WEBVTT - Kinks Over Love 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:03.320 Welcome to Can'tflee Reckless, the production of Ieheart Radio and 0:00:03.360 --> 0:00:17.159 the Black Effects. And just like that, we're back with 0:00:17.280 --> 0:00:19.200 yet another carefully reckless episode with your girl. 0:00:19.320 --> 0:00:19.920 Just hilarious. 0:00:19.920 --> 0:00:22.840 What I'll be doing, I'll be fixing mess you are now. 0:00:22.880 --> 0:00:24.800 Look look at the volume, Tailor, because I feel like 0:00:24.840 --> 0:00:27.080 I'm low. Look and I usually my levels usually be 0:00:27.160 --> 0:00:27.640 higher than that. 0:00:28.280 --> 0:00:28.720 I'm good. 0:00:28.960 --> 0:00:31.800 Yeah, all right, cool, so we stray. All right, so 0:00:31.840 --> 0:00:34.080 we got tailor in the building. That's my baby mama. 0:00:34.159 --> 0:00:34.720 Y'all listen. 0:00:34.760 --> 0:00:39.240 She is really glowing and showing. Okay, I love this. 0:00:39.440 --> 0:00:41.840 I love it. So she having my son or whatever. 0:00:42.479 --> 0:00:44.360 But yeah, so I'm gonna make her read. I'm gonna 0:00:44.360 --> 0:00:47.200 read this story, or she's just gonna read the second 0:00:47.200 --> 0:00:48.560 one if we get to a second one, because this 0:00:48.600 --> 0:00:51.040 one is rather long. We don't have any voice memos today, 0:00:51.120 --> 0:00:54.720 so per here we go. Hey, guys, I want you 0:00:54.760 --> 0:00:56.600 to know that your voice is heard and you are 0:00:56.640 --> 0:00:58.480 absolutely valid in your feelings. 0:00:58.800 --> 0:01:00.280 I've been in the same situation. 0:01:00.400 --> 0:01:06.039 Hold on, bitch, what because it's a fun. Fuck What 0:01:06.160 --> 0:01:08.520 the fuck am I going through? Hold on, let me 0:01:08.560 --> 0:01:10.800 just finish reading. I've been in the same situation and 0:01:10.840 --> 0:01:12.920 I know how tough it can be when people don't 0:01:12.959 --> 0:01:13.880 act like a family. 0:01:14.200 --> 0:01:14.960 But here's the thing. 0:01:15.480 --> 0:01:17.800 You can't expect people to understand you if they lack 0:01:17.880 --> 0:01:22.080 emotional intelligence and are not being real with themselves. You're right, 0:01:22.280 --> 0:01:24.360 and you don't have to explain yourself to anyone who 0:01:24.400 --> 0:01:25.680 isn't ready to see the truth. 0:01:27.240 --> 0:01:33.840 Did I say something like and everything? Oh? Okay, because 0:01:33.880 --> 0:01:36.200 I'm like a family? Yeah, all right. 0:01:36.880 --> 0:01:39.600 Remember when you fly, others can go with you because 0:01:39.600 --> 0:01:41.759 of the altitude. I used to be the same way 0:01:41.800 --> 0:01:44.760 as you, and like an indigo person, I know the 0:01:44.760 --> 0:01:48.200 struggle of being misunderstood. Keep shining, my sister and God, 0:01:48.560 --> 0:01:53.880 as Maya Angelou said, Oh gosh, we delight in the 0:01:53.920 --> 0:01:57.720 beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes it 0:01:57.800 --> 0:01:58.600 has gone. 0:01:58.320 --> 0:02:01.600 Through to achieve that beauty. You going through a lot? 0:02:01.920 --> 0:02:06.040 She looked that up. Yes, bitch, you're just out here 0:02:06.120 --> 0:02:07.480 knowing what may Angelie said. 0:02:08.120 --> 0:02:11.000 Okay, you've gone through a lot, but it's shaping you 0:02:11.080 --> 0:02:13.840 into something greater than you can even see. Right now, 0:02:14.040 --> 0:02:16.639 keep going. This is your season forever. You've got this. 0:02:17.120 --> 0:02:19.560 And no, my parents have been in this industry for 0:02:19.639 --> 0:02:24.040 over fifty years, so anything you need, work wise or otherwise. 