WEBVTT - Say Yes To The Ex: Podcast Problems 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:01.960 Hey, no such thing as a Sunday scaries. When you 0:00:02.000 --> 0:00:04.960 got a new podcast. Yes, Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey 0:00:05.000 --> 0:00:07.160 in the Morning. You found the Second Date Update podcast 0:00:07.240 --> 0:00:09.719 And every Sunday we do a little something special than 0:00:09.760 --> 0:00:10.559 we do on the show. 0:00:10.760 --> 0:00:13.520 This time it's a brand new Say Yes to the X. 0:00:14.240 --> 0:00:16.599 And we do already have some comments because it was 0:00:16.680 --> 0:00:17.759 up on YouTube already. 0:00:17.840 --> 0:00:19.320 What are people saying about this episode? 0:00:19.400 --> 0:00:23.040 Someone named Rooster said, not everyone should be able to 0:00:23.040 --> 0:00:27.840 buy a mic Okay, this is about say Yes to 0:00:27.880 --> 0:00:28.160 the X. 0:00:28.280 --> 0:00:30.440 That should be you should have to pass some sort 0:00:30.440 --> 0:00:32.200 of test to be able to own a microphon. 0:00:32.280 --> 0:00:34.240 Yeah, yeah, you're gonna understand why. 0:00:34.080 --> 0:00:36.279 They said that, starting right now with your brand new 0:00:36.320 --> 0:00:38.479 Say Yes to the X here with Brook and Jeffrey 0:00:38.479 --> 0:00:38.920 in the Morning. 0:00:39.800 --> 0:00:42.919 Everyone knows when it comes to relationships, the biggest fights 0:00:43.040 --> 0:00:46.400 always start over the dumbest, most trivial things. 0:00:46.680 --> 0:00:47.760 That is so true. 0:00:48.000 --> 0:00:50.560 Brooks told us that her marriage almost ended four different 0:00:50.600 --> 0:00:53.199 times over how to properly load the dishwasher. 0:00:54.200 --> 0:00:56.960 No, I told there, ye can figure it out. I 0:00:57.000 --> 0:00:59.320 mean he like, why would you put the bulls like that? 0:01:00.200 --> 0:01:01.000 Just don't understand. 0:01:01.080 --> 0:01:03.920 Okay, he's not here, right now buy you can have 0:01:03.960 --> 0:01:06.440 that fight later when you go home. But naturally, that's 0:01:06.440 --> 0:01:08.800 why one of our listeners has reached out. He got 0:01:08.880 --> 0:01:12.759 dumped months ago by his ex girlfriend during an argument 0:01:13.120 --> 0:01:18.560 about toenails. Not only has he changed his way since then, 0:01:18.720 --> 0:01:22.040 he's brought receipts to prove it, hoping he can get 0:01:22.200 --> 0:01:25.039 one more chance with her. We'll see if it works out. 0:01:25.040 --> 0:01:27.679 In a brand new Say Yes to the X. Right 0:01:27.720 --> 0:01:31.360 after this, it's Brooken Jeffrey in the morning back with 0:01:31.400 --> 0:01:34.760 a brand new edition of Say Yes to the X. 0:01:34.840 --> 0:01:38.600 Oh Yeah, if you haven't heard it before, it's where 0:01:38.640 --> 0:01:42.840 we try to connect two mostly sane people who've been 0:01:42.880 --> 0:01:46.080 broken up with each other for whatever reason, and one 0:01:46.120 --> 0:01:47.880 of them wants another chance. 0:01:48.360 --> 0:01:48.880 Yeah. 0:01:48.920 --> 0:01:51.840 And it's interesting because in the past week we've received 0:01:51.960 --> 0:01:55.240 a lot of submissions from people who want to reconnect 0:01:55.280 --> 0:01:56.160 with an old flame. 0:01:56.520 --> 0:01:58.680 Is like the season for it, or something's going. 