1 00:00:01,120 --> 00:00:03,880 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:07,960 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:08,200 --> 00:00:11,280 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEFM dot com 4 00:00:11,320 --> 00:00:14,880 Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your 5 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:17,160 Speaker 1: letter live on the air, just like we're going to 6 00:00:17,200 --> 00:00:19,759 Speaker 1: read this one right here, right now, and you never know, 7 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:21,880 Speaker 1: it could be yours. 8 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:24,759 Speaker 2: You never know, Michael lapinhold on tight. We got it 9 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 2: for you. Here. It is Strawberry Letter. 10 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:31,520 Speaker 1: Thank you, Tommy. Subject. I just met my place sister 11 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:36,640 Speaker 1: in law. Okay, Stephen Shirley. I met my husband online 12 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:40,080 Speaker 1: and we dated briefly before we got married. We figured 13 00:00:40,080 --> 00:00:41,920 Speaker 1: out that we knew a lot of the same people, 14 00:00:42,040 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 1: and all my friends that knew him vouched for him 15 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 1: and said he's a great man. His mother always acted strangely, 16 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:51,920 Speaker 1: but he said that's just how she is, and she 17 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 1: would come around and be sweet. Eventually, a couple of 18 00:00:55,480 --> 00:00:58,440 Speaker 1: weeks after our wedding, I asked his mother to meet 19 00:00:58,440 --> 00:01:00,520 Speaker 1: for lunch and she asked if she could bring her 20 00:01:00,560 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 1: play daughter. I wanted to meet anyone close to my husband, 21 00:01:05,520 --> 00:01:09,640 Speaker 1: so I was excited that lunch date with his mom 22 00:01:09,720 --> 00:01:13,680 Speaker 1: has sent my marriage into a downward spiral. The play 23 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:17,839 Speaker 1: daughter knew everything about my husband, even more than his mom. 24 00:01:18,240 --> 00:01:20,760 Speaker 1: She said they've been the best of friends, but never 25 00:01:20,959 --> 00:01:25,840 Speaker 1: romantically involved. She said they've sat up many nights crying 26 00:01:25,880 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 1: together over bad relationships. I have never seen my husband cry. 27 00:01:30,480 --> 00:01:33,520 Speaker 1: She told us that my husband almost died after a 28 00:01:33,880 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 1: batched liposuction, and the mom didn't know he had surgery. 29 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:41,039 Speaker 1: She thought he lost weight naturally. I asked her why 30 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:43,479 Speaker 1: she didn't come to the wedding if they were so close, 31 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 1: and she said she wasn't invited. My mother in law 32 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 1: said she insisted that she come, but the play daughter 33 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:52,640 Speaker 1: said she felt like my husband was moving shady since 34 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:55,280 Speaker 1: he met me. Now, if this doesn't sound like a 35 00:01:55,320 --> 00:01:58,400 Speaker 1: whole side piece relationship with my husband, then what is it. 36 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:02,000 Speaker 1: Why is his mother not seeing this? My husband swears 37 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 1: he's never been intimate with his place sister, but couldn't 38 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:08,280 Speaker 1: explain why he has never introduced me to her and 39 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 1: none of its friends know of her. If I ask 40 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:15,640 Speaker 1: this play sister more questions, will I look insecure? And 41 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:18,239 Speaker 1: should I keep my head high as the WiFi? Or 42 00:02:18,280 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 1: should I do more research on her? Yes, you should 43 00:02:21,800 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 1: keep your head high as the WiFi, and you don't 44 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:26,640 Speaker 1: need any more research. I mean, how much research do 45 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:29,920 Speaker 1: you need? The research you want to know that you 46 00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 1: want to do now that should have been done before 47 00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 1: the marriage. Okay, that should have been done then. Anyway, 48 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:38,760 