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Speaker 1: Hey, there're folks. In this episode, we continue our series

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Speaker 1: love Stories today our second couple, Camera and Eddie Judge,

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Speaker 1: the real housewife and her husband of eleven years, our

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Speaker 1: hero to help us, help you. Welcome to the special

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Speaker 1: Cuffing season edition of Amy and TJ and Robes. These

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Speaker 1: are two folks who married eleven years and some didn't

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Speaker 1: think it was going to make it to twelve. They

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Speaker 1: were having to deal with rumors very recently if something

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Speaker 1: was going on in their marriage.

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Speaker 2: Just a couple of weeks ago, Tamar actually felt the

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Speaker 2: need to say something, to make a statement because there

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Speaker 2: were so many rumors swirling about their impending divorce, which

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Speaker 2: is sport for some people, and that's it's sad when

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Speaker 2: you're on the receiving end of it. So I'm glad

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Speaker 2: she set the record straight. But based on our conversation,

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Speaker 2: it's quite the opposite from what the tabloids are trying

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Speaker 2: to sell.

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Speaker 1: You and I'd like and then we could we you

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Speaker 1: and I could take lessons from Tamra Judge to where

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Speaker 1: there was something out there floating around. She shut it down,

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Speaker 1: and it was funny how she shut it down. She

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Speaker 1: just said, get a life. Is there res fine, it

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Speaker 1: was that simple, but you could shut it down with

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Speaker 1: just those words. So we should listen to her Real

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Speaker 1: Housewives of Orange.

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Speaker 2: Count Tony and we've gotten to know her and Eddie

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Speaker 2: over the past year or so with the iHeart Family

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Speaker 2: and hearing that she said get a life. That is

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Speaker 2: just so on brand for her and anyone who watches

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Speaker 2: obviously Real Housewives knows her. She says exactly what she

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Speaker 2: thinks and makes no apologies for it. But it's really

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Speaker 2: cool to see her with her husband Eddie of eleven years,

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Speaker 2: just interacting with one another. You know, it's one thing

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Speaker 2: if I were to have just interviewed them, or if

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Speaker 2: you were to have just interviewed them, it might have

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Speaker 2: been a little more formal and a little less forthcoming

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Speaker 2: in terms of what they were comfortable with talking about.

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Speaker 2: But when it's one couple asking another couple, it's kind

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Speaker 2: of like the playing field is equal and everyone feels

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Speaker 2: comfortable sharing secrets that maybe you wouldn't if you were

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Speaker 2: being interviewed by someone.

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Speaker 1: And this is a one hundred percent true story about

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Speaker 1: these two Tamernetti which who have a huge following. Obviously

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Speaker 1: that you were even found out about hanging out with

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Speaker 1: the friend of ours yesterday that just mentioning Tamara Judge's name,

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Speaker 1: and she just about lost the mind.

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Speaker 3: Yes, huge fan, huge fan.

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Speaker 1: But when we did, we did. It was our first

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Speaker 1: real iHeart event. After we had joined the team and

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Speaker 1: announced our podcast. We went out to California. There was

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Speaker 1: this big dinner for all the iHeart podcast hosts and

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Speaker 1: folks that night we met Tamarnetti. That night, we spent

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Speaker 1: more time talking to Tamarorannetti in a corner just us

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Speaker 1: hanging out than anybody else. We loved them.

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Speaker 2: It was it was great to feel like another couple

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Speaker 2: out in the headlines and in in not real ways

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Speaker 2: where you constantly we're dealing with rumors or battling bad headlines.

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Speaker 2: And so that was an immediate connection we all had together.

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Speaker 2: And the fact that Tamra this is her second marriage,

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Speaker 2: so you know, there is camaraderie among folks who have

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Speaker 2: have had certain events in their lives bring them together.

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Speaker 2: And a lot of times it is sometimes the harder

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Speaker 2: ones that you connect with people over, but there are

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Speaker 2: shared experiences and a lot of lessons to be learned

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Speaker 2: they're ahead of us. They're way ahead of us in

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Speaker 2: terms of having a very public marriage be on display

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Speaker 2: and then to continue to have that marriage be on

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Speaker 2: television or in the headlines by choice. This is what

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Speaker 2: she does for a living, this is what he does

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Speaker 2: for a living. So part of their public persona and

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Speaker 2: their and their couple or their relationship being out there

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Speaker 2: for fodder is because that's how they make their living,

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Speaker 2: and that's how we make our living, and so that's

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Speaker 2: it comes with the territory.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I did not make my living but have our

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Speaker 1: relationship out there as fodder the record.

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Speaker 2: By product.

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Speaker 1: Sod it.

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't choose it. I wouldn't choose that.

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Speaker 1: No, But guess what we've been doing here. They are

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Speaker 1: a couple number two for us. A couple number one

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Speaker 1: was Tristan Ryan Sutter. But we are asking all these

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Speaker 1: couples the exact same questions. We have a long list

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Speaker 1: to relate to a lot of us of it as well. So,

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Speaker 1: without further ado, give you our conversation with Tamera and Eddie.

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Speaker 2: Jet.

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Speaker 4: Thanks for having us. This is so exciting. It's been

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Speaker 4: like a year since we've we met by each other

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Speaker 4: last down in Malibu. Oh, so much has gone on

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Speaker 2: Oh I know. Wow, y'all have been through it. But

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Speaker 2: I know you've also made it through so many, so

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Speaker 2: many occasions in your eleven years together now married. So

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Speaker 2: I'm going to start our first question is I'm going

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Speaker 2: to ask each of you this, describe your relationship in

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Speaker 2: three works. Eddie, I'll start with you.

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Speaker 3: New, fun and refreshing.

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Speaker 4: Easy, non controlling, well and always fun.

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Speaker 1: Well, they have that word to come all right up next,

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Speaker 1: was there immediate chemistry when you first met each other

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Speaker 1: all those years ago?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we had like a we kind of have a

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Speaker 4: funny story about that. I was married and going through

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Speaker 4: We knew we were going to get divorced, but I

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Speaker 4: was finishing a season out and part of it was

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Speaker 4: is we were short selling our house way back then

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Speaker 4: when everybody was short selling their houses, and Eddie lived

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Speaker 4: we're in today, and so camera guys behind me. My

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Speaker 4: friend Marcos is next to me. The door opens, Eddy answers.

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Speaker 4: I swear he has no shirt on, but he does,

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Speaker 4: and I'm just like our eyes locked, and my friend

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Speaker 4: Marcus is like hitting me, like there's cameras behind you.

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Speaker 4: There's cameras behind you. And it was like immediate, like

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Speaker 4: when you see like the fireworks. Me evidently shirtless or

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Speaker 4: he was shirtless, not me, and it was just like

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Speaker 4: it was an explosion. It really was.

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Speaker 3: It really was love at first sight. I never believed

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Speaker 3: in that, but I experienced when I first looked at

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Speaker 3: hallucinating on drugs or something, you know, not that I've

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Speaker 3: ever but it felt like a cartoon, Like when you

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Speaker 3: see that on cartoon, you smash the head you watch love.