0:02:24.120 --> 0:02:27.480 I'm here for you, Geez I needs the money. Just 0:02:27.560 --> 0:02:30.799 keep being real and playing your role because people aren't 0:02:30.800 --> 0:02:35.000 touched the way you and I are. Okay, sending you 0:02:35.080 --> 0:02:38.600 peace and blessings and a huge hug. Call me whenever 0:02:38.760 --> 0:02:41.680 you need to vent, And don't let what is your number? 0:02:41.960 --> 0:02:45.079 Like they didn't even leave a number. And don't ever 0:02:45.160 --> 0:02:46.280 let anyone dimn your light. 0:02:46.600 --> 0:02:49.880 Remember the indigo people keep shining and no matter what, 0:02:49.919 --> 0:02:51.160 I don't know, we got to look that up because 0:02:51.200 --> 0:02:54.720 Chris Brown got a song called Andergar Have a great day, Sis, 0:02:54.760 --> 0:02:55.720 You're unstoppable. 0:02:55.760 --> 0:02:57.160 God's with you. Keep being you. 0:02:57.520 --> 0:02:57.800 Love. 0:02:58.639 --> 0:02:59.359 Oh, I'm not even. 0:02:59.200 --> 0:03:01.960 Gonna say his name to him to stay anonymous. That's 0:03:02.000 --> 0:03:04.280 actually a sweet fucking message. I was just I was 0:03:04.520 --> 0:03:07.079 last women and like, hold up, because you know something 0:03:07.120 --> 0:03:07.840 I don't know about me? 0:03:08.080 --> 0:03:08.840 It says Anygod. 0:03:08.840 --> 0:03:13.160 People in New Age context refers to individuals, particularly children. 0:03:13.680 --> 0:03:14.360 She got your. 0:03:14.320 --> 0:03:20.200 Child, believe it'sess special, unusual, sometimes supernatural traits or abilities. 0:03:20.560 --> 0:03:25.359 So I got powers, often described as highly evolved and intuitive. 0:03:26.200 --> 0:03:29.359 Girl. It's like first I was that girl, Now I'm 0:03:29.400 --> 0:03:31.520 that glad girl. 0:03:31.760 --> 0:03:37.560 Yes, okay, I'm an endergot bitch anyway, Oh. 0:03:37.520 --> 0:03:39.720 My gosh, I should have took a shot, but no one. 0:03:41.000 --> 0:03:42.160 That was it. That was it. 0:03:42.520 --> 0:03:45.480 There's no advice. That was just something powerful like and 0:03:45.520 --> 0:03:48.280 empowering to me. And there was a man who sent it. 0:03:48.320 --> 0:03:51.040 And I actually love that now that you refresh my 0:03:51.080 --> 0:03:52.880 memory about something I was going through, because I was like, ah, 0:03:52.960 --> 0:03:55.000 because who the fuck told him something about me? But 0:03:55.520 --> 0:03:57.640 obviously he saw the line from a couple of weeks ago. 0:03:58.040 --> 0:04:01.120 Thank you so much, sir. All Right, so we're moving 0:04:01.120 --> 0:04:03.600 on and we have some some actual mass effects here 0:04:03.640 --> 0:04:05.560 we go. You know what I wish that we could 0:04:05.560 --> 0:04:07.840 do though, while we're looking for another story. 0:04:08.440 --> 0:04:12.120 I wish you could, like. 0:04:12.080 --> 0:04:14.000 Say, if you owe a lot of money for taxes, right, 0:04:14.560 --> 0:04:18.560 I wish you could snitch on other niggas with tax that. 0:04:21.000 --> 0:04:21.279 Girl. 0:04:21.360 --> 0:04:24.640 What if they said, all right, if you round up 0:04:24.680 --> 0:04:27.040 ten monthfuckers or it's more than fifty thousand dollars, all 0:04:27.120 --> 0:04:30.400 your that will be relinquished. I'd be like, oh, hell yeah, 0:04:31.320 --> 0:04:35.120 that'd be fucking amazing. Because I keep saying Peter Thomas, like, 0:04:35.360 --> 0:04:38.400 how the fuck is you not in ju who Peter 0:04:38.520 --> 0:04:42.159 Thomas of Atlanta Jail? 0:04:42.680 --> 0:04:44.720 He did, but he came around home. I'm like many 0:04:45.320 --> 0:04:46.560 other niggas that owe taxes. 