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Speaker 1: What's the one thing you would never want your neighbor

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Speaker 1: actually recycle all of your glass bottles. Sometimes you let

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Speaker 1: your dog pee in their yards. Or that large hole

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Speaker 1: a new tree. Don't look well. Listeners caught his neighbor

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Speaker 1: doing something that's making him feel very uncomfortable. It's actually

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Speaker 1: happened multiple times, and he feels like he has to

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Speaker 1: tell them. But this is a conversation that's definitely text

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Speaker 1: worthy and not something you'd ever want to actually say

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Speaker 1: to them in person. You're gonna hear it in a

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Speaker 1: brand new textual Healing coming up right after this.

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Speaker 2: Text.

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Speaker 1: You will he then textual. Do you have any important

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Speaker 1: text to send but aren't quite sure what to say?

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Speaker 1: In the past, Microsoft words, Clippy would pop up on

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Speaker 1: Can I help my gosh, Clippy?

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Speaker 3: I don't think Clippy was around when we were sending

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Speaker 1: Well, Clippy is long long dead. Yeah, he can't help

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Speaker 1: you anymore. And you certainly can't trust your friends because

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Speaker 1: they'll just gossip about it. Behind your back. So all

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Speaker 1: that's left is your radio. Fam that's right. We are

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Speaker 1: paid a very very small salary to help strangers with

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Speaker 3: Waits about it behind their back.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, we are, we're friends. Yeah. So today we

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Speaker 1: have a guy who is in a tough spot and

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Speaker 1: has turned to us for help. His name is Jimmy. Jimmy,

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Speaker 1: welcome to Textual Healing.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for the help.

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Speaker 3: Okay, well I wouldn't say that right off the bat. Jimmy,

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Speaker 3: You don't know what kind of help I'm going.

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Speaker 2: To get better than anything I'm getting. Now, this is

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, like that, Jimmy, alls, what's going on? Why'd

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Speaker 2: Here's what's going on. My next door neighbor name's Hannah.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure she's I don't really know it. She seems

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Speaker 4: Okay, so you're in your office. Is this an apartment building?

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Speaker 4: I'm just trying to picture here.

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Speaker 2: No, I live in a nice little two story house.

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Speaker 1: Okay, how many bedrooms and how many baths?

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Speaker 3: I need to know? How far away this neighbor is.

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Speaker 1: Is it Victorian star? It's a house with a window,

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Speaker 2: Can see into her yard. And several times she's just

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Speaker 2: been laying out there sunbathing. But she's been laying out

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Speaker 1: And what are you wearing when you're inside the.

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Speaker 1: I know, but I mean, yeah, that's why you don't

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Speaker 3: Do you feel creepy when you see this?

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Speaker 2: I bet I feel very creepy. Yeah, I look. The

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Speaker 2: The first time I look, I lingered for a couple

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, dude. If it was my neighbor, I'd

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Speaker 2: Go, and here's the thing. It's not like it's our

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Speaker 3: Do you think she doesn't realize that.

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Speaker 2: We all have bushes, you know, look pretty high. Some

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Speaker 2: Oh God, that's so hard to say. Yeah. I mean

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Speaker 4: We don't know what do you know about her? Like

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Speaker 2: There's really no relationship at all. I know that she's married.

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Speaker 3: Okay, and yeah, we know she obviously hates tamlines.

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Speaker 2: I say, it's pretty even when it comes between me

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Speaker 1: Yeah, bro, that's not where you're It sounds like you

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Speaker 3: I mean if you when you text her, is she

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Speaker 2: I got her number from the HOA, the contact with

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Speaker 2: I actually don't know. Here's the thing. I don't know

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Speaker 3: Can you stay anonymous?

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Speaker 2: That's even crippier's creepier if I stayed anonymous.

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Speaker 1: Let's go around the room really quick and get ideas.

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Speaker 1: Alexis will start with you. What does he send?

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Speaker 1: I'm your neighbor and I see you naked. Okay, that's

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Speaker 4: Alexis or I think you say, hey, it's Jimmy. We

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Speaker 1: So basically what Alexis said, but really long winded. What

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Speaker 1: Okay, but what do we use in a corner or embarrassed?

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Speaker 3: Maybe we put those bug eye emoji.

