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Speaker 1: Forever.

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Speaker 2: Hi, guys, Hello, you missed the funk out of us,

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Speaker 2: and I was kind of getting comfortable with I was like, oh,

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Speaker 2: we don't have the podcast. Girl, this lovely two weeks.

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Speaker 2: I guess this is this is you. I was like,

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Speaker 2: is this what it feels like to be regular? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I mean, but then we would be having conversations and

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Speaker 2: Sydney would be like, oh, this would be such a

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Speaker 2: good episode. Save this. Yeah, none of that stuff got saved,

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Speaker 2: because you know, my brain is trash do but it's

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Speaker 2: it's good to see you, even though I see you

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Speaker 2: all the time. It's good that so many things have happened.

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Speaker 2: So we actually have something to fucking talk about. Okay,

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Speaker 2: let's talk about it. Maybe maybe the podcast should be monthly,

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Speaker 2: you know, now we're in the core. No, we need

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Speaker 2: every day, every week, every day, because you never know

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Speaker 2: every night? Maybe bye, yeah, you know what I mean. Anyway, Okay,

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Speaker 2: so first, first on the docket, let's talk about Marie's birthday.

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Speaker 2: That's coming up. Oh I didn't know we were doing

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Speaker 2: that up top. Okay, I thought we was gonna tell

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Speaker 2: them we talk about that. Let's talk about that first.

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Speaker 2: Let's talk about because that's what we're prepping for. Okay, right, right, right?

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Speaker 2: So when this is coming out the day after the

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Speaker 2: day after your birthday, my birthday is on like Tuesday

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Speaker 2: or Wednesday or something like that. So well Wednesday is

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Speaker 2: pretty much Friday. So yeah, it's literally the day after.

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Speaker 2: During the pandem, all the days are the same and

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Speaker 2: no one cares about them. So yesterday spend all of

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Speaker 2: yesterday thinking it was Sunday. MS was friend, it was

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Speaker 2: it was Wednesday. It was a big Sunday energy. Some

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Speaker 2: days just feel a certain way. So anyway, whatever, so

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Speaker 2: my Birthda's coming up, and for me, every year, my

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Speaker 2: birthday is when I get the saddest and famously famously sad,

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Speaker 2: and this year has been a sad ass year. So

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Speaker 2: every time I log on to my Graham, I see

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Speaker 2: people in Mexico, and I was like, should we go

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Speaker 2: to Mexico? And Amina was like, I already bought my ticket, Yes,

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Speaker 2: let's go. And Amina is a good friend because she

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Speaker 2: like encourages you to do things that you on the

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Speaker 2: fence about. But also like I was like, since I

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Speaker 2: was just I was just wondering out loud in the

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Speaker 2: group chat if I should go, and she was like

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Speaker 2: we're going and Carolina is a I mean not Carolina

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Speaker 2: Amina as a daredevil and she lives life on the

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Speaker 2: edge as if she does. She lives out loud. But

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Speaker 2: we we love that type of energy because we need

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Speaker 2: that right now because we've we've been in the house,

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Speaker 2: and you know, as the days get shorter or darker

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Speaker 2: or whatever, we're just gonna get more and more sad.

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Speaker 2: All the people who were at the restaurants outside, like

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Speaker 2: on top of the subway grades, you know, having their

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Speaker 2: lunches and dinners and whatnot. The people eating next to

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Speaker 2: the garden bite on the curb. Yeah, that's gonna stop

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Speaker 2: because it's gonna get cold. It's already chilly, it's already chilli. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: But they're opening up restaurants inside for New York City. Honey,

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Speaker 2: boo boo. I am not doing that. I'm not gonna

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Speaker 2: be an enclosed place with all these strangers. I don't

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Speaker 2: even trust the people that I know like that are

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Speaker 2: friends of mine. Now I'm gonna trust these strain Wow, Okay, Sydney,

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Speaker 2: just say you don't trust me. I mean, I thought

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Speaker 2: we had a nice chat before the zoom started, but

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Speaker 2: I guess, Wow, don't trust you much. That's fine. I'm

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Speaker 2: not trustworthy. I do lie. But yeah, they're opening up

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Speaker 2: restaurants back in New York at twenty five percent capacity.

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Speaker 2: But I also heard, you know, how like you read?

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Speaker 2: People say I read in the news, but they only

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Speaker 2: read the headline I heard. I didn't watch the story,

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Speaker 2: but I saw like coming up. So it's gonna cost

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Speaker 2: you extra to eat inside?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 2: Well, let's talk about how much? What surprise is like,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, sis, I didn't read the article. I

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Speaker 2: didn't watch the story. It just said find out later,

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Speaker 2: find out next how it'll cost you more to eat inside.

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Speaker 2: And I was like, wow, that's the whole story. I

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Speaker 2: know all the information, but I don't know. It might

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Speaker 2: just be because if the restaurants can't operate at full capacity,

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Speaker 2: they just gonna charge you twice as much to eat there.

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Speaker 2: That's my logic anyway. So say, for instance, let's let's

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Speaker 2: talk about it. So a regular Branzino right is like,

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Speaker 2: you know, eighteen dollars, Now, what is it going to

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Speaker 2: be like forty Brenzino is eighteen dollars? Actually, I there

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Speaker 2: must be a young Brenzino. I must don't eat Brenzino

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Speaker 2: or you know what, whenever I have Bronzino, I'm not

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Speaker 2: paying So yeah, I don't really know the prices that well,

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Speaker 2: is eighteen dollars? Okay, let's maybe let's do something that's

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Speaker 2: more relatable to the listeners. A sizzling faheato, Oh here

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Speaker 2: let's say that's eighteen dunkers, so it gonna be double that,

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Speaker 2: or maybe it's gonna be they're gonna add what's eighteen

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Speaker 2: divide about two? Bitch, get your life together if you're

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Speaker 2: going to one TGI Friday's no shade but shade. It's

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Speaker 2: just like no, that sounds like shit. Better eat better

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Speaker 2: for yourself, especially right now, you deserve I don't know,

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Speaker 2: a steak that doesn't have Thames on it, like you

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Speaker 2: have to know you haven't make sure that you're eating

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Speaker 2: Sydney properly farmed Sydney meats. Yes, but also we've been

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Speaker 2: you've been good. You've been in the house for seven

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Speaker 2: going on eighteen months. Like, maybe you just want to

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Speaker 2: eat some arto choked tip. Maybe you want to eat

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Speaker 2: something that like when you buy it at the store

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Speaker 2: and you defrost it from the freezer, it doesn't taste

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Speaker 2: the same, it doesn't have the same texture. So yeah,

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Speaker 2: go ahead and get your little sizzling for heat to plate.