0:01:58.560 --> 0:02:01.840 On out of the any of us, any of our exes. 0:02:01.920 --> 0:02:04.240 Jeff thank you for bringing this up, because Brooke, I 0:02:04.280 --> 0:02:07.360 wanted to say this directly to you. Yeah, God, please 0:02:07.680 --> 0:02:13.040 stop submitting. We have received fourteen different email requests from 0:02:13.120 --> 0:02:17.840 Brook with different guys on each one, and well, we 0:02:17.919 --> 0:02:20.720 appreciate you not only being a host but also a 0:02:20.800 --> 0:02:23.960 listener to the show. We're gonna ask you to pause 0:02:24.040 --> 0:02:27.480 your thirst, try to quench it for a little bit, 0:02:27.880 --> 0:02:31.160 and maybe help out someone else who's not working on 0:02:31.240 --> 0:02:31.640 this show. 0:02:31.760 --> 0:02:35.960 Family Jeffrey A. I am happily married and b. 0:02:36.480 --> 0:02:39.000 And why do you puay air quotes up every time? 0:02:39.040 --> 0:02:42.680 I have way more than fourteen exes that never would 0:02:42.680 --> 0:02:43.840 be vastly hot. 0:02:43.960 --> 0:02:49.280 But only fourteen that you really pined for. Still Anyway, 0:02:49.320 --> 0:02:52.959 I'm sure we could discuss your dating history for years 0:02:53.000 --> 0:02:55.799 and years on this show, but let's try and help 0:02:55.840 --> 0:02:58.200 out somebody who needs our help right now. His name 0:02:58.280 --> 0:03:01.160 is Gavin. Thanks for being here, dude, tell us about 0:03:01.200 --> 0:03:03.160 this X that you want to reconnect with. 0:03:03.800 --> 0:03:06.320 Yeah, Phil Michelle, we dated for a little while, a 0:03:06.360 --> 0:03:08.520 few months, I guess. Then it was going really well. 0:03:08.680 --> 0:03:09.639 I was super into her. 0:03:09.840 --> 0:03:10.760 Yeah, first few. 0:03:10.639 --> 0:03:12.880 Months normally go really well, right, you would hope, Yeah, 0:03:13.440 --> 0:03:15.920 starts off bad, then it's usually a red flag. 0:03:16.080 --> 0:03:17.400 Why did you guys break up? 0:03:17.840 --> 0:03:20.280 Okay, So I've been doing this podcast where I would 0:03:20.600 --> 0:03:23.040 tell personal stories from my life. 0:03:23.560 --> 0:03:26.640 You were the host. You were telling your own stuff 0:03:26.760 --> 0:03:27.600 on the podcast. 0:03:27.639 --> 0:03:28.639 You're our competition. 0:03:30.480 --> 0:03:31.720 Oh no, no, not at all. 0:03:31.800 --> 0:03:34.120 So people think this is so simple, but it gets 0:03:34.200 --> 0:03:35.119 messy real quick. 0:03:35.120 --> 0:03:37.200 Wait a minute, is this Gavin from Gavin and Gavin 0:03:37.240 --> 0:03:39.720 in the Morning. 0:03:40.320 --> 0:03:42.560 So what you told stories about your own life on 0:03:42.600 --> 0:03:43.280 this podcast? 0:03:43.800 --> 0:03:46.240 Yeah, it would just be, you know, embarrassing stories from 0:03:46.240 --> 0:03:48.400 my life or if I had a crazy night out 0:03:48.400 --> 0:03:49.160 with my buddies. 0:03:49.400 --> 0:03:50.320 Yeah. 0:03:50.360 --> 0:03:52.400 But then part of it was telling stories about my 0:03:52.480 --> 0:03:53.080 dating life. 0:03:53.440 --> 0:03:54.200 Yeah, and so. 0:03:54.240 --> 0:03:56.600 That would include details about like my new girlfriend. 0:03:56.840 --> 0:04:01.880 Yeah, okay, yeah, because they're not I'll say I've done 0:04:01.920 --> 0:04:05.400 this for decades now, shared my own personal life, and 0:04:05.440 --> 0:04:07.280 like the rule that I always try to follow is 0:04:07.280 --> 0:04:10.559 I always try to tell my own story, not somebody else's, 0:04:10.960 --> 0:04:12.960 and I always try to make myself look. 0:04:12.840 --> 0:04:16.320 The worst, which was super easy for you. 0:04:18.360 --> 0:04:23.080 It's same to make funny right hate me in the beginning. 