WEBVTT - The Plan to Save The Bachelor 0:00:00.760 --> 0:00:03.800 This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast 0:00:03.840 --> 0:00:04.640 with iHeartRadio. 0:00:06.200 --> 0:00:08.680 Hello everyone, welcome to the almost Est podcast. 0:00:08.760 --> 0:00:13.040 Today we are doing headlines with Jared Bye. 0:00:13.160 --> 0:00:14.840 Jared loves talking about Bachelor. 0:00:15.240 --> 0:00:20.520 But since last week was our anniversary, our seventh anniversary, 0:00:21.560 --> 0:00:23.079 we thought that we'd do it a little bit with 0:00:23.200 --> 0:00:25.080 Jared and we talk about what we did and all 0:00:25.120 --> 0:00:25.360 of that. 0:00:25.480 --> 0:00:26.640 But the funny thing. 0:00:26.520 --> 0:00:29.800 That we argue about now every time our anniversary comes 0:00:29.800 --> 0:00:32.400 around is does it feel like this amount of time 0:00:32.560 --> 0:00:37.080 or does it feel like less? I always feel like 0:00:37.159 --> 0:00:40.760 it feels like years less at seven years. To me, 0:00:40.880 --> 0:00:44.080 it feels like four years, and Jared's always like, no, 0:00:44.200 --> 0:00:45.360 it feels about seven years. 0:00:45.400 --> 0:00:45.600 Now. 0:00:47.240 --> 0:00:48.440 I have no opinion. 0:00:48.680 --> 0:00:51.080 I wish I did, because like the difference between seven 0:00:51.159 --> 0:00:53.400 and four matters nothing to me. But do you know 0:00:53.680 --> 0:00:55.760 like it feels like four instead of seven? And I'm like, 0:00:55.960 --> 0:00:56.920 I don't care. 0:01:00.160 --> 0:01:02.720 You and Ben are the two people in my life, 0:01:02.920 --> 0:01:06.440 in my life that you guys exaggerate time so much 0:01:06.600 --> 0:01:08.960 that like, I feel like your timetable isn't even right, 0:01:09.400 --> 0:01:11.039 Like you and Ben will be like that was like 0:01:11.120 --> 0:01:13.840 two years ago, and then I go, Jared, that was 0:01:13.920 --> 0:01:16.520 this past November like, you just said, we haven't driven 0:01:16.520 --> 0:01:18.039 to my parents for two years, and I was like, 0:01:18.080 --> 0:01:19.880 we drove this past Thanksgiving. 0:01:21.720 --> 0:01:24.360 I have my brain is mush. What do you want 0:01:24.360 --> 0:01:24.560 from me? 0:01:24.680 --> 0:01:27.479 So you just have a you have whacked out timeline. Yeah, 0:01:27.560 --> 0:01:29.080 so what did we do to celebrate? 0:01:29.160 --> 0:01:29.440 Jared? 0:01:29.920 --> 0:01:31.760 We went to dinner in Newport was very nice. Went 0:01:31.800 --> 0:01:33.880 to dinner at a restaurant called the Vanderbilt. It's a 0:01:33.920 --> 0:01:36.040 Vanderbilt hotel. The restaurant there's very nice. Went to their 0:01:36.080 --> 0:01:39.760 rooftop beforehand and afterwards because it was so beautiful, beautiful 0:01:39.840 --> 0:01:42.440 views of Newport. We met a couple other couples on 0:01:42.480 --> 0:01:45.240 the top, which was wonderful, and I had a couple 0:01:45.280 --> 0:01:47.760 of drinks, a night out without the kids. It was 0:01:47.840 --> 0:01:51.280 very nice, very low key, exactly what I wanted and 0:01:51.280 --> 0:01:52.560 I'm assuming you wanted as well. 0:01:52.760 --> 0:01:53.120 Yeah. 0:01:53.320 --> 0:01:55.840 I just love going to Newport as much as possible 0:01:55.920 --> 0:01:59.880 during the summer. This night, it was a recreation of 0:02:00.080 --> 0:02:01.720 the weather seven years later. 0:02:01.520 --> 0:02:02.120 That we had. 0:02:02.280 --> 0:02:08.200 It was cotton candies, guys like about eighty degrees, no humidity. 0:02:08.320 --> 0:02:11.760 It was just gorgeous And I had a great time 0:02:11.760 --> 0:02:12.799 with you on Tuesday night. 