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Speaker 1: What's up everybody? We have a very very special Bachelor

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Speaker 1: Happy Hour. I am sitting here. I feel like I

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Speaker 1: should whisper you guys. I'm sitting here backstage.

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Speaker 2: It's women.

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Speaker 1: Tell all, I've just watched the whole thing. The ladies

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Speaker 1: will be coming through, and you know, I've got a

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Speaker 1: ton of questions to ask.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna get to it.

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Speaker 1: Unfortunately, my girl Becca, she's not going to be here tonight,

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Speaker 1: but that's okay. I told her I would pick up

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Speaker 1: the pieces. She wants to be here. She's here in spirit.

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Speaker 1: She even sent in some questions for me, So I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna ask Becka's questions. I'm not going to talk anymore

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Speaker 1: because the first lady is coming up right now. First

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Speaker 1: up to join me on the podcast. I'm so excited

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Speaker 1: to talk to you. It's Sydney. Yes, how are you?

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Speaker 1: First of all, you look sunny.

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Speaker 2: Let's just know, let me get out dish out compliments.

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Speaker 3: And you look amazing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I appreciate that.

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Speaker 1: But how do you feel?

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Speaker 3: You know what I feel? I feel like a certain

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Speaker 3: calmness right now. I do.

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Speaker 4: I feel like a lot has happened over you know,

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Speaker 4: an extended amount of time and I finally have had

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Speaker 4: a little second to breathe and for everything to finally

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Speaker 4: happen and to move on.

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Speaker 2: You know, yeah, no, I mean today it was a lot.

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Speaker 1: It was a lot, but like for different reasons. Because one,

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Speaker 1: you know, you're like facing the draw. It's a reunion show,

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Speaker 1: you know, like we all love reunion shows because it's

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Speaker 1: like you, it all comes to a head. You've seen

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Speaker 1: what everyone's saying at im right, it's a Peter all.

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Speaker 1: That's all that good, bad stuff. But like it's the

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Speaker 1: first time y'all are seeing each other and talking. Then

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Speaker 1: you have to see Peter for the first time and

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Speaker 1: it's been three months ish. Then we had this conversation

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Speaker 1: that needed to be had that honestly you spearheaded.

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Speaker 2: Thank you and no, thank you both of you.

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Speaker 1: Though no it's not because of me. No, we have

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Speaker 1: to give credit where credit is due, because you know,

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Speaker 1: we had the conversation where we talked about race. It

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Speaker 1: was uncomfortable, but it was necessary. And I don't know

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Speaker 1: if you guys know this, but you know, Sidney and

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Speaker 1: I had a conversation because of a lot of hate that.

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Speaker 2: She was receiving.

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Speaker 1: And I am one to brush things under the rug.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, I get a message, delete, move on.

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Speaker 1: But that's not what everybody does. And I'm acting like

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Speaker 1: it's not an issue and it's a problem. And it

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Speaker 1: was you who made me say, you know what, it

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Speaker 1: is a problem and we need to talk about it.

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Speaker 2: So how did you feel having that conversation?

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Speaker 5: Right?

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Speaker 4: So when we had our conversation, I was just you know,

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Speaker 4: we were just talking about what, you know, looking up

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Speaker 4: to you and what you had to go through, you know,

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Speaker 4: as the first African American box thread and being in

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Speaker 4: this it's hard for women of color.

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Speaker 2: It's hard.

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Speaker 4: And I'll say that because I've lived this my whole

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Speaker 4: and the lowest you can go with someone's race, you know.

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Speaker 4: So having this opportunity to talk about something that I'm

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Speaker 1: Hate yeah, absolutely see, and that's thank you, thank you

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Speaker 1: for that. How did it feel when the women came

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Speaker 1: running over to you to comfort you after seeing some

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Speaker 1: of those text messages that they know that we're directed

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Speaker 1: towards not I keep saying text messages, those DMS comments

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Speaker 4: You know, a lot of people will say about the

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Speaker 4: season that we didn't love each other and that we

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Speaker 3: Against each other.

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Speaker 4: I still question it, but in that moment was a

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Speaker 4: moment that I had felt nothing but love from those women,

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Speaker 4: and the support and the love means so much to me.

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Speaker 4: And you know, all the little hih yaas that were

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Speaker 1: And I think that's important for everyone else to see,

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Speaker 1: because we do see.

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Speaker 2: You know, your season has gotten and I've talked about

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Speaker 2: it all the podcast. Your season has gotten.

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Speaker 1: A lot of heat for the girls being so catty

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Speaker 1: and mean girls and not just not having that unity

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Speaker 1: and sisterhood. But on the stage, in that moment, we.

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Speaker 2: Saw the sisterhood.

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Speaker 1: And it's funny because there was a point today in

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Speaker 1: Women Tell Law, where LEXI said, you guys don't know this,

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Speaker 1: but like we all love each other, and I remember thinking, okay, LEXI, yeah, but.

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Speaker 4: In that moment, I saw the love someone's hurting, like

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Speaker 4: I have heard through this and the things that they

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Speaker 2: Nothing but love, Nothing but love was received. And I

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Speaker 2: love that. Yes I did. I loved it too.

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Speaker 1: And I think your mess not think I know your

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Speaker 1: message resonated with me. I'm sure it's going to resonate

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Speaker 1: with everybody who saw it. And I just hope that

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Speaker 2: It'll be that voice.

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Speaker 4: And you know, I this opportunity and this to say

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Speaker 1: Oh and I do.

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Speaker 4: I hope that it goes forward and we stop this

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Speaker 4: because you know, we're.

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Speaker 2: Just going to love each other a little bit more. Yes,

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Speaker 2: we do. So let's talk about moving forward.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So you just survived Women Tell All, I survive?

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Speaker 2: What is next? Paradise Summer games?

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Speaker 1: Who knows?

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Speaker 3: Very sure?

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Speaker 2: Are you interested?

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Speaker 3: I want to find love.

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Speaker 4: I know that, So whichever way that that may happen,

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Speaker 4: I'm open to it. Skeptical of course, just because of

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Speaker 4: who knows, who knows what's going to happen.

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Speaker 1: We have a support system around you, so I think like,

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Speaker 1: as long as you have that strong circle, you can

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Speaker 1: combat that hate even on the worst days. Yes, but

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Speaker 1: I know you're a hot commodity because this Vaclin Nation

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Speaker 1: world is small and the people are talking. They want

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Speaker 1: to know if you're going to be out there on

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Speaker 4: I'll say like I do want to find love, and

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Speaker 4: whatever way that may be, we'll.

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Speaker 2: Have to see. So what do you think about the ending?

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Speaker 1: I have to get your opinion on this because we

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Speaker 1: saw tonight that Madison is clearly struggling. We saw Victoria

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Speaker 1: Hannah knowing everything that came out, because I heard your

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Speaker 1: response to Madison's the decisions that she has made is

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Speaker 1: she's navigated this journey.

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Speaker 2: But how do you really feel?

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Speaker 1: No, because all y'all gave really politically correct answers, and

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Speaker 1: I happen to think I think what you said is

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Speaker 2: That's beautiful. But you find no issue in the timing

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Speaker 4: I you know, I will say, I think she may

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Speaker 4: it may have been in her best interest to speak

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Speaker 4: about it before she did, Okay, I think she waited

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Speaker 4: till the absolute last second and not rub some people

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Speaker 4: that I Madison is who she says she is going

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Speaker 4: to waiver no matter if there's a fantasy suite or not.

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Speaker 3: Madison's not going to do that.

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Speaker 4: And she holds herself to you know what she's always been,

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Speaker 4: you know, lived her whole life.

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Speaker 1: So what do you think about someone coming on the show, like,

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Speaker 1: let's just be honest. And I feel like I'm Christian,

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Speaker 1: let's just be honest that the batchler isn't, like, you know.

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Speaker 2: Standing on biblical standards. So what do you think.

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Speaker 1: About someone who comes on the show knowing how the

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Speaker 1: show is and then.

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Speaker 2: Has comes all the way to the end.

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Speaker 1: Yes, you know, possibly taking somebody else's place and potentially

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Speaker 1: may leave for that same reason. Like, do you think

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Speaker 1: that's fair? Do you think that's selfish?

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Speaker 2: I don't think it's selfish.

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Speaker 4: I think that Madison, like I said, should have just

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Speaker 4: brought it up before she did and it would have

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Speaker 4: gone a little bit better. Yes, we know the show,

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Speaker 4: it's not you know, their sex is involved in this show.

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Speaker 2: It's not a secret.

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Speaker 1: And her knowing her you know views on that.

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Speaker 4: It's if you know, it's one of those situations where

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Speaker 4: it's just it's like, what are you going to do?

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Speaker 4: You know, you know you're in this position, You've gotten

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Speaker 4: this far, you love this man, and there's certain steps

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Speaker 4: however you feel about it doesn't really matter or at

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Speaker 4: the end of the day. But I don't think that

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Speaker 3: She was just like, Hey, this is how I feel

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Speaker 6: It take it or leave.

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Speaker 7: It, but this is how I'm going to feel no

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Speaker 2: You know, Okay, Well, what do you think is going

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Speaker 2: to happen. You know, we don't know.

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Speaker 1: Apparently according to Christy is Peter it's I don't know

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Speaker 3: You know what, Peter has.

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Speaker 4: Had a reputation for not being able to make decisions.

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Speaker 4: So I think it's a case of like he hasn't

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Speaker 4: made his decision.

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Speaker 1: Yet, as in like between the women.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like they're saying, you know, like he's unspoilt, like

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Speaker 4: she can't be unspoiled.

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Speaker 3: Well, how can it not be unspoiled? Maybe he hasn't

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Speaker 3: even decided. Who knows.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for being here, which I appreciate you,

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Speaker 1: and thank you for what you did tonight.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 8: All right.

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Speaker 1: Next in the hot seat is she Inn, which I

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Speaker 1: am so excited to talk to you because I feel

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Speaker 1: like on the season we didn't see much. But first

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Speaker 1: of all, congratt for surviving women. Tell all, that's a

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Speaker 1: feat in itself. But you were talking, you were getting

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Speaker 1: into it. You and Lexi had some tifts. I don't

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Speaker 1: want to get all messy, but I'm just saying, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was nice because I think we saw you very

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Speaker 1: quiet on this show. So how did it feel tonight

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Speaker 1: sitting up there on stage and really getting to express

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Speaker 1: what this journey.

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Speaker 9: To start stuff being stuff like I don't want it.

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Speaker 2: A real thing.

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Speaker 1: Well I was here for yeah, I said, so please

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Speaker 2: Oh please?

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Speaker 10: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: So you and I were talking just a bit before

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Speaker 1: So when Peter came to the show, yes, the only

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Speaker 7: So I, yes, I used to be a flight attendant.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so I used to be a flight attendant.

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Speaker 1: Do you play chess? Because you were playing chess night

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Speaker 9: And I was like, and so when I told him

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Speaker 9: Okay, cool, but there's something I need to tell you

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Speaker 9: and he's like what And I was like God, And

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Speaker 2: I used to be a flight attendant. He's like, are

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Speaker 9: Oh my god, you scared the crab out of me.

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Speaker 9: and like talked about flying.

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Speaker 3: It's somebody well, he.

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Speaker 1: Was still talking about it because he loves it.

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Speaker 1: I DMed him the other day because I'm like, who

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Speaker 2: And when he told me it was you, I was like,

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Speaker 9: It was so great, Like I'm so sad that didn't

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Speaker 1: Do you feel like you have any regrets? Because it's

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Speaker 2: More of it back.

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Speaker 1: Do you feel like you have any regrets from this season?

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Speaker 9: I definitely could have been more aggressive, im you know,

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Speaker 9: it's hard when you're on the show. You try, but

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Speaker 9: that doesn't mean you get your way. Yeah, and I

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Speaker 9: like yeah, I should have been more aggressive. And that's

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Speaker 1: Well, I can see why you didn't want to be

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Speaker 9: Behavior and I'm not really I'm not a person to

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Speaker 2: Who are you close with from your season.

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Speaker 9: I'm actually really close with Tammy. Me and Tammy are

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Speaker 1: I am so actually happy that you said that because

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Speaker 1: I love her so much. Watching tonight, it seems like

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Speaker 2: Tammy made some mistakes she did throughout the show.

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Speaker 1: Everybody did right, and I think, you know, I relate

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Speaker 1: and you know, sometimes we navigate things differently. But it's

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Speaker 1: really nice to hear that Tammy actually has a friend

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Speaker 1: at the house. I like, we talk every day, Well,

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Speaker 1: like I feel like it's it's lost in some.

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Speaker 2: Of the drama.

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Speaker 9: The thing is is that regardless of and it's with

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Speaker 1: Gives you the tough love when you hate it, she's.

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Speaker 9: There when you're sad, when you're upset, if you need

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Speaker 9: than that and move forward. Don't really like listen to

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Speaker 9: and she's like, don't be weepy, like come on.

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Speaker 6: And I think we see that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right, and we all need that friend. And

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Speaker 2: I think we do see that.