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Speaker 3: I'm a looney tune guy.

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Speaker 4: So that's that's why he likes me.

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Speaker 2: We still watch them sometimes, absolutely do all right, who

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Speaker 3: I think you? Yeah, yeah I did.

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Speaker 3: We were celebrating the holidays because this was sometime around

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Speaker 3: for about six months. Seven months, holidays hit our friend

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Speaker 3: Marcos again Cupid invited me to some of the same

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Speaker 3: much chemistry. We kept sitting next to each other and

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Speaker 3: We really locked eyes and connected and her ex now

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Speaker 3: husband was standing right behind her, but I didn't care.

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Speaker 3: I was just so connected with her.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I literally even though I knew I was getting

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Speaker 4: Eddie and I had talked and he said, listen, you

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Speaker 4: got to figure your shit out. I really like you,

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Speaker 4: I really want this to go somewhere, but you got

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Speaker 4: to figure your shit out. So it didn't talk for

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Speaker 4: a little while, and then I literally left.

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Speaker 3: My husband couldn't live without me, and.

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Speaker 4: We've been I never dated anybody else. We've been together

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Speaker 4: ever since. I might say that's cheating. Yeah, I don't

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Speaker 1: That's one way to put it. Yeah, Oh, did we

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Speaker 1: mention we missed you, Temva. Next question, this is always

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Speaker 1: a big one in relationships. Who said I love you first?

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Speaker 3: I'll let you answer that.

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Speaker 4: I don't remember it was me? Was it you? It was, Oh,

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Speaker 4: I love you too?

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Speaker 1: Years later I love that. How long?

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Speaker 2: How long did you all date before you got engaged?

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Speaker 2: And then how long was the engagement.

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Speaker 4: We dated? I think it was like a year, right,

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Speaker 4: and then we got engaged on TV, and then it

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Speaker 4: was a couple of years, a little over two years

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Speaker 4: before we actually got married. I think we were together

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Speaker 4: a little over three years before we walked down the aisle.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it all felt like it happened so fast, though,

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Speaker 3: an hour. And it felt like we met, fell in love,

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Speaker 3: moved in together, and got married within six months.

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Speaker 4: But it was I kicked him into reality TV?

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Speaker 3: And what is this show? Now?

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Speaker 1: This next question we might seem to know they answered

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Speaker 1: based on the chemistry question. You answered did you know

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Speaker 1: they were the one? And I asked that, I'll ask

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Speaker 1: always believers? And there was always a one out there

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Speaker 3: I would say I didn't know she was the one

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Speaker 3: because having many relationships, I always felt like they were

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Speaker 4: And you know, he's a hopeless romantic.

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Speaker 3: I commit one hundred percent to what I do. So

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Speaker 3: if if that was defined as the one, because nobody

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Speaker 3: really ever defined that as who's the one? And what

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Speaker 3: the one for the next six months?

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 3: But the one that you know, I remember that got

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Speaker 3: going into this relationship, I honestly didn't think she was

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Speaker 3: the one. I mean, she had a hundred kids and

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Speaker 3: a terrible X and you know, there was a lot

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Speaker 3: of baggage there. And I think you said was the one? Well,

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Speaker 3: when we first kissed, Diamn, when we first kissed.

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Speaker 4: And oh okay, very early on, yeah, very early on.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't too far from the minute I met you

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Speaker 3: to the time because you couldn't be the one because

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Speaker 3: you were married, right, you know, she's not the one.

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Speaker 3: A lot of baggage. I don't know what this TV

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Speaker 3: stuff is, and I just went with it and I

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Speaker 3: let my heart grow into it. And I discovered I

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Speaker 3: think two months after we dated and kissed and spent

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Speaker 3: time together that I felt like she is the one.

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Speaker 3: She's the one I could spend the rest of my

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Speaker 3: life with. And we have so much fun together. We

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Speaker 3: have so much in common, and we do so many

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Speaker 3: things together, and it really is like having a best

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Speaker 2: That sounds ideal. What is your age difference and has

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Speaker 4: So Eddie is five and a half years younger than me,

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Speaker 4: You just lost the house.

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Speaker 3: Then I think, yes, definitely.

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Speaker 2: That's a good time that you got a good one.

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Speaker 3: All I remember is and I don't know that I

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Speaker 4: I have three kids.

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Speaker 3: We have three kids, and we're getting a dog. And

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Speaker 4: It was possibly more so for me because you know,

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Speaker 4: Did she not clean it up to it? The dishes

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and we wanted the transition to be as comfortable

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well we were working. I mean, it was working

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Speaker 2: The horse is tough, especially public ones. And then yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: we we know exactly how tough that can be. All right,

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Speaker 2: here's a fun one. How often do you have sex?

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Speaker 2: And how has that changed over the years.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, we used to have it all the time.

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Speaker 3: All started with five hours session when we first met.

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Speaker 3: I think we're down to five seconds. It's only eleven years.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, the good thing about being married is

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Speaker 3: Do you all do that one hundred percent? I think

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Speaker 4: A very like cold family where nobody touched, nobody hugged,

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Speaker 4: where's mom?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 4: She just the Irish exit. She just decided to leave.

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Speaker 4: No no goodbyes, no goodbyes.

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Speaker 4: So he's kind of nurtured me in that way where

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Speaker 2: That is so sweet. I'll take it in the other

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Speaker 2: direction and ask how often would you say you two fight.

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Speaker 3: Anymore. I mean, we've had our battles. I call him

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Speaker 4: We're not real big fighters. It used to be because

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Speaker 4: Eddie kind of holds everything inside. So every six months

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Speaker 1: Wow, that's awesome. So do you remember? This is the

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Speaker 3: Usually it's stemmed from kids. No, not really. The biggest

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Speaker 4: And oh yeah, and.

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Speaker 3: I hate her with the passion because who she is

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Speaker 1: Does everybody else know that story? We just don't.

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Speaker 4: I think you just know it. I mean everybody. I

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Speaker 4: think to let people know that you don't like this person,

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Speaker 4: she's just constantly attacking, and it would put me in

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Speaker 4: No, I don't think I don't have I said sorry.

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Speaker 3: I have no problem apologizing or her if I say something.

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Speaker 4: But what was the last time.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, something stupid, like you know, something I

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Speaker 4: No, you know what, that's not true. You know. I'm

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Speaker 4: I've never taken this journey before, but just going back

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Speaker 4: You will sit in your office and laugh and laugh,

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Speaker 4: like he's just always so loving, and I'm I take

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Speaker 4: but not over an argument. It was more about like

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, that is interesting. Guys, what is the one thing?

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Speaker 1: You all don't fight much? But I am curious and

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Speaker 1: a lot of people would be to know what's the

443
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Speaker 1: one thing you know you can do or say to

444
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Speaker 1: stop a fight the end? One's a lot of people

445
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Speaker 1: wou look for advice when you're in the middle. How

446
00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:34,000
Speaker 1: do you just.