0:02:13.360 --> 0:02:15.440 It was very nice, and. 0:02:15.320 --> 0:02:16.880 That Jared, like really wants to be here. 0:02:17.960 --> 0:02:20.760 Clearly, Jared, it's not a bad thing. It's just like, 0:02:20.800 --> 0:02:22.840 I have no opinions about it. It was a very 0:02:22.880 --> 0:02:23.240 nice night. 0:02:23.400 --> 0:02:26.840 Have no opinions. This is this sounds great. I know. 0:02:27.080 --> 0:02:30.480 This is why I'm not. I don't host a podcast anymore. 0:02:30.520 --> 0:02:32.640 What do you mean you were so good at hosting 0:02:32.639 --> 0:02:33.239 your podcast. 0:02:33.320 --> 0:02:36.000 I can't talk about dating. I mean, I love talking 0:02:36.040 --> 0:02:37.799 to Dean. That's why I did it for so long. 0:02:37.840 --> 0:02:40.600 I loved talking to Dean, hate talking to my wife. 0:02:40.680 --> 0:02:42.280 No, no, no, I love talking to you as well. But 0:02:42.360 --> 0:02:43.960 it's you know, I talked to you every single day 0:02:43.960 --> 0:02:47.880 of my life. Not enough, not enough, not enough. We 0:02:47.919 --> 0:02:50.640 could always talk more. I would agree with that, but 0:02:50.880 --> 0:02:53.320 you know, both of us working full time, two kids 0:02:53.360 --> 0:02:56.120 comes up with a lot. The anniversaries wonderful, is very sweet. 0:02:56.120 --> 0:03:02.440 We had a very nice night, and yeah, the weather 0:03:02.560 --> 0:03:04.720 was nice. I mean, actually we're on a podcast. 0:03:05.040 --> 0:03:07.000 Okay, Jared, Well, I mean I was just trying to, 0:03:07.360 --> 0:03:11.520 you know, paint a picture. Heather watched Heather producer Heather 0:03:11.800 --> 0:03:14.880 she watched our proposal for the first time in a 0:03:14.880 --> 0:03:17.079 long time, if not like the first time last night. 0:03:17.120 --> 0:03:19.480 She couldn't quite figure out whether she watched that season 0:03:19.560 --> 0:03:23.560 or not, and she asked the question in our rundown, 0:03:24.160 --> 0:03:26.440 when was the last time you watched back your proposal? 0:03:27.080 --> 0:03:29.160 I don't think we ever have. 0:03:29.919 --> 0:03:33.840 We watch our wedding video like pretty much every anniversary. 0:03:34.040 --> 0:03:36.400 Yeah, the wedding video is far more meaningful. Yeah, we 0:03:36.560 --> 0:03:40.440 proposal like it keeps comming back to Kevin. Yeah, why 0:03:40.440 --> 0:03:42.400 would we want to watch that? We don't watch that. 0:03:42.480 --> 0:03:45.920 It's very odd, to the point to which, like Jared 0:03:45.960 --> 0:03:49.280 and I debated whether or not that was a good choice. 0:03:49.640 --> 0:03:51.520 No, it was definitely a good choice hindsight. 0:03:51.640 --> 0:03:54.640 Well, when we first watched it, when we got our screener, 0:03:54.840 --> 0:03:56.000 we were best. 0:03:56.520 --> 0:03:59.280 Yeah. But also it was the right choice because the 0:03:59.280 --> 0:04:00.520 moment itself was no, I. 0:04:00.520 --> 0:04:02.920 Know, the actual moment, the edit we didn't like. Yeah, 0:04:03.160 --> 0:04:07.000 in person that day was wonderful, but the edit of 0:04:07.040 --> 0:04:08.800 it on the show was super annoying. 0:04:09.840 --> 0:04:10.560 It was fine. 0:04:11.080 --> 0:04:14.320 I think we overreacted, and I also think that they 0:04:14.320 --> 0:04:16.520 could have made it more about the moment rather than 0:04:16.560 --> 0:04:18.719 making it more of a storyline within that season. 0:04:18.839 --> 0:04:20.160 But you know, reality TV. 0:04:20.440 --> 0:04:27.599 Yeahs, you know, and all things considered harmless, very harmless. 