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Speaker 2: That is like popping bottle at the club with the

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Speaker 2: flares and stuff. Go get go, get that hot ass

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Speaker 2: hot plate and eat it with your three friends that

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Speaker 2: you know don't have COVID. I believe in you, you know,

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Speaker 2: I just I want these restaurants to make some kind

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Speaker 2: is it worth it? Is that shrimp petaccini worth it?

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Speaker 2: It is worth it? Well, I mean, what's the alternative?

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Speaker 2: Don't eat out? And when all this is lifted, every

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Speaker 2: couldn't pay their rent. What's the what? Like? So like

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Speaker 2: to those places. A lot of shit's closing down, tons

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Speaker 2: and things were closing down before pandemic, but it's really

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Speaker 2: really getting really sad. And then all the venues that

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Speaker 2: even the Notting Factory. We have no idea what is

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Speaker 2: the future of stand up right, And they're saying that

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Speaker 2: also at twenty five percent capacity. And it's like, I'm

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Speaker 2: not risking my life to perform in front of seven

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Speaker 2: five percent capacity, my ass is gonna be one hundred percent. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And also, do y'all know how it feels to like

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Speaker 2: it's it's almost all the way packed. Imagine Imagine when

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna go kill myself. Like I don't need this

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Speaker 2: a career in being at these shows. I don't know

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Speaker 2: if that's gonna happen, babe, I don't. I don't see it.

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Speaker 2: People have been asking me, I did that one show

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Speaker 2: as a comedian, as a performer, I'm not getting to

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Speaker 2: comics that are like itching to get back inside. All

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Speaker 2: And I was like, that's a good question because I

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Speaker 2: to say that out loud. I've been sitting out loud. No,

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Speaker 2: I would feel completely lost. I was like, damn, I

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Speaker 2: don't know my I don't know the rhythm anymore. But bitch,

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Speaker 2: it's been six seven months years. It's a girl. What

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Speaker 2: if it was February or March? No, it was it

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Speaker 2: had to have been March because you were in La. Yeah. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: So my birthday is around the corner and it's on

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Speaker 2: September twenty third, and people have been My sister text

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Speaker 2: me and was like, what are you doing for your birthday?

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Speaker 2: And I was like, I don't know. I hadn't been

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Speaker 2: thinking about it. You know, famously have a party every year.

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Speaker 2: There's a theme. All of my hot friends come and

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Speaker 2: people that aren't necessarily my friends show up, and you know,

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Speaker 2: everybody just has a beautiful night. People are on drugs, people,

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Speaker 2: obviously was postponed this year and or Canal and I

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Speaker 2: was like, We're going to Mexico. We're going to Mexico.

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Speaker 2: We got a nice little house, we have a pool.

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Speaker 2: We don't have to see anybody if we don't want to.

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Speaker 2: We can be in Mexico. And still not be around

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Speaker 2: a single stranger. So you know, I'm excited about that.

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Speaker 2: But Sydney, you got some reservation. I do have reservations,

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Speaker 2: and this is this is what it is. Now. We

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Speaker 2: We've had a wedding, We've had multiple parties in uh

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Speaker 2: you know, my new backyard hard and not parties per se,

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Speaker 2: This is hilarious to me because not that many months ago,

424
00:24:32,359 --> 00:24:34,400
Speaker 2: on this very podcast, you were like, nah, I don't

425
00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:40,480
Speaker 2: believe in with So this is fascinating to me. Fascinating. Yeah,

426
00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:44,760
Speaker 2: Sydney's texting. Every time Sidney starts texting, I'm gonna stop speaking.

427
00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:47,960
Speaker 2: So that's what's happening on the episode today when I'm

428
00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:56,520
Speaker 2: not speaking. Blame Sydney, no, but maybe because I I'm

429
00:24:57,240 --> 00:25:04,040
Speaker 2: not famously I'm incognito in love, but incognito incognitiy in love.

430
00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:07,959
Speaker 2: I'm thinking about all this stuff, but I don't know.

431
00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:10,639
Speaker 2: I just and then I saw another I went to

432
00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:16,760
Speaker 2: another wedding and look at you. Wedding hopping. It was great.

433
00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 2: It's it's the moving around for me that's super gross.

434
00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:27,280
Speaker 2: But just the celebration, it's it's a it's the it's

435
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:29,919
Speaker 2: all white when you're a horse. It was, but was

436
00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:33,119
Speaker 2: outside again, and it was you know, everything's fine, and

437
00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:37,560
Speaker 2: even like the gathering afterwards was outside, so it was cool.

438
00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:40,359
Speaker 2: But you know, people are taking the opportunity to be like,

439
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:42,080
Speaker 2: this is this is who I want to fucking be.

440
00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:45,160
Speaker 2: Where we we were with each other during the darkest

441
00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:47,959
Speaker 2: days of twenty twenty. Let's fucking do it. People are

442
00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:54,000
Speaker 2: saying yes, all I gotta do is say the people are.

443
00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:56,919
Speaker 2: People are not waiting around, So all I have to

444
00:25:57,000 --> 00:26:00,440
Speaker 2: say because of these things, it's like you wait around

445
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 2: for this person to acknowledge you, or you're waiting around

446
00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:08,760
Speaker 2: for this person to open up and and finally take

447
00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:12,359
Speaker 2: you seriously. After I don't know, four months of y'all

448
00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:18,040
Speaker 2: doing serious shit but not but not committing fucking leave

449
00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:22,280
Speaker 2: that person. Because people are looking locking eyes and opening

450
00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:26,800
Speaker 2: their fucking hearts and pouring in and letting it go

451
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:31,919
Speaker 2: and just having fun. Okay, this sounds real. Okay, yes

452
00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:35,720
Speaker 2: people are. People are opening their hearts and opening their

453
00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:41,920
Speaker 2: and their ass And I'm opening ass for sure, opening ass. Well,

454
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:47,920
Speaker 2: I am not asked. Is closed here closed for repairs? Uh? Yeah,

455
00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:50,160
Speaker 2: but that's what I'm saying. And I'm bringing this back

456
00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:53,320
Speaker 2: to my birthday. Think about all of the money that

457
00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:55,879
Speaker 2: you would have spent this year. Think about all the

458
00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:58,040
Speaker 2: money that you would have spent on the train and

459
00:26:58,440 --> 00:27:01,200
Speaker 2: on maybe you had trips planning, and or the clothes

