WEBVTT - Second Date Update, Suck, Slurp & Breathe

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<v Speaker 1>It's Brick and Jeffrey. In the morning, we get a

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<v Speaker 1>brand new second date. It's not very often that we

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<v Speaker 1>get a life or death moment. Yeah, one of these

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<v Speaker 1>stories and it actually happened today, so definitely stay around

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<v Speaker 1>for this one. It's definitely wild. What do you see

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<v Speaker 1>on the comment section, alexis Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Alex from the UK said love your content. I'm twenty

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<v Speaker 2>two and just bought my first house. Well, so now

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<v Speaker 2>I can listen to you guys full volume on the speakers.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that what you could do in the UK?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Afordable?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know already. Let's be honest. You have a

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<v Speaker 2>rich mommy and daddy.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, let us go.

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<v Speaker 1>Let us all right, Well, thank you for being here

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<v Speaker 1>wherever you are in the world. We just think it's

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<v Speaker 1>new second date.

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<v Speaker 4>Update, Second Date, Update Date.

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<v Speaker 5>Sometimes the success or failure of a first date all

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<v Speaker 5>comes down to what you do in one crucial moment,

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<v Speaker 5>oh man, Like when they ask so how soon do

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<v Speaker 5>you want?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, oh god, and you.

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<v Speaker 5>Answer by unzipping your pants, or soon when he leans

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<v Speaker 5>in for the first kiss and you coughed directly into.

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<v Speaker 2>His mouth, the timing.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it all.

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<v Speaker 5>Can come down to one moment, and one of our

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<v Speaker 5>listener wrote us an email saying she thinks she blew

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<v Speaker 5>it in the most critical moment of their first date. Yes,

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<v Speaker 5>she feels absolutely terrible about it. Her name is Lola. So, Lola,

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<v Speaker 5>welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, oh man, Lola. It can't be as bad as

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff's examples, right.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean it was kind of bad, but you guys

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<v Speaker 6>can judge how bad it was.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, the invitation to judge.

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<v Speaker 5>Fine, Yeah, this is gonna be fun. So take us

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<v Speaker 5>back to the very beginning of the date. What's the

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<v Speaker 5>guy's name? How did you guys meet?

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<v Speaker 6>So his name is Jeremiah. Met online and kind of

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<v Speaker 6>to set the scene of like what happened, he picked

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<v Speaker 6>me up. So I got in a car and shot

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<v Speaker 6>on the radio and it was my favorite artist, Shaboozy

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<v Speaker 6>that came on. Yeah, so I turned it up. He

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<v Speaker 6>didn't seem to like the song as much, like I

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<v Speaker 6>was kind of dancing a little bit.

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<v Speaker 4>You turned up the volume in his car.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a big deal.

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<v Speaker 6>I think.

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<v Speaker 3>She didn't change the song.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, but it's just touching someone's stereo. When the

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<v Speaker 1>very first time you've been in a car.

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<v Speaker 6>I just I didn't like think of it that way.

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<v Speaker 6>I just looked at him with a smile and like

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<v Speaker 6>I was just like, whooh.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you're trying to have fun in the moment.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay. What was his reaction?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yeah, he just kind of like laughed a little.

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<v Speaker 6>But then like when I was dancing and said he

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<v Speaker 6>wasn't like dancing along with the song, like it didn't

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<v Speaker 6>seem like it was a big deal for him. I

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<v Speaker 6>don't know, but that wasn't the big thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

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<v Speaker 6>The big thing was when we got to the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 6>And by the way, this is like a like a

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<v Speaker 6>crab shack.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Oh, I love those places. Do they pour it

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<v Speaker 2>on the tape and stuff like a boy?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah? Yeah, Well, and you know you get these big swear.

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<v Speaker 4>This quite a romantic scene.

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<v Speaker 1>That the like have mallets, you lick at your fingers.

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<v Speaker 4>Sucking and slurping noise.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't believe you don't like that, Jake.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not saying that I don't, but I understand a

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<v Speaker 5>lot of people. It's it's kind of a strong image

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<v Speaker 5>for the very first do you see.

