Speaker 1: Hey, there're folks. In this episode, we continue our series
Speaker 1: love Stories today our second couple, Camera and Eddie Judge,
Speaker 1: the real housewife and her husband of eleven years, our
Speaker 1: hero to help us, help you. Welcome to the special
Speaker 1: Cuffing season edition of Amy and TJ and Robes. These
Speaker 1: are two folks who married eleven years and some didn't
Speaker 1: think it was going to make it to twelve. They
Speaker 1: were having to deal with rumors very recently if something
Speaker 1: was going on in their marriage.
Speaker 2: Just a couple of weeks ago, Tamar actually felt the
Speaker 2: need to say something, to make a statement because there
Speaker 2: were so many rumors swirling about their impending divorce, which
Speaker 2: is sport for some people, and that's it's sad when
Speaker 2: you're on the receiving end of it. So I'm glad
Speaker 2: she set the record straight. But based on our conversation,
Speaker 2: it's quite the opposite from what the tabloids are trying
Speaker 2: to sell.
Speaker 1: You and I'd like and then we could we you
Speaker 1: and I could take lessons from Tamra Judge to where
Speaker 1: there was something out there floating around. She shut it down,
Speaker 1: and it was funny how she shut it down. She
Speaker 1: just said, get a life. Is there res fine, it
Speaker 1: was that simple, but you could shut it down with
Speaker 1: just those words. So we should listen to her Real
Speaker 1: Housewives of Orange.
Speaker 2: Count Tony and we've gotten to know her and Eddie
Speaker 2: over the past year or so with the iHeart Family
Speaker 2: and hearing that she said get a life. That is
Speaker 2: just so on brand for her and anyone who watches
Speaker 2: obviously Real Housewives knows her. She says exactly what she
Speaker 2: thinks and makes no apologies for it. But it's really
Speaker 2: cool to see her with her husband Eddie of eleven years,
Speaker 2: just interacting with one another. You know, it's one thing
Speaker 2: if I were to have just interviewed them, or if
Speaker 2: you were to have just interviewed them, it might have
Speaker 2: been a little more formal and a little less forthcoming
Speaker 2: in terms of what they were comfortable with talking about.
Speaker 2: But when it's one couple asking another couple, it's kind
Speaker 2: of like the playing field is equal and everyone feels
Speaker 2: comfortable sharing secrets that maybe you wouldn't if you were
Speaker 2: being interviewed by someone.
Speaker 1: And this is a one hundred percent true story about
Speaker 1: these two Tamernetti which who have a huge following. Obviously
Speaker 1: that you were even found out about hanging out with
Speaker 1: the friend of ours yesterday that just mentioning Tamara Judge's name,
Speaker 1: and she just about lost the mind.
Speaker 3: Yes, huge fan, huge fan.
Speaker 1: But when we did, we did. It was our first
Speaker 1: real iHeart event. After we had joined the team and
Speaker 1: announced our podcast. We went out to California. There was
Speaker 1: this big dinner for all the iHeart podcast hosts and
Speaker 1: folks that night we met Tamarnetti. That night, we spent
Speaker 1: more time talking to Tamarorannetti in a corner just us
Speaker 1: hanging out than anybody else. We loved them.
Speaker 2: It was it was great to feel like another couple
Speaker 2: understood what it was like to have their lives splashed
Speaker 2: out in the headlines and in in not real ways
Speaker 2: where you constantly we're dealing with rumors or battling bad headlines.
Speaker 2: And so that was an immediate connection we all had together.
Speaker 2: And the fact that Tamra this is her second marriage,
Speaker 2: so you know, there is camaraderie among folks who have
Speaker 2: have had certain events in their lives bring them together.
Speaker 2: And a lot of times it is sometimes the harder
Speaker 2: ones that you connect with people over, but there are
Speaker 2: shared experiences and a lot of lessons to be learned
Speaker 2: they're ahead of us. They're way ahead of us in
Speaker 2: terms of having a very public marriage be on display
Speaker 2: and then to continue to have that marriage be on
Speaker 2: television or in the headlines by choice. This is what
Speaker 2: she does for a living, this is what he does
Speaker 2: for a living. So part of their public persona and
Speaker 2: their and their couple or their relationship being out there
Speaker 2: for fodder is because that's how they make their living,
Speaker 2: and that's how we make our living, and so that's
Speaker 2: it comes with the territory.
Speaker 1: Okay, I did not make my living but have our
Speaker 1: relationship out there as fodder the record.
Speaker 2: By product.
Speaker 1: Sod it.
Speaker 2: I wouldn't choose it. I wouldn't choose that.
Speaker 1: No, But guess what we've been doing here. They are
Speaker 1: a couple number two for us. A couple number one
Speaker 1: was Tristan Ryan Sutter. But we are asking all these
Speaker 1: couples the exact same questions. We have a long list
Speaker 1: that we go through and just get their honest answers
Speaker 1: and responses, and a lot of that information has been
Speaker 1: helpful to us already, and we know a lot of
Speaker 1: you all will find it helpful and you'll be able
Speaker 1: to relate to a lot of us of it as well. So,
Speaker 1: without further ado, give you our conversation with Tamera and Eddie.
Speaker 2: Jet.
Speaker 4: Thanks for having us. This is so exciting. It's been
Speaker 4: like a year since we've we met by each other
Speaker 4: last down in Malibu. Oh, so much has gone on
Speaker 4: down there unfortunately.
Speaker 2: Oh I know. Wow, y'all have been through it. But
Speaker 2: I know you've also made it through so many, so
Speaker 2: many occasions in your eleven years together now married. So
Speaker 2: I'm going to start our first question is I'm going
Speaker 2: to ask each of you this, describe your relationship in
Speaker 2: three works. Eddie, I'll start with you.
Speaker 3: New, fun and refreshing.
Speaker 4: Easy, non controlling, well and always fun.
Speaker 1: Well, they have that word to come all right up next,
Speaker 1: was there immediate chemistry when you first met each other
Speaker 1: all those years ago?
Speaker 4: Yeah, we had like a we kind of have a
Speaker 4: funny story about that. I was married and going through
Speaker 4: We knew we were going to get divorced, but I
Speaker 4: was finishing a season out and part of it was
Speaker 4: is we were short selling our house way back then
Speaker 4: when everybody was short selling their houses, and Eddie lived
Speaker 4: in the neighborhood and a mutual friend of ours took
Speaker 4: me to his house to look at it because he
Speaker 4: thought about renting it. So and this is the house
Speaker 4: we're in today, and so camera guys behind me. My
Speaker 4: friend Marcos is next to me. The door opens, Eddy answers.