0:04:28.480 --> 0:04:31.160 Do you still have the appatity war from that day 0:04:31.279 --> 0:04:35.120 to Yes, I do, I is it in. 0:04:35.120 --> 0:04:37.800 That the day of the proposal? 0:04:38.000 --> 0:04:39.200 Yeah, I have the dress. 0:04:39.279 --> 0:04:42.160 It's either in my sentimental box in the basement where 0:04:42.200 --> 0:04:44.480 I have like some sentimental clothing. It's probably where it is, 0:04:44.839 --> 0:04:46.800 because I don't think it's in that closet behind me. 0:04:47.160 --> 0:04:48.280 You Well, I don't know. 0:04:48.320 --> 0:04:50.200 If I'm sure, i'd have to go back and look. 0:04:50.200 --> 0:04:51.839 I don't remember exactly what I wore. I think it 0:04:51.880 --> 0:04:53.920 was just like a white linen fun down. 0:04:54.080 --> 0:04:55.919 I might still have it. I might not still have it. 0:04:55.920 --> 0:04:56.600 I can't remember. 0:04:56.960 --> 0:04:59.279 What is a funny story is that our rehearsal dinner, 0:04:59.400 --> 0:05:01.640 Jared wore the Sure I like this shirt. 0:05:01.680 --> 0:05:04.560 It was like this blue little flowered shirt. 0:05:04.160 --> 0:05:07.760 And our nanny may or may not have when I 0:05:07.800 --> 0:05:12.080 was doing a yard sale recently, taking the wrong box 0:05:12.240 --> 0:05:15.239 and put it out there, and Jared is like going 0:05:15.279 --> 0:05:18.880 through all the yard sale items, like while they're laid out, and. 0:05:18.800 --> 0:05:22.960 He's like, why is this out here? And why is 0:05:23.040 --> 0:05:23.680 that out here? 0:05:24.279 --> 0:05:26.080 So many cool things and then one of them was 0:05:26.080 --> 0:05:28.800 my the shirt that I wore for our rehearsal dinner. 0:05:29.400 --> 0:05:32.040 Like Ashley, you always save everything. 0:05:32.880 --> 0:05:34.840 You make fun of me because you think that I'm 0:05:34.839 --> 0:05:38.000 non sentimental, even though I intentionally kept this shirt. And 0:05:38.040 --> 0:05:41.160 then you just had our nanny go through my closet 0:05:41.160 --> 0:05:42.960 and just pick out things that. 0:05:42.960 --> 0:05:43.600 You want to know. 0:05:44.040 --> 0:05:48.599 It was in a box downstairs that was Jared's like sentimentals. Yeah, 0:05:48.640 --> 0:05:50.400 and she pulled it out as if it was a 0:05:50.440 --> 0:05:54.760 donation box. Anyway, all right, and what did we get 0:05:54.800 --> 0:05:57.360 each other? As our last question from producer Heather, we 0:05:57.560 --> 0:06:01.280 didn't even talk. Oh, the seventh wedding and aniversary is 0:06:01.320 --> 0:06:03.839 supposed to be wool or copper, which would be an 0:06:03.880 --> 0:06:08.760 easy gift to do something wool, I suppose. However, Jared 0:06:08.760 --> 0:06:10.680 and I are so tired. 0:06:10.360 --> 0:06:11.800 Of physical items. 0:06:12.240 --> 0:06:17.480 We didn't even contemplate either of us getting each other 0:06:17.520 --> 0:06:17.920 or anything. 0:06:18.160 --> 0:06:20.960 No, it's just wasted money. 0:06:21.160 --> 0:06:24.520 Like I love that you got me for our sixth anniversary. 0:06:24.560 --> 0:06:27.600 We were on a Royal Caribbean cruise, which is my shindig, 0:06:27.720 --> 0:06:30.039 and it was a week before anniversary, and he got 0:06:30.040 --> 0:06:33.640 me an expensive Royal emerald necklace. And I love Caribbean 0:06:33.680 --> 0:06:35.440 and I love emeralds, so he got. 0:06:35.240 --> 0:06:35.680 That for me. 0:06:35.760 --> 0:06:38.599 And that was a way overpriced item. 0:06:38.360 --> 0:06:40.920 For something that we would normally gift each other, but 0:06:41.200 --> 0:06:44.080 always very appreciated and like that I will always remember that. 0:06:44.160 --> 0:06:46.279 Oh yeah, I spent a decent amount of money on 0:06:46.520 --> 0:06:48.000 her necklace last year. 0:06:48.040 --> 0:06:49.200 So I was like, well, I'm not going to buy 0:06:49.279 --> 0:06:49.599 or anything. 