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Speaker 1: From Hollywood. See you. Thank you for listening to us

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Speaker 1: on air with Ryan Seacrest. Would you not want to know?

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Speaker 1: I'm just listening to lyrics. Would you not want to know?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Would I not want to know? But

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Speaker 1: let it still go on? Oh? I would want to know?

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Speaker 1: All of it's so painful. What's the problem with relationships?

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Speaker 1: The pain? Yeah? That's sometimes I don't get into him.

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Speaker 1: I know you're always waiting for the shoe to drop?

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Speaker 1: Are you like that too? I am like that? Yeah, really,

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Speaker 1: which is a real problem. Can you ask your therapist

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Speaker 1: tiny about that for me? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, I can

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Speaker 1: help you, actually, because I've talked to her about it

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Speaker 1: at NAZA. Why is that they were always waiting for something?

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Speaker 1: Everybody can be like that, even if you're children that

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Speaker 1: you can constantly be waiting for the shoe to drop.

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Speaker 1: But that's not the way to live your life. I'm

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Speaker 1: not living my life like that. I'm not waiting for

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Speaker 1: the shoot drop. Well, yeah, they should not live like that.

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Speaker 1: You're not waiting for Robbie to you like that through

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Speaker 1: more heartbreak than you have. Yes, I think that when

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Speaker 1: you are hurt time and time again, you know that

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Speaker 1: of relationships that you're just hurt, and so you kind

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Speaker 1: of live in this pattern space of like waiting for

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Speaker 1: that hurt to happen, and you don't get into them

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Speaker 1: because you know how bad the pain is, so you

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Speaker 1: push them off that way. So it's not necessarily that

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Speaker 1: you think Robbie is gonna hurt you. You just think

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Speaker 1: the hurt is going to happen. Now somehow it's the

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Speaker 1: worst way to live. I'm much better. I'm much much

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Speaker 1: better now. But like when I first started therapy, that

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Speaker 1: was like one of my big things. You feel it,

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Speaker 1: like what guid do. I know it's gonna sound cliche

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Speaker 1: and everybody says it, but being says it. But being present,

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Speaker 1: being like living in the day to day, in the

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Speaker 1: moment of the relationship. And also, um, I have a

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Speaker 1: little bit of that mental like I was a little

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Speaker 1: bit in that headspace of nothing good lasts forever, like

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Speaker 1: everything good cup must come to an end. So dark,

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Speaker 1: I know, and I had to really get myself out

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Speaker 1: of it. But you don't portray that like to us

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Speaker 1: or like you what we see like on Instagram you

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Speaker 1: seem so happy. Well I am happy, I am super happy,

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Speaker 1: But you don't you didn't say that, just now, Well

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Speaker 1: you can be both things. They can coexist. What happiness

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Speaker 1: and unhappiness? No happiness and like fear fear. Yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: a lot of fluctuates, like a lot of fluidity. It's

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Speaker 1: a lot of fluidity, and it's all rooted in fear

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Speaker 1: and like not living in faith, it's all rooted in pain.

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Speaker 1: Like I guess, yeah, I guess I can separate, like

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Speaker 1: because as a parent, like I'm happy with my kids

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Speaker 1: have I'm happy for that. I'm also like scared that

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Speaker 1: like I'm scared when they leave the door the house

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Speaker 1: every day. That's a different scare. Do you ever think

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Speaker 1: because you have kids? Are you have friends of mine

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Speaker 1: that have kids say to me, just remember when you

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Speaker 1: have kids that you still have a relationship, because otherwise,

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Speaker 1: you know, the kids become obviously such a focal point

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Speaker 1: that you lose the connection with your partner. Date nights something,

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Speaker 1: they say to me, a lot weekends away, all of

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Speaker 1: that is so important to you. Say come over. They say, hey, right,

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Speaker 1: we gotta still date. You know when you have kids.

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Speaker 1: Michael and I were counting down the days until they're

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Speaker 1: out of the house. Are you kidding me? You know

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Speaker 1: about the tow too two rule? Right? I remind me again.

