1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,080 Speaker 1: My girlfriend kisses her best friend all the time in 2 00:00:03,120 --> 00:00:03,600 Speaker 1: front of me. 3 00:00:04,240 --> 00:00:07,320 Speaker 2: I mean that's pretty cool, pretty great. Right, what do 4 00:00:07,320 --> 00:00:12,639 Speaker 2: you think, ke on? I think love is love? Wait? Whoa? 5 00:00:12,640 --> 00:00:13,040 Speaker 2: What is? 6 00:00:13,200 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 1: What is? 7 00:00:13,720 --> 00:00:14,400 Speaker 2: What's going on there? 8 00:00:14,440 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 1: Wait? 9 00:00:14,680 --> 00:00:16,360 Speaker 2: Guys? What do you? What do you? What are you 10 00:00:16,400 --> 00:00:18,160 Speaker 2: dressed up for? What's? What's? What's? Is there some sort 11 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:19,640 Speaker 2: of special occasion or. 12 00:00:19,640 --> 00:00:23,400 Speaker 3: Like I was told to come to work business casual, 13 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:25,120 Speaker 3: but I always keep it business guys. 14 00:00:25,520 --> 00:00:29,240 Speaker 1: Oh, he's about his business. 15 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:34,640 Speaker 2: I think it means. I think it's exactly what it means. Guys. Oh, 16 00:00:35,400 --> 00:00:40,080 Speaker 2: and what would that mean? Guys? We're all family here. 17 00:00:40,800 --> 00:00:43,479 Speaker 2: I love you, they love you. I'm a part of. 18 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:52,680 Speaker 1: This team leaving full time. Okay, story timer, ladies and gentlemen. 19 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 1: This is his first day, announcing it to everyone. Yesterday 20 00:00:56,040 --> 00:00:57,760 Speaker 1: was technically his first day, but today is his first 21 00:00:57,800 --> 00:00:58,960 Speaker 1: day now, tator. 22 00:00:58,680 --> 00:01:00,320 Speaker 3: Real first day because I had to come in with 23 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:00,880 Speaker 3: the business. 24 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 2: That's right. Today is his first day in a suit? God? 25 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:07,399 Speaker 2: Is he fucking yeah? He really is? You guys, I 26 00:01:07,400 --> 00:01:09,480 Speaker 2: wish you could see the pants on this guy. They 27 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:13,200 Speaker 2: aren't there. Yeah. Yeah, I do like a little three 28 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:15,840 Speaker 2: sixty for the chat. Yeah, we're gonna do. 29 00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:17,960 Speaker 1: We're gonna do a postgame interview after the story and 30 00:01:18,400 --> 00:01:21,520 Speaker 1: then we'll get the full three city. So you gotta wait, wait, 31 00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:23,600 Speaker 1: tell that in the story, guys. Let's get into it then. 32 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:26,880 Speaker 1: So we have been dating for the past ten months. 33 00:01:26,880 --> 00:01:29,280 Speaker 1: We had our ups and downs, nothing too serious. But 34 00:01:29,319 --> 00:01:32,000 Speaker 1: for the first six months she did break up with 35 00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:37,600 Speaker 1: me every month. Well sounds that sounds real fun, but 36 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:40,399 Speaker 1: we still wanted to take it to marriage. 37 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 2: We are both college students. 38 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:46,840 Speaker 1: This is my first love relationship, everything first, everything for me. 39 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 2: But not for her. 40 00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 4: Oh that makes sense now after that first sentence about 41 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:53,920 Speaker 4: breaking up every month for six months. 42 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 2: It's normal, babe. 43 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:57,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, I wanted to date someone who has never been 44 00:01:57,760 --> 00:02:00,240 Speaker 1: in a relationship and it should be her first time too. 45 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:02,960 Speaker 1: I know it sounds crazy, but I just wanted us 46 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:06,200 Speaker 1: both to have the same experience. We started as friends 47 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 1: and then became best friends. And suddenly one day I 48 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:11,120 Speaker 1: kissed her and she. 49 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 2: Kissed me back. Well, he just learned what kissing is. 50 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 2: Oh God. 51 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:19,680 Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from Careful Ad forty three 52 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 1: oh one from the r sash Okay start time still 53 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 1: read it. So when we started our relationship, I was 54 00:02:24,440 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 1: a very different man. I was detached. Nothing could bother me, 55 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 1: and we realized it was not a good way to 56 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 1: live in a relationship. So I changed myself three sixty 57 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:35,839 Speaker 1: for her, meaning he went all the way right back 58 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 1: to where he was before. It's a one eighty Okay, 59 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:42,239 Speaker 1: you need to focus on school instead of the relationship. 60 00:02:42,400 --> 00:02:43,799 Speaker 2: You need to learn angles. 61 00:02:43,960 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 1: I've made that mistake a trillion time, so I can't 62 00:02:46,919 --> 00:02:50,200 Speaker 1: mean that I became a completely different man. She said 63 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:52,880 Speaker 1: that herself and our relationship started to bloom. It was 64 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:55,640 Speaker 1: very different to me, and uh, it took me four 65 00:02:55,680 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 1: to six months to change myself, but I finally did it. 66 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 1: I still am bad at communicating because I lived my 67 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 1: life alone pretty much, but I was not lonely. I 68 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:09,399 Speaker 1: don't ask for anything from anyone, and I keep low 69 00:03:09,440 --> 00:03:13,960 Speaker 1: expectation from everyone. Now, my girlfriend is the kind of 70 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:17,160 Speaker 1: girl who does not bother to remember my birthday, where 71 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:19,440 Speaker 1: I was born, what I like or dislike. 72 00:03:22,600 --> 00:03:25,240 Speaker 2: That's not sounded very good to me. 73 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I guess, I guess your hometown 74 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:29,560 Speaker 1: is pretty much where you're born, so you should know 75 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:30,160 Speaker 1: all those things. 76 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:35,080 Speaker 2: Those some of those things are pretty basically like he 77 00:03:35,120 --> 00:03:36,800 Speaker 2: doesn't remember any of that. 78 00:03:37,080 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 4: No, like she should remember one thing that you like, dude, 79 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 4: like just one what's your name? I can't even remember 80 00:03:45,800 --> 00:03:52,120 Speaker 4: my own name, casolate, So although she tries to remember 81 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:54,960 Speaker 4: later on, but it was not enough of what I 82 00:03:55,040 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 4: was putting into it. 83 00:03:55,760 --> 00:03:57,600 Speaker 2: So basically, ope, he's putting in all the effort. Seems 84 00:03:57,600 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 2: like she's not putting in anything. 85 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 1: She loves herself more than anyone, although it's not bad. 86 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 1: But I, on the other hand, loved her more than myself. 87 00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 2: Dude. 88 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 4: This has all every single red flag for like a bad, 89 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:15,800 Speaker 4: toxic kind of codependent relationship, but it's not even codependent. 90 00:04:15,840 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 2: It feels like it's one side. Dude. It's pretty rough. 91 00:04:19,240 --> 00:04:22,000 Speaker 1: Oh so I kept myself for sex flash dignity to 92 00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 1: the side and did everything possible to make this relationship work. 93 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:28,919 Speaker 1: She always said, she always says that I am the 94 00:04:28,960 --> 00:04:31,599 Speaker 1: world's best boyfriend and can't believe that she got me 95 00:04:31,880 --> 00:04:34,840 Speaker 1: and I ticked twenty out of ten boxes. 96 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:36,520 Speaker 2: Okay. 97 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:39,200 Speaker 1: She told me nobody ever cared for her like I did, 98 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:42,920 Speaker 1: not even her father and brother or any of her exes. 99 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:47,680 Speaker 1: She also told me that I am the best in 100 00:04:47,760 --> 00:04:50,560 Speaker 1: the bed, and I raised her expectations. 101 00:04:50,760 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 4: Okay, I still too many red flags for me to 102 00:04:54,360 --> 00:04:57,599 Speaker 4: be happy about those sentences right now, dude, But you're good. 103 00:04:57,440 --> 00:04:59,040 Speaker 2: In the bed, But I can't remember your birthday. 104 00:04:59,160 --> 00:05:02,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, can you tell me your last name one more time? 105 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:03,920 Speaker 2: I can't listen. Listen. 106 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:06,200 Speaker 1: You do me so good. You f it right in 107 00:05:06,279 --> 00:05:09,240 Speaker 1: my brain. I was gonna say that you took it 108 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:10,800 Speaker 1: out of my Yeah. 109 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:13,279 Speaker 4: But that's not the fact that we are the ones 110 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:16,080 Speaker 4: coming up with That line tells me everything I need 111 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 4: to know about this. 112 00:05:17,640 --> 00:05:21,279 Speaker 2: Are you with me? I mean, I've done it. He's like, 113 00:05:21,400 --> 00:05:23,920 Speaker 2: I've heard that once or twice or a hundred times. 114 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:25,240 Speaker 2: But those cakes of his. 115 00:05:26,160 --> 00:05:30,039 Speaker 1: But on the other hand, I did not feel these things. 116 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:32,719 Speaker 1: I feel that I am draining myself and I'm getting 117 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:36,400 Speaker 1: the bare minimum and not getting even a single thing 118 00:05:36,440 --> 00:05:36,839 Speaker 1: that I've. 119 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:37,160 Speaker 2: Asked her for. 120 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:40,920 Speaker 1: When I told her about this, she gave me when 121 00:05:40,960 --> 00:05:43,480 Speaker 1: I told when I told her about this, she told 122 00:05:43,480 --> 00:05:45,000 Speaker 1: me to give her a chance and that she will 123 00:05:45,040 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 1: change herself. With a relationship always a winning recipe. So 124 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 1: I did give her a chance because she gave me 125 00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 1: a chance in the past. Well, in the beginning of 126 00:05:55,760 --> 00:05:59,000 Speaker 1: our relationship, she told me everything about her past and 127 00:05:59,040 --> 00:06:03,239 Speaker 1: told me that she still has some pictures of her ex. 128 00:06:04,880 --> 00:06:09,160 Speaker 4: Okay, the X that was nowhere near as good as 129 00:06:09,160 --> 00:06:13,400 Speaker 4: you though, right, Oh wait, wait, wait of his X. 130 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:18,560 Speaker 2: Of wait, she had pictures of his ex so everything 131 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:20,160 Speaker 2: about Yeah, let me let me, let me run that back. 132 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:24,400 Speaker 1: It does remember her birthday, but remembers pictures I've had, right, yeah, 133 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:27,599 Speaker 1: I can't. She's like, Look, I care so much that 134 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 1: I've developed a list of every X that you've ever had. 135 00:06:31,360 --> 00:06:33,520 Speaker 1: It's all organized. I look at it every day so 136 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:35,920 Speaker 1: I don't forget their faces. You know, the important things 137 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:37,280 Speaker 1: I can't forget, you know what I'm saying. 138 00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 2: So I know who it's on site with. 139 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:42,280 Speaker 1: Oh good, safe, So running that back real quick to 140 00:06:42,279 --> 00:06:44,800 Speaker 1: make sure I got that. In the beginning of our relationship, 141 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:48,159 Speaker 1: she told me everything about her past and told me 142 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:52,320 Speaker 1: that she still has some pictures of this X. I 143 00:06:52,320 --> 00:06:56,440 Speaker 1: think it's this X. Let's call him XB. It was 144 00:06:56,480 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 1: two years since she came out of that relationship. Because 145 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:03,800 Speaker 1: he is all on her mind but not in her heart. Dude, 146 00:07:03,880 --> 00:07:07,280 Speaker 1: she's got a picture of him that's in the heart. 147 00:07:08,560 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 3: God, this dude is defending such a red flag. 148 00:07:12,720 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 2: It's so bad. 149 00:07:14,400 --> 00:07:18,000 Speaker 4: I mean, it's not he's he's defending his own like 150 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:20,640 Speaker 4: this was his first love, his first real relationship, and 151 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 4: it's like he's defending that. I don't know this like 152 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:25,880 Speaker 4: kind of you know, the young notion of like. 153 00:07:25,760 --> 00:07:27,280 Speaker 2: Oh, but it's like true love and it's. 154 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 4: The one and the only, and I'll never have another 155 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:32,120 Speaker 4: shot like this. It's like, oh, dude, I feel so 156 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:32,840 Speaker 4: bad for this guy. 157 00:07:32,960 --> 00:07:37,680 Speaker 2: Classic first relationship. She gets me, she's the one he's 158 00:07:37,720 --> 00:07:39,760 Speaker 2: just holding on, especially as the guy. I feel like 159 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:40,160 Speaker 2: the guy. 160 00:07:40,320 --> 00:07:43,400 Speaker 1: It's like, dang, like, am I ever gonna get a 161 00:07:43,440 --> 00:07:47,200 Speaker 1: girl like this or you know, like vibes like that? 162 00:07:47,280 --> 00:07:47,440 Speaker 2: Yeah? 163 00:07:47,440 --> 00:07:49,360 Speaker 4: Am I ever gonna find another girl who likes her 164 00:07:49,360 --> 00:07:50,120 Speaker 4: ex more than me? 165 00:07:51,600 --> 00:07:52,120 Speaker 2: That's hey. 166 00:07:52,160 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 1: So some of these, some of these young men out 167 00:07:54,400 --> 00:07:57,360 Speaker 1: here listen, they listen to one too many entertate vodcasts 168 00:07:57,440 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 1: and here. 169 00:07:58,360 --> 00:08:03,280 Speaker 2: We are, here we are right. Yeah. 170 00:08:03,320 --> 00:08:05,600 Speaker 1: So I told her to take time to delete it. 171 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 1: Fast forward to six months later. I saw pictures of 172 00:08:09,360 --> 00:08:11,880 Speaker 1: XB on her phone and we had a fight about it. 173 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:15,280 Speaker 1: She told me that she did that, she did delete everything, 174 00:08:15,400 --> 00:08:16,680 Speaker 1: and she might have missed it. 175 00:08:17,400 --> 00:08:19,720 Speaker 2: Later on, after some days. 176 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:22,240 Speaker 1: I found some pictures of him again and we had 177 00:08:22,280 --> 00:08:26,240 Speaker 1: a fight again. 178 00:08:25,640 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 4: Well, like, isn't this story is supposed to be about 179 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:29,680 Speaker 4: how she kisses girls in front of him? Like, I 180 00:08:29,720 --> 00:08:35,360 Speaker 4: feel like you've got more issues than her kissing girls 181 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:37,240 Speaker 4: in front of you. Like, oh my god, this is 182 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:40,400 Speaker 4: a girl who does not care about her relationship with 183 00:08:40,440 --> 00:08:41,439 Speaker 4: you at all. 184 00:08:41,600 --> 00:08:44,440 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but that's what it reads like. I got 185 00:08:44,440 --> 00:08:46,400 Speaker 1: to know. I got to know that as she still 186 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:48,439 Speaker 1: lives in her past. So I asked her to throw 187 00:08:48,480 --> 00:08:51,440 Speaker 1: away all of the stuff that belonged to him. Apparently 188 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:53,520 Speaker 1: there's things physical lineage she has as well. 189 00:08:53,600 --> 00:08:54,040 Speaker 2: Wow. 190 00:08:54,600 --> 00:08:59,200 Speaker 1: So she refused initially, saying that she cherishes the memories 191 00:08:59,400 --> 00:09:01,840 Speaker 1: and we have different sets of beliefs. But then she 192 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:04,640 Speaker 1: told me that she can do anything for me, and 193 00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:08,280 Speaker 1: if it hurts me, she will throw it away. Okay, 194 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 1: I guess as those things don't matter to her anyways. 195 00:09:12,400 --> 00:09:16,559 Speaker 2: I's done. That's I detect a falsehood. No, it's perfect. 196 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:19,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, Green Flags, you just had to twist her arm 197 00:09:19,760 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 4: for six months to get her to do it, and 198 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:23,720 Speaker 4: then you had to supervise it at the same time. 199 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:27,400 Speaker 4: That's totally that's good kissing women. 200 00:09:27,679 --> 00:09:30,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, you had me in the first half, but I'm 201 00:09:30,120 --> 00:09:31,280 Speaker 3: really just man. 202 00:09:31,320 --> 00:09:38,640 Speaker 2: You're simping other dudes. Yeah, lost guy, I'm taking off 203 00:09:38,679 --> 00:09:41,800 Speaker 2: this suit. Oh man. 204 00:09:41,880 --> 00:09:48,079 Speaker 1: Well but then lo and beholds the same thing happens again. 205 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:52,240 Speaker 1: She threw it away and then picked it up, and 206 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:54,760 Speaker 1: then she threw it away a second time, and then 207 00:09:54,840 --> 00:09:55,200 Speaker 1: picked it. 208 00:09:55,280 --> 00:09:56,760 Speaker 2: Up again from the trash. 209 00:09:57,120 --> 00:10:00,200 Speaker 1: During all this time, I was hurting a lot, crying, 210 00:10:00,400 --> 00:10:03,240 Speaker 1: and she just kept making false promises. 211 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:11,360 Speaker 3: So like, where where you're typing this all out and 212 00:10:11,400 --> 00:10:13,560 Speaker 3: you you've made this story and you're like, this is 213 00:10:13,559 --> 00:10:13,960 Speaker 3: all good. 214 00:10:14,040 --> 00:10:17,520 Speaker 2: Let's get to the kissing part with a friend. Bro, 215 00:10:18,240 --> 00:10:21,920 Speaker 2: please stop. I decided to give her a chance. 216 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:25,560 Speaker 1: No stop, dude, you haven't already given her like a 217 00:10:25,720 --> 00:10:26,720 Speaker 1: hundred chances. 218 00:10:26,800 --> 00:10:30,720 Speaker 2: Like it's it's not gonna work. What are we talking about, dude? 219 00:10:31,200 --> 00:10:34,920 Speaker 2: Oh this poor little soft boy. Oh my god, I'm 220 00:10:34,960 --> 00:10:40,320 Speaker 2: so sorry she's dude, Like come on, oh. 221 00:10:40,360 --> 00:10:44,240 Speaker 4: I don't even really feel like she's being particularly nasty 222 00:10:44,320 --> 00:10:44,600 Speaker 4: at all. 223 00:10:44,760 --> 00:10:49,520 Speaker 1: It's just like he's so holding on so tight to 224 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:53,720 Speaker 1: this this idea of this perfect relationship that has never existed. 225 00:10:54,800 --> 00:10:59,959 Speaker 1: Oh bro, no, so tragically down. So I told myself, no, 226 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:04,600 Speaker 1: I can't read it. I told myself that I am 227 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:09,319 Speaker 1: overreacting because it's so sad, because it's my first relationship, 228 00:11:10,160 --> 00:11:12,640 Speaker 1: and maybe these things happen, and it does not mean 229 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:14,359 Speaker 1: that you should give up on your relationship. 230 00:11:14,840 --> 00:11:15,600 Speaker 2: I was fighting. 231 00:11:15,640 --> 00:11:17,760 Speaker 1: I was fighting for it until I got to the 232 00:11:17,800 --> 00:11:20,880 Speaker 1: point that there was a past relationship that she hid 233 00:11:20,920 --> 00:11:25,760 Speaker 1: from me. Let's call him x a x al Okay, 234 00:11:26,800 --> 00:11:30,720 Speaker 1: his her first real relationship. What he's always wanted. This 235 00:11:30,800 --> 00:11:33,320 Speaker 1: is what op He's always wanted. Oh so this was 236 00:11:33,960 --> 00:11:39,000 Speaker 1: heard her one true exactly who Opie wishes he was, sir, right, 237 00:11:39,360 --> 00:11:41,959 Speaker 1: I guess, Oh my god, and this guy is no 238 00:11:42,040 --> 00:11:45,560 Speaker 1: one but her best friend for the past ten years. 239 00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:52,840 Speaker 2: And they still live dude under the same roof. Dude, dude, 240 00:11:52,880 --> 00:11:55,679 Speaker 2: this is sad. Wait what what do you mean they 241 00:11:55,720 --> 00:11:58,840 Speaker 2: live under the same sadad like they live in the 242 00:11:58,920 --> 00:12:06,160 Speaker 2: same dorm. Honey, honey, side piece. I've never been this 243 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:09,120 Speaker 2: thrown off in a first stream story in my life. 244 00:12:09,280 --> 00:12:10,960 Speaker 3: I got a suit and all, and we got a 245 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:12,920 Speaker 3: new we got a new member of the team. Dude, 246 00:12:13,280 --> 00:12:16,080 Speaker 3: John's confused. I'm thrown for a loop, new thing on 247 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:19,160 Speaker 3: new new reading. Look at this guys, it's all new today. 248 00:12:20,679 --> 00:12:25,040 Speaker 4: I feel like this is this guy's super villain origin story. 249 00:12:25,080 --> 00:12:28,520 Speaker 4: This is the beginning of him becoming like Lex Luthor. 250 00:12:28,679 --> 00:12:34,520 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it's everyone combined, Joker, Valdemore, all of them, 251 00:12:34,600 --> 00:12:35,720 Speaker 1: all of them mixed into one. 252 00:12:35,800 --> 00:12:37,400 Speaker 2: Is what this man is about to be gone. It's 253 00:12:37,400 --> 00:12:39,440 Speaker 2: what I would become if I was this kid. 254 00:12:40,040 --> 00:12:43,960 Speaker 1: Good God, And they still all live under the same roof, 255 00:12:44,360 --> 00:12:49,199 Speaker 1: eat from the same plates, exchange jackets and hoodies, walk 256 00:12:49,240 --> 00:12:53,240 Speaker 1: around holding hands, and of course she kisses him on 257 00:12:53,280 --> 00:12:54,400 Speaker 1: the cheek and hands. 