Speaker 4: I swear he has no shirt on, but he does,
Speaker 4: and I'm just like our eyes locked, and my friend
Speaker 4: Marcus is like hitting me, like there's cameras behind you.
Speaker 4: There's cameras behind you. And it was like immediate, like
Speaker 4: when you see like the fireworks. Me evidently shirtless or
Speaker 4: he was shirtless, not me, and it was just like
Speaker 4: it was an explosion. It really was.
Speaker 3: It really was love at first sight. I never believed
Speaker 3: in that, but I experienced when I first looked at
Speaker 3: our stars and birds and all this, like I was
Speaker 3: hallucinating on drugs or something, you know, not that I've
Speaker 3: ever but it felt like a cartoon, Like when you
Speaker 3: see that on cartoon, you smash the head you watch love.
Speaker 3: I'm a looney tune guy.
Speaker 4: So that's that's why he likes me.
Speaker 2: We still watch them sometimes, absolutely do all right, who
Speaker 2: made the first moves me?
Speaker 3: I think you? Yeah, yeah I did.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: We were celebrating the holidays because this was sometime around
Speaker 3: June that we met, and then I didn't hear from
Speaker 3: her talk to her because I knew she was married
Speaker 3: for about six months. Seven months, holidays hit our friend
Speaker 3: Marcos again Cupid invited me to some of the same
Speaker 3: parties that she was attending, and we just had so
Speaker 3: much chemistry. We kept sitting next to each other and
Speaker 3: you know, talking, and at one point it was kind
Speaker 3: of awkward because I'm having this intimate conversation with her.
Speaker 3: We really locked eyes and connected and her ex now
Speaker 3: husband was standing right behind her, but I didn't care.
Speaker 3: I was just so connected with her.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I literally even though I knew I was getting
Speaker 4: divorced and it wasn't working out in my other marriage,
Speaker 4: Eddie and I had talked and he said, listen, you
Speaker 4: got to figure your shit out. I really like you,
Speaker 4: I really want this to go somewhere, but you got
Speaker 4: to figure your shit out. So it didn't talk for
Speaker 4: a little while, and then I literally left.
Speaker 3: My husband couldn't live without me, and.
Speaker 4: We've been I never dated anybody else. We've been together
Speaker 4: ever since. I might say that's cheating. Yeah, I don't
Speaker 4: give a shit.
Speaker 1: That's one way to put it. Yeah, Oh, did we
Speaker 1: mention we missed you, Temva. Next question, this is always
Speaker 1: a big one in relationships. Who said I love you first?
Speaker 3: I'll let you answer that.
Speaker 4: I don't remember it was me? Was it you? It was, Oh,
Speaker 4: I love you too?
Speaker 1: Years later I love that. How long?
Speaker 2: How long did you all date before you got engaged?
Speaker 2: And then how long was the engagement.
Speaker 4: We dated? I think it was like a year, right,
Speaker 4: and then we got engaged on TV, and then it
Speaker 4: was a couple of years, a little over two years
Speaker 4: before we actually got married. I think we were together
Speaker 4: a little over three years before we walked down the aisle.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it all felt like it happened so fast, though,
Speaker 3: because being a public figure and being on TV, it
Speaker 3: felt like your world is just going a thousand thousan
Speaker 3: an hour. And it felt like we met, fell in love,
Speaker 3: moved in together, and got married within six months.
Speaker 4: But it was I kicked him into reality TV?
Speaker 3: And what is this show? Now?
Speaker 1: This next question we might seem to know they answered
Speaker 1: based on the chemistry question. You answered did you know
Speaker 1: they were the one? And I asked that, I'll ask
Speaker 1: the next part of it. Did you always were you
Speaker 1: always believers? And there was always a one out there
Speaker 1: for you or did something change with this relationship?
Speaker 3: I would say I didn't know she was the one
Speaker 3: because having many relationships, I always felt like they were
Speaker 3: the one.
Speaker 4: And you know, he's a hopeless romantic.
Speaker 3: I commit one hundred percent to what I do. So
Speaker 3: if if that was defined as the one, because nobody
Speaker 3: really ever defined that as who's the one? And what
Speaker 3: is the one? Mean? Is the one forever? Or is
Speaker 3: the one for the next six months?
Speaker 2: You know?
Speaker 3: But the one that you know, I remember that got
Speaker 3: away never existed because they were always the one, and
Speaker 3: going into this relationship, I honestly didn't think she was
Speaker 3: the one. I mean, she had a hundred kids and
Speaker 3: a terrible X and you know, there was a lot
Speaker 3: of baggage there. And I think you said was the one? Well,
Speaker 3: when we first kissed, Diamn, when we first kissed.
Speaker 4: And oh okay, very early on, yeah, very early on.
Speaker 3: It wasn't too far from the minute I met you
Speaker 3: to the time because you couldn't be the one because
Speaker 3: you were married, right, you know, she's not the one.
Speaker 3: A lot of baggage. I don't know what this TV
Speaker 3: stuff is, and I just went with it and I
Speaker 3: let my heart grow into it. And I discovered I
Speaker 3: think two months after we dated and kissed and spent
Speaker 3: time together that I felt like she is the one.
Speaker 3: She's the one I could spend the rest of my
Speaker 3: life with. And we have so much fun together. We
Speaker 3: have so much in common, and we do so many
Speaker 3: things together, and it really is like having a best
Speaker 3: friend all the time.
Speaker 2: That sounds ideal. What is your age difference and has
Speaker 2: that played a role at all in your relationship?
Speaker 4: So Eddie is five and a half years younger than me,
Speaker 4: and depending on if he's like if we're in the
Speaker 4: same like if we're in the fifties or the forties together,
Speaker 4: like I feel like, oh, no big deal. But now
Speaker 4: we're both in our fifties. So he was in his
Speaker 4: thirties when I met him, and I had just turned
Speaker 4: forty one or two or something like that. And you know,
Speaker 4: there's always an issue like did he want kids? Like
Speaker 4: is this going to work out? Is he going to
Speaker 4: go for somebody younger? But now we're both in our
Speaker 4: fifties and I feel like he's older than me.
Speaker 1: Now, okay, we're five years of art four and a half,
Speaker 1: it's it's five and a half who's older.
Speaker 4: Who's older?
Speaker 2: I'm older and he's in his forties, and I so
Speaker 2: get that camera because, yeah, we're in the same decade,
Speaker 2: because it feels weird when we're in different decades.
