WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: The Apple Debate

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<v Speaker 1>From Hollywood. See you. Thank you for listening to us

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<v Speaker 1>on air with Ryan Seacrest. Would you not want to know?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just listening to lyrics. Would you not want to know?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Would I not want to know? But

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<v Speaker 1>let it still go on? Oh? I would want to know?

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<v Speaker 1>All of it's so painful. What's the problem with relationships?

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<v Speaker 1>The pain? Yeah? That's sometimes I don't get into him.

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<v Speaker 1>I know you're always waiting for the shoe to drop?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you like that too? I am like that? Yeah, really,

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<v Speaker 1>which is a real problem. Can you ask your therapist

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<v Speaker 1>tiny about that for me? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, I can

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<v Speaker 1>help you, actually, because I've talked to her about it

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<v Speaker 1>at NAZA. Why is that they were always waiting for something?

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody can be like that, even if you're children that

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<v Speaker 1>you can constantly be waiting for the shoe to drop.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's not the way to live your life. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not living my life like that. I'm not waiting for

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<v Speaker 1>the shoot drop. Well, yeah, they should not live like that.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not waiting for Robbie to you like that through

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<v Speaker 1>more heartbreak than you have. Yes, I think that when

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<v Speaker 1>you are hurt time and time again, you know that

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<v Speaker 1>of relationships that you're just hurt, and so you kind

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<v Speaker 1>of live in this pattern space of like waiting for

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<v Speaker 1>that hurt to happen, and you don't get into them

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<v Speaker 1>because you know how bad the pain is, so you

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<v Speaker 1>push them off that way. So it's not necessarily that

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<v Speaker 1>you think Robbie is gonna hurt you. You just think

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<v Speaker 1>the hurt is going to happen. Now somehow it's the

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<v Speaker 1>worst way to live. I'm much better. I'm much much

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<v Speaker 1>better now. But like when I first started therapy, that

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<v Speaker 1>was like one of my big things. You feel it,

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<v Speaker 1>like what guid do. I know it's gonna sound cliche

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<v Speaker 1>and everybody says it, but being says it. But being present,

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<v Speaker 1>being like living in the day to day, in the

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<v Speaker 1>moment of the relationship. And also, um, I have a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of that mental like I was a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit in that headspace of nothing good lasts forever, like

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<v Speaker 1>everything good cup must come to an end. So dark,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, and I had to really get myself out

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<v Speaker 1>of it. But you don't portray that like to us

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<v Speaker 1>or like you what we see like on Instagram you

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<v Speaker 1>seem so happy. Well I am happy, I am super happy,

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<v Speaker 1>But you don't you didn't say that, just now, Well

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<v Speaker 1>you can be both things. They can coexist. What happiness

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<v Speaker 1>and unhappiness? No happiness and like fear fear. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of fluctuates, like a lot of fluidity. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of fluidity, and it's all rooted in fear

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<v Speaker 1>and like not living in faith, it's all rooted in pain.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I guess, yeah, I guess I can separate, like

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<v Speaker 1>because as a parent, like I'm happy with my kids

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<v Speaker 1>have I'm happy for that. I'm also like scared that

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<v Speaker 1>they can get hurt or like, yeah they're scared, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm scared when they leave the door the house

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<v Speaker 1>every day. That's a different scare. Do you ever think

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<v Speaker 1>because you have kids? Are you have friends of mine

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<v Speaker 1>that have kids say to me, just remember when you

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<v Speaker 1>have kids that you still have a relationship, because otherwise,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the kids become obviously such a focal point

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<v Speaker 1>that you lose the connection with your partner. Date nights something,

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<v Speaker 1>they say to me, a lot weekends away, all of

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<v Speaker 1>that is so important to you. Say come over. They say, hey, right,

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<v Speaker 1>we gotta still date. You know when you have kids.

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<v Speaker 1>Michael and I were counting down the days until they're

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<v Speaker 1>out of the house. Are you kidding me? You know

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<v Speaker 1>about the tow too two rule? Right? I remind me again.

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<v Speaker 1>You told it to I know, and I forgot it

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<v Speaker 1>to two dates a month, two dates a month, a

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<v Speaker 1>weekend away two months, and a week away every two

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<v Speaker 1>every two years. Two we do we overcompensate for that.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys are good. No wonder she's talking about not

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<v Speaker 1>understanding what we're talking about. Daniell was like, we date

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<v Speaker 1>like often? Is he romantic? Like? How? I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>just feel like I'm always I don't. Yeah, like I

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<v Speaker 1>feel romance, that's what you're asking. Yeah, yeah, I'm good.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well that was fun. I was gonna give

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<v Speaker 1>you guys a suggestion to do, but maybe i'll do

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit later. Homework. It's fun. It's fun homework.

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<v Speaker 1>The thought, let's come back in a minute and start

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<v Speaker 1>paying these bills today. Fun air with Ryan Secrets so

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<v Speaker 1>your morning act details on a secret sales schedule the

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<v Speaker 1>Target has with different items on sale depending on the

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<v Speaker 1>day of the week. I mean, you have to think

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<v Speaker 1>Target is a playground for opportunity of getting things done

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<v Speaker 1>all at once, especially if you have kids. Right, you

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<v Speaker 1>can get in there. What don't they have? I needed, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>slippers and a vaporizer and you can get your groceries

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<v Speaker 1>and you can have a delivered ba cut out of coffee,

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<v Speaker 1>a banana, slippers and a vaporize ye and a scooter

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<v Speaker 1>if you need her, a helmet or some weights. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean when I was a kid, we didn't have places

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<v Speaker 1>that every you got to go to different places. Candle pillow,

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<v Speaker 1>you walk in there and close bathing suit. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>really someone that loves efficiency. Target Efficient her favorite place

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<v Speaker 1>to go Target Target Target because everything's there and they

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<v Speaker 1>can get a shirt, all right, or toys they really

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<v Speaker 1>care to. I don't know when I was a kid,

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted a nice shirt. Uh, Ruby is coming from

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<v Speaker 1>the back room here, Ruby, are you engaged? It happening?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, Ryan, the pressure of the are you engaged? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on with this dude? He doesn't he hear

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<v Speaker 1>about this all the time on the air, And wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>you think that would help him move along? He has

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<v Speaker 1>heard and he just laughs and he's like, don't worry,

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<v Speaker 1>coming soon. But I'm like, okay, so not engaged. Mom.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're listening, we'll be still not in with this

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<v Speaker 1>guy conscience of a saint. Eight years. I'm at three

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, I know the ringwatch can technically work

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<v Speaker 1>for both of you at this point. Do you think

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<v Speaker 1>it's time right now? Yeah? And do you think that

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<v Speaker 1>that's on his mind? Yeah, it's getting married. We're talking

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<v Speaker 1>about correct, I'll like skip the engagement just elope. No, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>So you're telling me that is the year. If he

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<v Speaker 1>waits another year, you're out. Yeah, year eighteen eight years

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<v Speaker 1>and you have the patience of the same See y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>You all were giving me craft for ultimatums and now

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<v Speaker 1>look at you. The fifth Avatar will be released and

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<v Speaker 1>wait for the fifth one. Oh no, wait, no, it's no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a third one. It's the second one. The second

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<v Speaker 1>one is out now, yes, but the third Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>was I was talking about what she was saying a

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<v Speaker 1>longer time from now project Okay, So Ruby, what is

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<v Speaker 1>it you're planning? Uh? Well, I was trying to plan

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<v Speaker 1>my threint Daniella, my sister was actually yes, So it's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like, you know, paying homage to the King Seneta,

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<v Speaker 1>which is like a tradition. Um, I didn't get to

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<v Speaker 1>have a keen, sanea. So it was kind of gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be my time to you know, is it trentonieta common?