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Speaker 1: It's just so much happened after that. We forgot, because

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Speaker 1: let's not forget. During Champagne Gay, it was Tammy who

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Speaker 9: She I mean, yes, she's strong in her words, and

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Speaker 9: some people just can't take that for what it is

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Speaker 9: in a place of being attacked. I think that some

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Speaker 2: Just came out.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, you know and I and that can happen to anybody.

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Speaker 9: I don't think that's a fault on Tammy.

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Speaker 10: I told her.

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Speaker 9: I was like, you could have handled it a little

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Speaker 2: And you think she learned from this experience. Definitely good.

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Speaker 2: Good for her.

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Speaker 1: So before I let you go, I have to ask you,

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Speaker 1: of this is a first, not a first that I

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Speaker 2: So what happens at the end of it?

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Speaker 1: Where? What do you think happens at the end of

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Speaker 2: God, I truly don't know.

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Speaker 9: And I've tried to figure I've tried to like make equations.

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Speaker 9: I'm like writing it down like that Madison does this,

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Speaker 9: Peter goes home and Barb's crying.

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Speaker 9: Literally written it down and try to figure out the answer.

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Speaker 9: I don't know, because every time I see an episode,

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Speaker 1: And when you were saying that, all I saw was

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Speaker 1: That's me.

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Speaker 2: It's just I. That's all of us. Yeah, it's all

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Speaker 2: of us. Well, thank you so much for being here.

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Speaker 9: It's so nice to me say, oh, okay, this is

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Speaker 2: I love you some more time. I literally all the.

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Speaker 9: Time, and I'm just like, oh my god, oh well,

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Speaker 9: thank you so much for being here.

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Speaker 2: Not everybody gets to come in.

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Speaker 1: The hot scene, so it's such a pleasure to meet you.

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Speaker 2: Have fun to night because I know the after party

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Speaker 2: is going to be popping.

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Speaker 7: I'm ready for the pizza.

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Speaker 1: Oh oh, I don't know there was pizza. Okay, let's go.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: I just want to say how fabulous Aleyah looks. Listen

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Speaker 1: this sequence suit and I'm not a big sequence for

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Speaker 1: actually all ever since being faster, reatt it's what I

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Speaker 2: This looks amazing.

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Speaker 8: Thank you?

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Speaker 2: What size are?

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Speaker 1: You can buy whatever you want girls, I can't fit

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Speaker 1: the same thing. Listen, I keep telling everyone this. You

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Speaker 1: survived Women Tell All. I feel like a lot of

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Speaker 1: went down. There just seems to be so much in

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Speaker 1: the air. Do you feel like you got everything out

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Speaker 1: that you needed to say tonight?

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Speaker 6: I feel like I did. I mean, it's hard being

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Speaker 6: dreading going to Women Tell All because I'm not an

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Speaker 6: aggressive personality, and obviously we have a lot of aggressive

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Speaker 2: But now that it's all over and.

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Speaker 6: I can breathe again, I feel pretty good about how

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Speaker 6: everything happened.

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Speaker 1: Well, people didn't attack you. No, it wasn't about you, Honestly,

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Speaker 1: it seemed to be more of more of the heat

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Victoria p Yeah.

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Speaker 6: I mean I feel like there was a lot of

448
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Speaker 6: Like I said, there's a lot of miscommunication. There's a

449
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Speaker 6: lot of lack of communication, and I feel like a

450
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Speaker 6: lot of America and the girls in the house had questions.

451
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Speaker 6: But I do feel like we were able to kind

452
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Speaker 6: of address those.

453
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Speaker 1: Do you because I feel like I still have some questions, like,

454
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Speaker 1: for example, did you really know each other longer than

455
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Speaker 1: three hours?

456
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Speaker 6: Yes?

457
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Speaker 2: Okay, that's just seems to be the biggest one.

458
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Speaker 1: Yeah, what to sum up when you heard watching back

459
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Speaker 1: the conversation that Victoria had with Peter about you, Victoria

460
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Speaker 1: p Sorry had with Peter about you.

461
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Speaker 2: Sum up your reaction in one word.

462
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Speaker 6: I mean, I was taken aback, for sure. I wasn't

463
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Speaker 6: expecting that. It was hard to watch for me because

464
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Speaker 6: coming into this, I did expect for us to have

465
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Speaker 6: each other's back. But I understand that when you're asked

466
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Speaker 6: a question and you have a feeling, you're going to

467
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Speaker 6: express that, you're going to be honest about your feelings. Again,

468
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Speaker 6: I just feel like it was a lack of communication

469
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Speaker 6: going into that, and I wish that we would have

470
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Speaker 6: had the chance to talk about it before Peter asked

471
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Speaker 6: about it. Yeah, but we didn't, and that's unfortunate.

472
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Speaker 2: Where do you guys stand today?

473
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Speaker 6: I mean, we kind of just respect each other, like

474
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Speaker 6: we understand that we didn't communicate enough through this and

475
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Speaker 6: that we want to both move past this. We don't

476
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Speaker 6: want this to define us, to find the group of

477
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Speaker 6: friends that we're in, and we just want to kind

478
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Speaker 6: of have like a mutual respect for each other.

479
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Speaker 2: That's good.

480
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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's very adult and mature of you. Yes, there

481
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Speaker 6: doesn't have to be a winner, loser, or writer wrong.

482
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Speaker 6: We just respect each other's opinion.

483
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Speaker 8: Right.

484
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Speaker 1: So, I have an important question for you that I

485
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Speaker 1: know America wants to know.

486
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Speaker 2: Do you have a job? Three jobs? And please tell

487
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Speaker 2: them what? Tell people what they are.

488
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Speaker 6: I didn't realize my occupation would be so interesting either,

489
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Speaker 6: So the obvious. I'm an orthodonic asistant. I modeled professionally,

490
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Speaker 6: and I own a boutique.

491
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Speaker 1: Good for you, girl. Tell people where they can find

492
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Speaker 1: the boutique. I mean we bought as well. Pump it

493
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Speaker 1: off the podcast boutique.

494
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Speaker 6: I got these earrings from my boutique, so we have

495
00:20:01,600 --> 00:20:03,359
Speaker 6: keet access states. It's me, my mom, and my sister.

496
00:20:03,480 --> 00:20:04,240
Speaker 6: We run it together.

497
00:20:04,440 --> 00:20:06,720
Speaker 2: Good for you. So what's next?

498
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Speaker 1: Well, first, no, I like to ask this question because

499
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Speaker 1: I've been in your shoes before. I know what it's

500
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Speaker 1: like to have a sisterhood in the house, and you

501
00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:16,119
Speaker 1: guys got a lot of heat for not having a sisterhood.

502
00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:19,119
Speaker 1: Seems to be a lot of cattiness. And then but

503
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Speaker 1: then Lexi was like, well, we all love each other. Yeah,

504
00:20:21,480 --> 00:20:23,440
Speaker 1: so who were you close with in the house.

505
00:20:23,760 --> 00:20:25,760
Speaker 6: Is an obvious Savannah. Savannah's my girl.

506
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Speaker 2: Man, Savannah, you're my back girl.

507
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Speaker 1: We all need a Savannah in our lives and saying

508
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Speaker 1: how but I feel like as Texas girls as we

509
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Speaker 1: just have each other's backs like that. Savannahs from Texas too, right, Yep?

510
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Speaker 2: Did y'all know each other before?

511
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Speaker 6: No, we didn't, So we met on the show. Were

512
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Speaker 6: already have plans to go to the rodeo together. I mean,

513
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Speaker 6: if that's a rodeo.

514
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Speaker 1: At the rodeo, she Liz was before me at the rodeo,

515
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Speaker 1: I'm almost oh my god, I need to see you.

516
00:20:48,600 --> 00:20:49,880
Speaker 2: I am almost.

517
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Speaker 1: Positive because the rodeo is what like next week or

518
00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:55,600
Speaker 1: something like that, next month, next month. Time road already

519
00:20:55,600 --> 00:20:59,640
Speaker 1: happened the Houston rodeo. I'm pretty sure. Oh listening, that's

520
00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:02,560
Speaker 1: that is performing because she used to live in Houston.

521
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Speaker 2: She's so good.

522
00:21:03,320 --> 00:21:04,399
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm obsessed with her.

523
00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:06,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm glad I could do you that favor. Thank you,

524
00:21:06,960 --> 00:21:09,120
Speaker 1: Thank you for that. So what's next for you? Paradise

525
00:21:09,359 --> 00:21:10,119
Speaker 1: summer games?

526
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Speaker 6: Pudi's asking, I don't think I'm fit enough for summer games.

527
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Speaker 6: I'm not gonna lie. I'm the cheerleader on the sidepline.

528
00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:19,120
Speaker 6: Cheerleading is a sport, it's totally you watch cheer No.

529
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Speaker 1: I was like, I could Matt talk you. That's a thing.

530
00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:24,600
Speaker 6: Oh really, my sister did cheerleader. Okay, so I understand,

531
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Speaker 6: like the sideline.

532
00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:27,840
Speaker 2: Go, but I don't know.

533
00:21:27,880 --> 00:21:31,000
Speaker 6: Everybody keeps asking about Paradise, and genuinely, I have no idea.

534
00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:32,639
Speaker 6: I feel like that's one of those decisions I'm just

535
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Speaker 6: gonna make when the question come.

536
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Speaker 2: You are so put together, and I get it, like

537
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Speaker 2: I can be.

538
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Speaker 1: I wasn't in pagets, but like just being an attorney

539
00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:42,120
Speaker 1: and like feeling like you have to be.

540
00:21:42,119 --> 00:21:43,720
Speaker 6: On, like you know how to turn it on, I

541
00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:45,120
Speaker 6: know an appropriate situation.

542
00:21:45,280 --> 00:21:47,399
Speaker 2: Yes I know, Yes, I know how to put on

543
00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:48,600
Speaker 2: a show as well. I get it.

544
00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:52,040
Speaker 1: So my question to you is what do you do

545
00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:54,480
Speaker 1: to like let your hair down and go crazy?

546
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Speaker 2: Like are you ever not put together?

547
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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

548
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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean did you see me help a counter? Yes?

549
00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:02,159
Speaker 2: Very drunk about that?

550
00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:03,879
Speaker 1: Ye? About bored?

551
00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:05,040
Speaker 2: Those are the best moments.

552
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Speaker 6: It was so fun. I had the best day of

553
00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:09,560
Speaker 6: that day until everything kind of fell apart. But I

554
00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:11,679
Speaker 6: was just bored and I was like, you know what,

555
00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:13,320
Speaker 6: I've been in this house for three days. I'm going

556
00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:15,800
Speaker 6: to get drunk tonight and I'm gonna have some pizza

557
00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:18,879
Speaker 6: and some cookies. And one thing led to another. I

558
00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:21,160
Speaker 6: found the pilot's hat and next thing you know, I'm

559
00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:23,000
Speaker 6: on the counter talking about the Mile High Club. I

560
00:22:23,040 --> 00:22:24,080
Speaker 6: don't it just happened?

561
00:22:24,240 --> 00:22:25,720
Speaker 1: Well, you know what, you want me to share a

562
00:22:25,760 --> 00:22:29,160
Speaker 1: secret with you? One day we were really like had

563
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Speaker 1: nothing to do. You know how it is like when

564
00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:33,200
Speaker 1: you don't have a date and you're like, okay, well

565
00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:34,720
Speaker 1: like drink, play games whatever.

566
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Speaker 2: We started talking about turking.

567
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Speaker 1: I feel like tworking was like so big basin and

568
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Speaker 1: I was like, do you know how to twirk on

569
00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:42,560
Speaker 1: the wall? And so we taught everybody how to tork

570
00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:44,320
Speaker 1: on the wall, like that was like our thing.

571
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Speaker 8: Yeah.

572
00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:47,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know who I would ever on.

573
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Speaker 1: I've never even done it for my husband.

574
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Speaker 6: Maybe you apparently that I art listening to this. He's

575
00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:55,920
Speaker 6: gonna be like, baby, I know what happened.

576
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Speaker 1: You know what we used to joke and say, the

577
00:22:58,359 --> 00:23:00,560
Speaker 1: reason we're getting roses is because we're like remember that

578
00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:02,200
Speaker 1: night that we were all talking on the wall. Oh yeah,

579
00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:04,600
Speaker 1: that's what we do in our one on one time. No,

580
00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:10,200
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, your naves are like mine twins.

581
00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:12,200
Speaker 2: You guys, we're having a moment.

582
00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:12,440
Speaker 5: Hair.

583
00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:14,040
Speaker 2: You can't see it, but we're having a moment.

584
00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:17,440
Speaker 1: It's like there's something deep walk rooted in Texas spirit.

585
00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:20,200
Speaker 6: Yeah right, it's just a thing you've seen somebody from Texas.

586
00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:23,520
Speaker 2: You're like, yeah, I got you, girl, I got you.

587
00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:24,000
Speaker 3: All right?

588
00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:25,600
Speaker 1: Well, is there anything else do you feel like you

589
00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:27,080
Speaker 1: want to clear up that you.

590
00:23:27,080 --> 00:23:27,560
Speaker 2: Want to say?

591
00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:29,720
Speaker 6: Gosh, yes, I listened to your podcast.

592
00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:31,040
Speaker 2: Oh when I called you Alayah.