258 00:12:54,800 --> 00:12:54,920 Speaker 2: Uh. 259 00:12:55,480 --> 00:12:57,640 Speaker 1: All of us used to happen in front of me 260 00:12:57,880 --> 00:13:00,559 Speaker 1: all the time when we were in a real relationship. 261 00:13:01,280 --> 00:13:04,920 Speaker 2: So this is wait this is the title then? Right? 262 00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:08,480 Speaker 2: This is the title X or no? 263 00:13:08,960 --> 00:13:09,040 Speaker 1: What? 264 00:13:09,520 --> 00:13:10,079 Speaker 2: Yeah? 265 00:13:10,400 --> 00:13:14,040 Speaker 4: So the title is really my girlfriend keeps kissing her 266 00:13:14,120 --> 00:13:15,680 Speaker 4: ex boyfriend in front of me? 267 00:13:16,200 --> 00:13:18,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, what do I do? Yeah? We might have to 268 00:13:18,640 --> 00:13:21,959 Speaker 2: actually retake that title the film much better, more accurate. 269 00:13:22,400 --> 00:13:26,480 Speaker 2: I mean, is it? Are we gonna further into it? 270 00:13:26,520 --> 00:13:28,680 Speaker 1: And I might have been a slightly off title. It 271 00:13:28,760 --> 00:13:30,160 Speaker 1: might be exactly on the money. 272 00:13:30,920 --> 00:13:32,320 Speaker 2: Wow. I think we all I. 273 00:13:32,320 --> 00:13:36,920 Speaker 3: Think we all misread BFF being like a female like this. 274 00:13:36,920 --> 00:13:40,000 Speaker 3: This is a this is her BFF, guys, her best 275 00:13:40,040 --> 00:13:40,760 Speaker 3: boyfriend forever. 276 00:13:40,800 --> 00:13:41,200 Speaker 2: I don't know. 277 00:13:41,240 --> 00:13:46,120 Speaker 4: Wow, the best the boyfriend forever, that's what this is, dude. 278 00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:49,400 Speaker 2: Wow, we just know we didn't know what BFF meant 279 00:13:50,160 --> 00:13:52,360 Speaker 2: gender day holes. Well, I'm sorry, buddy. 280 00:13:52,880 --> 00:13:54,680 Speaker 4: I know this is your first love, but it's also 281 00:13:54,720 --> 00:13:57,199 Speaker 4: going to be your first love lost because it's gonna 282 00:13:57,240 --> 00:13:59,839 Speaker 4: hurt real bad when you wake up and realize what 283 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:00,880 Speaker 4: it has been going on. 284 00:14:00,960 --> 00:14:03,960 Speaker 1: Bro's gonna fall so far, so far. He really had 285 00:14:04,000 --> 00:14:05,840 Speaker 1: me when he said x B. I was like, where's 286 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:06,240 Speaker 1: x A? 287 00:14:08,120 --> 00:14:10,240 Speaker 2: Dude? I wasn't even thinking to I. 288 00:14:10,160 --> 00:14:13,199 Speaker 1: Was like the fact that there's a B. First I 289 00:14:13,280 --> 00:14:16,040 Speaker 1: thought it was like for like Bella or Bob or whatever. 290 00:14:16,960 --> 00:14:17,360 Speaker 2: Anyway. 291 00:14:17,440 --> 00:14:20,400 Speaker 1: So now I used to ignore all this for a 292 00:14:20,440 --> 00:14:23,600 Speaker 1: long time, but one day I asked her to stop doing. 293 00:14:23,360 --> 00:14:25,160 Speaker 2: All these things. She brings it down a notch. 294 00:14:25,360 --> 00:14:28,480 Speaker 1: She goes from making out with him to just kissing 295 00:14:28,520 --> 00:14:32,920 Speaker 1: him on the on the finger. Yeah, finger kisses, finger kisses, 296 00:14:33,200 --> 00:14:38,920 Speaker 1: platonic finger kisses. Now, she used she used to tell everyone, 297 00:14:39,000 --> 00:14:42,480 Speaker 1: including me, that he is just like her brother and 298 00:14:42,600 --> 00:14:45,320 Speaker 1: nothing else. Well, if if that's her brother, then call 299 00:14:45,400 --> 00:14:47,120 Speaker 1: her Sercy lanister, because this. 300 00:14:47,080 --> 00:14:52,000 Speaker 2: Is not right. Don't date your brothers, do it? Uh? 301 00:14:52,360 --> 00:14:56,760 Speaker 1: Stupid me believed her. I can't tell. I can't tell. 302 00:14:57,800 --> 00:14:59,720 Speaker 1: I can't tell how it felt when I got to 303 00:14:59,760 --> 00:15:03,600 Speaker 1: know everything. It felt like dying. I was scared, confused, 304 00:15:04,360 --> 00:15:06,160 Speaker 1: so confused that I couldn't bring it up because she 305 00:15:06,160 --> 00:15:08,720 Speaker 1: would flip out on me or could do self harm 306 00:15:08,760 --> 00:15:09,960 Speaker 1: as she did in the past. 307 00:15:10,280 --> 00:15:12,240 Speaker 2: Oh my, oh dude. 308 00:15:12,320 --> 00:15:15,280 Speaker 1: When I told her that I know everything, she said 309 00:15:15,480 --> 00:15:17,800 Speaker 1: not a word back to me. So I asked her 310 00:15:17,880 --> 00:15:20,440 Speaker 1: if she wanted to say something, and all she said 311 00:15:21,160 --> 00:15:24,400 Speaker 1: was that I am not going to talk unless you 312 00:15:24,560 --> 00:15:26,160 Speaker 1: tell me how you got to know. 313 00:15:28,760 --> 00:15:32,560 Speaker 2: So I mean, that's what do you. 314 00:15:34,320 --> 00:15:38,920 Speaker 4: I've Well, look you, if you've been lying to me 315 00:15:38,960 --> 00:15:42,080 Speaker 4: that your best friend is actually someone you've dated and 316 00:15:42,240 --> 00:15:47,480 Speaker 4: also like still are around constantly, Dude, I think you 317 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:50,600 Speaker 4: are the first one who needs to explain instead of 318 00:15:50,680 --> 00:15:53,880 Speaker 4: this guy who literally did like a one eighty on 319 00:15:53,960 --> 00:15:56,960 Speaker 4: his life to like try to be better for you 320 00:15:57,720 --> 00:16:03,320 Speaker 4: for apparently no reason, because you've never really liked him 321 00:16:03,320 --> 00:16:05,520 Speaker 4: at all, because you've just been with your. 322 00:16:05,400 --> 00:16:06,480 Speaker 2: Ex the whole time. 323 00:16:06,640 --> 00:16:10,000 Speaker 1: Dude, Dakota, I think this story might have shocked me 324 00:16:10,080 --> 00:16:14,800 Speaker 1: so hard I did a full three sixty and now 325 00:16:14,880 --> 00:16:19,920 Speaker 1: I like I'm somehow been gas lit bye by this woman, Like, yeah, 326 00:16:20,120 --> 00:16:22,680 Speaker 1: I don't know what's happening. I'm still spinning. I'm like 327 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:25,680 Speaker 1: on seven and twenty dude, I'm wearing a suit. 328 00:16:26,680 --> 00:16:31,760 Speaker 2: Ke's in a suit. I'm in a suit, and he's caked. 329 00:16:30,600 --> 00:16:32,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, he is caked up. I cannot wait for stream 330 00:16:32,720 --> 00:16:35,280 Speaker 4: to see the almost over pants? 331 00:16:36,080 --> 00:16:37,600 Speaker 2: Is it almost over? I feel like the story is 332 00:16:37,720 --> 00:16:38,520 Speaker 2: just just started. 333 00:16:38,600 --> 00:16:42,560 Speaker 1: I actually have no idea, but why do we keep 334 00:16:42,600 --> 00:16:44,880 Speaker 1: going to get to There's a cake at the end 335 00:16:44,880 --> 00:16:47,160 Speaker 1: of this, right girls kissing? Please? 336 00:16:48,880 --> 00:16:52,720 Speaker 2: That's saying you can't say that, lo it? Come on? 337 00:16:53,240 --> 00:16:56,960 Speaker 1: So I told her that I don't want this relationship 338 00:16:57,320 --> 00:16:59,960 Speaker 1: and I wish her the best for her future and left. 339 00:17:00,440 --> 00:17:06,200 Speaker 1: Boy yes, oh yes, yes, it only took the twenty 340 00:17:06,280 --> 00:17:09,360 Speaker 1: of the Red Flag to get out of this congratulation zopy. 341 00:17:10,040 --> 00:17:14,959 Speaker 2: Oh my god, what a twist. Yes, after five hours 342 00:17:15,240 --> 00:17:17,000 Speaker 2: no no, no. 343 00:17:16,400 --> 00:17:20,240 Speaker 1: No, she started calling me and messaging me and telling 344 00:17:20,280 --> 00:17:22,679 Speaker 1: me that she's so sorry. And then she was loyal 345 00:17:22,720 --> 00:17:25,280 Speaker 1: to me all this time, never cheated on me, and 346 00:17:25,560 --> 00:17:30,800 Speaker 1: I should give her a last chance. Oh there one 347 00:17:30,840 --> 00:17:34,359 Speaker 1: final chance, guys. That's it still just proposed to me 348 00:17:34,400 --> 00:17:37,480 Speaker 1: and it all be over, I promise. Note I never 349 00:17:37,520 --> 00:17:40,480 Speaker 1: accused her of cheating or being disloyal, because I still 350 00:17:40,480 --> 00:17:43,240 Speaker 1: love her and I don't want to believe it because 351 00:17:43,280 --> 00:17:43,560 Speaker 1: it was. 352 00:17:43,560 --> 00:17:45,639 Speaker 2: Hurting me so very, very badly. 353 00:17:46,080 --> 00:17:49,160 Speaker 1: I just told her that I knew everything about her 354 00:17:49,240 --> 00:17:51,439 Speaker 1: and her her boyfriend. 355 00:17:52,840 --> 00:17:53,760 Speaker 2: What what? 356 00:17:53,760 --> 00:17:54,000 Speaker 1: What? 357 00:17:54,400 --> 00:17:55,639 Speaker 2: I don't think I can read that. 358 00:17:55,800 --> 00:17:59,959 Speaker 1: What was that her boyfriend and ex boyfriend? 359 00:18:00,600 --> 00:18:02,680 Speaker 4: Is that maybe like the brother the thing where you 360 00:18:03,080 --> 00:18:05,639 Speaker 4: at graduation, it's like suit a coup. 361 00:18:07,119 --> 00:18:11,800 Speaker 1: I think this might have been our censor bought censoring 362 00:18:12,440 --> 00:18:14,320 Speaker 1: by inserting the wrong words. 363 00:18:14,760 --> 00:18:16,680 Speaker 2: I think that might have to happen there. 364 00:18:17,640 --> 00:18:23,399 Speaker 1: But in any verse, the very next day, okay, she 365 00:18:23,520 --> 00:18:26,280 Speaker 1: comes to my house crying in front of me for 366 00:18:26,400 --> 00:18:30,960 Speaker 1: ten hours, but something already died inside of me. I 367 00:18:30,960 --> 00:18:34,439 Speaker 1: didn't treat her right that day. I was cold, I 368 00:18:34,480 --> 00:18:37,200 Speaker 1: had no light in me. I kept pushing her away. 369 00:18:37,359 --> 00:18:39,840 Speaker 4: Nah, dude, that's how that's You're treating her right after 370 00:18:39,880 --> 00:18:41,000 Speaker 4: the things that you've learned. 371 00:18:41,040 --> 00:18:43,560 Speaker 2: Bro, That's correct. It's such a tragic pome here. 372 00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:46,960 Speaker 1: She said that she will stop talk talk, she will 373 00:18:47,000 --> 00:18:49,320 Speaker 1: stop talking to him and leave that house. 374 00:18:50,400 --> 00:18:51,680 Speaker 2: But I'm unable to trust her now. 375 00:18:52,359 --> 00:18:54,720 Speaker 1: She told me that she made a mistake and it 376 00:18:54,760 --> 00:18:57,679 Speaker 1: was messy, and she was embarrassed shameful about the relationship 377 00:18:58,040 --> 00:19:01,359 Speaker 1: and that's why she uh total lie to me again 378 00:19:01,400 --> 00:19:03,600 Speaker 1: and again and he was just a friend to her 379 00:19:03,600 --> 00:19:04,280 Speaker 1: and nothing else. 380 00:19:04,680 --> 00:19:06,040 Speaker 2: And if I. 381 00:19:05,640 --> 00:19:10,119 Speaker 1: Really want her, then I should give her this chance now. 382 00:19:10,200 --> 00:19:13,920 Speaker 1: Later on, over a text during the fight, she told 383 00:19:13,960 --> 00:19:16,640 Speaker 1: me that I am causing drama because it's my first 384 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:19,440 Speaker 1: relationship and I'm just too sensitive and I could never 385 00:19:19,520 --> 00:19:21,840 Speaker 1: provide her a safe space so that way she could 386 00:19:21,840 --> 00:19:22,520 Speaker 1: explain it to me. 387 00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:25,800 Speaker 2: I don't even know the meeting of the word gaslight. Dude. 388 00:19:25,920 --> 00:19:28,760 Speaker 4: That is one of the most wild attempts at a 389 00:19:29,480 --> 00:19:31,000 Speaker 4: like redirection I've ever heard. 390 00:19:31,080 --> 00:19:32,920 Speaker 2: Bro, it's just your first relationship. 391 00:19:33,000 --> 00:19:35,600 Speaker 4: Trust me, if you've been in enough, you'd know that 392 00:19:35,720 --> 00:19:39,280 Speaker 4: girls like me talk to their ex boyfriend your buying 393 00:19:39,320 --> 00:19:41,600 Speaker 4: your back and just tell you that we're friends. 394 00:19:41,760 --> 00:19:42,200 Speaker 2: I would know. 395 00:19:42,240 --> 00:19:45,800 Speaker 1: I've had five relationships in the span of our own relationship. 396 00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:48,200 Speaker 1: Yeah right, We've broken up a dozen times. I had 397 00:19:48,280 --> 00:19:51,639 Speaker 1: five different boyfriends since we started, so uh, and I 398 00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:54,800 Speaker 1: had gave her nothing in this relationship because I had 399 00:19:54,880 --> 00:19:58,320 Speaker 1: nothing to begin with. I swear that I did everything 400 00:19:58,320 --> 00:20:00,960 Speaker 1: I could do for her and beyond, dude, it is 401 00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:04,520 Speaker 1: something I will never understand, and she does not suppose 402 00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:07,159 Speaker 1: I ever will understand. She says that she doesn't give 403 00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:09,280 Speaker 1: an f about me now. She sees me for who 404 00:20:09,320 --> 00:20:12,600 Speaker 1: I am and how I manipulate her and fake my personality, 405 00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:15,560 Speaker 1: and she hates me for how I treated her. 406 00:20:15,680 --> 00:20:21,720 Speaker 2: Right right, She's so going. She's going back to her boyfriend. 407 00:20:21,960 --> 00:20:23,600 Speaker 4: She's going back to her real boyfriend that she said 408 00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:26,240 Speaker 4: the whole time, I'm sorry, but you've been the fake one. 409 00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:29,760 Speaker 1: That's and you know what a side piece. She can 410 00:20:29,800 --> 00:20:30,800 Speaker 1: project all she wants. 411 00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:34,320 Speaker 4: I bet you that you really did, like become present 412 00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:37,160 Speaker 4: in your relationship and treat her really well, and then 413 00:20:37,200 --> 00:20:40,960 Speaker 4: she just kept hanging out with her ex boyfriend. And 414 00:20:42,200 --> 00:20:45,359 Speaker 4: now she's like, instead of dealing with the reality of 415 00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:48,000 Speaker 4: losing you, I'm gonna tell myself in my brain that 416 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:49,520 Speaker 4: you stink. 417 00:20:50,960 --> 00:20:51,919 Speaker 2: You're better off without her. 418 00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:54,280 Speaker 1: Dude. You know what, I like, I can under It's 419 00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:57,680 Speaker 1: Opie's first relationship, and I feel like oftentimes when you're 420 00:20:57,680 --> 00:21:00,919 Speaker 1: in those kinds of relationships, you just like don't know 421 00:21:01,280 --> 00:21:02,359 Speaker 1: where else to turn. 422 00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:03,320 Speaker 2: You're blinded by. 423 00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:07,840 Speaker 1: Like you could turn to our live stream every weekday 424 00:21:07,840 --> 00:21:11,560 Speaker 1: at three PM PST and join us. All you gotta 425 00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:13,560 Speaker 1: do is tap that profile. That's all you gotta do. 426 00:21:13,680 --> 00:21:16,240 Speaker 1: I won't cheat on you, I promise, But it's hard. 427 00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:18,399 Speaker 2: It's hard to do that. So let's talk about it. 428 00:21:18,440 --> 00:21:19,080 Speaker 2: When they're young. 429 00:21:19,119 --> 00:21:22,000 Speaker 4: You're young and blinded by what you perceive to be 430 00:21:22,200 --> 00:21:25,240 Speaker 4: your you know, love, and we've been given all these 431 00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:29,680 Speaker 4: the messages and the ideas through pop culture for all 432 00:21:29,720 --> 00:21:32,359 Speaker 4: of our lives, like and that's the only window we 433 00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:37,840 Speaker 4: have ever experienced that through before. Like, once you have 434 00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:40,480 Speaker 4: that first love, you really feel like, oh, I need 435 00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:42,320 Speaker 4: to do everything I can to make sure like this 436 00:21:43,080 --> 00:21:46,040 Speaker 4: stays good because I might never get it again. 437 00:21:46,119 --> 00:21:47,359 Speaker 2: Or this is like my one person. 438 00:21:47,680 --> 00:21:50,280 Speaker 4: And when you figure that out at nineteen, you still 439 00:21:50,359 --> 00:21:51,440 Speaker 4: just don't because. 440 00:21:51,160 --> 00:21:54,000 Speaker 2: I assume that they're young. They're in college. Yeah, so. 441 00:21:56,000 --> 00:22:01,520 Speaker 1: When you figure that out, it's like twenty four, but 442 00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:02,160 Speaker 1: it's still. 443 00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:04,960 Speaker 2: It's still his first relationshiph So I mean. 444 00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:07,520 Speaker 1: Tail end of I feel like being able to Yeah, 445 00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:10,080 Speaker 1: there's like the hall pass on like you it's it's 446 00:22:10,200 --> 00:22:13,159 Speaker 1: understandable that you did this, like he he should have 447 00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:15,400 Speaker 1: been a I mean, I agree. 448 00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:18,399 Speaker 2: It's it's it's it's right out that you're just like, dang, dude, 449 00:22:18,560 --> 00:22:20,800 Speaker 2: it's good. This kid needs to be bonked, he needs 450 00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:21,840 Speaker 2: to get a Yeah. 451 00:22:21,920 --> 00:22:24,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, so it's yeah, obviously he should leave, Like that's 452 00:22:24,359 --> 00:22:26,800 Speaker 1: like the obvious thing. But let's say, let's say this 453 00:22:26,920 --> 00:22:30,840 Speaker 1: is your best friend. What do you say to him 454 00:22:30,880 --> 00:22:34,400 Speaker 1: to like get him to see the light and understand. 455 00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:38,040 Speaker 4: I would just hammer home like that, you've actually been 456 00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:41,440 Speaker 4: the fake boyfriend this whole time and her real boyfriend 457 00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:44,800 Speaker 4: has been her best friend, that is her ex boyfriend 458 00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:45,960 Speaker 4: that she sees every day. 459 00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:49,239 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, buddy, Like it's so crazy. It's just like 460 00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:52,800 Speaker 2: just be with him. Yeah, but let's let's be real here. 461 00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:57,480 Speaker 1: He's probably like, nah, she's great, she's perfect, she's the one. 462 00:22:58,080 --> 00:22:59,320 Speaker 2: So what do you what do you say to that? 463 00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:01,720 Speaker 2: Like what's I just laugh? I will just laugh. 464 00:23:01,760 --> 00:23:03,960 Speaker 3: I'm like, bro, I told you better, but you're gonna 465 00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:06,000 Speaker 3: have to learn the hard way. I'll be there when 466 00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:08,960 Speaker 3: you need me. But good luck, Yeah, good luck soldier. 467 00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:10,800 Speaker 1: There's a point, there's like a point of no return 468 00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:13,720 Speaker 1: where you're like, Okay, I've told you, I've laid it 469 00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:17,919 Speaker 1: all out, I've said everything, and like there's just no 470 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:19,399 Speaker 1: more I can do. So it's like, hey, I'll be 471 00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:21,600 Speaker 1: here for you when it's all over. 472 00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:23,359 Speaker 3: But like I could tell you how to steer the 473 00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:25,120 Speaker 3: ship and you know where to go. 474 00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:26,800 Speaker 2: But did you out of the friendship? 475 00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:30,280 Speaker 4: No, I just I'm like, I'll be at the gym 476 00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:32,600 Speaker 4: waiting for you. Dude, that's where you're gonna end up. 477 00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:37,760 Speaker 4: You're gonna be in the gym pretty soon and I'll 478 00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:40,720 Speaker 4: be there. Hey, I got your membership ready to roll. 479 00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:44,359 Speaker 4: I'm I'm I'm right there with Hey the first month already. Yeah, 480 00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:45,920 Speaker 4: it's good to go here, here's your card. 481 00:23:45,960 --> 00:23:46,520 Speaker 2: I feel like this. 482 00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:49,040 Speaker 4: Guy might not have that wide of a support system 483 00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:50,800 Speaker 4: like that though, because dude, they are like, where are 484 00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:53,639 Speaker 4: your buddies telling you that this girl needs to be left? 485 00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:57,200 Speaker 1: So far, as far as we know from what he said, 486 00:23:57,560 --> 00:23:59,360 Speaker 1: no one, Yeah, no one's giving him the feedback. 487 00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:00,800 Speaker 2: Yes, pretty long he did. 488 00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:04,000 Speaker 4: Drop like the you know, I've been alone a lot, 489 00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:04,879 Speaker 4: but I'm not alone. 490 00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:05,600 Speaker 2: I'm not lonely. 491 00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:10,840 Speaker 4: It's like, yeah, he's asking us for help. 492 00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:12,960 Speaker 1: I mean he's asking the internet at a large So yeah, 493 00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:14,480 Speaker 1: that's better than nothing of us. 494 00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:16,600 Speaker 2: Get out of here, broke, get out of there. 495 00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:19,560 Speaker 1: So yeah, just like obviously, get out of the relationship. 496 00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:22,320 Speaker 1: If you're this person's friend, lay it all out. But 497 00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:24,000 Speaker 1: at the point of an return where he just keeps 498 00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:26,280 Speaker 1: up the delusion, you gotta be like, I'll be here 499 00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:27,880 Speaker 1: once you figure it out. 500 00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:31,919 Speaker 4: Yeah, if he really can't see it, yeah, but you 501 00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:35,280 Speaker 4: gotta keep hammering that nail until it sinks all the 502 00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:35,560 Speaker 4: way in. 503 00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:41,560 Speaker 1: Agreed. Well, story's almost over. I'm not claiming to be 504 00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:44,280 Speaker 1: a saint here. I did make some mistakes in the relationship. 505 00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:48,760 Speaker 1: God I heard her as well, but I never ever 506 00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:52,600 Speaker 1: lied to her about anything. But this is something that 507 00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:57,680 Speaker 1: I cannot like go off. So he did it. Then 508 00:24:58,000 --> 00:24:58,560 Speaker 1: he did it. 509 00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:00,600 Speaker 2: He's is scared. 510 00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:02,439 Speaker 3: I know it's like spooky season, but this is a 511 00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:03,919 Speaker 3: scary did he didn't get. 512 00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:05,320 Speaker 2: The like I told her? 513 00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:08,080 Speaker 1: And now I'm like, you know, here, I am alone 514 00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:11,359 Speaker 1: sitting post conversation. He could easily because this is like 515 00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:12,560 Speaker 1: back to the first fight. 