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<v Speaker 1>It's not as common, but my set had one. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so it was it was it was just fun and

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<v Speaker 1>it was like, I want one, I need one, but wait,

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<v Speaker 1>your sister had one. And then your sister says she's

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<v Speaker 1>gone planning for you. Yes, and now we're what like

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<v Speaker 1>a week away, and she she was She kept telling

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<v Speaker 1>me like, we're gonna lock it in, we're gonna get

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<v Speaker 1>this venue, We're going to do this, We're gonna and

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<v Speaker 1>now it's she dropped the ball. She did people peas. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>you really can't really on anybody but yourself, not even

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<v Speaker 1>your family, because they disappoint. They really do. Balls dropped everywhere,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what. I was talking to friend this the

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<v Speaker 1>other day about this too. No follow through friends? Where

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<v Speaker 1>is to follow through? People follow through? Want something done,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta do it yourself. This is why I don't

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<v Speaker 1>stay at anybody's house. I hate staying I just because

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<v Speaker 1>I don't I don't know, but it makes me uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>Would stay your house though your guest and people disappoint you?

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<v Speaker 1>Put a robot a little mints. When you leave you,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll give you a bill. So why why did you

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<v Speaker 1>not have AA? So my parents gave me the option.

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<v Speaker 1>They're like, you can have a kinsieta or you can

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<v Speaker 1>take a trip, like maybe go to Mexico. And I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't get either. They kind of played her. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>get the engage marring now little child for sure. So ruby,

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<v Speaker 1>can't you be candid with your sister and say, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>what is going on? It's a week out, it's too

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<v Speaker 1>we actually haven't really talked about it. She got back

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<v Speaker 1>from Columbia and she was like so happy because she

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<v Speaker 1>got back from vacation, and she's just like, hey, like

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't really mentioned it? And I'm just like please, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just like, how can we like have a conversation and

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<v Speaker 1>how can I express that I'm frustrated, But I'm also

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<v Speaker 1>not trying to be like a drength done yet a zilla.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, here's the thing, something you don't want to know.

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<v Speaker 1>I think this is good because she's gonna feel bad.

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<v Speaker 1>She's probably already feeling bad, and you're gonna be engaged soon.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna need her to like do all the wedding

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<v Speaker 1>stuff yea, so maybe don't. I don't wreck the boat.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I would trust her with wedding stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think so. And you know what, you can't

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<v Speaker 1>rely on family. That's what this tells you. Friends, family,

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<v Speaker 1>No followed through. Man, I just got I's still walking

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<v Speaker 1>around with a ring in his pocket. No follow This

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna start the same day on air with

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan Seacrest show, Michael, are you around Achaea? From the

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<v Speaker 1>back room, I am, how's your dating going? Not good?

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<v Speaker 1>On her face? Look at her? I just I try

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<v Speaker 1>all these dating apps, and I just think that I

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<v Speaker 1>enjoy them sometimes, especially new ones that come out, But

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like the only way I'm gonna actually meet

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<v Speaker 1>somebody is going out or meeting them through think that

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<v Speaker 1>just takes one. So what are the Taste Buds app?

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<v Speaker 1>So it matches people based on their music taste. So

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<v Speaker 1>you start by picking your favorite artists when you make

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<v Speaker 1>the account, and you can also sink it with like

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<v Speaker 1>your phone music, or you can just pick your favorite

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<v Speaker 1>artist through the app, and it connects with people who

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<v Speaker 1>have similar music taste. So every time that you appear

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<v Speaker 1>on someone's profile or homescreen, it plays a song from

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<v Speaker 1>one of your favorite artists, and so they either like

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<v Speaker 1>it or they don't. UM. And I honestly thought this

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<v Speaker 1>would be the one. I was like, I love music,

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<v Speaker 1>I work in music. UM. But it was honestly the

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<v Speaker 1>worst one. I think. I've been on Why Why. There

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<v Speaker 1>was some interesting people on there, um, and I really

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<v Speaker 1>didn't mount to a lot of people crazy people or

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<v Speaker 1>um what was the vibe? Like BEETHOVENI like actors, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't like beethovenure good, but like they just put on

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<v Speaker 1>like a show that Sorry. So this is a new

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<v Speaker 1>dating app supposed to link based on your music taste,

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<v Speaker 1>and you say it's not great. Yeah, I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>there's not a lot of people on it yet because

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<v Speaker 1>it's so new, so maybe I have to give it,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, another chance. But it imagines you with even

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<v Speaker 1>if you just have one artist, So some artists you

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<v Speaker 1>can have some similar tastes. But then there's ones that

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<v Speaker 1>are like just totally not in and I go on

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<v Speaker 1>their profile and like Beethoven or like that. I don't know. We're,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, asking you to try all these dating apps,

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<v Speaker 1>but I shouldn't should I mean, it's fine because it

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<v Speaker 1>gives me more opportunities I guess to Yeah, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>well the next one. What's the next app you're gonna try? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>I have a list. I'm not sure it's one yet,

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<v Speaker 1>but there's a few news still like on the main

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<v Speaker 1>ones like Hinge and all those right, good, we want

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<v Speaker 1>you to find a relationship. We will not stop until

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<v Speaker 1>you find love. Be guys, I did that grape eating

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<v Speaker 1>thing under the table like everyone sent on TikTok. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's right. So what was that? Okay? So that was

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<v Speaker 1>you had to do it on New Year's Eve and

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<v Speaker 1>it was you had to eat grapes. Twelve grapes were

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<v Speaker 1>red underwear and just manifest love. And that's what me

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<v Speaker 1>and my friends years. So cute, why not insane? Good luck, happy,

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna be. This is the year Mikayla in the

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<v Speaker 1>back room for love for you. So this is really

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<v Speaker 1>interesting and it's gone viral on TikTok so maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>heard about it. But it is true that maybe we're

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<v Speaker 1>not cleaning ourselves enough in all the spots when we're

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<v Speaker 1>taking a shower and getting ready for work every day.