593
00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:36,280
Speaker 6: It's just something the Texas longhorn being my spirit animal

594
00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:42,040
Speaker 6: I got and I went to a game shortly after

595
00:23:42,119 --> 00:23:44,000
Speaker 6: listening to I'm like, yeah, he's boring. Never mind, it's

596
00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:45,960
Speaker 6: a kuala. My new spirit air wall is a kuala.

597
00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:48,359
Speaker 2: So you changed it because of what I said you.

598
00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:50,080
Speaker 2: At first, I was like, yeah.

599
00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:52,680
Speaker 6: Texas Pride long horns. Then I'm like, no, yeah, he's boring.

600
00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:54,520
Speaker 2: Did you callow Texas?

601
00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:55,560
Speaker 3: No, I'm just okay.

602
00:23:55,840 --> 00:23:57,920
Speaker 1: But so well, you're close enough there except for the

603
00:23:57,960 --> 00:23:58,919
Speaker 1: time that he almost tried to.

604
00:23:58,920 --> 00:23:59,640
Speaker 2: Run over the dogs.

605
00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:03,040
Speaker 1: That was that was that's your spirit animal.

606
00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:04,639
Speaker 3: I'm beavo against Georgia.

607
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:06,920
Speaker 2: Georgia bulder. Yeah, Georgia bulldogs.

608
00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:09,400
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, thank you so much for being here, and

609
00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:11,200
Speaker 1: I just wish you the best on your journey.

610
00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:12,560
Speaker 2: We hope to see you on something else.

611
00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:14,880
Speaker 1: We'll see we want more of you in the pilot

612
00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:16,399
Speaker 1: head toronk on top of the counter.

613
00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:19,280
Speaker 2: Hey, hey, we know she's in there. We know she's

614
00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:19,640
Speaker 2: in there.

615
00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:23,560
Speaker 1: That's our fans I have sitting in front of me

616
00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:28,600
Speaker 1: with a mouthful of pizza. Kelsey, Kelsey, welcome to the show.

617
00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:31,919
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of where I want to start

618
00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:32,240
Speaker 1: with you.

619
00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:34,399
Speaker 3: Just bring it all. I'm ready for it.

620
00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:35,719
Speaker 2: Well, you survived women tell all.

621
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Speaker 1: That's what I say. That's an honor in itself. How

622
00:24:37,880 --> 00:24:38,600
Speaker 1: do you think it went?

623
00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:39,760
Speaker 2: How do you think you did?

624
00:24:41,240 --> 00:24:42,879
Speaker 3: I think for the most party did. Okay.

625
00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:48,400
Speaker 11: You know, I'm I'm somebody that can embrace my flaws.

626
00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:50,600
Speaker 11: I can own up to when I was in the

627
00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:54,959
Speaker 11: wrong and just make humor of it. And that's what

628
00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:58,879
Speaker 11: I tried to do. The thing about me is I

629
00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:01,720
Speaker 11: did express to the girls in the house how I

630
00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:02,480
Speaker 11: felt about them.

631
00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:04,639
Speaker 3: I didn't talk crap in the interviews.

632
00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:07,120
Speaker 2: Oh so it's a rare characteristic.

633
00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:09,720
Speaker 11: I knew people knew how I felt about them going

634
00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:12,840
Speaker 11: into it, and we had most of everything hashed out.

635
00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:13,400
Speaker 2: Yeah.

636
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:16,600
Speaker 11: I think the girls that didn't do that were a

637
00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:18,280
Speaker 11: little bit more scared. So for me, it was just

638
00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:19,920
Speaker 11: kind of like, all right, let's see.

639
00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:21,840
Speaker 1: What I've said everything I have to say. That's a

640
00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:22,320
Speaker 1: rare thing.

641
00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:22,960
Speaker 2: I'm like that too.

642
00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:26,440
Speaker 3: But that's why that's why it was controversial in the house.

643
00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:28,439
Speaker 2: Well, because you said stuff.

644
00:25:28,520 --> 00:25:30,680
Speaker 11: I think so, because a lot of the girls, you know,

645
00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:32,360
Speaker 11: would kind of say stuff a little bit, but then

646
00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:37,959
Speaker 11: in their interviews they would say more mm hm. So

647
00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:39,640
Speaker 11: then it kind of got a little bit more controversial

648
00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:40,400
Speaker 11: at the women to all.

649
00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:42,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was talking to she and because she said

650
00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:46,000
Speaker 1: she's really close to Tammy, and you know, I was

651
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:49,040
Speaker 1: thinking about this and I'm like, what went wrong? Because

652
00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:52,280
Speaker 1: that night at Champagne Gate, she was the one who

653
00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:53,439
Speaker 1: was like right there with you.

654
00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:56,840
Speaker 2: Did you see her interviews, not at that point. They

655
00:25:56,920 --> 00:25:58,760
Speaker 2: turned later, But it turns.

656
00:25:58,560 --> 00:26:01,520
Speaker 11: Later if you actually paid it tension, because I go

657
00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:05,560
Speaker 11: out and watch now, I was paying attention. She was

658
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:09,280
Speaker 11: talking about how crazy I was in that moment, how

659
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:11,119
Speaker 11: Peter needed to know and all this stuff.

660
00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:13,359
Speaker 1: So she was already in the champagne moment.

661
00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:15,560
Speaker 2: But it was a crazy moment, Kelsey, soh.

662
00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:19,160
Speaker 1: Obviously it was it was I were that shit, But

663
00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:20,320
Speaker 1: be honest, I.

664
00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:22,240
Speaker 2: Laughed and I actually took.

665
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:24,040
Speaker 1: Up for you on the podcast because I was like,

666
00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:26,600
Speaker 1: she's not a bully. I mean, it was crazy, but

667
00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:28,240
Speaker 1: I was like, you weren't a bully in that moment,

668
00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:29,400
Speaker 1: and I hate when that word is so.

669
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Speaker 8: For we used. I was.

670
00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:34,560
Speaker 2: She cursed her out, but she didn't bully.

671
00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:37,359
Speaker 11: But I think, in Hannahan knowsis the reason I was

672
00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:40,200
Speaker 11: so heated in that moment was because if she would

673
00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:44,119
Speaker 11: have just left me alone, I wouldn't. I didn't go

674
00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:46,560
Speaker 11: up to her and like continue.

675
00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:47,400
Speaker 1: To be mean.

676
00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:50,159
Speaker 2: When did y'all become friends?

677
00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:55,480
Speaker 11: Honestly, it was on our way down to Costa Rica.

678
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:57,640
Speaker 11: On the plane, her and I sat next to each

679
00:26:57,640 --> 00:27:00,480
Speaker 11: other both times, which never happened. Oh, it was like

680
00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:03,720
Speaker 11: this rare God sent thing and her and I just

681
00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:05,879
Speaker 11: talked everything out and it was nice because it was

682
00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:08,200
Speaker 11: off camera. I know the viewers want to see that,

683
00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:09,879
Speaker 11: but I think even if we did it on camera,

684
00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:13,440
Speaker 11: it wouldn't have really been and maybe wouldn't have been shown,

685
00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:16,320
Speaker 11: and people wouldn't have really cared because there was so

686
00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:17,320
Speaker 11: much trauma going on.

687
00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:20,960
Speaker 1: Well, I appreciated it, actually, and I didn't notice it

688
00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:22,639
Speaker 1: at first. It was back of my co host who

689
00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:25,360
Speaker 1: couldn't be here today. Shout out to Becca. She noticed it.

690
00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:28,440
Speaker 1: How you when Hannah Ann came back from what was it,

691
00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:30,439
Speaker 1: three on one two one on something like that, you

692
00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:32,239
Speaker 1: ran up to her and you hugged her and we

693
00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:34,879
Speaker 1: were like, see, we can't all get along.

694
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:38,920
Speaker 11: But what's funny is people it's this is the hard

695
00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:42,399
Speaker 11: thing about the show because my drama happened so early on,

696
00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:44,760
Speaker 11: and that was really the first time, the first thing

697
00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:47,440
Speaker 11: people saw of me, that was their first impression of me.

698
00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:51,560
Speaker 11: So it was like me trying to climb a mountain

699
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:54,400
Speaker 11: to get people to see who I really was. Whereas

700
00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:56,359
Speaker 11: for a lot of girls, people got to see who

701
00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 11: they were and then they got in drama and it's like, oh,

702
00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:00,720
Speaker 11: it's just bad moment. Yeah, But for me it was like, oh,

703
00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:02,480
Speaker 11: well I can't get past the champagne thing.

704
00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:03,240
Speaker 3: Does that make sense?

705
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:07,760
Speaker 11: Yeah, so if you actually watched the show in Costa Rica,

706
00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 11: Hannah and I had a one on one girl chat.

707
00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 3: But a lot of.

708
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:14,480
Speaker 11: People dismiss that, Yeah, it is in their mind. And

709
00:28:14,520 --> 00:28:17,200
Speaker 11: then I went crazy, you know, with calling sinning what

710
00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:17,479
Speaker 11: I did.

711
00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:18,760
Speaker 3: I got a little intoxicated.

712
00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:22,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that wasn't I felt like champagne Gate was

713
00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:25,880
Speaker 1: so big that you really had nowhere to go from up.

714
00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:28,439
Speaker 1: But like, you really went up fast. And I think

715
00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:31,560
Speaker 1: a lot of people were surprised at the progression of

716
00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:34,600
Speaker 1: your relationship with Peter. A lot of people like, whether

717
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:36,200
Speaker 1: they liked it or not, that you went and talked

718
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:39,200
Speaker 1: to Peter privately, whatever it is, you and Peter had something,

719
00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:41,160
Speaker 1: and you made it all the way to hometowns yep,

720
00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:43,320
Speaker 1: And I think people started to change on you.

721
00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:46,280
Speaker 11: I know the amount of hate I got from champagne Gate.

722
00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:49,040
Speaker 11: Some of those messages on the board were from me,

723
00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:52,240
Speaker 11: and I did out people on my own personal account,

724
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:55,000
Speaker 11: and I got mixed reviews about it.

725
00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:57,080
Speaker 1: Some people, if you're bold enough to send the message,

726
00:28:57,120 --> 00:28:58,040
Speaker 1: then you're bold enough to.

727
00:28:58,000 --> 00:28:59,800
Speaker 3: Let people and I used to be able to show

728
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:00,600
Speaker 3: on it.

729
00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:03,480
Speaker 11: I blocked that out, but I even even from Bachelor Nation,

730
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:05,680
Speaker 11: I got some messages like, hey, you're better than that.

731
00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:08,880
Speaker 11: You're feeding into their like what they want, You're feeding

732
00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:12,160
Speaker 11: the whatever. And I'm like, but I'm not because I'm

733
00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:14,480
Speaker 11: not showing who it is. But I also think it's

734
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:16,880
Speaker 11: important to put it out there. So I'm really happy

735
00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:17,080
Speaker 11: that we.

736
00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 3: Got to talk about that tonight because good.

737
00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:22,120
Speaker 1: I think it's important and I think it was important too,

738
00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:24,720
Speaker 1: and I'm glad that, like you guys were so open

739
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:27,840
Speaker 1: about you know, you're sharing your own experiences because it's

740
00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:28,680
Speaker 1: not always easy.

741
00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:30,960
Speaker 2: And I think as one person did, everyone else did.

742
00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:32,760
Speaker 1: And it sounds like you guys had talked with each

743
00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:35,680
Speaker 1: other too about some of the experiences that you're sharing.

744
00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 1: And I think when you have that power circle of friends,

745
00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:41,719
Speaker 1: it really helps you combat this because nobody gets this,

746
00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:42,880
Speaker 1: no what you're going through.

747
00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:44,760
Speaker 11: And I think when I put those messages on my

748
00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:47,960
Speaker 11: Instagram story, I had so many girls that I hadn't

749
00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:50,080
Speaker 11: really talked to that reach out. It's like, this isn't okay.

750
00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:52,000
Speaker 11: I get this all the time, you know, kind of

751
00:29:52,040 --> 00:29:54,120
Speaker 11: like all right, we didn't see eyed eye, but we

752
00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:57,360
Speaker 11: can level on the fact that we know we're going through.

753
00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:01,160
Speaker 3: So that was reassuring. Yeah, it almost bonds you in

754
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:01,440
Speaker 3: a way.

755
00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:01,960
Speaker 2: It does.

756
00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:05,720
Speaker 1: It does real quick paradise summer games? Would you do those?

757
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:08,600
Speaker 11: I think I would like summer games more just because

758
00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:10,560
Speaker 11: I'm such a competitive person. You didn't going to see

759
00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:13,760
Speaker 11: this because I was on all the glam dates. I

760
00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 11: would have loved to do tackle football, but I didn't

761
00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:17,840
Speaker 11: want the bruises.

762
00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:19,760
Speaker 3: So I'm happy for that fact.

763
00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:24,080
Speaker 1: But I would have ran over some girls go just

764
00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:25,040
Speaker 1: to know they're listening.

765
00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:25,800
Speaker 2: They're listening to this.

766
00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:29,720
Speaker 1: Also, who does Peter pick Hannah Ann Madison or himself?

767
00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:33,960
Speaker 3: I can't decide between the two, so I'm going to

768
00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:34,600
Speaker 3: say himself.