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<v Speaker 4>A girl's like I head off a croppit.

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<v Speaker 6>I always wanted to go.

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<v Speaker 2>Where was the bad part of that?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, So Jeremiah like, all of a sudden at one point,

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<v Speaker 6>he stands up really quick and his chair falls down

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<v Speaker 6>and his eyes are going really big. And it took

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<v Speaker 6>me a few seconds. But then I was like, I

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<v Speaker 6>was like, oh my gosh, you might be choking.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh god, yeah, you do well.

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<v Speaker 6>I tried a few things. I was like, and I

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<v Speaker 6>was like hitting him in the back, but this other

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<v Speaker 6>girl like came out of nowhere. She pushed me out

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<v Speaker 6>of the way and gave him the high maneuver.

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<v Speaker 2>It saved him.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, and it was like crazy, The whole thing was crazy,

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<v Speaker 6>and his life was flashing before his eyes like mine

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<v Speaker 6>was too, in a way.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, terrifying if somebody like choking right in front of you, guests. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>not to mention that crab is probably really expensive. It'd

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<v Speaker 5>be ashamed to waste it.

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<v Speaker 4>That was a king crab. You better have picked it

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<v Speaker 4>back up off the floor. Yeah. Was he okay? And

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<v Speaker 4>was the crab still eat well?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know about the crab, but he was okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 6>Obviously he didn't feel like eating anymore.

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<v Speaker 4>He didn't. Just that's where the date ended.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, yeah, he basically he paid the bill and we

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<v Speaker 6>left and he drove me back home, and like the

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<v Speaker 6>whole car ride, I was just like, wow, that was crazy.

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<v Speaker 6>And he's just like still flamber and he's like yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>I know, and pretty much just drove home in silence.

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<v Speaker 1>Thrust away.

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<v Speaker 4>Did you when you kiss?

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<v Speaker 6>No, we did not kiss.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm kidding.

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<v Speaker 5>No, shaboozie on the drive back, you know, okay, whiskey. So,

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<v Speaker 5>just going back to your email, you think you blew

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<v Speaker 5>it on the date because you didn't know how to

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<v Speaker 5>properly do the Heimlich.

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<v Speaker 4>Is that what you meant by your email?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know. I just I feel like I didn't

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<v Speaker 6>know what to do and I just want to redoing.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think you did that.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean you didn't do the wrong thing. You did

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<v Speaker 2>something right. Like you hit and you are supposed to

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<v Speaker 2>I just finished my first aid course.

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<v Speaker 1>You're supposed to bend someone over at a ninety degree

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<v Speaker 1>angle and then hit.

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<v Speaker 2>Him on the back five times, and then you bring

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<v Speaker 2>him up and then.

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<v Speaker 5>You Okay, that's CPR after dark, that's the Heimli. Everyone's

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<v Speaker 5>supposed to wear leather for it, right, Okay, I've been

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<v Speaker 5>I've been in that class.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe he just doesn't want to like rehash that night. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like you're ever connected to it.

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<v Speaker 2>We Shu didn't pull your phone and start taking a video?

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<v Speaker 4>No did we? Did she not take out her phone

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<v Speaker 4>and take a video?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 6>I did not.

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<v Speaker 4>You hesitated for a second there, you have to think

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<v Speaker 4>about it.

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<v Speaker 5>No.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I thought that image and I was like, who

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<v Speaker 6>would do that?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, fair.

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<v Speaker 5>We have been burned before by not asking these types

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<v Speaker 5>of questions before we make the call. So we're just

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<v Speaker 5>trying to cover all the bases here. And how long

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<v Speaker 5>has it been since Jeremiah's choking incident.

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<v Speaker 6>It's been a week and a half.

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<v Speaker 5>Let's call it their first date, okay, fire, we'll rename

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<v Speaker 5>the segment. Then sounds like, did we get a second

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<v Speaker 5>date that we're gonna need us in a lifeguard with them? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>possibly somebody to step in just in case an emergency.

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<v Speaker 2>They can take Brooks. Course, everyone should get CPR in

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<v Speaker 2>first aid.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, totally.