447
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Speaker 2: It?

448
00:22:36,480 --> 00:22:40,720
Speaker 3: I don't really know, because we've discovered that our personalities

449
00:22:40,800 --> 00:22:45,720
Speaker 3: are such that she likes to resolve it right now problems,

450
00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:48,600
Speaker 3: whatever problems they are, and I'm completely the opposite. I

451
00:22:48,640 --> 00:22:51,880
Speaker 3: can't solve it right now because I'm going to say

452
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Speaker 3: something that I really regret, or I just don't like

453
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Speaker 3: to be pushed or pushed into a corner because I'm

454
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Speaker 3: going to come out boxing and I'm gonna deckut indvertently,

455
00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:04,960
Speaker 3: and that hit me. That's why just leave me alone

456
00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:07,840
Speaker 3: and give me three weeks to get over it. I'm

457
00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:10,600
Speaker 3: just kidding. Yeah, No, give me a day or two

458
00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:13,280
Speaker 3: to get over it. I'll compose myself and I can

459
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Speaker 3: better communicate. But I can't. I can't be pushed into

460
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Speaker 3: a corner without expecting.

461
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Speaker 4: A fight, and that drives me crazy. I've learned to

462
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Speaker 4: deal with it, like I just want, like, just get

463
00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:25,800
Speaker 4: this over with right, But he'll like just hold a

464
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Speaker 4: grudge and walk in a room and not say anything.

465
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Speaker 4: And I'm like, oh so now, you know, almost fifteen

466
00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:33,159
Speaker 4: years into it, I'm like, oh god, let him be

467
00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:36,239
Speaker 4: a little little boy and I'll let's be over here

468
00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:37,840
Speaker 4: and wait for him to grow up.

469
00:23:38,359 --> 00:23:40,359
Speaker 3: And I just got to go and take some time

470
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Speaker 3: to myself. And that way, I don't, you know, say

471
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Speaker 3: something I regret, like stop being a little I've been

472
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Speaker 3: holding on to that one for ah.

473
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Speaker 2: Oh my god, now are you again? You do like

474
00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:02,320
Speaker 2: you buy buried often? But are you one of those

475
00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:04,840
Speaker 2: couples who says we don't ever go to bed angry.

476
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Speaker 4: I don't like to. I don't like we haven't in

477
00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:10,760
Speaker 4: years that I mean, I can't remember last we have,

478
00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:13,240
Speaker 4: we have we have, and I feel to me like

479
00:24:13,320 --> 00:24:16,119
Speaker 4: that's the worst feeling in the entire world. You can't

480
00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:19,439
Speaker 4: get to good night's slate. Yeah, you know, it's just

481
00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:22,159
Speaker 4: it's something I don't like to do. But yes, we

482
00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:22,600
Speaker 4: have done it.

483
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't like to do it either. But you know,

484
00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:27,320
Speaker 3: like I said, sometimes she makes me really upset and

485
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Speaker 3: it'll take me a day to just calm down to

486
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Speaker 3: be able to talk to her like a civilized human.

487
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Speaker 1: Okay, this next question then, is a good turn for

488
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Speaker 1: us all. Eddie, what do you love most about Tamara?

489
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Speaker 1: And Tamara? What do you love most about Eddie?

490
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Speaker 4: For me, it's just Eddie's heart. Yes, he is a

491
00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 4: good looking guy, but it's his heart. He's just he

492
00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:52,679
Speaker 4: loves everybody, everybody, and he's so kind and takes the

493
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Speaker 4: time to talk to everybody, and he's very touchy feely,

494
00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:59,840
Speaker 4: and he's just he's just a good guy. Nothing sh

495
00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:04,200
Speaker 4: about him, nothing unethical, nothing like, just a good person

496
00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:09,080
Speaker 4: and just finds the happiness out of every situation that

497
00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:12,399
Speaker 4: he's in. Now I'm the total opposite, So I'm like,

498
00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:15,320
Speaker 4: I hate everybody. Everybody bugs me.

499
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Speaker 3: I don't want any new friends, so we don't have

500
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Speaker 3: any friends.

501
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Speaker 4: So he is the total opposite and it kind of

502
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Speaker 4: you know, I love seeing that and I love being

503
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Speaker 4: around it and just the positivity it helps me. And

504
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Speaker 4: I've definitely grown like I'm starting to like people. Not everybody,

505
00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:36,000
Speaker 4: but I'm starting to like them.

506
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Speaker 3: Well, you've just erased your harassments of me talking too

507
00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:43,360
Speaker 3: much to people because she gives me a hard time

508
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Speaker 3: all the time. Why do you talk to people so long?

509
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Speaker 3: When we had the gym, you know, I hear out

510
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Speaker 3: my clients.

511
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Speaker 4: Well, you have the gift of gab.

512
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Speaker 3: No, I just like to really, you know, listen to

513
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Speaker 3: what people are saying. And that usually.

514
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Speaker 4: Takes He means people at the grocery store. He means

515
00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 4: people at you know, Target Costco. They can just he

516
00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:06,680
Speaker 4: can get in like he should have been a therapist.

517
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Speaker 3: I don't like chit chat. I don't give a shit

518
00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:11,800
Speaker 3: about the weather. I can see it, But you talk

519
00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:15,040
Speaker 3: to I will talk to anybody who's willing to listen.

520
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Speaker 2: And Eddie, what do you love most about Tamra?

521
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Speaker 3: I like her free spirit. She really it's sort of

522
00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:27,520
Speaker 3: self serving because it makes me feel good to see

523
00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:30,680
Speaker 3: her spread her wings and be herself and create this

524
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Speaker 3: life that she just loves to live. And that's really

525
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Speaker 3: fulfilling to me. So, you know, she has her quirks,

526
00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:44,000
Speaker 3: but overall, she's just a beautiful person that just loves

527
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Speaker 3: to live life. You know, very stressful life being on

528
00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:51,320
Speaker 3: a TV show, especially a reality TV show, but she

529
00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:54,640
Speaker 3: still has a little bit of fun and exciting and

530
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Speaker 3: just I just like to see her spread her wings

531
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Speaker 3: and be herself. I don't. I love that about her.

532
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Speaker 3: She's willing to do anything.

533
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Speaker 4: Well and I love that you don't try to control

534
00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 4: me because I was in a very controlling relationship, very

535
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:07,399
Speaker 4: controlling like what I could wear, where I could go,

536
00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:10,640
Speaker 4: what I could eat, like everything was controlled. In fact,

537
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Speaker 4: when I you know, my relationship went further along with Eddie,

538
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:18,639
Speaker 4: I started to feel like he didn't love me because

539
00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:21,800
Speaker 4: he wasn't trying to control me. And I always thought

540
00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:24,479
Speaker 4: that control meant love because I was around it for

541
00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:27,760
Speaker 4: so long and in it so deep, and it wasn't

542
00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:30,199
Speaker 4: like that. I was so used to being you know, oh,

543
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Speaker 4: you can't go there, you can't do that. Why are

544
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,439
Speaker 4: you wearing that? You know? So he just let me

545
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Speaker 4: be who I am.

