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<v Speaker 1>Forever.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, guys, Hello, you missed the funk out of us,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was kind of getting comfortable with I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>we don't have the podcast. Girl, this lovely two weeks.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess this is this is you. I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>is this what it feels like to be regular? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, but then we would be having conversations and

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<v Speaker 2>Sydney would be like, oh, this would be such a

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<v Speaker 2>good episode. Save this. Yeah, none of that stuff got saved,

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<v Speaker 2>because you know, my brain is trash do but it's

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<v Speaker 2>it's good to see you, even though I see you

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<v Speaker 2>all the time. It's good that so many things have happened.

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<v Speaker 2>So we actually have something to fucking talk about. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>let's talk about it. Maybe maybe the podcast should be monthly,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, now we're in the core. No, we need

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<v Speaker 2>every day, every week, every day, because you never know

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<v Speaker 2>every night? Maybe bye, yeah, you know what I mean. Anyway, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so first, first on the docket, let's talk about Marie's birthday.

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<v Speaker 2>That's coming up. Oh I didn't know we were doing

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<v Speaker 2>that up top. Okay, I thought we was gonna tell

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<v Speaker 2>them we talk about that. Let's talk about that first.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's talk about because that's what we're prepping for. Okay, right, right, right?

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<v Speaker 2>So when this is coming out the day after the

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<v Speaker 2>day after your birthday, my birthday is on like Tuesday

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<v Speaker 2>or Wednesday or something like that. So well Wednesday is

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<v Speaker 2>pretty much Friday. So yeah, it's literally the day after.

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<v Speaker 2>During the pandem, all the days are the same and

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<v Speaker 2>no one cares about them. So yesterday spend all of

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<v Speaker 2>yesterday thinking it was Sunday. MS was friend, it was

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<v Speaker 2>it was Wednesday. It was a big Sunday energy. Some

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<v Speaker 2>days just feel a certain way. So anyway, whatever, so

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<v Speaker 2>my Birthda's coming up, and for me, every year, my

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<v Speaker 2>birthday is when I get the saddest and famously famously sad,

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<v Speaker 2>and this year has been a sad ass year. So

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<v Speaker 2>every time I log on to my Graham, I see

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<v Speaker 2>people in Mexico, and I was like, should we go

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<v Speaker 2>to Mexico? And Amina was like, I already bought my ticket, Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>let's go. And Amina is a good friend because she

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<v Speaker 2>like encourages you to do things that you on the

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<v Speaker 2>fence about. But also like I was like, since I

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<v Speaker 2>was just I was just wondering out loud in the

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<v Speaker 2>group chat if I should go, and she was like

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<v Speaker 2>we're going and Carolina is a I mean not Carolina

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<v Speaker 2>Amina as a daredevil and she lives life on the

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<v Speaker 2>edge as if she does. She lives out loud. But

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<v Speaker 2>we we love that type of energy because we need

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<v Speaker 2>that right now because we've we've been in the house,

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<v Speaker 2>and you know, as the days get shorter or darker

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<v Speaker 2>or whatever, we're just gonna get more and more sad.

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<v Speaker 2>All the people who were at the restaurants outside, like

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<v Speaker 2>on top of the subway grades, you know, having their

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<v Speaker 2>lunches and dinners and whatnot. The people eating next to

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<v Speaker 2>the garden bite on the curb. Yeah, that's gonna stop

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<v Speaker 2>because it's gonna get cold. It's already chilly, it's already chilli. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>But they're opening up restaurants inside for New York City. Honey,

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<v Speaker 2>boo boo. I am not doing that. I'm not gonna

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<v Speaker 2>be an enclosed place with all these strangers. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>even trust the people that I know like that are

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<v Speaker 2>friends of mine. Now I'm gonna trust these strain Wow, Okay, Sydney,

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<v Speaker 2>just say you don't trust me. I mean, I thought

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<v Speaker 2>we had a nice chat before the zoom started, but

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<v Speaker 2>I guess, Wow, don't trust you much. That's fine. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not trustworthy. I do lie. But yeah, they're opening up

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<v Speaker 2>restaurants back in New York at twenty five percent capacity.

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<v Speaker 2>But I also heard, you know, how like you read?

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<v Speaker 2>People say I read in the news, but they only

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<v Speaker 2>read the headline I heard. I didn't watch the story,

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<v Speaker 2>but I saw like coming up. So it's gonna cost

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<v Speaker 2>you extra to eat inside?

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<v Speaker 1>What?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, let's talk about how much? What surprise is like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, sis, I didn't read the article. I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't watch the story. It just said find out later,

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<v Speaker 2>find out next how it'll cost you more to eat inside.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, wow, that's the whole story. I

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<v Speaker 2>know all the information, but I don't know. It might

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<v Speaker 2>just be because if the restaurants can't operate at full capacity,

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<v Speaker 2>they just gonna charge you twice as much to eat there.

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<v Speaker 2>That's my logic anyway. So say, for instance, let's let's

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<v Speaker 2>talk about it. So a regular Branzino right is like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, eighteen dollars, Now, what is it going to

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<v Speaker 2>be like forty Brenzino is eighteen dollars? Actually, I there

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<v Speaker 2>must be a young Brenzino. I must don't eat Brenzino

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<v Speaker 2>or you know what, whenever I have Bronzino, I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>paying So yeah, I don't really know the prices that well,

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<v Speaker 2>but yeah, Brenzino is that's like a salmon price is

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<v Speaker 2>eighteen dollars? Is a salmon price? Or like cod cod

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<v Speaker 2>is eighteen dollars? Okay, let's maybe let's do something that's

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<v Speaker 2>more relatable to the listeners. A sizzling faheato, Oh here

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<v Speaker 2>we go? Can we not bring tea? Yeah, Fridays is

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<v Speaker 2>let's say that's eighteen dunkers, so it gonna be double that,

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<v Speaker 2>or maybe it's gonna be they're gonna add what's eighteen

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<v Speaker 2>divide about two? Bitch, get your life together if you're

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<v Speaker 2>going to one TGI Friday's no shade but shade. It's

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<v Speaker 2>just like no, that sounds like shit. Better eat better

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<v Speaker 2>for yourself, especially right now, you deserve I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>a steak that doesn't have Thames on it, like you

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<v Speaker 2>have to know you haven't make sure that you're eating

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<v Speaker 2>Sydney properly farmed Sydney meats. Yes, but also we've been

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<v Speaker 2>you've been good. You've been in the house for seven

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<v Speaker 2>going on eighteen months. Like, maybe you just want to

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<v Speaker 2>eat some arto choked tip. Maybe you want to eat

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<v Speaker 2>something that like when you buy it at the store

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<v Speaker 2>and you defrost it from the freezer, it doesn't taste

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<v Speaker 2>the same, it doesn't have the same texture. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>go ahead and get your little sizzling for heat to plate.

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<v Speaker 2>That is like popping bottle at the club with the

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<v Speaker 2>flares and stuff. Go get go, get that hot ass

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<v Speaker 2>hot plate and eat it with your three friends that

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<v Speaker 2>you know don't have COVID. I believe in you, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I just I want these restaurants to make some kind

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<v Speaker 2>of money. But at the same time, I'm just like,

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<v Speaker 2>is it worth it? Is that shrimp petaccini worth it?

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<v Speaker 2>It is worth it? Well, I mean, what's the alternative?

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<v Speaker 2>Don't eat out? And when all this is lifted, every

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<v Speaker 2>place that you liked going to is closed because they

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<v Speaker 2>couldn't pay their rent. What's the what? Like? So like

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<v Speaker 2>even I was walking down I was in like downtown

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<v Speaker 2>Brooklyn the other day yesterday, and like the Century twenty

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<v Speaker 2>one is closing and all this stuff that like tourists

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<v Speaker 2>like going to is like because New Yorkers don't go

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<v Speaker 2>to those places. A lot of shit's closing down, tons

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<v Speaker 2>and things were closing down before pandemic, but it's really

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<v Speaker 2>really getting really sad. And then all the venues that

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<v Speaker 2>we used to go to, you know, Union Hall, Bellhouse,

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<v Speaker 2>even the Notting Factory. We have no idea what is

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<v Speaker 2>the future of stand up right, And they're saying that

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<v Speaker 2>when the restaurants open back up in New York, a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of the comedy clubs are opening back up too,

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<v Speaker 2>also at twenty five percent capacity. And it's like, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not risking my life to perform in front of seven

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<v Speaker 2>people for a live comedy show. If it's that twenty

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<v Speaker 2>five percent capacity, my ass is gonna be one hundred percent. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And also, do y'all know how it feels to like

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<v Speaker 2>be at a show and the energy is low and

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<v Speaker 2>it's it's almost all the way packed. Imagine Imagine when

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<v Speaker 2>there's only a few people there and then like only

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<v Speaker 2>one person gets it and they're laughing. It's like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna go kill myself. Like I don't need this

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<v Speaker 2>during a time like this. I need I need one

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<v Speaker 2>hundred percent labs. I need to feel like I have

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<v Speaker 2>a career in being at these shows. I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>if that's gonna happen, babe, I don't. I don't see it.

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<v Speaker 2>People have been asking me, I did that one show

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<v Speaker 2>out outdoors. I don't know what month that was or

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<v Speaker 2>what year even, and it was fine, but it wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>worth me going all the way into the city for

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<v Speaker 2>and it doesn't feel the same. So I'm not doing

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<v Speaker 2>them anymore. But uh, I don't remember what the point

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<v Speaker 2>of this was. But the setup was cute, right, This

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<v Speaker 2>setup was cute. I was about to say some we

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<v Speaker 2>do this, we like if there's not If I'm me

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<v Speaker 2>as a comedian, as a performer, I'm not getting to

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<v Speaker 2>perform for a crowd of people, then I don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to perform for a handful of people. But there are

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<v Speaker 2>comics that are like itching to get back inside. All

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<v Speaker 2>they talk about is stand up. They've been writing, they're

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<v Speaker 2>doing shows. They're blah blah blah. And I'm like, that's

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<v Speaker 2>cute for you. But I was on a dating app

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<v Speaker 2>yesterday and this guy was like, what do you do?