516 00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:14,159 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, no, no, no, And then she called him. 517 00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:16,480 Speaker 1: She's like, but like this is how it goes, like 518 00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:18,440 Speaker 1: I still love you, you don't fix everything. 519 00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:20,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, and he's like yeah, So I left her and 520 00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:23,840 Speaker 4: then five hours later I had a phone call and 521 00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:24,800 Speaker 4: now I. 522 00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:26,440 Speaker 2: Didn't leave it. I guess well he did know. 523 00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:29,440 Speaker 4: He did say he doesn't really care about her anymore, 524 00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:34,000 Speaker 4: like the spark is extinguished. He says these things. Yeah, 525 00:25:34,040 --> 00:25:38,000 Speaker 4: but you know, I'm gonna say that he moved on. 526 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:41,359 Speaker 4: That's what I'm gonna say. I'm gonna say, can't let 527 00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:44,320 Speaker 4: it go. And I think he he woke up and 528 00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:48,720 Speaker 4: smelled the sunshine and he's out of there. 529 00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:51,640 Speaker 3: What do you want to pull? Is this guy dumb 530 00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:55,720 Speaker 3: or dumb? Did he stay or leave? Did he stay 531 00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:56,720 Speaker 3: or did he go? 532 00:25:56,840 --> 00:26:02,720 Speaker 1: But I honestly think he stayed. I think I think 533 00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:04,480 Speaker 1: he I think he turned back around. I'm curious to 534 00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:07,240 Speaker 1: see what what Chat has to say. He might have 535 00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:10,359 Speaker 1: left for a little bit and then came back. Yeah 536 00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:13,640 Speaker 1: I could think I could. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's that's 537 00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:15,440 Speaker 1: what I think happened. Like he he basically leaves for 538 00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:17,000 Speaker 1: a little bit and then goes back and it's going 539 00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:21,520 Speaker 1: to be a long, painful I think he will leave eventually. 540 00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:24,840 Speaker 2: I don't think he left at this point. I think you. 541 00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:27,080 Speaker 2: I think you're pretty actually spot on with that. 542 00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:30,760 Speaker 1: My heart goes out to pocause heart's in the chaffer 543 00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:35,119 Speaker 1: opened hammers in the chaffer rope because he needs to 544 00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:36,720 Speaker 1: be hitting the head. 545 00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:39,040 Speaker 2: He does need a bonk. He needs a couple of bones. 546 00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:40,240 Speaker 2: He needs a bonk on the head. 547 00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:44,760 Speaker 1: Speaking of things to bonk keon, how's a feeling, dude, 548 00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:46,640 Speaker 1: How's how's it feel? 549 00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:52,640 Speaker 2: Just like this suit? Guys, like a glove? What kind 550 00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:55,080 Speaker 2: of suits do you wear? Brother? The tight tight ones? 551 00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:59,080 Speaker 2: What suits should fit you? Like a glove? Right, that's true. 552 00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:04,639 Speaker 2: I wear suits, Okay, track suits. 553 00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:08,840 Speaker 3: It feels real nice. It feels real nice. It feels perfect. 554 00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:10,520 Speaker 3: That's what it feels like us. 555 00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:12,720 Speaker 2: Do you have the rip away under there or you 556 00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:17,240 Speaker 2: are you just suited up to I was told about 557 00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:19,960 Speaker 2: a possible just like Superman. 558 00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:23,600 Speaker 3: This is expensive. No, I like this suit. I did 559 00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:26,000 Speaker 3: not do this is a legit suit. Guys, I wanted 560 00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:26,880 Speaker 3: to love April. 561 00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:29,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, this is not No, that is not a serious 562 00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:30,640 Speaker 1: when I'm doing this. 563 00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:33,720 Speaker 2: This is real guys. No, it's all business. That's a 564 00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:34,080 Speaker 2: c G. 565 00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:37,680 Speaker 4: I AI suit. I can spot it from a mile away. 566 00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:41,680 Speaker 4: I know suits. I'm the suit man. That's what they 567 00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:43,719 Speaker 4: call me down on fifty fifth Street. 568 00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:46,280 Speaker 1: You do look like someone on Canal Street trying to 569 00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:47,840 Speaker 1: like sell me a DVDs. 570 00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:51,399 Speaker 4: I got the suits I got, I got DVD's. 571 00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:53,280 Speaker 2: They're Blu Ray. 572 00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:57,720 Speaker 4: I got Blu Ray DVDs of old movies that have 573 00:27:57,800 --> 00:27:58,440 Speaker 4: been restored. 574 00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:03,680 Speaker 2: It's my hobby. That character got really deeply, got really 575 00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:05,399 Speaker 2: deep with. 576 00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:08,920 Speaker 1: Got that story. Oh yeah, there's no update. There's nothing 577 00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:10,960 Speaker 1: that is no update as far as I know. All right, 578 00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:15,200 Speaker 1: and twenty six percent of people are saying that. I'll 579 00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:17,840 Speaker 1: say most people think he's actually leaving this time. I 580 00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:19,000 Speaker 1: hope so I respect. 581 00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:23,560 Speaker 4: I hope so respect that he deserves the autonomy he does, right, well, 582 00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:24,760 Speaker 4: he needs the autonomy. 583 00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:27,800 Speaker 2: I think he does. He needs the heartbreak. Sorry, should 584 00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:31,760 Speaker 2: we look at donuts? Let's read some donuts? Knows, let's 585 00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:36,879 Speaker 2: do let maybe just refresh this one. We got it? 586 00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:39,120 Speaker 1: Mike, Uh, here we go. Hit me with a command 587 00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:44,960 Speaker 1: plus on the Yeah, Mike, you're actually keep keep it 588 00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:48,239 Speaker 1: over there? Yeah, but just command plus it Yeah, get it? 589 00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:57,040 Speaker 1: And then yeah, perfect cool. Tita m whoa twenty gifted numbership. 590 00:28:58,200 --> 00:29:02,360 Speaker 1: By twenty babies have been plopped out of the The 591 00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:05,760 Speaker 1: Godmother of Okay story time. Shout out to UJDA for 592 00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:12,000 Speaker 1: that humongous and then uh Lolalita Ierma gird Oh celebrating 593 00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:14,600 Speaker 1: eight months of membership. That might be you might be 594 00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:16,920 Speaker 1: in the cohort of the longest people of membership er 595 00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:20,360 Speaker 1: eight months with you lovely peeps, and then the fam 596 00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:21,120 Speaker 1: keeps growing. 597 00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:26,000 Speaker 2: Yes, girly pop Salay Hi. John had to go to 598 00:29:26,040 --> 00:29:29,160 Speaker 2: hike on, Hi, Lola, Hello, that was love. 599 00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:37,000 Speaker 1: A minute since I've seen ERMT way back. Amy, thanks 600 00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:40,240 Speaker 1: for the two bucks ten hour stream. You guys, dude, 601 00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:44,280 Speaker 1: when me and Kean hop on, y'all just start going crazy. 602 00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:48,080 Speaker 2: Whatever they want again. If the suit stays, the suit stays. Guys, 603 00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:51,200 Speaker 2: a suit, it's the suit fits, it's a suit fits. 604 00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:52,880 Speaker 2: He does. 605 00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:57,360 Speaker 4: Guys, we're gonna get a Yeah, put put some put 606 00:29:57,400 --> 00:29:59,600 Speaker 4: some pig emojis in the chat because he's got. 607 00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:04,040 Speaker 3: As like in my suit and suits his pants. 608 00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:07,440 Speaker 1: Oh man, Carlo Woods, thanks for gifting five memberships. Let's 609 00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:11,000 Speaker 1: freaking go love the gifting membership train. Uh. And then Amy, 610 00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:14,040 Speaker 1: thanks for another five bucks business idea for John forty 611 00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:17,280 Speaker 1: Chess club learn to play forty chess to win it 612 00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:21,280 Speaker 1: life and not become a Reddit story. I've got good 613 00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:25,400 Speaker 1: ideas to expand your portfolio. Listen, Amy, you know the team. 614 00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:28,520 Speaker 1: The team's growing. We're yeah, we're here for it. Here 615 00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:31,480 Speaker 1: you're okay, story to have forty Chess a consulting firm, 616 00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:34,360 Speaker 1: and it's called forty Chess. You say, I turn your 617 00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:37,880 Speaker 1: life into four dimensional existence. We will prevent you from 618 00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:43,480 Speaker 1: ever entering our stories. Feed ever, that's the move, and 619 00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:46,880 Speaker 1: for a really really good rate too. If you want 620 00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:48,640 Speaker 1: you key on, you can shrink the other windows a 621 00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:50,640 Speaker 1: little bit so that way it's always uh, or. 622 00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:54,960 Speaker 2: Even that one a little bit. And then we heard 623 00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:57,240 Speaker 2: all the stuff at the beginning of the dream. There 624 00:30:57,280 --> 00:30:57,440 Speaker 2: we go. 625 00:30:57,440 --> 00:31:00,760 Speaker 1: Grahama's got a potty male, thanks for gifting five memberships, 626 00:30:59,880 --> 00:31:03,520 Speaker 1: and Heidi freaking Vincent gifting five gifted memberships. 627 00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:07,240 Speaker 2: Let's freaking go the classiest members you got them. 628 00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:10,240 Speaker 1: Heather Jean the Flying Machine a celebrating being member for 629 00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:13,200 Speaker 1: two months. I love this show so much. I am 630 00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:15,160 Speaker 1: teaching it okay, actually, uh just. 631 00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:20,040 Speaker 2: Over here just because I have editing. Got you Okay, 632 00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:22,680 Speaker 2: I love the show so much. 633 00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:25,560 Speaker 1: I am teaching in Kuwait and usually need to take 634 00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:27,560 Speaker 1: a nap so I can catch the stream with y'all. 635 00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:32,200 Speaker 1: Uh worth it. Y'all are looking so fabulous. We're all 636 00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:34,000 Speaker 1: looking pretty fabulous today. I feel like each of us 637 00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:36,120 Speaker 1: came with a very distinct stylistic flavored. 638 00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:38,080 Speaker 2: What are you talking about? Yeah, we did. 639 00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:41,600 Speaker 4: We each all have our thing. You've got the sort 640 00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:45,640 Speaker 4: of the knit. I've got the track the track suit. 641 00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:48,360 Speaker 2: And Kean's like the boss the business. 642 00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:54,680 Speaker 1: I'm the boss the business, big businesses today. And then 643 00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:57,920 Speaker 1: Heidi also celebrating membership for one month. Love the stream 644 00:31:58,320 --> 00:32:00,840 Speaker 1: and the only one I subscribe to. You. 645 00:32:00,960 --> 00:32:03,920 Speaker 2: Thank you for making my day every every day. Thank you. 646 00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:06,160 Speaker 2: When We've gotten a few comments. 647 00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:08,960 Speaker 1: Where they're like, you are literally the only YouTube channel 648 00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:10,280 Speaker 1: I subscribe to, and I'm like. 649 00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:14,440 Speaker 2: Dang, oh, yeah that's cool. Hey, we love you, we 650 00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:16,000 Speaker 2: love you back, we love you. 651 00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:20,400 Speaker 1: And then Dutchess Cassanda member for eight months. Congrats keon 652 00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:24,640 Speaker 1: official team member but always fam uh. Work fell through today, 653 00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:28,680 Speaker 1: so I guess I'm spending it here with the gang instead. Also, 654 00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:34,400 Speaker 1: like y and Spin that weird guys. We could we 655 00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:37,720 Speaker 1: have five hundred and sixty five people just on YouTube. 656 00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:41,280 Speaker 2: We could do it instantly. We can doaneous Wheelspin, tell 657 00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:42,480 Speaker 2: your grandma, tell your dog. 658 00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:44,640 Speaker 1: I don't know what else to tell. You can with 659 00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:49,000 Speaker 1: a thumb do it. And Banana Jones Mom, thanks for 660 00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:52,120 Speaker 1: to five bucks. Thanks for streaming today, guys, all my 661 00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:54,320 Speaker 1: cat passed away and I need to keep my mind 662 00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:54,880 Speaker 1: op things. 663 00:32:55,120 --> 00:32:57,240 Speaker 2: Ri Ip Rascal the silly Boy. 664 00:32:57,440 --> 00:33:02,120 Speaker 1: Guys heart cats and hearts the Hartcats heart case. R 665 00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:05,320 Speaker 1: Ip Rascal Rip the silliest great name. That's a great 666 00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:07,880 Speaker 1: cat name. That is an incredible cat name. 667 00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:09,080 Speaker 2: Rascal. 668 00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:13,600 Speaker 1: He was, he was, he was a little silly boy. 669 00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:17,760 Speaker 1: Then Josephine Madala be request. Usually I shout people out 670 00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:22,959 Speaker 1: for joining the nights. Josephine, you're just joining now Wait. Yeah, 671 00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:25,800 Speaker 1: she probably got gifted a bunch of memberships and then 672 00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:28,560 Speaker 1: finally has to pay for one herself. 673 00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:30,080 Speaker 2: But that would have been that. 674 00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:32,880 Speaker 1: That's many months of being gifted, So that means Josephine 675 00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:34,320 Speaker 1: is one of the most active people in the stream. 676 00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:39,120 Speaker 1: So it all makes sense. Carla Woods gifting five memberships. 677 00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:45,280 Speaker 1: Let's freaking go mL Worm Queen's Night. Thanks for being 678 00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:47,280 Speaker 1: a member for five months. By the end of the week, 679 00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:50,360 Speaker 1: I'll be a member for six months. Uh yay, Axe 680 00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:55,200 Speaker 1: Badge been watching since the Orange Jackets and purple background. Okay, 681 00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:58,440 Speaker 1: story time certified real one. Yeah, although now that we're 682 00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:00,720 Speaker 1: getting those comments, people can just like see that in 683 00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:02,520 Speaker 1: the stream and then say that and then get. 684 00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:07,000 Speaker 2: The validation they don't deserve. To us, we will cry, 685 00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:07,720 Speaker 2: don't do it. 686 00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:11,799 Speaker 1: I remember one uh one time we went through TSA 687 00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:16,640 Speaker 1: and someone that my TSA agent was like, oh, you 688 00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:18,839 Speaker 1: you're a beard and I was like yeah. He's like, yeah, 689 00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:21,640 Speaker 1: I definitely don't shave that. I was like okay, and 690 00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:23,799 Speaker 1: then the Sam's. 691 00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:25,279 Speaker 2: TSA agent was like, dude, I've been watching you guys 692 00:34:25,280 --> 00:34:26,359 Speaker 2: for two years. It's so great. 693 00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:29,000 Speaker 4: We'd only been around for one year. This dude, this 694 00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:31,160 Speaker 4: is this guy's just throwing laying it on thick. 695 00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:33,680 Speaker 1: He gets sauced up and he's over here like, look, 696 00:34:33,960 --> 00:34:36,440 Speaker 1: you're ugly without it, but like just just keep it 697 00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:37,280 Speaker 1: and you'll be okay. 698 00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:40,200 Speaker 2: Anyway, Sorry, that's just triggered triggered memory show. 699 00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:42,359 Speaker 4: John, your facial hair is beautiful, and I'm sure it's 700 00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:44,759 Speaker 4: just you're just as beautiful underneath it as Thank you, 701 00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:45,400 Speaker 4: yeahk you. 702 00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:49,040 Speaker 1: Carlo would thanks be to ten bucks ten hour stream 703 00:34:49,160 --> 00:34:55,000 Speaker 1: change please little maybe ten hour stream ah Yonni Lopez, 704 00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:56,320 Speaker 1: thanks for gifting five memberships. 705 00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:59,120 Speaker 2: Carlo would thanks for gifting five memberships. 706 00:34:58,560 --> 00:35:04,840 Speaker 1: And Wow Carl again, thanks gift ten memberships fifteen fifteen 707 00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:13,840 Speaker 1: and going off Giants milk milk ten memberships, Wow, fifteen, 708 00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:20,160 Speaker 1: fifteen members gigantic utters are full? 709 00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:23,120 Speaker 2: And then uh, scroll up a little bit for me. 710 00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:25,280 Speaker 2: All I got It's all we got? 711 00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:29,680 Speaker 1: Do we have a refra of love from Iceland? Uh 712 00:35:30,040 --> 00:35:32,200 Speaker 1: like and share lots of love from Iceland. We can't 713 00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:34,719 Speaker 1: see your user name. We're we're working on it right now. 714 00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:39,080 Speaker 1: We will see if we'll be able to do it. 715 00:35:39,200 --> 00:35:41,520 Speaker 2: You click on the click, maybe click on the comment 716 00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:42,480 Speaker 2: once second. 717 00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:45,759 Speaker 1: We got it, We got it, we got it. It's 718 00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:53,360 Speaker 1: coming in ladies and gentlemen. Apples, apples, thanks, apples, your liking, 719 00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:55,280 Speaker 1: Share lots of love from Iceland. 720 00:35:55,640 --> 00:35:58,239 Speaker 2: Stay warm, don't become ice. Stay warm over there. 721 00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:00,640 Speaker 4: I think that's the warm one though, right that is, 722 00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:03,200 Speaker 4: Queenland's got the ice in Iceland's got the queen. 723 00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:05,440 Speaker 2: But I just, I just I just assume everyone's an 724 00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:08,120 Speaker 2: ice man in Iceland. I'm sure it gets told up there. 725 00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:12,280 Speaker 1: And then donation from Michael Ingersol. Thanks for the five bucks, 726 00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:14,000 Speaker 1: longtime listener, first time donator. 727 00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:16,239 Speaker 2: Love you guys. I'm a maintenance man and your show 728 00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:17,919 Speaker 2: makes fixing Jankie. 729 00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:21,680 Speaker 4: Houses fly by. Hey, thank you fix on my man. 730 00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:24,880 Speaker 4: Fix on the world needs as many handy man as possible. 731 00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:26,960 Speaker 1: It truly does, and a great curier to be in 732 00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:29,319 Speaker 1: right now. AI will have a hard time picking that over. 733 00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:32,239 Speaker 1: Fun fact, Haley K thanks for a five buck dough No, 734 00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:34,200 Speaker 1: mommy La, thanks for the five bucks. 