Speaker 1: you pretty much laid it all out. The clues are there, 49 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 1: with the first one being her saying, your husband's moving 50 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:43,680 Speaker 1: shady since he met you. And what does that mean? 51 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 1: What does moving shady mean? Does it mean he didn't 52 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:49,880 Speaker 1: invite her to the wedding because he didn't want any drama, 53 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:53,560 Speaker 1: or he didn't introduce her to any of his friends 54 00:02:53,639 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 1: because he didn't want any drama or didn't want them 55 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:56,680 Speaker 1: to know about her? 56 00:02:56,880 --> 00:02:57,800 Speaker 2: What did that mean? 57 00:02:58,080 --> 00:03:00,160 Speaker 1: I mean, there is a reason for him not tell 58 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:03,640 Speaker 1: could be a side piece situation, like you said, But 59 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:07,200 Speaker 1: his mom sure knows a lot about her, and she 60 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:09,400 Speaker 1: knows her well enough to invite her to lunch with 61 00:03:09,440 --> 00:03:13,119 Speaker 1: you guys. So this woman has definitely been around for 62 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:16,040 Speaker 1: a while. But I don't think you need to ask 63 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:18,720 Speaker 1: her any more questions. Let this go. If you want 64 00:03:18,760 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 1: to ask questions, ask your husband. This all happened before 65 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:25,919 Speaker 1: you and him got together, and this is a chance 66 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:27,920 Speaker 1: you take, you know, how it goes. When you meet 67 00:03:27,919 --> 00:03:31,760 Speaker 1: someone online and you marry them quickly, you don't get 68 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:35,600 Speaker 1: to know the person. So please remember everyone has the past. 69 00:03:36,120 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 3: Steve, Well, this is going to be a good one 70 00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:43,920 Speaker 3: for me because I can answer all these questions. You 71 00:03:44,040 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 3: have all of them with rather a certainty and assuredness. 72 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 3: You met your husband online, We dated briefly before we 73 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 3: got married. 74 00:03:53,160 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 2: Well, there it is. There it is. 75 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 3: You dated briefly before you got married. Now, I don't 76 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 3: know how you all, how old you all are. You 77 00:04:01,920 --> 00:04:07,640 Speaker 3: haven't mentioned any kids anything. But you have to understand, 78 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:12,200 Speaker 3: like Shirley said, everybody comes with the history. So when 79 00:04:12,280 --> 00:04:16,159 Speaker 3: you date briefly, you don't get to learn the history 80 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 3: because you haven't been put in enough situations where things 81 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:24,680 Speaker 3: can crop up. You all got along and everything. Now, 82 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:28,480 Speaker 3: his mother has always acted strangely strangely, but he said 83 00:04:28,720 --> 00:04:29,720 Speaker 3: that's just how she is. 84 00:04:29,680 --> 00:04:31,800 Speaker 2: And she would come around and be sweet eventually. 85 00:04:32,240 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 3: Well, a couple weeks after you got married, you asked 86 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:37,760 Speaker 3: your mother in law to meet for lunch. That was 87 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 3: a great idea. Your mom in law asked if she 88 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:44,159 Speaker 3: could bring her play daughter. 89 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:46,679 Speaker 2: Hell fault. 90 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:51,839 Speaker 3: Now, please don't let this boy's mama act like she 91 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:54,160 Speaker 3: don't know, because she is a grown ass woman now, 92 00:04:55,279 --> 00:05:01,279 Speaker 3: and women know, women know what they're doing. They're very smart. 