Speaker 1: We got several more years of this.
Speaker 4: I just like being in the same decade. I think, like,
Speaker 4: once you hit fifty, it's like, okay, you're just old.
Speaker 2: But when he's like.
Speaker 4: Thirty forty, and I'm like, oh, I don't like this.
Speaker 4: And then when I hit fifty and he was still
Speaker 4: in his forties, I'm like, damn, like you got to
Speaker 4: catch up.
Speaker 3: Well, it seems like every year she adds a year
Speaker 3: to my age.
Speaker 4: I forget how old you are.
Speaker 1: Yeah, close, getting closer in age.
Speaker 4: I'm closing that gap.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Next question, dear guys, why did you want to take
Speaker 1: the step of being married. How do you think your
Speaker 1: relationship would be different if you remained a couple but unmarried.
Speaker 4: Wow? I never really thought about not getting married. I
Speaker 4: was always like, you know, I always wanted to be married.
Speaker 4: I obviously I have been divorced twice. I love being married,
Speaker 4: I love having plus having children. I just always wanted
Speaker 4: to be married. I never like now at my age
Speaker 4: if something were to happen between us, I would probably
Speaker 4: never get married again. I would probably just you know,
Speaker 4: if I ever found somebody, it would just be a partner.
Speaker 4: But I don't think I would go that route. But
Speaker 4: you know, we were both fairly young, and we talked
Speaker 4: about having kids and then decided after we got a
Speaker 4: robot baby, he couldn't handle it.
Speaker 3: Oh she killed it.
Speaker 4: She stuffed it in the couch coouch because it wasn't
Speaker 4: a real baby, it was a robot.
Speaker 3: Me in the morning, and then I found out the
Speaker 3: next morning this this robot, Astro is his name, Astro
Speaker 3: was under the couch dead, and I'm like, we're not
Speaker 3: having kids.
Speaker 4: You just lost the house.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, I mean so it's you guys made the
Speaker 2: right choice.
Speaker 3: Then I think, yes, definitely.
Speaker 2: Did your relationship have the support of your friends and
Speaker 2: your family.
Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, yeah, coming from a relationship that nobody had
Speaker 4: my support. Yeah, they were taking bets at my last
Speaker 4: wedding how long it was going to last. So yeah, no.
Speaker 4: My In fact, my family has said to me, if
Speaker 4: anything were to happen between you guys, if you ever
Speaker 4: got divorced, we're keeping Eddie and we're going to throw
Speaker 4: you out. We're divorcing you.
Speaker 2: That's a good time that you got a good one.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, how would you all know?
Speaker 1: Next question, how would you describe your first year of marriage?
Speaker 4: I don't think it was that easy. Our first year marriage,
Speaker 4: we were also opening up a business together, cut Fitness,
Speaker 4: so adding that putting that together, he started working all
Speaker 4: the time he was gone all the time he had
Speaker 4: he was working at a law firm, family law firm
Speaker 4: and opening up the business at the same time. So
Speaker 4: he I went from like seeing so much of him
Speaker 4: and then we got married and it's like, Okay, where
Speaker 4: are you? Where are you? So you know, I think
Speaker 4: that everybody. I think people would be lying if they
Speaker 4: didn't say they went through growing pains. So we definitely
Speaker 4: had some ups and downs, but nothing horrible.
Speaker 3: All I remember is and I don't know that I
Speaker 3: could do it today, but it's it's like juggling a
Speaker 3: hundred balls in the air. We're filming a reality TV show,
Speaker 3: we're opening up a new business, we're moving in together.
Speaker 4: I have three kids.
Speaker 3: We have three kids, and we're getting a dog. And
Speaker 3: I never wanted a dog in my house because you know,
Speaker 3: they tear up everything. Now I can't live without my dog.
Speaker 3: So it was it was a lot.
Speaker 4: It was possibly more so for me because you know,
Speaker 4: he doesn't have any children, and so bringing three kids
Speaker 4: into which was his house, which always felt weird to
Speaker 4: me because it was his house, and then having to
Speaker 4: like make sure, oh my god, did you know my
Speaker 4: daughter make a mask? Do I have to clean it up?
Speaker 3: Like?
Speaker 4: Did she not clean it up to it? The dishes
Speaker 4: aren't done, like you know, you worry about that. I
Speaker 4: don't want him to ever think like, oh God, because
Speaker 4: we didn't move in like we were dating. I had
Speaker 4: my own house. We didn't really move in until shortly
Speaker 4: before the wedding. Yeah, so it was all kind.
Speaker 3: Of nice and that was part of the reason in
Speaker 3: our discussions about moving in together. We had to you know,
Speaker 3: make it make sense for our kids as well. Can't
Speaker 3: just be living together not married and you know, not
Speaker 3: that there's anything wrong with that, but for us traditionally,
Speaker 3: it made more sense to you know, set up everything
Speaker 3: so it's a comfortable transition for the kids. They had
Speaker 3: a lot of psychological, you know, challenges to deal with. Yeah,
Speaker 3: when that's that's how I got the dog, is because
Speaker 3: my son was moving in and that was going to
Speaker 3: be his dog, and he was. The dog was here
Speaker 3: for about six months before.
Speaker 4: Do you notice how he calls the kids his kids,
Speaker 4: So yeah, he always has.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and we wanted the transition to be as comfortable
Speaker 3: and smooth as possible so that the kids don't, you know,
Speaker 3: go too south on us. Crazy.
Speaker 4: Yeah, well we were working. I mean, it was working
Speaker 4: against us because their father was, you know, feeding in
Speaker 4: terrible stories about me about him, and you know, it
Speaker 4: was a typicult transition.
Speaker 2: The horse is tough, especially public ones. And then yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: we we know exactly how tough that can be. All right,
Speaker 2: here's a fun one. How often do you have sex?
Speaker 2: And how has that changed over the years.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, we used to have it all the time.
Speaker 3: All started with five hours session when we first met.
Speaker 3: I think we're down to five seconds. It's only eleven years.
Speaker 2: Here.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, the good thing about being married is
Speaker 4: you can like look over and go tomorrow, I'm tired. Tomorrow.
Speaker 3: Okay, tomorrow.
Speaker 1: That's a great answer, and that's enough. Thing. A lot
Speaker 1: of people can't see this, but we can see you
Speaker 1: are right now. You all are actually holding hands and
Speaker 1: have been always been sitting it. So that was our
Speaker 1: next question, How important is physical touch in your relationship?
