,400 --> 03:46:43,320
Speaker 5: Also, sadly, I must take a break, taking a break

4470
03:46:44,040 --> 03:46:47,000
Speaker 5: the stream, the stream, I know, I know, it is terrible.

4471
03:46:47,200 --> 03:46:49,720
Speaker 2: Everyone give class for John for him here coming in

4472
03:46:50,640 --> 03:46:54,520
Speaker 2: so yeah right, Oh, poor is me. He's got to

4473
03:46:54,560 --> 03:46:57,800
Speaker 2: go to bed at six. Guys enjoy Yeah, yeah, guys,

4474
03:46:58,040 --> 03:47:01,160
Speaker 2: enjoy the illustrious. So feel your well, MC queen and

4475
03:47:01,280 --> 03:47:03,720
Speaker 2: Riley and I'll see you soon. You get a kiss

4476
03:47:03,760 --> 03:47:06,759
Speaker 2: for you, lah laha.

4477
03:47:07,959 --> 03:47:12,080
Speaker 1: Probably all right, boy, But back to this story, Bubbles

4478
03:47:12,120 --> 03:47:14,560
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, that's really Yeah. I have a lot of

4479
03:47:15,160 --> 03:47:17,960
Speaker 1: family members, like extended family members, who do not share

4480
03:47:18,000 --> 03:47:20,400
Speaker 1: my political views, and we just don't talk about politics

4481
03:47:20,480 --> 03:47:22,240
Speaker 1: because yeah, it's messy.

4482
03:47:22,600 --> 03:47:26,040
Speaker 2: It's it's simple that way, like why waste your breath

4483
03:47:26,080 --> 03:47:28,160
Speaker 2: whenever you know they feel that way and the other

4484
03:47:28,200 --> 03:47:29,080
Speaker 2: people feel the other way.

4485
03:47:29,440 --> 03:47:32,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, m But yeah, I'm glad that you were able

4486
03:47:32,840 --> 03:47:35,880
Speaker 1: to set your boundaries, because yeah, it's not especially if

4487
03:47:35,920 --> 03:47:37,800
Speaker 1: you're pregnant and trying to you know, get ready for

4488
03:47:37,840 --> 03:47:44,840
Speaker 1: a baby. That's just not not worth it. Ever since then, oh,

4489
03:47:44,920 --> 03:47:47,200
Speaker 1: I okay, and then Opie continues, I love you more

4490
03:47:47,240 --> 03:47:50,360
Speaker 1: than anything, but until you can apologize, you will not

4491
03:47:50,520 --> 03:47:53,920
Speaker 1: have any contact with me or my children. Ever since then,

4492
03:47:54,080 --> 03:47:57,160
Speaker 1: I haven't called many terrible names by other relatives after

4493
03:47:57,240 --> 03:47:59,440
Speaker 1: my mother told them her side of the story, and

4494
03:47:59,560 --> 03:48:03,480
Speaker 1: have even been told I'm a garbage daughter and waste

4495
03:48:03,560 --> 03:48:06,160
Speaker 1: of the air I breathe. She's your mother and you

4496
03:48:06,240 --> 03:48:07,920
Speaker 1: need to respect her. If that means you have to

4497
03:48:08,000 --> 03:48:10,240
Speaker 1: listen to her talk politics, then you just have to

4498
03:48:10,360 --> 03:48:14,519
Speaker 1: sit there and take it. That is not a healthy outlook.

4499
03:48:14,320 --> 03:48:16,680
Speaker 2: No, oh you do not. I hate listening about politics

4500
03:48:16,720 --> 03:48:18,640
Speaker 2: in any way shape or form, don't matter what side

4501
03:48:18,640 --> 03:48:21,760
Speaker 2: has come from. It's just I have an okay story

4502
03:48:21,840 --> 03:48:25,560
Speaker 2: time about about news that I that someone shared with me.

4503
03:48:25,800 --> 03:48:29,000
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, yeah, I personally like talking about politics. But

4504
03:48:29,040 --> 03:48:30,360
Speaker 1: you have to know your crowd and you have to

4505
03:48:30,400 --> 03:48:31,039
Speaker 1: do your audience.

4506
03:48:31,240 --> 03:48:31,360
Speaker 4: Uh.

4507
03:48:31,560 --> 03:48:35,360
Speaker 1: And if someone is explicitly saying like, please do not

4508
03:48:35,480 --> 03:48:38,120
Speaker 1: have these conversations with me, I just don't want to

4509
03:48:38,160 --> 03:48:41,400
Speaker 1: do it. Yeah. No, yeah, that is a horrible comment.

4510
03:48:41,480 --> 03:48:43,400
Speaker 1: And I'm sorry that anyone said that to you, Bubbles,

4511
03:48:43,440 --> 03:48:50,959
Speaker 1: because you do not deserve that at all. Wait, oh

4512
03:48:51,040 --> 03:48:53,879
Speaker 1: my god, Wait that comment was from her older brother.

4513
03:48:54,280 --> 03:48:58,920
Speaker 1: Oh that is horrible, who lives with her? I stopped

4514
03:48:59,000 --> 03:49:02,000
Speaker 1: responding and move forward with my life, trying to enjoy

4515
03:49:02,080 --> 03:49:04,280
Speaker 1: my pregnancy as it is my last one since we

4516
03:49:04,360 --> 03:49:07,600
Speaker 1: don't want any more kids. Fast forward to January. It's

4517
03:49:07,640 --> 03:49:10,440
Speaker 1: the day before my induction, and I decided to post

4518
03:49:10,520 --> 03:49:13,160
Speaker 1: on Facebook and about how bittersweet that this will be

4519
03:49:13,320 --> 03:49:16,040
Speaker 1: because it's my last pregnancy, but I'm excited for the

4520
03:49:16,120 --> 03:49:19,600
Speaker 1: journey ahead. Nonetheless, just a bunch of mush mushy emotional

4521
03:49:19,640 --> 03:49:23,640
Speaker 1: stuff because hormones. Not even three minutes after I posted

4522
03:49:23,720 --> 03:49:27,280
Speaker 1: my Grandma, after I posted my grandmother. My mom's mom

4523
03:49:28,240 --> 03:49:31,560
Speaker 1: called me demanding to know why it's my last pregnancy?

4524
03:49:31,960 --> 03:49:35,800
Speaker 1: How the call went? And I think they're from Texas,

4525
03:49:36,200 --> 03:49:38,240
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna give grandma.

4526
03:49:38,520 --> 03:49:40,000
Speaker 2: Give it to her. I won't be offended.

4527
03:49:40,560 --> 03:49:44,280
Speaker 1: Why is this your last pregnancy? That's not of your business,

4528
03:49:44,360 --> 03:49:45,440
Speaker 1: but we don't want more kids.

4529
03:49:46,120 --> 03:49:50,120
Speaker 2: Is your doctor okay with that? Doctor? Yeah? Wait? Doctor?

4530
03:49:50,360 --> 03:49:52,880
Speaker 2: Is your doctor okay with that? You got a few

4531
03:49:52,960 --> 03:49:54,560
Speaker 2: more birth years after your doctor?

4532
03:49:54,600 --> 03:49:58,680
Speaker 1: Okay with that? It's not up to him, nor is

4533
03:49:58,720 --> 03:50:00,920
Speaker 1: it his business. Is your okay with that?

4534
03:50:01,120 --> 03:50:03,120
Speaker 2: Why was it that her first question? Why?

4535
03:50:03,280 --> 03:50:05,120
Speaker 1: Why is it? It doesn't matter if her husband's okay

4536
03:50:05,160 --> 03:50:05,280
Speaker 1: with that?

4537
03:50:05,360 --> 03:50:06,760
Speaker 2: I know, But if she's gonna do this in line,

4538
03:50:06,800 --> 03:50:08,720
Speaker 2: why does the doctor come first before? That has no idea?

4539
03:50:09,440 --> 03:50:12,640
Speaker 1: Uh, Grandma, it's really none of your business. Please stop asking.

4540
03:50:13,080 --> 03:50:16,480
Speaker 1: I am your grandmother and I have every rat to know,

4541
03:50:16,760 --> 03:50:20,640
Speaker 1: just like your mother does. No, you don't. It's my

4542
03:50:20,800 --> 03:50:23,720
Speaker 1: body and my business. You do not have any right

4543
03:50:23,800 --> 03:50:26,000
Speaker 1: to it. Fuck you, you entitled bitch.

4544
03:50:28,560 --> 03:50:34,560
Speaker 2: Oh my god, nowhere God, your grandma grandma is crazy?

4545
03:50:34,840 --> 03:50:38,080
Speaker 1: Yeah? Oh my god, yeah, I totally support you. Not

4546
03:50:38,320 --> 03:50:43,560
Speaker 1: talking to your family. Unmust they apologize because that's yoicks.

4547
03:50:46,600 --> 03:50:48,960
Speaker 1: That was the last conversation I had with anyone in

4548
03:50:49,040 --> 03:50:52,160
Speaker 1: my family, and it has me wondering if I really

4549
03:50:52,160 --> 03:50:54,360
Speaker 1: am the a hole in this situation for just wanting

4550
03:50:54,440 --> 03:50:57,800
Speaker 1: to set boundaries with them. My youngest is now two

4551
03:50:57,840 --> 03:50:59,920
Speaker 1: months old, and I miss my mom so much because

4552
03:51:00,040 --> 03:51:02,680
Speaker 1: being a parent is hard. But I don't want to

4553
03:51:02,720 --> 03:51:05,560
Speaker 1: go back on my word and allow contact again just

4554
03:51:05,640 --> 03:51:07,760
Speaker 1: because I'm hormonal. Am I the A hole?

4555
03:51:08,760 --> 03:51:08,800
Speaker 5: No?

4556
03:51:08,960 --> 03:51:12,720
Speaker 1: And there is a baby update which I'll read and

4557
03:51:12,760 --> 03:51:13,800
Speaker 1: then we'll go into.

4558
03:51:13,880 --> 03:51:15,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I don't know.

4559
03:51:15,400 --> 03:51:16,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, No, you're not.

4560
03:51:16,360 --> 03:51:18,480
Speaker 2: She's not respecting what you're saying. She's not respecting you

4561
03:51:18,600 --> 03:51:21,680
Speaker 2: as her granddaughter. You're totally fine.

4562
03:51:21,840 --> 03:51:24,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I feel like if you try to set

4563
03:51:24,320 --> 03:51:26,200
Speaker 1: those boundaries and she's not following them, and then you

4564
03:51:26,320 --> 03:51:29,560
Speaker 1: have that around your kids, that's also. Yeah, that's not fair.

4565
03:51:29,840 --> 03:51:32,520
Speaker 1: You know, that's not fair of her to do. No,

4566
03:51:32,760 --> 03:51:34,400
Speaker 1: those are yeah, she should grandma.

4567
03:51:34,640 --> 03:51:37,280
Speaker 2: She should love what you have given her already. You know,

4568
03:51:37,600 --> 03:51:39,680
Speaker 2: you shouldn't force it, shouldn't force that whatsoever.

4569
03:51:40,080 --> 03:51:43,600
Speaker 1: Yeah. Also a bubbles, thanks for the two bucks. Yes,

4570
03:51:44,360 --> 03:51:46,480
Speaker 1: thank you for the story, appreciate it, And I'm sorry

4571
03:51:46,520 --> 03:51:48,200
Speaker 1: about your family. Because this is not your fault. You

4572
03:51:48,280 --> 03:51:50,800
Speaker 1: are not the a hole at all. And congratulations on

4573
03:51:50,880 --> 03:51:53,920
Speaker 1: your new child. And also thank you Sugar Yuki for

4574
03:51:54,040 --> 03:51:56,640
Speaker 1: the four ninety eight tip. Will be listening to the

4575
03:51:56,720 --> 03:51:58,560
Speaker 1: chat as I clean my apartment and set up my

4576
03:51:58,640 --> 03:51:59,160
Speaker 1: fish tank.

4577
03:51:59,360 --> 03:52:03,160
Speaker 2: Ooh, can be fun. Send pictures of Discord Yeah, please

4578
03:52:03,200 --> 03:52:05,920
Speaker 2: send pictures, send pictures, and I guess the pet channel.

4579
03:52:05,960 --> 03:52:06,040
Speaker 1: Oh.

4580
03:52:06,080 --> 03:52:08,040
Speaker 2: Also, if you're not on a Discord, dude, check it out.

4581
03:52:08,040 --> 03:52:08,560
Speaker 2: It's so fun.

4582
03:52:08,640 --> 03:52:09,120
Speaker 1: Yeck get out.

4583
03:52:09,600 --> 03:52:12,040
Speaker 2: We have people that put in memes, movies, They talk

4584
03:52:12,080 --> 03:52:14,480
Speaker 2: about their pets and their personal lives. We're pretty I'm

4585
03:52:14,520 --> 03:52:16,560
Speaker 2: pretty active, Sophia. Are you pretty active in there?

4586
03:52:16,680 --> 03:52:19,840
Speaker 1: I lurk I sometimes. I I literally kind of just

4587
03:52:19,880 --> 03:52:22,520
Speaker 1: stay in my room. Yeah, Sam, Yeah, I just stay

4588
03:52:22,560 --> 03:52:25,840
Speaker 1: in my room and I respond sometimes. But I'm always looking.

4589
03:52:25,920 --> 03:52:29,360
Speaker 1: I'm always lurking, I actually I think. I yeah, I

4590
03:52:29,400 --> 03:52:32,960
Speaker 1: always read everything that's in my I don't go anywhere

4591
03:52:33,000 --> 03:52:34,640
Speaker 1: else though, So if like you're trying to reach.

4592
03:52:34,560 --> 03:52:35,920
Speaker 2: Me, I probably just got chatter.

4593
03:52:36,120 --> 03:52:37,760
Speaker 1: Yeah you got you have to at me already, won't

4594
03:52:37,760 --> 03:52:41,280
Speaker 1: see it update though. Thank you all so much for

4595
03:52:41,360 --> 03:52:44,080
Speaker 1: the support of comments and helping me realize just how bad.

4596
03:52:44,160 --> 03:52:46,720
Speaker 1: My trauma from my family really is. Though I have

4597
03:52:46,840 --> 03:52:49,320
Speaker 1: been no contact for a while, they still had access

4598
03:52:49,360 --> 03:52:52,000
Speaker 1: to my social media and the off chance they decided

4599
03:52:52,040 --> 03:52:53,360
Speaker 1: to apologize.

4600
03:52:52,880 --> 03:52:55,720
Speaker 2: Oh wow, that's was it a half assed or like

4601
03:52:55,760 --> 03:52:56,280
Speaker 2: a real one?

4602
03:52:56,840 --> 03:52:57,880
Speaker 1: No, they haven't apologized.

4603
03:52:57,880 --> 03:52:58,480
Speaker 2: Oh they haven't.

4604
03:52:58,520 --> 03:53:01,120
Speaker 1: No, in case they decide to my bad, my bad. Yeah,

4605
03:53:01,240 --> 03:53:03,960
Speaker 1: you all helped me understand that simply was not going

4606
03:53:04,000 --> 03:53:06,560
Speaker 1: to happen. I'm going to be blocking my family on

4607
03:53:06,680 --> 03:53:09,800
Speaker 1: all platforms and keeping any and all information about myself

4608
03:53:09,880 --> 03:53:12,240
Speaker 1: and my baby's away from them and their entitled behavior.

4609
03:53:12,640 --> 03:53:13,520
Speaker 1: Thank you all again.

4610
03:53:14,080 --> 03:53:14,800
Speaker 2: I love you, guys.

4611
03:53:17,920 --> 03:53:20,040
Speaker 1: I'm glad that you know. I'm glad that you went

4612
03:53:20,400 --> 03:53:25,200
Speaker 1: mostly no contact because that, yeah, that's not okay. That's

4613
03:53:25,240 --> 03:53:27,120
Speaker 1: not okay behavior, even if it's from your family.

4614
03:53:27,880 --> 03:53:33,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, not not they Yeah, it's so tough. I don't

4615
03:53:33,240 --> 03:53:35,480
Speaker 2: feel this pressure from my family because I live in

4616
03:53:35,480 --> 03:53:37,360
Speaker 2: the South and they're like, when it comes to children,

4617
03:53:37,400 --> 03:53:39,840
Speaker 2: they want you to have children. I we got our

4618
03:53:39,880 --> 03:53:43,920
Speaker 2: first like great grandkid from my great grandfather, from my

4619
03:53:44,000 --> 03:53:47,600
Speaker 2: grand great grandfather, so we have that figured out. Thankfully,

4620
03:53:47,680 --> 03:53:50,000
Speaker 2: that pressure wasn't on me, but I definitely see where

4621
03:53:50,040 --> 03:53:52,520
Speaker 2: that pressure is coming. From the south of having kids

4622
03:53:52,600 --> 03:53:55,320
Speaker 2: and like family traditions and things like that. It's it's

4623
03:53:55,400 --> 03:53:58,000
Speaker 2: really tough. It's so tough. Yeah. Yeah.

4624
03:53:58,040 --> 03:54:00,440
Speaker 1: Also, Bubbles, thank you for the five bucks you say.

4625
03:54:00,840 --> 03:54:03,200
Speaker 1: Thank you all. Sharing the story has been very therapeutic

4626
03:54:03,280 --> 03:54:05,360
Speaker 1: for me as I process the trauma I have. Yeah,

4627
03:54:05,440 --> 03:54:07,600
Speaker 1: thank you so much for sharing it. That was very

4628
03:54:07,640 --> 03:54:10,720
Speaker 1: brave of you. Uh yeah, yeah, you are not the

4629
03:54:10,800 --> 03:54:15,400
Speaker 1: a hole. And I think a lot of people are saying, yeah,

4630
03:54:15,440 --> 03:54:19,280
Speaker 1: if if anyone has any advice about what Bubbles can

4631
03:54:19,360 --> 03:54:22,560
Speaker 1: do or if you know, yeah, anyone who's been in

4632
03:54:22,640 --> 03:54:27,200
Speaker 1: those situations, please yeah, get in the chat. I love

4633
03:54:27,280 --> 03:54:29,960
Speaker 1: the community that we have. And be supportive.

4634
03:54:30,080 --> 03:54:33,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, be supportive. Yeah, because I support you, Bubbles, You

4635
03:54:33,760 --> 03:54:36,520
Speaker 2: support you and how many children you want, because that's

4636
03:54:36,600 --> 03:54:39,400
Speaker 2: your choice. That is your choice, your doctor's choice. Anyone

4637
03:54:39,440 --> 03:54:43,200
Speaker 2: else's not your doctor's choice. Still throws me off, like yeah,

4638
03:54:43,520 --> 03:54:44,280
Speaker 2: well people do.

4639
03:54:44,600 --> 03:54:48,560
Speaker 1: That is like a big thing about women trying to

4640
03:54:48,560 --> 03:54:49,360
Speaker 1: get their tubes tied.

4641
03:54:49,960 --> 03:54:50,120
Speaker 2: Uh.

4642
03:54:50,640 --> 03:54:53,560
Speaker 1: They'll go to a doctor and the doctor's like, well,

4643
03:54:53,720 --> 03:54:57,800
Speaker 1: what does your husband think? And it's like that's not One,

4644
03:54:57,840 --> 03:54:59,920
Speaker 1: that's not his decision, and two they probably already had

4645
03:55:00,160 --> 03:55:02,400
Speaker 1: conversation about it, and it's still so hard to get

4646
03:55:02,400 --> 03:55:04,320
Speaker 1: your tube sided as a woman, like they won't even

4647
03:55:04,360 --> 03:55:07,680
Speaker 1: if you've had children. They're like, oh, well you might,

4648
03:55:08,000 --> 03:55:10,000
Speaker 1: you might change your mind. It's like, no, I've already

4649
03:55:10,000 --> 03:55:14,200
Speaker 1: thought about it. Stop yeah, yeah, so stop stop button in.

4650
03:55:15,240 --> 03:55:18,560
Speaker 1: I mean I understood they probably already did research on

4651
03:55:18,600 --> 03:55:20,640
Speaker 1: the whole thing. Yeah, they've alady, they've already done research.

4652
03:55:20,720 --> 03:55:22,960
Speaker 1: And also it's not even the doctor being like, hey,

4653
03:55:23,160 --> 03:55:26,240
Speaker 1: here's all the information. It's literally like so hard to

4654
03:55:26,320 --> 03:55:28,680
Speaker 1: do it, like they will. They will say no, like

4655
03:55:28,720 --> 03:55:30,280
Speaker 1: I won't do if you're a certain age, will say no.

4656
03:55:30,480 --> 03:55:32,600
Speaker 1: If you've had multiple children, they still say no. It's

4657
03:55:32,640 --> 03:55:36,920
Speaker 1: like there's so many yeah, so many things, and it

4658
03:55:37,080 --> 03:55:39,320
Speaker 1: really just comes down to what you want and what

4659
03:55:39,480 --> 03:55:43,520
Speaker 1: you want to do with your body. And then hippie

4660
03:55:43,520 --> 03:55:45,720
Speaker 1: mommy says, my girlfriend went to get her tuops tied

4661
03:55:45,800 --> 03:55:48,160
Speaker 1: in her thirties with her boyfriend and they turned to

4662
03:55:48,280 --> 03:55:50,480
Speaker 1: him and asked if he was okay with her getting

4663
03:55:50,520 --> 03:55:53,280
Speaker 1: it done. I've heard so many stories about that happening.

4664
03:55:53,600 --> 03:55:56,800
Speaker 1: It's like, why why are you getting like why do

4665
03:55:56,840 --> 03:56:00,600
Speaker 1: you need the man's permission? It's her body. It makes

4666
03:56:00,600 --> 03:56:03,920
Speaker 1: me angry. But hopefully what won't make me angry is

4667
03:56:03,960 --> 03:56:05,680
Speaker 1: this next story that's true.

4668
03:56:05,680 --> 03:56:07,600
Speaker 2: Oh I do have a kind of an okay story.

4669
03:56:07,680 --> 03:56:09,600
Speaker 2: Yeah it's a rant. Okay, So I was at church

4670
03:56:09,640 --> 03:56:11,600
Speaker 2: the other day and he was talking about news and

4671
03:56:11,680 --> 03:56:14,560
Speaker 2: how like if you think about the aspect of news

4672
03:56:14,760 --> 03:56:18,280
Speaker 2: and I apply this to politics, dang it, I don't

4673
03:56:18,280 --> 03:56:19,480
Speaker 2: want this to be a rant. I'll make it sure.

4674
03:56:19,840 --> 03:56:22,440
Speaker 2: So like news, Thank you Gay Howl for the five book.

4675
03:56:23,080 --> 03:56:25,280
Speaker 2: Back in the day, whenever you heard news, it's like, oh,

4676
03:56:26,040 --> 03:56:29,160
Speaker 2: this person house is like on fire. What you do

4677
03:56:29,360 --> 03:56:30,760
Speaker 2: is like you can go and help out and like,

4678
03:56:31,200 --> 03:56:33,120
Speaker 2: you know, have a little influence on the news or

4679
03:56:33,200 --> 03:56:35,240
Speaker 2: like if something happens, like oh the cows got out,

4680
03:56:35,240 --> 03:56:37,000
Speaker 2: you can like go help with the cows. But nowadays,

4681
03:56:37,080 --> 03:56:40,440
Speaker 2: like something happens and we don't really have any influence.

4682
03:56:40,480 --> 03:56:41,720
Speaker 2: We just have to take it. And it kind of

4683
03:56:41,760 --> 03:56:43,760
Speaker 2: made me sad if like how news has gotten that

4684
03:56:43,840 --> 03:56:44,280
Speaker 2: big and we.

4685
03:56:45,800 --> 03:56:48,760
Speaker 1: Longer small stuff that you actually help with. It's just

4686
03:56:49,000 --> 03:56:50,320
Speaker 1: an overwhelming.

4687
03:56:49,800 --> 03:56:52,880
Speaker 2: Amount of Yeah, that's why I don't like pay attention

4688
03:56:52,920 --> 03:56:54,720
Speaker 2: to politics, because I'm like, what's the guy in that

4689
03:56:54,800 --> 03:56:56,920
Speaker 2: dump him? Hat's gonna do? You know? He can go

4690
03:56:57,080 --> 03:56:59,120
Speaker 2: enjoy life rather than being like mad about everything that's

4691
03:56:59,120 --> 03:56:59,800
Speaker 2: happened around him.

4692
03:57:00,160 --> 03:57:02,640
Speaker 1: I have a different take on it, and I you know,

4693
03:57:02,760 --> 03:57:06,200
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't crap on anyone as different different

4694
03:57:06,240 --> 03:57:10,080
Speaker 1: takes for me, but I do think that there are

4695
03:57:10,360 --> 03:57:12,800
Speaker 1: especially at the local level, you can definitely make a difference.