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Speaker 1: You told it to I know, and I forgot it

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Speaker 1: to two dates a month, two dates a month, a

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Speaker 1: You guys are good. No wonder she's talking about not

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Speaker 1: understanding what we're talking about. Daniell was like, we date

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Speaker 1: like often? Is he romantic? Like? How? I mean, I

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Speaker 1: just feel like I'm always I don't. Yeah, like I

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Speaker 1: feel romance, that's what you're asking. Yeah, yeah, I'm good.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well that was fun. I was gonna give

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Speaker 1: you guys a suggestion to do, but maybe i'll do

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Speaker 1: a little bit later. Homework. It's fun. It's fun homework.

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Speaker 1: paying these bills today. Fun air with Ryan Secrets so

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Speaker 1: your morning act details on a secret sales schedule the

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Speaker 1: Target has with different items on sale depending on the

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Speaker 1: day of the week. I mean, you have to think

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Speaker 1: Target is a playground for opportunity of getting things done

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Speaker 1: all at once, especially if you have kids. Right, you

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Speaker 1: can get in there. What don't they have? I needed, uh,

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Speaker 1: mean when I was a kid, we didn't have places

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Speaker 1: that every you got to go to different places. Candle pillow,

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Speaker 1: you walk in there and close bathing suit. Yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: really someone that loves efficiency. Target Efficient her favorite place

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Speaker 1: to go Target Target Target because everything's there and they

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Speaker 1: I wanted a nice shirt. Uh, Ruby is coming from

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Speaker 1: the back room here, Ruby, are you engaged? It happening?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Ryan, the pressure of the are you engaged? Well?

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Speaker 1: What's going on with this dude? He doesn't he hear

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Speaker 1: about this all the time on the air, And wouldn't

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Speaker 1: you think that would help him move along? He has

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Speaker 1: heard and he just laughs and he's like, don't worry,

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Speaker 1: coming soon. But I'm like, okay, so not engaged. Mom.

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Speaker 1: If you're listening, we'll be still not in with this

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Speaker 1: guy conscience of a saint. Eight years. I'm at three

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, I know the ringwatch can technically work

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Speaker 1: that's on his mind? Yeah, it's getting married. We're talking

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Speaker 1: about correct, I'll like skip the engagement just elope. No, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: So you're telling me that is the year. If he

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Speaker 1: waits another year, you're out. Yeah, year eighteen eight years

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Speaker 1: and you have the patience of the same See y'all.

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Speaker 1: You all were giving me craft for ultimatums and now

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Speaker 1: look at you. The fifth Avatar will be released and

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Speaker 1: it's a third one. It's the second one. The second

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Speaker 1: longer time from now project Okay, So Ruby, what is

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Speaker 1: it you're planning? Uh? Well, I was trying to plan

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Speaker 1: my threint Daniella, my sister was actually yes, So it's

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Speaker 1: kind of like, you know, paying homage to the King Seneta,

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Speaker 1: gone planning for you. Yes, and now we're what like

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Speaker 1: a week away, and she she was She kept telling

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Speaker 1: now it's she dropped the ball. She did people peas. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: you really can't really on anybody but yourself, not even

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Speaker 1: your family, because they disappoint. They really do. Balls dropped everywhere,

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Speaker 1: you know what. I was talking to friend this the

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Speaker 1: other day about this too. No follow through friends? Where

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Speaker 1: is to follow through? People follow through? Want something done,

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Speaker 1: I don't I don't know, but it makes me uncomfortable.

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Speaker 1: Would stay your house though your guest and people disappoint you?

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Speaker 1: Put a robot a little mints. When you leave you,

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Speaker 1: I'll give you a bill. So why why did you

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Speaker 1: not have AA? So my parents gave me the option.

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Speaker 1: didn't get either. They kind of played her. I didn't

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Speaker 1: get the engage marring now little child for sure. So ruby,

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Speaker 1: can't you be candid with your sister and say, hey,

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Speaker 1: we actually haven't really talked about it. She got back

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Speaker 1: how can I express that I'm frustrated, But I'm also

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Speaker 1: You know, here's the thing, something you don't want to know.