460
00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:02,840
Speaker 2: that you were gonna buy and the blah blah blah

461
00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:04,479
Speaker 2: blah blah blah blah. Think about all of the money

462
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:06,400
Speaker 2: you would have spent this year. And now, think about

463
00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:10,200
Speaker 2: all the money that you've saved. Right either you're receiving

464
00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:12,520
Speaker 2: unemployment or you're working from home and you're still getting

465
00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:17,040
Speaker 2: like a little check. The money that we're making, we

466
00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:20,199
Speaker 2: can't take us, it would as well leave. And the

467
00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:25,040
Speaker 2: stuff that you do right now. Yeah, you might regret

468
00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:27,119
Speaker 2: some of the mistakes you've made along the way, but

469
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:29,000
Speaker 2: think about all the stuff that you did not do

470
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:31,000
Speaker 2: that you think about, like, damn, I should have went

471
00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:34,479
Speaker 2: to Paris last year, or damn I should have gotten

472
00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:36,680
Speaker 2: some dick from that dude, or you know what I mean.

473
00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:42,480
Speaker 2: Like we we overthink things too much, some of us,

474
00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:46,479
Speaker 2: a lot of us. Most of us. We think about

475
00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:50,000
Speaker 2: what we look like, how others perceive us too much.

476
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:52,520
Speaker 2: You have to do the things for you that you

477
00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:55,719
Speaker 2: need to do for you, because if this pandemic has

478
00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:59,199
Speaker 2: taught me anything it's we are locked in our houses

479
00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:01,680
Speaker 2: by ourselves or with our roommates, but you're in your

480
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:05,120
Speaker 2: own head all day long. You're thinking all day long

481
00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:07,920
Speaker 2: about what you're doing, what your friends are doing, which

482
00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 2: you should be doing how you want, like how you

483
00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:12,760
Speaker 2: should be living your life differently, Like take that trip

484
00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:15,720
Speaker 2: for you, babe. Like do whatever it is that you

485
00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:17,320
Speaker 2: feel like you need to do. If you can afford

486
00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:19,360
Speaker 2: to do it, and it's not hurting anybody, do it.

487
00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:20,880
Speaker 2: Do it.

488
00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:27,080
Speaker 3: But technically traveling might hurt somebody, Yes, but if you

489
00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:28,920
Speaker 3: do it safely and you travel with the people you

490
00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:30,480
Speaker 3: want to be with, then travel with the people you

491
00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:31,920
Speaker 3: want to be with, and then quarantine when.

492
00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:34,239
Speaker 2: You get back. Don't tell me that I can't go

493
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:36,239
Speaker 2: anywhere because it might hurt somebody. Who am I going

494
00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:40,959
Speaker 2: to hurt. I live alone, I live by myself. If

495
00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:43,560
Speaker 2: if i'm if I'm in and out. Yeah, me and

496
00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:45,880
Speaker 2: my plans if but you know these plans, well, this

497
00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:49,680
Speaker 2: one's dying. But yeah, I have to Marie. We also

498
00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 2: need to record some like inser stories for our new

499
00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:56,600
Speaker 2: Patreon thing that we're doing, So I'm doing this little

500
00:28:56,640 --> 00:29:04,920
Speaker 2: video for us. There you go, mm hmmm, yes, yes, yes. Anyway,

501
00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:08,320
Speaker 2: if if you want to do something and you're thinking

502
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:10,880
Speaker 2: about it or there's someone, I mean, don't be crazy.

503
00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:13,640
Speaker 2: Like I'm saying all these things positively, Like if you're

504
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:15,960
Speaker 2: a stalker and I'm saying if you want to do something,

505
00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:17,720
Speaker 2: do it. I'm not saying go out and stalk that

506
00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:20,840
Speaker 2: person that you don't know. And if you're a straight

507
00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:22,920
Speaker 2: man listening to this, if none of this fucking applies

508
00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:26,120
Speaker 2: to that at the end of the day, straight dudes, no,

509
00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:29,480
Speaker 2: straight dudes can do what they want. Only women and

510
00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:36,240
Speaker 2: gays and queers and others. Yeah s, straight man, No,

511
00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:41,360
Speaker 2: no need to apply. No you can you you'll manage you,

512
00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:44,880
Speaker 2: you'll power through. But uh, but even you, like, if

513
00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:47,320
Speaker 2: there's something that you want to do and it's gonna

514
00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:49,320
Speaker 2: make you happy, and no one's gonna get hurt along

515
00:29:49,360 --> 00:29:53,960
Speaker 2: the way. Okay, I'm speaking of a straight man. Cardi

516
00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:58,400
Speaker 2: b is getting a deforce. Yeah, who is surprised. That's it.

517
00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:01,320
Speaker 2: That's the thing. Everybody wants to get married, but nobody

518
00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:04,920
Speaker 2: wants to get divorced. Nobody wants it. People want to

519
00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:06,960
Speaker 2: get there are people who want to get divorced. A

520
00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:09,680
Speaker 2: lot of people during the pandemic. That's the other half

521
00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:12,800
Speaker 2: of this. People who were single or people who were

522
00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:16,080
Speaker 2: like kind of in the beginnings of relationships. It accelerated

523
00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:19,240
Speaker 2: it forward for them. But people who were already in relationships,

524
00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:21,360
Speaker 2: a lot of people are breaking up because that you

525
00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:24,719
Speaker 2: find when you're trapped with that person every day, all

526
00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:28,200
Speaker 2: day with no distractions, that y'all don't actually like each other. Yeah,

527
00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:30,440
Speaker 2: And that's the thing about I will say, living in

528
00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:35,120
Speaker 2: New York, it's like two passing ships in the night,

529
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:40,880
Speaker 2: Like we're so busy. What is like that relationships? Because

530
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:44,080
Speaker 2: either someone works in the day and someone works in

531
00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:46,520
Speaker 2: the night, or people have two jobs and then they

532
00:30:46,560 --> 00:30:49,440
Speaker 2: have things after work and then they're with their friends

533
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:51,920
Speaker 2: and they're somebody else is with their friends. So a

534
00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:54,400
Speaker 2: lot of the times you only really get to see

535
00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:56,840
Speaker 2: or be with the person in the morning or at

536
00:30:56,920 --> 00:31:00,440
Speaker 2: night when we're having sex or whatever. You only have

537
00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:05,400
Speaker 2: occasionally for holidays and whatnot. But a lot of people

538
00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:10,239
Speaker 2: are not spending full on quality time, like back to

539
00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:16,560
Speaker 2: back to back, like days, hours, weeks, months, just uninterrupted

540
00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:21,040
Speaker 2: quality time, right, well, most none of us were. Nobody

541
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:24,440
Speaker 2: was the only people who were spending uninterrupted time together

542
00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:26,920
Speaker 2: is stay at home moms with their brand new babies.