0:04:23.120 --> 0:04:24.680 I messed up all the time too. I heard some 0:04:24.760 --> 0:04:26.880 people's feelings. I'm guessing that's what happened to you. 0:04:27.560 --> 0:04:30.920 Yeah, So anytime somebody did something strange or out of pocket, 0:04:31.440 --> 0:04:33.280 we just talk about like is this weird? Is it 0:04:33.320 --> 0:04:35.039 a red flag? Like I did it with all the 0:04:35.040 --> 0:04:35.920 girls I had dated. 0:04:35.960 --> 0:04:38.799 It wasn't doesn't make it okay with Michelle though, what 0:04:38.839 --> 0:04:39.120 was she? 0:04:39.360 --> 0:04:41.960 Was she on the podcast talking about it with you 0:04:42.279 --> 0:04:44.680 or was it just you talking about it by yourself? 0:04:45.000 --> 0:04:46.520 No, she was not, a guess, it was just me 0:04:46.680 --> 0:04:47.440 talking about it. 0:04:47.480 --> 0:04:51.200 Okay, Okay, what incident did you share that upset her? 0:04:51.720 --> 0:04:52.520 Let's share it again? 0:04:52.640 --> 0:04:57.120 Huh. At least we know beforehand this is not the 0:04:57.200 --> 0:04:59.719 okay story. It's not his current girlfriend, so he's allowed 0:04:59.720 --> 0:05:01.680 to talk. It's not yet. 0:05:02.040 --> 0:05:04.320 I don't even remember the specific details. But it was 0:05:04.360 --> 0:05:06.480 like there was one time where she threw a tantrum. 0:05:06.600 --> 0:05:08.719 It was like about where we clipped our toenail. 0:05:09.040 --> 0:05:12.279 Oh yeah, like what room you clipped them? You do 0:05:12.320 --> 0:05:15.000 it in a gross place, that's a reason. Yeah, the 0:05:15.040 --> 0:05:17.640 only answer is the bathroom. Everywhere else kind of gross outside. 0:05:17.640 --> 0:05:19.480 Maybe that's not like I was doing it like at 0:05:19.520 --> 0:05:23.039 the dinner table or or anything on her bed pillow 0:05:23.200 --> 0:05:24.440 or anything like that. 0:05:24.720 --> 0:05:27.880 Okay, So wait, when you're telling this story on the podcast, 0:05:27.920 --> 0:05:30.320 I'm guessing you're not making fun of yourself. You're telling 0:05:30.600 --> 0:05:32.839 it about how she's getting upset for no reason. 0:05:33.320 --> 0:05:36.799 I guess I'm realizing more and also from y'all's reactions 0:05:36.880 --> 0:05:39.480 that it's it's people are kind of sensitive about it 0:05:39.520 --> 0:05:40.679 more than I think about. 0:05:40.800 --> 0:05:41.440 I got your back. 0:05:42.000 --> 0:05:44.000 I chew my fingernails all the time and I put 0:05:44.000 --> 0:05:45.480 them in a little pile in front of me, and 0:05:45.520 --> 0:05:47.320 every once in a while I forget to throw them 0:05:47.320 --> 0:05:48.239 away after the break. 0:05:48.320 --> 0:05:49.320 I can see why that's gross. 0:05:49.320 --> 0:05:50.280 I mean, that doesn't matter. 0:05:50.320 --> 0:05:52.680 It's that you're talking about it the podcast, right, Like, 0:05:52.800 --> 0:05:54.160 what's what's her response? 0:05:54.240 --> 0:05:57.080 Well? How first of all, if she wasn't on the podcast, 0:05:57.160 --> 0:05:59.120 how did she learn about it? 0:05:59.200 --> 0:06:02.120 Like? Did you tell her about it? 0:06:02.160 --> 0:06:03.719 There's a lot of stuff that I don't tell people 0:06:03.720 --> 0:06:04.280 that I dated. 0:06:04.360 --> 0:06:06.520 You have a full show, and you wouldn't tell the 0:06:06.560 --> 0:06:07.440 person you're dating. 0:06:07.600 --> 0:06:10.400 Never Are you kidding? This is so embarrassing. 0:06:10.680 --> 0:06:12.440 She knew about the podcast, right. 