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Speaker 2: I think it's fair. Am I the a hole?

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Speaker 3: No, you're just stopping the next generation of her children,

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Speaker 2: You know who wants? Who wants another little shoot, little

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Speaker 3: You know what we already got like seven billion? Are

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Speaker 3: you trying to cause like a global ecological price? Trying

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Speaker 2: Be more like fanos, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, fanna snap your kids away?

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Speaker 2: That's right, more abortunand oh jeez.

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Speaker 1: So I am twenty nine female, and my sister Ella

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, that is so awful, so awful.

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Speaker 3: Wait, so like like they're like, hey, do you mind

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Speaker 1: And then I think, yeah, they just like, Ella just

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Speaker 2: High school, that's so la.

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Speaker 1: In high school, Mike, I never understand these these insane things.

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Speaker 1: When my mom passed away, she never got any of

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Speaker 3: They cut them out. So they cut her out of

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Speaker 2: Everything because she likes girls.

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Speaker 1: Literally everything that's so shitty, it's insane, all because she

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Speaker 2: I got all the money.

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Speaker 1: The both of us had cut contact with our parents,

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Speaker 1: our abusive life, so why not. The legal side of

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Speaker 1: things were finalized a week ago. Ella and John came

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Speaker 2: I could see where all of this was going.

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Speaker 3: So they want some of that fertility cash.

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Speaker 1: With that sweet moolah for that sweet baby. So I

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Speaker 1: the right thing to do. You should have half of

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Speaker 1: the money you deserve it, which wait to ope, this

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Speaker 1: is not where I thought I was gonna go yeah. Ope,

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Speaker 1: He's like, hey, you deserve half of this. Wow, you

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Speaker 1: know Okay, that's like super fair fair right, super fan

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Speaker 1: seems seems pretty solid. Her husband John tells me that's

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Speaker 1: not what they wanted to talk about. No, that they

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Speaker 2: Wait, how does that make sense?

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Speaker 3: Give it to me every single cent. Shoot, hey, it's

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Speaker 3: not my fio dick don't work. Come on, now, that

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Speaker 3: is an oversimplification of IVF, and I apologize all of

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Speaker 2: Not simplify. That sounds like like a Harry Potter spell.

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Speaker 2: Simplifi yo doesn't work, erect district.

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Speaker 1: Now that sounds like a real spell. That was impressive, Rectus.

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Speaker 1: Apparently half won't be enough. I tell them that I

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Speaker 1: want the half, all of it for my daughter's college

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Speaker 3: And I think this is a completely valid investment, Like

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Speaker 3: she's literally investing in her daughter's future, right, Like they'll

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Speaker 2: Your maybe baby. Hey, who needs college? Okay, that's true? True?

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Speaker 3: John is an advocate for no college. Dart it away, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: It's so easy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, a show obviously, one simple trick, one simple trick

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Speaker 3: Like I mean, if you're going IVY, that's shit like

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Speaker 1: Wow, egregious egregious, egregious. I tell Ella and John all

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Speaker 1: Ella said I was sabotaging her and that I owed

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Speaker 3: Ella, has you babysat your sister a couple of times

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Speaker 3: and now were like, I'm entitled to the whole fortune.

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Speaker 2: Here's an invoice.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know I couldn't charge our parents, So yeah,

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Speaker 3: This is the interest you want one hundred thousand dollars

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Speaker 1: John said, since Ella faced more struggles, she deserved all

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Speaker 3: I don't think it's I don't think it should be

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Speaker 3: Do you like every time your your mother calls you

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Speaker 2: It's a square jar. It just gets so tricky.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Oh my gosh, imagine if the inheritance was

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is ridiculous. Just split in half, but in half.

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Speaker 2: I was just not prepared to fight.

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Speaker 1: My daughter needed my attention and I want and Tom

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Speaker 1: Ella calls me and I pick.

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Speaker 2: Up any of the money.