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, that's a good question because I

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<v Speaker 2>used to be a comedian, and it's like it hurts

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<v Speaker 2>to say that out loud. I've been sitting out loud. No,

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<v Speaker 2>none stop, NonStop. So that's who I am now. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>a played on my license plate. I'm just I used

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<v Speaker 2>to be a comedian. I'm just like, I know, what's

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<v Speaker 2>funny because we have these group chats and we are

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<v Speaker 2>still actively, you know, roasting each other and looking at

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<v Speaker 2>memes or whatever, so our brains are churning. But in

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<v Speaker 2>terms of being a stand up performing live, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>have that muscle anymore. I remember when remember we were

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<v Speaker 2>performing like almost every other day, and like maybe once

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<v Speaker 2>or twice every night of the week, once or twice

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<v Speaker 2>to night, and I wouldn't perform for four days and

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<v Speaker 2>I would feel completely lost. I was like, damn, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know my I don't know the rhythm anymore. But bitch,

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<v Speaker 2>it's been six seven months years. It's a girl. What

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<v Speaker 2>is it? Do you remember? Do you remember the last

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<v Speaker 2>time you were on stage? No? Like, do you remember

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<v Speaker 2>if it was February or March? No, it was it

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<v Speaker 2>had to have been March because you were in La. Yeah. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I was supposed to have shows when I was in

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<v Speaker 2>LA and they canceled it. Yeah, the last show that

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<v Speaker 2>I was booked on, I was late leaving my house

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<v Speaker 2>and they were like, Oh, don't worry about coming. There's

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<v Speaker 2>not that many people. Yeah. So the last show that

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<v Speaker 2>I would have done I did not do. Yeah. And

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<v Speaker 2>it's like, I mean, I don't regret that because you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I saved myself some time. But I don't know whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>So my birthday is around the corner and it's on

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<v Speaker 2>September twenty third, and people have been My sister text

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<v Speaker 2>me and was like, what are you doing for your birthday?

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, I don't know. I hadn't been

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<v Speaker 2>thinking about it. You know, famously have a party every year.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a theme. All of my hot friends come and

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<v Speaker 2>people that aren't necessarily my friends show up, and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>everybody just has a beautiful night. People are on drugs, people,

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<v Speaker 2>some people are naked, there's costume changes. It's the best

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<v Speaker 2>night of the year, you know. Marie Gallop. So that

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<v Speaker 2>obviously was postponed this year and or Canal and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, We're going to Mexico. We're going to Mexico.

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<v Speaker 2>We got a nice little house, we have a pool.

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<v Speaker 2>We don't have to see anybody if we don't want to.

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<v Speaker 2>We can be in Mexico. And still not be around

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<v Speaker 2>a single stranger. So you know, I'm excited about that.

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<v Speaker 2>But Sydney, you got some reservation. I do have reservations,

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<v Speaker 2>and this is this is what it is. Now. We

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<v Speaker 2>have back to back like we've We've I've gone to La,

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<v Speaker 2>We've had a wedding, We've had multiple parties in uh

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<v Speaker 2>you know, my new backyard hard and not parties per se,

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<v Speaker 2>but celebrations which we should be having and with a

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<v Speaker 2>cute amount of people, and you know, not too much

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<v Speaker 2>posting on the stories. But it's just like, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to promote like everyone living a normal life because

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<v Speaker 2>it's not normal. We're things are not that the Corona

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<v Speaker 2>virus is still out and about popping and locking, twerking

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<v Speaker 2>dip it, drop it low in, dip it low for

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<v Speaker 2>all peoples. So I just I just know that even

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<v Speaker 2>if I'm being safe and reckless at the same time,

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<v Speaker 2>more people are going to be more reckless than safe.

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<v Speaker 2>So you think it's your responsibility to tell people to

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<v Speaker 2>be safe at times at times, you know, because we

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<v Speaker 2>do we do have an influence we people. Yes, yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>yes follow us yes yes yes, But I checked the

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<v Speaker 2>demographics of my page is people mostly people twenty four

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<v Speaker 2>to thirty something. Those are grown ups. It's not my

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<v Speaker 2>job to tell you to put a mask on. It's

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<v Speaker 2>not my job to tell you to stay home when

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<v Speaker 2>you feel sick. That's the CDC's job, and that's what

0:13:12.480 --> 0:13:14.520
<v Speaker 2>they've been doing. So you come into Instagram to see

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<v Speaker 2>me in Mexico in my bikini with my abs and

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<v Speaker 2>my three friends. Is making you say I'm want to

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<v Speaker 2>go outside and lick a curb. That's that's you. That

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<v Speaker 2>has nothing to do with Marie Fouston. Okay, but so

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<v Speaker 2>I can't feel bad. I hear you. I hear you.

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<v Speaker 2>But also look at it. Look at it this way.

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<v Speaker 2>We were seeing a lot of people going to Mexico,

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<v Speaker 2>and that's what's being like, hey, let's go to Mexico.

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<v Speaker 2>So we do see things online and be like, oh shit,

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<v Speaker 2>it's okay to do that now, oh one hundred one

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<v Speaker 2>one hundred percent. I agree with you that, yes, we

0:13:45.720 --> 0:13:48.760
<v Speaker 2>saw people going, so you went, but we are going

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<v Speaker 2>with our masks. Also, the people that I was looking at,

0:13:52.120 --> 0:13:55.559
<v Speaker 2>they were staying at hotels and I was like, oh, poverty,

0:13:56.679 --> 0:14:01.920
<v Speaker 2>the poores a Nightmary you are. But also you take

0:14:02.000 --> 0:14:04.480
<v Speaker 2>people pick and choose what they want to take. If

0:14:04.520 --> 0:14:09.280
<v Speaker 2>everybody and everything is bombarding you with social distance and

0:14:09.640 --> 0:14:12.520
<v Speaker 2>put a mask on, and there's a partition in your uber,

0:14:13.440 --> 0:14:16.360
<v Speaker 2>then like me posting a picture with my friends who

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<v Speaker 2>I've I got COVID tested with should not be what's

0:14:21.240 --> 0:14:25.280
<v Speaker 2>pushing you over the edge of like not paying attention

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<v Speaker 2>to what the stuff is that you should be doing.

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't feel bad about that. But also I

0:14:29.960 --> 0:14:34.040
<v Speaker 2>understand about not wanting to post too much, but that's

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<v Speaker 2>not gonna keep me from posting all the hot outfits

0:14:37.880 --> 0:14:41.080
<v Speaker 2>and all the hot meals and all the sexy beach things,

0:14:41.160 --> 0:14:43.440
<v Speaker 2>I mean, pool things that happen while I'm down there.

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<v Speaker 2>If you want me to grab you out of the photo, Sydney,

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<v Speaker 2>I will crop you out of all of them so

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<v Speaker 2>people don't know that you did. But people I'm gonna

0:14:51.960 --> 0:14:54.560
<v Speaker 2>know that I'm there, but it's and it doesn't like

0:14:54.920 --> 0:14:58.000
<v Speaker 2>they're gonna be like Marie is celebrating a birthday and

0:14:58.440 --> 0:15:02.000
<v Speaker 2>sitting that is not there. That like blasphems and should

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<v Speaker 2>be illegal. So well, I mean, Sydney, I'm if we're

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<v Speaker 2>down there for four days, I plan on boasting at

0:15:08.640 --> 0:15:15.840
<v Speaker 2>least seventeen times. So but I understand. I because I

0:15:15.880 --> 0:15:19.960
<v Speaker 2>posted something about like Carolina's bachelorette or something, and I

0:15:19.960 --> 0:15:23.600
<v Speaker 2>was like, what do you wear to a uh tiki

0:15:23.680 --> 0:15:25.800
<v Speaker 2>themed or whatever the theme was? What was the theme

0:15:26.280 --> 0:15:29.680
<v Speaker 2>a tropical themed? I don't remember what do you what

0:15:29.760 --> 0:15:33.320
<v Speaker 2>do you wear to wear tropical themed bachelorette party? And

0:15:33.440 --> 0:15:37.720
<v Speaker 2>somebody come into a mask? I love them for that,

0:15:39.240 --> 0:15:40.440
<v Speaker 2>and I said, you know what, I'm not going to

0:15:40.480 --> 0:15:45.360
<v Speaker 2>engage with this individual. They are right, but I'm not.

0:15:45.560 --> 0:15:48.440
<v Speaker 2>But they're also wrong. Yeah, so I left it alone. Whatever.

0:15:49.080 --> 0:15:51.440
<v Speaker 2>I just want to I can't be in my house

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<v Speaker 2>on that day the way that my year has been

0:15:55.560 --> 0:15:59.920
<v Speaker 2>shaping up. Every day feels the same. And next week

0:16:00.040 --> 0:16:03.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm liable to wake up and completely have missed my birthday,

0:16:03.800 --> 0:16:05.360
<v Speaker 2>like wake up and be like, wait is today? That

0:16:05.600 --> 0:16:09.600
<v Speaker 2>is today the twenty ninth. Damn it was six days ago.

0:16:09.720 --> 0:16:12.160
<v Speaker 2>So that I just I don't want that. And and

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<v Speaker 2>also since we decided we're going, like, I've been like excited,

0:16:16.600 --> 0:16:19.280
<v Speaker 2>I have something to look forward to. I'm like shopping

0:16:19.360 --> 0:16:21.920
<v Speaker 2>for it. I'm getting my nails done, I'm you know

0:16:21.960 --> 0:16:23.960
<v Speaker 2>what I mean. I'm getting a shape up at the

0:16:24.000 --> 0:16:28.240
<v Speaker 2>barber shop. Like I'm doing stonishing, So I think I'm

0:16:28.240 --> 0:16:30.720
<v Speaker 2>just gonna do something in the back. Oh, just line

0:16:30.760 --> 0:16:33.480
<v Speaker 2>it up. I'm gonna do that today, yesterday, because I

0:16:33.520 --> 0:16:35.400
<v Speaker 2>don't want a shape up in the front. That's not

0:16:35.840 --> 0:16:39.720
<v Speaker 2>that's not the lifestyle that I you keep, you keep,

0:16:40.320 --> 0:16:42.880
<v Speaker 2>shape you up, you get a shape up. No, thank you,

0:16:44.400 --> 0:16:48.880
<v Speaker 2>that meank you. I'm anti batt thinks, but yeah, I

0:16:48.880 --> 0:16:52.480
<v Speaker 2>have something excited to go. And you deserve to be happy.

0:16:52.840 --> 0:16:56.680
<v Speaker 2>And look, this is the this is the dilemma. It's

0:16:56.720 --> 0:17:02.280
<v Speaker 2>like stay inside, stay quote quote safe, or fucking be

0:17:02.440 --> 0:17:06.480
<v Speaker 2>miserable inside, don't live at all this whole year. And

0:17:06.680 --> 0:17:15.120
<v Speaker 2>you're being safe, but it's mentally debilitating you. Yeah, safe

0:17:15.160 --> 0:17:19.960
<v Speaker 2>and sad or out and dangerous. I didn't come aloo

0:17:20.160 --> 0:17:23.440
<v Speaker 2>out in dangerous, right out and dangerous. That's what I want,

0:17:24.840 --> 0:17:28.800
<v Speaker 2>That's what I deserve. Also, like we look back and

0:17:28.960 --> 0:17:31.760
<v Speaker 2>at what this year was, we're gonna be like, oh, yeah,

0:17:31.800 --> 0:17:34.359
<v Speaker 2>that was we couldn't go outside, that was the pandemic year.