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Speaker 1: I think this is good because she's gonna feel bad.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna need her to like do all the wedding

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Speaker 1: On her face? Look at her? I just I try

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421
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Speaker 1: But at the same time, I'm like, he's a different

422
00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:25,160
Speaker 1: chapter and that chapter is closed, you know what I mean?

423
00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:28,399
Speaker 1: This new what advice do you have? This is so

424
00:24:29,560 --> 00:24:34,000
Speaker 1: heavy because he passed away, So you want to be

425
00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:38,240
Speaker 1: sensitive to that. Is she is there an attachment to

426
00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:41,800
Speaker 1: this venue, to this place? Like why is she? Yeah,

427
00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:43,760
Speaker 1: why is she so hung up on the location? Why

428
00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:46,760
Speaker 1: does it have to be there? So she says that

429
00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:48,600
Speaker 1: she has spent a lot of time and it is,

430
00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:50,919
Speaker 1: it's it's a great location. She spent a lot of

431
00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:54,800
Speaker 1: time trying to find one that would be um in

432
00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:56,720
Speaker 1: their budget at the time, which is pretty similar to

433
00:24:56,760 --> 00:24:59,960
Speaker 1: our budget now, um, and that it was just something

434
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:01,840
Speaker 1: I think that she spent so much time in. But

435
00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:05,560
Speaker 1: I do personally feel like there is a little bit

436
00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:11,080
Speaker 1: of some unresolved attachment there there you're gonna have to

437
00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:13,360
Speaker 1: work through there. I mean, you know, I mean, I say,

438
00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:14,919
Speaker 1: he said this is heavy, and this is you know,

439
00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:18,320
Speaker 1: there's death involved here. Then there it is Jared that

440
00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:23,159
Speaker 1: you said it right there. You you have reservation with this,

441
00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:27,240
Speaker 1: like you want to be sensitive to what she's gone through.

442
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:30,119
Speaker 1: But the fact that you have an issue with this,

443
00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:32,639
Speaker 1: like this is for life with you, you know, like

444
00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:37,240
Speaker 1: you're marrying her, you love her, but you have a

445
00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:39,440
Speaker 1: little bit of an issue that there is some sort

446
00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:43,439
Speaker 1: of But it might not even have to do with

447
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:46,679
Speaker 1: with this guy, honestly, because I think I have some

448
00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:49,399
Speaker 1: friends that have had their weddings planned since they were

449
00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:51,920
Speaker 1: fifteen years old. They knew exactly where they wanted to

450
00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:53,760
Speaker 1: get married. They knew what kind of dress they wanted,

451
00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:56,520
Speaker 1: what colors they wanted, and that's what they choked like.

452
00:25:56,840 --> 00:26:00,720
Speaker 1: They were just adamant about that being there, wedding colors

453
00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:03,240
Speaker 1: and their bridesmaid dresses and they just knew. So maybe

454
00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:05,960
Speaker 1: she's the same way doesn't have to do with the guy,

455
00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:07,720
Speaker 1: just has to do with her vision when she was

456
00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:11,199
Speaker 1: a little girl. Okay, Um, I mean I could I

457
00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:12,720
Speaker 1: can certainly phrase it that way and just kind of

458
00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:15,919
Speaker 1: be like, hey, like how long you know did you

459
00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:18,560
Speaker 1: have this place picked out? Um? She is an l

460
00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:21,600
Speaker 1: a local, so I mean, you know, it's entirely possible that, yeah,

461
00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:24,159
Speaker 1: she did kind of grow up seeing that spot and

462
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:28,040
Speaker 1: being like hey, one day like that could be Well, listen,

463
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:30,480
Speaker 1: I think this is all good advice. That's so good

464
00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:32,040
Speaker 1: that would just talk it out here and he didn't

465
00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:33,639
Speaker 1: talk it out with her, talk it out with her

466
00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:36,280
Speaker 1: a little bit, uncover some of the layers here, all right, brother,