0:04:47.760 --> 0:04:50.000 That's what I'm saying, ain't the way Peter Thomas has 0:04:50.000 --> 0:04:51.400 to be an informant of some type. 0:04:52.080 --> 0:04:54.080 Either way, though I don't know, that's none of my business. 0:04:54.440 --> 0:04:56.280 But I just was wondering, like, if you owe an 0:04:56.320 --> 0:04:58.880 outstanding that to the I R S, could you, like 0:04:58.920 --> 0:05:01.720 what if you could snitch on other people to like 0:05:02.000 --> 0:05:03.280 decrease your debt? 0:05:03.440 --> 0:05:05.840 Because I hate that. I just don't know who made 0:05:05.920 --> 0:05:09.200 up taxes some white man back in the drizzle. 0:05:09.520 --> 0:05:11.800 And then also, you know what's crazy, say if you're 0:05:11.839 --> 0:05:13.440 trying to set up a payment plan with them, right 0:05:13.440 --> 0:05:15.680 save fancies, if you owe like one hundred thousand dollars 0:05:15.720 --> 0:05:17.679 and you're trying to set up a payment plan, why 0:05:17.720 --> 0:05:19.599 the fuck do they charge you to set up the 0:05:19.640 --> 0:05:21.800 payment plan? Like I'm not already paying you money that 0:05:21.839 --> 0:05:23.640 I owe, right, And then they have. 0:05:25.320 --> 0:05:29.080 Daily interests like bitch, like what? 0:05:29.560 --> 0:05:32.640 But That's what I'm saying, like who made all this up? 0:05:32.680 --> 0:05:36.120 And we just and were just going away because listen, 0:05:36.120 --> 0:05:38.400 it's what I feel like, if everybody's not paying Texes, 0:05:38.400 --> 0:05:42.240 what they gonna do everybody? Not a few of us 0:05:42.320 --> 0:05:46.520 not just the blacks. Everybody. Can everybody in the fucking 0:05:46.600 --> 0:05:50.599 country stop paying their taxes and never file? 0:05:50.839 --> 0:05:53.320 Technically whatever? What could they do? It ain't that many 0:05:53.360 --> 0:05:54.039 jails in the world. 0:05:54.160 --> 0:05:56.760 But technically though, regardless, are we always going to just 0:05:56.760 --> 0:05:59.360 pay tax because of the fucking supplies and all? 0:05:59.360 --> 0:06:02.039 That's Donald Trump is trying to get rid of it? 0:06:02.760 --> 0:06:04.360 Is that what he's doing? I thought he was raising 0:06:04.440 --> 0:06:08.799 the taxes. No, he's well, he said, garnish wages. 0:06:09.400 --> 0:06:11.720 What are you talking about? We have big mech in 0:06:11.760 --> 0:06:12.120 here and there. 0:06:13.279 --> 0:06:16.839 He's worked for Internal Revenue Services, so apparently he know 0:06:17.120 --> 0:06:18.800 what you mean garnish waiting. 0:06:21.040 --> 0:06:25.440 Hell, no, you're speaking for other people. What. Oh yeah, 0:06:25.560 --> 0:06:26.400 I've had that happened to me. 0:06:27.880 --> 0:06:29.480 Really paid. 0:06:29.680 --> 0:06:29.800 No. 0:06:29.920 --> 0:06:34.800 But if everybody stopped doing it, everybody, then we're just 0:06:34.839 --> 0:06:37.800 all there. That's what's it sounds like a big black buddy. 0:06:38.200 --> 0:06:42.360 If we're just all out here, broke, no wages, meet 0:06:42.440 --> 0:06:44.120 up in the street, let's play music. 0:06:45.800 --> 0:06:50.080 Everybody ring form from their house. Slide what's good? 0:06:50.640 --> 0:06:54.080 Okay, So we got a story and sala you feel 0:06:54.080 --> 0:06:57.760 like reading this one because I don't, Okay, read it, 0:06:58.000 --> 0:07:00.200 read it with some charisma, Okay. 0:07:00.800 --> 0:07:02.400 I always seem okay, God. 0:07:02.839 --> 0:07:04.560 Up, Hold up, I know this shit getting good, but 0:07:04.640 --> 0:07:06.800 listen to just a couple seconds of a commercial. 