1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,639 Speaker 1: I told my cousin that her son could starve because 2 00:00:02,680 --> 00:00:05,240 Speaker 1: I refuse to make extra food at our family reunion. 3 00:00:05,440 --> 00:00:08,959 Speaker 1: Star no food for you. Let's introduce the cast of 4 00:00:09,039 --> 00:00:11,800 Speaker 1: characters and it'll hopefully, hopefully make things clear. We might 5 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:13,039 Speaker 1: need the white board. We're gonna see. 6 00:00:13,160 --> 00:00:15,600 Speaker 2: There's me and my significant other. Who's that going to be? 7 00:00:15,600 --> 00:00:18,600 Speaker 1: So fair? Jerry? Jerry, you may want to use fake 8 00:00:18,680 --> 00:00:20,960 Speaker 1: names to make your own understanding. Guess what. We are 9 00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:21,880 Speaker 1: way ahead of you, friend. 10 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:26,079 Speaker 2: And then there is my cousin one. Who's who's that 11 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:26,560 Speaker 2: going to be? 12 00:00:28,480 --> 00:00:29,480 Speaker 1: Ron? Ron? 13 00:00:29,920 --> 00:00:31,240 Speaker 2: Cousin Ron, We love cousin. 14 00:00:32,840 --> 00:00:33,360 Speaker 3: You can do Ron. 15 00:00:34,040 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 1: There we go, and their significant other, Ron's wife. 16 00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 2: Ron's wife. Ron's wife doesn't get a. 17 00:00:41,720 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 1: Name, Ramona, Ramona, Ramona, it's too big. 18 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:50,480 Speaker 3: Okay, Sally, Yeah, it has to be two syllables or less. 19 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 1: Sally, Sally and their two children, who were we don't 20 00:00:55,680 --> 00:00:59,240 Speaker 1: need to put on the board yet. My aunt, okay, 21 00:00:59,680 --> 00:01:02,280 Speaker 1: Aunt Sheila? Is that is that a good one? 22 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:02,600 Speaker 4: Yeah? 23 00:01:02,800 --> 00:01:04,080 Speaker 1: You have to keep up with this too, by the. 24 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:07,880 Speaker 5: Way, we okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, yeah, you. 25 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:10,000 Speaker 3: You'd be like Aunt Sheila anytimes, says my aunt. You 26 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:11,360 Speaker 3: have to say, Sheila is. 27 00:01:11,360 --> 00:01:16,119 Speaker 1: This this is the aunt. We don't know whose mom 28 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:18,679 Speaker 1: it is, but that's a great question. And then my 29 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 1: other cousin, the second one, Matthew, Matthew. 30 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:26,280 Speaker 4: Ron and Matthew. 31 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 1: And then other cousin three let's call him Ben Ben 32 00:01:30,800 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 1: and his son who is eighteen Ken Ken Ken is 33 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:36,800 Speaker 1: the son. We might not even need him, we'll see. 34 00:01:37,240 --> 00:01:39,920 Speaker 1: And then cousin two and cousin three are siblings. Then 35 00:01:40,160 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 1: we are all over forty. So there's there's some ages 36 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 1: for you, sure, all of jobs except for the kids, 37 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:48,120 Speaker 1: the eighteen year old and the aunt who is retired. 38 00:01:48,320 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from Unlikely cat Hurder and 39 00:01:51,720 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 1: you can submit your own story on our slash Okay 40 00:01:53,760 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 1: story time. So we have decided to play in a 41 00:01:56,720 --> 00:02:00,480 Speaker 1: family reunion for four nights and five days. And you 42 00:02:00,520 --> 00:02:04,880 Speaker 1: see Cousin two matt paid fifteen hundred for the cabin 43 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 1: and left the planning and buying of the food to me. 44 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:12,960 Speaker 1: Ron has not helped financially at all. This has left 45 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:16,920 Speaker 1: me and my significant other to buy the food because 46 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:19,680 Speaker 1: I knew it would fall on us. For several months now, 47 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 1: we've been buying food little by little. When we buy 48 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:25,640 Speaker 1: our groceries. We estimate we will spend close to one 49 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:27,960 Speaker 1: thousand dollars when it's all of a sudden done. 50 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:31,120 Speaker 4: That's way over the course of how long a vacation. 51 00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:36,280 Speaker 1: Okay, a family pricey right. We aren't planning elaborate meals, 52 00:02:36,320 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 1: but buying food for ten people for eleven meals, and 53 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 1: that adds up. Okay. Matt is well aware that Ron 54 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:45,519 Speaker 1: isn't helping with the food and that's just me, and 55 00:02:45,600 --> 00:02:47,920 Speaker 1: it's just me and my significant other paying for it. 56 00:02:48,560 --> 00:02:52,840 Speaker 1: Ron Matt. Matt continually reminds me that we have an 57 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 1: eighteen year old man coming and he eats a lot, 58 00:02:55,840 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 1: and that we need to make sure we have enough 59 00:02:57,480 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 1: for him. I explained that I bought a package forty 60 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:05,360 Speaker 1: hamburger patties. Is it enough? Riley? No, Even if all 61 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:08,520 Speaker 1: ten people eat two hamburgers a piece, there will be 62 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 1: twenty hamburger patties left. As if the names were confusing. 63 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 1: Now we're doing burger mat. 64 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 4: Now we're doing freaking math problems. 65 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:18,520 Speaker 1: I also said, we're planning on five pounds of ground 66 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:21,400 Speaker 1: beef for spaghetti and another five pounds for chili. There 67 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:24,160 Speaker 1: will also be sides, rice, salad, corn, bread, garlic bread. 68 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:27,040 Speaker 1: I've played like that for every meal. Plus there's gonna 69 00:03:27,040 --> 00:03:28,640 Speaker 1: be bread and peanut, butter and jelly and cereal. 70 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:29,160 Speaker 5: We have. 71 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:31,960 Speaker 2: We've got the basis covered. As far as food is concerned. 72 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 1: I cannot imagine there won't be leftovers that he can 73 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:39,080 Speaker 1: eat if he gets hungry. Okay, the eighteen year old can. 74 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 1: That is, he's still insisting that is not enough food, 75 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:44,840 Speaker 1: and we should buy a couple of rotisserie chickens and co. 76 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 2: And Ben then suggested that we buy. 77 00:03:49,280 --> 00:03:50,840 Speaker 1: Ramen for his eighteen year old son. 78 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:53,160 Speaker 4: Hey, you buy your own ramen? Yeah, think about that. 79 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 2: How about buy food for your son? Have you ever 80 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:57,160 Speaker 2: heard of that? That concept? 81 00:03:57,520 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 5: I think that if you're saying, like, oh I need 82 00:04:00,440 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 5: special extra food, you gotta gotta bring that. 83 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 1: That is true or leave. 84 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 3: Sofia brings a fish everywhere. 85 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:09,440 Speaker 1: She can bring a fish everywhere I go, and we 86 00:04:09,480 --> 00:04:13,600 Speaker 1: smell it upstairs. It's crazy. It sells like a fish market. 87 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:16,280 Speaker 1: Somehow downstairs smells like a Michelin star restaurant. 88 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:19,040 Speaker 2: We don't know. I we listen and we don't judge. 89 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:21,680 Speaker 1: And we also read the story. Ben and his son 90 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:25,120 Speaker 1: have have not financially contributed even a penny towards us, 91 00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:28,120 Speaker 1: nor do they have plans to pay for anything. I 92 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:31,279 Speaker 1: flatly refuse to buy extra food. And after the tenth 93 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 1: text message, I told Matt that if Ben and his 94 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:38,680 Speaker 1: son were getting a free vacation, if the food provided 95 00:04:38,760 --> 00:04:42,600 Speaker 1: isn't enough, then he can starve. He can starve. 96 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:45,599 Speaker 4: All right, So we're back to We're back to this. 97 00:04:45,800 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's right, we're back the final final, the final chart. Yeah, 98 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:51,360 Speaker 1: and guys, can we give it up for Sopia? She 99 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 1: did such a great job. 100 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 4: I think I got her. 101 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:58,920 Speaker 1: So I might have also called the moochers to have 102 00:04:59,320 --> 00:05:02,719 Speaker 1: the gall to suggest foods that I could buy for 103 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 1: them in addition to what she already bought. So I 104 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:08,840 Speaker 1: am I the ahole for being stubborn and refusing to 105 00:05:08,880 --> 00:05:11,880 Speaker 1: buy something as cheap as ramen? Are we? 106 00:05:12,080 --> 00:05:12,400 Speaker 2: Guys? 107 00:05:12,480 --> 00:05:15,320 Speaker 1: There's an update number one. We're just gonna check in 108 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:17,600 Speaker 1: quickly and get back to it. Yeah, we have done 109 00:05:17,640 --> 00:05:20,360 Speaker 1: the burger math. We have done the people math. It's true. 110 00:05:20,440 --> 00:05:21,839 Speaker 1: We are caught up here. 111 00:05:22,040 --> 00:05:24,760 Speaker 4: Everyone's caught up. We know whose son belongs to who. 112 00:05:25,160 --> 00:05:28,479 Speaker 1: Let's answer Opie's question. Is OPI and Ahle for saying, hey, 113 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:29,440 Speaker 1: buy your own food, are you? 114 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:32,920 Speaker 5: No, no Opie had a budget, is already spending about 115 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:36,640 Speaker 5: eight one thousand dollars on all of this food. Seems 116 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 5: seems to have enough food for everyone anyway. It seems 117 00:05:39,960 --> 00:05:43,719 Speaker 5: like this eighteen year old has eyes bigger than his stomach. 118 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:45,599 Speaker 1: He hasn't even seen all the food. 119 00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:48,400 Speaker 4: Yeah right, and what why does he need so much ramen? 120 00:05:48,640 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 1: Dude? Come on, I. 121 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:52,320 Speaker 3: Can't help it, Dude. I like seafood, and I'm like, 122 00:05:52,400 --> 00:05:53,160 Speaker 3: I need to eat it. 123 00:05:53,520 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 2: I'll be honest. 124 00:05:54,279 --> 00:05:56,880 Speaker 1: My parents said that when I moved out, their grocery 125 00:05:56,920 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 1: bill was like one third of what it was. 126 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:02,719 Speaker 5: Yeah, afterwards, that makes sense. My parents Like I go 127 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:04,840 Speaker 5: to their house and it looks like they don't live there. 128 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:08,520 Speaker 2: Sam, I can't imagine. 129 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:12,719 Speaker 5: Oh my god, Sam comes home, their food is gone. Sam, Like, 130 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:14,560 Speaker 5: there'll be a bag of chips, eats it in one day. 131 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:15,839 Speaker 5: I believe gone. 132 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 1: He just eats. 133 00:06:16,480 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 4: He goes home to our parents' house and he just snacks. 134 00:06:18,520 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 3: That's what happens to me. Whenever I go home, I 135 00:06:20,440 --> 00:06:22,480 Speaker 3: go to my grandma's house. In my house, I seed 136 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:23,360 Speaker 3: all the leftovers. 137 00:06:23,520 --> 00:06:25,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, you sound like a real can right now, a 138 00:06:25,800 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 2: realn That was me. 139 00:06:27,440 --> 00:06:28,039 Speaker 1: That was me. 140 00:06:28,200 --> 00:06:29,440 Speaker 3: Okay, I did that. 141 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:32,919 Speaker 4: That's right. Please I'm hungry, Please, I'm hungry. 142 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:36,960 Speaker 1: Well, please, let's get to the next update. Update number one. Guys, 143 00:06:36,960 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 1: we have a lot more okay. The entitlement just continues 144 00:06:40,360 --> 00:06:45,080 Speaker 1: to grow. Family member that hasn't contributed once to invite 145 00:06:45,120 --> 00:06:48,640 Speaker 1: another family to join us. So you can see my 146 00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:50,840 Speaker 1: post history for a recap of what's going on and 147 00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:52,000 Speaker 1: what I'm explaining about. 148 00:06:52,040 --> 00:06:53,640 Speaker 2: Short recap. We have a cabin in the woods for 149 00:06:53,680 --> 00:06:54,160 Speaker 2: a vacation. 150 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:56,840 Speaker 1: It's a family trip with extended family, several cousins, couple 151 00:06:56,839 --> 00:06:59,320 Speaker 1: of kids, an aunt, and my significant other. One cousin 152 00:06:59,360 --> 00:07:01,240 Speaker 1: paid for the cab and left the planning and buying 153 00:07:01,279 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 1: meals to me and another cousin. The other cousin has 154 00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:08,040 Speaker 1: not helped buy anything okay literally nothing. We're talking probably 155 00:07:08,040 --> 00:07:10,880 Speaker 1: close to one thousand dollars of food bought and he 156 00:07:10,920 --> 00:07:13,880 Speaker 1: hasn't paid, not one penny, won't vend only money, won't 157 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:16,240 Speaker 1: buy stuff on his own constant excuses. 158 00:07:16,840 --> 00:07:19,119 Speaker 2: Last night he messaged me and the cousin that paid 159 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:22,640 Speaker 2: for the cabin and said he wanted to invite more people. 160 00:07:23,320 --> 00:07:24,360 Speaker 1: This mooching was not. 161 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:27,640 Speaker 3: Enough, because that's why he made them buy more burgers. 162 00:07:27,800 --> 00:07:30,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, it wasn't because he just didn't want to like 163 00:07:30,880 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 5: bring it up. 164 00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:34,400 Speaker 2: Dude, Ben Ben is a scoundrel because I think that's 165 00:07:34,440 --> 00:07:34,840 Speaker 2: who it is. 166 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 4: He's scapegoating his own son. 167 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:39,120 Speaker 3: That's right, and it'd be okay if it's more family members, 168 00:07:39,200 --> 00:07:39,880 Speaker 3: I'd be okay with that. 169 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:43,840 Speaker 5: But but even then, it's like, okay, sure if they contribute, 170 00:07:44,200 --> 00:07:45,840 Speaker 5: if they get their own place. 