467
00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:39,880
Speaker 1: and good luck in congratulations shared. Thank you so much everyone,

468
00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:42,439
Speaker 1: And and Jared, one more final thought from you know

469
00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:46,159
Speaker 1: the wedding planner here, Um, it's not about the wedding,

470
00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:51,720
Speaker 1: it's about the marriage, So just keep the priorities in No. No,

471
00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:55,680
Speaker 1: but I said it. I'm an overthinker by nature. How

472
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:58,760
Speaker 1: many times do I say, guys, it's not about the wedding,

473
00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:01,440
Speaker 1: it's about the marriage. So there you go. Jared, thank

474
00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:03,879
Speaker 1: you very much for calling a good luck said that

475
00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:08,359
Speaker 1: luck dawned on me. Now, have her call you, Big Papa,

476
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:14,840
Speaker 1: and it's gonna all be okay. On Air with Ryan Seacrest,

477
00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:19,639
Speaker 1: Thank you for streaming. Listen to us wherever you are

478
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:23,480
Speaker 1: getting us. Partly sunny today, did you say sunny? Yes?

479
00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:27,119
Speaker 1: I did. Partly sunny today hides in the low sixties.

480
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:30,239
Speaker 1: The rain returns late Friday night and could go on

481
00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:33,280
Speaker 1: for quite a long time. You know, every time I

482
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:36,160
Speaker 1: see that video of the sinkhole freaks me out. Like

483
00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:40,200
Speaker 1: a road just dropping out from underneath you. Vehicle falling

484
00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:42,520
Speaker 1: into a sinkhole, you know what I mean, makes those

485
00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:45,360
Speaker 1: streets look like the crust of a pie. Yeah, it's

486
00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:47,639
Speaker 1: like that. There's an episode of Grades Anatomy where that

487
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:50,679
Speaker 1: actually happens and it looks like that. There's also an

488
00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:53,720
Speaker 1: episode of the News where that did just happen. So

489
00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:57,400
Speaker 1: it and to see the first responders and the rescue

490
00:27:57,440 --> 00:28:00,399
Speaker 1: teams go in and rescue people. Did you see the

491
00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:02,800
Speaker 1: woman being pulled up by the by the rope on

492
00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:06,879
Speaker 1: the news by the cable on the news rescue we

493
00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:09,919
Speaker 1: went down underground when a car fell and brought her.

494
00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:12,240
Speaker 1: I was incredible to see. Was in Chatsworth at sinkhole

495
00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:16,880
Speaker 1: near one. That's the thing. I mean, you don't think

496
00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 1: about the road dropping outcome underneath you when you're sitting

497
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:23,080
Speaker 1: in your vehicle, and then you see how fragile the

498
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:26,439
Speaker 1: streets can be with all of this over saturation. Just

499
00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:28,960
Speaker 1: one more thing to freak us all out, all right,

500
00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:32,600
Speaker 1: So cissany this is saying people are still doing in

501
00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:35,680
Speaker 1: the wild with me. My friends are still saying I'm

502
00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:38,600
Speaker 1: still saying it too, Happy New Year. My whole thing

503
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:43,400
Speaker 1: is like, I think it needs to be done already,

504
00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:46,680
Speaker 1: Like when when do we stop saying Happy New Year? Second?

505
00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:49,680
Speaker 1: Look remember that January second? I thought after like this

506
00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:52,040
Speaker 1: the first week that was my thing, Like this past

507
00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:56,720
Speaker 1: Sunday done? Well, the day was New Year's Sunday. No,

508
00:28:57,280 --> 00:28:59,800
Speaker 1: it was Saturday. New Year's Eve was Saturday. New Year's

509
00:28:59,840 --> 00:29:02,280
Speaker 1: Day was Sunday, right, so I would take it one

510
00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:05,160
Speaker 1: week out. They want to start the next consecutive week.