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<v Speaker 5>First, we just need him to say yes to a

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<v Speaker 5>second date when we come back, call him and do

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<v Speaker 5>it right after this hold.

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<v Speaker 4>On second date update.

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<v Speaker 5>Most the time, when somebody's like, hey, let's head over

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<v Speaker 5>to the choking party, it's a good thing, at least

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<v Speaker 5>in my life.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you get a little.

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<v Speaker 5>Shaboozy going strict some airways, just see what happens. But

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<v Speaker 5>the reason I bring it up is because Lola went

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<v Speaker 5>on a date that wasn't.

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<v Speaker 4>Supposed to be a choking party.

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<v Speaker 5>It turned out to be, though, when her guy what

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<v Speaker 5>I'm serious, they exist, they exist, and you guys just

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<v Speaker 5>aren't being invited to them. And I'm glad you're not

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<v Speaker 5>because I don't like your attitude to.

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<v Speaker 2>The man had his life flashed before his eyes.

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<v Speaker 4>Jeohn Mayah is the man. He got a little crab

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<v Speaker 4>meat stuck in his throat.

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<v Speaker 5>Lola didn't know what to do, so started hitting him

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<v Speaker 5>on his back until another woman shoved in and gave

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<v Speaker 5>him the heimlick.

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<v Speaker 1>It's always so amazing when there's someone with medical experience

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<v Speaker 1>just right when you need it.

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<v Speaker 4>It's amazing. Sure.

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<v Speaker 5>The positive to that is the woman saved Jeremiah's life.

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<v Speaker 2>That's positive.

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<v Speaker 5>The negative, though, is she kind of stole Lola's thunder. So, Lola,

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<v Speaker 5>is there anything that you want to say to the

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<v Speaker 5>selfish woman who stole your spotlight if she's listening to this.

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<v Speaker 6>No, no, I'm grateful that she saved him.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you because he's not calling you back now?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, Lola, have you reached out to him? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean it's an easy like, oh my god, how are

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<v Speaker 1>you doing?

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<v Speaker 6>I did, and no response.

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<v Speaker 4>You said.

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<v Speaker 5>The date ended pretty quickly after that. Does any part

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<v Speaker 5>of you think maybe he choked on purpose as an

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<v Speaker 5>excuse in order to.

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<v Speaker 6>Call No, No, I don't think so at all.

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<v Speaker 1>He flew up and the chair flew back, and he

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't breezy ony out right grabbing his throat and turning.

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<v Speaker 5>Purpose describing another choking party to liking it. Anyway, we

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<v Speaker 5>will assume that he choked for real and that something

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<v Speaker 5>is going on in his life that's making him not

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<v Speaker 5>want to call you back that Here we go.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to dial Jeremiah. Let's see if he answers.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you?

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<v Speaker 1>All?

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<v Speaker 3>Right?

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<v Speaker 4>Hold on, here we go. Hey? Is this Jeremiah yeah speaking?

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<v Speaker 4>Hey man?

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<v Speaker 5>You are speaking right now to an entire radio show

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<v Speaker 5>called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Jeremi, what up?

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<v Speaker 4>Good morning? Okay, Yeah, I know this.

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<v Speaker 5>Is probably pretty random. But we're doing a segment on

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<v Speaker 5>our show it's called a second Date Update, and we'd

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<v Speaker 5>really like to hear your side of the story that

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<v Speaker 5>we just got.

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<v Speaker 3>What are you guys talking about?

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<v Speaker 5>Basically, we know somebody that you went on a date

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<v Speaker 5>with recently, a woman named Lola.

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<v Speaker 3>She called you guys.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, because she just wants to know why after

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<v Speaker 5>your hangout you don't want to see her again, or

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<v Speaker 5>she says, you're not really making an effort in like

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<v Speaker 5>the week and a half since it happened, and we

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<v Speaker 5>don't know what's going on on your end.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, yeah, we haven't talked since that.