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<v Speaker 1>So I will tell you that I can get I've

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<v Speaker 1>had in my belly button. It get like red, or

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<v Speaker 1>I must not have been in there cleaning it enough,

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<v Speaker 1>or it gets red after you do go in there

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<v Speaker 1>and clean it out. It does. But I have an

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<v Speaker 1>any do you prefer in any or an audi Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if there's a preference, but I haven't any.

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<v Speaker 1>I always wanted Anuti because I always felt like Audi

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<v Speaker 1>people were fit. Ye interesting that way. I always thought

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<v Speaker 1>because I had any it was because I was a

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<v Speaker 1>chubby kid. Oh that's funny. I thought about that way,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's part of my issues. You can tell your

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<v Speaker 1>therapist that Tania too. But it's true. There are five

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<v Speaker 1>body parts we are not washing enough. And Dr Jen

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<v Speaker 1>Coddle is on the line with us now. She's got

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<v Speaker 1>over a hundred thousand loyal followers on TikTok and she's

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<v Speaker 1>sharing these health related tips and advice. So five areas, doctor,

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<v Speaker 1>we're not cleaning enough. Huh uh, that's yeah, you're right.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think we are at least well, we were

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<v Speaker 1>just almost the belly button. What can happen to your

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<v Speaker 1>belly button? Yeah, So this is the thing. A lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people don't actually clean their belly button, like they

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<v Speaker 1>forget about it. And if we don't wash our belly button,

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<v Speaker 1>especially those with any's, like if you have an audie, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna get clean somehow, right, but in any you

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<v Speaker 1>can actually develop infections. Um an odor can come from

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<v Speaker 1>the belly button. Sometimes stones or sort of debris can

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<v Speaker 1>collect and build up in there. Uh, it can be

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<v Speaker 1>really gross and also affect your health. So yeah, the

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<v Speaker 1>belly button is definitely top of my list. Just question quickly,

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<v Speaker 1>any AUDI, like who makes that decision? That's a great question. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of it has to do with UM, your genetics,

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<v Speaker 1>sort of how you developed UM, any surgical procedures you

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<v Speaker 1>might have had when you are baby, things like that.

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<v Speaker 1>So usually by the time we're thinking about our belly buttons,

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<v Speaker 1>we can't really affect whether it's in your AUDI. So

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<v Speaker 1>we're kind of don't because if I could go back

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<v Speaker 1>and make a request, I thought I wanted an AUDI

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<v Speaker 1>because I always thought I saw audis as fit people. Interesting. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a lot of interesting things to tell you,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, listen next, top of the ears. I just

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<v Speaker 1>noticed that a hair grow on the top of my ear.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh congratulations, Yeah, you know our ear. So we spend

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of time thinking about the inside of the

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<v Speaker 1>ear appropriately, so ear waxing, que tips and stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 1>People really are tuned into. But UM as a family doctor,

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<v Speaker 1>what I noticed is like the top of the ear

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<v Speaker 1>that will crease above the top of the ear or

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<v Speaker 1>the ear lobe or like the back of the ear,

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<v Speaker 1>and even that crease set the ear, like when the

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<v Speaker 1>ear comes around. Um. I always say, now, this is

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<v Speaker 1>gonna sound gross, but I always say, take two fingers,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, kind of swish it around on the area

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<v Speaker 1>and smell it. If it's gross, you probably haven't watched

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<v Speaker 1>it recently. I know it's kind of grass, but but

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<v Speaker 1>it's a good test, right, all right, Dr Jan Here

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<v Speaker 1>the top five areas people don't wash enough, and I

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<v Speaker 1>rushed through showers sometimes. Another one, you say, is under

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<v Speaker 1>your fingernails. Yeah, yeah, so under our fingernails. And I

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<v Speaker 1>think hand washing in general has become topab list for

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of us because of COVID and CLUE and

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<v Speaker 1>all that kind of stuff, which is great, but we

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<v Speaker 1>forget about the fingernails. So get underneath those fingernails super important.

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<v Speaker 1>Right on the top five things, we're watch our legs. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So this is the thing. I don't know if you

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<v Speaker 1>guys knew about this or heard about this, but a

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<v Speaker 1>few years ago there was all this debate online about

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<v Speaker 1>should you wash your legs or not. The idea is

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<v Speaker 1>that there are some people who get in the shower,

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<v Speaker 1>like shampoo their hair whatever, washed with soap, maybe with

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<v Speaker 1>their hands are washed out, but they don't specifically like

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<v Speaker 1>wash their legs. And then there's another camp of people

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<v Speaker 1>that like literally do have a washcloth and wash leg

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<v Speaker 1>Now maybe it's a doctor and me, what are the

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<v Speaker 1>hygiene fanatics, But i'mlike team washed legs, like deliberately just

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure they're clean, get the the knees and

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<v Speaker 1>all that kind of stuff. Um, but yeah, that's something

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<v Speaker 1>that not everyone actually does all the time. Okay, you're

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<v Speaker 1>listening to this, I want to share this. And in

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<v Speaker 1>between our toes, we don't clean them enough. Yeah yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the toes of course, because you can get fungal infections

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff like that. Like the idea is just don't

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<v Speaker 1>forget these little parts that we take for granted, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>And even the bottom of the feet, right, um, that's

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<v Speaker 1>an important part. Back of the neck. Um. I did

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<v Speaker 1>another video where I mentioned some of the other parts,

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<v Speaker 1>the back of the neck, the bottom of the feet,

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<v Speaker 1>even our bottom, Like some people don't actually wash their bottom,

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<v Speaker 1>they just let soap runs down it. I feel like,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, well, Dr Jan, thank you so much for

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<v Speaker 1>coming on and continued success. No problem, Thank you, You're welcome.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. I mean I don't wash. What do you

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<v Speaker 1>do in there? I get in real quick. I washed

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<v Speaker 1>my armpits and like get out. You know, if there's

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<v Speaker 1>other we're gonna send you diagram. Yeah. I just feel

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<v Speaker 1>like the soapy water just like runs itself down and

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<v Speaker 1>then I'm gonna shake my legs and I shave things

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<v Speaker 1>and time to time so that washes those Wow. Everything.

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<v Speaker 1>Kutcher don't even have soap, so what Okay, Well we

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<v Speaker 1>should talk to him about it doesn't sound right to me.