Speaker 1: And yeah, something as simple as holding hands when you're
Speaker 1: walking down the street.
Speaker 3: Do you all do that one hundred percent? I think
Speaker 3: that's mostly driven by me. I'm a very touch of
Speaker 3: hilly kind of person, and she's completely the opposite. She
Speaker 3: hates being touched. She obviously never or and I wouldnt
Speaker 3: say never, but hardly ever gets massages, pictures. She just
Speaker 3: does not like to be touched. So it's one of
Speaker 3: those things like, well can I touch you? Do I
Speaker 3: have permission? I mean I got a mirror certificate.
Speaker 4: A very like cold family where nobody touched, nobody hugged,
Speaker 4: never said I love you. You know my mom will
Speaker 4: still to this day come over and then visit and
Speaker 4: where's mom?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 4: She just the Irish exit. She just decided to leave.
Speaker 4: No no goodbyes, no goodbyes.
Speaker 3: Oh okay, no, I don't let her go without hugging me.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: So he's kind of nurtured me in that way where
Speaker 4: like every night we literally fall asleep holding hands every night.
Speaker 2: That is so sweet. I'll take it in the other
Speaker 2: direction and ask how often would you say you two fight.
Speaker 3: Anymore. I mean, we've had our battles. I call him
Speaker 3: growing pains.
Speaker 4: We're not real big fighters. It used to be because
Speaker 4: Eddie kind of holds everything inside. So every six months
Speaker 4: he'd have some big explosion about something, and then that
Speaker 4: kind of just we worked ourselves through it. I think
Speaker 4: in rarely. I would say rarely, I can't even remember
Speaker 4: the last time we got into a fight, and I'm
Speaker 4: not lying.
Speaker 1: Wow, that's awesome. So do you remember? This is the
Speaker 1: next question. What were the things you used to fight about?
Speaker 1: Was there a theme to the fights? Were you having
Speaker 1: the same fight.
Speaker 3: Usually it's stemmed from kids. No, not really. The biggest
Speaker 3: fight we had had was associated with one of the
Speaker 3: cast members on the show.
Speaker 4: And oh yeah, and.
Speaker 3: I hate her with the passion because who she is
Speaker 3: and what she is and what she's and what she's
Speaker 3: done to you.
Speaker 1: Does everybody else know that story? We just don't.
Speaker 4: I think you just know it. I mean everybody. I
Speaker 4: think to let people know that you don't like this person,
Speaker 4: she's just constantly attacking, and it would put me in
Speaker 4: a really weird spot because we work together. So how
Speaker 4: do I you know, I try to bury it all
Speaker 4: and act like it's not happening. So I would invite
Speaker 4: her places and he's like, I don't want to be
Speaker 4: around this woman. And Eddie loves everybody everyone, So when
Speaker 4: he says like he does not want to be around
Speaker 4: this person, like he means it, when's the.
Speaker 2: Last time one of you had to say you were
Speaker 2: sorry to the other? It sounds like it's been a while.
Speaker 4: No, I don't think I don't have I said sorry.
Speaker 3: I have no problem apologizing or her if I say something.
Speaker 4: But what was the last time.
Speaker 3: I don't know, something stupid, like you know, something I
Speaker 3: said or something I did.
Speaker 4: No, you know what, that's not true. You know. I'm
Speaker 4: actually going through therapy right now, and I have been
Speaker 4: for about three months and so many ups and downs.
Speaker 4: I've never taken this journey before, but just going back
Speaker 4: into my marriage to you know, being a young kid,
Speaker 4: my parents divorce and all that stuff. I had said
Speaker 4: to him when I got back from therapy, I was
Speaker 4: crying and crying, cright all the way home and cry
Speaker 4: there and he's like, what's wrong? And I had said
Speaker 4: to him, I said, you are so happy all the time.
Speaker 4: You will sit in your office and laugh and laugh,
Speaker 4: and I feel like I'm not that person. I shut down,
Speaker 4: like I apologize because I felt like I'm not like him,
Speaker 4: like he's just always so loving, and I'm I take
Speaker 4: things in and I get really like stressed out and
Speaker 4: I don't want to be touched and I don't want
Speaker 4: to be talked to, and I apologize for being like that,
Speaker 4: but not over an argument. It was more about like
Speaker 4: what I'm discovering discovering about myself.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, that is interesting. Guys, what is the one thing?
Speaker 1: You all don't fight much? But I am curious and
Speaker 1: a lot of people would be to know what's the
Speaker 1: one thing you know you can do or say to
Speaker 1: stop a fight the end? One's a lot of people
Speaker 1: wou look for advice when you're in the middle. How
Speaker 1: do you just.
Speaker 2: It?
Speaker 3: I don't really know, because we've discovered that our personalities
Speaker 3: are such that she likes to resolve it right now problems,
Speaker 3: whatever problems they are, and I'm completely the opposite. I
Speaker 3: can't solve it right now because I'm going to say
Speaker 3: something that I really regret, or I just don't like
Speaker 3: to be pushed or pushed into a corner because I'm
Speaker 3: going to come out boxing and I'm gonna deckut indvertently,
Speaker 3: and that hit me. That's why just leave me alone
Speaker 3: and give me three weeks to get over it. I'm
Speaker 3: just kidding. Yeah, No, give me a day or two
Speaker 3: to get over it. I'll compose myself and I can
Speaker 3: better communicate. But I can't. I can't be pushed into
Speaker 3: a corner without expecting.
Speaker 4: A fight, and that drives me crazy. I've learned to
Speaker 4: deal with it, like I just want, like, just get
Speaker 4: this over with right, But he'll like just hold a
Speaker 4: grudge and walk in a room and not say anything.
Speaker 4: And I'm like, oh so now, you know, almost fifteen
Speaker 4: years into it, I'm like, oh god, let him be
Speaker 4: a little little boy and I'll let's be over here
Speaker 4: and wait for him to grow up.
Speaker 3: And I just got to go and take some time
Speaker 3: to myself. And that way, I don't, you know, say
Speaker 3: something I regret, like stop being a little I've been
Speaker 3: holding on to that one for ah.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, now are you again? You do like
Speaker 2: you buy buried often? But are you one of those
Speaker 2: couples who says we don't ever go to bed angry.
Speaker 4: I don't like to. I don't like we haven't in
Speaker 4: years that I mean, I can't remember last we have,
Speaker 4: we have we have, and I feel to me like
Speaker 4: that's the worst feeling in the entire world. You can't
Speaker 4: get to good night's slate. Yeah, you know, it's just
Speaker 4: it's something I don't like to do. But yes, we
Speaker 4: have done it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't like to do it either. But you know,
Speaker 3: like I said, sometimes she makes me really upset and
Speaker 3: it'll take me a day to just calm down to
Speaker 3: be able to talk to her like a civilized human.