0:06:12.560 --> 0:06:14.279 Yeah, she knew about the podcast, but she didn't like 0:06:14.279 --> 0:06:15.680 listen to it all the time. But one of her 0:06:15.720 --> 0:06:19.920 friends founded and forwarded the audio that yeah, oh god. 0:06:19.800 --> 0:06:22.360 Does that means somebody else is upset about it for her? 0:06:22.480 --> 0:06:26.240 And she wasn't thrilled that you were talking about her. 0:06:26.760 --> 0:06:29.440 No, she got really pissed off and confronted me about it, 0:06:29.480 --> 0:06:31.719 and we got into it and she was like, you 0:06:31.720 --> 0:06:34.400 have no right to broadcast my life, and I was like, 0:06:34.560 --> 0:06:36.120 what's my life I'm broadcasting? 0:06:36.240 --> 0:06:37.839 I mean, is that what you guys broke up over? 0:06:37.880 --> 0:06:38.080 Then? 0:06:38.720 --> 0:06:38.960 Yeah? 0:06:39.080 --> 0:06:41.480 Yeah, she said she felt that she was like totally 0:06:41.520 --> 0:06:44.120 the trade and I'm an a hole for talking about it, 0:06:44.360 --> 0:06:45.080 and she dumped me. 0:06:45.480 --> 0:06:48.359 Okay, okay, and where are you at with that now? 0:06:48.600 --> 0:06:49.480 Are you regretful? 0:06:50.160 --> 0:06:54.040 Absolutely regretful. I mean I don't even do the podcast anymore, 0:06:54.160 --> 0:06:57.400 and I took down all of it, and I feel 0:06:57.400 --> 0:07:01.200 like I'm mature and I have a perspective on things now. 0:07:01.440 --> 0:07:02.040 So wait a. 0:07:02.000 --> 0:07:04.040 Minute, I mean, does she know that you quit the 0:07:04.080 --> 0:07:05.120 whole podcast because of this? 0:07:05.240 --> 0:07:05.800 That's kind of. 0:07:05.760 --> 0:07:12.720 Endearing because he didn't have any listeners ratings. 0:07:12.760 --> 0:07:15.440 Again, Well, you couldn't talk about your dates. 0:07:15.680 --> 0:07:17.840 I mean, I didn't have any delusions of grandeury. It 0:07:17.920 --> 0:07:19.480 was always just a fun thing and. 0:07:20.000 --> 0:07:21.920 It ran its course, and now you moved on to 0:07:22.000 --> 0:07:24.320 whatever it's next. Well, she might be happy to hear 0:07:24.440 --> 0:07:27.600 that you don't have a podcast to talk about her 0:07:27.640 --> 0:07:30.000 on anymore, and that seemed to be the biggest issue 0:07:30.040 --> 0:07:30.600 that she had. 0:07:31.080 --> 0:07:34.800 Yeah, I mean, I have different opinions now about sharing 0:07:34.840 --> 0:07:37.280 my things for all the public to know. But like 0:07:37.280 --> 0:07:38.600 I learned less by doing that. 0:07:38.720 --> 0:07:41.760 Hopefully you could share a little bit more about yourself personally. 0:07:41.760 --> 0:07:43.600 You know, we call the person who hates to be 0:07:43.760 --> 0:07:44.720 in the public. 0:07:46.000 --> 0:07:49.560 Actually Brooks, she's already on the line right now, waiting 0:07:49.600 --> 0:07:52.320 on hold. She just doesn't know why yet. 0:07:52.440 --> 0:07:54.760 Okay, so she knows. She knows she's about to be 0:07:54.800 --> 0:07:55.320 on the radio. 0:07:55.560 --> 0:07:59.240 Yes, she does not know that it's her ex boyfriend 0:07:59.360 --> 0:08:02.200 Gavin on the other line, hoping to get another chance 0:08:02.240 --> 0:08:03.280 with her. Do not tell her. 0:08:03.280 --> 0:08:05.280 I have four fingernails in front of me right now. 0:08:07.360 --> 0:08:10.640 We're leaving all the nails cups out of the conversation. 