735 00:36:34,360 --> 00:36:35,800 Speaker 2: Keon is looking short? 736 00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:41,000 Speaker 1: Yes, Yank you and wes Lean thanks for the five bucks. 737 00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:43,520 Speaker 1: Would you or would you not feel honored if I 738 00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:47,840 Speaker 1: named my duck my ducklings in Stardu Valley after you guys, 739 00:36:48,320 --> 00:36:50,520 Speaker 1: Dulans stard Valley. 740 00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:53,120 Speaker 2: Yeah that was from yesterday. I would remember that one. 741 00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:57,439 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, no, ke I hope you guys are having 742 00:36:57,480 --> 00:36:59,720 Speaker 1: a beautiful start to the week. And thanks for helping 743 00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:01,480 Speaker 1: me to pull my hair out on the long drive 744 00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:02,040 Speaker 1: home yesterday. 745 00:37:02,080 --> 00:37:03,520 Speaker 2: Hey Westling, you're welcome. 746 00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:07,600 Speaker 4: Wes Lean, lets Lean name make an entire community of 747 00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:09,880 Speaker 4: just okay storytime members. 748 00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:13,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, keep not even more ducks until the whole the 749 00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:14,680 Speaker 1: whole extended cast. 750 00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:18,840 Speaker 2: Yes, family is just the ducks. Yes, enough ducks for everyone, 751 00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:21,080 Speaker 2: all the ducks, baby? And is that? 752 00:37:21,200 --> 00:37:24,120 Speaker 1: Oh Lovelalina, thanks for the two bucks. There were gifted 753 00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:27,640 Speaker 1: subs or donuts before the stream started? I think yeah, 754 00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:30,040 Speaker 1: we read everything and we saw the ones before. 755 00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:32,600 Speaker 2: Let us know if I miss anything. Now we have more. Oh, 756 00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:34,640 Speaker 2: there we go, Amy, thanks for being a member for 757 00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:35,160 Speaker 2: four months. 758 00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:38,480 Speaker 1: John better have his company car and jet soon I'll 759 00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:39,800 Speaker 1: run your East Coast business. 760 00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:42,680 Speaker 2: I'm in Pittsburgh. Hashtag forty Chess Club Bunnies. 761 00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:45,600 Speaker 1: I love how we're getting inside like there's like a 762 00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:48,040 Speaker 1: inceptional layers of inside. 763 00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:50,480 Speaker 2: Jokes have like two layers to it. 764 00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:52,160 Speaker 1: I can't wait for the day that we have like 765 00:37:52,200 --> 00:37:56,960 Speaker 1: TikTok explainers like here's the forty Chess Club bunny. Yeah whatever, 766 00:37:56,960 --> 00:38:01,279 Speaker 1: the deep lore, the deep lore, seth Rush, thanks for 767 00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:05,000 Speaker 1: the two bucks. It's my thirtieth birthday, ally. 768 00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:08,400 Speaker 4: Happy dirty thirties in the chat, Happy birthday. 769 00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:09,399 Speaker 2: Seventy drop them. 770 00:38:09,640 --> 00:38:12,480 Speaker 1: And then Joseph mc dollar burd quest thanks forty sixty five. 771 00:38:12,520 --> 00:38:15,040 Speaker 1: I see k uh no I renewed. I've only been 772 00:38:15,080 --> 00:38:17,840 Speaker 1: gifted once and have been paying for five months and 773 00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:18,480 Speaker 1: twenty two days. 774 00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:20,320 Speaker 2: Oh dude, YouTube's doing you dirty, Joseph. 775 00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:25,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, you've did, you've We know Josephine, we know she 776 00:38:25,520 --> 00:38:28,239 Speaker 1: is certified in these okay streets ladies and gentlemen. Uh 777 00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:30,880 Speaker 1: and Carly Woods thanks again for the two buck donation. 778 00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:35,160 Speaker 1: And then uh Alyssa Monday. Thanks for the two bucks, John, 779 00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:36,919 Speaker 1: what shampoo do you use? 780 00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:39,239 Speaker 2: Guys? 781 00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:42,040 Speaker 1: We know there's no free sponsors. I've put in the 782 00:38:42,040 --> 00:38:45,320 Speaker 1: discord before I did. I will say I was doing 783 00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:49,799 Speaker 1: the purple blonde shampoo before my hair adapted to it 784 00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:52,359 Speaker 1: and became too greasy. So now I'm back to like 785 00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:56,680 Speaker 1: a bab it's it's it's a trust may uh. 786 00:38:57,000 --> 00:38:59,040 Speaker 2: Uh regular whatever wash today. 787 00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:01,920 Speaker 1: So though I saw him, but I'm gonna switch back soon. 788 00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:04,400 Speaker 1: It's a whole thing. Long hair journey is at the 789 00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:05,279 Speaker 1: end of the donuts. 790 00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:06,759 Speaker 2: Let's just. 791 00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:11,799 Speaker 3: Yeah, No, that was a lot of donations, guys, love 792 00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:14,600 Speaker 3: you all. Dude, all right, the suit was worth it. Yeah, 793 00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:16,720 Speaker 3: the suit was worth the squeeze. 794 00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:19,080 Speaker 1: It's a it's you're putting the suit to work. So 795 00:39:19,480 --> 00:39:21,440 Speaker 1: before we get this next story, can we go You 796 00:39:21,440 --> 00:39:22,759 Speaker 1: want me to twirl it? 797 00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:26,560 Speaker 2: Do a twirl? Oh wait a second? 798 00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:31,080 Speaker 1: Uh yeah, pulling the jacket the business and the button. 799 00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:41,759 Speaker 2: It oh waits waits? Oh oh no. 800 00:39:40,560 --> 00:39:43,000 Speaker 1: What if we've become I thought I was wearing shorts 801 00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:46,680 Speaker 1: under dude. I love how donations started flooding in as 802 00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:48,640 Speaker 1: soon as Kean gave us the three sixty. 803 00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:53,880 Speaker 2: Like ah, the timing uh see, I I know what 804 00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:57,839 Speaker 2: the people want. Key On start to o f win. 805 00:39:58,520 --> 00:40:01,439 Speaker 2: Is this someone's birthday because all I'm seeing is cake. 806 00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:04,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, we got too much cake for it not to 807 00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:06,919 Speaker 1: be a birthday. Yes, sir, happy birthday, Seth. We got 808 00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:10,279 Speaker 1: you cake. It's in Keon's backside. 809 00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:14,000 Speaker 3: We got more donations because of my my butt. 810 00:40:14,160 --> 00:40:16,279 Speaker 1: There we go unless of money. Thanks for the two 811 00:40:16,360 --> 00:40:17,839 Speaker 1: bucks I forgot. Sorry, love you guys. 812 00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:22,000 Speaker 2: Let's have never apologized now. Yeah, and Julia Flynn, thanks 813 00:40:22,040 --> 00:40:22,920 Speaker 2: for the five pounds. 814 00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:27,360 Speaker 1: First time live longtime listener Falling asleeps to John's Dulcet 815 00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:29,720 Speaker 1: tones tones. 816 00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:32,480 Speaker 2: Means like smooth. 817 00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:34,719 Speaker 1: Oh, I thought it was like your gret. Like most 818 00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:36,920 Speaker 1: people in the comments, they say that my voice is 819 00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:40,880 Speaker 1: grating and oh wow, or just like like I'm too insane. 820 00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:43,919 Speaker 1: Your voice is a cake to my ears. I think 821 00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:48,080 Speaker 1: that's what dulcet means, or dulcet dulce just like soothing, soothing. 822 00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:49,120 Speaker 1: I'll take thank you, Julia. 823 00:40:49,760 --> 00:40:52,160 Speaker 2: Challenge chat is going crazy right now, by the way. 824 00:40:52,239 --> 00:40:56,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think we have someone going off in the twitch. 825 00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:57,759 Speaker 1: I don't know if we have a if there's a 826 00:40:57,800 --> 00:41:00,839 Speaker 1: twitch made out there whoa love for you to hop 827 00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:05,200 Speaker 1: in on that we might help Kean and Riley look 828 00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:06,200 Speaker 1: at it in a bit, but. 829 00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:11,200 Speaker 3: Help to give you this cake, lunch, guys, or breakfast 830 00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:13,680 Speaker 3: or dinner, whatever you want wherever you're eating. 831 00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:15,480 Speaker 1: Twitch chat if you can, if you can help us 832 00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:20,800 Speaker 1: out with mister spammer over there. Kindly appreciated, kindly appreciated. 833 00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:25,160 Speaker 1: But ladies and gentlemen, with that, I think we should 834 00:41:25,160 --> 00:41:25,760 Speaker 1: get to the next. 835 00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:28,399 Speaker 2: Story, the next story. Are you ready for his next story? 836 00:41:29,040 --> 00:41:36,719 Speaker 2: Who's reading? Uh? Me? North or South Dakota? What don't 837 00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:40,600 Speaker 2: worry about I've always been North North. You're You're good 838 00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:45,399 Speaker 2: to North North? All right? Are we good? We're good? 839 00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:46,160 Speaker 2: You do it. 840 00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:50,320 Speaker 4: I just found out my best friend kissed my girlfriend, 841 00:41:50,680 --> 00:41:52,440 Speaker 4: but my girlfriend tried to hide it. 842 00:41:53,760 --> 00:41:58,600 Speaker 1: We switched it, hold on time out? No one I 843 00:41:58,640 --> 00:41:59,120 Speaker 1: thought I was on. 844 00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:02,600 Speaker 2: I was on s to do we switch it? Did 845 00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:07,000 Speaker 2: we too? It might have been oh no, press the 846 00:42:08,600 --> 00:42:11,880 Speaker 2: Oh no, I didn't. Did you tee it up? I 847 00:42:11,920 --> 00:42:14,120 Speaker 2: hadn't tea it up? Yeah I had it. I just 848 00:42:14,160 --> 00:42:17,439 Speaker 2: went into where the notion was and did S too? 849 00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:18,640 Speaker 2: Your was? 850 00:42:18,640 --> 00:42:28,680 Speaker 1: It was the episode of Bakingcown. Want to read out 851 00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:30,920 Speaker 1: some comments or some Donos. Oh yeah, I see a 852 00:42:30,960 --> 00:42:34,080 Speaker 1: comment from Tanini Panini that says, Dakota, you ain't fooling 853 00:42:34,120 --> 00:42:35,560 Speaker 1: anyone with that Swedish hat. 854 00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:38,680 Speaker 4: You're right, I'm not. But there's no free sponsors on 855 00:42:38,719 --> 00:42:42,960 Speaker 4: this show. So your duty as the audience is to 856 00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:46,920 Speaker 4: let the nameless Swedish company know that they are missing 857 00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:50,600 Speaker 4: out on a juicy sponsorship opportunity. Let them know on 858 00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:54,239 Speaker 4: every social media platform they have available to them that 859 00:42:54,920 --> 00:42:56,200 Speaker 4: they need to check us out. 860 00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:58,520 Speaker 2: And then the tape comes off the hat. Nothing makes 861 00:42:58,560 --> 00:42:59,000 Speaker 2: me prouder. 862 00:42:59,239 --> 00:43:03,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, then seeing someone fight against the tyranny of free sponsors, 863 00:43:03,160 --> 00:43:05,640 Speaker 1: absolutely nothing brings me more joy in my life. 864 00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:06,839 Speaker 2: I am iron. 865 00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:10,960 Speaker 4: Clad in my my rebellion against free sponsors. 866 00:43:11,000 --> 00:43:15,960 Speaker 1: Yes, okay, you got it? Are we good? 867 00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:16,440 Speaker 2: God? I hope so? 868 00:43:16,880 --> 00:43:21,360 Speaker 4: Okay, my, Yes, it does start with my my, my 869 00:43:21,680 --> 00:43:22,439 Speaker 4: soon to be wive. 870 00:43:23,080 --> 00:43:24,480 Speaker 2: Okay, ready, I'll do it. 871 00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:27,759 Speaker 4: My fiance and I are getting married, but she still 872 00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:30,320 Speaker 4: won't let me meet her friends. 873 00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:39,359 Speaker 3: Well, oh, Brianna, before we get into that story. Sorry, 874 00:43:39,360 --> 00:43:40,680 Speaker 3: I think the suit really work. 875 00:43:41,080 --> 00:43:44,759 Speaker 1: Thanks for the hundred dollars on the tips. I've been 876 00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:48,919 Speaker 1: binge watching you guys for weeks. Literally from son up 877 00:43:48,960 --> 00:43:52,680 Speaker 1: to sun down, every waking up, wake up, okay, story. 878 00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:55,240 Speaker 2: Time literally from sun up to sundown. 879 00:43:55,440 --> 00:43:57,759 Speaker 1: I'm just afraid for when I have gone through the 880 00:43:57,880 --> 00:43:59,879 Speaker 1: entire video list, it will take you a long time. 881 00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:00,880 Speaker 2: I love you guys. 882 00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:03,000 Speaker 1: You make me believe that there are good men out 883 00:44:03,080 --> 00:44:04,759 Speaker 1: there and to never settle for less. 884 00:44:04,800 --> 00:44:07,920 Speaker 2: Oh lots of love from Australia. So sweet, that was 885 00:44:08,040 --> 00:44:12,040 Speaker 2: super scity, the sweetest thing ever. Thank you, Brianna. You 886 00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:15,239 Speaker 2: will find someone incredible and worthy. 887 00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:19,040 Speaker 3: That's right, And they love Vegemite and Milo and Tim 888 00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:22,680 Speaker 3: Times Tim Tams Siam. Yes, Milo's like nest quick, but 889 00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:26,840 Speaker 3: so much better for the Sorry no free sponsors. 890 00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:29,959 Speaker 2: I mean Mila's whatever fower. 891 00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:32,359 Speaker 4: It's in Australia, it doesn't even count as a sponsor, right, 892 00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:34,200 Speaker 4: Tim TAM's, Vegemite and wild. 893 00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:36,919 Speaker 3: Beast down there it's the gray area all right. Back 894 00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:39,080 Speaker 3: to the story, guys. Thank you again, Brianna. You are 895 00:44:39,120 --> 00:44:41,600 Speaker 3: amazing for me to hit the title again. Uh yeah, 896 00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:43,239 Speaker 3: all right, let's see the title again. 897 00:44:44,120 --> 00:44:47,440 Speaker 4: My fiance and I are getting married, but she still 898 00:44:47,480 --> 00:44:49,440 Speaker 4: won't let me meet her friends. 899 00:44:50,560 --> 00:44:54,879 Speaker 2: No, never, when we're dead, do they exist? Let's find out? 900 00:44:55,560 --> 00:45:00,880 Speaker 4: Uh so, my fiance girlfriend aged thirty two doesn't want me, 901 00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:04,759 Speaker 4: aged twenty eight mal. 902 00:45:05,960 --> 00:45:11,600 Speaker 1: What is does GF mean something else in parentheses gluten 903 00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:12,480 Speaker 1: free girlfriends? 904 00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:16,799 Speaker 4: Yeah, my fiance who is gluten free and thirty two 905 00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:19,960 Speaker 4: does not want me twenty eight male to talk to 906 00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:23,080 Speaker 4: her best friends at all before the marriage. We have 907 00:45:23,160 --> 00:45:25,680 Speaker 4: been dating for the last two and a half years, 908 00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:28,240 Speaker 4: and those two and a half years have been mostly 909 00:45:28,320 --> 00:45:31,279 Speaker 4: public public in the sense that both me and her 910 00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:34,680 Speaker 4: like to post pictures or reels of ourselves from vacations 911 00:45:35,160 --> 00:45:38,319 Speaker 4: or times together, and we were very clear that we 912 00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:42,160 Speaker 4: were in a relationship on Instagram. Okay, so it's professional news, 913 00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:45,680 Speaker 4: social media public relationship. 914 00:45:46,200 --> 00:45:49,760 Speaker 1: However, she doesn't have a lot of many real life 915 00:45:50,080 --> 00:45:53,560 Speaker 1: followers from office or her personal life. On her Instagram, 916 00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:56,279 Speaker 1: she has about seven or eight really good friends who 917 00:45:56,360 --> 00:46:00,520 Speaker 1: she meets on a regular basis and one cousin. That's 918 00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:04,719 Speaker 1: I feel like that's about That's normal for like, to 919 00:46:04,800 --> 00:46:07,760 Speaker 1: just have like a close group about maybe ten people 920 00:46:07,760 --> 00:46:09,000 Speaker 1: that are you're really really close with. 921 00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:11,240 Speaker 2: That's yeah, that's pretty really normal. 922 00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:14,640 Speaker 4: And by the way, this story comes from user ambitious 923 00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:17,400 Speaker 4: Finish eight seventy nine on the r slash Okay story 924 00:46:17,440 --> 00:46:23,040 Speaker 4: time subreddit. So we are both mature adults and decided 925 00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:25,839 Speaker 4: to get married in the coming year, in twenty twenty 926 00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:31,120 Speaker 4: four November or December. Since we started dating, so I 927 00:46:31,160 --> 00:46:33,400 Speaker 4: thought it would be better if I introduced her. 928 00:46:33,520 --> 00:46:34,640 Speaker 2: To my family too. 929 00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:37,920 Speaker 4: Last month, so I took her consent and decided to 930 00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:40,600 Speaker 4: meet with my family at a good restaurant in the city. 931 00:46:41,640 --> 00:46:43,680 Speaker 2: Good restaurant in the city. Hello. 932 00:46:44,840 --> 00:46:47,120 Speaker 4: My family got to know her and they liked her, 933 00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:50,240 Speaker 4: and decided to fix the date for our wedding. Oh, 934 00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:55,839 Speaker 4: parents deciding when you're getting married, that's great time. Their 935 00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:57,640 Speaker 4: supportive at least. Yeah, the support is a good sign. 936 00:46:58,040 --> 00:47:00,359 Speaker 2: Yes, But my myr old. 937 00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:02,160 Speaker 4: Friend said it would be too early for her to 938 00:47:02,200 --> 00:47:05,600 Speaker 4: get married this year, So we eventually decided to fix 939 00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:08,279 Speaker 4: the marriage date for February of twenty twenty five, which 940 00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:11,319 Speaker 4: is six months from now. Usually in my city it's 941 00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:14,319 Speaker 4: a requirement to book the marriage halls early enough so 942 00:47:14,360 --> 00:47:17,440 Speaker 4: that you get a proper hall. So I discussed with 943 00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:21,080 Speaker 4: my family and booked a hall for marriage marriage halls. 944 00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:25,279 Speaker 2: Where's this? Let us go chat where the marriage hall's at? 945 00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:25,680 Speaker 2: Come on? 946 00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:28,880 Speaker 4: This feels very British to me for some reason. A 947 00:47:28,960 --> 00:47:31,400 Speaker 4: few days later, she also went and booked a hall 948 00:47:31,680 --> 00:47:35,440 Speaker 4: for her side of the party. Okay, it is normal 949 00:47:35,920 --> 00:47:38,800 Speaker 4: to have parties for both the bride and grooms side 950 00:47:39,239 --> 00:47:42,480 Speaker 4: in our culture. Basically, so far, I have made her 951 00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:45,919 Speaker 4: meet my family and one female friend of mine who 952 00:47:46,000 --> 00:47:49,439 Speaker 4: lives in a different town with her boyfriend, and both 953 00:47:49,480 --> 00:47:53,560 Speaker 4: of the meetings were proper, well planned meetings. She also 954 00:47:53,680 --> 00:47:58,200 Speaker 4: met maybe another friend of mine accidentally in the mall. I, however, 955 00:47:58,239 --> 00:48:01,480 Speaker 4: have never met her friends in that only once or twice. 956 00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:04,320 Speaker 4: I met some friends by accident as I was driving 957 00:48:04,360 --> 00:48:07,400 Speaker 4: my girlfriend somewhere and two or three of her friends 958 00:48:07,440 --> 00:48:09,920 Speaker 4: also hopped in and we just spoke a few words 959 00:48:09,960 --> 00:48:11,440 Speaker 4: as we traveled in the car. 960 00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:17,040 Speaker 2: This is perfectly normal. Yeah, so far, perfectly normal, right, 961 00:48:17,440 --> 00:48:18,640 Speaker 2: but kind of weird. 962 00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:21,440 Speaker 1: There's like a weird layer of weirdness underneath it that 963 00:48:21,480 --> 00:48:23,759 Speaker 1: I'm I can't put my finger on it. 964 00:48:23,840 --> 00:48:27,360 Speaker 2: Start old the god up, It's no, let's dig a 965 00:48:27,400 --> 00:48:28,000 Speaker 2: little deeper. 966 00:48:30,480 --> 00:48:32,960 Speaker 4: Her friends were all well aware that we were dating, 967 00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:37,920 Speaker 4: of course. But now a strange incident happened last week 968 00:48:38,280 --> 00:48:40,120 Speaker 4: which has left me really confused. 969 00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:43,520 Speaker 2: It was a text from a friend of hers on Instagram. 