93 00:05:00,279 --> 00:05:04,920 Speaker 3: I ain't hardly ever met no stupid women until they 94 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:08,920 Speaker 3: start listening to their heart instead of their intuition. Other 95 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:12,000 Speaker 3: than that, they are on top of the food tor 96 00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:15,080 Speaker 3: chain when it comes to brains and smart. Don't you 97 00:05:15,120 --> 00:05:17,760 Speaker 3: misunderstand that for a moment. So the boy and mama 98 00:05:17,760 --> 00:05:20,400 Speaker 3: know what he's doing, gonna bring the play daughter, And 99 00:05:20,520 --> 00:05:22,560 Speaker 3: you said, yeah, because you want to meet anybody close 100 00:05:22,600 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 3: to your husband, because now you're trying to learn your 101 00:05:25,080 --> 00:05:28,000 Speaker 3: husband after you've married him, instead of dating him longer 102 00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:29,719 Speaker 3: to learning before you got married. 103 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 2: So now here we go. 104 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:34,359 Speaker 3: So I was excited that lunch day with his mom, 105 00:05:34,400 --> 00:05:37,359 Speaker 3: but that dunch they sent your marriage into a downward spiral. 106 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:43,200 Speaker 3: The play daughter knew everything about my husband, see right there. 107 00:05:44,040 --> 00:05:48,080 Speaker 3: Why did the mama bring her even more than his mom? 108 00:05:48,560 --> 00:05:50,880 Speaker 3: She said, they've been the best of friends, but never 109 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 3: romantically involved. Why is she talking to you? You know 110 00:05:56,120 --> 00:05:58,440 Speaker 3: why I think she talking to you because she trying 111 00:05:58,440 --> 00:06:02,240 Speaker 3: to play the spoiler. She's trying to be the spoiler. 112 00:06:02,279 --> 00:06:06,680 Speaker 3: It's always some woman getting left by the wayside at 113 00:06:06,680 --> 00:06:10,160 Speaker 3: the altar, and then all of a sudden, Wanner, I 114 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 3: know more. Me and him talk, we everything. They they've 115 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:16,640 Speaker 3: been in best of friends, she said, they've set up 116 00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:21,719 Speaker 3: many nights crying together over bad relationships. I've never seen 117 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:26,159 Speaker 3: my husband cry. That's because you ain't known him long enough. 118 00:06:28,279 --> 00:06:28,880 Speaker 2: But I'll tell you what. 119 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:30,800 Speaker 3: After you found out you and the mom and the 120 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 3: plate system was at lunch, he was I better ask 121 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:35,400 Speaker 3: someone crying then. 122 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:40,480 Speaker 1: All right, hang on, Steve, we'll have part two of 123 00:06:40,520 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 1: your response to this Strawberry letter at twenty three minutes 124 00:06:43,760 --> 00:06:48,159 Speaker 1: after the our today's subject, I just met my play 125 00:06:48,240 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 1: sister in law. We'll get back into it right after this. 126 00:06:52,640 --> 00:06:57,200 Speaker 1: You're listening hard Morning show. All right, Steve, come on, 127 00:06:57,279 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 1: let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject is I just 128 00:07:00,920 --> 00:07:02,960 Speaker 1: met my play sister in law. 129 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:07,240 Speaker 3: Well, this woman met this man online, dated briefly, and 130 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 3: then got married. 131 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:11,640 Speaker 2: Dating briefly doesn't allow you to learn. 132 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 3: The person's history, so now you're learning his history while 133 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 3: you're married. You've always thought that Mama was actually sort 134 00:07:18,680 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 3: of funny to you, so you wanted to invite her 135 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:23,440 Speaker 3: to lunch after you all got married. A couple of weeks, 136 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:27,400 Speaker 3: she asked you could she bring her a plate daughter. Okay, 137 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:29,200 Speaker 3: so then you said yeah, because you want to meet 138 00:07:29,240 --> 00:07:32,000 Speaker 3: everybody close to the family. Well that date that sent 139 00:07:32,080 --> 00:07:35,000 Speaker 3: your marriage into a down went spirals because little miss 140 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:38,400 Speaker 3: play daughter then set up here and knew everything about 141 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 3: your husband and molding his mama. 142 00:07:42,320 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 2: She said. 143 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:45,560 Speaker 3: They've been the best of friends, but never romantically involved. 