0:07:06.800 --> 0:07:09.800 If you love me, you'll listen. Hey, Jess, what's up? 0:07:09.960 --> 0:07:12.160 So I'm in a really bad situation. Currently. 0:07:12.320 --> 0:07:16.040 I am with by now fiance who I love for. 0:07:16.840 --> 0:07:20.320 Which I have the talk and the mic I am talking, 0:07:21.000 --> 0:07:24.800 which I have love for, but he cannot satisfy me 0:07:24.880 --> 0:07:27.880 like my former fuck buddy. I cannot believe I'm even 0:07:27.920 --> 0:07:31.000 telling you this, but he's a man's man and I 0:07:31.040 --> 0:07:32.680 really miss how he used to fuck. 0:07:32.520 --> 0:07:33.960 Me silly for no reason. 0:07:34.720 --> 0:07:38.480 The fuck one night that really made me fall for 0:07:38.560 --> 0:07:39.880 him was when he called me. 0:07:39.840 --> 0:07:40.920 After I got off work. 0:07:41.040 --> 0:07:43.160 We were up smoking and he will always give the 0:07:43.200 --> 0:07:45.720 best massages. Then he smacked my ass a little too 0:07:45.720 --> 0:07:47.840 hard for what I could tolerate, and I told him, 0:07:47.840 --> 0:07:54.200 I swear to God, I hate him. That's when I 0:07:54.240 --> 0:07:55.280 looked at him differently. 0:07:55.800 --> 0:07:58.320 I think that we must have gotten into him, and 0:07:58.360 --> 0:08:00.800 he did not like when I drove my eyes. That's 0:08:00.840 --> 0:08:03.240 when he grabbed my grabbed me by my hair and 0:08:03.320 --> 0:08:07.960 told me to never disrespect God again. 0:08:08.640 --> 0:08:11.640 Okay, it was a huge fucking turn on. 0:08:12.120 --> 0:08:16.920 I purposely pushed my ass against his dick. I purposely 0:08:16.920 --> 0:08:20.040 pushed my ass against him and rolled my eyes again 0:08:20.120 --> 0:08:22.400 and told him that's why I can't stand him. 0:08:22.520 --> 0:08:23.440 And I hate him. 0:08:23.640 --> 0:08:25.920 This man pulled down his fucking pants and took my 0:08:26.040 --> 0:08:28.800 hand to hold him and put me in the corner 0:08:28.880 --> 0:08:30.720 of the wall to swallow him whole. 0:08:31.000 --> 0:08:32.800 Okay, Chronicle. 0:08:34.679 --> 0:08:37.320 I was shocked because it's hard for me to handle 0:08:37.760 --> 0:08:41.400 horse hung men like that. But he was really into 0:08:41.440 --> 0:08:44.240 it and kept telling me to hate his dick. Then 0:08:45.320 --> 0:08:50.559 he always to hate his dick. He always took charge, 0:08:50.600 --> 0:08:52.840 and I love that about him. I'm not a whore 0:08:52.920 --> 0:08:57.600 because I am a sophisticated career woman at Alpha Kappa 0:08:57.640 --> 0:09:04.880 Alpha Sorority Incorporated. Okay, okay, I just really appreciate it, 0:09:05.000 --> 0:09:10.600 my fuck buddy. Anyways, after he sletted me out, push 0:09:10.679 --> 0:09:11.959 ups in my mouth and. 0:09:12.000 --> 0:09:14.760 Awe, push ups in my mouth? 0:09:14.920 --> 0:09:19.040 Okay, I limped downstairs to run into another one of 0:09:19.080 --> 0:09:22.400 his friends who walked in. I was still kind of 0:09:22.440 --> 0:09:28.479 high and horny. Still where's this going? 0:09:29.240 --> 0:09:30.800 I felt like this is triple crown. What are you 0:09:30.840 --> 0:09:33.439 looking at? Charlamagne? Damn stomach scraper. 0:09:34.520 --> 0:09:41.120 I'm sorry, just keep handing here, stomach scraper trained me 0:09:41.320 --> 0:09:43.880 to have a high sex drive. 0:09:45.080 --> 0:09:47.920 Okay, that sounds hurtful. 