970 00:48:44,040 --> 00:48:47,000 Speaker 4: Before this, I had never spoken to this friend of hers, 971 00:48:47,040 --> 00:48:51,000 Speaker 4: except only once a year back when my girlfriend wasn't 972 00:48:51,040 --> 00:48:53,440 Speaker 4: talking to me as we had a fight. So I 973 00:48:53,520 --> 00:48:56,279 Speaker 4: texted this friend of hers and asked her politely to 974 00:48:56,320 --> 00:48:59,120 Speaker 4: talk to my girlfriend as she is a good friend, 975 00:48:59,560 --> 00:49:02,000 Speaker 4: and said, okay, I will surely talk. 976 00:49:02,040 --> 00:49:03,719 Speaker 2: So he reached out to. 977 00:49:03,680 --> 00:49:08,839 Speaker 4: This girl to be the the communicator, the liaison, the 978 00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:11,240 Speaker 4: messenger for him during a fight. 979 00:49:11,440 --> 00:49:11,760 Speaker 2: Okay. 980 00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:16,080 Speaker 4: I also texted her friend only because I felt my 981 00:49:16,120 --> 00:49:18,440 Speaker 4: girlfriend back then was going through a lot of things 982 00:49:18,880 --> 00:49:22,720 Speaker 4: and she probably would need a friend to discuss properly, 983 00:49:23,200 --> 00:49:27,080 Speaker 4: as she had a huge financial loan, et cetera, et cetera, 984 00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:31,360 Speaker 4: what comes after that, etc. Just a bunch of financial 985 00:49:31,360 --> 00:49:34,200 Speaker 4: stuff and even had a fight with me and her 986 00:49:34,239 --> 00:49:37,840 Speaker 4: family for some reasons. I feel like, op, he's not 987 00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:40,879 Speaker 4: given us all the info here, skirting over a lot 988 00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:42,680 Speaker 4: of maybe relevant information. 989 00:49:43,040 --> 00:49:43,279 Speaker 2: Yeah. 990 00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:48,120 Speaker 4: Shortly afterwards, I got a call from my girlfriend regarding 991 00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:51,239 Speaker 4: me dming her friend on Instagram and she asked me. 992 00:49:51,400 --> 00:49:56,000 Speaker 1: Very angrily to never talk to her again, to which 993 00:49:56,200 --> 00:50:00,319 Speaker 1: I was surprised, but I complied as our relationship wasn't 994 00:50:00,320 --> 00:50:03,080 Speaker 1: so stable back then and I gave her space to 995 00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:06,920 Speaker 1: settle after a while. That day, I got a message 996 00:50:06,920 --> 00:50:09,600 Speaker 1: from her friend saying, hey, sorry, I can't help you 997 00:50:09,760 --> 00:50:13,960 Speaker 1: in this, and she blocked me on Instagram. Hmmm, ohkay, 998 00:50:14,000 --> 00:50:16,480 Speaker 1: she goes from the such a close friend that she's 999 00:50:16,600 --> 00:50:18,840 Speaker 1: mediating between the two of them. Yeah, so now she's 1000 00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:22,040 Speaker 1: blocked me. She's blocked her on Instagram. 1001 00:50:22,080 --> 00:50:24,080 Speaker 2: She's blocked Op on Instagram. 1002 00:50:24,239 --> 00:50:29,320 Speaker 4: I think, uh, at the behest of Op's girlfriend slash fiance. 1003 00:50:30,640 --> 00:50:37,280 Speaker 2: But what I don't know. Something's something is a miss 1004 00:50:37,320 --> 00:50:38,880 Speaker 2: put and I see you in the comments. 1005 00:50:39,160 --> 00:50:45,320 Speaker 4: Something is see Yeah, like this girl does not trust 1006 00:50:45,320 --> 00:50:50,480 Speaker 4: her friends, or she doesn't trust her friends to stay quiet. 1007 00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:53,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's uh. I think she's just hiding 1008 00:50:54,000 --> 00:50:54,640 Speaker 1: Op as. 1009 00:50:54,560 --> 00:50:57,200 Speaker 2: Her precious little secrets. Yeah, I think. 1010 00:50:57,440 --> 00:50:59,839 Speaker 4: Oh, I think there's a maybe a secret OP doesn't 1011 00:50:59,880 --> 00:51:04,000 Speaker 4: know about. Maybe the friends know. My conspiracy is that 1012 00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:07,200 Speaker 4: she doesn't want you know the secret to slip and 1013 00:51:07,239 --> 00:51:07,719 Speaker 4: she knows that. 1014 00:51:07,680 --> 00:51:10,560 Speaker 2: Her friends know. Is this her conspiracy theory? That's my 1015 00:51:10,640 --> 00:51:11,719 Speaker 2: little conspiracy theory. 1016 00:51:11,719 --> 00:51:17,440 Speaker 4: But I have no idea this could really go anyway. 1017 00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:24,719 Speaker 4: I am very suspicious and I don't know why. So 1018 00:51:24,840 --> 00:51:28,720 Speaker 4: he's blocked by that friend on Instagram. I was okay, 1019 00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:34,680 Speaker 4: and I didn't really react This was last year's incident. Now, 1020 00:51:34,719 --> 00:51:38,279 Speaker 4: the same friend texted me suddenly last week as she 1021 00:51:38,400 --> 00:51:41,200 Speaker 4: was not able to reach my girlfriend over a call, 1022 00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:44,279 Speaker 4: and she was tense as to what was going on. 1023 00:51:45,080 --> 00:51:48,760 Speaker 4: I politely replied back, saying, hey, she's all right, probably 1024 00:51:48,760 --> 00:51:51,440 Speaker 4: busy with office work. I'll let her know that you're 1025 00:51:51,480 --> 00:51:54,560 Speaker 4: trying to reach her. I called my girlfriend and said 1026 00:51:54,600 --> 00:51:58,240 Speaker 4: her friend called, to which she was like, oh lord, 1027 00:51:59,040 --> 00:52:00,720 Speaker 4: why does she have to tell next to you? 1028 00:52:00,760 --> 00:52:08,359 Speaker 2: Please block her on Instagram something. It's so weird. It's 1029 00:52:08,400 --> 00:52:09,000 Speaker 2: so weird. 1030 00:52:09,320 --> 00:52:11,200 Speaker 1: I feel like there's a bunch of bugs in my 1031 00:52:11,320 --> 00:52:14,239 Speaker 1: gut crawling around and I don't know why. It's like 1032 00:52:14,280 --> 00:52:16,640 Speaker 1: it's like your friend being like, oh hey, like it's 1033 00:52:16,640 --> 00:52:19,640 Speaker 1: like this, I could I get a thousand percent see this, 1034 00:52:20,320 --> 00:52:21,000 Speaker 1: see this happen? 1035 00:52:21,120 --> 00:52:21,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know. 1036 00:52:21,480 --> 00:52:23,719 Speaker 1: It's like, oh, so soone's around you like asking their 1037 00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:26,239 Speaker 1: their their boyfriend or girlfriend, and then it's just like, oh, yeah, 1038 00:52:26,320 --> 00:52:28,480 Speaker 1: they're just at work or whatever, like oh is everything okay? 1039 00:52:28,520 --> 00:52:30,600 Speaker 1: It's like no, no, no, no, no, don't talk to them, No, 1040 00:52:30,920 --> 00:52:33,520 Speaker 1: don't talk to and also yeah, block please block that 1041 00:52:33,560 --> 00:52:34,480 Speaker 1: person talking. 1042 00:52:34,640 --> 00:52:37,200 Speaker 2: Block immediately. I don't see any blocking. I don't see 1043 00:52:37,239 --> 00:52:44,880 Speaker 2: all I see is talking that I don't see no blocks. God, Okay. 1044 00:52:47,040 --> 00:52:50,000 Speaker 4: I found it very weird to block that friend and 1045 00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:53,080 Speaker 4: immature at the same time, so I told her I won't, 1046 00:52:53,480 --> 00:52:56,279 Speaker 4: and my girlfriend told me that if I won't, then 1047 00:52:56,320 --> 00:53:00,399 Speaker 4: her friend will. Moments later, I saw I was again 1048 00:53:00,440 --> 00:53:04,439 Speaker 4: blocked on Instagram by her friend. Actually this time around 1049 00:53:04,480 --> 00:53:06,600 Speaker 4: it made me a little angry, and I ended up 1050 00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:10,359 Speaker 4: texting her on her other Insta handle and told her, hey, 1051 00:53:10,400 --> 00:53:12,799 Speaker 4: how are you doing? I didn't like what you just 1052 00:53:12,840 --> 00:53:15,759 Speaker 4: did and this is not a very respectable way to 1053 00:53:15,840 --> 00:53:16,600 Speaker 4: talk to someone. 1054 00:53:17,920 --> 00:53:19,799 Speaker 1: Dude, don't get mad at her. Get mad at your 1055 00:53:19,840 --> 00:53:22,680 Speaker 1: girlfriend who's making her block you and you block her? 1056 00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:22,920 Speaker 3: What? 1057 00:53:23,160 --> 00:53:23,279 Speaker 1: Yea? 1058 00:53:26,120 --> 00:53:27,279 Speaker 2: What is going on here? 1059 00:53:28,200 --> 00:53:31,840 Speaker 1: I also wrote, if your husband has some self respect, 1060 00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:35,560 Speaker 1: he should also not text my girlfriend when you guys 1061 00:53:35,600 --> 00:53:36,440 Speaker 1: are having issues. 1062 00:53:36,960 --> 00:53:41,080 Speaker 4: Oh, we haven't heard that before. We haven't heard that 1063 00:53:41,120 --> 00:53:42,120 Speaker 4: little piece of information. 1064 00:53:43,160 --> 00:53:47,000 Speaker 1: So the girl who's getting blocked her husband is talking 1065 00:53:47,040 --> 00:53:51,080 Speaker 1: to oh Pea's girlfriend fiance, who's also the one telling 1066 00:53:51,239 --> 00:53:52,680 Speaker 1: him to block this. 1067 00:53:52,640 --> 00:53:56,759 Speaker 2: Girl dude who supposedly her friend. What's going on here? 1068 00:53:57,000 --> 00:54:01,400 Speaker 1: This is a crazy court tet quartet. 1069 00:54:01,640 --> 00:54:04,200 Speaker 2: Yeah? Is she is? She telling him to block this 1070 00:54:04,320 --> 00:54:06,600 Speaker 2: girl because she's messing around with her husband. 1071 00:54:06,800 --> 00:54:10,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe they're They're all tied together in some way 1072 00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:12,360 Speaker 1: except for Ope. 1073 00:54:12,640 --> 00:54:16,239 Speaker 4: Yeah, Op is definitely outside of this weird spider's web 1074 00:54:16,320 --> 00:54:17,719 Speaker 4: that has been spun by these people. 1075 00:54:18,440 --> 00:54:21,040 Speaker 2: I didn't see no idea what's going on? Interesting? 1076 00:54:23,160 --> 00:54:28,239 Speaker 4: So then she replied saying, hey, my husband, me and 1077 00:54:28,360 --> 00:54:31,560 Speaker 4: her were in her life way before you came into 1078 00:54:31,640 --> 00:54:35,640 Speaker 4: her life, after which I politely explained that I didn't 1079 00:54:35,719 --> 00:54:38,120 Speaker 4: mean to break their friendship and only wanted to make 1080 00:54:38,160 --> 00:54:41,520 Speaker 4: their bond better and just felt disrespected for being blocked 1081 00:54:41,640 --> 00:54:44,560 Speaker 4: twice when I wanted to just talk to them once 1082 00:54:45,200 --> 00:54:48,320 Speaker 4: or get to know slash meet them. How do you 1083 00:54:48,400 --> 00:54:52,560 Speaker 4: get blocked twice? You gotta get unblocked first. So what 1084 00:54:52,840 --> 00:54:55,560 Speaker 4: I guess who approved that they did? 1085 00:54:55,960 --> 00:54:58,680 Speaker 2: What is going on here? We're just gonna keep digging. 1086 00:54:58,840 --> 00:55:00,520 Speaker 2: We gotta we gotta get to the bottom of this. 1087 00:55:01,320 --> 00:55:04,400 Speaker 1: So she didn't reply to this and informed my girlfriend, 1088 00:55:05,040 --> 00:55:08,960 Speaker 1: and my girlfriend again came out angrily and was very 1089 00:55:09,120 --> 00:55:15,400 Speaker 1: angry with me as I referred her friend's husband. The 1090 00:55:15,560 --> 00:55:18,560 Speaker 1: layers just keep getting more confusing, right. I felt that 1091 00:55:18,680 --> 00:55:21,480 Speaker 1: that was the only logical way to express myself. I 1092 00:55:21,680 --> 00:55:25,040 Speaker 1: was serious about her and made her meet my family 1093 00:55:25,120 --> 00:55:28,880 Speaker 1: and friends. She had no family members, her parents passed 1094 00:55:28,920 --> 00:55:31,680 Speaker 1: away and cousins live in other countries are far away now. 1095 00:55:32,360 --> 00:55:34,719 Speaker 1: But her friends would be the ones who would be 1096 00:55:34,800 --> 00:55:40,200 Speaker 1: present at our wedding from her side. So, so is 1097 00:55:40,280 --> 00:55:42,239 Speaker 1: the wedding even gonna happen at this point? 1098 00:55:42,440 --> 00:55:46,640 Speaker 2: Cardboard cutout. 1099 00:55:47,880 --> 00:55:53,160 Speaker 1: Sitting everywhere my cardboard friends, we're all body pillows, that's all. 1100 00:55:53,239 --> 00:55:57,040 Speaker 2: Her friends are just body pillows that she she can't 1101 00:55:58,800 --> 00:55:59,839 Speaker 2: oh god. 1102 00:56:01,280 --> 00:56:04,320 Speaker 4: So the ones who would be present at our wedding 1103 00:56:04,840 --> 00:56:06,480 Speaker 4: on her side would be her friends. 1104 00:56:06,719 --> 00:56:07,799 Speaker 2: So I expected her. 1105 00:56:07,760 --> 00:56:10,040 Speaker 1: To take me a little more seriously and maybe not 1106 00:56:10,360 --> 00:56:14,000 Speaker 1: ask her friends to block me, at least on Instagram. 1107 00:56:15,360 --> 00:56:18,960 Speaker 4: She often visits this female friend's house and sometimes they 1108 00:56:19,000 --> 00:56:23,160 Speaker 4: have sleepovers and sometimes even parties with this friend and 1109 00:56:23,360 --> 00:56:27,040 Speaker 4: her husband in the house. Birthday parties are some other reason. 1110 00:56:27,120 --> 00:56:30,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, she's messing around with this husband. I'm calling it. Yeah, 1111 00:56:30,719 --> 00:56:32,400 Speaker 2: sounds he's messing around with the husband. 1112 00:56:33,840 --> 00:56:36,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, how do you not get invited to the sleepover 1113 00:56:37,239 --> 00:56:39,279 Speaker 1: with the wife and the husband at. 1114 00:56:39,239 --> 00:56:44,440 Speaker 2: The house, Come on, dude? Or the birthdays? Yeah, like birthdays? 1115 00:56:44,600 --> 00:56:48,680 Speaker 4: Blocking you on Instagram when they're going to your wedding 1116 00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:50,680 Speaker 4: in six months. 1117 00:56:52,600 --> 00:56:56,520 Speaker 2: What's going on here? Who is this guy? You know, 1118 00:56:56,560 --> 00:56:59,000 Speaker 2: it's a little classic pre wedding instat blocking. You know. 1119 00:57:00,000 --> 00:57:03,600 Speaker 4: Oh, they have a thrupple going on, and like they 1120 00:57:03,719 --> 00:57:05,920 Speaker 4: just gotta keep the husband on the outside of it 1121 00:57:06,160 --> 00:57:09,200 Speaker 4: or I guess it's all gonna fall apart. The vault 1122 00:57:09,320 --> 00:57:11,680 Speaker 4: keeping the secret is has started to get Yeah, they 1123 00:57:11,800 --> 00:57:15,440 Speaker 4: do be. They're doing some scandalous activities at those sleepovers. 1124 00:57:15,520 --> 00:57:19,000 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I never got to properly go out or 1125 00:57:19,080 --> 00:57:22,200 Speaker 4: meet any of her friends in an official go out 1126 00:57:22,280 --> 00:57:27,280 Speaker 4: slash meet kind of sense. I expressed her to her 1127 00:57:27,360 --> 00:57:30,560 Speaker 4: a couple of times that your friend brings her husband 1128 00:57:30,600 --> 00:57:33,840 Speaker 4: and baby along in our group meetings sometimes, so maybe 1129 00:57:33,960 --> 00:57:36,560 Speaker 4: I can also go along and meet them once. But 1130 00:57:36,720 --> 00:57:40,000 Speaker 4: she is strictly against this and has me and this 1131 00:57:40,400 --> 00:57:47,040 Speaker 4: blocking incident is seriously bothering me. My girlfriend says, my 1132 00:57:47,440 --> 00:57:52,680 Speaker 4: ex boyfriends had bothered my Oh. My girlfriend says, well, 1133 00:57:52,720 --> 00:57:55,800 Speaker 4: my ex boyfriends had bothered my friends earlier, and I 1134 00:57:55,920 --> 00:57:59,400 Speaker 4: didn't want these things to happen again. But this probably 1135 00:57:59,440 --> 00:58:02,440 Speaker 4: would have made made sense to until maybe like a 1136 00:58:02,560 --> 00:58:05,040 Speaker 4: year back. But now we're gonna get married. 1137 00:58:04,840 --> 00:58:05,880 Speaker 2: In six months. Yeah. 1138 00:58:06,240 --> 00:58:09,520 Speaker 4: Even now she's hesitant and says she'll introduce me to 1139 00:58:09,640 --> 00:58:11,680 Speaker 4: them after the marriage. 1140 00:58:13,080 --> 00:58:15,600 Speaker 2: Yo, what is going what? 1141 00:58:16,840 --> 00:58:21,520 Speaker 1: This is one big catfish, bro, this is just a catfish. 1142 00:58:21,640 --> 00:58:24,120 Speaker 1: This is crazy, Like she's like he. 1143 00:58:24,360 --> 00:58:26,720 Speaker 2: Sees her physically, but she's like lying about who she is. 1144 00:58:27,040 --> 00:58:30,680 Speaker 4: Oh my, okay, because they said that there was like 1145 00:58:30,720 --> 00:58:33,280 Speaker 4: a cultural difference here, So I think culturally the marriage 1146 00:58:33,360 --> 00:58:36,920 Speaker 4: is being set up by the parents. Remember, like they 1147 00:58:36,960 --> 00:58:39,040 Speaker 4: said that the parents were the one that locked in 1148 00:58:39,160 --> 00:58:41,960 Speaker 4: the wedding day the first time. So maybe this is 1149 00:58:42,080 --> 00:58:44,000 Speaker 4: like almost arranged. 1150 00:58:44,400 --> 00:58:44,560 Speaker 2: Was it? 1151 00:58:44,680 --> 00:58:44,720 Speaker 1: What? 1152 00:58:44,920 --> 00:58:47,160 Speaker 2: But was it Opie's parents because wasn't she like her 1153 00:58:47,200 --> 00:58:48,280 Speaker 2: parents are not in the picture? 1154 00:58:48,800 --> 00:58:51,600 Speaker 1: Ye? Confusing It would have to be Opie's parents because 1155 00:58:51,600 --> 00:58:56,840 Speaker 1: she said that the op said that the girlfriend's parents 1156 00:58:57,000 --> 00:58:57,800 Speaker 1: have passed away. 1157 00:58:58,000 --> 00:59:02,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, but maybe, like I don't know, maybe culturally the 1158 00:59:02,640 --> 00:59:04,200 Speaker 2: I guess that doesn't make sense. Then it would make 1159 00:59:04,560 --> 00:59:06,880 Speaker 2: sense it was her parents. Yeah. Yeah. 1160 00:59:06,920 --> 00:59:08,960 Speaker 1: And so it's like like she's getting forced into the 1161 00:59:09,080 --> 00:59:11,280 Speaker 1: arranged marriage of op but then having her like real 1162 00:59:11,440 --> 00:59:12,760 Speaker 1: side relationship. 1163 00:59:12,520 --> 00:59:16,720 Speaker 2: D Yeah right, but I don't know. It clearly doesn't 1164 00:59:16,720 --> 00:59:18,600 Speaker 2: feel like she's invested in the marriage. 1165 00:59:18,720 --> 00:59:21,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, No, it feels like the only thing we know 1166 00:59:21,320 --> 00:59:24,000 Speaker 1: for sure is that she there's like something going on 1167 00:59:24,200 --> 00:59:25,880 Speaker 1: where she's like not fully invested in. 1168 00:59:26,000 --> 00:59:29,680 Speaker 3: Ope, she's sabotaging I mean obviously, but like this seems 1169 00:59:29,720 --> 00:59:31,000 Speaker 3: like she's like, ah, don't meet him. 1170 00:59:31,600 --> 00:59:32,120 Speaker 2: Who are they? 1171 00:59:32,280 --> 00:59:35,280 Speaker 1: They're not real, you'll be him after Oh, like trying 1172 00:59:35,360 --> 00:59:37,840 Speaker 1: to get him to break up with her, Like she's 1173 00:59:37,880 --> 00:59:38,640 Speaker 1: sabotaging it. 1174 00:59:39,160 --> 00:59:42,200 Speaker 3: That's my conspiracy theory, that she's sabotaging it, like I 1175 00:59:42,320 --> 00:59:45,120 Speaker 3: have so many friends, can't talk to them. 1176 00:59:45,600 --> 00:59:47,440 Speaker 2: Oh and maybe that's culturally. 1177 00:59:47,560 --> 00:59:49,840 Speaker 4: Maybe she's doing that because culturally it would be frowned 1178 00:59:49,920 --> 00:59:52,640 Speaker 4: upon if she broke the relationship up, or if anyone 1179 00:59:52,720 --> 00:59:55,200 Speaker 4: broke that relationship up, So she's trying to make him 1180 00:59:55,320 --> 00:59:59,000 Speaker 4: do it so that she doesn't have the like any 1181 00:59:59,080 --> 01:00:00,600 Speaker 4: of the maybe social repercussion. 1182 01:00:00,720 --> 01:00:01,880 Speaker 2: It's like, well, I didn't break it. 1183 01:00:01,960 --> 01:00:04,760 Speaker 1: He just last Yeah he left me right before we 1184 01:00:04,800 --> 01:00:06,880 Speaker 1: got married, and my friends were going to be there 1185 01:00:07,120 --> 01:00:10,600 Speaker 1: the tiniest not Colonel of truth. But it's like, yeah, 1186 01:00:10,680 --> 01:00:13,320 Speaker 1: he broke up, broke up with you because of all 1187 01:00:13,400 --> 01:00:16,840 Speaker 1: this crazy crap you're pulling, And it's like, I think 1188 01:00:16,920 --> 01:00:19,240 Speaker 1: that your conspiracy makes the most sense to me. 1189 01:00:19,440 --> 01:00:23,080 Speaker 2: So far keon is that she's doing this appisade? Guys, 1190 01:00:24,240 --> 01:00:26,880 Speaker 2: just trust him. Is she's sharp? Right? Yeah, I'm real 1191 01:00:26,960 --> 01:00:31,400 Speaker 2: shark Okay, okay. 1192 01:00:31,560 --> 01:00:36,000 Speaker 1: And also when she gets married, which would be when 1193 01:00:36,040 --> 01:00:41,120 Speaker 1: we get married, right, these friends will probably have to 1194 01:00:41,200 --> 01:00:44,360 Speaker 1: help her make her side of the arrangement slash duties 1195 01:00:44,720 --> 01:00:47,960 Speaker 1: as she has no one else, so I needed to 1196 01:00:48,040 --> 01:00:51,320 Speaker 1: talk to them as well for our upcoming wedding preparations. 1197 01:00:51,320 --> 01:00:55,160 Speaker 4: Nope, I have not spoken to my girlfriend for the 1198 01:00:55,320 --> 01:00:58,800 Speaker 4: last two days, of course because of this, And she 1199 01:00:59,040 --> 01:01:01,960 Speaker 4: also is saying she is unsure of the marriage now 1200 01:01:02,120 --> 01:01:05,080 Speaker 4: after I expressed the desire to meet her friends and 1201 01:01:05,200 --> 01:01:07,840 Speaker 4: she says that I will be controlling in nature in 1202 01:01:07,960 --> 01:01:13,160 Speaker 4: the future. There goes our conspiracy because now. 1203 01:01:13,120 --> 01:01:15,840 Speaker 2: She's being like, I don't like you. I think you're 1204 01:01:15,880 --> 01:01:19,480 Speaker 2: gonna be controlling. What's what's gaslighting? Dude? I don't know. 1205 01:01:19,600 --> 01:01:25,200 Speaker 1: Okay, let's keep keep My brain is melting. I feel 1206 01:01:25,280 --> 01:01:27,320 Speaker 1: like she's gonna text me or call me back soon. 1207 01:01:28,120 --> 01:01:31,320 Speaker 1: Oh excuse me, am I asking I'm getting into. 1208 01:01:31,160 --> 01:01:33,360 Speaker 2: Gestion over here in the eyes? 1209 01:01:34,160 --> 01:01:36,720 Speaker 4: Am I asking for the right thing by asking her 1210 01:01:36,880 --> 01:01:38,360 Speaker 4: to introduce me to her friends? 1211 01:01:38,880 --> 01:01:41,600 Speaker 2: What should I do? And we have an update. Oh boy, 1212 01:01:42,040 --> 01:01:44,680 Speaker 2: do we just go right into the update? And I 1213 01:01:44,840 --> 01:01:47,160 Speaker 2: need the update? Now, let's go, let's go. 1214 01:01:47,440 --> 01:01:51,280 Speaker 4: A few days back, I posted about how my girlfriend 1215 01:01:51,920 --> 01:01:54,720 Speaker 4: asked one of her best friends to block me on Instagram. 1216 01:01:55,400 --> 01:01:58,840 Speaker 4: It has not been long since the blocking incident, but 1217 01:01:59,000 --> 01:02:00,800 Speaker 4: today I got some prized to learn. 1218 01:02:00,720 --> 01:02:03,880 Speaker 2: That my girlfriend's mother, who she's always been referring to 1219 01:02:04,080 --> 01:02:14,240 Speaker 2: as dead, is not really dead. She alone. God, she 1220 01:02:14,360 --> 01:02:17,160 Speaker 2: goes out like you'll never believe this. She rose from 1221 01:02:17,240 --> 01:02:24,040 Speaker 2: the dead. Wow. Wow, mom is the next Jesus of Nazareth. 1222 01:02:24,480 --> 01:02:27,520 Speaker 2: You can't meet her until we get married. Yeah, it's 1223 01:02:27,760 --> 01:02:30,840 Speaker 2: the prophecy. What are you gonna do? Go against the prophecy? 1224 01:02:31,400 --> 01:02:35,760 Speaker 2: You're so controlling? This is crazy. You're so controlling. 1225 01:02:36,160 --> 01:02:36,440 Speaker 1: Girl. 1226 01:02:36,880 --> 01:02:39,560 Speaker 2: You didn't even let me know your mom was alive. 1227 01:02:39,880 --> 01:02:44,200 Speaker 2: You told me she was dead. What that's pretty controlling 1228 01:02:44,360 --> 01:02:52,120 Speaker 2: right there. Oh my god. Okay, so I'm moving on, 1229 01:02:52,480 --> 01:02:53,320 Speaker 2: moving along here. 1230 01:02:54,520 --> 01:02:57,800 Speaker 4: A few weeks back, the girl, her best friend, who 1231 01:02:57,920 --> 01:03:01,200 Speaker 4: is already married with one kid, just texted me to 1232 01:03:01,280 --> 01:03:03,200 Speaker 4: know the whereabouts of my girlfriend as she was not 1233 01:03:03,400 --> 01:03:07,000 Speaker 4: able to reach her. My girlfriend, on when she learned that, 1234 01:03:07,680 --> 01:03:11,080 Speaker 4: instantly asked me to block her friend and I refused, 1235 01:03:11,400 --> 01:03:14,400 Speaker 4: but she then made that best friend block me, And 1236 01:03:14,520 --> 01:03:17,040 Speaker 4: the rest of the story is already there. 1237 01:03:16,920 --> 01:03:23,360 Speaker 1: In the previous post. Yeah whatever, Since then, I was 1238 01:03:23,520 --> 01:03:26,960 Speaker 1: not able to trust her. Since then, you shouldn't. 1239 01:03:27,440 --> 01:03:31,160 Speaker 2: Her mom is alive. She lied to you about her 1240 01:03:31,240 --> 01:03:34,240 Speaker 2: mom being dead. You can't trust her, but it's a miracle. 1241 01:03:35,160 --> 01:03:36,920 Speaker 2: That's to focus entirely on that. 1242 01:03:37,120 --> 01:03:37,240 Speaker 1: Now. 1243 01:03:37,360 --> 01:03:40,160 Speaker 4: This is no longer a story about being blocked on Instagram. 