171 00:07:45,720 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 1: Do we got enough money yeah to make this happen. 172 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:49,760 Speaker 1: And also do we have enough beds for everyone? Do 173 00:07:49,760 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 1: you have to sleep on the streets outside? Yeah, on 174 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 1: a log, we'll see. The cousin that paid for the 175 00:07:55,240 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 1: cabin said no and was actually quite polite about it. 176 00:07:58,240 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 1: I've seen the texts and the one who hasn't contributed 177 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:04,120 Speaker 1: a dime is now flipping out because he was told no. 178 00:08:04,720 --> 00:08:06,920 Speaker 1: I was just dumbfounded at this point. I don't have 179 00:08:07,000 --> 00:08:09,280 Speaker 1: a lot of family left. That's why I was biting 180 00:08:09,320 --> 00:08:11,680 Speaker 1: my tongue about the ones not paying towards the trip, 181 00:08:11,760 --> 00:08:14,240 Speaker 1: So I think it is not family that's being invited, 182 00:08:14,560 --> 00:08:17,200 Speaker 1: like friends. But I'm just shocked that someone who hasn't 183 00:08:17,240 --> 00:08:20,480 Speaker 1: contributed a dime to this trip thinks they can invite 184 00:08:20,600 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 1: four other people and gets upset when told no, we 185 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:30,080 Speaker 1: have update number two. I foresee a slew of updates 186 00:08:30,120 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 1: in the story very quickly before we get into update 187 00:08:32,760 --> 00:08:38,280 Speaker 1: number two. What do we do about about Ben? Because 188 00:08:38,320 --> 00:08:40,720 Speaker 1: he keeps he's like not paying for food, he's like 189 00:08:41,240 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 1: being getting upset because he can't bring more people. What 190 00:08:43,960 --> 00:08:47,240 Speaker 1: do we think? Yeah? What do we say to Ben? 191 00:08:47,880 --> 00:08:48,080 Speaker 3: Yeah? 192 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:48,600 Speaker 1: I think I will. 193 00:08:48,679 --> 00:08:53,360 Speaker 5: I think you just say like, hey, unfortunately we have 194 00:08:53,440 --> 00:08:56,680 Speaker 5: a limited out of space. If you don't want to come, 195 00:08:56,720 --> 00:08:58,319 Speaker 5: that's up to you, but these are kind of the 196 00:08:58,400 --> 00:09:02,040 Speaker 5: rules and you're gonna have to pay for any extra 197 00:09:02,040 --> 00:09:02,680 Speaker 5: food that you want. 198 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 1: Ben says, no, they're coming and give me ten thousand 199 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:06,040 Speaker 1: dollars right now. What do you say? 200 00:09:06,360 --> 00:09:06,800 Speaker 4: Blocked? 201 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 1: There we go? There we go update number two. So 202 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:13,559 Speaker 1: I was asked to give an update, and I've gotten 203 00:09:13,600 --> 00:09:16,800 Speaker 1: a decent following here. Huh. So here's your update. New 204 00:09:16,800 --> 00:09:19,360 Speaker 1: content creator alert would love to know where my followers 205 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:23,120 Speaker 1: came from. Our weekend is almost over. The last of 206 00:09:23,160 --> 00:09:26,040 Speaker 1: the family leaves tomorrow, so I figured now would be 207 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:27,200 Speaker 1: a great time to give. 208 00:09:27,080 --> 00:09:28,920 Speaker 2: You guys the update. Let's see what happens. 209 00:09:29,280 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 1: So not everyone was pulling their weight financially for this trip, 210 00:09:32,720 --> 00:09:35,640 Speaker 1: and then one one to invite extra pe people. Said 211 00:09:35,640 --> 00:09:39,680 Speaker 1: person got a bit booty heart when he was told no. Well, 212 00:09:39,760 --> 00:09:42,680 Speaker 1: the cousin that wanted to bring extra people did not 213 00:09:42,800 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 1: bring them, and he actually what a flip. 214 00:09:47,559 --> 00:09:48,439 Speaker 2: He bought groceries. 215 00:09:48,880 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 1: There was a group list going on, and he stopped 216 00:09:51,440 --> 00:09:53,720 Speaker 1: before he could, he could before he got to the 217 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:56,000 Speaker 1: cabin and bought everything that was on the list that 218 00:09:56,200 --> 00:10:00,320 Speaker 1: hadn't been bought yet head and then two days ag later, 219 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:03,040 Speaker 1: we had to make a grocery run for more food. 220 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:05,760 Speaker 1: Several people had the munchies, and that was a decent 221 00:10:05,840 --> 00:10:07,400 Speaker 1: bill and he paid that. 222 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 4: What the hecktemption arc. 223 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:13,880 Speaker 1: He also helped with the cooking and the cleaning, So 224 00:10:14,080 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 1: in my eyes, he had pulled his own weight. Uh. 225 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 1: The cousin who brought his brother and nephew, they spent 226 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:23,800 Speaker 1: the entire time high and freaking wasted. They but they 227 00:10:23,800 --> 00:10:26,439 Speaker 1: weren't annoying. So while personally I don't see the point 228 00:10:26,520 --> 00:10:29,440 Speaker 1: of what they did, I'm not going to complain. Plus, 229 00:10:29,520 --> 00:10:32,040 Speaker 1: we'd wake them up in the morning and he always 230 00:10:32,040 --> 00:10:34,440 Speaker 1: made something like cookies or food the next day. I 231 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:39,800 Speaker 1: also love how like there's like freak. This family's freaking lax. Yeah, 232 00:10:39,840 --> 00:10:41,840 Speaker 1: you know they're they're chilling. 233 00:10:42,040 --> 00:10:44,679 Speaker 4: They're chilling, getting drunk, making. 234 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:47,520 Speaker 1: Around eighteen year olds making cookies. 235 00:10:47,520 --> 00:10:48,080 Speaker 4: Sounds good. 236 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:53,640 Speaker 1: That does sound good, But that could be cool. We 237 00:10:53,679 --> 00:10:56,480 Speaker 1: should have a donation that activates an oven that bakes 238 00:10:56,600 --> 00:10:58,040 Speaker 1: food for us. 239 00:10:57,880 --> 00:11:01,559 Speaker 3: It's inside taking the launch and psych Whenever he did 240 00:11:01,600 --> 00:11:05,080 Speaker 3: a upside down on an upside down pineapple cake in 241 00:11:05,160 --> 00:11:06,760 Speaker 3: an easy bake oven. 242 00:11:06,880 --> 00:11:08,079 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I was. 243 00:11:08,120 --> 00:11:10,440 Speaker 5: Actually I was also thinking easy bake oven. But then 244 00:11:10,480 --> 00:11:12,599 Speaker 5: I was also thinking about the laundry machine from the 245 00:11:12,679 --> 00:11:14,920 Speaker 5: last story that you could activate from your phone. 246 00:11:15,360 --> 00:11:16,840 Speaker 4: We get an oven like that. 247 00:11:17,040 --> 00:11:19,920 Speaker 3: And it burns or a house, don't That would not 248 00:11:20,000 --> 00:11:23,560 Speaker 3: be good? Okay, Well, I'm just saying, like, it's crazy 249 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:26,839 Speaker 3: what technology can do, even if you have blue roofs. Right, So, 250 00:11:27,000 --> 00:11:28,760 Speaker 3: Vio Riley's. 251 00:11:28,520 --> 00:11:30,600 Speaker 4: Trying to force his conspiracy theories on me. 252 00:11:30,960 --> 00:11:35,680 Speaker 1: Oh no, no, that Riley even understand what he was showing. 253 00:11:35,880 --> 00:11:37,840 Speaker 3: Oh yes, you did, you just don't want to acknowledge it. 254 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:39,719 Speaker 1: No, I truly was confused. 255 00:11:39,880 --> 00:11:41,480 Speaker 2: You know what I want to acknowledge? 256 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:47,960 Speaker 1: Ben ben I got personal. So he was great at 257 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:51,000 Speaker 1: emptying and refilling the dishwasher. Only one kid came and 258 00:11:51,040 --> 00:11:53,640 Speaker 1: we had a blast with said kid. My significant other 259 00:11:53,640 --> 00:11:56,360 Speaker 1: had fun as well. For me, I was pleasantly surprised. 260 00:11:56,400 --> 00:11:58,360 Speaker 1: I had a great time, and it was really neat 261 00:11:58,360 --> 00:12:01,120 Speaker 1: to see my daddy with my cousins, from mannerisms to 262 00:12:01,120 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 1: facial features to the one cousin who's covered in fur 263 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:06,680 Speaker 1: from head to toe. It's been hard on me since 264 00:12:06,720 --> 00:12:09,200 Speaker 1: my dad passed away, and for reasons that would fill 265 00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:11,760 Speaker 1: a book. I didn't grow up with this side of 266 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 1: the family, so I had a great time reconnecting with them. 267 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:16,960 Speaker 1: We had a family meeting where we came up with 268 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:19,360 Speaker 1: a budget and how much each person needed to contribute 269 00:12:19,400 --> 00:12:22,760 Speaker 1: to keep this going. All the sounding great, but we're 270 00:12:22,800 --> 00:12:25,880 Speaker 1: not even close to finished. The plan is to do 271 00:12:25,920 --> 00:12:28,640 Speaker 1: the same next year. I'm supposed to call tomorrow to 272 00:12:28,679 --> 00:12:31,719 Speaker 1: see about reserving a cabin for the next year. We're 273 00:12:31,720 --> 00:12:33,640 Speaker 1: gonna get right into this update number three, But I 274 00:12:33,720 --> 00:12:37,160 Speaker 1: just wanted to throw this out there. This happened two 275 00:12:37,240 --> 00:12:41,800 Speaker 1: years ago. Yeah, so I just like trying to see 276 00:12:41,840 --> 00:12:45,640 Speaker 1: where you're going with this. This happened two years ago, 277 00:12:45,800 --> 00:12:50,439 Speaker 1: OPI said, we're planning this for the future. Yeah, hure, 278 00:12:50,760 --> 00:12:54,040 Speaker 1: we have way, way way way more story left. Yeah, 279 00:12:54,880 --> 00:12:56,640 Speaker 1: this could be I feel like you just used that 280 00:12:56,679 --> 00:13:02,040 Speaker 1: for a dramatic jacket unchieving and a and a Garnier 281 00:13:02,280 --> 00:13:05,000 Speaker 1: commercial hair flip. Yeah, I've never worried. I've never worn 282 00:13:05,040 --> 00:13:05,440 Speaker 1: this top. 283 00:13:05,679 --> 00:13:07,439 Speaker 3: Yeah you haven't. I've never known. 284 00:13:07,280 --> 00:13:08,800 Speaker 1: My mom's and it doesn't really hit me. 285 00:13:08,880 --> 00:13:10,160 Speaker 3: But it does look older. 286 00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:14,080 Speaker 1: Wow, it looks pretty cold, Riley. Remember when he said 287 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:16,640 Speaker 1: I would never call until few of beards play that clip. 288 00:13:16,960 --> 00:13:18,679 Speaker 1: We probably don't have it, but we already know it's 289 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:20,880 Speaker 1: but we already know it's not true, but we had 290 00:13:20,880 --> 00:13:23,840 Speaker 1: to call it back. Anyways. Anyways, we're getting intoupdate number 291 00:13:23,840 --> 00:13:26,720 Speaker 1: three entitled cousin wants to invite people? 292 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:30,480 Speaker 4: Wait, wait, what was the point? What was the point 293 00:13:30,520 --> 00:13:31,319 Speaker 4: of your bringing up. 294 00:13:31,280 --> 00:13:34,840 Speaker 1: That it was two years oult? There could be multiple 295 00:13:34,920 --> 00:13:39,760 Speaker 1: years of family gatherings in this story, if you know, 296 00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:41,440 Speaker 1: you know, Okay. 297 00:13:41,120 --> 00:13:43,360 Speaker 3: That usually happens that with people with families. 298 00:13:43,480 --> 00:13:45,160 Speaker 1: So update number three, I'm gonna read the title on 299 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:47,200 Speaker 1: this one and titled cousin wants to invite people on 300 00:13:47,240 --> 00:13:51,760 Speaker 1: our Family Thanksgiving Cruise Edition, Wild their Own Water, The 301 00:13:51,880 --> 00:13:52,880 Speaker 1: Sweet Life. 302 00:13:52,679 --> 00:13:55,480 Speaker 5: Baby, Oh oh my, Yeah, this is a this is 303 00:13:56,040 --> 00:13:59,920 Speaker 5: a spinoff series so I have seemed I seemed to 304 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:02,880 Speaker 5: have a decent following and responses from my last two posts. 305 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:05,400 Speaker 1: That'll be deal. So I figured i'd give you guys 306 00:14:05,480 --> 00:14:08,680 Speaker 1: another update. We are trying to make this a yearly tradition. 307 00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:11,720 Speaker 1: We've gotten together the last two years and no one 308 00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:14,880 Speaker 1: has gotten someone out of here, so we're trying for 309 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:19,640 Speaker 1: a third time. Okay, yes, that's right ahead to dude. 310 00:14:19,720 --> 00:14:21,400 Speaker 3: Can we please tell them why we can't say that? 311 00:14:22,040 --> 00:14:25,960 Speaker 1: Yes? The next update? Sorry, sorry, you good on a 312 00:14:26,000 --> 00:14:30,240 Speaker 1: cruise ship this time ominous music plays. The place we 313 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:32,800 Speaker 1: stayed at at least two times doesn't have any openings 314 00:14:32,800 --> 00:14:35,440 Speaker 1: for the next two years the cabin, So after trying 315 00:14:35,440 --> 00:14:37,640 Speaker 1: Airbnb's at charge a heck of a lot more for 316 00:14:37,680 --> 00:14:40,200 Speaker 1: a place big enough for us, I finally said, screw it. 317 00:14:40,520 --> 00:14:43,400 Speaker 1: We're looking at cruises and wouldn't you know, there's a 318 00:14:43,480 --> 00:14:45,520 Speaker 1: fairly cheap one that aligns with the dates that we 319 00:14:45,560 --> 00:14:49,000 Speaker 1: can go on. Somehow it all fell on me to 320 00:14:49,160 --> 00:14:52,600 Speaker 1: organize it, and it's like carding cats. I need specific 321 00:14:52,640 --> 00:14:55,280 Speaker 1: info from each person going, and we're up to ten 322 00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:58,400 Speaker 1: people and group emails and text go on answers, so 323 00:14:58,440 --> 00:15:01,600 Speaker 1: I have to individually harass each person to get very 324 00:15:01,640 --> 00:15:05,800 Speaker 1: basic info like a birth date, a full name, or 325 00:15:05,800 --> 00:15:09,840 Speaker 1: an email address. Finally, I gave an ultimatum that worked, 326 00:15:10,480 --> 00:15:14,400 Speaker 1: give me your info today or you're not going. I mean, 327 00:15:14,920 --> 00:15:17,960 Speaker 1: you need that, you know, it's it's one could say 328 00:15:17,960 --> 00:15:23,640 Speaker 1: it's inappropriate, like texting someone in the room while we're 329 00:15:23,680 --> 00:15:26,680 Speaker 1: recording an episode. You know, I say it could be 330 00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:30,520 Speaker 1: not who do that? That's that's inappropriate? That example is inappropriate. 331 00:15:30,600 --> 00:15:32,440 Speaker 4: I only text people outside. 332 00:15:33,160 --> 00:15:36,720 Speaker 1: Wow. Yeah, yeah, it would only be a complete distraction 333 00:15:36,920 --> 00:15:38,080 Speaker 1: from from from what we're doing. 334 00:15:38,160 --> 00:15:39,760 Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, who would ever do that? 335 00:15:40,160 --> 00:15:44,120 Speaker 1: Whoever conspire I don't even know what. I don't even 336 00:15:44,160 --> 00:15:49,160 Speaker 1: know what, but uh yeah, but I agree to whatever 337 00:15:49,200 --> 00:15:54,160 Speaker 1: you were saying. Yeah, let's keep reading this. So finally 338 00:15:54,160 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 1: I gave an ultimatum network, give me your info today 339 00:15:56,480 --> 00:16:00,440 Speaker 1: or you're not going. And finally, miraculously. 340 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:00,800 Speaker 2: I get everyone's in. 341 00:16:01,320 --> 00:16:02,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, look at a PP. 342 00:16:02,400 --> 00:16:05,480 Speaker 4: And all boss B and thank you. 343 00:16:07,320 --> 00:16:09,880 Speaker 1: I'm so impressed with myself that I'm gonna reward myself 344 00:16:09,880 --> 00:16:19,360 Speaker 1: with a nice mag or maybe something stronger. So we 345 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:21,920 Speaker 1: divided the cabins up basic my household. If you live 346 00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:24,240 Speaker 1: with or come out of the body of a specific 347 00:16:24,320 --> 00:16:26,880 Speaker 1: someone that's who you're going into cabin with. What a 348 00:16:27,920 --> 00:16:30,880 Speaker 1: what a way to describe it. If you come out 349 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:33,000 Speaker 1: of someone's body, then you're gonna be paired with them. 350 00:16:33,040 --> 00:16:33,800 Speaker 1: What if you come in. 351 00:16:35,200 --> 00:16:41,080 Speaker 3: That sounds like you're still gonna be in the same cabinism. 