0:17:34.480 --> 0:17:38.359
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, swabs of swabs in our noses to

0:17:38.400 --> 0:17:40.639
<v Speaker 2>get our brain, you know what I mean. But this

0:17:40.680 --> 0:17:42.280
<v Speaker 2>will also be the year that we went to Mexico

0:17:42.359 --> 0:17:46.159
<v Speaker 2>during a pandemic. So let it be that. Let this

0:17:46.280 --> 0:17:55.359
<v Speaker 2>be that year. I you know, I am older, and

0:17:55.359 --> 0:17:59.919
<v Speaker 2>and it's just things are really shaping up for me

0:18:00.080 --> 0:18:03.000
<v Speaker 2>in terms of what the fuck I want for the future.

0:18:03.760 --> 0:18:08.480
<v Speaker 2>And you've been thinking, yeah, and you know, I spend

0:18:08.520 --> 0:18:11.720
<v Speaker 2>a long time doubting myself and being sad and just

0:18:12.320 --> 0:18:18.760
<v Speaker 2>not taking up being grateful for the opportunities or embracing opportunities.

0:18:18.800 --> 0:18:22.160
<v Speaker 2>And it's like, yeah, I get it, Like fucking let's

0:18:22.200 --> 0:18:25.040
<v Speaker 2>go to Mexico. We have each other, we're gonna we're

0:18:25.040 --> 0:18:27.919
<v Speaker 2>gonna be as safe as possible. But also it's like

0:18:28.640 --> 0:18:33.840
<v Speaker 2>I want to I want to do something and feel

0:18:33.920 --> 0:18:37.800
<v Speaker 2>good about it and then not have guilt. You know,

0:18:38.520 --> 0:18:41.159
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to have the guilt. And that's that's

0:18:41.320 --> 0:18:43.119
<v Speaker 2>what I feel about the trip. But I know I'm

0:18:43.160 --> 0:18:46.680
<v Speaker 2>gonna have a blast. And Sidney just say, you want

0:18:46.720 --> 0:18:51.240
<v Speaker 2>me to have a zoom now because I'm not didn't know,

0:18:52.200 --> 0:18:59.199
<v Speaker 2>I'm not cheers Everybody wearing nipple pasties to your birthday dinner, okay, girl,

0:18:59.640 --> 0:19:03.800
<v Speaker 2>I mean I will make you eat outside. I what

0:19:05.080 --> 0:19:09.040
<v Speaker 2>you put naval faces on them. Life. I'm using all

0:19:09.119 --> 0:19:12.480
<v Speaker 2>my dad into so I'm fully using all of my

0:19:12.560 --> 0:19:14.960
<v Speaker 2>dad to be like, look at this beat you on

0:19:15.040 --> 0:19:18.680
<v Speaker 2>my birlin God, I just get it's something that looks

0:19:18.800 --> 0:19:21.639
<v Speaker 2>it's it's just something to look forward to. It's a

0:19:21.720 --> 0:19:24.639
<v Speaker 2>memory we'll always have. It's we're only going with people

0:19:24.640 --> 0:19:28.560
<v Speaker 2>that we've been with throughout the entire pandemic. It's nobody new.

0:19:29.000 --> 0:19:30.720
<v Speaker 2>We're all gonna get tested when we get back. There's

0:19:30.720 --> 0:19:34.080
<v Speaker 2>a twenty four hour testing place and so that way

0:19:34.080 --> 0:19:36.280
<v Speaker 2>we don't have to quarantine for the whole two weeks.

0:19:37.560 --> 0:19:40.600
<v Speaker 2>And that's it. Like I'm not I'm a grown up

0:19:40.640 --> 0:19:42.520
<v Speaker 2>and I'm good. I'm gonna do grown up things. I'm

0:19:42.560 --> 0:19:48.239
<v Speaker 2>turning twenty four for the seventeen. That's my business. So

0:19:49.240 --> 0:19:51.840
<v Speaker 2>I don't know, feel good about it, look good about it.

0:19:52.000 --> 0:19:54.159
<v Speaker 2>And whatever you don't want to post, you don't have

0:19:54.200 --> 0:19:54.600
<v Speaker 2>to post.

0:19:54.760 --> 0:19:55.040
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:19:55.080 --> 0:19:58.240
<v Speaker 2>And also if you're judging me, fuck you. If you're

0:19:58.280 --> 0:20:02.000
<v Speaker 2>judging us, fuck you twice. And there'll be other friends.

0:20:02.119 --> 0:20:04.879
<v Speaker 2>They'll they'll be one other you know, friend of the

0:20:05.359 --> 0:20:08.879
<v Speaker 2>pod on the on the trip. So if you don't,

0:20:09.240 --> 0:20:14.119
<v Speaker 2>it's gonna be tress all the times. But also you

0:20:14.200 --> 0:20:17.080
<v Speaker 2>mad because you can't come with us. Happy birthday to

0:20:17.080 --> 0:20:20.320
<v Speaker 2>everybody who celebrated in their houses this year, but I

0:20:20.720 --> 0:20:24.840
<v Speaker 2>was not doing that. Uh. Also, you know, if you

0:20:24.880 --> 0:20:26.600
<v Speaker 2>can take a trip, if you have it in you

0:20:26.880 --> 0:20:28.440
<v Speaker 2>to spend a little bit of money on a trip,

0:20:28.480 --> 0:20:31.119
<v Speaker 2>and you can get a little airbnb, you get some

0:20:31.119 --> 0:20:34.439
<v Speaker 2>something nice in a warm place or something you know,

0:20:34.520 --> 0:20:36.720
<v Speaker 2>cold place, because I know why people like cabins and

0:20:36.760 --> 0:20:39.960
<v Speaker 2>like ski lodges and chalets and stuff like that. Get

0:20:40.000 --> 0:20:42.639
<v Speaker 2>you a house, get with the people in your pod,

0:20:43.160 --> 0:20:45.840
<v Speaker 2>and just like do something like that for like a

0:20:45.840 --> 0:20:48.400
<v Speaker 2>month or a week or a couple of weeks. It's

0:20:48.520 --> 0:20:52.880
<v Speaker 2>it's nice to not be in your house. Whether you're

0:20:52.920 --> 0:20:55.120
<v Speaker 2>going to your parents' house for the weekend or you're

0:20:55.160 --> 0:20:57.399
<v Speaker 2>going to your best friend's house for a couple of days,

0:20:57.720 --> 0:20:59.080
<v Speaker 2>it's nice to not be in the house that you've

0:20:59.080 --> 0:21:01.800
<v Speaker 2>been quarantining in for the whole time. That's that's what

0:21:01.840 --> 0:21:06.440
<v Speaker 2>I can say about that, all right, So on to

0:21:07.080 --> 0:21:13.119
<v Speaker 2>other things that the people have missed. Carolina officially is married, married, married,

0:21:13.320 --> 0:21:16.679
<v Speaker 2>super married. The whole wife, a wife. She's a real wife,

0:21:16.840 --> 0:21:19.720
<v Speaker 2>a real one, and we're seeing her, you know, be

0:21:20.520 --> 0:21:23.679
<v Speaker 2>that that person. I mean, cooking and cleaning and like

0:21:24.000 --> 0:21:26.159
<v Speaker 2>she was doing all that before. Yeah, yeah, yeah, but

0:21:26.240 --> 0:21:29.000
<v Speaker 2>like this is like it's like she's cooking and cleaning

0:21:29.080 --> 0:21:33.080
<v Speaker 2>for like like herself, but also a straight man is involved.

0:21:33.080 --> 0:21:35.520
<v Speaker 2>So for me, I'm kind of like squint in my eyes.

0:21:35.560 --> 0:21:39.000
<v Speaker 2>But they love each other, so it's fine. Sidney said,

0:21:39.040 --> 0:21:43.080
<v Speaker 2>it's it couldn't be me, couldn't couldn't be me. Well,

0:21:43.119 --> 0:21:46.320
<v Speaker 2>it will be you one day, so let's come correct.

0:21:46.800 --> 0:21:50.399
<v Speaker 2>That's one hundred going to be you. Uh well maybe

0:21:50.440 --> 0:21:52.800
<v Speaker 2>not the cooking or the cleaning, but you will one

0:21:52.880 --> 0:21:56.000
<v Speaker 2>day be married. Yes, and that is I do you

0:21:56.040 --> 0:22:01.600
<v Speaker 2>see that in my future going? O'm not gonna lie,

0:22:02.240 --> 0:22:05.280
<v Speaker 2>but it was it was beautiful to see her wedding.

0:22:05.359 --> 0:22:10.159
<v Speaker 2>I was I was aggie the weeks leading up to

0:22:10.200 --> 0:22:13.200
<v Speaker 2>it because I just was like, it's it's a pandemic,

0:22:13.840 --> 0:22:16.960
<v Speaker 2>this is this is a lot. But then when it happened,

0:22:17.000 --> 0:22:19.719
<v Speaker 2>it was like, well, what if this is the last

0:22:19.760 --> 0:22:23.320
<v Speaker 2>opportunity you get to have a wedding. You know, we

0:22:23.400 --> 0:22:25.480
<v Speaker 2>don't know what next year is going to be, and

0:22:25.560 --> 0:22:28.440
<v Speaker 2>if you're going to do it, do it as much

0:22:28.480 --> 0:22:30.919
<v Speaker 2>as you would like it to be as possible. So

0:22:32.280 --> 0:22:34.280
<v Speaker 2>do what the most you wish you can do. It

0:22:34.359 --> 0:22:36.880
<v Speaker 2>is what I'm going to say, because everybody doesn't need

0:22:36.920 --> 0:22:39.720
<v Speaker 2>a lavish wedding. Some people can go to the Justice

0:22:39.760 --> 0:22:42.600
<v Speaker 2>of the Piece in a drop job with a photographer

0:22:43.000 --> 0:22:46.320
<v Speaker 2>in their wedding clothes and look hot and be happy.

0:22:46.680 --> 0:22:49.560
<v Speaker 2>Some people can just go in like a sweatpant joggers

0:22:49.560 --> 0:22:53.480
<v Speaker 2>in joggers. She by charade joggers and get married to

0:22:53.520 --> 0:22:55.760
<v Speaker 2>the person that they love like that. Other people needed

0:22:55.800 --> 0:22:59.359
<v Speaker 2>to be at all white Park wedding, and it was

0:22:59.440 --> 0:23:01.600
<v Speaker 2>really I think it was really well done. You know,

0:23:01.720 --> 0:23:06.080
<v Speaker 2>everything looked great. She had masks for everybody. When when

0:23:06.080 --> 0:23:07.800
<v Speaker 2>I was telling people she had she was having an

0:23:07.840 --> 0:23:09.800
<v Speaker 2>all white wedding, they were like, only the bride is

0:23:09.840 --> 0:23:11.880
<v Speaker 2>supposed to be right, and it was like, no, it's

0:23:11.880 --> 0:23:14.679
<v Speaker 2>actually a really chic Solange had an all white wedding.

0:23:14.920 --> 0:23:20.399
<v Speaker 2>So and a divorce baby girl that we're not on

0:23:20.480 --> 0:23:22.199
<v Speaker 2>divorce yet. We're gonna we're gonna get back to that.