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<v Speaker 1>And how do you know what? I think that there

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<v Speaker 1>was a story about it, hold on, let me go

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<v Speaker 1>and everything. Yeah, everything in their mouths Ashton Kutcher sarcastic. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they're being sarcastic because there was like this rumor that

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<v Speaker 1>they didn't bade their kids every day, and then they

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<v Speaker 1>were joking. They were joking about that, and then then

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<v Speaker 1>they posted a video informations for their as for their

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<v Speaker 1>own showering habits, Kunis and Kutcher Bull said on Armchair

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<v Speaker 1>Expert podcasts that they refrain from using soap on their

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<v Speaker 1>entire bodies every day. Thank you, I washed what Are

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<v Speaker 1>they being sarcastic? You guys, came from his own mouth.

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<v Speaker 1>I washed my art and my you know what daily

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<v Speaker 1>and nothing else ever. Same same Dax there, shower without

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<v Speaker 1>soap together back Shephard Christen, everybody, come on, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, sarcasm comes from one's own mouth, f y.

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<v Speaker 1>I I don't think their wings sarcastic. It's just confert

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<v Speaker 1>normal conversation like this. All right, well wash other things.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the bottom line here air with Ryan Seacrets. Big Papa.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you call Robbie? Not big Papa? No, Zaddy Zaddy? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't calm daddy. Sometimes it called daddy. What do

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<v Speaker 1>you call your husband? Michael Ssony? I call him babe.

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<v Speaker 1>But then when we were on the kids, it's daddy.

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<v Speaker 1>But now you don't call daddy just by himself. No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not big Papa. No, I think it's funny. No not,

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<v Speaker 1>I can should I really like you to call him daddy?

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<v Speaker 1>Which is the two of you? Oh? I was sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I was saying big Papa. Are you would think that's funny?

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<v Speaker 1>Big Papa? Yeah? I think he would him home and

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<v Speaker 1>saying hey, big Papa probably would be like what happened

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<v Speaker 1>to you. I appreciate the song. Ye, daddy, daddy, Jared,

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning, How are you? I'm good? How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doing well. What does your fiance call you, big papa? Daddy? Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>She just really calls me baby about it. Baby seems

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<v Speaker 1>to me like the most common babe. What do you

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<v Speaker 1>use ryan, babe? Baby? Baby? Yeah, unless I'm around my

0:22:52.280 --> 0:22:59.719
<v Speaker 1>parents use babe. Actually, honey, sweet parents, I'll probably say sweetie.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's a little grandma ish, but it seems

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<v Speaker 1>a little more appropriate than baby time. I hear sweetie,

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<v Speaker 1>as if something sweetie like that, nothing like tell you

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<v Speaker 1>put you in your place. I can't say honey. It

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<v Speaker 1>feels weird. It's tough for me contrived to meney a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of these with all my kids and Jared. So,

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<v Speaker 1>your fiance wants to get married in the same place

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<v Speaker 1>where she and her ex plan to get married. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my yes, Um. So my fiance and I've been together

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<v Speaker 1>for three years. She is wonderful. I will say that

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<v Speaker 1>she is super sweet. My family loves her. Um. I

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<v Speaker 1>really do want to spend the rest of my life

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<v Speaker 1>with her. Her former fiance UM passed away, and she

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<v Speaker 1>wants to get married in the same place that they

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<v Speaker 1>had originally picked out. And then it gets a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit more weird because she wants to use the same dress.

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<v Speaker 1>She kept the dress She's got a lot of time

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<v Speaker 1>to find and it is, it's a gorgeous dress. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>I just I don't know, I feel a little weird

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<v Speaker 1>about the whole thing. I feel a little bit like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a placeholder. Um. I don't know if I'm overreacting though,

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<v Speaker 1>It just it feels off that she's really, um, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess stuck on this one thing. I want to be respectful,

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<v Speaker 1>But at the same time, I'm like, he's a different

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<v Speaker 1>chapter and that chapter is closed, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>This new what advice do you have? This is so

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<v Speaker 1>heavy because he passed away, So you want to be

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<v Speaker 1>sensitive to that. Is she is there an attachment to

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<v Speaker 1>this venue, to this place? Like why is she? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>why is she so hung up on the location? Why

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<v Speaker 1>does it have to be there? So she says that

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<v Speaker 1>she has spent a lot of time and it is,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's a great location. She spent a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>time trying to find one that would be um in

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<v Speaker 1>their budget at the time, which is pretty similar to

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<v Speaker 1>our budget now, um, and that it was just something

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<v Speaker 1>I think that she spent so much time in. But

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<v Speaker 1>I do personally feel like there is a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of some unresolved attachment there there you're gonna have to

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<v Speaker 1>work through there. I mean, you know, I mean, I say,

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<v Speaker 1>he said this is heavy, and this is you know,

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<v Speaker 1>there's death involved here. Then there it is Jared that

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<v Speaker 1>you said it right there. You you have reservation with this,

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<v Speaker 1>like you want to be sensitive to what she's gone through.

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<v Speaker 1>But the fact that you have an issue with this,

0:25:30.200 --> 0:25:32.639
<v Speaker 1>like this is for life with you, you know, like

0:25:32.680 --> 0:25:37.240
<v Speaker 1>you're marrying her, you love her, but you have a

0:25:37.320 --> 0:25:39.440
<v Speaker 1>little bit of an issue that there is some sort

0:25:39.480 --> 0:25:43.439
<v Speaker 1>of But it might not even have to do with

0:25:43.440 --> 0:25:46.679
<v Speaker 1>with this guy, honestly, because I think I have some

0:25:46.760 --> 0:25:49.399
<v Speaker 1>friends that have had their weddings planned since they were

0:25:49.520 --> 0:25:51.920
<v Speaker 1>fifteen years old. They knew exactly where they wanted to

0:25:51.960 --> 0:25:53.760
<v Speaker 1>get married. They knew what kind of dress they wanted,

0:25:53.760 --> 0:25:56.520
<v Speaker 1>what colors they wanted, and that's what they choked like.