352 00:16:42,160 --> 00:16:42,760 Speaker 1: This is your. 353 00:16:42,600 --> 00:16:43,480 Speaker 2: Second one today. 354 00:16:43,640 --> 00:16:44,480 Speaker 1: Sorry, I'm sorry. 355 00:16:44,880 --> 00:16:47,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean exit out of any orphice of a person, 356 00:16:47,480 --> 00:16:49,880 Speaker 3: you have to cabin with them or entered. 357 00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:51,400 Speaker 1: That's a great rule, guys. 358 00:16:51,440 --> 00:16:55,600 Speaker 2: Remember if you like spit in someone's ear, Dude. 359 00:16:55,600 --> 00:16:57,680 Speaker 1: I did not need to know what you get up 360 00:16:57,720 --> 00:17:01,600 Speaker 1: to you. I'm just I'm just yeah, give us, give it, 361 00:17:01,600 --> 00:17:03,880 Speaker 1: you know what, give us more example Sophia, Yeah, I'm 362 00:17:04,000 --> 00:17:04,480 Speaker 1: just kidding. 363 00:17:04,520 --> 00:17:06,360 Speaker 2: I'm cutting you off. 364 00:17:06,359 --> 00:17:11,200 Speaker 1: You like, no, I was joking. We're not doing it. 365 00:17:11,359 --> 00:17:14,040 Speaker 1: I'm going to keep reading. I mean the story is 366 00:17:14,080 --> 00:17:18,320 Speaker 1: so we do need to take it. Okay, we can turn. 367 00:17:20,359 --> 00:17:23,040 Speaker 1: So this is the part you guys are waiting for, 368 00:17:23,480 --> 00:17:26,919 Speaker 1: after the burger math, after the names, guys, this is 369 00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:30,159 Speaker 1: what is going to give us the juice ooo, the 370 00:17:30,480 --> 00:17:33,840 Speaker 1: entitled person aspect and why I decided to give this update. 371 00:17:34,240 --> 00:17:36,440 Speaker 1: So I chose the cheapest cabins for all but one. 372 00:17:36,800 --> 00:17:39,560 Speaker 1: The more expensive cabin will be entirely paid for by 373 00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:42,760 Speaker 1: the people occupying it. One of the cheap cabins may 374 00:17:42,800 --> 00:17:45,320 Speaker 1: not get to go. No one else is putting that bill. 375 00:17:45,800 --> 00:17:48,040 Speaker 1: Those two people are staying in it are responsible for 376 00:17:48,040 --> 00:17:50,199 Speaker 1: their portion. If they can't pay, they don't go, and 377 00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:52,760 Speaker 1: no one else is penalized. They know this. They have 378 00:17:52,880 --> 00:17:56,280 Speaker 1: ten months to come up with the money of their cabin. 379 00:17:56,760 --> 00:17:58,960 Speaker 1: It will be a struggle. The struggle is entirely due 380 00:17:58,960 --> 00:18:01,919 Speaker 1: to poor financial management. Okay, one of the persons in 381 00:18:01,960 --> 00:18:04,959 Speaker 1: the cabin who may not get to go is asking 382 00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:08,560 Speaker 1: to switch roommates and cabins with the more expensive cabin. 383 00:18:08,640 --> 00:18:12,600 Speaker 1: To translate that in very simple English, someone's in the 384 00:18:12,680 --> 00:18:15,199 Speaker 1: cheap cabin, paying for the cheap cabin and trying to 385 00:18:15,600 --> 00:18:20,159 Speaker 1: slide their way into the expensive cabin. We can't have them. 386 00:18:20,520 --> 00:18:21,560 Speaker 4: No, no, no. 387 00:18:21,880 --> 00:18:26,560 Speaker 1: The same person that did not contribute anything to the 388 00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:30,360 Speaker 1: last reunion, and the same one we don't know because 389 00:18:30,359 --> 00:18:31,760 Speaker 1: that was one we haven't covered yet. 390 00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:33,080 Speaker 2: Okay, we've skipped for your too. 391 00:18:33,400 --> 00:18:37,800 Speaker 1: We skip forward to not even cleaning up, cooking, organizing, nada. 392 00:18:37,840 --> 00:18:40,119 Speaker 1: And they think they're gonna weasele their way onto a 393 00:18:40,160 --> 00:18:45,120 Speaker 1: free cruise, not gonna happen much. 394 00:18:45,840 --> 00:18:47,360 Speaker 2: Okay, but we haven't edit. 395 00:18:47,680 --> 00:18:49,720 Speaker 1: I'll keep giving updates as long as people want to 396 00:18:49,760 --> 00:18:53,240 Speaker 1: hear about my crazy family. I imagine I won't have another 397 00:18:53,320 --> 00:18:55,359 Speaker 1: update until the final payment is due, and that's not 398 00:18:55,440 --> 00:18:58,520 Speaker 1: until August. OPI. I know you think your family is crazy, 399 00:18:58,520 --> 00:19:01,400 Speaker 1: but you should listen to some of our episodes. You're 400 00:19:01,520 --> 00:19:05,240 Speaker 1: barely scratching the surface so good. I'm not gonna say 401 00:19:05,240 --> 00:19:09,719 Speaker 1: that's true or not true, but yeah, and we have 402 00:19:09,760 --> 00:19:18,000 Speaker 1: a fourth Yeah, let's quick thoughts, you know, OPI. I 403 00:19:18,040 --> 00:19:21,000 Speaker 1: think honestly, Opie should step down as. 404 00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:24,680 Speaker 4: OPI continues to be Yeah, retire. 405 00:19:25,119 --> 00:19:27,000 Speaker 2: Not for writing stories, but like. 406 00:19:27,359 --> 00:19:30,360 Speaker 1: Retire from like planning all of these else do it? 407 00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:32,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, Like not not. 408 00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:34,000 Speaker 5: To your fault, but it seems like you get pretty 409 00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:36,880 Speaker 5: stressed because of all of the high jinks that your 410 00:19:38,040 --> 00:19:39,000 Speaker 5: family is getting up to. 411 00:19:39,200 --> 00:19:42,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, and you're also I think footing most of it. 412 00:19:42,160 --> 00:19:44,000 Speaker 1: Doesn't it sound like expensive? 413 00:19:44,320 --> 00:19:46,680 Speaker 5: And maybe op has maybe like a better job or 414 00:19:46,720 --> 00:19:49,119 Speaker 5: something than everyone, and everyone expects O P to do it. 415 00:19:49,480 --> 00:19:52,040 Speaker 1: But still I think they're like Opie is actually like 416 00:19:52,119 --> 00:19:53,320 Speaker 1: responsible and on top of it. 417 00:19:53,400 --> 00:19:54,879 Speaker 2: So we'll just let op do it and we'll. 418 00:19:54,760 --> 00:19:56,960 Speaker 1: Just like not do op. He's the planner. 419 00:19:57,240 --> 00:20:00,520 Speaker 3: Op is definitely because Mom, she's a planner and no 420 00:20:00,560 --> 00:20:02,639 Speaker 3: one gave her information. She says, if you don't give 421 00:20:02,640 --> 00:20:03,560 Speaker 3: it to me, you're not going. 422 00:20:03,760 --> 00:20:04,000 Speaker 4: Yeah. 423 00:20:04,119 --> 00:20:05,920 Speaker 1: Yep, that gets old. That gets old. 424 00:20:06,200 --> 00:20:09,600 Speaker 5: I think in all good friends and family relationships, you 425 00:20:09,640 --> 00:20:14,360 Speaker 5: should have a party planner, yes, like a trip planner. 426 00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:16,480 Speaker 5: And I didn't have a third one, but I feel 427 00:20:16,480 --> 00:20:17,200 Speaker 5: like we need one. 428 00:20:17,440 --> 00:20:20,440 Speaker 1: We need to plan that position. Yeah, the position, a 429 00:20:20,520 --> 00:20:24,479 Speaker 1: thought planner. There we go. Sophia needs a thought that 430 00:20:24,560 --> 00:20:28,920 Speaker 1: is true. So I the update number four, the update 431 00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:34,320 Speaker 1: I promised cruise edition. I have a surprising amount of followers. 432 00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:42,720 Speaker 1: Okay jesus okay, oh yeah, slurp that. 433 00:20:44,160 --> 00:20:46,560 Speaker 2: And I promised the update once the cruise had been 434 00:20:46,600 --> 00:20:48,280 Speaker 2: paid for. And so here we are. 435 00:20:48,720 --> 00:20:50,879 Speaker 1: Okay, it's going to be a short update because we 436 00:20:50,920 --> 00:20:54,879 Speaker 1: haven't gone on the cruise yet. More to come, get on, 437 00:20:56,320 --> 00:20:59,719 Speaker 1: get on the let we get back from the cruise 438 00:21:00,440 --> 00:21:01,240 Speaker 1: update again. 439 00:21:01,520 --> 00:21:05,400 Speaker 4: I hope he just updated to say, well follow us. 440 00:21:06,359 --> 00:21:08,840 Speaker 1: So old aunt tried to switch room. So the aunt 441 00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:11,560 Speaker 1: was an ardorwell there with someone who has a suite 442 00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:16,040 Speaker 1: while only paying for the cheap cabin rate that was 443 00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:18,400 Speaker 1: shot down immediately not gonna happen on another pie's watch. 444 00:21:18,760 --> 00:21:22,040 Speaker 2: One cabin fell through, so those two will. 445 00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:24,600 Speaker 1: Not be joining us. There was a breakup and then 446 00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:26,879 Speaker 1: the other person couldn't afford to go on the trip. 447 00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:31,679 Speaker 4: This is falling apart, is I hope he hasn't gone? 448 00:21:31,680 --> 00:21:34,680 Speaker 1: He was not kidding. Everyone else is paid for and 449 00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:38,199 Speaker 1: everyone paid for the cabin, so that's good. Uh. It 450 00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:41,320 Speaker 1: did come down to literally the last moment. I expected 451 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:43,520 Speaker 1: the entitled aunt to have to drop out, but she 452 00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:47,000 Speaker 1: somehow found the money. I guess she robbed someone got 453 00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:50,840 Speaker 1: a loan. So all but one cabin has bought the 454 00:21:50,920 --> 00:21:54,040 Speaker 1: drink package. The cabin that can't afford to buy the 455 00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:57,679 Speaker 1: drink package thinks they can buy some veno, pour it 456 00:21:57,680 --> 00:21:59,840 Speaker 1: out and fill it with something stronger. Freaking it. 457 00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:03,040 Speaker 2: We shall see if they smuggled anything on board. 458 00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:04,600 Speaker 1: Are they gonna get arrested? 459 00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:06,760 Speaker 2: We're gonna see. Feel free to take bets on that. 460 00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:12,200 Speaker 1: Another cabin wants to smuggle some uh devil's lettuce on board, 461 00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:15,560 Speaker 1: even though they are well aware of the rug dogs 462 00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:18,040 Speaker 1: at the porch. Do you think they're there for? Find 463 00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:19,280 Speaker 1: the pizza in the package? 464 00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:19,720 Speaker 4: Right? 465 00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:23,600 Speaker 1: The cabin plans the vacuum seal it. Feel free to 466 00:22:23,640 --> 00:22:27,640 Speaker 1: take bets on if that cabin gets caught my cabin. Now, hey, 467 00:22:27,680 --> 00:22:30,680 Speaker 1: now we're at a piece cabin. This is a real, 468 00:22:31,280 --> 00:22:32,320 Speaker 1: real business. 469 00:22:32,359 --> 00:22:33,680 Speaker 4: This is freaking the hungry game. 470 00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:37,879 Speaker 1: My cabin will get on that ship whether the others 471 00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:40,160 Speaker 1: do or not, and I plan to spend the majority 472 00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:43,960 Speaker 1: of that cruise wasted. If the others do actually make 473 00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:46,879 Speaker 1: it on board. I'm thinking of getting everyone Yett cups 474 00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:49,360 Speaker 1: or maybe a todebag with some sort of phrase to. 475 00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:51,240 Speaker 2: Commemorate this year's family vacation. 476 00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:54,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, you should do like a like the Percy Jackson. 477 00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:55,480 Speaker 1: Beads, one of those again. 478 00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:56,880 Speaker 2: I started watching that movie. 479 00:22:57,320 --> 00:23:01,399 Speaker 4: Oh that's not pretty to Jackson. 480 00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:02,840 Speaker 1: It's a great movie. It is. 481 00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:07,359 Speaker 5: It's not Percy Jackson, though they're entirely separate things. It's 482 00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:08,680 Speaker 5: just so far from the source. 483 00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:13,680 Speaker 1: Oh the book is Yeah, that is a Sophia trademark 484 00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:17,640 Speaker 1: trademark reaction. The book is far from the movie. It's 485 00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:23,400 Speaker 1: a Sophia trademark reaction. It's trademark. It's a trademark. 486 00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:25,480 Speaker 2: Guys, update number five. 487 00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:29,320 Speaker 1: If you thought, no, you can't read this one. 488 00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:30,200 Speaker 3: She's not even on the pot. 489 00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:34,879 Speaker 1: Hey, well, we're gonna see. We're gonna see it's wrong. Now, okay, 490 00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:41,400 Speaker 1: take your bets chat does he make it on the boat? 491 00:23:42,200 --> 00:23:42,520 Speaker 4: The boat? 492 00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:44,920 Speaker 2: Or are we just talking about our followers again? 493 00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:50,879 Speaker 1: We're gonna see. So one last update before the family cruise. 494 00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:55,440 Speaker 5: Okay, there's wow, I've gotten so many fun. 495 00:23:57,000 --> 00:24:00,960 Speaker 1: There's another segment of the titles cousin saga. Okay, it's 496 00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:04,160 Speaker 1: like a month later. So since I have a following, 497 00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:07,919 Speaker 1: I thought i'd give y'all another update. Okay, y'all know 498 00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:13,479 Speaker 1: that phrase a glutton for punishment? Well, yeah, that's me. 499 00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:19,120 Speaker 1: So one thing I purposely failed to mention my other 500 00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:32,800 Speaker 1: FOS is I have I have another vacation plan for 501 00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:35,840 Speaker 1: my significant other and eye right before we go on 502 00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:36,280 Speaker 1: the cruise. 503 00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:39,520 Speaker 3: Even if she was one of the last two animals 504 00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:41,679 Speaker 3: chosen to go on Noah's Ark, she still wouldn't make 505 00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:42,879 Speaker 3: up on. 506 00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:47,240 Speaker 1: The She's gone existinct. So as we come home, we 507 00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:50,359 Speaker 1: have about enough time to wash clothes and repack and 508 00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:52,399 Speaker 1: then we have to leave right agawn the cruise. This 509 00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:55,040 Speaker 1: is crazy. I never would have expected this. My jaws 510 00:24:55,040 --> 00:25:05,200 Speaker 1: on the floor. Oh and didn't I mention it was 511 00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:13,560 Speaker 1: any okay, okay, it was a lot and it was sparkling. 512 00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:18,760 Speaker 1: Really Oh I didn't Oh, man, guys, fill out the 513 00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:21,520 Speaker 1: clip form Bitley slash, okay, story time, Ben. 514 00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:22,320 Speaker 2: You good, I'm good. 515 00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:25,439 Speaker 1: Oh wow, that was that. 516 00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:27,760 Speaker 2: I wish you could have seen that chat because that 517 00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:28,800 Speaker 2: was Riley. 518 00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:32,440 Speaker 1: It went, it flew up, landed on the lamp, gently, 519 00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:38,280 Speaker 1: slid down right into Sophia's hand. It was okay, all right, 520 00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:43,479 Speaker 1: calm down. Oh, and didn't I mention on the first vacation. 521 00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:46,000 Speaker 1: The first vacation is overseas, so it takes a bit 522 00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:49,480 Speaker 1: more planning than a US vacation. Talk about it. 523 00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:51,639 Speaker 2: We leave in a few days for that vacation. 