0:06:49.680 --> 0:06:52.240 Plus, she didn't get anything for me last anniversary, and 0:06:52.279 --> 0:06:53.800 so I was like, I know she's not gonna get 0:06:53.839 --> 0:06:55.920 it for me this anniversary. 0:06:56.000 --> 0:06:56.720 Totally fine. 0:06:56.760 --> 0:06:58.120 Obviously, I actually. 0:06:57.760 --> 0:07:00.960 Think that he's a little at this point and where 0:07:00.960 --> 0:07:03.680 we are, like quality time is a better gift than 0:07:03.720 --> 0:07:07.640 any other thing. We really we are never really physical 0:07:07.680 --> 0:07:08.360 gifts people. 0:07:08.640 --> 0:07:12.640 No, Plus we're very lucky being this being a part 0:07:12.680 --> 0:07:15.840 of reality TV that we get gifted a lot of things. Yeah, 0:07:15.840 --> 0:07:18.160 And so it's like there's just so much inside the house. 0:07:18.200 --> 0:07:20.080 It's like, do we really want to add to the clutter. 0:07:20.480 --> 0:07:23.240 Let's save the money and use it towards you know, 0:07:23.920 --> 0:07:28.240 a vacation with the kids, or a dinner something. 0:07:28.040 --> 0:07:30.400 Dinner was wonderful, that was so good. 0:07:30.520 --> 0:07:32.840 So I don't even think we would really think about 0:07:32.920 --> 0:07:35.200 getting something for each other unless it's like a time 0:07:35.240 --> 0:07:38.720 and place thing like last year until ten years. 0:07:38.840 --> 0:07:42.080 Or an event or an experience or something. Yeah. 0:07:42.160 --> 0:07:45.800 Oh you know, we're I got tickets to a Patriots 0:07:45.840 --> 0:07:47.120 game or something like that. 0:07:47.520 --> 0:07:51.400 Jonas concert you go to enough we're going to. Don't 0:07:51.440 --> 0:07:52.000 be judging. 0:07:52.120 --> 0:07:52.760 I'm not judging. 0:07:52.800 --> 0:07:54.640 We're gonna see Aeron to it together. 0:07:55.640 --> 0:07:56.840 Well, you've got to figure that out. 0:07:56.840 --> 0:07:57.880 No, I already figured that out. 0:08:00.760 --> 0:08:03.160 That is one thing I've truly converted Jared to, which 0:08:03.200 --> 0:08:07.120 I love so much. Okay, so let's get into bachelor 0:08:07.120 --> 0:08:10.960 headlines talking about weddings and engagements. Tyler Cameron is engaged 0:08:10.960 --> 0:08:13.440 to his girlfriend of two years, Tate Madden. We are 0:08:13.480 --> 0:08:16.680 not surprised by this news. We are super happy. Tyler 0:08:16.800 --> 0:08:18.880 is such a great guy. I just love Tyler every 0:08:18.920 --> 0:08:20.600 time he's on this podcast. Babe, I just I'm like, 0:08:21.000 --> 0:08:23.280 this guy is such a good guy, and he had 0:08:23.360 --> 0:08:25.200 all the opportunity to get like sucked up in the 0:08:25.240 --> 0:08:28.120 Hollywood movement and was for a minute, and he just 0:08:28.200 --> 0:08:30.640 does not care anymore, and I love it. He just 0:08:30.680 --> 0:08:33.760 wants to build houses and do a little social content 0:08:33.800 --> 0:08:35.800 with his seem to be wife. 0:08:36.000 --> 0:08:36.320 Nice. 0:08:36.520 --> 0:08:38.480 Yeah, even like never hung out with Tyler. 0:08:39.280 --> 0:08:39.959 I met him once. 0:08:40.240 --> 0:08:41.000 Yeah, it's crazy. 0:08:41.240 --> 0:08:43.880 He was that It was in La we were it 0:08:43.960 --> 0:08:45.640 was after a premiere or something. 0:08:45.679 --> 0:08:47.199 I was out of premiere. I think it was a 0:08:47.240 --> 0:08:48.080 spider Man premiere. 