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Speaker 1: Edge Martinez in Real Life podcast. This episode and conversation

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Speaker 1: is powered by I Do Say What's up? Everybody? We

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Speaker 1: are back. It is another edition of the Edge Martinez

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Speaker 1: IRL podcast Takeaway episode. We are talking about Corey Larray today.

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Speaker 1: First of all, shout out to Cooy. How cute is

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Speaker 1: she is? She like, not gorgeous, Oh my gosh. And

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Speaker 1: through the camera she's like flawless. But in person it's

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Speaker 1: like even I don't know how she's real. It's like

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Speaker 1: porcelain baby skin and just the whole thing. This the

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Speaker 1: whole thing. I saw that a lot in the comments,

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Speaker 1: how britty she looked and how gorgeous she was. But

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Speaker 1: we had fun with her. Her energy was great. You know,

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Speaker 1: sometimes guests come and they're like nervous and weird. Not weird,

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Speaker 1: but a little nervous, a little skeptical. Sometimes people are

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Speaker 1: quiet and it takes a minute for them to open up.

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Speaker 2: Coy was like, Hi, I'm ready. She was also happy

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Speaker 2: to be there, like it was I love that.

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Speaker 1: That makes me happy. Yeah, and her crew was cool.

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Speaker 1: Everybody was in good vibes. It was just it was

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Speaker 1: a good day. But yeah, I was excited to have her.

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Speaker 1: I really hadn't. We've known each other, but I haven't

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Speaker 1: really spend any time with her. I gotten to know her.

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Speaker 1: She's always been lovely and I just love how she's

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Speaker 1: managing her career. To me, like she stands out in

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Speaker 1: the bunch. She doesn't blend and I could just see

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Speaker 1: how serious she is about her career, if that makes sense.

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Speaker 1: It's funny because we interviewed her before Beyonce sent the flowers.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's right.

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Speaker 1: Beyonce center flowers on Instagram and told her how talented

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Speaker 1: she was and how I don't want to I do

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Speaker 1: not want to misquote Queen Bee.

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Speaker 3: Beyonce's message said, I'm a fan of yours and I

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Speaker 3: love watching you grow.

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Speaker 1: You're a very talented young lady.

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Speaker 2: Love Beyonce.

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Speaker 1: I mean, how great is Beyonce? That would be for

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Speaker 1: another takeaway. We could just do a how great is

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Speaker 1: Beyonce takeawayisode? Yeah, but I think what Beyonce sees in her,

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Speaker 1: we all kind of see in her, like she's super talented,

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Speaker 1: she's driven, she works hard, and she reinforced that in

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Speaker 1: this conversation about how driven she was. She has been

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Speaker 1: on her own since she's fifteen years old. Fifteen or

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Speaker 1: sixteen her she quit school to get to the bag

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Speaker 1: to get a job. She found a job as a telemarketer,

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Speaker 1: which if any of you out there have done telemarketing,

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Speaker 1: you know how dreadful that could be. You have to

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Speaker 1: be a salesperson. You have to be committed and willing

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Speaker 1: to sell. Have you ever done anything like that?

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Speaker 3: Yes, in college.

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Speaker 2: So to clarify, Koy didn't just quit any school. She's

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Speaker 2: quit high school. Y.

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Speaker 1: No, No, she wasn't.

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Speaker 3: There's a big difference between quitting college and I think

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Speaker 3: quitting high school, like your your idea of like where

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Speaker 2: To be way more clear at that young of age.

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Speaker 1: But anyways, but I think she was just trying to

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Speaker 3: Yes, absolutely, absolutely, she was trying to care for herself

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Speaker 3: and her family. She was like, Mom, we'll play that

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Speaker 3: clip now, of course, yeah, play that.

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Speaker 4: After we done got evicted and went through our whole situation.

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Speaker 4: It's like reality is kicking in, like maybe it's life

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Speaker 4: or death, Like what are you gonna do? You're going

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Speaker 4: to have to separate from the pack a little bit

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Speaker 4: to go to survive, Like, I don't know, I've always

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Speaker 4: been like that and in school I was never into Like,

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Speaker 4: I was very smart, but I did not like school.

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Speaker 4: So I asked my mother, like, YO, just sign me out.

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Speaker 4: I have to work.