543
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:30,240
Speaker 2: Those are the only people who are uninterrupted time together.

544
00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:34,600
Speaker 2: But when you have a dude or a girl and

545
00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:37,840
Speaker 2: you both have jobs, and you both have hobbies, and

546
00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:39,840
Speaker 2: you have a book club, and when if you was

547
00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:43,720
Speaker 2: taking a dance class at Equinox offbeat and you got

548
00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:46,760
Speaker 2: yoga and you're going on hikes since you know what

549
00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:49,800
Speaker 2: I mean, there's all these distractions. And then even when

550
00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:52,880
Speaker 2: you're with that person, you're going to a movie or

551
00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:56,400
Speaker 2: you're going, you know, to a play or a comedy show,

552
00:31:56,440 --> 00:31:59,280
Speaker 2: so you're not forced to talk to each other. You're

553
00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:04,479
Speaker 2: doing stuff together and that's nice. So but that this

554
00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:06,840
Speaker 2: none of this is applies with Cardi and Offset. He

555
00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:09,400
Speaker 2: was cheating on her the entire three years that they

556
00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:12,280
Speaker 2: hold on her. And that's why she's leaving him, but

557
00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:15,960
Speaker 2: also doesn't he have like six kids in addition to

558
00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:18,400
Speaker 2: the one that he has with her. He's a young

559
00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:22,480
Speaker 2: rich rapper sis he was cheating on you, which is

560
00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:25,600
Speaker 2: why he proposed to you. So like, none of this

561
00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:28,920
Speaker 2: is Shit's not shocking, but it's just like it's so much.

562
00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:35,720
Speaker 2: To divorce is very expensive, very she got money, she's

563
00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:40,320
Speaker 2: securing Bernie Sanders, Joe Biden bags. Now, I'll tell you

564
00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:44,320
Speaker 2: one thing that I I definitely you know, we want

565
00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:48,880
Speaker 2: to do a prenup because that makes sense because at

566
00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:50,959
Speaker 2: the end of the day, I don't want to split

567
00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:56,000
Speaker 2: assets with nobody's. I just don't like I worked. You

568
00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:58,400
Speaker 2: want to leave it what you came in with, whatever

569
00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:00,920
Speaker 2: we made, whatever we made to other. I want all

570
00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:04,480
Speaker 2: of it. So we gotta make this work, bro, you

571
00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:07,600
Speaker 2: gotta make it work on me. Give me my things back,

572
00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:10,360
Speaker 2: all of my We bought a couch together. Now we

573
00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:13,840
Speaker 2: gotta gotta cut her in the couch and the couch

574
00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:16,160
Speaker 2: the money from the fuck out here. I'm not doing

575
00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:19,640
Speaker 2: all that. We're staying together. That's it. Saw the couch in, Yeah,

576
00:33:19,840 --> 00:33:22,160
Speaker 2: that's it. I want it. I want the shape. Every

577
00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:25,560
Speaker 2: time I look up look at things and then say, hey,

578
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:28,360
Speaker 2: if I want to marry somebody, I also have to

579
00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:32,080
Speaker 2: think about do I want to separate from everything that

580
00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:37,040
Speaker 2: we have together? No, the things after your because when

581
00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:40,479
Speaker 2: you move out, you got to get another apartment. I

582
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:44,280
Speaker 2: end up. Yeah. But also, but some stuff holds memories

583
00:33:44,320 --> 00:33:47,160
Speaker 2: that you don't want to remember. So yeah, maybe maybe

584
00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:50,160
Speaker 2: we've had what we've We've spent too many days and

585
00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:53,080
Speaker 2: nights on that couch together. You keep that dusty ass,

586
00:33:53,080 --> 00:33:55,200
Speaker 2: sexy ass velvet couch, you know what I mean? Like

587
00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:59,040
Speaker 2: some things you don't want. Like I was talking to

588
00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:01,120
Speaker 2: this girl she wants on a date with this man,

589
00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:05,240
Speaker 2: went to his house. He had like a full sized

590
00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:11,240
Speaker 2: picture of him and his ex girl painted painted above

591
00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:16,000
Speaker 2: the dining room table. Goodbye the pictures it doesn't yeah,

592
00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:18,480
Speaker 2: but in the pictures, it doesn't look one hundred percent

593
00:34:18,560 --> 00:34:19,880
Speaker 2: like him. So she was looking at it, like, well,

594
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:22,239
Speaker 2: what's the story behind this and he was like oh.

595
00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:26,239
Speaker 2: He was like, it's just a piece that I got commissioned,

596
00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:30,160
Speaker 2: and she was like okay. And then later she saw

597
00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:32,200
Speaker 2: a picture of his ex girlfriend and she was like,

598
00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:34,279
Speaker 2: that looked like the girl in the painting, and he

599
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:37,280
Speaker 2: was like yeah, that's us. And she was like, oh,

600
00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:42,399
Speaker 2: but like giant, probably bigger than this art like that. Right, Yeah,

601
00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:46,319
Speaker 2: that's psychotic and I don't think that's healthy. But you know,

602
00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:49,760
Speaker 2: if you feel like you look good in the painting,

603
00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:52,040
Speaker 2: cut half of the painting up and just like cropp it,

604
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:56,600
Speaker 2: you know, well she didn't want it. She left. She left,

605
00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:58,680
Speaker 2: and he kept the painting up because I guess his

606
00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:01,120
Speaker 2: dumbass paid a lot of money. It was commissioned. Bitch,

607
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:07,080
Speaker 2: Uh it did. But I will say when me and

608
00:35:07,840 --> 00:35:10,080
Speaker 2: you know, Adrian, we we broke up and I had

609
00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:12,120
Speaker 2: to move out. I didn't have anything, like everything was

610
00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:14,680
Speaker 2: in garbage back so thankfully, you know, I didn't have

611
00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:19,200
Speaker 2: much to accumulate in the breakup, but just moving my

612
00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:24,359
Speaker 2: my black bags to another apartment, traumatizing, fucking drunk. First

613
00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:28,359
Speaker 2: of all, moving black bag it's scary because you leave

614
00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:32,120
Speaker 2: those bags on the curve for a minute too long, right,

615
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:39,040
Speaker 2: So yeah, and I'm so lazy that I don't if

616
00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:41,480
Speaker 2: I'm moving in with somebody at this point, it's like

617
00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:46,240
Speaker 2: it's to stay. I'm stay that part friend that the

618
00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:49,359
Speaker 2: dude my boyfriend and I broke up when he asked

619
00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:50,719
Speaker 2: me to move in with him because I was like,

620
00:35:50,840 --> 00:35:53,319
Speaker 2: I'm not because I know I'm moving it right back

621
00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:56,279
Speaker 2: out and you don't have a number an elevator, I'm

622
00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:59,840
Speaker 2: not doing this twice and we were and it was

623
00:35:59,880 --> 00:36:03,959
Speaker 2: like few, imagine if I had said yes just because

624
00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:07,480
Speaker 2: I was trying to be a quote unquote good girlfriend.