0:23:22.240 --> 0:23:26.320
<v Speaker 2>We're gonna circle back. But Carolyna Is Caroline's wedding started

0:23:26.320 --> 0:23:28.840
<v Speaker 2>two hours late. And I have never been to a

0:23:28.840 --> 0:23:31.680
<v Speaker 2>wedding that started on time, So I was an hour

0:23:31.680 --> 0:23:35.400
<v Speaker 2>and a half late. So I famously half an hour early.

0:23:36.520 --> 0:23:38.760
<v Speaker 2>But there are people who got there before the wedding

0:23:38.760 --> 0:23:42.760
<v Speaker 2>was supposed to start, and they were waiting the entire time. Yeah,

0:23:42.880 --> 0:23:45.800
<v Speaker 2>and whatever we were outside. I mean it was a

0:23:45.840 --> 0:23:48.920
<v Speaker 2>little hot that day, but it was and the people

0:23:48.920 --> 0:23:52.000
<v Speaker 2>who were there were like, you know, melts, I mean

0:23:52.119 --> 0:23:55.719
<v Speaker 2>like a candle, like a candle in Yeah, it was.

0:23:55.800 --> 0:24:00.159
<v Speaker 2>It was funny. But you know, me, just watching it,

0:24:00.400 --> 0:24:04.480
<v Speaker 2>I was like, damn, yeah, I kind of want this,

0:24:04.680 --> 0:24:08.000
<v Speaker 2>like I kind of not necessarily the park wedding, but

0:24:08.480 --> 0:24:13.080
<v Speaker 2>just a little celebration. I wanna. I want to love

0:24:13.240 --> 0:24:17.320
<v Speaker 2>someone and them love me back and talk about our

0:24:17.440 --> 0:24:20.800
<v Speaker 2>vows and us being together forever. Blah blah blah. This

0:24:20.880 --> 0:24:28.600
<v Speaker 2>is so funny. This is so I have to laugh.

0:24:28.720 --> 0:24:32.280
<v Speaker 2>This is hilarious to me because not that many months ago,

0:24:32.359 --> 0:24:34.400
<v Speaker 2>on this very podcast, you were like, nah, I don't

0:24:34.400 --> 0:24:40.480
<v Speaker 2>believe in with So this is fascinating to me. Fascinating. Yeah,

0:24:41.320 --> 0:24:44.760
<v Speaker 2>Sydney's texting. Every time Sidney starts texting, I'm gonna stop speaking.

0:24:44.800 --> 0:24:47.960
<v Speaker 2>So that's what's happening on the episode today when I'm

0:24:47.960 --> 0:24:56.520
<v Speaker 2>not speaking. Blame Sydney, no, but maybe because I I'm

0:24:57.240 --> 0:25:04.040
<v Speaker 2>not famously I'm incognito in love, but incognito incognitiy in love.

0:25:04.920 --> 0:25:07.959
<v Speaker 2>I'm thinking about all this stuff, but I don't know.

0:25:08.040 --> 0:25:10.639
<v Speaker 2>I just and then I saw another I went to

0:25:10.680 --> 0:25:16.760
<v Speaker 2>another wedding and look at you. Wedding hopping. It was great.

0:25:17.480 --> 0:25:20.560
<v Speaker 2>It's it's the moving around for me that's super gross.

0:25:21.240 --> 0:25:27.280
<v Speaker 2>But just the celebration, it's it's a it's the it's

0:25:27.400 --> 0:25:29.919
<v Speaker 2>all white when you're a horse. It was, but was

0:25:29.960 --> 0:25:33.119
<v Speaker 2>outside again, and it was you know, everything's fine, and

0:25:33.160 --> 0:25:37.560
<v Speaker 2>even like the gathering afterwards was outside, so it was cool.

0:25:37.640 --> 0:25:40.359
<v Speaker 2>But you know, people are taking the opportunity to be like,

0:25:40.440 --> 0:25:42.080
<v Speaker 2>this is this is who I want to fucking be.

0:25:42.119 --> 0:25:45.160
<v Speaker 2>Where we we were with each other during the darkest

0:25:45.320 --> 0:25:47.959
<v Speaker 2>days of twenty twenty. Let's fucking do it. People are

0:25:48.000 --> 0:25:54.000
<v Speaker 2>saying yes, all I gotta do is say the people are.

0:25:54.240 --> 0:25:56.919
<v Speaker 2>People are not waiting around, So all I have to

0:25:57.000 --> 0:26:00.440
<v Speaker 2>say because of these things, it's like you wait around

0:26:00.520 --> 0:26:05.280
<v Speaker 2>for this person to acknowledge you, or you're waiting around

0:26:05.320 --> 0:26:08.760
<v Speaker 2>for this person to open up and and finally take

0:26:08.800 --> 0:26:12.359
<v Speaker 2>you seriously. After I don't know, four months of y'all

0:26:12.960 --> 0:26:18.040
<v Speaker 2>doing serious shit but not but not committing fucking leave

0:26:18.080 --> 0:26:22.280
<v Speaker 2>that person. Because people are looking locking eyes and opening

0:26:22.280 --> 0:26:26.800
<v Speaker 2>their fucking hearts and pouring in and letting it go

0:26:27.000 --> 0:26:31.919
<v Speaker 2>and just having fun. Okay, this sounds real. Okay, yes

0:26:32.280 --> 0:26:35.720
<v Speaker 2>people are. People are opening their hearts and opening their

0:26:35.760 --> 0:26:41.920
<v Speaker 2>and their ass And I'm opening ass for sure, opening ass. Well,

0:26:42.000 --> 0:26:47.920
<v Speaker 2>I am not asked. Is closed here closed for repairs? Uh? Yeah,

0:26:47.960 --> 0:26:50.160
<v Speaker 2>but that's what I'm saying. And I'm bringing this back

0:26:50.200 --> 0:26:53.320
<v Speaker 2>to my birthday. Think about all of the money that

0:26:53.400 --> 0:26:55.879
<v Speaker 2>you would have spent this year. Think about all the

0:26:55.880 --> 0:26:58.040
<v Speaker 2>money that you would have spent on the train and

0:26:58.440 --> 0:27:01.200
<v Speaker 2>on maybe you had trips planning, and or the clothes

0:27:01.240 --> 0:27:02.840
<v Speaker 2>that you were gonna buy and the blah blah blah

0:27:02.840 --> 0:27:04.479
<v Speaker 2>blah blah blah blah. Think about all of the money

0:27:04.760 --> 0:27:06.400
<v Speaker 2>you would have spent this year. And now, think about

0:27:06.400 --> 0:27:10.200
<v Speaker 2>all the money that you've saved. Right either you're receiving

0:27:10.240 --> 0:27:12.520
<v Speaker 2>unemployment or you're working from home and you're still getting

0:27:12.600 --> 0:27:17.040
<v Speaker 2>like a little check. The money that we're making, we

0:27:17.080 --> 0:27:20.199
<v Speaker 2>can't take us, it would as well leave. And the

0:27:20.240 --> 0:27:25.040
<v Speaker 2>stuff that you do right now. Yeah, you might regret

0:27:25.280 --> 0:27:27.119
<v Speaker 2>some of the mistakes you've made along the way, but

0:27:27.200 --> 0:27:29.000
<v Speaker 2>think about all the stuff that you did not do

0:27:29.040 --> 0:27:31.000
<v Speaker 2>that you think about, like, damn, I should have went

0:27:31.359 --> 0:27:34.479
<v Speaker 2>to Paris last year, or damn I should have gotten

0:27:34.480 --> 0:27:36.680
<v Speaker 2>some dick from that dude, or you know what I mean.

0:27:36.760 --> 0:27:42.480
<v Speaker 2>Like we we overthink things too much, some of us,

0:27:42.600 --> 0:27:46.479
<v Speaker 2>a lot of us. Most of us. We think about

0:27:46.640 --> 0:27:50.000
<v Speaker 2>what we look like, how others perceive us too much.

0:27:50.520 --> 0:27:52.520
<v Speaker 2>You have to do the things for you that you

0:27:52.640 --> 0:27:55.719
<v Speaker 2>need to do for you, because if this pandemic has

0:27:55.720 --> 0:27:59.199
<v Speaker 2>taught me anything it's we are locked in our houses

0:27:59.240 --> 0:28:01.680
<v Speaker 2>by ourselves or with our roommates, but you're in your

0:28:01.680 --> 0:28:05.120
<v Speaker 2>own head all day long. You're thinking all day long

0:28:05.160 --> 0:28:07.920
<v Speaker 2>about what you're doing, what your friends are doing, which

0:28:07.960 --> 0:28:09.840
<v Speaker 2>you should be doing how you want, like how you

0:28:09.840 --> 0:28:12.760
<v Speaker 2>should be living your life differently, Like take that trip

0:28:12.800 --> 0:28:15.720
<v Speaker 2>for you, babe. Like do whatever it is that you

0:28:15.760 --> 0:28:17.320
<v Speaker 2>feel like you need to do. If you can afford

0:28:17.359 --> 0:28:19.360
<v Speaker 2>to do it, and it's not hurting anybody, do it.

0:28:20.520 --> 0:28:20.880
<v Speaker 2>Do it.

0:28:21.480 --> 0:28:27.080
<v Speaker 3>But technically traveling might hurt somebody, Yes, but if you

0:28:27.119 --> 0:28:28.920
<v Speaker 3>do it safely and you travel with the people you

0:28:28.960 --> 0:28:30.480
<v Speaker 3>want to be with, then travel with the people you

0:28:30.480 --> 0:28:31.920
<v Speaker 3>want to be with, and then quarantine when.

0:28:31.840 --> 0:28:34.239
<v Speaker 2>You get back. Don't tell me that I can't go

0:28:34.280 --> 0:28:36.239
<v Speaker 2>anywhere because it might hurt somebody. Who am I going

0:28:36.280 --> 0:28:40.959
<v Speaker 2>to hurt. I live alone, I live by myself. If

0:28:41.000 --> 0:28:43.560
<v Speaker 2>if i'm if I'm in and out. Yeah, me and

0:28:43.600 --> 0:28:45.880
<v Speaker 2>my plans if but you know these plans, well, this

0:28:45.920 --> 0:28:49.680
<v Speaker 2>one's dying. But yeah, I have to Marie. We also

0:28:49.720 --> 0:28:54.280
<v Speaker 2>need to record some like inser stories for our new

0:28:54.320 --> 0:28:56.600
<v Speaker 2>Patreon thing that we're doing, So I'm doing this little

0:28:56.640 --> 0:29:04.920
<v Speaker 2>video for us. There you go, mm hmmm, yes, yes, yes. Anyway,

0:29:05.040 --> 0:29:08.320
<v Speaker 2>if if you want to do something and you're thinking

0:29:08.360 --> 0:29:10.880
<v Speaker 2>about it or there's someone, I mean, don't be crazy.