0:08:48.120 --> 0:08:50.280 Actually, no, I don't think I've ever been to a 0:08:50.320 --> 0:08:52.679 Spider Man. Really might have been Star Wars. 0:08:52.440 --> 0:08:57.720 Wrong story short. Yeah, I mean, congratulations. I know they've 0:08:57.720 --> 0:09:00.000 been dating for a while. They're a beautiful couple, clearly, 0:09:01.840 --> 0:09:03.319 and congratulations. 0:09:03.360 --> 0:09:05.439 That's awesome, so cute, and it was like it looks 0:09:05.440 --> 0:09:07.880 like a simple engagement. It took place on Florida as 0:09:07.880 --> 0:09:10.120 a little palm island, so by their house. 0:09:10.920 --> 0:09:14.440 And I wonder if she has any relations John Madden. 0:09:14.800 --> 0:09:16.520 You don't hear the last name Madden too often? 0:09:16.640 --> 0:09:18.280 Not really, but also Benji Madden. 0:09:18.880 --> 0:09:19.880 Who's Benji Madden? 0:09:20.280 --> 0:09:23.640 The Madden brothers, you know Benji and what's his name? 0:09:24.559 --> 0:09:30.520 Married to Cameron Diaz and Nicole Richie and from Good Charlotte, 0:09:31.200 --> 0:09:32.160 the Good Charlotte brothers. 0:09:32.280 --> 0:09:33.560 Okay, yeah, you don't know. 0:09:33.640 --> 0:09:34.840 Those are Benji and Joel Madden. 0:09:35.440 --> 0:09:41.920 Interesting, Okay, Well they met, they met, they did not 0:09:42.160 --> 0:09:45.640 meet in twenty twenty two. Yeah, they've been they've known 0:09:45.720 --> 0:09:50.280 for each other for a long time. I believe they've done. 0:09:50.520 --> 0:09:53.280 I've believed that they've been together. They've known each other 0:09:53.360 --> 0:09:56.920 as friends for a very long time. And then started 0:09:57.320 --> 0:10:01.920 really having something something while filming and his home renovation 0:10:02.040 --> 0:10:05.360 show Going Home with Tyler Cameron. She did photography and 0:10:05.360 --> 0:10:09.319 stuff for the show, and then they hard launched the 0:10:09.400 --> 0:10:13.960 relationship in September twenty twenty four. And it's just really 0:10:14.000 --> 0:10:16.520 cute and I'm really happy for them and can't wait 0:10:16.559 --> 0:10:18.559 to talk to Tyler next. 0:10:18.360 --> 0:10:18.920 Time about it. 0:10:30.640 --> 0:10:35.720 Next up is Bachelor and Paradis lum Joe Mobley. He 0:10:35.960 --> 0:10:40.120 reveals his scar amidst his brain surgery recovery. The two 0:10:40.160 --> 0:10:42.040 of them did a really funny real did you see that? 0:10:43.280 --> 0:10:45.760 Yeah, I mean, yeah, fantastic. 0:10:45.800 --> 0:10:46.920 It's so good. 0:10:47.559 --> 0:10:49.680 So I don't even know Harry Potter, but I know 0:10:49.760 --> 0:10:52.760 that that was thing. It's so she's dubbing over the voice. 0:10:53.400 --> 0:10:55.960 Serena goes, so is it true? Do you really have 0:10:57.000 --> 0:11:01.080 the scar? And then he bends his head over and 0:11:01.480 --> 0:11:04.400 shows the scar when he lifts up his baseball cap, 0:11:04.600 --> 0:11:06.920 you know, because he's got a pretty decent sized scar, 0:11:07.800 --> 0:11:10.400 kind of like the length of his hairline after his 0:11:10.480 --> 0:11:13.360 brain surgery from last week to remove the tumor that 0:11:13.400 --> 0:11:16.080 he had, and then Serena goes wicked. 0:11:16.640 --> 0:11:17.800 So it's very cute. 0:11:17.880 --> 0:11:19.400 I like the fact that they like made light of 0:11:19.440 --> 0:11:22.559 this moment, but of course he's doing very well. So 0:11:22.679 --> 0:11:27.040 Joe told us immediately after the surgery that they got 0:11:27.080 --> 0:11:31.320 the entire tumor and it has been diagnosed as a 0:11:31.480 --> 0:11:37.000 very low grade astrocytoma and that is a type of 0:11:37.040 --> 0:11:41.319 brain or spinal tumor that may result in headache, Caesar's nausea, mood, 0:11:41.320 --> 0:11:42.480 behavior changes. 