625
00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:11,840
Speaker 2: A good girlfriend breaks up with you, Okay, that's the

626
00:36:11,920 --> 00:36:16,160
Speaker 2: moral to the story here. A good girlfriend will leave you.

627
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:20,520
Speaker 2: If she stays with you, she's trash. Yeah, I mean

628
00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 2: that's another thing. You guys, at this point, stop wasting

629
00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:27,960
Speaker 2: motherfucker's time. Stop doing it like you know if you

630
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 2: like somebody or not. At this point, you just know

631
00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:34,319
Speaker 2: we've spent so much time with ourselves. You should know

632
00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:36,560
Speaker 2: what the hell you want now. If you're over thirty,

633
00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:38,880
Speaker 2: you should know what you want and a partner. You

634
00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:41,640
Speaker 2: might not know yourself that well, but you should know

635
00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:45,640
Speaker 2: who you want opposite of you for the long run.

636
00:36:46,880 --> 00:36:47,520
Speaker 1: Mmmmmm.

637
00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:50,280
Speaker 2: I mean, even if you don't know what you want,

638
00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:53,560
Speaker 2: you know what you yes, and you know what you

639
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:57,919
Speaker 2: don't need. You know you don't need a Laurence from

640
00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:02,560
Speaker 2: Insecure season one? Okay, I mean, what's what season? Did

641
00:37:02,560 --> 00:37:04,799
Speaker 2: we just end? Four? Yeah? You don't need. You don't

642
00:37:04,800 --> 00:37:07,120
Speaker 2: need a season four Lawrence either because he was probmatic,

643
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:11,240
Speaker 2: but maybe a season three You know, you need somebody,

644
00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:15,520
Speaker 2: you know what works with you. You know, uh, what

645
00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:17,640
Speaker 2: kind of person is gonna uplift you. You know you

646
00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:20,520
Speaker 2: don't want to be with a bum, So those things.

647
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 2: I mean. The thing is is that I just have

648
00:37:25,719 --> 00:37:31,120
Speaker 2: a very skewed opinion about men overall because oh, no way,

649
00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:34,640
Speaker 2: the lesbian has a skewed But it's also because I've

650
00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:37,839
Speaker 2: been in relationships with them back to back to back

651
00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:42,359
Speaker 2: to back. Okay, yes, but they were all trash, no, no, no,

652
00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:44,319
Speaker 2: I had I had a good guy. I had one

653
00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:49,440
Speaker 2: good guy or two, and but I just being with women,

654
00:37:49,920 --> 00:37:55,759
Speaker 2: we are we lock quickly because if we feel passionate

655
00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:59,120
Speaker 2: about something, then it's we're all in and we don't

656
00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:02,719
Speaker 2: really look back. And yes, you might be like this

657
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:05,759
Speaker 2: is a little hasty, but at least you're like, I'm

658
00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:07,960
Speaker 2: taking a chance, and if it doesn't work out, we

659
00:38:08,040 --> 00:38:11,839
Speaker 2: move the fuck on. We keep it going. And I

660
00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:15,920
Speaker 2: think that's the problem with waiting around or wasting someone

661
00:38:15,960 --> 00:38:19,560
Speaker 2: else's time. After a couple of years go by, you

662
00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:24,320
Speaker 2: can't get that time back. A couple years. Oh babe,

663
00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:27,439
Speaker 2: I'm not wasting years of my life. But some people are.

664
00:38:28,160 --> 00:38:29,840
Speaker 2: Some people are because you get into a relationship with

665
00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:32,760
Speaker 2: somebody that you like them, but you don't like everything

666
00:38:32,800 --> 00:38:34,759
Speaker 2: about them. You think, oh, I can change this, or

667
00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:36,960
Speaker 2: I can overlook that, or I can tweak that or

668
00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:41,360
Speaker 2: or that'll change eventually, and it doesn't. It usually doesn't

669
00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:44,080
Speaker 2: because these men they don't do what they want to do,

670
00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:45,480
Speaker 2: and some of these women are a still going to

671
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:48,000
Speaker 2: get They waste some people's time. Women are wasting people time, right,

672
00:38:48,040 --> 00:38:50,560
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie on that right. Wasting sure, one

673
00:38:50,600 --> 00:38:55,280
Speaker 2: hundred percent. But yeah, people stay. And then other times

674
00:38:55,280 --> 00:38:57,759
Speaker 2: people stay because they don't have anywhere else to go.

675
00:38:58,080 --> 00:39:00,640
Speaker 2: They don't have the funds to be in an apartment themselves.

676
00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:03,000
Speaker 2: Maybe they got some kids, you know what I mean,

677
00:39:03,040 --> 00:39:05,560
Speaker 2: They don't really they don't know where to go or

678
00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:08,000
Speaker 2: what to do. And then other people say because they're like, well,

679
00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:10,279
Speaker 2: I put all this time in, so I'm I'm gonna

680
00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:13,040
Speaker 2: reap my benefits, and it's like you should probably just leave.