1244 01:03:40,520 --> 01:03:45,280 Speaker 4: This is a story about her mom not being dead. Like, 1245 01:03:45,760 --> 01:03:50,720 Speaker 4: come on, okay, since the blocking incident, I was not 1246 01:03:50,880 --> 01:03:53,840 Speaker 4: able to trust her. My girlfriend has always been telling 1247 01:03:53,880 --> 01:03:56,400 Speaker 4: me that there is no one in her family. She 1248 01:03:56,520 --> 01:03:58,880 Speaker 4: said she was a single child and both of her 1249 01:03:58,960 --> 01:04:01,480 Speaker 4: parents have passed away. She used to go to her 1250 01:04:01,560 --> 01:04:04,520 Speaker 4: countryside home every three to four months to visit her aunt, 1251 01:04:05,000 --> 01:04:08,680 Speaker 4: who said who she said, was the only person living there, 1252 01:04:09,160 --> 01:04:12,040 Speaker 4: but that always seemed a little off, and every time 1253 01:04:12,160 --> 01:04:13,720 Speaker 4: she used to go there she would stay for at 1254 01:04:13,800 --> 01:04:15,040 Speaker 4: least two or three days. 1255 01:04:16,040 --> 01:04:19,080 Speaker 1: There were other things which seemed off, too, like whenever 1256 01:04:19,160 --> 01:04:21,560 Speaker 1: she used to get a phone call, her contact name 1257 01:04:21,680 --> 01:04:29,120 Speaker 1: used to show as dad home. Okay, and okay, I'm 1258 01:04:29,160 --> 01:04:31,840 Speaker 1: not even gonna acknowledge that I'm just moving along. And 1259 01:04:31,960 --> 01:04:35,680 Speaker 1: a lady used to speak from the other end, who 1260 01:04:35,760 --> 01:04:39,120 Speaker 1: she always used to refer to as her aunt, So 1261 01:04:39,280 --> 01:04:42,400 Speaker 1: when Dad Home would show up on her phone, it 1262 01:04:42,560 --> 01:04:45,080 Speaker 1: was the aunt calling, okay, yeah. 1263 01:04:45,040 --> 01:04:47,400 Speaker 2: Sure, Why are you ready for her? Are you ready 1264 01:04:47,440 --> 01:04:47,640 Speaker 2: for it? 1265 01:04:47,800 --> 01:04:48,000 Speaker 1: Yeah? 1266 01:04:48,040 --> 01:04:51,919 Speaker 2: To go to I'm ready. My aunt's name is dad. 1267 01:04:52,880 --> 01:04:54,880 Speaker 2: My aunt's full name is dad Home. 1268 01:04:55,120 --> 01:04:59,840 Speaker 1: My mom resurrected my aunt's first and last name is 1269 01:05:00,120 --> 01:05:00,520 Speaker 1: at Home. 1270 01:05:00,960 --> 01:05:04,520 Speaker 2: What more do you want from me? It all makes sense? 1271 01:05:04,680 --> 01:05:04,760 Speaker 3: Ye? 1272 01:05:05,160 --> 01:05:08,600 Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, no, this whole story has been making sense 1273 01:05:08,800 --> 01:05:13,320 Speaker 4: from the beginning. My girlfriend has already met my parents 1274 01:05:13,720 --> 01:05:16,240 Speaker 4: and we were supposed to get married in the coming February. 1275 01:05:16,680 --> 01:05:19,240 Speaker 4: My parents were hesitant about our marriage because they also 1276 01:05:19,360 --> 01:05:22,320 Speaker 4: didn't like this secrecy and the fact that my girlfriend 1277 01:05:22,440 --> 01:05:26,920 Speaker 4: asked her best friend to block me. Why are moving 1278 01:05:27,840 --> 01:05:31,720 Speaker 4: I just thought it to be generational differences and was 1279 01:05:31,800 --> 01:05:34,200 Speaker 4: trying to make my parents understand that maybe it's not 1280 01:05:34,480 --> 01:05:37,560 Speaker 4: that big of a thing. But still, my parents didn't 1281 01:05:37,720 --> 01:05:41,080 Speaker 4: like this relationship, and one day last week they just 1282 01:05:41,280 --> 01:05:44,760 Speaker 4: went near my girlfriend's office and asked the colleague of 1283 01:05:44,840 --> 01:05:48,960 Speaker 4: hers if she knew about her parents, But that colleague 1284 01:05:49,000 --> 01:05:51,240 Speaker 4: didn't know a lot about her family. Yo, the parents 1285 01:05:51,360 --> 01:05:54,400 Speaker 4: just showing up to where his fiance worse and just 1286 01:05:54,440 --> 01:05:57,560 Speaker 4: being like, what do you know about her family? Do 1287 01:05:57,680 --> 01:06:00,720 Speaker 4: you know anything about the parents of this woman she? 1288 01:06:01,640 --> 01:06:04,280 Speaker 4: Do you know anything about why she would ask her 1289 01:06:04,360 --> 01:06:06,000 Speaker 4: friend to block him on Facebook? 1290 01:06:06,200 --> 01:06:09,680 Speaker 1: Is she just like a serial er? And that's what's 1291 01:06:09,720 --> 01:06:13,439 Speaker 1: happening right now? She's just yeah, honestly, at this point, 1292 01:06:13,560 --> 01:06:14,200 Speaker 1: I just want to know. 1293 01:06:14,240 --> 01:06:17,080 Speaker 2: Where are the bodies, where are they buried? Where are 1294 01:06:17,120 --> 01:06:17,680 Speaker 2: the bodies are? 1295 01:06:21,160 --> 01:06:29,000 Speaker 1: Excuse me, missus Holmes house, missus respect. Okay, so the 1296 01:06:29,120 --> 01:06:31,800 Speaker 1: parents are trying to dig up some info the colleague 1297 01:06:31,880 --> 01:06:34,320 Speaker 1: did not know about her family. I know this was 1298 01:06:34,400 --> 01:06:36,920 Speaker 1: not the right thing to do but by my parents, 1299 01:06:37,320 --> 01:06:39,960 Speaker 1: but probably they could look at the suspicious things from 1300 01:06:39,960 --> 01:06:42,120 Speaker 1: an outsider's perspective and they just wanted to. 1301 01:06:42,160 --> 01:06:45,920 Speaker 2: Keep me safe. Yeah, the word for your security and 1302 01:06:46,280 --> 01:06:47,400 Speaker 2: your health and well being. 1303 01:06:48,720 --> 01:06:51,040 Speaker 4: I tried to make them understand later that it's wrong 1304 01:06:51,200 --> 01:06:54,640 Speaker 4: to take these things into the professional space. I tried 1305 01:06:54,680 --> 01:06:56,760 Speaker 4: to tell my parents later, it is wrong for you 1306 01:06:56,880 --> 01:07:01,240 Speaker 4: to become private investigators. And you know, just lurking around 1307 01:07:01,400 --> 01:07:04,960 Speaker 4: where my fiance works asking questions. 1308 01:07:05,240 --> 01:07:08,800 Speaker 2: That's weird, or maybe that's based. I don't know. 1309 01:07:08,920 --> 01:07:11,960 Speaker 1: That might be pretty cool. Actually, I mean it's not 1310 01:07:12,120 --> 01:07:16,840 Speaker 1: the right move, but respect. Oh my brain is melting. 1311 01:07:19,040 --> 01:07:23,120 Speaker 4: They agreed to not ask there again, but also urged, oh, 1312 01:07:23,160 --> 01:07:23,919 Speaker 4: I locked the phone. 1313 01:07:25,120 --> 01:07:27,080 Speaker 2: I pressed the wrong button swiping up. 1314 01:07:27,760 --> 01:07:32,080 Speaker 4: They agreed not to ask there again, but also urged, oh, 1315 01:07:32,120 --> 01:07:34,640 Speaker 4: oh oh no, I did it. 1316 01:07:38,160 --> 01:07:40,120 Speaker 2: It's a new thing, guys. We got a new phone. 1317 01:07:40,560 --> 01:07:44,720 Speaker 4: We don't even have a case on it yet. It yeah, 1318 01:07:44,840 --> 01:07:48,520 Speaker 4: it's it's cropped incorrectly because I locked. I locked the 1319 01:07:48,560 --> 01:07:51,480 Speaker 4: phone accidentally instead of pressing the button. They are right 1320 01:07:51,560 --> 01:07:54,920 Speaker 4: next to each other. I'll make sure not to do 1321 01:07:54,960 --> 01:08:01,200 Speaker 4: it again. It was a yeah, and it's right as 1322 01:08:01,280 --> 01:08:04,560 Speaker 4: we were getting into the the juicy stuff. 1323 01:08:05,000 --> 01:08:06,640 Speaker 2: What what shape is this story? 1324 01:08:06,720 --> 01:08:11,160 Speaker 1: It's like a like ann agone. It's some there's a 1325 01:08:11,320 --> 01:08:15,160 Speaker 1: lot of the sides to this. It evolved from first 1326 01:08:15,200 --> 01:08:17,400 Speaker 1: we thought it was the quartet or whatever it was. 1327 01:08:17,840 --> 01:08:24,040 Speaker 2: No, it's just the FBI. Oh no, deaks. 1328 01:08:25,439 --> 01:08:26,200 Speaker 1: What the heck? 1329 01:08:26,760 --> 01:08:30,760 Speaker 2: Oh no, A broke it all right, A broke it 1330 01:08:31,600 --> 01:08:31,920 Speaker 2: all right. 1331 01:08:31,960 --> 01:08:35,280 Speaker 4: We gotta we gotta put tape over that button, all right, 1332 01:08:35,280 --> 01:08:37,120 Speaker 4: We gotta we gotta put tape over that button. 1333 01:08:40,320 --> 01:08:43,640 Speaker 2: From bubble over it was it back? I heard a 1334 01:08:43,720 --> 01:08:46,439 Speaker 2: ya and a woo. They're back? Are we back? 1335 01:08:46,560 --> 01:08:52,919 Speaker 1: Hell? Comment seems to be back. We're back, We're just YouTube, 1336 01:08:52,960 --> 01:08:55,920 Speaker 1: We're back. Keep keep commenting it we're back because we 1337 01:08:55,960 --> 01:08:57,800 Speaker 1: want to make sure we're we're all there. 1338 01:08:58,120 --> 01:09:03,320 Speaker 2: Are we back? Cool? I'm back and good? So we 1339 01:09:03,520 --> 01:09:09,160 Speaker 2: end the recording still going. Yes, good for Gucci. Let's 1340 01:09:09,160 --> 01:09:11,800 Speaker 2: try to figure out where this is going. Let's see it. 1341 01:09:12,880 --> 01:09:17,719 Speaker 4: They agreed not to ask around my fiance's workplace again, 1342 01:09:19,400 --> 01:09:23,840 Speaker 4: but also urged me to do proper research before taking 1343 01:09:23,880 --> 01:09:28,360 Speaker 4: a step towards marriage. So I also tried to ponder 1344 01:09:28,600 --> 01:09:31,919 Speaker 4: upon my parents point of view and the whole situation 1345 01:09:32,560 --> 01:09:35,800 Speaker 4: from an outsider's perspective, and it was all making me 1346 01:09:35,960 --> 01:09:43,200 Speaker 4: grow impatient, impatient, impatient for marriage, impatient for what. My 1347 01:09:43,360 --> 01:09:46,160 Speaker 4: girlfriend just wouldn't let me talk to any of her 1348 01:09:46,200 --> 01:09:49,599 Speaker 4: friends or relatives or follow them on social media. 1349 01:09:49,760 --> 01:09:53,639 Speaker 2: Hold on, guys, Oh we back? We out? 1350 01:09:54,160 --> 01:09:56,040 Speaker 1: We in? Uh? Oh? 1351 01:09:56,479 --> 01:09:59,759 Speaker 4: Amy just gifted one okay storytime membership, Thank you, Amy, 1352 01:10:00,439 --> 01:10:01,560 Speaker 4: I think we didn't see it. 1353 01:10:01,640 --> 01:10:04,639 Speaker 2: I saw it. Oh, and let us know if Mike 1354 01:10:04,760 --> 01:10:08,519 Speaker 2: is cutting Oh my god, so okay checking it out 1355 01:10:08,600 --> 01:10:11,040 Speaker 2: right now? So pressing the wrong button on the new 1356 01:10:11,200 --> 01:10:14,439 Speaker 2: phone is the worst possible thing you could do. 1357 01:10:14,960 --> 01:10:17,679 Speaker 1: That is that's definitely not what did it Dakota's Safe, 1358 01:10:17,760 --> 01:10:21,280 Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. It wasn't the phone button. I promise 1359 01:10:21,320 --> 01:10:25,960 Speaker 1: you that. Uh we're checking it right now. Uh yeah, 1360 01:10:26,080 --> 01:10:29,200 Speaker 1: keep keep commenting if you can. If audio and everything 1361 01:10:29,320 --> 01:10:33,120 Speaker 1: is good, let us know if not, keep commenting. A 1362 01:10:33,160 --> 01:10:34,920 Speaker 1: little bit mix, a little bit behind. 1363 01:10:35,120 --> 01:10:36,800 Speaker 2: I'm seeing a mix of good and bad. The lifts 1364 01:10:36,800 --> 01:10:40,040 Speaker 2: are off, the audio is not aligned. Hmm. 1365 01:10:40,880 --> 01:10:47,400 Speaker 1: Everyone refreshed, refresh it, refresh it, refresh your YouTube and 1366 01:10:47,600 --> 01:10:50,600 Speaker 1: also like the stream, please do tell me about one 1367 01:10:50,640 --> 01:10:53,040 Speaker 1: hundred mikes away and letting us know. 1368 01:10:53,800 --> 01:10:58,200 Speaker 2: So I'm going to continue on this never ending rabbit hole. 1369 01:10:58,520 --> 01:11:04,400 Speaker 1: Of uh, everything's falling apart, so every She won't let 1370 01:11:04,520 --> 01:11:07,160 Speaker 1: me talk at anyone on social media, and the reason 1371 01:11:07,240 --> 01:11:09,479 Speaker 1: she used to give for not introducing me to. 1372 01:11:09,520 --> 01:11:12,280 Speaker 4: Her family was that her family would never approve of 1373 01:11:12,400 --> 01:11:18,760 Speaker 4: her marriage. As an inter cast slash intercommunity marriages are 1374 01:11:18,880 --> 01:11:22,800 Speaker 4: still not quite accepted in some parts of India. But 1375 01:11:23,600 --> 01:11:26,160 Speaker 4: she always used to say how open minded her parents 1376 01:11:26,240 --> 01:11:30,200 Speaker 4: were and that her whole upbringing was very modern, et cetera. 1377 01:11:30,720 --> 01:11:35,160 Speaker 4: And used to cuss my family for being suspicious and backwards, etc. 1378 01:11:36,120 --> 01:11:38,800 Speaker 4: And she also used to say if her parents were 1379 01:11:38,840 --> 01:11:43,719 Speaker 4: alive today, they would have definitely come to the marriage. Well, 1380 01:11:44,360 --> 01:11:49,400 Speaker 4: one of your parents is alive, the girl and auntie 1381 01:11:49,479 --> 01:11:55,960 Speaker 4: dad home. Yeah, and dad home is suspicious? Like your 1382 01:11:56,040 --> 01:11:58,920 Speaker 4: aunt lives at her brother's house, which would be your dad. 1383 01:12:01,680 --> 01:12:05,320 Speaker 2: What is going on? Her mom's alive, her dad's alive. 1384 01:12:06,200 --> 01:12:08,639 Speaker 2: But I think we were kind of on the same 1385 01:12:09,160 --> 01:12:10,280 Speaker 2: like we were kind of on it. 1386 01:12:10,400 --> 01:12:12,479 Speaker 4: I think a little bit in that it's like the 1387 01:12:12,640 --> 01:12:15,280 Speaker 4: family had something to do with this, like the family 1388 01:12:15,360 --> 01:12:18,960 Speaker 4: not approving, like the marriage the famous evolved in like 1389 01:12:19,080 --> 01:12:19,639 Speaker 4: the yes. 1390 01:12:19,640 --> 01:12:21,960 Speaker 1: Or no answer to the marriage. And remember you were 1391 01:12:21,960 --> 01:12:23,920 Speaker 1: so confused. You were like, it only makes sense if 1392 01:12:24,320 --> 01:12:25,360 Speaker 1: her parents are alive. 1393 01:12:26,360 --> 01:12:28,200 Speaker 2: Ding ding ding ding ding d ding ding ding. We 1394 01:12:28,320 --> 01:12:29,439 Speaker 2: have a living parent. 1395 01:12:29,680 --> 01:12:30,040 Speaker 4: There we go. 1396 01:12:30,280 --> 01:12:34,040 Speaker 2: We've got one. I think we might have two. Dad's 1397 01:12:34,120 --> 01:12:35,880 Speaker 2: home daddy's home. Okay. 1398 01:12:38,040 --> 01:12:40,720 Speaker 4: My parents liked my girlfriend initially when they met her 1399 01:12:40,760 --> 01:12:44,240 Speaker 4: the first time, and were very happy about the marriage. 1400 01:12:44,720 --> 01:12:47,720 Speaker 4: My father even offered to sponsor the marriage expenses for 1401 01:12:47,840 --> 01:12:51,880 Speaker 4: her side, as she wasn't doing great financially, But they 1402 01:12:51,960 --> 01:12:55,760 Speaker 4: got suspicious when she even made her best friend block me. 1403 01:12:56,640 --> 01:12:59,439 Speaker 4: So all of this combined made me very suspicious, and 1404 01:12:59,560 --> 01:13:02,639 Speaker 4: I decided I did to visit her countryside village house 1405 01:13:02,720 --> 01:13:06,280 Speaker 4: today just to check. I went there acting as if 1406 01:13:06,320 --> 01:13:08,880 Speaker 4: I was looking for someone else, and when I knocked 1407 01:13:08,960 --> 01:13:10,880 Speaker 4: on the door, her mother came out. 1408 01:13:13,000 --> 01:13:13,599 Speaker 2: Mom's home. 1409 01:13:15,640 --> 01:13:17,880 Speaker 1: I know it was her mother because my girlfriend showed 1410 01:13:17,960 --> 01:13:20,679 Speaker 1: photos of her mother to me earlier. It was truly 1411 01:13:20,840 --> 01:13:24,880 Speaker 1: like encountering a ghost. Yeah, dude, because you thought she 1412 01:13:25,200 --> 01:13:29,560 Speaker 1: was not alive. Uh, she looked like a fit and 1413 01:13:29,920 --> 01:13:32,760 Speaker 1: fine woman with a smile on her face and just 1414 01:13:32,920 --> 01:13:34,320 Speaker 1: looking like my girlfriend. 1415 01:13:34,920 --> 01:13:37,120 Speaker 2: Oh well, maybe you should and maybe just go for 1416 01:13:37,240 --> 01:13:42,800 Speaker 2: the source. Maybe we right to it. 1417 01:13:43,240 --> 01:13:45,960 Speaker 4: Maybe dad's not in the picture anymore, I guess, but 1418 01:13:46,680 --> 01:13:47,760 Speaker 4: she's got an opening. 1419 01:13:49,320 --> 01:13:54,559 Speaker 2: And it's like, wait, they're not. My girlfriend and. 1420 01:13:54,640 --> 01:13:57,879 Speaker 4: I were not talking properly since the day my parents 1421 01:13:58,120 --> 01:14:01,720 Speaker 4: went to her office. You called my parents crazy and 1422 01:14:01,920 --> 01:14:04,960 Speaker 4: whatnot for doing such a thing, and was angry and 1423 01:14:05,120 --> 01:14:08,640 Speaker 4: said people of my community are clever, slash, cunning and 1424 01:14:08,920 --> 01:14:12,720 Speaker 4: crazy and do suspicious spying on other people. But never 1425 01:14:12,880 --> 01:14:15,519 Speaker 4: accepted that. She said such a big lie to our family. 1426 01:14:15,960 --> 01:14:18,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, she's like you guys, are so like weird, like 1427 01:14:19,040 --> 01:14:21,479 Speaker 1: always snooping around thinking people are lying. 1428 01:14:22,120 --> 01:14:26,200 Speaker 2: You literally did one of the biggest lies ever. I 1429 01:14:26,280 --> 01:14:28,120 Speaker 2: can't think of a bigger lie, Like, I can't like 1430 01:14:28,280 --> 01:14:30,439 Speaker 2: that's such a huge lie. Hidden family. 1431 01:14:30,479 --> 01:14:33,840 Speaker 1: But honestly, just for the rarity of like, listen, we've 1432 01:14:33,840 --> 01:14:35,920 Speaker 1: seen a lot of hidden family, you know, secret families, 1433 01:14:36,600 --> 01:14:40,160 Speaker 1: hidden parents, yeah, hidden dead resurrected parents. 1434 01:14:41,000 --> 01:14:42,719 Speaker 2: I don't know if I've ever say that's just something 1435 01:14:42,800 --> 01:14:43,160 Speaker 2: that you do. 1436 01:14:43,400 --> 01:14:45,479 Speaker 1: You don't say that, you know, if you have like 1437 01:14:45,560 --> 01:14:47,800 Speaker 1: a living like mom or a living dad, you don't 1438 01:14:47,800 --> 01:14:50,280 Speaker 1: just tell people like, oh yeah, they're dad. It's like 1439 01:14:50,400 --> 01:14:53,519 Speaker 1: you are inviting very bad juju into your home. If 1440 01:14:53,520 --> 01:14:57,080 Speaker 1: you do something like that, bad juju. That is bad 1441 01:14:57,479 --> 01:15:02,720 Speaker 1: juju behavior. Okay, And while I admitted to her that it. 1442 01:15:02,960 --> 01:15:05,840 Speaker 4: Was wrong to ask at her office, but it's not 1443 01:15:06,040 --> 01:15:08,160 Speaker 4: right for her as well, to talk like that about 1444 01:15:08,200 --> 01:15:11,080 Speaker 4: my family when she was acting all suspicious, asking my 1445 01:15:11,200 --> 01:15:14,360 Speaker 4: friends and family to block me, and faking her own 1446 01:15:14,439 --> 01:15:15,040 Speaker 4: mother's death. 1447 01:15:15,840 --> 01:15:17,760 Speaker 2: I have not spoken to my girlfriend about this, and 1448 01:15:17,840 --> 01:15:19,880 Speaker 2: I don't know what should I make out of this. 1449 01:15:20,040 --> 01:15:22,599 Speaker 4: Really, it was a very huge lie, and I don't 1450 01:15:22,600 --> 01:15:25,599 Speaker 4: see a valid reason for this. Either her father, as 1451 01:15:25,680 --> 01:15:30,240 Speaker 4: I confirmed from locals nearby, had actually passed away, and 1452 01:15:30,400 --> 01:15:34,040 Speaker 4: her mother was living there with her aunt, who was 1453 01:15:34,240 --> 01:15:37,240 Speaker 4: just living in a different house, just on the adjacent block. 1454 01:15:38,040 --> 01:15:41,040 Speaker 4: But you know what's also adjacent to your block is 1455 01:15:41,320 --> 01:15:43,560 Speaker 4: us going live on YouTube. 1456 01:15:43,240 --> 01:15:47,840 Speaker 2: Every weekday at three pm. Just tap our profile. 1457 01:15:50,960 --> 01:15:52,960 Speaker 4: I just want oh, I'm sorry, I just want to 1458 01:15:53,040 --> 01:15:55,439 Speaker 4: know if there's if there could be any valid reason 1459 01:15:55,600 --> 01:15:58,799 Speaker 4: or judgment that can be applied to this scenario, because 1460 01:15:58,880 --> 01:16:01,840 Speaker 4: I can't think of any Her mother looked fit and 1461 01:16:02,040 --> 01:16:02,519 Speaker 4: fine to me. 1462 01:16:02,840 --> 01:16:05,200 Speaker 1: That's a that's the second He's just like, that's the 1463 01:16:05,520 --> 01:16:09,920 Speaker 1: second one. Mom was just like, Mom was looking like 1464 01:16:10,000 --> 01:16:12,280 Speaker 1: she just got off the rowing machine. 1465 01:16:13,400 --> 01:16:16,280 Speaker 2: Mom's so more like I'm home. Yeah, oh, daddy's home. 1466 01:16:17,120 --> 01:16:22,120 Speaker 2: Daddy's home indeed roughly around fifty to sixty years of age. 1467 01:16:23,200 --> 01:16:26,760 Speaker 2: And that is just that's it. That's it leaves it 1468 01:16:26,880 --> 01:16:30,160 Speaker 2: with mom's fifty or sixty, fit and fine. Brother. I 1469 01:16:30,240 --> 01:16:31,320 Speaker 2: think I know what you need to do. 1470 01:16:31,720 --> 01:16:34,960 Speaker 4: You need to become uh, you need to become your 1471 01:16:35,000 --> 01:16:39,280 Speaker 4: own fiance's father, stepfather father. 1472 01:16:39,600 --> 01:16:39,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1473 01:16:39,840 --> 01:16:44,720 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, all right, I guess father, stepfather. Yes, yes, yes, hey, you. 1474 01:16:44,800 --> 01:16:47,599 Speaker 1: Said fit and fine twice I didn't hear one peep 1475 01:16:47,840 --> 01:16:50,360 Speaker 1: about your fiance being fit and fine, you know he 1476 01:16:50,479 --> 01:16:51,640 Speaker 1: needs he. 1477 01:16:51,720 --> 01:16:53,320 Speaker 2: Needs, so he does that. 1478 01:16:53,479 --> 01:16:58,960 Speaker 1: He goes, he buries the mom, he becomes his is 1479 01:16:59,040 --> 01:17:02,160 Speaker 1: his stepfather that he's like, hey, baby, I got some 1480 01:17:02,240 --> 01:17:04,639 Speaker 1: good news for you. Not only is your dad alive, 1481 01:17:05,280 --> 01:17:06,160 Speaker 1: but he's home. 1482 01:17:06,560 --> 01:17:11,800 Speaker 2: He's home and he looks like your ex fiance who 1483 01:17:11,840 --> 01:17:18,599 Speaker 2: has his dad at home? Yeah, oh my god, Wow 1484 01:17:18,920 --> 01:17:19,599 Speaker 2: that journey. 1485 01:17:19,800 --> 01:17:24,320 Speaker 4: I one hundred percent would say that you should leave 1486 01:17:24,400 --> 01:17:29,000 Speaker 4: this woman who is I guess, trying to keep all 1487 01:17:29,000 --> 01:17:31,080 Speaker 4: of her friends and family from knowing you exist and 1488 01:17:31,280 --> 01:17:33,439 Speaker 4: lied about her own mother being alive. 1489 01:17:33,960 --> 01:17:35,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, now it's. 1490 01:17:35,000 --> 01:17:37,879 Speaker 4: Time for you to take matters into your own hands 1491 01:17:38,479 --> 01:17:43,760 Speaker 4: and give her mother a long, happy relationship with you. 1492 01:17:44,439 --> 01:17:46,920 Speaker 2: Dude, I'm speechless. 1493 01:17:47,040 --> 01:17:51,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm just like, how, yeah, how your your ex 1494 01:17:51,360 --> 01:17:55,479 Speaker 4: fiance now ex fiance won't be able to hide you 1495 01:17:55,560 --> 01:17:58,800 Speaker 4: from the world anymore once you marry her actual mom. 1496 01:18:00,360 --> 01:18:05,439 Speaker 1: And yeah, and yeah, there we go, straight from the source. 1497 01:18:05,600 --> 01:18:08,439 Speaker 1: That's it, straight from the sword. I were just beating 1498 01:18:08,479 --> 01:18:12,280 Speaker 1: around the bush when we could beat Yeah, go ahead 1499 01:18:12,280 --> 01:18:14,280 Speaker 1: and finished that one. 1500 01:18:14,720 --> 01:18:18,320 Speaker 2: One. We all know how that one finishes in this 1501 01:18:18,479 --> 01:18:22,720 Speaker 2: suit like that. There we go. You look good in 1502 01:18:22,800 --> 01:18:25,000 Speaker 2: a suit, my dose. You look good in a suit? 1503 01:18:25,080 --> 01:18:25,240 Speaker 1: Kid? 1504 01:18:25,400 --> 01:18:27,519 Speaker 2: Yeah, look good in us in that suit? 1505 01:18:27,600 --> 01:18:27,760 Speaker 1: Kid? 1506 01:18:27,800 --> 01:18:28,200 Speaker 2: What do you say? 1507 01:18:28,240 --> 01:18:30,200 Speaker 4: You're driving around town and I pay you fifty dollars 1508 01:18:30,200 --> 01:18:34,200 Speaker 4: an hour? Oh, like as a driver because the mob 1509 01:18:34,880 --> 01:18:37,639 Speaker 4: pays good. That wasn't you're getting mine? 1510 01:18:37,680 --> 01:18:41,559 Speaker 2: You're good and you stop? That wasn't something there? Actually great? 1511 01:18:41,640 --> 01:18:43,280 Speaker 2: Do we have donuts? Yeah? We have dont we have 1512 01:18:43,360 --> 01:18:46,280 Speaker 2: don Let's let's go to that john you get or 1513 01:18:46,720 --> 01:18:50,080 Speaker 2: I'm pulling it up down for me. Yeahah, let's say, 1514 01:18:50,920 --> 01:18:53,200 Speaker 2: let's see if we have any from the I think 1515 01:18:54,080 --> 01:18:54,479 Speaker 2: uh oh? 1516 01:18:56,080 --> 01:19:00,759 Speaker 4: Five dollars from west Lean. Thanks wes Lean, Loving the Dakota. 1517 01:19:01,040 --> 01:19:05,599 Speaker 4: Thank you, PS, thanks for always correcting my name. Hope 1518 01:19:05,680 --> 01:19:08,040 Speaker 4: you are all having a magical day. You deserve all 1519 01:19:08,080 --> 01:19:10,880 Speaker 4: of the good things in life. Oh, thank you wes Leyan. 1520 01:19:11,560 --> 01:19:13,800 Speaker 4: I hope you have all the good things in life 1521 01:19:13,840 --> 01:19:14,200 Speaker 4: as well. 1522 01:19:14,800 --> 01:19:18,120 Speaker 2: Thank you? And that one do we read that? I 1523 01:19:18,120 --> 01:19:19,479 Speaker 2: don't think we did. I don't remember that one. 1524 01:19:19,720 --> 01:19:22,080 Speaker 4: Donation from Miss T for five dollars, Thank you, Miss T. 1525 01:19:22,640 --> 01:19:24,240 Speaker 4: I can't wait to listen to you guys when I 1526 01:19:24,320 --> 01:19:26,559 Speaker 4: go and give birth to my second baby. Y'all are 1527 01:19:26,720 --> 01:19:30,440 Speaker 4: so awesome an please, hey baby. 1528 01:19:30,360 --> 01:19:34,240 Speaker 1: If it happens, so the infamous baby Cheese It was 1529 01:19:34,360 --> 01:19:37,240 Speaker 1: born on stream, Baby Cheese It, Baby cheese It. We 1530 01:19:37,320 --> 01:19:41,120 Speaker 1: were updated live as it was happening. Awesome, So miss 1531 01:19:41,240 --> 01:19:44,200 Speaker 1: t if if if you want to have your your 1532 01:19:44,280 --> 01:19:46,080 Speaker 1: your partner, you know, give us the updates. 