1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:04,480 Speaker 1: All right, so this is from Leonora and Alabaster. Leonora says, 2 00:00:05,080 --> 00:00:07,960 Speaker 1: my baby boy pledged the fraternity and didn't tell me 3 00:00:08,280 --> 00:00:12,360 Speaker 1: anything about it until it was over. My husband knew 4 00:00:12,360 --> 00:00:15,720 Speaker 1: about it and gave him the money for everything. I 5 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:18,640 Speaker 1: prayed that my son and my new husband would get 6 00:00:18,680 --> 00:00:22,920 Speaker 1: along after we got married, but it didn't happen until now. 7 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:26,320 Speaker 1: Would I be considered a bitter betty for complaining about 8 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:29,639 Speaker 1: them keeping a secret? Or should I feel blessed that 9 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:32,360 Speaker 1: they finally created a bond? What? She prayed? 10 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:37,400 Speaker 2: What are you complaining about the what you had hoped 11 00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:40,440 Speaker 2: happened happened. It didn't happen in the time and you 12 00:00:40,479 --> 00:00:43,559 Speaker 2: wanted or the way you want it, But it happened. 13 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:46,520 Speaker 2: The reason your boy didn't want to tell your boud 14 00:00:46,560 --> 00:00:49,279 Speaker 2: it because he didn't want to hear your mouth. So 15 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:52,480 Speaker 2: he went to the man. The man went, yeah, that's cool, 16 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:55,400 Speaker 2: I work with you. Mad, thanks man, because I just 17 00:00:55,480 --> 00:00:59,040 Speaker 2: really mean a lot to me. Now, adam bonding? Now 18 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:02,040 Speaker 2: you mad because your boy didn't tell you you was 19 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:03,400 Speaker 2: he wanted to be in the fraternity. 20 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:04,920 Speaker 3: You ain't in the fraternity. 21 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 2: You can't pledge with this boy, and you was gonna 22 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:12,600 Speaker 2: shoot it down and complain. Lady, I don't even understand 23 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:16,480 Speaker 2: you should go wow, oh, so y'all did it like that? 24 00:01:16,600 --> 00:01:19,839 Speaker 2: I understand that she would have made this pledge period 25 00:01:19,880 --> 00:01:22,000 Speaker 2: worse than ever if she didn't know the day in 26 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:24,119 Speaker 2: and day o bro so. 27 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:28,240 Speaker 3: What he and blowing him up? Day what y'all? What 28 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:29,120 Speaker 3: they doing there? 29 00:01:29,240 --> 00:01:33,880 Speaker 2: Doing to him? I ain't nothing. They ain't doing nothing 30 00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:36,280 Speaker 2: down there. They just pledged and it's so different now. 31 00:01:37,720 --> 00:01:41,679 Speaker 1: So she should just feel blessed that they finally bonded 32 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:43,039 Speaker 1: with what she prayed for. 33 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:44,759 Speaker 3: The boy and got into frat. 34 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, all right, well we have time for 35 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:52,320 Speaker 1: another one. This is from Breeland in Atlantic City. Breeland says, 36 00:01:52,360 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 1: I got married. 37 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:55,880 Speaker 2: And she didn't mention in the frat and you didn't 38 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:58,560 Speaker 2: mention it. She didn't you know if the father. 39 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 3: Was in it. It's a couple of things. He probably 40 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:05,120 Speaker 3: is dead, I ain't gonna say. 41 00:02:06,520 --> 00:02:10,280 Speaker 1: All right, from Breelan. This is from Breeland in Atlantic City. 42 00:02:10,320 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 1: Breelin says, I got married and two months later my 43 00:02:13,440 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 1: husband ghosted me. He eventually told me that he was 44 00:02:17,040 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 1: in legal trouble and he distanced himself to keep me 45 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:23,640 Speaker 1: out of the mess, out of his mess, our vows 46 00:02:23,639 --> 00:02:25,720 Speaker 1: say that we're in it for better or for worse. 47 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:29,240 Speaker 1: Why won't he let me help him work through it? 48 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:31,760 Speaker 1: Why won't he let me work through it with them? 49 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:35,240 Speaker 3: Because the legal trouble he in involved another woman. 50 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:43,840 Speaker 2: Wow, that's easy, that's legal. 51 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:47,280 Speaker 1: No police, He didn't need an attorney, none of that. 52 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:51,800 Speaker 2: No, no, no, This legal trouble he in involves another 53 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:54,640 Speaker 2: woman and it could be very legal. But it's another 54 00:02:54,720 --> 00:02:57,280 Speaker 2: woman involved, and you're not gonna understand that. 55 00:02:57,639 --> 00:03:01,919 Speaker 1: Well, no, she none of this, does she understand? 56 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:08,639 Speaker 3: Well, that's it? Is it a baby? He's still married? 57 00:03:09,080 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 3: What is it? It's something very very legal. 58 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:16,840 Speaker 1: Why did he marry her in the first place? 59 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:23,320 Speaker 3: Then because he loved her? But he has some legal trouble. 60 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 3: He can't be there, he has to be Yeah, he 61 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:28,800 Speaker 3: got to be gone. Yeah he got a ghost her. Yeah, 62 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:30,040 Speaker 3: it's a legal matter. 63 00:03:30,600 --> 00:03:33,680 Speaker 2: Somebody had to be at that hospital to sign that 64 00:03:33,720 --> 00:03:34,560 Speaker 2: birth certificate. 65 00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:37,840 Speaker 1: It's a baby. 66 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 3: That's a legal matter. 67 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 2: Also also, uh huh, were trying to get this house 68 00:03:46,480 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 2: into receivership and it's out of town. I got to 69 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:54,440 Speaker 2: be over here. It's so many things. 70 00:03:55,040 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 3: This guy's a limits. Yeah, it could be anything. Girl, listen, 71 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:02,320 Speaker 3: why not. 72 00:04:02,320 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 1: Wait till all of this and then marry her. 73 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 2: I do and told the insurance company that I had 74 00:04:09,480 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 2: a back injury and I'm bed ridden. I got to 75 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 2: stay at this girl's house in this bed because they 76 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 2: driving by checking on me. I'm trying to get this check. 77 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 2: This boy, this boy, this boy. 78 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:27,119 Speaker 3: Listen to me. This boy is so much trouble. Wow, 79 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:30,360 Speaker 3: I mean major. 80 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:31,400 Speaker 1: Oh. 81 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:33,919 Speaker 3: He in trouble. He in trouble. He didn't ghosted his wife. 82 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:37,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, after two months, after two months, you're listening to 83 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:39,239 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show