0:25:56.840 --> 0:26:00.720
<v Speaker 1>They were just adamant about that being there, wedding colors

0:26:00.720 --> 0:26:03.240
<v Speaker 1>and their bridesmaid dresses and they just knew. So maybe

0:26:03.280 --> 0:26:05.960
<v Speaker 1>she's the same way doesn't have to do with the guy,

0:26:06.160 --> 0:26:07.720
<v Speaker 1>just has to do with her vision when she was

0:26:07.720 --> 0:26:11.199
<v Speaker 1>a little girl. Okay, Um, I mean I could I

0:26:11.200 --> 0:26:12.720
<v Speaker 1>can certainly phrase it that way and just kind of

0:26:12.760 --> 0:26:15.919
<v Speaker 1>be like, hey, like how long you know did you

0:26:15.960 --> 0:26:18.560
<v Speaker 1>have this place picked out? Um? She is an l

0:26:18.560 --> 0:26:21.600
<v Speaker 1>a local, so I mean, you know, it's entirely possible that, yeah,

0:26:21.720 --> 0:26:24.159
<v Speaker 1>she did kind of grow up seeing that spot and

0:26:24.200 --> 0:26:28.040
<v Speaker 1>being like hey, one day like that could be Well, listen,

0:26:28.080 --> 0:26:30.480
<v Speaker 1>I think this is all good advice. That's so good

0:26:30.480 --> 0:26:32.040
<v Speaker 1>that would just talk it out here and he didn't

0:26:32.040 --> 0:26:33.639
<v Speaker 1>talk it out with her, talk it out with her

0:26:33.680 --> 0:26:36.280
<v Speaker 1>a little bit, uncover some of the layers here, all right, brother,

0:26:36.320 --> 0:26:39.880
<v Speaker 1>and good luck in congratulations shared. Thank you so much everyone,

0:26:40.320 --> 0:26:42.439
<v Speaker 1>And and Jared, one more final thought from you know

0:26:42.840 --> 0:26:46.159
<v Speaker 1>the wedding planner here, Um, it's not about the wedding,

0:26:46.240 --> 0:26:51.720
<v Speaker 1>it's about the marriage, So just keep the priorities in No. No,

0:26:52.600 --> 0:26:55.680
<v Speaker 1>but I said it. I'm an overthinker by nature. How

0:26:55.680 --> 0:26:58.760
<v Speaker 1>many times do I say, guys, it's not about the wedding,

0:26:58.760 --> 0:27:01.440
<v Speaker 1>it's about the marriage. So there you go. Jared, thank

0:27:01.440 --> 0:27:03.879
<v Speaker 1>you very much for calling a good luck said that

0:27:05.800 --> 0:27:08.359
<v Speaker 1>luck dawned on me. Now, have her call you, Big Papa,

0:27:08.400 --> 0:27:14.840
<v Speaker 1>and it's gonna all be okay. On Air with Ryan Seacrest,

0:27:16.840 --> 0:27:19.639
<v Speaker 1>Thank you for streaming. Listen to us wherever you are

0:27:19.720 --> 0:27:23.480
<v Speaker 1>getting us. Partly sunny today, did you say sunny? Yes?

0:27:23.560 --> 0:27:27.119
<v Speaker 1>I did. Partly sunny today hides in the low sixties.

0:27:27.359 --> 0:27:30.239
<v Speaker 1>The rain returns late Friday night and could go on

0:27:30.320 --> 0:27:33.280
<v Speaker 1>for quite a long time. You know, every time I

0:27:33.320 --> 0:27:36.160
<v Speaker 1>see that video of the sinkhole freaks me out. Like

0:27:36.240 --> 0:27:40.200
<v Speaker 1>a road just dropping out from underneath you. Vehicle falling

0:27:40.240 --> 0:27:42.520
<v Speaker 1>into a sinkhole, you know what I mean, makes those

0:27:42.520 --> 0:27:45.360
<v Speaker 1>streets look like the crust of a pie. Yeah, it's

0:27:45.359 --> 0:27:47.639
<v Speaker 1>like that. There's an episode of Grades Anatomy where that

0:27:48.000 --> 0:27:50.679
<v Speaker 1>actually happens and it looks like that. There's also an

0:27:50.680 --> 0:27:53.720
<v Speaker 1>episode of the News where that did just happen. So

0:27:53.960 --> 0:27:57.400
<v Speaker 1>it and to see the first responders and the rescue

0:27:57.440 --> 0:28:00.399
<v Speaker 1>teams go in and rescue people. Did you see the

0:28:00.400 --> 0:28:02.800
<v Speaker 1>woman being pulled up by the by the rope on

0:28:02.840 --> 0:28:06.879
<v Speaker 1>the news by the cable on the news rescue we

0:28:07.080 --> 0:28:09.919
<v Speaker 1>went down underground when a car fell and brought her.

0:28:09.920 --> 0:28:12.240
<v Speaker 1>I was incredible to see. Was in Chatsworth at sinkhole

0:28:12.520 --> 0:28:16.880
<v Speaker 1>near one. That's the thing. I mean, you don't think

0:28:16.920 --> 0:28:20.080
<v Speaker 1>about the road dropping outcome underneath you when you're sitting

0:28:20.119 --> 0:28:23.080
<v Speaker 1>in your vehicle, and then you see how fragile the

0:28:23.160 --> 0:28:26.439
<v Speaker 1>streets can be with all of this over saturation. Just

0:28:26.480 --> 0:28:28.960
<v Speaker 1>one more thing to freak us all out, all right,

0:28:29.000 --> 0:28:32.600
<v Speaker 1>So cissany this is saying people are still doing in

0:28:32.680 --> 0:28:35.680
<v Speaker 1>the wild with me. My friends are still saying I'm

0:28:35.720 --> 0:28:38.600
<v Speaker 1>still saying it too, Happy New Year. My whole thing

0:28:38.800 --> 0:28:43.400
<v Speaker 1>is like, I think it needs to be done already,

0:28:43.840 --> 0:28:46.680
<v Speaker 1>Like when when do we stop saying Happy New Year? Second?

0:28:47.480 --> 0:28:49.680
<v Speaker 1>Look remember that January second? I thought after like this

0:28:49.920 --> 0:28:52.040
<v Speaker 1>the first week that was my thing, Like this past

0:28:52.080 --> 0:28:56.720
<v Speaker 1>Sunday done? Well, the day was New Year's Sunday. No,

0:28:57.280 --> 0:28:59.800
<v Speaker 1>it was Saturday. New Year's Eve was Saturday. New Year's

0:28:59.840 --> 0:29:02.280
<v Speaker 1>Day was Sunday, right, so I would take it one

0:29:02.320 --> 0:29:05.160
<v Speaker 1>week out. They want to start the next consecutive week.