524 00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:55,239 Speaker 1: I'm also working forty five plus hours a week up 525 00:25:55,320 --> 00:25:57,359 Speaker 1: until the day we leave, so I don't have a 526 00:25:57,359 --> 00:25:58,200 Speaker 1: lot of time to. 527 00:25:58,160 --> 00:25:59,119 Speaker 2: Devote to this cruise. 528 00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:02,199 Speaker 1: I have. I've made that clear to everyone going on 529 00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:04,240 Speaker 1: the cruise. Since we're a bit less than a month 530 00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:06,679 Speaker 1: from the cruise, we can check in, and I'm trying 531 00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:09,560 Speaker 1: to coordinate that with everyone and having a tough time 532 00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:15,200 Speaker 1: doing that. Texts go unanswered, text go unanswered. Okay, I'm 533 00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:18,680 Speaker 1: to the point I simply don't care any longer. You 534 00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:19,200 Speaker 1: don't care. 535 00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:21,840 Speaker 4: Wow, ops, reach Nirvana. 536 00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:24,399 Speaker 3: That's right, plassful piece. 537 00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:28,720 Speaker 1: I wish we could say the same for us. I 538 00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:29,480 Speaker 1: think I have. 539 00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:35,920 Speaker 4: Passed away, castaway, No passaway? 540 00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:41,520 Speaker 1: Oh well, sir, that's what I was saying. So I'm 541 00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:43,240 Speaker 1: to the point I simply don't care any longer. I 542 00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:46,120 Speaker 1: checked my significant other and I in and that is it. 543 00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:48,960 Speaker 1: I've spent a week trying to coordinating time since we're 544 00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:51,640 Speaker 1: supposed to carpool there, but I'm done trying to get 545 00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:55,359 Speaker 1: people to answer my ife and texts. Get serious, and 546 00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:59,840 Speaker 1: here's where you guys that have read this far are 547 00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:06,760 Speaker 1: looking for the juicy stuff. Oh boy, the drama stuff. 548 00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:10,679 Speaker 1: Oh boy? Are you Sophia? Are you prepared for what 549 00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:11,560 Speaker 1: we're about to witness? 550 00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:12,480 Speaker 4: So freaking prepared? 551 00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:16,600 Speaker 1: Right. Let's go back. When we planned this cruise, everyone 552 00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:19,119 Speaker 1: told me they had a passport. 553 00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:23,760 Speaker 5: Oh no, I thought that was the end of that. 554 00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:26,720 Speaker 1: I didn't need to investigate further into that. Unfortunately, I 555 00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:28,480 Speaker 1: should have. No, I should have. 556 00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:29,000 Speaker 2: I should have. 557 00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:32,480 Speaker 1: So I explained to one how to check in online 558 00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:34,360 Speaker 1: and mentioned having your passport. 559 00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:35,520 Speaker 2: Handy so you can enter that info. 560 00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:38,800 Speaker 1: Said person then takes that moment to inform me the 561 00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:42,640 Speaker 1: passport has expired. Oh lord, on the on the cruise? 562 00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:50,359 Speaker 1: Are they on the almost freaking out? We're doing a 563 00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:58,720 Speaker 1: second second so they also have no clue with her? 564 00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:04,600 Speaker 1: Are they even from the country in front? Actually know 565 00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:07,520 Speaker 1: when my birthday is? We have no proof at this 566 00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:11,040 Speaker 1: point said person may not be, may not be getting 567 00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:13,840 Speaker 1: on that cruise. But luckily for them, we live in 568 00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:15,879 Speaker 1: the state they were born in, and the state capital 569 00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:18,720 Speaker 1: there's few is just a few hours from their home. 570 00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:20,960 Speaker 1: So I sent them a link to set up an 571 00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:24,680 Speaker 1: appointment in person to get their birth certificate. We have 572 00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:27,320 Speaker 1: a plan in place now I've not followed up with 573 00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:30,480 Speaker 1: them to find out if they made the appointment or 574 00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:36,000 Speaker 1: found their birth certificate. I'm officially done for this year, 575 00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:39,880 Speaker 1: trying to corral everything. I have gone above and beyond 576 00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:43,120 Speaker 1: for a freaking year now, and I have no f's 577 00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:47,280 Speaker 1: left to freaking gift who wants to take bets on 578 00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:50,720 Speaker 1: if one with the expired passport gets on the ship? 579 00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:57,040 Speaker 5: Now we have bets on expired passport, people bringing substances 580 00:28:57,280 --> 00:29:01,920 Speaker 5: onto the thing, trying to get into a more expensive. 581 00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:04,000 Speaker 2: Suite going on Riley. 582 00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:06,000 Speaker 1: We have to pull it. This is the most important 583 00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:09,160 Speaker 1: poll we've ever done in our take it or not, 584 00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:12,600 Speaker 1: make it or not chat. You need to let us 585 00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:17,080 Speaker 1: know because this is the Steaks could have hied Hi. 586 00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:20,960 Speaker 1: This might be the do they do. They try to 587 00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:25,320 Speaker 1: get on the boat without a password, birth certificate, get arrested, 588 00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:27,960 Speaker 1: plot twister fee Are you ready? 589 00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:28,680 Speaker 4: Yeah? 590 00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:34,920 Speaker 1: Three syllables for you, four syllables for you, Marah time law. 591 00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:39,400 Speaker 1: They're in the ocean, they're they're they're about to go 592 00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:43,240 Speaker 1: to four different jails. Whoa and then has to break 593 00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:45,600 Speaker 1: them out of prison. And then it's a heist, and 594 00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:50,680 Speaker 1: then it's they're like, we're criminals, let's steal some diamonds 595 00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:51,240 Speaker 1: in Europe. 596 00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:53,600 Speaker 4: And then they go on a journey to find the 597 00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:54,640 Speaker 4: one piece that's. 598 00:29:54,560 --> 00:29:59,240 Speaker 1: Right, that's only if cousin makes it, takes it onto 599 00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:02,640 Speaker 1: the cruise. We're gonna keep going. So update number six. 600 00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:06,000 Speaker 1: I'm back with another update. Please see my profile for 601 00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:08,360 Speaker 1: my other posts about my delightful family and our yearful 602 00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:11,640 Speaker 1: My our our yearly vacation. Last I left you guys, 603 00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:14,880 Speaker 1: significant other and I we're gearing it for overseas trip, 604 00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:18,200 Speaker 1: coming home and then almost immediately going back on the 605 00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:22,880 Speaker 1: family cruise. Well we're back from both They made it 606 00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:30,320 Speaker 1: chat well, chat was voting on if they'd make it 607 00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:35,240 Speaker 1: to the unnamed cousin would have the oh, if the 608 00:30:35,320 --> 00:30:36,760 Speaker 1: unnamed cousin would make it on board. 609 00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:39,120 Speaker 2: But you know what it is actually sorry, you know what. 610 00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:40,600 Speaker 2: That's literally a better poll. 611 00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:42,920 Speaker 1: You know what, chat to Let it be whatever you 612 00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:46,080 Speaker 1: want at this point with this story. Your interpretation to 613 00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:49,880 Speaker 1: your interpretation. It's our, it's our. So time for the updates. 614 00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:52,960 Speaker 1: Our trip overseas was amazing. 615 00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:54,000 Speaker 4: Oh boy. 616 00:30:54,160 --> 00:30:56,280 Speaker 1: We got to spend time at a hotel that has 617 00:30:56,400 --> 00:30:59,320 Speaker 1: amazing views of Mount Fuji, and we stayed at the 618 00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:03,480 Speaker 1: Rio car with our own private hot spring. That's actually funny. 619 00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:07,520 Speaker 1: All jet aside, that is fire opee. 620 00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:09,280 Speaker 4: This is your light at the end of the tunnel. 621 00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:12,440 Speaker 1: Send some Rex, send some Rex. Girl. Absolutely amazing and 622 00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:15,560 Speaker 1: picture perfect and we will be going back. When we 623 00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:18,800 Speaker 1: got home, I had enough time to wash clothes and 624 00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:24,120 Speaker 1: repack before we got to the boat. We are about 625 00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:29,239 Speaker 1: to enter the boat boat. Some of us all live 626 00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:31,400 Speaker 1: in the same state, some closer than the others. The 627 00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:33,760 Speaker 1: ones that live about ten hours away. Started out on 628 00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:35,680 Speaker 1: Tuesday and spent the night in my town so we 629 00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:38,520 Speaker 1: could all carpool to the cruise terminal. The ones that 630 00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:40,880 Speaker 1: lives about five hours away decided to drive down the 631 00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:45,120 Speaker 1: day of. They headed out about four am Thanksgiving Day 632 00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:47,920 Speaker 1: and met us at a place open Thanksgiving Day. 633 00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:49,120 Speaker 2: I will not lie. 634 00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:52,360 Speaker 1: A family vacation with family that is lit, like a 635 00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:54,840 Speaker 1: cruise or something like on a holiday does sound kind 636 00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:57,080 Speaker 1: of fun? Yeah, I can't even lie anyhow. 637 00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:00,640 Speaker 3: I don't think that's my family. I don't think it's 638 00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:04,080 Speaker 3: my family. Could not make it on my boat. That'd 639 00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:04,640 Speaker 3: be too much. 640 00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:07,440 Speaker 1: See you're out here ragging on all with all this stuff. 641 00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:10,960 Speaker 1: But would your story not would the story not read 642 00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:12,240 Speaker 1: read just like this Riley? 643 00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:13,000 Speaker 5: Yeah? 644 00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:16,640 Speaker 1: Would it not be eerily eerily similar? I think it would. 645 00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:18,840 Speaker 3: It would be like that similar. I think everybody would 646 00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:22,240 Speaker 3: have their crap together more. I just think it'd be boring, Like. 647 00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:24,520 Speaker 4: I disagree actually for my family, Yeah, good for you. 648 00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:26,760 Speaker 3: My family's like, why don't we just stay home, put 649 00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:30,280 Speaker 3: wood in the wood stove and just chill out. Do 650 00:32:30,320 --> 00:32:32,800 Speaker 3: you think your family would have fun on a cruise, John, Yeah, 651 00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:35,440 Speaker 3: good for you. I think so we're just homebodies. 652 00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:36,920 Speaker 4: That's whine my own hates crew. 653 00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:40,320 Speaker 1: I've never been on a cruise, so cruises are lit 654 00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:43,160 Speaker 1: I one time went and the pool is like literally 655 00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:44,200 Speaker 1: making waves, and I was. 656 00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:48,640 Speaker 4: Like, well, that's fun. 657 00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:54,840 Speaker 1: I mean to get back to the story. And that's 658 00:32:55,040 --> 00:33:00,120 Speaker 1: when they dropped the bomb on us. No, one of 659 00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:03,680 Speaker 1: the persons in their party did not remember to pack 660 00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:08,560 Speaker 1: their passport and they didn't have their birth certificate. Cats okay, 661 00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:13,480 Speaker 1: and yes, yes, it is the same group that I 662 00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:17,760 Speaker 1: mentioned before whose passport was expired, same group, different person. 663 00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:21,960 Speaker 1: Of course, that person miraculously found their birth certificates, so 664 00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:25,080 Speaker 1: they were golden. We drove down to the cruise terminal, 665 00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:27,800 Speaker 1: helped everyone with their luggage, and boy was there a 666 00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:31,520 Speaker 1: lot of luggage, and one went to ask about the 667 00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:34,880 Speaker 1: whole passport situation. He came back to let us know 668 00:33:34,920 --> 00:33:39,360 Speaker 1: that the person that forgot their passport absolutely would not 669 00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:41,160 Speaker 1: be allowed on the cruise. 670 00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:45,400 Speaker 2: This is this is going to change the course of history. 671 00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:47,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, we're not going anywhere after this. 672 00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:52,480 Speaker 1: We're not going anywhere. Guys. Said person had every opportunity 673 00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:54,720 Speaker 1: to upload their passport ahead of time, and had they 674 00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:56,880 Speaker 1: done that, then they would have allowed to be set. 675 00:33:57,080 --> 00:33:59,560 Speaker 1: Then they would have allowed to set sail. But no, 676 00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:03,520 Speaker 1: said person did not do it. So we watched two 677 00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:06,320 Speaker 1: from our group board the bus back to the parking 678 00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:08,120 Speaker 1: lot to retrieve their vehicle and head home. 679 00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:10,080 Speaker 4: No, I think was gonna happen. 