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Speaker 1: She's so like, could you imagine her at that age

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Speaker 1: to be that had that type of conviction and that

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Speaker 1: type of because me at sixteen, I barely was like

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Speaker 1: do I want to go to the hairhole court?

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Speaker 3: So?

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Speaker 1: Do I want to go to the pizzeria? Like I

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Speaker 1: don't know that I was thinking, and we didn't have

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Speaker 1: But she saw it and then so she took this

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Speaker 1: job and was killing it and she's killing it. This

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Speaker 1: is how I know she is a born hustler. And

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Speaker 1: I know there was some controversy about some of the

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Speaker 1: things she said about her dad in this podcast, which

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Speaker 1: were very minimal, but one of the things she did

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Speaker 1: credit him for was her hustler spirit. Absolutely, she says,

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Speaker 1: she you know, and I saw it in her too.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, she gets that from her dad, and she

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Speaker 1: clearly is a hustler. And here's her hustling What was

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Speaker 1: she hustling? Google and ads?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: How old when you're selling these Google.

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Speaker 4: Things seventeen sixteen?

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah. They didn't even know who's behind the phone.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, Hi, I'm quick Colin Tommy My speaking to

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Speaker 4: John the business owner. He's like, who's calling? I'm like, hey, John,

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Speaker 4: are you the owner of X y Z business? He's

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Speaker 4: like yeah. I'm like okay, it says that your hours

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Speaker 4: of operations haven't been updated? Are you do you know

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Speaker 4: your hours of operations? Do you have any do you

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Speaker 4: know what? He's like, Yeah, we're open from twelve to three.

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Speaker 4: What do you mean. I'm like, we'll hop on Google

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Speaker 4: right now. I'm like, ninety percent of the users in

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Speaker 4: the world are using iPhones and Apple Like they're trying

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Speaker 4: to get to your business, y'all. I was knocking them crazy.

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Speaker 4: I was taking at least like at sixteen thirteen hundred

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Speaker 4: every Friday. Wow. Yeah, yeah, it was crazy. So that's

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Speaker 4: what made me sign on.

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Speaker 1: How they hire you so young?

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Speaker 4: It was under the table and it was like this

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Speaker 4: little office. I don't even think they exist anymore.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I might have bought something from her.

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Speaker 1: I feel like that.

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Speaker 3: I feel she might have got me. She saw me

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Speaker 3: and she was like, pull up Google right now. I'm like, dang,

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Speaker 3: you can't even argue with her. The proof is right there.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sure, you're gonna fix it for me. Go ahead,

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Speaker 2: here's my six hundred dollars spoiler ray, you got it.

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Speaker 1: A thing that made me sad in this episode from

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Speaker 1: she's like, I'm a baddy, I don't care what you say,

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Speaker 2: I love that clip.

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Speaker 1: What is that?

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Speaker 4: How do you have that my mom would be the

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Speaker 4: one to like all them Brittany's mom. I ishing all

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Speaker 4: them thembid antet. All of them will go out, they

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Speaker 4: go out, they fly like he was boots, and my

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Speaker 4: and I'm like, yo, why are you not dressing them?

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Speaker 4: Like you're looking different, like you look like the outcaves.

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Speaker 4: Like you're not letting me, like you don't want to

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Speaker 4: put no boots on? And we got no leather boots,

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Speaker 4: don't you. You got a hell of leather boots. Why

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Speaker 4: would shut me down, girl war would I want to

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Speaker 4: wear a girl? Please? I look good. I'm to think

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Speaker 4: well Piero is and if you want wear Adidas and

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Speaker 4: My mom never wore makeup, she never wore weeds.

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Speaker 1: But she felt fly.

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Speaker 4: She felt like, yeah, had confidence of her fucking she

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Speaker 4: was the best. She was the best, the best. Tell

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Speaker 4: she was a baddie. Yeah. So I feel like I

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Speaker 1: all know, is a cesspool moments.

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Speaker 2: And also, not all opinions are right opinions.

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Speaker 3: Someone very wise said this to us the other day

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Speaker 1: Hate the Internet. Listen, there's some lovely things that happened.

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Speaker 1: I've connected with so many of you, and there's been

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Speaker 1: How came we through that? Because like, there's so many

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Speaker 1: And then you have other forces outside who are not

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Speaker 1: So I said, by the way, I love Thames. I

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