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Speaker 1: It's Brick and Jeffrey. In the morning, we get a

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Speaker 1: brand new second date. It's not very often that we

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Speaker 1: get a life or death moment. Yeah, one of these

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Speaker 1: stories and it actually happened today, so definitely stay around

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Speaker 1: for this one. It's definitely wild. What do you see

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Speaker 1: on the comment section, alexis Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Alex from the UK said love your content. I'm twenty

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Speaker 2: two and just bought my first house. Well, so now

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Speaker 2: I can listen to you guys full volume on the speakers.

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Speaker 2: Is that what you could do in the UK?

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Afordable?

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Speaker 2: I don't know already. Let's be honest. You have a

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Speaker 2: rich mommy and daddy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, let us go.

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Speaker 1: Let us all right, Well, thank you for being here

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Speaker 1: wherever you are in the world. We just think it's

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Speaker 1: so cool. Please like and subscribe and enjoy the brand

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Speaker 1: new second date.

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Speaker 4: Update, Second Date, Update Date.

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Speaker 5: Sometimes the success or failure of a first date all

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Speaker 5: comes down to what you do in one crucial moment,

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Speaker 5: oh man, Like when they ask so how soon do

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Speaker 5: you want?

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Speaker 4: Oh, oh god, and you.

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Speaker 5: Answer by unzipping your pants, or soon when he leans

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Speaker 5: in for the first kiss and you coughed directly into.

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Speaker 2: His mouth, the timing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it all.

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Speaker 5: Can come down to one moment, and one of our

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Speaker 5: listener wrote us an email saying she thinks she blew

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Speaker 5: it in the most critical moment of their first date. Yes,

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Speaker 5: she feels absolutely terrible about it. Her name is Lola. So, Lola,

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Speaker 5: welcome to the show.

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Speaker 1: Hi, oh man, Lola. It can't be as bad as

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Speaker 1: Jeff's examples, right.

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Speaker 6: I mean it was kind of bad, but you guys

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Speaker 6: can judge how bad it was.

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Speaker 2: Okay, the invitation to judge.

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Speaker 5: Fine, Yeah, this is gonna be fun. So take us

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Speaker 5: back to the very beginning of the date. What's the

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Speaker 5: guy's name? How did you guys meet?

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Speaker 6: So his name is Jeremiah. Met online and kind of

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Speaker 6: to set the scene of like what happened, he picked

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Speaker 6: me up. So I got in a car and shot

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Speaker 6: on the radio and it was my favorite artist, Shaboozy

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Speaker 6: that came on. Yeah, so I turned it up. He

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Speaker 6: didn't seem to like the song as much, like I

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Speaker 4: You turned up the volume in his car.

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Speaker 2: That's a big deal.

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Speaker 6: I think.

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Speaker 3: She didn't change the song.

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Speaker 1: I know, but it's just touching someone's stereo. When the

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Speaker 1: very first time you've been in a car.

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Speaker 6: I just I didn't like think of it that way.

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Speaker 6: I just looked at him with a smile and like

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Speaker 6: I was just like, whooh.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you're trying to have fun in the moment.

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Speaker 4: Okay. What was his reaction?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, he just kind of like laughed a little.

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Speaker 6: But then like when I was dancing and said he

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Speaker 6: don't know, but that wasn't the big thing.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 6: The big thing was when we got to the restaurant.

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Speaker 6: And by the way, this is like a like a

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Speaker 6: crab shack.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Oh, I love those places. Do they pour it

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Speaker 6: Yeah? Yeah, Well, and you know you get these big swear.

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Speaker 4: This quite a romantic scene.

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Speaker 1: That the like have mallets, you lick at your fingers.

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Speaker 4: Sucking and slurping noise.

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Speaker 2: I can't believe you don't like that, Jake.

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Speaker 5: I'm not saying that I don't, but I understand a

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Speaker 4: A girl's like I head off a croppit.

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Speaker 6: I always wanted to go.

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Speaker 2: Where was the bad part of that?

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Speaker 6: Okay, So Jeremiah like, all of a sudden at one point,

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Speaker 4: Oh god, yeah, you do well.

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Speaker 6: I tried a few things. I was like, and I

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Speaker 2: It saved him.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and it was like crazy, The whole thing was crazy,

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Speaker 6: and his life was flashing before his eyes like mine

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Speaker 5: Yeah, terrifying if somebody like choking right in front of you, guests. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: not to mention that crab is probably really expensive. It'd

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Speaker 4: That was a king crab. You better have picked it

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Speaker 6: I don't know about the crab, but he was okay, okay.

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Speaker 6: Obviously he didn't feel like eating anymore.

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Speaker 4: He didn't. Just that's where the date ended.

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Speaker 6: Well, yeah, he basically he paid the bill and we

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Speaker 6: And he's just like still flamber and he's like yeah,

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Speaker 6: I know, and pretty much just drove home in silence.