680 00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:13,279 Speaker 2: Sorry that they just let like, oh just let me on. Well, 681 00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:14,000 Speaker 2: they forgot it. 682 00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:18,880 Speaker 1: They forgot they they didn't listen to Opie's ten million 683 00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:21,400 Speaker 1: messages about hey upload it, you do it ahead of 684 00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:21,640 Speaker 1: the time. 685 00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:23,960 Speaker 2: They didn't listen. Sophia, Yeah, I don't need that. 686 00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:26,560 Speaker 4: They're not both John, it's not a different country. 687 00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:32,480 Speaker 1: Well guess what four syllables marah time law, gotta get 688 00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:33,320 Speaker 1: your passport. 689 00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:36,320 Speaker 3: I thought international waters have no laws, so why can't 690 00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:37,799 Speaker 3: they go It's maritime law. 691 00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:44,440 Speaker 1: Maritime Opie says. They're trying to get future future cruise 692 00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:47,759 Speaker 1: credit for their missed cruise. But it's not looking good. 693 00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:49,840 Speaker 1: It's not looking good. The rest of us got on 694 00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:57,520 Speaker 1: the ship, and that's what the fuss began. We did it, 695 00:34:58,680 --> 00:34:59,920 Speaker 1: made to the promise. 696 00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:01,360 Speaker 4: This is all I wanted. 697 00:35:01,560 --> 00:35:03,520 Speaker 2: We've made it to the promise. 698 00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:09,080 Speaker 3: Straight edging me for fortud skimy on this cruise. 699 00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:13,120 Speaker 1: Skim d cruising man. All of us have been on 700 00:35:13,200 --> 00:35:15,640 Speaker 1: cruises before, so we knew what to expect. 701 00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:19,840 Speaker 2: But nothing could have prepared us for this trip. 702 00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:22,880 Speaker 1: This was a five day cruise on a small, older 703 00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:24,520 Speaker 1: ship that wasn't laid out very well. 704 00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:27,000 Speaker 2: Especially in a post Pandami world. 705 00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:31,040 Speaker 1: People had no concept of personal space anywhere, not an elevators, 706 00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:32,719 Speaker 1: online for the buffet, not on line for. 707 00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:34,360 Speaker 2: Coffee, not sitting at a table. 708 00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:37,239 Speaker 1: They also had no concept of cleaning after themselves or 709 00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:42,560 Speaker 1: even flushing a freaking toilet ew okay, guts, plates of 710 00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:45,440 Speaker 1: half eaten food just in the stairwells next to the 711 00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:49,880 Speaker 1: art pieces. Okay, half wated drinks all over the railings, 712 00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:54,920 Speaker 1: dirty tissues in all the elevators, Like they're doing this 713 00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:55,960 Speaker 1: or this is like. 714 00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:58,799 Speaker 2: People like the people on the cruise ship. 715 00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:00,279 Speaker 4: Sounds like a grisk is. 716 00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:02,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's it's not good. 717 00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:06,520 Speaker 1: It's like you would be so disappointed, Like it's disappointed 718 00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:09,720 Speaker 1: as you know someone you you you consider a friend, 719 00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:15,400 Speaker 1: a co host, a colleague, you know, taking their phone 720 00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:20,239 Speaker 1: and then messaging two people messaging each other, you know, 721 00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:25,279 Speaker 1: and you know I do that. I'm just I'm just 722 00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:30,560 Speaker 1: speaking u hypothetically, just just completely theoretical, you know, no 723 00:36:31,120 --> 00:36:32,080 Speaker 1: particular person. 724 00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:34,520 Speaker 4: Sorry, you're right, I'm hypothetically. 725 00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:36,719 Speaker 1: Sorry, Yes you're hypothetically, but. 726 00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:39,000 Speaker 4: I was hypothetically lockdown. 727 00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:40,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I know a lot. 728 00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:43,880 Speaker 5: There's a lot of disgusting things going on this cruise. 729 00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:48,120 Speaker 5: We got people leaving like a beer bottle. 730 00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:51,880 Speaker 1: You know what, Sophia, you could have not listened after 731 00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:54,480 Speaker 1: the first sentence and still known what is going on 732 00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:57,000 Speaker 1: right here. They're not. 733 00:36:58,680 --> 00:36:59,760 Speaker 4: They're not the cruise. 734 00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:02,880 Speaker 3: Oh they are in the cruise of that. 735 00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:08,280 Speaker 1: So it's gross. That's where we're at. People, adults, kids, 736 00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:12,200 Speaker 1: not covering their mouths when they sneeze their cough. Is 737 00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:17,440 Speaker 1: this just wait, sorry, it's everybody, everybody on everybody, not 738 00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:17,960 Speaker 1: the family. 739 00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:20,239 Speaker 4: Now we're getting to play play of the whole group. 740 00:37:20,360 --> 00:37:25,200 Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, it's just mad. The cinematic universe has expanded 741 00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:30,600 Speaker 1: the c and it sucks. Who would have thought you're 742 00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:34,200 Speaker 1: never this. I'm done. I need to go back on 743 00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:42,320 Speaker 1: my phone. Kid that looked to me about seven cough 744 00:37:42,480 --> 00:37:46,880 Speaker 1: directed on my arm, and mom didn't even apologize or 745 00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:50,200 Speaker 1: even say anything to her. Heathen. My god, I watched 746 00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:53,000 Speaker 1: a lady smack the absolute crap out of another lady 747 00:37:53,239 --> 00:37:56,399 Speaker 1: right by the service desk and they did nothing. It's 748 00:37:56,440 --> 00:37:57,800 Speaker 1: like the have you seen Squid games? 749 00:37:58,120 --> 00:38:00,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, the first season when they just start beating up 750 00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:03,000 Speaker 5: a guy in the in like the hall, and they 751 00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:07,960 Speaker 5: just watch Oh the bystanders, Yeah, they're just all watching them. 752 00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:10,920 Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, and like all the guards are just like, yes. 753 00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:13,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, happen. That's what happens in my house. Like when 754 00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:15,319 Speaker 3: one of my brothers are getting beat up, we're just 755 00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:16,000 Speaker 3: like you. 756 00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:18,880 Speaker 4: You're like, you got you gotta get his energy out somehow. 757 00:38:19,080 --> 00:38:20,439 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like a sorry man. 758 00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:22,600 Speaker 2: Sucks. 759 00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:27,040 Speaker 1: Bro. Well, let's get back to the boys on his boat. 760 00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:30,160 Speaker 1: The boys on the boat so Besaiyes, for a moment, 761 00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:32,600 Speaker 1: I thought we were at Walmart. The Walmart of the 762 00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:37,560 Speaker 1: seas was not the experience any of us had on 763 00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:40,160 Speaker 1: fast cruises, so it was a total surprise to us. 764 00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:43,720 Speaker 1: Totally blindsided and on to only a bit of family 765 00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:46,359 Speaker 1: drama that actually made it to the trip. Wow. 766 00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:48,120 Speaker 2: I love how we promised so much drama. 767 00:38:48,160 --> 00:38:52,000 Speaker 1: But the one cousin that planned to bring edibles did 768 00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:55,960 Speaker 1: apparently bring them into side one or two gummies and 769 00:38:56,160 --> 00:39:00,400 Speaker 1: drink literally all night long into the morning of barking 770 00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:03,800 Speaker 1: while not sleeping the last night we were on this ship. 771 00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:06,360 Speaker 1: Sounds like they have fun. This made for a not 772 00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:10,760 Speaker 1: pleasant embarking trying to track down his booty to get 773 00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:15,640 Speaker 1: off the ship and I'm already planning the next family stop. 774 00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:19,399 Speaker 1: He starts to stop doing this. 775 00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:25,040 Speaker 5: Oh, PC is a freaking uh like those like hole 776 00:39:25,200 --> 00:39:26,760 Speaker 5: you know, like you have to walk on hot coals. 777 00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:29,239 Speaker 5: And he's like, oh, I'll let me do this, and 778 00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:31,920 Speaker 5: just like totally gets third degree burns. 779 00:39:32,640 --> 00:39:35,799 Speaker 1: Let me do it again, and then three years in 780 00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:38,560 Speaker 1: a row, says the same. I think I think it 781 00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:41,919 Speaker 1: might work this time, and hopefully people will be more 782 00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:46,000 Speaker 1: prepared for the next cruise. Why dot dot? 783 00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:50,520 Speaker 5: Why are you expecting? Why? Why are you expecting this? 784 00:39:50,840 --> 00:39:56,520 Speaker 5: So you are more you are the Sisyphus of Stanley Cruises. 785 00:39:57,200 --> 00:40:01,160 Speaker 5: So so you're rocking this family cruise up a hill 786 00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:03,640 Speaker 5: and it falls back every time. 787 00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:08,480 Speaker 1: How much more is there? John, We're about seventy seventy percent. 788 00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:16,000 Speaker 1: We have another good thirty forty percent left. Guys, normally 789 00:40:16,120 --> 00:40:19,000 Speaker 1: we talk about the other people in the story. 790 00:40:19,640 --> 00:40:21,920 Speaker 2: I want to talk about what do we do with OPI. 791 00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:25,680 Speaker 1: How do we get OP to stop a chronic addiction 792 00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:32,160 Speaker 1: to planning poorly planned family outings go? How do we do? 793 00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:33,200 Speaker 1: You go to therapy? OP? 794 00:40:33,880 --> 00:40:37,040 Speaker 5: You tell your therapist, Hey, I have an addiction. That's 795 00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:39,759 Speaker 5: the first step, and then you have an addiction and 796 00:40:39,840 --> 00:40:44,160 Speaker 5: everyone says, HIOPI uh. And then you say, it has 797 00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:47,360 Speaker 5: been two weeks since my last family cruise. 798 00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:52,520 Speaker 1: I'm about to go another one. 799 00:40:52,680 --> 00:40:55,239 Speaker 4: And they say, no, OPI don't do it. It's not 800 00:40:55,440 --> 00:40:58,000 Speaker 4: worth it. And you say, but your hands shaking, You're. 801 00:40:57,880 --> 00:40:59,439 Speaker 1: Like, but I gotta do it. 802 00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:02,040 Speaker 4: I'm an inch plan a family cruise. 803 00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:05,680 Speaker 1: They don't get back, but I love the struggle. 804 00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:08,279 Speaker 4: And then and then someone goes, sleep out of it. 805 00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:10,360 Speaker 4: I'll be and they stop you. 806 00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:14,080 Speaker 5: They ship, they love tap you, they love tap on 807 00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:15,160 Speaker 5: the face. 808 00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:17,919 Speaker 3: Yeah, husband to get with him. 809 00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:20,440 Speaker 1: There we go. That would make for listen. I'm not 810 00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:23,280 Speaker 1: saying whoever found this story on the team is getting fired. 811 00:41:24,200 --> 00:41:26,719 Speaker 1: I'm just saying they won't have a job anymore. 812 00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:29,560 Speaker 5: I would like to say that I neither found it 813 00:41:29,680 --> 00:41:31,440 Speaker 5: or approved this episode. 814 00:41:32,680 --> 00:41:34,800 Speaker 2: We'll see under the bus. 815 00:41:34,880 --> 00:41:40,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. So on to the next updates titled I'm back 816 00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:43,760 Speaker 1: with a sort of update to my entitled family saga. 817 00:41:44,040 --> 00:41:49,000 Speaker 1: It's been date five days Family Cruise, so this is 818 00:41:49,239 --> 00:41:51,239 Speaker 1: we're about a year out, I think from the cruise. 819 00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:55,440 Speaker 1: Roughly speaking, I want to clear up a few things 820 00:41:56,120 --> 00:42:00,000 Speaker 1: since my post made it to upgrade groups and people 821 00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:03,480 Speaker 1: up there they got some questions just dropping op. Yes, 822 00:42:03,960 --> 00:42:07,759 Speaker 1: I address my followers because surprisingly I got five hundred 823 00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:09,560 Speaker 1: and twenty nine followers right now. 824 00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:15,960 Speaker 4: And we're back with another follower count. Hey guys, I 825 00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:17,800 Speaker 4: can subscribe to my Reddit channel. 826 00:42:17,880 --> 00:42:23,400 Speaker 1: Please dates about my family crew this purgatory. 827 00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:24,879 Speaker 4: Who's to say? 828 00:42:25,400 --> 00:42:28,359 Speaker 2: Will they get the past word? Will they not find out? 829 00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:32,000 Speaker 1: And as long as people want to know, I don't 830 00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:34,680 Speaker 1: mind letting you guys succeed a glimpse of my life. 831 00:42:34,719 --> 00:42:36,160 Speaker 4: No, I don't want to know. 832 00:42:37,239 --> 00:42:41,960 Speaker 1: You still have to see it. It's like God, and yep, 833 00:42:42,400 --> 00:42:44,880 Speaker 1: I'm just as shocked as many of you that people 834 00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:46,440 Speaker 1: are following my crazy family. 