511
00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:09,280
Speaker 1: We're in the new year. Well, so yesterday I had

512
00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:12,280
Speaker 1: you know, I usually have Wednesdays. I have, like you know,

513
00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:15,040
Speaker 1: I have my record label meetings. Yes, and I'm sorry

514
00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:18,040
Speaker 1: I couldn't make them. It's okay, So I meet with

515
00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:21,480
Speaker 1: I meet with different record labels every week, and I

516
00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 1: haven't seen some of them since the New Year. So

517
00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:27,840
Speaker 1: to them there was like they were saying Happy New Year,

518
00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 1: and that was the argument. They're saying, like, well, if

519
00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:31,720
Speaker 1: I haven't seen you, then you can still say Happy

520
00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:33,760
Speaker 1: New Year. But you guys got into this debate in

521
00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:36,280
Speaker 1: the middle of the music meetings. Yeah, I guess DJ

522
00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:39,080
Speaker 1: trouble Xel this is his debate. Well, he's a real instigator,

523
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:42,120
Speaker 1: he really is. So he's saying, if you haven't seen them,

524
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:43,720
Speaker 1: then you can say Happy New Year. I was like,

525
00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:45,800
Speaker 1: what if you haven't seen somebody in this March, then

526
00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:47,239
Speaker 1: can you still say Happy New Year? And like, then

527
00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:50,200
Speaker 1: you can't. He's wrong. I mean, it's all wrong. It

528
00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:52,320
Speaker 1: is the second week. I mean, that's just the unwritten rule.

529
00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:53,960
Speaker 1: I think it's done. It's like, you can't say Happy

530
00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:55,440
Speaker 1: New Year anymore. I don't care if I haven't seen you.

531
00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:58,520
Speaker 1: I am with you on that Wednesday, January eleven, happy

532
00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:01,120
Speaker 1: it is. It is the new year. I've already given

533
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:04,120
Speaker 1: up on all of our new eating plans. The one

534
00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:08,800
Speaker 1: thing that I do um, I do not fight about

535
00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:11,600
Speaker 1: what's the right word, but I do believe is true,

536
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:14,720
Speaker 1: is that the whole wearing white thing. I can wear

537
00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:17,640
Speaker 1: white to two things that I believe in. I can

538
00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:19,560
Speaker 1: wear white any time of the year. And I can

539
00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:22,840
Speaker 1: have red wine with fish. So leave me alone, have

540
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:25,880
Speaker 1: red wine with fish. Some people think that white wine

541
00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:28,120
Speaker 1: should go with chicken and fish, but I like red

542
00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:30,320
Speaker 1: wine with chicken or fish, and so I don't want

543
00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:32,440
Speaker 1: to play the game of white pants and white and

544
00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:35,040
Speaker 1: red wine with fish and chicken and Happy New Year.

545
00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 1: So well, let's settle this these important things. I guess

546
00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:42,000
Speaker 1: you would be the expert when it comes to Happy

547
00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:45,040
Speaker 1: New Year, so I'll take your advice on that. Yeah,

548
00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:46,920
Speaker 1: I mean the fact that I count from ten. Yeah,

549
00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:54,239
Speaker 1: you're like Mr new Year, Mr new Years. I like it.

550
00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:56,760
Speaker 1: Thank you for that title. You should claim it. That

551
00:30:56,800 --> 00:31:00,280
Speaker 1: should be like in your Instagram bio year trademark that

552
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:02,840
Speaker 1: Mr new Year. Yeah, like when I think that, yeah,

553
00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:05,240
Speaker 1: you're right. When I think of New Year New Year's Eve,

554
00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:07,840
Speaker 1: I think of you missed the New Year, and then

555
00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:10,200
Speaker 1: when you get here on Monday. Different. No, when I

556
00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:12,280
Speaker 1: think of Christmas, I think of Santa Claus. And when

557
00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:15,800
Speaker 1: I think of New Year's I think of you waiting

558
00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:20,920
Speaker 1: for Easter. The bunny Easter Bunny for St. Patrick's Day.

559
00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:23,080
Speaker 1: I think about the lepric. I think about you again.

560
00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:25,320
Speaker 1: People think about me all the time as a lepricn

561
00:31:26,800 --> 00:31:29,640
Speaker 1: very good you beat me to it. Today is Mary J.