4696
03:57:13,240 --> 03:57:15,680
Speaker 1: But I understand why it feels a little bit overwhelming

4697
03:57:16,080 --> 03:57:19,480
Speaker 1: for people, like getting all of this news, all this

4698
03:57:19,720 --> 03:57:25,480
Speaker 1: worldwide news every minute. Yeah, it can be, it can

4699
03:57:25,560 --> 03:57:28,000
Speaker 1: be pretty overwhelming, But I do I still think that,

4700
03:57:28,200 --> 03:57:31,240
Speaker 1: you know, when you can vote on things that affect you,

4701
03:57:31,480 --> 03:57:34,800
Speaker 1: that is important for me, point for you. But I yeah,

4702
03:57:34,840 --> 03:57:37,440
Speaker 1: don't don't enforce your stuff on other people, though, you.

4703
03:57:37,480 --> 03:57:39,480
Speaker 2: Know what I want you to enforce on me. His

4704
03:57:39,600 --> 03:57:44,280
Speaker 2: story like that, I didn't like this a segue.

4705
03:57:45,040 --> 03:57:47,920
Speaker 1: You said it? Yeah, I know, I know, you gotta

4706
03:57:48,080 --> 03:57:50,160
Speaker 1: you gotta go with it. What are we on? S?

4707
03:57:50,240 --> 03:57:51,040
Speaker 2: Two s?

4708
03:57:52,520 --> 03:57:55,960
Speaker 1: Let's get into it. Am I the a hole for

4709
03:57:56,040 --> 03:57:58,040
Speaker 1: breaking up with my fiance due.

4710
03:57:58,080 --> 03:58:01,640
Speaker 2: To my oh ooh to your own mother's your own

4711
03:58:01,680 --> 03:58:02,440
Speaker 2: mother interesting?

4712
03:58:02,760 --> 03:58:07,040
Speaker 1: Intriguing? So this situation oh wait, sorry, so no Shine

4713
03:58:07,120 --> 03:58:10,600
Speaker 1: fifty three thirty says, so this situation is just eft

4714
03:58:10,760 --> 03:58:13,640
Speaker 1: all around. So me twenty six male, and my now

4715
03:58:13,760 --> 03:58:17,080
Speaker 1: ex fiance, twenty seven female. I'd been dating for a

4716
03:58:17,120 --> 03:58:19,960
Speaker 1: little over four years when I asked her to marry

4717
03:58:20,040 --> 03:58:21,040
Speaker 1: me and she said yes.

4718
03:58:23,280 --> 03:58:23,520
Speaker 2: Nice.

4719
03:58:23,800 --> 03:58:26,520
Speaker 1: Now here's the problem. As we were planning about the

4720
03:58:26,600 --> 03:58:28,520
Speaker 1: new house we were going to buy, I talked to

4721
03:58:28,600 --> 03:58:31,600
Speaker 1: her about a room for my mother, sixties female, as

4722
03:58:31,640 --> 03:58:33,960
Speaker 1: she'd lived with us after we got married. I had

4723
03:58:34,040 --> 03:58:35,960
Speaker 1: discussed with her a lot of times when we were

4724
03:58:36,000 --> 03:58:38,200
Speaker 1: dating that my mom would live with us because, simply put,

4725
03:58:38,600 --> 03:58:40,640
Speaker 1: I'm an only child and my mom raised me as

4726
03:58:40,680 --> 03:58:43,640
Speaker 1: a single mother after she divorced my father from abuse.

4727
03:58:44,240 --> 03:58:46,880
Speaker 1: She never had a new boyfriend, nor did she ever remarry.

4728
03:58:46,920 --> 03:58:50,600
Speaker 1: Her entire life was dedicating to raising me alone. And also,

4729
03:58:50,720 --> 03:58:53,360
Speaker 1: me and my mom are each other's only living relative.

4730
03:58:53,560 --> 03:58:55,200
Speaker 1: We have no family besides each other.

4731
03:58:55,720 --> 03:58:58,840
Speaker 2: Whoa, whoa, that's crazy.

4732
03:58:59,160 --> 03:59:02,080
Speaker 1: I mean, good on the mom, but I'm worried that

4733
03:59:02,120 --> 03:59:03,680
Speaker 1: there might be a little bit of a mama's boy

4734
03:59:03,840 --> 03:59:04,480
Speaker 1: theme coming.

4735
03:59:04,800 --> 03:59:05,040
Speaker 3: Yeah.

4736
03:59:09,840 --> 03:59:13,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, Daddy Jesse says we should do horrible mother in

4737
03:59:13,480 --> 03:59:16,320
Speaker 1: law stories on Mother's Day. I feel like that maybe

4738
03:59:16,680 --> 03:59:21,480
Speaker 1: goes against the point of Mother's Day. Yeah, maybe we'll

4739
03:59:21,480 --> 03:59:23,400
Speaker 1: do both we'll do horrible and wholesome.

4740
03:59:24,160 --> 03:59:26,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, where was I?

4741
03:59:26,400 --> 03:59:29,600
Speaker 1: My fiance said that she did not want my mother

4742
03:59:29,760 --> 03:59:32,080
Speaker 1: living with us, and when I asked about why she

4743
03:59:32,160 --> 03:59:34,320
Speaker 1: didn't say anything when we were dating, she said that

4744
03:59:34,400 --> 03:59:36,320
Speaker 1: I thought she thought I'd get over it and we

4745
03:59:36,360 --> 03:59:39,840
Speaker 1: could put her in a home. And this I absolutely refused.

4746
03:59:40,440 --> 03:59:43,200
Speaker 1: I was furious because my mom had always treated her

4747
03:59:43,240 --> 03:59:45,520
Speaker 1: as her own daughter and has never been one of

4748
03:59:45,560 --> 03:59:47,840
Speaker 1: those crazy mother in laws that are rude and evil.

4749
03:59:49,720 --> 03:59:53,400
Speaker 1: I gave out an ultimatum that if my mother couldn't

4750
03:59:53,440 --> 03:59:56,440
Speaker 1: live with us, we couldn't get married, and yeah, we

4751
03:59:56,640 --> 04:00:05,360
Speaker 1: broke up. WHOA Okay, Okay, Okay, I think I think

4752
04:00:05,400 --> 04:00:10,360
Speaker 1: it's a little bit iffy because I'm leaning towards not

4753
04:00:10,480 --> 04:00:16,440
Speaker 1: the a hole because Ope specifically said during the thing

4754
04:00:17,240 --> 04:00:19,600
Speaker 1: that it would like during their like at the beginning

4755
04:00:20,120 --> 04:00:23,720
Speaker 1: when they started dating, that like it was a non

4756
04:00:23,840 --> 04:00:27,360
Speaker 1: negotiable that his wife or sorry, his mother would move in.

4757
04:00:27,840 --> 04:00:29,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the only thing.

4758
04:00:29,680 --> 04:00:33,080
Speaker 1: Like I understand. I understand why some people would be like, yeah, well,

4759
04:00:33,120 --> 04:00:35,800
Speaker 1: it's she has a right to say, you know, the

4760
04:00:35,920 --> 04:00:38,520
Speaker 1: mom shouldn't move in. However, I think because he brought

4761
04:00:38,560 --> 04:00:42,680
Speaker 1: it up and she specifically said she was okay. Yeah,

4762
04:00:44,320 --> 04:00:46,440
Speaker 1: but I also understand why people would say he's an

4763
04:00:46,440 --> 04:00:48,840
Speaker 1: a hole because of like the putting the mother over

4764
04:00:49,080 --> 04:00:53,840
Speaker 1: the the girlfriend or the fiance. They're probably just yeah,

4765
04:00:53,840 --> 04:00:56,480
Speaker 1: someone said they're not compatible, maybe a little bit both

4766
04:00:56,520 --> 04:01:00,280
Speaker 1: the Ale Yet I am I am old. The only

4767
04:01:00,320 --> 04:01:02,280
Speaker 1: reason I'm leaning toward Nawie Ale is because he brought

4768
04:01:02,320 --> 04:01:04,920
Speaker 1: it up. But I feel like she should have just

4769
04:01:05,000 --> 04:01:08,960
Speaker 1: said I'm not comfortable with that at the beginning. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

4770
04:01:09,120 --> 04:01:09,920
Speaker 1: that's the only reason.

4771
04:01:10,240 --> 04:01:15,400
Speaker 2: Communication Yeah again, what communication again?

4772
04:01:16,560 --> 04:01:22,760
Speaker 1: What are you doing? Are you opening a door?

4773
04:01:23,680 --> 04:01:24,680
Speaker 2: Ocation is key?

4774
04:01:24,880 --> 04:01:31,680
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we do, but it's space space work is

4775
04:01:31,760 --> 04:01:34,160
Speaker 1: you have to make it really clear space work.

4776
04:01:34,560 --> 04:01:38,040
Speaker 2: Maybe everyone could hear that.

4777
04:01:38,160 --> 04:01:40,560
Speaker 1: Anyway, Kaylen, thank you for the one buck tip. Just

4778
04:01:40,640 --> 04:01:42,680
Speaker 1: got back from getting all of you a butt ton

4779
04:01:42,760 --> 04:01:45,760
Speaker 1: of more cheese, oh boy, and meat for the boys.

4780
04:01:45,800 --> 04:01:47,960
Speaker 1: If you want, I'll send you some pics and just

4781
04:01:48,040 --> 04:01:50,680
Speaker 1: waiting for Amazon to send me the shipping materials plus

4782
04:01:50,720 --> 04:01:54,040
Speaker 1: a little something extra for you. Please send pics. This

4783
04:01:54,320 --> 04:01:58,120
Speaker 1: cheese is my life. Wait, really, poly do you disagree

4784
04:01:58,160 --> 04:02:01,960
Speaker 1: with me? Says Come on, Sophia, why did I oh

4785
04:02:02,080 --> 04:02:05,080
Speaker 1: the key? I thought you were like come on, Sophia,

4786
04:02:05,480 --> 04:02:06,400
Speaker 1: not the ahles.

4787
04:02:07,960 --> 04:02:09,760
Speaker 2: He was pretty good. Sorry. A lot of people are

4788
04:02:09,800 --> 04:02:13,480
Speaker 2: saying not the ahole. Yeah, interesting, not the ahole on

4789
04:02:13,840 --> 04:02:14,800
Speaker 2: the husband.

4790
04:02:14,920 --> 04:02:18,040
Speaker 1: I yeah, I kind of agree. Usually I'm like something

4791
04:02:18,040 --> 04:02:20,120
Speaker 1: like on the in these cases where like it's the mom,

4792
04:02:20,640 --> 04:02:22,360
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, he's kind of my mama's boy. But

4793
04:02:22,680 --> 04:02:25,400
Speaker 1: he told he said he set the parameters at the

4794
04:02:25,440 --> 04:02:27,840
Speaker 1: beginning of the relationship. M hm. So yeah, And there

4795
04:02:27,920 --> 04:02:30,240
Speaker 1: is there's an edit that adds a little bit more information.

4796
04:02:30,560 --> 04:02:33,720
Speaker 2: Oh this might change some yea, yeah, there are a

4797
04:02:33,760 --> 04:02:37,040
Speaker 2: little bit there are a little bit of There is

4798
04:02:37,080 --> 04:02:40,320
Speaker 2: a little bit of a split happening in the chat edit.

4799
04:02:40,520 --> 04:02:42,440
Speaker 1: I should have mentioned this, but our family has a

4800
04:02:42,560 --> 04:02:45,480
Speaker 1: history of dementia, settling in around early sixties, and my

4801
04:02:45,600 --> 04:02:48,520
Speaker 1: mother has started to show signs of forgetfulness. That's why

4802
04:02:48,520 --> 04:02:51,600
Speaker 1: I want to keep her as close as possible. Edit

4803
04:02:51,680 --> 04:02:54,480
Speaker 1: to I will be the primary caregripver. She has plenty

4804
04:02:54,520 --> 04:02:56,440
Speaker 1: of savings to cover the cost of her treatment, and

4805
04:02:56,520 --> 04:02:59,720
Speaker 1: two apartments in her name well she currently lives in

4806
04:03:00,000 --> 04:03:02,840
Speaker 1: and one we have put on rent. After moving her

4807
04:03:02,880 --> 04:03:04,440
Speaker 1: in with me, I will sell one of them and

4808
04:03:04,520 --> 04:03:07,320
Speaker 1: will hire a full time nurse after her dementia starts

4809
04:03:07,320 --> 04:03:10,520
Speaker 1: getting worse. We were never planning on having children, nor

4810
04:03:10,640 --> 04:03:12,600
Speaker 1: did I ever expect her to quit her job or

4811
04:03:12,640 --> 04:03:14,720
Speaker 1: stay at home to take care of my mother. I

4812
04:03:14,960 --> 04:03:18,720
Speaker 1: understand that it'll be tough, and it should be majorly

4813
04:03:18,800 --> 04:03:23,440
Speaker 1: my responsibility, but she raised me through tough times all

4814
04:03:23,520 --> 04:03:25,440
Speaker 1: on her own, and I will not turn my back

4815
04:03:25,520 --> 04:03:27,640
Speaker 1: on her now that it's my turn to help her.

4816
04:03:28,520 --> 04:03:31,040
Speaker 1: My mother has only recently started showing signs of dementia.

4817
04:03:31,480 --> 04:03:33,520
Speaker 1: Up until a few years ago, she was doing just fine,

4818
04:03:33,600 --> 04:03:37,120
Speaker 1: but now her health is slowly starting to deteriorate. We

4819
04:03:37,240 --> 04:03:40,440
Speaker 1: are independently wealthy due to my mother founding and selling

4820
04:03:40,560 --> 04:03:43,560
Speaker 1: her own company. Well, my money will not be an issue.

4821
04:03:43,600 --> 04:03:45,640
Speaker 1: I can easily easily hire help.

4822
04:03:45,960 --> 04:03:46,360
Speaker 2: Edit three.

4823
04:03:46,880 --> 04:03:49,000
Speaker 1: You all are correct, but my mother living with us

4824
04:03:49,120 --> 04:03:52,240
Speaker 1: is never the only option I suggested. I understand that

4825
04:03:52,320 --> 04:03:54,320
Speaker 1: what I had was a big ask, so I was

4826
04:03:54,480 --> 04:03:57,040
Speaker 1: ready to buy a two story home or something like that,

4827
04:03:57,320 --> 04:03:58,800
Speaker 1: but she just wanted to put her in a home

4828
04:03:58,840 --> 04:04:03,600
Speaker 1: and be done with it. Are some relevant comments. Honestly,

4829
04:04:03,840 --> 04:04:06,400
Speaker 1: fully not the a holding him because he told He

4830
04:04:06,520 --> 04:04:10,200
Speaker 1: told the girlfriend up front. These this is the situation.

4831
04:04:11,800 --> 04:04:15,680
Speaker 1: The opie's mom has like is getting slowly getting dementia

4832
04:04:16,840 --> 04:04:18,360
Speaker 1: such a hard thing to deal with.

4833
04:04:18,560 --> 04:04:21,160
Speaker 2: And it's so hard to deal maybe the only family

4834
04:04:21,240 --> 04:04:24,360
Speaker 2: member and having to take care of her. I'm glad,

4835
04:04:24,560 --> 04:04:27,240
Speaker 2: Like financially they're okay. Like if he needs to get

4836
04:04:27,240 --> 04:04:29,800
Speaker 2: another person to help out, totally fine.

4837
04:04:29,920 --> 04:04:32,480
Speaker 1: And he's not asking He wasn't asking his girlfriend to

4838
04:04:32,560 --> 04:04:34,480
Speaker 1: help out. He wasn't he was saying that he would

4839
04:04:34,480 --> 04:04:37,080
Speaker 1: get a like two story homes so that they you know,

4840
04:04:37,160 --> 04:04:40,920
Speaker 1: they have a little bit of separation. But I I

4841
04:04:41,080 --> 04:04:44,840
Speaker 1: think that's a fair thing, especially because the girlfriend said

4842
04:04:44,880 --> 04:04:46,960
Speaker 1: she was okay with it and then took that back.

4843
04:04:47,080 --> 04:04:49,480
Speaker 2: So what did did she explain why she's not okay

4844
04:04:49,520 --> 04:04:51,240
Speaker 2: with it? Like does she not want to be around them?

4845
04:04:51,400 --> 04:04:53,160
Speaker 1: Maybe just doesn't want to be around it, like doesn't

4846
04:04:53,160 --> 04:04:56,040
Speaker 1: want to have that, you know, responsibility.

4847
04:04:56,720 --> 04:04:58,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think not the a hill though I'm on

4848
04:04:58,640 --> 04:05:03,560
Speaker 2: the okay everyone else is, It's uh not the a whole. Yeah,

4849
04:05:03,560 --> 04:05:05,480
Speaker 2: and we have few people who said he's.

4850
04:05:05,040 --> 04:05:09,520
Speaker 1: A fragrant mama's boy. I agree, Lily, Yeah, but there

4851
04:05:09,560 --> 04:05:11,880
Speaker 1: are some relevant comings. So let's see what everyone else

4852
04:05:11,960 --> 04:05:16,520
Speaker 1: is saying. Katrina Ballerina, I'm confused, is your mother currently

4853
04:05:16,600 --> 04:05:19,560
Speaker 1: living with you, assuming she doesn't. What's different? What difference

4854
04:05:19,560 --> 04:05:21,720
Speaker 1: does it make if she can currently care for herself. Well,

4855
04:05:21,720 --> 04:05:24,840
Speaker 1: we already know that how far away is or will

4856
04:05:24,920 --> 04:05:27,480
Speaker 1: be your house from hers, she could easily come over

4857
04:05:27,520 --> 04:05:29,920
Speaker 1: to care for your child, or vice versa. You honestly

4858
04:05:29,960 --> 04:05:31,600
Speaker 1: sound like you put your mom as a priority over

4859
04:05:31,640 --> 04:05:34,600
Speaker 1: anyone else. Okay, OPI does respond to that, But we

4860
04:05:34,680 --> 04:05:38,920
Speaker 1: already know what's different. She's like, she has dementia and

4861
04:05:38,960 --> 04:05:41,480
Speaker 1: it's getting worse. We already know why that's different.

4862
04:05:42,040 --> 04:05:43,440
Speaker 2: He is the only family member.

4863
04:05:43,600 --> 04:05:46,920
Speaker 1: He's the only family member, And it is a totally

4864
04:05:47,080 --> 04:05:49,800
Speaker 1: fair thing to be like, hey, I don't want to

4865
04:05:49,880 --> 04:05:52,800
Speaker 1: put my mom in a home. Yeah, if you have

4866
04:05:52,880 --> 04:05:55,680
Speaker 1: the capability to take care of your parents and you

4867
04:05:55,720 --> 04:05:58,680
Speaker 1: have the time and the willingness, it is a hard

4868
04:05:58,800 --> 04:06:01,160
Speaker 1: thing to do. And I totally support people who are

4869
04:06:01,240 --> 04:06:03,560
Speaker 1: like I just can't take I don't have that time,

4870
04:06:03,600 --> 04:06:06,520
Speaker 1: I don't have the money, and it's you know, easier

4871
04:06:07,280 --> 04:06:11,120
Speaker 1: for everyone involved, including the parents, to you know, put

4872
04:06:11,120 --> 04:06:11,960
Speaker 1: them in a nursing home.

4873
04:06:12,360 --> 04:06:12,640
Speaker 2: But like.

4874
04:06:14,320 --> 04:06:15,960
Speaker 1: It is, that's a tough decision to make, and for

4875
04:06:16,080 --> 04:06:17,960
Speaker 1: people who don't want to do that, I totally understand.

4876
04:06:18,080 --> 04:06:19,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

4877
04:06:20,280 --> 04:06:23,000
Speaker 1: Opie says she currently lives in an apartment about an

4878
04:06:23,040 --> 04:06:24,960
Speaker 1: hour away from where I work. She can take care

4879
04:06:25,000 --> 04:06:28,360
Speaker 1: of her herself, but only through basic things and cannot

4880
04:06:28,440 --> 04:06:31,200
Speaker 1: drive anymore. Sands, our family has a history of dementia

4881
04:06:31,240 --> 04:06:34,320
Speaker 1: starting around lower sixties. I want to keep her close by.

4882
04:06:34,600 --> 04:06:37,720
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's an hour away. Yeah, I know what

4883
04:06:37,800 --> 04:06:40,360
Speaker 2: it's like being an hour away from someone, and that's

4884
04:06:40,720 --> 04:06:41,240
Speaker 2: so tough.

4885
04:06:41,560 --> 04:06:46,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, and also even for like parents that because I know,

4886
04:06:46,480 --> 04:06:48,560
Speaker 1: you know, we actually have a neighbor who is dementia

4887
04:06:48,640 --> 04:06:50,920
Speaker 1: and lives on her own, but then like the family

4888
04:06:51,280 --> 04:06:54,720
Speaker 1: lives like two doors down. Even that she was able,

4889
04:06:54,800 --> 04:06:56,960
Speaker 1: like Sam told a story about how on here actually

4890
04:06:57,040 --> 04:07:00,320
Speaker 1: oh yeah, about how she left the house and was

4891
04:07:00,320 --> 04:07:03,240
Speaker 1: just walking like had fallen on the street in the morning,

4892
04:07:03,720 --> 04:07:05,600
Speaker 1: and so like, even if you're not living in the hat,

4893
04:07:05,720 --> 04:07:08,000
Speaker 1: like you're living close but not the same houses, that's

4894
04:07:08,040 --> 04:07:10,920
Speaker 1: also kind of dangerous if someone has dementia.

4895
04:07:11,040 --> 04:07:13,480
Speaker 2: Mm hmmmm hmmm, yeah not.

4896
04:07:13,560 --> 04:07:15,880
Speaker 1: A creaky Panda says do you want a fiance or

4897
04:07:15,920 --> 04:07:18,480
Speaker 1: a free nurse? Only it sounds like the latter. I

4898
04:07:18,560 --> 04:07:20,640
Speaker 1: don't usually edit my posts, but I forgot to add

4899
04:07:20,760 --> 04:07:22,720
Speaker 1: it's odd that Opie only wants his mom to move

4900
04:07:22,760 --> 04:07:25,120
Speaker 1: in after he's married and not before if she needs

4901
04:07:25,160 --> 04:07:27,520
Speaker 1: that much help, Opie responds, I take care of my

4902
04:07:27,600 --> 04:07:29,680
Speaker 1: mother as much as possible. I don't expect her to

4903
04:07:29,680 --> 04:07:32,160
Speaker 1: stay at home and cater to my mother's wishes, as

4904
04:07:32,200 --> 04:07:34,160
Speaker 1: she has her own job in life. But I cannot

4905
04:07:34,200 --> 04:07:35,600
Speaker 1: let my elderly mother live alone.

4906
04:07:35,760 --> 04:07:37,880
Speaker 2: Wait, so does he have a house now or are

4907
04:07:37,920 --> 04:07:42,640
Speaker 2: they gonna get a house whenever they get married. I think.

4908
04:07:44,520 --> 04:07:45,920
Speaker 1: We're planning on buying a new house.

4909
04:07:46,360 --> 04:07:47,360
Speaker 2: Oh that makes sense that.

4910
04:07:47,560 --> 04:07:48,960
Speaker 1: I think that makes sense because he's like, can we

4911
04:07:49,000 --> 04:07:50,680
Speaker 1: buy a house that has enough room for my mom?

4912
04:07:50,840 --> 04:07:52,600
Speaker 2: Yeah? Like they're gonna get married get a house. Yeah,

4913
04:07:52,600 --> 04:07:53,360
Speaker 2: that makes total sense.

4914
04:07:53,400 --> 04:07:57,000
Speaker 1: I feel like the comments. I disagree with them. I

4915
04:07:57,120 --> 04:08:00,560
Speaker 1: disagree with them. Kim Kwant says taking care if someone

4916
04:08:00,600 --> 04:08:02,840
Speaker 1: with advancing dimension is a lot more work than anyone

4917
04:08:02,880 --> 04:08:06,560
Speaker 1: who hasn't experienced it, can imagine. Totally agree. Yeah, totally agreed.

4918
04:08:06,600 --> 04:08:10,000
Speaker 1: But I also like he has been He said that

4919
04:08:10,120 --> 04:08:12,320
Speaker 1: he would be okay with getting some help about the house.

4920
04:08:12,360 --> 04:08:13,720
Speaker 1: He just wants them in the house.

4921
04:08:14,000 --> 04:08:17,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, no, I I think it's.