835 00:42:46,680 --> 00:42:48,920 Speaker 2: Oh, I'm surprised I am following it. 836 00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:52,600 Speaker 1: I'm shocked, y'all. Really should let me tell you about 837 00:42:52,640 --> 00:42:55,480 Speaker 1: the other side of my family that one's got on 838 00:42:55,600 --> 00:43:00,000 Speaker 1: the livers and all why got sorry because of Facebook? 839 00:43:00,520 --> 00:43:05,200 Speaker 5: Because of Facebook monetization, we have to read about family cruises, 840 00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:07,040 Speaker 5: not true crime. 841 00:43:07,080 --> 00:43:11,040 Speaker 1: What is this? It's definitely a lot more interesting than 842 00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:14,000 Speaker 1: this side of the family. At least ope your self aware. 843 00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:19,880 Speaker 1: I believe that. Now. Okay, onto money questions. My significant 844 00:43:19,880 --> 00:43:22,960 Speaker 1: others I have kids and we're a bit older, so 845 00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:25,520 Speaker 1: we don't have disposable income, then why are you spending 846 00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:30,160 Speaker 1: all this money on family cruises? Well, when I be 847 00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:34,640 Speaker 1: about paying for others, it's because those people feel entitled 848 00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:37,239 Speaker 1: to mine and other's money. Those people have always been 849 00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:41,000 Speaker 1: like this, and I don't play into their games. They're 850 00:43:41,040 --> 00:43:43,879 Speaker 1: not rich, and I always take that into consideration before 851 00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:47,120 Speaker 1: booking any family vacation, but they truly feel they are 852 00:43:47,360 --> 00:43:49,359 Speaker 1: entitled to go and not pay. 853 00:43:50,560 --> 00:43:51,360 Speaker 2: And not pay. 854 00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:53,640 Speaker 1: It's not a question of being too poor to go, 855 00:43:54,080 --> 00:43:57,600 Speaker 1: and everything to do with making poor financial decisions and 856 00:43:57,640 --> 00:44:00,400 Speaker 1: then expecting others to pay for your vacation. 857 00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:03,880 Speaker 4: There, I'm gonna I'm gonna give you a little hack. 858 00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:06,240 Speaker 1: Oh, let's go a little secret. Talk to Sophia. 859 00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:08,239 Speaker 5: So you go to your your family and they said, 860 00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:11,120 Speaker 5: we want you to pay for our vacation. 861 00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:16,720 Speaker 1: You know what, you know, you just say no? Whoa 862 00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:20,320 Speaker 1: wait wait wait wait Sophia, that was that was crazy, 863 00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:25,239 Speaker 1: But I might have something that's even more. Hit me. 864 00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:29,560 Speaker 1: Hit me, take a laptop, open it up right punching 865 00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:30,720 Speaker 1: reddit dot com. 866 00:44:31,239 --> 00:44:32,319 Speaker 2: Go to the upper right. 867 00:44:32,200 --> 00:44:37,080 Speaker 1: Hand where your profile is like get, scroll down and 868 00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:41,120 Speaker 1: hit delete. I have a third place. 869 00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:44,000 Speaker 3: No no, no, no, no no no no, no, okay. 870 00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:50,760 Speaker 1: You're right both, you're right, you're right, you're right, you're right. Okay, 871 00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:54,160 Speaker 1: you're right. But we do have to finish this episode, Sofia, 872 00:44:54,239 --> 00:44:58,319 Speaker 1: this cursed episode. When we did the cabin option, I 873 00:44:58,440 --> 00:45:00,440 Speaker 1: was perfectly okay with paying a large your share of 874 00:45:00,440 --> 00:45:02,719 Speaker 1: the food. If the ones that didn't pay anything contributed 875 00:45:02,760 --> 00:45:06,480 Speaker 1: in other ways, like cooking or cleaning, they didn't okay. 876 00:45:06,719 --> 00:45:07,960 Speaker 2: They either sat. 877 00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:12,040 Speaker 1: On their rear and complaining that they needed a money tree, 878 00:45:12,360 --> 00:45:16,200 Speaker 1: or drank themselves freaking wasted the entire time. When I 879 00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:18,560 Speaker 1: would say, hey, I need you to make this, and 880 00:45:18,640 --> 00:45:21,880 Speaker 1: literally hand them everything they needed to make it, they 881 00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:24,880 Speaker 1: would feign ignorance and then proceed to purposely f up 882 00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:27,640 Speaker 1: the food. Oh I'm sorry, I put the eggs in 883 00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:31,279 Speaker 1: the cereal off I'm so clumsy, And they purposely after 884 00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:33,000 Speaker 1: the food I gave them in hopes of getting out 885 00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:36,920 Speaker 1: of future things. Right, I don't play these games, okay, 886 00:45:37,560 --> 00:45:41,759 Speaker 1: that's why we decided on a cruise for Thanksgiving. Now, 887 00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:44,239 Speaker 1: that way, everyone. 888 00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:44,680 Speaker 2: Paid their fair share. 889 00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:47,239 Speaker 1: The two people who weren't as flushed with money were 890 00:45:47,280 --> 00:45:49,359 Speaker 1: asked before I booked if they could afford it. They 891 00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:51,680 Speaker 1: both said yes, and they were given nine months to 892 00:45:51,719 --> 00:45:55,320 Speaker 1: come up with less than five hundred dollars a piece. Well, no, 893 00:45:55,440 --> 00:45:58,600 Speaker 1: that's incorrect. They had nine months to come up with 894 00:45:58,719 --> 00:45:59,480 Speaker 1: one hundred. 895 00:45:59,200 --> 00:46:00,480 Speaker 2: And twenty five dollars altogether. 896 00:46:01,040 --> 00:46:03,840 Speaker 1: One conveniently left out that they had booked a cruise 897 00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:09,680 Speaker 1: for after our cabin family vacation, Yes, the same vacation. 898 00:46:10,080 --> 00:46:15,759 Speaker 1: Said person said they couldn't afford down pay for so 899 00:46:15,880 --> 00:46:20,160 Speaker 1: to translate that, I think someone booked a cruise right 900 00:46:20,200 --> 00:46:22,839 Speaker 1: after that after saying they can't afford cruise number one 901 00:46:23,360 --> 00:46:25,759 Speaker 1: price at full price, but they but they need but 902 00:46:25,800 --> 00:46:27,239 Speaker 1: they booked cruise number two right. 903 00:46:27,280 --> 00:46:29,359 Speaker 4: We just don't want to go on a cruise with you. 904 00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:30,000 Speaker 1: Guys? 905 00:46:30,280 --> 00:46:32,560 Speaker 2: Are you ready for this? Sofia, Your your jaw is 906 00:46:32,560 --> 00:46:33,600 Speaker 2: actually gonna be on the floor. 907 00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:38,880 Speaker 1: They paid twelve hundred dollars from one to twenty five 908 00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:42,680 Speaker 1: to twelve hundred dollars for the cruise and couldn't go, 909 00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:45,040 Speaker 1: so they had a credit with the cruise line that 910 00:46:45,120 --> 00:46:49,640 Speaker 1: covered two people's cruises minus taxes and port fees. That 911 00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:52,200 Speaker 1: one hundred and twenty five dollar figure. 912 00:46:52,440 --> 00:46:53,440 Speaker 2: Yes, there is. 913 00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:55,400 Speaker 1: A discrepancy and how much was paid and what they 914 00:46:55,400 --> 00:47:00,200 Speaker 1: were owed you apparently can't use future credit cruises for port. 915 00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:01,040 Speaker 2: Fees and taxes. 916 00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:05,319 Speaker 1: Good to know they didn't struggle to come up with 917 00:47:05,360 --> 00:47:08,080 Speaker 1: one hundred and twenty five dollars, But again it was 918 00:47:08,120 --> 00:47:11,480 Speaker 1: because of poor financial decisions. They aren't required to come. 919 00:47:11,560 --> 00:47:13,800 Speaker 1: And I do talk to them before booking anything to 920 00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:14,880 Speaker 1: make sure they can't afford it. 921 00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:17,040 Speaker 2: I just don't assume that they can book it. 922 00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:20,080 Speaker 1: I ask, I go over all the details, and once 923 00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:23,480 Speaker 1: again I get a yes, and then I proceed. And 924 00:47:23,520 --> 00:47:27,160 Speaker 1: you know, it's always a yes for me. Sophia Donner, 925 00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:32,920 Speaker 1: what what's your middle name? Alix? Alix, Alix, Sofia Alik's 926 00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:38,880 Speaker 1: donor what you can listen to Unfortunately full episodes of 927 00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:43,560 Speaker 1: stories unfortunately just like this one, or fortunately very different 928 00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:46,359 Speaker 1: from this one. Eleven out of ten stories on our 929 00:47:46,360 --> 00:47:48,640 Speaker 1: Spotify We have a podcast where we can listen to 930 00:47:48,640 --> 00:47:53,040 Speaker 1: full episodes. Go to Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google everybody, listen 931 00:47:53,040 --> 00:47:53,640 Speaker 1: to your podcast. 932 00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:54,719 Speaker 2: Type in okay, story. 933 00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:56,319 Speaker 1: Time and you know, and you know what, give us 934 00:47:56,360 --> 00:47:58,279 Speaker 1: a rating, give us a five star section. It could 935 00:47:58,280 --> 00:48:01,640 Speaker 1: be so kind. We are the precipice. Dare I say 936 00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:05,959 Speaker 1: THEE at the end of the time about to pull 937 00:48:06,000 --> 00:48:11,200 Speaker 1: into the port theverbialbial gates, the pearly. 938 00:48:10,960 --> 00:48:12,799 Speaker 2: Gates right, the story right. 939 00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:16,000 Speaker 1: I was going with a with a like a cruise 940 00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:18,640 Speaker 1: ship port, but we could go with pearly gates. I 941 00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:19,799 Speaker 1: actually think yours is better. 942 00:48:19,880 --> 00:48:20,279 Speaker 2: Let's do. 943 00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:25,439 Speaker 1: What do we have to say? So via? 944 00:48:25,640 --> 00:48:28,480 Speaker 5: Oh p if you hate your family, don't go on 945 00:48:28,520 --> 00:48:29,399 Speaker 5: a cruise with them. 946 00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:33,399 Speaker 1: Plant a barbecue. But then you know what they're gonna say, Oh, 947 00:48:34,040 --> 00:48:38,480 Speaker 1: my boys, you need to buy a leave chickens, you 948 00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:39,239 Speaker 1: need to cook them. 949 00:48:39,200 --> 00:48:41,680 Speaker 4: Up, and you need Okay, don't just don't just don't 950 00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:42,319 Speaker 4: hang out with them. 951 00:48:42,520 --> 00:48:44,000 Speaker 2: Honestly, are you ready for it? 952 00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:52,000 Speaker 1: No contact with everybody, in fact, no contact with your family, 953 00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:56,080 Speaker 1: no contact with us, with cruise ships with US, or 954 00:48:56,160 --> 00:48:59,920 Speaker 1: the internets. Most importantly, no contact with anyone. 955 00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:02,080 Speaker 4: I want you to go off grid, Go. 956 00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:05,799 Speaker 2: Off the grid, get a. I saw this guy on 957 00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:06,680 Speaker 2: YouTube so via. 958 00:49:06,719 --> 00:49:10,239 Speaker 1: He had a freaking freaking like rain basin and like 959 00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:12,840 Speaker 1: solar power and he's like, oh, like I freaking paid 960 00:49:12,880 --> 00:49:15,480 Speaker 1: like twenty grand and I live here for for forever. 961 00:49:15,640 --> 00:49:19,520 Speaker 2: I didn't need the electricity or water boom. 962 00:49:19,560 --> 00:49:21,480 Speaker 4: And we love that. We love that, and that could 963 00:49:21,480 --> 00:49:24,279 Speaker 4: be you, that could be, but unfortunately it's not. 964 00:49:24,400 --> 00:49:27,640 Speaker 1: You have full twenty four to seven Internet access and 965 00:49:27,719 --> 00:49:30,120 Speaker 1: you are writing this last part of the story. 966 00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:31,239 Speaker 2: Maybe there's an update, maybe not. 967 00:49:31,360 --> 00:49:33,320 Speaker 3: We don't know pike your Reddit account away. 968 00:49:34,360 --> 00:49:35,560 Speaker 2: We're gonna find out, okay. 969 00:49:36,080 --> 00:49:41,880 Speaker 1: Also, because some people don't know this, I doubt that cruise. 970 00:49:43,239 --> 00:49:46,480 Speaker 2: Cruises can be cheap. 971 00:49:47,160 --> 00:49:51,080 Speaker 1: We booked inside cabins for two people for five days, 972 00:49:51,120 --> 00:49:53,120 Speaker 1: and it was five hundred a person, so about one 973 00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:56,799 Speaker 1: hundred dollars a day keep up that includes meals. That's 974 00:49:56,800 --> 00:49:58,879 Speaker 1: actually a pretty good deal. I'm not gonna lie. There 975 00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:01,600 Speaker 1: were some questions about my private vacations that didn't include 976 00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:02,080 Speaker 1: my family. 977 00:50:02,360 --> 00:50:03,680 Speaker 2: We booked years in advance. 978 00:50:04,280 --> 00:50:07,680 Speaker 1: Years twenty twenty four and twenty twenty five are already 979 00:50:07,760 --> 00:50:08,719 Speaker 1: booked out, and. 980 00:50:08,640 --> 00:50:11,080 Speaker 2: If my significant other would let me, I have booked twenty. 981 00:50:10,960 --> 00:50:11,640 Speaker 1: Twenty six two. 982 00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:16,360 Speaker 4: Your significant other needs to take your booking abilities away 983 00:50:16,400 --> 00:50:18,200 Speaker 4: from you now. 984 00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:21,799 Speaker 1: There were five count of five days between when we 985 00:50:21,920 --> 00:50:23,799 Speaker 1: landed back home and when we had to be on 986 00:50:23,840 --> 00:50:27,040 Speaker 1: the cruise ship. Remember that, Sofia, And in that timeframe, 987 00:50:27,080 --> 00:50:30,200 Speaker 1: my significant other and I still had work three of 988 00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:32,799 Speaker 1: those five days. I also had to work nine to 989 00:50:32,800 --> 00:50:36,040 Speaker 1: ten hour days and have about a three hour round 990 00:50:36,080 --> 00:50:37,920 Speaker 1: trip commute to work every day. That is a lot 991 00:50:37,920 --> 00:50:40,160 Speaker 1: of time. That's what I meant when I said that 992 00:50:40,239 --> 00:50:42,600 Speaker 1: we only had about enough time to wash our. 993 00:50:42,480 --> 00:50:43,280 Speaker 2: Clothes and repack. 994 00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:45,800 Speaker 1: We were able to get decent deals on our vacation 995 00:50:45,880 --> 00:50:49,000 Speaker 1: because we booked in advance. Japan cost US around ten 996 00:50:49,080 --> 00:50:52,200 Speaker 1: grand altogether for two weeks, including airfare. We started in 997 00:50:52,239 --> 00:50:54,520 Speaker 1: Tokyo and made our way across the country. We went 998 00:50:54,560 --> 00:50:59,080 Speaker 1: to Kyoto, Takeyama, We went to see Mount Fuji Hiroshima, 999 00:50:59,160 --> 00:51:01,359 Speaker 1: and just so many many awesome things. And for that 1000 00:51:01,640 --> 00:51:03,680 Speaker 1: we hired an excellent travel agent who got us great 1001 00:51:03,719 --> 00:51:05,600 Speaker 1: deals and attractions to tour guides. So I'm waiting for 1002 00:51:05,640 --> 00:51:08,360 Speaker 1: the ad to drop. I'm waiting for this to be marketing. 1003 00:51:08,920 --> 00:51:13,360 Speaker 1: Now onto the sort of update. We have a sort 1004 00:51:13,440 --> 00:51:16,680 Speaker 1: of update, okay, and we know in Opie says there's 1005 00:51:16,719 --> 00:51:19,520 Speaker 1: a real update, real drama. We know how insane that is, right, 1006 00:51:19,560 --> 00:51:22,640 Speaker 1: So I sort of update's gonna be crazy. One person 1007 00:51:22,760 --> 00:51:26,840 Speaker 1: told me that financially they're struggling and couldn't afford a 1008 00:51:26,880 --> 00:51:32,080 Speaker 1: family vacation, and I believe them, So I suggested we 1009 00:51:32,160 --> 00:51:35,040 Speaker 1: go up to where they live this year. Okay, See 1010 00:51:35,040 --> 00:51:38,399 Speaker 1: that saves them from hotel rooms and gas, and then 1011 00:51:38,400 --> 00:51:41,360 Speaker 1: they only have to come up with activities and meals. 