1 00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:05,160 Speaker 1: Welcome to Lively Lewis Stories. Buckle up because you're about 2 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:08,119 Speaker 1: to join Levi and Ivy on an adventure. All you 3 00:00:08,200 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 1: need is your imagination and off we go vy Rare Stories. 4 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:17,520 Speaker 1: There are so many emotions we can feel at any time. 5 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:23,120 Speaker 1: We can be happy, confused, stressed, scared, overwhelmed, or even frustrated. 6 00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:27,600 Speaker 1: These emotions are all totally normal, but the way we 7 00:00:27,720 --> 00:00:32,080 Speaker 1: process them is very important. Here's a story about one 8 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:34,920 Speaker 1: day when Levi and Ivy had to deal with some 9 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:40,879 Speaker 1: big emotions of their own. This isn't fair, Levi exclaimed 10 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:43,040 Speaker 1: as he ran through the front door after school one day. 11 00:00:44,080 --> 00:00:47,400 Speaker 1: Whoa buddy, what's not fair? His dad asked, as Levi 12 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 1: threw his backpack down on the floor. Tommy got that 13 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:54,360 Speaker 1: new dinosaur toy that I wanted for his birthday. Levi 14 00:00:54,520 --> 00:00:59,080 Speaker 1: began the giant Supersurus with the remote control head and tail. 15 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:04,399 Speaker 1: His dad in amazement. Yep, and it also makes the 16 00:01:04,480 --> 00:01:07,800 Speaker 1: life like dinosaur sounds and even walks and chews fake 17 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 1: tree leaves, Levi said as he fran on the couch. 18 00:01:11,319 --> 00:01:17,959 Speaker 1: I'm just so so mad. I think you're more than that, Levi. 19 00:01:18,400 --> 00:01:21,320 Speaker 1: I think you're jealous, said Levi's dad sitting down next 20 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:26,400 Speaker 1: to him. Jealous What does that mean, Levi asked as 21 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:28,399 Speaker 1: he sat with his arms crossed in a scowl on 22 00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:31,840 Speaker 1: his face. Jealousy is a total normal feeling we get 23 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 1: when someone has something we want and can't have it, 24 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:38,520 Speaker 1: Levi's dad explained, like when your uncle got that cool 25 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 1: new gril with the extra rac for warming hot dogs 26 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 1: and a special burner to boil corn on the cob. Okay, Dad, 27 00:01:44,760 --> 00:01:47,320 Speaker 1: calm down about the grill, Levi giggiled as he saw 28 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:49,960 Speaker 1: his dad getting all worked up. Yeah, buddy, you're right, 29 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 1: it is just a grill, Levi's dad said, I love 30 00:01:53,760 --> 00:01:56,600 Speaker 1: my grill, and I'm happy your uncle has that new grill. 31 00:01:57,080 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 1: Now that's a good example of how you should react 32 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 1: to your situation. What do you mean, dad, Levi asked? Well, 33 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 1: do you like your dino toys? Asked Levi's dad. Of 34 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:10,640 Speaker 1: course I do, said Levi, grabbing his favorite t Rex 35 00:02:10,639 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 1: dinosaur that was sitting on the coffee table in front 36 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:15,360 Speaker 1: of him. Then why not focus on the toys you 37 00:02:15,480 --> 00:02:18,360 Speaker 1: have that you love, and not on the toys that 38 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 1: you don't have, asked his dad, with a smile, thinking 39 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:24,720 Speaker 1: he was really getting through to Levi, because I want 40 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:30,520 Speaker 1: that giant supersres yelled Levi. I'm just so mad that 41 00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 1: I could scream. Do you feel anything else? Asked his dad. 42 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:38,920 Speaker 1: Like if Tommy was here right now, what would you 43 00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:42,800 Speaker 1: do if he had that dinosaur with him, I'd push 44 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:44,960 Speaker 1: him out of the way and grab it. Then I'd 45 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:49,200 Speaker 1: play with it all afternoon, said Levi. LEVI know, it's 46 00:02:49,240 --> 00:02:51,680 Speaker 1: important to understand that it's okay to feel the way 47 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:54,720 Speaker 1: that you're feeling, but you have to control your emotions, 48 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:57,959 Speaker 1: work through them in a positive way, and learn from them. 49 00:02:58,160 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 1: His dad told him, ye Ian, stomping around, pushing someone 50 00:03:02,280 --> 00:03:05,520 Speaker 1: and being mad won't get you that Supersros toy, and 51 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 1: it certainly won't make you feel any better about it now, 52 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 1: will it? No, answered Levi. But then he got a 53 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 1: sparkle in his eye. But you could buy it for me, 54 