Speaker 1: Okay, this next question then, is a good turn for
Speaker 1: us all. Eddie, what do you love most about Tamara?
Speaker 1: And Tamara? What do you love most about Eddie?
Speaker 4: For me, it's just Eddie's heart. Yes, he is a
Speaker 4: good looking guy, but it's his heart. He's just he
Speaker 4: loves everybody, everybody, and he's so kind and takes the
Speaker 4: time to talk to everybody, and he's very touchy feely,
Speaker 4: and he's just he's just a good guy. Nothing sh
Speaker 4: about him, nothing unethical, nothing like, just a good person
Speaker 4: and just finds the happiness out of every situation that
Speaker 4: he's in. Now I'm the total opposite, So I'm like,
Speaker 4: I hate everybody. Everybody bugs me.
Speaker 3: I don't want any new friends, so we don't have
Speaker 3: any friends.
Speaker 4: So he is the total opposite and it kind of
Speaker 4: you know, I love seeing that and I love being
Speaker 4: around it and just the positivity it helps me. And
Speaker 4: I've definitely grown like I'm starting to like people. Not everybody,
Speaker 4: but I'm starting to like them.
Speaker 3: Well, you've just erased your harassments of me talking too
Speaker 3: much to people because she gives me a hard time
Speaker 3: all the time. Why do you talk to people so long?
Speaker 3: When we had the gym, you know, I hear out
Speaker 3: my clients.
Speaker 4: Well, you have the gift of gab.
Speaker 3: No, I just like to really, you know, listen to
Speaker 3: what people are saying. And that usually.
Speaker 4: Takes He means people at the grocery store. He means
Speaker 4: people at you know, Target Costco. They can just he
Speaker 4: can get in like he should have been a therapist.
Speaker 3: I don't like chit chat. I don't give a shit
Speaker 3: about the weather. I can see it, But you talk
Speaker 3: to I will talk to anybody who's willing to listen.
Speaker 2: And Eddie, what do you love most about Tamra?
Speaker 3: I like her free spirit. She really it's sort of
Speaker 3: self serving because it makes me feel good to see
Speaker 3: her spread her wings and be herself and create this
Speaker 3: life that she just loves to live. And that's really
Speaker 3: fulfilling to me. So, you know, she has her quirks,
Speaker 3: but overall, she's just a beautiful person that just loves
Speaker 3: to live life. You know, very stressful life being on
Speaker 3: a TV show, especially a reality TV show, but she
Speaker 3: still has a little bit of fun and exciting and
Speaker 3: just I just like to see her spread her wings
Speaker 3: and be herself. I don't. I love that about her.
Speaker 3: She's willing to do anything.
Speaker 4: Well and I love that you don't try to control
Speaker 4: me because I was in a very controlling relationship, very
Speaker 4: controlling like what I could wear, where I could go,
Speaker 4: what I could eat, like everything was controlled. In fact,
Speaker 4: when I you know, my relationship went further along with Eddie,
Speaker 4: I started to feel like he didn't love me because
Speaker 4: he wasn't trying to control me. And I always thought
Speaker 4: that control meant love because I was around it for
Speaker 4: so long and in it so deep, and it wasn't
Speaker 4: like that. I was so used to being you know, oh,
Speaker 4: you can't go there, you can't do that. Why are
Speaker 4: you wearing that? You know? So he just let me
Speaker 4: be who I am.
Speaker 1: Right. Next question, the practical one for couples. How do
Speaker 1: you handle finances? Shared account separate? How do you do
Speaker 1: it all?
Speaker 3: We share everything. I handle the finances. I give her reports,
Speaker 3: I give her updates. I want her to take the
Speaker 3: steerwheels some day, because if I was to get hit
Speaker 3: by a bus, she really doesn't even know how to
Speaker 3: look at the finances. It's just scary. But it's all
Speaker 3: pretty automated. Everything's organized, and if there was anything that
Speaker 3: happen to me, she could hire somebody.
Speaker 4: He's very organized, So it's best that he controls all
Speaker 4: the you know, the bills and all that stuff. And
Speaker 4: I trust you, Right's kidding? Now, I totally trust him,
Speaker 4: and I have access to bank accounts and all that stuff.
Speaker 4: But he does a really good job just investing our
Speaker 4: money and doing all that kind of stuff where I
Speaker 4: would know how to do that.
Speaker 2: That's cool. How about the household chores, cooking, cleaning, kids, dog?
Speaker 2: How do you all split those kind of mundane things
Speaker 2: that can actually end up causing so many problems?
Speaker 4: And really, yeah, Eddie cooks.
Speaker 3: I love to cook.
Speaker 4: He loves to cook, and so he cooks as healthy
Speaker 4: meals all the time. Household chores. I'm kind of a
Speaker 4: little bit of a clean freaks. I'm always picking things up.
Speaker 4: He likes to pile things. This bedside table, there's a
Speaker 4: bunch of shit just piled up, but it's all organized.
Speaker 4: That drives me crazy. I like everything to be clean,
Speaker 4: but I hate doing dishes.
Speaker 3: And that's I don't do dishes.
Speaker 4: He doesn't do dishes.
Speaker 3: Es actually do dishes. Our very first fight had to
Speaker 3: do with dishes. I do dishes a certain way where
Speaker 3: I wash them and then or rinse them off, get
Speaker 3: all the food off, and I put them in the dishwasher.
Speaker 3: She likes to soak them for days and they just days.
Speaker 3: They just sit in the sink, and it drove me insane.
Speaker 4: I just hate doing the dishes. My mom made me
Speaker 4: do the dishes every single night, and it was to me,
Speaker 4: it was just such a chore. Now a lot of
Speaker 4: times we just have Sofia do the dishes.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but should do Sofia should do the dishes for
Speaker 3: Sophia as well, because she just loves to do dishes
Speaker 3: so much. But because of that fight, I do not
Speaker 3: touch the dishes, but I will clean the kitchen. I
Speaker 3: will do everything else. We have a house cleaner that
Speaker 3: comes once a week. She does the heavy mat and
Speaker 3: every other week every the week, I do my own laundry.
Speaker 3: I do my own laundry, just organized that way. I
Speaker 3: like the way I do my laundry.
Speaker 4: Sophia does her own laundry.