0:08:10.960 --> 0:08:13.440 We're just going to focus on Gavin and Michelle and 0:08:13.480 --> 0:08:17.240 the possibility of reconciling when we come back and continue 0:08:17.680 --> 0:08:20.920 Say Yes to the X right after this. If you're 0:08:20.960 --> 0:08:23.120 just joining us, we're in the middle of Say Yes 0:08:23.240 --> 0:08:26.640 to the X with our listener, Gavin, who has been 0:08:26.680 --> 0:08:31.280 thinking a lot about his ex girlfriend Michelle lately because 0:08:31.320 --> 0:08:34.760 they split up months ago. When Gavin was doing his 0:08:34.800 --> 0:08:39.640 own podcast at the time, telling stories about his personal life. Yea, 0:08:40.240 --> 0:08:44.280 and naturally that included details of his dating life with Michelle. 0:08:44.320 --> 0:08:47.160 Well, I mean, he did describe her being upset as 0:08:47.200 --> 0:08:49.600 a tantrum even to us, which. 0:08:51.000 --> 0:08:52.600 A bad description, right right. 0:08:54.120 --> 0:08:57.680 Yeah, unless you really don't want to talk to something, 0:08:59.000 --> 0:08:59.320 we are. 0:08:59.840 --> 0:09:02.920 And when she found that out, she obviously didn't like 0:09:03.400 --> 0:09:06.400 being talked about on his show. It led to her 0:09:06.520 --> 0:09:09.280 breaking things off with him. Yeah, but the good news 0:09:09.400 --> 0:09:11.880 is things are different now. Gavin. You're not doing your 0:09:11.880 --> 0:09:14.800 podcast anymore. You took it down. You say you've matured, 0:09:15.200 --> 0:09:18.000 you're reconsidering Alexis. Can you not do that in the 0:09:18.000 --> 0:09:18.839 middle of our show. 0:09:23.559 --> 0:09:24.680 She's trying to interrupt you. 0:09:24.720 --> 0:09:31.360 Actually extremely rude to do that. But Gavin, you're hoping 0:09:31.400 --> 0:09:34.400 for another chance now that that chapter is behind you. 0:09:34.640 --> 0:09:36.760 Are you feeling nervous before we bring her on? 0:09:37.360 --> 0:09:37.960 Absolutely? 0:09:38.360 --> 0:09:40.120 And you know what, we didn't ask what was the 0:09:40.200 --> 0:09:42.200 last conversation you had with her? 0:09:42.440 --> 0:09:45.559 Like, I think it's the breakup conversation. I don't remember 0:09:45.600 --> 0:09:47.240 having any contact after that. 0:09:49.280 --> 0:09:49.600 Sad. 0:09:50.679 --> 0:09:53.040 Yeah, I mean it started heated, but by the end 0:09:53.080 --> 0:09:55.400 I was pretty sad. I regret the whole thing. 0:09:55.480 --> 0:09:57.640 I'm sure we could have heard it on your podcast 0:09:57.760 --> 0:10:00.000 exactly what it was like if you didn't take it. 0:10:00.320 --> 0:10:02.400 Could you repeat that? I didn't hit record. 0:10:03.400 --> 0:10:07.400 Anyway, So again, we've moved on from that from your 0:10:07.440 --> 0:10:10.960 old podcast, and now Michelle is on the phone. She 0:10:11.000 --> 0:10:13.200 hasn't heard any of the previous segment that we did 0:10:13.200 --> 0:10:15.240 with her. We've just had her on hold this whole time, 0:10:15.600 --> 0:10:18.760 and she knows she's been selected to be on the radio, 0:10:18.880 --> 0:10:21.760 just doesn't know why yet. 0:10:22.480 --> 0:10:25.120 Disappointing when she doesn't get concert tickets out of this. 0:10:25.679 --> 0:10:28.719 Yes, maybe not. Maybe she's gonna be really excited to 0:10:28.800 --> 0:10:30.280 learn how much Gavin has changed. 0:10:30.360 --> 0:10:32.480 I will say, look right, all right, the things that 0:10:32.480 --> 0:10:36.480 he's naturally done, deleting everything and quitting podcasting all together, 0:10:36.520 --> 0:10:37.840 I think is a huge gesture. 