0:29:05.760 --> 0:29:09.280
<v Speaker 1>We're in the new year. Well, so yesterday I had

0:29:09.440 --> 0:29:12.280
<v Speaker 1>you know, I usually have Wednesdays. I have, like you know,

0:29:12.560 --> 0:29:15.040
<v Speaker 1>I have my record label meetings. Yes, and I'm sorry

0:29:15.040 --> 0:29:18.040
<v Speaker 1>I couldn't make them. It's okay, So I meet with

0:29:18.120 --> 0:29:21.480
<v Speaker 1>I meet with different record labels every week, and I

0:29:21.520 --> 0:29:25.240
<v Speaker 1>haven't seen some of them since the New Year. So

0:29:25.560 --> 0:29:27.840
<v Speaker 1>to them there was like they were saying Happy New Year,

0:29:27.920 --> 0:29:29.520
<v Speaker 1>and that was the argument. They're saying, like, well, if

0:29:29.560 --> 0:29:31.720
<v Speaker 1>I haven't seen you, then you can still say Happy

0:29:31.720 --> 0:29:33.760
<v Speaker 1>New Year. But you guys got into this debate in

0:29:33.800 --> 0:29:36.280
<v Speaker 1>the middle of the music meetings. Yeah, I guess DJ

0:29:36.320 --> 0:29:39.080
<v Speaker 1>trouble Xel this is his debate. Well, he's a real instigator,

0:29:39.240 --> 0:29:42.120
<v Speaker 1>he really is. So he's saying, if you haven't seen them,

0:29:42.200 --> 0:29:43.720
<v Speaker 1>then you can say Happy New Year. I was like,

0:29:43.720 --> 0:29:45.800
<v Speaker 1>what if you haven't seen somebody in this March, then

0:29:45.840 --> 0:29:47.239
<v Speaker 1>can you still say Happy New Year? And like, then

0:29:47.280 --> 0:29:50.200
<v Speaker 1>you can't. He's wrong. I mean, it's all wrong. It

0:29:50.320 --> 0:29:52.320
<v Speaker 1>is the second week. I mean, that's just the unwritten rule.

0:29:52.400 --> 0:29:53.960
<v Speaker 1>I think it's done. It's like, you can't say Happy

0:29:53.960 --> 0:29:55.440
<v Speaker 1>New Year anymore. I don't care if I haven't seen you.

0:29:55.680 --> 0:29:58.520
<v Speaker 1>I am with you on that Wednesday, January eleven, happy

0:29:58.640 --> 0:30:01.120
<v Speaker 1>it is. It is the new year. I've already given

0:30:01.200 --> 0:30:04.120
<v Speaker 1>up on all of our new eating plans. The one

0:30:04.160 --> 0:30:08.800
<v Speaker 1>thing that I do um, I do not fight about

0:30:08.800 --> 0:30:11.600
<v Speaker 1>what's the right word, but I do believe is true,

0:30:11.760 --> 0:30:14.720
<v Speaker 1>is that the whole wearing white thing. I can wear

0:30:14.760 --> 0:30:17.640
<v Speaker 1>white to two things that I believe in. I can

0:30:17.720 --> 0:30:19.560
<v Speaker 1>wear white any time of the year. And I can

0:30:19.600 --> 0:30:22.840
<v Speaker 1>have red wine with fish. So leave me alone, have

0:30:22.880 --> 0:30:25.880
<v Speaker 1>red wine with fish. Some people think that white wine

0:30:25.920 --> 0:30:28.120
<v Speaker 1>should go with chicken and fish, but I like red

0:30:28.160 --> 0:30:30.320
<v Speaker 1>wine with chicken or fish, and so I don't want

0:30:30.360 --> 0:30:32.440
<v Speaker 1>to play the game of white pants and white and

0:30:32.440 --> 0:30:35.040
<v Speaker 1>red wine with fish and chicken and Happy New Year.

0:30:35.120 --> 0:30:39.280
<v Speaker 1>So well, let's settle this these important things. I guess

0:30:39.320 --> 0:30:42.000
<v Speaker 1>you would be the expert when it comes to Happy

0:30:42.040 --> 0:30:45.040
<v Speaker 1>New Year, so I'll take your advice on that. Yeah,

0:30:45.120 --> 0:30:46.920
<v Speaker 1>I mean the fact that I count from ten. Yeah,

0:30:46.960 --> 0:30:54.239
<v Speaker 1>you're like Mr new Year, Mr new Years. I like it.

0:30:54.280 --> 0:30:56.760
<v Speaker 1>Thank you for that title. You should claim it. That

0:30:56.800 --> 0:31:00.280
<v Speaker 1>should be like in your Instagram bio year trademark that

0:31:00.880 --> 0:31:02.840
<v Speaker 1>Mr new Year. Yeah, like when I think that, yeah,

0:31:02.880 --> 0:31:05.240
<v Speaker 1>you're right. When I think of New Year New Year's Eve,

0:31:05.320 --> 0:31:07.840
<v Speaker 1>I think of you missed the New Year, and then

0:31:07.840 --> 0:31:10.200
<v Speaker 1>when you get here on Monday. Different. No, when I

0:31:10.240 --> 0:31:12.280
<v Speaker 1>think of Christmas, I think of Santa Claus. And when

0:31:12.320 --> 0:31:15.800
<v Speaker 1>I think of New Year's I think of you waiting

0:31:15.920 --> 0:31:20.920
<v Speaker 1>for Easter. The bunny Easter Bunny for St. Patrick's Day.

0:31:20.920 --> 0:31:23.080
<v Speaker 1>I think about the lepric. I think about you again.

0:31:23.360 --> 0:31:25.320
<v Speaker 1>People think about me all the time as a lepricn

0:31:26.800 --> 0:31:29.640
<v Speaker 1>very good you beat me to it. Today is Mary J.

0:31:29.760 --> 0:31:32.400
<v Speaker 1>Blige's birthday. I've been a fan for so many years

0:31:32.760 --> 0:31:35.760
<v Speaker 1>and got to know over the years. So congratulations Mary j.

0:31:36.000 --> 0:31:39.640
<v Speaker 1>Unincredible successful career and so much more to come. Partly

0:31:39.680 --> 0:31:43.200
<v Speaker 1>sunny highs in the low sixties and the rain. Get

0:31:43.240 --> 0:31:47.480
<v Speaker 1>ready to greet it again Friday night. All right, So

0:31:48.160 --> 0:31:50.800
<v Speaker 1>let's talk about relationships. We don't really think about them

0:31:50.880 --> 0:31:54.320
<v Speaker 1>much on this show. It's the only time I talk

0:31:54.360 --> 0:31:58.080
<v Speaker 1>about relationships in my life really is here or on

0:31:58.240 --> 0:32:01.560
<v Speaker 1>Kelly and Ryan. Like I don't like talk about relationships

0:32:01.680 --> 0:32:06.880
<v Speaker 1>or even mine outside of you guys every day. Then, Yeah,

0:32:07.160 --> 0:32:09.200
<v Speaker 1>did you talk about your relationship when you go home?

0:32:12.440 --> 0:32:14.920
<v Speaker 1>I do not. I don't really talk about my relationship

0:32:14.960 --> 0:32:17.840
<v Speaker 1>with Michael, Like, sit down and go let's talk about

0:32:17.840 --> 0:32:21.440
<v Speaker 1>our relationship. We talked about our lives, like our five

0:32:21.520 --> 0:32:23.920
<v Speaker 1>year plan. What are we doing? Are you do a

0:32:23.960 --> 0:32:28.800
<v Speaker 1>long game? Yeah, we're always it sounds like you're frustrated, Yeah,

0:32:28.840 --> 0:32:31.200
<v Speaker 1>because we're we have like a you know, we're thinking

0:32:31.200 --> 0:32:35.240
<v Speaker 1>about our next move. There's a lot going on in

0:32:35.400 --> 0:32:40.960
<v Speaker 1>real estate. Oh, I know, that's for another day. That's

0:32:41.040 --> 0:32:46.760
<v Speaker 1>for another day. Yes, Tanya, first you and now sisting

0:32:47.040 --> 0:32:49.680
<v Speaker 1>what you left and went to Robbie's. Now she's packing

0:32:49.680 --> 0:32:54.760
<v Speaker 1>her bags. Well I'm not not going to Oh. Definitely.