546
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Speaker 1: Right. Next question, the practical one for couples. How do

547
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Speaker 1: you handle finances? Shared account separate? How do you do

548
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Speaker 1: it all?

549
00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:49,840
Speaker 3: We share everything. I handle the finances. I give her reports,

550
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:53,000
Speaker 3: I give her updates. I want her to take the

551
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:55,159
Speaker 3: steerwheels some day, because if I was to get hit

552
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Speaker 3: by a bus, she really doesn't even know how to

553
00:27:56,840 --> 00:28:01,120
Speaker 3: look at the finances. It's just scary. But it's all

554
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:04,440
Speaker 3: pretty automated. Everything's organized, and if there was anything that

555
00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:06,399
Speaker 3: happen to me, she could hire somebody.

556
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Speaker 4: He's very organized, So it's best that he controls all

557
00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:14,400
Speaker 4: the you know, the bills and all that stuff. And

558
00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:20,320
Speaker 4: I trust you, Right's kidding? Now, I totally trust him,

559
00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:23,880
Speaker 4: and I have access to bank accounts and all that stuff.

560
00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:26,199
Speaker 4: But he does a really good job just investing our

561
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Speaker 4: money and doing all that kind of stuff where I

562
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Speaker 4: would know how to do that.

563
00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:35,879
Speaker 2: That's cool. How about the household chores, cooking, cleaning, kids, dog?

564
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 2: How do you all split those kind of mundane things

565
00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:42,680
Speaker 2: that can actually end up causing so many problems?

566
00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:44,520
Speaker 4: And really, yeah, Eddie cooks.

567
00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:45,680
Speaker 3: I love to cook.

568
00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:49,600
Speaker 4: He loves to cook, and so he cooks as healthy

569
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:55,240
Speaker 4: meals all the time. Household chores. I'm kind of a

570
00:28:55,240 --> 00:28:57,760
Speaker 4: little bit of a clean freaks. I'm always picking things up.

571
00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:02,440
Speaker 4: He likes to pile things. This bedside table, there's a

572
00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:04,920
Speaker 4: bunch of shit just piled up, but it's all organized.

573
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:08,840
Speaker 4: That drives me crazy. I like everything to be clean,

574
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:11,200
Speaker 4: but I hate doing dishes.

575
00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:13,680
Speaker 3: And that's I don't do dishes.

576
00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:14,440
Speaker 4: He doesn't do dishes.

577
00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:18,040
Speaker 3: Es actually do dishes. Our very first fight had to

578
00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:21,000
Speaker 3: do with dishes. I do dishes a certain way where

579
00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:24,640
Speaker 3: I wash them and then or rinse them off, get

580
00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:26,600
Speaker 3: all the food off, and I put them in the dishwasher.

581
00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:31,080
Speaker 3: She likes to soak them for days and they just days.

582
00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 3: They just sit in the sink, and it drove me insane.

583
00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:36,800
Speaker 4: I just hate doing the dishes. My mom made me

584
00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:39,040
Speaker 4: do the dishes every single night, and it was to me,

585
00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:41,400
Speaker 4: it was just such a chore. Now a lot of

586
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 4: times we just have Sofia do the dishes.

587
00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:46,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, but should do Sofia should do the dishes for

588
00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:49,840
Speaker 3: Sophia as well, because she just loves to do dishes

589
00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:53,000
Speaker 3: so much. But because of that fight, I do not

590
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:55,880
Speaker 3: touch the dishes, but I will clean the kitchen. I

591
00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:58,320
Speaker 3: will do everything else. We have a house cleaner that

592
00:29:58,360 --> 00:30:00,120
Speaker 3: comes once a week. She does the heavy mat and

593
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:04,120
Speaker 3: every other week every the week, I do my own laundry.

594
00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:06,880
Speaker 3: I do my own laundry, just organized that way. I

595
00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 3: like the way I do my laundry.

596
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Speaker 4: Sophia does her own laundry.

597
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Speaker 3: Yeah. The only room in the house that I actually

598
00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:17,320
Speaker 3: have one hundred percent responsibility to clean is the garage.

599
00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:19,920
Speaker 3: And I'm happy with that. I'm just not happy where

600
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Speaker 3: everything that, you know, boxes and trash ends up in

601
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Speaker 3: the freaking garage.

602
00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:26,560
Speaker 4: Lots of Amazon boxes get thrown in the garage.

603
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Speaker 3: So cleaning the cars, gassing the cars, I like taking

604
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Speaker 3: care of that. He puts gas in my car too, services,

605
00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:39,320
Speaker 3: oil services. And the dog. Because the dog is actually

606
00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:42,120
Speaker 3: my dog. I have to pick up for it and

607
00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:44,720
Speaker 3: walk it and feed it and love it.

608
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Speaker 4: We had a dog that passed away and we had

609
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Speaker 4: one year without having a dog, and it was just

610
00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:51,960
Speaker 4: there was like a little bit of a break where

611
00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:53,480
Speaker 4: you didn't have to pick up the dog poop, you

612
00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 4: didn't have to worry about the dog and all that stuff.

613
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Speaker 4: And my daughter had just graduated high school and I'm like,

614
00:30:58,440 --> 00:31:02,920
Speaker 4: we're home free, really no responsibility. And then he wanted

615
00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 4: another dog, So I'm like, okay, your dog, you pick

616
00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:06,440
Speaker 4: up after it.

617
00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:12,520
Speaker 1: A next question for you here, how much time apart

618
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Speaker 1: do you need? How much time do you all spend alone?

619
00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:18,080
Speaker 4: Not much?

620
00:31:18,200 --> 00:31:21,760
Speaker 3: Not much? Yeah, we do. I do cherish the times

621
00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:25,800
Speaker 3: I spend alone, and oh thank you. I get those

622
00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:32,160
Speaker 3: when I ride my bike, or if I drive to

623
00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:34,880
Speaker 3: Big Bird by myself and stay there for a couple

624
00:31:34,920 --> 00:31:35,520
Speaker 3: of days by.

625
00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:37,720
Speaker 4: Myself, which doesn't happen very often.

626
00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:41,160
Speaker 3: It doesn't happen very often, but it is so rewarding.

627
00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:45,440
Speaker 3: Not rewarding, but like relieving to have a little bit

628
00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:50,120
Speaker 3: of self mental time where you got no distractions, no questions, nothing.

629
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Speaker 3: And I say that because before I met my wife,

630
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:54,240
Speaker 3: I had a lot of that. I had this big

631
00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:58,040
Speaker 3: house by myself and I would no kids, no dogs, nothing,

632
00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:00,840
Speaker 3: I would work all day, long day and come home

633
00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:03,600
Speaker 3: and just I say this all the time. I can't

634
00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:05,880
Speaker 3: walk around naked my own around my own house anymore,

635
00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:08,160
Speaker 3: you know, I used to really enjoy that. There's something

636
00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:10,040
Speaker 3: sure about that, right.