0:10:37.960 --> 0:10:39.400 But I don't think he did it before her. 0:10:39.480 --> 0:10:40.760 No, he just did it because he's like, hey, I 0:10:40.760 --> 0:10:42.160 don't need this anymore. Like he learned. 0:10:42.200 --> 0:10:43.920 He said, he's changed, he's grown. 0:10:44.000 --> 0:10:44.760 Yeah, exactly. 0:10:44.920 --> 0:10:46.719 Yeah, I mean it was a it was a combination 0:10:46.800 --> 0:10:49.360 of things, but I definitely knew that it had to 0:10:49.360 --> 0:10:50.840 come down before I could do something like this. 0:10:50.960 --> 0:10:53.880 Yeah, okay, point well, yeah, I think we're in a 0:10:53.880 --> 0:10:56.440 good spot. We're gonna bring on Michelle. We'll just talk 0:10:56.480 --> 0:10:58.440 to her first, Gavin, and then we'll tell her that 0:10:58.480 --> 0:11:01.480 you're on the line. But let's talk to her real quick, 0:11:02.040 --> 0:11:07.800 so let's punch her up here. Hello is this Michelle? Hello, Hey, 0:11:08.440 --> 0:11:10.200 hi Michelle. 0:11:10.080 --> 0:11:11.560 Good morning, welcome to the show. 0:11:11.559 --> 0:11:14.240 Good morning, good morning. Thank you so much for being 0:11:14.240 --> 0:11:15.960 on with us today. I'm sorry to keep you on 0:11:16.000 --> 0:11:16.880 hold for so long. 0:11:17.360 --> 0:11:19.600 All good, Okay, Yeah. 0:11:19.440 --> 0:11:22.120 We usually actually put people on hold for longer, so yeah, 0:11:22.520 --> 0:11:22.960 we like you. 0:11:23.200 --> 0:11:25.400 It's usually me and Saose. Forgot someone was on the 0:11:25.400 --> 0:11:27.720 phone and into the break room for. 0:11:28.280 --> 0:11:33.160 That person that won that prize, so tell them. But no, 0:11:33.640 --> 0:11:35.680 we're having you on today. I know you don't know 0:11:35.679 --> 0:11:38.400 why yet, but it's a segment that we do called 0:11:38.600 --> 0:11:39.840 say Yes to the X. 0:11:43.960 --> 0:11:47.240 I don't know if I'm like the sound of this. 0:11:47.640 --> 0:11:49.480 Okay, Okay, here Jeff out. 0:11:49.559 --> 0:11:52.760 Yeah, because there is a certain guy that you used 0:11:52.800 --> 0:11:56.440 to date, and basically you've been on his mind a 0:11:56.480 --> 0:12:00.240 lot lately. He isn't sure if you're dating anybody else 0:12:00.320 --> 0:12:03.199 right now, or if you're single or anything like that. 0:12:03.360 --> 0:12:06.920 But the whole point of this is he's open to 0:12:07.000 --> 0:12:11.120 the idea of maybe re exploring things with you. 0:12:11.400 --> 0:12:12.439 That's a good way to put it. 0:12:12.800 --> 0:12:16.480 Okay, but yes, who is it that you are talking about? 0:12:16.920 --> 0:12:19.800 Well, before I tell you do, you need to cough again. 0:12:21.520 --> 0:12:24.719 Okay, sorry before anticipation, yeah, before I say it. 0:12:24.760 --> 0:12:26.640 I just want to know are you dating anybody right now? 0:12:26.640 --> 0:12:27.240 Are you single? 0:12:27.880 --> 0:12:31.280 I am currently single, but I am dating. 0:12:31.360 --> 0:12:34.079 I'm dating around Okay, okay, you're going on dating. 0:12:34.120 --> 0:12:36.560 Okay. Well that's good to know. Because there is a 0:12:36.600 --> 0:12:39.120 certain X who says that you guys broke up not 0:12:39.200 --> 0:12:40.840 too long ago, just a few months back, and you 0:12:40.960 --> 0:12:43.840 had a fight with him about podcasting. 0:12:44.040 --> 0:12:47.600 Oh, should jump right in, Jeff, bring up the bad part. 0:12:47.760 --> 0:12:48.600 Oh it's Gavin. 0:12:49.120 --> 0:12:52.280 Yeah, yeah, yeah, you're good at guessing. Good job. 0:12:53.080 --> 0:12:55.640 Yeah, I remember. How could I forget? 