4922
04:08:17,000 --> 04:08:19,320
Speaker 1: Fine if at the beginning, she was like, hey, I

4923
04:08:19,640 --> 04:08:21,120
Speaker 1: don't think I'm up for that, Like, I don't think

4924
04:08:21,160 --> 04:08:23,040
Speaker 1: I can handle that. But the girlfriend said she was

4925
04:08:23,080 --> 04:08:25,520
Speaker 1: okay and then kind of took it back. That's the

4926
04:08:25,680 --> 04:08:30,560
Speaker 1: only reason why I'm like, you know, yeah, but there

4927
04:08:30,640 --> 04:08:33,120
Speaker 1: is an update. Also, thank you Caitlin for the one buck.

4928
04:08:33,360 --> 04:08:35,520
Speaker 1: Sophia sent you the cheese picks, and Riley I sent

4929
04:08:35,560 --> 04:08:37,360
Speaker 1: you the picks of the meat ho if you like it.

4930
04:08:38,640 --> 04:08:40,680
Speaker 1: I'm so excited, very excited.

4931
04:08:41,000 --> 04:08:46,240
Speaker 2: He's at yeah, pro tad. I just get so happy

4932
04:08:46,280 --> 04:08:48,320
Speaker 2: think about protein. I get happy think about you on

4933
04:08:48,400 --> 04:08:51,240
Speaker 2: my like on my like Jim grind right now, or

4934
04:08:51,440 --> 04:08:53,000
Speaker 2: getting one hundred fifty grands protein?

4935
04:08:53,400 --> 04:08:55,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, what what is our next? Is our next thing?

4936
04:08:56,040 --> 04:08:59,360
Speaker 2: Nine hundred nine? Like we wore four thousand chats were

4937
04:08:59,480 --> 04:09:01,400
Speaker 2: so close to both were four.

4938
04:09:01,440 --> 04:09:06,560
Speaker 1: Likes away from nine hundred. Let me know, almost scared.

4939
04:09:06,840 --> 04:09:08,240
Speaker 2: Sorry, I'm just scared. So happy.

4940
04:09:09,600 --> 04:09:11,600
Speaker 1: I'm really funny. I mean fun not funny.

4941
04:09:11,920 --> 04:09:12,640
Speaker 2: It's funny funy.

4942
04:09:12,640 --> 04:09:17,880
Speaker 1: It's funny too, I suppose. But let's read ay anonymous critter,

4943
04:09:18,000 --> 04:09:22,240
Speaker 1: none of that. Uh, let's read the update though. So

4944
04:09:22,760 --> 04:09:25,040
Speaker 1: I talked with my mother about the wedding being canceled

4945
04:09:25,120 --> 04:09:27,800
Speaker 1: and why it was happening, and well got a very

4946
04:09:27,880 --> 04:09:31,600
Speaker 1: tight slap across my face metaphorically did almost lap you.

4947
04:09:32,800 --> 04:09:35,600
Speaker 1: My mother was disappointed with the idea of my ultimatum,

4948
04:09:35,680 --> 04:09:37,440
Speaker 1: and she felt that I was reducing her down to

4949
04:09:37,520 --> 04:09:39,760
Speaker 1: a burden when she wasn't one just yet.

4950
04:09:42,200 --> 04:09:42,360
Speaker 6: It was.

4951
04:09:44,240 --> 04:09:45,920
Speaker 1: There is a burden. He's just like I want her

4952
04:09:46,000 --> 04:09:46,480
Speaker 1: around me.

4953
04:09:46,840 --> 04:09:47,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know.

4954
04:09:48,080 --> 04:09:51,320
Speaker 1: I feel like everyone disagrees in this, like not our chat,

4955
04:09:51,360 --> 04:09:52,160
Speaker 1: but in this chat.

4956
04:09:52,520 --> 04:09:53,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I don't know.

4957
04:09:53,960 --> 04:09:56,520
Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't know. It was also stated

4958
04:09:56,600 --> 04:09:58,440
Speaker 1: she come live with me and I got married. This

4959
04:09:59,680 --> 04:10:02,200
Speaker 1: was not the way my mother expected me to handle

4960
04:10:02,280 --> 04:10:03,280
Speaker 1: the situation.

4961
04:10:03,160 --> 04:10:04,120
Speaker 2: Better I see you.

4962
04:10:04,720 --> 04:10:07,160
Speaker 1: In her words, I'd just be throwing her harder money

4963
04:10:07,200 --> 04:10:09,800
Speaker 1: in a pit because of my own selfishness, and that

4964
04:10:09,920 --> 04:10:11,800
Speaker 1: she did not raise me to be this incan throat

4965
04:10:11,880 --> 04:10:14,640
Speaker 1: of my significant other. She explained things to me and

4966
04:10:14,680 --> 04:10:18,160
Speaker 1: showed my fiance's perspective perspective in a much clearer light.

4967
04:10:19,280 --> 04:10:21,640
Speaker 1: She said she did not she did want and expect

4968
04:10:21,680 --> 04:10:23,480
Speaker 1: to live with us, but not forever and not that

4969
04:10:23,640 --> 04:10:26,800
Speaker 1: soon after I got married. I guess he should have

4970
04:10:26,880 --> 04:10:29,440
Speaker 1: talked to his mom. Yeah, that is something that maybe

4971
04:10:29,480 --> 04:10:31,160
Speaker 1: he should have talked to his mom before, you know,

4972
04:10:31,680 --> 04:10:33,920
Speaker 1: or had that conversation with the mom and the fiance.

4973
04:10:33,720 --> 04:10:37,880
Speaker 2: Especially now whenever she's still here. Yeah, like with the Minsha,

4974
04:10:38,080 --> 04:10:38,440
Speaker 2: you know what.

4975
04:10:38,680 --> 04:10:41,080
Speaker 1: I'm still I'm still not thinking he's the ahole, but

4976
04:10:41,160 --> 04:10:41,400
Speaker 1: I do.

4977
04:10:41,440 --> 04:10:42,920
Speaker 2: Think he should have talked to she, should have had

4978
04:10:42,960 --> 04:10:43,400
Speaker 2: more keys.

4979
04:10:43,640 --> 04:10:48,680
Speaker 1: Yeah. She also said that she would rather rather go

4980
04:10:48,800 --> 04:10:51,280
Speaker 1: into a specialized care home where the professionals could handle

4981
04:10:51,360 --> 04:10:54,080
Speaker 1: her should her illness get worse and changes who she is.

4982
04:10:54,640 --> 04:10:56,480
Speaker 1: I was under the impression that he had talked to

4983
04:10:56,560 --> 04:10:58,720
Speaker 1: his mom, but now it seems like he has the

4984
04:10:58,800 --> 04:11:00,600
Speaker 1: talk of the mom, and so that's why. Yeah, Pirate

4985
04:11:00,720 --> 04:11:02,960
Speaker 1: King Rex gaming, that's why he was the holt. Yeah,

4986
04:11:03,280 --> 04:11:07,360
Speaker 1: he should have spoken to her, should have communicated because

4987
04:11:07,400 --> 04:11:10,120
Speaker 1: she doesn't want that and it should be what she wants,

4988
04:11:10,240 --> 04:11:15,600
Speaker 1: especially while you know she's still lucid about things. I

4989
04:11:15,760 --> 04:11:18,400
Speaker 1: contacted my fiance and we talked and it was all

4990
04:11:18,760 --> 04:11:21,280
Speaker 1: pretty emotional, but it was all for the better. I

4991
04:11:21,400 --> 04:11:24,760
Speaker 1: apologize for my ultimatum and not seeing her perspective better,

4992
04:11:25,200 --> 04:11:27,920
Speaker 1: and she apologized for what she said and that she

4993
04:11:28,080 --> 04:11:29,560
Speaker 1: was wrong for saying that we could put her in

4994
04:11:29,640 --> 04:11:31,800
Speaker 1: a home. She knew how much my mother meant to me.

4995
04:11:31,920 --> 04:11:32,160
Speaker 6: Thank you.

4996
04:11:33,600 --> 04:11:37,520
Speaker 1: She knew how much my mother meant to me, and

4997
04:11:38,280 --> 04:11:41,320
Speaker 1: so she admitted that her insinuating we could just drop

4998
04:11:41,400 --> 04:11:44,240
Speaker 1: her in a home was wrong. I was stupid and

4999
04:11:44,400 --> 04:11:46,800
Speaker 1: naive and could not see beyond my own ideas for

5000
04:11:46,840 --> 04:11:49,200
Speaker 1: a future, which is the worst thing I could have done,

5001
04:11:49,480 --> 04:11:52,960
Speaker 1: especially considering my life is going more than just going

5002
04:11:53,000 --> 04:11:54,560
Speaker 1: to be more than just my own. From now on,

5003
04:11:55,640 --> 04:11:58,640
Speaker 1: we decided that it's best to buy a house and

5004
04:11:58,800 --> 04:12:00,560
Speaker 1: move my mother in with us, at least for the

5005
04:12:00,640 --> 04:12:02,560
Speaker 1: time being, so we can still spend some time with

5006
04:12:02,640 --> 04:12:05,400
Speaker 1: her while she's somewhat healthy and when the time comes.

5007
04:12:09,200 --> 04:12:12,080
Speaker 1: But when the time, and when the time comes, when

5008
04:12:12,120 --> 04:12:14,640
Speaker 1: taking care of her is beyond us, we will put

5009
04:12:14,640 --> 04:12:17,000
Speaker 1: her in a specialized care unit for people with dementia

5010
04:12:17,080 --> 04:12:18,800
Speaker 1: close to our home so we can still visit her

5011
04:12:18,960 --> 04:12:22,800
Speaker 1: as my mother wants. Yeah, that is good. That is good.

5012
04:12:23,520 --> 04:12:25,880
Speaker 1: Though we are still looking into the exact details of

5013
04:12:25,960 --> 04:12:27,960
Speaker 1: this plan, we're both coming out of this as better

5014
04:12:28,000 --> 04:12:30,440
Speaker 1: partners for each other, though this may take a bit

5015
04:12:30,480 --> 04:12:33,240
Speaker 1: of time. We also decided to hold off on the

5016
04:12:33,280 --> 04:12:37,680
Speaker 1: wedding and first try to be better partners first, but

5017
04:12:38,120 --> 04:12:43,280
Speaker 1: we are still engaged. Yay, okay, I yeah again. I

5018
04:12:43,440 --> 04:12:46,200
Speaker 1: still think maybe a little bit ahole just for not

5019
04:12:46,280 --> 04:12:48,600
Speaker 1: talk communicating with his mom, because he definitely should have

5020
04:12:48,640 --> 04:12:51,120
Speaker 1: done that way first. There's a little bit more to

5021
04:12:51,200 --> 04:12:54,080
Speaker 1: the story, but I just wanted to say that. But

5022
04:12:54,200 --> 04:12:55,880
Speaker 1: I'm glad that they kind of all figured it out

5023
04:12:55,880 --> 04:12:57,440
Speaker 1: and spoke to each other. That would have been the

5024
04:12:57,520 --> 04:13:01,560
Speaker 1: first thing. I'm taking a little bit of a turn.

5025
04:13:01,640 --> 04:13:03,600
Speaker 1: I think that should have They should have had more communication.

5026
04:13:03,800 --> 04:13:05,840
Speaker 2: But like they are having that more communication. Yeah, and

5027
04:13:05,960 --> 04:13:07,360
Speaker 2: now they're acting on it, which is good.

5028
04:13:07,440 --> 04:13:07,880
Speaker 1: I'm glad.

5029
04:13:07,960 --> 04:13:10,080
Speaker 2: How is this grid again? Let me look better? Know,

5030
04:13:10,360 --> 04:13:12,320
Speaker 2: I want to see brain's fully developed or not. Yeah,

5031
04:13:12,360 --> 04:13:16,960
Speaker 2: he's twenty six. Oh so his brain is not well

5032
04:13:17,000 --> 04:13:20,600
Speaker 2: and he's making these kind of choices. Yeah, that's crazy.

5033
04:13:21,760 --> 04:13:23,680
Speaker 1: I know there will be challenges, and I know I'm

5034
04:13:23,720 --> 04:13:26,280
Speaker 1: not prepared to handle everything, but more than anything, if

5035
04:13:26,280 --> 04:13:27,600
Speaker 1: I won't be able to take care of my mother

5036
04:13:27,680 --> 04:13:29,560
Speaker 1: in her final moments, then I at least want to

5037
04:13:29,600 --> 04:13:32,800
Speaker 1: spend some time with her while she's still herself. My

5038
04:13:32,920 --> 04:13:35,600
Speaker 1: mother's diagnosis will be next week. I'm hoping that she's

5039
04:13:35,680 --> 04:13:37,720
Speaker 1: just being forgetful due to rage. But if it's not

5040
04:13:37,880 --> 04:13:40,720
Speaker 1: damned illness, then the possible amount of time with my

5041
04:13:40,840 --> 04:13:46,120
Speaker 1: mother is considerably shortened. Uh Top comments Bond forty two says,

5042
04:13:46,520 --> 04:13:50,240
Speaker 1: your mother sounds like an amazing person. Soggy Milk ten

5043
04:13:50,360 --> 04:13:54,040
Speaker 1: zero five says Opie. I say this as a compliment.

5044
04:13:54,400 --> 04:13:57,000
Speaker 1: Your mom is a badass, and I want to be

5045
04:13:57,160 --> 04:14:00,840
Speaker 1: like her when I grew up. She's tough, resilient, loving, wise,

5046
04:14:00,960 --> 04:14:03,360
Speaker 1: and she sounds like the kind of mom who means it.

5047
04:14:03,880 --> 04:14:05,880
Speaker 1: She says she means it when she says she just

5048
04:14:05,920 --> 04:14:08,760
Speaker 1: wants her children to be happy. That last point is

5049
04:14:08,800 --> 04:14:10,720
Speaker 1: something that a lot of parents say, but a lot

5050
04:14:10,800 --> 04:14:13,280
Speaker 1: of them also attach strengths to it. For example, I

5051
04:14:13,400 --> 04:14:14,920
Speaker 1: just want to be happy. My kids to be happy

5052
04:14:14,960 --> 04:14:17,120
Speaker 1: as long as they become a lawyer, a surgeon, or

5053
04:14:17,160 --> 04:14:20,000
Speaker 1: a broker in real estate's finances. Or I just want

5054
04:14:20,040 --> 04:14:21,560
Speaker 1: my kids to be happy as long as they marry

5055
04:14:21,600 --> 04:14:23,840
Speaker 1: someone who meets my standards, because I know what's best

5056
04:14:23,880 --> 04:14:27,400
Speaker 1: for my children. I'm so glad that you were able

5057
04:14:27,480 --> 04:14:29,360
Speaker 1: to really take in what your mom said about your

5058
04:14:29,400 --> 04:14:31,920
Speaker 1: fiance's perspective, and that both of you were able to

5059
04:14:31,960 --> 04:14:34,560
Speaker 1: set aside your hurt feelings and pride so that you

5060
04:14:34,640 --> 04:14:38,600
Speaker 1: could have a real, open, honest, and vulnerable conversation. I

5061
04:14:38,640 --> 04:14:41,200
Speaker 1: would suggest couples counseling because it can help you both

5062
04:14:41,320 --> 04:14:44,000
Speaker 1: learn how to better communicate with each other and learn

5063
04:14:44,080 --> 04:14:46,760
Speaker 1: to develop compromises that truly meet each other each of

5064
04:14:46,800 --> 04:14:49,960
Speaker 1: your needs without resentment. People grow and evolve over time,

5065
04:14:50,080 --> 04:14:52,800
Speaker 1: so marriage, or really any relationship takes a lot of work,

5066
04:14:53,120 --> 04:14:55,120
Speaker 1: and a lot of people wait until there's a problem

5067
04:14:55,200 --> 04:14:56,960
Speaker 1: to get counseling. But if you think of it as

5068
04:14:57,000 --> 04:14:59,760
Speaker 1: a maintenance to keep it going smoothly, it can help

5069
04:14:59,800 --> 04:15:02,480
Speaker 1: you event issues from snowballing into that big problem. It

5070
04:15:02,560 --> 04:15:04,880
Speaker 1: sounds like you guys have a stable foundation when you

5071
04:15:05,560 --> 04:15:08,840
Speaker 1: communicate openly, so counsel can help you strengthen it and

5072
04:15:08,960 --> 04:15:11,600
Speaker 1: build upon it. Enjoy this time with your mom and

5073
04:15:11,800 --> 04:15:14,400
Speaker 1: with your fiance. There's no rush to get married. You're

5074
04:15:14,400 --> 04:15:16,920
Speaker 1: already committed to each other. Just focus on keeping those

5075
04:15:16,960 --> 04:15:22,960
Speaker 1: relationships happy and healthy. I love that ending. I'm glad

5076
04:15:23,000 --> 04:15:23,680
Speaker 1: that they sorted it out.

5077
04:15:23,800 --> 04:15:24,280
Speaker 2: That was awesome.

5078
04:15:24,320 --> 04:15:25,840
Speaker 1: Can we read some of the comments because I think

5079
04:15:25,880 --> 04:15:28,680
Speaker 1: some people Cassie Renee says, still not the a hole

5080
04:15:28,800 --> 04:15:30,560
Speaker 1: he was looking out for his mom and thinking about

5081
04:15:30,560 --> 04:15:33,200
Speaker 1: what was best for her. The fact that he's taking

5082
04:15:33,240 --> 04:15:35,920
Speaker 1: his mom's wishes into consideration makes him even more not

5083
04:15:36,040 --> 04:15:38,400
Speaker 1: the ahle, Yeah, I think there was. I still agree,

5084
04:15:38,480 --> 04:15:39,760
Speaker 1: not the a whole. I think he just should have

5085
04:15:39,800 --> 04:15:41,360
Speaker 1: talked to his mom, like a little bit of the

5086
04:15:41,360 --> 04:15:44,880
Speaker 1: ale for just not talking to his mom. Fran says,

5087
04:15:45,040 --> 04:15:47,960
Speaker 1: my grandpa has Parkinsis and dementia, and he thought he

5088
04:15:48,040 --> 04:15:50,320
Speaker 1: caught a lizard. He wouldn't let it go until I

5089
04:15:50,360 --> 04:15:52,520
Speaker 1: pretended to grab it and set it loose. My aunt

5090
04:15:52,600 --> 04:15:55,640
Speaker 1: wanted me to make and let it lose. My mom

5091
04:15:56,000 --> 04:16:00,600
Speaker 1: to tell him to stop. That's funny. I think, uh

5092
04:16:00,840 --> 04:16:06,400
Speaker 1: what else, uh, Mildred Flamingo, He could have worded differently

5093
04:16:06,480 --> 04:16:09,360
Speaker 1: an extra room for mom if needed. Uh and then

5094
04:16:09,440 --> 04:16:11,400
Speaker 1: Katie Kate straight up his language made it seem like

5095
04:16:11,440 --> 04:16:14,200
Speaker 1: he was just making unilateral decisions for both his fiance

5096
04:16:14,280 --> 04:16:17,440
Speaker 1: and mom. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, it should have been more

5097
04:16:17,480 --> 04:16:18,120
Speaker 1: of a conversation.

5098
04:16:18,200 --> 04:16:20,800
Speaker 2: I think, like, like, it's good where his headspace was.

5099
04:16:20,880 --> 04:16:23,120
Speaker 2: But I think he did the right thing and he

5100
04:16:23,200 --> 04:16:26,720
Speaker 2: and he spoke to both of them and figured it out. Yeah, yeah,

5101
04:16:27,400 --> 04:16:32,480
Speaker 2: this is a what a great great story. Oh why what?

5102
04:16:32,680 --> 04:16:32,840
Speaker 5: Oh?

5103
04:16:33,240 --> 04:16:34,680
Speaker 2: But you know what, do you have anything else you

5104
04:16:34,720 --> 04:16:35,280
Speaker 2: want to add to this?

5105
04:16:36,360 --> 04:16:36,400
Speaker 5: No?

5106
04:16:37,000 --> 04:16:40,080
Speaker 2: Okay, great, because I want to get into this spin

5107
04:16:40,160 --> 04:16:42,640
Speaker 2: the wheel because you guys have been chatting, chatting, chat

5108
04:16:42,720 --> 04:16:46,160
Speaker 2: chatting along. Here we go, Here we go. I want

5109
04:16:46,160 --> 04:16:47,680
Speaker 2: you guys to read some of the stuff on here. Okay,

5110
04:16:48,520 --> 04:16:51,280
Speaker 2: I don't usually like showing it, but right here, we got,

5111
04:16:51,360 --> 04:16:54,720
Speaker 2: we got, we got, we got that yet. Oh that

5112
04:16:54,920 --> 04:16:57,040
Speaker 2: was my favorite. I put that one on there. That's

5113
04:16:57,120 --> 04:17:00,840
Speaker 2: for me, swap. You can imagine what that is. We

5114
04:17:00,920 --> 04:17:03,760
Speaker 2: got treat, We get another treat in here package package.

5115
04:17:03,760 --> 04:17:05,240
Speaker 2: All have to get rid of those because we already

5116
04:17:05,640 --> 04:17:08,200
Speaker 2: open all the packages, unless John wants to go get

5117
04:17:08,240 --> 04:17:10,800
Speaker 2: one because I think one just came into the mill. Yeah.

5118
04:17:11,520 --> 04:17:14,080
Speaker 2: I like it's funny because I go to the post

5119
04:17:14,120 --> 04:17:16,280
Speaker 2: office like always spend a couple of days. I'm a

5120
04:17:16,320 --> 04:17:19,600
Speaker 2: good one, and then there's another one like two hours

5121
04:17:19,680 --> 04:17:23,520
Speaker 2: after I get there. Also, thank you, Indy. How do

5122
04:17:23,600 --> 04:17:23,960
Speaker 2: you say that?

5123
04:17:24,720 --> 04:17:25,160
Speaker 1: Indeed?

5124
04:17:25,520 --> 04:17:28,240
Speaker 2: Pindi Indie de Pendee, Sophia's voice is making me go

5125
04:17:28,320 --> 04:17:30,880
Speaker 2: to sleep? Oh that a good thing? Is? Are you

5126
04:17:30,880 --> 04:17:34,240
Speaker 2: trying to make people sleep? Okay? I think that does

5127
04:17:34,320 --> 04:17:36,400
Speaker 2: a good thing. All right, we're gonna spend this well,

5128
04:17:36,440 --> 04:17:36,720
Speaker 2: here we.

5129
04:17:36,760 --> 04:17:39,680
Speaker 4: Go, sound effects.

5130
04:17:39,720 --> 04:17:49,680
Speaker 2: Here we go, all right, then on it. I think

5131
04:17:49,760 --> 04:17:54,520
Speaker 2: we did never replace dude a cage slightly the same spot,

5132
04:17:57,600 --> 04:18:02,760
Speaker 2: so wop. Yes, where I'm gonna go. Guess where I'm

5133
04:18:02,800 --> 04:18:06,840
Speaker 2: gonna go. And Sophia and I are gonna swoop for

5134
04:18:06,920 --> 04:18:12,640
Speaker 2: one story because I have dyslexic. Because I'm dyslexic and

5135
04:18:12,760 --> 04:18:17,760
Speaker 2: I can't really read that much. Okay, okay, he gets

5136
04:18:17,800 --> 04:18:21,480
Speaker 2: to eat her food. Oh this one's long. Oh my gosh,

5137
04:18:21,560 --> 04:18:25,560
Speaker 2: this one so long? Did I shoot choose a short one?

5138
04:18:25,960 --> 04:18:28,800
Speaker 2: People like to hear her voice? Okay, let me go

5139
04:18:28,880 --> 04:18:30,400
Speaker 2: to a short one, guys, all right, so close, I'm

5140
04:18:30,440 --> 04:18:34,320
Speaker 2: gonna read for you guys. And Sophia is eating her food.

5141
04:18:34,400 --> 04:18:36,120
Speaker 2: This one's four hundred though it's a car line. All right,

5142
04:18:36,120 --> 04:18:38,200
Speaker 2: I gotta read this long one, all right? All right,

5143
04:18:38,200 --> 04:18:38,880
Speaker 2: here we go, Here we go.

5144
04:18:46,480 --> 04:18:52,160
Speaker 4: All things, here's my where's my numberies?

5145
04:19:00,440 --> 04:19:03,200
Speaker 1: Which headphones?

5146
04:19:04,440 --> 04:19:04,760
Speaker 3: You did?

5147
04:19:07,680 --> 04:19:07,840
Speaker 5: Oh?

5148
04:19:08,000 --> 04:19:12,960
Speaker 6: That dude?