1533 01:19:46,160 --> 01:19:49,000 Speaker 2: We will report live on stream. We'll probably be live. 1534 01:19:49,080 --> 01:19:52,360 Speaker 2: We're live every weekdays, every single day, every single one. Yep, yep. 1535 01:19:53,200 --> 01:19:55,679 Speaker 3: I got a dono from from the past. We didn't 1536 01:19:55,720 --> 01:19:58,000 Speaker 3: get to read it. Guys, Oh, I will read this one. 1537 01:19:58,439 --> 01:20:04,360 Speaker 2: Give the suit. Hi, uh brains, this is from Brain's 1538 01:20:04,560 --> 01:20:07,559 Speaker 2: not Brian's, but Brain's. Let me see. 1539 01:20:07,880 --> 01:20:10,719 Speaker 3: Brain's just tipped five dollars. Can we send some positive 1540 01:20:10,800 --> 01:20:14,519 Speaker 3: vibes for Aubrey's five year cardiology appointment on October twenty 1541 01:20:14,560 --> 01:20:17,320 Speaker 3: fifth and send her a special shout out? 1542 01:20:18,080 --> 01:20:21,639 Speaker 1: She is my big, brave girl. I want to see 1543 01:20:21,880 --> 01:20:28,240 Speaker 1: the chat flooded with hearts for Audrey, for Aubrey. Aubrey, 1544 01:20:28,840 --> 01:20:32,240 Speaker 1: flood the chat with hearts for Aubrey. You got this, 1545 01:20:33,320 --> 01:20:33,960 Speaker 1: Let's go Aubrey. 1546 01:20:34,840 --> 01:20:38,479 Speaker 2: You've got it in the bag. In the bag all right. 1547 01:20:38,600 --> 01:20:40,840 Speaker 2: Then we got the appointment's gonna row. Let's see we 1548 01:20:40,880 --> 01:20:41,639 Speaker 2: got any more up here? 1549 01:20:42,320 --> 01:20:42,439 Speaker 1: Oh? 1550 01:20:42,520 --> 01:20:44,400 Speaker 2: We do? Should we just let's start from the bottom? 1551 01:20:44,720 --> 01:20:45,320 Speaker 1: We do? We do? 1552 01:20:45,520 --> 01:20:50,120 Speaker 4: We go Josephine with twenty seven SAVI This groner Uh 1553 01:20:50,720 --> 01:20:53,960 Speaker 4: is the girlfriend's name Stacy because it seems like mom's 1554 01:20:54,000 --> 01:20:54,800 Speaker 4: got it going on. 1555 01:20:55,080 --> 01:21:00,839 Speaker 2: Oh she does. Oh yeah, Stacy's mom is now my wife. 1556 01:21:02,520 --> 01:21:02,760 Speaker 2: Love that? 1557 01:21:04,760 --> 01:21:07,840 Speaker 1: And from Amy five dollars, my forty chess move is 1558 01:21:08,000 --> 01:21:11,280 Speaker 1: giving more smaller donos to give you guys more dopamine hits. 1559 01:21:11,560 --> 01:21:15,679 Speaker 1: You're welcome a seasoned curly fry forty Chess Club bunny 1560 01:21:16,040 --> 01:21:17,440 Speaker 1: and then two bunny emojis. 1561 01:21:17,920 --> 01:21:21,519 Speaker 2: Thank you Amy. We just need that drip feed of 1562 01:21:21,600 --> 01:21:26,880 Speaker 2: dopamine please, and we have what is that it? 1563 01:21:28,320 --> 01:21:31,160 Speaker 1: Amy with the one gifted okay storytime membership, Thank you 1564 01:21:31,240 --> 01:21:32,800 Speaker 1: Amy for gifting a little bit. 1565 01:21:33,680 --> 01:21:33,800 Speaker 2: Uh. 1566 01:21:34,400 --> 01:21:41,479 Speaker 4: Brianna B fourteen ninety nine aids just awesome yet auste dollars. 1567 01:21:41,520 --> 01:21:45,280 Speaker 1: I think she's what we call a dogfish physically accurate, 1568 01:21:45,400 --> 01:21:47,360 Speaker 1: but everything else is fishy. 1569 01:21:48,000 --> 01:21:50,640 Speaker 2: Huh, the Australian dogfish. 1570 01:21:51,920 --> 01:21:56,360 Speaker 4: Christine d thank you for the two euros or pounds. Uh, John, 1571 01:21:56,920 --> 01:21:59,160 Speaker 4: you're screeching woke the baby. 1572 01:21:59,120 --> 01:22:02,320 Speaker 2: And that is all the comments I usually see about 1573 01:22:02,360 --> 01:22:07,360 Speaker 2: my voice out. Just waken the bi with a dart 1574 01:22:07,720 --> 01:22:11,640 Speaker 2: with a dart, Thank goodness, bullets, and I believe is 1575 01:22:11,680 --> 01:22:14,800 Speaker 2: that all? That is all I think we got? Yes, 1576 01:22:14,920 --> 01:22:17,559 Speaker 2: that's all from there? We have Yeah, we have one 1577 01:22:17,600 --> 01:22:20,960 Speaker 2: more just now from Lolalita. Five dollars. Thank you for 1578 01:22:21,000 --> 01:22:21,719 Speaker 2: the five dollars. 1579 01:22:22,360 --> 01:22:26,479 Speaker 4: Kean is channeling his inner Keanu Reeves john Wick Daddy. 1580 01:22:27,080 --> 01:22:29,040 Speaker 4: Please let me know if I'm spelling your name wrong, 1581 01:22:29,160 --> 01:22:32,160 Speaker 4: and I'm sorry if i am. And then one of these, 1582 01:22:34,920 --> 01:22:37,200 Speaker 4: okay for the people who are just listening, I put 1583 01:22:37,280 --> 01:22:40,840 Speaker 4: my fingers, my index fingers together and pointed my toes 1584 01:22:40,880 --> 01:22:46,439 Speaker 4: inwards and did a little ou wu. Okay, and that 1585 01:22:46,640 --> 01:22:48,519 Speaker 4: is not the right way to spell Keon's name. But 1586 01:22:48,840 --> 01:22:50,960 Speaker 4: I'll never tell how to spell it because then I 1587 01:22:51,000 --> 01:22:55,320 Speaker 4: won't be special anymore. Kean, you want to reveal your secrets? 1588 01:22:55,680 --> 01:22:59,600 Speaker 2: Yeah? Uh hi, you spell it k E I A N. 1589 01:22:59,800 --> 01:23:02,080 Speaker 2: I did not have a choice. That was what was 1590 01:23:02,120 --> 01:23:04,599 Speaker 2: given to me. And I love you, Thank you so much. 1591 01:23:07,040 --> 01:23:10,639 Speaker 1: She's staying on its suits a professional guys. 1592 01:23:10,760 --> 01:23:18,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's the suit. It's the suit, all right. Shall 1593 01:23:18,160 --> 01:23:21,880 Speaker 2: we dive into this next professional story? Yes, we are ready. 1594 01:23:21,960 --> 01:23:23,960 Speaker 2: Are you guys ready? I'm ready to go. You're set? 1595 01:23:24,680 --> 01:23:30,639 Speaker 2: Can you move to the funding off of this? Thanks babe. 1596 01:23:30,720 --> 01:23:33,680 Speaker 2: Oh you're such a babe. Al Right, here we go. 1597 01:23:34,439 --> 01:23:37,000 Speaker 1: I just found out my best friend kissed my girlfriend, 1598 01:23:37,400 --> 01:23:38,560 Speaker 1: but my girlfriend tried to hide it. 1599 01:23:38,720 --> 01:23:43,240 Speaker 2: Hold on, hold on? Wait? Is this the reverse from earlier? 1600 01:23:44,479 --> 01:23:48,040 Speaker 2: Is this the reverse from earlier? I have no days. 1601 01:23:48,160 --> 01:23:50,080 Speaker 1: I've known Dave since high school and we've been a 1602 01:23:50,120 --> 01:23:52,479 Speaker 1: part of the same friend group for about a decade now. 1603 01:23:52,960 --> 01:23:55,800 Speaker 1: I started dating my girlfriend about two years ago, and 1604 01:23:55,920 --> 01:23:58,439 Speaker 1: she became friends with Dave and our other friends at 1605 01:23:58,479 --> 01:23:59,280 Speaker 1: around the same time. 1606 01:24:00,160 --> 01:24:02,480 Speaker 2: She and Dave got along, really got along. 1607 01:24:02,280 --> 01:24:04,760 Speaker 1: Really well, and I never had any concerns about that. 1608 01:24:05,200 --> 01:24:07,920 Speaker 1: The two of them even hung out together by themselves 1609 01:24:08,000 --> 01:24:10,320 Speaker 1: in the past, not often, but at least a couple 1610 01:24:10,400 --> 01:24:12,800 Speaker 1: of times. By the way, this comes from Field of 1611 01:24:12,840 --> 01:24:14,800 Speaker 1: Gold from the r slash Okay story time severed it, 1612 01:24:15,080 --> 01:24:17,360 Speaker 1: so I'm not entirely sure how it went down, but 1613 01:24:17,479 --> 01:24:20,800 Speaker 1: it was described to me this way. Dave asked me 1614 01:24:20,880 --> 01:24:22,840 Speaker 1: and my girlfriend if we wanted to see a movie 1615 01:24:22,920 --> 01:24:26,040 Speaker 1: on Saturday with our other friends as well. I was busy, 1616 01:24:26,160 --> 01:24:28,400 Speaker 1: so my girlfriend decided to go without me, which I 1617 01:24:28,520 --> 01:24:31,519 Speaker 1: was totally fine with. When she arrived, she found out 1618 01:24:31,600 --> 01:24:34,440 Speaker 1: that it was only her and Dave at the hangouts. 1619 01:24:35,840 --> 01:24:38,200 Speaker 2: Is this a conspiracy? 1620 01:24:39,040 --> 01:24:41,920 Speaker 1: I think Dave's trying to pull them, pull them, Pull 1621 01:24:41,960 --> 01:24:46,080 Speaker 1: a fast one here, Dave. Yeah, he's trying to do 1622 01:24:46,280 --> 01:24:48,400 Speaker 1: He's wishing he had Jesse's girl. 1623 01:24:48,640 --> 01:24:53,880 Speaker 2: Oh what can a found a woman like that? Yeah, 1624 01:24:53,920 --> 01:24:56,360 Speaker 2: that's he found her and he's trying to take her. 1625 01:24:56,439 --> 01:24:56,720 Speaker 5: That's it. 1626 01:24:56,920 --> 01:24:57,360 Speaker 2: It's done. 1627 01:24:58,120 --> 01:25:00,400 Speaker 1: So I don't know if it just happened to work 1628 01:25:00,439 --> 01:25:02,760 Speaker 1: out that way or if Dave played it that way, 1629 01:25:03,320 --> 01:25:06,880 Speaker 1: but uh, he did know that I wasn't coming. Oh, 1630 01:25:07,160 --> 01:25:10,479 Speaker 1: you definitely weren't my friend. Uh, before the movie was 1631 01:25:10,520 --> 01:25:12,920 Speaker 1: going to start, Uh, they went to a place to eat. 1632 01:25:13,240 --> 01:25:16,040 Speaker 1: During that time, they started discussing my girlfriend and I 1633 01:25:16,160 --> 01:25:16,800 Speaker 1: his relationship. 1634 01:25:17,360 --> 01:25:21,240 Speaker 2: Somehow this turned into Dave apparently telling her that he 1635 01:25:22,120 --> 01:25:28,400 Speaker 2: was in love with her. Classic Dave at the movies move. Yeah, Dave, 1636 01:25:28,600 --> 01:25:32,160 Speaker 2: dude just telling my girlfriend he loves her eyes damn. 1637 01:25:32,240 --> 01:25:35,400 Speaker 2: Oh yep, yeah, Oh what a funny guy, What a 1638 01:25:35,439 --> 01:25:35,880 Speaker 2: funny guy. 1639 01:25:36,280 --> 01:25:39,240 Speaker 1: My girlfriend was surprised by this, obviously and said she 1640 01:25:39,400 --> 01:25:43,479 Speaker 1: was flattered, but she was in a relationship with me. Wait, 1641 01:25:44,120 --> 01:25:47,679 Speaker 1: I don't know about I'm flattered. It's like art should 1642 01:25:47,720 --> 01:25:53,240 Speaker 1: you be? Yeah, yeah, maybe perturbed, although like like that's 1643 01:25:53,400 --> 01:25:57,479 Speaker 1: not the right response, but someone in that scenario, it 1644 01:25:57,640 --> 01:26:00,040 Speaker 1: is kind of like I'm in love with you and 1645 01:26:00,080 --> 01:26:01,800 Speaker 1: you're like, I'm in a whole relationship. 1646 01:26:01,880 --> 01:26:03,639 Speaker 2: It's like I could see someone being. 1647 01:26:03,560 --> 01:26:09,880 Speaker 1: Like, sure, okay, but like it is just to say 1648 01:26:09,920 --> 01:26:12,320 Speaker 1: that it is like a flabbergasting situation. 1649 01:26:12,520 --> 01:26:17,280 Speaker 2: To find yourself in flabbergasted would have been more appropriate, right. Uh. 1650 01:26:17,640 --> 01:26:19,200 Speaker 2: Dave said, that's okay. 1651 01:26:19,520 --> 01:26:21,320 Speaker 1: He just needed to get it off his test since 1652 01:26:21,360 --> 01:26:23,400 Speaker 1: he's apparent, since he had apparently been holding it in 1653 01:26:23,520 --> 01:26:24,080 Speaker 1: for ages. 1654 01:26:25,560 --> 01:26:28,519 Speaker 2: So that's so Dave, it's a typical Dave. 1655 01:26:28,920 --> 01:26:32,400 Speaker 1: Dave suggested that my girlfriend and he should go back 1656 01:26:32,439 --> 01:26:34,679 Speaker 1: to his place and discuss things. 1657 01:26:35,400 --> 01:26:39,840 Speaker 2: Dave, Dude, Dave, you're transparent. My guy said, I love you, 1658 01:26:40,000 --> 01:26:40,960 Speaker 2: come back to my place. 1659 01:26:41,280 --> 01:26:46,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, don't even worry about not accepting my love. Let's 1660 01:26:46,400 --> 01:26:48,080 Speaker 1: just go back to my place and hang out. I mean, 1661 01:26:48,120 --> 01:26:50,840 Speaker 1: we already know that Op's not coming, so why can't 1662 01:26:50,880 --> 01:26:55,840 Speaker 1: I That's what he said, come on, So, uh, my 1663 01:26:55,920 --> 01:26:58,080 Speaker 1: girlfriend apologized and said she couldn't do that. 1664 01:26:58,640 --> 01:27:01,920 Speaker 2: Then Dave kissed her, but she refused and left. 1665 01:27:04,240 --> 01:27:13,400 Speaker 5: So day, Okay, okay, okay, seems okay, right kissed kissed 1666 01:27:13,439 --> 01:27:14,639 Speaker 5: when you were like, oh. 1667 01:27:16,240 --> 01:27:19,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe he made contact, but it was like, you know, 1668 01:27:19,240 --> 01:27:21,160 Speaker 2: like one of those was like like I don't think. 1669 01:27:21,800 --> 01:27:23,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, I think if you're not interested in the guy, 1670 01:27:23,920 --> 01:27:27,040 Speaker 4: he shouldn't have had any opportunity to kiss you at all. 1671 01:27:27,760 --> 01:27:31,479 Speaker 2: I mean, didd was he just like boldly just like 1672 01:27:31,600 --> 01:27:32,720 Speaker 2: going in for it, you. 1673 01:27:32,840 --> 01:27:34,080 Speaker 1: Just go or just like. 1674 01:27:35,920 --> 01:27:38,400 Speaker 2: In the whole time, She's just like what are we doing? Okay, 1675 01:27:38,520 --> 01:27:40,640 Speaker 2: what is this guy doing? She's like what who is this? 1676 01:27:40,720 --> 01:27:41,639 Speaker 2: What is this guy doing? 1677 01:27:42,439 --> 01:27:44,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, he did like a really quick head button. Yeah, 1678 01:27:46,680 --> 01:27:50,519 Speaker 1: like some sort of like bird attack or something. But Dakota, 1679 01:27:51,320 --> 01:27:52,439 Speaker 1: this is where it gets confusing. 1680 01:27:52,520 --> 01:27:52,800 Speaker 2: Okay. 1681 01:27:53,000 --> 01:27:55,160 Speaker 1: Instead of coming home and telling me about it, my 1682 01:27:55,280 --> 01:27:58,200 Speaker 1: girlfriend decided to go to her best friend Sarah's place 1683 01:27:58,320 --> 01:28:00,200 Speaker 1: to talk to her about it instead of me. 1684 01:28:01,280 --> 01:28:03,680 Speaker 2: Dave was the one who called me and told me 1685 01:28:03,800 --> 01:28:09,880 Speaker 2: what had happened. Okay, Dave never lets us know his 1686 01:28:10,000 --> 01:28:16,400 Speaker 2: thanks ye ten steps ahead. Then Dave tries to make out. Yeah, Dave, 1687 01:28:16,640 --> 01:28:21,040 Speaker 2: Dave's playing both sides. Dave's a double agent right now. Golly, yeah, 1688 01:28:21,320 --> 01:28:23,639 Speaker 2: you can hate on Dave, but gosh darned if he's 1689 01:28:23,680 --> 01:28:26,280 Speaker 2: in the best of the pistiness. Yeah, he really is. Well, 1690 01:28:26,320 --> 01:28:30,080 Speaker 2: he's just come back, but he's the best of good 1691 01:28:30,080 --> 01:28:30,599 Speaker 2: old Dave. 1692 01:28:31,800 --> 01:28:34,320 Speaker 1: So obviously I was pretty effing pissed at him, and 1693 01:28:34,400 --> 01:28:36,360 Speaker 1: it's safe to say that he's no longer my friend. 1694 01:28:36,960 --> 01:28:39,479 Speaker 1: Uh for even trying to say sorry about it, which 1695 01:28:39,520 --> 01:28:42,599 Speaker 1: pissed me off even more. But I then called my girlfriend, 1696 01:28:42,640 --> 01:28:45,760 Speaker 1: who initially tried to pretend that nothing was wrong. When 1697 01:28:45,800 --> 01:28:47,880 Speaker 1: I asked her how the hangout had been, she said 1698 01:28:47,920 --> 01:28:51,400 Speaker 1: something along the lines of, oh, me, Sarah and Dave had. 1699 01:28:51,240 --> 01:28:51,840 Speaker 2: A good time. 1700 01:28:53,520 --> 01:28:53,640 Speaker 3: Uh. 1701 01:28:53,680 --> 01:28:57,040 Speaker 2: Oh, I don't like that. Yeah, I don't like that either. 1702 01:28:57,439 --> 01:28:59,599 Speaker 4: It's a weird thing to try to navigate for sure 1703 01:28:59,680 --> 01:29:02,160 Speaker 4: that your best friend said that he's in love with 1704 01:29:02,280 --> 01:29:05,120 Speaker 4: me and then also kissed me, and even if you 1705 01:29:05,400 --> 01:29:08,000 Speaker 4: really don't have any feelings for him, that's a hard 1706 01:29:08,040 --> 01:29:10,799 Speaker 4: thing to sort of like explain smoothly to your boyfriend 1707 01:29:10,960 --> 01:29:13,960 Speaker 4: with I think, but it certainly isn't a good look 1708 01:29:14,120 --> 01:29:16,759 Speaker 4: going to your girlfriend and then lying to him about 1709 01:29:16,800 --> 01:29:18,200 Speaker 4: it and saying there was someone else there. 1710 01:29:18,320 --> 01:29:20,920 Speaker 2: It's like I don't know. It's not a good look. 1711 01:29:21,360 --> 01:29:24,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like I feel like when like it's 1712 01:29:24,400 --> 01:29:26,479 Speaker 1: it's she hasn't gotten a fault, it's like, uh, in 1713 01:29:26,600 --> 01:29:28,599 Speaker 1: the moment, it's like, Okay, you could have turned him 1714 01:29:28,600 --> 01:29:30,800 Speaker 1: down harder, but you're being put on the spot. You 1715 01:29:30,840 --> 01:29:33,360 Speaker 1: don't know how to react, Okay. Giving her the best 1716 01:29:33,400 --> 01:29:35,080 Speaker 1: benefit of the doubt, she went over to sour to 1717 01:29:35,160 --> 01:29:37,200 Speaker 1: be like, how do I tell this to him? I 1718 01:29:37,280 --> 01:29:40,360 Speaker 1: don't want to like come off looking like uh oh, 1719 01:29:40,560 --> 01:29:42,400 Speaker 1: like I was he was trying to kiss him back 1720 01:29:42,439 --> 01:29:44,679 Speaker 1: or whatever, like what's the best way I should communicate 1721 01:29:44,720 --> 01:29:48,840 Speaker 1: with a swim? But once he asked her, that's when 1722 01:29:48,880 --> 01:29:51,040 Speaker 1: I'll bets are off and you have to be like, dude, 1723 01:29:51,120 --> 01:29:53,519 Speaker 1: Dave freakin tried. I mean, I I truly think you 1724 01:29:53,560 --> 01:29:56,960 Speaker 1: should just immediately. I feel like most people's instinct would 1725 01:29:57,000 --> 01:29:59,720 Speaker 1: be too immediately call your sergnificant other right and be 1726 01:29:59,800 --> 01:30:00,639 Speaker 1: like this happened. 1727 01:30:00,960 --> 01:30:03,960 Speaker 2: But maybe it's just the shock. Maybe the shock. 1728 01:30:04,560 --> 01:30:06,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm trying to like give her a lot of 1729 01:30:06,240 --> 01:30:09,040 Speaker 1: the benefit of the doubt here, maybe way too much. 1730 01:30:09,880 --> 01:30:12,439 Speaker 1: But uh, I feel like once once you ask, that's 1731 01:30:12,439 --> 01:30:13,959 Speaker 1: where it's like all gloves are off, because. 1732 01:30:13,960 --> 01:30:16,280 Speaker 2: You have to say it. Yeah, right, it has to 1733 01:30:16,320 --> 01:30:17,720 Speaker 2: be known. It has to be known. 1734 01:30:17,840 --> 01:30:22,559 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, thanks Dave. Thanks Dave, except that I didn't 1735 01:30:22,640 --> 01:30:25,120 Speaker 1: know that Sarah didn't go. When I told her that 1736 01:30:25,200 --> 01:30:28,040 Speaker 1: Dave contacted me, she broke down and told me what happened. 1737 01:30:28,479 --> 01:30:31,320 Speaker 1: A couple of problems here. Dave claims that he kissed her, 1738 01:30:31,520 --> 01:30:34,200 Speaker 1: but my girlfriend said that that didn't happen. 1739 01:30:34,960 --> 01:30:37,840 Speaker 2: Hm hmm. Also, my girlfriend claims that she felt like 1740 01:30:38,000 --> 01:30:45,400 Speaker 2: she'd led Dave on a little bit. Hmm. I am 1741 01:30:45,680 --> 01:30:48,200 Speaker 2: growing more suspicious of the girl. 1742 01:30:48,720 --> 01:30:51,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe she doesn't consider it a kiss, because maybe 1743 01:30:51,880 --> 01:30:53,519 Speaker 4: it was like a thing where she just like there 1744 01:30:53,720 --> 01:30:56,240 Speaker 4: was no like on her side, it was just oh oh. 1745 01:30:58,080 --> 01:30:58,240 Speaker 3: Oh. 1746 01:30:58,600 --> 01:31:00,720 Speaker 1: But then you have to say, yeah, yeah, he leaned 1747 01:31:00,760 --> 01:31:02,160 Speaker 1: in and tried to kiss me, but he didn't even 1748 01:31:02,400 --> 01:31:06,360 Speaker 1: he didn't even like touch my lips because I folded back. 1749 01:31:06,600 --> 01:31:08,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, maybe she didn't consider it a kiss. But 1750 01:31:08,920 --> 01:31:11,200 Speaker 2: then she has to say that, because then it's confusing. 1751 01:31:11,880 --> 01:31:14,000 Speaker 1: It is weird that she's being kind of shifty about 1752 01:31:14,040 --> 01:31:16,200 Speaker 1: the details, right, And wouldn't she say like, oh, yeah, 1753 01:31:16,240 --> 01:31:19,120 Speaker 1: he tried to kiss me, yeah right, or like he 1754 01:31:19,280 --> 01:31:21,360 Speaker 1: leaned in but I couldn't like, like, if it is 1755 01:31:21,400 --> 01:31:22,760 Speaker 1: what you're saying, key on, I feel like it would 1756 01:31:22,800 --> 01:31:25,760 Speaker 1: be like I pulled away. I was giving her the 1757 01:31:25,800 --> 01:31:28,280 Speaker 1: benefit of the doubt, but now I'm just like, mmmm, 1758 01:31:28,439 --> 01:31:31,560 Speaker 1: it's a little sussys bakka. I don't know, it's not 1759 01:31:31,760 --> 01:31:34,800 Speaker 1: looking great. She could just be an overthinker, though, who knows. 1760 01:31:35,080 --> 01:31:37,400 Speaker 1: Let's keep going. I'm not proud to admit that I 1761 01:31:37,479 --> 01:31:39,439 Speaker 1: said some pretty choice things to my girlfriend after that. 1762 01:31:39,720 --> 01:31:41,599 Speaker 1: The fact that I had to hear about it from 1763 01:31:41,720 --> 01:31:44,439 Speaker 1: Dave instead of her, and that she went to her 1764 01:31:44,520 --> 01:31:46,800 Speaker 1: best friend instead of me to talk about it really 1765 01:31:46,880 --> 01:31:49,160 Speaker 1: bothered me, and I let the stress get the best 1766 01:31:49,200 --> 01:31:51,280 Speaker 1: of me. I told her that she should have come 1767 01:31:51,320 --> 01:31:53,760 Speaker 1: home or texted me about it right away, and I 1768 01:31:53,920 --> 01:31:56,200 Speaker 1: asked her if she'd been planning it on hiding it 1769 01:31:56,280 --> 01:31:58,000 Speaker 1: from me if Dave hadn't. 1770 01:31:57,760 --> 01:32:01,360 Speaker 2: Told me, and then I hang up on it. No 1771 01:32:01,479 --> 01:32:02,720 Speaker 2: answer you you don't want to know? 1772 01:32:02,960 --> 01:32:06,320 Speaker 1: Wow what she was like, I would have hidden this 1773 01:32:06,400 --> 01:32:09,559 Speaker 1: forever if Dave hadn't let you know. It's like, Dave's 1774 01:32:09,560 --> 01:32:13,960 Speaker 1: my best friend. You think you would what I'm w honestly? 1775 01:32:14,680 --> 01:32:16,200 Speaker 2: Good? Good? Good job Dave? 1776 01:32:16,360 --> 01:32:16,400 Speaker 3: No? 1777 01:32:16,960 --> 01:32:17,160 Speaker 2: Yes? 1778 01:32:17,439 --> 01:32:17,479 Speaker 1: No? 1779 01:32:17,760 --> 01:32:20,080 Speaker 2: Good Dave? Ye bad? Dave. No good Dave. 1780 01:32:20,600 --> 01:32:23,120 Speaker 4: Dave is actually this has just all been a roundabout 1781 01:32:23,120 --> 01:32:26,080 Speaker 4: way of Dave exposing that Opie's girlfriend could. 1782 01:32:25,920 --> 01:32:27,599 Speaker 2: Not really be trusted to the degree. 1783 01:32:28,520 --> 01:32:32,320 Speaker 1: Is this a conspiracy theory that Dave the whole time 1784 01:32:32,439 --> 01:32:35,640 Speaker 1: was the most w guy ever because you like, let 1785 01:32:35,720 --> 01:32:38,559 Speaker 1: me like stress test your relationship for you real quick. 1786 01:32:39,400 --> 01:32:40,519 Speaker 2: Like Opie's my boy. 1787 01:32:41,520 --> 01:32:43,719 Speaker 1: Guys, we already said it. Dave's the best in the business. 1788 01:32:44,960 --> 01:32:46,599 Speaker 1: This is just child's play for Dave. 1789 01:32:47,000 --> 01:32:49,600 Speaker 2: It's true. So good, small potatoes. 1790 01:32:50,920 --> 01:32:54,120 Speaker 1: Well, she didn't come home last night, so I assume 1791 01:32:54,160 --> 01:32:56,360 Speaker 1: that she's I assumed that she stayed at Sarah's place. 1792 01:32:56,760 --> 01:33:00,200 Speaker 1: Don't count out Dave. I know it wasn't really her 1793 01:33:00,240 --> 01:33:02,920 Speaker 1: fault what happened, and I regret what I said. I'm 1794 01:33:02,960 --> 01:33:05,559 Speaker 1: sorry this is so long, but honestly writing this has 1795 01:33:05,600 --> 01:33:09,120 Speaker 1: helped me stay calm. This morning, I texted my girlfriend 1796 01:33:09,160 --> 01:33:12,160 Speaker 1: in apology and this is basically what I said. A 1797 01:33:12,240 --> 01:33:14,760 Speaker 1: few hours later, Sarah called me and told me that 1798 01:33:14,880 --> 01:33:18,519 Speaker 1: my girlfriend was really shaken by what Dave told her 1799 01:33:18,880 --> 01:33:20,640 Speaker 1: and that she wants to take a break from our 1800 01:33:20,720 --> 01:33:24,439 Speaker 1: relationship because of it. She wants to figure things out. 1801 01:33:26,280 --> 01:33:30,200 Speaker 4: Okay, So then right there, so confusing another boy being 1802 01:33:30,360 --> 01:33:33,360 Speaker 4: like I love you has made her go, dang, do 1803 01:33:33,439 --> 01:33:36,000 Speaker 4: I even want to be with my boyfriend? Do I 1804 01:33:36,080 --> 01:33:37,640 Speaker 4: even really like my boyfriend like that? 1805 01:33:37,840 --> 01:33:40,120 Speaker 2: Maybe I should be with the best in the business. Yeah, 1806 01:33:40,200 --> 01:33:42,760 Speaker 2: maybe you know, Dave is the best in the biz. 1807 01:33:43,040 --> 01:33:47,040 Speaker 2: What everyone says, That's what everyone around town is always saying, dude. 1808 01:33:48,560 --> 01:33:51,160 Speaker 1: And that she was going to stay with Sarah for 1809 01:33:51,200 --> 01:33:54,479 Speaker 1: a few weeks, so I guess they lived together. I 1810 01:33:54,560 --> 01:33:56,280 Speaker 1: said it was fine and that she can call me 1811 01:33:56,400 --> 01:33:59,160 Speaker 1: or come back home anytime she wants, but Sarah said 1812 01:33:59,280 --> 01:34:01,719 Speaker 1: it'll be a one until I hear from my girlfriend. 