0:12:55.720 --> 0:12:55.960 Yeah? 0:12:56.000 --> 0:12:59.160 He was talking about me a lot. All our friends 0:12:59.200 --> 0:13:02.480 are listening. I didn't like it. It was really embarrassing. 0:13:02.559 --> 0:13:05.080 It's a huge turn off for me at the time, 0:13:05.200 --> 0:13:07.600 and so I don't know, it's just it was weird 0:13:07.640 --> 0:13:07.880 for me. 0:13:08.080 --> 0:13:10.400 Okay, but the podcast never existed. 0:13:10.679 --> 0:13:12.480 Would the relationship have continued? 0:13:13.040 --> 0:13:13.959 It's hard to say. 0:13:14.440 --> 0:13:19.920 Maybe, Okay, Okay, there's a possibility there, and we would 0:13:19.960 --> 0:13:22.880 like to give you the chance to talk directly to 0:13:23.120 --> 0:13:26.560 Gavin about it because we're doing a podcast collab. 0:13:27.320 --> 0:13:36.600 No, no, it's not a podcast collab, but I will 0:13:36.640 --> 0:13:41.040 say Gavin is on the other line right now, waiting. 0:13:40.720 --> 0:13:45.080 To talk to you. Oh god, yeah, it's a good thing. 0:13:45.800 --> 0:13:46.160 I think. 0:13:46.720 --> 0:13:47.280 I'm not sure. 0:13:47.760 --> 0:13:49.640 Well let's find out. Gavin, are you there. 0:13:50.000 --> 0:13:51.080 I'm here, Govin. 0:13:51.200 --> 0:13:52.280 What are you doing? 0:13:53.559 --> 0:13:54.320 What is this? 0:13:54.880 --> 0:13:55.720 Why are we here? 0:13:56.840 --> 0:13:58.480 Look? The way I remember it is that when we 0:13:58.480 --> 0:14:01.400 were together, we had a good time, and we've broke 0:14:01.480 --> 0:14:05.160 up over something stupid, Like I stopped doing the podcast. 0:14:05.440 --> 0:14:07.320 It's not that important for me. It was just something 0:14:07.320 --> 0:14:12.200 I did for fun. I apologize for airing your dirty laundry. 0:14:12.280 --> 0:14:15.880 It's it's not something that I would do again. And 0:14:16.360 --> 0:14:20.520 I don't know. I heard you said that you're dating, Like, like, 0:14:20.560 --> 0:14:23.360 are you dating like a lot of people or I 0:14:24.120 --> 0:14:24.680 am dating? 0:14:24.720 --> 0:14:25.960 I'm exploring. 0:14:27.080 --> 0:14:29.600 I mean that's cool obviously, Like I wouldn't be like, 0:14:29.640 --> 0:14:32.400 oh no, you're dating people. I won't I'm not interested, 0:14:32.480 --> 0:14:35.240 Like you're a single person, but like, if you want 0:14:35.240 --> 0:14:37.640 to hang out, i'd be into that. Just said that, 0:14:38.880 --> 0:14:39.640 I mean, I don't know. 0:14:39.840 --> 0:14:42.640 I don't know about that, but I don't know if 0:14:42.680 --> 0:14:44.720 I want to. I want to tell you this because 0:14:44.760 --> 0:14:46.200 it's going to sound a little hypocritical. 0:14:47.440 --> 0:14:48.400 What what is it? 0:14:49.680 --> 0:15:03.280 I recently started my own podcast about dating. 0:14:59.720 --> 0:15:00.160 Right, that. 0:15:01.800 --> 0:15:02.320 Is fine. 0:15:02.680 --> 0:15:05.520 Yeah, it's her telling her own story. 0:15:05.960 --> 0:15:09.120 Yes, I see her like I'm engaged before saying I 0:15:09.160 --> 0:15:10.080 have a podcast. 0:15:10.600 --> 0:15:14.000 Okay, so you're comfortable talking about yourself. 0:15:14.040 --> 0:15:16.240 You just don't like to hear other people talk about you. 0:15:16.800 --> 0:15:18.520 It's different because at the time we were in a 0:15:18.520 --> 0:15:21.840 committed relationship and he was talking about me, and I'm 0:15:21.840 --> 0:15:24.400 not in that right now, I'm dating. 