5149
04:19:13,000 --> 04:19:16,440
Speaker 2: This is This is interesting having this seat because like,

5150
04:19:17,160 --> 04:19:20,760
Speaker 2: there's so technologially, there's so much happening, and now there's

5151
04:19:20,840 --> 04:19:22,640
Speaker 2: not as much happening, and I just have to focus

5152
04:19:22,760 --> 04:19:29,920
Speaker 2: on the story. Okay, Okay up episode four hundred, pulling

5153
04:19:30,000 --> 04:19:30,400
Speaker 2: this up.

5154
04:19:32,840 --> 04:19:34,600
Speaker 1: I can't hear me. I'm sorry. I wasn't near the

5155
04:19:35,040 --> 04:19:36,920
Speaker 1: what I wasn't Can you hear me now? I just

5156
04:19:37,000 --> 04:19:38,200
Speaker 1: wasn't near it because I was easy.

5157
04:19:38,360 --> 04:19:43,360
Speaker 2: Oh, I can hear you. I'm not in the headphones anyways. Okay.

5158
04:19:44,480 --> 04:19:47,120
Speaker 2: Would I be the A hole for refusing to host

5159
04:19:47,240 --> 04:19:53,520
Speaker 2: my cousin's wedding reception at my house? I don't. I

5160
04:19:53,600 --> 04:19:55,680
Speaker 2: don't know if you would be the A hole.

5161
04:19:55,760 --> 04:19:58,200
Speaker 1: I don't think you should have to host it at

5162
04:19:58,240 --> 04:19:58,680
Speaker 1: your house.

5163
04:19:58,880 --> 04:20:02,040
Speaker 2: If if like you have to, if you have to clean,

5164
04:20:02,320 --> 04:20:06,200
Speaker 2: provide the food, and no payment. Yeah, I would say

5165
04:20:06,240 --> 04:20:07,760
Speaker 2: you're not the a whole. But if you're like I

5166
04:20:07,840 --> 04:20:10,880
Speaker 2: don't like you as a person and no good response,

5167
04:20:10,880 --> 04:20:14,560
Speaker 2: than you are the hole. Okay, cool, so unhappy. Cell

5168
04:20:14,800 --> 04:20:18,360
Speaker 2: eleven forty three says I twenty four female. Got married

5169
04:20:18,480 --> 04:20:21,080
Speaker 2: very recently to my husband. But a year before we

5170
04:20:21,160 --> 04:20:24,840
Speaker 2: got married, we purchased our first home. Wow wow, at

5171
04:20:24,920 --> 04:20:31,120
Speaker 2: twenty eight that's impressive, very impressive. We did extensive renovations

5172
04:20:31,160 --> 04:20:34,040
Speaker 2: on the house, while and renovations and put a lot

5173
04:20:34,120 --> 04:20:36,920
Speaker 2: of thought and time, care and money into it. There's

5174
04:20:36,960 --> 04:20:40,240
Speaker 2: our dream home. Sanctuary of forever home. We don't plan

5175
04:20:40,360 --> 04:20:41,160
Speaker 2: to get rid of it.

5176
04:20:41,640 --> 04:20:42,080
Speaker 5: Let go of.

5177
04:20:43,640 --> 04:20:48,040
Speaker 2: Oh all right. My cousin thirty three female, recently got

5178
04:20:48,120 --> 04:20:51,200
Speaker 2: engaged and is going to get married this year, ratz.

5179
04:20:51,640 --> 04:20:54,640
Speaker 2: She and I are very different in personality, so we

5180
04:20:54,960 --> 04:20:59,520
Speaker 2: have never been close. Our families, however, could not be closer.

5181
04:21:00,080 --> 04:21:04,840
Speaker 2: Our dad and mine are brothers. Oh yeah, since why

5182
04:21:04,920 --> 04:21:11,080
Speaker 2: you're so close? Okay? Some background. She and her husband,

5183
04:21:11,120 --> 04:21:15,280
Speaker 2: thirty three Mel, both currently live with their respective parents.

5184
04:21:15,400 --> 04:21:18,080
Speaker 1: Well, I'm pinky, latter saying, we read this one. Havedly

5185
04:21:18,120 --> 04:21:19,040
Speaker 1: done this one before.

5186
04:21:18,880 --> 04:21:21,600
Speaker 2: We read this one. I think we this one does

5187
04:21:21,640 --> 04:21:24,080
Speaker 2: seem a little Okay, we'll do and you go to

5188
04:21:24,640 --> 04:21:28,760
Speaker 2: four O? Who go to four O? Two s one? Yeah,

5189
04:21:28,800 --> 04:21:33,920
Speaker 2: my bad guys. Good catch, good catch, good catch? Yeah,

5190
04:21:34,160 --> 04:21:37,640
Speaker 2: good catch. I'm gonna read some stuff, idy k. My

5191
04:21:37,760 --> 04:21:39,520
Speaker 2: brothers and I ain't that close. Why are you? Why

5192
04:21:39,560 --> 04:21:41,360
Speaker 2: are your brothers and there? You're not close? That may

5193
04:21:41,440 --> 04:21:44,360
Speaker 2: be trauma. I'm pretty close with my brothers. Uh, I don't.

5194
04:21:44,560 --> 04:21:46,800
Speaker 2: I don't think I've told you about my siblings. Okay,

5195
04:21:47,080 --> 04:21:49,880
Speaker 2: so it's me. I have I have three younger siblings.

5196
04:21:49,920 --> 04:21:53,880
Speaker 2: It's me, uh, twenty three, my brother. Uh, he's twenty one,

5197
04:21:54,000 --> 04:21:56,560
Speaker 2: and then I have a younger brother that's eleven. He

5198
04:21:57,520 --> 04:22:00,240
Speaker 2: is eleven, and then the other one is two him.

5199
04:22:00,440 --> 04:22:04,280
Speaker 2: So we they're like, isn't it's like me and the

5200
04:22:04,400 --> 04:22:07,040
Speaker 2: youngest are thirteen years in a day apart because we're

5201
04:22:07,080 --> 04:22:13,600
Speaker 2: like born like that far apart. So yeah, four oh two,

5202
04:22:15,880 --> 04:22:18,040
Speaker 2: all right, got a different story for you guys. Right,

5203
04:22:18,120 --> 04:22:21,440
Speaker 2: he's doing great, Thanks for the encouragement. Wow, all boys, Yes,

5204
04:22:21,600 --> 04:22:24,360
Speaker 2: all boys. We have a dog at home that's a girl.

5205
04:22:24,440 --> 04:22:26,960
Speaker 2: So she's kind of like my sister, but it's all boys.

5206
04:22:28,040 --> 04:22:30,960
Speaker 2: My poor mother, she's five to five and handles all

5207
04:22:31,040 --> 04:22:33,920
Speaker 2: of us. I don't see how she does it, but yeah,

5208
04:22:34,040 --> 04:22:38,760
Speaker 2: it's a lot. My dad's also six eight, Got it cool?

5209
04:22:38,960 --> 04:22:42,360
Speaker 2: All right? Here we go. Am I the a hole

5210
04:22:42,400 --> 04:22:44,840
Speaker 2: for telling my son if he isn't comfortable about his

5211
04:22:44,960 --> 04:22:48,240
Speaker 2: sister not wearing a bra, then he should cover up too.

5212
04:22:48,920 --> 04:22:54,040
Speaker 2: Double standard? Double standard? Okay, Dad Alert nineteen ninety says,

5213
04:22:54,840 --> 04:22:59,480
Speaker 2: my he's thirty three male daughter sixteen female got into

5214
04:22:59,480 --> 04:23:02,520
Speaker 2: an argument with her brother fifteen mil because she sometimes

5215
04:23:02,640 --> 04:23:07,600
Speaker 2: doesn't wear a bra around the house. She still covers up,

5216
04:23:07,680 --> 04:23:11,200
Speaker 2: but does just wears a T shirt. Instead, she said

5217
04:23:11,240 --> 04:23:14,320
Speaker 2: that wearing bras are painful and makes her uncomfortable. So

5218
04:23:14,400 --> 04:23:16,440
Speaker 2: I don't mind. It makes sense. I mean, she's in

5219
04:23:16,480 --> 04:23:19,560
Speaker 2: the comfort of her home. She can wear what she wants. However,

5220
04:23:19,680 --> 04:23:23,320
Speaker 2: my son recently started expressing his discomfort and saying it

5221
04:23:23,440 --> 04:23:27,720
Speaker 2: makes him uncomfortable and that she should start wearing bras again. Okay,

5222
04:23:27,800 --> 04:23:29,360
Speaker 2: why why is it uncomfortable?

5223
04:23:29,880 --> 04:23:30,120
Speaker 1: I don't.

5224
04:23:30,160 --> 04:23:33,160
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know, like puberty and stuff. I

5225
04:23:33,200 --> 04:23:35,240
Speaker 2: didn't grow up with sister, so I don't. I don't know,

5226
04:23:35,360 --> 04:23:40,920
Speaker 2: but he's feeling uncomfortable. Wow, now I see why of

5227
04:23:40,920 --> 04:23:46,240
Speaker 2: you guys like get startled. Okay, uh. My daughter heard

5228
04:23:46,320 --> 04:23:50,520
Speaker 2: this and got upset and started saying that she wasn't

5229
04:23:50,560 --> 04:23:54,000
Speaker 2: bothering anyone. He said he was bothered by it and

5230
04:23:54,080 --> 04:23:56,840
Speaker 2: that she should cover up. Technically, she is covered up.

5231
04:23:58,080 --> 04:24:00,720
Speaker 2: I told her that if he's uncomfortable, then maybe she

5232
04:24:00,840 --> 04:24:03,520
Speaker 2: could put on a bra when she leaves her room.

5233
04:24:04,400 --> 04:24:06,840
Speaker 2: She got upset and told me that's that that's unfair.

5234
04:24:07,240 --> 04:24:09,560
Speaker 2: It she just wear a bra when her brother doesn't

5235
04:24:09,600 --> 04:24:15,120
Speaker 2: seem to have to cover up his man boobs. Double standard.

5236
04:24:16,600 --> 04:24:19,480
Speaker 2: He got upset at this and accused her of making

5237
04:24:19,600 --> 04:24:23,120
Speaker 2: fun of him. I told him that she wasn't making

5238
04:24:23,160 --> 04:24:25,120
Speaker 2: fun of him and told him that it was a

5239
04:24:25,240 --> 04:24:28,280
Speaker 2: fair statement. Do you guys think that's fair? In the

5240
04:24:28,400 --> 04:24:29,720
Speaker 2: in the chat, do you guys think that is a

5241
04:24:29,800 --> 04:24:32,280
Speaker 2: fair thing that he should wear a t shirt and

5242
04:24:32,400 --> 04:24:35,080
Speaker 2: she should wear a bra or just let the tits

5243
04:24:35,160 --> 04:24:36,760
Speaker 2: be freey well, all the way around.

5244
04:24:37,480 --> 04:24:39,680
Speaker 1: I think I think he shouldn't be making those like

5245
04:24:40,000 --> 04:24:43,760
Speaker 1: the son shouldn't be making those comments. Yeah, oh sorry, wait,

5246
04:24:44,920 --> 04:24:49,320
Speaker 1: I think that I think the sun Do you think

5247
04:24:49,360 --> 04:24:51,960
Speaker 1: the son shouldn't be making those comments? And I feel

5248
04:24:51,960 --> 04:24:54,360
Speaker 1: like the dad was just like, Okay, if you're gonna

5249
04:24:54,440 --> 04:24:56,200
Speaker 1: keep making those comments, then you have to do this too.

5250
04:24:56,520 --> 04:24:59,120
Speaker 1: So it's not like a like you have to do this.

5251
04:24:59,240 --> 04:25:01,280
Speaker 1: It's just like you need either stop making those comments

5252
04:25:01,440 --> 04:25:02,560
Speaker 1: or you know, fair's fair.

5253
04:25:03,240 --> 04:25:08,440
Speaker 2: Free the titties, free the lips, breathe them tits yup?

5254
04:25:08,520 --> 04:25:15,160
Speaker 2: All right, yeahs, everyone's should be free. Okay. I feel

5255
04:25:15,240 --> 04:25:17,520
Speaker 2: bad and wanted to let my son know that he

5256
04:25:18,000 --> 04:25:21,600
Speaker 2: misturbreted what I meant. Okay, I feel bad and I

5257
04:25:21,640 --> 04:25:28,680
Speaker 2: wanted to let my son know that he Okay, okay,

5258
04:25:28,680 --> 04:25:30,760
Speaker 2: here we go, go, Oh fair statement, here we go.

5259
04:25:31,680 --> 04:25:35,000
Speaker 2: I told him that if she's also uncomfortable, then he

5260
04:25:35,000 --> 04:25:37,520
Speaker 2: should start wearing a shirt when he leaves his room.

5261
04:25:38,120 --> 04:25:40,800
Speaker 2: He started crying and accused me of calling him fat,

5262
04:25:41,160 --> 04:25:44,440
Speaker 2: which confused me as those words never came out of

5263
04:25:44,520 --> 04:25:50,520
Speaker 2: my mouth. Interesting, hmm, oh, where the yeah?

5264
04:25:50,600 --> 04:25:50,880
Speaker 3: That is?

5265
04:25:52,840 --> 04:25:55,560
Speaker 2: So he's feeling a little insecure. He's having some insecurities. Okay,

5266
04:25:55,840 --> 04:25:57,400
Speaker 2: I feel bad and wanted to let my son know

5267
04:25:57,560 --> 04:26:01,280
Speaker 2: that he misinterpreted that what I meant. But when I

5268
04:26:01,360 --> 04:26:03,160
Speaker 2: went to talk to him, he just told me to

5269
04:26:03,320 --> 04:26:07,040
Speaker 2: leave him alone and couldn't stop crying. But I decided

5270
04:26:07,040 --> 04:26:09,440
Speaker 2: to give him some space. That's so tough because like

5271
04:26:10,320 --> 04:26:13,240
Speaker 2: he's fifteen, he's at that age he's feeling some you know,

5272
04:26:14,400 --> 04:26:16,960
Speaker 2: it weighs about his body, about how he looks.

5273
04:26:17,360 --> 04:26:22,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I feel like it's I'm sorry,

5274
04:26:22,960 --> 04:26:24,720
Speaker 1: Like I feel bad that he all right, hold on,

5275
04:26:25,480 --> 04:26:29,680
Speaker 1: I feel bad that he is insecure, stuf. But started

5276
04:26:29,720 --> 04:26:32,240
Speaker 1: it with the making trying to make his sister cure.

5277
04:26:32,680 --> 04:26:34,920
Speaker 2: But I'm allowing. I'm allowing people to make mistakes here,

5278
04:26:35,440 --> 04:26:38,560
Speaker 2: I'm allowing. Like he's feeling this way, he's voicing it.

5279
04:26:39,400 --> 04:26:42,760
Speaker 2: Dad's kind of getting a filler. He's fifteen. I mean,

5280
04:26:43,120 --> 04:26:46,760
Speaker 2: did you have emotions when you're fifteen? You didn't. Girls

5281
04:26:46,760 --> 04:26:49,680
Speaker 2: will have emotions when they're fifteen. Yeah, well all right,

5282
04:26:49,680 --> 04:26:52,000
Speaker 2: we got a fight. Real fifth Riley, your youngest brother,

5283
04:26:52,120 --> 04:26:56,000
Speaker 2: and you are father apart than I am with my

5284
04:26:56,600 --> 04:27:01,360
Speaker 2: first nibbling niece. Nibbling. Oh cool, And she made me

5285
04:27:01,480 --> 04:27:05,520
Speaker 2: a great aunt last November. I'm now thirty two. Congrats

5286
04:27:05,560 --> 04:27:07,200
Speaker 2: on being an aunt. I love that you're an ant.

5287
04:27:07,880 --> 04:27:11,880
Speaker 2: Love your family, family time share. Yeah, I have a

5288
04:27:11,960 --> 04:27:15,280
Speaker 2: lot of family and a lot of like southern like

5289
04:27:15,520 --> 04:27:19,280
Speaker 2: kind of whatnot going on, Like, apparently not everyone grew

5290
04:27:19,360 --> 04:27:21,960
Speaker 2: up on a family business. Didn't know that. I thought

5291
04:27:22,000 --> 04:27:25,480
Speaker 2: everyone like spent their time I did. I thought like

5292
04:27:25,560 --> 04:27:28,720
Speaker 2: everyone like you know, oh you're part of the farmer

5293
04:27:28,840 --> 04:27:31,640
Speaker 2: family or oh you guys grew up like working in

5294
04:27:31,680 --> 04:27:34,640
Speaker 2: this kind of family. Yeah, but it's not a thing true.

5295
04:27:35,240 --> 04:27:39,040
Speaker 1: Also, there are two likes away from wait know, am

5296
04:27:39,040 --> 04:27:39,440
Speaker 1: I crazy?

5297
04:27:39,480 --> 04:27:39,880
Speaker 2: Who likes?

5298
04:27:39,960 --> 04:27:42,600
Speaker 1: Two likes away from spinning that wheel? You gotta put

5299
04:27:42,640 --> 04:27:45,960
Speaker 1: the camera on you, I'm sorry, two likes away from

5300
04:27:46,120 --> 04:27:47,160
Speaker 1: spending that wheel.

5301
04:27:48,480 --> 04:27:51,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, so do it and we'll spin the wheel. We'll

5302
04:27:51,120 --> 04:27:54,120
Speaker 2: spend the way and then you'll get Sophia's nice voice back.

5303
04:27:54,280 --> 04:27:55,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm done. I've finished.

5304
04:27:56,480 --> 04:28:02,320
Speaker 2: You scarfed that down that fast? Done, dude, that was

5305
04:28:02,520 --> 04:28:09,000
Speaker 2: huge apparently, Okay, cool, Okay. My wife told me that

5306
04:28:09,160 --> 04:28:11,920
Speaker 2: I know how sensitive our son could be about his

5307
04:28:12,040 --> 04:28:14,720
Speaker 2: way and I should have been nicer about it. This

5308
04:28:14,840 --> 04:28:18,400
Speaker 2: made me feel extremely bad, and I tried to apologize

5309
04:28:18,440 --> 04:28:20,800
Speaker 2: to him again and he just ignored me and wouldn't

5310
04:28:20,840 --> 04:28:23,720
Speaker 2: let me speak or look at me. Oh, I thought

5311
04:28:23,760 --> 04:28:26,360
Speaker 2: I was being fair, and I just don't know. Honestly.

5312
04:28:26,440 --> 04:28:27,800
Speaker 2: I think you just need to give him a little

5313
04:28:27,840 --> 04:28:30,400
Speaker 2: bit of time. But that is that is so tough

5314
04:28:30,440 --> 04:28:33,560
Speaker 2: because like you were saying something about the sister and

5315
04:28:33,640 --> 04:28:36,520
Speaker 2: trying to make it make it even love you too,

5316
04:28:38,680 --> 04:28:40,600
Speaker 2: but like he must have been like, oh he thinks

5317
04:28:40,640 --> 04:28:42,760
Speaker 2: I'm bad, and like it went just like it went

5318
04:28:42,840 --> 04:28:45,560
Speaker 2: down the wrong way. Yeah, you just got to give

5319
04:28:45,560 --> 04:28:46,720
Speaker 2: your son some time to.

5320
04:28:46,840 --> 04:28:50,200
Speaker 1: Like, you know, I think you can apologize for like

5321
04:28:50,320 --> 04:28:52,640
Speaker 1: how you can be like, hey, I didn't mean to

5322
04:28:52,720 --> 04:28:54,920
Speaker 1: make you uncomfortable about your body, but you can't be

5323
04:28:55,000 --> 04:28:57,200
Speaker 1: saying those like have that talk, like you can be

5324
04:28:57,200 --> 04:29:01,600
Speaker 1: saying those things but your sister because you're making her uncomfortable. Yeah,

5325
04:29:01,880 --> 04:29:03,920
Speaker 1: like herbie girl, La La Flame Thinking for the about

5326
04:29:03,960 --> 04:29:06,760
Speaker 1: ten Bucks, says he needs to stop sexualizing his sister.

5327
04:29:07,240 --> 04:29:09,360
Speaker 1: She's not doing anything wrong just because she's not wearing

5328
04:29:09,400 --> 04:29:11,800
Speaker 1: a bra. BRA's hurt and if he can police his

5329
04:29:11,880 --> 04:29:13,760
Speaker 1: sister's body, then his body can be plete.

5330
04:29:14,000 --> 04:29:14,920
Speaker 6: That is fair.

5331
04:29:15,320 --> 04:29:15,520
Speaker 2: Yeah.

5332
04:29:15,720 --> 04:29:17,320
Speaker 1: Also thank you Sarah Jump for the two books.

5333
04:29:18,120 --> 04:29:21,680
Speaker 2: Yeah. I don't know what it's like to wear a bra,

5334
04:29:21,840 --> 04:29:23,960
Speaker 2: but I've wore not warn a brawl in my whole life,

5335
04:29:24,000 --> 04:29:26,640
Speaker 2: and I believe every woman shouldn't have to if I

5336
04:29:26,800 --> 04:29:31,000
Speaker 2: have the right now comfortable, that's not what bra you get? Yeah,

5337
04:29:31,880 --> 04:29:34,880
Speaker 2: or no bra if that's how you work? Yeah, all right,

5338
04:29:34,920 --> 04:29:38,960
Speaker 2: relevant comments, So not the a hole. It doesn't sound

5339
04:29:39,040 --> 04:29:43,160
Speaker 2: like you said anything about his weight. True. I wonder

5340
04:29:43,200 --> 04:29:46,240
Speaker 2: why he left and need to complain about his sister's

5341
04:29:46,320 --> 04:29:49,160
Speaker 2: lack of bra and why he was under the impression

5342
04:29:49,640 --> 04:29:52,880
Speaker 2: he should be able to dictate what she wears. Then, Oh,

5343
04:29:53,400 --> 04:29:55,560
Speaker 2: when he got pushed back from his sister and he

5344
04:29:55,640 --> 04:29:58,520
Speaker 2: started crying. I think whatever causes this behavior in him

5345
04:29:58,720 --> 04:30:01,520
Speaker 2: is the root of the problem and is far more

5346
04:30:01,560 --> 04:30:04,200
Speaker 2: important than the sister's brad status. He needs to be

5347
04:30:04,880 --> 04:30:07,400
Speaker 2: Is he being teased about his sister at school? Is

5348
04:30:07,440 --> 04:30:10,920
Speaker 2: he developed a fiction over her, a fixation over her.

5349
04:30:11,320 --> 04:30:13,720
Speaker 2: Oh p, I'm not sure. I tried to talk to

5350
04:30:13,800 --> 04:30:16,640
Speaker 2: him about it, but he just said that he is

5351
04:30:16,800 --> 04:30:21,600
Speaker 2: uncomfortable with it. This was before his sister overheard. I

5352
04:30:21,720 --> 04:30:24,160
Speaker 2: don't think he is being teased about his sister at school.

5353
04:30:24,560 --> 04:30:26,880
Speaker 2: But I'm gonna just pray it's not the other thing

5354
04:30:27,760 --> 04:30:30,520
Speaker 2: that that would be such a hard conversation to.

5355
04:30:30,600 --> 04:30:33,040
Speaker 1: Have, Yeah, about if you have to be like you're

5356
04:30:33,560 --> 04:30:35,560
Speaker 1: you can't have those feelings about your sister.

5357
04:30:35,880 --> 04:30:37,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it would be.

5358
04:30:38,200 --> 04:30:40,040
Speaker 1: Also, we did hit nine twenty eight, but you can.

5359
04:30:40,040 --> 04:30:43,920
Speaker 2: We did Hit nine twenty eight. Wow, yeah, very so fast. Yeah,

5360
04:30:44,120 --> 04:30:47,000
Speaker 2: I mean it's so weird with puberty and everyone's body

5361
04:30:47,120 --> 04:30:50,280
Speaker 2: changing changing and like you know, emotions and things. It's

5362
04:30:50,960 --> 04:30:53,440
Speaker 2: such a tough subject. But I think, as the dad,

5363
04:30:53,840 --> 04:30:57,040
Speaker 2: if you're able to set it straight at a young

5364
04:30:57,120 --> 04:30:59,000
Speaker 2: age and kind of show the way you'll be good,

5365
04:30:59,120 --> 04:31:03,320
Speaker 2: you'll be good. Delicate situation, turn to the strangers online

5366
04:31:03,640 --> 04:31:06,560
Speaker 2: to guide you, and red It's been pretty good today.

5367
04:31:07,560 --> 04:31:08,120
Speaker 1: It's been on it.

5368
04:31:08,840 --> 04:31:11,880
Speaker 2: The last story though with the mom, I kind of disagreed, but.

5369
04:31:14,920 --> 04:31:17,080
Speaker 1: I kind of disagreed at the beginning, but then I

5370
04:31:17,320 --> 04:31:19,680
Speaker 1: was on board with them the last months.