0:29:10.960 --> 0:29:13.640
<v Speaker 2>Like I'm saying all these things positively, Like if you're

0:29:13.640 --> 0:29:15.960
<v Speaker 2>a stalker and I'm saying if you want to do something,

0:29:16.000 --> 0:29:17.720
<v Speaker 2>do it. I'm not saying go out and stalk that

0:29:17.760 --> 0:29:20.840
<v Speaker 2>person that you don't know. And if you're a straight

0:29:20.880 --> 0:29:22.920
<v Speaker 2>man listening to this, if none of this fucking applies

0:29:22.960 --> 0:29:26.120
<v Speaker 2>to that at the end of the day, straight dudes, no,

0:29:26.160 --> 0:29:29.480
<v Speaker 2>straight dudes can do what they want. Only women and

0:29:29.640 --> 0:29:36.240
<v Speaker 2>gays and queers and others. Yeah s, straight man, No,

0:29:36.840 --> 0:29:41.360
<v Speaker 2>no need to apply. No you can you you'll manage you,

0:29:41.360 --> 0:29:44.880
<v Speaker 2>you'll power through. But uh, but even you, like, if

0:29:44.880 --> 0:29:47.320
<v Speaker 2>there's something that you want to do and it's gonna

0:29:47.320 --> 0:29:49.320
<v Speaker 2>make you happy, and no one's gonna get hurt along

0:29:49.360 --> 0:29:53.960
<v Speaker 2>the way. Okay, I'm speaking of a straight man. Cardi

0:29:54.160 --> 0:29:58.400
<v Speaker 2>b is getting a deforce. Yeah, who is surprised. That's it.

0:29:58.560 --> 0:30:01.320
<v Speaker 2>That's the thing. Everybody wants to get married, but nobody

0:30:01.320 --> 0:30:04.920
<v Speaker 2>wants to get divorced. Nobody wants it. People want to

0:30:04.920 --> 0:30:06.960
<v Speaker 2>get there are people who want to get divorced. A

0:30:07.000 --> 0:30:09.680
<v Speaker 2>lot of people during the pandemic. That's the other half

0:30:09.720 --> 0:30:12.800
<v Speaker 2>of this. People who were single or people who were

0:30:12.840 --> 0:30:16.080
<v Speaker 2>like kind of in the beginnings of relationships. It accelerated

0:30:16.080 --> 0:30:19.240
<v Speaker 2>it forward for them. But people who were already in relationships,

0:30:19.280 --> 0:30:21.360
<v Speaker 2>a lot of people are breaking up because that you

0:30:21.440 --> 0:30:24.719
<v Speaker 2>find when you're trapped with that person every day, all

0:30:24.800 --> 0:30:28.200
<v Speaker 2>day with no distractions, that y'all don't actually like each other. Yeah,

0:30:28.240 --> 0:30:30.440
<v Speaker 2>And that's the thing about I will say, living in

0:30:30.440 --> 0:30:35.120
<v Speaker 2>New York, it's like two passing ships in the night,

0:30:35.920 --> 0:30:40.880
<v Speaker 2>Like we're so busy. What is like that relationships? Because

0:30:41.320 --> 0:30:44.080
<v Speaker 2>either someone works in the day and someone works in

0:30:44.120 --> 0:30:46.520
<v Speaker 2>the night, or people have two jobs and then they

0:30:46.560 --> 0:30:49.440
<v Speaker 2>have things after work and then they're with their friends

0:30:49.480 --> 0:30:51.920
<v Speaker 2>and they're somebody else is with their friends. So a

0:30:51.920 --> 0:30:54.400
<v Speaker 2>lot of the times you only really get to see

0:30:54.680 --> 0:30:56.840
<v Speaker 2>or be with the person in the morning or at

0:30:56.920 --> 0:31:00.440
<v Speaker 2>night when we're having sex or whatever. You only have

0:31:00.600 --> 0:31:05.400
<v Speaker 2>occasionally for holidays and whatnot. But a lot of people

0:31:05.480 --> 0:31:10.239
<v Speaker 2>are not spending full on quality time, like back to

0:31:10.360 --> 0:31:16.560
<v Speaker 2>back to back, like days, hours, weeks, months, just uninterrupted

0:31:17.840 --> 0:31:21.040
<v Speaker 2>quality time, right, well, most none of us were. Nobody

0:31:21.280 --> 0:31:24.440
<v Speaker 2>was the only people who were spending uninterrupted time together

0:31:24.560 --> 0:31:26.920
<v Speaker 2>is stay at home moms with their brand new babies.

0:31:27.240 --> 0:31:30.240
<v Speaker 2>Those are the only people who are uninterrupted time together.

0:31:30.320 --> 0:31:34.600
<v Speaker 2>But when you have a dude or a girl and

0:31:35.320 --> 0:31:37.840
<v Speaker 2>you both have jobs, and you both have hobbies, and

0:31:37.880 --> 0:31:39.840
<v Speaker 2>you have a book club, and when if you was

0:31:39.880 --> 0:31:43.720
<v Speaker 2>taking a dance class at Equinox offbeat and you got

0:31:43.840 --> 0:31:46.760
<v Speaker 2>yoga and you're going on hikes since you know what

0:31:46.800 --> 0:31:49.800
<v Speaker 2>I mean, there's all these distractions. And then even when

0:31:49.840 --> 0:31:52.880
<v Speaker 2>you're with that person, you're going to a movie or

0:31:52.920 --> 0:31:56.400
<v Speaker 2>you're going, you know, to a play or a comedy show,

0:31:56.440 --> 0:31:59.280
<v Speaker 2>so you're not forced to talk to each other. You're

0:31:59.360 --> 0:32:04.479
<v Speaker 2>doing stuff together and that's nice. So but that this

0:32:04.600 --> 0:32:06.840
<v Speaker 2>none of this is applies with Cardi and Offset. He

0:32:06.960 --> 0:32:09.400
<v Speaker 2>was cheating on her the entire three years that they

0:32:09.520 --> 0:32:12.280
<v Speaker 2>hold on her. And that's why she's leaving him, but

0:32:12.320 --> 0:32:15.960
<v Speaker 2>also doesn't he have like six kids in addition to

0:32:16.000 --> 0:32:18.400
<v Speaker 2>the one that he has with her. He's a young

0:32:18.960 --> 0:32:22.480
<v Speaker 2>rich rapper sis he was cheating on you, which is

0:32:22.480 --> 0:32:25.600
<v Speaker 2>why he proposed to you. So like, none of this

0:32:25.760 --> 0:32:28.920
<v Speaker 2>is Shit's not shocking, but it's just like it's so much.

0:32:29.080 --> 0:32:35.720
<v Speaker 2>To divorce is very expensive, very she got money, she's

0:32:35.800 --> 0:32:40.320
<v Speaker 2>securing Bernie Sanders, Joe Biden bags. Now, I'll tell you

0:32:40.320 --> 0:32:44.320
<v Speaker 2>one thing that I I definitely you know, we want

0:32:44.320 --> 0:32:48.880
<v Speaker 2>to do a prenup because that makes sense because at

0:32:48.880 --> 0:32:50.959
<v Speaker 2>the end of the day, I don't want to split

0:32:51.240 --> 0:32:56.000
<v Speaker 2>assets with nobody's. I just don't like I worked. You

0:32:56.040 --> 0:32:58.400
<v Speaker 2>want to leave it what you came in with, whatever

0:32:58.480 --> 0:33:00.920
<v Speaker 2>we made, whatever we made to other. I want all

0:33:00.920 --> 0:33:04.480
<v Speaker 2>of it. So we gotta make this work, bro, you

0:33:04.520 --> 0:33:07.600
<v Speaker 2>gotta make it work on me. Give me my things back,

0:33:08.280 --> 0:33:10.360
<v Speaker 2>all of my We bought a couch together. Now we

0:33:10.400 --> 0:33:13.840
<v Speaker 2>gotta gotta cut her in the couch and the couch

0:33:13.920 --> 0:33:16.160
<v Speaker 2>the money from the fuck out here. I'm not doing

0:33:16.200 --> 0:33:19.640
<v Speaker 2>all that. We're staying together. That's it. Saw the couch in, Yeah,

0:33:19.840 --> 0:33:22.160
<v Speaker 2>that's it. I want it. I want the shape. Every

0:33:22.200 --> 0:33:25.560
<v Speaker 2>time I look up look at things and then say, hey,

0:33:25.960 --> 0:33:28.360
<v Speaker 2>if I want to marry somebody, I also have to

0:33:28.360 --> 0:33:32.080
<v Speaker 2>think about do I want to separate from everything that

0:33:32.120 --> 0:33:37.040
<v Speaker 2>we have together? No, the things after your because when

0:33:37.080 --> 0:33:40.479
<v Speaker 2>you move out, you got to get another apartment. I

0:33:40.600 --> 0:33:44.280
<v Speaker 2>end up. Yeah. But also, but some stuff holds memories

0:33:44.320 --> 0:33:47.160
<v Speaker 2>that you don't want to remember. So yeah, maybe maybe

0:33:47.200 --> 0:33:50.160
<v Speaker 2>we've had what we've We've spent too many days and

0:33:50.240 --> 0:33:53.080
<v Speaker 2>nights on that couch together. You keep that dusty ass,

0:33:53.080 --> 0:33:55.200
<v Speaker 2>sexy ass velvet couch, you know what I mean? Like

0:33:55.680 --> 0:33:59.040
<v Speaker 2>some things you don't want. Like I was talking to

0:33:59.080 --> 0:34:01.120
<v Speaker 2>this girl she wants on a date with this man,

0:34:02.160 --> 0:34:05.240
<v Speaker 2>went to his house. He had like a full sized

0:34:05.720 --> 0:34:11.240
<v Speaker 2>picture of him and his ex girl painted painted above

0:34:11.239 --> 0:34:16.000
<v Speaker 2>the dining room table. Goodbye the pictures it doesn't yeah,

0:34:16.000 --> 0:34:18.480
<v Speaker 2>but in the pictures, it doesn't look one hundred percent

0:34:18.560 --> 0:34:19.880
<v Speaker 2>like him. So she was looking at it, like, well,

0:34:19.880 --> 0:34:22.239
<v Speaker 2>what's the story behind this and he was like oh.