637
00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:14,640
Speaker 4: No, I don't want to walk past a mirror. No

638
00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:18,840
Speaker 4: do we spend a lot of time together now I'm

639
00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:20,960
Speaker 4: going into filming season right now, so it's going to

640
00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:23,320
Speaker 4: take me away a lot, and we travel and stuff

641
00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:25,040
Speaker 4: like that. I think that's the most time that we

642
00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:28,400
Speaker 4: spend a part. We just got back from Big Bear.

643
00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:30,840
Speaker 4: We were there for three days. We have a house there,

644
00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:33,880
Speaker 4: so and there we're you know, together the entire time.

645
00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:37,160
Speaker 4: That's where we relax. But we also have two offices,

646
00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:39,360
Speaker 4: this office and the office next door, which is his.

647
00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:43,920
Speaker 4: And I think you all, like I get that sense

648
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:45,920
Speaker 4: like I just need some maytime. I'm going to go

649
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:48,200
Speaker 4: in my office and just kick it, and he usually

650
00:32:48,240 --> 00:32:51,440
Speaker 4: goes in his office. And that's kind of our time apart. Yeah,

651
00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:53,360
Speaker 4: because we both work out of the house for the

652
00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 4: most part.

653
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:57,440
Speaker 3: We both go to the gym together. Yeah, we do

654
00:32:58,080 --> 00:32:59,680
Speaker 3: most majority of the things to do together.

655
00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:02,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's really sweet.

656
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:03,160
Speaker 1: I love that.

657
00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:08,520
Speaker 2: What for you would be a relationship deal breaker, like an.

658
00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 3: End cheating cheating? Yeah, infidelity, that would be.

659
00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:17,360
Speaker 4: And I think she.

660
00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:19,760
Speaker 3: Can crash the car, she can burn the house down.

661
00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:23,240
Speaker 4: You know, she chased you with a knife and I'm kidding, no,

662
00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:29,360
Speaker 4: it's it's definitely cheating, you know. It's we're so connected

663
00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:31,560
Speaker 4: and if he ever cheated, I just feel like I

664
00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:34,760
Speaker 4: would never be able to get over it. Ever, and

665
00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:38,680
Speaker 4: we don't have children together, so it's always in Emotionally

666
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:41,280
Speaker 4: it's hard, but it's an easier break when you don't

667
00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:42,240
Speaker 4: have children together.

668
00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:47,120
Speaker 1: Next question here, have you all been to couples therapy?

669
00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:48,160
Speaker 3: No?

670
00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:51,400
Speaker 4: No, no, never, never ever?

671
00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:54,960
Speaker 2: All right? Is what would be one thing if you

672
00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:57,080
Speaker 2: could change about your partner? What would it be?

673
00:33:58,400 --> 00:33:59,360
Speaker 4: How loud he eats?

674
00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:00,880
Speaker 1: Wow?

675
00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:13,959
Speaker 3: How sensitive her ears are? Wow? She has I can't chew,

676
00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:16,840
Speaker 3: I can't, I can't breathe, I can't, I can't.

677
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:20,480
Speaker 4: I have like sensory issues. It's not just him, it's everybody.

678
00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:25,239
Speaker 4: So like if somebody talks behind me, like I want

679
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:26,120
Speaker 4: to punch somebody in the.

680
00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:28,399
Speaker 3: Throat, So we have to switch chairs and I'll sit

681
00:34:28,560 --> 00:34:31,720
Speaker 3: next to the loud tables. Yeah, she doesn't go berserk.

682
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 2: Yeah.

683
00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:36,399
Speaker 4: So like we'll be sitting at dinner at our bar

684
00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:39,640
Speaker 4: top in our kitchen and then he'll turn the music

685
00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:42,640
Speaker 4: on Alexa, play music.

686
00:34:42,640 --> 00:34:44,359
Speaker 3: Play anything to save my life here?

687
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:54,560
Speaker 4: Yeah?

688
00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:57,160
Speaker 1: Next question here. I know you don't fight much, but

689
00:34:57,360 --> 00:34:59,920
Speaker 1: have you ever in the middle of a heated argument

690
00:35:00,680 --> 00:35:04,759
Speaker 1: threatened to break up, threaten to walk out, or even

691
00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:06,000
Speaker 1: threaten to get divorced?

692
00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:07,960
Speaker 3: Yeah?

693
00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:12,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, Watch when well, that one had to been you,

694
00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:14,880
Speaker 4: because it's not me. I don't do that. I learned

695
00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:17,960
Speaker 4: in my last relationship, like when you start threatening divorce

696
00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:21,399
Speaker 4: all the time, it just becomes like so repetitive. When

697
00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:23,279
Speaker 4: you're fighting, Like we were fighting all the time, I'd

698
00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:27,400
Speaker 4: always say like, oh my god, I just want a divorce.

699
00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:30,479
Speaker 4: And then once you start saying that like it's truly over,

700
00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:31,720
Speaker 4: I think it's over.

701
00:35:32,840 --> 00:35:35,640
Speaker 3: And actually, this is where I give her a lot

702
00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:38,080
Speaker 3: of credit because this is one of the biggest lessons

703
00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:41,920
Speaker 3: I learned from her. In the beginning, when we would

704
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:44,799
Speaker 3: have big fights, I would say, you know, I'm out,

705
00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 3: I'm doone. I don't want to be in this relationship.

706
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:50,319
Speaker 3: And she would always pull me back and kind of

707
00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:53,320
Speaker 3: teach me like, no, this is not how it works.

708
00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:57,239
Speaker 3: This is marriage. We worked through it, and prior to

709
00:35:57,280 --> 00:36:02,080
Speaker 3: my wife, particularly growing and I had very little tolerance

710
00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:05,880
Speaker 3: for relationship issues and if there's something happened, I would

711
00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:07,839
Speaker 3: just walk away. I'm like, sorry, I'm out.

712
00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:09,040
Speaker 4: You know, he's a runner.

713
00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:13,200
Speaker 3: I'm a runner. And she's changed that for me, and

714
00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:16,239
Speaker 3: I see the beauty and that and the value and

715
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:20,799
Speaker 3: that and that fighting are just growing pains that just

716
00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:24,759
Speaker 3: bring you closer together. But fortunately there's so many more

717
00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:28,719
Speaker 3: good times in bad times that the little things that

718
00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:32,560
Speaker 3: we've thought about that that really it helped us grow together.

719
00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:35,799
Speaker 3: It didn't it changed me into you know what, I'm

720
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 3: not going to say that anymore because I don't mean that,

721
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:40,680
Speaker 3: and I'm not going to walk away from this relationship.

722
00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:44,240
Speaker 3: I'm gonna fight for this relationship. So she taught me that.

723
00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:47,560
Speaker 2: That's really cool. What's the closest you all ever came

724
00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:49,600
Speaker 2: to breaking up or to calling it quits.