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Speaker 1: Thrust away.

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Speaker 4: Did you when you kiss?

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Speaker 6: No, we did not kiss.

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Speaker 4: I'm kidding.

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Speaker 5: No, shaboozie on the drive back, you know, okay, whiskey. So,

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Speaker 5: just going back to your email, you think you blew

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Speaker 5: it on the date because you didn't know how to

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Speaker 4: Is that what you meant by your email?

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Speaker 6: I don't know. I just I feel like I didn't

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Speaker 4: I don't think you did that.

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Speaker 2: I mean you didn't do the wrong thing. You did

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Speaker 2: I just finished my first aid course.

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Speaker 1: You're supposed to bend someone over at a ninety degree

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Speaker 2: Him on the back five times, and then you bring

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Speaker 5: You Okay, that's CPR after dark, that's the Heimli. Everyone's

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Speaker 5: supposed to wear leather for it, right, Okay, I've been

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Speaker 5: I've been in that class.

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Speaker 2: Maybe that's it.

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Speaker 1: Maybe he just doesn't want to like rehash that night. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: We Shu didn't pull your phone and start taking a video?

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Speaker 4: No did we? Did she not take out her phone

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Speaker 4: and take a video?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 6: I did not.

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Speaker 4: You hesitated for a second there, you have to think

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Speaker 5: No.

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Speaker 6: No, I thought that image and I was like, who

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, fair.

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Speaker 5: We have been burned before by not asking these types

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Speaker 5: trying to cover all the bases here. And how long

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Speaker 5: has it been since Jeremiah's choking incident.

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Speaker 6: It's been a week and a half.

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Speaker 5: Let's call it their first date, okay, fire, we'll rename

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Speaker 5: the segment. Then sounds like, did we get a second

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Speaker 5: date that we're gonna need us in a lifeguard with them? Yeah,

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Speaker 5: possibly somebody to step in just in case an emergency.

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Speaker 2: They can take Brooks. Course, everyone should get CPR in

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Speaker 5: First, we just need him to say yes to a

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Speaker 5: second date when we come back, call him and do

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Speaker 4: On second date update.

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Speaker 5: Most the time, when somebody's like, hey, let's head over

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Speaker 5: to the choking party, it's a good thing, at least

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you get a little.

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Speaker 5: Shaboozy going strict some airways, just see what happens. But

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Speaker 5: the reason I bring it up is because Lola went

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Speaker 5: on a date that wasn't.

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Speaker 4: Supposed to be a choking party.

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Speaker 5: It turned out to be, though, when her guy what

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Speaker 5: I'm serious, they exist, they exist, and you guys just

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Speaker 5: aren't being invited to them. And I'm glad you're not

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Speaker 2: The man had his life flashed before his eyes.

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Speaker 4: Jeohn Mayah is the man. He got a little crab

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Speaker 5: Lola didn't know what to do, so started hitting him

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Speaker 1: It's always so amazing when there's someone with medical experience

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Speaker 4: It's amazing. Sure.

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Speaker 5: The positive to that is the woman saved Jeremiah's life.

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Speaker 2: That's positive.

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Speaker 5: The negative, though, is she kind of stole Lola's thunder. So, Lola,

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Speaker 6: No, no, I'm grateful that she saved him.

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Speaker 4: Are you because he's not calling you back now?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 1: I mean, Lola, have you reached out to him? I

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Speaker 1: mean it's an easy like, oh my god, how are

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Speaker 6: I did, and no response.

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Speaker 5: The date ended pretty quickly after that. Does any part

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Speaker 5: of you think maybe he choked on purpose as an

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Speaker 6: Call No, No, I don't think so at all.

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Speaker 1: He flew up and the chair flew back, and he

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Speaker 1: wasn't breezy ony out right grabbing his throat and turning.

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Speaker 5: Purpose describing another choking party to liking it. Anyway, we

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Speaker 5: is going on in his life that's making him not

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Speaker 5: want to call you back that Here we go.

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Speaker 4: I'm going to dial Jeremiah. Let's see if he answers.

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Speaker 3: Thank you?

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Speaker 1: All?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 4: Hold on, here we go. Hey? Is this Jeremiah yeah speaking?

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Speaker 4: Hey man?

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Speaker 5: You are speaking right now to an entire radio show

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Speaker 5: called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 2: Jeremi, what up?

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Speaker 4: Good morning? Okay, Yeah, I know this.

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Speaker 5: Is probably pretty random. But we're doing a segment on

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Speaker 5: our show it's called a second Date Update, and we'd

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Speaker 3: What are you guys talking about?

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Speaker 5: Basically, we know somebody that you went on a date

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Speaker 5: with recently, a woman named Lola.

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Speaker 3: She called you guys.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, because she just wants to know why after

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Speaker 5: your hangout you don't want to see her again, or

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Speaker 5: she says, you're not really making an effort in like

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Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, we haven't talked since that.