769
00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:37,320
Speaker 11: Okay that just because I can decide between I go

770
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:38,600
Speaker 11: back and forth every other day.

771
00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:41,040
Speaker 2: I'm Grey Picks. Nothing wrong with that me too. Well,

772
00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:42,400
Speaker 2: thank you so much for being here.

773
00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:45,200
Speaker 1: It's so nice to meet meet. Where's that bottle of champagne?

774
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:47,080
Speaker 1: I wanted some of that? You didn't pop that thing?

775
00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 3: I I don't know. I have like champagne all over me.

776
00:30:51,280 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 3: But all right, sitting here with.

777
00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:02,680
Speaker 1: Me now is Lexi? So I know something about you

778
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:05,280
Speaker 1: that maybe you don't think that I know. Oh, I

779
00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:06,800
Speaker 1: heard you were the coolest chick.

780
00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:07,040
Speaker 2: In the house.

781
00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:09,920
Speaker 1: That's literally how it was described to me. They were like,

782
00:31:09,920 --> 00:31:11,960
Speaker 1: oh my god, Lexi's the coolest.

783
00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:13,240
Speaker 3: I love that.

784
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:17,040
Speaker 7: That's awesome, But I don't think I'm the coolest that.

785
00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:19,360
Speaker 1: I mean, like, we didn't see a lot of you

786
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:21,840
Speaker 1: on the season, but I felt like when you spoke

787
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:25,680
Speaker 1: it was like very matter of fact. You were very chill.

788
00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:29,200
Speaker 1: You didn't seem to get like involved in the drama. Yeah,

789
00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:31,080
Speaker 1: I had the girl click. Y'all have y'all had a

790
00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:31,640
Speaker 1: little click.

791
00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:34,040
Speaker 2: It's okay. We were. They called us the cool kiss.

792
00:31:34,080 --> 00:31:34,719
Speaker 2: We had a click too.

793
00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:37,400
Speaker 7: I just like you're in the house when there's thirty

794
00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:41,040
Speaker 7: different women, Yeah, you're gonna, you know, be drawn to

795
00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:44,280
Speaker 7: certain people and they become like your safe place in

796
00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:47,680
Speaker 7: the house. So that that really was that group of girls.

797
00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:51,000
Speaker 7: And we're just very outspoken.

798
00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:53,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, fancastic as hell.

799
00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:56,320
Speaker 7: We just joke around a lot with each other, like

800
00:31:56,320 --> 00:32:00,200
Speaker 7: we have very like self depreciating humors. Yeah, and I

801
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:02,920
Speaker 7: think you needed that kind of like comedic relief in

802
00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:04,040
Speaker 7: the situation.

803
00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:04,080
Speaker 3: We were in.

804
00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:06,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, let me ask you this because I feel like

805
00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:10,280
Speaker 1: after watching you tonight and women tell all you are opinionated,

806
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:14,520
Speaker 1: you're outspoken girl after my own heart, but you tell

807
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:18,640
Speaker 1: it like it is so watching as a viewer what

808
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:21,040
Speaker 1: was happening in the house with the women, it was

809
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:21,840
Speaker 1: like insane.

810
00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:24,440
Speaker 2: You know, you've gotten a lot of flack. Yeah, was

811
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:25,400
Speaker 2: it really that bad?

812
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:26,480
Speaker 3: It was worse?

813
00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:30,000
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I think it would have self eliminated.

814
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:33,720
Speaker 7: Well, that's the thing is I started to just like

815
00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:38,080
Speaker 7: it was almost funny, like how have we gotten so

816
00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:41,479
Speaker 7: far off track of what we're supposed to be focusing on,

817
00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:44,920
Speaker 7: which is Peter. Yeah, like we're talking about champagne bottles

818
00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:49,360
Speaker 7: and friendships before and we don't who cares? Yeah, it

819
00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:51,760
Speaker 7: just started to get so noisy. I just wanted to

820
00:32:51,760 --> 00:32:54,840
Speaker 7: be like, like, what just happening?

821
00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:56,080
Speaker 2: You just have to last to survive.

822
00:32:56,480 --> 00:32:59,360
Speaker 7: So I think I didn't realize that. I thought I

823
00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:01,360
Speaker 7: was coming off like a crazy person.

824
00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:04,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like because by the time we got to coas Draka.

825
00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:07,280
Speaker 7: I had I hit my my mark. I was like,

826
00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:11,080
Speaker 7: that's it, I'm going to say exactly what I want.

827
00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:14,560
Speaker 7: And I felt like I did that all the way through.

828
00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:15,120
Speaker 2: Sure, but.

829
00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:20,880
Speaker 7: I just I was there truly just to find a connection.

830
00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 7: I believe, I don't care if I win. I didn't

831
00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:25,400
Speaker 7: care if I went home at night one that he

832
00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:27,760
Speaker 7: wasn't my person. Yeah, it was so nice to meet

833
00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:32,280
Speaker 7: you because I'm very happy with my life. Yeah, and

834
00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:35,280
Speaker 7: I want someone to share it with. Yeah, that's the

835
00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:36,440
Speaker 7: whole That was it for me.

836
00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:38,360
Speaker 1: Do you think that was your demise? Like, do you

837
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:40,120
Speaker 1: think that that's why you ended up? You didn't participate

838
00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:42,520
Speaker 1: in the drama. He seems to like when a girl

839
00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:46,360
Speaker 1: shows emotion, you know, like almost confuses that with depth.

840
00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:49,080
Speaker 1: We talk about that on the podcast, confuses the two.

841
00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:51,680
Speaker 1: Do you think like that that was probably why you

842
00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:52,760
Speaker 1: went home? Yeah.

843
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:56,480
Speaker 7: I think it was a multiple things. I definitely could

844
00:33:56,520 --> 00:33:59,880
Speaker 7: have opened up a little bit more earlier on. It

845
00:33:59,920 --> 00:34:03,280
Speaker 7: was just hard, I think far with everything else going on,

846
00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:08,520
Speaker 7: and a lot of the conversations turned to what was

847
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:10,839
Speaker 7: going on with other girls? Yeah, And I was like, Peter,

848
00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:12,920
Speaker 7: I'm so glad that you want to ask me, but

849
00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:15,439
Speaker 7: I'm also not your therapist, Like, yeah, I won't trying

850
00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:18,320
Speaker 7: to date you. Yeah, and we just keep talking about

851
00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:22,640
Speaker 7: other girls. So that was a little frustrating, But I

852
00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:24,719
Speaker 7: just I understood where he was coming from like I

853
00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:28,040
Speaker 7: felt for him. I wanted to give him some sort

854
00:34:28,080 --> 00:34:33,560
Speaker 7: of guidance if that's really what he wanted. And I

855
00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:36,120
Speaker 7: don't think I would change anything, Like I learned so

856
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:39,799
Speaker 7: much about my gold and I'm even more vocal, you know,

857
00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:41,440
Speaker 7: like I have no problem.

858
00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:43,719
Speaker 1: Just oh you were vocal or you were vocal tonight,

859
00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:46,000
Speaker 1: I said, Well, like I was talking to she and

860
00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:47,239
Speaker 1: I was like, what's up with you?

861
00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:50,319
Speaker 2: And LEXI? I mean, which I was, well, no, no,

862
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:51,960
Speaker 2: I know. Interesting for me too.

863
00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:53,600
Speaker 1: Well, I was proud of her because it was like

864
00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:55,520
Speaker 1: she wanted to speak and have her voice because we

865
00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:57,200
Speaker 1: didn't see it much on the season. We didn't see

866
00:34:57,239 --> 00:34:59,120
Speaker 1: yours on the season, so it was I was like, wow,

867
00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:02,000
Speaker 1: you know, like Lex really, honestly, you should have spoken

868
00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:04,520
Speaker 1: up more. Maybe you could have narrated this whole season

869
00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:06,279
Speaker 1: and we could have gotten through it a lot more

870
00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:09,319
Speaker 1: faster with complete sentences and thoughts and you know.

871
00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:09,800
Speaker 2: What I'm saying.

872
00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:11,960
Speaker 7: I mean, that's the thing is you never know what's

873
00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:15,920
Speaker 7: going to be in the show. I was vocal, but

874
00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:18,400
Speaker 7: I think I held back a little because I was like,

875
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:21,520
Speaker 7: what this is, what's going on? Yeah? And I just

876
00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:23,359
Speaker 7: wanted to kind of ride it out. I didn't want

877
00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 7: to be in the drama because that's not who I like. Yeah,

878
00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:26,920
Speaker 7: I don't get involved in that.

879
00:35:27,120 --> 00:35:27,640
Speaker 2: Yeah.

880
00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:30,920
Speaker 7: But when it started to affect my time with Peter, yeah,

881
00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:33,400
Speaker 7: that's when I was like, Okay, we need to stop this,

882
00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:37,200
Speaker 7: yause it just felt like the train was going off

883
00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:38,440
Speaker 7: the tracks a little.

884
00:35:38,480 --> 00:35:40,560
Speaker 1: You had a very interesting comment tonight, and I keep

885
00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:43,160
Speaker 1: talking about it because it was almost shocking. It was

886
00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:44,840
Speaker 1: a beautiful statement, but it was shocking.

887
00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:45,680
Speaker 2: It caught me off guard.

888
00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:48,600
Speaker 1: You said, I know it doesn't seem like it, but

889
00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:49,879
Speaker 1: we all love each other.

890
00:35:50,520 --> 00:35:51,960
Speaker 2: When did that love come about?

891
00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:54,280
Speaker 1: Because if, for damn sure didn't come in the season,

892
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:55,799
Speaker 1: did it pop off in the group chat?

893
00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:57,200
Speaker 2: Did y'all slide in these others?

894
00:35:57,280 --> 00:35:57,680
Speaker 1: DM?

895
00:35:58,000 --> 00:35:59,560
Speaker 2: Would the love fest come about?

896
00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:00,160
Speaker 3: I guess yes.

897
00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:02,680
Speaker 7: I mean, I'm the oldest of five kids and I

898
00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:07,400
Speaker 7: have four sisters, and we fight and we say whatever

899
00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:09,919
Speaker 7: we want and we are honest with each other.

900
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:11,239
Speaker 3: And right after we.

901
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:12,839
Speaker 7: You know, you can you can hug, and you can

902
00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:16,759
Speaker 7: move on. Just because you disagree with someone doesn't mean

903
00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:17,879
Speaker 7: you don't have love for them.

904
00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:18,880
Speaker 3: Yeah.

905
00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:21,680
Speaker 7: While we were filming and where we're all at now

906
00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:25,480
Speaker 7: is very different place, and we've all learned from that.

907
00:36:25,760 --> 00:36:29,359
Speaker 7: And we also, you know, like I wasn't perfect, no

908
00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 7: one was perfect. And I think we just have grace

909
00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:33,760
Speaker 7: for each other now.

910
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:36,480
Speaker 2: Hindsight's twenty twenty. I think you all are and you

911
00:36:36,560 --> 00:36:37,640
Speaker 2: learn so much just you.

912
00:36:37,640 --> 00:36:41,319
Speaker 7: You know, like it's something you can never replicate. It's

913
00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:43,719
Speaker 7: a group of women that you know, no one else

914
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:46,320
Speaker 7: in the world will get to know exactly what happened

915
00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:48,399
Speaker 7: in the house. We just have a bond because of that. Yeah,

916
00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:52,600
Speaker 7: that makes sense PTSD a little, you know, Yeah, experience,

917
00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:53,160
Speaker 7: you bond.

918
00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:55,560
Speaker 1: I'm interested in the year from now who all will be.

919
00:36:55,520 --> 00:36:59,200
Speaker 7: Close, because that's always the thing that's really Yes, we'll see.

920
00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:01,600
Speaker 1: Real quick before I let you go, We'll we see

921
00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:03,080
Speaker 1: you in paradise or summer games.

922
00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:05,480
Speaker 2: It's a good question. I don't know, would you do

923
00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:08,319
Speaker 2: it if you were asked we need more.

924
00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:12,000
Speaker 7: Pay not say no, okay, I mean I'm I'm open

925
00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:14,319
Speaker 7: to it. You know. I think I had so much

926
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:17,960
Speaker 7: fun filming. I loved this experience. Yeah, I want to

927
00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:20,440
Speaker 7: hear and see more of you. So thanks all right, well,

928
00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:22,399
Speaker 7: thank you for being here. Of course, it's so nice

929
00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:23,000
Speaker 7: talking to you.

930
00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:27,200
Speaker 1: All right, sitting in the hot seat right now, somebody

931
00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:29,560
Speaker 1: I've been so eager to talk to, Miss Sammy.

932
00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:32,640
Speaker 2: Welcome to Bachlor Happy houry, Thanks for having me, Thank

933
00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:34,120
Speaker 2: you for being here. Now.

934
00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:37,239
Speaker 1: The theme of this is without struggle, there is no progress,

935
00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:39,480
Speaker 1: which is a tattoo that you have on you. So

936
00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:42,799
Speaker 1: let's talk about the struggle, okay, and hopefully there was

937
00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:47,839
Speaker 1: some progress after today, because congratulations for surviving women. Tell all,

938
00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:52,400
Speaker 1: I know it was a lot for you. I'm going

939
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:54,600
Speaker 1: to start there and let you talk. How do you

940
00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 1: feel something like all of.