144 00:07:45,880 --> 00:07:48,520 Speaker 3: She said, they've set up many nights crying together over 145 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:52,320 Speaker 3: bad relationship. I have never seen my husband cry. Well, 146 00:07:52,360 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 3: you ain't been with him long enough. But I tell 147 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:56,920 Speaker 3: you what though, after he found out you was with 148 00:07:57,000 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 3: his mama and his play sister, his ass was somewhere crying. 149 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:03,440 Speaker 2: And then that's for damn. I can promise you his 150 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:06,480 Speaker 2: ass his tomb. 151 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:12,040 Speaker 3: She told us that my husband almost died after a 152 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:15,600 Speaker 3: batch liposuction and his mom didn't even know he had 153 00:08:15,600 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 3: the subject. 154 00:08:16,640 --> 00:08:21,520 Speaker 2: Okay, well, did you know he had LiPo such? No, 155 00:08:21,720 --> 00:08:25,160 Speaker 2: she didn't know. Did you know it was botched? No? 156 00:08:26,120 --> 00:08:30,720 Speaker 3: How do you know that he almost died. I'm listening 157 00:08:30,720 --> 00:08:33,120 Speaker 3: to this story that this woman is weaving for you. 158 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:36,560 Speaker 3: We've cried together. Yeah, all this is stuff you can't 159 00:08:36,640 --> 00:08:43,440 Speaker 3: check on. We've cried together, set up many nights. So okay, 160 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:45,520 Speaker 3: So if y'all been crying together all of all the 161 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:48,679 Speaker 3: bad relationships you had pretty much why I explain why 162 00:08:48,679 --> 00:08:51,680 Speaker 3: a little play sister, play sistant law ain't got no 163 00:08:51,800 --> 00:08:52,360 Speaker 3: damn body. 164 00:08:53,280 --> 00:08:55,880 Speaker 2: See I notice now know who you're talking to? 165 00:08:56,960 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 3: Uh? She thought the mother thought he lost Naturally, I 166 00:09:00,840 --> 00:09:03,120 Speaker 3: asked her why she didn't come to the wedding if 167 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:07,120 Speaker 3: they were so close, and she said she wasn't invited. Now, 168 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:09,320 Speaker 3: the mother in law jumped in and said she insisted 169 00:09:09,360 --> 00:09:12,240 Speaker 3: that she come. But the play daughter says, she felt 170 00:09:12,280 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 3: like my husband was moving shady since he met me. H, well, 171 00:09:17,760 --> 00:09:23,280 Speaker 3: that's a good sign. See, he didn't invite her because 172 00:09:23,400 --> 00:09:24,000 Speaker 3: he didn't. 173 00:09:23,800 --> 00:09:26,400 Speaker 2: Want her round, didn't want the drama, right. 174 00:09:27,120 --> 00:09:30,640 Speaker 3: You know, because he already know his mama and the 175 00:09:30,760 --> 00:09:34,360 Speaker 3: girl close. Now why would he do that? And listen 176 00:09:34,400 --> 00:09:36,400 Speaker 3: to me, The key to this, I want your takeaway 177 00:09:36,440 --> 00:09:40,320 Speaker 3: to be is he felt like she didn't want to 178 00:09:40,320 --> 00:09:43,000 Speaker 3: come to the wedding and she felt like my husband 179 00:09:43,040 --> 00:09:45,960 Speaker 3: was moving shady since it well, her husband were trying 180 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 3: to distance himself. 181 00:09:47,360 --> 00:09:50,120 Speaker 2: That's a good thing. That's what moving shady. 182 00:09:50,160 --> 00:09:50,280 Speaker 1: Men. 183 00:09:50,920 --> 00:09:53,319 Speaker 3: Now, if this doesn't sound like a whole side piece 184 00:09:53,600 --> 00:09:55,840 Speaker 3: relationship with my husband, then. 185 00:09:55,720 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 2: What is it? 186 00:09:56,840 --> 00:10:01,439 Speaker 3: But see if it was a side piece situation, it 187 00:10:01,520 --> 00:10:05,840 Speaker 3: ain't no more. But you're meeting a man that had 188 00:10:05,840 --> 00:10:09,839 Speaker 3: a background, as do all men. He had a background, 189 00:10:10,679 --> 00:10:14,120 Speaker 3: So now where we at? If it was a side piece, 190 00:10:14,840 --> 00:10:17,319 Speaker 3: he didn't tell you about it? Because who do that? 191 00:10:17,920 --> 00:10:20,040 Speaker 3: What man meets a woman and go, hey, let me 192 00:10:20,040 --> 00:10:21,719 Speaker 3: tell you about these chicks I got out here on this. 193 00:10:23,679 --> 00:10:24,800 Speaker 2: Ain't nobody fins to do that. 194 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:27,720 Speaker 3: And I don't know what you think a man supposed 195 00:10:27,720 --> 00:10:29,959 Speaker 3: to do that for, but you can lose him expectation. 