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:21,320 Speaker 1: and that would make me feel better. Now that's an idea, 55 00:03:21,440 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 1: but it's not the idea we're going to go with today, 56 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:27,560 Speaker 1: started Levi's dad. Instead, we're going to learn a lesson 57 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:29,920 Speaker 1: about being happy for your friend and knowing that I 58 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:31,680 Speaker 1: can arrange a time for the two of you to 59 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:34,639 Speaker 1: get together, then you can share your toys and get 60 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:37,360 Speaker 1: a chance to play with the supersaus too. All of 61 00:03:37,400 --> 00:03:40,320 Speaker 1: a sudden, Levi's frown turned into a smile. He loved 62 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:42,480 Speaker 1: the idea of having a dino play date with Tommy 63 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:46,120 Speaker 1: and asked his dad to plan it. Right then, Levi's 64 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 1: dad texted Tommy's dad and schedule the time for them 65 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 1: to get together the next day. Because it was Saturday, 66 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:54,560 Speaker 1: Levi could have not been happier. He thanked his dad 67 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 1: and ran to his room to get out the dinosaurs 68 00:03:56,840 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 1: he wanted to bring to Tommy's the next day. Now 69 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:02,840 Speaker 1: it was Saturday, and Levi was in the room checking 70 00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 1: to see if he wanted to bring any other dinosaurs 71 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:07,960 Speaker 1: along to Tommy's, when all of a sudden, Ivy walked in, 72 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:12,360 Speaker 1: looking very happy and excited. Hi, Levi, She said, I 73 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:15,240 Speaker 1: can't wait for our tea party this afternoon. I've been 74 00:04:15,280 --> 00:04:17,640 Speaker 1: thinking about it since you promised last weekend that you'd 75 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:19,960 Speaker 1: have one with me. I'm making the tea and mom 76 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:23,039 Speaker 1: is making cupcakes. You can bring any stuffed animals you'd like. 77 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:27,000 Speaker 1: The more the merrier, who no, leeve I thought to himself. 78 00:04:27,040 --> 00:04:29,240 Speaker 1: He was supposed to leave for Tommy's house in just 79 00:04:29,320 --> 00:04:32,360 Speaker 1: a little bit. Leeve I really didn't want to miss 80 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:35,159 Speaker 1: a chance to play with the supersaurus, so he didn't 81 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 1: want to cancel the playdate, but he also didn't want 82 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:42,080 Speaker 1: to make Ivy sad. It's just one little tea party, 83 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:45,520 Speaker 1: he thought. Ivey won't be upset if I break our plans, 84 00:04:45,880 --> 00:04:50,160 Speaker 1: but he was wrong. I'm sorry, Ivy. I have a 85 00:04:50,200 --> 00:04:54,240 Speaker 1: playdate this afternoon at Tommy's. He has the new Supersaurus dinosaur, 86 00:04:54,520 --> 00:04:57,400 Speaker 1: said Levi. How about we have our tea party tomorrow 87 00:04:57,720 --> 00:05:01,320 Speaker 1: or next weekend. Levi went back to dinosaurs, not thinking 88 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:03,320 Speaker 1: that Ivy could have a problem with what he just 89 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:06,320 Speaker 1: told her. Ivy was silent for a minute, but then 90 00:05:06,560 --> 00:05:13,640 Speaker 1: she started to cry a lot. Ivy, what's wrong, asked Levi. 91 00:05:14,839 --> 00:05:19,160 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but I can't miss this plate. It's really important. 92 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:27,440 Speaker 1: So I'm not really important, asked Ivy between sobs. You promised, Levian. 93 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:32,279 Speaker 1: Now you're breaking your promise. I'm sorry, Ivy. I didn't 94 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:36,240 Speaker 1: know you'd be this upset, said Levi. Just then, Ivy 95 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:40,160 Speaker 1: and Levi's mom walked into his room. What's wrong, Ivy, 96 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:44,320 Speaker 1: I heard you crying from downstairs, asked her mom. Ivy 97 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 1: told her what happened as she grabbed one of Levi's 98 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:49,960 Speaker 1: favorite dinosaurs and threw it on the floor. A piece 99 00:05:49,960 --> 00:05:55,120 Speaker 1: of its tail flew off, in Ivy out the bedroom door. Ivy, 100 00:05:55,160 --> 00:05:57,640 Speaker 1: talk to me about how you're feeling, said her mom 101 00:05:57,640 --> 00:06:01,160 Speaker 1: as she followed Ivy into her room. I'm sad, I'm mad, 102 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:04,960 Speaker 1: and I'm disappointed, Ivey said, as she continued to cry. 103 00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:08,720 Speaker 1: I just don't know how to feel. Why does Levi 104 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:10,920 Speaker 1: I have to cancel our tea party. I thought he 105 00:06:11,040 --> 00:06:13,680 Speaker 1: cared about me, but I guess a silly dinosaur toy 106 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:17,720 Speaker 1: is more important. Ivy's mom explained that it was totally 107 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:19,479 Speaker 1: normal for her to feel the way she was feeling. 