941
00:37:57,520 --> 00:37:59,719
Speaker 5: Us aired out what we need to air out, and

942
00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:02,560
Speaker 5: and I got my point across, whether they wanted to

943
00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:04,399
Speaker 5: listen to it or not, and we're ready to move

944
00:38:04,440 --> 00:38:05,160
Speaker 5: past this. You know.

945
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:07,759
Speaker 1: I feel like you have that type of personality, like

946
00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:09,560
Speaker 1: you can just let things roll off your back.

947
00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:11,400
Speaker 2: You don't really take it to heart.

948
00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:14,799
Speaker 5: I don't take offense too much, really, and I think

949
00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:17,560
Speaker 5: it's a waste of energy to just hold a grudge

950
00:38:17,560 --> 00:38:20,800
Speaker 5: on something. What I do is I'm gonna let myself

951
00:38:20,840 --> 00:38:23,640
Speaker 5: do with it, feel the emotions, and then get over it.

952
00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 2: And move on.

953
00:38:24,560 --> 00:38:26,680
Speaker 1: Why do you think that the girls came at you

954
00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:28,239
Speaker 1: so harsh?

955
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:32,239
Speaker 5: I think because I am a very strong personality and

956
00:38:32,320 --> 00:38:34,640
Speaker 5: the loudest one in the room, and with that comes

957
00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:37,600
Speaker 5: with controversy and people are going to disagree with that,

958
00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:39,480
Speaker 5: and that's okay, And honestly, I'm glad I started a

959
00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:42,399
Speaker 5: conversation because I'm here to challenge people. You know, it's

960
00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:44,799
Speaker 5: gonna be uncomfortable, and I'm okay with that.

961
00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:47,200
Speaker 2: Do you feel like you apologize to people tonight?

962
00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:49,719
Speaker 1: Because I feel like some people came in expecting an

963
00:38:49,719 --> 00:38:52,400
Speaker 1: apology from you from either what they saw or what

964
00:38:52,440 --> 00:38:53,200
Speaker 1: they heard or I.

965
00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:54,919
Speaker 2: Don't know what went down in the group chat whatever.

966
00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:55,600
Speaker 12: Yeah.

967
00:38:55,840 --> 00:39:01,240
Speaker 2: I between me and Kelsey, we know this, Okay.

968
00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:05,719
Speaker 5: I'm not here to say face and apologize, just to apologize,

969
00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:07,800
Speaker 5: like we've already talked about it and it's between me

970
00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:09,880
Speaker 5: and her and it's been resolved.

971
00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:12,160
Speaker 2: Okay, So I'll go off of that.

972
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:17,000
Speaker 1: Were you frustrated rehashing a conversation that apparently you guys

973
00:39:17,040 --> 00:39:18,360
Speaker 1: already had off camera.

974
00:39:18,480 --> 00:39:21,760
Speaker 5: Absolutely, and again I think it needs to be said

975
00:39:21,800 --> 00:39:23,240
Speaker 5: on camera and relived again.

976
00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:24,840
Speaker 2: And it does suck for both parties.

977
00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:26,640
Speaker 5: You know, we don't like to come at each other

978
00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:31,440
Speaker 5: that way. I do respect these girls, and I think

979
00:39:31,480 --> 00:39:33,560
Speaker 5: the reason that why we all bought heads is because

980
00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:35,560
Speaker 5: we're all very dominant, passionate people.

981
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:37,920
Speaker 2: Do you have any regrets this season?

982
00:39:38,600 --> 00:39:40,640
Speaker 5: I don't really have any regrets. I mean, I tried

983
00:39:40,640 --> 00:39:43,200
Speaker 5: my best. What you see is kind of what you get.

984
00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:45,759
Speaker 2: And I'm not no matter what I think.

985
00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:49,160
Speaker 5: It looks villainous because I am the loudest person in

986
00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:52,520
Speaker 5: the room and I started an argument, but I could

987
00:39:52,560 --> 00:39:55,640
Speaker 5: have farted and he if he canceled the part cocktail party,

988
00:39:55,719 --> 00:39:57,319
Speaker 5: people would have blamed me for farting. You know.

989
00:39:57,360 --> 00:39:59,520
Speaker 2: It's just like because that was the person to blame

990
00:39:59,560 --> 00:39:59,960
Speaker 2: at the time.

991
00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:02,560
Speaker 1: Well, I talked to Shean and she had nothing but

992
00:40:02,640 --> 00:40:03,960
Speaker 1: positive things to say about you.

993
00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:06,560
Speaker 5: Andy said, you're no very y'all are very close. Yeah,

994
00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:08,680
Speaker 5: we are very close. I love that girl to death.

995
00:40:08,719 --> 00:40:09,359
Speaker 2: But what were you saying.

996
00:40:09,360 --> 00:40:11,319
Speaker 5: Anyone who knows you, Anyone who knows me knows that

997
00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:14,560
Speaker 5: I'm not a malicious person, you know. I mean, even

998
00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:17,399
Speaker 5: ask McKenna and Kelsey think they'll say as well, I'm

999
00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:20,480
Speaker 5: not a nasty human being. We are going to disagree

1000
00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:23,560
Speaker 5: with things, but that's the beauty of friendships. Like I'm

1001
00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:25,479
Speaker 5: not going to agree with everything just because you're my friend.

1002
00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:27,360
Speaker 2: Well, Lexi Cosetta.

1003
00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:30,200
Speaker 1: She said, you guys all love each other absolutely, and

1004
00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:32,480
Speaker 1: I think we were shocked, but we saw it in

1005
00:40:32,520 --> 00:40:35,759
Speaker 1: a moment when we had that very serious conversation where

1006
00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:39,200
Speaker 1: we were talking about being bullied and spewing hate, and

1007
00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:41,480
Speaker 1: you guys ran to each other and came to each other.

1008
00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:45,120
Speaker 1: And I was really really happy when you spoke. I

1009
00:40:45,160 --> 00:40:48,640
Speaker 1: wanted to hear from you because I saw the posts

1010
00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:52,320
Speaker 1: that you talked about about growing up and how you felt,

1011
00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:54,879
Speaker 1: and even something you said when you.

1012
00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:56,480
Speaker 2: Were we talked about on the podcast when.

1013
00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:58,760
Speaker 1: You were going home in the car and you talked

1014
00:40:58,760 --> 00:41:02,400
Speaker 1: about he wanted a trophy wife, And it rocked me,

1015
00:41:02,840 --> 00:41:05,600
Speaker 1: Tammy when you said that, because I felt you, and

1016
00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:08,880
Speaker 1: in that moment, I felt like you've been misunderstood all season,

1017
00:41:08,920 --> 00:41:10,560
Speaker 1: and I just like, really want to give you an

1018
00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:14,719
Speaker 1: opportunity to talk about that, and I also want to

1019
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:18,000
Speaker 1: know how this conversation, if it all, has helped you.

1020
00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:20,360
Speaker 2: I am actually so happy.

1021
00:41:20,400 --> 00:41:23,200
Speaker 5: I wasn't expecting this, and I'm so happy that you

1022
00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:24,960
Speaker 5: came on here and talked about it, because I think

1023
00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:27,400
Speaker 5: for too long people were getting away with these nasty

1024
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:30,959
Speaker 5: comments and it's a hate crime and it's not Okay

1025
00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:32,640
Speaker 5: for people to hide behind the screen and say these

1026
00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:35,400
Speaker 5: things who don't even know me or know us, Like,

1027
00:41:35,480 --> 00:41:38,440
Speaker 5: they say nastier things to us than we would ever say.

1028
00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:38,759
Speaker 2: To each other.

1029
00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:41,720
Speaker 1: You said that that was a really powerful point.

1030
00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:44,719
Speaker 5: Absolutely, and that just says more about like, yeah, we

1031
00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:47,359
Speaker 5: are going to disagree, but I would I would never

1032
00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:50,880
Speaker 5: come at someone's character. I would never come at someone's

1033
00:41:50,920 --> 00:41:55,120
Speaker 5: like race or how they look. I think that when

1034
00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:57,960
Speaker 5: I did say this trophy wife comment, like yeah, throughout

1035
00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:01,640
Speaker 5: my entire life, I grew up in a very Caucasian community.

1036
00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:05,520
Speaker 5: I wanted to be this all American girl so badly. Yeah,

1037
00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:09,120
Speaker 5: and I could never be that. And because I can't

1038
00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:11,440
Speaker 5: change it, I'm as Asian as it gets. Okay, Like

1039
00:42:11,560 --> 00:42:14,920
Speaker 5: you're beautiful, Thank you you guys. She's literally shining. I

1040
00:42:14,920 --> 00:42:17,360
Speaker 5: don't know how they let her wear this shirt on stage.

1041
00:42:17,440 --> 00:42:18,719
Speaker 5: It looks stunning.

1042
00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:22,520
Speaker 13: Production, it looks stunning, but it is against the dress code.

1043
00:42:23,040 --> 00:42:25,560
Speaker 13: I was blinding myself with this top. But you like,

1044
00:42:25,640 --> 00:42:27,839
Speaker 13: you're beautiful, And we said that on the podcast. I do,

1045
00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:29,719
Speaker 13: and I like, And it took a long time for

1046
00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:30,319
Speaker 13: me to get there.

1047
00:42:30,600 --> 00:42:33,720
Speaker 5: Like again, like I wanted to buy all the clothes

1048
00:42:33,719 --> 00:42:34,719
Speaker 5: that these girls had and.

1049
00:42:34,719 --> 00:42:36,080
Speaker 2: Be who these girls were.

1050
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:39,440
Speaker 5: And I think for a long time I envied I

1051
00:42:39,480 --> 00:42:41,400
Speaker 5: wanted to be blonde hair, blood so badly, like I

1052
00:42:41,400 --> 00:42:42,759
Speaker 5: would cry my eyes out to my mom.

1053
00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:44,759
Speaker 2: She's like, speinheart, you're Asian. There's nothing you can do.

1054
00:42:45,520 --> 00:42:48,520
Speaker 1: But I think that what you said is so powerful,

1055
00:42:48,520 --> 00:42:50,880
Speaker 1: and even the social media posts that you had, because

1056
00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:54,319
Speaker 1: you are representing yeah someone and it's like I can

1057
00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:58,280
Speaker 1: speak about being an African American woman, but I can't

1058
00:42:58,320 --> 00:43:01,319
Speaker 1: speak to what you went through and your struggles. And

1059
00:43:01,560 --> 00:43:04,359
Speaker 1: I hope that even though we had that conversation, that

1060
00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:05,840
Speaker 1: you knew that you're not alone.

1061
00:43:06,320 --> 00:43:09,600
Speaker 2: And I hope it empowers you to represent yeah.

1062
00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:13,919
Speaker 5: And I hope that I wish I heard this when

1063
00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:16,759
Speaker 5: I was struggling with the racial thing when I was

1064
00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:20,760
Speaker 5: a kid, because there is people like me out there

1065
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:23,240
Speaker 5: who are going through the same thing. And it sucks

1066
00:43:23,239 --> 00:43:26,919
Speaker 5: when you feel so isolated and alone in the sea

1067
00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:29,000
Speaker 5: of people, because no one else is going to be

1068
00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:32,520
Speaker 5: able to understand unless they have experienced what you and

1069
00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:33,360
Speaker 5: I have experienced.

1070
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:36,120
Speaker 2: Right, But you're not alone. I know. I know that.

1071
00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:36,919
Speaker 2: I love that.

1072
00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:40,960
Speaker 1: I feel like what you said was so powerful, Like

1073
00:43:41,800 --> 00:43:43,040
Speaker 1: you know, we don't know.

1074
00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:45,440
Speaker 2: Who the next Bacheorette's going to be. If you were asked,

1075
00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:46,080
Speaker 2: would you do it?

1076
00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:50,680
Speaker 5: I mean, of course I would love the opportunity to

1077
00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:53,040
Speaker 5: because I think people just see this one side of

1078
00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:57,600
Speaker 5: me and they they judged me on one minute of

1079
00:43:58,080 --> 00:43:59,880
Speaker 5: time that they think is defining who I am as

1080
00:43:59,880 --> 00:44:02,840
Speaker 5: a person. But did they forget like throughout the entire season,

1081
00:44:02,960 --> 00:44:04,000
Speaker 5: like I was never that.

1082
00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:06,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not a villain. I'm not a mean person.

1083
00:44:06,800 --> 00:44:08,279
Speaker 2: I have a lot of.

1084
00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:12,440
Speaker 5: Composure to me and I have a lot of stories

1085
00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:14,480
Speaker 5: to tell, and I think that I would love the

1086
00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:16,719
Speaker 5: opportunity to become bachelorette. Well, I would love for the

1087
00:44:16,719 --> 00:44:18,120
Speaker 5: opportunity for you to redeem yourself.

1088
00:44:18,160 --> 00:44:22,400
Speaker 1: So whether it's Bacherette Paradise, Summer Games, redemption for Tammy.