681
00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:15,080
Speaker 2: Sometimes you just gotta cut your losses and go, cut

682
00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:21,920
Speaker 2: your losses and go, because that I do I have,

683
00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:26,320
Speaker 2: I have regrets in terms of, you know, my last relationship,

684
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:28,360
Speaker 2: because I'm like, damn, I knew I wasn't in a

685
00:39:28,400 --> 00:39:32,120
Speaker 2: good place. I was in a really awful place. And

686
00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:35,640
Speaker 2: we probably could have ended it a little bit earlier

687
00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:40,160
Speaker 2: than what we did, because I knew I wasn't getting better,

688
00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:44,319
Speaker 2: and I also was I also was worried. I was like,

689
00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:49,720
Speaker 2: I became codependent and I can't do anything without this person,

690
00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:54,319
Speaker 2: or you know, I'm a failure. And I took that

691
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:56,480
Speaker 2: risk and it was like, Okay, it just so happened

692
00:39:56,520 --> 00:39:58,680
Speaker 2: that Carolina was like, hey, you can move into this

693
00:39:58,719 --> 00:40:01,480
Speaker 2: apartment blah blah blah. And I moved in and I

694
00:40:01,480 --> 00:40:04,160
Speaker 2: got roommate, and I was nervous because I was like, Okay,

695
00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:06,160
Speaker 2: I can pay this rent, but like, what if something

696
00:40:06,200 --> 00:40:08,120
Speaker 2: happens with this roommate, will I be able to afford it?

697
00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:11,719
Speaker 2: And then look what happened, Like I just have to

698
00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:16,120
Speaker 2: put in good faith sys that what's supposed to happen

699
00:40:16,160 --> 00:40:19,600
Speaker 2: for me will happen, and the things are not gonna

700
00:40:19,600 --> 00:40:23,319
Speaker 2: happen if you're too scared to actually make the move, well,

701
00:40:23,320 --> 00:40:25,640
Speaker 2: if you don't ever move forward, nothing's ever going to

702
00:40:25,719 --> 00:40:28,000
Speaker 2: move forward. You always going to be in the same

703
00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:32,600
Speaker 2: exact place, And I think that's something that people need

704
00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:35,880
Speaker 2: to realize that, like, even if you don't move, the

705
00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:39,560
Speaker 2: world is gonna continue around you. Right, Like, we've been

706
00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:46,640
Speaker 2: literally in a state of pause since March. And I

707
00:40:46,680 --> 00:40:48,439
Speaker 2: was talking to somebody the other day and they were like, yeah,

708
00:40:48,440 --> 00:40:53,360
Speaker 2: I did that back in August, and I was like, August, August.

709
00:40:54,280 --> 00:40:58,480
Speaker 2: When did August get here? Yeah, it's like every day

710
00:40:58,520 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 2: feels it still feels like it could be March still,

711
00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:04,040
Speaker 2: the way that the weather feels right now. So the

712
00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:06,960
Speaker 2: world is going to continue around you, and you have

713
00:41:07,040 --> 00:41:09,440
Speaker 2: to You do have to take that chance, which brings

714
00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:12,160
Speaker 2: me back to my birthday. You gotta go on that trip, babe,

715
00:41:12,200 --> 00:41:14,680
Speaker 2: you take That's the title of that You gotta go

716
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:17,959
Speaker 2: on that trip. Baby. You gotta go on that trip, babe. Yeah,

717
00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:20,799
Speaker 2: that's that's the name of the episode. Just do it.

718
00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:29,560
Speaker 2: Do the hashtag, Just do it hash. The podcast is Hey,

719
00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:35,759
Speaker 2: Nike single, not a shirt you much, not a not

720
00:41:35,840 --> 00:41:39,279
Speaker 2: a draw string duffel bag, nake crazy. But Beyonce sent

721
00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:43,400
Speaker 2: me something anyway. Beyonce said, you something just trying to

722
00:41:43,520 --> 00:41:44,960
Speaker 2: I was just trying to go to box. You had

723
00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:47,759
Speaker 2: to just trying to make Nike jealous. But you had

724
00:41:47,800 --> 00:41:51,439
Speaker 2: a tiny box. I mean, I'll take an Adida's box.

725
00:41:51,480 --> 00:41:54,640
Speaker 2: I'll take a Puma box. You know. I don't know

726
00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:56,120
Speaker 2: if I'll take a new Balance, but I'll take a

727
00:41:56,120 --> 00:41:59,959
Speaker 2: new Balance box. What am I saying? I'm not gonna

728
00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:03,600
Speaker 2: take a sketcher's box. That is a hard no, thank you.

729
00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:07,040
Speaker 2: I will take a sketcher's check, So I guess I'll

730
00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:10,000
Speaker 2: think the box, Jude Marie. The way we went on

731
00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:14,160
Speaker 2: that roller coaster with you, Jeez, what a journey, Sidney.

732
00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:17,239
Speaker 2: If Sketchers offered you one hundred thousand dollars to be

733
00:42:17,360 --> 00:42:24,160
Speaker 2: a spokesperson for a year, you wouldn't do it. Oh,

734
00:42:24,200 --> 00:42:25,640
Speaker 2: the way that you're thinking about it. You have a

735
00:42:25,800 --> 00:42:31,000
Speaker 2: spare hundred thousands your house right now. I would say yes.

736
00:42:31,320 --> 00:42:34,160
Speaker 2: But if we weren't in the pandemic, I would say no,

737
00:42:34,239 --> 00:42:38,080
Speaker 2: because I'm I'm It's not that I don't love Sketchers.

738
00:42:38,160 --> 00:42:41,839
Speaker 2: I do. I just that's all I'm gonna say. That's it.

739
00:42:43,480 --> 00:42:46,600
Speaker 2: If we were not in the pandemic, you wouldn't take

740
00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:50,319
Speaker 2: the hundred things I would take. It's fine. The way

741
00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:52,600
Speaker 2: that you're lying to the listeners, on the first week

742
00:42:52,640 --> 00:42:56,319
Speaker 2: back from the tie. I think Sydney says that we

743
00:42:56,320 --> 00:42:57,920
Speaker 2: need to take another hiatus. This is going to be

744
00:42:57,920 --> 00:43:04,400
Speaker 2: the last episode for the time a friend. It's so

745
00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:10,919
Speaker 2: many of us have them friends. Okay, so we did

746
00:43:11,640 --> 00:43:14,960
Speaker 2: Caroly in his wedding, We did your birthday. Yes, we

747
00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:18,360
Speaker 2: did the we did a Cardian with his face Guardian,

748
00:43:18,440 --> 00:43:23,120
Speaker 2: what's it we did that? Yeah, California is on fire.

749
00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:25,719
Speaker 2: We didn't talk about that, but we'll talk about it

750
00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:29,640
Speaker 2: just a little bit. It's on fire and global warming

751
00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:32,880
Speaker 2: is a thing and it's for real, and I just

752
00:43:32,880 --> 00:43:35,600
Speaker 2: want to put that out there, guys, like the world

753
00:43:35,680 --> 00:43:40,319
Speaker 2: is on fire. We're not doing well. No, we're not

754
00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:42,640
Speaker 2: doing well, but I think it's it's gonna get better.

