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Speaker 4: Update, Second Date, Update Date.
Speaker 5: Sometimes the success or failure of a first date all
Speaker 5: comes down to what you do in one crucial moment,
Speaker 5: oh man, Like when they ask so how soon do
Speaker 5: you want?
Speaker 4: Oh, oh god, and you.
Speaker 5: Answer by unzipping your pants, or soon when he leans
Speaker 5: in for the first kiss and you coughed directly into.
Speaker 2: His mouth, the timing.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it all.
Speaker 5: Can come down to one moment, and one of our
Speaker 5: listener wrote us an email saying she thinks she blew
Speaker 5: it in the most critical moment of their first date. Yes,
Speaker 5: she feels absolutely terrible about it. Her name is Lola. So, Lola,
Speaker 5: welcome to the show.
Speaker 1: Hi, oh man, Lola. It can't be as bad as
Speaker 1: Jeff's examples, right.
Speaker 6: I mean it was kind of bad, but you guys
Speaker 6: can judge how bad it was.
Speaker 2: Okay, the invitation to judge.
Speaker 5: Fine, Yeah, this is gonna be fun. So take us
Speaker 5: back to the very beginning of the date. What's the
Speaker 5: guy's name? How did you guys meet?
Speaker 6: So his name is Jeremiah. Met online and kind of
Speaker 6: to set the scene of like what happened, he picked
Speaker 6: me up. So I got in a car and shot
Speaker 6: on the radio and it was my favorite artist, Shaboozy
Speaker 6: that came on. Yeah, so I turned it up. He
Speaker 6: didn't seem to like the song as much, like I
Speaker 6: was kind of dancing a little bit.
Speaker 4: You turned up the volume in his car.
Speaker 2: That's a big deal.
Speaker 6: I think.
Speaker 3: She didn't change the song.
Speaker 1: I know, but it's just touching someone's stereo. When the
Speaker 1: very first time you've been in a car.
Speaker 6: I just I didn't like think of it that way.
Speaker 6: I just looked at him with a smile and like
Speaker 6: I was just like, whooh.
Speaker 2: Okay, you're trying to have fun in the moment.
Speaker 4: Okay. What was his reaction?
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, he just kind of like laughed a little.
Speaker 6: But then like when I was dancing and said he
Speaker 6: wasn't like dancing along with the song, like it didn't
Speaker 6: seem like it was a big deal for him. I
Speaker 6: don't know, but that wasn't the big thing.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 6: The big thing was when we got to the restaurant.
Speaker 6: And by the way, this is like a like a
Speaker 6: crab shack.
Speaker 2: Okay, Oh, I love those places. Do they pour it
Speaker 2: on the tape and stuff like a boy?
Speaker 6: Yeah? Yeah, Well, and you know you get these big swear.
Speaker 4: This quite a romantic scene.
Speaker 1: That the like have mallets, you lick at your fingers.
Speaker 4: Sucking and slurping noise.
Speaker 2: I can't believe you don't like that, Jake.
Speaker 5: I'm not saying that I don't, but I understand a
Speaker 5: lot of people. It's it's kind of a strong image
Speaker 5: for the very first do you see.
Speaker 4: A girl's like I head off a croppit.
Speaker 6: I always wanted to go.
Speaker 2: Where was the bad part of that?
Speaker 6: Okay, So Jeremiah like, all of a sudden at one point,
Speaker 6: he stands up really quick and his chair falls down
Speaker 6: and his eyes are going really big. And it took
Speaker 6: me a few seconds. But then I was like, I
Speaker 6: was like, oh my gosh, you might be choking.
Speaker 4: Oh god, yeah, you do well.
Speaker 6: I tried a few things. I was like, and I
Speaker 6: was like hitting him in the back, but this other
Speaker 6: girl like came out of nowhere. She pushed me out
Speaker 6: of the way and gave him the high maneuver.
Speaker 2: It saved him.
Speaker 6: Yeah, and it was like crazy, The whole thing was crazy,
Speaker 6: and his life was flashing before his eyes like mine
Speaker 6: was too, in a way.
Speaker 5: Yeah, terrifying if somebody like choking right in front of you, guests. Yeah,
Speaker 5: not to mention that crab is probably really expensive. It'd
Speaker 5: be ashamed to waste it.
Speaker 4: That was a king crab. You better have picked it
Speaker 4: back up off the floor. Yeah. Was he okay? And
Speaker 4: was the crab still eat well?
Speaker 6: I don't know about the crab, but he was okay, okay.
Speaker 6: Obviously he didn't feel like eating anymore.
Speaker 4: He didn't. Just that's where the date ended.