Speaker 3: Yeah. The only room in the house that I actually
Speaker 3: have one hundred percent responsibility to clean is the garage.
Speaker 3: And I'm happy with that. I'm just not happy where
Speaker 3: everything that, you know, boxes and trash ends up in
Speaker 3: the freaking garage.
Speaker 4: Lots of Amazon boxes get thrown in the garage.
Speaker 3: So cleaning the cars, gassing the cars, I like taking
Speaker 3: care of that. He puts gas in my car too, services,
Speaker 3: oil services. And the dog. Because the dog is actually
Speaker 3: my dog. I have to pick up for it and
Speaker 3: walk it and feed it and love it.
Speaker 4: We had a dog that passed away and we had
Speaker 4: one year without having a dog, and it was just
Speaker 4: there was like a little bit of a break where
Speaker 4: you didn't have to pick up the dog poop, you
Speaker 4: didn't have to worry about the dog and all that stuff.
Speaker 4: And my daughter had just graduated high school and I'm like,
Speaker 4: we're home free, really no responsibility. And then he wanted
Speaker 4: another dog, So I'm like, okay, your dog, you pick
Speaker 4: up after it.
Speaker 1: A next question for you here, how much time apart
Speaker 1: do you need? How much time do you all spend alone?
Speaker 4: Not much?
Speaker 3: Not much? Yeah, we do. I do cherish the times
Speaker 3: I spend alone, and oh thank you. I get those
Speaker 3: when I ride my bike, or if I drive to
Speaker 3: Big Bird by myself and stay there for a couple
Speaker 3: of days by.
Speaker 4: Myself, which doesn't happen very often.
Speaker 3: It doesn't happen very often, but it is so rewarding.
Speaker 3: Not rewarding, but like relieving to have a little bit
Speaker 3: of self mental time where you got no distractions, no questions, nothing.
Speaker 3: And I say that because before I met my wife,
Speaker 3: I had a lot of that. I had this big
Speaker 3: house by myself and I would no kids, no dogs, nothing,
Speaker 3: I would work all day, long day and come home
Speaker 3: and just I say this all the time. I can't
Speaker 3: walk around naked my own around my own house anymore,
Speaker 3: you know, I used to really enjoy that. There's something
Speaker 3: sure about that, right.
Speaker 4: No, I don't want to walk past a mirror. No
Speaker 4: do we spend a lot of time together now I'm
Speaker 4: going into filming season right now, so it's going to
Speaker 4: take me away a lot, and we travel and stuff
Speaker 4: like that. I think that's the most time that we
Speaker 4: spend a part. We just got back from Big Bear.
Speaker 4: We were there for three days. We have a house there,
Speaker 4: so and there we're you know, together the entire time.
Speaker 4: That's where we relax. But we also have two offices,
Speaker 4: this office and the office next door, which is his.
Speaker 4: And I think you all, like I get that sense
Speaker 4: like I just need some maytime. I'm going to go
Speaker 4: in my office and just kick it, and he usually
Speaker 4: goes in his office. And that's kind of our time apart. Yeah,
Speaker 4: because we both work out of the house for the
Speaker 4: most part.
Speaker 3: We both go to the gym together. Yeah, we do
Speaker 3: most majority of the things to do together.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's really sweet.
Speaker 1: I love that.
Speaker 2: What for you would be a relationship deal breaker, like an.
Speaker 3: End cheating cheating? Yeah, infidelity, that would be.
Speaker 4: And I think she.
Speaker 3: Can crash the car, she can burn the house down.
Speaker 4: You know, she chased you with a knife and I'm kidding, no,
Speaker 4: it's it's definitely cheating, you know. It's we're so connected
Speaker 4: and if he ever cheated, I just feel like I
Speaker 4: would never be able to get over it. Ever, and
Speaker 4: we don't have children together, so it's always in Emotionally
Speaker 4: it's hard, but it's an easier break when you don't
Speaker 4: have children together.
Speaker 1: Next question here, have you all been to couples therapy?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 4: No, no, never, never ever?
Speaker 2: All right? Is what would be one thing if you
Speaker 2: could change about your partner? What would it be?
Speaker 4: How loud he eats?
Speaker 1: Wow?
Speaker 3: How sensitive her ears are? Wow? She has I can't chew,
Speaker 3: I can't, I can't breathe, I can't, I can't.
Speaker 4: I have like sensory issues. It's not just him, it's everybody.
Speaker 4: So like if somebody talks behind me, like I want
Speaker 4: to punch somebody in the.
Speaker 3: Throat, So we have to switch chairs and I'll sit
Speaker 3: next to the loud tables. Yeah, she doesn't go berserk.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: So like we'll be sitting at dinner at our bar
Speaker 4: top in our kitchen and then he'll turn the music
Speaker 4: on Alexa, play music.
Speaker 3: Play anything to save my life here?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Next question here. I know you don't fight much, but
Speaker 1: have you ever in the middle of a heated argument
Speaker 1: threatened to break up, threaten to walk out, or even
Speaker 1: threaten to get divorced?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Yeah, Watch when well, that one had to been you,
Speaker 4: because it's not me. I don't do that. I learned
Speaker 4: in my last relationship, like when you start threatening divorce
Speaker 4: all the time, it just becomes like so repetitive. When
Speaker 4: you're fighting, Like we were fighting all the time, I'd
Speaker 4: always say like, oh my god, I just want a divorce.
Speaker 4: And then once you start saying that like it's truly over,
Speaker 4: I think it's over.
Speaker 3: And actually, this is where I give her a lot
Speaker 3: of credit because this is one of the biggest lessons
Speaker 3: I learned from her. In the beginning, when we would
Speaker 3: have big fights, I would say, you know, I'm out,
Speaker 3: I'm doone. I don't want to be in this relationship.
Speaker 3: And she would always pull me back and kind of
Speaker 3: teach me like, no, this is not how it works.
Speaker 3: This is marriage. We worked through it, and prior to
Speaker 3: my wife, particularly growing and I had very little tolerance
Speaker 3: for relationship issues and if there's something happened, I would
Speaker 3: just walk away. I'm like, sorry, I'm out.
Speaker 4: You know, he's a runner.
Speaker 3: I'm a runner. And she's changed that for me, and
Speaker 3: I see the beauty and that and the value and
Speaker 3: that and that fighting are just growing pains that just
Speaker 3: bring you closer together. But fortunately there's so many more
Speaker 3: good times in bad times that the little things that
Speaker 3: we've thought about that that really it helped us grow together.