5371
04:31:20,000 --> 04:31:22,480
Speaker 2: That lighting is good on you. Every lighting is good

5372
04:31:22,480 --> 04:31:24,320
Speaker 2: on Oh wait, she said, Riley, Riley, that lighting is

5373
04:31:24,360 --> 04:31:31,280
Speaker 2: good on you. Not all the compliments are for you.

5374
04:31:32,600 --> 04:31:36,200
Speaker 2: It's okay, throws some worms in the in the chat worms.

5375
04:31:36,240 --> 04:31:37,480
Speaker 2: But that late. Wait let me see it again, Let

5376
04:31:37,520 --> 04:31:40,760
Speaker 2: me see again. Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah. The warm lighting.

5377
04:31:40,960 --> 04:31:44,160
Speaker 2: It's fun warm lighting. And we got cool lighting over here. Yeah.

5378
04:31:44,560 --> 04:31:46,680
Speaker 2: Wait till the sun hits just right, then you can

5379
04:31:46,760 --> 04:31:54,080
Speaker 2: beam around seven on sunset. Okay, okay. Someone insinuates Op

5380
04:31:54,440 --> 04:31:57,200
Speaker 2: is an idiot and made mistakes having children in the

5381
04:31:57,240 --> 04:31:58,360
Speaker 2: first place and his age.

5382
04:31:58,720 --> 04:32:02,720
Speaker 1: Wait wait, wait a minute, what you skipped? Someone leaves

5383
04:32:02,760 --> 04:32:04,280
Speaker 1: a comment about how they can see both.

5384
04:32:04,280 --> 04:32:07,000
Speaker 2: Oh, thank you, thank you. Okay. Someone leaves a comment

5385
04:32:07,040 --> 04:32:09,120
Speaker 2: about how they can see both sides. Yeah, I understand

5386
04:32:09,240 --> 04:32:12,720
Speaker 2: and took his comfort into consideration, which is why I

5387
04:32:12,840 --> 04:32:15,360
Speaker 2: told her that she should cover up when she leaves

5388
04:32:15,400 --> 04:32:17,560
Speaker 2: her room. But she pointed out that it was unfair

5389
04:32:17,640 --> 04:32:20,040
Speaker 2: since her brother didn't cover up, so decided that they

5390
04:32:20,360 --> 04:32:23,840
Speaker 2: both should cover up as they're making each other uncomfortable.

5391
04:32:24,080 --> 04:32:26,760
Speaker 2: She didn't get offended by this, but he did, so

5392
04:32:27,000 --> 04:32:30,480
Speaker 2: she was okay with it, but he isn't clever.

5393
04:32:30,600 --> 04:32:30,880
Speaker 4: Girl.

5394
04:32:31,840 --> 04:32:34,160
Speaker 2: I gave up bras for twenty twenty four, not going

5395
04:32:34,240 --> 04:32:39,080
Speaker 2: back the tatas. Oh yeah, yeahs free the mama.

5396
04:32:39,280 --> 04:32:42,800
Speaker 1: Thank you bubbos for two bucks. We don't promote misogyny

5397
04:32:42,840 --> 04:32:44,400
Speaker 1: here dot is that Nope?

5398
04:32:45,000 --> 04:32:48,760
Speaker 2: Misogyny, no misogyny, no massages of misogyny.

5399
04:32:49,560 --> 04:32:51,560
Speaker 1: My sound is low. I'm sorry, I don't know how

5400
04:32:51,600 --> 04:32:52,040
Speaker 1: to fix that.

5401
04:32:53,600 --> 04:32:54,480
Speaker 2: You see the third one?

5402
04:32:59,120 --> 04:32:59,640
Speaker 1: Is that better?

5403
04:33:00,200 --> 04:33:03,520
Speaker 2: And then and then on obia Patty cool things? All right?

5404
04:33:03,680 --> 04:33:06,000
Speaker 2: All right, guys, yeah, yeah, you should have learned this.

5405
04:33:07,800 --> 04:33:09,760
Speaker 2: We're gonna, we're gonna, we're gonna tea Sophia how to

5406
04:33:10,840 --> 04:33:12,960
Speaker 2: figure out all the things. But she's doing great. I

5407
04:33:13,080 --> 04:33:14,560
Speaker 2: think she's doing phenomenal.

5408
04:33:14,759 --> 04:33:17,240
Speaker 1: And now do you want to continue story or do

5409
04:33:17,280 --> 04:33:19,440
Speaker 1: you want to spin the wheel? Either one.

5410
04:33:19,560 --> 04:33:20,920
Speaker 2: Let me let me get to this cop comment and

5411
04:33:20,960 --> 04:33:22,480
Speaker 2: then we can spin the will. That's good, all right?

5412
04:33:24,400 --> 04:33:27,440
Speaker 2: How many sinuates? So many sinuates? Opie is an idiot

5413
04:33:27,480 --> 04:33:29,840
Speaker 2: and made mistakes on having children in the first place

5414
04:33:29,960 --> 04:33:30,640
Speaker 2: at his age.

5415
04:33:31,480 --> 04:33:32,000
Speaker 1: How old is he?

5416
04:33:32,720 --> 04:33:35,640
Speaker 2: Oh, he's about to say, yeah, yeah, no, I have

5417
04:33:35,720 --> 04:33:40,480
Speaker 2: my daughter at sixteen and my son at seventeen. Yeah,

5418
04:33:40,560 --> 04:33:44,760
Speaker 2: because he was like thirty two. Ooh, okay, my daughter

5419
04:33:44,880 --> 04:33:51,080
Speaker 2: and my son aren't mistakes. Yeah, that's crazy that you

5420
04:33:51,200 --> 04:33:53,040
Speaker 2: had a kid at sixteen and you don't think.

5421
04:33:53,800 --> 04:33:55,840
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, he's saying like that, they're not like

5422
04:33:55,960 --> 04:33:59,360
Speaker 1: my I do not think of my children as mistakes. Yeah,

5423
04:33:59,360 --> 04:34:02,199
Speaker 1: all right, I do not think of my children as gotcha.

5424
04:34:02,360 --> 04:34:04,720
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, But like, did you plan on having

5425
04:34:04,720 --> 04:34:06,200
Speaker 2: a good at sixteen? That's what I want to know.

5426
04:34:06,840 --> 04:34:09,360
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, I think, he continues.

5427
04:34:09,120 --> 04:34:12,480
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, okay, he continues, Yes, we'd wish that we

5428
04:34:12,560 --> 04:34:15,840
Speaker 2: had them later on. Okay, but we didn't. I don't

5429
04:34:15,880 --> 04:34:18,200
Speaker 2: need you to judge me on that, since that's not

5430
04:34:18,320 --> 04:34:21,160
Speaker 2: what we're here about. Makes sense, makes sense people with mistakes.

5431
04:34:21,440 --> 04:34:24,240
Speaker 2: And he's still the father of his kids. That's incredible. Yeah,

5432
04:34:24,919 --> 04:34:28,960
Speaker 2: top comment. Tell me your son is not any Tell

5433
04:34:29,000 --> 04:34:31,000
Speaker 2: your son that it's not any woman's job to make

5434
04:34:31,160 --> 04:34:35,520
Speaker 2: him comfortable. He shouldn't be looking at his sister's boobs anyways.

5435
04:34:35,680 --> 04:34:37,520
Speaker 1: True acts.

5436
04:34:38,040 --> 04:34:40,720
Speaker 2: Wow, many update the next day? You want me to

5437
04:34:40,759 --> 04:34:45,880
Speaker 2: read that. I'm you guys cool to be reading? Yeah,

5438
04:34:45,919 --> 04:34:47,960
Speaker 2: I keep reading. You've been You've been reading a lot today.

5439
04:34:49,000 --> 04:34:50,800
Speaker 2: I want to give the warm queen a little break,

5440
04:34:51,200 --> 04:34:57,960
Speaker 2: let me voice for her. Okay, mini updates the next day,

5441
04:34:59,160 --> 04:35:02,400
Speaker 2: Oh mini update in the comments Okay. Hasty Candy thirty

5442
04:35:02,400 --> 04:35:06,399
Speaker 2: seven to fifteen says why is brother being insensitive to sister?

5443
04:35:07,000 --> 04:35:09,600
Speaker 2: Then cries when it comes back to him. OPI you

5444
04:35:09,680 --> 04:35:12,759
Speaker 2: were fair, no need to apologize. If broke got her,

5445
04:35:13,200 --> 04:35:15,600
Speaker 2: then he shouldn't have been commenting on his sister in

5446
04:35:15,680 --> 04:35:18,480
Speaker 2: the first place. You can take it. If you can't

5447
04:35:18,520 --> 04:35:20,719
Speaker 2: take it, then don't give it out. I guess bro

5448
04:35:21,200 --> 04:35:26,840
Speaker 2: just got his deserts. Yeah. Also, just desserts is just desserts.

5449
04:35:27,120 --> 04:35:29,559
Speaker 1: It's like a say just desserts.

5450
04:35:30,400 --> 04:35:35,680
Speaker 2: I keep reading rightily? Okay. Also, it's plain weird for

5451
04:35:35,759 --> 04:35:39,840
Speaker 2: brother to be making such comments. Sister has every right

5452
04:35:39,960 --> 04:35:41,720
Speaker 2: to be comfy in her own home. This is her

5453
04:35:41,759 --> 04:35:45,880
Speaker 2: safe place. Make it clear to her, Make that clear

5454
04:35:46,000 --> 04:35:48,400
Speaker 2: to all. Sis doesn't need to be self conscious of

5455
04:35:48,480 --> 04:35:52,239
Speaker 2: her own body because some muppet couldn't keep comments to themselves.

5456
04:35:52,880 --> 04:35:53,120
Speaker 6: Wow.

5457
04:35:53,400 --> 04:35:56,320
Speaker 2: See this guy's a muppet. This guy's a muppet. This

5458
04:35:56,480 --> 04:35:59,080
Speaker 2: guy's not a muppet. Do I look like someone said

5459
04:35:59,120 --> 04:36:02,400
Speaker 2: I was giving bit energy like a muppet A little bit.

5460
04:36:04,960 --> 04:36:06,560
Speaker 2: I don't know how to feel about that.

5461
04:36:07,360 --> 04:36:09,360
Speaker 1: I'm not, No, not in a bad way.

5462
04:36:11,120 --> 04:36:12,960
Speaker 2: I can't. I can't say I look like a muppet

5463
04:36:13,040 --> 04:36:16,640
Speaker 2: in a good way. Is someone controlling me? Someone got

5464
04:36:16,680 --> 04:36:19,680
Speaker 2: there hand up my butt doing all this. That's what

5465
04:36:19,759 --> 04:36:23,240
Speaker 2: it feels like. Muppets are cool, though I do love Kermit. Yeah,

5466
04:36:23,560 --> 04:36:25,680
Speaker 2: my muppet or a man. I was just thinking that.

5467
04:36:25,919 --> 04:36:27,520
Speaker 1: I was just thinking that that.

5468
04:36:27,640 --> 04:36:30,720
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, ah, I have a sad story about that.

5469
04:36:31,880 --> 04:36:35,880
Speaker 2: They're all muppets. Yeah, it's the curly hair. Yeah, really,

5470
04:36:36,720 --> 04:36:39,440
Speaker 2: the curly hair is why I'm a muppet. Yeah, buzzy

5471
04:36:39,480 --> 04:36:42,960
Speaker 2: bear energy. Okay, back back to what Op says. Yeah,

5472
04:36:43,000 --> 04:36:45,280
Speaker 2: I definitely made a mistake to talk to my dot.

5473
04:36:45,880 --> 04:36:48,560
Speaker 2: I talked to my daughter this morning about the situation.

5474
04:36:49,280 --> 04:36:51,919
Speaker 2: She seems to be understanding, and I apologize to her.

5475
04:36:52,000 --> 04:36:54,520
Speaker 2: I'd be dead. However, when I tried to talk to

5476
04:36:54,680 --> 04:36:57,600
Speaker 2: my son, he just keeps telling me to leave him alone.

5477
04:36:58,120 --> 04:37:01,320
Speaker 2: Like my son thought I was putting him down, and

5478
04:37:02,240 --> 04:37:04,560
Speaker 2: and I told him when he oh, he thought he

5479
04:37:04,640 --> 04:37:06,000
Speaker 2: was putting out when I told him to cover up,

5480
04:37:06,400 --> 04:37:08,240
Speaker 2: or I've told me to give my son some space

5481
04:37:08,280 --> 04:37:10,919
Speaker 2: when he's ready to talk to me again. Yeah, everyone

5482
04:37:11,360 --> 04:37:14,240
Speaker 2: says you're not the a hole. Yeah. I think it's

5483
04:37:14,880 --> 04:37:20,640
Speaker 2: just sort of one of those like teenage thing, everyone's emotions, emotions,

5484
04:37:20,720 --> 04:37:23,440
Speaker 2: this emotion that had just give us some space. Yeah,

5485
04:37:23,520 --> 04:37:25,120
Speaker 2: you're doing good, you're doing all the right things. You

5486
04:37:25,200 --> 04:37:28,800
Speaker 2: can clear this up. Uh, five dollars from Shadow Pumpkin

5487
04:37:29,000 --> 04:37:35,480
Speaker 2: warm and then Shadow Pumpkin. You're Fozzy Rileyzy Fuzzy Riley.

5488
04:37:35,680 --> 04:37:37,320
Speaker 2: Not a muppet, just adorable.

5489
04:37:37,520 --> 04:37:40,120
Speaker 1: Mump is not an insol I think mump is a compliment.

5490
04:37:40,240 --> 04:37:40,600
Speaker 2: I wish.

5491
04:37:40,880 --> 04:37:42,400
Speaker 1: I hope I look like a muppet.

5492
04:37:44,080 --> 04:37:48,720
Speaker 2: I hope I look like a muppet. I hope I've

5493
04:37:48,720 --> 04:37:49,480
Speaker 2: become a muppet.

5494
04:37:49,520 --> 04:37:53,520
Speaker 1: Would be Yeah, my dream is to become a MoU swear.

5495
04:37:53,880 --> 04:37:57,080
Speaker 2: If someone sends a Muppet through the po Bucks, I

5496
04:37:57,200 --> 04:37:59,240
Speaker 2: don't know what I'm gonna do with myself, I cried

5497
04:37:59,320 --> 04:38:03,520
Speaker 2: from joy. I would think it's hilarious. But then that muffet,

5498
04:38:04,040 --> 04:38:05,720
Speaker 2: the muppet could not be in my room. It would

5499
04:38:05,720 --> 04:38:07,520
Speaker 2: have to stay in here, and it could not make

5500
04:38:07,560 --> 04:38:08,320
Speaker 2: eye contact with me.

5501
04:38:08,520 --> 04:38:10,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, you'd have to turn it face down.

5502
04:38:11,520 --> 04:38:13,840
Speaker 2: No, he can, he can hang out. He can look dude,

5503
04:38:13,880 --> 04:38:15,800
Speaker 2: imagine the muppet right here on the desk and they're

5504
04:38:15,800 --> 04:38:18,120
Speaker 2: just staring at the boys. Every time someone talks, Oh,

5505
04:38:18,800 --> 04:38:21,400
Speaker 2: I like that. Yeah, the cutest muppets.

5506
04:38:21,800 --> 04:38:23,800
Speaker 1: I do look like a muppet. I look like Janis.

5507
04:38:23,880 --> 04:38:25,800
Speaker 1: I gotta look that up. I don't know which muppet

5508
04:38:25,840 --> 04:38:26,000
Speaker 1: that is.

5509
04:38:26,200 --> 04:38:28,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, go look it up. Look at hey, Riley? Are

5510
04:38:28,720 --> 04:38:29,560
Speaker 2: you the snake King?

5511
04:38:30,680 --> 04:38:31,360
Speaker 1: The snake King?

5512
04:38:34,120 --> 04:38:37,239
Speaker 2: All right, muppet, let's get into this update. All right,

5513
04:38:37,320 --> 04:38:41,640
Speaker 2: the update, the update. So this was five weeks later

5514
04:38:41,759 --> 04:38:44,520
Speaker 2: after the incident, and he's had to be some space

5515
04:38:44,640 --> 04:38:48,000
Speaker 2: by then. You guys were right about her bra size

5516
04:38:48,080 --> 04:38:50,520
Speaker 2: being too small, because that's why it was her.

5517
04:38:50,840 --> 04:38:52,359
Speaker 1: She was saying that was uncomfortable.

5518
04:38:53,680 --> 04:38:57,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, my wife got her a bigger brass eye and

5519
04:38:58,080 --> 04:39:01,400
Speaker 2: got some adjustable straps as well, as she said the

5520
04:39:01,440 --> 04:39:05,600
Speaker 2: straps aren't causing her plane great. She however, still doesn't

5521
04:39:05,600 --> 04:39:07,640
Speaker 2: wear bro when she's at home, and I apologize for

5522
04:39:07,800 --> 04:39:11,960
Speaker 2: suggesting she do so. Other than that, he's been her

5523
04:39:12,000 --> 04:39:16,480
Speaker 2: same old self. So daughter's good, lovely. However, my son

5524
04:39:16,520 --> 04:39:24,399
Speaker 2: has not conspiracy theory. It's gotten way worse has gotten.

5525
04:39:25,000 --> 04:39:27,720
Speaker 2: I don't think he's like, he's not doing better. I

5526
04:39:27,720 --> 04:39:29,800
Speaker 2: don't think he's doing better. I don't think he's doing better. Okay,

5527
04:39:29,960 --> 04:39:31,600
Speaker 2: well he just said it. That's not my conspiracy theory.

5528
04:39:31,600 --> 04:39:32,759
Speaker 1: And I was like, I was about to say, it's

5529
04:39:32,759 --> 04:39:36,240
Speaker 1: not old conspiracy theory, had conspiracy theory. If that's just

5530
04:39:36,520 --> 04:39:37,320
Speaker 1: they hardy told you.

5531
04:39:38,919 --> 04:39:40,840
Speaker 2: Okay, No, it's okay.

5532
04:39:40,840 --> 04:39:43,160
Speaker 1: I know you're trying. Sorry, No, you're doing so well.

5533
04:39:43,280 --> 04:39:45,240
Speaker 2: Thank you? All right.

5534
04:39:46,400 --> 04:39:46,520
Speaker 4: Uh.

5535
04:39:46,640 --> 04:39:50,400
Speaker 2: This Tuesday, my son, however, started therapy to hopefully help

5536
04:39:50,520 --> 04:39:53,720
Speaker 2: him deal with his body image and his sensitivity during

5537
04:39:53,840 --> 04:39:56,160
Speaker 2: certain topics. That's so nice that you got him in

5538
04:39:56,200 --> 04:39:59,600
Speaker 2: the therapy. He's apologized to his sister sixteen female, but

5539
04:39:59,759 --> 04:40:02,160
Speaker 2: still it has been withdrawn from me and his sister,

5540
04:40:02,640 --> 04:40:05,280
Speaker 2: but mostly me. I think it was a fat, fat

5541
04:40:05,600 --> 04:40:11,000
Speaker 2: joke connotation for like body image things. My son spends

5542
04:40:11,120 --> 04:40:13,399
Speaker 2: most of his time in his room and only engages

5543
04:40:13,759 --> 04:40:18,320
Speaker 2: in conversation with his mom and occasionally with his sister. Bye.

5544
04:40:18,320 --> 04:40:20,760
Speaker 2: My attempts to apologize to him and let him know

5545
04:40:20,840 --> 04:40:24,480
Speaker 2: my intentions weren't meant to harm him, he still barely

5546
04:40:24,560 --> 04:40:27,400
Speaker 2: talks to me, and at the rare time that he does,

5547
04:40:27,680 --> 04:40:30,680
Speaker 2: he doesn't seem enthusiastic at all. I think he just

5548
04:40:30,840 --> 04:40:34,239
Speaker 2: hurt his pride. Yeah, and that's why he's so withdrawn

5549
04:40:34,280 --> 04:40:38,720
Speaker 2: from you. Is that you said that in front of everyone. Yeah,

5550
04:40:38,720 --> 04:40:40,600
Speaker 2: I've had I've had this is where like family members

5551
04:40:40,600 --> 04:40:42,520
Speaker 2: would say something to me in front of everyone, and

5552
04:40:42,560 --> 04:40:48,520
Speaker 2: I've been like, oh right now, yeah, back way yesterday

5553
04:40:48,560 --> 04:40:50,840
Speaker 2: I called him crying in his room, which was about

5554
04:40:50,960 --> 04:40:56,400
Speaker 2: two hours after his second therapy session. I tried to

5555
04:40:56,520 --> 04:40:59,240
Speaker 2: talk to him, but he just asked me to get

5556
04:40:59,280 --> 04:41:02,360
Speaker 2: his mom instead. When I talked to him about when

5557
04:41:02,400 --> 04:41:04,640
Speaker 2: I talk to my wife about what she told me

5558
04:41:04,759 --> 04:41:08,520
Speaker 2: that our son told her he'd prefer she didn't tell me,

5559
04:41:10,440 --> 04:41:13,399
Speaker 2: didn't tell me, and that she'll honor his wishes.

5560
04:41:13,800 --> 04:41:17,760
Speaker 1: Oh, so he's like, don't even don't even like talk

5561
04:41:17,880 --> 04:41:22,080
Speaker 1: to don't even talk to the dad about you know,

5562
04:41:22,160 --> 04:41:23,360
Speaker 1: anything that's going on with him.

5563
04:41:23,600 --> 04:41:29,120
Speaker 2: Yeah. I've never been more confused in my life. I

5564
04:41:29,160 --> 04:41:31,400
Speaker 2: feel like my son hates me now. I don't know

5565
04:41:31,480 --> 04:41:34,560
Speaker 2: what to do anymore. I'm just planning on trying to

5566
04:41:34,640 --> 04:41:37,680
Speaker 2: talk to him to his therapist next Tuesday because my

5567
04:41:37,800 --> 04:41:43,160
Speaker 2: wife isn't really any help. O. God, this is so

5568
04:41:43,320 --> 04:41:45,840
Speaker 2: tough because like the wife wills to honor the sun

5569
04:41:45,919 --> 04:41:47,960
Speaker 2: and the son's definitely dealing with something, but he's not

5570
04:41:48,560 --> 04:41:52,040
Speaker 2: ready to talk to you about it. In five weeks

5571
04:41:52,400 --> 04:41:53,840
Speaker 2: that's a lot of time.

5572
04:41:54,720 --> 04:41:58,280
Speaker 1: That is a lot of time over seemingly unless he's

5573
04:41:58,320 --> 04:42:00,600
Speaker 1: been saying something else that was seemingly a comment.

5574
04:42:00,880 --> 04:42:02,920
Speaker 2: Hippie mommy says the wife sucks JS.

5575
04:42:03,360 --> 04:42:03,600
Speaker 4: Yeah.

5576
04:42:04,720 --> 04:42:06,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, he can't dish it. He can. If he can

5577
04:42:06,800 --> 04:42:07,640
Speaker 2: do sh it, he can take it.

5578
04:42:08,480 --> 04:42:10,600
Speaker 1: Also, thank you tomorrow for the five buck tip. Reading

5579
04:42:10,720 --> 04:42:13,080
Speaker 1: Riley is great. Hope to see more in the future.

5580
04:42:13,240 --> 04:42:13,680
Speaker 1: Love y'all.

5581
04:42:13,840 --> 04:42:19,000
Speaker 2: Oh, I mean I've been reading recently, so he's been reading.

5582
04:42:19,200 --> 04:42:23,080
Speaker 2: They taught me how to Yeah. Uh, the therapy. The

5583
04:42:23,160 --> 04:42:26,200
Speaker 2: therapist can't tell him nothing. That's true because he was

5584
04:42:26,200 --> 04:42:28,520
Speaker 2: thinking about going to a therapist. But that's so.

5585
04:42:28,720 --> 04:42:30,600
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, the therapist can't say anything, can't say anything.

5586
04:42:31,080 --> 04:42:33,039
Speaker 2: He's at the age where he could be influenced by

5587
04:42:33,080 --> 04:42:35,120
Speaker 2: guys like Andrew take millennial size.

5588
04:42:35,919 --> 04:42:37,800
Speaker 1: You know you can get down that that rabbit hole

5589
04:42:37,919 --> 04:42:38,440
Speaker 1: really quick.

5590
04:42:39,200 --> 04:42:42,919
Speaker 2: That is true. Not good influences all of the comments.