1012 00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:44,200 Speaker 1: They agreed and said it was an excellent idea. And 1013 00:51:44,239 --> 00:51:46,680 Speaker 1: then I spoke to the others and they flatly refused 1014 00:51:46,680 --> 00:51:48,840 Speaker 1: the idea the way I wish I had flatly refused 1015 00:51:48,880 --> 00:51:54,000 Speaker 1: to read this episode. They want a cruise. They want 1016 00:51:54,080 --> 00:51:58,800 Speaker 1: a cruise. Their cruises don't work for two of the people. 1017 00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:01,439 Speaker 1: And I told them that it's eating up. It's easy 1018 00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:04,640 Speaker 1: at the at the eleventh hour, it is getting dicey. 1019 00:52:05,040 --> 00:52:08,400 Speaker 1: Their response is that the two poorish people shouldn't dictate 1020 00:52:08,440 --> 00:52:09,800 Speaker 1: the rest your freaking pores. 1021 00:52:10,480 --> 00:52:11,200 Speaker 2: I disagree. 1022 00:52:11,239 --> 00:52:14,319 Speaker 1: I have no issue working around people's finances, so we 1023 00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:19,000 Speaker 1: can include everybody. Since we're at an impass, I will 1024 00:52:19,000 --> 00:52:22,080 Speaker 1: give everyone till January fifteenth to figure the freak out 1025 00:52:22,080 --> 00:52:24,160 Speaker 1: what we're gonna do. And that deadline came and went 1026 00:52:24,200 --> 00:52:28,480 Speaker 1: with no communication. You have an addiction, op, so you 1027 00:52:28,560 --> 00:52:32,720 Speaker 1: want an addiction. What did we do? What did we do? Chat? 1028 00:52:32,920 --> 00:52:37,120 Speaker 1: What did we do? I booked a second vacation for 1029 00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:41,640 Speaker 1: my significant other and I for Christmas. Now we've used 1030 00:52:41,719 --> 00:52:44,160 Speaker 1: up used all of our vacation times and I have 1031 00:52:44,280 --> 00:52:47,279 Speaker 1: nothing left over for the family vacation. I don't care. 1032 00:52:48,680 --> 00:52:55,200 Speaker 2: There's no family vacation. OPI is now are we Did 1033 00:52:55,320 --> 00:52:56,759 Speaker 2: we ever think we'd vacant here? 1034 00:52:57,600 --> 00:53:02,160 Speaker 1: Did we ever imagine we would reach the summit of 1035 00:53:02,280 --> 00:53:02,960 Speaker 1: this mountain? 1036 00:53:03,280 --> 00:53:05,279 Speaker 3: I feel like somehow they're gonna have to try to 1037 00:53:05,320 --> 00:53:08,440 Speaker 3: get on another boat, and it's gonna be forever before that. 1038 00:53:08,480 --> 00:53:11,160 Speaker 2: They're gonna get on the cruise they thought was for them, 1039 00:53:11,239 --> 00:53:11,680 Speaker 2: and then. 1040 00:53:13,080 --> 00:53:16,440 Speaker 5: Cruise or there's gonna be some sort of like home 1041 00:53:16,480 --> 00:53:19,080 Speaker 5: alone type situation where they leave someone behind. 1042 00:53:19,440 --> 00:53:22,239 Speaker 1: Dude, well, in the last two weeks to one who 1043 00:53:22,680 --> 00:53:28,320 Speaker 1: more freaking over listen in the last two weeks to 1044 00:53:28,400 --> 00:53:30,719 Speaker 1: one that flatly refused anything but a cruise, is trying 1045 00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:33,440 Speaker 1: to figure something out. They suggested go into Vegas or 1046 00:53:33,560 --> 00:53:37,399 Speaker 1: Louisiana or Bloxie. I've said each time that they need 1047 00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:39,400 Speaker 1: to speak to the one who told me they couldn't 1048 00:53:39,400 --> 00:53:41,320 Speaker 1: afford it and see if they could do it first. 1049 00:53:41,640 --> 00:53:48,000 Speaker 1: I'm not helping her anything. So that's where we stand now. 1050 00:53:48,200 --> 00:53:50,520 Speaker 1: It does not look promising for a family vacation this 1051 00:53:50,600 --> 00:53:54,479 Speaker 1: year at all, but if it miraculously happens, I will 1052 00:53:54,560 --> 00:53:56,680 Speaker 1: update you guys if you want a new update and 1053 00:53:56,760 --> 00:54:03,960 Speaker 1: guess what, buckle your seat bounce because we have in 1054 00:54:04,760 --> 00:54:09,160 Speaker 1: all caps new update, not a sort of kind of update. 1055 00:54:09,280 --> 00:54:15,480 Speaker 1: Not this is update to update bold bold in a caps. 1056 00:54:15,920 --> 00:54:17,600 Speaker 1: I'm diving right in. Okay. 1057 00:54:19,200 --> 00:54:23,120 Speaker 2: There are six hundred and eighty six. 1058 00:54:23,200 --> 00:54:30,920 Speaker 1: People liars who apparently want to know about my crazy family, 1059 00:54:31,239 --> 00:54:34,520 Speaker 1: So I figured now it's time to give another update. 1060 00:54:35,120 --> 00:54:49,200 Speaker 1: No family got together this year? What what? What? I 1061 00:54:49,280 --> 00:54:52,920 Speaker 1: tried to organize something, but things just didn't work out. 1062 00:54:53,719 --> 00:54:54,200 Speaker 1: Hot take. 1063 00:54:54,400 --> 00:54:58,239 Speaker 3: I don't think your family lied to Ope, absolutely we do. 1064 00:54:58,960 --> 00:55:03,680 Speaker 1: So. Some couldn't afford a Cruz the camp we stayed 1065 00:55:03,719 --> 00:55:04,400 Speaker 1: at last times. 1066 00:55:04,480 --> 00:55:08,400 Speaker 2: But here's in advance. Plus again, money is an. 1067 00:55:08,280 --> 00:55:11,680 Speaker 1: Issue, money, money, money. I looked into casinos because at 1068 00:55:11,680 --> 00:55:13,680 Speaker 1: one time they used to offer cheap hotel rooms and 1069 00:55:13,719 --> 00:55:15,640 Speaker 1: we were close enough to casinos to make that an option. 1070 00:55:15,960 --> 00:55:18,839 Speaker 1: The problem is, though rooms aren't cheap again anymore, and 1071 00:55:18,920 --> 00:55:21,920 Speaker 1: again money slots. 1072 00:55:21,920 --> 00:55:22,359 Speaker 3: It's fun. 1073 00:55:22,680 --> 00:55:25,840 Speaker 1: I suggested we rent rooms in the town where the 1074 00:55:25,840 --> 00:55:28,640 Speaker 1: family that can't afford lives, but that was shot down 1075 00:55:28,680 --> 00:55:30,399 Speaker 1: because some didn't want to freaking go there. 1076 00:55:30,520 --> 00:55:30,960 Speaker 2: And to be. 1077 00:55:30,880 --> 00:55:33,439 Speaker 1: Perfectly honest, I don't blame the ones who shot that down. 1078 00:55:33,560 --> 00:55:36,600 Speaker 1: Who wants to go to Dallas for a vacation. Unnecessary 1079 00:55:36,760 --> 00:55:38,360 Speaker 1: stray caught for Dallas. 1080 00:55:39,280 --> 00:55:43,040 Speaker 3: So Dallas stand up right now, and yes, Dallas stand up, 1081 00:55:43,320 --> 00:55:47,440 Speaker 3: freak up right now and go after op So I 1082 00:55:47,560 --> 00:55:49,160 Speaker 3: gave up on trying to figure things out. 1083 00:55:49,200 --> 00:55:51,359 Speaker 1: Now we have heard before that Opie gave up. 1084 00:55:51,640 --> 00:55:54,160 Speaker 4: I don't believe you. 1085 00:55:53,840 --> 00:55:58,120 Speaker 1: Again, I don't believe shut. Do we believe her or not? 1086 00:55:58,320 --> 00:56:02,080 Speaker 1: Do we believe OPI is telling the truth or not? Okay? 1087 00:56:02,680 --> 00:56:07,080 Speaker 1: The a that's the new poll also comments you guys, 1088 00:56:07,080 --> 00:56:07,760 Speaker 1: you're on YouTube. 1089 00:56:07,800 --> 00:56:09,359 Speaker 2: You're on Spotify too, comment below. 1090 00:56:09,400 --> 00:56:12,720 Speaker 1: Okay, come on, guys, I got several late nights wasted 1091 00:56:12,960 --> 00:56:17,680 Speaker 1: or maybe high on them sleeping things. Texts type of 1092 00:56:17,719 --> 00:56:20,280 Speaker 1: texts from my aunt wanting to know prices for the cruise. 1093 00:56:20,480 --> 00:56:22,480 Speaker 1: After I told you the prices, she quit texting me 1094 00:56:22,520 --> 00:56:25,160 Speaker 1: about it. She stopped. Husband and I leave in a 1095 00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:28,359 Speaker 1: few days for a nice two week vacation degrease. Okay, 1096 00:56:28,400 --> 00:56:30,719 Speaker 1: that sounds fun. And then we come home and we 1097 00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:33,560 Speaker 1: close on a brand new home, and then a few 1098 00:56:33,600 --> 00:56:38,120 Speaker 1: weeks later head off on another vacation in Mexico for Christmas. 1099 00:56:38,680 --> 00:56:42,400 Speaker 1: When we don't have to, when we don't have to 1100 00:56:42,600 --> 00:56:47,600 Speaker 1: finance others vacations lo and behold, we can afford more 1101 00:56:47,719 --> 00:56:48,399 Speaker 1: of our own. 1102 00:56:48,719 --> 00:56:51,040 Speaker 2: Who would have thought that's how that works. 1103 00:56:51,960 --> 00:56:54,359 Speaker 1: They have more money when they don't spend it on 1104 00:56:54,480 --> 00:56:58,560 Speaker 1: freaking useless people sucking. Our new home will be big 1105 00:56:58,640 --> 00:57:02,840 Speaker 1: enough to host my family feature update alert maybe for shadow, 1106 00:57:02,960 --> 00:57:05,120 Speaker 1: but I'm not sure that will happen. We are moving 1107 00:57:05,200 --> 00:57:07,440 Speaker 1: out in the middle of nowhere, but in a neighborhood, 1108 00:57:07,480 --> 00:57:09,160 Speaker 1: and I just don't think I want to subject my 1109 00:57:09,200 --> 00:57:12,920 Speaker 1: neighbors to my karaze a family. My husband is on 1110 00:57:13,000 --> 00:57:14,960 Speaker 1: board with it, he's a saint, but we shall see 1111 00:57:15,000 --> 00:57:21,200 Speaker 1: how things go next year before deciding to host my family. 1112 00:57:21,640 --> 00:57:28,600 Speaker 1: And that and eighty six percent of chat says Opie 1113 00:57:28,640 --> 00:57:33,680 Speaker 1: is the a hole. Does Opie do anything other than 1114 00:57:33,760 --> 00:57:36,400 Speaker 1: go on vacations and complain? No, no. 1115 00:57:36,520 --> 00:57:38,520 Speaker 3: It sound like when they went to Mount Fuji with 1116 00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:40,880 Speaker 3: their husband they had a great time and yeah. 1117 00:57:40,760 --> 00:57:43,440 Speaker 4: And then they forgot that they could just only do that. 1118 00:57:44,000 --> 00:57:48,080 Speaker 5: They could just go on immediate family trips and not 1119 00:57:48,640 --> 00:57:50,760 Speaker 5: extended family cruises. 1120 00:57:50,880 --> 00:57:52,360 Speaker 1: You know what, I think we need to make a 1121 00:57:52,360 --> 00:57:56,560 Speaker 1: new subreddit called our slash. Things that you would expect 1122 00:57:56,560 --> 00:57:58,920 Speaker 1: to happen that actually absolutely happened. 1123 00:57:58,960 --> 00:58:01,120 Speaker 2: The way you expected. Nothing crazy is. 1124 00:58:01,080 --> 00:58:04,520 Speaker 1: Happening, Nothing ever happens at all, but you go insane. 1125 00:58:04,720 --> 00:58:07,760 Speaker 1: But you know what, We're here, We made it so 1126 00:58:07,880 --> 00:58:10,680 Speaker 1: if you love us, make sure to subscribe. We love you. 1127 00:58:13,480 --> 00:58:15,959 Speaker 1: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives. Time 1128 00:58:15,960 --> 00:58:22,880 Speaker 1: for okop re Lam. I'm shaming my filthy sister for 1129 00:58:22,960 --> 00:58:26,080 Speaker 1: the disgrusting act of getting a tattoo. 1130 00:58:26,280 --> 00:58:31,320 Speaker 6: A am I the a hole EO tattoo? All tattoos 1131 00:58:31,440 --> 00:58:35,080 Speaker 6: equal tramp stamps, yes, which equals you a tramp. I 1132 00:58:35,120 --> 00:58:38,880 Speaker 6: actually your boys are definitely not patted up. 1133 00:58:39,200 --> 00:58:41,600 Speaker 1: Dude, I got a tat No, you don't. In my soul, 1134 00:58:42,680 --> 00:58:44,040 Speaker 1: I tricked some guys again. 1135 00:58:45,480 --> 00:58:50,320 Speaker 6: Okay, stupid idiot that I had a god awful tattoo. 1136 00:58:51,720 --> 00:58:54,200 Speaker 1: One day I'll figure something out. We actually give a tattoo. 1137 00:58:54,640 --> 00:58:58,960 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I start like just just like I just 1138 00:58:59,000 --> 00:59:04,320 Speaker 1: need to start drop maybe on the thigh. Maybe it'side 1139 00:59:04,360 --> 00:59:09,720 Speaker 1: the tear drop right where the only want show. Oh god, okay, 1140 00:59:10,240 --> 00:59:13,000 Speaker 1: let's read this story. My sister is twenty eight. I'm 1141 00:59:13,440 --> 00:59:16,840 Speaker 1: twenty six. Mail my siss and has always had a 1142 00:59:16,840 --> 00:59:20,240 Speaker 1: strained relationship with our parents, especially my mom. I am 1143 00:59:20,280 --> 00:59:22,919 Speaker 1: clearly not privy to the reasons, because things are fine 1144 00:59:22,960 --> 00:59:25,040 Speaker 1: with me and my parents. When Enn went to college, 1145 00:59:25,080 --> 00:59:28,120 Speaker 1: she met her creative writing professor as a freshman, and 1146 00:59:28,160 --> 00:59:33,520 Speaker 1: they got close immediately. Ooh oh baby. They would do 1147 00:59:33,720 --> 00:59:38,160 Speaker 1: a lot together and worked closely on a few different 1148 00:59:38,200 --> 00:59:39,240 Speaker 1: writing projects. 1149 00:59:39,400 --> 00:59:44,240 Speaker 6: Oh god, Oh the way you moved that pin. Oh 1150 00:59:44,320 --> 00:59:46,439 Speaker 6: the way you fold that paper you make me want 1151 00:59:46,440 --> 00:59:51,840 Speaker 6: to fold melled me. Baby God, the way you hold punch. 1152 00:59:51,880 --> 00:59:54,240 Speaker 6: I want you to punch my hole with your wiener. 1153 00:59:55,840 --> 00:59:59,080 Speaker 2: Oh dear, this is this is Sam's pillow talk. 1154 00:59:59,320 --> 01:00:02,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yeah. They would do a lot together and 1155 01:00:02,440 --> 01:00:05,640 Speaker 1: work closely on a few different writing projects, and never 1156 01:00:05,720 --> 01:00:08,800 Speaker 1: specifically said this, but it was obvious to anyone who 1157 01:00:08,800 --> 01:00:12,280 Speaker 1: saw them interact that they had a substitute mother daughter 1158 01:00:12,440 --> 01:00:16,800 Speaker 1: type relationship. Okay, so who are we talking about again? 1159 01:00:17,400 --> 01:00:20,920 Speaker 1: So okay, I think we completely misread the signals. I 1160 01:00:20,960 --> 01:00:25,919 Speaker 1: think this is actually like a mother figure. So who 1161 01:00:25,960 --> 01:00:28,840 Speaker 1: are the p two people? It's his sister and his 1162 01:00:28,960 --> 01:00:32,720 Speaker 1: sister's art professor. And how old is each The sister 1163 01:00:33,160 --> 01:00:35,200 Speaker 1: is now twenty. 1164 01:00:34,920 --> 01:00:39,000 Speaker 6: Eight and the art professor is like probably enough to 1165 01:00:39,040 --> 01:00:40,160 Speaker 6: be an art professor. 1166 01:00:40,240 --> 01:00:43,040 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, drop me like one of your French girls. Suck. 1167 01:00:45,640 --> 01:00:50,680 Speaker 1: They were like, we totally misinterpreted it. Yeah, maybe you 1168 01:00:50,720 --> 01:00:55,360 Speaker 1: can't stop us now, the mother daughter relationship, not the 1169 01:00:55,400 --> 01:00:59,000 Speaker 1: other relationship we were thinking it was. That relationship hurt 1170 01:00:59,000 --> 01:01:02,000 Speaker 1: my mom a lot to see. I always thought that 1171 01:01:02,040 --> 01:01:04,600 Speaker 1: she'd grow out of it, or that the professor would 1172 01:01:04,600 --> 01:01:08,040 Speaker 1: move on. But ten years later they're still very close. 1173 01:01:08,080 --> 01:01:10,320 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, I mean this just sounds like sounds 1174 01:01:10,320 --> 01:01:15,760 Speaker 1: like a beautiful friendship, last last of the year friendship. Oh. Now, 1175 01:01:15,760 --> 01:01:18,720 Speaker 1: about a month ago, the professor died unexpectedly in a 1176 01:01:18,800 --> 01:01:21,840 Speaker 1: devastated and oh my gosh, she was really depressed over 1177 01:01:21,880 --> 01:01:24,320 Speaker 1: the holidays, which of course was all in front of 1178 01:01:24,360 --> 01:01:27,360 Speaker 1: my mom, And it was a difficult reminder that and 1179 01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:30,720 Speaker 1: loved the professor as a mother way more than she 1180 01:01:30,920 --> 01:01:34,080 Speaker 1: ever loved my mom as a mother. Oh my, I 1181 01:01:34,120 --> 01:01:36,640 Speaker 1: feel I mean, like I feel like we're extrapolating a lot, 1182 01:01:36,760 --> 01:01:41,000 Speaker 1: Like yeah, like the sister is just just like devastated 1183 01:01:41,040 --> 01:01:44,360 Speaker 1: that this friend of ten years is gone. And then 1184 01:01:44,440 --> 01:01:47,600 Speaker 1: like if the mom is interpreting that as she doesn't 1185 01:01:47,600 --> 01:01:50,080 Speaker 1: love me, that feels kind of like a little fucked up, right, Oh, 1186 01:01:51,040 --> 01:01:53,840 Speaker 1: the brother, Like why is the brother interpreting it? Like, yeah, 1187 01:01:53,840 --> 01:01:56,480 Speaker 1: that's like unless Opie literally directly said to you like 1188 01:01:56,560 --> 01:01:59,200 Speaker 1: I loved her as a mom. I never loved our mom. 1189 01:01:59,320 --> 01:02:01,200 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know. It seems a little bit 1190 01:02:01,200 --> 01:02:03,440 Speaker 1: of a stretch. Yeah, it seems like a big stretch 1191 01:02:03,480 --> 01:02:06,040 Speaker 1: to me. She still talks to my parents and stuff, 1192 01:02:06,040 --> 01:02:08,479 Speaker 1: and they don't fight or anything, but n is very 1193 01:02:08,480 --> 01:02:11,480 Speaker 1: distant and doesn't tell them anything about her life beyond 1194 01:02:11,520 --> 01:02:15,160 Speaker 1: the bare minimum. My mom tried to comfort end, but 1195 01:02:15,440 --> 01:02:21,439 Speaker 1: En was doing her distant thing and didn't want any comfort. Man. 1196 01:02:22,160 --> 01:02:25,400 Speaker 6: I mean, I don't like, you know, some people grieve 1197 01:02:25,400 --> 01:02:27,320 Speaker 6: in different ways. I think let her be, you know. 1198 01:02:27,600 --> 01:02:32,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I think you should let your hate 1199 01:02:32,080 --> 01:02:36,160 Speaker 1: for your mom just like fuel your your your you 1200 01:02:36,240 --> 01:02:38,240 Speaker 1: out of your grief process. Yes, agreed. 