0:32:55.760 --> 0:33:01.360
<v Speaker 1>Speaking of relationships, so you're saying that there are red

0:33:01.400 --> 0:33:04.160
<v Speaker 1>flags that have been identified by those who have looked

0:33:04.160 --> 0:33:07.200
<v Speaker 1>at relationships that are on a track to dumage. Yeah,

0:33:07.720 --> 0:33:12.360
<v Speaker 1>jarring warning signs sort of speak for a doomed love match.

0:33:12.840 --> 0:33:15.080
<v Speaker 1>The thing when you think you see a red flag,

0:33:15.200 --> 0:33:17.000
<v Speaker 1>as you said, you kind of turned the other way.

0:33:17.160 --> 0:33:19.920
<v Speaker 1>You totally justify it. We've all done that. We do

0:33:20.080 --> 0:33:24.160
<v Speaker 1>justify that whatever it is, because it's kind of judgment

0:33:24.200 --> 0:33:26.320
<v Speaker 1>on you for your choice. And that's why your family

0:33:26.360 --> 0:33:28.400
<v Speaker 1>sees it first, your friends see it first, and you

0:33:28.760 --> 0:33:30.920
<v Speaker 1>push it away. You don't want to hear it, and

0:33:30.960 --> 0:33:35.400
<v Speaker 1>you're blind to it. So these are the flags. So, um,

0:33:35.440 --> 0:33:37.040
<v Speaker 1>there's actually a few of them. I just picked the

0:33:37.040 --> 0:33:40.320
<v Speaker 1>top three and I'll go from three to one. So

0:33:40.400 --> 0:33:44.520
<v Speaker 1>number three being clingy ranked third, which was seen by

0:33:44.600 --> 0:33:49.040
<v Speaker 1>participants as covering controlling behavior and being overly jealous. So

0:33:49.160 --> 0:33:53.280
<v Speaker 1>clingy jealousy at the red flag. Be clear, I don't

0:33:53.280 --> 0:33:58.840
<v Speaker 1>think clinging means jealous I don't think clinging means jealous

0:33:58.840 --> 0:34:01.240
<v Speaker 1>necessarily because I'm not the jealous type. But I am

0:34:01.280 --> 0:34:05.000
<v Speaker 1>a little clingy. But I think there's two different things.

0:34:05.120 --> 0:34:09.560
<v Speaker 1>Like I think it's like I like to be with

0:34:09.560 --> 0:34:11.839
<v Speaker 1>my partner a lot, like I like I like him

0:34:11.880 --> 0:34:13.440
<v Speaker 1>to like I like to be with him all the time,

0:34:13.440 --> 0:34:18.239
<v Speaker 1>like I like each other. I mean, yeah, I think

0:34:18.239 --> 0:34:21.280
<v Speaker 1>there's a jeal. I think that you could be jealous though, too, Tanya,

0:34:21.600 --> 0:34:23.759
<v Speaker 1>But I don't. I don't have that. I think if

0:34:23.760 --> 0:34:26.520
<v Speaker 1>somebody was rubbing up on Robbie at an event or something,

0:34:26.560 --> 0:34:29.799
<v Speaker 1>you would be jealous. Well, why is anybody rubbing up

0:34:29.800 --> 0:34:34.799
<v Speaker 1>all there? You go? Okay? Number two? Uh, someone that's

0:34:34.840 --> 0:34:40.279
<v Speaker 1>gross meaning having poor hygiene, smelling bad and actually um,

0:34:40.280 --> 0:34:42.040
<v Speaker 1>well we don't need to get to like and either

0:34:42.080 --> 0:34:44.759
<v Speaker 1>other stuff. But basically if you find them unattractive, that's

0:34:44.760 --> 0:34:46.920
<v Speaker 1>a big red flag when it comes to gross hygiene

0:34:46.960 --> 0:34:51.480
<v Speaker 1>stuff um. And then uh, being in an attentive, uncaring,

0:34:51.680 --> 0:34:56.040
<v Speaker 1>untrusting um that is considered the biggest red flag of

0:34:56.080 --> 0:35:00.360
<v Speaker 1>all for both men and women. Being inattentive, not paying attention,

0:35:00.440 --> 0:35:04.799
<v Speaker 1>not listening, not caring. Yes, yeah, these are all bad.

0:35:06.440 --> 0:35:08.640
<v Speaker 1>Any single one of them would make you think you're

0:35:08.640 --> 0:35:11.520
<v Speaker 1>on the wrong track. If you can't trust your partner

0:35:12.000 --> 0:35:14.160
<v Speaker 1>and it gets to the point where they're not supporting

0:35:14.200 --> 0:35:17.440
<v Speaker 1>you and they're not believing in the things that you

0:35:17.480 --> 0:35:21.799
<v Speaker 1>believe in, or basically kind of just not by your

0:35:21.800 --> 0:35:24.440
<v Speaker 1>side and kind of like holding you up. I think

0:35:24.440 --> 0:35:27.600
<v Speaker 1>that's a red flag. I don't know that Tony and

0:35:27.600 --> 0:35:30.080
<v Speaker 1>I have heard anything since you said someone else quote

0:35:30.160 --> 0:35:33.960
<v Speaker 1>rubbing up on Robbie kind of been in this space.

0:35:34.440 --> 0:35:36.320
<v Speaker 1>I don't think. I don't think you'd like anybody rubbing

0:35:36.400 --> 0:35:39.920
<v Speaker 1>up on Michael either. Hell no, okay, he's rubbing up

0:35:39.920 --> 0:35:45.160
<v Speaker 1>on anybody and rubbing up anybody. Why are you dance?

0:35:46.040 --> 0:35:47.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. We're rubbing up on someone the dance.