5591
04:42:44,600 --> 04:42:47,200
Speaker 2: It doesn't give me any pleasure to say this to

5592
04:42:47,560 --> 04:42:51,840
Speaker 2: Oh so good noodle, Nick Great use your name says,

5593
04:42:51,960 --> 04:42:54,280
Speaker 2: it does give me any pleasure to say this to

5594
04:42:55,240 --> 04:42:57,680
Speaker 2: his father. But your son kind of sucks to be honest,

5595
04:42:59,480 --> 04:43:02,520
Speaker 2: not to reddit. He always takes the girl's side and

5596
04:43:02,600 --> 04:43:06,560
Speaker 2: the boy's evil way, like, truly, I'm old, So he

5597
04:43:06,600 --> 04:43:09,840
Speaker 2: goes in a little backstory. I a twenty seven male

5598
04:43:09,960 --> 04:43:14,520
Speaker 2: who grew up with seven sisters. I truly can't imagine

5599
04:43:14,919 --> 04:43:18,000
Speaker 2: saying that them wearing any kind of clothing would make

5600
04:43:18,040 --> 04:43:22,000
Speaker 2: me uncomfortable. If they were sick and needed it, I

5601
04:43:22,040 --> 04:43:24,880
Speaker 2: would wipe their ask for them. We are family. I

5602
04:43:24,919 --> 04:43:26,520
Speaker 2: don't think of them in any kind of way that

5603
04:43:26,600 --> 04:43:31,560
Speaker 2: would cause discomfort and concerns me. That your son does interesting. Yeah,

5604
04:43:32,360 --> 04:43:35,200
Speaker 2: and he feels like he can talk to other people's

5605
04:43:35,960 --> 04:43:38,640
Speaker 2: and he feels like he can talk about other people's bodies.

5606
04:43:39,040 --> 04:43:41,160
Speaker 2: But as soon as his is mentioned, he starts crying

5607
04:43:41,320 --> 04:43:45,840
Speaker 2: because he is sensitive. If that was my son, this

5608
04:43:46,960 --> 04:43:49,840
Speaker 2: is when the toughening up would begin, because it sounds

5609
04:43:49,880 --> 04:43:52,640
Speaker 2: like he is soft as a candy caught in candy,

5610
04:43:53,240 --> 04:43:56,120
Speaker 2: and not as nearly sweet. So he's like, bro, you

5611
04:43:56,200 --> 04:43:57,360
Speaker 2: need a man up. You're fifteen.

5612
04:43:57,759 --> 04:44:01,680
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't like the man up suggestion. However,

5613
04:44:01,960 --> 04:44:04,120
Speaker 1: I do think a conversation, a conversation does need to have.

5614
04:44:05,400 --> 04:44:08,120
Speaker 2: I don't know the man up suggestion and the man

5615
04:44:08,280 --> 04:44:11,520
Speaker 2: up thing, that's all very touchy.

5616
04:44:12,240 --> 04:44:15,000
Speaker 1: I don't like it. I don't like it, but in general,

5617
04:44:15,040 --> 04:44:17,000
Speaker 1: a conversation needs to be had and boundaries need to

5618
04:44:17,040 --> 04:44:17,720
Speaker 1: be set with this kid.

5619
04:44:19,360 --> 04:44:23,520
Speaker 2: After saying this, I will whip your ass, Sofia, I

5620
04:44:23,560 --> 04:44:24,280
Speaker 2: don't want him.

5621
04:44:24,400 --> 04:44:26,440
Speaker 1: And I don't want that. I'll take the food.

5622
04:44:26,480 --> 04:44:26,600
Speaker 4: Though.

5623
04:44:26,720 --> 04:44:29,120
Speaker 2: What if, like you couldn't and you needed someone.

5624
04:44:28,960 --> 04:44:32,520
Speaker 1: To Hopefully you'd have enough money to hire someone.

5625
04:44:32,600 --> 04:44:35,680
Speaker 2: Hire someone nice? Good enough, good, no, good enough? Okay.

5626
04:44:35,840 --> 04:44:39,320
Speaker 2: My wife never liked the phrase toughening up and telling

5627
04:44:39,440 --> 04:44:42,320
Speaker 2: him that I feel would only make it worse. His

5628
04:44:42,400 --> 04:44:45,360
Speaker 2: sister is definitely tougher and he is physically and mentally

5629
04:44:45,960 --> 04:44:48,360
Speaker 2: not saying that is necessarily a bad thing, but it's

5630
04:44:48,440 --> 04:44:51,640
Speaker 2: kind of the norm as of now. His mom always

5631
04:44:51,720 --> 04:44:55,280
Speaker 2: coddled him, and his sister is his sister. Sister kind

5632
04:44:55,280 --> 04:44:57,240
Speaker 2: of grew up out of it, but he never did.

5633
04:44:57,680 --> 04:45:00,600
Speaker 2: I guess this is why he feels comfort talking to

5634
04:45:00,640 --> 04:45:03,600
Speaker 2: his mom rather than me, and it still hurts cats

5635
04:45:03,640 --> 04:45:06,720
Speaker 2: and plants. Four two four says I am ninety nine

5636
04:45:06,720 --> 04:45:08,960
Speaker 2: percent sure his therapists won't tell you a single thing,

5637
04:45:09,480 --> 04:45:11,600
Speaker 2: and you will just make it worse in his mind

5638
04:45:11,680 --> 04:45:14,400
Speaker 2: by asking the therapist to tattle on him as he

5639
04:45:14,600 --> 04:45:17,640
Speaker 2: feels he has no safe place because you won't allow

5640
04:45:17,720 --> 04:45:22,640
Speaker 2: him one. Yeah, that's tricky. Ope, he says, I wasn't

5641
04:45:22,680 --> 04:45:26,160
Speaker 2: going to ask a therapist about the conversation they have

5642
04:45:26,320 --> 04:45:28,520
Speaker 2: been having. I was just gonna ask him for advice

5643
04:45:28,560 --> 04:45:31,600
Speaker 2: about the situation and let him know how my son

5644
04:45:31,640 --> 04:45:34,640
Speaker 2: refuses to engage in conversation with me. Would that not

5645
04:45:34,759 --> 04:45:38,840
Speaker 2: be inappropriate? Appropriate? My wife tells me everything is fine,

5646
04:45:38,880 --> 04:45:42,200
Speaker 2: but doesn't tell me, doesn't let me know that her son,

5647
04:45:42,360 --> 04:45:45,039
Speaker 2: and doesn't let me know what our son and her

5648
04:45:45,080 --> 04:45:48,200
Speaker 2: talk about. I feel like I have no one else

5649
04:45:48,320 --> 04:45:49,880
Speaker 2: to turn to. So he's just trying to get advice

5650
04:45:49,960 --> 04:45:54,640
Speaker 2: from the therapist. Yeah, A hopeful reception nine to two

5651
04:45:54,800 --> 04:45:58,720
Speaker 2: says he doesn't get picked on for being heavier. I

5652
04:45:58,880 --> 04:46:02,320
Speaker 2: wonder if a big insecurity got hit by you, and

5653
04:46:03,400 --> 04:46:06,400
Speaker 2: that's going to take a long time to heal. Ooh,

5654
04:46:07,520 --> 04:46:09,960
Speaker 2: you don't expect a father to hit you at your

5655
04:46:10,640 --> 04:46:13,360
Speaker 2: hit you at your insecurities. I'm not saying the son

5656
04:46:13,720 --> 04:46:15,800
Speaker 2: was right about the sister thing. I'm the youngest of four,

5657
04:46:16,759 --> 04:46:20,000
Speaker 2: only boy. One year we had a bra on the

5658
04:46:20,080 --> 04:46:24,759
Speaker 2: Christmas tree. But I think he feels like he got

5659
04:46:25,040 --> 04:46:28,840
Speaker 2: hit below the belt because of the wait thing. Oh.

5660
04:46:28,919 --> 04:46:31,440
Speaker 2: He says he was to get picked on in early

5661
04:46:32,080 --> 04:46:34,840
Speaker 2: elementary school, but he has went to middle school. He

5662
04:46:34,960 --> 04:46:37,920
Speaker 2: told me that the bullying has stopped. Okay, I didn't

5663
04:46:37,919 --> 04:46:40,480
Speaker 2: realize my mistake after I saw how it upset him

5664
04:46:40,800 --> 04:46:43,760
Speaker 2: and apologized to him to show him that wasn't my intention.

5665
04:46:44,520 --> 04:46:48,320
Speaker 2: The sister also apologized to him as well. But I

5666
04:46:48,440 --> 04:46:51,200
Speaker 2: feel like it was mainly on me and I definitely

5667
04:46:51,280 --> 04:46:59,560
Speaker 2: didn't handle the situation correctly. All this one's not I

5668
04:46:59,680 --> 04:47:02,480
Speaker 2: hit that comment. Okay, this was downvoted. This one's a

5669
04:47:02,520 --> 04:47:06,560
Speaker 2: dial voted. Yeah, he needs an exercise plan, not a therapist.

5670
04:47:07,200 --> 04:47:10,240
Speaker 2: Sister's just trolling. Yeah, ain't no way he said that.

5671
04:47:11,040 --> 04:47:16,600
Speaker 2: Oh that's that's not cool. Okay, my son can be

5672
04:47:16,720 --> 04:47:19,120
Speaker 2: classified as overweight, but he has come a long way.

5673
04:47:19,600 --> 04:47:22,080
Speaker 2: He was two hundred twenty one and now pounds, and

5674
04:47:22,160 --> 04:47:25,079
Speaker 2: now he has won eighty nine pounds. His goal weight

5675
04:47:25,280 --> 04:47:28,879
Speaker 2: is one forty How tall is this guy? That doesn't

5676
04:47:28,880 --> 04:47:32,000
Speaker 2: seem healthy? So I feel like he's making progress. But

5677
04:47:32,120 --> 04:47:35,400
Speaker 2: I don't see how exercise is more important than having

5678
04:47:35,480 --> 04:47:39,000
Speaker 2: a therapist when it is easy to do both. Okay,

5679
04:47:39,080 --> 04:47:44,320
Speaker 2: Opey expands on what he meant by him crying? Oh wait,

5680
04:47:44,440 --> 04:47:46,160
Speaker 2: did OH say that that he used to be two

5681
04:47:46,200 --> 04:47:47,720
Speaker 2: twenty one and I was one eighty nine.

5682
04:47:48,040 --> 04:47:48,280
Speaker 1: Yeah?

5683
04:47:48,759 --> 04:47:53,879
Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, okay, yeah, yeah. I think therapist mindset first,

5684
04:47:54,600 --> 04:47:57,240
Speaker 2: because through exercise you can have the right mindset. But

5685
04:47:57,800 --> 04:48:00,520
Speaker 2: I feel like a therapist should Yeah, get that right.

5686
04:48:01,880 --> 04:48:04,320
Speaker 2: He explains a wayment by conning him crying. I never

5687
04:48:04,400 --> 04:48:07,160
Speaker 2: said he was doing anything wrong by crying, nor did

5688
04:48:07,200 --> 04:48:10,360
Speaker 2: I imply it. I just saw him crying, and that's

5689
04:48:10,520 --> 04:48:13,000
Speaker 2: what I did. He was crying, and I saw him crying. Okay,

5690
04:48:13,040 --> 04:48:17,520
Speaker 2: so he just saw crying. He's just wow, that is tricky.

5691
04:48:18,880 --> 04:48:22,440
Speaker 2: So the white thing wasn't really in a way kind

5692
04:48:22,480 --> 04:48:25,879
Speaker 2: of confused. The white thing doesn't seem like the primary conflict.

5693
04:48:25,960 --> 04:48:28,600
Speaker 2: But I think it was just the respect of him

5694
04:48:28,640 --> 04:48:32,040
Speaker 2: and his father, and that's been the issue. What are

5695
04:48:32,040 --> 04:48:34,000
Speaker 2: you guys thinking the millennial? It really sounds like the

5696
04:48:34,040 --> 04:48:36,800
Speaker 2: sun is going down in cell in a red pill

5697
04:48:37,360 --> 04:48:37,920
Speaker 2: rabbit hole.

5698
04:48:38,080 --> 04:48:42,680
Speaker 1: Okay uh Cassandra Brisbane. Brisbane says the sun is projecting

5699
04:48:42,759 --> 04:48:46,040
Speaker 1: and using emotional manipulation to not take responsibility for his

5700
04:48:46,160 --> 04:48:47,239
Speaker 1: own problems.

5701
04:48:49,520 --> 04:49:00,920
Speaker 2: I yeah, I don't sorry, yeah, oh sorry, Casey f

5702
04:49:01,080 --> 04:49:03,600
Speaker 2: when the mom knows what's up, then she can see

5703
04:49:03,720 --> 04:49:06,360
Speaker 2: if it would be important for OP to know. The

5704
04:49:06,520 --> 04:49:09,240
Speaker 2: best OP could do would be to ask his wife

5705
04:49:09,280 --> 04:49:11,879
Speaker 2: if she thinks she should if he should do anything

5706
04:49:11,919 --> 04:49:14,759
Speaker 2: that makes the situation easier. That's a good point. That's

5707
04:49:14,840 --> 04:49:15,640
Speaker 2: a really good point.

5708
04:49:15,680 --> 04:49:15,800
Speaker 1: Man.

5709
04:49:15,840 --> 04:49:19,640
Speaker 2: You guys are giving out great advice only cow. Yeah,

5710
04:49:19,759 --> 04:49:24,280
Speaker 2: that tough. I can't stand the therapy haters. What's the

5711
04:49:24,360 --> 04:49:27,880
Speaker 2: big difference to them? Yeah, therapists are great. I know

5712
04:49:27,960 --> 04:49:30,680
Speaker 2: people haven't gone to therapy myself, but I know people

5713
04:49:30,759 --> 04:49:34,120
Speaker 2: that go to therapy and seems like they're doing great

5714
04:49:34,440 --> 04:49:37,520
Speaker 2: and it's working. It's working, yeah, yeah, I mean it

5715
04:49:37,600 --> 04:49:42,120
Speaker 2: seems to be fingering it out. Yeah, w dad trying

5716
04:49:42,160 --> 04:49:44,760
Speaker 2: to figure it out. He asked the question if he

5717
04:49:44,759 --> 04:49:47,000
Speaker 2: should ask the therapist on what he should do. Back

5718
04:49:47,040 --> 04:49:49,480
Speaker 2: to Casey's point, I think you talking to the wife

5719
04:49:49,520 --> 04:49:51,440
Speaker 2: and be like, Hey, is there anything important I could

5720
04:49:51,440 --> 04:49:55,440
Speaker 2: do right now to help with the situation. Yeah, that's

5721
04:49:55,600 --> 04:49:56,480
Speaker 2: that's the best scenario.

5722
04:49:56,600 --> 04:49:58,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, and not you can be like, oh, I'm not

5723
04:49:58,840 --> 04:50:01,680
Speaker 1: asking you to tell me what he's saying, but it's like,

5724
04:50:01,880 --> 04:50:03,600
Speaker 1: is there any advice you could give based off of

5725
04:50:03,720 --> 04:50:04,520
Speaker 1: what you've been talking.

5726
04:50:04,720 --> 04:50:07,360
Speaker 2: It's me in the right direction. Yeah, that's always asking.

5727
04:50:08,919 --> 04:50:09,960
Speaker 2: That's all I got on.

5728
04:50:10,040 --> 04:50:13,000
Speaker 1: That amazing job. Everyone gives some w's in the chat

5729
04:50:13,080 --> 04:50:17,240
Speaker 1: for Riley reading Riley, maybe some rs in the chat.

5730
04:50:22,840 --> 04:50:22,880
Speaker 3: W.

5731
04:50:23,560 --> 04:50:25,120
Speaker 2: But you know what I really want you to do

5732
04:50:25,240 --> 04:50:30,640
Speaker 2: right now? So for you, it's been that all right,

5733
04:50:30,640 --> 04:50:35,320
Speaker 2: it's right there under you. Yeah. Yeah, w W Hi Riley,

5734
04:50:35,640 --> 04:50:39,120
Speaker 2: Hi aoki w w w W. Let's go wow. I

5735
04:50:39,240 --> 04:50:43,280
Speaker 2: am feeling so empowered him are okay, Okay, here.

5736
04:50:43,240 --> 04:50:43,440
Speaker 5: We go.

5737
04:50:46,480 --> 04:50:50,840
Speaker 1: Makeup make up. I have to do your makeup, no.

5738
04:50:52,080 --> 04:50:55,200
Speaker 2: Makeup, So now she's gonna do makeup? Do you want

5739
04:50:55,240 --> 04:50:56,759
Speaker 2: to do what you did for Emo Day?

5740
04:50:57,520 --> 04:50:57,680
Speaker 4: Oh?

5741
04:51:00,040 --> 04:51:01,320
Speaker 2: There any other kind of makeup we can do?

5742
04:51:01,919 --> 04:51:01,960
Speaker 3: What?

5743
04:51:02,240 --> 04:51:04,759
Speaker 1: What makeup do you want? I have mass scarro, I've

5744
04:51:04,800 --> 04:51:06,800
Speaker 1: got pretty sparkly eyeshadow.

5745
04:51:07,320 --> 04:51:10,200
Speaker 2: We got eyeshadowy. Okay, guys, we're gonna I.

5746
04:51:10,200 --> 04:51:11,840
Speaker 1: Really don't have a lot of makeup. I'm sorry, guys.

5747
04:51:11,840 --> 04:51:13,920
Speaker 2: We don't have a lot of makeup. Oh shut up,

5748
04:51:13,919 --> 04:51:15,600
Speaker 2: Pumpkin reading Riley, W thank you.

5749
04:51:17,600 --> 04:51:20,640
Speaker 1: Yeah. I can do very simple makeup. I might have

5750
04:51:20,800 --> 04:51:22,239
Speaker 1: I don't even know if I have eyeliner.

5751
04:51:22,960 --> 04:51:24,960
Speaker 2: Alright, I have some I have some stuff I did.

5752
04:51:25,080 --> 04:51:26,480
Speaker 1: Uh oh, yeah, you have your eyeliner.

5753
04:51:26,640 --> 04:51:30,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I have. Nobody overestimating my ability. I had a yes, queen,

5754
04:51:30,800 --> 04:51:32,520
Speaker 2: we need more Riley makeup, make up.

5755
04:51:32,520 --> 04:51:33,560
Speaker 1: Okay, go get your eyeliner.

5756
04:51:33,640 --> 04:51:34,960
Speaker 2: Alright, my eyeliner.

5757
04:51:35,120 --> 04:51:40,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, wait, we'll come back to me. It's me time.

5758
04:51:40,520 --> 04:51:46,440
Speaker 1: But I'm in the producer chair. What is everyone saying, Pepe,

5759
04:51:46,720 --> 04:51:51,000
Speaker 1: Maybe Riley does Sophia's makeup and test his kill. I

5760
04:51:51,160 --> 04:51:53,919
Speaker 1: I'm a little worried about my eyes is the only thing.

5761
04:51:54,120 --> 04:51:56,200
Speaker 1: I feel like he might poke them. No, I just

5762
04:51:56,600 --> 04:52:01,240
Speaker 1: when you're learning, it's a little all right. Oh, this

5763
04:52:01,360 --> 04:52:05,759
Speaker 1: is the eyeliner. This is eyeshadow. I'm gonna get my stuff.

5764
04:52:05,800 --> 04:52:07,919
Speaker 1: You stay here, entertain them.

5765
04:52:13,000 --> 04:52:17,040
Speaker 2: Oh, thank you guys for follow me. Oh I took

5766
04:52:17,040 --> 04:52:21,120
Speaker 2: it down on him. Anyways, I posted a picture of me. Okay,

5767
04:52:21,560 --> 04:52:24,720
Speaker 2: I have this cover. Girl, I got it. I just

5768
04:52:24,840 --> 04:52:25,399
Speaker 2: used the black.

5769
04:52:25,840 --> 04:52:26,680
Speaker 1: I got it for.

5770
04:52:28,600 --> 04:52:32,560
Speaker 2: Halloween because I dressed up as the new Halloween one,

5771
04:52:33,240 --> 04:52:37,920
Speaker 2: the new Harry, the New Batman from Robert Patterson, and

5772
04:52:38,040 --> 04:52:39,360
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, you look cool. So I got

5773
04:52:39,440 --> 04:52:41,400
Speaker 2: like stuff under my eyes. I'll have to share a picture.

5774
04:52:41,840 --> 04:52:45,200
Speaker 2: Sparkly goth Riley, we love you. Entertain us, Riley, I

5775
04:52:45,280 --> 04:52:49,919
Speaker 2: will always entertain you, guys, of course, Riley sparkly Ley

5776
04:52:50,040 --> 04:52:57,040
Speaker 2: ong entertain us. Getting lasagna in the oven, dude, Oh

5777
04:52:57,200 --> 04:53:01,880
Speaker 2: my gosh, I forgot about zagna. Hi, Banana Jones getting lasagna,

5778
04:53:02,320 --> 04:53:06,879
Speaker 2: Queen Riley Sleigh Sleigh. Yeah, that this is me now

5779
04:53:07,000 --> 04:53:09,240
Speaker 2: getting makeup done. I didn't think we would be here,

5780
04:53:09,320 --> 04:53:11,440
Speaker 2: but I ran out of ideas to put on the

5781
04:53:11,640 --> 04:53:13,440
Speaker 2: on the wheel. You guys have any ideas put on

5782
04:53:13,480 --> 04:53:16,120
Speaker 2: the wheel? Please? Like, go to my little discord channel

5783
04:53:16,200 --> 04:53:18,919
Speaker 2: and do it. Dotley Parton, I know her. I used

5784
04:53:18,919 --> 04:53:21,680
Speaker 2: to live near her in Tennessee. Yeah, Riley, show us

5785
04:53:21,720 --> 04:53:23,600
Speaker 2: the meme I tag for you in the discord, laid in.

5786
04:53:25,440 --> 04:53:27,840
Speaker 2: What did you end? What did you put? Did you

5787
04:53:27,840 --> 04:53:30,320
Speaker 2: guys put something just now? Oh wow, there a lot

5788
04:53:30,360 --> 04:53:35,600
Speaker 2: of chats. M is the cookie one? The cookie one's

5789
04:53:35,640 --> 04:53:38,600
Speaker 2: so funny? Oh, the Muppet one? You see this one?

5790
04:53:39,360 --> 04:53:42,919
Speaker 2: We can well. I gotta like, are we gonna read

5791
04:53:42,919 --> 04:53:49,200
Speaker 2: a story? Who's gonna read the story? Am I gonna

5792
04:53:49,320 --> 04:53:53,120
Speaker 2: read the story? Mm hmm hmm. This is gonna be tricky.

5793
04:53:54,040 --> 04:53:55,520
Speaker 2: You can do it quick, all right, guys. She's just

5794
04:53:55,560 --> 04:53:58,320
Speaker 2: gonna she's just gonna do my makeup, all right, a

5795
04:53:58,360 --> 04:54:03,040
Speaker 2: whole hour wig for one story. Okay, I'm just gonna

5796
04:54:03,080 --> 04:54:03,240
Speaker 2: do my.

5797
04:54:07,720 --> 04:54:08,000
Speaker 6: All right.

5798
04:54:08,040 --> 04:54:09,560
Speaker 1: You have to move your hair back though. Oh this

5799
04:54:09,680 --> 04:54:12,360
Speaker 1: is guys, it's gonna be so bad.

5800
04:54:12,400 --> 04:54:18,680
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, all right, just putting on the makeup. Ah.

5801
04:54:20,800 --> 04:54:22,920
Speaker 2: I heard something like, you can't make a face while

5802
04:54:22,960 --> 04:54:27,800
Speaker 2: putting on makeup because not okay, okay, because some people

5803
04:54:27,880 --> 04:54:31,480
Speaker 2: have like a ORBF. When they did the makeup, someone

5804
04:54:31,560 --> 04:54:36,240
Speaker 2: said to me, once tell us a funny story. Oh,

5805
04:54:36,440 --> 04:54:37,760
Speaker 2: I did have an okay story time I want to

5806
04:54:37,759 --> 04:54:40,720
Speaker 2: bring up the other day. So whenever I was giving

5807
04:54:40,800 --> 04:54:44,280
Speaker 2: the talk in fifth grade, at the time, I was

5808
04:54:44,320 --> 04:54:49,399
Speaker 2: going to recess and in school I had a speech.

5809
04:54:50,040 --> 04:54:53,520
Speaker 2: Oh okay, in school I had a speech impediment and

5810
04:54:53,680 --> 04:54:58,240
Speaker 2: I had to go to this speech feature to fix that?

5811
04:55:00,200 --> 04:55:01,560
Speaker 2: How do you go to the species show to fix that?