0:11:42.679 --> 0:11:45.600 It seems like the surgery went well, and I mean, 0:11:45.720 --> 0:11:47.280 that's all you can ask for. And he seems to 0:11:47.320 --> 0:11:49.280 be having a positive attitude. I mean, that's all you 0:11:49.280 --> 0:11:51.439 can do. It's so much easier for us to sit 0:11:51.480 --> 0:11:54.040 here and say, like you have to kind of be 0:11:54.240 --> 0:11:56.679 positive and try to certainly not make light of it, 0:11:56.760 --> 0:11:59.240 but keep on laughing and keep on living your life. 0:11:59.320 --> 0:12:01.120 But it seems like he's doing that to the best 0:12:01.160 --> 0:12:04.560 of his ability. And you know, obviously we just wish 0:12:04.600 --> 0:12:06.040 nothing but the best for him, and. 0:12:06.200 --> 0:12:07.840 I just I had great vibes for him. 0:12:07.840 --> 0:12:09.320 I just felt like I was like, this is just 0:12:09.360 --> 0:12:11.960 gonna be a blip, and I'm so glad that Prenovo 0:12:12.640 --> 0:12:13.439 picked up on it. 0:12:13.720 --> 0:12:15.040 Yeah, shout out too. 0:12:15.280 --> 0:12:16.360 I mean, we love Prenovo. 0:12:16.400 --> 0:12:18.280 We're gonna go get our scans at the end of 0:12:18.320 --> 0:12:22.360 September early October for the second time, doing about like 0:12:22.400 --> 0:12:27.119 every year and a half. All right, guys, next headline 0:12:27.480 --> 0:12:29.360 is also medical related. 0:12:30.040 --> 0:12:31.880 Ari Lindyke is going to. 0:12:31.800 --> 0:12:36.840 Be getting his second vasectomy after having his first one reversed. So, 0:12:37.520 --> 0:12:40.880 as you guys may or may not know before, a 0:12:40.880 --> 0:12:44.160 couple of years ago, Ari got a pseect me because 0:12:44.160 --> 0:12:46.400 they thought that after having the twins three kids total, 0:12:46.440 --> 0:12:48.320 that they were done. A couple of years goes by, 0:12:48.480 --> 0:12:51.040 they realize that they're not done. They wanted a fourth child, 0:12:51.720 --> 0:12:54.360 so he went to go get the viseecti me reversed, 0:12:54.400 --> 0:12:58.920 which is like a four hour, very delicate procedure, And 0:12:59.160 --> 0:13:01.480 we all thought that he was nuts when we saw 0:13:01.559 --> 0:13:02.800 him at Alon's wedding. 0:13:02.880 --> 0:13:03.840 Yeah, he's getting like. 0:13:05.760 --> 0:13:07.600 You are insane. He said it was the most painful 0:13:07.640 --> 0:13:10.320 experience he's ever had. He said the vaseect me itself 0:13:10.400 --> 0:13:14.720 was fine, pretty seamless, and then getting it reconnected was 0:13:14.760 --> 0:13:17.920 the worst pain he ever experienced. Like, dude, you like, 0:13:18.000 --> 0:13:21.520 now you're getting another visect me? Dude his balls. 0:13:24.080 --> 0:13:27.120 Today is a great day to get a vasectomy. He 0:13:27.160 --> 0:13:30.680 wrote on his Instagram story. Hope laughing gas is fun, 0:13:31.400 --> 0:13:33.240 So I get so I guess they numb. 0:13:33.160 --> 0:13:34.520 You physically in the ball area. 0:13:34.600 --> 0:13:35.600 Then they get laughing gas. 0:13:35.679 --> 0:13:38.559 Yeah, okay, we've been thinking about Jared getting one. Well 0:13:38.760 --> 0:13:42.920 we'll see. I just keep thinking it seems silly. 0:13:43.000 --> 0:13:45.240 I don't know, It's like, why is it silly? 