755
00:43:43,040 --> 00:43:45,440
Speaker 2: But again, is it like wet. I think it might

756
00:43:45,480 --> 00:43:48,680
Speaker 2: get worse before it gets better, honestly, because I think

757
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:51,839
Speaker 2: businesses are going to continue to shut down and we're

758
00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:54,480
Speaker 2: gonna finally come outside and it's gonna be all these

759
00:43:54,520 --> 00:43:58,480
Speaker 2: abandoned businesses and storefronts, and it's gonna be real, uh

760
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:02,239
Speaker 2: like the Apocalypse just that and yeah, it's gonna be

761
00:44:02,239 --> 00:44:04,480
Speaker 2: like a movie. It's gonna be real. I am legend

762
00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:07,080
Speaker 2: because these places are gonna be closed, and new businesses

763
00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:10,280
Speaker 2: aren't gonna pop up right away. They don't have any money.

764
00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:13,319
Speaker 2: They gotta raise capital to put something new there. You know,

765
00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:17,840
Speaker 2: I mean all of Modell's shut down. Remember Modells gotta

766
00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:22,600
Speaker 2: go to no that's most gotta go to mos god

767
00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:29,600
Speaker 2: Rip gotta go to Moos. Come o, friend, this is

768
00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:33,719
Speaker 2: this is what I'm gonna say. Mmm. We need to

769
00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:39,799
Speaker 2: stop wasting money. We need to stop taking life. We

770
00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:43,040
Speaker 2: need to take life seriously but also have fun. We

771
00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:47,319
Speaker 2: need to get into stocks and bonds. We need to

772
00:44:47,320 --> 00:44:50,720
Speaker 2: build a family together. And that's why I'm going to say,

773
00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:54,239
Speaker 2: will you marry me? Over the zoom, Marie, I have

774
00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:56,080
Speaker 2: a ring for you. What is that? Is that? A

775
00:44:56,120 --> 00:44:56,800
Speaker 2: bread tie?

776
00:44:57,440 --> 00:45:03,240
Speaker 1: A bread twist tie. Absolutely proposed it to your Marie.

777
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:05,719
Speaker 1: We just needed to know I don't do it. Come on,

778
00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:08,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say the opposite. I'm gonna say the opposite.

779
00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:12,720
Speaker 1: I just said, I say we need to start spending money. Okay,

780
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:19,280
Speaker 1: because I famously cheap and Sydney famously frivolous with money,

781
00:45:19,480 --> 00:45:21,080
Speaker 1: I'll say, spend the money.

782
00:45:21,400 --> 00:45:24,799
Speaker 2: You can't take it with you when you leave. You

783
00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:28,879
Speaker 2: will make more money now you should definitely be saving.

784
00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:31,960
Speaker 2: You should have a savings account, and yes, join robin Hood.

785
00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:35,360
Speaker 2: I joined them earlier this year. Gone got stocks. Now

786
00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:37,799
Speaker 2: you know I'm making a little bit of money. Let

787
00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:41,040
Speaker 2: me see how much money I made today. I mean

788
00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:43,680
Speaker 2: last week I was losing money and I was like,

789
00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:49,840
Speaker 2: I'm too tired too, I'm too tired to figure this out. Okay,

790
00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:53,560
Speaker 2: so today I've lost sixty dollars. So I'm not making

791
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:58,000
Speaker 2: any money right now. But I made money yesterday. But

792
00:45:58,120 --> 00:46:03,440
Speaker 2: whatever I say, spend the money, Splurge on things, do

793
00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:06,239
Speaker 2: things for you that make you feel good. Self care.

794
00:46:06,320 --> 00:46:08,799
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna shout words that I think you guys

795
00:46:08,800 --> 00:46:13,280
Speaker 2: will like self self care. Call a friend or text

796
00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:14,800
Speaker 2: a friend that you haven't spoken to in a while,

797
00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:18,160
Speaker 2: Call your mom, pick your phone up and call your

798
00:46:18,560 --> 00:46:20,279
Speaker 2: call your aunt who you haven't spoke to but you

799
00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:23,960
Speaker 2: say is your favorite aunt. Do those things right and

800
00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:26,759
Speaker 2: then you'll feel good about yourself. And if you don't

801
00:46:26,760 --> 00:46:30,600
Speaker 2: feel good about yourself, call a therapist. I have a

802
00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:35,880
Speaker 2: call with a therapist scheduled for September twenty serious because

803
00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:38,360
Speaker 2: the Monday after this goes out. Yeah, just like a

804
00:46:38,400 --> 00:46:42,560
Speaker 2: preliminary call, you know, just to see like, yes, you

805
00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:45,120
Speaker 2: could do something for me. I'm proud of you, Marie.

806
00:46:46,600 --> 00:46:48,719
Speaker 2: I mean I am also proud of me. But I

807
00:46:48,760 --> 00:46:52,320
Speaker 2: think that I think all black people need therapy period

808
00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:55,239
Speaker 2: hard stop. But now I think everybody needs therapy after

809
00:46:55,280 --> 00:46:58,120
Speaker 2: what we've gone through this year. So I think just

810
00:46:58,239 --> 00:47:00,759
Speaker 2: go call the one time or make the call that

811
00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:02,879
Speaker 2: one time, and then see how you you never know,

812
00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:06,080
Speaker 2: You never fucking know, and you don't know something. Your

813
00:47:06,120 --> 00:47:09,359
Speaker 2: friend is in therapy, huh, and you never know it's

814
00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:12,480
Speaker 2: if it's working until like a month after you have

815
00:47:12,520 --> 00:47:17,920
Speaker 2: to do it for at least a month. I just

816
00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:23,880
Speaker 2: our friend is in therapy and she's so clearheaded and happy,

817
00:47:23,920 --> 00:47:27,880
Speaker 2: and I just want to be there. I want to

818
00:47:27,920 --> 00:47:30,759
Speaker 2: be clear here so that I can create and I

819
00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:33,719
Speaker 2: can do work, and I can perform to the best

820
00:47:33,719 --> 00:47:37,040
Speaker 2: of my ability, and I can see things because sometimes

821
00:47:37,080 --> 00:47:40,240
Speaker 2: you have to say what is in your head to

822
00:47:40,280 --> 00:47:43,319
Speaker 2: see it. And you know, I guess I'll talk to

823
00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:46,120
Speaker 2: a white woman on the phone for fifteen minutes to

824
00:47:46,160 --> 00:47:52,640
Speaker 2: see things clearly. I let her fix my life. You know,

825
00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:57,160
Speaker 2: I wanted a black therapist. But you know, if I'm

826
00:47:57,200 --> 00:47:59,080
Speaker 2: sad and you said and it's just us on the

827
00:47:59,080 --> 00:48:03,120
Speaker 2: phone like ys sis sis. Also we both say were

828
00:48:03,160 --> 00:48:05,840
Speaker 2: eating on the call. It's I don't want that. Yeah,

829
00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:08,160
Speaker 2: I don't want that for me. You truly don't need that.