0:34:23.440 --> 0:34:26.239
<v Speaker 2>He was like, it's just a piece that I got commissioned,

0:34:26.239 --> 0:34:30.160
<v Speaker 2>and she was like okay. And then later she saw

0:34:30.200 --> 0:34:32.200
<v Speaker 2>a picture of his ex girlfriend and she was like,

0:34:32.200 --> 0:34:34.279
<v Speaker 2>that looked like the girl in the painting, and he

0:34:34.360 --> 0:34:37.280
<v Speaker 2>was like yeah, that's us. And she was like, oh,

0:34:37.320 --> 0:34:42.399
<v Speaker 2>but like giant, probably bigger than this art like that. Right, Yeah,

0:34:42.400 --> 0:34:46.319
<v Speaker 2>that's psychotic and I don't think that's healthy. But you know,

0:34:47.760 --> 0:34:49.760
<v Speaker 2>if you feel like you look good in the painting,

0:34:49.840 --> 0:34:52.040
<v Speaker 2>cut half of the painting up and just like cropp it,

0:34:52.160 --> 0:34:56.600
<v Speaker 2>you know, well she didn't want it. She left. She left,

0:34:56.640 --> 0:34:58.680
<v Speaker 2>and he kept the painting up because I guess his

0:34:58.800 --> 0:35:01.120
<v Speaker 2>dumbass paid a lot of money. It was commissioned. Bitch,

0:35:01.320 --> 0:35:07.080
<v Speaker 2>Uh it did. But I will say when me and

0:35:07.840 --> 0:35:10.080
<v Speaker 2>you know, Adrian, we we broke up and I had

0:35:10.080 --> 0:35:12.120
<v Speaker 2>to move out. I didn't have anything, like everything was

0:35:12.120 --> 0:35:14.680
<v Speaker 2>in garbage back so thankfully, you know, I didn't have

0:35:14.840 --> 0:35:19.200
<v Speaker 2>much to accumulate in the breakup, but just moving my

0:35:19.200 --> 0:35:24.359
<v Speaker 2>my black bags to another apartment, traumatizing, fucking drunk. First

0:35:24.400 --> 0:35:28.359
<v Speaker 2>of all, moving black bag it's scary because you leave

0:35:28.400 --> 0:35:32.120
<v Speaker 2>those bags on the curve for a minute too long, right,

0:35:32.239 --> 0:35:39.040
<v Speaker 2>So yeah, and I'm so lazy that I don't if

0:35:39.080 --> 0:35:41.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm moving in with somebody at this point, it's like

0:35:41.600 --> 0:35:46.240
<v Speaker 2>it's to stay. I'm stay that part friend that the

0:35:46.440 --> 0:35:49.359
<v Speaker 2>dude my boyfriend and I broke up when he asked

0:35:49.360 --> 0:35:50.719
<v Speaker 2>me to move in with him because I was like,

0:35:50.840 --> 0:35:53.319
<v Speaker 2>I'm not because I know I'm moving it right back

0:35:53.360 --> 0:35:56.279
<v Speaker 2>out and you don't have a number an elevator, I'm

0:35:56.280 --> 0:35:59.840
<v Speaker 2>not doing this twice and we were and it was

0:35:59.880 --> 0:36:03.959
<v Speaker 2>like few, imagine if I had said yes just because

0:36:04.000 --> 0:36:07.480
<v Speaker 2>I was trying to be a quote unquote good girlfriend.

0:36:09.440 --> 0:36:11.840
<v Speaker 2>A good girlfriend breaks up with you, Okay, that's the

0:36:11.920 --> 0:36:16.160
<v Speaker 2>moral to the story here. A good girlfriend will leave you.

0:36:17.239 --> 0:36:20.520
<v Speaker 2>If she stays with you, she's trash. Yeah, I mean

0:36:20.640 --> 0:36:24.480
<v Speaker 2>that's another thing. You guys, at this point, stop wasting

0:36:25.000 --> 0:36:27.960
<v Speaker 2>motherfucker's time. Stop doing it like you know if you

0:36:28.200 --> 0:36:31.200
<v Speaker 2>like somebody or not. At this point, you just know

0:36:31.320 --> 0:36:34.319
<v Speaker 2>we've spent so much time with ourselves. You should know

0:36:34.320 --> 0:36:36.560
<v Speaker 2>what the hell you want now. If you're over thirty,

0:36:36.680 --> 0:36:38.880
<v Speaker 2>you should know what you want and a partner. You

0:36:39.520 --> 0:36:41.640
<v Speaker 2>might not know yourself that well, but you should know

0:36:42.200 --> 0:36:45.640
<v Speaker 2>who you want opposite of you for the long run.

0:36:46.880 --> 0:36:47.520
<v Speaker 1>Mmmmmm.

0:36:48.480 --> 0:36:50.280
<v Speaker 2>I mean, even if you don't know what you want,

0:36:50.560 --> 0:36:53.560
<v Speaker 2>you know what you yes, and you know what you

0:36:53.840 --> 0:36:57.919
<v Speaker 2>don't need. You know you don't need a Laurence from

0:36:58.440 --> 0:37:02.560
<v Speaker 2>Insecure season one? Okay, I mean, what's what season? Did

0:37:02.560 --> 0:37:04.799
<v Speaker 2>we just end? Four? Yeah? You don't need. You don't

0:37:04.800 --> 0:37:07.120
<v Speaker 2>need a season four Lawrence either because he was probmatic,

0:37:07.800 --> 0:37:11.240
<v Speaker 2>but maybe a season three You know, you need somebody,

0:37:11.239 --> 0:37:15.520
<v Speaker 2>you know what works with you. You know, uh, what

0:37:15.600 --> 0:37:17.640
<v Speaker 2>kind of person is gonna uplift you. You know you

0:37:17.640 --> 0:37:20.520
<v Speaker 2>don't want to be with a bum, So those things.

0:37:21.360 --> 0:37:25.640
<v Speaker 2>I mean. The thing is is that I just have

0:37:25.719 --> 0:37:31.120
<v Speaker 2>a very skewed opinion about men overall because oh, no way,

0:37:31.160 --> 0:37:34.640
<v Speaker 2>the lesbian has a skewed But it's also because I've

0:37:34.680 --> 0:37:37.839
<v Speaker 2>been in relationships with them back to back to back

0:37:37.880 --> 0:37:42.359
<v Speaker 2>to back. Okay, yes, but they were all trash, no, no, no,

0:37:42.440 --> 0:37:44.319
<v Speaker 2>I had I had a good guy. I had one

0:37:44.360 --> 0:37:49.440
<v Speaker 2>good guy or two, and but I just being with women,

0:37:49.920 --> 0:37:55.759
<v Speaker 2>we are we lock quickly because if we feel passionate

0:37:55.840 --> 0:37:59.120
<v Speaker 2>about something, then it's we're all in and we don't

0:37:59.120 --> 0:38:02.719
<v Speaker 2>really look back. And yes, you might be like this

0:38:02.760 --> 0:38:05.759
<v Speaker 2>is a little hasty, but at least you're like, I'm

0:38:05.760 --> 0:38:07.960
<v Speaker 2>taking a chance, and if it doesn't work out, we

0:38:08.040 --> 0:38:11.839
<v Speaker 2>move the fuck on. We keep it going. And I

0:38:11.880 --> 0:38:15.920
<v Speaker 2>think that's the problem with waiting around or wasting someone

0:38:15.960 --> 0:38:19.560
<v Speaker 2>else's time. After a couple of years go by, you

0:38:19.600 --> 0:38:24.320
<v Speaker 2>can't get that time back. A couple years. Oh babe,

0:38:24.360 --> 0:38:27.439
<v Speaker 2>I'm not wasting years of my life. But some people are.

0:38:28.160 --> 0:38:29.840
<v Speaker 2>Some people are because you get into a relationship with

0:38:29.880 --> 0:38:32.760
<v Speaker 2>somebody that you like them, but you don't like everything

0:38:32.800 --> 0:38:34.759
<v Speaker 2>about them. You think, oh, I can change this, or

0:38:34.800 --> 0:38:36.960
<v Speaker 2>I can overlook that, or I can tweak that or

0:38:37.520 --> 0:38:41.360
<v Speaker 2>or that'll change eventually, and it doesn't. It usually doesn't

0:38:41.719 --> 0:38:44.080
<v Speaker 2>because these men they don't do what they want to do,

0:38:44.160 --> 0:38:45.480
<v Speaker 2>and some of these women are a still going to

0:38:45.520 --> 0:38:48.000
<v Speaker 2>get They waste some people's time. Women are wasting people time, right,

0:38:48.040 --> 0:38:50.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm not gonna lie on that right. Wasting sure, one

0:38:50.600 --> 0:38:55.280
<v Speaker 2>hundred percent. But yeah, people stay. And then other times

0:38:55.280 --> 0:38:57.759
<v Speaker 2>people stay because they don't have anywhere else to go.

0:38:58.080 --> 0:39:00.640
<v Speaker 2>They don't have the funds to be in an apartment themselves.

0:39:01.200 --> 0:39:03.000
<v Speaker 2>Maybe they got some kids, you know what I mean,

0:39:03.040 --> 0:39:05.560
<v Speaker 2>They don't really they don't know where to go or

0:39:05.600 --> 0:39:08.000
<v Speaker 2>what to do. And then other people say because they're like, well,

0:39:08.000 --> 0:39:10.279
<v Speaker 2>I put all this time in, so I'm I'm gonna

0:39:10.320 --> 0:39:13.040
<v Speaker 2>reap my benefits, and it's like you should probably just leave.

0:39:13.320 --> 0:39:15.080
<v Speaker 2>Sometimes you just gotta cut your losses and go, cut

0:39:15.120 --> 0:39:21.920
<v Speaker 2>your losses and go, because that I do I have,

0:39:22.200 --> 0:39:26.320
<v Speaker 2>I have regrets in terms of, you know, my last relationship,

0:39:26.360 --> 0:39:28.360
<v Speaker 2>because I'm like, damn, I knew I wasn't in a

0:39:28.400 --> 0:39:32.120
<v Speaker 2>good place. I was in a really awful place. And

0:39:32.160 --> 0:39:35.640
<v Speaker 2>we probably could have ended it a little bit earlier

0:39:35.680 --> 0:39:40.160
<v Speaker 2>than what we did, because I knew I wasn't getting better,

0:39:41.640 --> 0:39:44.319
<v Speaker 2>and I also was I also was worried. I was like,

0:39:44.960 --> 0:39:49.720
<v Speaker 2>I became codependent and I can't do anything without this person,

0:39:49.840 --> 0:39:54.319
<v Speaker 2>or you know, I'm a failure. And I took that

0:39:54.480 --> 0:39:56.480
<v Speaker 2>risk and it was like, Okay, it just so happened

0:39:56.520 --> 0:39:58.680
<v Speaker 2>that Carolina was like, hey, you can move into this

0:39:58.719 --> 0:40:01.480
<v Speaker 2>apartment blah blah blah. And I moved in and I

0:40:01.480 --> 0:40:04.160
<v Speaker 2>got roommate, and I was nervous because I was like, Okay,

0:40:04.200 --> 0:40:06.160
<v Speaker 2>I can pay this rent, but like, what if something

0:40:06.200 --> 0:40:08.120
<v Speaker 2>happens with this roommate, will I be able to afford it?