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Speaker 1: Night, right, Were you planning on colin her?

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Speaker 4: I mean, we heard some pretty crazy stuff happened that night.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but Lola just wants to know why after all

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Speaker 4: She's just a little bit confused.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she tried to kill me.

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Speaker 2: What what?

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Speaker 6: What?

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Speaker 2: That is a huge, huge accusation.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm dead serious. I started choking on a piece

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Speaker 2: Excuse me?

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Speaker 7: What you that she came over after a few seconds

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Speaker 3: I mean, eventually she came around behind me and started

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Speaker 5: Okay, wait, we heard that she was trying to help

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Speaker 4: We didn't hear about using a crab mallard.

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Speaker 2: You didn't ask again after before the kissing.

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Speaker 3: That was after because like she's blowing air into my windpipe,

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Speaker 2: She's doing like mouth to mouth.

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Speaker 1: Doesn't know that's out of CPR now, well it's actually

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Speaker 1: Yes, it sounds like it's not a sexual makeout session.

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Speaker 2: It's just a she was trying to help. Like, I

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Speaker 3: I don't know what the hell she was doing.

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Speaker 5: Okay, well, you know what fair The best thing to

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Speaker 4: To talk to you.

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Speaker 3: Are you serious?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think she's there.

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Speaker 6: Hey there as It sounds really bad, and I guess

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Speaker 5: What he was saying that when he started choking, you

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 6: No, no, no, I was trying to give him CPR.

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Speaker 2: I'm never standing up CPR. That's not with you, CPR.

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Speaker 6: I just froze. I just can't.

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Speaker 2: Well, you didn't freeze, you did something.

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Speaker 4: At least you didn't run away too. That would have

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Speaker 5: We did go super smash Bros on his back with

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Speaker 6: I mean, I needed to do something, but I knew

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Speaker 6: I thought the mallet would be quicker, harder.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but why were you just blowing into my mouth

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Speaker 6: No, I I heard this like if you blow the

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Speaker 5: I don't know, you're trying to blow it down into you.

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Speaker 3: Tell me, Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 5: Lola told us that the ride home was very silent

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Speaker 5: and awkward between you two. Was that was that whole

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Speaker 3: I was totally shocked. I had never choked before in

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Serious, I thought he was in the car with this killer.

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Speaker 6: The more chances I have, Jeremy, I'm just thankful you're alive,

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Speaker 6: even if we don't do a second day, like, I

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Speaker 4: That she may not have, but she tried. That is

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Speaker 2: Actually she's sincere on that, Jeremiah.

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Speaker 1: I mean you could understand, like if you were in

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Speaker 3: I completely understand. I was panicking too. My life flashed

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like fun girl in the car that likes

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Speaker 1: to dance to Shaboozie something.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, less person that will save your life.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I hate that song.

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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, take out the Shaboozi then, and now that

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Speaker 2: Gosh, Jeff hasn't made a promise like that in a

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Speaker 5: I know, I don't know who would want something like that,

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Speaker 5: but maybe you do. Jeremiah, what you think about giving

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Speaker 3: Yeah, look, I appreciate that. I just I kind of

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Speaker 2: On that one and it experienced gould Bond people.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we could send you to one of those air

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Speaker 2: Up the oxygen bar.

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Speaker 4: Oxygen bar.

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Speaker 2: Those were huge in the twenty tents.

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Speaker 5: Jeremiah, you're saying that this was a sign from the

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Speaker 3: I think it was a sign from God.

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Speaker 4: Excuse me?

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Speaker 5: All right, Well, Lola, is there anything that you want

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Speaker 4: Yeah, explain him.

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Speaker 6: So No, I just want to say, seeing that you

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Speaker 4: God speaks in weird ways.

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Speaker 2: Sometime, looking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 5: A lot of lessons we could take out of that

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Speaker 1: I mean, unless they've already passed out and they're on

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Speaker 2: Yeah, if they're still standing, mouth to mouth isn't.

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Speaker 4: If they're still conscious.

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Speaker 5: Number two, if they don't like Shaboozi, that's a sign

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Speaker 2: You can't take a first aid class to fix that.

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Speaker 5: And finally, if you start choking mid dinner date, that's

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Speaker 5: God's way of telling you you deserve to find someone better.

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Speaker 2: This second day was so divine.

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Speaker 5: It really was a lot of cosmic signs happening. And

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Speaker 5: if you're listening to this right now, that's probably God

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Speaker 5: telling you you need to subscribe to our podcast.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, unless you choke.

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Speaker 1: If you don't believe in God, then it's just us

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Speaker 1: telling us that you should subscribe to the Best Life.

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Speaker 3: Like that.

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Speaker 4: Don't make God or us angry.

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Speaker 5: The universe will come back to bite you if you

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Speaker 5: don't find us online wherever you get your podcasts at

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Speaker 5: Brooke and Jeffrey