0:15:25.200 --> 0:15:27.760 You're just talking about random guys you go out on 0:15:27.880 --> 0:15:30.880 single dates with. Yes, Gavin, how does this make you 0:15:30.920 --> 0:15:31.920 feel hearing that? 0:15:32.120 --> 0:15:35.120 I mean, it's kind of crazy to me because I 0:15:35.320 --> 0:15:37.440 never would have thought that you would. So, like, you're 0:15:37.440 --> 0:15:40.240 talking about basically the same stuff though, right, like the 0:15:40.240 --> 0:15:42.520 people you date. No, it's different. I'm not. I mean 0:15:42.680 --> 0:15:43.480 my partner, like you. 0:15:43.440 --> 0:15:48.680 Did, just random guys. Random is in random. 0:15:48.680 --> 0:15:52.080 I mean that's every podcast ever. Yeah, if you don't know, if. 0:15:52.040 --> 0:15:54.200 You can't pinpoint the person, that's the good stuff. 0:15:54.240 --> 0:15:57.520 I can't tell. Gavin. Are you upset with her? 0:15:57.840 --> 0:16:01.080 Are you are you flattered that she he's like kind 0:16:01.080 --> 0:16:03.200 of following in your footsteps, like where's your head? 0:16:03.400 --> 0:16:06.080 I'm a little shocked and surprised by it, for sure, 0:16:06.560 --> 0:16:09.240 just not It's not something I would have expected given 0:16:09.240 --> 0:16:11.400 her a reaction to what happened. 0:16:11.600 --> 0:16:13.200 I can't believe you have an exit you still like 0:16:13.200 --> 0:16:14.560 and you didn't find her podcast? 0:16:14.760 --> 0:16:17.720 Yeah? 0:16:17.720 --> 0:16:18.840 Do you not stock her pages? 0:16:18.880 --> 0:16:21.440 Bro It sounds like he's been so traumatized by his 0:16:21.520 --> 0:16:24.240 podcasting experience he probably doesn't go to any podcast or 0:16:24.480 --> 0:16:29.440 blocked him on everything. Yeah, okay, I'm sensing some common 0:16:29.480 --> 0:16:31.000 ground between the two. 0:16:32.640 --> 0:16:34.880 I mean, I guess that's cool. It doesn't bother me. 0:16:34.920 --> 0:16:36.960 I mean, obviously I have some experience doing it, so 0:16:37.120 --> 0:16:39.040 I understand why someone would do it. 0:16:39.200 --> 0:16:41.160 Kevin, do you want to listen to her podcast? 0:16:41.240 --> 0:16:45.160 And probably not other people she's dated? 0:16:44.640 --> 0:16:44.680 No? 0:16:45.480 --> 0:16:48.000 Hold on though, If you guys hang out, are you 0:16:48.080 --> 0:16:49.040 going to talk about him? 0:16:49.160 --> 0:16:51.200 Or you guys gonna do a co podcast together? He 0:16:51.200 --> 0:16:51.960 could be your guest. 0:16:52.240 --> 0:16:54.880 I wouldn't hang out with him if he wouldn't let 0:16:54.920 --> 0:16:55.760 me talk. 0:16:55.600 --> 0:16:56.800 About him. 0:16:58.280 --> 0:16:58.480 Open. 0:16:59.520 --> 0:17:01.600 I feel that that is juicy content to be like, 0:17:01.600 --> 0:17:03.000 I went on a date with my ex and now 0:17:03.000 --> 0:17:04.360 I'm gonna dish. 0:17:03.840 --> 0:17:05.920 Oh yeah, we have to talk about it. 0:17:06.280 --> 0:17:10.199 Okay, Okay, Gavin, looks like the tables have turned. 0:17:10.280 --> 0:17:12.200 My friend, These guys are going to go on dates 0:17:12.200 --> 0:17:14.520 now and then go report back on your own podcast 0:17:14.560 --> 0:17:15.840 on how good or bad the day was? 0:17:15.840 --> 0:17:18.320 Well, Michelle seems open to giving him one more chance 0:17:18.359 --> 0:17:21.040 for a date, as long as Gavin agrees to being 0:17:21.080 --> 0:17:22.440 talked about on her podcast. 0:17:22.480 --> 0:17:24.320 Gavin, he doesn't have a podcast. 0:17:24.560 --> 0:17:27.040 Will you say yes to your ex? Now, Gavin? 0:17:27.600 --> 0:17:29.840