725
00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:54,720
Speaker 3: I don't think we've ever been there, No, I don't.

726
00:36:56,080 --> 00:36:57,960
Speaker 4: I think in the very beginning, the first year that

727
00:36:58,000 --> 00:37:01,759
Speaker 4: we were together, it was just so stressful and so overwhelming.

728
00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:06,600
Speaker 4: My ex was writing me hard and you know, brainwashing

729
00:37:06,719 --> 00:37:09,879
Speaker 4: children and doing all that that it just got and

730
00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:13,360
Speaker 4: doing public stories stories. It was just so such a

731
00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:17,480
Speaker 4: stressful time for us that I mean, I remember one time,

732
00:37:17,560 --> 00:37:20,239
Speaker 4: like you took off, you just left, in the middle

733
00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:22,160
Speaker 4: of a fight. You just left, and I'm like, wouldn't

734
00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:25,560
Speaker 4: pick up his phone, wouldn't return a text message, and

735
00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:28,120
Speaker 4: what's gone for? Yeah, I gone for several hours and

736
00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:31,200
Speaker 4: I'm like, well, this is it, this is it. And

737
00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:34,680
Speaker 4: he came home he just needs time to vent, and

738
00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:36,879
Speaker 4: I wasn't used to that. He just needs to go

739
00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:40,719
Speaker 4: and blow some steam and then, you know, come back

740
00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 4: and then but then he just kind of acts like

741
00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:46,800
Speaker 4: everything's fine. Death that never happened.

742
00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:48,200
Speaker 3: That's you.

743
00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:49,760
Speaker 4: Hey, what do you want for dinner?

744
00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:50,560
Speaker 1: No?

745
00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:51,279
Speaker 3: You do it?

746
00:37:51,360 --> 00:37:52,120
Speaker 4: Yes you do.

747
00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:54,040
Speaker 3: You know. It's another thing I learned from you.

748
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:56,560
Speaker 1: When we come out and see you all again, we'll

749
00:37:56,600 --> 00:38:00,680
Speaker 1: explain laughing so much, this is you. We don't want

750
00:38:00,719 --> 00:38:01,640
Speaker 1: to talk about us.

751
00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:06,240
Speaker 4: Today, exactly, very familiar.

752
00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:11,840
Speaker 1: Last week got about six or seven eight questions. Your

753
00:38:11,920 --> 00:38:15,880
Speaker 1: last the next one here, what is the sweetest thing Tamera?

754
00:38:16,040 --> 00:38:18,640
Speaker 1: You can remember Eddie doing for you? And the same

755
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:19,319
Speaker 1: question for you.

756
00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:21,720
Speaker 3: Was the sweetest My gosh.

757
00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:25,160
Speaker 1: Remembery you something a standout thing that you were like, Wow.

758
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:29,080
Speaker 3: The biggest thing I remember is realizing that she is

759
00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:33,680
Speaker 3: paying attention to what I like, and that was reflective

760
00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:38,040
Speaker 3: in our marriage, our wedding, I should say where at

761
00:38:38,080 --> 00:38:41,200
Speaker 3: the time I was a huge gummy bear lover and

762
00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:43,759
Speaker 3: used to eat gummy bears all the time. So she

763
00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:47,839
Speaker 3: had a five pound gummy bear I've never seen in

764
00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:49,200
Speaker 3: my life, and I in my.

765
00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:51,880
Speaker 4: At our wedding a reception. We had a whole gummy

766
00:38:51,880 --> 00:38:52,279
Speaker 4: bear bar.

767
00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:55,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was gummy bears everywhere. And the other part

768
00:38:55,560 --> 00:38:58,160
Speaker 3: is she also knows I'm a big or it used

769
00:38:58,200 --> 00:39:01,879
Speaker 3: to be a big cyclist, road cyclist. And she had

770
00:39:01,920 --> 00:39:05,840
Speaker 3: the decorator hang aid, the florist, the floors, a bicycle,

771
00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:09,000
Speaker 3: a real bicycle road bike upside down with the flowers

772
00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:12,760
Speaker 3: at our reception. So and she even had a custom

773
00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:16,200
Speaker 3: cake make made with the helmet and the cyclis and

774
00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 3: the cycling shoes and the cycling gears. So that really

775
00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:21,240
Speaker 3: felt like, oh my god, she really is paying attention

776
00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:23,880
Speaker 3: to me. She really does care about me, and that

777
00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:24,920
Speaker 3: was that was funny.

778
00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:29,160
Speaker 4: Yeah. I think for him is that like I always

779
00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:32,239
Speaker 4: know every Valentine's Day, I'm going to get i don't know,

780
00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:38,319
Speaker 4: five dozen roses, like some overwhelming amount. Just the fact

781
00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:40,920
Speaker 4: that he really cares about me and takes care of me,

782
00:39:41,040 --> 00:39:43,799
Speaker 4: and like he told me last month, he's like, listen,

783
00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:45,560
Speaker 4: I don't want you to put gas in your car anymore.

784
00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:48,000
Speaker 4: I'm going to do it for you because there's this

785
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:51,839
Speaker 4: girl is getting kidnapped and things like that. Like he's

786
00:39:51,920 --> 00:39:54,600
Speaker 4: really concerned for my safety all the time.

787
00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:57,319
Speaker 1: Dam it, Eddie I only gave her a three dozen roads.

788
00:39:59,120 --> 00:40:01,120
Speaker 3: I'll send you a link you can get three for twelve.

789
00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:02,680
Speaker 1: Thank you.

790
00:40:03,719 --> 00:40:05,479
Speaker 2: It's sweet when you get so many that you lose

791
00:40:05,560 --> 00:40:07,480
Speaker 2: count when you're trying to count how many there are.

792
00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:10,239
Speaker 1: I love that.

793
00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:12,840
Speaker 3: I just don't want it to backfire. I mean, because

794
00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:14,560
Speaker 3: if I gat her too many, then she's going to

795
00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:17,920
Speaker 3: be pissed because she has to you know, organize put

796
00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:21,480
Speaker 3: on seven basis and like that didn't work.

797
00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:25,640
Speaker 2: What would you say the biggest compromise each of you

798
00:40:25,719 --> 00:40:29,520
Speaker 2: made by choosing to be together or while like to

799
00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:31,799
Speaker 2: make your marriage good, Like if you notice things were

800
00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:34,040
Speaker 2: tough to first year, what would you say the biggest

801
00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:36,960
Speaker 2: compromise was that you made to make it work.

802
00:40:37,840 --> 00:40:42,920
Speaker 4: That's a tough one. I think probably with the children.

803
00:40:44,520 --> 00:40:50,000
Speaker 4: I think that, Yeah, that was probably the toughest thing.

804
00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:53,600
Speaker 4: Is you know, I was going through such a bad

805
00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:57,160
Speaker 4: divorce and he was trying to turn the children against me.

806
00:40:57,320 --> 00:41:01,399
Speaker 4: And when that's happening, when you're in your own household,

807
00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:03,640
Speaker 4: you walk on eggshells around your own children.