108 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:23,359 Speaker 1: It's healthy to cry and talk about what's making you upset, 109 00:06:23,560 --> 00:06:26,280 Speaker 1: but it's never okay to break something in anger or 110 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 1: hurt anyone ever, Ivey's mom said, giving Ivy a hug. 111 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:34,479 Speaker 1: I'm really sorry for breaking the tail on Levi's dinosaur. 112 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:38,000 Speaker 1: She told her mom. I don't want Levi to be 113 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:41,039 Speaker 1: upset now too. I'm glad you feel that way and 114 00:06:41,080 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 1: that you're calming down, said her mom. The best thing 115 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 1: for you to do is to talk with Levi and 116 00:06:45,960 --> 00:06:47,880 Speaker 1: see if you can both come up with a positive 117 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:52,480 Speaker 1: solution to your problem. So that's exactly what they did. 118 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:58,000 Speaker 1: Ivy walked back into Levi's room with her mom close behind. Hey, 119 00:06:58,240 --> 00:07:00,960 Speaker 1: you're not going to break more my dinosaurs, are you, 120 00:07:01,520 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 1: asked Levi. No, Levi, I'm so sorry I did that. 121 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:09,920 Speaker 1: Can I help you fix it? Ivy asked, No, it's okay. 122 00:07:10,080 --> 00:07:13,000 Speaker 1: I already popped the tail piece back together, answered Levi. 123 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:15,360 Speaker 1: And I'm really sorry I can't have the tea party 124 00:07:15,440 --> 00:07:17,760 Speaker 1: with you today. It's just that dad made a plate 125 00:07:17,840 --> 00:07:19,480 Speaker 1: date with Tommy and I really want to see his 126 00:07:19,520 --> 00:07:24,400 Speaker 1: new dinosaur toy. He got. I understand, said Ivy, looking 127 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:27,600 Speaker 1: very sad. We'll have the tea party another time. Have 128 00:07:27,720 --> 00:07:30,440 Speaker 1: fun with your friend. As Ivy walked out, her mom 129 00:07:30,480 --> 00:07:33,520 Speaker 1: sat down on Levi's bed. So how are you feeling now, 130 00:07:34,080 --> 00:07:39,400 Speaker 1: she asked Levi. Not that great, he replied. I really 131 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:42,480 Speaker 1: want to play with Tommy's new dinosaur toy, but not 132 00:07:42,600 --> 00:07:45,160 Speaker 1: if that's going to make Ivy feel bad. I did 133 00:07:45,200 --> 00:07:47,400 Speaker 1: make that promise to her last week, so I think 134 00:07:47,440 --> 00:07:50,800 Speaker 1: I know what the right thing to do is. Levi 135 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:52,440 Speaker 1: told his mom what he was going to do, and 136 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:54,480 Speaker 1: she taught him another word. We may use. When we 137 00:07:54,480 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 1: talk about our emotions. It's called empathy, and it means 138 00:07:58,680 --> 00:08:01,239 Speaker 1: being able to understand how on what else is feeling. 139 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:04,480 Speaker 1: In this case, Levi thought how he would feel if 140 00:08:04,480 --> 00:08:06,600 Speaker 1: he had planned to do something fun with Ivy and 141 00:08:06,640 --> 00:08:09,880 Speaker 1: at the last minute she canceled their plans. Even though 142 00:08:09,920 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 1: leeve I really wanted to play with a supersaurus dinosaur, 143 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:15,120 Speaker 1: he just couldn't do it if that meant Ivy was 144 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:18,560 Speaker 1: going to be so sad. So after Levi talked with 145 00:08:18,600 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 1: his dad and his dad got in touch with Tommy's dad, 146 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:23,600 Speaker 1: he went into Ivy's room. She was sitting on the 147 00:08:23,600 --> 00:08:26,280 Speaker 1: floor with some staft animals around her, playing tea party, 148 00:08:26,960 --> 00:08:31,440 Speaker 1: although she didn't look too happy. Hi, Ivy, do you 149 00:08:31,480 --> 00:08:33,560 Speaker 1: have room for one more person at your tea party? 150 00:08:34,000 --> 00:08:37,440 Speaker 1: Levi asked, sitting down. What do you mean I thought 151 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:40,480 Speaker 1: you were going to Tommy's house now, Ivy said, starting 152 00:08:40,480 --> 00:08:43,680 Speaker 1: to smile. I had Dad switch my plateate with Tommy 153 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:46,720 Speaker 1: to tomorrow. After all, I promised you that we would 154 00:08:46,760 --> 00:08:49,600 Speaker 1: have a tea party this afternoon, Leevi, I said, I 155 00:08:49,640 --> 00:08:51,880 Speaker 1: brought one of my dinosaurs to join us. I hope 156 00:08:51,880 --> 00:08:56,760 Speaker 1: that's okay. That's wonderful, exclaimed Ivy, giving her big brother 157 00:08:56,800 --> 00:09:00,480 Speaker 1: a hug. Thank you, Levi, you just made me so happy. 158 00:09:01,720 --> 00:09:04,840 Speaker 1: Now that's the kind of emotion I'm fine with, said 159 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:06,599 Speaker 1: Levi as he grabbed a cup of tea and a 160 00:09:06,640 --> 00:09:16,360 Speaker 1: cupcake with Ivy. Did you learn a lesson from this story? 161 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:20,560 Speaker 1: A sou what was it? And parents, do your kids 162 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:22,960 Speaker 1: have a story idea? 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