0:09:50.120 --> 0:09:53.800 Anyway, his friends looked high to high to start to 0:09:53.920 --> 0:09:56.280 rub on me, and I got turned on all over again, 0:09:56.679 --> 0:10:01.160 and we started kissing, and my fuck buddy came in, yelled, 0:10:01.480 --> 0:10:03.520 yelled at what the fuck are you doing? I felt 0:10:03.520 --> 0:10:06.760 so embarrassed yet turned on still, I didn't even brush 0:10:06.800 --> 0:10:07.720 my teeth and. 0:10:09.520 --> 0:10:11.680 So wait, so she was masturbating and then he came in. 0:10:11.800 --> 0:10:13.000 Her fuck buddy came in. 0:10:13.520 --> 0:10:16.160 No, she wrote, started kissing on his friend. 0:10:17.440 --> 0:10:21.920 Wait wait, wait, because all right, so this is a 0:10:21.920 --> 0:10:23.560 woman that's engaged. 0:10:23.200 --> 0:10:26.360 Right, yes, so she goes, but I don't think this 0:10:26.480 --> 0:10:27.480 happened necessarily. 0:10:28.640 --> 0:10:31.080 So she's just telling us a story about her and 0:10:31.120 --> 0:10:35.160 her buddy one time. Okay, yeah, but she's still currently engaged, 0:10:35.240 --> 0:10:37.160 right yeah, okay, and go ahead. 0:10:38.200 --> 0:10:42.280 She says she went downstairs and his friend came in 0:10:43.280 --> 0:10:48.240 and started kissing, and then oh no, and then she 0:10:48.400 --> 0:10:51.240 was still high whatever and started rubbing on his friend. 0:10:51.320 --> 0:10:54.199 Oh she was high. Yeah, So then. 0:10:55.000 --> 0:10:57.280 Her fuck buddy came downstairs and saw it was like, 0:10:57.320 --> 0:10:59.679 what the fuck is this whatever? And she's like, I 0:10:59.720 --> 0:11:04.640 felt so embarrassed. Fast forward, fast forward, to now. I 0:11:04.760 --> 0:11:08.560 go from those times to now regular peen, and it's 0:11:08.640 --> 0:11:12.000 not doing justice. I don't know how to tell my 0:11:12.080 --> 0:11:15.120 fiance that I one a low key end the engagement 0:11:15.240 --> 0:11:18.760 and add throws back to my life. He's too conservative 0:11:18.840 --> 0:11:20.720 while I'm used to the real bad boys. 0:11:21.840 --> 0:11:25.960 Help me, Okay, So I get it, I get exactly 0:11:26.000 --> 0:11:26.600 what's happening. 0:11:26.800 --> 0:11:30.199 She likes the thrill. She likes the thrill of it all. 0:11:30.200 --> 0:11:33.760 And because her work life is so conservative and so 0:11:33.760 --> 0:11:38.240 sophisticated business woman and all of that, she has to 0:11:38.400 --> 0:11:41.079 have class and all of that type shit. She likes 0:11:41.080 --> 0:11:42.680 to be a freaking of sheets, and she likes to 0:11:42.720 --> 0:11:45.160 have like an outlet where she can just be raunchy 0:11:45.320 --> 0:11:50.240 and naughty and just let like she's mean. So what 0:11:50.400 --> 0:11:54.760 I feel you play period? Like I think I'm too goofy. 0:11:54.800 --> 0:11:59.000 I'm goofi your shit literally literally I leave. 0:11:59.520 --> 0:12:00.520 I want a dude. 0:12:00.559 --> 0:12:02.640 Have you ever seen Cyber getting Chocolate? 0:12:02.760 --> 0:12:05.160 No, it's fine. I have you seen movie four? Christmas 0:12:05.280 --> 0:12:06.840 is for Christmases? 0:12:06.880 --> 0:12:07.000 Now? 0:12:07.920 --> 0:12:10.000 Is funny? It's it's a comedy. 0:12:10.160 --> 0:12:13.720 Yeah, it's a romantic comedy, I guess, but it's funny itself. 0:12:13.760 --> 0:12:18.720 But Vince Vawn, I love this and what's that girl? 0:12:18.800 --> 0:12:27.400 So it's a white comed yeah yeah, yeah, yeah this man. 0:12:27.840 --> 0:12:32.080 So in the beginning, basically you don't know that they're together. 