5812
04:55:02,600 --> 04:55:05,840
Speaker 2: And while I was there, her name was Miss Buff

5813
04:55:06,040 --> 04:55:11,000
Speaker 2: Love Miss Buff. Miss buff was the best ever. But

5814
04:55:11,400 --> 04:55:13,759
Speaker 2: I was given the talk the day before I went

5815
04:55:13,800 --> 04:55:15,520
Speaker 2: to go see Miss Buff and during the talk they

5816
04:55:15,560 --> 04:55:18,280
Speaker 2: were talking about the private parts, and one of the

5817
04:55:18,320 --> 04:55:21,360
Speaker 2: private parts. Me and my brother were there giving them talk.

5818
04:55:21,720 --> 04:55:24,960
Speaker 2: Parents were giving us the talk and they said the penis,

5819
04:55:25,040 --> 04:55:26,200
Speaker 2: and me and my brother looked at each other and

5820
04:55:26,280 --> 04:55:28,120
Speaker 2: we're trying not to laugh, when her parents were like, oh,

5821
04:55:28,160 --> 04:55:29,800
Speaker 2: you can laugh, it's fine. So we were laughing, ha

5822
04:55:29,919 --> 04:55:35,760
Speaker 2: ha ha. And then they said the female part, and

5823
04:55:36,040 --> 04:55:38,520
Speaker 2: I thought they said Venus for some reason, and I

5824
04:55:38,640 --> 04:55:43,520
Speaker 2: was like, no, it would be Venus, it would be Jupiter.

5825
04:55:43,640 --> 04:55:50,400
Speaker 2: So I thought that the female what okay? So I

5826
04:55:50,440 --> 04:55:53,320
Speaker 2: thought that the female body part was called Jupiter. So

5827
04:55:53,720 --> 04:55:56,720
Speaker 2: I was like, oh my gosh, that's so funny. The

5828
04:55:56,759 --> 04:55:58,200
Speaker 2: next day, I want to go see miss Buff. Miss

5829
04:55:58,240 --> 04:56:00,320
Speaker 2: buff is attractive to me. I have a crush on

5830
04:56:00,360 --> 04:56:03,240
Speaker 2: Miss Buff as I was young, because she's just attractive

5831
04:56:03,280 --> 04:56:07,840
Speaker 2: to me. And guess what we were reading about that day?

5832
04:56:08,400 --> 04:56:11,720
Speaker 2: The Solar System. And it was miss Me and miss

5833
04:56:11,759 --> 04:56:15,240
Speaker 2: Buff in like this at this table, reading and we

5834
04:56:15,360 --> 04:56:18,880
Speaker 2: were very close to each other. And while we were reading,

5835
04:56:18,960 --> 04:56:21,120
Speaker 2: we were like, we're gonna learn about the planets of

5836
04:56:21,160 --> 04:56:24,720
Speaker 2: the Solar System. YadA, YadA, YadA, Earth, Venus, Mars, and Uranus.

5837
04:56:24,759 --> 04:56:27,600
Speaker 2: She starts laughing at Uranus. I was like, okay, whatever.

5838
04:56:28,280 --> 04:56:28,399
Speaker 5: Uh.

5839
04:56:28,600 --> 04:56:32,480
Speaker 2: So each paragraph we talked about each planet, and we

5840
04:56:32,560 --> 04:56:35,079
Speaker 2: were reading about Earth, Mars, Venus, and then we got

5841
04:56:35,520 --> 04:56:39,000
Speaker 2: the Jupiter. As soon as I said Jupiter, her hand

5842
04:56:39,440 --> 04:56:42,320
Speaker 2: went on my lap, and I got so nervous at

5843
04:56:42,360 --> 04:56:45,040
Speaker 2: that second, because usually we never get nervous or don't

5844
04:56:45,040 --> 04:56:47,720
Speaker 2: know how to read a word. She'll like, she'll like,

5845
04:56:47,840 --> 04:56:52,560
Speaker 2: take my hand. I'm telling the story. Uh, she'll take

5846
04:56:52,640 --> 04:56:55,080
Speaker 2: my hand and she'll like put it where the the

5847
04:56:55,360 --> 04:56:57,760
Speaker 2: where I missed my place in the marker. And I

5848
04:56:57,880 --> 04:57:01,080
Speaker 2: got not bricked up, but I got really nervous after

5849
04:57:01,200 --> 04:57:03,280
Speaker 2: she said that and told me that I'm telling them

5850
04:57:03,280 --> 04:57:04,280
Speaker 2: the miss buff story.

5851
04:57:04,560 --> 04:57:09,239
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, Missus Bosher, the first teenage Boner Elementary School,

5852
04:57:09,280 --> 04:57:10,039
Speaker 6: elementary school.

5853
04:57:11,480 --> 04:57:14,440
Speaker 2: You look so pretty, Riley, thank you. I ran out

5854
04:57:14,440 --> 04:57:16,400
Speaker 2: of ideas. That's that's a.

5855
04:57:16,440 --> 04:57:17,560
Speaker 6: Really that's a really good one.

5856
04:57:18,000 --> 04:57:19,640
Speaker 1: Oh. The thing is that I do make up like

5857
04:57:19,720 --> 04:57:19,960
Speaker 1: a two.

5858
04:57:20,960 --> 04:57:23,600
Speaker 6: Also, I ordered the period stuff.

5859
04:57:24,640 --> 04:57:27,840
Speaker 2: No, that's crazy. I hate that you guys are gonna

5860
04:57:27,840 --> 04:57:28,320
Speaker 2: have to feel that.

5861
04:57:29,000 --> 04:57:30,520
Speaker 6: What we're going to all feel it?

5862
04:57:30,759 --> 04:57:34,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, you guys, the host everyone everyone. Interestingly, I I

5863
04:57:35,080 --> 04:57:37,600
Speaker 2: just saw you in this chair, which to me says

5864
04:57:39,080 --> 04:57:43,880
Speaker 2: you are a host school. You look beautiful, fleek bro.

5865
04:57:44,320 --> 04:57:46,160
Speaker 2: I don't even know what this is going to be about.

5866
04:57:47,320 --> 04:57:49,520
Speaker 1: That's all I have is this it?

5867
04:57:50,400 --> 04:57:59,160
Speaker 2: Alright? We'll buy some more. Oh wow, Oh, give me

5868
04:57:59,200 --> 04:58:03,759
Speaker 2: a little flutter, Give you a little flutter. My eyelashes

5869
04:58:03,800 --> 04:58:07,400
Speaker 2: already long enough. Oh my gosh, they like went in too.

5870
04:58:07,759 --> 04:58:11,800
Speaker 2: They are so long now. Yeah, my gosh. That great. Wow. Thanks, thanks.

5871
04:58:12,880 --> 04:58:15,480
Speaker 2: Next time, let's get to look like Dolly Parton.

5872
04:58:16,680 --> 04:58:20,960
Speaker 6: I love the stream has gone amazing and we tuned

5873
04:58:21,000 --> 04:58:23,879
Speaker 6: in just Sophia putting makeup on Riley.

5874
04:58:25,040 --> 04:58:26,640
Speaker 2: It was like, let's go whoa.

5875
04:58:32,360 --> 04:58:35,079
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, that's awesome and we love you Riley.

5876
04:58:36,080 --> 04:58:39,520
Speaker 2: Pretty protein, pretty protein, guys.

5877
04:58:39,600 --> 04:58:42,440
Speaker 5: Guys, guys, can someone make like the protein thing, but

5878
04:58:42,640 --> 04:58:44,360
Speaker 5: like make it beautified or whatever?

5879
04:58:44,800 --> 04:58:46,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, you get like a big jar of protein with

5880
04:58:47,080 --> 04:58:51,480
Speaker 2: big lashes or something. I need to see that. I'm there.

5881
04:58:51,480 --> 04:58:54,280
Speaker 6: You can take our spots again. Was that it doing great?

5882
04:58:54,560 --> 04:58:59,759
Speaker 2: I love you guys. Thanks for checking in. There's nothing

5883
04:58:59,840 --> 04:59:01,000
Speaker 2: just slank.

5884
04:59:03,640 --> 04:59:04,480
Speaker 4: Do you take that trash?

5885
04:59:04,880 --> 04:59:08,480
Speaker 1: That's my food? Oh, thank you for the food. Sorry, guys,

5886
04:59:08,640 --> 04:59:09,600
Speaker 1: I can't do better.

5887
04:59:09,560 --> 04:59:12,720
Speaker 2: Makeup, but no, it looks great. Where you lack in

5888
04:59:12,800 --> 04:59:15,520
Speaker 2: makeup skills is where I come in. Come in with beauty,

5889
04:59:18,000 --> 04:59:19,880
Speaker 2: natural beauty, natural beauty.

5890
04:59:20,000 --> 04:59:21,400
Speaker 1: Get real close to the camera. I want to see

5891
04:59:21,400 --> 04:59:24,320
Speaker 1: it up close. You can take your hat off or

5892
04:59:24,360 --> 04:59:28,000
Speaker 1: put light on you. Yeah, look at that beautiful His

5893
04:59:28,120 --> 04:59:32,560
Speaker 1: eyes are so so big, perfect.

5894
04:59:33,200 --> 04:59:35,760
Speaker 2: Per I've never felt this pretty in my life.

5895
04:59:36,000 --> 04:59:37,079
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm glad.

5896
04:59:38,000 --> 04:59:39,560
Speaker 2: Okay, that's what I live for.

5897
04:59:39,759 --> 04:59:46,000
Speaker 1: All right, we got fourteen minutes laughed. Let's something crazy.

5898
04:59:47,600 --> 04:59:51,640
Speaker 2: S two s too? Am?

5899
04:59:51,720 --> 04:59:52,160
Speaker 1: I wait?

5900
04:59:52,240 --> 04:59:58,079
Speaker 2: What on what? What epis for two? That's too unforward

5901
04:59:58,080 --> 05:00:03,360
Speaker 2: to hmmm, that's two on four two. Yeah, we're gonna

5902
05:00:03,400 --> 05:00:05,720
Speaker 2: the part where miss buff touched Riley's thighs. Yeah, she

5903
05:00:05,840 --> 05:00:07,040
Speaker 2: touched my thighs and then.

5904
05:00:07,440 --> 05:00:10,040
Speaker 1: Okay, sorry, I was like really locked in, but that

5905
05:00:10,240 --> 05:00:11,440
Speaker 1: is Yeah, that's concerning.

5906
05:00:11,560 --> 05:00:13,160
Speaker 2: She touched my thighs, but she didn't mean to. She

5907
05:00:13,280 --> 05:00:16,040
Speaker 2: likely like moved and she accidentally touched it. But I

5908
05:00:16,120 --> 05:00:17,920
Speaker 2: thought she touched it. She accidentally touched it. She's like

5909
05:00:18,000 --> 05:00:21,120
Speaker 2: sorry right after, and then I was like, I gotta

5910
05:00:21,160 --> 05:00:23,000
Speaker 2: get out of here. I know what's about to happen,

5911
05:00:23,160 --> 05:00:24,960
Speaker 2: but nothing was about to happen. I told her this

5912
05:00:25,000 --> 05:00:28,000
Speaker 2: story like years later, and she laughed so hard she

5913
05:00:28,160 --> 05:00:28,440
Speaker 2: loved it.

5914
05:00:29,120 --> 05:00:32,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, well let's get into this story. Did

5915
05:00:32,759 --> 05:00:35,400
Speaker 1: we read all of the tips Shadow Pumpkin? Thanks for

5916
05:00:35,480 --> 05:00:39,560
Speaker 1: the five eighty five tip reading le Riley w Tomorrow.

5917
05:00:40,000 --> 05:00:41,960
Speaker 1: Also thank you for the five buck tip reading Riley

5918
05:00:42,080 --> 05:00:44,160
Speaker 1: is great. Hope to see more in the future. Let

5919
05:00:44,200 --> 05:00:48,000
Speaker 1: me all thanks, Yeah you did, Meredith Benson, you did

5920
05:00:48,080 --> 05:00:49,199
Speaker 1: miss the bakup sashon.

5921
05:00:49,600 --> 05:00:50,520
Speaker 2: Sorry, don't worry.

5922
05:00:51,600 --> 05:00:55,320
Speaker 1: Get better so I can do better. Make all right?

5923
05:00:55,400 --> 05:00:58,440
Speaker 1: Let's get into story, maybe the last story. Am I

5924
05:00:58,560 --> 05:01:01,440
Speaker 1: the a hole for telling my father and stepmother that

5925
05:01:01,560 --> 05:01:03,640
Speaker 1: I'll exchange the gift they bought for my daughter?

5926
05:01:04,680 --> 05:01:05,000
Speaker 2: Well?

5927
05:01:05,040 --> 05:01:09,600
Speaker 1: Oh so, dear A hovercraft thirty seven forty nine says.

5928
05:01:10,240 --> 05:01:12,760
Speaker 1: My daughter is turning five later this month. We have

5929
05:01:12,840 --> 05:01:15,000
Speaker 1: a trip coming up, so we decided to have her

5930
05:01:15,040 --> 05:01:18,480
Speaker 1: birthday party last Saturday instead. When we got home after

5931
05:01:18,560 --> 05:01:21,000
Speaker 1: the party, we helped our daughter open our gifts. The

5932
05:01:21,160 --> 05:01:24,040
Speaker 1: only ones she didn't open were the ones we realized

5933
05:01:24,080 --> 05:01:26,720
Speaker 1: were jewelry or clothing. She doesn't care about those, only

5934
05:01:26,800 --> 05:01:29,559
Speaker 1: the toys, which me and my husband opened without her.

5935
05:01:30,200 --> 05:01:33,320
Speaker 1: Those were gifted mostly by family members. The jewelry department

5936
05:01:33,440 --> 05:01:38,000
Speaker 1: mainly consisted of new necklaces and bracelets. The sole exception

5937
05:01:38,480 --> 05:01:41,680
Speaker 1: was a pair of earrings gifted by my father and

5938
05:01:41,840 --> 05:01:45,760
Speaker 1: his wife. My daughter's ears aren't pierced. We didn't pierce

5939
05:01:45,840 --> 05:01:47,760
Speaker 1: them when she was born, nor do we intend to

5940
05:01:47,840 --> 05:01:50,640
Speaker 1: do so anytime soon. We want to let her decide

5941
05:01:50,759 --> 05:01:53,480
Speaker 1: whether she wants to, and she's never expressed any interest,

5942
05:01:54,080 --> 05:01:57,399
Speaker 1: so me and my husband already knew we'd be exchanging

5943
05:01:57,440 --> 05:02:00,280
Speaker 1: the earrings. Usually we don't tell people were extanly she'ing

5944
05:02:00,320 --> 05:02:03,600
Speaker 1: a gift they bought for us. This time is different.

5945
05:02:05,120 --> 05:02:08,080
Speaker 1: My stepmother has been pestering me about piercing my daughter's

5946
05:02:08,080 --> 05:02:12,000
Speaker 1: ears since she was born. There's always a different reason why.

5947
05:02:12,280 --> 05:02:14,520
Speaker 1: First it was because people wouldn't know she was a

5948
05:02:14,560 --> 05:02:17,160
Speaker 1: girl if we didn't. Then it turned into she'll get

5949
05:02:17,240 --> 05:02:20,280
Speaker 1: jealous of her friends and so on. But she always

5950
05:02:20,320 --> 05:02:22,760
Speaker 1: makes the point that girls need to have their ears pierced.

5951
05:02:23,160 --> 05:02:26,640
Speaker 1: You don't if you don't want to. She brings it

5952
05:02:26,759 --> 05:02:29,440
Speaker 1: up almost every time we see her. My father usually

5953
05:02:29,520 --> 05:02:31,600
Speaker 1: doesn't comment on it, but he's backed her up a

5954
05:02:31,680 --> 05:02:35,160
Speaker 1: few times. Also, my stepmother's never complained about my older

5955
05:02:35,240 --> 05:02:38,880
Speaker 1: son's appearance, so I know this is rooted in sexism. Yeah,

5956
05:02:38,960 --> 05:02:40,759
Speaker 1: she seems like she's like, you have to if you're

5957
05:02:40,759 --> 05:02:43,840
Speaker 1: a traditional woman, you gotta haver earrings. When my father

5958
05:02:44,000 --> 05:02:45,680
Speaker 1: called us the next day to ask what we thought

5959
05:02:45,720 --> 05:02:48,040
Speaker 1: of the earrings. I told them they look nice. My

5960
05:02:48,120 --> 05:02:50,840
Speaker 1: stepmother joined in and asked, so you're getting her ears pierced.

5961
05:02:51,520 --> 05:02:54,320
Speaker 1: I tried to dodge the question, but she later asked

5962
05:02:54,360 --> 05:02:57,800
Speaker 1: it again, so I told them no. I looked at

5963
05:02:57,840 --> 05:03:00,480
Speaker 1: the store's website and found a matching necklace which will

5964
05:03:00,520 --> 05:03:04,400
Speaker 1: exchange the earrings for. There's a price difference, but I'll

5965
05:03:04,440 --> 05:03:11,520
Speaker 1: cover it well. They weren't happy. Apparently, my stepmother started crying.

5966
05:03:11,960 --> 05:03:14,680
Speaker 1: My father told me off for thinking about exchanging a

5967
05:03:14,759 --> 05:03:17,960
Speaker 1: thoughtful gift he bought for his granddaughter and said it

5968
05:03:18,120 --> 05:03:21,280
Speaker 1: was wrong of me to dismiss my stepmother's opinions like that.

5969
05:03:21,960 --> 05:03:24,280
Speaker 1: In return, I told them I couldn't take her insistence

5970
05:03:24,360 --> 05:03:28,600
Speaker 1: anymore and she needed to stop obsessing over my daughter's ears.

5971
05:03:28,919 --> 05:03:32,760
Speaker 1: It it escalated into a fight. My husband, while one

5972
05:03:32,800 --> 05:03:35,800
Speaker 1: hundred percent on my side otherwise, thinks I didn't need

5973
05:03:35,919 --> 05:03:37,960
Speaker 1: to tell them, am I the a hole.

5974
05:03:38,640 --> 05:03:40,000
Speaker 2: He needs to be on your side about that too.

5975
05:03:40,080 --> 05:03:42,880
Speaker 1: He needs to be on your side. Also. One person said,

5976
05:03:43,280 --> 05:03:44,800
Speaker 1: you guys think we've read this story before.

5977
05:03:46,360 --> 05:03:47,200
Speaker 2: I don't remember this one.

5978
05:03:47,240 --> 05:03:49,719
Speaker 1: I don't remember this one. Maybe it was a similar story.

5979
05:03:50,040 --> 05:03:51,840
Speaker 1: Sorry if we did, but I'm going to keep reading.

5980
05:03:53,440 --> 05:03:55,640
Speaker 1: There's an edit. The party took place at a kid's

5981
05:03:55,800 --> 05:03:58,440
Speaker 1: party venue, not at her home. Were not from the US,

5982
05:03:58,560 --> 05:04:00,720
Speaker 1: And it's not common to open gifts in front of

5983
05:04:00,800 --> 05:04:01,720
Speaker 1: guests around here.

5984
05:04:02,520 --> 05:04:05,440
Speaker 2: Really, what what it's not Wait, it's.

5985
05:04:05,360 --> 05:04:08,039
Speaker 1: Not common to open gifts in front of people.

5986
05:04:08,280 --> 05:04:09,760
Speaker 2: Really, I guess so, I don't know.

5987
05:04:11,919 --> 05:04:15,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. This is I feel like they're

5988
05:04:15,080 --> 05:04:17,399
Speaker 1: not saying that, Oh, we're never gonna get our daughter's

5989
05:04:17,440 --> 05:04:18,840
Speaker 1: ears peers. We just want to do it when she

5990
05:04:18,919 --> 05:04:20,800
Speaker 1: wants to do it. M And I feel like it's

5991
05:04:20,800 --> 05:04:23,360
Speaker 1: a little bit you know there the stepmother is getting

5992
05:04:23,360 --> 05:04:27,840
Speaker 1: a little bit too involved. Yeah, yeah, I don't know.

5993
05:04:29,360 --> 05:04:33,440
Speaker 2: The stepmother in a ways trying to mother your child

5994
05:04:33,560 --> 05:04:35,120
Speaker 2: whenever she should be stepmothering.

5995
05:04:35,480 --> 05:04:40,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, there are some relevant comments. Husband is out

5996
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Speaker 1: of line. My Oh wait, what did the husband do?

5997
05:04:42,840 --> 05:04:45,120
Speaker 1: I don't know. My husband is just trying to keep

5998
05:04:45,160 --> 05:04:47,240
Speaker 1: the peace. And I do agree that my actions could

5999
05:04:47,280 --> 05:04:50,680
Speaker 1: be seen as impolite. If I wasn't as annoyed as

6000
05:04:50,720 --> 05:04:53,199
Speaker 1: I was, I probably wouldn't have said something.

6001
05:04:54,000 --> 05:04:54,120
Speaker 5: Oh.

6002
05:04:54,200 --> 05:04:56,440
Speaker 1: If I wasn't annoyed as I was, I probably wouldn't

6003
05:04:56,440 --> 05:04:59,079
Speaker 1: have said something not the a hole. But you could

6004
05:04:59,080 --> 05:05:01,040
Speaker 1: always keep the earrings for the future. Oh, this is

6005
05:05:01,080 --> 05:05:04,840
Speaker 1: someone else says this knowing my stepmother keeping the ear

6006
05:05:04,880 --> 05:05:07,360
Speaker 1: rings is a bad idea. She talks about how pretty

6007
05:05:07,440 --> 05:05:10,320
Speaker 1: she'd look with earrings. Enough as it is, having actual

6008
05:05:10,360 --> 05:05:13,880
Speaker 1: earrings around would just make things worse. Also, if my

6009
05:05:13,960 --> 05:05:15,920
Speaker 1: daughter does decide to pierce her ears one day, I

6010
05:05:15,960 --> 05:05:18,000
Speaker 1: think she'd like to pick her own ear rings. And

6011
05:05:18,080 --> 05:05:20,080
Speaker 1: there are a little bit there are some more comments,

6012
05:05:20,919 --> 05:05:25,160
Speaker 1: but I I think I understand maybe saving the ear

6013
05:05:25,200 --> 05:05:28,840
Speaker 1: rings for like the future. I don't. Yeah, I think

6014
05:05:28,880 --> 05:05:32,760
Speaker 1: that would be maybe a fair thing. But also if

6015
05:05:32,960 --> 05:05:36,080
Speaker 1: oh Pece kind of knows the stepmother's vibe, I'd be

6016
05:05:36,080 --> 05:05:38,640
Speaker 1: a little bit worried that the stepmother might, like, if

6017
05:05:38,680 --> 05:05:40,800
Speaker 1: they're taking care of the kid, might go and take

6018
05:05:40,840 --> 05:05:42,000
Speaker 1: her to get her ears parst.

6019
05:05:42,320 --> 05:05:46,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh dude, that's messed off.

6020
05:05:46,240 --> 05:05:50,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, which is yeah, No, I don't know. I mean, yeah,

6021
05:05:51,600 --> 05:05:54,640
Speaker 1: I think you just got to wait until your kid says, hey,

6022
05:05:54,680 --> 05:05:56,400
Speaker 1: I want to get my ears beirst because I knew

6023
05:05:56,400 --> 05:05:58,759
Speaker 1: when I was five, But you know, maybe this five

6024
05:05:58,840 --> 05:06:01,680
Speaker 1: year old was like, I don't I hasn't mentioned them

6025
05:06:01,720 --> 05:06:06,160
Speaker 1: yet Yeah yet, Yeah, well, your five year old. Someone says,

6026
05:06:06,200 --> 05:06:09,320
Speaker 1: your five year old is plenty old enough to appreciate

6027
05:06:09,400 --> 05:06:11,120
Speaker 1: gifts given to her. You need to teach her to

6028
05:06:11,160 --> 05:06:13,560
Speaker 1: be appreciative, no matter if it's clothes or jewelry, and

6029
05:06:13,680 --> 05:06:15,280
Speaker 1: this comment is heavily downloaded.

6030
05:06:15,960 --> 05:06:17,640
Speaker 2: Yeah noe, fine, She's fine.

6031
05:06:18,960 --> 05:06:21,800
Speaker 1: She is appreciative, she says thank you, wears the clothes,

6032
05:06:21,880 --> 05:06:23,880
Speaker 1: and likes the jewelry. But she was tired from the

6033
05:06:23,960 --> 05:06:26,360
Speaker 1: party and wanted to see her new toys before going

6034
05:06:26,440 --> 05:06:30,760
Speaker 1: to bed. She's not ungrateful, she's just not excited about everything. Also,

6035
05:06:30,880 --> 05:06:33,480
Speaker 1: my mother in law has tried to give her unbelievably

6036
05:06:33,600 --> 05:06:37,239
Speaker 1: sexist shirts twice last year. Oh so we check. Now,

6037
05:06:38,080 --> 05:06:40,520
Speaker 1: so we checked new clothes before letting our daughters see them.

