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Speaker 1: I snooped through my boyfriend's phone and found out that

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Speaker 1: broke my heart more than I could have ever imagined.

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Speaker 2: I feel like the best scenario is a peanut colt

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Speaker 2: of scenario, right, you know, sawn out of the paper,

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Speaker 2: been together too long just to warrant, like just like

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Speaker 2: a worn out record. Right now, guys, it's getting.

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Speaker 3: Tired of my laid boom boom boom together too long.

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Speaker 3: Boom boom boom boom recorded boom boom boom boom of

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Speaker 3: your favorite song boom boom boom boom so wash boom

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Speaker 3: boom boom boom boom boom camera boom boom.

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Speaker 2: And the personal boom boom boom.

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Speaker 3: Boom boom boom boom boom boom boom boom so.

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Speaker 2: So it's like that, like right, Like I read the

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Speaker 2: text and it was me the whole time, and we

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Speaker 2: had been, you know, sexting each other online, and they thought, like.

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Speaker 4: The classified that's also.

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Speaker 2: You know that would update is you've been sextying each

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Speaker 2: other on Twitter through catfish a couch. That's the twenty

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Speaker 2: twenty three version, twenty three version of Escape, What.

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Speaker 4: Is it there's some new app called gas or something.

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Speaker 2: Oh, yes, it's like that. It's like each other.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well this is a reddest story, Sam, So we're

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Speaker 1: gonna have to find out all right, Let's see.

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Speaker 4: This just happened last night.

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Speaker 1: I was out to dinner with my boyfriend, and before

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Speaker 1: the server took our order, I.

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Speaker 4: Went to the bathroom.

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Speaker 2: Nice.

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Speaker 1: When I got back to sit down, my boyfriend's phone

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Speaker 1: notice a message with someone sharing red hearts.

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Speaker 2: Red hearts. He must be cheating or he's talking.

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Speaker 4: To his mom.

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Speaker 1: Imagine he was cheating. Step Oh god. I honestly at

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Speaker 1: first thought nothing of it. I wasn't even trying to

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Speaker 2: Yeah, just for the.

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Speaker 4: Peepen, right for the taking.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 1: I'm not a jealous person, and he's never given me

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Speaker 1: very healthy relationship. I do, however, struggle with intrusive thoughts

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Speaker 1: and trauma from people burning me in the past. I've

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Speaker 1: and haven't had any major issues in a long time.

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Speaker 2: But oh, always but always a big, beautiful booty.

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Speaker 1: When my boyfriend immediately picked up his phone and says,

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Speaker 1: I have to text my boss real quick, I started

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Speaker 4: Hey, hey, boss, I had to just report in a

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Speaker 4: big D that came at last.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I have a big deal right slapping across the

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna have to invest some of this big D into.

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Speaker 1: Your a annual report. I tried, guys, I tried school. Is

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Speaker 1: he school is easier? DNA is right there? He literally

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Speaker 1: at that exact moment, and the hearts were from his.

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Speaker 4: Mom for all I know.

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Speaker 2: Hey, that's what we thought.

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Speaker 4: That's what we thought.

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Speaker 1: That's still suspicious, still suspicious. So I told myself to

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Speaker 1: For some reason, every single thing he said and did

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Speaker 1: I started rapidly switching between thinking I was being irrational

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, wait, just all because of three hearts, Yes,

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Speaker 4: It's the same. If it was one heart, that would

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Speaker 1: We are talking a three x a three hundred hungry

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Speaker 2: Did you see that text? I?

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, you fire. That was persuade, actually said John.

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Speaker 2: Three hearts Right here after I said I'm picking up

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Speaker 1: One day, one day we'll do like Sam and John exposed,

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Speaker 1: but it's actually just us like sharing our saucy text

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Speaker 2: Okay, let's hear it.

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Speaker 1: Eventually it got to the point where I was on

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Speaker 1: We're still I think this might be afterwards. I think

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Speaker 2: I see like she's saying like, oh, not because I

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Speaker 4: Yeah, there's a burd in hell.

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Speaker 1: I mean it sounds like you're you're which is fine,

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Speaker 2: The I'm just calling a cat a cat, you know,

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Speaker 2: What's with this like intrusive thought trend? Have you seen

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Speaker 2: that everyone's being like, oh I finally let the intrusive

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Speaker 2: but it's just an obtrusive thought, like you just think

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Speaker 1: Every emotional trend has to have a label, you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean, Like like, oh, you've heard of gaslighting.

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Speaker 1: You've heard of gaslighting? Honestly, this is gaslighting rebranded.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, from the perspective of the gas lighters. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm not gaslighting you, it's just thought.

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Speaker 1: They literally went to some like million dollar Madison Avenue

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Speaker 1: really getting turned off. We need we need something label

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Speaker 1: and honestly and brilliant and not brilliant.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know they really did. Uh, That Madison Avenue

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Speaker 4: But back back to Op's and intrusive.

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Speaker 2: Though.

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Speaker 1: I didn't want to say anything to him because I

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Speaker 1: Regardless of how irrational I knew. My thinking was that

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Speaker 1: and then if you're still thinking them, bring it up

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Speaker 2: Then yeah, go crazy bros. Out a window.