196 00:10:30,960 --> 00:10:32,720 Speaker 3: You can take that off the plate because we're not 197 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:37,720 Speaker 3: finna do that. And then if my husband swears he's 198 00:10:37,720 --> 00:10:40,480 Speaker 3: never been intimate with his place system, but couldn't explain 199 00:10:40,520 --> 00:10:42,600 Speaker 3: to me why he never introduced me to her, and 200 00:10:42,679 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 3: none of his friends know of her. 201 00:10:45,400 --> 00:10:46,920 Speaker 2: Okay, so. 202 00:10:48,320 --> 00:10:50,520 Speaker 3: You the place sist over there when we buy ourself, 203 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:54,280 Speaker 3: you ain't coming up around my friend because you ain't 204 00:10:54,280 --> 00:10:55,760 Speaker 3: gon I ain't got no future with you. 205 00:10:56,360 --> 00:10:57,560 Speaker 2: That could be it. 206 00:10:58,120 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 3: But now you trying to make something out of his 207 00:11:00,280 --> 00:11:03,280 Speaker 3: past and turn it into his right now, and there 208 00:11:03,280 --> 00:11:06,160 Speaker 3: are no signs of him messing with this girl right now. 209 00:11:06,760 --> 00:11:09,959 Speaker 3: So even if she was a side piece, please lose 210 00:11:10,000 --> 00:11:12,719 Speaker 3: your desire for him to tell you that he had 211 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:15,439 Speaker 3: a side piece, because he didne had a side piece, 212 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:20,440 Speaker 3: and it's been several it ain't just hum. So if 213 00:11:20,440 --> 00:11:23,760 Speaker 3: I asked this place sister more questions, will I look secure? 214 00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:28,080 Speaker 3: Why would you ask her anything? This girl ain't nothing 215 00:11:28,120 --> 00:11:30,079 Speaker 3: in here but to place fall, and she gonna tell 216 00:11:30,120 --> 00:11:33,120 Speaker 3: you all kinds of stuff because she's been crying with 217 00:11:33,160 --> 00:11:37,640 Speaker 3: your husband over a bad relationship, which means she can't 218 00:11:37,840 --> 00:11:42,079 Speaker 3: get in a good relationship. Now another relationship, he'd have 219 00:11:42,240 --> 00:11:46,200 Speaker 3: found you, and he'd have picked you over her. Why 220 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:49,680 Speaker 3: would you ask cut anything? Cause she ain't got but 221 00:11:49,720 --> 00:11:52,320 Speaker 3: one mission right now. It's to try to make you 222 00:11:52,440 --> 00:11:54,880 Speaker 3: think she got more of a relationship with him than 223 00:11:54,920 --> 00:11:57,960 Speaker 3: you do, and she don't. Should I keep my head 224 00:11:58,040 --> 00:11:58,720 Speaker 3: high as the wife? 225 00:11:58,800 --> 00:12:01,040 Speaker 2: You know? Should I do more research to her? Stop 226 00:12:01,080 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 2: researching her? 227 00:12:02,200 --> 00:12:04,560 Speaker 3: Stop digging up in this man's past, because you're gonna 228 00:12:04,559 --> 00:12:07,280 Speaker 3: find something you don't want to know now. But now 229 00:12:07,280 --> 00:12:10,480 Speaker 3: I suppose he dug up your past, you don't think 230 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:13,160 Speaker 3: he finds a couple of things too that look a 231 00:12:13,200 --> 00:12:17,000 Speaker 3: little shady. Get out the man's past. Build your future 232 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:19,440 Speaker 3: with this man. Stop looking in the rear view mirror. 233 00:12:19,920 --> 00:12:23,600 Speaker 3: You are the wife, not her. Hold your head high. 234 00:12:23,720 --> 00:12:26,920 Speaker 3: You the wife. Have a talk with him and said, hey, look, 235 00:12:27,200 --> 00:12:30,400 Speaker 3: lose her number, lose her information. I ain't gonna beat 236 00:12:30,440 --> 00:12:32,839 Speaker 3: you up about this, but make sure that that have 237 00:12:33,000 --> 00:12:36,720 Speaker 3: for stay gone. If I see her again, you won't 238 00:12:36,760 --> 00:12:40,319 Speaker 3: see me again. You make your choice, that's all to it. 239 00:12:40,840 --> 00:12:43,520 Speaker 3: But I ain't gonna deal with her and your mama. 240 00:12:43,679 --> 00:12:46,360 Speaker 3: You don't have no damn play sister in law quick 241 00:12:46,440 --> 00:12:48,560 Speaker 3: calling her that I'm. 242 00:12:48,440 --> 00:12:52,880 Speaker 1: Surprised you didn't say we cried together like the Oh Jays. 243 00:12:54,000 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 3: I try to show more versatility. 244 00:12:58,960 --> 00:13:00,680 Speaker 1: You are a very talented man. 245 00:13:00,800 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 2: Yes you are all right. 246 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:05,360 Speaker 1: Leave it your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram, 247 00:13:05,360 --> 00:13:07,680 Speaker 1: at Steve harb FM and check out the Strawberry Letter 248 00:13:07,760 --> 00:13:11,520 Speaker 1: podcast on demand. Coming up next, it is Junior and 249 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:15,720 Speaker 1: Sports Talk. 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