0:13:45.360 --> 0:13:47.160 I don't know why is it silly? Because I think 0:13:47.200 --> 0:13:51.360 I think we'd still worry. Anyway, congratulations to us both. 0:13:51.400 --> 0:13:53.560 I'm not pregnant. I definitely have my full blown period. 0:13:53.880 --> 0:13:55.600 Yeah, yeah, good news. 0:13:55.640 --> 0:14:00.000 Every month we do this, guys, every this is probably 0:14:00.040 --> 0:14:01.240 but you know that a second he is not like 0:14:01.600 --> 0:14:03.240 perfect until the year later. 0:14:04.040 --> 0:14:06.000 It's like you have to play the odds. 0:14:06.679 --> 0:14:09.480 Well, Jared doesn't mind so and I'm on the pill. 0:14:09.520 --> 0:14:11.680 And for some reason, even though I'm still on the pill, 0:14:11.920 --> 0:14:14.920 I freak out every month that we could be having 0:14:14.920 --> 0:14:18.680 a third. So congrats to Lauren and Ari for somehow 0:14:18.880 --> 0:14:23.200 sanely having four children. We are just getting by with 0:14:23.320 --> 0:14:24.880 a slivery of sanity. 0:14:24.440 --> 0:14:27.720 With two, barely. We're keeping our head above water. 0:14:27.760 --> 0:14:32.120 Here why we're constantly confused, like if our children are different, 0:14:32.560 --> 0:14:33.480 not so much Dawson. 0:14:33.680 --> 0:14:34.880 We know Hayden's different. 0:14:35.920 --> 0:14:36.920 It's crazy. 0:14:37.800 --> 0:14:41.400 If we had three Dawsons, we would absolutely do that. 0:14:42.480 --> 0:14:45.920 Hayden has like three children and one well, Hayden, it's 0:14:46.000 --> 0:14:46.400 just that. Uh. 0:14:46.760 --> 0:14:48.640 He's also had a very tough age too, is tough, 0:14:49.640 --> 0:14:53.120 and then he's been well he got better. 0:14:53.200 --> 0:14:54.160 Yeah, yeah, better at two. 0:14:54.600 --> 0:14:57.480 So I mean Hayden is newly too. Give him a 0:14:57.480 --> 0:14:57.960 little while. 0:14:58.200 --> 0:15:01.760 Yeah, well this is as already says. The second time 0:15:01.880 --> 0:15:04.520 I got it reversed, I was out cold. This time 0:15:04.640 --> 0:15:07.360 I've gotten to a new doctor who does laughing gas, 0:15:07.640 --> 0:15:09.160 so I'm hoping this goes smoother. 0:15:09.600 --> 0:15:11.200 Huh. So he didn't like going. 0:15:11.480 --> 0:15:13.200 Oh when he says he was out cold, does that 0:15:13.240 --> 0:15:15.960 mean he like he said it was traumatic? Does that 0:15:16.000 --> 0:15:19.240 mean that he was put asleep for it or that 0:15:19.280 --> 0:15:20.720 he was just scared and like fainted. 0:15:21.280 --> 0:15:22.520 Maybe he's scared. 0:15:25.040 --> 0:15:27.200 And he says, honestly, I can't complain. It doesn't hold 0:15:27.200 --> 0:15:30.400 a candle to giving birth, so wish me look so. 0:15:30.640 --> 0:15:33.360 And then he was treated when he got home to 0:15:34.880 --> 0:15:38.760 a basket of snacks, Sarapatch kids, twinkies, milk duds, nutty Buddies, 0:15:39.040 --> 0:15:40.280 and frozen peas. 0:15:40.480 --> 0:15:41.880 Sounds like a good time right there. 0:15:42.240 --> 0:15:45.560 Wow, what's up with all this dick talk? Chalk chapel? 0:15:45.800 --> 0:15:49.600 You know Jones Chalk. He got his prostate removed and 0:15:49.640 --> 0:15:52.560 a cancer scare. He said he had something happened when 0:15:52.560 --> 0:15:55.040 he got off the show, had a blood test that 0:15:55.200 --> 0:15:58.520 was shown that he had an elevated PSA. So we 0:15:58.680 --> 0:16:02.120 monitored it for a while. PSA kept increasing. So long 0:16:02.160 --> 0:16:04.720 story short, biopsy and m RAN and then another biopsy 0:16:04.880 --> 0:16:08.400 and it turned aggressive. So last week I had my 0:16:08.400 --> 0:16:11.040 prossly removed and made the