Speaker 6: Well, yeah, he basically he paid the bill and we
Speaker 6: left and he drove me back home, and like the
Speaker 6: whole car ride, I was just like, wow, that was crazy.
Speaker 6: And he's just like still flamber and he's like yeah,
Speaker 6: I know, and pretty much just drove home in silence.
Speaker 1: Thrust away.
Speaker 4: Did you when you kiss?
Speaker 6: No, we did not kiss.
Speaker 4: I'm kidding.
Speaker 5: No, shaboozie on the drive back, you know, okay, whiskey. So,
Speaker 5: just going back to your email, you think you blew
Speaker 5: it on the date because you didn't know how to
Speaker 5: properly do the Heimlich.
Speaker 4: Is that what you meant by your email?
Speaker 6: I don't know. I just I feel like I didn't
Speaker 6: know what to do and I just want to redoing.
Speaker 4: I don't think you did that.
Speaker 2: I mean you didn't do the wrong thing. You did
Speaker 2: something right. Like you hit and you are supposed to
Speaker 2: I just finished my first aid course.
Speaker 1: You're supposed to bend someone over at a ninety degree
Speaker 1: angle and then hit.
Speaker 2: Him on the back five times, and then you bring
Speaker 2: him up and then.
Speaker 5: You Okay, that's CPR after dark, that's the Heimli. Everyone's
Speaker 5: supposed to wear leather for it, right, Okay, I've been
Speaker 5: I've been in that class.
Speaker 2: Maybe that's it.
Speaker 1: Maybe he just doesn't want to like rehash that night. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, like you're ever connected to it.
Speaker 2: We Shu didn't pull your phone and start taking a video?
Speaker 4: No did we? Did she not take out her phone
Speaker 4: and take a video?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 6: I did not.
Speaker 4: You hesitated for a second there, you have to think
Speaker 4: about it.
Speaker 5: No.
Speaker 6: No, I thought that image and I was like, who
Speaker 6: would do that?
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, fair.
Speaker 5: We have been burned before by not asking these types
Speaker 5: of questions before we make the call. So we're just
Speaker 5: trying to cover all the bases here. And how long
Speaker 5: has it been since Jeremiah's choking incident.
Speaker 6: It's been a week and a half.
Speaker 5: Let's call it their first date, okay, fire, we'll rename
Speaker 5: the segment. Then sounds like, did we get a second
Speaker 5: date that we're gonna need us in a lifeguard with them? Yeah,
Speaker 5: possibly somebody to step in just in case an emergency.
Speaker 2: They can take Brooks. Course, everyone should get CPR in
Speaker 2: first aid.
Speaker 4: Yeah, totally.
Speaker 5: First, we just need him to say yes to a
Speaker 5: second date when we come back, call him and do
Speaker 5: it right after this hold.
Speaker 4: On second date update.
Speaker 5: Most the time, when somebody's like, hey, let's head over
Speaker 5: to the choking party, it's a good thing, at least
Speaker 5: in my life.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you get a little.
Speaker 5: Shaboozy going strict some airways, just see what happens. But
Speaker 5: the reason I bring it up is because Lola went
Speaker 5: on a date that wasn't.
Speaker 4: Supposed to be a choking party.
Speaker 5: It turned out to be, though, when her guy what
Speaker 5: I'm serious, they exist, they exist, and you guys just
Speaker 5: aren't being invited to them. And I'm glad you're not
Speaker 5: because I don't like your attitude to.
Speaker 2: The man had his life flashed before his eyes.
Speaker 4: Jeohn Mayah is the man. He got a little crab
Speaker 4: meat stuck in his throat.
Speaker 5: Lola didn't know what to do, so started hitting him
Speaker 5: on his back until another woman shoved in and gave
Speaker 5: him the heimlick.
Speaker 1: It's always so amazing when there's someone with medical experience
Speaker 1: just right when you need it.
Speaker 4: It's amazing. Sure.
Speaker 5: The positive to that is the woman saved Jeremiah's life.
Speaker 2: That's positive.
Speaker 5: The negative, though, is she kind of stole Lola's thunder. So, Lola,
Speaker 5: is there anything that you want to say to the
Speaker 5: selfish woman who stole your spotlight if she's listening to this.
Speaker 6: No, no, I'm grateful that she saved him.
Speaker 4: Are you because he's not calling you back now?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 1: I mean, Lola, have you reached out to him? I
Speaker 1: mean it's an easy like, oh my god, how are
Speaker 1: you doing?
Speaker 6: I did, and no response.
Speaker 4: You said.
Speaker 5: The date ended pretty quickly after that. Does any part
Speaker 5: of you think maybe he choked on purpose as an
Speaker 5: excuse in order to.
Speaker 6: Call No, No, I don't think so at all.