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Speaker 1: I was going all emojis where it's like, I am emoji,

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Speaker 3: I don't think she would be mad at you. I

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Speaker 1: So we threw a lot of ideas at you there, Jimmy,

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Speaker 1: which one do you want to go with?

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Speaker 2: Younger, we would definitely go with the all emoji decide.

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Speaker 1: You want to do all emojis.

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Speaker 2: No, if I was a younger, earlier man.

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Speaker 3: She would text back, she would be like, what is this?

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Speaker 2: I think you get it, but I think I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: All right, So go ahead, and tell us what you're writing.

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Speaker 2: I'm just saying, Hi, this is your next door neighbor, Jimmy,

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Speaker 4: Topless okay and okay finger emotion, don't put topless in there,

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Speaker 4: just sunbathing, sunba.

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Speaker 2: Call good call right, we can see you sunbathing.

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Speaker 1: And three thumbs up emojis.

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Speaker 2: I just believe it. No, I just deleted the word topless. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 2: I am.

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Speaker 3: Kay.

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Speaker 1: We're just alerting her that that she's being seen, so

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Speaker 1: alert her that you can see her topless in her

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Speaker 1: spotted his next door neighbor sunbathing multiple times in her

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Speaker 4: Boy, and I gotta say, we got to give him

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Speaker 3: Like some gross guy. So I really actually appreciate that.

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Speaker 1: Don't just say gross guy, you would do it too Brook,

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Speaker 3: And they got kids are building treehouses all around your

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Speaker 1: Thing is, it's awkward because he doesn't really know her

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Speaker 3: Well, and he knows for sure she's married, right.

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Speaker 2: Okay? She well, okay, here's the thing, what yea?

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Speaker 3: Why are you so stressed out?

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Speaker 2: Well, here's the thing. Okay, I got a response. The

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Speaker 3: Oh god, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I think if a g I read that text, he

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he was not happy. I didn't get a lot

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Speaker 1: Of swearing from the husband.

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Speaker 2: From the husband, and you know he's serious because there

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Speaker 3: You know, wait, what what can you read of his response?

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Speaker 3: Can you read any of it?

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Speaker 2: What do you mean? You? And then this, you know,

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Speaker 2: a couple of words.

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Speaker 1: That wonderful, helpful neighbor?

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Speaker 2: Is that not the last text is she shouldn't be

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Speaker 2: showing it all. Here's her numbers? You tell her what? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: he gave me her number.

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Speaker 3: That's weird.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe he wants to Oh my god, like he's like,

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Speaker 1: she shouldn't be doing that, like in their own backyard.

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Speaker 3: Why wouldn't he just deal with that relationship.

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Speaker 1: Maybe that's not the first text that he's gotten like

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Speaker 3: Didn't think he's like pastor complaints to her. Okay, it's

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I listen, I already texted. I just texted her

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Speaker 4: I said the first in any information about how you

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Speaker 1: Thank you if you would have said I talked to

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I could cause it fight.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Oh god, okay, so now we're still Oh geez,

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Speaker 3: Don't know, Maybe that the husband is just really mad

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Speaker 1: Sounds like it's bugging him. I want to know.

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Speaker 2: Hold on, I just I just got a response. I'll

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Speaker 2: Let me just open end.

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Speaker 1: And the wife responded, she.

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Speaker 2: Just responded, are you the one with the binoculars?

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Speaker 1: Oh, oh my gods. Okay, this is the time you

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Speaker 2: No. No, let's get that out of the way. I didn't.

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Speaker 3: Why are you so much? This should be a very

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Speaker 2: No, I'm not looking at her with binoculars.

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Speaker 1: Okay, is it a telescope that you're using? What device No, no,

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Speaker 1: I mean, no, yeah, yeah, that's the truth. This doesn't

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Speaker 4: I think you need to say No, that's horrifying. I

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Speaker 2: I like that. I don't like the horrifying part.

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Speaker 1: Boobs are harassing our neighborhood. It makes it sound like

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Speaker 3: I don't think. I didn't take it that way.

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Speaker 1: Well, it's not you that he's texting, and.

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Speaker 3: We know that isn't me, not even OMG.

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Speaker 2: Here's the thing, I don't anything like that. I don't

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Speaker 1: I'm I mean, I think you should at least explain.

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Speaker 1: I'm just trying to warn you into other people.