562
00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:32,400
Speaker 1: Blige's birthday. I've been a fan for so many years

563
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:35,760
Speaker 1: and got to know over the years. So congratulations Mary j.

564
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:39,640
Speaker 1: Unincredible successful career and so much more to come. Partly

565
00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:43,200
Speaker 1: sunny highs in the low sixties and the rain. Get

566
00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:47,480
Speaker 1: ready to greet it again Friday night. All right, So

567
00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:50,800
Speaker 1: let's talk about relationships. We don't really think about them

568
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:54,320
Speaker 1: much on this show. It's the only time I talk

569
00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:58,080
Speaker 1: about relationships in my life really is here or on

570
00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:01,560
Speaker 1: Kelly and Ryan. Like I don't like talk about relationships

571
00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:06,880
Speaker 1: or even mine outside of you guys every day. Then, Yeah,

572
00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:09,200
Speaker 1: did you talk about your relationship when you go home?

573
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:14,920
Speaker 1: I do not. I don't really talk about my relationship

574
00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:17,840
Speaker 1: with Michael, Like, sit down and go let's talk about

575
00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:21,440
Speaker 1: our relationship. We talked about our lives, like our five

576
00:32:21,520 --> 00:32:23,920
Speaker 1: year plan. What are we doing? Are you do a

577
00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:28,800
Speaker 1: long game? Yeah, we're always it sounds like you're frustrated, Yeah,

578
00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:31,200
Speaker 1: because we're we have like a you know, we're thinking

579
00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:35,240
Speaker 1: about our next move. There's a lot going on in

580
00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:40,960
Speaker 1: real estate. Oh, I know, that's for another day. That's

581
00:32:41,040 --> 00:32:46,760
Speaker 1: for another day. Yes, Tanya, first you and now sisting

582
00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:49,680
Speaker 1: what you left and went to Robbie's. Now she's packing

583
00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:54,760
Speaker 1: her bags. Well I'm not not going to Oh. Definitely.

584
00:32:55,760 --> 00:33:01,360
Speaker 1: Speaking of relationships, so you're saying that there are red

585
00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:04,160
Speaker 1: flags that have been identified by those who have looked

586
00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:07,200
Speaker 1: at relationships that are on a track to dumage. Yeah,

587
00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:12,360
Speaker 1: jarring warning signs sort of speak for a doomed love match.

588
00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:15,080
Speaker 1: The thing when you think you see a red flag,

589
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:17,000
Speaker 1: as you said, you kind of turned the other way.

590
00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 1: You totally justify it. We've all done that. We do

591
00:33:20,080 --> 00:33:24,160
Speaker 1: justify that whatever it is, because it's kind of judgment

592
00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:26,320
Speaker 1: on you for your choice. And that's why your family

593
00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:28,400
Speaker 1: sees it first, your friends see it first, and you

594
00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 1: push it away. You don't want to hear it, and

595
00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:35,400
Speaker 1: you're blind to it. So these are the flags. So, um,

596
00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:37,040
Speaker 1: there's actually a few of them. I just picked the

597
00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:40,320
Speaker 1: top three and I'll go from three to one. So

598
00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:44,520
Speaker 1: number three being clingy ranked third, which was seen by

599
00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:49,040
Speaker 1: participants as covering controlling behavior and being overly jealous. So

600
00:33:49,160 --> 00:33:53,280
Speaker 1: clingy jealousy at the red flag. Be clear, I don't

601
00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:58,840
Speaker 1: think clinging means jealous I don't think clinging means jealous

602
00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:01,240
Speaker 1: necessarily because I'm not the jealous type. But I am

603
00:34:01,280 --> 00:34:05,000
Speaker 1: a little clingy. But I think there's two different things.