830
00:48:08,960 --> 00:48:10,920
Speaker 2: We just don't know. And also I don't have to

831
00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:13,680
Speaker 2: see I don't know if she does these calls over

832
00:48:13,840 --> 00:48:16,360
Speaker 2: zoom or it's on the phone. But I don't have

833
00:48:16,400 --> 00:48:17,880
Speaker 2: to see her shoes. I don't have to see if

834
00:48:17,920 --> 00:48:22,520
Speaker 2: she's wearing tomes or sketchers or clerks or uggs sandals,

835
00:48:22,560 --> 00:48:25,640
Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Yeah, I mean the FaceTime

836
00:48:25,760 --> 00:48:28,040
Speaker 2: situation is cool, and you could tell, you could see

837
00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:31,399
Speaker 2: if they're low key paying attention, and it's just you're

838
00:48:31,480 --> 00:48:36,680
Speaker 2: you're talking so you don't have to talk to a

839
00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:40,560
Speaker 2: friend that you feel like, Damn, am I a broken record?

840
00:48:41,360 --> 00:48:46,920
Speaker 2: Am I ruining this this friendship? Because I keep talking

841
00:48:46,960 --> 00:48:51,919
Speaker 2: about it and you're paying someone to listen, and they're

842
00:48:51,920 --> 00:48:53,879
Speaker 2: not going to tell you the exact things you need

843
00:48:53,920 --> 00:48:56,879
Speaker 2: to do, but they're going to ask the right questions

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Speaker 2: to lead you in the direction you need to be, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: or they're going to ask you the right questions for

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00:49:03,080 --> 00:49:06,920
Speaker 2: you to think about things differently. Because sometimes we only

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00:49:07,000 --> 00:49:10,440
Speaker 2: can see something one way until somebody's like, well, why

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Speaker 2: would you do that? Why wouldn't you do it? Wouldn't

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Speaker 2: it be easy to do it this way? And then

850
00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:17,080
Speaker 2: you you're like, oh snah, that's a completely different perspective.

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00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:19,759
Speaker 2: And for me, I think that's what therapy will be

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00:49:19,920 --> 00:49:23,480
Speaker 2: is a completely different perspective. Also, I mean, I don't

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00:49:23,480 --> 00:49:24,800
Speaker 2: know how much it costs, so I'm not going to

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00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:27,160
Speaker 2: say that I'm in therapy on I'm taking a call.

855
00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:32,239
Speaker 2: Just know that it's in the works, work in progress, bitch,

856
00:49:32,320 --> 00:49:35,440
Speaker 2: and we support you well. And then I also just

857
00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:39,040
Speaker 2: say spend the money. So I should just spend the money.

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Speaker 2: It depends on how much money. It depends on how

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Speaker 2: much the money is spending the night. Thank you? Uh well,

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00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:48,919
Speaker 2: Sydney cannot wait to be in Mexican. I cannot wait.

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00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:51,640
Speaker 2: We've been through so much friend, and I wouldn't want

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00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:54,759
Speaker 2: to do it with anybody else. Also, we had a

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00:49:54,800 --> 00:49:58,040
Speaker 2: million trips planned this year and none of them happened.

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Speaker 2: So let's just do this one and see what hip

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Speaker 2: go on. To take the trip. Hey, we're doing the

866
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Speaker 2: trip and then marry me mm hmmm. Or if someone

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Speaker 2: offered you a million dollars to marry me, would you

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Speaker 2: a million dollars to marry you and I had to

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Speaker 2: split my money with you. They would just offer you

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Speaker 2: a million dollars to marry me on pay let me,

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Speaker 2: let me get down on my knees. Yes, I'd marry

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Speaker 2: you for a million dollars, and I would give you

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Speaker 2: a little bit of a money. I'll give you a

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Speaker 2: little bit. I'll give you a couple bucks. Feels good

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Speaker 2: to hear that out loud. I would buy you a

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Speaker 2: year's supply of sketchs xo xo. Okay, so we did this.

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Speaker 2: This was the episode. You know, we're gonna do some

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Speaker 2: Patreon episodes too, so you guys can get up our

879
00:50:53,160 --> 00:50:57,040
Speaker 2: next and Max and you know, if you haven't gone

880
00:50:57,080 --> 00:51:01,840
Speaker 2: on the Patreon yet and supported us, you should because

881
00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:05,200
Speaker 2: we do have some juicy stuff on there and you

882
00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:08,000
Speaker 2: can connect the dots and then figure out what gossip

883
00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:10,759
Speaker 2: you want to know about me because Marine doesn't do

884
00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:15,200
Speaker 2: that anymore, not anything. So, yeah, this has been fantastic.

885
00:51:15,480 --> 00:51:19,799
Speaker 2: You know, rate comic subscribe all those good things. Do

886
00:51:19,960 --> 00:51:24,279
Speaker 2: that for us, Yes, I love this. Yeah, do those

887
00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:27,160
Speaker 2: things and take care of yourself, spend the money that

888
00:51:27,200 --> 00:51:29,959
Speaker 2: you want to spend or or don't or spend somebody

889
00:51:29,960 --> 00:51:32,560
Speaker 2: else's money. But if it makes you happy, do it

890
00:51:32,600 --> 00:51:35,560
Speaker 2: this week. Do one thing that makes you actually happy

891
00:51:35,640 --> 00:51:38,720
Speaker 2: this week. And if it's your birthday this month, happy birthday.

892
00:51:38,719 --> 00:51:41,920
Speaker 2: But also I want everybody to scream and yell and

893
00:51:42,000 --> 00:51:46,680
Speaker 2: shout from the mountaintops, Happy birthday to a marine. Make

894
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Speaker 2: sure you put yes. But this episode is four days.

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Speaker 2: That's fine birthday. I want people to still be putting

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Speaker 2: up Happy birthday days after your birthday, because you deserve

897
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Speaker 2: a friend. I do. I do deserve. I'm on zoole anyway,

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Speaker 2: Thanks guys, Bye Forever Dog.

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