0:12:32.559 --> 0:12:33.400 So they play. 0:12:33.559 --> 0:12:35.360 They're at a bar and he goes up to the 0:12:35.360 --> 0:12:39.079 girl and he's like acting like hey, like trying to 0:12:39.120 --> 0:12:42.280 basically I'm trying to talk to her, and she's like, look, 0:12:42.360 --> 0:12:46.240 I need a guy that's gonna, you know, not. 0:12:46.559 --> 0:12:49.480 Shiver when he puts his hand up my shirt like 0:12:49.520 --> 0:12:51.160 this ship to him. 0:12:51.520 --> 0:12:56.400 So then it was like bitch. Oh basically he started 0:12:56.480 --> 0:13:00.600 like the fucked in the back. Yeah, but you can't 0:13:00.640 --> 0:13:01.400 do ship like that. 0:13:01.600 --> 0:13:04.000 I want to I'm gonna doing when you're out at 0:13:04.040 --> 0:13:07.960 a restaurant is to do that. 0:13:08.160 --> 0:13:11.400 Girl. I think I'm gonna start cracking up. Taylor. You 0:13:11.480 --> 0:13:13.720 are naturally just goofy ship. 0:13:14.720 --> 0:13:16.840 I'm trying to act it out, but I'm He'm gonna 0:13:16.880 --> 0:13:18.560 be like, but never mind, come on, get up, put 0:13:18.600 --> 0:13:20.240 play fans, because this is too much. 0:13:22.679 --> 0:13:24.640 Not even no more with you playing. 0:13:24.760 --> 0:13:27.240 But I have like in the I have. 0:13:28.559 --> 0:13:30.920 Randomly like me and my friends are just act like 0:13:30.920 --> 0:13:32.680 we're starting to argue or something in public. 0:13:34.200 --> 0:13:39.079 Random, So you play with your friends like that. 0:13:39.320 --> 0:13:42.080 I'm just saying like, like. 0:13:43.679 --> 0:13:46.880 My best friend, we always will like play fight, start 0:13:46.920 --> 0:13:50.280 fussing and like play fight in public, and I always 0:13:50.280 --> 0:13:51.800 be out a funk up because she can't fight. 0:13:52.320 --> 0:13:55.800 So yeah, but or just say something render like just 0:13:55.880 --> 0:13:58.000 go and we were crying like what the fuck he 0:13:58.080 --> 0:13:58.800 gave you herpes? 0:13:59.040 --> 0:14:01.680 Yes? Me and she needs to do dumb ship like 0:14:01.720 --> 0:14:03.520 that's you all right? Cool, So that's the same ship 0:14:03.559 --> 0:14:05.600 we used to do. If you love me, you'll listen 0:14:05.640 --> 0:14:10.200 to this commercial and then we'll be right back. But no, girl, 0:14:10.720 --> 0:14:12.440 you have to start role playing with your man. It 0:14:12.520 --> 0:14:15.480 is a total no, It's a whole nother world, I'm 0:14:15.480 --> 0:14:15.760 telling you. 0:14:15.800 --> 0:14:20.160 And it'll keep it'll keep that fresh spark, feisty. 0:14:20.160 --> 0:14:23.680 Like yo you, it'll keep you a little moist on 0:14:25.160 --> 0:14:26.160 me and Chris do it all the. 0:14:26.080 --> 0:14:27.120 Time, girl, all the time. 0:14:27.200 --> 0:14:29.760 You act like y'all know each other all the time. 0:14:30.040 --> 0:14:32.200 Yeah, And I act like he's like a real Mexican 0:14:32.200 --> 0:14:36.800 and can speak Spanish and so he's yeah, dumb and ship. Girl, 0:14:36.800 --> 0:14:39.440 I'm like, just stop saying keep asta like come on, 0:14:40.560 --> 0:14:45.560 maybe sucking up the road play yeah, but yeah, all right, 0:14:45.800 --> 0:14:47.320 so yeah, back to this girl's story. 0:14:47.320 --> 0:14:50.920 You're will back to this girl's story. 0:14:51.760 --> 0:14:56.080 I I'm I think she just looking for and she 0:14:56.160 --> 0:14:59.000 don't know how to leave her. She don't know how 0:14:59.040 --> 0:15:02.880 to tell her uh fiance that he's too boring for her, 0:15:02.960 --> 0:15:04.840 Like on that level, he don't know how to She 0:15:04.880 --> 0:15:05.440 don't know how to. 0:15:05.360 --> 0:15:08.080 Tell her about it because he might be into that ship. 0:15:08.720 --> 0:15:12.120 He might be or he might not be. Yeah, but 0:15:12.200 --> 0:15:14.800 that's because I feel like she the type of person 0:15:14.800 --> 0:15:15.120 she is. 