604
00:34:05,120 --> 00:34:09,560
Speaker 1: Like I think it's like I like to be with

605
00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:11,839
Speaker 1: my partner a lot, like I like I like him

606
00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:13,440
Speaker 1: to like I like to be with him all the time,

607
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:18,239
Speaker 1: like I like each other. I mean, yeah, I think

608
00:34:18,239 --> 00:34:21,280
Speaker 1: there's a jeal. I think that you could be jealous though, too, Tanya,

609
00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:23,759
Speaker 1: But I don't. I don't have that. I think if

610
00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:26,520
Speaker 1: somebody was rubbing up on Robbie at an event or something,

611
00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:29,799
Speaker 1: you would be jealous. Well, why is anybody rubbing up

612
00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:34,799
Speaker 1: all there? You go? Okay? Number two? Uh, someone that's

613
00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:40,279
Speaker 1: gross meaning having poor hygiene, smelling bad and actually um,

614
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:42,040
Speaker 1: well we don't need to get to like and either

615
00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:44,759
Speaker 1: other stuff. But basically if you find them unattractive, that's

616
00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:46,920
Speaker 1: a big red flag when it comes to gross hygiene

617
00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:51,480
Speaker 1: stuff um. And then uh, being in an attentive, uncaring,

618
00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:56,040
Speaker 1: untrusting um that is considered the biggest red flag of

619
00:34:56,080 --> 00:35:00,360
Speaker 1: all for both men and women. Being inattentive, not paying attention,

620
00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:04,799
Speaker 1: not listening, not caring. Yes, yeah, these are all bad.

621
00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:08,640
Speaker 1: Any single one of them would make you think you're

622
00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:11,520
Speaker 1: on the wrong track. If you can't trust your partner

623
00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:14,160
Speaker 1: and it gets to the point where they're not supporting

624
00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:17,440
Speaker 1: you and they're not believing in the things that you

625
00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:21,799
Speaker 1: believe in, or basically kind of just not by your

626
00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:24,440
Speaker 1: side and kind of like holding you up. I think

627
00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:27,600
Speaker 1: that's a red flag. I don't know that Tony and

628
00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:30,080
Speaker 1: I have heard anything since you said someone else quote

629
00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:33,960
Speaker 1: rubbing up on Robbie kind of been in this space.

630
00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:36,320
Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't think you'd like anybody rubbing

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Speaker 1: up on Michael either. Hell no, okay, he's rubbing up

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Speaker 1: on anybody and rubbing up anybody. Why are you dance?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. We're rubbing up on someone the dance.

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Speaker 1: I guess that's what you do when you dance. I

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Speaker 1: don't know. But no, not a stranger. That's how you

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Speaker 1: would dance with your significant other. All right, Hey, can

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Speaker 1: we go back at the beginning of the show. I

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Speaker 1: thought we'd put some pins in things that we need

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Speaker 1: to cover, and I'm afraid I don't get to is

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Speaker 1: do then we'll yeah, then we'll be done. So, Tony,

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Speaker 1: did you keep the pin note? Yeah? Well, so we

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Speaker 1: were talking about some deep things, but my pen came

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Speaker 1: out of nowhere, you know, like I think sometimes my

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Speaker 1: brain just does this where it's just something pops up.

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Speaker 1: And I wanted you, guys, I have some homework for you. Guys.

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Speaker 1: I think you would really enjoy and have a lot

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Speaker 1: of fun with every time you say, I feel like

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Speaker 1: you guys will have a lot of fun with me

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Speaker 1: because it involves food. But I don't want to have

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Speaker 1: my food be homework. My food to be enjoyable. Okay, No,

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Speaker 1: So we did this this weekend and I was like,

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Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I'm gonna bring it to you guys

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Speaker 1: because I think you should do your own at home

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Speaker 1: and then we can all compare our notes. Comparing notes ament. Okay,

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Speaker 1: do you want to hear what it is? You know

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Speaker 1: what making food homework is like scheduling intimacy. It doesn't

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Speaker 1: work the same, It does work the same. Yeah, scheduling

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Speaker 1: intimacy takes the intimacy out of it. I don't think

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Speaker 1: I've ever done that. You've never been like tonight, you

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Speaker 1: wanna never should we scheduling intimacy is literally like putting

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Speaker 1: in your calendar for thirty on a Tuesday. That's and

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Speaker 1: that to me takes get out of the intimacy. But

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Speaker 1: do you have to do that right because you're so busy?