decision to go ahead and 0:16:11.440 --> 0:16:12.200 just get it done. 0:16:14.080 --> 0:16:14.560 He said. 0:16:14.640 --> 0:16:16.320 My son asked me how much time I wanted with 0:16:16.320 --> 0:16:19.120 my grandchildren, and that's what made the decision easy to 0:16:19.120 --> 0:16:21.680 get it removed, be around for them, for Joan for 0:16:21.720 --> 0:16:22.520 the rest of my life. 0:16:22.600 --> 0:16:24.680 Like he and Joan have been together for like quite 0:16:24.680 --> 0:16:28.240 some time now. It's like they're real deal. So cute. 0:16:29.520 --> 0:16:30.360 Oh no. 0:16:30.800 --> 0:16:34.239 Susan Knowles confirms breakup with boyfriend. 0:16:34.400 --> 0:16:34.960 How sad. 0:16:35.000 --> 0:16:38.960 I did not know this. Susan's from the Golden You 0:16:39.000 --> 0:16:43.000 know Chris Jenner look alike. Ah, she had a boyfriend 0:16:43.000 --> 0:16:44.400 for about a year now. 0:16:45.440 --> 0:16:48.680 I was hoping, I wish, I hope. He's twenty five. 0:16:48.840 --> 0:16:52.480 No, no, but he was foreign. He could barely speak English. 0:16:52.760 --> 0:16:58.080 Amazing, and so she didn't care she just felt the Yeah, 0:16:58.120 --> 0:17:00.880 he lived in Saint Martin, and she was going back 0:17:00.880 --> 0:17:03.080 and forth to Say Martin a lot. And in a 0:17:03.080 --> 0:17:06.880 new episode of Bachelor Happy Hour Golden Hour, Susan confirmed 0:17:06.880 --> 0:17:10.040 that she and Frederick have broken up. She was chatting 0:17:10.080 --> 0:17:13.240 with Kathleen. She said, I'm struggling. I love fred Frederick, 0:17:13.720 --> 0:17:15.680 and what makes this so difficult is I'm at the 0:17:15.680 --> 0:17:18.119 point where I was really questioning whether loving someone is 0:17:18.280 --> 0:17:21.480 enough when you know there are fundamental things that may 0:17:21.480 --> 0:17:24.680 not work out long term. For instance, we're in such 0:17:24.760 --> 0:17:30.240 different places financially and have different expectations about lifestyle and retirement. 0:17:30.720 --> 0:17:33.560 Things may not work long term. 0:17:34.000 --> 0:17:35.760 And I'm just trying to listen to my head as 0:17:35.840 --> 0:17:38.360 much as I've always listened to my heart. And then 0:17:38.400 --> 0:17:41.480 she also said she ended it it was the most 0:17:41.560 --> 0:17:45.160 difficult thing she's ever done. And if I'm being completely truthful, 0:17:45.880 --> 0:17:48.960 I saw some things pretty early on, ignored some red flags. 0:17:49.000 --> 0:17:50.040 I loved all the attention. 0:17:50.240 --> 0:17:53.240 My problem is when we have chemistry with someone and 0:17:53.280 --> 0:17:55.800 I'm having fun and I'm feeling loved, I'm very good 0:17:55.840 --> 0:17:59.000 at convincing myself that other things will all work themselves out, 0:17:59.040 --> 0:18:02.320 and I realize that's a past and I ignore red flags. 0:18:02.840 --> 0:18:05.280 So well, my heart's with you. 0:18:05.320 --> 0:18:07.439 So Susan, I know that he made you very happy, 0:18:07.520 --> 0:18:09.720 but you know, your heart is your Your head and 0:18:09.720 --> 0:18:13.600 your heart are telling you different things, and I'm sure 0:18:13.600 --> 0:18:14.359 this is for the best. 0:18:15.080 --> 0:18:17.280 Yeah, life's too short. Just end it. 0:18:18.920 --> 0:18:21.280 That's that's my advice right there. It's like at the 0:18:21.320 --> 0:18:23.440 point too, when you're you get to a certain age, 0:18:23.480 --> 0:18:25.119 I feel like you're you know, it's like, why are 0:18:25.119 --> 0:18:26.280 we wasting each other's time? 0:18:26.320 --> 0:18:27.439