Speaker 3: It didn't it changed me into you know what, I'm
Speaker 3: not going to say that anymore because I don't mean that,
Speaker 3: and I'm not going to walk away from this relationship.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna fight for this relationship. So she taught me that.
Speaker 2: That's really cool. What's the closest you all ever came
Speaker 2: to breaking up or to calling it quits.
Speaker 3: I don't think we've ever been there, No, I don't.
Speaker 4: I think in the very beginning, the first year that
Speaker 4: we were together, it was just so stressful and so overwhelming.
Speaker 4: My ex was writing me hard and you know, brainwashing
Speaker 4: children and doing all that that it just got and
Speaker 4: doing public stories stories. It was just so such a
Speaker 4: stressful time for us that I mean, I remember one time,
Speaker 4: like you took off, you just left, in the middle
Speaker 4: of a fight. You just left, and I'm like, wouldn't
Speaker 4: pick up his phone, wouldn't return a text message, and
Speaker 4: what's gone for? Yeah, I gone for several hours and
Speaker 4: I'm like, well, this is it, this is it. And
Speaker 4: he came home he just needs time to vent, and
Speaker 4: I wasn't used to that. He just needs to go
Speaker 4: and blow some steam and then, you know, come back
Speaker 4: and then but then he just kind of acts like
Speaker 4: everything's fine. Death that never happened.
Speaker 3: That's you.
Speaker 4: Hey, what do you want for dinner?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 3: You do it?
Speaker 4: Yes you do.
Speaker 3: You know. It's another thing I learned from you.
Speaker 1: When we come out and see you all again, we'll
Speaker 1: explain laughing so much, this is you. We don't want
Speaker 1: to talk about us.
Speaker 4: Today, exactly, very familiar.
Speaker 1: Last week got about six or seven eight questions. Your
Speaker 1: last the next one here, what is the sweetest thing Tamera?
Speaker 1: You can remember Eddie doing for you? And the same
Speaker 1: question for you.
Speaker 3: Was the sweetest My gosh.
Speaker 1: Remembery you something a standout thing that you were like, Wow.
Speaker 3: The biggest thing I remember is realizing that she is
Speaker 3: paying attention to what I like, and that was reflective
Speaker 3: in our marriage, our wedding, I should say where at
Speaker 3: the time I was a huge gummy bear lover and
Speaker 3: used to eat gummy bears all the time. So she
Speaker 3: had a five pound gummy bear I've never seen in
Speaker 3: my life, and I in my.
Speaker 4: At our wedding a reception. We had a whole gummy
Speaker 4: bear bar.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was gummy bears everywhere. And the other part
Speaker 3: is she also knows I'm a big or it used
Speaker 3: to be a big cyclist, road cyclist. And she had
Speaker 3: the decorator hang aid, the florist, the floors, a bicycle,
Speaker 3: a real bicycle road bike upside down with the flowers
Speaker 3: at our reception. So and she even had a custom
Speaker 3: cake make made with the helmet and the cyclis and
Speaker 3: the cycling shoes and the cycling gears. So that really
Speaker 3: felt like, oh my god, she really is paying attention
Speaker 3: to me. She really does care about me, and that
Speaker 3: was that was funny.
Speaker 4: Yeah. I think for him is that like I always
Speaker 4: know every Valentine's Day, I'm going to get i don't know,
Speaker 4: five dozen roses, like some overwhelming amount. Just the fact
Speaker 4: that he really cares about me and takes care of me,
Speaker 4: and like he told me last month, he's like, listen,
Speaker 4: I don't want you to put gas in your car anymore.
Speaker 4: I'm going to do it for you because there's this
Speaker 4: girl is getting kidnapped and things like that. Like he's
Speaker 4: really concerned for my safety all the time.
Speaker 1: Dam it, Eddie I only gave her a three dozen roads.
Speaker 3: I'll send you a link you can get three for twelve.
Speaker 1: Thank you.
Speaker 2: It's sweet when you get so many that you lose
Speaker 2: count when you're trying to count how many there are.
Speaker 1: I love that.
Speaker 3: I just don't want it to backfire. I mean, because
Speaker 3: if I gat her too many, then she's going to
Speaker 3: be pissed because she has to you know, organize put
Speaker 3: on seven basis and like that didn't work.
Speaker 2: What would you say the biggest compromise each of you
Speaker 2: made by choosing to be together or while like to
Speaker 2: make your marriage good, Like if you notice things were
Speaker 2: tough to first year, what would you say the biggest
Speaker 2: compromise was that you made to make it work.
Speaker 4: That's a tough one. I think probably with the children.
Speaker 4: I think that, Yeah, that was probably the toughest thing.
Speaker 4: Is you know, I was going through such a bad
Speaker 4: divorce and he was trying to turn the children against me.
Speaker 4: And when that's happening, when you're in your own household,
Speaker 4: you walk on eggshells around your own children.
Speaker 3: Do you remember that?
Speaker 4: And you don't discipline them maybe the way you should,
Speaker 4: because you know, the father of the children, or trying
Speaker 4: to turn them against you, And I was really really
Speaker 4: letting them get away with a lot of stuff, not
Speaker 4: that they were doing anything bad, but it was always like,
Speaker 4: you know what, you can't let this person do this
Speaker 4: to you and your kids. Like so, I think that
Speaker 4: was probably the biggest just learning how to combine a
Speaker 4: family together, make everybody happy. That was probably the biggest compromise.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and for me, I don't think it was that
Speaker 3: difficult because most of my relationships I've had I think
Speaker 3: I've only had two relationships where the woman was childless,
Speaker 3: but most of the relationships there was, you know, a
Speaker 3: step child involved and I never knew why.
Speaker 4: But prepare you for this match.
Speaker 3: Prepare me for this because I took it as okay,
Speaker 3: I see what's going on. I see what he's doing
Speaker 3: to the children. I see how she's handling it, and
Speaker 3: I have to be able to take a step back
Speaker 3: and not be a father figure, but be a just
Speaker 3: a friend or a person here for the kids, because
Speaker 3: I know generally wants.
Speaker 4: To be the father figure. He really does in his nature,
Speaker 4: but it was were so poisoned against.
Speaker 3: Him, it's hard to be that figure. I just saw
Speaker 3: chaos happening. If I was to try to be a
Speaker 3: father even though their father wasn't being a father. I
Speaker 3: just didn't feel like I could win that battle. So
Speaker 3: it was a big sacrifice for me to just step
Speaker 3: back and watch the train wreck happen. But the kids
Speaker 3: turned out good, and you know, fortunately, it took time
Speaker 3: for them to really realize what they were dealing with.