0:15:15.160 --> 0:15:20.800 She probably already then, like he knows how she is sexually, 0:15:21.080 --> 0:15:23.920 but he can't keep up with that. But what are 0:15:23.960 --> 0:15:26.160 the other advantages about him? Like is there only the 0:15:26.200 --> 0:15:28.880 sex that she does not like? Because if the sex, 0:15:28.960 --> 0:15:31.840 if if sex plays that big of a part in 0:15:31.880 --> 0:15:33.520 your marriage or what your marriage is going to be, 0:15:33.560 --> 0:15:36.160 or your relationship or your you know, before you even 0:15:36.200 --> 0:15:39.440 walk down to oist, I definitely think it's worth re evaluating, 0:15:39.560 --> 0:15:43.800 like revisiting the whole marriage because you don't seem happy. 0:15:44.000 --> 0:15:45.520 But I also don't want her to lead that man 0:15:45.560 --> 0:15:47.720 and regret that shit. Because you can teach a man 0:15:47.720 --> 0:15:49.000 how to sexually please. 0:15:48.720 --> 0:15:51.320 You, you know what I'm saying. Other things you can't teach 0:15:52.240 --> 0:15:56.680 you really well. Yeah, I used to. 0:15:57.040 --> 0:15:59.760 I don't know how much you can teach a guy 0:15:59.800 --> 0:16:02.520 that please you. Sometimes I feel like if he got it, 0:16:02.840 --> 0:16:04.840 like the chemstry, say is there. 0:16:05.000 --> 0:16:07.640 But you can always grow your sexual chemistry. You can 0:16:07.720 --> 0:16:09.960 always start doing things that you never did before. 0:16:10.800 --> 0:16:13.120 Yeah, but I think, Okay, I guess for me, like, 0:16:13.200 --> 0:16:17.600 I just I don't want that in a sense, ain't. 0:16:17.440 --> 0:16:20.000 I'm wrong with a little teach teaching down tailor now listen. 0:16:19.920 --> 0:16:22.360 I know I'm gonna tell you, Chris, I ain't had 0:16:22.360 --> 0:16:23.840 to teach that motherfucker thing. 0:16:26.480 --> 0:16:26.600 Yo. 0:16:26.800 --> 0:16:28.880 That is great, that is an actual plus. 0:16:29.240 --> 0:16:33.480 But you said I've been in so not in a situation. 0:16:33.720 --> 0:16:38.920 But I think it fucks up the guy's ego in 0:16:38.920 --> 0:16:43.160 a sense too, that I told I had an excellent 0:16:43.240 --> 0:16:46.560 and he wasn't the grace And I told him that 0:16:46.640 --> 0:16:49.360 he oh you told how the fun did you tell 0:16:49.400 --> 0:16:49.720 him that? 0:16:49.800 --> 0:16:52.000 Well, we already broke up at this point. 0:16:52.040 --> 0:16:55.440 He was trying to get back to me, and you 0:16:55.480 --> 0:16:59.240 did satisfied me because he wasn't taking. 0:16:59.000 --> 0:17:02.000 You said, my nigga. Yes, I was like, you wasn't 0:17:02.080 --> 0:17:05.159 satisfying me, like and then that's my niggas be slepping 0:17:05.160 --> 0:17:06.160 bitches in the back of the neck. 0:17:06.240 --> 0:17:07.959 Because I guess you wouldn't take a note for an 0:17:08.000 --> 0:17:10.280 answer that, so he started to frustrate me because he 0:17:10.400 --> 0:17:13.840 fucking loves you. You don't know that it was, but 0:17:13.920 --> 0:17:16.400 I told him in the in the relationship though, I 0:17:16.440 --> 0:17:22.080 was like, you're not I'm a little more figure than Okay. 0:17:22.280 --> 0:17:25.399 He got so upset with me, and I was like, 0:17:26.480 --> 0:17:28.840 m we do trying to figure it out. 0:17:29.440 --> 0:17:30.840 I'm trying to tell you. 0:17:30.720 --> 0:17:33.600 Oh my god, I hate the same position. It was silent, 0:17:34.840 --> 0:17:37.920 No talk me through that ship. No, he was why 0:17:37.960 --> 0:17:42.119 did say he was concentrating? Excuse me? How old was he? 0:17:42.160 --> 0:17:48.480 Sixty eight? Was