1089
00:44:22,560 --> 00:44:24,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, the redemption not even like where I have to

1090
00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:26,719
Speaker 5: like change who I am, but like the fact that

1091
00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:28,400
Speaker 5: people need to see the full three sixty of me

1092
00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:29,800
Speaker 5: before they can chest judgment.

1093
00:44:29,960 --> 00:44:33,120
Speaker 1: You know, honestly they can on other shows. So right, Well,

1094
00:44:33,120 --> 00:44:35,280
Speaker 1: I'm happy that you were able to speak to us today.

1095
00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:37,160
Speaker 1: Thank you, and they for me to hear your voice

1096
00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:39,040
Speaker 1: and see another side of you. I know I have

1097
00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:41,080
Speaker 1: on Women Tell Law and then just sitting here with

1098
00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:41,880
Speaker 1: you today. So thank you.

1099
00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:45,040
Speaker 5: Thank you for bringing the awareness because it was it

1100
00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:45,640
Speaker 5: was really bad.

1101
00:44:46,280 --> 00:44:49,160
Speaker 2: It was, it truly was. Thank you for being so vulnerable.

1102
00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:50,600
Speaker 2: Absolutely all right, thank you.

1103
00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:56,560
Speaker 1: Last, but not least, we have Victoria Pee on Bachelor Happy.

1104
00:44:56,239 --> 00:44:58,919
Speaker 2: Hour in the house. In the house, how are you doing?

1105
00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:02,759
Speaker 1: You survived? Women Tell All. You see here's the thing.

1106
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:03,640
Speaker 1: You were quiet.

1107
00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:04,239
Speaker 2: At first, I.

1108
00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:05,920
Speaker 1: Thought, you know, we're not really hearing a lot from

1109
00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:09,960
Speaker 1: Victoria p. And then Chris said, alayah and Victoria pe

1110
00:45:10,360 --> 00:45:12,560
Speaker 1: and then it was bam, it was all on you.

1111
00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:14,239
Speaker 2: So how do you feel? Bam?

1112
00:45:14,400 --> 00:45:18,000
Speaker 14: You know, I don't like conflict and I don't like confrontation,

1113
00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:21,160
Speaker 14: but I'm learning to work through it and learning to

1114
00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:24,520
Speaker 14: grow through it and to confront it. Had on and

1115
00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:26,040
Speaker 14: I tried my best to do about tonight, and I

1116
00:45:26,080 --> 00:45:28,440
Speaker 14: think that in that I was, you know, I did

1117
00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:30,680
Speaker 14: better at communicating than what I did before, and that

1118
00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:33,279
Speaker 14: I uh, I think I squashed a little bit of it.

1119
00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:33,560
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1120
00:45:33,840 --> 00:45:35,960
Speaker 1: So anyway, like like Savannah had it in for you,

1121
00:45:35,960 --> 00:45:38,480
Speaker 1: and I talked to Aliyah and Aliah said, y'all have

1122
00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:40,560
Speaker 1: mutual respect for each other and It's kind of like

1123
00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:43,280
Speaker 1: a very mature situation, which I think is great because

1124
00:45:43,280 --> 00:45:45,160
Speaker 1: we don't always see that, or we didn't see that

1125
00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:46,920
Speaker 1: this season in viewers. So it's nice to hear that

1126
00:45:46,960 --> 00:45:49,880
Speaker 1: you guys have reconciled and you're letting bygones be bygones.

1127
00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:51,040
Speaker 1: Savannah still has an.

1128
00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:53,440
Speaker 10: End for you, but not everyone.

1129
00:45:53,520 --> 00:45:55,719
Speaker 1: Not everyone likes you, right, But she said you talk

1130
00:45:55,760 --> 00:45:57,759
Speaker 1: in circles, So I feel like I want to give

1131
00:45:57,800 --> 00:46:01,080
Speaker 1: you the opportunity to explain You're like, just like, be

1132
00:46:01,400 --> 00:46:03,319
Speaker 1: very matter of fact about what it is.

1133
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:04,839
Speaker 2: So I'm going to ask you very direct questions.

1134
00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:06,960
Speaker 1: Go ahead, I'm ready for because I'm I'm ready for it.

1135
00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:08,960
Speaker 1: Did you guys know each other more than three hours?

1136
00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:09,640
Speaker 8: Yes?

1137
00:46:09,960 --> 00:46:11,279
Speaker 2: Did you have fun in Vegas?

1138
00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:12,479
Speaker 8: I had fun in Vegas.

1139
00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:13,160
Speaker 2: Where'd you stay?

1140
00:46:13,760 --> 00:46:15,160
Speaker 10: I stayed at Shit.

1141
00:46:15,160 --> 00:46:15,879
Speaker 2: Where do we stay?

1142
00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:17,040
Speaker 10: Treasure Island?

1143
00:46:17,200 --> 00:46:19,160
Speaker 2: Right, Treasure Island. Did you room together?

1144
00:46:19,760 --> 00:46:21,000
Speaker 8: No? Okay?

1145
00:46:21,480 --> 00:46:24,720
Speaker 2: Two separate rooms? Is there picture evidence? There's picture evidence?

1146
00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:25,880
Speaker 8: Okay? Yeah?

1147
00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:26,000
Speaker 5: No.

1148
00:46:26,120 --> 00:46:27,920
Speaker 14: Shame and the fact that I knew her I had

1149
00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:31,839
Speaker 14: verbalized out to hear that we knew one another. I

1150
00:46:31,960 --> 00:46:33,680
Speaker 14: as far as being friends, I couldn't tell you her

1151
00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:34,640
Speaker 14: favorite color, what her.

1152
00:46:34,520 --> 00:46:36,040
Speaker 2: Mom's name is Yeah, you were car.

1153
00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:38,120
Speaker 10: She drives where she went to school, what she does

1154
00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:38,520
Speaker 10: for a living.

1155
00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:41,239
Speaker 14: I mean, honestly, I know we weren't close.

1156
00:46:41,320 --> 00:46:42,400
Speaker 2: This is what I'll equate it to.

1157
00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:42,560
Speaker 9: You.

1158
00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:44,960
Speaker 1: Guys are all close right now, but a year from now,

1159
00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:47,120
Speaker 1: you're not going to be the same. Yeah it's sad,

1160
00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:48,640
Speaker 1: but we won't be on the same level that you

1161
00:46:48,640 --> 00:46:50,120
Speaker 1: were before. So it's like we all went through this

1162
00:46:50,160 --> 00:46:53,520
Speaker 1: experience like a pageant. I know her, I've been around her,

1163
00:46:53,840 --> 00:46:55,319
Speaker 1: but I'm not close with her.

1164
00:46:55,400 --> 00:46:57,400
Speaker 2: She's not one of my closest friends. See how we

1165
00:46:57,440 --> 00:47:00,319
Speaker 2: cleared that up and just like that, Yeah, well what's

1166
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:01,680
Speaker 2: next for you? What are you doing right now?

1167
00:47:01,800 --> 00:47:01,960
Speaker 3: So?

1168
00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:03,560
Speaker 14: I work full time as a nurse. I've been a

1169
00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:05,360
Speaker 14: nurse for the last four and a half five years,

1170
00:47:05,400 --> 00:47:08,000
Speaker 14: so still doing that. I don't think that reality TV,

1171
00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:09,520
Speaker 14: but I have a future of Matt.

1172
00:47:09,560 --> 00:47:13,600
Speaker 10: I can't see myself. I can't see myself doing that in.

1173
00:47:13,520 --> 00:47:18,240
Speaker 14: The future, but I hope that that love is somewhere

1174
00:47:18,239 --> 00:47:18,720
Speaker 14: in between.

1175
00:47:18,840 --> 00:47:21,160
Speaker 1: Well, that is the most honest thing I think that

1176
00:47:21,320 --> 00:47:24,160
Speaker 1: anybody has said. So thank you for that on this podcast,

1177
00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:25,759
Speaker 1: because you don't see people come from the show and

1178
00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:27,560
Speaker 1: say you know what, I don't think it's there's a

1179
00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:29,560
Speaker 1: future in it for me. So you wouldn't do Paradise,

1180
00:47:30,080 --> 00:47:30,879
Speaker 1: you wouldn't.

1181
00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:31,240
Speaker 2: Do Summer Games.

1182
00:47:31,239 --> 00:47:32,719
Speaker 10: I'm just saying that I wouldn't.

1183
00:47:32,880 --> 00:47:34,920
Speaker 14: So my mom nominde me for the Bachelor in the

1184
00:47:34,960 --> 00:47:38,200
Speaker 14: first place, So I'm like, hey mom, Yeah, hey mom.

1185
00:47:38,360 --> 00:47:38,840
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1186
00:47:38,960 --> 00:47:42,080
Speaker 14: Anyway, but yeah, so Sindy nominated me, and this is

1187
00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:44,640
Speaker 14: just this' has been a great experience in learning experience.

1188
00:47:44,719 --> 00:47:47,919
Speaker 2: But yeah, I don't I don't know it's next.

1189
00:47:47,920 --> 00:47:52,040
Speaker 14: But I will say I'm not I don't know it's next,

1190
00:47:52,080 --> 00:47:53,719
Speaker 14: but I don't know if I will do.

1191
00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:55,480
Speaker 1: You got to think about it. You'll think about about it.

1192
00:47:55,480 --> 00:47:57,600
Speaker 1: You're going to weigh out your options. Do you have

1193
00:47:57,640 --> 00:47:59,560
Speaker 1: any regrets then from the season, You.

1194
00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:02,120
Speaker 14: Know, I I wish that and there were times that

1195
00:48:02,160 --> 00:48:04,320
Speaker 14: I wish I'd been more direct like you and I

1196
00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:07,080
Speaker 14: I wish I had been better at communicating. But I'm

1197
00:48:07,160 --> 00:48:10,480
Speaker 14: learning how to communicate better. I am an empathetic person,

1198
00:48:10,520 --> 00:48:12,080
Speaker 14: and I think it's part of my nature and who

1199
00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:13,680
Speaker 14: I am as a human being, and it's part of

1200
00:48:13,680 --> 00:48:16,799
Speaker 14: my profession obviously, and just the way that I grew

1201
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:19,880
Speaker 14: up to just kind of like brush it off and

1202
00:48:19,880 --> 00:48:21,440
Speaker 14: give someone kind to seeing grace.

1203
00:48:21,200 --> 00:48:23,880
Speaker 10: And kind of take a hit in that.

1204
00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:25,800
Speaker 14: And I'm learning that it's okay to stand up for

1205
00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:29,480
Speaker 14: myself and it's okay to have healthy confrontation and conflict

1206
00:48:29,520 --> 00:48:30,279
Speaker 14: and to work through that.

1207
00:48:30,960 --> 00:48:33,200
Speaker 1: And I think it's okay to say I made a mistake.

1208
00:48:33,280 --> 00:48:34,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I own it.

1209
00:48:34,160 --> 00:48:37,479
Speaker 1: Yeah I didn't handle it the best. Actually can say

1210
00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:39,160
Speaker 1: that coming from this opportunity.

1211
00:48:39,239 --> 00:48:40,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I did it.

1212
00:48:40,120 --> 00:48:41,920
Speaker 14: There were many things that I'm like, oh man, I

1213
00:48:42,000 --> 00:48:44,080
Speaker 14: really could have handled that different. And I've beat myself

1214
00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:46,520
Speaker 14: up about it, and I've gotten hate mail because of it,

1215
00:48:46,560 --> 00:48:50,040
Speaker 14: and I've really but it's been challenging for me, but

1216
00:48:50,080 --> 00:48:51,640
Speaker 14: it's also been a growing experience and.

1217
00:48:51,640 --> 00:48:55,719
Speaker 10: A learning experience through that. I know a lay before this.

1218
00:48:56,200 --> 00:49:00,080
Speaker 14: Yeah, I never denied that where we friends, know, I

1219
00:49:00,160 --> 00:49:03,520
Speaker 14: say we were more acquaintances, but I should have clarified

1220
00:49:03,560 --> 00:49:05,120
Speaker 14: more and I should have communicated more with her.

1221
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:09,480
Speaker 1: In your defense, Peter doesn't always ask the most direct questions.

1222
00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:11,200
Speaker 2: So that's why I was like, you know what, We're

1223
00:49:11,239 --> 00:49:13,359
Speaker 2: just gonna go right to it while we got half

1224
00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:13,560
Speaker 2: the way.

1225
00:49:13,760 --> 00:49:16,359
Speaker 1: So and so like everybody knows that there's no more

1226
00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:18,759
Speaker 1: questions about it, it is what it is. They moved on,

1227
00:49:18,840 --> 00:49:20,440
Speaker 1: so you guys need to move on as.

1228
00:49:20,239 --> 00:49:23,360
Speaker 14: Well, and absolutely, and I think I will say everyone

1229
00:49:23,400 --> 00:49:26,120
Speaker 14: move on, and I hope that everyone treats Aliah with

1230
00:49:26,200 --> 00:49:30,680
Speaker 14: kindness and respect and love and generosity regardless. There's no

1231
00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:32,520
Speaker 14: side to choose as far as I'm concerned, and I.

1232
00:49:32,560 --> 00:49:33,279
Speaker 2: Think we're there.