Speaker 3: And I think we're at a different stage in our
Speaker 3: relationship where the kids are coming around and they're starting
Speaker 3: to realize all the lies and stuff that they learned
Speaker 3: at a young age. They're starting to get it. So
Speaker 3: our relationship is definitely improved.
Speaker 4: They're all older now. Sophia's nineteen. She's the only one left,
Speaker 4: you know, she's only one here, so that's awesome.
Speaker 1: Next question for you, did you have a honeymoon phase?
Speaker 1: How long would you say it lasted? What did it
Speaker 1: evolve into? Which is what phase are you in now?
Speaker 1: Did you catch.
Speaker 4: Oh, we had a really really long honeymoon phase. I
Speaker 4: really do think that and some might say, like we're
Speaker 4: still in the honeymoon phase because we're always together, We're
Speaker 4: always holding hands and things like that. We've always been
Speaker 4: super connected. Are we banging ten times a day? Like
Speaker 4: we used to. No, we're older, we're getting tired.
Speaker 3: It's not me.
Speaker 4: I'm tired. I'm sorry. Maybe tomorrow, Yeah, tomorrow, I got
Speaker 4: to it tomorrow, all right.
Speaker 2: So final question, everyone always wants to know what the
Speaker 2: secret with the key is. What would you say is
Speaker 2: the reason why you all have not just made it
Speaker 2: for fifteen years, but are joyful and still in love
Speaker 2: and happy together after all these years. What is it?
Speaker 4: I think respect, Like I respect him and he respects me,
Speaker 4: and you know, I don't ever try to stop him
Speaker 4: from doing anything, and he does the same for me.
Speaker 4: He you know, there was a time where he was
Speaker 4: cycling every single day and it's like a big ordeal.
Speaker 4: Did I love it?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 4: But I knew that he liked it. I knew that
Speaker 4: it brought him joy. And yeah, I think it has
Speaker 4: to do with respect and being kind to each other.
Speaker 4: I'm not a big fan of like calling names, because
Speaker 4: I feel like those are things that you can't take back,
Speaker 4: and I don't ever want to bring that into this
Speaker 4: relationship because as soon as you start doing that, there's
Speaker 4: no going backwards. Because your words when you're mad, a
Speaker 4: lot of times, it's what you really think, and they
Speaker 4: can be really mean. You know. It's like that inner
Speaker 4: like all my frustrations, like you know, and I just
Speaker 4: I'd rather step away than do anything like you know,
Speaker 4: say something that I can't take back.
Speaker 3: Well, I disagreed, doctor Phil. I think that's why you
Speaker 3: have to take some time away so you don't say
Speaker 3: things you don't mean. That's what I said, so I
Speaker 3: said it under the you know, duress of I don't
Speaker 3: want to talk right now. It doesn't mean I mean
Speaker 3: it calling you an asshole or you know whatever. You know,
Speaker 3: I just you gotta give me time. Personally, My answer
Speaker 3: to that question is it's probably just me. But it's
Speaker 3: doing new things together, even if they're small, like going
Speaker 3: to a new restaurant, going to a new vacation spot.
Speaker 3: Doing for the last three years. For example, we started
Speaker 3: writing Harley's together. We started writing eight years ago. We
Speaker 3: started riding their bikes together. We used to travel to
Speaker 3: new places a lot before COVID. It's just trying new things.
Speaker 3: She's so full of life and adventures.
Speaker 4: We're going to ski this year.
Speaker 3: She's going to ski this year.
Speaker 4: We're going to ski this share.
Speaker 3: I don't want to do that.
Speaker 1: I guess that's exciting next.
Speaker 2: But I think that's such good advice because the respect.
Speaker 2: I so agree with you camera. If you don't have
Speaker 2: respect for someone, and if you lose respect for someone,
Speaker 2: it's over, it's over. And staying young with someone, having
Speaker 2: fun with someone, trying new things with someone, that's creating
Speaker 2: just new connections. I love it. I think that's amazing advice.
Speaker 2: Think you all were so open and candid and real,
Speaker 2: and I know you do reality TV, so yeah, but no,
Speaker 2: it was really it was so awesome to be able
Speaker 2: to hear thank you from and how you got to
Speaker 2: where you are now. We should all be so lucky.
Speaker 4: Oh, thank you, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 1: We are lucky and hope really we'll see you guys
Speaker 1: out there, really, mister you. We had a blast out
Speaker 1: there with you all.
Speaker 3: I know, I know coming out.
Speaker 1: We came in for some coverage. Yeah, how are you
Speaker 1: all doing out there? I mean, everybody good.
Speaker 4: We're about an hour away from LA because we're in
Speaker 4: an Orange County. Lots of people like production people, we
Speaker 4: know they all live in LA. A lot of people
Speaker 4: have lost their houses and it's just so devastating.
Speaker 1: So yeah, we only came out for that. We might
Speaker 1: come out for the Heart Music Awards.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we'll be there.
Speaker 1: That'll be fun. Yeah, the next time. But really, guys,
Speaker 1: you all are absolutely awesome and we're always looking for
Speaker 1: advice ourselves.
Speaker 4: Seriously, I think we all are, honestly.
Speaker 2: Yeah, listening to you guys, we were both like, oh
Speaker 2: my god, oh my god, like it, it's not just us, right, Like, yes,
Speaker 2: that happens.
Speaker 1: Hey, I'm like it, get the fuck out my face.
Speaker 1: I need a minute.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I need a minute.
Speaker 2: I'm like, let's figure this out right now.
Speaker 1: Just please let me, let me have it, can have it.
Speaker 2: I was like, what's happening?
Speaker 1: Why?
Speaker 2: What the hell? I was wise.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it took a lot of fights to get for
Speaker 3: her to understand it, you know, and for me to
Speaker 3: realize some things that, you know, going through the struggles
Speaker 3: of learning each other and getting through each other's habit
Speaker 3: that we formed.
Speaker 4: I call it the only child syndrome. Here we go,
Speaker 4: the only child syndrome. It's all about me. Okay, it's
Speaker 4: all about me.
Speaker 1: It's never a good start to come. Here we go.
Speaker 2: There she goes again.
Speaker 1: It is so good to see you all. This is
Speaker 1: fun having us. No, thank you all so much for
Speaker 1: this and I promise we're going to see you all
Speaker 1: out there in March, all right, We're gonna make sure
Speaker 1: we see y'all.
Speaker 3: Can't wait to hear it. Bye bye, guys,