he? No? What in the fuck? Oh yeah? 0:17:48.680 --> 0:17:50.840 So yeah, he was just literally insecure about it because 0:17:50.840 --> 0:17:52.520 that probably wasn't the first time somebody told him that. 0:17:52.680 --> 0:17:55.760 No, he tried to tell me before that he he 0:17:55.880 --> 0:17:57.240 had a girl use him for sex. 0:17:57.800 --> 0:18:01.040 Want well, she didn't use you up because the fuck 0:18:01.119 --> 0:18:05.560 you have nothing else to get? The fu's all going, 0:18:05.720 --> 0:18:06.200 I don't. 0:18:10.520 --> 0:18:10.800 No. 0:18:11.520 --> 0:18:13.600 Maybe that was traumatic for him, and he just was 0:18:13.680 --> 0:18:16.240 like I will never deep dip it, bitch. 0:18:16.720 --> 0:18:20.879 Oh my no, that shit was just not good. Okay. 0:18:21.200 --> 0:18:25.880 So but even that, like he just just wasn't good 0:18:26.800 --> 0:18:29.760 because of But he wasn't even willing to learn like 0:18:29.840 --> 0:18:30.680 he is. 0:18:30.960 --> 0:18:32.920 Like that just shut him down and sent him even 0:18:33.000 --> 0:18:35.840 more in a sizzy like no, like, nah, I'm good, 0:18:36.240 --> 0:18:38.080 I don't. That probably just shut him down, and that 0:18:38.119 --> 0:18:40.520 probably fucked his confidence up even more than it was. 0:18:40.960 --> 0:18:44.879 But I think this lady, this woman who has the 0:18:44.920 --> 0:18:47.719 story for us, the mess for us to fix, I 0:18:47.760 --> 0:18:51.560 think she should reevaluate before going to her, like. 0:18:51.560 --> 0:18:52.280 Look at the pros and. 0:18:54.119 --> 0:18:58.080 Yes, yeah, you're talking about throwing away maybe like a 0:18:58.119 --> 0:19:02.199 lifetime with a soulmate because sex ain't where it's supposed 0:19:02.200 --> 0:19:02.359 to be. 0:19:02.440 --> 0:19:03.479 He not freaking enough for you? 0:19:03.480 --> 0:19:06.359 Your man's boring? But does he fucking paid the bills? 0:19:06.400 --> 0:19:09.240 Is he emotionally intelligent? Is he like come on, like 0:19:10.119 --> 0:19:11.480 check off all the other boxes? 0:19:11.600 --> 0:19:11.840 Yeah? 0:19:11.840 --> 0:19:14.640 But also makes me look at her question her because I. 0:19:14.560 --> 0:19:19.359 Think, yeah, almost definitely, because while she was describing us 0:19:19.400 --> 0:19:23.040 sexual encounter with her fuck buddy and his friend, she's 0:19:23.040 --> 0:19:26.800 not ready for marriage anyway, yeahl because she likes the 0:19:27.000 --> 0:19:31.359 thrill of like raunchiness, she likes Yeah, she likes thrilling sex. 0:19:31.720 --> 0:19:34.639 And I think if her fiance you know, seem to 0:19:34.640 --> 0:19:36.639 be husband, can't give that to her, don't walk down 0:19:36.680 --> 0:19:39.440 the aisle better. Fact we need to fix his mess. 0:19:39.520 --> 0:19:41.639 Not sure what's bitch you? You are right, You seem 0:19:41.720 --> 0:19:43.440 like you're gonna do whatever the fuck you want to do, 0:19:43.480 --> 0:19:46.119 whether me ands Taylor fiction mess or not. We need 0:19:46.320 --> 0:19:48.800 that man to come to the front of the conversation 0:19:49.640 --> 0:19:50.800 because what the fun. 0:19:51.040 --> 0:19:52.840 Yeah he comes from, I don't know. 0:19:53.480 --> 0:20:03.760 Yeah, her her fuck buddy calls himself god. She's fucking crazy. Yeah, yes, 0:20:04.240 --> 0:20:05.480 the God complex is ill. 0:20:06.000 --> 0:20:10.000 I hate that. It's so disgusting. But listen, something to say, 0:20:10.400 --> 0:20:13.520 is this right? Say she do leave leave her husband? 0:20:13.600 --> 0:20:17.520 Right, well, not her husband yet, Okay, say she actually 0:20:17.520 --> 0:20:20.400