1233
00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:35,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, And you know what's been great, Like women women

1234
00:49:35,400 --> 00:49:38,760
Speaker 1: till all started off real high, like on a level

1235
00:49:39,360 --> 00:49:42,120
Speaker 1: three hundred and five, and things just.

1236
00:49:42,160 --> 00:49:45,840
Speaker 2: Kind of like died down a bit, and then you saw.

1237
00:49:45,640 --> 00:49:49,440
Speaker 1: That there was thise camaraderie between you guys, and I

1238
00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:52,040
Speaker 1: think that that was special because as a viewer, we

1239
00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:55,239
Speaker 1: saw none of that, and so I think you guys

1240
00:49:55,280 --> 00:49:55,960
Speaker 1: all was just like.

1241
00:49:55,920 --> 00:49:57,440
Speaker 2: You know what, Hindsight's twenty twenty.

1242
00:49:57,560 --> 00:50:00,279
Speaker 1: We made some mistakes, but we all went through a

1243
00:50:00,280 --> 00:50:02,880
Speaker 1: shared experience, and you're going to hold on to that.

1244
00:50:03,080 --> 00:50:05,960
Speaker 14: We are all different and we all have our differences,

1245
00:50:06,040 --> 00:50:09,120
Speaker 14: but we can all see it immunity and hand in

1246
00:50:09,160 --> 00:50:13,800
Speaker 14: hand say that we are that we stand together against

1247
00:50:13,840 --> 00:50:18,120
Speaker 14: tate and against a better future and can.

1248
00:50:18,160 --> 00:50:19,120
Speaker 10: Buy gunsiban guns.

1249
00:50:19,160 --> 00:50:20,959
Speaker 2: You know, I don't even want to ask you another question.

1250
00:50:21,000 --> 00:50:23,520
Speaker 1: That was beautiful the way you just ended that I

1251
00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:25,120
Speaker 1: was going to ask you about the season, but it's like,

1252
00:50:25,160 --> 00:50:27,080
Speaker 1: you know what, Yeah, Like, let's just be better.

1253
00:50:27,320 --> 00:50:29,120
Speaker 14: Yeah, Cush think that we can always see better and

1254
00:50:29,160 --> 00:50:31,520
Speaker 14: there's always room for growth. And like I said, this

1255
00:50:31,560 --> 00:50:33,960
Speaker 14: has challenged me to be better. And I don't know

1256
00:50:33,960 --> 00:50:37,080
Speaker 14: it's ahead, but I know that this has challenged me

1257
00:50:37,080 --> 00:50:38,759
Speaker 14: to be a better Victoria Pee, and I'm going to

1258
00:50:38,800 --> 00:50:41,319
Speaker 14: be a better human being, a better spouse, and a

1259
00:50:41,320 --> 00:50:43,840
Speaker 14: better friend and uh because of all this.

1260
00:50:44,160 --> 00:50:46,160
Speaker 1: So thank you for sharing that, and thank you for

1261
00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:47,040
Speaker 1: coming on the podcast.

1262
00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:47,560
Speaker 10: Thank you.

1263
00:50:47,960 --> 00:50:49,880
Speaker 1: Now, I lie to you guys, and I don't do

1264
00:50:49,920 --> 00:50:52,440
Speaker 1: this often, but when I do, it's for a good reason.

1265
00:50:52,520 --> 00:50:54,879
Speaker 1: I told you my final guest was Victoria, but it's

1266
00:50:54,920 --> 00:50:56,960
Speaker 1: actually mister Webber Peter.

1267
00:50:57,239 --> 00:50:58,080
Speaker 2: Welcome again.

1268
00:50:58,360 --> 00:51:00,000
Speaker 1: So that's how happy are You're becoming a regular?

1269
00:51:00,239 --> 00:51:02,120
Speaker 8: Yeah, what's going on here? Thanks for having me.

1270
00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:03,200
Speaker 2: Can we have an honest talk?

1271
00:51:03,920 --> 00:51:04,560
Speaker 8: I would love that.

1272
00:51:04,600 --> 00:51:08,359
Speaker 1: I'm upset why because I was rooting for you.

1273
00:51:09,280 --> 00:51:12,839
Speaker 2: We were all rooting for you. But this is why.

1274
00:51:12,840 --> 00:51:14,919
Speaker 1: I remember when we talked and I was like, man, Peter,

1275
00:51:15,320 --> 00:51:18,920
Speaker 1: out of anybody, who's who since I've been watching, I

1276
00:51:19,000 --> 00:51:21,959
Speaker 1: want you to find your happiness and.

1277
00:51:21,880 --> 00:51:22,720
Speaker 2: To find love.

1278
00:51:23,400 --> 00:51:26,880
Speaker 1: And this season has been frustrating for me to watch,

1279
00:51:26,920 --> 00:51:29,080
Speaker 1: so I can only imagine what it was like for

1280
00:51:29,160 --> 00:51:31,520
Speaker 1: you to be in it, and I guess I just

1281
00:51:31,560 --> 00:51:35,239
Speaker 1: like am frustrated. I'm fortuted for you. That's why I'm

1282
00:51:35,239 --> 00:51:38,120
Speaker 1: saying I'm upset because you know, at this point, I

1283
00:51:38,200 --> 00:51:41,240
Speaker 1: have no idea what decision that you made. And Chris

1284
00:51:41,280 --> 00:51:43,960
Speaker 1: Tonight said, you don't even know what the decision is,

1285
00:51:44,000 --> 00:51:47,520
Speaker 1: which I as a lawyer and being logical, I'm like, okay,

1286
00:51:47,760 --> 00:51:49,560
Speaker 1: so that means maybe this is this, this is this,

1287
00:51:49,640 --> 00:51:53,359
Speaker 1: and we can't figure it out. But watching this last

1288
00:51:53,480 --> 00:51:58,520
Speaker 1: episode and you being so honest and forthcoming about how

1289
00:51:58,560 --> 00:52:01,960
Speaker 1: you feel about who you are, it was very frustrating

1290
00:52:01,960 --> 00:52:05,239
Speaker 1: for me to watch you put all yourself out there

1291
00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:09,880
Speaker 1: and then to get this tidbit of information at the

1292
00:52:10,000 --> 00:52:13,000
Speaker 1: very end, and I'm very curious as to how you

1293
00:52:13,120 --> 00:52:17,120
Speaker 1: felt about it. Are you talking about with Victoria, talking

1294
00:52:17,120 --> 00:52:18,360
Speaker 1: about with Madison?

1295
00:52:20,080 --> 00:52:20,360
Speaker 8: Oh?

1296
00:52:20,400 --> 00:52:23,279
Speaker 1: Okay, so maybe I should like, I guess I'm more

1297
00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:27,840
Speaker 1: so saying you have been very upfront and honest about

1298
00:52:27,840 --> 00:52:29,879
Speaker 1: like what you're going through and how you feel, maybe

1299
00:52:29,920 --> 00:52:32,279
Speaker 1: even to a fault. But that's like the beauty of you.

1300
00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:34,719
Speaker 1: It's a gift and a curse. And for you to

1301
00:52:34,800 --> 00:52:37,680
Speaker 1: get this information at the very end, which I feel

1302
00:52:37,680 --> 00:52:41,440
Speaker 1: like doesn't allow you to fully have the right mindset

1303
00:52:41,600 --> 00:52:46,800
Speaker 1: as you're going into week nine, which is insanely important,

1304
00:52:47,520 --> 00:52:50,239
Speaker 1: and just to set the stage for everybody. Week nine

1305
00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:52,319
Speaker 1: is important. Not because it's fantasy sweet week, and that's

1306
00:52:52,320 --> 00:52:57,200
Speaker 1: what it's titled, entitled titled, it's that it's the time

1307
00:52:57,239 --> 00:52:59,560
Speaker 1: that you get off camera to really get to know

1308
00:52:59,640 --> 00:53:03,879
Speaker 1: somebody with no one else around. It is precious, precious time,

1309
00:53:04,560 --> 00:53:07,600
Speaker 1: and your mind is all over the place for multiple reasons,

1310
00:53:07,719 --> 00:53:09,399
Speaker 1: and you're trying to be sensitive to how everyone else

1311
00:53:09,440 --> 00:53:13,400
Speaker 1: is feeling. But at the same time, you need to

1312
00:53:13,520 --> 00:53:16,520
Speaker 1: kind of know everything, and you didn't until the very

1313
00:53:16,600 --> 00:53:19,360
Speaker 1: last second. So I'm really curious to know how you

1314
00:53:19,440 --> 00:53:22,080
Speaker 1: felt in that moment when you got that information that

1315
00:53:22,200 --> 00:53:24,359
Speaker 1: maybe you could have gotten I don't know week one.

1316
00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:27,840
Speaker 12: Yeah, I mean, I don't know realistically if that's a

1317
00:53:27,840 --> 00:53:30,560
Speaker 12: week one type of conversation, but yes, in a perfect world,

1318
00:53:30,640 --> 00:53:32,920
Speaker 12: I definitely would have. I wish I could have known that,

1319
00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:37,000
Speaker 12: Siner on no doubt, because that made that week the

1320
00:53:37,080 --> 00:53:38,520
Speaker 12: hardest week in my life and.

1321
00:53:41,960 --> 00:53:44,319
Speaker 8: That was not easy at all. But I will say, like.

1322
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:47,919
Speaker 12: I I told all of the women from the very

1323
00:53:47,920 --> 00:53:51,359
Speaker 12: first night to I remember that the toast, I said,

1324
00:53:51,560 --> 00:53:53,680
Speaker 12: be real with me, share whatever is on your heart.

1325
00:53:53,840 --> 00:53:55,520
Speaker 12: I don't care if you think I'm gonna like it

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Speaker 12: or not. Just I need to know that and you

1327
00:53:57,680 --> 00:54:00,239
Speaker 12: need to be able to express that to me. That's

1328
00:54:00,239 --> 00:54:02,400
Speaker 12: all that Madison was doing in that moment. Yes, I

1329
00:54:02,400 --> 00:54:04,360
Speaker 12: would have loved for her to have done it way sooner.

1330
00:54:04,560 --> 00:54:06,960
Speaker 12: I would have, but I can't fault her, and if

1331
00:54:06,960 --> 00:54:09,400
Speaker 12: I do, I'm only a hypocrite of her sharing what

1332
00:54:09,520 --> 00:54:11,520
Speaker 12: was on her heart, and she did it in the

1333
00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:14,160
Speaker 12: most There was no easy way for her to do that. Man,

1334
00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:16,279
Speaker 12: I remember that conversation like it was yesterday. It was

1335
00:54:16,400 --> 00:54:18,840
Speaker 12: tough for her and she was struggling, and she didn't

1336
00:54:18,840 --> 00:54:20,520
Speaker 12: want it to come off like she was telling me

1337
00:54:20,600 --> 00:54:22,959
Speaker 12: what I had to do. But she was simply telling

1338
00:54:23,000 --> 00:54:25,760
Speaker 12: me where would put her if I made certain decisions,

1339
00:54:25,800 --> 00:54:27,240
Speaker 12: and that I have to respect.

1340
00:54:27,239 --> 00:54:28,279
Speaker 8: And I can't follow her for.

1341
00:54:28,640 --> 00:54:32,160
Speaker 1: You talked about her when she shared that information with

1342
00:54:32,200 --> 00:54:34,920
Speaker 1: you about the ultimatum. I don't want to say ultimatum,

1343
00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:37,160
Speaker 1: but you didn't feel like she was giving you an ultimatum.

1344
00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:38,600
Speaker 1: But she was sharing what was on her heart in

1345
00:54:38,640 --> 00:54:40,880
Speaker 1: that moment in the hangar when it was down to

1346
00:54:40,920 --> 00:54:43,400
Speaker 1: the final three. Do you ask yourself the question, why

1347
00:54:43,480 --> 00:54:46,320
Speaker 1: didn't she also share that she was saving herself for

1348
00:54:46,480 --> 00:54:48,360
Speaker 1: marriage in that moment?

1349
00:54:49,640 --> 00:54:52,320
Speaker 8: Yeah? Yeah, I don't know why she didn't decide to

1350
00:54:53,120 --> 00:54:54,480
Speaker 8: share that with me. I truly do.

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00:54:54,880 --> 00:54:56,719
Speaker 12: Whether it's right or not, I feel like maybe that

1352
00:54:56,719 --> 00:54:59,200
Speaker 12: would have that would have meant.

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00:54:59,000 --> 00:54:59,440
Speaker 8: Something to me.

1354
00:54:59,520 --> 00:55:02,480
Speaker 1: I actually agree with you that information. I like when

1355
00:55:02,480 --> 00:55:04,719
Speaker 1: we talk about it on the podcast. I make the

1356
00:55:04,840 --> 00:55:07,560
Speaker 1: argument that I think that that information was vital to

1357
00:55:07,640 --> 00:55:11,200
Speaker 1: you to know what decisions you were going to make

1358
00:55:11,280 --> 00:55:12,120
Speaker 1: going into that week.

1359
00:55:12,160 --> 00:55:13,239
Speaker 8: Yeah, you're right.