0:40:08.160 --> 0:40:11.719
<v Speaker 2>And then look what happened, Like I just have to

0:40:11.760 --> 0:40:16.120
<v Speaker 2>put in good faith sys that what's supposed to happen

0:40:16.160 --> 0:40:19.600
<v Speaker 2>for me will happen, and the things are not gonna

0:40:19.600 --> 0:40:23.319
<v Speaker 2>happen if you're too scared to actually make the move, well,

0:40:23.320 --> 0:40:25.640
<v Speaker 2>if you don't ever move forward, nothing's ever going to

0:40:25.719 --> 0:40:28.000
<v Speaker 2>move forward. You always going to be in the same

0:40:28.080 --> 0:40:32.600
<v Speaker 2>exact place, And I think that's something that people need

0:40:32.640 --> 0:40:35.880
<v Speaker 2>to realize that, like, even if you don't move, the

0:40:35.960 --> 0:40:39.560
<v Speaker 2>world is gonna continue around you. Right, Like, we've been

0:40:40.080 --> 0:40:46.640
<v Speaker 2>literally in a state of pause since March. And I

0:40:46.680 --> 0:40:48.439
<v Speaker 2>was talking to somebody the other day and they were like, yeah,

0:40:48.440 --> 0:40:53.360
<v Speaker 2>I did that back in August, and I was like, August, August.

0:40:54.280 --> 0:40:58.480
<v Speaker 2>When did August get here? Yeah, it's like every day

0:40:58.520 --> 0:41:01.560
<v Speaker 2>feels it still feels like it could be March still,

0:41:01.840 --> 0:41:04.040
<v Speaker 2>the way that the weather feels right now. So the

0:41:04.080 --> 0:41:06.960
<v Speaker 2>world is going to continue around you, and you have

0:41:07.040 --> 0:41:09.440
<v Speaker 2>to You do have to take that chance, which brings

0:41:09.440 --> 0:41:12.160
<v Speaker 2>me back to my birthday. You gotta go on that trip, babe,

0:41:12.200 --> 0:41:14.680
<v Speaker 2>you take That's the title of that You gotta go

0:41:14.719 --> 0:41:17.959
<v Speaker 2>on that trip. Baby. You gotta go on that trip, babe. Yeah,

0:41:18.040 --> 0:41:20.799
<v Speaker 2>that's that's the name of the episode. Just do it.

0:41:20.880 --> 0:41:29.560
<v Speaker 2>Do the hashtag, Just do it hash. The podcast is Hey,

0:41:29.640 --> 0:41:35.759
<v Speaker 2>Nike single, not a shirt you much, not a not

0:41:35.840 --> 0:41:39.279
<v Speaker 2>a draw string duffel bag, nake crazy. But Beyonce sent

0:41:39.280 --> 0:41:43.400
<v Speaker 2>me something anyway. Beyonce said, you something just trying to

0:41:43.520 --> 0:41:44.960
<v Speaker 2>I was just trying to go to box. You had

0:41:44.960 --> 0:41:47.759
<v Speaker 2>to just trying to make Nike jealous. But you had

0:41:47.800 --> 0:41:51.439
<v Speaker 2>a tiny box. I mean, I'll take an Adida's box.

0:41:51.480 --> 0:41:54.640
<v Speaker 2>I'll take a Puma box. You know. I don't know

0:41:54.640 --> 0:41:56.120
<v Speaker 2>if I'll take a new Balance, but I'll take a

0:41:56.120 --> 0:41:59.959
<v Speaker 2>new Balance box. What am I saying? I'm not gonna

0:42:00.000 --> 0:42:03.600
<v Speaker 2>take a sketcher's box. That is a hard no, thank you.

0:42:04.600 --> 0:42:07.040
<v Speaker 2>I will take a sketcher's check, So I guess I'll

0:42:07.080 --> 0:42:10.000
<v Speaker 2>think the box, Jude Marie. The way we went on

0:42:10.040 --> 0:42:14.160
<v Speaker 2>that roller coaster with you, Jeez, what a journey, Sidney.

0:42:14.320 --> 0:42:17.239
<v Speaker 2>If Sketchers offered you one hundred thousand dollars to be

0:42:17.360 --> 0:42:24.160
<v Speaker 2>a spokesperson for a year, you wouldn't do it. Oh,

0:42:24.200 --> 0:42:25.640
<v Speaker 2>the way that you're thinking about it. You have a

0:42:25.800 --> 0:42:31.000
<v Speaker 2>spare hundred thousands your house right now. I would say yes.

0:42:31.320 --> 0:42:34.160
<v Speaker 2>But if we weren't in the pandemic, I would say no,

0:42:34.239 --> 0:42:38.080
<v Speaker 2>because I'm I'm It's not that I don't love Sketchers.

0:42:38.160 --> 0:42:41.839
<v Speaker 2>I do. I just that's all I'm gonna say. That's it.

0:42:43.480 --> 0:42:46.600
<v Speaker 2>If we were not in the pandemic, you wouldn't take

0:42:46.640 --> 0:42:50.319
<v Speaker 2>the hundred things I would take. It's fine. The way

0:42:50.320 --> 0:42:52.600
<v Speaker 2>that you're lying to the listeners, on the first week

0:42:52.640 --> 0:42:56.319
<v Speaker 2>back from the tie. I think Sydney says that we

0:42:56.320 --> 0:42:57.920
<v Speaker 2>need to take another hiatus. This is going to be

0:42:57.920 --> 0:43:04.400
<v Speaker 2>the last episode for the time a friend. It's so

0:43:04.520 --> 0:43:10.919
<v Speaker 2>many of us have them friends. Okay, so we did

0:43:11.640 --> 0:43:14.960
<v Speaker 2>Caroly in his wedding, We did your birthday. Yes, we

0:43:15.000 --> 0:43:18.360
<v Speaker 2>did the we did a Cardian with his face Guardian,

0:43:18.440 --> 0:43:23.120
<v Speaker 2>what's it we did that? Yeah, California is on fire.

0:43:23.800 --> 0:43:25.719
<v Speaker 2>We didn't talk about that, but we'll talk about it

0:43:25.760 --> 0:43:29.640
<v Speaker 2>just a little bit. It's on fire and global warming

0:43:29.840 --> 0:43:32.880
<v Speaker 2>is a thing and it's for real, and I just

0:43:32.880 --> 0:43:35.600
<v Speaker 2>want to put that out there, guys, like the world

0:43:35.680 --> 0:43:40.319
<v Speaker 2>is on fire. We're not doing well. No, we're not

0:43:40.400 --> 0:43:42.640
<v Speaker 2>doing well, but I think it's it's gonna get better.

0:43:43.040 --> 0:43:45.440
<v Speaker 2>But again, is it like wet. I think it might

0:43:45.480 --> 0:43:48.680
<v Speaker 2>get worse before it gets better, honestly, because I think

0:43:48.840 --> 0:43:51.839
<v Speaker 2>businesses are going to continue to shut down and we're

0:43:51.880 --> 0:43:54.480
<v Speaker 2>gonna finally come outside and it's gonna be all these

0:43:54.520 --> 0:43:58.480
<v Speaker 2>abandoned businesses and storefronts, and it's gonna be real, uh

0:43:58.680 --> 0:44:02.239
<v Speaker 2>like the Apocalypse just that and yeah, it's gonna be

0:44:02.239 --> 0:44:04.480
<v Speaker 2>like a movie. It's gonna be real. I am legend

0:44:04.880 --> 0:44:07.080
<v Speaker 2>because these places are gonna be closed, and new businesses

0:44:07.080 --> 0:44:10.280
<v Speaker 2>aren't gonna pop up right away. They don't have any money.

0:44:10.280 --> 0:44:13.319
<v Speaker 2>They gotta raise capital to put something new there. You know,

0:44:14.440 --> 0:44:17.840
<v Speaker 2>I mean all of Modell's shut down. Remember Modells gotta

0:44:18.000 --> 0:44:22.600
<v Speaker 2>go to no that's most gotta go to mos god

0:44:24.440 --> 0:44:29.600
<v Speaker 2>Rip gotta go to Moos. Come o, friend, this is

0:44:29.680 --> 0:44:33.719
<v Speaker 2>this is what I'm gonna say. Mmm. We need to

0:44:33.719 --> 0:44:39.799
<v Speaker 2>stop wasting money. We need to stop taking life. We

0:44:39.840 --> 0:44:43.040
<v Speaker 2>need to take life seriously but also have fun. We

0:44:43.120 --> 0:44:47.319
<v Speaker 2>need to get into stocks and bonds. We need to

0:44:47.320 --> 0:44:50.720
<v Speaker 2>build a family together. And that's why I'm going to say,

0:44:50.960 --> 0:44:54.239
<v Speaker 2>will you marry me? Over the zoom, Marie, I have

0:44:54.280 --> 0:44:56.080
<v Speaker 2>a ring for you. What is that? Is that? A

0:44:56.120 --> 0:44:56.800
<v Speaker 2>bread tie?

0:44:57.440 --> 0:45:03.240
<v Speaker 1>A bread twist tie. Absolutely proposed it to your Marie.

0:45:03.400 --> 0:45:05.719
<v Speaker 1>We just needed to know I don't do it. Come on,

0:45:06.080 --> 0:45:08.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna say the opposite. I'm gonna say the opposite.

0:45:08.280 --> 0:45:12.720
<v Speaker 1>I just said, I say we need to start spending money. Okay,

0:45:13.360 --> 0:45:19.280
<v Speaker 1>because I famously cheap and Sydney famously frivolous with money,

0:45:19.480 --> 0:45:21.080
<v Speaker 1>I'll say, spend the money.

0:45:21.400 --> 0:45:24.799
<v Speaker 2>You can't take it with you when you leave. You

0:45:25.000 --> 0:45:28.879
<v Speaker 2>will make more money now you should definitely be saving.

0:45:28.920 --> 0:45:31.960
<v Speaker 2>You should have a savings account, and yes, join robin Hood.

0:45:32.000 --> 0:45:35.360
<v Speaker 2>I joined them earlier this year. Gone got stocks. Now

0:45:35.840 --> 0:45:37.799
<v Speaker 2>you know I'm making a little bit of money. Let

0:45:37.840 --> 0:45:41.040
<v Speaker 2>me see how much money I made today. I mean

0:45:41.120 --> 0:45:43.680
<v Speaker 2>last week I was losing money and I was like,

0:45:44.400 --> 0:45:49.840
<v Speaker 2>I'm too tired too, I'm too tired to figure this out. Okay,

0:45:49.880 --> 0:45:53.560
<v Speaker 2>so today I've lost sixty dollars. So I'm not making

0:45:53.600 --> 0:45:58.000
<v Speaker 2>any money right now. But I made money yesterday. But

0:45:58.120 --> 0:46:03.440
<v Speaker 2>whatever I say, spend the money, Splurge on things, do

0:46:03.600 --> 0:46:06.239
<v Speaker 2>things for you that make you feel good. Self care.