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<v Speaker 1>Night, right, Were you planning on colin her?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Okay, is there something specific that's holding you back

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<v Speaker 5>from doing so?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I I don't I don't really know what

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<v Speaker 3>she told you guys about what happened. But it was

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<v Speaker 3>a nightmare.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, we heard some pretty crazy stuff happened that night.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but Lola just wants to know why after all

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<v Speaker 5>of it went down, you don't want to go out

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<v Speaker 5>with her again, or you're not really making an effort

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<v Speaker 5>to talk to her anymore.

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<v Speaker 4>She's just a little bit confused.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she tried to kill me.

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<v Speaker 2>What what?

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<v Speaker 6>What?

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<v Speaker 2>That is a huge, huge accusation.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I'm dead serious. I started choking on a piece

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<v Speaker 3>of crab. I'm giving them the U, the universal sign

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<v Speaker 3>for choking. I got two hands on my throat, right,

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<v Speaker 3>and she just she comes up and starts trying to

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<v Speaker 3>make out with me.

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<v Speaker 2>Excuse me?

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<v Speaker 7>What you that she came over after a few seconds

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<v Speaker 7>because she was so stunned and started hitting you on

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<v Speaker 7>the back.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, eventually she came around behind me and started

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<v Speaker 3>like bashing me in the back with one of the

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<v Speaker 3>crab mallards.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, wait, we heard that she was trying to help

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<v Speaker 5>you hit you in the back.

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<v Speaker 4>We didn't hear about using a crab mallard.

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<v Speaker 2>You didn't ask again after before the kissing.

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<v Speaker 3>That was after because like she's blowing air into my windpipe,

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<v Speaker 3>which is stuffing the thing down like I can't breathe.

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<v Speaker 2>She's doing like mouth to mouth.

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<v Speaker 1>Doesn't know that's out of CPR now, well it's actually

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<v Speaker 1>back in certified.

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<v Speaker 5>It sounds like, and she even told us this directly,

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<v Speaker 5>that she was really panicked in that moment and she

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<v Speaker 5>didn't know how to help you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, it sounds like it's not a sexual makeout session.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just a she was trying to help. Like, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't think she was actually trying to kiss you.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what the hell she was doing.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, well, you know what fair The best thing to

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<v Speaker 5>do probably is just ask her what she was doing,

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<v Speaker 5>because she is on the other line of this call waiting.

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<v Speaker 4>To talk to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you serious?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I think she's there.

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<v Speaker 6>Hey there as It sounds really bad, and I guess

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<v Speaker 6>it was like worse than I thought. But maybe next

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<v Speaker 6>time we could just do milkshakes where you're not choking.

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<v Speaker 5>What he was saying that when he started choking, you

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<v Speaker 5>went up and tried to kiss him, is that true?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 6>No, no, no, I was trying to give him CPR.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm never standing up CPR. That's not with you, CPR.

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<v Speaker 6>I just froze. I just can't.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you didn't freeze, you did something.

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<v Speaker 4>At least you didn't run away too. That would have

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<v Speaker 4>been it.

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<v Speaker 5>We did go super smash Bros on his back with

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<v Speaker 5>the crab ballet, so that was kind of cool.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I needed to do something, but I knew

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<v Speaker 6>I couldn't hit him that hard, so I just, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>I thought the mallet would be quicker, harder.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but why were you just blowing into my mouth

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<v Speaker 3>and like holding onto my cheek the visual of it.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I I heard this like if you blow the

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<v Speaker 6>food it can come out or something. Maybe that's what

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<v Speaker 6>I thought.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know, you're trying to blow it down into you.

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<v Speaker 3>Tell me, Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 5>Lola told us that the ride home was very silent

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<v Speaker 5>and awkward between you two. Was that was that whole

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<v Speaker 5>situation because you were mad at her? Or were you

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<v Speaker 5>just shocked by what had just happened.

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<v Speaker 3>I was totally shocked. I had never choked before in

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<v Speaker 3>my life.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Serious, I thought he was in the car with this killer.

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<v Speaker 6>The more chances I have, Jeremy, I'm just thankful you're alive,

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<v Speaker 6>even if we don't do a second day, like, I

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<v Speaker 6>hope you know that that's not what I was trying

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<v Speaker 6>to do. I was. I was trying to save you.