1360
00:55:13,320 --> 00:55:16,719
Speaker 12: And I obviously her and I we have different viewpoints

1361
00:55:16,719 --> 00:55:18,400
Speaker 12: on that, and that's fine, you know, we don't have

1362
00:55:18,440 --> 00:55:21,560
Speaker 12: to be like in every single regard. But yeah, I

1363
00:55:21,600 --> 00:55:23,919
Speaker 12: wish she would have expressed that to me there, and

1364
00:55:24,080 --> 00:55:25,520
Speaker 12: I think I would have had a little bit more

1365
00:55:25,680 --> 00:55:26,319
Speaker 12: gravity there.

1366
00:55:26,320 --> 00:55:28,880
Speaker 8: And but what are you gonna do?

1367
00:55:28,960 --> 00:55:34,120
Speaker 1: She didn't so tell me audience, Well, Peter, now, I

1368
00:55:35,440 --> 00:55:39,239
Speaker 1: have personally asked to be placed next to Barb at

1369
00:55:39,280 --> 00:55:41,359
Speaker 1: the finale. I thought she was going to be here

1370
00:55:41,360 --> 00:55:42,600
Speaker 1: at Women tell all she was not.

1371
00:55:42,760 --> 00:55:46,360
Speaker 12: Yeah, a couple of honeybearers back in the day.

1372
00:55:47,320 --> 00:55:49,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, so what happens? Am I going to be mad?

1373
00:55:49,360 --> 00:55:53,760
Speaker 1: I'm I'm upset because I want whatever happens. I'm like passionate,

1374
00:55:54,040 --> 00:55:56,279
Speaker 1: So it's not an upset like I'm angry.

1375
00:55:56,320 --> 00:55:59,080
Speaker 2: I like you, you know, and I.

1376
00:55:59,120 --> 00:56:00,960
Speaker 1: Wanted to work for you and I want you to

1377
00:56:01,000 --> 00:56:02,719
Speaker 1: be I mean, you can be happy even if you

1378
00:56:02,800 --> 00:56:04,600
Speaker 1: choose yourself at the end of this. But I just

1379
00:56:05,200 --> 00:56:07,040
Speaker 1: like when I see what's happening towards the end, I

1380
00:56:07,920 --> 00:56:12,239
Speaker 1: entitled our He's thing entitled I titled our podcast for

1381
00:56:12,400 --> 00:56:15,640
Speaker 1: last week? Can Peter Ketch a break? It was the subtitle,

1382
00:56:15,680 --> 00:56:17,279
Speaker 1: can we just give him one week?

1383
00:56:17,480 --> 00:56:21,120
Speaker 12: All the answer is no answers Peter's and I say,

1384
00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:22,319
Speaker 12: I mean, I've said it a million times.

1385
00:56:22,360 --> 00:56:24,560
Speaker 8: Things happen till the last second, and.

1386
00:56:24,760 --> 00:56:25,759
Speaker 2: Apparently they still are.

1387
00:56:26,480 --> 00:56:29,759
Speaker 8: We'll see about that. But yeah, it was just very

1388
00:56:29,760 --> 00:56:31,000
Speaker 8: difficult for me in a lot of ways.

1389
00:56:31,600 --> 00:56:33,879
Speaker 12: And yeah, the whole stuff with the fantasy suitet week,

1390
00:56:33,920 --> 00:56:35,640
Speaker 12: and that's just that set the tone for a lot

1391
00:56:35,640 --> 00:56:35,960
Speaker 12: of stuff.

1392
00:56:35,960 --> 00:56:37,040
Speaker 8: It was. It was super tough.

1393
00:56:37,080 --> 00:56:39,080
Speaker 12: But I really can't say, like right now, where I'm

1394
00:56:39,080 --> 00:56:41,160
Speaker 12: at I am happy and I am in a good spot.

1395
00:56:41,040 --> 00:56:43,120
Speaker 1: And so I'm not going to be mad at the finale?

1396
00:56:43,160 --> 00:56:43,880
Speaker 1: Is that what you're telling me?

1397
00:56:43,920 --> 00:56:45,880
Speaker 2: Am I going to be mad at this point?

1398
00:56:45,960 --> 00:56:48,200
Speaker 12: Everyone has so many opinions and you can't please everyone,

1399
00:56:48,280 --> 00:56:48,920
Speaker 12: is what I'm learning.

1400
00:56:48,960 --> 00:56:49,680
Speaker 8: So I don't know.

1401
00:56:49,760 --> 00:56:51,719
Speaker 2: But we're talking about me. We're worried about me.

1402
00:56:51,840 --> 00:56:53,359
Speaker 8: Okay, it exists here, big sis.

1403
00:56:54,280 --> 00:56:54,480
Speaker 9: You know.

1404
00:56:55,680 --> 00:56:56,520
Speaker 8: I think I can.

1405
00:56:56,600 --> 00:56:58,920
Speaker 12: I can sense you know, some overprotective tendencies here, which

1406
00:56:58,920 --> 00:57:02,319
Speaker 12: I appreciate, and that so thank you because I know

1407
00:57:02,360 --> 00:57:04,520
Speaker 12: you want the best for me, and I'm in a

1408
00:57:04,520 --> 00:57:07,359
Speaker 12: good spot, so I think Okay, I think that'll be good.

1409
00:57:07,600 --> 00:57:10,000
Speaker 1: I can I can hold on to that. Okay, that'll

1410
00:57:10,040 --> 00:57:12,600
Speaker 1: get me through till the finale. Yeah, come see, you're

1411
00:57:12,600 --> 00:57:14,520
Speaker 1: gonna come see me though after that though.

1412
00:57:14,680 --> 00:57:15,520
Speaker 8: Okay, well, and you're not.

1413
00:57:15,560 --> 00:57:17,600
Speaker 12: What I will say is you're not going to like

1414
00:57:18,000 --> 00:57:19,600
Speaker 12: you're not getting mad about me not falling my heart

1415
00:57:19,640 --> 00:57:20,600
Speaker 12: and doing what I needed to do.

1416
00:57:20,800 --> 00:57:23,040
Speaker 1: For sure, No, I won't. I won't be mad at

1417
00:57:23,080 --> 00:57:25,400
Speaker 1: you for following your heart. But well, yeah, well we'll

1418
00:57:25,400 --> 00:57:27,120
Speaker 1: put a pin in it there now. What I will

1419
00:57:27,160 --> 00:57:29,560
Speaker 1: say about tonight though, what was really refreshing.

1420
00:57:30,200 --> 00:57:33,360
Speaker 2: Was how nice the women wore. But were you shocked?

1421
00:57:33,440 --> 00:57:33,720
Speaker 8: Yes?

1422
00:57:33,800 --> 00:57:38,080
Speaker 12: I was, why because I mean I had never been

1423
00:57:38,120 --> 00:57:39,840
Speaker 12: in a room with that many x's until then I

1424
00:57:39,920 --> 00:57:42,120
Speaker 12: walk out, and I had a lot of nerves coming

1425
00:57:42,120 --> 00:57:43,760
Speaker 12: into I just didn't know how they'd kind of received me.

1426
00:57:44,200 --> 00:57:46,040
Speaker 12: You know, it's always weird when you end a relationship

1427
00:57:46,040 --> 00:57:48,080
Speaker 12: and that's the first time you see them. But no,

1428
00:57:48,160 --> 00:57:50,240
Speaker 12: I felt the love like crazy from them and just

1429
00:57:50,320 --> 00:57:53,640
Speaker 12: really sweet, kind words of encouragement. That was really special

1430
00:57:53,640 --> 00:57:56,520
Speaker 12: and beautiful to me. And I thought that was awesome.

1431
00:57:56,720 --> 00:57:58,960
Speaker 1: I'll say it was awesome too because the women we

1432
00:57:59,120 --> 00:58:01,360
Speaker 1: just know did really get along and there seemed to

1433
00:58:01,400 --> 00:58:02,880
Speaker 1: be so much cattiness.

1434
00:58:02,360 --> 00:58:05,320
Speaker 2: But they all could agree you were.

1435
00:58:05,160 --> 00:58:07,960
Speaker 1: The common denominator of what was good about the season

1436
00:58:07,960 --> 00:58:10,280
Speaker 1: for them, So I thought that that was special. Like

1437
00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:14,320
Speaker 1: people can call you indecisive, I've said it myself, but

1438
00:58:14,400 --> 00:58:16,439
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, whatever you did with them,

1439
00:58:16,640 --> 00:58:19,040
Speaker 1: because of the way they reacted tonight, you did it right.

1440
00:58:19,280 --> 00:58:21,520
Speaker 12: Yeah, and that was Yeah, that means a lot. Those

1441
00:58:21,520 --> 00:58:24,200
Speaker 12: words mean a lot. I truly try my best to

1442
00:58:24,680 --> 00:58:27,000
Speaker 12: really as much as I could give each relationship my

1443
00:58:27,120 --> 00:58:29,440
Speaker 12: full attention. When I was with those women, and you know,

1444
00:58:29,480 --> 00:58:31,600
Speaker 12: seeing that they kind of they saw that as well

1445
00:58:31,640 --> 00:58:33,880
Speaker 12: and expressed that to me, that meant a lot, and

1446
00:58:34,560 --> 00:58:35,520
Speaker 12: I could feel good about that.

1447
00:58:36,120 --> 00:58:38,480
Speaker 1: Well, I really want to keep asking you questions, but

1448
00:58:38,520 --> 00:58:40,520
Speaker 1: you're not giving me what I want because I want

1449
00:58:40,560 --> 00:58:41,640
Speaker 1: you to tell me how it is.

1450
00:58:41,720 --> 00:58:43,520
Speaker 2: That all you want, And I just really thought we

1451
00:58:43,520 --> 00:58:45,120
Speaker 2: were on a different level. Peter. You know, I've been

1452
00:58:45,120 --> 00:58:46,800
Speaker 2: invited to come over to the family dinner.

1453
00:58:47,640 --> 00:58:49,160
Speaker 8: I run a podcast. I don't ask me if we're

1454
00:58:49,160 --> 00:58:49,640
Speaker 8: on a podcast.

1455
00:58:49,880 --> 00:58:51,320
Speaker 2: No, nobody's here. What are you talking about?

1456
00:58:52,280 --> 00:58:55,920
Speaker 1: No, but you do seem happy, and I you know,

1457
00:58:55,960 --> 00:58:58,160
Speaker 1: I always wish the best for you, and I guess

1458
00:58:58,200 --> 00:59:01,360
Speaker 1: I'll just have to wait till next week like everybody else.

1459
00:59:01,640 --> 00:59:04,120
Speaker 12: It's okay, it's this truly might be the first kind

1460
00:59:04,160 --> 00:59:06,080
Speaker 12: of unspoiled in a while, so you know what it

1461
00:59:06,120 --> 00:59:08,400
Speaker 12: already is. Well, I hope, I hope they enjoy it,

1462
00:59:08,440 --> 00:59:10,800
Speaker 12: and I'm sure there'll be no shortage of opinions, just

1463
00:59:10,840 --> 00:59:12,480
Speaker 12: like the rest of this journey. But it's something that

1464
00:59:12,800 --> 00:59:14,320
Speaker 12: I'll always remember and very grateful for.

1465
00:59:14,480 --> 00:59:15,920
Speaker 1: Well, at the end of the day, I know you

1466
00:59:15,960 --> 00:59:17,960
Speaker 1: will handle it well like you always do.

1467
00:59:18,120 --> 00:59:20,400
Speaker 8: Thank you. All right, big thanks for being here.

1468
00:59:20,440 --> 00:59:24,840
Speaker 1: Thank you well, you guys, that was women. Tell all,

1469
00:59:25,240 --> 00:59:27,320
Speaker 1: we brought you some great guests, more guests than I

1470
00:59:27,360 --> 00:59:28,880
Speaker 1: even thought that we're going to come through here, and

1471
00:59:28,920 --> 00:59:31,320
Speaker 1: people were actually excited. I guess they haven't been listening

1472
00:59:31,360 --> 00:59:32,120
Speaker 1: to the podcast.

1473
00:59:32,400 --> 00:59:35,479
Speaker 2: No, but everything was great. It was all love.

1474
00:59:35,680 --> 00:59:38,960
Speaker 1: I really enjoyed having great conversation with the women. I

1475
00:59:39,000 --> 00:59:43,720
Speaker 1: loved getting some insight from Peter. And I mean, next week,

1476
00:59:43,800 --> 00:59:46,360
Speaker 1: you guys, is the finale. I have no idea what's

1477
00:59:46,440 --> 00:59:48,800
Speaker 1: going to happen. I know it's going to be good.

1478
00:59:49,200 --> 00:59:50,960
Speaker 1: I know you better tune in and come back here.

1479
00:59:51,000 --> 00:59:52,680
Speaker 1: I have no idea who's going to be sitting in

1480
00:59:52,720 --> 00:59:55,440
Speaker 1: the hot seat, but that's because we don't know how

1481
00:59:55,480 --> 00:59:58,160
Speaker 1: it ends. So stay tuned. Thank you for joining, and

1482
00:59:58,200 --> 01:00:00,720
Speaker 1: I feel like I should say you're well welcome, and

1483
01:00:00,760 --> 01:00:04,240
Speaker 1: don't forget. You can subscribe to our podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify,

1484
01:00:04,440 --> 01:00:06,200
Speaker 1: or wherever you're listening to this right now.