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Speaker 1: What if we had what if we did a seven

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Speaker 1: we are literally just telling you what people share on

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Speaker 2: Lo Key has made me like, I think, reading all

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Speaker 1: Fuck, our perception of like relations happens and everything, it's

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Speaker 4: It really has been warmed.

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Speaker 2: We know all the red flags, that's true. Yeah, you

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Speaker 2: know every road red flag experts. Yes, we are. We

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Speaker 2: could be dating coaches.

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Speaker 1: I guess we could. I know, well you could be

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Speaker 1: some kind of coach for sure, some kind of coach.

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Speaker 1: You guys can't see her right now. But I literally

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Speaker 1: all right, boys, I was a good hustle, but uh,

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Speaker 1: we gotta get out there.

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Speaker 4: We gotta leave it all in the field. You know

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Speaker 4: what I'm saying, y'all, y'all are really not giving it.

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Speaker 2: You're all right now, you're bringing way too much in

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Speaker 2: the locker room. I'm here a moaning and grown in it. Yeah, exactly,

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Speaker 2: a football league is this d league.

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Speaker 1: Actually actually the literal one and only thing that is

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Speaker 4: I need just a mustache.

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Speaker 1: Oh facts, if I shaved everything else, then see the

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Speaker 1: problem is it's not but but I need it. Nonetheless,

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Speaker 1: you guys are you guys are not going to get it.

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Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. So I told him what I saw

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Speaker 4: Oh, good boyfriend, We're getting there.

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Speaker 2: Oh. I think that's a good way that he shows.

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Speaker 1: We're getting close to the to the climb, the Grand climbax.

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Speaker 4: Oh yes.

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Speaker 1: But it turned out that the hearts were actually a

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Speaker 1: text from someone I know, Oh me.

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Speaker 2: I was the entire time Scoby Doo reveal.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you do a great Scooby doing fression.

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Speaker 2: Actually, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Before I went to the bathroom, I had texted him

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Speaker 1: literally completely forgot about, which is kind of like, kind

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Speaker 2: Now I have way less sympathy for and I'm like, bro,

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Speaker 2: you know, I feel like you are jealous you have

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Speaker 2: This is not an intrusive thoughts, This.

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Speaker 1: Problem is she literally sent it potentially less than a

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Speaker 1: minute before she saw it. Yeah, so it's like you

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Speaker 2: So he's so suspicious.

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Speaker 4: I I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I'm maybe Op is cheating, which is why she's so suspicious.

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Speaker 4: Now that would be a plot twist.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So if he says, yeah, I'm a fucking idiot.

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Speaker 1: I apologized a hundred times and told him I truly

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Speaker 1: didn't think he was cheating, but I definitely let the

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Speaker 1: intrusive thoughts win at that time. We should say it together.

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Speaker 1: Every that's like a new a new.

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Speaker 4: Like thing thing on Okop.

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Speaker 1: Now he wasn't upset, and we laughed about it and

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Speaker 1: I had a great rest of the night.

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Speaker 2: Hey, I'm glad it ended well. Like, I don't know

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Speaker 2: if you you should just right off the whole. I

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Speaker 2: think there's something deeper about like a mistrust yeh, or

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Speaker 2: like a trust issue. If you're having intrusive thoughts text

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Speaker 2: you said, you know, I think sam uh. There's two

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Speaker 2: way sports metaphors that you're freaking coach now now that

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Speaker 2: I'm ten, Yeah, I see it.

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Speaker 1: So there's people sit on the bench, okay, and then

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Speaker 1: there's people that go and just lay it on the field.

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Speaker 1: So I think Opie should basically round up all her

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Speaker 1: objuicive thoughts because that's her team in this metaphor, and

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Speaker 1: they should literally just like full court press ahead and

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Speaker 1: just just just run run it in just Oh.

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Speaker 2: Wait, does does it translate it into the not sports metaphor? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: what you're saying is every intrusive thought that Opi has,

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Speaker 2: she should immediately say to her boyfriend, almost like to

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Speaker 2: purge herself.

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Speaker 4: Exact what I'm saying to it.

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Speaker 2: It's like, if you're always eating ice cream, eat three

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Speaker 2: gallons and then throw it all up, and then force

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Speaker 2: yourself to continue eating ice cream until you literally are

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Speaker 2: crying in submission and you're just a pile of vomit

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Speaker 2: and melted cream, and then you probably won't want to

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Speaker 2: eat ice cream anymore. And so if you say all

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Speaker 2: your intrusive thoughts lay all in the field, that you

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Speaker 2: probably won't have those intrusive thoughts anymore.

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Speaker 1: You took what I already thought was a gross hyperbolic example,

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Speaker 1: and you truly, I mean you truly took it a

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Speaker 1: thousand X. Hey so on the field man. Nice nice,

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Speaker 1: but uh, you know what else people need to learn

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Speaker 1: from this coach sand.

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Speaker 2: What did they learn?

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Speaker 1: They need to learn that they need to get off

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Speaker 1: the bench and run their stories into our slash okop

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Speaker 1: show where we.

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Speaker 2: Read a hood.

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Speaker 1: We read all of your stories on the show, like

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Speaker 1: the one you just heard. So go to our subreddit

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Speaker 1: and send them in.

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Speaker 2: That's perfect.