0:35:47.760 --> 0:35:49.640
<v Speaker 1>I guess that's what you do when you dance. I

0:35:49.719 --> 0:35:51.480
<v Speaker 1>don't know. But no, not a stranger. That's how you

0:35:51.520 --> 0:35:54.799
<v Speaker 1>would dance with your significant other. All right, Hey, can

0:35:54.800 --> 0:35:56.200
<v Speaker 1>we go back at the beginning of the show. I

0:35:56.239 --> 0:35:58.200
<v Speaker 1>thought we'd put some pins in things that we need

0:35:58.200 --> 0:36:00.160
<v Speaker 1>to cover, and I'm afraid I don't get to is

0:36:00.239 --> 0:36:03.280
<v Speaker 1>do then we'll yeah, then we'll be done. So, Tony,

0:36:03.360 --> 0:36:05.960
<v Speaker 1>did you keep the pin note? Yeah? Well, so we

0:36:05.960 --> 0:36:09.160
<v Speaker 1>were talking about some deep things, but my pen came

0:36:09.160 --> 0:36:11.319
<v Speaker 1>out of nowhere, you know, like I think sometimes my

0:36:11.400 --> 0:36:13.719
<v Speaker 1>brain just does this where it's just something pops up.

0:36:14.080 --> 0:36:16.799
<v Speaker 1>And I wanted you, guys, I have some homework for you. Guys.

0:36:16.840 --> 0:36:18.600
<v Speaker 1>I think you would really enjoy and have a lot

0:36:18.640 --> 0:36:21.840
<v Speaker 1>of fun with every time you say, I feel like

0:36:21.880 --> 0:36:24.480
<v Speaker 1>you guys will have a lot of fun with me

0:36:24.600 --> 0:36:28.160
<v Speaker 1>because it involves food. But I don't want to have

0:36:28.200 --> 0:36:31.440
<v Speaker 1>my food be homework. My food to be enjoyable. Okay, No,

0:36:31.719 --> 0:36:33.840
<v Speaker 1>So we did this this weekend and I was like,

0:36:33.880 --> 0:36:35.439
<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, I'm gonna bring it to you guys

0:36:35.440 --> 0:36:37.080
<v Speaker 1>because I think you should do your own at home

0:36:37.120 --> 0:36:43.720
<v Speaker 1>and then we can all compare our notes. Comparing notes ament. Okay,

0:36:43.760 --> 0:36:45.560
<v Speaker 1>do you want to hear what it is? You know

0:36:45.600 --> 0:36:49.760
<v Speaker 1>what making food homework is like scheduling intimacy. It doesn't

0:36:49.800 --> 0:36:54.200
<v Speaker 1>work the same, It does work the same. Yeah, scheduling

0:36:54.200 --> 0:36:57.480
<v Speaker 1>intimacy takes the intimacy out of it. I don't think

0:36:57.520 --> 0:37:01.400
<v Speaker 1>I've ever done that. You've never been like tonight, you

0:37:01.440 --> 0:37:07.840
<v Speaker 1>wanna never should we scheduling intimacy is literally like putting

0:37:07.840 --> 0:37:11.080
<v Speaker 1>in your calendar for thirty on a Tuesday. That's and

0:37:11.120 --> 0:37:14.239
<v Speaker 1>that to me takes get out of the intimacy. But

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<v Speaker 1>do you have to do that right because you're so busy?

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<v Speaker 1>So what is made fans before? You know, like sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>you just look at the week and I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if you've seen some of these days, but like the

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<v Speaker 1>list of things schedule no oh no, no no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>unscheduled time, unscheduled time. But anyway, to me, having a

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<v Speaker 1>homework assignment about the food is the same. You understand

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<v Speaker 1>what I say. Okay, I do, but I think you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna like this. So what I want you guys to

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<v Speaker 1>do is when you go home or when next time

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<v Speaker 1>you guys go do it this week? So any day

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<v Speaker 1>this week, you have seven days to do it. We

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, we don't it's Wednesday, Okay, I know, but

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<v Speaker 1>we can so Wednesday and Wednesday. Yeah. What I'm saying

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<v Speaker 1>is like I'm not giving you time pressure except for

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<v Speaker 1>seven said soon, you're gonna go to the grocery store

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<v Speaker 1>at some point in the next couple of days. Next

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<v Speaker 1>time you go to the grocery store, get one of

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<v Speaker 1>every kind of apple, and you're gonna go home and

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<v Speaker 1>and put it in a different cup and put the

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<v Speaker 1>little sticky at the bottom, and you're gonna do a

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<v Speaker 1>blind taste test of every apple to see what your

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<v Speaker 1>favorite apple. Truly, that's easy, honey, christ that's what you think.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what you care about? Our favorite apple. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even like an apple. You don't like a little apple

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<v Speaker 1>nibble for like a snack. Apples have never interested me

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<v Speaker 1>because of this skin. Oh yeah, you peel them, you

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<v Speaker 1>peel them. But so why apples we do this? Can

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<v Speaker 1>we do this with any other thing? Like about grapes

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<v Speaker 1>or nuts? Well, nuts are so easy. It's like you

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<v Speaker 1>put a cashe in your mouth blind you know it's

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<v Speaker 1>a cash you okay? Apples are more like hard to distinguish.

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<v Speaker 1>And what's the reason we're testing our favorite apple? Because

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<v Speaker 1>everybody has like a hot take on what the best

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<v Speaker 1>apple is. And I feel like sometimes everybody's a hot

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<v Speaker 1>take on the best apple? Who like the internet? This

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<v Speaker 1>is not is this? No, this is Tanya. Tanya loves apples,

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<v Speaker 1>So this is she did this because she loves She's

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<v Speaker 1>obsessed with apples. And you love what do you love?

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<v Speaker 1>I love Fuji's and Robbie loves Honey Crisp, and so

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<v Speaker 1>we took all We took five different apples. And guess what.

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<v Speaker 1>Neither one of those two are going to be in

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<v Speaker 1>our house. In your relationship. If you're doing this, you

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<v Speaker 1>actually need some problems with Yeah, we did. There was

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<v Speaker 1>not much else to do. But it was so fun.

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<v Speaker 1>And now we're going to be a cosmic and envy

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<v Speaker 1>apple house. Why don't you have a good argument like

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<v Speaker 1>tasting apples. No, we're gonna give you some things to

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<v Speaker 1>fuel the argument. Mind it. I might try it and

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<v Speaker 1>the kids will have fun doing it, and like the idea? Dim,

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<v Speaker 1>I take you up on it. Fine, I'll play along.

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<v Speaker 1>The only apple I literally look forward to is that

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<v Speaker 1>candy apple wrapped in nuts on a stick. But it

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<v Speaker 1>has to be like pink Lady Honey is the rules

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<v Speaker 1>my favorite apple? You can't have a candied because it's

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<v Speaker 1>a candy apple. You're gonna candy all the different apples

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<v Speaker 1>and then taste it. I'm gonna go schedule some intimate

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<v Speaker 1>something better do this. I think it could be really fun.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll do it, but can you get me all the

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<v Speaker 1>apples and deliver them to my house. Sure. Great. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna go bobbing tonight and I want to bob with me.

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<v Speaker 1>That sounds fun. Bob Air on Air with Ryan Secrets