808
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:05,360
Speaker 3: Do you remember that?

809
00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:08,120
Speaker 4: And you don't discipline them maybe the way you should,

810
00:41:08,160 --> 00:41:11,120
Speaker 4: because you know, the father of the children, or trying

811
00:41:11,160 --> 00:41:14,640
Speaker 4: to turn them against you, And I was really really

812
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:16,640
Speaker 4: letting them get away with a lot of stuff, not

813
00:41:16,680 --> 00:41:19,880
Speaker 4: that they were doing anything bad, but it was always like,

814
00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:23,200
Speaker 4: you know what, you can't let this person do this

815
00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:26,719
Speaker 4: to you and your kids. Like so, I think that

816
00:41:27,120 --> 00:41:32,360
Speaker 4: was probably the biggest just learning how to combine a

817
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:37,520
Speaker 4: family together, make everybody happy. That was probably the biggest compromise.

818
00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:41,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, and for me, I don't think it was that

819
00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:46,960
Speaker 3: difficult because most of my relationships I've had I think

820
00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:52,080
Speaker 3: I've only had two relationships where the woman was childless,

821
00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:54,520
Speaker 3: but most of the relationships there was, you know, a

822
00:41:54,560 --> 00:41:56,719
Speaker 3: step child involved and I never knew why.

823
00:41:56,800 --> 00:41:59,280
Speaker 4: But prepare you for this match.

824
00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:03,360
Speaker 3: Prepare me for this because I took it as okay,

825
00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:06,439
Speaker 3: I see what's going on. I see what he's doing

826
00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:09,160
Speaker 3: to the children. I see how she's handling it, and

827
00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:12,280
Speaker 3: I have to be able to take a step back

828
00:42:12,719 --> 00:42:15,759
Speaker 3: and not be a father figure, but be a just

829
00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:21,360
Speaker 3: a friend or a person here for the kids, because

830
00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:24,239
Speaker 3: I know generally wants.

831
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:26,960
Speaker 4: To be the father figure. He really does in his nature,

832
00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:31,200
Speaker 4: but it was were so poisoned against.

833
00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:34,839
Speaker 3: Him, it's hard to be that figure. I just saw

834
00:42:36,239 --> 00:42:38,879
Speaker 3: chaos happening. If I was to try to be a

835
00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:42,880
Speaker 3: father even though their father wasn't being a father. I

836
00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:47,319
Speaker 3: just didn't feel like I could win that battle. So

837
00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:49,680
Speaker 3: it was a big sacrifice for me to just step

838
00:42:49,719 --> 00:42:53,680
Speaker 3: back and watch the train wreck happen. But the kids

839
00:42:53,719 --> 00:42:57,120
Speaker 3: turned out good, and you know, fortunately, it took time

840
00:42:57,160 --> 00:42:59,480
Speaker 3: for them to really realize what they were dealing with.

841
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:02,600
Speaker 3: And I think we're at a different stage in our

842
00:43:02,680 --> 00:43:05,320
Speaker 3: relationship where the kids are coming around and they're starting

843
00:43:05,360 --> 00:43:10,080
Speaker 3: to realize all the lies and stuff that they learned

844
00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:12,919
Speaker 3: at a young age. They're starting to get it. So

845
00:43:12,960 --> 00:43:14,440
Speaker 3: our relationship is definitely improved.

846
00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:18,040
Speaker 4: They're all older now. Sophia's nineteen. She's the only one left,

847
00:43:18,239 --> 00:43:22,280
Speaker 4: you know, she's only one here, so that's awesome.

848
00:43:22,400 --> 00:43:24,840
Speaker 1: Next question for you, did you have a honeymoon phase?

849
00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:28,399
Speaker 1: How long would you say it lasted? What did it

850
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:31,839
Speaker 1: evolve into? Which is what phase are you in now?

851
00:43:32,160 --> 00:43:32,840
Speaker 1: Did you catch.

852
00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:38,960
Speaker 4: Oh, we had a really really long honeymoon phase. I

853
00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:42,680
Speaker 4: really do think that and some might say, like we're

854
00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:45,239
Speaker 4: still in the honeymoon phase because we're always together, We're

855
00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:52,040
Speaker 4: always holding hands and things like that. We've always been

856
00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:58,680
Speaker 4: super connected. Are we banging ten times a day? Like

857
00:43:58,719 --> 00:44:01,960
Speaker 4: we used to. No, we're older, we're getting tired.

858
00:44:03,560 --> 00:44:04,160
Speaker 3: It's not me.

859
00:44:05,239 --> 00:44:10,680
Speaker 4: I'm tired. I'm sorry. Maybe tomorrow, Yeah, tomorrow, I got

860
00:44:10,760 --> 00:44:14,319
Speaker 4: to it tomorrow, all right.

861
00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:19,000
Speaker 2: So final question, everyone always wants to know what the

862
00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:22,040
Speaker 2: secret with the key is. What would you say is

863
00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:27,120
Speaker 2: the reason why you all have not just made it

864
00:44:27,160 --> 00:44:31,240
Speaker 2: for fifteen years, but are joyful and still in love

865
00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:34,560
Speaker 2: and happy together after all these years. What is it?

866
00:44:35,239 --> 00:44:38,239
Speaker 4: I think respect, Like I respect him and he respects me,

867
00:44:39,080 --> 00:44:42,480
Speaker 4: and you know, I don't ever try to stop him

868
00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:45,920
Speaker 4: from doing anything, and he does the same for me.

869
00:44:48,160 --> 00:44:50,600
Speaker 4: He you know, there was a time where he was

870
00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:54,000
Speaker 4: cycling every single day and it's like a big ordeal.

871
00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:54,719
Speaker 4: Did I love it?

872
00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:55,080
Speaker 2: No?

873
00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:57,400
Speaker 4: But I knew that he liked it. I knew that

874
00:44:57,440 --> 00:45:01,399
Speaker 4: it brought him joy. And yeah, I think it has

875
00:45:01,440 --> 00:45:03,879
Speaker 4: to do with respect and being kind to each other.

876
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:08,160
Speaker 4: I'm not a big fan of like calling names, because

877
00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:10,440
Speaker 4: I feel like those are things that you can't take back,

878
00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:14,040
Speaker 4: and I don't ever want to bring that into this

879
00:45:14,120 --> 00:45:17,279
Speaker 4: relationship because as soon as you start doing that, there's

880
00:45:17,320 --> 00:45:20,759
Speaker 4: no going backwards. Because your words when you're mad, a

881
00:45:20,760 --> 00:45:24,160
Speaker 4: lot of times, it's what you really think, and they

882
00:45:24,200 --> 00:45:27,600
Speaker 4: can be really mean. You know. It's like that inner

883
00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:30,920
Speaker 4: like all my frustrations, like you know, and I just

884
00:45:31,600 --> 00:45:34,000
Speaker 4: I'd rather step away than do anything like you know,

885
00:45:34,080 --> 00:45:35,800
Speaker 4: say something that I can't take back.