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<v Speaker 4>That she may not have, but she tried. That is

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<v Speaker 4>sweet it.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually she's sincere on that, Jeremiah.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you could understand, like if you were in

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<v Speaker 1>her position, the panic would definitely be there.

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<v Speaker 3>I completely understand. I was panicking too. My life flashed

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<v Speaker 3>before my eyes.

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<v Speaker 5>I get it, Okay, yeah, but yeah, I mean, we

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<v Speaker 5>all agree. Even Lola is admitting she did a bad

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<v Speaker 5>job in her life saving attempt, but the effort was there,

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<v Speaker 5>and if it hadn't been for her clubbing your back

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<v Speaker 5>with that crab mallet, the other lady wouldn't have known

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<v Speaker 5>to run over and give you the heimlick.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's like fun girl in the car that likes

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<v Speaker 1>to dance to Shaboozie something.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, less person that will save your life.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I hate that song.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, okay, take out the Shaboozi then, and now that

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<v Speaker 5>everything is out in the open, we would like to

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<v Speaker 5>offer to send the two of you out on another

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<v Speaker 5>day with hopefully zero choking involved, and we would pay

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<v Speaker 5>for it.

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<v Speaker 2>Gosh, Jeff hasn't made a promise like that in a

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<v Speaker 2>long time.

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<v Speaker 5>I know, I don't know who would want something like that,

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<v Speaker 5>but maybe you do. Jeremiah, what you think about giving

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<v Speaker 5>Lola one more chance? I mean, she sounds genuinely remorseful

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<v Speaker 5>and terrible about the way things unfolded.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, look, I appreciate that. I just I kind of

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<v Speaker 3>feel like if you're on a first date and you

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<v Speaker 3>almost die It's probably not a good sign if you die.

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<v Speaker 2>On that one and it experienced gould Bond people.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we could send you to one of those air

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<v Speaker 5>bars where they just put like air.

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<v Speaker 2>Up the oxygen bar.

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<v Speaker 4>Oxygen bar.

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<v Speaker 2>Those were huge in the twenty tents.

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<v Speaker 5>Jeremiah, you're saying that this was a sign from the

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<v Speaker 5>universe that you're not meant to be with Lola.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it was a sign from God.

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<v Speaker 4>Excuse me?

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<v Speaker 5>All right, Well, Lola, is there anything that you want

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<v Speaker 5>to say to Jeremiah while we still have him on

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<v Speaker 5>the phone or God?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, explain him.

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<v Speaker 6>So No, I just want to say, seeing that you

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<v Speaker 6>think this is a sign, you're right, and I would

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<v Speaker 6>want to be with someone who enjoy shaboozi sign.

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<v Speaker 4>God speaks in weird ways.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometime, looking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 5>A lot of lessons we could take out of that

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<v Speaker 5>phone call. Maybe number one, most importantly, don't try mouth

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<v Speaker 5>to mouth on someone who's actively in the middle of choking.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, unless they've already passed out and they're on

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<v Speaker 1>the floor, then you actually should you should administer CPR

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<v Speaker 1>at that point.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, if they're still standing, mouth to mouth isn't.

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<v Speaker 4>If they're still conscious.

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<v Speaker 5>Number two, if they don't like Shaboozi, that's a sign

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<v Speaker 5>from God.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't take a first aid class to fix that.

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<v Speaker 5>And finally, if you start choking mid dinner date, that's

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<v Speaker 5>God's way of telling you you deserve to find someone better.

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<v Speaker 2>This second day was so divine.

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<v Speaker 5>It really was a lot of cosmic signs happening. And

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<v Speaker 5>if you're listening to this right now, that's probably God

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<v Speaker 5>telling you you need to subscribe to our podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, unless you choke.

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<v Speaker 1>If you don't believe in God, then it's just us

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<v Speaker 1>telling us that you should subscribe to the Best Life.

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<v Speaker 3>Like that.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't make God or us angry.

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<v Speaker 5>The universe will come back to bite you if you

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<v Speaker 5>don't find us online wherever you get your podcasts at

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<v Speaker 5>Brooke and Jeffrey