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Speaker 1: So what is made fans before? You know, like sometimes

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Speaker 1: you just look at the week and I don't know

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Speaker 1: if you've seen some of these days, but like the

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Speaker 1: list of things schedule no oh no, no no, no,

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Speaker 1: unscheduled time, unscheduled time. But anyway, to me, having a

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Speaker 1: homework assignment about the food is the same. You understand

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Speaker 1: what I say. Okay, I do, but I think you're

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Speaker 1: gonna like this. So what I want you guys to

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Speaker 1: do is when you go home or when next time

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Speaker 1: you guys go do it this week? So any day

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Speaker 1: this week, you have seven days to do it. We

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Speaker 1: don't know, we don't it's Wednesday, Okay, I know, but

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Speaker 1: we can so Wednesday and Wednesday. Yeah. What I'm saying

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Speaker 1: is like I'm not giving you time pressure except for

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Speaker 1: seven said soon, you're gonna go to the grocery store

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Speaker 1: at some point in the next couple of days. Next

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Speaker 1: time you go to the grocery store, get one of

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Speaker 1: every kind of apple, and you're gonna go home and

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Speaker 1: and put it in a different cup and put the

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Speaker 1: little sticky at the bottom, and you're gonna do a

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Speaker 1: blind taste test of every apple to see what your

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Speaker 1: favorite apple. Truly, that's easy, honey, christ that's what you think.

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Speaker 1: That's what you care about? Our favorite apple. I don't

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Speaker 1: even like an apple. You don't like a little apple

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Speaker 1: nibble for like a snack. Apples have never interested me

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Speaker 1: because of this skin. Oh yeah, you peel them, you

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Speaker 1: peel them. But so why apples we do this? Can

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Speaker 1: we do this with any other thing? Like about grapes

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Speaker 1: or nuts? Well, nuts are so easy. It's like you

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Speaker 1: put a cashe in your mouth blind you know it's

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Speaker 1: a cash you okay? Apples are more like hard to distinguish.

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Speaker 1: And what's the reason we're testing our favorite apple? Because

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Speaker 1: everybody has like a hot take on what the best

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Speaker 1: apple is. And I feel like sometimes everybody's a hot

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Speaker 1: take on the best apple? Who like the internet? This

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Speaker 1: is not is this? No, this is Tanya. Tanya loves apples,

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Speaker 1: So this is she did this because she loves She's

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Speaker 1: obsessed with apples. And you love what do you love?

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Speaker 1: I love Fuji's and Robbie loves Honey Crisp, and so

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Speaker 1: we took all We took five different apples. And guess what.

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Speaker 1: Neither one of those two are going to be in

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Speaker 1: our house. In your relationship. If you're doing this, you

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Speaker 1: actually need some problems with Yeah, we did. There was

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Speaker 1: not much else to do. But it was so fun.

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Speaker 1: And now we're going to be a cosmic and envy

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Speaker 1: apple house. Why don't you have a good argument like

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Speaker 1: tasting apples. No, we're gonna give you some things to

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Speaker 1: fuel the argument. Mind it. I might try it and

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Speaker 1: the kids will have fun doing it, and like the idea? Dim,

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Speaker 1: I take you up on it. Fine, I'll play along.

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Speaker 1: The only apple I literally look forward to is that

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Speaker 1: candy apple wrapped in nuts on a stick. But it

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Speaker 1: has to be like pink Lady Honey is the rules

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Speaker 1: my favorite apple? You can't have a candied because it's

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Speaker 1: a candy apple. You're gonna candy all the different apples

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Speaker 1: and then taste it. I'm gonna go schedule some intimate

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Speaker 1: something better do this. I think it could be really fun.

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Speaker 1: I'll do it, but can you get me all the

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Speaker 1: apples and deliver them to my house. Sure. Great. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna go bobbing tonight and I want to bob with me.

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Speaker 1: That sounds fun. Bob Air on Air with Ryan Secrets