886
00:45:36,320 --> 00:45:40,920
Speaker 3: Well, I disagreed, doctor Phil. I think that's why you

887
00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:43,080
Speaker 3: have to take some time away so you don't say

888
00:45:43,120 --> 00:45:46,799
Speaker 3: things you don't mean. That's what I said, so I

889
00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:49,959
Speaker 3: said it under the you know, duress of I don't

890
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:52,719
Speaker 3: want to talk right now. It doesn't mean I mean

891
00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:55,839
Speaker 3: it calling you an asshole or you know whatever. You know,

892
00:45:55,920 --> 00:46:00,880
Speaker 3: I just you gotta give me time. Personally, My answer

893
00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:06,080
Speaker 3: to that question is it's probably just me. But it's

894
00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:11,719
Speaker 3: doing new things together, even if they're small, like going

895
00:46:11,760 --> 00:46:15,120
Speaker 3: to a new restaurant, going to a new vacation spot.

896
00:46:16,120 --> 00:46:19,160
Speaker 3: Doing for the last three years. For example, we started

897
00:46:19,200 --> 00:46:22,120
Speaker 3: writing Harley's together. We started writing eight years ago. We

898
00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:25,920
Speaker 3: started riding their bikes together. We used to travel to

899
00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:30,640
Speaker 3: new places a lot before COVID. It's just trying new things.

900
00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:32,680
Speaker 3: She's so full of life and adventures.

901
00:46:33,280 --> 00:46:34,480
Speaker 4: We're going to ski this year.

902
00:46:35,120 --> 00:46:36,279
Speaker 3: She's going to ski this year.

903
00:46:36,440 --> 00:46:37,560
Speaker 4: We're going to ski this share.

904
00:46:37,680 --> 00:46:42,440
Speaker 3: I don't want to do that.

905
00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:45,760
Speaker 1: I guess that's exciting next.

906
00:46:46,280 --> 00:46:50,279
Speaker 2: But I think that's such good advice because the respect.

907
00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:53,799
Speaker 2: I so agree with you camera. If you don't have

908
00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:56,400
Speaker 2: respect for someone, and if you lose respect for someone,

909
00:46:56,480 --> 00:47:01,000
Speaker 2: it's over, it's over. And staying young with someone, having

910
00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:03,760
Speaker 2: fun with someone, trying new things with someone, that's creating

911
00:47:04,600 --> 00:47:07,760
Speaker 2: just new connections. I love it. I think that's amazing advice.

912
00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:12,600
Speaker 2: Think you all were so open and candid and real,

913
00:47:12,719 --> 00:47:16,920
Speaker 2: and I know you do reality TV, so yeah, but no,

914
00:47:17,040 --> 00:47:20,000
Speaker 2: it was really it was so awesome to be able

915
00:47:20,040 --> 00:47:23,440
Speaker 2: to hear thank you from and how you got to

916
00:47:23,440 --> 00:47:25,719
Speaker 2: where you are now. We should all be so lucky.

917
00:47:26,200 --> 00:47:28,359
Speaker 4: Oh, thank you, thank you, thank you.

918
00:47:28,680 --> 00:47:31,720
Speaker 1: We are lucky and hope really we'll see you guys

919
00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:33,799
Speaker 1: out there, really, mister you. We had a blast out

920
00:47:33,800 --> 00:47:34,359
Speaker 1: there with you all.

921
00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:36,160
Speaker 3: I know, I know coming out.

922
00:47:37,480 --> 00:47:40,279
Speaker 1: We came in for some coverage. Yeah, how are you

923
00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:42,840
Speaker 1: all doing out there? I mean, everybody good.

924
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:45,719
Speaker 4: We're about an hour away from LA because we're in

925
00:47:45,719 --> 00:47:51,480
Speaker 4: an Orange County. Lots of people like production people, we

926
00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:54,359
Speaker 4: know they all live in LA. A lot of people

927
00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:58,960
Speaker 4: have lost their houses and it's just so devastating.

928
00:48:00,120 --> 00:48:02,040
Speaker 1: So yeah, we only came out for that. We might

929
00:48:02,040 --> 00:48:04,960
Speaker 1: come out for the Heart Music Awards.

930
00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:06,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, we'll be there.

931
00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:11,640
Speaker 1: That'll be fun. Yeah, the next time. But really, guys,

932
00:48:11,640 --> 00:48:14,160
Speaker 1: you all are absolutely awesome and we're always looking for

933
00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:15,440
Speaker 1: advice ourselves.

934
00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:18,720
Speaker 4: Seriously, I think we all are, honestly.

935
00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:21,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, listening to you guys, we were both like, oh

936
00:48:21,719 --> 00:48:27,319
Speaker 2: my god, oh my god, like it, it's not just us, right, Like, yes,

937
00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:27,840
Speaker 2: that happens.

938
00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:29,920
Speaker 1: Hey, I'm like it, get the fuck out my face.

939
00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:30,760
Speaker 1: I need a minute.

940
00:48:31,080 --> 00:48:32,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, I need a minute.

941
00:48:32,280 --> 00:48:34,000
Speaker 2: I'm like, let's figure this out right now.

942
00:48:36,440 --> 00:48:38,520
Speaker 1: Just please let me, let me have it, can have it.

943
00:48:40,719 --> 00:48:41,920
Speaker 2: I was like, what's happening?

944
00:48:42,440 --> 00:48:42,640
Speaker 1: Why?

945
00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:44,720
Speaker 2: What the hell? I was wise.

946
00:48:44,880 --> 00:48:49,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, it took a lot of fights to get for

947
00:48:49,320 --> 00:48:51,520
Speaker 3: her to understand it, you know, and for me to

948
00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:55,560
Speaker 3: realize some things that, you know, going through the struggles

949
00:48:55,640 --> 00:49:00,000
Speaker 3: of learning each other and getting through each other's habit

950
00:49:00,360 --> 00:49:01,280
Speaker 3: that we formed.

951
00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:04,520
Speaker 4: I call it the only child syndrome. Here we go,

952
00:49:07,239 --> 00:49:12,200
Speaker 4: the only child syndrome. It's all about me. Okay, it's

953
00:49:12,200 --> 00:49:14,239
Speaker 4: all about me.

954
00:49:16,680 --> 00:49:19,120
Speaker 1: It's never a good start to come. Here we go.

955
00:49:19,880 --> 00:49:24,480
Speaker 2: There she goes again.

956
00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:27,799
Speaker 1: It is so good to see you all. This is

957
00:49:27,920 --> 00:49:32,319
Speaker 1: fun having us. No, thank you all so much for

958
00:49:32,400 --> 00:49:34,280
Speaker 1: this and I promise we're going to see you all

959
00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:36,080
Speaker 1: out there in March, all right, We're gonna make sure

960
00:49:36,080 --> 00:49:36,520
Speaker 1: we see y'all.

961
00:49:36,960 --> 00:49:40,320
Speaker 3: Can't wait to hear it. Bye bye, guys,