1201 01:02:39,800 --> 01:02:43,520 Speaker 6: I am a therapist in please subscribe to John's therapy 1202 01:02:43,560 --> 01:02:44,919 Speaker 6: sessions on betterhelp dot com. 1203 01:02:45,120 --> 01:02:48,000 Speaker 1: No, it's not OnlyFans. I thought it would be a 1204 01:02:48,080 --> 01:02:52,120 Speaker 1: much more appropriate medium to dispense my therapy wisdom and all. Ye, 1205 01:02:55,920 --> 01:02:59,200 Speaker 1: cheek therapy is actually kind of a great that's really 1206 01:02:59,400 --> 01:03:03,240 Speaker 1: I'm saving. I'm gonna buy the domain or something. Fans 1207 01:03:03,280 --> 01:03:07,240 Speaker 1: people cheek therapy or that's a podcast. I don't know. 1208 01:03:07,400 --> 01:03:10,400 Speaker 6: Yeah, the domain were really a wholesome podcast about just 1209 01:03:10,400 --> 01:03:11,360 Speaker 6: making people smile. 1210 01:03:11,760 --> 01:03:18,120 Speaker 1: Now we're talking, No, we're talking, Okay. Now, Something unfortunately 1211 01:03:18,120 --> 01:03:19,920 Speaker 1: that happened to end is that when she got the 1212 01:03:19,920 --> 01:03:23,480 Speaker 1: call that her professor had passed away, she was brewing 1213 01:03:23,520 --> 01:03:25,920 Speaker 1: tea and in shock of the news, she spilled the 1214 01:03:25,920 --> 01:03:29,200 Speaker 1: boiling water on her arm, which burned her kind of 1215 01:03:29,280 --> 01:03:33,040 Speaker 1: badly on her wrist. I think the burn was on 1216 01:03:33,120 --> 01:03:36,720 Speaker 1: borderline second or third degree burn. Wow, and definitely still 1217 01:03:36,760 --> 01:03:40,000 Speaker 1: looked pretty rough during the holidays, and said it was 1218 01:03:40,120 --> 01:03:42,840 Speaker 1: especially hard because, in addition to the physical pain, every 1219 01:03:42,840 --> 01:03:45,800 Speaker 1: time she looks at it physical reminder you reminded her 1220 01:03:45,880 --> 01:03:48,400 Speaker 1: of the moment she found out the professor died, which 1221 01:03:48,440 --> 01:03:51,720 Speaker 1: I totally get. Oh gosh, yeah, I was on FaceTime 1222 01:03:51,760 --> 01:03:55,080 Speaker 1: with n and she said that she talked to her 1223 01:03:55,400 --> 01:03:57,800 Speaker 1: tattoo artist friend, who said that the burn should be 1224 01:03:57,800 --> 01:04:00,320 Speaker 1: able to heal well enough to get a tattoo to 1225 01:04:00,360 --> 01:04:02,480 Speaker 1: cover it. Oh, that's kind of cool. I hope so, 1226 01:04:02,600 --> 01:04:05,400 Speaker 1: I mean, hopefully that doesn't hurt a lot, but. 1227 01:04:05,760 --> 01:04:08,680 Speaker 6: Well, I mean scar but it will eventually, they keel 1228 01:04:08,920 --> 01:04:11,400 Speaker 6: that's true. I'd be a little sensitive though, who knows. 1229 01:04:11,400 --> 01:04:12,400 Speaker 6: I have no tattoos. 1230 01:04:12,600 --> 01:04:17,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, do you, Why are you? Why are you gatekeeping tattoos? 1231 01:04:17,560 --> 01:04:22,400 Speaker 1: I'm sorry all of my tattoo themed intrusive thoughts are 1232 01:04:22,520 --> 01:04:26,120 Speaker 1: being gas lit right now. I feel like we're using 1233 01:04:26,160 --> 01:04:28,920 Speaker 1: all like the gen Z buzzers, all the terms until 1234 01:04:28,920 --> 01:04:33,200 Speaker 1: they're until they're And then excitedly told me about her 1235 01:04:33,200 --> 01:04:35,720 Speaker 1: tattoo idea, which is a type of flower that the 1236 01:04:35,760 --> 01:04:39,000 Speaker 1: professor gave her a bouquet of for her undergrad graduation. 1237 01:04:39,360 --> 01:04:42,560 Speaker 1: That is like the sweetest bos are so nice thing ever, 1238 01:04:42,720 --> 01:04:45,560 Speaker 1: that is the sweetest thing ever. My mom was so 1239 01:04:45,800 --> 01:04:50,480 Speaker 1: embarrassed that day because, oh because she didn't get en 1240 01:04:50,680 --> 01:04:54,360 Speaker 1: any flowers, but the professor did, and N was parading 1241 01:04:54,480 --> 01:04:56,880 Speaker 1: around with them so happy, and it was a reminder 1242 01:04:56,960 --> 01:05:00,360 Speaker 1: of their connection. I guess N and the professor change 1243 01:05:00,400 --> 01:05:03,480 Speaker 1: these flowers for every special occasion like birthdays, et cetera. 1244 01:05:04,280 --> 01:05:06,760 Speaker 6: It just sounds like this just sounds I feel like 1245 01:05:06,840 --> 01:05:09,880 Speaker 6: Op's trying to model this relationship is like bad. It 1246 01:05:10,000 --> 01:05:13,160 Speaker 6: just sounds like such a good friendship. Yeah yeah, and 1247 01:05:13,280 --> 01:05:15,760 Speaker 6: like you know, it's on you if you don't get 1248 01:05:15,840 --> 01:05:16,840 Speaker 6: flowers for your kid. 1249 01:05:17,160 --> 01:05:21,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. Sorry, So now she wants to get a 1250 01:05:21,160 --> 01:05:24,160 Speaker 1: decent sized tattoo and a highly visible spot that will 1251 01:05:24,200 --> 01:05:25,760 Speaker 1: remind everyone of the professor. 1252 01:05:26,640 --> 01:05:29,200 Speaker 6: I told En, do remind every one of the professor. 1253 01:05:29,280 --> 01:05:31,440 Speaker 6: It's just it's freaking flowers. 1254 01:05:31,520 --> 01:05:35,240 Speaker 1: You thought that sentence was give you a response. I 1255 01:05:35,320 --> 01:05:37,880 Speaker 1: told En that it seemed really cruel to my mom, 1256 01:05:38,000 --> 01:05:41,680 Speaker 1: who already felt cast aside and like she's in exile 1257 01:05:41,760 --> 01:05:42,160 Speaker 1: from N. 1258 01:05:43,080 --> 01:05:45,280 Speaker 2: So no tattoo not allowed. 1259 01:05:45,440 --> 01:05:50,320 Speaker 1: That's ridiculous, and that's without the constant, permanent reminder. N 1260 01:05:50,440 --> 01:05:53,160 Speaker 1: kind of scoffed and said, I can't believe you think 1261 01:05:53,240 --> 01:05:55,280 Speaker 1: you have the right to tell me not to do this, 1262 01:05:56,720 --> 01:05:59,480 Speaker 1: which is correct. She called me an ascid hung up 1263 01:05:59,480 --> 01:06:01,280 Speaker 1: and it is still an not talking to me except 1264 01:06:01,280 --> 01:06:04,560 Speaker 1: for a very brief text saying congrats for promotion that 1265 01:06:04,680 --> 01:06:08,000 Speaker 1: I just got. My parents aren't commenting. My dad said 1266 01:06:08,000 --> 01:06:11,040 Speaker 1: I should have just kept quiet, even though he agrees, 1267 01:06:11,360 --> 01:06:14,120 Speaker 1: and my mom made no comment but seemed grateful that 1268 01:06:14,160 --> 01:06:16,000 Speaker 1: I stood up for her. I feel like I was 1269 01:06:16,040 --> 01:06:18,440 Speaker 1: just being protective of my mom, because you know, I'm 1270 01:06:18,760 --> 01:06:21,480 Speaker 1: a mom's boy trying to protect her out here. But 1271 01:06:22,200 --> 01:06:24,160 Speaker 1: am I a yes, bro? 1272 01:06:24,280 --> 01:06:28,120 Speaker 6: It's like so obvious, sud My god, how could you 1273 01:06:28,160 --> 01:06:31,600 Speaker 6: be so blind to like this is is this a 1274 01:06:31,600 --> 01:06:35,000 Speaker 6: listener submission. This is not a listener I wish to 1275 01:06:35,600 --> 01:06:40,280 Speaker 6: ganitize them. Yeah, this is like, this is I mean, one, 1276 01:06:40,920 --> 01:06:43,960 Speaker 6: the sister just had a beautiful relationship with someone, like 1277 01:06:44,000 --> 01:06:47,440 Speaker 6: a beautiful friendship. And yeah, I know maybe the mother 1278 01:06:47,520 --> 01:06:49,840 Speaker 6: and her weren't that close, but just because like. 1279 01:06:50,480 --> 01:06:51,560 Speaker 1: It doesn't mean anything. 1280 01:06:51,720 --> 01:06:55,320 Speaker 6: Yeah yeah, yeah, I mean, like the relationship is always 1281 01:06:55,440 --> 01:06:58,440 Speaker 6: varying closeness. It doesn't matter if it's blood related or 1282 01:06:58,960 --> 01:07:02,000 Speaker 6: a friendship. It's just based on like shared experience and 1283 01:07:02,360 --> 01:07:06,640 Speaker 6: just personality. So OPI's being ridiculous. 1284 01:07:06,000 --> 01:07:11,560 Speaker 1: Dude, It's it's painful, how fucking blind Op is to 1285 01:07:11,720 --> 01:07:14,920 Speaker 1: like this, this whole situation. Let her get the tattoo, 1286 01:07:15,040 --> 01:07:18,000 Speaker 1: good gravy. But and you know what else people should get, Sam. 1287 01:07:17,680 --> 01:07:23,480 Speaker 6: A sub subscription subscription to our slash Okop show. 1288 01:07:24,280 --> 01:07:26,920 Speaker 1: So they can submit their stories. Of course, Yeah, submit 1289 01:07:26,920 --> 01:07:29,120 Speaker 1: your stories our slash Okop show so we can read them. 1290 01:07:29,240 --> 01:07:31,360 Speaker 1: Sennim in a baby Would. 1291 01:07:31,120 --> 01:07:32,600 Speaker 6: I be the a hole if I got my family 1292 01:07:32,600 --> 01:07:35,440 Speaker 6: friend fired for telling my mom that. 1293 01:07:35,440 --> 01:07:38,680 Speaker 1: I was pregnant. That's a situation. That's a situation and 1294 01:07:38,720 --> 01:07:43,680 Speaker 1: a situation. No, not talking, Jim Tan Laundry, Jersey Shore. 1295 01:07:44,440 --> 01:07:47,800 Speaker 6: I twenty female, recently found out I'm pregnant, which came 1296 01:07:47,920 --> 01:07:50,160 Speaker 6: as a surprise because I'm on birth control. I made 1297 01:07:50,200 --> 01:07:52,520 Speaker 6: an appointment with an ob that's close to me with 1298 01:07:52,640 --> 01:07:55,760 Speaker 6: high ratings to confirm the pregnancy, and when I walked in, 1299 01:07:56,160 --> 01:07:59,080 Speaker 6: I was immediately concerned because the woman behind the desk 1300 01:07:59,440 --> 01:08:01,840 Speaker 6: is a friend of my mom's, which is like concerning 1301 01:08:01,840 --> 01:08:03,400 Speaker 6: because like, what if you don't want to keep the baby? 1302 01:08:03,480 --> 01:08:05,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, and if you're. 1303 01:08:05,120 --> 01:08:08,840 Speaker 6: In a conservative state, like they're not super close. I 1304 01:08:08,880 --> 01:08:11,439 Speaker 6: hadn't seen her in years, but they've known each other 1305 01:08:11,480 --> 01:08:13,720 Speaker 6: since high school, and I know they sort of keep 1306 01:08:13,720 --> 01:08:16,320 Speaker 6: in touch. I didn't feel ready to tell anyone other 1307 01:08:16,360 --> 01:08:19,400 Speaker 6: than my boyfriend and obviously doctor about the baby, so 1308 01:08:19,520 --> 01:08:21,560 Speaker 6: I was freaking out a little bit. But my boyfriend 1309 01:08:21,640 --> 01:08:23,880 Speaker 6: assured me that she wouldn't be able to say anything 1310 01:08:23,920 --> 01:08:26,960 Speaker 6: to my mom about the baby without my consent, which 1311 01:08:26,960 --> 01:08:28,560 Speaker 6: is like you know, doctor patient. 1312 01:08:28,240 --> 01:08:30,200 Speaker 1: Privilege, right right? That makes sense? That makes sense? 1313 01:08:30,240 --> 01:08:33,519 Speaker 6: Yeah, and especially again especially in you know states like 1314 01:08:33,520 --> 01:08:36,759 Speaker 6: like Texas where abortion laws are really. 1315 01:08:36,640 --> 01:08:38,519 Speaker 1: Not on a billboard, not on a billboard. 1316 01:08:38,520 --> 01:08:40,840 Speaker 6: When I got home, my mom was waiting for me 1317 01:08:40,960 --> 01:08:44,719 Speaker 6: because she already knew about the baby. Apparently her friend 1318 01:08:44,760 --> 01:08:47,680 Speaker 6: had texted to congratulate her before I could even make 1319 01:08:47,720 --> 01:08:48,440 Speaker 6: it home. 1320 01:08:49,160 --> 01:08:51,879 Speaker 1: So she didn't even like think she was like ratting 1321 01:08:51,920 --> 01:08:54,559 Speaker 1: on her. Yeah, she was like, oh, congrats on the 1322 01:08:54,600 --> 01:08:55,160 Speaker 1: new baby. 1323 01:08:55,240 --> 01:08:58,519 Speaker 6: Apparently her friend had texted to congratulate her before I 1324 01:08:58,520 --> 01:09:01,280 Speaker 6: could even make it home. Everything is going to be okay, 1325 01:09:01,520 --> 01:09:04,599 Speaker 6: and my mom is being supportive. But honestly, I am 1326 01:09:04,760 --> 01:09:07,439 Speaker 6: pissed at this lady and I want to report her 1327 01:09:07,520 --> 01:09:10,639 Speaker 6: to the ob Yeah, my family is supportive of the baby, 1328 01:09:10,880 --> 01:09:13,000 Speaker 6: but if she had opened her big mouth to someone 1329 01:09:13,000 --> 01:09:15,760 Speaker 6: with a different kind of family, the outcome could have 1330 01:09:15,840 --> 01:09:16,880 Speaker 6: been really bad. 1331 01:09:17,360 --> 01:09:17,719 Speaker 1: True. 1332 01:09:18,000 --> 01:09:20,320 Speaker 6: My boyfriend agrees with me but thinks it's kind of 1333 01:09:20,400 --> 01:09:22,920 Speaker 6: caron ish. And on the other hand, my mom thinks 1334 01:09:22,920 --> 01:09:25,639 Speaker 6: her friend crossed a few lines. But to report her 1335 01:09:25,800 --> 01:09:28,320 Speaker 6: and potentially put her employment at risk would be a 1336 01:09:28,320 --> 01:09:31,400 Speaker 6: pretty ahole move. I think my mom's friend is an 1337 01:09:31,400 --> 01:09:34,000 Speaker 6: a hole and a potentially dangerous one at that. Would 1338 01:09:34,040 --> 01:09:36,599 Speaker 6: I be the a hole for reporting her big mouth 1339 01:09:36,880 --> 01:09:37,679 Speaker 6: to her employer? 1340 01:09:39,080 --> 01:09:42,080 Speaker 1: Wow, that's it. Honestly for me, this is a tough one. 1341 01:09:42,160 --> 01:09:43,880 Speaker 6: Yeah, it is tough. It is tough because like a 1342 01:09:43,920 --> 01:09:46,120 Speaker 6: family friend and nothing bad happened. 1343 01:09:46,200 --> 01:09:49,960 Speaker 1: Nothing bad happened. What if it was someone else? I 1344 01:09:49,960 --> 01:09:53,280 Speaker 1: I just don't like the fact of, like, even though 1345 01:09:53,320 --> 01:09:56,000 Speaker 1: she had the purest of intentions, I don't like the 1346 01:09:56,040 --> 01:10:00,840 Speaker 1: fact that it's like a medical professional telling other people like. 1347 01:10:00,840 --> 01:10:04,080 Speaker 6: My, yeah, that's something supposed to be confidential. That's a 1348 01:10:04,120 --> 01:10:10,000 Speaker 6: breach of patient you know, doctor confidentiality, definitely, And if 1349 01:10:10,160 --> 01:10:12,439 Speaker 6: you're one of your employees, is doing that, like as 1350 01:10:12,479 --> 01:10:15,839 Speaker 6: a doctor, I would want to know. But the confusing 1351 01:10:15,880 --> 01:10:18,760 Speaker 6: part is it's a family friend and like, nothing bad 1352 01:10:18,840 --> 01:10:23,680 Speaker 6: happened to you. Yeah, but it's also like, you know, 1353 01:10:23,720 --> 01:10:25,560 Speaker 6: you're probably gonna make things really uncomfortable. 1354 01:10:26,200 --> 01:10:28,960 Speaker 1: Oh for sure, I mean yeah, I mean it'll be 1355 01:10:28,960 --> 01:10:30,880 Speaker 1: it'll be on. It doesn't sound like they're super close 1356 01:10:30,960 --> 01:10:34,160 Speaker 1: or anything, but like but still, yeah, it won't be 1357 01:10:34,160 --> 01:10:35,880 Speaker 1: responsible for anyone getting fired. 1358 01:10:35,960 --> 01:10:38,519 Speaker 6: Is no, not like a fun thing to do, unless 1359 01:10:38,600 --> 01:10:40,639 Speaker 6: unless you're a Karen and you love that kind of stuff. 1360 01:10:42,720 --> 01:10:47,240 Speaker 1: Live that well, So what what would you say, dude? 1361 01:10:47,280 --> 01:10:50,800 Speaker 1: That's so hard? Honestly I would be Initially, I would 1362 01:10:50,800 --> 01:10:54,600 Speaker 1: be pissed. I would be super pissed, and maybe in 1363 01:10:54,680 --> 01:10:56,920 Speaker 1: that moment I just like pull the trigger and and 1364 01:10:57,560 --> 01:10:59,880 Speaker 1: call them and tell them, but maybe not. I don't know. 1365 01:11:00,000 --> 01:11:01,760 Speaker 1: I would have to I would have to sit on it. 1366 01:11:01,800 --> 01:11:04,160 Speaker 1: But honestly I could I could see my decision. I 1367 01:11:04,160 --> 01:11:05,280 Speaker 1: could see myself doing it. 1368 01:11:05,800 --> 01:11:09,760 Speaker 6: See, like my rationale is, you know what, It didn't 1369 01:11:09,840 --> 01:11:14,800 Speaker 6: hurt me, right, yeah, yeah, but but it could hurt 1370 01:11:14,840 --> 01:11:18,120 Speaker 6: someone else. So in the interest of the greater good 1371 01:11:18,479 --> 01:11:21,120 Speaker 6: and of that person that really could have their life 1372 01:11:21,400 --> 01:11:26,960 Speaker 6: messed up by something like this, she should, uh, she 1373 01:11:26,960 --> 01:11:29,960 Speaker 6: should be talked to, But I don't think it necessarily 1374 01:11:30,000 --> 01:11:34,160 Speaker 6: goes through talking to the employer. I think she could 1375 01:11:34,680 --> 01:11:37,280 Speaker 6: give like a warning or a talk directly to that 1376 01:11:37,439 --> 01:11:40,439 Speaker 6: family friend. That's a responsible thing. Hey, this was not 1377 01:11:40,520 --> 01:11:43,800 Speaker 6: okay for you to do. Luckily, my parents are supportive, 1378 01:11:43,880 --> 01:11:47,040 Speaker 6: but if you do this again, you could get fired. 1379 01:11:47,760 --> 01:11:51,160 Speaker 6: H and you know, look out for your best look 1380 01:11:51,160 --> 01:11:53,280 Speaker 6: out for your self interest but also the self interest, 1381 01:11:53,640 --> 01:11:57,280 Speaker 6: but but also the interests of the patients. And I 1382 01:11:57,280 --> 01:12:03,000 Speaker 6: think that would actually be as good of a preventive 1383 01:12:03,040 --> 01:12:04,919 Speaker 6: measure as calling the employer. 1384 01:12:05,040 --> 01:12:06,760 Speaker 1: That's the mature thing to do. Or you could just 1385 01:12:06,880 --> 01:12:11,320 Speaker 1: blow up her gorgeous bay them. Yeah that's a story. 1386 01:12:11,920 --> 01:12:14,639 Speaker 6: But if you want to make sure you don't blow 1387 01:12:14,720 --> 01:12:17,599 Speaker 6: up this great relationship we have with you to listen there. 1388 01:12:17,960 --> 01:12:20,519 Speaker 1: What should they do, John, Guys, give us a follow 1389 01:12:20,960 --> 01:12:25,040 Speaker 1: wherever you wherever you're consuming this right now, just click it. 1390 01:12:25,680 --> 01:12:28,600 Speaker 6: And you know, subscribe, have a few laughs, you know, 1391 01:12:28,720 --> 01:12:29,719 Speaker 6: stick around for a while. 1392 01:12:29,760 --> 01:12:31,000 Speaker 1: That's okay, Op,