Speaker 1: He flew up and the chair flew back, and he
Speaker 1: wasn't breezy ony out right grabbing his throat and turning.
Speaker 5: Purpose describing another choking party to liking it. Anyway, we
Speaker 5: will assume that he choked for real and that something
Speaker 5: is going on in his life that's making him not
Speaker 5: want to call you back that Here we go.
Speaker 4: I'm going to dial Jeremiah. Let's see if he answers.
Speaker 3: Thank you?
Speaker 1: All?
Speaker 3: Right?
Speaker 4: Hold on, here we go. Hey? Is this Jeremiah yeah speaking?
Speaker 4: Hey man?
Speaker 5: You are speaking right now to an entire radio show
Speaker 5: called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 2: Jeremi, what up?
Speaker 4: Good morning? Okay, Yeah, I know this.
Speaker 5: Is probably pretty random. But we're doing a segment on
Speaker 5: our show it's called a second Date Update, and we'd
Speaker 5: really like to hear your side of the story that
Speaker 5: we just got.
Speaker 3: What are you guys talking about?
Speaker 5: Basically, we know somebody that you went on a date
Speaker 5: with recently, a woman named Lola.
Speaker 3: She called you guys.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, because she just wants to know why after
Speaker 5: your hangout you don't want to see her again, or
Speaker 5: she says, you're not really making an effort in like
Speaker 5: the week and a half since it happened, and we
Speaker 5: don't know what's going on on your end.
Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, we haven't talked since that.
Speaker 1: Night, right, Were you planning on colin her?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 5: Yeah, Okay, is there something specific that's holding you back
Speaker 5: from doing so?
Speaker 3: I mean, I I don't I don't really know what
Speaker 3: she told you guys about what happened. But it was
Speaker 3: a nightmare.
Speaker 4: I mean, we heard some pretty crazy stuff happened that night.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but Lola just wants to know why after all
Speaker 5: of it went down, you don't want to go out
Speaker 5: with her again, or you're not really making an effort
Speaker 5: to talk to her anymore.
Speaker 4: She's just a little bit confused.
Speaker 3: Yeah, she tried to kill me.
Speaker 2: What what?
Speaker 6: What?
Speaker 2: That is a huge, huge accusation.
Speaker 3: No, I'm dead serious. I started choking on a piece
Speaker 3: of crab. I'm giving them the U, the universal sign
Speaker 3: for choking. I got two hands on my throat, right,
Speaker 3: and she just she comes up and starts trying to
Speaker 3: make out with me.
Speaker 2: Excuse me?
Speaker 7: What you that she came over after a few seconds
Speaker 7: because she was so stunned and started hitting you on
Speaker 7: the back.
Speaker 3: I mean, eventually she came around behind me and started
Speaker 3: like bashing me in the back with one of the
Speaker 3: crab mallards.
Speaker 5: Okay, wait, we heard that she was trying to help
Speaker 5: you hit you in the back.
Speaker 4: We didn't hear about using a crab mallard.
Speaker 2: You didn't ask again after before the kissing.
Speaker 3: That was after because like she's blowing air into my windpipe,
Speaker 3: which is stuffing the thing down like I can't breathe.
Speaker 2: She's doing like mouth to mouth.
Speaker 1: Doesn't know that's out of CPR now, well it's actually
Speaker 1: back in certified.
Speaker 5: It sounds like, and she even told us this directly,
Speaker 5: that she was really panicked in that moment and she
Speaker 5: didn't know how to help you.
Speaker 1: Yes, it sounds like it's not a sexual makeout session.
Speaker 2: It's just a she was trying to help. Like, I
Speaker 2: don't think she was actually trying to kiss you.
Speaker 3: I don't know what the hell she was doing.
Speaker 5: Okay, well, you know what fair The best thing to
Speaker 5: do probably is just ask her what she was doing,
Speaker 5: because she is on the other line of this call waiting.
Speaker 4: To talk to you.
Speaker 3: Are you serious?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think she's there.
Speaker 6: Hey there as It sounds really bad, and I guess
Speaker 6: it was like worse than I thought. But maybe next
Speaker 6: time we could just do milkshakes where you're not choking.
Speaker 5: What he was saying that when he started choking, you
Speaker 5: went up and tried to kiss him, is that true?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 6: No, no, no, I was trying to give him CPR.
Speaker 2: I'm never standing up CPR. That's not with you, CPR.
Speaker 6: I just froze. I just can't.
Speaker 2: Well, you didn't freeze, you did something.
Speaker 4: At least you didn't run away too. That would have
Speaker 4: been it.
Speaker 5: We did go super smash Bros on his back with
Speaker 5: the crab ballet, so that was kind of cool.