1813 01:34:02,360 --> 01:34:04,400 Speaker 1: I'm taking the day off work since I'm in no 1814 01:34:04,600 --> 01:34:07,320 Speaker 1: state to be around other people right now. This whole 1815 01:34:07,400 --> 01:34:11,120 Speaker 1: thing has come like a fling bolt of lightning to 1816 01:34:11,240 --> 01:34:15,720 Speaker 1: the face thing, bolt of lightning, I think, thing like 1817 01:34:15,800 --> 01:34:17,640 Speaker 1: an e FFing bolt of lightning to the face. And 1818 01:34:17,760 --> 01:34:20,320 Speaker 1: it was just like a yeah, fault of lightning like 1819 01:34:20,400 --> 01:34:23,280 Speaker 1: that works too either way. Yesterday I had a girlfriend 1820 01:34:23,360 --> 01:34:25,559 Speaker 1: and a friend group and I was pretty happy. Now 1821 01:34:26,160 --> 01:34:28,240 Speaker 1: I kinda don't have either anymore. 1822 01:34:28,840 --> 01:34:30,680 Speaker 2: Did I react badly? Here? And tell me? 1823 01:34:30,840 --> 01:34:33,679 Speaker 1: Does the whole taking a break thing make sense? Should 1824 01:34:33,720 --> 01:34:35,560 Speaker 1: I go to Sarah's place and try to talk to 1825 01:34:35,680 --> 01:34:38,599 Speaker 1: my girlfriend or should I give her space? I feel 1826 01:34:38,640 --> 01:34:40,960 Speaker 1: like talking about it would be best, but Sarah made 1827 01:34:41,000 --> 01:34:43,200 Speaker 1: it pretty clear that my girlfriend doesn't want to. 1828 01:34:43,200 --> 01:34:45,759 Speaker 2: Talk to me right now. But I'm also confused about 1829 01:34:45,880 --> 01:34:49,800 Speaker 2: why she didn't and still doesn't want to talk to 1830 01:34:49,920 --> 01:34:51,439 Speaker 2: me about it. We haven't edit. 1831 01:34:52,080 --> 01:34:54,960 Speaker 1: There is more, but I think we gotta stop right 1832 01:34:55,000 --> 01:34:57,439 Speaker 1: here and answer Opie's questions. 1833 01:34:58,120 --> 01:35:02,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, uh no, you definitely need I think to talk. 1834 01:35:03,120 --> 01:35:05,280 Speaker 4: It needs you need to have a discussion. I know 1835 01:35:05,680 --> 01:35:08,160 Speaker 4: she probably I don't know why she wouldn't. I mean, 1836 01:35:09,240 --> 01:35:10,960 Speaker 4: I can get why someone doesn't want to talk about it. 1837 01:35:11,080 --> 01:35:12,680 Speaker 4: We've all had a situation where we don't want to 1838 01:35:12,720 --> 01:35:15,840 Speaker 4: talk about something that, yeah, maybe needs to be talked about, but. 1839 01:35:16,000 --> 01:35:17,720 Speaker 2: Like you deserve to know. 1840 01:35:17,880 --> 01:35:21,080 Speaker 1: Like, okay, so where's this need for the break coming from? 1841 01:35:21,200 --> 01:35:23,240 Speaker 1: Like what he said to you has upset you so 1842 01:35:23,400 --> 01:35:25,040 Speaker 1: much that we need to now take a break. 1843 01:35:25,240 --> 01:35:27,680 Speaker 2: And it's like what does that mean? Why? Where where 1844 01:35:27,800 --> 01:35:30,320 Speaker 2: is that coming from? Like you just need clarification. 1845 01:35:30,560 --> 01:35:33,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, op Ops just kind of like left hang out 1846 01:35:33,960 --> 01:35:36,280 Speaker 1: to dry, doesn't know when she's coming home, doesn't know 1847 01:35:36,320 --> 01:35:38,760 Speaker 1: when he'll get to talk to her again, and like 1848 01:35:39,200 --> 01:35:43,360 Speaker 1: on his reaction, did I react badly here? Like yeah, 1849 01:35:43,800 --> 01:35:45,760 Speaker 1: you can always be a little nicer, But it's like, 1850 01:35:45,840 --> 01:35:48,760 Speaker 1: what what can you expect from someone who's like bit 1851 01:35:49,000 --> 01:35:51,320 Speaker 1: like he's he's like, okay, Dave telling me. 1852 01:35:51,280 --> 01:35:52,240 Speaker 2: All this stuff you're telling myself. 1853 01:35:52,320 --> 01:35:55,680 Speaker 1: I'm so confused, Like, yes, it's very understandable why he 1854 01:35:55,720 --> 01:35:58,360 Speaker 1: would like and you know what, in fairness, we don't 1855 01:35:58,360 --> 01:36:01,720 Speaker 1: actually know what he said. He he intentionally omitted that, 1856 01:36:01,840 --> 01:36:04,920 Speaker 1: so maybe he like really really said some terrible things. 1857 01:36:05,000 --> 01:36:06,599 Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe he did go over the line. 1858 01:36:07,200 --> 01:36:10,479 Speaker 1: For sure, But like I feel like generally be like 1859 01:36:10,680 --> 01:36:14,479 Speaker 1: just being angry, I feel likes a more than reasonable response. 1860 01:36:14,840 --> 01:36:17,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, I think all of this could have been avoided 1861 01:36:17,439 --> 01:36:20,599 Speaker 4: if Dave had because I feel like the actual best 1862 01:36:20,640 --> 01:36:22,280 Speaker 4: friend moved to do on a real level, Like I 1863 01:36:22,600 --> 01:36:25,400 Speaker 4: to be w Dave is a joke. We're just messing around, 1864 01:36:25,520 --> 01:36:27,560 Speaker 4: Like I don't ever think it's cool to like go 1865 01:36:27,640 --> 01:36:29,280 Speaker 4: to someone's girlfriend and be like, I'm in love with. 1866 01:36:29,320 --> 01:36:30,000 Speaker 2: You, insane. 1867 01:36:30,120 --> 01:36:31,800 Speaker 4: I think you need if you're already if you're really 1868 01:36:31,840 --> 01:36:34,759 Speaker 4: best friends with like ope, and he's in this relationship 1869 01:36:34,800 --> 01:36:35,960 Speaker 4: with a girl that you like, you need to go 1870 01:36:36,040 --> 01:36:38,439 Speaker 4: to Ope and be like, bro, I think I'm in 1871 01:36:38,520 --> 01:36:42,640 Speaker 4: love with your girlfriend, Like help, Like I don't know 1872 01:36:42,720 --> 01:36:44,320 Speaker 4: what to do. I'm not going to do anything, but 1873 01:36:44,400 --> 01:36:46,760 Speaker 4: I don't even know you know what to do? Yeah, 1874 01:36:47,120 --> 01:36:50,080 Speaker 4: Like just I need assistance to navigate my way out 1875 01:36:50,120 --> 01:36:52,120 Speaker 4: of here, and like I value our friendship enough to 1876 01:36:52,200 --> 01:36:54,200 Speaker 4: like let you know this is what I'm feeling. Yeah, 1877 01:36:54,520 --> 01:36:56,880 Speaker 4: instead of secretly taking her on a movie date and 1878 01:36:56,960 --> 01:36:57,759 Speaker 4: then trying to kiss. 1879 01:36:57,720 --> 01:37:01,560 Speaker 1: Her like bad, Dave bad, it seems it seems it 1880 01:37:01,640 --> 01:37:05,400 Speaker 1: seems like he definitely like masterminds that whole that thing 1881 01:37:05,479 --> 01:37:08,840 Speaker 1: to be alone with her and yeah, the whole yeah, 1882 01:37:08,840 --> 01:37:09,760 Speaker 1: the whole taking a break thing. 1883 01:37:09,920 --> 01:37:14,720 Speaker 2: It doesn't make sense. I listen it. Oh sorry, I 1884 01:37:14,760 --> 01:37:15,240 Speaker 2: don't want to come. 1885 01:37:15,320 --> 01:37:17,400 Speaker 3: I was gonna say, this is like a very traumatic 1886 01:37:17,479 --> 01:37:22,639 Speaker 3: experience for her. Like I said earlier, she's still processing everything. 1887 01:37:24,840 --> 01:37:27,880 Speaker 3: It's just it's really hard because maybe you've never been 1888 01:37:27,920 --> 01:37:30,040 Speaker 3: in that situation that you're just like I need to 1889 01:37:30,240 --> 01:37:33,800 Speaker 3: just have some time to myself and just process what's 1890 01:37:33,880 --> 01:37:34,160 Speaker 3: going on. 1891 01:37:34,560 --> 01:37:35,400 Speaker 2: It is a lot, it is. 1892 01:37:35,600 --> 01:37:37,320 Speaker 1: Look, it's it's definitely like a lot to deal with, 1893 01:37:37,479 --> 01:37:40,839 Speaker 1: especially that that that moment, like I have, I especially 1894 01:37:41,000 --> 01:37:43,800 Speaker 1: feel like in that moment, if he's tried to kiss her, 1895 01:37:44,360 --> 01:37:46,519 Speaker 1: maybe maybe it was like a lot worse than even 1896 01:37:46,600 --> 01:37:49,919 Speaker 1: sounds from there, like that could have been a horrendous experience, 1897 01:37:49,960 --> 01:37:52,839 Speaker 1: and you're just like your brain, your brain is so frazzled, 1898 01:37:52,880 --> 01:37:54,799 Speaker 1: you don't even know like how to respond. 1899 01:37:56,479 --> 01:38:00,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, like again, because we have the new stuff, like 1900 01:38:00,520 --> 01:38:02,559 Speaker 2: right here, do you see that? Yep? 1901 01:38:03,280 --> 01:38:05,559 Speaker 1: Ming Ming says she probably doesn't want to damage your 1902 01:38:05,600 --> 01:38:09,840 Speaker 1: friendship with Dave and that's why she lied. That's but 1903 01:38:09,960 --> 01:38:12,839 Speaker 1: then why but wouldn't she expect Dave to say something 1904 01:38:13,120 --> 01:38:15,920 Speaker 1: like or to like, Dave is the that now you 1905 01:38:16,000 --> 01:38:18,240 Speaker 1: have a whole other valuable out there that you can't control, 1906 01:38:18,360 --> 01:38:19,960 Speaker 1: Like Dave could just tell him at any moment that 1907 01:38:20,040 --> 01:38:20,479 Speaker 1: that happened. 1908 01:38:20,760 --> 01:38:22,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's I mean, you might as well just 1909 01:38:22,760 --> 01:38:26,280 Speaker 2: get in front of it, like yeah, but I get it. 1910 01:38:26,360 --> 01:38:29,320 Speaker 4: If it's like a if he like non consensually like 1911 01:38:29,520 --> 01:38:32,360 Speaker 4: kissed her, like that could be traumatic and like not 1912 01:38:32,479 --> 01:38:34,439 Speaker 4: wanting to have to explain that and go through it 1913 01:38:35,080 --> 01:38:40,000 Speaker 4: could would be you know, completely understandable, but like I 1914 01:38:40,040 --> 01:38:43,040 Speaker 4: don't know for I can definitely understand from Opie's perspective 1915 01:38:43,080 --> 01:38:46,840 Speaker 4: of being like like does my girlfriend actually like Dave, 1916 01:38:46,960 --> 01:38:49,240 Speaker 4: and that's why maybe we're taking this break because she's 1917 01:38:49,280 --> 01:38:50,000 Speaker 4: trying to figure. 1918 01:38:49,760 --> 01:38:51,200 Speaker 2: Out who she actually likes more. 1919 01:38:51,320 --> 01:38:53,400 Speaker 4: I don't think it's that, but it's It could also 1920 01:38:53,560 --> 01:38:56,400 Speaker 4: just be the girlfriend like overthinking and like having a 1921 01:38:56,439 --> 01:38:58,120 Speaker 4: lot to think about it and not being perfect because 1922 01:38:58,160 --> 01:38:59,200 Speaker 4: we're not perfect people. 1923 01:38:59,320 --> 01:39:03,560 Speaker 1: No one makes perfect decisions in every scenario. Like, I 1924 01:39:03,840 --> 01:39:07,800 Speaker 1: don't know, but Dave sucks. Yeah, Dave, you don't like Dave. 1925 01:39:07,920 --> 01:39:10,240 Speaker 1: Dave very much sucks, very much. Sucks. 1926 01:39:10,280 --> 01:39:13,320 Speaker 2: But we will get into this edit. So edit. 1927 01:39:13,479 --> 01:39:15,360 Speaker 1: I called Sarah and asked her if it was okay 1928 01:39:15,479 --> 01:39:18,960 Speaker 1: to speak to her instead of my girlfriend about the situation. 1929 01:39:19,360 --> 01:39:21,240 Speaker 1: Sarah said it was okay, so we talked for a 1930 01:39:21,280 --> 01:39:23,360 Speaker 1: little while about it. I'm going to write this down 1931 01:39:23,439 --> 01:39:25,759 Speaker 1: to help me get my thoughts in order. Sarah seemed 1932 01:39:26,080 --> 01:39:28,800 Speaker 1: very interested in what Dave had told me and was 1933 01:39:28,880 --> 01:39:30,400 Speaker 1: somewhat sympathetic to me, though. 1934 01:39:30,360 --> 01:39:32,840 Speaker 2: She was mostly worried about her best friend. Understandably. 1935 01:39:33,200 --> 01:39:35,840 Speaker 1: Apparently, my girlfriend is still asleep since last night, and 1936 01:39:35,960 --> 01:39:38,879 Speaker 1: Sarah told me to not worry. 1937 01:39:38,640 --> 01:39:41,000 Speaker 2: About her health, which is a little bit of a relief. 1938 01:39:41,960 --> 01:39:45,240 Speaker 1: Sarah said that my girlfriend is open about Dave trying 1939 01:39:45,280 --> 01:39:49,360 Speaker 1: to kiss her now, and that her saying they didn't 1940 01:39:49,439 --> 01:39:52,280 Speaker 1: kiss was a spur of the moment panic thing, and 1941 01:39:52,400 --> 01:39:56,240 Speaker 1: that she Sarah called her an idiot for doing that. 1942 01:39:57,200 --> 01:39:58,880 Speaker 1: I don't know if this part is true or if 1943 01:39:58,920 --> 01:40:01,479 Speaker 1: Sarah just said that to me feel better. She also 1944 01:40:01,640 --> 01:40:04,559 Speaker 1: said that neither of them expected me to know about 1945 01:40:04,600 --> 01:40:09,000 Speaker 1: it from Dave, which honestly I fully believe. Sarah said 1946 01:40:09,040 --> 01:40:11,120 Speaker 1: that the kiss in him asking her to come back 1947 01:40:11,160 --> 01:40:15,000 Speaker 1: to his place, didn't happen right after each other. Apparently 1948 01:40:15,120 --> 01:40:17,000 Speaker 1: he kissed her in the coffee shop and she turned 1949 01:40:17,040 --> 01:40:20,080 Speaker 1: him down right away, but then they spent some time 1950 01:40:20,160 --> 01:40:24,479 Speaker 1: talking about They spent some time talking about how when 1951 01:40:24,560 --> 01:40:26,880 Speaker 1: and how he'd started feeling for her. I don't know 1952 01:40:26,960 --> 01:40:30,000 Speaker 1: how long after that, they both decided to not see 1953 01:40:30,040 --> 01:40:32,720 Speaker 1: the movie because of what happened, and that's when Dave 1954 01:40:32,880 --> 01:40:33,719 Speaker 1: asked her to come. 1955 01:40:33,640 --> 01:40:35,960 Speaker 2: Back to his place, but she declined. 1956 01:40:37,120 --> 01:40:41,880 Speaker 1: I assumed that they'd kissed and my girlfriend basically left asap, 1957 01:40:42,200 --> 01:40:45,880 Speaker 1: But Sarah seemed to think that they parted on polite terms. 1958 01:40:45,960 --> 01:40:51,920 Speaker 1: So basically, if I'm understanding that correctly, he tried to 1959 01:40:52,000 --> 01:40:56,040 Speaker 1: kiss her and she was like, absolutely not gonna happen 1960 01:40:56,080 --> 01:40:59,560 Speaker 1: like you know, leaned back completely not non consensual, and 1961 01:40:59,680 --> 01:41:04,479 Speaker 1: then still uh like talk to him about like trying 1962 01:41:04,560 --> 01:41:07,920 Speaker 1: to uh understand like where his feelings were coming from. 1963 01:41:08,320 --> 01:41:08,439 Speaker 2: Uh. 1964 01:41:08,760 --> 01:41:11,679 Speaker 1: The the Tomas says, Listen, as women, we are raised 1965 01:41:11,760 --> 01:41:15,439 Speaker 1: to half expect non consensual things to apparent to happen 1966 01:41:15,520 --> 01:41:19,240 Speaker 1: apparently to us. Can you move the mouse a little bit? Uh, 1967 01:41:19,400 --> 01:41:21,760 Speaker 1: But it's no less dramatic even if it's just a kiss. 1968 01:41:22,160 --> 01:41:24,360 Speaker 1: Sometimes we don't get that one hundred percent, which is 1969 01:41:24,400 --> 01:41:26,560 Speaker 1: where it's like freezing in that moment, not knowing what 1970 01:41:26,680 --> 01:41:29,919 Speaker 1: to do, having needing that that time to to process 1971 01:41:30,360 --> 01:41:34,600 Speaker 1: one thousand percent. You know, it's it's it's very understandable 1972 01:41:34,640 --> 01:41:37,599 Speaker 1: that in that in that moment, and she still took 1973 01:41:37,680 --> 01:41:40,400 Speaker 1: the time to sit down with him, and like, you know, 1974 01:41:41,000 --> 01:41:45,120 Speaker 1: Dave did not deserve that. You know, Dave deserved to 1975 01:41:45,800 --> 01:41:49,160 Speaker 1: just be like walked out, hung out to dry and 1976 01:41:49,280 --> 01:41:51,640 Speaker 1: it's like, screw screw you, dad, Just like, no, you. 1977 01:41:51,800 --> 01:41:54,000 Speaker 2: M not try to kiss your best friend's girlfriend. 1978 01:41:54,200 --> 01:41:56,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, and also don't try to kiss me. I don't 1979 01:41:56,280 --> 01:41:58,760 Speaker 4: want to kiss you, but I think she was trying 1980 01:41:58,760 --> 01:42:00,200 Speaker 4: to do damage for Georgie. Just be like a right 1981 01:42:00,240 --> 01:42:01,920 Speaker 4: is there any way to salvage the situation right now? 1982 01:42:02,000 --> 01:42:03,640 Speaker 2: Like you wanted to kiss me? Cool? She was to 1983 01:42:03,680 --> 01:42:05,519 Speaker 2: figure out why you wanted to kiss me and then 1984 01:42:05,640 --> 01:42:06,919 Speaker 2: delete those feelings. 1985 01:42:07,000 --> 01:42:09,800 Speaker 1: She was being the angel in that scenario, and like, Okay, 1986 01:42:10,040 --> 01:42:12,240 Speaker 1: you're the one that came and assaulted me, but you 1987 01:42:12,280 --> 01:42:14,320 Speaker 1: know what, let me be the angel. Let's let's try 1988 01:42:14,360 --> 01:42:18,360 Speaker 1: and like at least like talk it out or and 1989 01:42:18,479 --> 01:42:20,680 Speaker 1: try to figure out like what's going on. Basically the 1990 01:42:20,720 --> 01:42:24,040 Speaker 1: conversation that, like you said before, if he had feelings, 1991 01:42:24,240 --> 01:42:29,760 Speaker 1: he should have gone to ope the boyfriend. I been like, 1992 01:42:29,880 --> 01:42:31,479 Speaker 1: have these feelings, I don't want to know what to do. 1993 01:42:31,640 --> 01:42:34,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, if it's a best friendship type scenario, I think 1994 01:42:34,439 --> 01:42:37,400 Speaker 4: the bro code in that point dictates you don't don't 1995 01:42:37,439 --> 01:42:38,559 Speaker 4: try to work. 1996 01:42:38,640 --> 01:42:41,559 Speaker 2: Yeah, talk to your bro. Yeah, talk to your brother. 1997 01:42:41,600 --> 01:42:42,760 Speaker 2: Talk to your bro. Talk to your bro. 1998 01:42:43,479 --> 01:42:45,960 Speaker 1: But Opie says, I had assumed that they'd kissed and 1999 01:42:46,080 --> 01:42:47,920 Speaker 1: my girlfriend had then basically left asap. 2000 01:42:47,960 --> 01:42:50,639 Speaker 2: But Sarah seems to think that they parted on polite terms. 2001 01:42:51,120 --> 01:42:54,040 Speaker 1: I asked my girlfriend, asked if my girlfriend had gotten 2002 01:42:54,040 --> 01:42:56,800 Speaker 1: my apology, and Sarah said that my girlfriend mentioned it 2003 01:42:56,840 --> 01:42:59,360 Speaker 1: to her, so she must have just read it. I 2004 01:42:59,439 --> 01:43:02,559 Speaker 1: didn't press further about it, though I asked if Dave 2005 01:43:02,640 --> 01:43:05,559 Speaker 1: had been in contact with either of them. Sarah said 2006 01:43:05,600 --> 01:43:07,840 Speaker 1: that Dave hadn't been in contact with either of them. 2007 01:43:08,240 --> 01:43:10,000 Speaker 1: I guess you would. I guess she would say that 2008 01:43:10,040 --> 01:43:12,920 Speaker 1: either way. Though I asked my girlfriend. I asked if 2009 01:43:12,960 --> 01:43:15,080 Speaker 1: my girlfriend was staying with Sarah because of what I 2010 01:43:15,120 --> 01:43:17,920 Speaker 1: had said to her. A couple of replies here made 2011 01:43:17,960 --> 01:43:21,040 Speaker 1: me worried about this, which again, we don't know what 2012 01:43:21,200 --> 01:43:22,000 Speaker 1: Opie said, you know. 2013 01:43:22,120 --> 01:43:22,519 Speaker 2: And then. 2014 01:43:23,920 --> 01:43:26,320 Speaker 1: Right after being assaulted and not knowing what to do, 2015 01:43:26,479 --> 01:43:30,080 Speaker 1: and like being in this like the freezing, you know, 2016 01:43:31,360 --> 01:43:33,400 Speaker 1: you don't know how to react or what to Sarah think, 2017 01:43:33,479 --> 01:43:34,759 Speaker 1: and then getting slammed. 2018 01:43:35,400 --> 01:43:37,679 Speaker 2: I could see that. To the credit of the comments 2019 01:43:37,680 --> 01:43:39,160 Speaker 2: on the chip one day, Yeah yeah. 2020 01:43:39,760 --> 01:43:42,280 Speaker 1: Sarah seemed surprised by me asking that and said my 2021 01:43:42,360 --> 01:43:44,840 Speaker 1: girlfriend just needed some space to process and to not 2022 01:43:44,920 --> 01:43:47,559 Speaker 1: feel bad about it because she'd known her. 2023 01:43:47,560 --> 01:43:49,040 Speaker 2: Longer than the two of us had been dating. 2024 01:43:49,680 --> 01:43:51,720 Speaker 1: Didn't really make me feel not bad about it, though 2025 01:43:52,200 --> 01:43:55,320 Speaker 1: some people here suggested that my girlfriend might have gone 2026 01:43:55,360 --> 01:43:57,920 Speaker 1: to Sarah at first instead of me because of that, 2027 01:43:58,479 --> 01:44:01,000 Speaker 1: so it makes sense, I guess, But I don't know 2028 01:44:01,080 --> 01:44:03,479 Speaker 1: if she just said that to make me feel better. 2029 01:44:04,240 --> 01:44:06,280 Speaker 1: I don't know how much I trust Sarah. I like her, 2030 01:44:06,360 --> 01:44:08,880 Speaker 1: and i'd call her, i'd call her a friend, but 2031 01:44:09,000 --> 01:44:11,000 Speaker 1: I know i'd trust her more to look out for 2032 01:44:11,120 --> 01:44:14,679 Speaker 1: her best friend first. Obviously I won't call her a liar, 2033 01:44:14,800 --> 01:44:16,719 Speaker 1: but I do think she try and cast her best 2034 01:44:16,760 --> 01:44:20,080 Speaker 1: friend in the best possible light, even if unintentionally. But 2035 01:44:20,200 --> 01:44:22,960 Speaker 1: it still makes me feel a little better to know 2036 01:44:23,640 --> 01:44:27,400 Speaker 1: more information. By the way, you can always know more 2037 01:44:27,439 --> 01:44:31,599 Speaker 1: information by joining her live every weekday at three pm PST. 2038 01:44:32,320 --> 01:44:35,240 Speaker 2: Just tap the profile takes his one tap you know 2039 01:44:35,320 --> 01:44:35,680 Speaker 2: what to do. 2040 01:44:36,680 --> 01:44:41,080 Speaker 1: Also, thanks to everyone who replied nicely less or less nicely. 2041 01:44:41,479 --> 01:44:44,040 Speaker 1: Having outside viewpoints is helping me deal with the situation. 2042 01:44:44,360 --> 01:44:47,680 Speaker 1: So thank you, even if it's just a distraction or 2043 01:44:47,680 --> 01:44:52,320 Speaker 1: an excuse to order my thoughts and that's it, that's. 2044 01:44:52,200 --> 01:44:52,880 Speaker 2: All we have there. 2045 01:44:54,040 --> 01:44:57,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think, like, ultimately it's a hard thing to wait, 2046 01:44:57,160 --> 01:45:00,800 Speaker 1: but you know, just let her get give for the time. 2047 01:45:01,240 --> 01:45:03,960 Speaker 1: Could it could have been a massively traumatic thing and 2048 01:45:04,280 --> 01:45:10,479 Speaker 1: her having to uh you know, she's basically giving giving 2049 01:45:10,560 --> 01:45:15,920 Speaker 1: Dave a therapy session after after being assaulted. Yeah, So yeah, 2050 01:45:15,960 --> 01:45:18,479 Speaker 1: I think it's it's, it's it's it's a lose lose 2051 01:45:19,080 --> 01:45:25,800 Speaker 1: for everybody, I think in this scenario, and at this point, 2052 01:45:26,280 --> 01:45:31,600 Speaker 1: I would say for OP, just hanging back until Op's 2053 01:45:32,600 --> 01:45:34,760 Speaker 1: ready to talk, because I guess at this point it 2054 01:45:34,800 --> 01:45:35,559 Speaker 1: probably won't help. 2055 01:45:35,400 --> 01:45:37,040 Speaker 2: Your space to process and. 2056 01:45:38,680 --> 01:45:40,920 Speaker 1: When you guys to end up having a conversation about it, 2057 01:45:40,920 --> 01:45:43,120 Speaker 1: because I mean you you will have to talk about it, 2058 01:45:43,160 --> 01:45:45,040 Speaker 1: but you don't have to press the issue. It's like, 2059 01:45:45,800 --> 01:45:49,240 Speaker 1: just give her time and the conversation will happen at 2060 01:45:49,280 --> 01:45:55,920 Speaker 1: some point. And Yeah, I think you've decided to not 2061 01:45:56,160 --> 01:45:58,760 Speaker 1: keep Dave in your life, which I guess makes sense. 2062 01:45:58,880 --> 01:46:00,800 Speaker 2: That is that that's a good I think. 2063 01:46:01,240 --> 01:46:07,000 Speaker 4: I think Dave kindah trampled over your h the friendship 2064 01:46:07,040 --> 01:46:09,240 Speaker 4: you guys had, and like any kind of trust you 2065 01:46:09,320 --> 01:46:12,800 Speaker 4: had when he, I guess tried to pull a pull 2066 01:46:12,880 --> 01:46:16,640 Speaker 4: a I'm better than your boyfriend, move on on you 2067 01:46:17,520 --> 01:46:20,559 Speaker 4: and is kind of his comebag or just like trying 2068 01:46:20,600 --> 01:46:25,439 Speaker 4: to guess this girl just seemingly without reading the room whatsoever. 2069 01:46:25,200 --> 01:46:30,160 Speaker 2: On unimaginable levels of of insanity. 2070 01:46:29,600 --> 01:46:33,759 Speaker 1: And idiocrisy to to like go through with this whole stunt, 2071 01:46:33,960 --> 01:46:38,240 Speaker 1: to to to try to kiss her like I mean, 2072 01:46:38,360 --> 01:46:41,200 Speaker 1: do either of you know anyone who would come anything 2073 01:46:41,240 --> 01:46:41,920 Speaker 1: close to doing that? 2074 01:46:42,920 --> 01:46:42,960 Speaker 3: No? 2075 01:46:43,160 --> 01:46:45,479 Speaker 1: And then also I just saw a comment about how 2076 01:46:45,840 --> 01:46:47,840 Speaker 1: afterwards he was like, let's go back to my place. 2077 01:46:47,920 --> 01:46:51,920 Speaker 2: It's like you're nut bro, Like what, yeah, you think 2078 01:46:52,800 --> 01:46:54,639 Speaker 2: you think that's good? What I see? 2079 01:46:54,680 --> 01:46:56,240 Speaker 4: I'm seeing all these things about how we need to 2080 01:46:56,320 --> 01:47:02,080 Speaker 4: read chat what what? What is sometimes rejecting it? Welaan's 2081 01:47:02,200 --> 01:47:05,000 Speaker 4: Wes Lean says, sometimes rejecting a guy can be dangerous. 2082 01:47:05,360 --> 01:47:05,599 Speaker 2: True. 2083 01:47:07,680 --> 01:47:07,800 Speaker 1: Uh. 2084 01:47:08,400 --> 01:47:10,120 Speaker 2: Miss roomy A. 2085 01:47:10,439 --> 01:47:12,639 Speaker 1: Says this happened to me early in my early twenties. 2086 01:47:12,920 --> 01:47:14,920 Speaker 1: I immediately told my boyfriend he and his best friend 2087 01:47:14,960 --> 01:47:17,880 Speaker 1: stopped being friends. The ex best friend told him the truth, 2088 01:47:18,320 --> 01:47:19,160 Speaker 1: he tried to kiss me. 2089 01:47:19,240 --> 01:47:19,920 Speaker 2: I wasn't having that. 2090 01:47:20,040 --> 01:47:23,479 Speaker 4: It sounds almost like the exact kind of same situation 2091 01:47:23,680 --> 01:47:28,479 Speaker 4: that's going on here, except instead of it was the 2092 01:47:28,520 --> 01:47:31,800 Speaker 4: best friend that told op in the story instead of 2093 01:47:31,840 --> 01:47:34,920 Speaker 4: the girlfriend exactly exactly but give her space