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Speaker 3: The average person probably even listening to this right now,

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Speaker 3: So yeah, just to ask a context to that, can

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Speaker 3: you talk about the pre nump.

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Speaker 2: Is it necessary for that? If so, how do you

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Speaker 4: I think that's where the kind of the frame is

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so let's talk about the fact that, yeah, this

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Speaker 5: The very first prenup I drew up was for one

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Speaker 5: Now child support, child support totally separate, meaning you don't

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Speaker 3: We talked about this, well, you put a.

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Speaker 1: An illegal alien from Guatemala charged with raping a child

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Speaker 5: wasn't going on vacations. It just wasn't that lifestyle. So that, yeah,

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Speaker 5: other places where we know our people are. Let's go

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Speaker 5: to Charlotte, North Carolina. Let's go to Atlanta. Let's go

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Speaker 5: places in San Francisco. Excuse me, in California, there are

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Speaker 2: It's true what that's what it is.

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Speaker 5: So I think when we even talk about who the

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Speaker 5: be desirous of financially partnering with a very lovely gentleman

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Speaker 5: And one hundred fifty thousand dollars a year is a

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Speaker 2: What you got on its?

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Speaker 5: What you have on it? Sir?

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Speaker 5: Can you give me it? And it's going to be

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Speaker 5: That's all I'm saying. When my daughter's wanting to go

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Speaker 5: And see this is the part right, So now y'all

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Speaker 5: the conversation that you know, the nuance is found. Now

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Speaker 5: you could say, well, who the hell needs all that?

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Speaker 5: to live, then why why is that so demonized too?

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Speaker 2: There's a there's a way.

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Speaker 5: To live out here, period, and when our favorite rappers

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Speaker 5: or you're neeering major from FAM, you you get shitted

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Speaker 5: I don't like it. I don't like it.

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Speaker 2: We don't. We don't have to. That's a fact. Oh wow,

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Speaker 2: A lot to talk about that.

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Speaker 3: But I want to give a shout to the ak are.

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Speaker 2: Yes you are the pinky has gone.

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Speaker 5: Up, Jinky's in full salute, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Full salute.

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Speaker 3: We recently got honored by the Aka's and my grandmother

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Speaker 5: I saw that the honor. Yeah, well you guys, listen.

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Speaker 5: I have a girlfriend who is got it. You know,

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Speaker 5: This is this she's looking at doing some career transitioning

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Speaker 5: actually coming from the nonprofit space, getting into more of

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Speaker 5: in this con it's you guys. You guys have branded

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