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Speaker 2: Trying to be Okay, No, that wasn't me. I just

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Speaker 1: Sure, if you want to get it simple like that,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think as simple as possible I just want

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Speaker 1: You know, I think it doesn't make sense, alexis what

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Speaker 3: That's the end of it. You're gonna let her know

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Speaker 3: what's going on. What's going on? You didn't say anything?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well no, no, no, no, I just want to

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Speaker 2: know that people can see it. That's it. There's no

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Speaker 2: need to He's just going back and forth. I'm just

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Speaker 3: Why are you so defensive?

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Speaker 1: Okay? You seem really like amped up and stressed out

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Speaker 2: Is it what I couldn't expect to have to deal with?

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Speaker 2: The husband? And this was the whole thing with the

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Speaker 1: You don't deal with drama, No, not at all.

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Speaker 2: Got it? You know, I worked for for a rea.

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Speaker 3: The husband back and say I'm so sorry or something, right.

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Speaker 2: I could, but now it's like you want me to

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Speaker 2: text two people and I just want to get.

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Speaker 3: Okay, all the answers. You're gonna have to sell your

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Speaker 1: You're gonna be the most hated person in the neighborhood

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Speaker 1: I just was trying to warn you that I could

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Speaker 2: Okay, let's go with uh, with or.

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Speaker 1: Without binoculars, I can see Yeah, I'm close.

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Speaker 2: Enough, right, Okay, So the response to are you the

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Speaker 2: I just wanted you to know what was going on, Okay.

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Speaker 1: I mean I wasn't really our suggest but telling you.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to leave it open for like a

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Speaker 2: back and forth conversation. Okay, I just wanted you to know.

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Speaker 2: Just sound where I'm gonna have to go back and forth.

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Speaker 1: Stop talking, start hitting send on your text message.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm gonna do that right now.

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Speaker 1: Let me just it's more more words.

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Speaker 3: Isn't going to end well?

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Speaker 1: I feel like even if she was like for letting

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Speaker 2: The guy was like, thank you, okay, I just sent it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, thank god.

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Speaker 3: This is just such a simple situation.

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Speaker 2: It was definitely wasn't in the beginning. And then you know,

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Speaker 1: You know, you got to pay more attention when you're

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Speaker 3: That's why you need to know your neighbors.

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Speaker 2: No, I was. It's got to be a mistake on

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Speaker 4: I'm going to tell you you're talking is not going

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Speaker 1: It's actually better that we're doing this overtext.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, she does. She's typing a responsett.

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Speaker 2: What was that? Was I supposed to do that?

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Speaker 1: You were supposed to.

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Speaker 2: Okay, here's a response?

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Speaker 1: Oh god?

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Speaker 2: What this is? Her response is? What if I said

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Speaker 2: I wanted you to see me smirk emoji?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're getting beat up by us?

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Speaker 2: Oh this yeah, this is great. Now I really do

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Speaker 4: Okay, well, just just right back and say I'm not

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Speaker 3: Leave it, Blake. Let her guess what you are into.

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Speaker 2: It's obviously no, I don't want to leave anything guesting.

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Speaker 2: Should I just say? I think it would be maybe easy

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Speaker 2: to just say no, thank you and then just block

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Speaker 2: their number, block her.

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Speaker 3: You have to live her?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe do a bikini emoji and then a thumb's

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Speaker 3: Oh god, I'm terrible. I think I'm not into That

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Speaker 3: is probably good.

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean it's that's the way to let her

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Speaker 4: You said, I said horrific view or something like that,

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Speaker 4: and you were worried about it.

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Speaker 1: Before I realized she was going to be really into

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Speaker 2: I mean, now that I think about it, I don't

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Speaker 2: know blocking her is a good idea because she's right

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Speaker 1: You can't block her you live next The only way

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Speaker 1: this could be worse is if the husband texted you saying,

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Speaker 1: what's wrong with you? Are you not into her?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? You guys. I just I don't want to be

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Speaker 3: It is strange that the husband told him.

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Speaker 2: I was just trying to be a good neighbor. And

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Speaker 3: You're their house.

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Speaker 4: I know they're going to bet with just the three

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Speaker 1: All right, but at least it sounds like we helped

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Speaker 3: You don't have to feel bad if you look because parents.

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Speaker 1: She wants you to. You can go ahead and get

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