6038
05:06:41,320 --> 05:06:44,040
Speaker 1: And someone says, w twof is that about? Is every

6039
05:06:44,120 --> 05:06:48,960
Speaker 1: grandparent in her life a raging misogynist? Oh yeah, because

6040
05:06:49,000 --> 05:06:50,960
Speaker 1: that was not the stepmother, this is the mother in law.

6041
05:06:51,200 --> 05:06:53,960
Speaker 1: Oh oh that was a different person too. Oh god,

6042
05:06:55,040 --> 05:06:57,520
Speaker 1: uh nah. Mother in law just doesn't speak English. She

6043
05:06:57,680 --> 05:07:00,759
Speaker 1: was actually mortified when we told her what two pretty

6044
05:07:00,840 --> 05:07:01,360
Speaker 1: for math?

6045
05:07:01,600 --> 05:07:01,759
Speaker 2: Men?

6046
05:07:02,400 --> 05:07:05,640
Speaker 1: No, you gave a five year old two pretty for math?

6047
05:07:06,759 --> 05:07:08,160
Speaker 1: Oh that was just a mess up though.

6048
05:07:08,200 --> 05:07:11,920
Speaker 2: But that's Loki makes you need that shirt because every

6049
05:07:12,040 --> 05:07:16,360
Speaker 2: time you're like this plus math, like you don't need

6050
05:07:16,440 --> 05:07:19,760
Speaker 2: math because you're too pretty for it. Apparent like you

6051
05:07:19,800 --> 05:07:23,240
Speaker 2: see what I'm saying. Okay, is this is this a

6052
05:07:23,280 --> 05:07:24,440
Speaker 2: compliment or not?

6053
05:07:24,840 --> 05:07:26,680
Speaker 1: I feel I feel complimented and.

6054
05:07:28,240 --> 05:07:30,720
Speaker 2: Attacks like you're a girl boss, you don't need to math.

6055
05:07:30,800 --> 05:07:32,680
Speaker 1: Okay, I just want to like put it out there

6056
05:07:32,720 --> 05:07:34,480
Speaker 1: before we read the rest of the comments. I am

6057
05:07:34,640 --> 05:07:37,680
Speaker 1: good at math. I'm just not good at mental math.

6058
05:07:37,640 --> 05:07:40,079
Speaker 2: Because because you're too pretty for it, too.

6059
05:07:40,000 --> 05:07:42,680
Speaker 1: Pretty for mental math. I was in a p math,

6060
05:07:43,520 --> 05:07:46,080
Speaker 1: I did all the math stuff. It just is no

6061
05:07:46,200 --> 05:07:50,240
Speaker 1: longer relevant to my life. Okay, yeah, it's no longer relevant.

6062
05:07:49,800 --> 05:07:53,280
Speaker 2: To my life. Number scare me to Okay, I'm gonna read.

6063
05:07:53,720 --> 05:07:56,720
Speaker 2: I'm gonna oh yeah, yeah, but look wait wait, what

6064
05:07:56,800 --> 05:07:58,800
Speaker 2: is this lomal rally saying that with the makeup on,

6065
05:07:58,919 --> 05:08:05,960
Speaker 2: is amusing pretty subtract? Yeah?

6066
05:08:06,320 --> 05:08:07,040
Speaker 1: Why would I do that?

6067
05:08:08,120 --> 05:08:10,840
Speaker 2: Calculators are for like fifty likes to make it two

6068
05:08:10,840 --> 05:08:14,640
Speaker 2: a thousand? Come on? Yeah right, yeah exactly.

6069
05:08:15,120 --> 05:08:18,720
Speaker 1: Dum where we don't leave her alone with them, They're

6070
05:08:18,800 --> 05:08:21,440
Speaker 1: never alone with her. My father still works and doesn't

6071
05:08:21,480 --> 05:08:24,120
Speaker 1: have enough free time to babysit. My stepmother has never

6072
05:08:24,200 --> 05:08:26,360
Speaker 1: been alone with my child for more than two hours

6073
05:08:26,480 --> 05:08:29,400
Speaker 1: her words, not mine, oh with a child, sorry, not

6074
05:08:29,480 --> 05:08:31,719
Speaker 1: even my child with a child for more than two hours,

6075
05:08:32,120 --> 05:08:34,000
Speaker 1: So we wouldn't ask her to stay with our kids either.

6076
05:08:34,480 --> 05:08:36,720
Speaker 1: Where are you from? Are those young ages normal for

6077
05:08:36,759 --> 05:08:39,840
Speaker 1: getting ears pierced? That is pretty? I got again, I

6078
05:08:39,919 --> 05:08:45,480
Speaker 1: got my It's not unnormal, just it's not normal. You know,

6079
05:08:45,560 --> 05:08:48,480
Speaker 1: it's whatever your parents are comfortable and if the child.

6080
05:08:48,320 --> 05:08:53,400
Speaker 2: Expresses interesting Bernie Deler tip for Riley, smooth recovery. Thank you.

6081
05:08:54,960 --> 05:08:55,120
Speaker 5: Yeah.

6082
05:08:55,240 --> 05:09:02,120
Speaker 1: Riley is simultaneously calling me stupid and pretty. H Where

6083
05:09:02,160 --> 05:09:02,520
Speaker 1: are you from?

6084
05:09:02,520 --> 05:09:02,600
Speaker 5: Oh?

6085
05:09:02,680 --> 05:09:05,160
Speaker 1: And then Opie responds, I'm not comfortable sharing the country

6086
05:09:05,200 --> 05:09:07,160
Speaker 1: I live in, but it's in South America. I had

6087
05:09:07,200 --> 05:09:09,600
Speaker 1: my ears pierced at like two months, which my mom

6088
05:09:09,720 --> 05:09:12,840
Speaker 1: is always regretted. And then another person asks why did

6089
05:09:12,919 --> 05:09:15,840
Speaker 1: she regret it? Opie says, I did have some minor allergies,

6090
05:09:15,880 --> 05:09:18,360
Speaker 1: but nothing bad. She says she regrets it because she

6091
05:09:18,400 --> 05:09:20,840
Speaker 1: feels it should have been my choice. She doesn't she

6092
05:09:20,960 --> 05:09:23,919
Speaker 1: didn't have my younger sister's ears pierced. And then Opie

6093
05:09:23,960 --> 05:09:27,120
Speaker 1: responds to some other questions. I didn't mean an incentive

6094
05:09:27,160 --> 05:09:29,840
Speaker 1: for my daughter to use them. I meant an incentive

6095
05:09:29,880 --> 05:09:32,480
Speaker 1: for my stepmother to further pester us about it. If

6096
05:09:32,520 --> 05:09:34,640
Speaker 1: I kept the earrings, we'd certainly get more attempts to

6097
05:09:34,680 --> 05:09:37,400
Speaker 1: push us to pierce her ears. My daughter has nothing

6098
05:09:37,440 --> 05:09:40,440
Speaker 1: against jewelry. She loves necklaces and bracelets. But I'm not

6099
05:09:40,560 --> 05:09:43,040
Speaker 1: giving her something she can't use just because her grandfather

6100
05:09:43,160 --> 05:09:47,040
Speaker 1: and wife think she should have it. The earrings weren't

6101
05:09:47,040 --> 05:09:49,239
Speaker 1: a thoughtful gift, as my father calls it. They were

6102
05:09:49,280 --> 05:09:52,440
Speaker 1: a manipulation tactic. They weren't actually thinking of my daughter

6103
05:09:52,520 --> 05:09:53,560
Speaker 1: when they bought the earrings.

6104
05:09:54,280 --> 05:09:57,680
Speaker 2: I'm not what, Oh keep going give me crazy?

6105
05:09:57,880 --> 05:09:59,840
Speaker 1: I'm not showing them to my daughter because I know

6106
05:10:00,240 --> 05:10:02,880
Speaker 1: their only purpose was to pressure her and myself into

6107
05:10:02,960 --> 05:10:03,880
Speaker 1: something she doesn't want.

6108
05:10:04,160 --> 05:10:04,360
Speaker 2: Ah.

6109
05:10:04,800 --> 05:10:08,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely. And there is an update, a little baby

6110
05:10:08,919 --> 05:10:12,360
Speaker 1: update to finish this off, so maybe we'll do that.

6111
05:10:13,000 --> 05:10:15,719
Speaker 2: So wow, Yeah, why are they trying to pressure her

6112
05:10:15,880 --> 05:10:17,560
Speaker 2: in this? A five year old?

6113
05:10:17,759 --> 05:10:18,280
Speaker 1: Five year old?

6114
05:10:18,360 --> 05:10:20,160
Speaker 2: Why does she think she doesn't want or knows what

6115
05:10:20,280 --> 05:10:20,840
Speaker 2: she wants yet?

6116
05:10:20,960 --> 05:10:23,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's fine, let her, let her figure it out

6117
05:10:23,240 --> 05:10:25,440
Speaker 1: if she says, hey, I want earrings. Then yeah, at

6118
05:10:25,440 --> 05:10:26,280
Speaker 1: that point maybe.

6119
05:10:26,200 --> 05:10:29,040
Speaker 2: But let her play with their frozen recruiter and watch

6120
05:10:29,160 --> 05:10:29,560
Speaker 2: movies or.

6121
05:10:29,600 --> 05:10:31,640
Speaker 1: By her like little clip on earrings. Those are fun,

6122
05:10:31,680 --> 05:10:32,200
Speaker 1: Those are fun.

6123
05:10:32,320 --> 05:10:33,840
Speaker 2: John does it all the time. He loves it.

6124
05:10:34,480 --> 05:10:34,800
Speaker 1: He does.

6125
05:10:35,080 --> 05:10:36,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, when does he?

6126
05:10:36,480 --> 05:10:38,200
Speaker 1: I've never seen him work clip on earrings.

6127
05:10:39,440 --> 05:10:41,280
Speaker 2: I don't know what episode it was, but he has

6128
05:10:41,400 --> 05:10:44,600
Speaker 2: them sick. Yeah, all right, I think it was in Bali.

6129
05:10:45,000 --> 05:10:49,360
Speaker 1: Oh, okay, but there is an update. I want to

6130
05:10:49,400 --> 05:10:52,200
Speaker 1: thank everyone who commented on my previous post. A few

6131
05:10:52,240 --> 05:10:54,720
Speaker 1: days after I wrote, I called my father. I told

6132
05:10:54,800 --> 05:10:56,800
Speaker 1: him that both him and his wife were out of line,

6133
05:10:57,240 --> 05:10:59,840
Speaker 1: and that any further attempts to overrule my and my

6134
05:11:00,080 --> 05:11:05,000
Speaker 1: husband's parenting will have consequences. We're both more than willing

6135
05:11:05,040 --> 05:11:07,120
Speaker 1: to limit their contact with our children if they don't

6136
05:11:07,120 --> 05:11:10,360
Speaker 1: stay in line. We did end up fighting about it,

6137
05:11:10,440 --> 05:11:13,400
Speaker 1: but I put my foot down. Eventually my father agreed.

6138
05:11:14,080 --> 05:11:16,320
Speaker 1: A few days later, he sent me an apology via

6139
05:11:16,400 --> 05:11:18,880
Speaker 1: text and offered to cover the price difference between the

6140
05:11:18,960 --> 05:11:22,880
Speaker 1: earrings and the necklace. I declined. I also discussed the

6141
05:11:22,960 --> 05:11:26,200
Speaker 1: situation with my husband. We both agreed to check whatever

6142
05:11:26,240 --> 05:11:28,240
Speaker 1: gifts our kids get from my father and his wife

6143
05:11:28,280 --> 05:11:31,760
Speaker 1: in the future. Better safe than sorry. My husband and

6144
05:11:31,840 --> 05:11:34,920
Speaker 1: I exchanged the earrings for the matching necklace during the weekend.

6145
05:11:35,160 --> 05:11:38,600
Speaker 1: Our girls love it. We filmed where our girl loves it.

6146
05:11:39,080 --> 05:11:41,520
Speaker 1: We filmed her wearing it, and thanked my father and

6147
05:11:41,640 --> 05:11:44,440
Speaker 1: his wife and sent them the video. My father sent

6148
05:11:44,560 --> 05:11:47,280
Speaker 1: us an audio saying you're welcome, honey, I love you, etc.

6149
05:11:47,720 --> 05:11:51,280
Speaker 1: In response. My stepmother did not reply, nor do I

6150
05:11:51,360 --> 05:11:54,879
Speaker 1: expect her to yulicks. Also, you guys are absolutely right.

6151
05:11:55,000 --> 05:11:57,560
Speaker 1: There's no way in hell either of them are ever

6152
05:11:57,759 --> 05:12:00,480
Speaker 1: babysitting my kids. But yeah, I think this is over.

6153
05:12:00,720 --> 05:12:02,640
Speaker 1: Thank you for reassuring me that I was right to

6154
05:12:02,680 --> 05:12:06,800
Speaker 1: hold my ground. And there are three comments left, so

6155
05:12:06,919 --> 05:12:09,720
Speaker 1: I'll just read those, right, I'll read Yeah, I'll read

6156
05:12:09,759 --> 05:12:13,680
Speaker 1: yall's comments. First. Lovely Lady Valerie says, I've been gifted

6157
05:12:13,720 --> 05:12:15,640
Speaker 1: earrings many times in my life, and I can't wear

6158
05:12:15,680 --> 05:12:17,760
Speaker 1: them because I have no holes in my ears. Skin

6159
05:12:17,880 --> 05:12:19,559
Speaker 1: is sensitive and I can't wear a lot of stuff

6160
05:12:19,560 --> 05:12:21,280
Speaker 1: in my nose piercing nowadays either.

6161
05:12:21,720 --> 05:12:21,920
Speaker 2: Yeah.

6162
05:12:21,960 --> 05:12:24,480
Speaker 1: I feel like it's always a little bit risky to

6163
05:12:24,520 --> 05:12:27,200
Speaker 1: get jewelry if you haven't talked to the person either

6164
05:12:27,520 --> 05:12:31,840
Speaker 1: before I think, yeah, I think you know asking those

6165
05:12:31,919 --> 05:12:35,240
Speaker 1: questions because like I have, you know, sensitive ears and

6166
05:12:35,320 --> 05:12:39,320
Speaker 1: sensitive skin, so I can only wear very certain metals. Yeah,

6167
05:12:39,440 --> 05:12:41,920
Speaker 1: so you just have to talk to them before. And

6168
05:12:42,000 --> 05:12:44,560
Speaker 1: then Kristin foyle Hat says, I had my done it

6169
05:12:44,640 --> 05:12:47,600
Speaker 1: six months. I'm very pierced and tattooed, but my daughter

6170
05:12:47,680 --> 05:12:50,240
Speaker 1: is terrified of needles, and until she's comfortable with it,

6171
05:12:50,360 --> 05:12:53,400
Speaker 1: it's not happening no matter how much she thinks earrings

6172
05:12:53,440 --> 05:13:00,480
Speaker 1: are pretty. Yeah, agreed, but relevant comments common one says,

6173
05:13:00,680 --> 05:13:03,399
Speaker 1: one of my earliest memories is the moment I got

6174
05:13:03,440 --> 05:13:05,320
Speaker 1: my ears pierced. I must have been two years old,

6175
05:13:05,360 --> 05:13:09,360
Speaker 1: and I still remember the pain. That was traumatizing. Opie says, yeah,

6176
05:13:09,440 --> 05:13:11,600
Speaker 1: my daughter's old enough to remember something like this too.

6177
05:13:11,840 --> 05:13:14,200
Speaker 1: I would never pierce your ears unless she wanted to.

6178
05:13:14,640 --> 05:13:16,600
Speaker 1: And then on it being a cultural thing. We're all

6179
05:13:16,640 --> 05:13:19,480
Speaker 1: from Latin America. It's pretty common to pierce girl's ears

6180
05:13:19,640 --> 05:13:22,520
Speaker 1: right after birth around here. I have nothing against people

6181
05:13:22,520 --> 05:13:24,760
Speaker 1: who do that, but I'd never do it myself. And

6182
05:13:24,840 --> 05:13:27,960
Speaker 1: then a down voted comment says you should have mentioned

6183
05:13:28,000 --> 05:13:30,960
Speaker 1: that because it adds nuance to the situation. Opie says,

6184
05:13:31,320 --> 05:13:34,240
Speaker 1: being normal and being the norm are two different things.

6185
05:13:34,400 --> 05:13:37,640
Speaker 1: Around here. Not piercing a baby's ears is almost just

6186
05:13:37,720 --> 05:13:40,400
Speaker 1: as common as doing so this wasn't a cultural matter.

6187
05:13:40,759 --> 05:13:43,960
Speaker 1: She just wanted to get her way and then next occasion,

6188
05:13:44,120 --> 05:13:46,560
Speaker 1: as another comment says, next ocasion, get your step mom

6189
05:13:46,640 --> 05:13:49,359
Speaker 1: a set of nipple rings and just maintain eye contact.

6190
05:13:50,240 --> 05:13:52,560
Speaker 1: That would be pretty good. That would be pretty good. Yeah.

6191
05:13:53,440 --> 05:13:55,800
Speaker 1: I actually I was telling my oka Opie's story time

6192
05:13:55,840 --> 05:13:58,800
Speaker 1: because it involved Sam. When I got my ears pierced,

6193
05:13:58,960 --> 05:14:03,480
Speaker 1: I got them pierced Claire's, which I don't technically recommend

6194
05:14:03,600 --> 05:14:07,160
Speaker 1: because you can get Yeah, yeah, they don't. People don't

6195
05:14:07,360 --> 05:14:09,560
Speaker 1: recommend getting your ears at Claires because they use a

6196
05:14:10,360 --> 05:14:14,320
Speaker 1: ear piercing gun which can't technically be sterilized. But anyway,

6197
05:14:14,720 --> 05:14:17,560
Speaker 1: I was five, I don't know. So my mom took

6198
05:14:17,640 --> 05:14:20,760
Speaker 1: me to go get my ears pierced at Claire's and

6199
05:14:20,919 --> 05:14:23,400
Speaker 1: Sam came with us. I was five years old. I

6200
05:14:23,480 --> 05:14:25,240
Speaker 1: was so excited a little bit nervous, and so they

6201
05:14:25,320 --> 05:14:28,000
Speaker 1: go to do the gun on my ear and I

6202
05:14:28,120 --> 05:14:30,560
Speaker 1: was like, I was very scared. I was like nervous,

6203
05:14:30,919 --> 05:14:33,240
Speaker 1: and they do it so fast and it like doesn't hurt,

6204
05:14:33,320 --> 05:14:35,800
Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh, that's actually was fine, and I'm

6205
05:14:36,320 --> 05:14:39,120
Speaker 1: about to be like, you know, I'm good, and then

6206
05:14:39,200 --> 05:14:43,960
Speaker 1: Sam goes your ears bleeding, it's gushing blood, and I

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05:14:44,040 --> 05:14:46,840
Speaker 1: start sobbing and freaking out even though it didn't hurt

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05:14:46,880 --> 05:14:49,120
Speaker 1: because he's telling me that my ear is gushing blood.

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05:14:49,880 --> 05:14:53,759
Speaker 1: That's my ear pier story. Yeah, yeah, but it did

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05:14:53,800 --> 05:14:54,160
Speaker 1: not hurt.

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05:14:54,280 --> 05:14:58,280
Speaker 2: So oh yeah, like when babies fall, you don't react.

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05:14:58,080 --> 05:15:00,840
Speaker 1: You just like yeah until another person, and that actually

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05:15:00,960 --> 05:15:04,520
Speaker 1: is a thing, like we're babies are much more sturdy, dude.

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Speaker 2: I saw a baby they face playing one time, and

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05:15:06,560 --> 05:15:08,720
Speaker 2: I did not make any reaction and it got up

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05:15:08,759 --> 05:15:09,399
Speaker 2: and kept walking.

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05:15:09,520 --> 05:15:11,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you don't make it, because they go based

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05:15:11,280 --> 05:15:13,440
Speaker 1: because they're mimicking because they're still learning. So if you

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05:15:13,440 --> 05:15:15,280
Speaker 1: don't make a reaction or if you're like, if you

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05:15:15,320 --> 05:15:17,720
Speaker 1: don't go, oh my god, are you okay, then they'll

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05:15:17,720 --> 05:15:21,000
Speaker 1: be like I'm fine. I guess because no one said anything.

6222
05:15:20,919 --> 05:15:22,360
Speaker 2: Sam traumatizing Sofia.

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05:15:24,120 --> 05:15:26,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, everyone says that I traumatized Sam, but you know what,

6224
05:15:27,520 --> 05:15:31,720
Speaker 1: they never talk about the time that he traumatized me. Also,

6225
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Speaker 1: thank you Caitlin for the one buck Hope y'all have

6226
05:15:34,000 --> 05:15:37,120
Speaker 1: a great Easter weekend. PS, Sophia and Riley, don't forget

6227
05:15:37,160 --> 05:15:39,440
Speaker 1: to share the picts with John and Sam love all

6228
05:15:39,480 --> 05:15:39,600
Speaker 1: of you.

6229
05:15:39,759 --> 05:15:41,880
Speaker 2: We will share the cheese and I don't think we will.

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05:15:42,759 --> 05:15:43,200
Speaker 1: That's true.

6231
05:15:43,240 --> 05:15:43,960
Speaker 2: They know about it.

6232
05:15:44,080 --> 05:15:44,960
Speaker 1: Then we get to eat it all.

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05:15:46,480 --> 05:15:48,520
Speaker 2: I'll just be like, look at this fun thing someone

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05:15:48,640 --> 05:15:49,280
Speaker 2: thought about doing.

6235
05:15:49,640 --> 05:15:51,200
Speaker 1: Someone thought about doing them, but they never sent it

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05:15:52,120 --> 05:15:53,560
Speaker 1: too bad? Don't look at that?

6237
05:15:53,840 --> 05:15:55,160
Speaker 2: Would we share them with them? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: No, we will, Kay? Then we will? Uh, Katie Page, Oh,

6239
05:16:04,120 --> 05:16:08,000
Speaker 1: we're done? Because I said your name. I was absolutely

6240
05:16:08,000 --> 05:16:09,680
Speaker 1: desperate to get my ears done from the age of

6241
05:16:09,720 --> 05:16:12,000
Speaker 1: like nine ish. My parents wouldn't let me have them

6242
05:16:12,040 --> 05:16:14,920
Speaker 1: done till I was thirteen. I got about five or

6243
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Speaker 1: six at the bottom of my ears now and three

6244
05:16:17,040 --> 05:16:19,640
Speaker 1: or four at the top on one side. I ended

6245
05:16:19,720 --> 05:16:21,560
Speaker 1: up buying a piercing gun on eBay and did a

6246
05:16:21,640 --> 05:16:25,759
Speaker 1: load of them myself. Wow, I should address it. Determined,

6247
05:16:26,000 --> 05:16:27,559
Speaker 1: determined to get those piercings.

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Speaker 2: I love it.

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05:16:28,640 --> 05:16:32,800
Speaker 1: Well, that is the stream. What do you guys think?

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05:16:32,960 --> 05:16:33,320
Speaker 7: What did you?

6251
05:16:33,759 --> 05:16:33,960
Speaker 2: First?

6252
05:16:34,040 --> 05:16:34,200
Speaker 3: Time?

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05:16:34,280 --> 05:16:39,880
Speaker 1: Was my first soula stream quote unquote. It was really fun.

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05:16:39,919 --> 05:16:42,120
Speaker 1: I enjoyed it. I was I don't know how long

6255
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Speaker 1: that was but it was a while.

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05:16:44,480 --> 05:16:47,600
Speaker 2: Twelve for five hours, five hours and fifteen minutes.

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Speaker 1: That's impressive. Guys. You guys we have we have we

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Speaker 1: collectively have stamina, and I love that for us to

6259
05:16:56,440 --> 05:17:00,919
Speaker 1: finish this off. Happy Easter, Happy Passover, Happy resurrection.

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Speaker 2: I what was resurrection?

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05:17:02,919 --> 05:17:04,360
Speaker 1: Something I can't remember? Sorry resurrection?

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05:17:04,720 --> 05:17:04,920
Speaker 2: WHOA?

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05:17:05,520 --> 05:17:08,440
Speaker 1: Did we just get a big old fifty dollars tip

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Speaker 1: from Reefstone twenty one. Thank you so much? Yes, happy,

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Speaker 1: happy to all the different celebrations happening this weekend. I

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Speaker 1: hope you have amazing weekend with thoughts and thank you

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Speaker 1: Nocturnal Slytherin for the two bucks.

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Speaker 2: Hope you get that Eastring Hunt, Yeah, I will get it. Well.

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