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Speaker 1: We shouldn't give them the money. Maybe it might be

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Speaker 1: all the money's clear as of right now, right now.

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Speaker 1: Ella calls me and I pick up. She tells me

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Speaker 2: The surface and why they're pushing so hard for this money.

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Speaker 3: Bro, a baby will not save your marriage. What why

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Speaker 3: do people why a baby is not gonna save it?

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Speaker 2: Why do people baby will?

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Speaker 3: A baby only makes it harder?

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Speaker 1: Like, seriously, what do you think is going to happen?

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Speaker 1: It is your turn.

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Speaker 2: I hate you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like, go on a trip to Italy. Yea, go

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Speaker 1: At least that increases your chance having a baby. Does

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Speaker 2: Ye, a little tiny bit.

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Speaker 1: I told her I would not give her the entire amount,

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Speaker 1: Your shit exactly. I felt guilty about all of this,

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Speaker 2: No, no, even a little microsphincter.

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Speaker 3: No, no, should it? Should one thousand be split evenly?

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Speaker 1: I think it's just again, it just makes it so

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Speaker 3: Like Also what it does is like it's like, oh,

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Speaker 3: Half easy psy level squeezy, which is splitting in half

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Speaker 1: I got a lot of helpful tips, and I also

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so I don't know if we've heard a lot

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Speaker 2: So like maybe I don't know what that looks like.

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Speaker 1: You know, Okay, like we're going to show you that,

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Speaker 2: Punishment should be social.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and then but just give them what I think

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Speaker 3: today I affed up by challenging a senator to a

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Speaker 3: So it feels like, like, you know, like those old

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Speaker 3: he's literally just like trolling on Facebook and just like

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Speaker 3: and like the Senator responds and is like, you know what,

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Speaker 3: I challenge you.

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Speaker 2: That's amazing.

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Speaker 3: He wants us to go at it, either in a

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Speaker 3: this happen. I'm not sure if I'm in over my

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Speaker 3: I have a surface level amount of training from my

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Speaker 2: I love this well.

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Speaker 3: I highly doubt he will follow through. I better start

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Speaker 3: like eighteen hundred dueling shit. I can provide redacted screenshots

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Speaker 3: Edit while this blew up, just woke up. I will

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Speaker 3: read through all the comments as time allows today and

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Speaker 3: screenshots in the comments. Thanks for the encouragement, fellow Americans

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Speaker 3: and random fellow humans around the world. As usual, Internet

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Speaker 3: slews has figured it out. The congressman is Clay Higgins.

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Speaker 3: Do your thing, Internet, Maybe we can find a way

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Speaker 3: to raise money for a charity event even if he

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Speaker 3: backs down. Pr folks message me. Not sure how to proceed,

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Speaker 3: but I'm willing to train and make this happen for

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Speaker 3: a good cause. It's like YouTuber boxing.

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Speaker 2: Dude, for real. I love it.

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Speaker 3: I want senator boxing.

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Speaker 1: We we need political boxing against Yeah, what what are

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Speaker 1: we doing it?

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Speaker 3: Joe Biden and Donald Trump in the road ding ding

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Speaker 3: Ding baby. Here's a quick update. I've had a couple

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Speaker 3: I suspect Clay will continue to ignore all this, as

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Speaker 3: this isn't it the first time challenging people to a

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Speaker 3: as it will be fun and good for me. For

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Speaker 3: those who were wondering, I am and was a Republican

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Speaker 3: back towards moderate, but I won't hold my breath. We

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Speaker 2: Anyway.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to take days to read through these comments

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Speaker 3: and reply to some Bear with me. Thanks for the support,

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Speaker 3: and I'm very excited to fight this guy in Alaska.

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Speaker 2: Dude, this is so hilarious and amazing.

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Speaker 3: Ridiculous, ridiculous, but I love it.

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Speaker 2: Op. Yes, sir,