0:46:06.320 --> 0:46:08.799
<v Speaker 2>I'm just gonna shout words that I think you guys

0:46:08.800 --> 0:46:13.280
<v Speaker 2>will like self self care. Call a friend or text

0:46:13.280 --> 0:46:14.800
<v Speaker 2>a friend that you haven't spoken to in a while,

0:46:15.680 --> 0:46:18.160
<v Speaker 2>Call your mom, pick your phone up and call your

0:46:18.560 --> 0:46:20.279
<v Speaker 2>call your aunt who you haven't spoke to but you

0:46:20.360 --> 0:46:23.960
<v Speaker 2>say is your favorite aunt. Do those things right and

0:46:24.000 --> 0:46:26.759
<v Speaker 2>then you'll feel good about yourself. And if you don't

0:46:26.760 --> 0:46:30.600
<v Speaker 2>feel good about yourself, call a therapist. I have a

0:46:30.640 --> 0:46:35.880
<v Speaker 2>call with a therapist scheduled for September twenty serious because

0:46:36.120 --> 0:46:38.360
<v Speaker 2>the Monday after this goes out. Yeah, just like a

0:46:38.400 --> 0:46:42.560
<v Speaker 2>preliminary call, you know, just to see like, yes, you

0:46:42.600 --> 0:46:45.120
<v Speaker 2>could do something for me. I'm proud of you, Marie.

0:46:46.600 --> 0:46:48.719
<v Speaker 2>I mean I am also proud of me. But I

0:46:48.760 --> 0:46:52.320
<v Speaker 2>think that I think all black people need therapy period

0:46:52.480 --> 0:46:55.239
<v Speaker 2>hard stop. But now I think everybody needs therapy after

0:46:55.280 --> 0:46:58.120
<v Speaker 2>what we've gone through this year. So I think just

0:46:58.239 --> 0:47:00.759
<v Speaker 2>go call the one time or make the call that

0:47:00.840 --> 0:47:02.879
<v Speaker 2>one time, and then see how you you never know,

0:47:03.320 --> 0:47:06.080
<v Speaker 2>You never fucking know, and you don't know something. Your

0:47:06.120 --> 0:47:09.359
<v Speaker 2>friend is in therapy, huh, and you never know it's

0:47:09.480 --> 0:47:12.480
<v Speaker 2>if it's working until like a month after you have

0:47:12.520 --> 0:47:17.920
<v Speaker 2>to do it for at least a month. I just

0:47:18.160 --> 0:47:23.880
<v Speaker 2>our friend is in therapy and she's so clearheaded and happy,

0:47:23.920 --> 0:47:27.880
<v Speaker 2>and I just want to be there. I want to

0:47:27.920 --> 0:47:30.759
<v Speaker 2>be clear here so that I can create and I

0:47:30.800 --> 0:47:33.719
<v Speaker 2>can do work, and I can perform to the best

0:47:33.719 --> 0:47:37.040
<v Speaker 2>of my ability, and I can see things because sometimes

0:47:37.080 --> 0:47:40.240
<v Speaker 2>you have to say what is in your head to

0:47:40.280 --> 0:47:43.319
<v Speaker 2>see it. And you know, I guess I'll talk to

0:47:43.360 --> 0:47:46.120
<v Speaker 2>a white woman on the phone for fifteen minutes to

0:47:46.160 --> 0:47:52.640
<v Speaker 2>see things clearly. I let her fix my life. You know,

0:47:52.680 --> 0:47:57.160
<v Speaker 2>I wanted a black therapist. But you know, if I'm

0:47:57.200 --> 0:47:59.080
<v Speaker 2>sad and you said and it's just us on the

0:47:59.080 --> 0:48:03.120
<v Speaker 2>phone like ys sis sis. Also we both say were

0:48:03.160 --> 0:48:05.840
<v Speaker 2>eating on the call. It's I don't want that. Yeah,

0:48:05.880 --> 0:48:08.160
<v Speaker 2>I don't want that for me. You truly don't need that.

0:48:08.960 --> 0:48:10.920
<v Speaker 2>We just don't know. And also I don't have to

0:48:10.920 --> 0:48:13.680
<v Speaker 2>see I don't know if she does these calls over

0:48:13.840 --> 0:48:16.360
<v Speaker 2>zoom or it's on the phone. But I don't have

0:48:16.400 --> 0:48:17.880
<v Speaker 2>to see her shoes. I don't have to see if

0:48:17.920 --> 0:48:22.520
<v Speaker 2>she's wearing tomes or sketchers or clerks or uggs sandals,

0:48:22.560 --> 0:48:25.640
<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean? Yeah, I mean the FaceTime

0:48:25.760 --> 0:48:28.040
<v Speaker 2>situation is cool, and you could tell, you could see

0:48:28.040 --> 0:48:31.399
<v Speaker 2>if they're low key paying attention, and it's just you're

0:48:31.480 --> 0:48:36.680
<v Speaker 2>you're talking so you don't have to talk to a

0:48:36.680 --> 0:48:40.560
<v Speaker 2>friend that you feel like, Damn, am I a broken record?

0:48:41.360 --> 0:48:46.920
<v Speaker 2>Am I ruining this this friendship? Because I keep talking

0:48:46.960 --> 0:48:51.919
<v Speaker 2>about it and you're paying someone to listen, and they're

0:48:51.920 --> 0:48:53.879
<v Speaker 2>not going to tell you the exact things you need

0:48:53.920 --> 0:48:56.879
<v Speaker 2>to do, but they're going to ask the right questions

0:48:57.040 --> 0:49:01.080
<v Speaker 2>to lead you in the direction you need to be, Yeah,

0:49:01.200 --> 0:49:03.000
<v Speaker 2>or they're going to ask you the right questions for

0:49:03.080 --> 0:49:06.920
<v Speaker 2>you to think about things differently. Because sometimes we only

0:49:07.000 --> 0:49:10.440
<v Speaker 2>can see something one way until somebody's like, well, why

0:49:10.440 --> 0:49:12.560
<v Speaker 2>would you do that? Why wouldn't you do it? Wouldn't

0:49:12.520 --> 0:49:14.239
<v Speaker 2>it be easy to do it this way? And then

0:49:14.280 --> 0:49:17.080
<v Speaker 2>you you're like, oh snah, that's a completely different perspective.

0:49:17.600 --> 0:49:19.759
<v Speaker 2>And for me, I think that's what therapy will be

0:49:19.920 --> 0:49:23.480
<v Speaker 2>is a completely different perspective. Also, I mean, I don't

0:49:23.480 --> 0:49:24.800
<v Speaker 2>know how much it costs, so I'm not going to

0:49:24.840 --> 0:49:27.160
<v Speaker 2>say that I'm in therapy on I'm taking a call.

0:49:29.400 --> 0:49:32.239
<v Speaker 2>Just know that it's in the works, work in progress, bitch,

0:49:32.320 --> 0:49:35.440
<v Speaker 2>and we support you well. And then I also just

0:49:35.520 --> 0:49:39.040
<v Speaker 2>say spend the money. So I should just spend the money.

0:49:39.640 --> 0:49:41.680
<v Speaker 2>It depends on how much money. It depends on how

0:49:41.719 --> 0:49:46.360
<v Speaker 2>much the money is spending the night. Thank you? Uh well,

0:49:46.600 --> 0:49:48.919
<v Speaker 2>Sydney cannot wait to be in Mexican. I cannot wait.

0:49:49.000 --> 0:49:51.640
<v Speaker 2>We've been through so much friend, and I wouldn't want

0:49:51.640 --> 0:49:54.759
<v Speaker 2>to do it with anybody else. Also, we had a

0:49:54.800 --> 0:49:58.040
<v Speaker 2>million trips planned this year and none of them happened.

0:49:58.160 --> 0:50:00.160
<v Speaker 2>So let's just do this one and see what hip

0:50:01.520 --> 0:50:03.680
<v Speaker 2>go on. To take the trip. Hey, we're doing the

0:50:03.680 --> 0:50:09.800
<v Speaker 2>trip and then marry me mm hmmm. Or if someone

0:50:09.920 --> 0:50:13.120
<v Speaker 2>offered you a million dollars to marry me, would you

0:50:14.719 --> 0:50:17.200
<v Speaker 2>a million dollars to marry you and I had to

0:50:17.200 --> 0:50:18.880
<v Speaker 2>split my money with you. They would just offer you

0:50:18.960 --> 0:50:25.000
<v Speaker 2>a million dollars to marry me on pay let me,

0:50:25.640 --> 0:50:29.640
<v Speaker 2>let me get down on my knees. Yes, I'd marry

0:50:29.640 --> 0:50:30.840
<v Speaker 2>you for a million dollars, and I would give you

0:50:30.840 --> 0:50:33.200
<v Speaker 2>a little bit of a money. I'll give you a

0:50:33.200 --> 0:50:35.080
<v Speaker 2>little bit. I'll give you a couple bucks. Feels good

0:50:35.120 --> 0:50:38.319
<v Speaker 2>to hear that out loud. I would buy you a

0:50:38.480 --> 0:50:46.000
<v Speaker 2>year's supply of sketchs xo xo. Okay, so we did this.

0:50:46.000 --> 0:50:49.879
<v Speaker 2>This was the episode. You know, we're gonna do some

0:50:49.960 --> 0:50:53.040
<v Speaker 2>Patreon episodes too, so you guys can get up our

0:50:53.160 --> 0:50:57.040
<v Speaker 2>next and Max and you know, if you haven't gone

0:50:57.080 --> 0:51:01.840
<v Speaker 2>on the Patreon yet and supported us, you should because

0:51:02.000 --> 0:51:05.200
<v Speaker 2>we do have some juicy stuff on there and you

0:51:05.239 --> 0:51:08.000
<v Speaker 2>can connect the dots and then figure out what gossip

0:51:08.160 --> 0:51:10.759
<v Speaker 2>you want to know about me because Marine doesn't do

0:51:10.880 --> 0:51:15.200
<v Speaker 2>that anymore, not anything. So, yeah, this has been fantastic.

0:51:15.480 --> 0:51:19.799
<v Speaker 2>You know, rate comic subscribe all those good things. Do

0:51:19.960 --> 0:51:24.279
<v Speaker 2>that for us, Yes, I love this. Yeah, do those

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<v Speaker 2>things and take care of yourself, spend the money that

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<v Speaker 2>you want to spend or or don't or spend somebody

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<v Speaker 2>else's money. But if it makes you happy, do it

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<v Speaker 2>this week. Do one thing that makes you actually happy

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<v Speaker 2>this week. And if it's your birthday this month, happy birthday.

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<v Speaker 2>But also I want everybody to scream and yell and

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<v Speaker 2>shout from the mountaintops, Happy birthday to a marine. Make

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<v Speaker 2>sure you put yes. But this episode is four days.

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<v Speaker 2>That's fine birthday. I want people to still be putting

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<v Speaker 2>up Happy birthday days after your birthday, because you deserve

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<v Speaker 2>a friend. I do. I do deserve. I'm on zoole anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks guys, Bye Forever Dog.

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