Speaker 6: I mean, I needed to do something, but I knew
Speaker 6: I couldn't hit him that hard, so I just, you know,
Speaker 6: I thought the mallet would be quicker, harder.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but why were you just blowing into my mouth
Speaker 3: and like holding onto my cheek the visual of it.
Speaker 6: No, I I heard this like if you blow the
Speaker 6: food it can come out or something. Maybe that's what
Speaker 6: I thought.
Speaker 5: I don't know, you're trying to blow it down into you.
Speaker 3: Tell me, Oh my gosh.
Speaker 5: Lola told us that the ride home was very silent
Speaker 5: and awkward between you two. Was that was that whole
Speaker 5: situation because you were mad at her? Or were you
Speaker 5: just shocked by what had just happened.
Speaker 3: I was totally shocked. I had never choked before in
Speaker 3: my life.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Serious, I thought he was in the car with this killer.
Speaker 6: The more chances I have, Jeremy, I'm just thankful you're alive,
Speaker 6: even if we don't do a second day, like, I
Speaker 6: hope you know that that's not what I was trying
Speaker 6: to do. I was. I was trying to save you.
Speaker 4: That she may not have, but she tried. That is
Speaker 4: sweet it.
Speaker 2: Actually she's sincere on that, Jeremiah.
Speaker 1: I mean you could understand, like if you were in
Speaker 1: her position, the panic would definitely be there.
Speaker 3: I completely understand. I was panicking too. My life flashed
Speaker 3: before my eyes.
Speaker 5: I get it, Okay, yeah, but yeah, I mean, we
Speaker 5: all agree. Even Lola is admitting she did a bad
Speaker 5: job in her life saving attempt, but the effort was there,
Speaker 5: and if it hadn't been for her clubbing your back
Speaker 5: with that crab mallet, the other lady wouldn't have known
Speaker 5: to run over and give you the heimlick.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like fun girl in the car that likes
Speaker 1: to dance to Shaboozie something.
Speaker 2: Yeah, less person that will save your life.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I hate that song.
Speaker 5: Okay, okay, take out the Shaboozi then, and now that
Speaker 5: everything is out in the open, we would like to
Speaker 5: offer to send the two of you out on another
Speaker 5: day with hopefully zero choking involved, and we would pay
Speaker 5: for it.
Speaker 2: Gosh, Jeff hasn't made a promise like that in a
Speaker 2: long time.
Speaker 5: I know, I don't know who would want something like that,
Speaker 5: but maybe you do. Jeremiah, what you think about giving
Speaker 5: Lola one more chance? I mean, she sounds genuinely remorseful
Speaker 5: and terrible about the way things unfolded.
Speaker 3: Yeah, look, I appreciate that. I just I kind of
Speaker 3: feel like if you're on a first date and you
Speaker 3: almost die It's probably not a good sign if you die.
Speaker 2: On that one and it experienced gould Bond people.
Speaker 5: Yeah, we could send you to one of those air
Speaker 5: bars where they just put like air.
Speaker 2: Up the oxygen bar.
Speaker 4: Oxygen bar.
Speaker 2: Those were huge in the twenty tents.
Speaker 5: Jeremiah, you're saying that this was a sign from the
Speaker 5: universe that you're not meant to be with Lola.
Speaker 3: I think it was a sign from God.
Speaker 4: Excuse me?
Speaker 5: All right, Well, Lola, is there anything that you want
Speaker 5: to say to Jeremiah while we still have him on
Speaker 5: the phone or God?
Speaker 4: Yeah, explain him.
Speaker 6: So No, I just want to say, seeing that you
Speaker 6: think this is a sign, you're right, and I would
Speaker 6: want to be with someone who enjoy shaboozi sign.
Speaker 4: God speaks in weird ways.
Speaker 2: Sometime, looking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 5: A lot of lessons we could take out of that
Speaker 5: phone call. Maybe number one, most importantly, don't try mouth
Speaker 5: to mouth on someone who's actively in the middle of choking.
Speaker 1: I mean, unless they've already passed out and they're on
Speaker 1: the floor, then you actually should you should administer CPR
Speaker 1: at that point.
Speaker 2: Yeah, if they're still standing, mouth to mouth isn't.
Speaker 4: If they're still conscious.
Speaker 5: Number two, if they don't like Shaboozi, that's a sign
Speaker 5: from God.
Speaker 2: You can't take a first aid class to fix that.
Speaker 5: And finally, if you start choking mid dinner date, that's
Speaker 5: God's way of telling you you deserve to find someone better.
Speaker 2: This second day was so divine.
Speaker 5: It really was a lot of cosmic signs happening. And
Speaker 5: if you're listening to this right now, that's probably God
Speaker 5: telling you you need to subscribe to our podcast.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, unless you choke.
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